90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 5 - False Starts and False Promises - full transcript

Previously on 90 Day
Fiance: Before the 90 Days.

Harold and Juan take
to me very well.

But I've always wanted
to have kids of my own someday

and that's something that me and
Ximena have actually talked about.

With Jasmine, I've learned
to not talk about my exes.

Wow!

You like it?

Did you kiss her, at least?

We did not kiss, man.

My feelings are hurt because I
want some affection from him.

I like him.



I really care about Alina
and I think she knows that.

I don't think
that's in question.

Let's go back to the room.

- Oh, hey there!
- Hi!

Why didn't you
tell me this earlier?

If Hamza and I are not able
to share a bed,

it's going to be
a really big problem.

Hi!

Oh!

Yes?

Thank you.

Do you think
your mother is upset?

I know, but weren't you
supposed to sleep out there?

Weren't you supposed
to sleep out there?



Do you think she heard anything?

You sure?

Okay.

Hamza decided to
sneak into my bedroom last night.

And I just couldn't say no.

But I'm very nervous that if
Hayet doesn't approve of me,

she may try to stop the wedding.

So I hope this situation is not gonna
mess things up with me and her.

Yes.

Because like,
I'm the guest in the house.

I have to respect her rules.

And I didn't respect her rules
last night.

But I don't really want her
to know that we had sexy time.

Okay?

I was really looking
forward to having sexy time

and I'm glad that it did happen

but, I mean, it was so quick. It was,
like, I bat an eye and it was done.

Yeah. It was bad, it was bad.

Sex is very
important to me in a relationship.

So if he can't
build up some stamina

that's gonna be a problem.

I know you're happy because
you got what you wanted.

So we not tell her we had sex,
you understand?

No, no tell
mother. Don't tell her this.

Just say we lay
and cuddle and hug.

So go talk to your mother.

- Yes.
- Okay.

How was everything?
Okay?

You happy?

Mother happy?

- What's up?
- What's up?

- You need a hand?
- No. I'm a strong and independent woman.

Hold on, hold on.
Maybe not so independent.

- You put the effort in. That's what counts.
- Yeah, I know.

Good morning.

How are you feeling right now?

Uh, good.

This is our second
morning here in Turkey together.

And last night I kissed Alina.

It felt like the right moment.

I was carrying her
up the stairs after dinner.

We finally had some alone time,

felt really good with
each other. It was great.

We did not have sex but we got
into a new level of intimacy,

so we've crossed
a new threshold.

So did you like the...

the dinner yesterday?

- I think it was pretty fun.
- It was fun, yeah.

I'm glad we got rid
of Elijah eventually.

But I really enjoyed our time
after he left.

Yeah.
I didn't want to wait anymore.

I noticed when we came back
to the room.

When we started
making out, it was just like...

It was like all that built up energy
was... we were connecting through it.

- Yes.
- So, I hope you had fun.

I... I was so ready.

It was such a passionate kiss. I did
not expect something like that from Caleb

because he's so reserved
and so chill.

I imagined our first kiss

to be a little more romantic,
like, more with... I don't know,

move in closer to each other,
slowly leaning in.

But, it was just,
um, like a thunder.

But I don't mind it.

But you know, I'm still
kinda, like, left with questions.

Because nothing further than
the kiss happened last night.

I wanted to have sex last night
but then just nothing happened.

It made me feel very confused,
like, why do you even start something

and in such a passionate way
and then you just stop it.

Is there a problem with me?

We took, you know, we took a
big step getting physical last night

but, I didn't feel like, um, a
need to push it all the way.

Because I'm still trying
to get used to some things

and just adjust to being
with you actually, physically.

There's... you're different
than some people.

It's just... it's sometimes difficult
because we're different heights.

I have to be crouched down
to really be next to you.

We got really heated. But Alina is different
than other women I've had sex with.

It started to get in my head
because of her size difference

and it kind of takes you out of that moment
and for me it was hard to get back in.

But I really care about her,

so my intention is
to get past this

and to be able to be physical
with her, intimate with her.

I just need a little more time.

It's just a little bit
different than normal for me.

- I understand... - You know
that I care regardless of how,

you know, of what you might want to
assume. Just know that I actually care.

Yeah,
it's just frustrating a bit.

I always want this kind of
fairytale, everything to be perfect,

to just, you know,
without any problems

but it never happens like this.

Well maybe it will.

You know, there's a connection
here which is deep and...

- I'm just trying to sort it out.
- Okay.

But we are, like,
moving forward, nevertheless.

Yeah, let's focus on the good,

- and let's go do something.
- Yeah.

- Can bring us closer.
- And we'll see what happens.

Okay.

All right, come here.

I'm grateful that he's
being honest with me.

But Caleb and I have less
than two weeks here in Turkey.

I'm worried
that he might not ever

be able to adjust to me and
finally, be comfortable around me.

I just want
to be normal in his eyes.

You want to go get some coffee
or something?

- Okay.
- All right

Okay, baby, where's your wallet.

I don't want Jasmine to see me
as, like, a walking cash machine.

I didn't know there's so much.

I think I might have to come
back and buy these another time.

Really?

Our first night together in bed was the
best time that I've ever had with a woman.

Are you gonna use
your new toothbrush today?

It charges
like a cell phone, right?

I forgot to plug it.

Yeah, we have to plug it in.

- Okay, baby, so...
- I'll show you how it works.

I arrived in Panama
a couple days ago.

So, I can say
goodbye to this thing.

Yeah, you can say
goodbye to... Oh, not quite yet.

- Ooh!
- Because

it's always good to have a manual
toothbrush in case you forget to charge it.

I have seen some
red flags with Jasmine as far as,

she can become jealous with
my interactions with other women.

- Do you want to plug it in?
- No, no, you do it.

But at the same time, Jasmine and I
are having a really great time together

and tomorrow is Christmas Day and I'm so
excited that I get to spend it with Jasmine.

- You just put that on here.
- Like this?

Yeah, like that.

- Ooh!
- And then you see the light, how it flashes?

That means it's charging.

Okay, is that good?

No, but it's not automatic?

I have a surprise.

- Oh, yeah?
- Yeah.

And our friendship started
by he being my hairstylist.

I mean, I care
for my hair a lot,

so I spend a lot of time
with Leo every week.

We are very close, so I want
Gino to make a good impression.

And so I'm gonna
take Gino shopping, today.

Leo is a very stylish person.

Gino is just the opposite.

Let's go, baby.

He's a very attractive man,
but...

like the right clothes.

You will look so
nice with something like this.

Uh...

And he doesn't
even play any sport.

Okay, so let's try with this.

Oh, and this color could
be good. You can try this other one

and if I like both
you can take them both.

- Yeah...
- Let's go, baby. Come.

- Okay.
- Yeah.

Something I've noticed is
I think Jasmine and I, um...

Take this one.
The one that is on the top.

- Um...
- Take it, take it.

Okay.

Okay, baby,
let's try this on. Come.

You can wear one
of these outfits tonight.

Yeah.

Of course, I want her to be
happy about what I'm wearing.

Baby!

Look at the difference. You
even have a booty. Let me...

At
The same time, the only thing is...

Since I've been out of work
for several months now,

I wasn't planning to,
like, buy a ton of stuff.

You even look like a
complete different person. I love it.

All right,
as long as you're happy.

Now, it's time to pay.

Hello!

Okay, baby, where's your wallet?

- It's in... How much?
- $512.

Five hundred big ones!

Yeah, I'm sorry, I...
I didn't know it was so much.

I think I might have to come
back and buy these another time.

- What?
- No, I'm serious.

Really?

Yeah.

I don't want to spend
$500 dollars on clothes right now.

- No?
- No.

I don't know.

I know she wants me
to improve my look

but I feel really uncomfortable

to be put on the spot to spend
this kind of money right now.

$500 in Panama
is 500 US dollars.

And I don't care
what country I'm in,

I am not going
to spend $500 on clothes.

- No problem.
- Okay.

Sorry.

I can tell Jasmine's upset.

I'm a little shocked because I know
she knows my situation right now.

I know she's trying to get me
to spend money on myself and not her.

But I don't want her to see me
as a walking cash machine.

You know, I don't want her
to think of me like that.

Okay.

I arrived in Colombia yesterday
and it's been a little intense.

Not only have I met Ximena.
I've basically met her entire family.

Ximena doesn't really
speak any English.

It's been, um, like a struggle
to communicate.

But last night, after we
finally got the kids to bed,

we had a romantic time together.

Um...

Um...

Our first night together in bed
was the best time that I've ever had

with a woman.

Ximena knocked it out
of the park.

Um, I had a great time
over and over again.

Um, I need help with that one.

Today, Ximena is taking me to her
favorite place in Colombia with her family.

Her family is nice.
They're great.

But I would have liked some
alone time, just me and her.

Just to get to know each other more
intimately and to work on our communication.

What are we doing today?

Okay.

- Cow.
- Cow.

- Cow.
- Cow.

It's like this oasis in the
middle of the rainforest.

And a very romantic setting with all
the beautiful mountains and waterfalls.

I just feel so close to her.

The sexy time, last night...

- Uh.
- Was pretty fast.

Is that always fast?

No, you ejaculate.

Water.

Stepping in water.

Yeah. It's beautiful.

Ooh.

Oh we nearly got ran over.

Ah.

Let's go.

After being discovered
in bed together,

it's a little bit awkward being
in the house with his mom.

So, Hamza and I

decided to kinda get out.

So that him and I can enjoy
our first full day together.

I only have three weeks
to be here,

and we need to take this time
to really dig deep,

and get to know each other
in person.

Oh, what's that?
That's pretty.

- Oh, I like.
- Yeah.

Me, get some exercise.

Me get fat.

No sidewalks?

We walk in the street?

- Where are we going?
- Yes.

Oh. Ooh.

Cats!

Oh, look.

I like that.

Walking through
the medina with Hamza

is really nice.

- I wanna take pictures.
- Okay, baby.

But I would like
to talk to him about,

you know,
what happened last night.

Oh, this is the cafe?

Very sexually attracted to him.

And I can tell he's very
sexually attracted to me.

But, the sex with Hamza,
it was very fast and furious.

And in the past
I have made the mistake of

being in a relationship
with someone that

I didn't have
sexual chemistry with.

And that's something
that I will never do again.

So, the first step is just us
being able to be

open and honest with each other.

Yeah, I like it.

Oh, cappuccino.

Yeah.

We're alone now.

So, um.

The sexy time, last night...

- Uh.
- Was pretty fast.

Yeah, I don't know about that.

Is it always fast?

No, like you ejaculate,

you fast, because...

You haven't
had sex in a long time.

- It's been a long while, multiple months.
- No.

Okay.

- I know, I know.
- No sexy. So you fast.

Your tea.

Oh, thank you.

So, how many
relationships have you had,

where you've had sexy time?

I make five?

You have sexy time
at mom's house?

- Me? Only me?
- Yes.

- Yeah.
- Yes.

No mother, no mad?

She said, she was angry?

- Yes.
- Okay.

No, it's not okay.

I want your mother

to understand that

I'm a good person and I don't
want her to be angry at me.

Hmm.

Hamza mother's opinion
means a lot to me

because family
is important to me.

But, I'm worried that if Hamza
and I cannot share a bed,

we will not be able
to build that connection,

that intimacy, that I am looking
for before we get married.

And that's gonna be
a big problem for me.

Are you going to live together,

like in Russia or in America?

This is great conversation, but
something that we should be talking about.

But like, she's my friend.

I'll just, I'll just
wait over here.

- All right. We are here.
- Okay.

This is the infamous gym.

The infamous gym.

Oh, my gosh.

Last night, we finally
shared our first kiss.

I'm excited but,

I feel like there's a lot more,

that we can work towards.

Especially with
getting more intimate.

Well, you're looking good.
You got the water.

- Yes.
- I don't really know about the outfit though.

I'm not a gym person at all,
but that's what Caleb likes.

So, it's just another fun way
to do something together.

- Are you ready?
- No.

- Oh, you're not ready. I can see it.
- No.

All right.
We are gonna start out.

Let's like curl, for your arm.

Okay, maybe I can
grab like this.

Yeah, there you go.

Yeah, this exercise is gonna
promote endorphins in your brain.

Okay, now we are gonna
do the treadmill.

We are gonna go for a brief run.

Run?

You feel it in any of your
glutes yet? Right back here.

- No.
- Hmm.

I don't feel sick.

You must be just really strong.

All right. Go for it.

There you go, try and kiss me.

It's very far.

Motivation.

So close.

Alina impresses me.

She does not shy away
from the activity.

The gym isn't Alina's thing.

So it shows me that

Alina really cares about me
and is invested in me,

which is really heartwarming.

Oh, good job.

So tell me about
your friend Maria.

She's very fun and outgoing.

We studied together
in university.

And then she moved to Turkey.

So, I'm very excited
to see how she lives.

Oh, that's cool.

Caleb and I, we are going
to dinner at Maria's.

We are good friends
for almost ten years already.

And I don't want him
to influence

Maria's perception of Caleb.

I don't know how
she's gonna react to you,

but I hope everything
is gonna be fun and,

you know, just good vibes
and atmosphere.

Well, I wore this good shirt,
so hopefully she likes it.

Um, you think it's good?

Hey!

Hi, this is Caleb.

Yeah, I'm Caleb.

And this is me.

Kaleb or Caleb?

- Caleb.
- Okay.

She calls me Kaleb,
I'm like, who cares.

You can call him whatever.
You can call him, "Hey, you."

Hey, you.

Guy, could you
take off your shoes?

- Definitely.
- Of course, we are not from the US.

I'm really happy that
they could come together.

Because I want to see
what Caleb wants with Alina.

Like to have
some future together,

or that just going back
to their countries

and like, that's it,
their story is finished.

I don't know.

- Welcome to Turkey.
- Thank you.

Yeah.

- Cheers guys.
- Whoo-hoo. Cheers!

Okay, so, uh, we started to
have this kinda inside joke about

mail-order bride.

And he was like,
"Yeah, you gotta apply,

to be my mail-order bride."

And then, I'm like, "Well,
okay, challenge accepted."

So I took a video,
doing different things.

Just like, you know,
talking about me.

- She's assertive and she's funny.
- Okay.

Well, now.

- Really close.
- Very close.

But, you have to be ready
for the future.

Are you going to live together,

like in Russia or in America?

I think planning about
living together is,

you know, a little extreme.

I feel like we should spend
this time right now

getting to know each other,

and not try to write down
any permanent plans on paper.

Uh, yeah.

Each girl, like wants to have
some life plan.

This is, I think maybe,
a great conversation,

but something that
we should be talking about.

Sorry if I'm asking
questions like that,

but like, she's my friend.

I'll just, I'll just
wait over here.

I want to know some direction.

Where we going?

What's gonna happen next?

We have to, I think agree
on something.

But based on his reaction
to Maria asking questions,

I'm worried about
not getting answers

from Caleb
by the end of our trip.

I need to talk to you about
something very important.

I cannot have children.

I need to talk to
you about something very important.

Okay, what do you
have to tell me?

I cannot have children.

I had surgery and I can't have
more children, ever.

Um.

Why haven't I found out
about this sooner?

I was very nervous
that suddenly you were going to leave me

because I can't have children.

Uh, what made you decide to

get that operation?

You are angry with me?

I just wish
you would've told me.

I just don't want any
secrets between us.

It's the 21st century,

there's always other things
that could be done

if you want to have children.

Oh.

If by
chance there are no operations

to be able to have children,
then what would happen?

This is really big news.

Um, and it's something that
I have to really think about.

I really don't know
what to think.

Because we've talked
about this on the phone.

About someday, wanting to
have at least one more kid.

And she knows that...

it's always been
a dream of mine.

If Ximena and I can't have
children of our own, um...

I'm gonna be really devastated.

So, I really don't know where
we're gonna go from here.

What?

Seeing this text,
I feel devastated.

I don't know
what we're gonna do.

Okay, baby.
So, we're ready. You're good?

- Yeah, I got everything.
- So, you are wearing

your cute, comfortable sandals.

You don't like 'em?

Um...

It's been a few hours
since Jasmine and I went shopping,

and it got intense because I wasn't
ready to buy $500 worth of clothes.

Let's go.

I know Jasmine wants me
to impress her friends.

But for me, this is who I am.
This is...

You know.

So, Leo is

going to meet us
at the restaurant?

Yeah.

Awesome.

Your hairstylist, right?

This is the restaurant.

- Is this it?
- Yes.

Gracias.

Here.

Isn't it a nice place, babe?

- This is beautiful.
- Right?

I feel like I'm in the backyard
in my house or something.

I'm a little nervous to meet
one of Jasmine's friends.

But, I'm also excited because

this will create an opportunity for
me to learn more about Jasmine.

So, Leo...

- Gino!
- Nice to meet you.

Hmm?

I love Panama. Of course,
the most important thing is her.

You look like an honest person.

Oh yeah, no.

- Baby.
- Baby?

- Uh...
- No?

No.

I feel terrible
for not telling him

about taking
the birth control pills.

We've been having
unprotected intercourse

and he is like, daydreaming
about having kids.

He even said, like... Oh, he was
even picking up names for girls.

Jesus Christ.

- Look at that. Thank you.
- Looks good, thank you.

I wouldn't mind having
another kid, but that can wait.

Maybe because
I already have kids.

And I know
what a big commitment it is.

Oh, my gosh.

Mmm!

What do you think about me
so far?

I think you are amazing,
you know?

She's everything I want
in a woman.

Aw. Aw...

Yes.

So, what's the translation?

That I'm very positive and cheerful,
happy all the time, most of the time.

Mmm. Wine's
good.

- So, Leo...
- Huh?

Have you ever
seen Jasmine, um...

all of a sudden get upset,
really upset?

Um, and it kind of
surprised you?

Yes.

- Yes?
- Yes.

Um...

He's telling you that
I'm like a puppy.

- Okay.
- But don't worry, baby. I'm not...

- I'm a cute puppy. I'm a bunny.
- I know.

Absolutely. I totally...

My goal coming to
Panama was to propose to Jasmine.

And start a family.

And over the nine months
that I've known her,

I've seen Jasmine
get really, um...

upset. And, and...
jealous.

You know she's like
a little bomb, you know?

- Welcome. Cheers!
- Whoo! Cheers!

Merry Christmas.

But hearing about, you
know, some of these moments

where she loses control,

it just makes me think is...

"Is this what I'm gonna see
in the future?"

You know...

Concerns me a little bit.

That's good.

My online boyfriend, Johnny,
is the man of my dreams.

Johnny and I have been chatting for a
year-and-a-half now and I couldn't be happier.

I have never felt more loved
than I do now.

And he's supposed to fly to Idaho in a few
weeks, so we can finally meet in person.

But, there's still no word
on Johnny's visa.

Johnny says that he won't know
what the visa thing says until Monday.

My anxiety can't take it
anymore.

I'm definitely looking forward
to when he's here, but...

before Johnny gets here, I would
like to lose at least 10 pounds.

Hopefully 20, but at least ten.

So, that's why I'm going to
the gym right now to work out.

I do feel that my weight really
changes the way that guys react to me.

If I were smaller, I guarantee
you that I would be a hot chick.

And that men would be over me,
like, like...

Syrup on pancakes.

There was this one guy
that I met online one time.

And he, like, I showed him
pictures and stuff like that.

But when I went to go
meet him, he was like,

"You're bigger
than I expected."

Like, I tried everything to show you
that I was big and I told you I was big.

So, I have that fear with
Johnny that he'll get here

and he'll be like, "You know
what? You are bigger than I thought.

I can't do this." So...

But I have expressed that fear and he
has reassured me that he will not do that.

So, but I mean, talk is cheap.

Sometimes. Most times.

Today, I would like to to meet with
a trainer to work on some weights

and get some
exercise regimens going.

- Hi, Ella. I'm Amanda. I'm the personal trainer here.
- Hi, Amanda.

If you wanna take a seat at the table,
I'll grab some paperwork real quick.

Okay, thank you.

It's so important

that Johnny is attracted to me
and even though Johnny has said

he loves me as I am now,

I have been learning
that he is not very direct.

Like, he tries to say things in the most
polite way and to not offend anybody.

And so, sometimes I'm worried that Johnny
just tells me things that I wanna hear

when it comes to my appearance.

So, Ella...

What's your fitness goals
looking like?

I have a boyfriend coming over
from China.

- Oh, wow! That's exciting!
- Yeah, so...

I want to lose ten pounds before
he gets here, 'cause I'm worried

that if he gets here, I'm
like, too big or, you know

- all the stuff that women go through, so.
- Okay.

Well, I'd like to work
with ya. Let's go see

- if we can find a workout bench, okay?
- Perfect. Thank you.

So isolate that muscle.
Good! Yeah.

Slow and controlled movement.

You're doing so great.

It's definitely hard
for me to...

go to the gym,

because I feel like
everybody's watching me.

A lot of the times, my anxiety
gets too bad and I have to leave.

I just hope that Johnny can appreciate
what I'm doing to look my best for him.

Good job.
You got this.

What?

Well, Johnny just said that his
visa got denied to Singapore.

It said, "Baby, my visa, my
Singapore visa got denied."

So...

Seeing this text,
I feel... devastated.

And now, I can't get
through to him.

Like, I don't understand
why it didn't get approved.

The plan has always been

for him to get a Singapore visa.

And go from there to the US.

So now, I just, I don't know
what we're gonna do.

I'm definitely really worried
that this is...

gonna be the first step to him never
being able to make it to the United States.

She wants to judge me. I don't understand
where she is coming from, frankly.

She has had a divorce, too.

Oh! Ah, ah!

Oh...

Oh, my...

Oh, my gosh. Ew.

Oh... Oh!

Hmm. Oh.

Oh, no!

Okay.

Knife?

After being discovered
in bed together with Hamza,

I know that Hamza's mother
was not happy.

So, I have to do whatever
I can to get into, like,

the good graces
of his mother right now.

But gutting this fish
is totally disgusting.

Okay. Ugh!

Uh-huh.

Oh...

No.

It feels gross.

And the fact that I have no
clue what she's saying

does not really
help the situation.

Mmm...

Eat?

Mmm...

You like?

Is it good?

- Him sleep here.
- Mmm. Okay.

- And me, sleep there.
- Ah.

Okay. All right.

Mmm-hmm.

Mmm.

Mmm-hmm.

Oh.

Okay.

Ah...

No good relationship together.
Just friendship.

Just friends.
No good marriage.

Mmm.

Mom.

She's scared?

Oh, why? She thinks
we would divorce?

No, it's up to you,
if you are gonna come

to come to America
and be a good man to me.

I'm a good woman.

I don't know why Hamza's
mom thought that I've had two marriages.

I don't know if it's
because I have

two children
by two different fathers.

But I take marriage
very seriously.

I definitely wouldn't
marry someone

that I didn't feel like I loved,
and would really honor me.

And I don't understand where
she is coming from, frankly.

Because she has had
a divorce too.

She wants to judge me,
but I mean,

she should understand
where I'm coming from.

She's sad.

Uh,

Well, she doesn't have
to be scared. Tell her.

Tell her that I will
make sure you're okay.

The toothbrush.

I probably should've waited
till Christmas to give it to you,

but I was so excited.
I just couldn't wait.

So, that's the Christmas gift
you planned?

Yeah.

No.

You're so funny
when you speak in Spanish.

Merry Christmas.

Today is Christmas. And it's strange
not spending Christmas with my family.

But it feels so good
to be waking up with Jasmine.

I'm cooking for you today.

Even though I have
a few concerns

about her, you know,
jealousy issues,

um, her temper. That she can
blow up in a moment's notice.

Still, I think she's like,
one in a billion.

So...

I'm helping you
or you do it by your own?

Oh, you can sit. Today's
your day. I cook today.

You're so sweet.

Hurry up. I'm hungry.
I'm not kidding.

I don't cook that much. But
breakfast is one of my specialties.

Um...

Uh-huh.

- Um.
- Would you like, uh, two?

Is that good?

Um.

I told him, like a dozen times I
don't eat any animal products.

But, he doesn't listen.

You like it?

I'm very happy
that you've made this for me,

but vegans don't eat eggs.

Okay, I didn't know.
Okay, so now I know.

Um.

Yeah, I think I'm starting to
understand vegan more.

Really? What is it?

Oh, no.

Well, you know,
you don't... eat animals.

Only eating...
Well, eating...

The kinds of food
that are involved with vegan.

She is the first vegan
that I've ever eaten with.

Man or woman.

Like, that I'm aware of.

So, I have to like,
understand what it all means.

And it's gotta absorb
in my mind.

Forget about food.

Let's get back into bed.

So, baby. I have
some presents.

Yeah?

Oh, you're so good to me!

Always.

Wow.

Merry Christmas, Papi!

Oh.

- Thank you so much.
- Open it.

- There's some shirts in here, huh?
- Yes.

And this is mine.

Look.

Yeah, the shirt is telling
the truth. She is crazy.

Um, but in a good way.

Aw.

So creative.

I love this.
This is the best kind of gift.

- Yes.
- You're so sweet.

Oh, my God.

- Baby, mine? My gift.
- Huh?

Um, you know,
I'm so sorry. I...

The toothbrush.

I probably should've waited
till Christmas to give it to you,

but I was so excited to give
it to you, I just couldn't wait.

And, um. But, um...

So, that's the Christmas gift
you planned?

Yeah.

All I'm getting is a toothbrush.

He gave it to me
when he arrived.

Or, you know, like,

No.

I've seen what
you've done for...

- What?
- Yes, yes!

You're on social media.
The pictures.

No.

Uh... Wait a second.

When I went on vacations before,

I had money to go on vacations.

Right now, I've been off
of work for seven months.

You understand.

Or, it's maybe just like,
you don't care about me.

I don't think Jasmine is
seeing the sacrifice I made

for coming to Panama and not
being with my family for Christmas.

The only thing that matters
to her is, uh...

What did I do
with my exes in the past.

She, um, seems to be a little more
materialistic than I was expecting.

Okay, so no Christmas gift
for me.

- No, I gave you a toothbrush.
- Yeah, sure.

Come here.

Tonight, we just having fun.

Hold on.

Hold on.

- There we go.
- Cool.

Yes.

We just finished having
dinner with Alina's friend, Maria.

And a lot of stuff has happened
tonight, that has put me off.

Like, Maria pushing for answers,

and this whole
speaking in Russian thing.

Maria's right, that Alina and I
need to figure out our future.

But we have more than a week to figure
this out. And I don't wanna be pushed.

You ready?

Yep. Finally.

This is too sensitive a matter.

I don't wanna rush
into anything.

And end up hurting Alina
or myself, in the process.

Just touching.

- Seeing if it grew.
- Oh, I thought you were trying to get my attention.

No, seeing if it grew.

So, your friend
brought up some good points.

- Mmm.
- I just don't feel like they're things...

- We... -...that I wanna
worry about right now.

You know, enjoying our time
will help us to understand

deeper aspects of one another.

And based on what we learn, and just
what we discover about our own chemistry,

we will figure out what works
for us or what we should do.

It just seems silly to try
and make a plan right now.

When, you know, we've
only been together, in person,

for a small amount of time.

Because we're working off
very limited knowledge.

We better, if we're making
a long-term plan,

it would be better to do that under,
you know, the best information possible.

No, she was nothing
compared to Elijah.

But um, I feel a little bit bad

that we spoke Russian
in front of you.

- I mean, I get it.
- Too much, maybe?

But it was a lot,
so thank you for apologizing.

- I'm sorry.
- It's okay.

Come here.

- Is this it? Oh, yeah.
- Yeah.

All right.

You're so mean.

I respect my friend's
opinion and I agree that,

we can't just leave
without a plan.

But I don't wanna be too
pushy with Caleb right now.

Tonight, we just are together.

Having fun.
So, it's okay

Here we go.

Hold on.

Hold on.

God.

I can.

Let's see what you can do.

I can do a lot.

Get these off.

Aren't you gonna untie them?

- Feels weird we haven't done this before.
- Oh.

Maybe we get the lights off,
or something?

I got you.

Next time on

Before the 90 Days.

Today is Usman's
video shoot, for the song, "Zara".

Why are we cutting his hair
the day of his video shoot?

Why is Usman running around
looking for his own clothes?

It's so unorganized,
it's terrible.

I'm embarrassed for him.

Boss lady Kim,
is gonna come out,

and they don't wanna see that.

Literally.

Shut the up.

Yes, girl!

Have you guys
video chatted at all?

Uh, no. She's just very shy.

This does not add up.

I have been catfished before.

But I know Mahogany
is a real person.

We just keep connecting every
single day, deeper and deeper.

And you can't fake that.

Ben, I think you're
being scammed.

Has she ever asked
for any money?

I lived with a hitman.

It's just one thing
after another, after another.

Are you absolutely sure he's not
gonna come back and hurt any of us?

No, he told me last year
that he just turned 28.

You lied.

I feel very betrayed.
I feel like,

The colors look good.
That's my opinion but...

Why you defend her so much?

Tell me the truth.

You always make me look crazy.

- I never said...
- Yes! You do!

You're always defending
that that bitch.

Jasmine's behavior is totally
unwarranted and it's a little scary.