Catfish: The TV Show (2012–…): Season 2, Episode 3 - Ramon & Paola - full transcript
Ramon's one shining glimmer of happiness is Paola, a girl he met on Facebook and established an exclusive online relationship with. But after many failed attempts to video chat with Paola, is she really who he thinks she is?
>> IS IT WEIRD TO, LIKE,
FINALLY BE DOING THIS?
>> THERE IT IS.
ALL RIGHT, MAN.
[tense music]
**
>> DO I NEED TO KNOCK AGAIN?
>> HI, I'M NEV.
AND THIS IS MY FILMMAKER BUDDY
MAX.
LAST YEAR, WE TRAVELED ACROSS
THE COUNTRY FIGURING OUT THE
TRUTH BEHIND ONLINE ROMANCES.
I'M READY TO COME MEET YOU.
DO YOU THINK YOU'RE REALLY
READY?
>> I'M DEFINITELY READY.
>> ALONG THE WAY, WE OPENED
DOORS TO SOME BIG SURPRISES.
>> WAIT, GUYS, GUYS, GUYS, GUYS.
>> WE A MADE A FEW LOVE
CONNECTIONS...
>> IT FEELS AMAZING.
>> AND EVEN DID OUR FAIR SHARE
OF MENDING BROKEN HEARTS.
>> I'M SO HAPPY EVERY DAY WHEN I
WAKE UP NOW.
>> SUDDENLY, THE IDEA OF
CATFISHING--HIDING WHO YOU
REALLY ARE TO HOOK SOMEONE INTO
AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP...
> PROBABLY A PAGEANT WINNER, A
MODEL.
WAS BEING TALKED ABOUT BY A
LOT OF YOU.
GOT AN E-MAIL HERE.
"WHO DID I REALLY FALL IN LOVE
WITH?"
SO MAX AND I ARE HEADED BACK OUT
ON THE ROAD...
MAX, WE'VE GOT WORK TO DO.
TO INVESTIGATE STORIES THAT SEEM
TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE...
>> I AM IN DEREK'S DRIVEWAY.
>> OR TOO WILD TO MAKE UP.
>> HE WAS CARJACKED.
AND HE WAS RAN OVER BY THE CAR.
>> JESUS, MAN.
WILL HOPE BECOME LOVE?
>> OH, MY GOD.
>> OR IS LOVE IN FOR A GIANT
SHOCK?
>> I DON'T KNOW.
>> YOU CAN BE SURE THAT MAX AND
I WILL FIND OUT ALL THE ANSWERS
?BECAUSE SOMETIMES, A LITTLE BIT
OF FICTION...
>> WOW, CATFISH CURVE BALL.
>> LEADS TO A WHOLE LOT OF
REALITY.
>> THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE
SAME.
>> [laughs]
>> ARE WE READY?
>> LET'S DO IT.
>> CATFISH THE MOVIE WAS MY
STORY.
CATFISH THE TV SHOW IS YOURS.
>> ALL RIGHT, WHO'S HUNGRY?
>> THIS APPLE IS SO GOOD.
>> GOD'S CANDY.
>> PEOPLE ARE GONNA SAY, "LOOK
AT THOSE ANIMALS EATING OFF THE
COUNTER IN A HOTEL.
THAT'S DISGUSTING."
AND THEY'RE RIGHT.
>> TWO GUYS SITTIN' IN A ROOM,
SHARIN' AN APPLE.
>> YOU READY TO DIVE INTO THE
NEXT STORY?
>> THE REAL QUESTION IS: ARE
THEY READY FOR US?
>> I GOT AN E-MAIL HERE FROM A
GUY NAMED RAMON.
SUBJECT IS "WHO DID I REALLY
FALL IN LOVE WITH??"
"NEV AND MAX, MY NAME IS RAMON.
I AM 19 YEARS OLD AND LIVE IN
BULLHEAD CITY, ARIZONA.
I MET THIS GIRL ON FACEBOOK
NAMED PAOLA.
SHE IS 20 YEARS OLD AND LIVES
IN DELTONA, FLORIDA.
I FELL IN LOVE, BUT WE HAVE
NEVER MET.
I LOVE HER BECAUSE I CAN BE
MYSELF WITH HER.
I REALLY HATE MY JOB AND WHERE
I LIVE.
AND AT THE END OF THE DAY,
SHE'S BEEN THE ONLY PERSON I
REALLY LOOK FORWARD TO TALKING
TO."
WOW.
"MY FEAR IS THAT SHE'S GOING TO
BE A DIFFERENT PERSON.
SHE EVEN SAYS THAT SHE WAS
LYING ABOUT WHO SHE WAS, AND
THEN LATER SAID SHE WAS JUST
JOKING AND TESTING HOW MUCH I
LOVED HER."
HMM.
"WHAT WE HAVE, I'VE NEVER HAD
WITH ANY OTHER GIRLFRIEND.
THE CONNECTION WE HAVE IS REAL.
I JUST DON'T KNOW IF SHE IS."
>> both: "PLEASE HELP."
>> LET'S GET THIS GUY ON THE
HORN AND SEE WHAT HE'S GOT TO
SAY ABOUT IT.
CAN YOU COME OVER...
>> HERE.
[dial tone buzzes]
>> HEY, WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> WE JUST READ YOUR E-MAIL.
I JUST WOULD LIKE TO KNOW KINDA
HOW YOU MET PAOLA.
>> WE STARTED TALKING LAST YEAR
ON FACEBOOK.
SHE POSTED ON ONE OF MY FRIEND'S
WALLS AND I STARTED MESSAGING
HER.
>> WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT HER?
>> SHE HAS AN AMAZING
PERSONALITY.
I CAN TALK TO HER ABOUT
ANYTHING.
I'VE NEVER HAD THAT FROM
ANYBODY.
BUT EVERY TIME I WANNA MEET HER
OR SOMETHING, SHE PULLS UP AN
EXCUSE.
AND THEN, EVENTUALLY GOT HER TO
GET ON SKYPE WITH ME.
AND IT WAS A COMPLETELY
DIFFERENT PERSON.
>> SO THE PERSON THAT YOU WERE
VIDEO CHATTING WITH WAS NOT THE
GIRL FROM THE PHOTOS?
>> YEAH, NOT AT ALL.
>> WOW.
WHEN YOU GUYS WERE VIDEO
CHATTING, DID YOU HAVE A CLEAR
VIDEO OF THIS GIRL?
>> IT WAS A BIT PIXELATED.
IT WASN'T THE BEST CONNECTION.
>> WHAT WAS YOUR REACTION?
>> I WAS SHOCKED.
AND I WAS UPSET, QUESTIONING WHY
SHE WOULD DO THAT TO ME.
THEN, SHE TEXTED ME SAYING THAT
SHE HAD HER COUSIN GET ON THE
CAMERA.
>> WHY DID SHE WANNA DO THAT?
>> SHE WANTED TO SEE IF I LOVED
HER FOR HER IS WHAT SHE WAS
SAYING, AND NOT FOR HER LOOKS.
>> BUT YOU HAD NEVER SEEN THAT
GIRL BEFORE, AND YOU NEVER SAW
HER AGAIN?
>> NO, NOT AT ALL.
>> YOU'RE STILL IN LOVE WITH
HER.
>> YEAH, I REALLY LOVE HER A
LOT.
I WANNA SEE WHO I FELL IN LOVE
WITH.
>> * MAYBE IN THE MIND
* IT'S A HELL OF A TIME *
* IN THE DARKNESS
>> I REALLY DON'T KNOW FOR SURE
WHO IT IS UNTIL I SEE WITH MY
OWN EYES.
>> WE'LL MAKE IT HAPPEN.
>> I REALLY APPRECIATE IT.
>> both: ALL RIGHT.
>> LATER, RAMON.
>> both: BYE.
>> THIS IS DEFINITELY A NEW ONE.
I MEAN, IT'S LIKE HE'S SEEN THE
FACE BEHIND THE MASK, IT SEEMS.
>> I DON'T KNOW.
HE JUST--HE'S SO HOPELESSLY IN
LOVE WITH THIS GIRL THAT EVEN
NOT KNOWING WHO SHE IS DOESN'T
REALLY MATTER.
>> WELL, LET'S GO.
ALL RIGHT, LITTLE GUY.
YOU'RE COMING WITH ME.
>> * I'VE BEEN IN LOVE *
* WITH LOVE
* AND THE IDEA OF SOMETHING
* BINDING US TOGETHER
>> RAMON LIVES DOWN THERE.
ARIZONA, GUYS.
>> SO HERE'S A GUY WHO'S SUPER
IN LOVE WITH THIS GIRL, EVEN
THOUGH HE'S--HE'S REACHING--
WHAT HE'S REACHING FOR IS
HOPELESS.
>> PART OF IT THAT SHE'S JUST
NOT FROM HERE.
AND, LIKE, HE WANTS TO GET OUTTA
HERE.
>> LET'S MEET RAMON.
[doorbell rings]
HEY, BUDDY.
>> HEY, WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> HOW'S IT GOIN'?
>> both: GOOD, HOW ARE YOU?
>> GOOD TO MEET YOU.
>> YOU TOO.
>> SO YOU LIVE WITH YOUR DAD.
>> YEAH.
AND SINCE I DON'T HAVE A CAR,
HE GIVES ME A RIDE, LIKE, TO
WORK, AND FROM WORK, OR
WHATEVER.
>> WHERE DO YOU WORK?
>> AT ONE OF THE CASINOS OVER--
>> OH, FOR--YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.
WHAT DO YOU DO THERE?
>> I'M A KITCHEN WORKER.
I START WORK AT 10 P.M.
>> AND WORK TILL...
>> 6 A.M.
>> GRAVEYARD SHIFT.
>> I HAVE A LOT OF QUESTIONS.
SO LET'S HAVE A SEAT.
HELP US UNDERSTAND WHY YOU'RE IN
LOVE WITH THIS GIRL.
>> WHEN I WAKE UP, SHE'S THE ONE
THAT I THINK ABOUT.
WHEN I'M GOING TO SLEEP, I'LL
BE--BE THINKING ABOUT HER, YOU
KNOW?
PERFECT SMILE...
THE PERFECT EVERYTHING,
BASICALLY.
YOU KNOW, I JUST NEVER CAME
ACROSS ANYBODY IN MY LIFE LIKE
HER, THAT I COULD GET ALONG
WITH, AND JOKE AROUND WITH, AND
BE COMPLETELY MYSELF WITH.
>> FAST FORWARD TO THE VIDEO
CHAT.
>> YOU KNOW, I WAS TRYING TO GET
HER TO SHOW HERSELF.
SHE'S ONLY SHOWN, LIKE, RIGHT
HERE.
AND EVENTUALLY, SHE KINDA
SHOWED, LIKE, DOWN TO HERE.
AND THEN, SHE PUT IT BACK UP.
AND THEN, SHE TURNED THE CAMERA
OFF.
>> SO WAIT A SECOND.
YOU CAN ONLY SEE HER EYES.
AND THEN FOR A FEW SECONDS,
YOU SAW HER BODY.
AND THEN, THE CAMERA WENT BACK
UP.
>> YEAH.
>> BUT WHETHER OR NOT SHE IS
THAT GIRL OR NOT, AND THIS IS
ALL SOME STRANGE TEST TO SEE HOW
COMMITTED YOU ARE, LIKE, IT'S A
BAD THING TO DO.
>> YEAH, IT MESSED WITH MY HEAD
A LOT.
>> WELL, I'M REALLY CURIOUS TO
SEE HER FACEBOOK AND EVERYTHING.
SO LET'S CHECK IT OUT.
THIS IS HER PAGE.
PAOLA RODRIGUEZ.
>> DOES SHE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM
ACCOUNT?
>> HERE'S THE INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT.
>> WHAT'S THE NAME?
>> HOLA_PAOLA.
>> A LOT OF PICTURES OF HER
BUT MOSTLY OF THE SAME PHOTOS.
HAVE YOU EVER FOUND HER COUSIN'S
PROFILE?
>> LET'S SEE HERE.
LOYDA.
>> SHE LIVES IN DELTONA,
FLORIDA, WHICH WOULD MAKE SENSE
IF SHE WERE IN FACT COUSINS WITH
PAOLA.
>> IS THIS THE GIRL YOU SAW?
>> THAT MIGHT'VE BEEN.
>> GO BACK TO PAOLA'S FACEBOOK
PAGE.
WELL, THIS GIRL'S NAME IS
DEFINITELY PAOLA.
THE QUESTION IS: IS THIS THE
GIRL YOU'RE TALKING TO?
OH, SHE SAYS "BEING BROKE HAS
GOT TO BE ONE OF THE WORST
FEELINGS EVER."
WHAT'S PAOLA'S MONEY SITUATION?
>> SHE DOESN'T REALLY HAVE ANY
MONEY.
>> HAS SHE EVER ASKED YOU TO
HELP HER OUT?
>> NO, SHE WOULD JUST KINDA SAY
THAT HER PHONE WAS GONNA GET CUT
OFF OR SOMETHING.
AND THERE'S BEEN, LIKE, A COUPLE
TIMES WHERE I PAID THE PHONE
BILL.
I GOT HER A Wii.
AND THEN, I GOT HER A NEW PHONE.
>> WHAT ELSE HAVE YOU DONE?
>> I GAVE HER MY BANK
INFORMATION.
>> WHAT?
>> YEAH.
>> DUDE.
>> HAVE YOU EVER JUST SENT HER
MONEY?
>> YEAH.
I THINK ONE OF THOSE PREPAID
CARDS THAT YOU PUT MONEY ON.
>> HOW MUCH?
>> A COUPLE THOUSAND, MAYBE.
>> JESUS, MAN.
THAT'S CRAZY.
>> WHY DID YOU DO THAT?
>> I LOVE THE GIRL.
IT'S MY WAY OF SHOWING IT, YOU
KNOW?
>> YOU DON'T THINK THIS GIRL HAS
BEEN USING YOU?
>> NO, I DON'T THINK SO.
>> YOU COULD HAVE A CAR RIGHT
NOW.
>> WHAT IF IT'S THAT GIRL,
LOYDA?
WHAT IF THAT'S WHO YOU'VE BEEN
TALKING TO?
>> I WANNA SEE FOR MYSELF WHAT
THE TRUTH IS AND FIND OUT WHO
I'VE BEEN TELLING I LOVE YOU,
WHO I FELL IN LOVE WITH, YOU
KNOW?
SHE MAKES ME HAPPY.
I DO LOVE THE GIRL.
>> GOTTA RELAX.
WE'LL--WE'RE ON THE CASE.
>> ALL RIGHT.
>> YOU'RE GONNA GET ALL THE
ANSWERS YOU'RE LOOKING FOR, I
PROMISE.
I MEAN, WHAT...
>> COME ON.
>> THE GUY IS...
>> COME ON.
>> IN LOVE.
HE'S [bleep] FREE-FALLING WITH
THIS CHICK.
>> THIS TAKES THE CAKE.
>> WHAT'S INTERESTING ABOUT
RAMON IS THAT HE'S SO INFATUATED
WITH PAOLA.
AND HE'S COMPLETELY WILLING TO
ACCEPT THIS LACK OF EVIDENCE
AND PROOF THAT SHE IS WHO SHE
SAYS SHE IS.
>> THIS IS A CLASSIC CASE OF
PEOPLE PROJECTING, LIKE, THEIR
FANTASY ONTO THE THINGS THAT
THEY DON'T KNOW.
>> BUT THIS COULD STILL END IN
AN AMAZING, LIFE-CHANGING
SCENARIO.
>> I DON'T KNOW.
>> THERE'S NO QUESTION.
RAMON HAS ALREADY BEEN GIVEN
A GIANT PIECE OF THIS PUZZLE.
WHAT WE NEED TO DO: GIVE HIM
CONCLUSIVE, INDISPUTABLE
EVIDENCE THAT PAOLA HAS BEEN
LYING TO HIM AND THAT SHE'S NOT
THE GIRL HE SOMEHOW AMAZINGLY
STILL HOPES SHE IS.
>> I THINK IT'S A PRETTY SAFE
ASSUMPTION THAT IT'S LOYDA.
BUT WE DON'T KNOW FOR SURE.
SHOULD WE START WITH PAOLA'S
PAGE?
>> SHE'S GOT 1,000 FOLLOWERS.
SHE WORKS AT SEPHORA.
>> A LOT OF POSTINGS ABOUT
RAMON.
WHY DON'T YOU TAKE THAT PHOTO
SO WE CAN IMAGE SEARCH IT?
NOTHING.
GRAB THAT ONE.
NOTHING'S COMING UP FOR THESE
IMAGES.
>> OH, LET'S GO TO THE INSTAGRAM
PAGE.
SO THIS IS, LIKE, A GOLD MINE
OF IMAGES.
IT'S JUST WEIRD THAT SHE'S SO
VOCAL ABOUT RAMON ON HER
FACEBOOK PAGE AND DOESN'T
MENTION HIM AT ALL IN HER
INSTAGRAM.
>> HOLA_PAOLA, THAT'S WHAT WE--
>> OH, YEAH, WE SHOULD
DEFINITELY SEARCH FOR THAT.
THERE, GO TO FACEBOOK
HOLA_PAOLA.
THAT'S HER.
PAOLA PROVOST.
ANOTHER PROFILE WITH THE SAME
GIRL.
>> WHAT IS THIS?
>> IN A RELATIONSHIP.
BUT THIS PROFILE FEELS MORE
LEGIT, AND SHE DOES NOT MENTION
RAMON.
I THINK THAT PAOLA PROVOST AND
THE HOLA_PAOLA INSTAGRAM ARE THE
SAME PERSON.
>> THAT WOULD MAKE SENSE.
RAMON'S PAOLA, PAOLA RODRIGUEZ,
BASICALLY IS USING THIS WOMAN'S
PICTURES.
WE NEED TO SEND PAOLA PROVOST A
MESSAGE.
WE ROLL THE DICE THAT THIS IS A
DIFFERENT PERSON AND THAT
RAMON'S PAOLA'S COPYCATTING.
AND IF WE'RE RIGHT, WE GOT IT.
>> IF PAOLA PROVOST CAN VIDEO
CHAT WITH US...
THIS PAOLA COULD BE THE REAL
PAOLA.
WE CANNOT TALK TO RAMON UNTIL WE
HAVE AN ANSWER.
>> [sighs]
>> DID YOU HEAR ANYTHING?
>> I HAVE A MESSAGE ON FACEBOOK
FROM PAOLA PROVOST.
SHE SAID, "HEY, I'D LOVE TO
CHAT."
WE NEED TO RECORD THIS SO THAT
WE CAN SHOW RAMON.
>> RIGHT, AND WE'RE GONNA GO SEE
RAMON.
AND WE'RE GONNA BE ABLE TO GIVE
HIM SOME ANSWERS.
[dial tone buzzes]
HELLO.
>> HI.
>> CAN YOU SEE US?
>> HEY, PAOLA.
OKAY.
>> HEY.
>> THERE YOU ARE.
>> HI.
>> WOW, YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL.
>> THANK YOU.
>> WE'RE HELPING A YOUNG MAN
NAMED RAMON WHO, FOR THE LAST
EIGHT MONTHS, HAS BEEN HAVING A
RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL NAMED
PAOLA RODRIGUEZ.
>> OKAY.
>> AND PAOLA LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE
YOU.
>> HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THIS
GUY?
>> both: NO.
>> SOMEONE BASICALLY IS USING
YOUR NAME AND YOUR PICTURES ON
MULTIPLE SOCIAL NETWORKING
PLATFORMS.
>> AWESOME.
>> THIS GUY RAMON IS, LIKE,
CRAZY IN LOVE WITH YOU.
I MEAN, HE'S IN LOVE WITH THE
GIRL HE TALKS TO.
BUT IT'S YOUR PICTURE.
WHAT WOULD BE REALLY HELPFUL IS
IF YOU COULD GIVE US, LIKE, ONE
LITTLE SOUND BITE THAT WE COULD
SHOW RAMON TO JUST COMPLETELY
PROVE THAT YOU'VE NEVER SPOKEN
TO OR HAVE ANY IDEA WHO RAMON--
>> IS?
WELL, I HAVE A BOYFRIEND.
I HAVE A LIFE HERE.
AND HE HAS NOT BEEN TALKING TO
ME.
I'M SORRY TO HIM.
>> YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HELPFUL
THAT IS.
>> ADIOS, PAOLA.
>> CIAO.
>> GOOD-BYE.
OKAY.
>> [sighs]
ALL RIGHT.
>> DO YOU THINK RAMON'S GONNA BE
SURPRISED?
>> I THINK HE'S GONNA BE
SHOCKED 'CAUSE HE HASN'T FULLY
ACCEPTED REALITY.
NOW, WE HAVE PROOF.
WE'VE GOT THE HEARTBREAKER.
>> I THINK RAMON'S BEEN KINDA
HOLDING ON TO THAT EMBER OF
HOPE.
>> THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WE
CAN DO RIGHT NOW IS PREP HIM FOR
WHAT WILL INEVITABLY BE A
BUMMER.
>> SO SOFTEN THE BLOW.
>> YEAH.
ALL RIGHT.
WE DO HAVE SOME THINGS TO SHOW
YOU.
BUT BEFORE WE DO, I JUST WANTED
TO LET YOU KNOW THAT, LIKE,
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH PAOLA
IS GOING TO CHANGE AFTER WE SHOW
YOU THIS STUFF.
>> I THINK I'M READY FOR
WHATEVER IT IS.
>> ALL RIGHT.
LET'S DO IT.
THIS IS PAOLA'S INSTAGRAM.
YOU FOLLOW THIS INSTAGRAM.
>> THIS SEEMS TO THE BIGGEST
TROVE OF IMAGES FOR PAOLA.
>> YEAH.
LET'S NOTICE THAT THE NAME OF
THE INSTAGRAM IS HOLA_PAOLA.
>> WE DID A SEARCH FOR
HOLA_PAOLA.
AND WE FOUND PAOLA PROVOST.
SHE'S GOT LOTS OF FRIENDS, LOTS
OF PICTURES.
FEELS LEGIT.
THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE TALKING
TO, WHO'S DONE A REALLY GOOD JOB
OF--OF LOOKING AT THE REAL
PAOLA'S INSTAGRAM AND FACEBOOK,
AND BASICALLY PULLING
INFORMATION...
>> AND--AND TAKING ELEMENTS
FROM THE REAL PAOLA'S LIFE, AND
INCORPORATING THEM INTO HER LIFE
TO--TO SYNC EVERYTHING UP.
>> WE SENT THIS PAGE,
THE PAOLA PROVOST, A MESSAGE.
SHE MET US ON VIDEO CHAT.
AND WE HAD A CONVERSATION WITH
HER.
>> HI, RAMON.
THIS IS PAOLA.
I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW
THAT I'M VERY, VERY SORRY.
BUT UNFORTUNATELY, THE PERSON
THAT YOU'VE BEEN TALKING TO
HAS NOT BEEN ME.
>> * HOLD ONTO YOUR BELIEF
>> YOU HAVE NOT BEEN IN A
RELATIONSHIP WITH ME AT ALL.
>> * I SEE YOU
*LOOKIN' THROUGH ME *
>> I DO HOPE THAT YOU FIND THE
ONE FOR YOU.
>> * HOLD ON TO YOUR BELIEF
>> IT CHANGES EVERYTHING.
I THINK IT'S [bleep] UP.
I MEAN, OBVIOUSLY, SHE'S BEEN
LYING THE WHOLE DAMN TIME.
WHY DID SHE LIE IN THE FIRST
PLACE?
WHY DID SHE LET IT GET EVEN
PAST, LIKE, A COUPLE WEEKS?
>> I MEAN, IT'S INCREDIBLY
SELFISH.
>> YEAH.
>> WHAT DO YOU NEED?
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
>> I WANT TO SEE THIS PERSON,
WHOEVER IT IS, WHO'S USED ME,
AND LIED TO ME, AND WHO I FELL
IN LOVE WITH.
WHOEVER THIS PERSON IS, I TALK
WITH THEM, AND ADDRESS
EVERYTHING, AND TELL 'EM THAT
THAT WAS [bleep] UP WHAT YOU
DID.
>> I-I THINK THE BEST THING
WOULD BE FOR ME TO CALL HER.
>> IT'S TIME TO MAKE THAT
MEETING HAPPEN.
>> I WANNA SEE THIS PERSON WITH
MY OWN EYES.
[dial tone buzzes]
>> HEY.
MY NAME IS NEV, AND I'M MAKING A
SHOW CALLED CATFISH.
I'M HERE WITH A-A YOUNG GUY
NAMED RAMON, WHO I--WHO I'M
PRETTY SURE YOU KNOW BECAUSE HE
GAVE ME YOUR NUMBER.
YEAH.
HE--HE'S--I'M NOT SURE HOW TO
PUT THIS EXACTLY.
BUT I'M NOW AWARE, AS IS RAMON,
THAT YOU ARE NOT THE PERSON
YOU'VE SAID THAT YOU ARE.
AND HE REALLY HAS NO IDEA WHO
THE GIRL IS THAT HE'S BEEN
SAYING "I LOVE YOU" TO FOR THE
LAST EIGHT MONTHS.
DO YOU KNOW ANYBODY NAMED LOYDA?
>> NAMED WHAT?
>> LOYDA.
>> NO.
>> I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHO
YOU ARE.
AND I'M HOPING THAT MAYBE YOU
CAN GIVE ME SOME ANSWERS.
SO IS THIS LOYDA?
OH, OKAY.
MAYBE WE CAN END UP BRINGING YOU
GUYS FACE-TO-FACE TO MEET
SOMEWHERE, WHICH IS REALLY WHAT
HE WANTS.
>> UM...
>> THIS IS A REALLY BIG DEAL.
I MEAN, WE'RE--WE'RE TALKING
ABOUT SOMEONE'S LIFE.
THIS IS SOMEBODY WHO HAS
COMPLETELY DEDICATED THEMSELVES
TO YOU, EMOTIONALLY,
FINANCIALLY.
I JUST WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND
WHAT I'M TRYING TO COMMUNICATE--
RAMON IS NOW VERY HURT.
HE LOVES YOU.
IN THE NEXT COUPLE DAYS, WOULD
YOU BE WILLING TO CLEAR YOUR
SCHEDULE AND REALLY MAKE TIME TO
BE WITH US?
ARE YOU STILL THERE?
I APPRECIATE THAT YOU'RE WILLING
TO DO THIS.
UM, AND GOOD NIGHT.
[doorbell rings]
>> LET'S GO, YOU GOT YOUR BAGS
PACKED?
>> YEAH, THEY'RE RIGHT HERE.
>> WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU
WENT ON A BIG TRIP?
>> OH, BAR FAR?
>> YEAH.
>> BACK WHEN I WAS IN HIGH
SCHOOL.
>> * SAW THE WAY
* THAT WE HIT THE GROUND
>> FIVE MORE HOURS, WE'LL BE ONE
STEP CLOSER.
FROM ARIZONA TO FLORIDA.
A-Z TO F-L.
>> WHAT'S THAT?
>> *OOH *
* OOH
* OOH
>> YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE READY
TO CONFRONT THIS PERSON?
>> YEAH.
DEFINITELY.
WITHIN THOSE EIGHT MONTHS, I
COULDA DID A LOT MORE WITH MY
LIFE.
I DID LOVE THE GIRL.
I DID.
>> THERE IT IS.
[sighs]
ALL RIGHT, MAN.
[tense music]
**
>> OKAY.
>> DO I NEED TO KNOCK AGAIN?
>> [sighs]
HI, RAMON.
>> I'M GOING TO ASSUME THAT YOUR
NAME IS LOYDA?
>> YEAH.
>> I HAVE A LOT TO SAY TO YOU.
FIRST OFF, I DON'T UNDERSTAND
HOW--EVEN AFTER ME BUYING YOU
ALL THOSE THINGS AND BEING
THERE FOR YOU AND STUFF, HOW
YOU KEEP LYING TO ME, HOW YOU
KEPT IT GOING.
AND I GAVE YOU A LOT OF TIME
TO TELL ME THE TRUTH.
AND YOU KEPT ON LYING TO ME.
YOU BASICALLY TOOK ADVANTAGE OF
ME, AND THAT'S PRETTY [bleep]
UP.
LIKE, CAN YOU TELL ME WHY YOU
EVEN MADE THAT FAKE PROFILE?
>> BOREDOM.
I HONESTLY WASN'T LOOKING TO
MEET ANYBODY OFF OF IT.
I WAS JUST BORED AND MADE A FAKE
PROFILE.
>> YOU JUST--THAT'S IT?
NOTHING ELSE?
>> I'M SORRY.
I MEAN...
>> ALL THAT MONEY I SPENT ON
YOU, ARE YOU GONNA PAY ME BACK?
YOU GONNA GIVE ME THE STUFF?
WHAT?
>> YOU WANNA TAKE THE STUFF?
>> YEAH.
>> [laughs]
>> I MEAN, OBVIOUSLY, YOU KNOW
WE CAME A LONG WAY SO THAT YOU
GUYS CAN MEET.
I THINK RAMON DESERVES AN
EXPLANATION.
>> I DIDN'T THINK ANY--ANY
RELATIONSHIP WAS GONNA FORM WITH
HIM.
ALL OF IT WAS REAL.
JUST THAT--THE APPEARANCE,
THAT'S THE ONLY THING THAT WAS
FAKE.
OKAY?
YES, IT WAS.
YES, IT WAS.
>> IT'S NOT RIGHT.
>> I KNOW IT'S NOT RIGHT.
>> STILL...
>> YOU SPENT OVER 3,000 FRICKIN'
DOLLARS ON ME.
DO YOU NOT THINK I DON'T FEEL
BAD?
I'M SURROUNDED BY THAT [bleep]
EVERY SINGLE DAY.
>> YOU COULDN'T HAVE, LIKE,
CAME CLEAN AFTER ALL THAT
IF YOU FELT BAD?
>> I TRIED TO COME CLEAN.
>> YOU TRIED TO COME CLEAN.
>> YOU KNOW I TRIED TO COME
CLEAN.
YOU KNOW I TRIED TO COME CLEAN.
PLEASE DON'T.
YOU KNOW I TRIED TO COME CLEAN
TO YOU SEVERAL TIMES.
>> AND YOU DIDN'T.
>> YES, I DID.
YOU WERE ACTING ALL SAD.
YOU KNEW.
>> I KNEW WHAT?
>> YOU KNEW THAT I TRIED TO COME
CLEAN BEFORE.
>> IS IT ALL RIGHT IF WE ALL
COME IN?
>> YEAH.
HE KNOWS MY FULL NAME, THOUGH HE
PROBABLY WILL CLAIM THAT HE
FORGOT IT.
HE KNOWS--HE HEARD MY BIRTHDAY.
HE'S SEEN MY DRIVER'S LICENSE.
YOU'VE SEEN ME.
WE FACETIMED.
WE SKYPED.
YOU CALLED ME BY MY NAME BEFORE.
>> IS THAT TRUE?
>> YEAH.
NOW THAT I--
>> WHAT THE HELL?
>> MM-HMM, YEAH, THERE WERE
MULTIPLE TIMES WHERE HE HAD SEEN
ME.
HE KNEW THAT IF I WASN'T PAOLA,
HE KNEW THAT THIS WAS WHAT HE
WAS GONNA GET, WHETHER HE WANTS
TO ACT LIKE HE DOESN'T KNOW OR
NOT.
>> IT'S A LITTLE WEIRD THAT YOU
DIDN'T TELL US THAT YOU GOT--
THAT SHE WENT TO SUCH--SHE--
I MEAN, YOU'VE ONLY TOLD US THAT
SHE ONCE SAID SOMETHING, AND--
>> THAT YOU ONLY SAW HER FROM
HERE UP.
>> NO, HE SAW ME.
HE SAW ME.
>> HOW MUCH OF WHAT SHE'S
TELLING US RIGHT NOW IS ACCURATE
ABOUT THE FACT THAT SHE TRIED
MULTIPLE TIMES TO EXPLAIN TO YOU
WHO SHE REALLY WAS?
>> YEAH, THAT DID HAPPEN.
I BARELY REMEMBER.
>> WHAT, BARELY REMEMBER THAT?
>> WE SAT WITH YOU FOR HOURS
TRYING TO EXTRACT STUFF FROM
YOU.
>> IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAD KINDA
MET HER.
A COUPLE TIMES.
>> YEAH, I DIDN'T WANNA BELIEVE
IT.
I DIDN'T.
THAT'S ALL.
[tense music]
*
>> I'M HAVING A HARD TIME
UNDERSTANDING AND JUSTIFYING HOW
YOU KIND OF CONVINCED YOURSELF
ALL ALONG THAT THERE WAS SOME
GLIMMER OF CHAN--OF HOPE THAT
THIS COULD BE THE REAL GIRL?
>> YEAH, THAT I SAID THAT I WAS
MY COUSIN LATER ON BECAUSE I
DIDN'T WANT HIM TO KEEP BEING
HURT.
HE WAS CRYING.
>> YEAH, YOU DID [bleep] SAY
THAT AND LIE TO ME AGAIN.
>> YOU WOULD BE UPSET.
AND IT WOULD JUST HURT ME TO--
I HATE TO SEE HIM UPSET, SO--
>> YOU SHOULD'VE JUST LET IT BE.
>> I KNOW IT DOES NOT JUSTIFY
IT, OKAY?
I KNOW.
>> H-HOW MANY SEPARATE OCCASIONS
DID YOU KIND OF BACKTRACK AND
SAY, "OH, ACTUALLY, I-I KNOW?
THAT'S MESSED UP, BUT THAT
WAS--"
>> THAT WAS, LIKE, THREE TIMES
THAT I CAME CLEAN.
>> SO--SO ON EACH OF THE THREE
TIMES, YOU--
>> I BACKTRACKED.
AND THE VERY LAST ONE, HE KEPT
TEXTING, SAYING "PLEASE TELL ME
THIS IS A LIE," PUTTING ALL
THESE SAD FACES.
LIKE, WHAT DO YOU W--I DIDN'T
WANT--I KNEW THAT HE WAS
HURTING.
AND I DIDN'T WANT THAT.
>> YOU SHOULD'VE JUST STAYED
WITH THE TRUTH.
YOU REALLY MESSED UP MY HEAD A
LOT.
>> HE WANTED TO KEEP THINKING HE
WAS TALKING TO PAOLA.
>> AND YOU KIND OF KEPT GIVING
HIM A REASON TO THINK IT COULD
BE?
>> YEAH.
HE CHOSE TO BELIEVE WHAT HE
CHOSE TO BELIEVE.
>> WERE YOU AFRAID THAT IF YOU
SHOWED HIM WHO YOU REALLY
WERE...
>> JUST BECAUSE I KNEW WHEN I
FIRST MET HIM, I HAD A LOW
SELF-ESTEEM.
SO I FIGURED--YEAH.
AND I WAS AFRAID OF LOSING HIM.
YOU KNOW, MY INTENTIONS WERE
NEVER TO HURT YOU.
BUT IT DID HAPPEN.
AND I KNOWINGLY PUT YOU THROUGH
THAT.
I AM SORRY.
EVERYTHING WAS REAL EXCEPT FOR
THE APPEARANCE AND THE NAME.
THERE WAS A UNEXPLAINABLE
CONNECTION.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT WAS.
I WAS ABLE TO TELL HIM
EVERYTHING.
I'VE TOLD HIM THINGS THAT I'VE
NEVER TOLD EVEN MY BEST FRIEND--
MY BEST, BEST, BEST FRIEND.
LIKE, I JUST HAD THAT--
I HAD ALL THAT TRUST IN HIM.
SO...
>> SO YOU'VE CONSIDERED RAMON TO
BE YOUR BOYFRIEND FOR THE LAST
SEVEN MONTHS?
>> SEVEN MONTHS.
YEAH.
>> AND YOU LOVE HIM--IN LOVE
WITH HIM?
>> IT HAPPENED.
I DIDN'T...
>> I MEAN, BOTH OF YOU HAVE BEEN
A VERY ACTIVE PART OF THIS
MESSED-UP RELATIONSHIP.
>> I MEAN, YOU'RE RIGHT.
>> I HAVE NOTHING MORE TO SAY.
>> OKAY.
WELL, IF THERE'S NOTHING ELSE
TO SAY, I THINK WE SHOULD GO.
>> THANKS FOR MEETING US.
>> BYE, BYE. NO PROBLEM.
>> A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE GONNA SEE
THIS.
AND THEY'RE GONNA S--THEY'RE
GONNA ASK, WHY WAS THIS GUY IN
THIS RELATIONSHIP?
SHE TOLD HIM SHE WAS LYING
MULTIPLE TIMES.
>> HONESTLY, I DIDN'T WANNA LOSE
HER.
>> YEAH, HE'S THE LOVE OF MY
LIFE.
I DON'T WANT HIM TO LEAVE.
I KNOW THAT ONCE--ONCE HE'S
GONE, HE'S GONE.
AND THERE'S NOTHING I CAN DO TO
FIX THAT.
>> I DIDN'T HAVE, LIKE, A REAL
SOCIAL LIFE, LIKE, GO OUT AND
ACTUALLY HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE.
SHE'S SOMEBODY I COULD RELY ON
FOR ADVICE, FOR GOOD ADVICE.
>> SO SHE WAS YOUR ONLY REAL
FRIEND?
>> YEAH.
>> DID YOU DO ANY THINKING LAST
NIGHT?
>> THERE'S SOME WEIRDNESS TO ALL
OF THIS.
>> YEAH, THERE'S A WHOLE 'NOTHER
SIDE OF THIS STORY THAT PAINTS
RAMON TO BE SOMEONE WITH A VERY
SELECTIVE MEMORY, WHO KNEW FOR
THE LAST FOUR MONTHS THAT PAOLA
WAS LOYDA BUT DIDN'T WANT TO
ACCEPT IT.
>> IT MIGHT BE HELPFUL TO FRIEND
LOYDA ON FACEBOOK AND JUST TRY
TO SEE WHAT WE CAN LEARN ABOUT
HER.
HERE SHE IS.
FRIEND REQUEST SENT.
>> YEAH.
>> ALL RIGHT.
SHE DID.
>> WE ARE INTO HER PAGE.
SHE'S STUDYING CRIMINAL JUSTICE,
WORKED AT MCDONALD'S.
>> OH, MY GOD.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
>> WHAT IS THAT?
>> [sighs]
"MY NEW RING."
"TO MY LOVE LOYDA, UNTIL I SEE
YOU SOON.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
CAN'T WAIT TO SPEND THE REST OF
OUR LIVES TOGETHER."
>> WHAT?
>> FROM RAMON.
WAIT A SECOND.
>> WHOA.
>> AND THEN SOMEONE ELSE WROTE,
"GOD BLESS YOUR RELATIONSHIP
TODAY, TOMORROW, AND ALWAYS.
LOVE YOU GUYS."
THAT'S HER MOM?
>> SO THE MOM IS CONVINCED RAMON
SENT THE RING.
>> DID RAMON PROPOSE TO PAOLA?
>> WE GOTTA ASK HIM.
>> HOW'D YOU SLEEP?
>> OKAY.
>> SO I FRIEND REQUESTED LOYDA.
FIGURED MAYBE WE COULD CHECK OUT
HER PROFILE AND JUST GET TO KNOW
HER BETTER.
AND SHE ACCEPTED MY FRIEND
REQUEST.
AND WE WERE SCROLLING THROUGH
HER PICTURES.
AND WE GOT TO THIS PICTURE.
IT SAYS, "MY NEW RING."
>> "FROM RAMON."
THAT'S PRETTY CREEPY.
>> DID YOU SEND THAT--
>> both: NO.
>> THAT WASN'T ME.
>> DID YOU SEND THAT RING?
>> NO, I NEVER SENT HER A RING.
>> NEVER, EVER SENT HER A RING?
>> NEVER, EVER, EVER.
>> YOU'RE ENGAGED.
>> I'M NOT ENGAGED.
>> ACCORDING TO FACEBOOK, YOU
ARE.
>> THAT'S RIDICULOUS.
>> IT--YOU--YOU MIGHT HAVE GIVEN
HER MONEY FOR HER TO BUY HERSELF
A RING.
>> DID YOU GIVE HER MONEY IN
OCTOBER?
>> I MIGHT HAVE.
>> YOU KIND OF DID BUY HER AN
ENGAGEMENT RING.
I THINK WE SHOULD CALL HER AND
FIGURE THIS OUT.
[dial tone buzzes]
>> HELLO?
I NEED TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT A
LOT OF THINGS.
WHO'S AT YOUR HOUSE?
CAN WE GO OVER THERE TODAY?
SOON? LIKE, RIGHT NOW?
ALL RIGHT, I'LL SEE YOU THEN.
>> HI.
>> HELLO.
>> HI.
>> HELLO.
>> LOYDA.
>> LOYDA, NEV.
>> JUAN.
>> THANK YOU FOR HAVING US OVER.
>> OH, YOU WELCOME.
>> YOUR DAUGHTER'S BEEN HAVING A
RELATIONSHIP WITH RAMON FOR
QUITE SOME TIME NOW.
HE WANTED TO COME OVER HERE AND,
YOU KNOW, ASK YOU GUYS SOME
QUESTIONS JUST SO WE COULD TRY
TO WALK AWAY FROM THIS AT LEAST
KNOWING SORT OF THE WHOLE
PICTURE.
AS FAR AS YOU KNEW, YOUR
DAUGHTER WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP
WITH RAMON.
>> YES.
>> DID YOU KNOW THAT SHE WAS
PRETENDING TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE?
>> YES.
I WAS AWARE OF THE WHOLE THING.
>> THIS IS MY SISTER, AND I LOVE
HER TO DEATH, BUT I-I-I'MA SAY
IT REGARDLESS.
LOYDA FLAT-OUT LIED TO RAMON.
>> THIS GUY WAS SENDING GIFTS,
VERY GENEROUS GIFTS.
>> HE WANTED TO.
>> SURE, HE WANTED TO.
DIDN'T IT BOTHER YOU THAT
THERE WAS A GUY WHO WAS SENDING
YOUR DAUGHTER LOTS OF THINGS,
AND HE THOUGHT HE WAS SENDING IT
TO SOMEBODY ELSE?
>> NO, NO, NO, NO, NO.
CUT IT RIGHT THERE.
WHEN HE STARTED SENDING HER
EXPENSIVE GIFTS LIKE, FOR
EXAMPLE, THE Wii, LOYDA
MENTIONED TO ME, "MOMMY, I THINK
THIS IS GOING TOO FAR."
SHE DECIDE TO TELL HIM THE
TRUTH.
AND HE STOPPED HER AND TOLD HER,
"I DON'T WANNA HEAR IT."
>> I DIDN'T WANNA GET THAT FACE
OUT OF MY HEAD, AND EVERYTHING,
THAT NAME.
WELL, WE LOOKED AT YOUR PAGE,
YOUR REAL PAGE, AND FOUND
A PICTURE OF A RING AND A
MESSAGE THAT LOOKED LIKE IT WAS
FROM ME.
>> HE SENT HER THAT RING.
>> I NEVER SENT HER A RING AT
ALL.
>> WHEN LOYDA OPEN THE ENVELOPE,
IT HAD YOUR NAME ON IT.
YOU DID SEND THAT TO HER, RAMON.
>> I NEVER SENT HER A RING.
>> IF HE SAYING HE DIDN'T SEND
IT, SORRY TO TELL YOU, RAMON:
SOMEBODY PRETEND TO BE HIM, AND
HE DOESN'T KNOW?
>> LOYDA, YOU WANT TO EXPLAIN
THAT TO YOUR MOM FOR US?
>> WHAT?
>> HOW THAT ALL HAPPENED?
>> WHAT HAPPENED?
>> both: THE RING.
>> RAMON GAVE YOU MONEY.
>> IT WAS BIRTHDAY MONEY.
>> YOU WENT ONLINE.
YOU BOUGHT YOURSELF A RING.
YOU MAILED IT TO YOURSELF.
AND THEN, IN FRONT OF YOUR
MOTHER, YOU LIED TO HER AND TOLD
HER HE HAD SENT IT TO YOU.
AM I WRONG?
>> ARE YOU SURPRISED, THOUGH,
THAT--THAT SHE SENT THE RING?
>> WHATEVER.
>> NO, NOT--NOT WHATEVER.
IT'S IMPORTANT.
THESE DETAILS ARE IMPORTANT--
>> NO, WHATEVER.
>> YOU'RE NOT REALLY HEARING--
>> NO, YES, I AM.
>> NO, YOU'RE NOT.
>> YES, I AM.
>> YOUR DAUGHTER'S A LIAR.
>> MY DAUGHTER'S A LIAR?
WHAT ABOUT RAMON?
>> RAMON HAS HIS OWN ISSUES TO
DEAL WITH, OKAY?
>> I-I-I CAN SEE THAT.
>> AND PART OF WHAT I HOPE WE
CAN DO TODAY IS EVERYBODY ADMITS
THEIR ISSUES.
I ENCOURAGE YOU TO TAKE THIS
OPPORTUNITY TO TAKE
RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT YOU'VE
DONE.
SAME TO YOU, OKAY?
I'M JUST HERE TO TRY AND
ENCOURAGE BOTH OF YOU TO BE
HONEST WITH YOURSELVES.
>> LET ME EXPLAIN SOMETHING TO
YOU.
FORGET THAT THEY'RE HERE FOR A
MINUTE.
FORGET EVERYTHING IS HERE RIGHT
NOW, JUST ME AND YOU.
EVER SINCE MY DAD DIED, AND MY
GRANDPA DIED LESS THAN A YEAR
LATER, MY LIFE HAS BEEN HELL.
AND WHEN I MET HIM, IT WAS ALL
SUNSHINE.
IT WAS HAPPY.
FOR THE LAST SEVEN MONTHS, I'VE
BEEN THE HAPPIEST I'VE EVER
BEEN.
SHOULD I HAVE TOLD HIM THE TRUTH
THEN?
YEAH, I SHOULD'VE.
BUT I DIDN'T, AND THAT WAS MY--
MY MISTAKE.
I WANT YOU IN MY LIFE.
I DON'T WANNA LOSE YOU.
I AM SORRY FOR LYING TO YOU FROM
THE VERY BEGINNING.
I AM SORRY.
>> YOU WANTED TO MEET THE GIRL
THAT YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH.
YOU HAVE NOW MET THE GIRL THAT
YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH.
WHAT DO YOU WANNA DO NOW?
>> NOW THAT I'M HERE AND I HAVE
THIS OPPORTUNITY, PROBABLY TO
SPEND SOME TIME AND SEE HOW IT
IS, SEEING YOUR REAL FACE,
SEEING WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
IS THAT OKAY?
>> OKAY.
>> ALL RIGHT, LET'S GET OUT OF
YOUR WAY.
>> AND NOW, MORE CATFISH
THE TV SHOW.
STICK AROUND.
>> YOU KNOW MY INTENTION WAS
NEVER TO HURT YOU.
>> I FEEL BETTER NOW THAT THE
TRUTH IS ALL OUT THERE.
>> MM-HMM.
>> THAT'S WHAT I'VE WANTED FOR,
LIKE, THE LONGEST TIME.
ALL THAT LYING AND--OBVIOUSLY, I
DON'T LOVE THAT.
BUT IT'S IN THE PAST.
YOU KNOW, THERE'S NOT GONNA BE A
RELATIONSHIP, BUT I STILL DON'T
WANNA LOSE YOU AS A FRIEND.
YOU'RE, LIKE, ONE OF MY BEST
FRIENDS.
>> GUESS WE'LL JUST BE FRIENDS.
>> YOU DON'T SOUND TOO CONFIDENT
IN THAT AT ALL.
>> WELL, WE'LL BE FRIENDS.
[sighs]
I WANT, MORE THAN ANYTHING, FOR
YOU TO STILL BE IN MY LIFE.
>> COME ON OVER HERE.
THANKS FOR THIS WEIRD, WILD
ROLLER COASTER OF A WEEK.
I'M NOT SURE I'LL EVER REALLY
UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT YOU GUYS
HAVE.
BUT HOPEFULLY, THERE'S A QUALITY
FRIENDSHIP.
>> ALL RIGHT, WELL, I'LL TALK TO
YOU LATER.
OKAY, THANKS.
>> LET'S TAKE A PICTURE.
>> *I'M SORRY I LEFT YOU *
* THE WAY THAT I CAME
* SWEETHEART, YOU PUT DOWN
* YOU LOVABLE MAN
* I LEFT YOU TO DO
* WHAT I CAN'T *
* TO SHOW YOU YOU'RE SPECIAL *
* WITH YOU ALWAYS OUT
* I'LL BE GOOD ENOUGH AGAIN *
* 'CAUSE YOU DESERVE BETTER *
* THAN TO HAVE TO WAIT FOR ME
[dial tone buzzes]
>> THERE HE IS.
>> WOW, FACIAL HAIR.
>> YEAH.
>> [sighs]
HOW YA DOIN'?
>> REAL GOOD.
>> LOOKING BACK NOW ON THIS
WHOLE EXPERIENCE AND THE WHOLE
RELATIONSHIP, WHAT'D YOU LEARN
FROM IT?
>> IT WAS SOMETHING TO BE MORE
RESPONSIBLE ABOUT STUFF THAT I
SHOULDN'T GIVE OUT.
>> WHAT'S GOING ON NOW WITH YOU
AND LOYDA?
YOU GUYS BEEN TALKIN'?
>> NO.
SHE HAS, LIKE, A BOYFRIEND
RIGHT NOW.
>> DOES THAT HURT YOUR FEELINGS?
>> [laughs]
NO.
>> ALL RIGHT, MAN, WELL, IT WAS
GOOD CATCHING UP WITH YOU.
>> YOU GUYS TAKE CARE.
HELLO, LOYDA.
>> LOYDA.
>> HI.
>> HOW IS EVERYTHING?
>> I MET SOMEBODY AND THINGS ARE
GOING WELL.
>> DID YOU MEET HIM AS LOYDA?
OR DID YOU MEET HIM AS PAOLA?
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BUY YOURSELF
RINGS AND SEND THEM TO YOURSELF
ANYMORE.
>> [laughs]
NO, NO.
>> YOU'VE BEEN PAYING HIM BACK?
>> MM-HMM, YEAH.
>> WELL, THAT'S, I THINK, A BIG
AND VERY NICE GESTURE ON YOUR
PART.
>> YEAH.
>> WELL, GIVE OUR REGARDS TO
LOYDA SENIOR.
>> DOES SHE MISS US?
>> MOM.
SHE SAID "NO."
[giggles]
>> ALL RIGHT.
>> all: BYE.
>> "I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE
ONLINE EIGHT YEARS AGO."
>> WAIT, EIGHT YEARS AGO.
>> I STRONGLY BELIEVE HE IS THE
PERFECT GUY FOR ME AND MY SON.
>> WHOA.
>> THAT'S A PRETTY BIG PHYSICAL
DIFFERENCE.
>> OH, MY GOD.
LIKE, DON'T MAKE ME CRY.
I AM FREAKING OUT.
WHAT DID I DO?
DEREK, COME ON.
OH, MY GOD, I CAN'T TURN AROUND.
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FINALLY BE DOING THIS?
>> THERE IT IS.
ALL RIGHT, MAN.
[tense music]
**
>> DO I NEED TO KNOCK AGAIN?
>> HI, I'M NEV.
AND THIS IS MY FILMMAKER BUDDY
MAX.
LAST YEAR, WE TRAVELED ACROSS
THE COUNTRY FIGURING OUT THE
TRUTH BEHIND ONLINE ROMANCES.
I'M READY TO COME MEET YOU.
DO YOU THINK YOU'RE REALLY
READY?
>> I'M DEFINITELY READY.
>> ALONG THE WAY, WE OPENED
DOORS TO SOME BIG SURPRISES.
>> WAIT, GUYS, GUYS, GUYS, GUYS.
>> WE A MADE A FEW LOVE
CONNECTIONS...
>> IT FEELS AMAZING.
>> AND EVEN DID OUR FAIR SHARE
OF MENDING BROKEN HEARTS.
>> I'M SO HAPPY EVERY DAY WHEN I
WAKE UP NOW.
>> SUDDENLY, THE IDEA OF
CATFISHING--HIDING WHO YOU
REALLY ARE TO HOOK SOMEONE INTO
AN ONLINE RELATIONSHIP...
> PROBABLY A PAGEANT WINNER, A
MODEL.
WAS BEING TALKED ABOUT BY A
LOT OF YOU.
GOT AN E-MAIL HERE.
"WHO DID I REALLY FALL IN LOVE
WITH?"
SO MAX AND I ARE HEADED BACK OUT
ON THE ROAD...
MAX, WE'VE GOT WORK TO DO.
TO INVESTIGATE STORIES THAT SEEM
TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE...
>> I AM IN DEREK'S DRIVEWAY.
>> OR TOO WILD TO MAKE UP.
>> HE WAS CARJACKED.
AND HE WAS RAN OVER BY THE CAR.
>> JESUS, MAN.
WILL HOPE BECOME LOVE?
>> OH, MY GOD.
>> OR IS LOVE IN FOR A GIANT
SHOCK?
>> I DON'T KNOW.
>> YOU CAN BE SURE THAT MAX AND
I WILL FIND OUT ALL THE ANSWERS
?BECAUSE SOMETIMES, A LITTLE BIT
OF FICTION...
>> WOW, CATFISH CURVE BALL.
>> LEADS TO A WHOLE LOT OF
REALITY.
>> THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE
SAME.
>> [laughs]
>> ARE WE READY?
>> LET'S DO IT.
>> CATFISH THE MOVIE WAS MY
STORY.
CATFISH THE TV SHOW IS YOURS.
>> ALL RIGHT, WHO'S HUNGRY?
>> THIS APPLE IS SO GOOD.
>> GOD'S CANDY.
>> PEOPLE ARE GONNA SAY, "LOOK
AT THOSE ANIMALS EATING OFF THE
COUNTER IN A HOTEL.
THAT'S DISGUSTING."
AND THEY'RE RIGHT.
>> TWO GUYS SITTIN' IN A ROOM,
SHARIN' AN APPLE.
>> YOU READY TO DIVE INTO THE
NEXT STORY?
>> THE REAL QUESTION IS: ARE
THEY READY FOR US?
>> I GOT AN E-MAIL HERE FROM A
GUY NAMED RAMON.
SUBJECT IS "WHO DID I REALLY
FALL IN LOVE WITH??"
"NEV AND MAX, MY NAME IS RAMON.
I AM 19 YEARS OLD AND LIVE IN
BULLHEAD CITY, ARIZONA.
I MET THIS GIRL ON FACEBOOK
NAMED PAOLA.
SHE IS 20 YEARS OLD AND LIVES
IN DELTONA, FLORIDA.
I FELL IN LOVE, BUT WE HAVE
NEVER MET.
I LOVE HER BECAUSE I CAN BE
MYSELF WITH HER.
I REALLY HATE MY JOB AND WHERE
I LIVE.
AND AT THE END OF THE DAY,
SHE'S BEEN THE ONLY PERSON I
REALLY LOOK FORWARD TO TALKING
TO."
WOW.
"MY FEAR IS THAT SHE'S GOING TO
BE A DIFFERENT PERSON.
SHE EVEN SAYS THAT SHE WAS
LYING ABOUT WHO SHE WAS, AND
THEN LATER SAID SHE WAS JUST
JOKING AND TESTING HOW MUCH I
LOVED HER."
HMM.
"WHAT WE HAVE, I'VE NEVER HAD
WITH ANY OTHER GIRLFRIEND.
THE CONNECTION WE HAVE IS REAL.
I JUST DON'T KNOW IF SHE IS."
>> both: "PLEASE HELP."
>> LET'S GET THIS GUY ON THE
HORN AND SEE WHAT HE'S GOT TO
SAY ABOUT IT.
CAN YOU COME OVER...
>> HERE.
[dial tone buzzes]
>> HEY, WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> WE JUST READ YOUR E-MAIL.
I JUST WOULD LIKE TO KNOW KINDA
HOW YOU MET PAOLA.
>> WE STARTED TALKING LAST YEAR
ON FACEBOOK.
SHE POSTED ON ONE OF MY FRIEND'S
WALLS AND I STARTED MESSAGING
HER.
>> WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT HER?
>> SHE HAS AN AMAZING
PERSONALITY.
I CAN TALK TO HER ABOUT
ANYTHING.
I'VE NEVER HAD THAT FROM
ANYBODY.
BUT EVERY TIME I WANNA MEET HER
OR SOMETHING, SHE PULLS UP AN
EXCUSE.
AND THEN, EVENTUALLY GOT HER TO
GET ON SKYPE WITH ME.
AND IT WAS A COMPLETELY
DIFFERENT PERSON.
>> SO THE PERSON THAT YOU WERE
VIDEO CHATTING WITH WAS NOT THE
GIRL FROM THE PHOTOS?
>> YEAH, NOT AT ALL.
>> WOW.
WHEN YOU GUYS WERE VIDEO
CHATTING, DID YOU HAVE A CLEAR
VIDEO OF THIS GIRL?
>> IT WAS A BIT PIXELATED.
IT WASN'T THE BEST CONNECTION.
>> WHAT WAS YOUR REACTION?
>> I WAS SHOCKED.
AND I WAS UPSET, QUESTIONING WHY
SHE WOULD DO THAT TO ME.
THEN, SHE TEXTED ME SAYING THAT
SHE HAD HER COUSIN GET ON THE
CAMERA.
>> WHY DID SHE WANNA DO THAT?
>> SHE WANTED TO SEE IF I LOVED
HER FOR HER IS WHAT SHE WAS
SAYING, AND NOT FOR HER LOOKS.
>> BUT YOU HAD NEVER SEEN THAT
GIRL BEFORE, AND YOU NEVER SAW
HER AGAIN?
>> NO, NOT AT ALL.
>> YOU'RE STILL IN LOVE WITH
HER.
>> YEAH, I REALLY LOVE HER A
LOT.
I WANNA SEE WHO I FELL IN LOVE
WITH.
>> * MAYBE IN THE MIND
* IT'S A HELL OF A TIME *
* IN THE DARKNESS
>> I REALLY DON'T KNOW FOR SURE
WHO IT IS UNTIL I SEE WITH MY
OWN EYES.
>> WE'LL MAKE IT HAPPEN.
>> I REALLY APPRECIATE IT.
>> both: ALL RIGHT.
>> LATER, RAMON.
>> both: BYE.
>> THIS IS DEFINITELY A NEW ONE.
I MEAN, IT'S LIKE HE'S SEEN THE
FACE BEHIND THE MASK, IT SEEMS.
>> I DON'T KNOW.
HE JUST--HE'S SO HOPELESSLY IN
LOVE WITH THIS GIRL THAT EVEN
NOT KNOWING WHO SHE IS DOESN'T
REALLY MATTER.
>> WELL, LET'S GO.
ALL RIGHT, LITTLE GUY.
YOU'RE COMING WITH ME.
>> * I'VE BEEN IN LOVE *
* WITH LOVE
* AND THE IDEA OF SOMETHING
* BINDING US TOGETHER
>> RAMON LIVES DOWN THERE.
ARIZONA, GUYS.
>> SO HERE'S A GUY WHO'S SUPER
IN LOVE WITH THIS GIRL, EVEN
THOUGH HE'S--HE'S REACHING--
WHAT HE'S REACHING FOR IS
HOPELESS.
>> PART OF IT THAT SHE'S JUST
NOT FROM HERE.
AND, LIKE, HE WANTS TO GET OUTTA
HERE.
>> LET'S MEET RAMON.
[doorbell rings]
HEY, BUDDY.
>> HEY, WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> WHAT'S UP, MAN?
>> HOW'S IT GOIN'?
>> both: GOOD, HOW ARE YOU?
>> GOOD TO MEET YOU.
>> YOU TOO.
>> SO YOU LIVE WITH YOUR DAD.
>> YEAH.
AND SINCE I DON'T HAVE A CAR,
HE GIVES ME A RIDE, LIKE, TO
WORK, AND FROM WORK, OR
WHATEVER.
>> WHERE DO YOU WORK?
>> AT ONE OF THE CASINOS OVER--
>> OH, FOR--YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.
WHAT DO YOU DO THERE?
>> I'M A KITCHEN WORKER.
I START WORK AT 10 P.M.
>> AND WORK TILL...
>> 6 A.M.
>> GRAVEYARD SHIFT.
>> I HAVE A LOT OF QUESTIONS.
SO LET'S HAVE A SEAT.
HELP US UNDERSTAND WHY YOU'RE IN
LOVE WITH THIS GIRL.
>> WHEN I WAKE UP, SHE'S THE ONE
THAT I THINK ABOUT.
WHEN I'M GOING TO SLEEP, I'LL
BE--BE THINKING ABOUT HER, YOU
KNOW?
PERFECT SMILE...
THE PERFECT EVERYTHING,
BASICALLY.
YOU KNOW, I JUST NEVER CAME
ACROSS ANYBODY IN MY LIFE LIKE
HER, THAT I COULD GET ALONG
WITH, AND JOKE AROUND WITH, AND
BE COMPLETELY MYSELF WITH.
>> FAST FORWARD TO THE VIDEO
CHAT.
>> YOU KNOW, I WAS TRYING TO GET
HER TO SHOW HERSELF.
SHE'S ONLY SHOWN, LIKE, RIGHT
HERE.
AND EVENTUALLY, SHE KINDA
SHOWED, LIKE, DOWN TO HERE.
AND THEN, SHE PUT IT BACK UP.
AND THEN, SHE TURNED THE CAMERA
OFF.
>> SO WAIT A SECOND.
YOU CAN ONLY SEE HER EYES.
AND THEN FOR A FEW SECONDS,
YOU SAW HER BODY.
AND THEN, THE CAMERA WENT BACK
UP.
>> YEAH.
>> BUT WHETHER OR NOT SHE IS
THAT GIRL OR NOT, AND THIS IS
ALL SOME STRANGE TEST TO SEE HOW
COMMITTED YOU ARE, LIKE, IT'S A
BAD THING TO DO.
>> YEAH, IT MESSED WITH MY HEAD
A LOT.
>> WELL, I'M REALLY CURIOUS TO
SEE HER FACEBOOK AND EVERYTHING.
SO LET'S CHECK IT OUT.
THIS IS HER PAGE.
PAOLA RODRIGUEZ.
>> DOES SHE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM
ACCOUNT?
>> HERE'S THE INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT.
>> WHAT'S THE NAME?
>> HOLA_PAOLA.
>> A LOT OF PICTURES OF HER
BUT MOSTLY OF THE SAME PHOTOS.
HAVE YOU EVER FOUND HER COUSIN'S
PROFILE?
>> LET'S SEE HERE.
LOYDA.
>> SHE LIVES IN DELTONA,
FLORIDA, WHICH WOULD MAKE SENSE
IF SHE WERE IN FACT COUSINS WITH
PAOLA.
>> IS THIS THE GIRL YOU SAW?
>> THAT MIGHT'VE BEEN.
>> GO BACK TO PAOLA'S FACEBOOK
PAGE.
WELL, THIS GIRL'S NAME IS
DEFINITELY PAOLA.
THE QUESTION IS: IS THIS THE
GIRL YOU'RE TALKING TO?
OH, SHE SAYS "BEING BROKE HAS
GOT TO BE ONE OF THE WORST
FEELINGS EVER."
WHAT'S PAOLA'S MONEY SITUATION?
>> SHE DOESN'T REALLY HAVE ANY
MONEY.
>> HAS SHE EVER ASKED YOU TO
HELP HER OUT?
>> NO, SHE WOULD JUST KINDA SAY
THAT HER PHONE WAS GONNA GET CUT
OFF OR SOMETHING.
AND THERE'S BEEN, LIKE, A COUPLE
TIMES WHERE I PAID THE PHONE
BILL.
I GOT HER A Wii.
AND THEN, I GOT HER A NEW PHONE.
>> WHAT ELSE HAVE YOU DONE?
>> I GAVE HER MY BANK
INFORMATION.
>> WHAT?
>> YEAH.
>> DUDE.
>> HAVE YOU EVER JUST SENT HER
MONEY?
>> YEAH.
I THINK ONE OF THOSE PREPAID
CARDS THAT YOU PUT MONEY ON.
>> HOW MUCH?
>> A COUPLE THOUSAND, MAYBE.
>> JESUS, MAN.
THAT'S CRAZY.
>> WHY DID YOU DO THAT?
>> I LOVE THE GIRL.
IT'S MY WAY OF SHOWING IT, YOU
KNOW?
>> YOU DON'T THINK THIS GIRL HAS
BEEN USING YOU?
>> NO, I DON'T THINK SO.
>> YOU COULD HAVE A CAR RIGHT
NOW.
>> WHAT IF IT'S THAT GIRL,
LOYDA?
WHAT IF THAT'S WHO YOU'VE BEEN
TALKING TO?
>> I WANNA SEE FOR MYSELF WHAT
THE TRUTH IS AND FIND OUT WHO
I'VE BEEN TELLING I LOVE YOU,
WHO I FELL IN LOVE WITH, YOU
KNOW?
SHE MAKES ME HAPPY.
I DO LOVE THE GIRL.
>> GOTTA RELAX.
WE'LL--WE'RE ON THE CASE.
>> ALL RIGHT.
>> YOU'RE GONNA GET ALL THE
ANSWERS YOU'RE LOOKING FOR, I
PROMISE.
I MEAN, WHAT...
>> COME ON.
>> THE GUY IS...
>> COME ON.
>> IN LOVE.
HE'S [bleep] FREE-FALLING WITH
THIS CHICK.
>> THIS TAKES THE CAKE.
>> WHAT'S INTERESTING ABOUT
RAMON IS THAT HE'S SO INFATUATED
WITH PAOLA.
AND HE'S COMPLETELY WILLING TO
ACCEPT THIS LACK OF EVIDENCE
AND PROOF THAT SHE IS WHO SHE
SAYS SHE IS.
>> THIS IS A CLASSIC CASE OF
PEOPLE PROJECTING, LIKE, THEIR
FANTASY ONTO THE THINGS THAT
THEY DON'T KNOW.
>> BUT THIS COULD STILL END IN
AN AMAZING, LIFE-CHANGING
SCENARIO.
>> I DON'T KNOW.
>> THERE'S NO QUESTION.
RAMON HAS ALREADY BEEN GIVEN
A GIANT PIECE OF THIS PUZZLE.
WHAT WE NEED TO DO: GIVE HIM
CONCLUSIVE, INDISPUTABLE
EVIDENCE THAT PAOLA HAS BEEN
LYING TO HIM AND THAT SHE'S NOT
THE GIRL HE SOMEHOW AMAZINGLY
STILL HOPES SHE IS.
>> I THINK IT'S A PRETTY SAFE
ASSUMPTION THAT IT'S LOYDA.
BUT WE DON'T KNOW FOR SURE.
SHOULD WE START WITH PAOLA'S
PAGE?
>> SHE'S GOT 1,000 FOLLOWERS.
SHE WORKS AT SEPHORA.
>> A LOT OF POSTINGS ABOUT
RAMON.
WHY DON'T YOU TAKE THAT PHOTO
SO WE CAN IMAGE SEARCH IT?
NOTHING.
GRAB THAT ONE.
NOTHING'S COMING UP FOR THESE
IMAGES.
>> OH, LET'S GO TO THE INSTAGRAM
PAGE.
SO THIS IS, LIKE, A GOLD MINE
OF IMAGES.
IT'S JUST WEIRD THAT SHE'S SO
VOCAL ABOUT RAMON ON HER
FACEBOOK PAGE AND DOESN'T
MENTION HIM AT ALL IN HER
INSTAGRAM.
>> HOLA_PAOLA, THAT'S WHAT WE--
>> OH, YEAH, WE SHOULD
DEFINITELY SEARCH FOR THAT.
THERE, GO TO FACEBOOK
HOLA_PAOLA.
THAT'S HER.
PAOLA PROVOST.
ANOTHER PROFILE WITH THE SAME
GIRL.
>> WHAT IS THIS?
>> IN A RELATIONSHIP.
BUT THIS PROFILE FEELS MORE
LEGIT, AND SHE DOES NOT MENTION
RAMON.
I THINK THAT PAOLA PROVOST AND
THE HOLA_PAOLA INSTAGRAM ARE THE
SAME PERSON.
>> THAT WOULD MAKE SENSE.
RAMON'S PAOLA, PAOLA RODRIGUEZ,
BASICALLY IS USING THIS WOMAN'S
PICTURES.
WE NEED TO SEND PAOLA PROVOST A
MESSAGE.
WE ROLL THE DICE THAT THIS IS A
DIFFERENT PERSON AND THAT
RAMON'S PAOLA'S COPYCATTING.
AND IF WE'RE RIGHT, WE GOT IT.
>> IF PAOLA PROVOST CAN VIDEO
CHAT WITH US...
THIS PAOLA COULD BE THE REAL
PAOLA.
WE CANNOT TALK TO RAMON UNTIL WE
HAVE AN ANSWER.
>> [sighs]
>> DID YOU HEAR ANYTHING?
>> I HAVE A MESSAGE ON FACEBOOK
FROM PAOLA PROVOST.
SHE SAID, "HEY, I'D LOVE TO
CHAT."
WE NEED TO RECORD THIS SO THAT
WE CAN SHOW RAMON.
>> RIGHT, AND WE'RE GONNA GO SEE
RAMON.
AND WE'RE GONNA BE ABLE TO GIVE
HIM SOME ANSWERS.
[dial tone buzzes]
HELLO.
>> HI.
>> CAN YOU SEE US?
>> HEY, PAOLA.
OKAY.
>> HEY.
>> THERE YOU ARE.
>> HI.
>> WOW, YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL.
>> THANK YOU.
>> WE'RE HELPING A YOUNG MAN
NAMED RAMON WHO, FOR THE LAST
EIGHT MONTHS, HAS BEEN HAVING A
RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL NAMED
PAOLA RODRIGUEZ.
>> OKAY.
>> AND PAOLA LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE
YOU.
>> HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THIS
GUY?
>> both: NO.
>> SOMEONE BASICALLY IS USING
YOUR NAME AND YOUR PICTURES ON
MULTIPLE SOCIAL NETWORKING
PLATFORMS.
>> AWESOME.
>> THIS GUY RAMON IS, LIKE,
CRAZY IN LOVE WITH YOU.
I MEAN, HE'S IN LOVE WITH THE
GIRL HE TALKS TO.
BUT IT'S YOUR PICTURE.
WHAT WOULD BE REALLY HELPFUL IS
IF YOU COULD GIVE US, LIKE, ONE
LITTLE SOUND BITE THAT WE COULD
SHOW RAMON TO JUST COMPLETELY
PROVE THAT YOU'VE NEVER SPOKEN
TO OR HAVE ANY IDEA WHO RAMON--
>> IS?
WELL, I HAVE A BOYFRIEND.
I HAVE A LIFE HERE.
AND HE HAS NOT BEEN TALKING TO
ME.
I'M SORRY TO HIM.
>> YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW HELPFUL
THAT IS.
>> ADIOS, PAOLA.
>> CIAO.
>> GOOD-BYE.
OKAY.
>> [sighs]
ALL RIGHT.
>> DO YOU THINK RAMON'S GONNA BE
SURPRISED?
>> I THINK HE'S GONNA BE
SHOCKED 'CAUSE HE HASN'T FULLY
ACCEPTED REALITY.
NOW, WE HAVE PROOF.
WE'VE GOT THE HEARTBREAKER.
>> I THINK RAMON'S BEEN KINDA
HOLDING ON TO THAT EMBER OF
HOPE.
>> THE MOST IMPORTANT THING WE
CAN DO RIGHT NOW IS PREP HIM FOR
WHAT WILL INEVITABLY BE A
BUMMER.
>> SO SOFTEN THE BLOW.
>> YEAH.
ALL RIGHT.
WE DO HAVE SOME THINGS TO SHOW
YOU.
BUT BEFORE WE DO, I JUST WANTED
TO LET YOU KNOW THAT, LIKE,
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH PAOLA
IS GOING TO CHANGE AFTER WE SHOW
YOU THIS STUFF.
>> I THINK I'M READY FOR
WHATEVER IT IS.
>> ALL RIGHT.
LET'S DO IT.
THIS IS PAOLA'S INSTAGRAM.
YOU FOLLOW THIS INSTAGRAM.
>> THIS SEEMS TO THE BIGGEST
TROVE OF IMAGES FOR PAOLA.
>> YEAH.
LET'S NOTICE THAT THE NAME OF
THE INSTAGRAM IS HOLA_PAOLA.
>> WE DID A SEARCH FOR
HOLA_PAOLA.
AND WE FOUND PAOLA PROVOST.
SHE'S GOT LOTS OF FRIENDS, LOTS
OF PICTURES.
FEELS LEGIT.
THE PERSON THAT YOU'RE TALKING
TO, WHO'S DONE A REALLY GOOD JOB
OF--OF LOOKING AT THE REAL
PAOLA'S INSTAGRAM AND FACEBOOK,
AND BASICALLY PULLING
INFORMATION...
>> AND--AND TAKING ELEMENTS
FROM THE REAL PAOLA'S LIFE, AND
INCORPORATING THEM INTO HER LIFE
TO--TO SYNC EVERYTHING UP.
>> WE SENT THIS PAGE,
THE PAOLA PROVOST, A MESSAGE.
SHE MET US ON VIDEO CHAT.
AND WE HAD A CONVERSATION WITH
HER.
>> HI, RAMON.
THIS IS PAOLA.
I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW
THAT I'M VERY, VERY SORRY.
BUT UNFORTUNATELY, THE PERSON
THAT YOU'VE BEEN TALKING TO
HAS NOT BEEN ME.
>> * HOLD ONTO YOUR BELIEF
>> YOU HAVE NOT BEEN IN A
RELATIONSHIP WITH ME AT ALL.
>> * I SEE YOU
*LOOKIN' THROUGH ME *
>> I DO HOPE THAT YOU FIND THE
ONE FOR YOU.
>> * HOLD ON TO YOUR BELIEF
>> IT CHANGES EVERYTHING.
I THINK IT'S [bleep] UP.
I MEAN, OBVIOUSLY, SHE'S BEEN
LYING THE WHOLE DAMN TIME.
WHY DID SHE LIE IN THE FIRST
PLACE?
WHY DID SHE LET IT GET EVEN
PAST, LIKE, A COUPLE WEEKS?
>> I MEAN, IT'S INCREDIBLY
SELFISH.
>> YEAH.
>> WHAT DO YOU NEED?
WHAT DO YOU WANT?
>> I WANT TO SEE THIS PERSON,
WHOEVER IT IS, WHO'S USED ME,
AND LIED TO ME, AND WHO I FELL
IN LOVE WITH.
WHOEVER THIS PERSON IS, I TALK
WITH THEM, AND ADDRESS
EVERYTHING, AND TELL 'EM THAT
THAT WAS [bleep] UP WHAT YOU
DID.
>> I-I THINK THE BEST THING
WOULD BE FOR ME TO CALL HER.
>> IT'S TIME TO MAKE THAT
MEETING HAPPEN.
>> I WANNA SEE THIS PERSON WITH
MY OWN EYES.
[dial tone buzzes]
>> HEY.
MY NAME IS NEV, AND I'M MAKING A
SHOW CALLED CATFISH.
I'M HERE WITH A-A YOUNG GUY
NAMED RAMON, WHO I--WHO I'M
PRETTY SURE YOU KNOW BECAUSE HE
GAVE ME YOUR NUMBER.
YEAH.
HE--HE'S--I'M NOT SURE HOW TO
PUT THIS EXACTLY.
BUT I'M NOW AWARE, AS IS RAMON,
THAT YOU ARE NOT THE PERSON
YOU'VE SAID THAT YOU ARE.
AND HE REALLY HAS NO IDEA WHO
THE GIRL IS THAT HE'S BEEN
SAYING "I LOVE YOU" TO FOR THE
LAST EIGHT MONTHS.
DO YOU KNOW ANYBODY NAMED LOYDA?
>> NAMED WHAT?
>> LOYDA.
>> NO.
>> I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHO
YOU ARE.
AND I'M HOPING THAT MAYBE YOU
CAN GIVE ME SOME ANSWERS.
SO IS THIS LOYDA?
OH, OKAY.
MAYBE WE CAN END UP BRINGING YOU
GUYS FACE-TO-FACE TO MEET
SOMEWHERE, WHICH IS REALLY WHAT
HE WANTS.
>> UM...
>> THIS IS A REALLY BIG DEAL.
I MEAN, WE'RE--WE'RE TALKING
ABOUT SOMEONE'S LIFE.
THIS IS SOMEBODY WHO HAS
COMPLETELY DEDICATED THEMSELVES
TO YOU, EMOTIONALLY,
FINANCIALLY.
I JUST WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND
WHAT I'M TRYING TO COMMUNICATE--
RAMON IS NOW VERY HURT.
HE LOVES YOU.
IN THE NEXT COUPLE DAYS, WOULD
YOU BE WILLING TO CLEAR YOUR
SCHEDULE AND REALLY MAKE TIME TO
BE WITH US?
ARE YOU STILL THERE?
I APPRECIATE THAT YOU'RE WILLING
TO DO THIS.
UM, AND GOOD NIGHT.
[doorbell rings]
>> LET'S GO, YOU GOT YOUR BAGS
PACKED?
>> YEAH, THEY'RE RIGHT HERE.
>> WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU
WENT ON A BIG TRIP?
>> OH, BAR FAR?
>> YEAH.
>> BACK WHEN I WAS IN HIGH
SCHOOL.
>> * SAW THE WAY
* THAT WE HIT THE GROUND
>> FIVE MORE HOURS, WE'LL BE ONE
STEP CLOSER.
FROM ARIZONA TO FLORIDA.
A-Z TO F-L.
>> WHAT'S THAT?
>> *OOH *
* OOH
* OOH
>> YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE READY
TO CONFRONT THIS PERSON?
>> YEAH.
DEFINITELY.
WITHIN THOSE EIGHT MONTHS, I
COULDA DID A LOT MORE WITH MY
LIFE.
I DID LOVE THE GIRL.
I DID.
>> THERE IT IS.
[sighs]
ALL RIGHT, MAN.
[tense music]
**
>> OKAY.
>> DO I NEED TO KNOCK AGAIN?
>> [sighs]
HI, RAMON.
>> I'M GOING TO ASSUME THAT YOUR
NAME IS LOYDA?
>> YEAH.
>> I HAVE A LOT TO SAY TO YOU.
FIRST OFF, I DON'T UNDERSTAND
HOW--EVEN AFTER ME BUYING YOU
ALL THOSE THINGS AND BEING
THERE FOR YOU AND STUFF, HOW
YOU KEEP LYING TO ME, HOW YOU
KEPT IT GOING.
AND I GAVE YOU A LOT OF TIME
TO TELL ME THE TRUTH.
AND YOU KEPT ON LYING TO ME.
YOU BASICALLY TOOK ADVANTAGE OF
ME, AND THAT'S PRETTY [bleep]
UP.
LIKE, CAN YOU TELL ME WHY YOU
EVEN MADE THAT FAKE PROFILE?
>> BOREDOM.
I HONESTLY WASN'T LOOKING TO
MEET ANYBODY OFF OF IT.
I WAS JUST BORED AND MADE A FAKE
PROFILE.
>> YOU JUST--THAT'S IT?
NOTHING ELSE?
>> I'M SORRY.
I MEAN...
>> ALL THAT MONEY I SPENT ON
YOU, ARE YOU GONNA PAY ME BACK?
YOU GONNA GIVE ME THE STUFF?
WHAT?
>> YOU WANNA TAKE THE STUFF?
>> YEAH.
>> [laughs]
>> I MEAN, OBVIOUSLY, YOU KNOW
WE CAME A LONG WAY SO THAT YOU
GUYS CAN MEET.
I THINK RAMON DESERVES AN
EXPLANATION.
>> I DIDN'T THINK ANY--ANY
RELATIONSHIP WAS GONNA FORM WITH
HIM.
ALL OF IT WAS REAL.
JUST THAT--THE APPEARANCE,
THAT'S THE ONLY THING THAT WAS
FAKE.
OKAY?
YES, IT WAS.
YES, IT WAS.
>> IT'S NOT RIGHT.
>> I KNOW IT'S NOT RIGHT.
>> STILL...
>> YOU SPENT OVER 3,000 FRICKIN'
DOLLARS ON ME.
DO YOU NOT THINK I DON'T FEEL
BAD?
I'M SURROUNDED BY THAT [bleep]
EVERY SINGLE DAY.
>> YOU COULDN'T HAVE, LIKE,
CAME CLEAN AFTER ALL THAT
IF YOU FELT BAD?
>> I TRIED TO COME CLEAN.
>> YOU TRIED TO COME CLEAN.
>> YOU KNOW I TRIED TO COME
CLEAN.
YOU KNOW I TRIED TO COME CLEAN.
PLEASE DON'T.
YOU KNOW I TRIED TO COME CLEAN
TO YOU SEVERAL TIMES.
>> AND YOU DIDN'T.
>> YES, I DID.
YOU WERE ACTING ALL SAD.
YOU KNEW.
>> I KNEW WHAT?
>> YOU KNEW THAT I TRIED TO COME
CLEAN BEFORE.
>> IS IT ALL RIGHT IF WE ALL
COME IN?
>> YEAH.
HE KNOWS MY FULL NAME, THOUGH HE
PROBABLY WILL CLAIM THAT HE
FORGOT IT.
HE KNOWS--HE HEARD MY BIRTHDAY.
HE'S SEEN MY DRIVER'S LICENSE.
YOU'VE SEEN ME.
WE FACETIMED.
WE SKYPED.
YOU CALLED ME BY MY NAME BEFORE.
>> IS THAT TRUE?
>> YEAH.
NOW THAT I--
>> WHAT THE HELL?
>> MM-HMM, YEAH, THERE WERE
MULTIPLE TIMES WHERE HE HAD SEEN
ME.
HE KNEW THAT IF I WASN'T PAOLA,
HE KNEW THAT THIS WAS WHAT HE
WAS GONNA GET, WHETHER HE WANTS
TO ACT LIKE HE DOESN'T KNOW OR
NOT.
>> IT'S A LITTLE WEIRD THAT YOU
DIDN'T TELL US THAT YOU GOT--
THAT SHE WENT TO SUCH--SHE--
I MEAN, YOU'VE ONLY TOLD US THAT
SHE ONCE SAID SOMETHING, AND--
>> THAT YOU ONLY SAW HER FROM
HERE UP.
>> NO, HE SAW ME.
HE SAW ME.
>> HOW MUCH OF WHAT SHE'S
TELLING US RIGHT NOW IS ACCURATE
ABOUT THE FACT THAT SHE TRIED
MULTIPLE TIMES TO EXPLAIN TO YOU
WHO SHE REALLY WAS?
>> YEAH, THAT DID HAPPEN.
I BARELY REMEMBER.
>> WHAT, BARELY REMEMBER THAT?
>> WE SAT WITH YOU FOR HOURS
TRYING TO EXTRACT STUFF FROM
YOU.
>> IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAD KINDA
MET HER.
A COUPLE TIMES.
>> YEAH, I DIDN'T WANNA BELIEVE
IT.
I DIDN'T.
THAT'S ALL.
[tense music]
*
>> I'M HAVING A HARD TIME
UNDERSTANDING AND JUSTIFYING HOW
YOU KIND OF CONVINCED YOURSELF
ALL ALONG THAT THERE WAS SOME
GLIMMER OF CHAN--OF HOPE THAT
THIS COULD BE THE REAL GIRL?
>> YEAH, THAT I SAID THAT I WAS
MY COUSIN LATER ON BECAUSE I
DIDN'T WANT HIM TO KEEP BEING
HURT.
HE WAS CRYING.
>> YEAH, YOU DID [bleep] SAY
THAT AND LIE TO ME AGAIN.
>> YOU WOULD BE UPSET.
AND IT WOULD JUST HURT ME TO--
I HATE TO SEE HIM UPSET, SO--
>> YOU SHOULD'VE JUST LET IT BE.
>> I KNOW IT DOES NOT JUSTIFY
IT, OKAY?
I KNOW.
>> H-HOW MANY SEPARATE OCCASIONS
DID YOU KIND OF BACKTRACK AND
SAY, "OH, ACTUALLY, I-I KNOW?
THAT'S MESSED UP, BUT THAT
WAS--"
>> THAT WAS, LIKE, THREE TIMES
THAT I CAME CLEAN.
>> SO--SO ON EACH OF THE THREE
TIMES, YOU--
>> I BACKTRACKED.
AND THE VERY LAST ONE, HE KEPT
TEXTING, SAYING "PLEASE TELL ME
THIS IS A LIE," PUTTING ALL
THESE SAD FACES.
LIKE, WHAT DO YOU W--I DIDN'T
WANT--I KNEW THAT HE WAS
HURTING.
AND I DIDN'T WANT THAT.
>> YOU SHOULD'VE JUST STAYED
WITH THE TRUTH.
YOU REALLY MESSED UP MY HEAD A
LOT.
>> HE WANTED TO KEEP THINKING HE
WAS TALKING TO PAOLA.
>> AND YOU KIND OF KEPT GIVING
HIM A REASON TO THINK IT COULD
BE?
>> YEAH.
HE CHOSE TO BELIEVE WHAT HE
CHOSE TO BELIEVE.
>> WERE YOU AFRAID THAT IF YOU
SHOWED HIM WHO YOU REALLY
WERE...
>> JUST BECAUSE I KNEW WHEN I
FIRST MET HIM, I HAD A LOW
SELF-ESTEEM.
SO I FIGURED--YEAH.
AND I WAS AFRAID OF LOSING HIM.
YOU KNOW, MY INTENTIONS WERE
NEVER TO HURT YOU.
BUT IT DID HAPPEN.
AND I KNOWINGLY PUT YOU THROUGH
THAT.
I AM SORRY.
EVERYTHING WAS REAL EXCEPT FOR
THE APPEARANCE AND THE NAME.
THERE WAS A UNEXPLAINABLE
CONNECTION.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT WAS.
I WAS ABLE TO TELL HIM
EVERYTHING.
I'VE TOLD HIM THINGS THAT I'VE
NEVER TOLD EVEN MY BEST FRIEND--
MY BEST, BEST, BEST FRIEND.
LIKE, I JUST HAD THAT--
I HAD ALL THAT TRUST IN HIM.
SO...
>> SO YOU'VE CONSIDERED RAMON TO
BE YOUR BOYFRIEND FOR THE LAST
SEVEN MONTHS?
>> SEVEN MONTHS.
YEAH.
>> AND YOU LOVE HIM--IN LOVE
WITH HIM?
>> IT HAPPENED.
I DIDN'T...
>> I MEAN, BOTH OF YOU HAVE BEEN
A VERY ACTIVE PART OF THIS
MESSED-UP RELATIONSHIP.
>> I MEAN, YOU'RE RIGHT.
>> I HAVE NOTHING MORE TO SAY.
>> OKAY.
WELL, IF THERE'S NOTHING ELSE
TO SAY, I THINK WE SHOULD GO.
>> THANKS FOR MEETING US.
>> BYE, BYE. NO PROBLEM.
>> A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE GONNA SEE
THIS.
AND THEY'RE GONNA S--THEY'RE
GONNA ASK, WHY WAS THIS GUY IN
THIS RELATIONSHIP?
SHE TOLD HIM SHE WAS LYING
MULTIPLE TIMES.
>> HONESTLY, I DIDN'T WANNA LOSE
HER.
>> YEAH, HE'S THE LOVE OF MY
LIFE.
I DON'T WANT HIM TO LEAVE.
I KNOW THAT ONCE--ONCE HE'S
GONE, HE'S GONE.
AND THERE'S NOTHING I CAN DO TO
FIX THAT.
>> I DIDN'T HAVE, LIKE, A REAL
SOCIAL LIFE, LIKE, GO OUT AND
ACTUALLY HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE.
SHE'S SOMEBODY I COULD RELY ON
FOR ADVICE, FOR GOOD ADVICE.
>> SO SHE WAS YOUR ONLY REAL
FRIEND?
>> YEAH.
>> DID YOU DO ANY THINKING LAST
NIGHT?
>> THERE'S SOME WEIRDNESS TO ALL
OF THIS.
>> YEAH, THERE'S A WHOLE 'NOTHER
SIDE OF THIS STORY THAT PAINTS
RAMON TO BE SOMEONE WITH A VERY
SELECTIVE MEMORY, WHO KNEW FOR
THE LAST FOUR MONTHS THAT PAOLA
WAS LOYDA BUT DIDN'T WANT TO
ACCEPT IT.
>> IT MIGHT BE HELPFUL TO FRIEND
LOYDA ON FACEBOOK AND JUST TRY
TO SEE WHAT WE CAN LEARN ABOUT
HER.
HERE SHE IS.
FRIEND REQUEST SENT.
>> YEAH.
>> ALL RIGHT.
SHE DID.
>> WE ARE INTO HER PAGE.
SHE'S STUDYING CRIMINAL JUSTICE,
WORKED AT MCDONALD'S.
>> OH, MY GOD.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
>> WHAT IS THAT?
>> [sighs]
"MY NEW RING."
"TO MY LOVE LOYDA, UNTIL I SEE
YOU SOON.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
CAN'T WAIT TO SPEND THE REST OF
OUR LIVES TOGETHER."
>> WHAT?
>> FROM RAMON.
WAIT A SECOND.
>> WHOA.
>> AND THEN SOMEONE ELSE WROTE,
"GOD BLESS YOUR RELATIONSHIP
TODAY, TOMORROW, AND ALWAYS.
LOVE YOU GUYS."
THAT'S HER MOM?
>> SO THE MOM IS CONVINCED RAMON
SENT THE RING.
>> DID RAMON PROPOSE TO PAOLA?
>> WE GOTTA ASK HIM.
>> HOW'D YOU SLEEP?
>> OKAY.
>> SO I FRIEND REQUESTED LOYDA.
FIGURED MAYBE WE COULD CHECK OUT
HER PROFILE AND JUST GET TO KNOW
HER BETTER.
AND SHE ACCEPTED MY FRIEND
REQUEST.
AND WE WERE SCROLLING THROUGH
HER PICTURES.
AND WE GOT TO THIS PICTURE.
IT SAYS, "MY NEW RING."
>> "FROM RAMON."
THAT'S PRETTY CREEPY.
>> DID YOU SEND THAT--
>> both: NO.
>> THAT WASN'T ME.
>> DID YOU SEND THAT RING?
>> NO, I NEVER SENT HER A RING.
>> NEVER, EVER SENT HER A RING?
>> NEVER, EVER, EVER.
>> YOU'RE ENGAGED.
>> I'M NOT ENGAGED.
>> ACCORDING TO FACEBOOK, YOU
ARE.
>> THAT'S RIDICULOUS.
>> IT--YOU--YOU MIGHT HAVE GIVEN
HER MONEY FOR HER TO BUY HERSELF
A RING.
>> DID YOU GIVE HER MONEY IN
OCTOBER?
>> I MIGHT HAVE.
>> YOU KIND OF DID BUY HER AN
ENGAGEMENT RING.
I THINK WE SHOULD CALL HER AND
FIGURE THIS OUT.
[dial tone buzzes]
>> HELLO?
I NEED TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT A
LOT OF THINGS.
WHO'S AT YOUR HOUSE?
CAN WE GO OVER THERE TODAY?
SOON? LIKE, RIGHT NOW?
ALL RIGHT, I'LL SEE YOU THEN.
>> HI.
>> HELLO.
>> HI.
>> HELLO.
>> LOYDA.
>> LOYDA, NEV.
>> JUAN.
>> THANK YOU FOR HAVING US OVER.
>> OH, YOU WELCOME.
>> YOUR DAUGHTER'S BEEN HAVING A
RELATIONSHIP WITH RAMON FOR
QUITE SOME TIME NOW.
HE WANTED TO COME OVER HERE AND,
YOU KNOW, ASK YOU GUYS SOME
QUESTIONS JUST SO WE COULD TRY
TO WALK AWAY FROM THIS AT LEAST
KNOWING SORT OF THE WHOLE
PICTURE.
AS FAR AS YOU KNEW, YOUR
DAUGHTER WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP
WITH RAMON.
>> YES.
>> DID YOU KNOW THAT SHE WAS
PRETENDING TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE?
>> YES.
I WAS AWARE OF THE WHOLE THING.
>> THIS IS MY SISTER, AND I LOVE
HER TO DEATH, BUT I-I-I'MA SAY
IT REGARDLESS.
LOYDA FLAT-OUT LIED TO RAMON.
>> THIS GUY WAS SENDING GIFTS,
VERY GENEROUS GIFTS.
>> HE WANTED TO.
>> SURE, HE WANTED TO.
DIDN'T IT BOTHER YOU THAT
THERE WAS A GUY WHO WAS SENDING
YOUR DAUGHTER LOTS OF THINGS,
AND HE THOUGHT HE WAS SENDING IT
TO SOMEBODY ELSE?
>> NO, NO, NO, NO, NO.
CUT IT RIGHT THERE.
WHEN HE STARTED SENDING HER
EXPENSIVE GIFTS LIKE, FOR
EXAMPLE, THE Wii, LOYDA
MENTIONED TO ME, "MOMMY, I THINK
THIS IS GOING TOO FAR."
SHE DECIDE TO TELL HIM THE
TRUTH.
AND HE STOPPED HER AND TOLD HER,
"I DON'T WANNA HEAR IT."
>> I DIDN'T WANNA GET THAT FACE
OUT OF MY HEAD, AND EVERYTHING,
THAT NAME.
WELL, WE LOOKED AT YOUR PAGE,
YOUR REAL PAGE, AND FOUND
A PICTURE OF A RING AND A
MESSAGE THAT LOOKED LIKE IT WAS
FROM ME.
>> HE SENT HER THAT RING.
>> I NEVER SENT HER A RING AT
ALL.
>> WHEN LOYDA OPEN THE ENVELOPE,
IT HAD YOUR NAME ON IT.
YOU DID SEND THAT TO HER, RAMON.
>> I NEVER SENT HER A RING.
>> IF HE SAYING HE DIDN'T SEND
IT, SORRY TO TELL YOU, RAMON:
SOMEBODY PRETEND TO BE HIM, AND
HE DOESN'T KNOW?
>> LOYDA, YOU WANT TO EXPLAIN
THAT TO YOUR MOM FOR US?
>> WHAT?
>> HOW THAT ALL HAPPENED?
>> WHAT HAPPENED?
>> both: THE RING.
>> RAMON GAVE YOU MONEY.
>> IT WAS BIRTHDAY MONEY.
>> YOU WENT ONLINE.
YOU BOUGHT YOURSELF A RING.
YOU MAILED IT TO YOURSELF.
AND THEN, IN FRONT OF YOUR
MOTHER, YOU LIED TO HER AND TOLD
HER HE HAD SENT IT TO YOU.
AM I WRONG?
>> ARE YOU SURPRISED, THOUGH,
THAT--THAT SHE SENT THE RING?
>> WHATEVER.
>> NO, NOT--NOT WHATEVER.
IT'S IMPORTANT.
THESE DETAILS ARE IMPORTANT--
>> NO, WHATEVER.
>> YOU'RE NOT REALLY HEARING--
>> NO, YES, I AM.
>> NO, YOU'RE NOT.
>> YES, I AM.
>> YOUR DAUGHTER'S A LIAR.
>> MY DAUGHTER'S A LIAR?
WHAT ABOUT RAMON?
>> RAMON HAS HIS OWN ISSUES TO
DEAL WITH, OKAY?
>> I-I-I CAN SEE THAT.
>> AND PART OF WHAT I HOPE WE
CAN DO TODAY IS EVERYBODY ADMITS
THEIR ISSUES.
I ENCOURAGE YOU TO TAKE THIS
OPPORTUNITY TO TAKE
RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT YOU'VE
DONE.
SAME TO YOU, OKAY?
I'M JUST HERE TO TRY AND
ENCOURAGE BOTH OF YOU TO BE
HONEST WITH YOURSELVES.
>> LET ME EXPLAIN SOMETHING TO
YOU.
FORGET THAT THEY'RE HERE FOR A
MINUTE.
FORGET EVERYTHING IS HERE RIGHT
NOW, JUST ME AND YOU.
EVER SINCE MY DAD DIED, AND MY
GRANDPA DIED LESS THAN A YEAR
LATER, MY LIFE HAS BEEN HELL.
AND WHEN I MET HIM, IT WAS ALL
SUNSHINE.
IT WAS HAPPY.
FOR THE LAST SEVEN MONTHS, I'VE
BEEN THE HAPPIEST I'VE EVER
BEEN.
SHOULD I HAVE TOLD HIM THE TRUTH
THEN?
YEAH, I SHOULD'VE.
BUT I DIDN'T, AND THAT WAS MY--
MY MISTAKE.
I WANT YOU IN MY LIFE.
I DON'T WANNA LOSE YOU.
I AM SORRY FOR LYING TO YOU FROM
THE VERY BEGINNING.
I AM SORRY.
>> YOU WANTED TO MEET THE GIRL
THAT YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH.
YOU HAVE NOW MET THE GIRL THAT
YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH.
WHAT DO YOU WANNA DO NOW?
>> NOW THAT I'M HERE AND I HAVE
THIS OPPORTUNITY, PROBABLY TO
SPEND SOME TIME AND SEE HOW IT
IS, SEEING YOUR REAL FACE,
SEEING WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
IS THAT OKAY?
>> OKAY.
>> ALL RIGHT, LET'S GET OUT OF
YOUR WAY.
>> AND NOW, MORE CATFISH
THE TV SHOW.
STICK AROUND.
>> YOU KNOW MY INTENTION WAS
NEVER TO HURT YOU.
>> I FEEL BETTER NOW THAT THE
TRUTH IS ALL OUT THERE.
>> MM-HMM.
>> THAT'S WHAT I'VE WANTED FOR,
LIKE, THE LONGEST TIME.
ALL THAT LYING AND--OBVIOUSLY, I
DON'T LOVE THAT.
BUT IT'S IN THE PAST.
YOU KNOW, THERE'S NOT GONNA BE A
RELATIONSHIP, BUT I STILL DON'T
WANNA LOSE YOU AS A FRIEND.
YOU'RE, LIKE, ONE OF MY BEST
FRIENDS.
>> GUESS WE'LL JUST BE FRIENDS.
>> YOU DON'T SOUND TOO CONFIDENT
IN THAT AT ALL.
>> WELL, WE'LL BE FRIENDS.
[sighs]
I WANT, MORE THAN ANYTHING, FOR
YOU TO STILL BE IN MY LIFE.
>> COME ON OVER HERE.
THANKS FOR THIS WEIRD, WILD
ROLLER COASTER OF A WEEK.
I'M NOT SURE I'LL EVER REALLY
UNDERSTAND EXACTLY WHAT YOU GUYS
HAVE.
BUT HOPEFULLY, THERE'S A QUALITY
FRIENDSHIP.
>> ALL RIGHT, WELL, I'LL TALK TO
YOU LATER.
OKAY, THANKS.
>> LET'S TAKE A PICTURE.
>> *I'M SORRY I LEFT YOU *
* THE WAY THAT I CAME
* SWEETHEART, YOU PUT DOWN
* YOU LOVABLE MAN
* I LEFT YOU TO DO
* WHAT I CAN'T *
* TO SHOW YOU YOU'RE SPECIAL *
* WITH YOU ALWAYS OUT
* I'LL BE GOOD ENOUGH AGAIN *
* 'CAUSE YOU DESERVE BETTER *
* THAN TO HAVE TO WAIT FOR ME
[dial tone buzzes]
>> THERE HE IS.
>> WOW, FACIAL HAIR.
>> YEAH.
>> [sighs]
HOW YA DOIN'?
>> REAL GOOD.
>> LOOKING BACK NOW ON THIS
WHOLE EXPERIENCE AND THE WHOLE
RELATIONSHIP, WHAT'D YOU LEARN
FROM IT?
>> IT WAS SOMETHING TO BE MORE
RESPONSIBLE ABOUT STUFF THAT I
SHOULDN'T GIVE OUT.
>> WHAT'S GOING ON NOW WITH YOU
AND LOYDA?
YOU GUYS BEEN TALKIN'?
>> NO.
SHE HAS, LIKE, A BOYFRIEND
RIGHT NOW.
>> DOES THAT HURT YOUR FEELINGS?
>> [laughs]
NO.
>> ALL RIGHT, MAN, WELL, IT WAS
GOOD CATCHING UP WITH YOU.
>> YOU GUYS TAKE CARE.
HELLO, LOYDA.
>> LOYDA.
>> HI.
>> HOW IS EVERYTHING?
>> I MET SOMEBODY AND THINGS ARE
GOING WELL.
>> DID YOU MEET HIM AS LOYDA?
OR DID YOU MEET HIM AS PAOLA?
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BUY YOURSELF
RINGS AND SEND THEM TO YOURSELF
ANYMORE.
>> [laughs]
NO, NO.
>> YOU'VE BEEN PAYING HIM BACK?
>> MM-HMM, YEAH.
>> WELL, THAT'S, I THINK, A BIG
AND VERY NICE GESTURE ON YOUR
PART.
>> YEAH.
>> WELL, GIVE OUR REGARDS TO
LOYDA SENIOR.
>> DOES SHE MISS US?
>> MOM.
SHE SAID "NO."
[giggles]
>> ALL RIGHT.
>> all: BYE.
>> "I MET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE
ONLINE EIGHT YEARS AGO."
>> WAIT, EIGHT YEARS AGO.
>> I STRONGLY BELIEVE HE IS THE
PERFECT GUY FOR ME AND MY SON.
>> WHOA.
>> THAT'S A PRETTY BIG PHYSICAL
DIFFERENCE.
>> OH, MY GOD.
LIKE, DON'T MAKE ME CRY.
I AM FREAKING OUT.
WHAT DID I DO?
DEREK, COME ON.
OH, MY GOD, I CAN'T TURN AROUND.
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