90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 7 - Never Have I Ever - full transcript

Previously
on Before the 90 Days.

Don't y'all plan better?

This just seems like
really unorganized.

I know how much
this video means to him.

So, I really hope Usman
is thinking

about the relationship more.

You can do a lot of stuff
for your size.

Yes, girl!

But I still didn't tell him
about living with my ex.

I really didn't know how Caleb is
gonna react to it hearing I lied to him.

This is Mahogany.



That is the fakest picture

I've ever seen in my whole
entire life. That is so fake.

I have been catfished before.

But I know that's not the case
with Mahogany.

We just keep connecting
every single day,

deeper and deeper,
and you can't fake that.

I realize this is weird.

But we have connected
on a spiritual level

where we're planning
a future together.

It's just one thing
after another.

I'm worried what else
might come to light.

Well, Johnny just said that his
visa got denied to Singapore.

I am worried
this is the first step to him

never being able to make it
to the United States.



The colors look good in that,
I believe.

I want to work this out.

I want marriage
and having a baby.

Why did you lie
about how old you were?

I'm tired of being
betrayed and I'm tired of being hurt.

Hi.

You're waiting on me
for a change, huh?

Uh-huh.

Kimberly impressed me
with the way

she took charge of my
music video shoot yesterday.

- Okay.
- That looks okay?

Yeah.
You look good.

- So are you ready?
- Yes.

Okay.

One day,
potential Queen Kimberly.

Yeah.

Oh, I like you too.

- Thank you.
- Huh?

Thank you.
But I love you.

And I'm glad you like no...

Mmm-hmm.

But I never say it here.

But that's progress for me.

You know what I'm saying?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Okay.

- So pretty, huh?
- You like it?

I love it.

Oh, this is cool, huh?

- Okay.
- Yeah.

Look.
There you go.

Yeah, it's like
a Michael Jackson fedora.

You know, I like this 'cause this looks
like the one he did in Smooth Criminal.

So maybe I'll make you dance
like Michael Jackson later.

Whoo!

Yeah. Okay.
Okay, Okay.

Don't get me excited.

Yeah, it looks good on you too.

Yeah, there you go.
Superstar Sojaboy.

Today is actually
the day I've been wanting.

It's just Usman
and I just one on one time,

like out in the public,
so it's really special to me.

- This is Tanzanian flag.
- Yeah, let's get this.

Yeah, I like these.

Yeah, that's cute, right?

But I want to see
the big picture.

You know,
I want to see the kissing.

I want to see him
sleeping in my bed.

I mean, like, come on, bro,

I need to know if that
sexual chemistry is there.

I want to see how this relationship
is going to work that way.

You look so cute.
I love the hat...

- Ow!
- Okay.

Uh-huh.

Oh.

Ahh!

I know, we've been
walking all day, huh?

Yeah.

So now that like
your video's over and stuff,

so is this
how it's gonna be now, like,

every day,
like we're gonna hang out,

do different stuff or...

Yeah. I think like
the more time,

you know, we spend together,
the better.

You know, like, I came here
to watch you and your video,

but I came here
for another reason too.

You know what I mean?

We have to get
to know each other.

So I think you should give up
your room

and give it to somebody
in your team.

I really
want you to stay with me.

I really do.

Yeah.

Well, what If you don't decide
that to the last day?

Then what?

That's so crazy.

Never mind, never mind.

Just never mind.

I'm not pissed.

No, I'm not.

I agreed because
that's what you wanted.

And I respect it.

But listen, I need you
to respect my rules too.

- Oh, is that right?
- Yeah.

Wow.

- Even if you... - Is that
what you think, really?

Is that what you think, really?

We only have this time.

And I keep saying that,

and it's not like I'm begging
you for sex or any like that.

So don't.
So don't.

Just forget it.

- Huh?
- Just forget it.

Yeah.

Just get out of here maybe.

I want to go
back to the hotel now.

Yes.

Okay.

I don't care what you do.
Let's just go.

I really don't know what else
Usman could want.

You know,
for him to move in my room,

I've been attentive,
I've been loving,

I've been his assistant,
I've been his manager.

I've done everything I can do.

And the last thing I'm gonna
doing is I'm not going to beg.

It's on him now.

I don't want to hold
your hand right now.

Stop.

Just choose one.

Maybe this one.

I've been in Panama
for a week now.

And yesterday was the most
dramatic day I've had with Jasmine.

We got into a big fight because Jasmine
is hung up on my exes and my past.

We were able to work
through that,

but out of nowhere,

Jasmine dropped on me that
she's been taking birth control.

It was disappointing for me
because her and I agreed early on

about raising a family together

and maybe even getting Jasmine
pregnant while I'm in Panama.

But I'm trying my best
to move forward.

Right, right.
Yeah, yeah.

Yes, it sounds so good.
Ex-husband.

But my friends are in town
and then they know,

So I'm almost done.

So your friends
didn't invite me tonight.

It's...
I know you said it...

I'm... I'm celebrating
that I'm divorced.

I don't want you to be
part of that.

Okay, that's fine.

I'm a little surprised
that I wasn't invited.

But at least we'll have the
next few days to be together,

just the two of us
because, tomorrow,

we're leaving for the romantic
getaway that Jasmine booked for us.

How's that?

Better, baby?

You look nice.

Thank you, baby.

Bye.

Oh, my gosh.

Okay.

Okay.

I'm just packing
and getting ready.

You know, there's a lot
going on right now for us.

She's probably having fun.

Jasmine's having fun.
Yeah.

Ay, ay, ay.

Oh, my God.

No!

What?

You haven't gotten it together.

I want to go.
Get out.

Because you're making me upset.

I have a limited time
to get married here

and this is like a game to him.

Do you even really
want to get married?

'Cause you don't seem to care.

About a week ago,

I came to Turkey
with my flatmate Elijah

to meet Caleb in person
for the very first time.

This is Elijah's last night,

and I'm a bit sad that Elijah
has to go home.

But I'm excited about hanging
out with just Caleb and I.

So, yeah, bitches.

- What's up?
- Wow.

Yes.

Elijah did cause
a lot of tension with Caleb.

Something happened last night
that was awkward as hell.

So, should we talk
about the fact

that you walked in on us
having sex?

Yes.

Sorry?

It was just a little bit weird to turn
in and see you there in our room.

Alina gave me the keys
from their room,

so I opened the door.

I see half naked Caleb.

And I just said to him,

"No, I'm just checking your
body." And then I'm just leaving.

Why did you come?

Because I forgot my brush.

Why do you need
a brush that late at night?

Just wanted to
go out. Is it important?

Well, at least you looked
good for it, I guess.

Yes.

And you also looked good.

I... I don't know
how to reply.

I've got mixed feelings
about Elijah leaving tomorrow.

I feel constantly, like,

he is trying to step on my toes.

He's a bit of a diva.

- Thank you.
- Oh, thank you.

But then again,

he did a lot to help Alina with
the wheelchair and everything.

And now
the pressure falls to me,

and I feel like I might realize

he did a lot of things
that I took for granted.

Cheers.

- Maybe we should...
- What?

Play some game.

Maybe something...

Oh, we can play
"Never Have I Ever" I guess.

This is like
college party stuff.

Elijah, you start.

Never have I ever had sex
with more than 100 women.

Ah, okay.

Oh, wow.

Oh. What?

What?

Does that bother you?

I mean, I can't say it doesn't.

I did not expect it
to be that much.

I knew there was many,
but more than 100.

That's a lot.

And it just makes me worry
that he's just a player,

and he's not prepared
for anything serious.

You're up.

I have never had a threesome.

- A threesome.
- Yeah.

So you drink.

I've never.

Yeah. But we aren't
drinking, so you have to.

That's the American rules.

I don't know what they do
in Russia, but...

Okay.
Your turn then.

Ooh. Um.

Never have I ever lived
in Russia.

This is not fair, I think.

- That's interesting.
- Isn't it?

What?

So yes.

I don't have a secret,
but I think he means you.

I'll... I'll tell you
when we go back to the room.

Okay? I promise. I promise.

Sure.

I feel kind of angry
at Elijah for bringing this up.

It doesn't feel right for him to just
make me feel uncomfortable like this.

I know I'll have to come clean
with Caleb about living with my ex.

But I don't want to tell
Caleb about it in a bar.

I just want us to be alone and have a
quiet conversation without anyone around.

So...

at what stage of the
relationship are you now?

What do you feel?

It's hard to say, man.

We have more time together,

more time to get to know
each other.

I think that's important
to appreciate and use.

We don't want to determine
what it means now prematurely.

There's no indecision,

especially with whatever you
apparently have been hiding for 13 years.

Maybe we should talk about
whatever that is before you start

trying to press for some type
of answer or whatever this is.

Well, exactly.
That's what I didn't want.

I didn't want to press you.

But at the same time,

I'm just tired of hearing
how you're always like,

"Yeah, we should get to know
each other more."

How more do you want to
get to know me?

Well, I don't want to give you any answer
until I know what you've been hiding.

So I think you are in
no position to be talking.

Well, you didn't know I was hiding
something until Elijah just said it.

And thank God Elijah came.

And you're just using
this as an excuse right now.

Yeah.
A very valid excuse

'cause I might put myself
in a horrible position

to find out whatever this is.

I'm afraid to tell Caleb
the truth

because I'm very worried that
he's not gonna trust me anymore.

I really don't know
how he's gonna react to it,

but I just hope it's not gonna mess
everything up between Caleb and I.

Last night, I found out that my fiancée of
eight months has been lying about his age.

Hi.

He's 26-years old.

Two years younger
than what I expected.

I feel really deceived.

But even though I'm struggling
with Hamza lying to me,

today, we have to travel
to the embassy

so that I can apply
for the document required

for a foreigner
to marry a Tunisian.

Do you have underwear and socks?

- You do? Okay.
- Okay.

Because the embassy is in Tunis,

which is two hours away
from where Hamza lives,

we're gonna spend
the night in a hotel.

What's the plan for today?

Okay.

If I can't find a car,
we will go on the bus.

No.

I don't want to go
on a bus with stuff.

Corona.
No, no, no.

You find a ride.

Are we gonna get there in time
to do the paperwork?

We don't have long.

I'm a little bit frustrated that Hamza
didn't have everything planned out today.

It's crucial that we get
to the embassy

as soon as possible
because with COVID going on,

you never know how long
these things are gonna take.

Oh, car is here?
Okay.

And if we do not get the
approval from the embassy,

then we can't get married.

So I hope
that he understands that.

So... so we have to wait?

Okay.

Okay.

Yeah, right.

It's not okay.

You need to prepare for things.

You... you no prepare.

We're not gonna make it.

I'm mad!

I'm angry.

You haven't gotten it
together, I want to go.

Let me out.

You are not... Get out.

Because you're making me upset.

Why didn't you plan better?

Like we're not going
to make it to the consulate?

How much would it be
for to get a taxi?

Oh, no.

Do you even really
want to get married?

'Cause you're not...
you don't seem to care.

I have a limited time
to get married here,

and this is like a game to him.

I feel like
he doesn't take it seriously.

This is a maturity thing.

It's him not being prepared,
it's him not being a man.

I feel like I am the adult,
and he is the child.

And I don't want
that to be a problem,

but it's looking like
that's gonna be a problem.

I'm not sad.
I'm pissed off!

Pissed off!

I've been trying to get him
over here all this year,

one thing after another
of delay, delay, delay.

This is not the first time

that Johnny and I have tried to
make plans for him to come to Idaho.

Sounds like there's something
he's not telling you.

I'm really stressed
and frustrated.

I definitely feel like
things are falling apart.

I don't know what to do.

My boyfriend, Johnny,
is my Asian prince.

We've spent a year and a half
getting to know each other.

Originally, he was
supposed to go to Singapore

and quarantine for two weeks
and then come to the US

so that we can meet
for the first time.

But unfortunately,
his Singapore visa got denied.

So we've been looking
into other options,

and we may have found one,

but I feel like every time
I come up with a solution,

something new comes up.

Ella.

- Hey!
- Hey!

Hello!

How are you, bestie?

How's it going?
Haven't seen you in forever.

I know, right?
It's so good to see you!

Yeah!

Today, I am meeting with my best
friend Korbie and her husband Pao.

And I'm hoping that meeting
with them can give me

some enlightenment
on the situation.

What's going on with Johnny?

So I have a lot
I have to catch you up on.

So he got denied
the Singapore visa.

- No!
- Yeah.

It's really hard to get a visa
from China, apparently.

So we looked into other avenues,

and we found Dubai as an option.

And he doesn't need
a visa to go to Dubai.

Okay.

So he'd quarantine for 14 days
and then he could fly here.

Good.

But this morning, he told me
he wants to delay the trip.

What? Why?

Seriously?

He is worried
because of the virus.

- About COVID?
- Yeah.

About the new Delta virus.

And I feel like
that's a stupid excuse

because you can be safe
and travel,

I mean,
everybody is doing it already.

So where it stands right now,

he has a ticket to Dubai
in two weeks,

but he's just like hesitating.

And the pattern
is showing that, like,

he's not gonna come over
and I'm wasting my time

because I've been trying to
get him over here all this year,

one thing after another
of delay, delay, delay.

This is not the first time

that Johnny and I have tried to
make plans for him to come to Idaho.

Each time,
some new issue comes up

and, it's getting a little bit on the
ridiculous side of how much crap

I've had to put up with.

Like, he wanted to get his
driver's license and I was like,

"Okay, I guess you can get
a driver's license."

And then he was like,

"I want to bring over
so much cash."

And I'm like, "Okay."

But now we have this
perfect thing, and he's like,

"It's not a good time
to come."

It doesn't...

it sounds like there's
something he's not telling you.

Do you know
if Johnny's parents want him

to be with a Chinese girl
in China

instead of coming over
and meeting you,

which, you know, is an American?

Maybe.

I feel like every time
I ask him about,

like what the parents
are thinking,

he just kind of always has
like one sentence answers.

Culturally, the Asians, they...

they value family,
and it's a hard thing to,

you know, move away.

It's kind of weird
that he hasn't...

if he's not gonna talk
to you about it though.

- Yeah.
- You know?

Johnny has never brought up
that his parents

may not want him to be with me,

but if they're the reason
why he's not coming over here,

I would feel really upset 'cause
it's really hard to have a relationship

if the in-laws don't like
your significant other.

So, it's time for me to talk
to Johnny

and see what the real reason
for him not wanting to leave China

because I am tired
of all these excuses.

Johnny just needs to pull
his head out and decide.

That's where I'm at now.

I'm just like, "Just decide,

and I've told you where I stand.

So now it's like you."

After spending a
few days with her family,

Ximena and I came to Cilento to spend
some romantic alone time to reconnect.

But last night,

I found out some disturbing
things about Ximena's past.

It worries me that she dated
a very dangerous person,

but seems like she really wants
to move forward and just do better,

so I'm really trying to leave
the past as the past.

Love, I'll go for
a coffee if you want a coffee.

I'll meet up
with you in a minute, okay?

- Okay.
- Okay.

No.

My friends and family
don't even think Mahogany is real.

But I feel confident about it because
I believe in the love that we have.

Today's the day,
and in just 12 hours,

I'll be traveling to Peru
to meet my girlfriend,

Mahogany
for the very first time.

We met through social media
about three months ago.

And we have developed
the strongest romantic

and spiritual connection
I've ever had.

I am looking forward to getting off
that airplane and she, like turns a corner,

and then I see her for the
first time and I'm just gonna,

like, throw down my luggage
and just run.

Mahogany and I will be staying
in Lima for tonight.

And tomorrow, we'll be
driving to San Bartolo,

where she lives
with her parents.

I booked two different
hotel rooms in Lima

'cause I want to let her know
she's got her space

and because I'm saving our
physical relationship for after marriage.

I just think
it's the right thing to do.

God commends it.

And I think that the best sex
is worth waiting for.

I know I'm taking
this huge risk and,

like, it can go
really, really badly.

And I can see that.

But then I look through
all the text and I'm like,

"No, no, no.
No, it's real, it's real."

And I just... you know,
just dismissed all that.

- How's it going?
- Hi.

Thank you.

No problem.

Recently, I finally told my
ex-wife and my kids about Mahogany.

How are you feeling?

I'm nervous.

My kids were definitely shocked

and upset and suspicious
about the whole thing.

But despite their concerns,

I'm really happy that my
son Elijah offered to drive me

to the airport this morning.

So you're sure it's a good
idea going through with this.

Uh.

I mean, I'm...
I'm risking a lot.

But I've already kind of given
her my heart.

I mean, I've...
I've gone all in,

so I am compelled
to go 4,000 miles.

And you know
I don't do stuff like this.

So it just must help you
understand

this is a very special person.

Well, as long as she really is
'cause I just want to make sure

that you're not making like a
hasty decision off of someone

who's not really
who they say they are.

You kids,
I care about your opinion.

Trust me, I care about it.

And I want you guys to be
comfortable.

I want you to be happy,

but people just don't understand
how amazing she really is.

Well, I've just seen
a couple red flags so far.

Well, if this fails
and I fall flat on my face,

I'm willing to take that hit.

As long as you even make it
back from Peru with all your kidneys.

I'm just saying.

I'm only being so skeptical
'cause I do care about you.

I appreciate that.

Yeah, thank you.

I do hope my dad is being smart

about Mahogany and not jumping
in too soon and getting over his head.

- All right.
- All right, man.

- Have a safe flight.
- Thank you.

Appreciate the ride.
And drive safe.

Thanks, bye.

I do want him to find
someone who really cares

about him and who he loves back.

But I'm not 100% sold
yet on her authenticity.

Lima, Peru, flight 977 on time.

Gate F10.

I have been catfished before.

And my friends and family
don't even think Mahogany is real.

But I feel confident about it because
I believe in the love that we have.

I have such a freedom
with Mahogany

that I've never had in my past,

especially when it comes
to the very religious,

controlled environment
I grew up in.

Everything
that I've been through,

I can completely
be honest with her.

She knows all my baggage
and she knows who I am.

But she accepts me for me,

and she loves me
unconditionally.

I'm just super excited to be
able to see Mahogany.

It's gonna be happening
within hours now,

getting closer and closer.

So haven't heard much
from her today,

just not a lot of communication,

but I know it's gonna be great.

Hold on.

Yes.

I'm...
I'm absolutely speechless.

I don't even know what to think.

My heart is just dropping
through my chest

because this actually
isn't the first time

that I've tried to meet
Mahogany.

About a month ago,

I was gonna fly down
for her birthday.

We were both super excited and
we were counting down the days,

even the hours,

but only three days
away from taking off,

she called and said
that I couldn't come

because she wanted me to meet
her parents and her parents were away.

But now hearing
that her dad was skeptical

about me makes me feel
really worried and nervous.

Here we go.

Heading to Peru.

Hey!

It's nice to know Jasmine
wants me a part of her celebration,

even though it's at
the end of the night.

Hello, Gino.

Shh!

Hello, Gino!

Hello, Gino!

Whoa!
Hey!

Hey.

The party is here.

Yeah!

Oh, yeah!

Gino, Gino, Gino!

Jasmine and her friends
definitely had a lot to drink.

But it's nice to know Jasmine
wants me a part of her celebration,

even though it's at
the end of the night.

Baby, I'm drunk.
I'm wasted.

- I know.
- I'm wasted!

You feel good?

Okay.

Did you have a good time?

Yes.

Oh, no, no.

Oh, no, no, no.

What the hell?
Who is this guy?

What the?

What is this?

Normal.

I can't remember that.

Oh, my gosh.

You know.
I mean, I don't like it.

Jasmine should have never
had a stripper at this party to begin with.

But, you know, why are...

why are her friends showing me
a video of Jasmine with a stripper?

What's the point of that?

- Bye, guys.
- Bye.

Bye, Gino.
Bye, Jasmine.

Bye.

And Jasmine's laughing
along with her friends.

You know,
why is she laughing with them?

It's like she doesn't
even care how I feel or...

or anything.

Baby.

Well, why is your friend
showing me videos of?

Why can't you guys
just keep it as secret?

Why do you have to put it
in my face?

Because we were not doing
anything bad.

How do you think it makes me feel
to see some guy dancing all over you?

How would you feel if I
showed you a video like that?

Some hot babe all over me
shoving her in my face

and rubbing her ass
all over my lap?

How would you feel?

Would you like it?

- No.
- So why do you do it to me?

So you're not gonna do it
again, right?

No.

It's great to hear Jasmine
apologize to me for a change,

but the way that Jasmine handled
the situation with the stripper,

it was kind of immature.

Um.

So let's go to bed.

Let's go.

It's hard 'cause, you know,

I'm trying to decide if I want to
propose to her by the end of the trip.

But right now, I really
don't know, to be honest.

Can you just come over here now?

Like why is there still
a discussion?

It's two weeks away.

I really do love him,

but it would be stupid of me
to keep waiting.

I'm scared, I can't trust you.

I am not gonna continue just
dating him for the rest of my life.

If we do not get married
while I'm here,

I don't want to go back
to the US

and be in a relationship
with you.

How are you doing?

I'm like...

we need to talk about like
a lot of stuff.

Johnny has a ticket to
go to Dubai in a couple of weeks.

But now he's worried about
coming to the United States

and he wants to delay the trip.

He claims it's because of COVID,

but I don't understand it because
he's vaccinated. He's smart.

He bought a total like hazmat
suit for traveling like I just...

it just...
it doesn't make sense to me.

It's really, really frustrating.

Okay, so I would like
you to come here

and stick with the trip
and not delay it any longer.

So please tell me
what you are thinking.

I don't think it is bad enough or risky
enough that you should choose to not come.

People are traveling
to other countries,

and they have been fine.

Like, I feel like there is stuff
that you're not telling me.

Like, do your parents
not like me or something?

Are your parents not wanting
you to come over here?

So they're okay with you marrying
a white woman from America.

You postponed in the past.

Why don't you just see
this through?

Can you stop being hesitant
and just come over here now?

Like, I mean, seriously,
you're driving me nuts.

Like, why is there still
a discussion?

It's two weeks away.

You going back and forth
every single day has,

like, taken emotional trauma
on myself.

I know
that you're sacrificing a lot,

so I have been understanding,

but this just doesn't seem...

This is on you.

I am not going to change
my opinion.

I want you here now.

That is where I stand.

No exceptions.

I feel enraged
and also super devastated.

I really want to wait
for him to get here,

but at the same time,

like I also want to be
happy now.

If Johnny can't commit
and come over here

to at least meet me in person,

like it's been on my mind
that I may have to move on.

I really do love him.

But it would be stupid of me
to keep waiting.

You have to think about it.

You have to make this decision.

Oh. Okay.

So I'm... stop.

Because of the lack
of Hamza's planning,

by time we get to Tunis,
where the embassy is,

the embassy will be closed.

So we're gonna spend
the night in the hotel

and go to the embassy tomorrow.

I just hope this delay does not
impact our plans to get married.

It's a frustrating situation

because I really need
someone in me and my kid's life

that we can trust and count on.

And Hamza is not showing me
that right now.

Oh!

Yeah, I'm tired.

What do you expect?

I just had a long drive.

Thanks for driving us.

Hotel. Finally.

Oh!

This is the room?

This is the whole room.

Oh, yes!

Oh, this is so nice!

Yes, I'm very happy.

So where can we get
something to drink?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Can I get to two Grey Gooses?

More. More. More vodka.

- More vodka.
- More vodka.

Yeah, in both.

Trying to get wasted.

Hamza kind of redeemed himself
with taking me to this beautiful hotel.

Yes!

We haven't slept together since
the first night when I got to Tunisia.

And I mean,
that night, it was fast,

like 30 seconds and done.

So this is his chance to really show
me what he's capable of sexually.

Mmm.

You like yours?

I am happy.

Don't drink too much.

You may not be able to do
sexy time.

Yes, I know.
No problem.

I am drink sexy time.

- Yeah.
- Okay. Oop!

No.

Okay.

Hmm.

Yeah.

Well, we need to like...

we need to talk seriously
about some stuff.

Serious talk.

You immature like with
your age 'cause you're young.

I'm scared I can't trust you.

So if we do not get married
while I'm here,

I don't want to go back
to the US

and be in a relationship
with you.

And if we do not get
married on this trip,

we're not gonna be in a
relationship when I go to America.

What? You mad?

Yes.

You said, "Marry me..."

Yeah.

I like... I like both.

You have to show
that you can do good for me.

I need you to be the man.

Okay?

I want that.

If we don't get married,

I do not want to continue
a long-distance relationship

because it is very tiresome
and very heartbreaking

to not be with the one
that you love.

It's just definitely too hard,
I think, on both parties.

And it's not something that I
want to do for the rest of my life.

So if Hamza really
cares about me,

he will make sure that
we get married on this trip.

We have to make things clear
in the next week.

- Yeah, yeah.
- Seriously.

- Yeah.
- We will.

- I hope so.
- Mmm-hmm.

I feel so defeated.

I'm not going to ask him
if he'll stay with me again,

I won't do it
the rest of this trip.

Oh.

Stop!

- Hi.
- Hi.

Can you take us to the
Sea Cliff Resort, please?

Okay.
No problem.

I feel so defeated.

Like, what's the point?

I thought
after a period of time,

he would stay with me.

Obviously,
I was wrong about that.

But now
that as we're getting closer

and the time is getting shorter,

it's like we should be...

we should be getting
to know everything

about each other
so we make the right decision.

I'm not gonna ask him
if he'll stay with me again.

I won't do it
the rest of this trip.

Let it be his decision now.

And that's gonna prove it.

I mean, I was upset.

I mean,
we have a lot to figure out,

but I pride myself on the fact
that I'm not like your ex-wife.

You know what I mean?

Like, I would never,
ever make you, like,

do things you don't want to do
and stuff.

I want peace too.

But we have to make
things clear in the next week.

- Yeah, yeah.
- Seriously.

Yeah, we will.

- I hope so.
- Mmm-hmm.

We will.

- Kim, Kim, Kim, Kim...
- Okay.

Kimberly!

Hey, beautiful woman.

Okay, you're so charming,
it's disgusting.

Ow!

Oh, my God.
Get out.

Thank you.

Oh, my legs hurt.

All right.

Don't do... Don't dap me up like
I'm your home girl or something.

- Bye.
- Bye.

I've always been the type of woman
that you just have to let stuff go.

I don't want to be
the nagging woman in his life.

This is Usman's time
to figure out

if he wants to be
in a relationship with me

and how his feelings are for me.

So that's the way
it's gonna be, I guess,

right now,
till we figure it out.

Oh.

Hi.

I'm surprised you're here.

Why do you say okay?
Why do you say okay?

What are you doing?

You just decided to come see me?

Okay.

Uh-huh.

If you want to stay here.

Oh, my God.

Like, I don't even know
if there's words to explain,

like,
what is going on inside of me.

He's about to stay with me
finally.

I'm really surprised that
Usman changed his mind.

But I am so excited.

I mean, tonight could be the
night that I have been waiting for.

Like, please let tonight
be the night.

So do you want to like,
watch a movie?

Just want to have sex? I just
thought I'd throw that in there.

I just thought I'd try.

Okay.

Can you just come cuddle
with me though?

Oh, you need a wall between us?

Damn.

Do you think... do you think
I would do that to you?

You might come over
on this side.

So maybe we need more pillows.

Make it really high.

Okay, what is yammy yammy?

What does that mean?

I know what a yam is.

Okay.

Well, I wouldn't know so.

I mean, you could show it
to me and let me see.

Let me
be the judge of your yammy.

Your yam.

You will know
when the time is right.

- Really?
- Yeah.

Will I know
before this trip is over?

Okay. Okay. Okay.

I'm really happy that Usman decided to
come into my room and sleep in my bed.

It shows me that he wants
to get closer to me too.

But I'm a little disappointed that
we are not going to have sex tonight.

I mean, we only have
this time together

before he goes back to Nigeria
and before I go back to the States.

So it's annoying
that I have to, like,

take these baby steps with Usman

when we don't have time
for that.

- Good night.
- Good night.

- Good night.
- Good night.

- Good night.
- Don't touch me over the border.

I mean, do we...

do we really have to keep
these pillows right here?

Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Please leave them.

I love them there.

See, you're holding the pillows.

You could be holding me
like that.

No, don't worry about that.

Stop it. Stop it.

Okay, your loss.

- Good night.
- Good night.

I don't really know
what Alina might be hiding.

And I don't know,
it's making me question a lot.

So I did tell you about my ex,

but it was actually
more serious than you thought.

So good night.

Good night.

I'm sure we'll see you before
you leave for the airport tomorrow.

See you later.

Do you need a hand?

Alina
and I are just getting back

from dinner with Elijah
and it's a weird mood

with this sort of an energy
hanging in the air.

I don't really know
what Alina might be hiding.

You know, I've trusted her.

And I don't know,
it's making me question a lot.

I'm feeling overwhelmed.

I'm starting to really,
really like him.

But Caleb is already afraid
of a commitment to me,

so I'm worried that if I'm
gonna come clean to Caleb,

I might just lose the chance of
him wanting to build a relationship.

So what happened back there?

Um.

So I did tell you about my ex.

Yeah, I know. I know
about that to some degree.

Yeah, but it was actually
more serious than you thought

'cause when I was talking
with you,

I lived with my ex
for a few months.

Was he your ex at the time?

No, not yet.

I don't know.

I just didn't want to tell you
too much about another guy,

but telling that I live
with him,

I don't know,
I was just kind of...

I didn't know
how you would react at all.

Just scary,
you know, 'cause, really,

I really value what we have.

And I was afraid that, like,

you are gonna be like,

"Oh, whatever, then."
I don't know.

I don't want to mess with that.

But I just really want to say that
I'm sorry that I hid things from you.

Yeah.

I can understand
the apprehension

that you weren't sure of
how I would take it

and you didn't want to mess
things up.

But I think this just reinforces

how we should take time
to get to know each other

'cause this didn't come out
until we were here in person.

I see it,
but I still know you 13 years.

Not in person though.

It took Elijah
to make this come out.

So in theory, I don't know what
other things you might be hiding.

Thirteen years of knowing you
and then it pushed you to be honest.

So that history
doesn't have the significance

you're making it
sound like it has.

I don't want to make any
commitment to you at this point.

We have a whole 'nother week
or so together.

But I think we really need to have
such conversation before we leave.

Yeah. And I've... I've agreed
to that already.

Okay.

And I think I've explained
all my reasons for waiting.

And again,
this solidifies my reasoning.

It's one thing that she stayed with
this guy while she was seeing me.

But it's another thing
that she kept me in the dark.

And not only that,

but she waited until we
came here to Turkey to tell me.

I want a relationship
that's built on trust

where I can actually
trust my partner

when she's halfway
across the world.

You know, she put me
and my feelings at risk

and didn't care enough
to tell me the truth.

And to find
this out makes me question

if it was a waste of time to even
come out here in the first place.

Hello.

Yeah. I had a...

I had a very special day
planned today,

but the rain, the weather,
it's not cooperating.

I'm going to change.

And let's go to the fireplace.

Okay.

Very hot.

It's nice and warm
'cause you're always cold.

I have things
I want to talk to you

about that I do not like
about you.

Okay,
we can talk about anything.

That is, when
you take off your clothes,

you can't take off your clothes
and leave them for everything.

Okay,
I'll definitely work on that.

I'm sorry about that.

I didn't mean
for that to happen.

I'm just wondering where...

where is this coming from.

I'm not farting in front of
Ximena intentionally just to do it.

It kind of just was an accident,

so makes me upset
that Ximena is like

calling me out on these things
that I can easily change.

It's not as bad as like
going to jail

or running away from kids
or killing people for money.

So I'm just surprised at how
fast like her attitude changed.

Fact that you're
already an old man.

I'm not going to live
as if I were your mother right now,

okay?

Okay. Okay.

That's fair.

I know I have a lot to work on,

but I want to work on those
things together to get better.

If you don't do your
part to change those little things,

this relationship
is not going anywhere.

Okay, I understand.

I got... Got it.

I didn't think Ximena had so
many doubts about our relationship.

And it really
hurts hearing this.

She should accept me for
who I am and work on my faults,

help me to work
on my faults together.

Even if I make my best effort
to change the habits

that she doesn't like,

it still concerning that she's
willing to throw away the relationship

because of something like that.

It makes me wonder if there's
something deeper going on that

I don't know about yet.

I don't know what else to say.

Next time on Before the 90 Days.

Hopefully headed
for the love of my life.

I've been thinking
about this first meeting

with Mahogany
for a very long time.

And even though Mahogany
expressed some doubts,

I don't see her giving up just because
her dad was questioning my intentions.

You know.

What are you gonna do?

I only have like one other
option that I was thinking.

What's that option?

I love her very much.

I do want to...
I do want to marry Ximena.

I want to talk
about prenuptial agreement.

If you do not sign the contract,

I do not want to marry you.

Why don't you want to have sex
with me, though?

I don't understand.

- Like this is so this...
- this is so crazy.

Honestly.

I think I made a big mistake.