90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 4 - Ghosts from the Past - full transcript

Previously on 90
Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.

I like sex, a lot.

- Take off your shoes.
- My shoes?

I've been excited
for this night to happen,

but, I'm a little bit nervous.

Uh... It's been a while, yeah.

- Baby?
- Huh?

Take off your hat.

No.

Hi.

Hi. I'm just gonna hug you.



You know,
I'm excited to see you, but...

I... I have no mental energy,

my brain is just like
falling apart as we talk.

You understand what I mean?

Kind of.

You are tired
and you wanna go to bed?

Johnny is my Asian Prince
boyfriend from China.

Even with a way he said, "I will
help and support you to lose weight."

It does creep up in
my mind than in person

he may be surprised
by how big I am.

I don't wanna see you get
your heart broken again.

Oh, my...

I'm more than a fan now.

I'm here, like, he invited me
to watch the video.



We're not gonna argue
about this.

We have a limited amount of time
to figure out where Usman and I are going.

I just hope
she's the same person

that she said she is,
on the phone.

Because if I find out she's
been using me this whole time,

my heart would be broken.

Thank you.

I just landed in Colombia to,
finally, meet Ximena for the first time.

I've invested a full
year into this relationship.

And what makes me the most
nervous about meeting Ximena is...

I don't know how she's
going to react to me.

Is the chemistry gonna be
there in person?

Is she who she says she is?

Oh, my God.

Hola.

Oh, Mike.

My first impression, seeing
Ximena is extremely happy.

First kiss was amazing.

I have an idea
she, uh, a little bit.

Thank you.

- Si.
- Si.

I know we're just starting
to get to know one another.

So, I'm hoping that Ximena
knows that she can trust me.

I would never lie to Ximena.

But it does make me feel good
that Ximena is claiming me as hers

because that shows me that she
really truly, genuinely loves me.

It's kind of hard
to connect with Ximena

because... communicating
on the phone is easy,

you can text someone,
translate it,

but, in person, it's different
from what I was expecting.

I hope our communication
improves quickly

because we have less
than two weeks

to get to know each other

and... I wanna propose
by the end of this trip.

- Hey, good morning, Alina.
- Hi.

Oh, you brought me coffee?

- Turkish coffee.
- Oh, wow.

It's our first
morning in Turkey together.

And it's, kind of, surreal
waking up next to Alina

'cause we've known each other
for 13 years,

and now, here we are, in the
same bed, walkin' up together.

No cream.

- This is good.
- Just like the Turks do.

Oh, well, maybe...
Maybe, you'll get lucky.

We didn't have sex,
didn't even kiss.

I was just wasn't feelin' it.

There is...
things getting in my head.

I'm realizing
our physical differences

and I was really tired
from this trip.

It's not the ideal set up
for magic to happen.

How was your night?

Well... you want me
to be honest about it?

Yeah, get up
here, and tell me about it.

I'm gonna steal a little bit
from you, so...

Okay, you can have it.

So, actually...

I was very, you know,
upset yesterday.

- Yeah?
- Yeah.

'Cause you went
to take a shower,

and, then, you came back
and I went to wash my face

for, like, literally, ten
minutes or something like that,

- and you were already sleeping when I came back.
- Yeah.

Where were my cuddles?

Yeah, I mean, ten minutes is
a long time to wash your face

and when you're half way dead,
it's just you conk out.

But, you're getting cuddles
now, so, here.

I mean, I wanted them yesterday.

My feelings are, kind of, hurt

because I want some affection
from him. I like him.

It's been 13 years, we always
wanted to meet each other

and to do the stuff
with each other.

And, then, it finally happens
and he just does nothing.

Like, it's illogical.

It just felt like you
weren't excited or anything.

No. Not begging, I mean...

It's okay, I'm not like
a thirsty-ass bitch.

Why you're laughing?

Like, it's all f... it's like a joke for
you or something. I don't get it.

I'm just in a good mood today.

Like, now that I've slept
I'm in a whole different...

Different world,
different energy,

and I'm happy to be here.

But, why we, right now,
make the most of it.

- See, is that better?
- Hmm. Kinda.

You fit in here perfectly.
This is like the perfect size.

Yeah.

- It's nice hugging you, finally.
- Yeah.

- So, it's worth to wait?
- I don't know yet.

I do feel like he's
warming up to me a little bit.

He's got big arms,

which, kind of, like,
fit around me

and I feel so small

and... I don't know,
protected.

And... he has
a really nice body

and it's fun to touch him

and... yeah, wanna touch more.

Do you want me to get
you the gifts for you now,

do you wanna see these?

- Uh... A bit.
- I feel like I buttered you up a bit.

- A bit.
- But, they better be good, okay.

This is my gift suitcase.

I think you'll like this a lot.

This is a little piece of home.

Oh.

Tumbled stones are made from
tumbled weed. Tumbled weeds.

Oh, so, it's like, basically,
made from trash kind of thing.

That nobody wants and like...

I would say
it's a recycled necklace.

- Oh, ecofriendly.
- Ecofriendly.

Oh, that I like, okay.
Okay, put it on.

- There you go. A little piece of my home.
- Yeah.

Also, I was thinking, I
work out a lot, you don't.

That's cool, but, I wanna hike

and you... you might hike,
if you could, right?

- Yeah.
- Like, if it didn't tire you out,

if you could roll on you
wheelchair around the mountains...

Yeah, yeah, would be cool.

- So, I've got...
- Oh.

A backpack.

To carry me?

So, I put this on...

on me and, then, you go...

along the back.

So, your head will pop out here,

you feet will go
through the sides.

I think carrier
is a pretty cute idea.

Maybe, some people
might find it offensive,

but, I'm, kind of, touched

that he tries to think
of different ways

to do something together.

So, where's Elijah?

Uh, I think he's in his room.

I would like to meet him.

Yeah, let's just get ready
and we'll see him.

I'm really excited
to hang out with Alina

and I feel like
we have a lot of chemistry,

but, I'm gonna be meeting
with Elijah in a little bit, too.

Let's get you in the shower.

And I'm a little apprehensive because
it might be awkward to have third wheel.

That's gonna be interesting
to see how that goes.

Thank you, thank you.

What?

- What?
- No.

Like a date?

Maybe, you should go
by yourself.

I'll flip the table when I walk
out 'cause I don't play that.

I'm coming.

I know.

It looks nice.

I just landed in Tunisia

where I met my fiance, Hamza,

for the first time, in person.

But, after eight months
of video chatting,

meeting Hamza, like for,
you know, face to face is...

a little different.

How are we getting home?

How are we getting home?

Yeah, how are we
gonna get there, are you gonna drive?

Drive car?

Okay.

Who's gonna drive, you or me?

Your friend?

Where are we going?

This is so awkward.

He is trying to talk to me,

but, I think,
with our language barrier,

we're just having a little bit more
difficulty than I was expecting.

Thank you. Nice to meet you.

Big muscles.

Okay.

Ah!

How long to your house?

Two hours?

What?

Why this?

Look, no.

Because!

In a past relationship,

I did have a problem
with lack of intimacy

and that really did something
to my self-esteem.

It really made
my self-esteem really low.

I am so, so nervous

because I want him to like me,
I want him think I'm beautiful.

To, like, have those same
feelings that he had for me

when we were,
you know, messaging.

I just wanna sure you like me.

Happy, happy?

Okay.

No. You, cold?

You want sexy time, tonight?

You have
something you need to tell me?

What?

Mm.

Uh...

What?

You're not gonna...

- You're not gonna be with me?
- Mm-hmm.

Why... why didn't you
tell me this earlier?

I asked you a lot of times,

where am I gonna sleep,

you said
I'm gonna sleep with you.

So, you told me a lie.

I'm pissed Hamza told me that I
could sleep in the bed with him.

We have two weeks
before the wedding

and if Hamza and I
are not able to share a bed

and find out if our
intimacy is there and, then,

it's gonna be
a really big problem.

Hm.

All these things now.

Ah!

Oh...

I can't have swollen ankles.

It's the price of beauty.

I'll tell you,
the price of beauty.

My ankles have been swollen
for two days, now,

from flying half way across the
world to Tanzania to meet Usman,

aka, Sojaboy, a Nigerian singer.

He is shooting this music
video, here, in Tanzania

and he invited me here
to see if we're meant to be.

I need my boobs and my back

to look greater than my ankles.

Ha!

I am ready
to secure this relationship,

but, Usman moves a little
slower than I would like.

And that's why he didn't
stay with me last night.

But, he invited me to his
team meeting this morning.

I just hope, after this,
we could get some alone time.

I have to look my best.

We're here for a music video
shoot, but also we're here for work.

- Hi, Kim!
- Hey!

- Come over here.
- Hi. How are you?

- Hi.
- Hello.

You too, Sojaboy.

- No, I called you that yesterday.
- No, you called me Usman.

Kim-barley.

Is it like a date?

- Or something?
- No!

Well, maybe you should go
by yourself.

- Huh?
- Maybe you should go by yourself.

Seriously.

No, I'm not pissed.
It's fine. Yeah.

Okay.

Why you breathe like that?

What's
that? What's that about?

What the hell is going on?
Because you invited me here.

So why are we going to meet
some other chick? I don't understand.

A part of me is wondering if
his team planned this on purpose,

like, to push me out of the way.

So maybe they can me like, hey, this is
the kind of woman Usman should be dating.

If I do see any kind of like flirty, flirty
thing going on with Usman and this chick,

then I mean I will get up.

I'll flip the table
and I'll walk out.

'Cause I don't play that, so.

- No, I'm fine.
- It's okay. Kimberly is okay.

That's the year I was born.

I'm just joking.

Hi,

most welcome.

Wow, that's beautiful, huh?

Thank you.

Yeah, this place is like really,
really pretty. It's beautiful.

- Yeah, it's nice.
- But why are we here?

Like, why are we meeting
this woman?

Okay.

This is tough for me because I want
to be supportive of Usman's career.

But I only have a limited
amount of time with him.

So, he really should be
prioritizing one-on-one time with me.

Maybe I should have just stayed
at the hotel? Maybe I should have?

No, maybe it would
have been better.

Maybe it would have been better.

Okay.

Thank you.

- For you ma'am.
- Oh, it feels so good.

Usman.

Usman?

First night together,
it was so good.

Last night I was very surprised
about Gino's performance.

But, at least I was able
to touch his head.

I am so happy that I could
host a gathering this time.

Oh, yeah.
It's nice to see your house.

Love the tapestry,
very gorgeous.

In just over a month my
incredible boyfriend, Johnny

will be flying over from China
to meet me for the very first time.

In person.

Johnny and I have been
chatting for a year and half,

and we are completely in love.

So, Johnny's quitting his job

and he's gonna spend a few
months with me here in Idaho.

I have had a terrible time
with men in my life.

So this time
I want things to go perfectly.

And what better way
to make that happen

than by manifesting it
with witchcraft.

Now I cast a sacred circle
from east to west and north to south.

Guided by spirit to manifest, I call
upon, Mother Moon and Father Sun.

I've been wiccan for,
like, a year.

But I've dabbled
in it since college.

And I am in a coven, we are
called The Sacred Journey.

I like witchcraft because it kind of
helps you make your own destiny.

We're doing spells to better
ourselves, or our situation.

And, I don't know, it just feels
like a proactive way to live my life.

Well I brought you some stuff
today to help you with a love spell.

I'm gonna have you make some
moon water, some new moon water.

Just fill it with some purified
water, put it in the window sill.

Make sure you take it out before the
sun hits it, it'll change its properties.

Rose is the herb of love.

So, you'll want to put
lots of rose in it, if you can.

- And use as much as you need.
- There ya go.

So my clear quartz,
obsidian to help keep out negativity.

And then don't forget to make
your new moon water, so you can seal it.

Thank you for doing this
for me. I really appreciate it.

Hoping that this will
really help us out.

Stupid?

You have a problem?

I just don't think
you should say stupid.

She's just my ex-wife
and that's that.

I slept great.

First night together,
it was so good.

Yesterday I flew from Detroit
to Panama City, Panama,

to meet my 34-year-old
girlfriend, Jasmine, for the first time.

She, um, blew me away.

Sorry, I'm just laughing.

I don't know.
I'm just having the gigglies.

Give me kiss.

You're a good kisser.

Lucky me.

I was very surprised about
Gino's performance.

And, everything was working
better than I expected.

Yes, you did a good job.

Just for the record,

I did not need the
little blue pills last night.

And I was just fine.

I wasn't expecting it
to be so good.

Oh, my God.
Thank you for the compliment.

We had such good sex.

But, I was like,
please stop wearing your hat.

And he did, when he
turned off the light so...

But at least I was able
to touch it...

- So I'm looking forward to a full day with you.
- Yes.

I can't wait.

- Okay.
- Come, baby.

- Look at all these old buildings.
- I know.

So different, right?

Beautiful. Look at
how old fashioned it looks.

I'm very excited
to show Gino Old Town.

A shot glass or something?

Let me see, um...

Baby, what if you,
instead of having decoration

in your house
about your old trips,

I wanna see things that
remind me of my country.

Not your stupid ex-wife.

Stupid?

You have a problem?

I don't think you need
to say she's stupid, but.

No, I just don't think
you should say stupid.

She's just my ex-wife
and that's that.

So, pick up a magnet

and I wanna see when
you replace it with the other...

- Panama magnet.
- Yes.

I'm trying to see
which on I like.

One that says,
PANAMA, big letters.

This one here.

Oh, this is Panama map.

- I like this one, it's got the beach and Panama.
- Let's take it, babe.

Come.

Over the last
nine months with Jasmine,

one thing I've learned to
do is, not talk about my exes.

Thirteen, okay.

Because there's been a couple
of times where she got so upset,

she wouldn't talk to me
until the next day.

They are dead.

Okay.

Ooh, baby!

But there's things Jasmine
doesn't know about my exes,

and knowing what I know
about Jasmine's jealousy,

I worry about what she would do if
she ever found out that I was still...

friends with one of my exes.

Ready to go! Let's
get going! Gracias!

Gracias.

I wasn't expecting to meet
her entire extended family.

It's nice to meet everybody.
For the first time.

I just got here
to Colombia from New York,

and seeing Ximena in person
for the first time.

It just takes the relationship
to a whole different level.

But communicating through
a translation app is tough.

And on top of that, I'm about to meet her
kids, and they don't speak English either.

I'm feeling nervous.
I want them to like me.

If I want to become a stepfather to
them, I gotta make a good first impression,

so we can grow
into one big family.

Wow!

I knew, um, I was gonna meet
Ximena's kids,

and also Ximena's dad,
and her stepmom,

because they're staying with her
temporarily, but I wasn't expecting to meet

her entire extended family.

So, I'm a little overwhelmed
and nervous.

The translator app on my phone
has its challenges, ups and downs.

Luckily, besides my phone, I
brought this other translator device,

so I hope it's the real deal,
'cause I want to make sure

I can communicate
with her family.

It's nice to meet
everybody for the first time.

Oops.

It's nice to meet
everybody for the first time?

My family is happy, too.

Didn't come out right!

Oh.

Hola, Mike.

Mm-hmm.

With her whole family there, the kids,
her dad, it's just kind of nerve-wracking.

But, Harold and Juan, um,
they... they take to me very well.

Ooh.

The kids never really had a father
figure. So, it puts a lot of pressure on me

to uh, to work even harder
for Ximena.

Oh no, this way.

Because if this doesn't work
out, that would really devastate the kids.

Mmm.

Like, Alina's great,
but like I...

- "But..."
- I could do nothing.

"Alina's great, but..."

I've had mixed feelings about
Elijah coming. And it's like, is this

what he's gonna be bringing
to the table the entire time?

Whoa!

This is your... This is your
sexy Naruto.

Aw, don't rush, don't rush! Wait, wait,
wait! Oh my God. Why are you rushing so much?

I was just trying to get in
front of you, so I wasn't...

wasn't like bending over.

Hi!

- Hi Elij!
- Well, well, well!

Finally!

- Now...
- Well hello there.

- It's been a long time.
- Yes, it was.

You look different than
I imagined.

In a bad way or a good way?

No, no, it's a good
thing. You... You look stunning.

Okay, thank you.

My role in Turkey is
to protect Alina.

So today, I of course will check
if Caleb is a good guy for her.

But I'm trying not to be judgy.

I'm just gathering the facts.
But we'll see what happens.

- So...
- So...

How was yesterday?

Are you asking him or me?

Him, of course.

What did you do when you
first see... saw Alina?

Did you kiss her?

Like, Alina's great,
but like I...

- "But..."
- I could do nothing.

"Alina's great, but..."

I just fell asleep.

- Okay.
- Yeah.

- Really?
- So fun, right?

If you flew for 20-plus hours,
you hadn't slept for two days,

would you be like, "Oh, you
know, I'm so excited to get laid"?

Or would you be like, "I wanna
get sleep and feel good"?

Did you kiss her, at least?

We did not kiss, man.

My first impression of Caleb,
uh, isn't that good.

He didn't even kiss her
last night.

It's really weird for me.

Why are you
so not enthusiastic, Elijah?

Um, I just, uh, am watching
you two and I see like...

What?

Here is like, some tension
between you, and uh...

Unreleased tension?
Probably you're right.

I've had mixed
feelings about Elijah coming.

I came here to meet Alina, to get to
know her, and after this encounter,

it's like, is this what he's going to be
bringing to the table the entire time?

I feel like he's being divisive and
putting issues where there's not.

We shouldn't really touch
this subject anymore.

- And just...
- Well, let's go into town.

And like, sightseeing?

- Yeah.
- Yeah?

Where'd my mask go?

The whole vibe and atmosphere
of this meeting is weird.

Yes, at first,
it should be locked,

so...

- she can climb... comfortably.
- Yeah.

Now you can unlock it.

Okay. I'm ready.

- Let's go.
- All right, here we go.

Oops!

Come around and grab
the bottom. We'll walk her down.

Mmm.

-Grab... -You can do it by
yourself. Let me show you.

Elijah is being so cold
with Caleb.

Ever so delicately.

And I just want them
to like each other.

To get her upstairs,
go from the back.

It's just stairs.

It's not just the stairs. It's the
stairs and the wheelchair, so...

Yeah, but I work out, dude.
This is... This is cake.

Don't forget.

Are you saying she's heavy or something?
No, this is... this is perfectly fine.

- Mm-hmm.
- Gosh, I'm scared.

Mm-hmm.

- Isn't this beautiful?
- Mmm, very interesting, yeah.

Wow!

Very cool.

Very pretty.

I want to go up here,
and check out the second floor.

- You want to come up here, Alina?
- No.

There's only a few steps.
Do you want me to carry you?

- Okay. We won't be too long, okay?
- Okay.

Oh, wow.

It's really beautiful here.

There's a... energy in here. Just like,
walking through those front doors...

You just feel...
something.

Like, if you just really relax
your body, and... feel up through it.

It's...

You feel things.

Yeah, some people would call it
opening up the chakras. Energy centers.

The?

Are you feeling that?
Kind of like, tingles?

Um, I'm still trying to figure
Caleb out.

You know, Caleb, uh...

Some things will be, you know,
hard with Alina because...

uh, maybe she don't want
to go somewhere.

Maybe it's just
uncomfortable for her.

So, you need to really
get used to it,

and, uh, respect it.

Well, she seemed to be fine
waiting down below.

Well, you wanna
go back and see her?

- We'll tell her how it is?
- Of course. Of course.

The guy who wants to be near
such a beautiful woman like Alina is

needs to treat her like a queen,

but I didn't see, uh,
that much from Caleb today.

- Hey! Welcome back!
- Whew!

Well, do you guys
want to go off somewhere else?

Yeah.

I am here to just protect Alina.

So in the future, he'd better
change his behavior.

All right, here we go.

All right. What do you think, Haji?

Should we go with the
blonde one or the black one?

What do you think?

Hmm.

This morning I decided
to wake up super early,

so that I could hopefully
catch Johnny, um,

'cause it's really late at
his time, it's about midnight.

Let's go with blonde, Haji,
what do you think?

Video chats are often
difficult for us

because there's
a 14-hour time difference.

And so, I'm hoping that he's still up,
because I really want to talk to my boo.

Hey, Sonia!

What? What do you need?

Can you help me with this
wig cap thingy so I can

dress up sexy Naruto for Johnny?

You're gonna put this on?

Yep!

This is ridiculous. It's too
early in the morning for this.

I know. But it's midnight
in Shanghai,

so it's the perfect time for him to
get his, you know... on.

This wig is from Naruto, and
that is Johnny's favorite anime.

The character that I'm dressing up
today is actually a male character,

and he has this thing called sexy ninjutsu.
It's his "ninja power" that he uses.

And he turns into
a sexy naked woman

with these clouds
around her private parts.

We both love anime and
dressing up, and I am hoping

that Johnny gets a little
excited when he sees me in this.

Oh!

Wow!

You like it?

- This is your... This is your sexy Naruto.
- Yeah.

Right.

Oh yeah, it is like
Sailor Moon too, huh?

Yes.

You know, when you're gonna come to
the US, you'll get to see this in person.

Do you think that we will be able to
have some fun sexy time with the wigs?

What do you think?

All right. I am getting hot, so I am
going to be your sexy Ella again.

But when you're here, we can
totally go shopping for outfits,

and you can pick
some sexy ones that you like.

We can have some good times in the bedroom.

- It will be super fun.
- Yes, yes.

But I was talking to Mom, and she is
worried you won't like the ranch life.

Uh...

Well... I think that ranch life
would be a... a big part of our life.

So...

A big part.

You want
to try. I love that about you.

I love how willing
you are to try new things.

So, on a serious note, are you
gonna be able to be here soon?

- Nice!
- Yes.

That's awesome, babe.

Yes.

Yeah, I know. That...
That... That's scary.

Yes.

I feel it's a such hard decision
to be so far away from my son.

I'm really so nervous
about that.

But I think it's gonna work,
and we're gonna do our best.

You just make me
smile every day, and I want that for real.

I know that Johnny is risking a
lot to come over here to be with me,

and sometimes I really worry that he might
decide that I'm not worth all the sacrifice.

And that is really terrifying
to me, because I definitely

have put a lot of my eggs
in this one basket.

All right, baby. I will.

Bye sweetheart.
I love you a lot too.

Bye!

I've been waiting a year
to be intimate with Ximena.

But that is definitely
not happening tonight.

Really?

I know this is a
business meeting, but damn!

I literally feel like
a third wheel right now.

Okay.

- Si.
- Si.

Today has been a very long day.

I met my girlfriend, Ximena,
and her family for the first time.

They seem like a nice family
but I just really want to just

clean up, take a nice shower
and just relax with Ximena.

Okay.

Oh.

Si, no. This one.

I've been waiting a year, um,
to be intimate with Ximena.

I want Ximena to know that I
want to fulfill all her fantasies.

Give her the best pleasure,
the best night ever.

But, um, if we can't
get Harold to sleep,

that is definitely not
happening tonight.

I'm so happy to be here, um, I can't wait
to see what happens these next two weeks.

Um, I love you.

I've been imagining this night,
almost since I first met Ximena

and said "I love you"
online, so.

It's just all that, all this built
up anticipation for tonight, so,

it's a really big deal.

I just want this to work,
I want it to be perfect.

Oh God.

- Hi.
- Hi, Rosa Ree.

Hi.

- Hi, how are you?
- Kimberly, hi.

- Welcome to Tanzania.
- Thank you.

It's beautiful.

- How are you doing?
- Good.

Oh, right.

Yeah, like so...

- Yeah.
- You know?

- No problem, at all.
- Yeah.

Yeah.

I know this is
a business meeting,

but damn I literally feel like
a third wheel right now.

You know, she's beautiful, she's
young and I'm sitting over here like,

"Am I the grandma in the group
or, you know, what's going on?"

Uh-huh.

Except for like video,
you know, video chat and all that.

Oh, wow!

- A fan with "potential".
- Oh, wow!

I mean, like, girlfriend,
relationship, you know, the future...

- Mm-hmm.
- So we end up getting, being together,

- I wasn't expecting you to say all that.
- Yeah but, no the truth is...

- Oh, wow.
- But, like...

He is blushing a little bit.

I know, I know.

Usman hasn't really
mentioned marriage to me before.

So to hear Usman say this to Rosa
Ree, I was like, "Wait, what?"

It really blew my mind.

At first, I felt a little
threatened by Rosa Ree

but I think
the meeting went well.

- Nice to meet you wifey, potential wifey.
- Yeah, you don't...

Give me some of that at
the same time. I like her.

But, I do still feel like this
was a setup with Badmus and Slam-T

to sabotage my relationship
with Usman.

And I have to be prepared for more
shady from them in the future.

I don't deal well with shady
, so it will not be pretty.

What was her last relationship?

How long did it last?

- I don't remember.
- Like six, six months.

Who broke it off?

I've been living with this
ex-boyfriend, kind of, until recently.

And I'm afraid it's going to
ruin everything.

- Yeah, I got this.
- Okay.

Caleb and Elijah and I
are going to dinner.

- Hi.
- Welcome.

- Thank you.
- Thank you, so much.

So far, there is some tension
between Caleb and Elijah.

But I'm very hopeful that we can
all get along and just enjoy our time.

- It's a cozy place.
- Yeah, I'm starving.

Alina and I
have been with Elijah all day.

I'm not real jazzed
that he's coming to dinner.

I came here to meet Alina,
to pursue her romantically.

We haven't kissed and I want
time with Alina, one on one.

He's American.

American's, usually,
are not gentlemen.

So good choice, Alina.

I mean, I'm not, it's not my
fault he's American.

Yeah I think you're
a pretty functional person.

I feel like Elijah's making
this out to be like you're,

like you need more help
than you do.

It's not help,
it's like, caring.

Do you want to
share a salad with me?

Yes.

I'm down for that, the salad
and the plate to share, of cheese.

Yes.

Can I have a Cajun
chicken sandwich please?

Mmm, have a good, let's
the cheers with the.

- Caleb.
- Yeah, it's so disrespectful, I can't.

- Sorry, I'm just so thirsty.
- You're just like...

We should make, like, a toast.

- So...
- You make a toast.

- Toast?
- Mm-hmm.

To my best friend, and her
best friend, coming to Turkey.

Wait, what?

- I'm your best friend?
- You're one of my best friends, yes.

- Okay, well...
- Here we go. Cheers. To you guys.

Cheers, yes.

Caleb, I wanted to ask you
about your previous "best friends".

- That's how you called Alina, right?
- Mmm, interesting.

So how many have you had?

You know, I don't keep an exact
count, man, but... - Mm-hmm.

Whoever I'm seeing presently
is my focus, so.

I really care about Alina and
I think she, she knows that.

- I don't think that's in question.
- Aw.

Mmm.

Yeah.

Over the years, Alina
and I have been far apart

so we've seen other people
in the meantime.

Yeah, I've dated a lot of women,

but I don't think I've had the same
connection with them as I have with Alina,

after all these years.

Now that we're finally
together, she's my focus.

Okay, Elijah, as you've had
questions about my history.

- Mm-hmm.
- But this one hasn't said much at all.

What was her last relationship?

- What?
- What was her last relationship?

Such a mess.

How long did it last?

- Don't remember.
- Like six, kind of, around six months.

Caleb knows that I was dating
but he doesn't know the whole story.

There is something, some secret, that
I'm afraid is going to ruin everything.

I've been living with this
ex-boyfriend, kind of, until recently.

He doesn't know that.

Who broke it off?

When I was tired, he
was tired, and we just like...

I didn't tell Caleb about
my living situation with my ex

because I was afraid that he would
stop pursuing me and he would back off.

I know that I should come clean
with Caleb as soon as possible.

But I'm scared that when
he's going to find out the truth

he's going to think that I'm a liar
and maybe have some suspicions

that I hid something else from him
but there is nothing I hid from him.

Nothing else.

Well, I mean, if it didn't work
then it's probably for the best but...

Yeah, I mean, otherwise, I
wouldn't be meeting you, you know?

So it looks like
you're done, Elijah.

Like, what are you
going to do right now?

I'm tired, I'm going
to leave you guys alone.

Goodbye guys.

- Bye. Thank you.
- Have a great time together, I guess.

Well, we'll see you tomorrow,
I'm sure.

- Maybe.
- Yeah.

Goodbye.

Have a good time.

Do you want to get out of here?

Let's go back to the room.

Okay.

I definitely like that Alina and I
finally have alone time, it feels right.

There's a sense of serenity
that wasn't there with Elijah.

- Come on, Alina.
- Thank you.

I really want the romantic
side of our relationship to work out.

And the more time I spend with
Alina the more comfortable I get.

And I feel like
our connection is deepening.

- Mmm.
- You're getting better at this.

I'm getting stronger.

- Do you have the key card, babe?
- Yes.

Oh wow,
you're so strong, really.

Oh my God.

- How are you?
- I'm good.

Well hey there.

Hi.

If we can't have "sexy time" before we
get married, that's going to be a problem.

If I can't see whether or not me
and Hamza have sexual chemistry,

there's no way
that I would marry him.

Are we almost there?

Thirty minutes?

Ugh.

It is nice to be able
to finally be with Hamza in person.

But I am a little bit annoyed how
Hamza has been so reassuring

that we can sleep
in the same bed together.

And now, all of a sudden,
it's a whole other story.

Where's mother, at,
at your house?

Me nervous. Ooh!

I'm also worried
about meeting his family.

Oh, thank you.

I've been married once. I have
two children by two different fathers.

I mean, Muslim culture, like,
that's not really common.

I'm like, really nervous,
because I want them to accept me

and I want them to love me
just as much as Hamza does.

Oh my God.

This is so nerve-wracking.

Oh, we're still going
up more stairs? Oh my God.

Oh.

Oh no.

Hi.

- Hi.
- Hello.

Hi, hi, hi.

Oh my gosh.
Thank you.

Oh my gosh. Hi.

I'm so nervous.

You are welcome.

Oh my gosh, ooh!

Because to meet your family. Yes.

And mom looks beautiful,
both of you guys look beautiful.

What?

Your mother and you
look very beautiful tonight.

Ah, thank you.

- Yes.
- Yeah you too. You are so beautiful.

Oh, thank you.

So, thank you guys
for letting me stay here.

Okay, thank you.

Where will Hamza sleep?

Oh, you're going to
sleep on the couch here, huh?

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

Hamza, you want
to help me with my luggage?

- Goodnight, bye.
- Goodnight.

- Ugh.
- Welcome.

- You like?
- Yeah, I like.

So, um, I have a question.

If, if we can't have "sexy
time" before we get married,

then that's going to be
a problem.

So how are we going to have
"sexy time" if mom is here?

When?

Tonight?

Are you going to come tonight?

What, what about if we just
get a hotel room instead?

Because I am her guest
and I need to respect her.

But we need to have sex
before we get married.

The plan is for us
to get married while I'm here.

And if I can't see whether or not me
and Hamza have sexual chemistry,

there's no way
that I would marry him.

But it's very important
I respect Hamza's mom's rules.

Because she could really
make or break my marriage.

Time for you to go. Goodbye.

Let's get up.

I go to bathroom, get dressed.

Oh.

Hi.
Hamza?

Yeah.

When I see Hamza's mom at
the door, I think, "Oh."

Next time on Before the 90 Days.

Are you going to live together,
like in Russia or in America?

This is great conversation but
something that we should be talking about.

But, like, she's my friend.

I'll just wait over here.

- So the sexy time, last night was pretty fast.
- Uh.

Is it always fast?

No, you ejaculate...

What?

I am worried this is
the first step to him

never being able to make it to
the United States.

So, Leo, have you
ever seen Jasmine,

all of a sudden,
get really upset?

Yes.

- Yes?
- Yes.

It just makes me think is, is this
what I'm going to see in the future?

Okay,
what do you have to tell me?

I would never expect
Ximena to keep a secret from me.

So I really don't know where
we're going to go from here.

This is big news, that I
have to really think about.