90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 2 - Catching Flights to Catch Feelings - full transcript
Jasmine's jealousy rears its head. Memphis has a secret about her ex. Alina worries that Caleb doesn't understand her abilities. Usman's friends do not support his relationship with Kim. Mike's friends believe Ximena is using him.
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Fiance: Before the 90 Days...
Whoa!
I'm flying across the world to meet
Alina for the very first time, in person.
What type of stuff will
you need help with?
My wheelchair.
I don't know.
I might have
to help Alina a lot.
And I just wonder, if that's gonna
be a problem that I can't really predict.
Boobies for you.
Eight months ago, I met
the love of my life, Hamza.
And when I get to Tunisia,
we're getting married.
How do you know if he's
not wanting to come
over here for a green card?
It's the craziest thing to think
that I would fall in love with
a singer slash rapper guy.
We're dating and we're
gonna see what happens, so.
I consider us dating.
Usman calls me his
potential girlfriend, so...
That's why this trip to
Tanzania is so important
because I need to prove
that I am the woman for him.
Do you plan on getting
intimate with him?
100 percent, but we've
decided on two separate rooms.
Why is it always gotta
be so defensive, though?
Like, can you guys
be happy for me?
Me.
Quiet.
Jasmine is like my soul mate.
And I haven't even met her yet.
I'll be able to kiss her for the
first time, today's the big day.
But I do have some
nerves seeing her
in person.
Jasmine can be a bit jealous,
so hopefully it's less of an
issue when we're together.
Jasmine, I'm
coming, see you soon.
Here we are, um,
now in Atlanta airport,
halfway to Panama.
And I just got this
photo from Jasmine,
she's looking good today.
I'm on my way to see my
34-year-old girlfriend, Jasmine,
for the very first time.
Ever since my divorce,
seven years ago,
I haven't had very much
luck finding true love.
And even though I've known
Jasmine for only nine months,
on video chat.
I picture my future
with Jasmine,
raising a family and
growing old together.
Starting to feel real now, wow.
Dying to see her, can't wait.
My name is Jasmine, I'm 34-years-old,
and I live in Panama City, Panama.
Because I'm hot,
beautiful and intelligent.
Plus...
We are not tameable.
I'm more than just a hot body.
I love reading,
that's my passion,
that's why I'm an
American literature teacher.
I am also a mother of
two beautiful baby boys.
Well, they are not babies but
they will always be my babies.
My eldest lives
with my ex-husband.
And the youngest lives with me.
But he has a special condition,
and during this pandemic
he was having a really
hard time in the city,
with the lockdown, so,
my mother and I
made the decision
to take him, with her,
temporarily to the countryside.
This year has been
very difficult for me.
But, meeting
Gino, it felt so good.
It was like therapy.
I have never been with
someone from the United States.
But I was like, whoa,
he's a very smart person.
And I was like, wow, this
guy wants someone to love.
But, we're very different.
I'm super extrovert,
he's introvert.
I eat healthy, he eats
I have never seen him
without his stupid hat.
Gino's a special person.
Oh, my gosh, this is the place.
Oh, wow.
Tomorrow I will finally
meet Gino, I can't believe it.
Since Gino and I, we
wanted to have some privacy.
Ohhh!
Aw, I just got a
message from Gino.
Who's my pretty bonita?
Me!
Latina, hot Latina.
We have what we call, baby talk.
And I love it.
It's like, "Who's my little
baby?" and it's like, "Me."
The love of my life.
Who's my little baby?
Me, baby, and you're
the love of my life, too.
So sweet.
I'm super excited because I want
to hug him, I want to smell him.
And I've been fantasizing
about making love with him.
And I just bought a few things.
This is, you know,
his favorite color.
I want to look cute for him,
you know, that's what I want.
Because...
I try.
He's very skinny...
So, I'm afraid of...
Oh, my gosh, coming.
Ohhh! There you are!
Grisel is one of
my best friends.
And she is coming to help
me decorate the room for Gino.
- The flowers...
- Oh, my gosh.
It's hermoso.
Thank you.
My concern about Gino,
I don't think that
she know him for real.
Maybe he's lying
about something and...
Jasmine will get, like...
I'm very worried.
I hope so.
Are you worried about
the, uh, age difference?
The thing is, at
the beginning...
but he's actually a
few days away of 52.
He hasn't lied to
you in other things.
Because I know,
I'm always calling him
and when he goes outside,
He has to video call me
when he's at the place,
when he's in the car,
when he's back home.
What?
You don't trust him.
I trust him, because
he does that.
I'm not joking when I
ask Gino about evidence.
You can be the perfect
wife, look so beautiful,
treat them good.
It's never enough.
But, that's not gonna
happen to me again, no.
I have told him that you
cannot be nice to women.
Especially if I'm around.
Hey, that's kind of psycho.
It's not psycho,
it's just that... -Yeah.
It should be very interesting
what is going to happen
in the next few weeks.
Even though I believe Gino is
very different from all the other guys,
trust is something
that you build over time.
That he can handle me.
I'm hoping that.
After 13 years of knowing
each other, in a couple of days
I'm going to Turkey
to finally meet Alina.
We have great chemistry online,
I just don't know
how it'll be in person.
And also, I've never
dated a little person before
so I don't really
know what to expect.
But I don't want to
keep waiting to find out
if our connection is
everything I think it is.
Hey, guys.
Come on in,
it's good to see you.
- Hey, Mom, how are you?
- Good.
- Hey, Dad.
- Hey.
My parents don't know about
my relationship with Alina.
- How are you?
- I'm fine.
How about you?
I'm good, I'm gonna
grab some food, okay?
Help yourself.
I've really
avoided telling my parents
too much about
relationships in the past.
Because I grew up in a
very Christian, religious home,
where, if we dated, we
were expected to get married.
So, I really hope they're supportive
of my choice now to go and visit Alina.
So, what's
going on besides work?
Well, I was actually hoping
to grab a suitcase from ya.
- Suitcase?
- What?
- Yeah.
- Where ya going?
Well, I'm going to Turkey.
I didn't know Turkey was on
your list of countries to visit.
Gonna go see a friend.
Tell me more about
what this friend is.
You're smiling.
Yeah, that means you're
up to something sneaky.
Her name's Alina.
Tell us more.
Uh, she's a friend I've
known for a long time.
Um, she lives in Russia.
She sings, she's very artistic.
She's also a little person.
- A little person?
- Yeah.
Meaning like...
Has a version of dwarfism.
Hmm, well, hmm.
So she's a little person,
but how tall is she really?
Yeah, she's probably
just around 3-feet.
How does she get
around, does she need a...
crutches or a wheelchair
or what's she use?
She'll roll around
in a wheelchair a lot.
She can walk but she
gets tired really easily.
Will that be in the way trying to
do a lot of stuff that you want to do?
I don't know, I'd like to think
it won't be a problem, but...
I'm gonna go and
just see what it's like.
I'm shocked. Uh, not only to
find out that he's seeing someone
but also to find out she's
from another country,
is currently in another country,
and is a little
person or a dwarf.
Uh, so there was a lot
to learn about tonight.
Does she live with her parents
or does she live with friends or...
- She has a roommate.
- Uh-huh.
So, actually, he's gonna be
coming along to support her.
Well, you already
have a chaperone then,
so I don't need to offer
to go to chaperone.
Mmm-hmm.
I can't help
but thinking, what if...
it goes further,
and you were to get married, uh,
what about children?
Would they be like her?
Um, I think that's way ahead.
But don't you think it's important
before you go, "Oh, yeah, you're the one."
Yeah, but you know, that's life,
if you take all the
what-ifs and the problems
before you actually move
forward with anything
you're never gonna go anywhere.
I find that I really do need to
bite my tongue a lot with Caleb
because he's not
afraid to take risks.
Which has its good
points and bad points
but I like that about him.
But it also does
cause us a little anxiety,
seeing him take risks that we
would be resistant to do ourselves.
Yes.
I mean, I think right
now the big issue is just
can we get along with
our differences in size.
Like, that's what we're
really putting to the test here.
And to make sure we are the
people we think each other are
because, you know, virtually versus
in person, there's a difference there.
- Well, and I know it's a lot to take in.
- Yeah.
My parents have expressed
some reservations about Alina and I.
There's a lot of unknown's here and
the questions they're asking are valid.
There's some obstacles
I haven't thought about,
which might be a real
issue down the line,
and in some ways that's scary.
I just hope that the
bond Alina and I have is
strong enough to endure any
hurdles that may come our way.
- This relationship I think could really be a challenge.
- Yes.
I just want your hearts to be okay
regardless of how this all comes out.
- I feel selfish, like, I'm leaving, you know?
- No!
No, no, no. Don't feel that way.
You're gonna ruin your own trip.
I love Usman,
but he doesn't know if he
wants to be in a relationship
with an American woman again.
Every ounce of my being is telling
me to do this, but is it fair to her?
Like, I'm taking a
chance being gone
and something happening to her.
And I hope he's worth this.
So, does Hamza know
about your ex-husband?
He don't need to know nothing.
Memphis tends
to be very impulsive.
I am concerned that Hamza
really does not know who she is.
Okay, this is the last of
it. I'm about to fall over.
- Oh, my God.
- I know.
- You're only gonna be gone for two weeks.
- I know.
Today is the day that I am
flying to Tanzania, Africa
to meet Usman AKA SojaBoy.
Usman and I met
online 11 months ago.
I became a fan of his music, I
mean, like, a big fan of his music,
and I fell in love with him.
Usman is from Nigeria, but I'm
going to meet him in Tanzania
because he's shooting his music
video there for his song "Zara."
I don't know much
about Tanzania,
but I know that it is
going to be paradise
because I'm going to be
discovering all this new culture,
the new food, all that stuff.
With the man of my dreams.
So, are you okay? Are you
gonna be okay with me going?
I'm not gonna be okay mentally
because I'm gonna miss your face, but, um,
I want you to just concentrate on
having... seriously want you to have,
enjoy this once-in-a-lifetime
experience.
And you're all set
up. You have your...
I got my medic alert.
- You have the neighbors, you have my friends.
- The neighbor, Andy.
- You have Alyssa, you have Vanessa's number.
- Yes.
But you just got to be...
Take care of yourself.
I will. I promise. I
wouldn't do anything,
even take a chance
of doing anything
to make this trip not
wonderful for you.
- I know, but it's not just about me.
- Yes, it is.
- It's about you, too. You know what I mean?
- I'll be fine.
- Okay.
- You know?
I'll be fine. Don't
worry about it.
- Mom, you've got to take care of yourself, seriously.
- I promise I will, my pudding.
Like, I'm freaking out.
No, like, I feel selfish
like, I'm leaving, you know?
No! No, no, no. Don't feel that
way. You're not being selfish.
Don't feel that way. You're
gonna ruin your own trip.
I feel like I should do this, like, every
ounce of my being is telling me to do this,
but is it fair to her?
Like, I'm taking a chance being
gone halfway across the world
and something happening
to her, you know?
And I hope he's worth this.
Bye, honey.
I'm so worried. Please be okay.
- Promise me you'll be okay.
- I promise, I promise.
And it'll be fine.
Uber, yes!
- All right, I love yo so much.
- I love you more.
You just want
the best for your kid,
so I hope that there is a
love connection and if not,
at least she'll know now
rather than dream about it
or fantasize about it, you know?
Where are we going today?
- I am going to Tanzania.
- Awesome.
This is probably
one of the wildest things
I've ever done in
my life, honestly.
I love Usman,
but he doesn't know if he
wants to be in a relationship
with an American woman
again because of his ex-wife.
This trip is my
chance to prove to him
that I am not like his ex-wife and then
to see if we can build a future together.
- This is it.
- All right. I'll get your bags out for you.
Thank you so much.
If I go over
there and we find out
that it's not in the universe's
plan for him and I to be together,
I'm gonna be really hurt.
But I feel like once he sees me
in person and can, like, touch me
and hold my hand and
whatever else is gonna happen,
I feel like, you know, I
think it's going to go great.
Oh, Lord.
I just dropped off
my kids to my ex-husband's house
because today is the day
that I'm flying to Tunisia
to meet and marry
my fiancé Hamza.
Oh, my gosh. Maybe I
should push these up a little bit.
There we go. I can do this now.
And I am so excited
that I am finally
going to kiss those juicy
lips that I always see.
I am feeling
butterflies right now.
Hey!
- Hey, girl. How you doing?
- Hey, all right!
- Ooh, I miss you. Oh, my gosh.
- I miss you, too.
Hey, uh-uh, girl. Can you
get this big one right here?
- No, I want the little one.
- Girl, look at us.
- Oh, my gosh.
- Girl, come on, now. You got a little bit of muscle
I know you got
something going there.
Ingrid is my foster sister
and she is driving me
to the airport today.
- Ooh, look at your hair. I love it.
- Thank you.
You come on in.
Her mother was my foster mom
when I was approximately 16 years old.
So, what you got to eat
'cause I'm kinda hungry.
I mean, I ain't trying to, like, just
come and eat and just leave but...
- Mmm-hmm. Sure.
- I'm hungry.
It was one of my favorite homes
and we have a really close relationship.
If you have some bacon
I would love some bacon
'cause I can't have no
bacon when I go down there.
I sure can't. You know, it's
his religion and, you know,
I wanna kinda, like, you
know, follow it and respect it
when I'm down there, so can I
get about six, seven, eight pieces?
Look, I got some bacon.
Ingrid has been a great
support system through the years
and I really take
what she says to heart.
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
Girl, you gonna be
gone a long time.
- Mmm-hmm.
- I don't know if I can do that.
- Why?
- Be gone without my kids for a couple weeks.
What I'm doing is gonna
benefit my kids in the long run
'cause they are gonna
have a great father figure.
We are gonna have a great life.
- I have a lot of faith.
- Girl.
- I know.
- I don't buy it.
Why don't you?
You've seen us interact.
We have a good
connection. It's just amazing.
- Stop.
- You know?
- Yeah, well, not in person, but...
- Not in person.
But, I mean, FaceTime
is, like, enough
to see someone, like,
interacting and doing good.
- No, it's not.
- Yes, it is!
I don't know why Memphis is
choosing to get married so quickly,
but Memphis tends
to be very impulsive.
And he really does
not know who she is.
Memphis is a hothead and
could be very intimidating,
so I am concerned that
Hamza is not ready for Memphis.
So, does Hamza know
about your ex-husband?
He knows that he is the
biological father of my son.
- Okay.
- Okay, and he don't need to know nothing.
Hamza knows my ex-husband
and I co-parent very well,
and he's a really good support
system to me and my children.
I mean, he is more of a father to
Kennedy than her biological father.
But what Hamza doesn't know
is that when we started dating,
I was going through a
rough patch in my life,
so I spent a couple
nights with my ex-husband,
not in an intimate way, but only
for emotional and moral support.
But Hamza is very jealous,
so if he finds out, it's
gonna be a problem.
Memphis, Memphis.
I haven't really had a relationship
in the past 20 years or so,
but I met someone that
made my dreams come true.
If everything works out, when I'm
down there, the plan is I wanna propose.
A lot of times he doesn't
make the best decisions,
but this is on a
whole other level.
You have to make sure
she has the right intentions.
Ooh! Ooh!
I'm bringing condoms
just to be safe.
I'm a pretty
sexually open person,
so I'm excited but
a little bit anxious
because a lot of the things you
take for granted in regular-size sex
are off the table.
Twenty-one.
These two pieces.
Ooh, I need two of those.
My name is Mike, I'm
from Thiells, New York,
and I'm 34 years old.
My primary job, I'm
an IT support technician
and I volunteer
as a firefighter.
I'm not too outgoing, so I kind of
keep to myself most of the time.
That's fine with me.
Twenty-one goes here.
For fun I like to, like,
build models, build LEGOs.
It's a McLaren. It's a racecar.
It's gonna be so cool.
It makes me happy
just to, like, let loose
and just zone out and just
refresh my brain kind of thing.
You coming down
for breakfast anytime soon?
I'll be right down!
Currently, I still live at
home with my dad and grandfather.
Who's hungry?
I have two younger brothers,
but they have
their own families.
So I help my dad take care of
my grandfather 'cause he's 94.
We gotta check his
sugar, put him to bed,
get him undressed,
things like that.
Pop, are you ready
for your hearing aids?
I hear what I wanna
hear, believe me.
You're very stubborn, Pop.
I'm not stubborn!
There you go.
It makes me happy, but it definitely
cramps my style living at home.
Michael, keep an
eye on those pancakes
'cause they'll burn on one side.
I know.
It's like if I go
out, they'll be like,
"Oh, where were you? Why didn't
you tell us? We were worried about you."
And I'm like, "Argh,
leave me alone."
Pop, are they good, bad?
You have to answer that.
Okay.
Just in the future, if you're
gonna settle down somewhere,
very important for a
man to know how to cook.
My past relationships,
they've consisted of, um...
That's really a tough question.
I haven't really had a relationship
in the past 20 years or so.
- Here you go.
- Okay.
Oops, sorry
about that. A little bit.
In high school I had a...
somewhat of a serious relationship.
It was for about a year.
That pretty much sums it up.
- He's very good-natured. That's what I love about him.
- Yep.
I'm not a kid anymore, Pop.
Yeah, I know.
I was always looking
for a serious relationship,
someone to just
settle down with.
So since I went 34 years without
finding a woman in my local area,
I just decided to change my
location in a dating application
and just switch it
over to Colombia.
And I met someone that
made my dreams come true.
My girlfriend's name is Ximena.
She's 24 years old, and she
lives in Pereira, Colombia.
And she's the most
beautiful woman in the world.
I was just, like, wow
is this really happening.
I had to, like, pinch myself.
Ximena and I have been
talking for about a year now.
And I feel like I know
Ximena fairly well.
And, um, even though we've
never physically met before,
she's the first person that I
truly feel like I fell in love with.
And we've even
gone as far as talking
about getting married
and having kids together.
We have that connection
both emotionally, mentally.
But the main problem between
me and Ximena is the language.
I speak English with a little bit of
Spanish, and she speaks only Spanish.
I think communication will
be a lot easier in person,
which is really good because I finally
booked, uh, my ticket to Colombia
to meet Ximena,
my love of my life.
So I'm leaving for
Colombia in a week.
I can't stand to be
apart from her anymore.
I'm just so ready to get to,
like, hold her and hug her
and be with her in person.
- What are you doing?
- Just testing the tools and the batteries.
You need help with anything?
- Uh, yeah, can we check the, uh, AD over there?
- Yeah.
Ever since high school, I've
been a volunteer firefighter.
I take pride in helping
people, helping my community.
My younger brother
Steven also joined as well.
- There we go.
- Okay, let's lift this up.
We're very close.
And he kinda acts kinda
like the voice of reason for me.
But we definitely
don't look alike.
My brother's about 5'10".
I'm like 5'4".
And he has a decent set of
hair, so he's definitely not like me.
- So you getting excited?
- Yeah.
So about a week away.
It's, uh... It's crazy.
I mean, you're going
across the world
to go meet a girl
you've never met before.
Yeah, I know, but I love her.
Well, not for nothing, it's the happiest
I've seen you since Mom passed away.
Nine years ago, uh, my mom passed
away from stage 4 colon cancer.
And that was a really
rough time in my life.
I would get... Sometimes, I would
get too emotional. I would get angry.
I wasn't really
opening up to anybody.
But Ximena changed
my whole life around.
So just from there, I just started
opening up more and more.
And this is, like, the
happiest I've ever been.
So I don't wanna
ever let that go.
I just wanna keep moving forward and
progressing towards our future together.
So, like, are you planning on, like,
marrying this girl. Like, what's the plan?
Uh, well, if everything works
out, when I'm down there,
um, the plan is I wanna propose.
You're gonna propose down there?
Uh, maybe, yeah.
- Do you have a ring?
- I do, yeah.
When the heck did you buy a ring?
I got a, like, a
small little nice ring.
Dude, marriage is serious.
- I know.
- Me and Amanda were together for, like, ten years
before I even thought
about proposing, you know.
So you should really know someone
a lot, you know, their goods, their bads.
You know, secrets come out, but
secrets aren't gonna come out in two weeks.
You don't know anything
about her personal life.
You kinda only know what
she wants you to know.
I've had that concern.
But after this past year,
we're on like a level of trust.
So if anything comes up I'm
gonna just talk to her in person
and like, "Hey,
what's this about?"
Just to get, like,
an honest answer.
'Cause she hasn't
lied to me, so...
Well, that you know of.
- So you're trusting her?
- Yeah.
Okay.
Mike is, uh, seven
years older than me,
but a lot of the times, I
feel like I'm the older brother
just 'cause I've kind of had a little
bit more life experience than he has
when it comes to relationships.
A lot of times, he doesn't make
the best decisions for himself.
But not like this.
This is on a whole other level.
You know, he's planning on
marrying somebody he's never met.
I think he needs to take his time
and get to know her before that.
But unfortunately, he's gonna
do whatever he wants to do.
I know emotions are there,
and you want this to work,
but you have to make sure
she has the right intentions.
Just, like, my gut feeling just tells
me that she, like, she really does care.
Um, she always asks me, like,
whether I ate breakfast or ate lunch.
She always, like, tells me that.
So once I get back, I'll start
on, like, the, uh, paperwork
for the visa.
Once that's all approved, she
would move in with me, Dad and Pop.
That's a lot.
Just gotta think about this,
man.
Steven has some good points,
but it doesn't change the
way I feel about Ximena.
I love her. I trust her.
She hasn't really given
much to not believe about her.
So I just really
wanna go for it.
I've, over time, watched my friends,
my brother settle down, have children.
And I've waited 34 years
for my turn to be happy.
So I just feel like
it's my time now.
And Elijah's helping me out
to pick up the best outfits
just so Caleb is gonna
be head over heels for me.
Oh, my God.
Dressed to kill.
My mom is really worried about me
going all the way to Turkey by myself.
So I offered the idea of
Elijah coming with me.
It's good because Elijah
helps me a lot in my life.
And Caleb has never
navigated a wheelchair.
So Elijah can show Caleb
how to help me with everything.
And then Caleb
will start doing it.
So it's like a gradual change.
- Finally.
- Yes, for real.
I've known Alina
for six years already.
I know about Caleb a little.
He seems to be,
uh, a pretty good guy.
But you never know.
So I think it will be a great thing
for me to be with her to help her
if this relationship
will not work out.
- For real?
- Come on the top, girl.
Who's gonna be the bottom?
Today is the
day I leave for Turkey.
I've got a long
flight ahead of me.
But it'll be so worth it to finally get
to see Alina in person after 13 years.
Got my protein powder so I
can stay fit. Get all my protein.
Got my tarot deck here.
Read some cards out in Turkey.
Bringing condoms,
too, just to be safe.
I'm not trying to force things.
I really want to see
what feels organic.
But, you know, I'm
seeing her for two weeks.
Anything could happen.
Despite my religious upbringing,
I'm a pretty sexually
open person.
So I'm excited but
a little bit anxious
because with Alina, a lot of
the things you take for granted
in regular size sex
are off the table.
Like, you can't make
out and have sex.
They're either on
you or they're up here.
So I really don't
know what to expect.
It's gonna be a different world.
But our connection's so deep I
don't think Alina's size will matter.
What's up, bro?
Dude, thanks so
much for the ride.
Yeah, of course, happy to help.
So you know what
you're in for in Turkey?
Dude, I'm sure we'll hit it off.
We've got to. You know,
we've talked for so long.
- The only thing would be if it is just weird in person.
- Mmm-hmm.
I think it's crazy.
It's wild that he's gonna go
travel so far just to meet this girl.
I feel like it might not work
out too well as Alina and him
are very different when it
comes to physical compatibility.
But I feel like Caleb's
expectations are pretty high.
He seems real committed to it,
so hopefully it doesn't come
around and bite him in the ass.
I really, like... I'm so
nervous sometimes
that I think I'm gonna throw up.
- Okay.
- Like, I don't know.
But also happy.
Whoo!
All right.
- Stay safe, okay.
- Have fun.
You, too!
- I'll text you.
- All right.
Taking a shot at happily
ever after with Alina.
It's a little nerve-racking,
but I see the potential of what Alina and
I can be and how great a person she is.
Inside, my heart
is beating fast.
And I have a huge
spectrum of emotions.
I don't want Caleb to see
me just as a little person.
I'm more than that.
And I feel that Caleb and I
could spend our lives together.
So I hope this is the
beginning of something amazing
and unforgettable
for both of us.
Panama.
I have been dreaming about
meeting Jasmine for months now.
I'm just so excited, but
My heart will be
broken if it don't work.
Here goes nothing.
I just touched down in Panama.
And I can't believe finally the day
has come were I'm gonna see Jasmine.
Panama.
I got to take some of these
clothes off before I meet Jasmine.
I have been dreaming about meeting
Jasmine in person for months now.
And, wow,
Jasmine's in the same
building as me right now.
How exciting is that?
Oh, my gosh.
I just want him to be here.
Everything
excites me about Gino coming.
All I've been doing is
communicating, communicating,
getting to know each other.
A lot of talking,
I'm very excited to
see how he looks.
Physical appearance is important
but what matters to me the most
is the connection that we have,
and I just hope that
it's the same when
we are together.
My hands are shaking.
I'm very nervous,
but I'm ready.
How do you get down there?
I'm just so excited.
I'm walking to meet
Jasmine right now
for the first time,
are you kidding?
There are some things
that can come between us,
like Jasmine's jealousy
and trust issues.
But I already picture
my future with Jasmine.
So, my heart will be
broken if it don't work.
Oh, my God.
Here goes nothing.
Whoa, look at you.
Oh, my
God. Is it...
Jasmine?
- Oh, my God.
- Oh, my God is it you?
Oh, my God.
Ohhh.
I can finally hold you.
I've... We finally meet.
It's real.
Baby. Yeah.
We finally meet,
can you believe it?
No.
- Oh, my God.
- Baby...
Yeah.
It feels amazing
to be together in person
and I'm so excited.
She's super-hot, beautiful.
I mean, look at her.
Don't get me wrong I
knew she was beautiful
but seeing her in person...
Whoo.
Are you kidding?
Say it, give me the baby talk.
Who's my little baby?
Wah.
Gino looks in person
super handsome.
-Aw. -So cute.
Better than...
- What I look like on video chat?
- You look so perfect.
- Yeah.
- Yes.
Aw.
Baby.
Let's go home.
Let's go.
My goal coming to Panama
is to see how things go.
And if things go
great then I could
propose to Jasmine
at the end of my trip.
Do you wanna be in the window?
Uh, yeah.
So far it seems like we're
even more connected in person.
Really? Oh, my God.
And now that we're together,
I'm...
excited to be
intimate with Jasmine.
But... It's a little
nerve-racking, too.
Now that I see you in person
it's, like, "Wow, you...
Really take care of yourself."
Yes.
Oh, my God.
It's been a few years, since
I've been with a woman sexually.
So...
I'm just hoping
everything goes well.
I don't wanna disappoint her.
Yeah.
Of course.
It's already going wrong.
I have taken two flights,
and traveled over 27 hours.
I am very exhausted
but I have one more flight
to go to get to Tanzania
and get that much
closer to Usman.
I will be arriving in
Tanzania, later on today.
But Usman won't be there
until tomorrow as he is flying
from his hometown in Nigeria.
Ay, what a...
All right.
Right?
I won't let anything
stand in the way
of being successful.
Something special.
Do you like it?
You look so good.
Oh, my God, love you.
And that's why I invite her
to come to Zanzibar, Tanzania,
for my music video shoot
What's up?
SojaBoy.
- Fine.
- Yeah, hold on.
Okay.
Okay.
Yeah, sure.
Bringing a woman
to a video shoot...
When we are done
she can come over
and see you
specially, but now...
All right, all right, fine.
She's going to be loyal.
She's not going to
control my career.
But, I have to move on,
and I decided to just
focus on Kimberly.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
If everything works out
she can be my wife.
It's already going wrong.
But does it have an elevator?
I'm at upset at Caleb
booking this hotel.
Oh, my God.
I feel very nervous.
He doesn't
understand my abilities.
It's... It's
higher than me.
Oh, my God, we just
arrived to Istanbul.
Woohoo!
Let's go, girl.
Yes!
I finally arrived to Turkey,
and I feel very, very excited.
My friend is picking
us up from the airport,
and we are going to
the hotel, gonna check in,
get my beauty sleep,
because Caleb is
coming tomorrow.
Really, the anticipation
has been building up in me.
This is crazy.
- Hi, girl!
- Hi!
- Finally!
- Finally, I can visit you.
My friend Maria was my
classmate from university days.
She lives in Istanbul now,
and I'm so happy to see her.
- This is your car?
- Okay, that's the car.
Nice, nice to meet your car.
Hi, car.
And I'm also very, very excited
that she's gonna
meet Caleb, too,
maybe give me a
different perspective.
Elijah, isn't it weird?
She's going to meet some
guy she never met before?
It's, uh, pretty
interesting experience.
Is he going to
stay at the same hotel?
- With you?
- We're staying in the same room.
I'm ready, like,
why, why waste any time.
I mean, it's been 13 years.
- I mean, yes, I'm nervous about that, too.
- Excuse me?
I'm nervous.
I'm-I'm scared if I'm not
gonna be able to, you know,
go to the bathroom
while he's in there.
I mean, like, to poop.
- Mmm.
- Girls, come in.
Wow, nice.
- So, sorry guys, I can't stay long here.
- Yeah, okay.
- Thanks for coming, I'm so happy to see you.
- And thank you
for picking us up,
really, I'm just so grateful.
- Okay, no problem.
- Yeah.
- Can't wait to see him.
- Yeah.
Bye, bye.
- Hi.
- Hello, welcome.
Thank you, here's my passport.
Of course.
Mmm-hmm.
But does it have an elevator?
That's bad.
Thank you.
Oh, my God.
Okay, this is hard now.
Excuse me.
Caleb's responsibility
was to choose the hotel,
and there is no elevator.
Like, why?
And again, upstairs.
It's not even the second floor,
it's second-and-a-half.
Maybe he'll have
to carry me, sometimes.
It's gonna be hella workout
of going up and down,
up and down on these stairs.
- Oh, wow.
- Wow.
- It's really like an apartment.
- Oh, wow!
The bed is even high for me.
It's high, it's higher than me.
It's very high.
- Oh, wow.
- Oh, wow.
Oh, wow!
Yeah, I don't know,
do they have,
like, a chair here,
and I will also need the
chair to get in the bed,
or Caleb.
One or two even,
because it's very high.
It's very high, yeah.
- Even for me, like that is...
- Yeah.
I'm not a huge
fan of the design.
I think it's kinda ugly.
But, when you're asleep...
It doesn't matter.
You will have probably some...
- Action.
- Action!
Yeah, oh, my gosh.
I'm meeting Caleb
in less than 24 hours,
and I'm just very excited
to see him in real life,
but at the same time,
I'm upset at Caleb
booking this hotel.
It just makes me think, maybe,
Caleb doesn't
understand my abilities.
So, I feel very nervous
about tomorrow.
So maybe, uh, you need me
to stay over here, uh, tonight?
Yeah, yeah, that would be cool.
How much money have
you been spending?
I do help her out with,
like, rent and things like that.
Wow.
She could have all
these guys, all over,
just...
This chick's milking you.
When do you go to Colombia?
Uh, Sunday.
Wow, Mikey, I'm excited for you.
I'm leaving for
Colombia in a few days,
and I'll be meeting my girlfriend,
Ximena, for the first time.
We've been texting
for about a year now.
My hopes are to propose
towards, like, the end of
the trip.
And then we'll start our life together.
Before I go on the trip, I
wanted to go to the toy store,
and get some toys, so I
don't go empty-handed.
Aw, nice. Very cute.
I'm starting a new
life with not just Ximena,
but also, her two kids.
She has a three-year-old,
and a seven-year-old.
So that's why I asked
my best friend, John,
and his wife,
Nelcy, to come out,
pick out some toys that,
maybe, the kids would like,
because they have
a three-year-old,
and I don't have any
experience with kids.
You know, you're a
good kid for going to do this.
What is your budget, Mikey?
Um, nothing,
maybe, too expensive,
maybe, $100, $150.
Mikey money-bags over here.
I've always wanted
to have kids someday,
and that's something that me and
Ximena have actually talked about.
But to take on that
stepfather role...
it kinda makes me a little,
a little terrified.
Remember these kids are
gonna be looking up to you.
It's papi.
- Oh, I know.
- This is real stuff, man.
But I love Ximena so much,
and I hope that when
I bring them their gifts,
it'll prove to Ximena, and
her kids and her family,
that I'm fully committed
to this relationship.
- Thank you.
- Ladies first.
- Thank you.
- Sorry, I went first.
I've been friends
with Mike for over 20 years,
and we're almost like brothers.
This is Mike's first
relationship, first girlfriend.
I-I-I... God bless.
Oh, what do you
guys think of that pogo thing?
It's flimsy, but I don't know.
You want to try it and see?
- There you go.
- I don't know if I can do that.
So he doesn't have
any past history
to gauge this woman on.
I think coloring books
and markers and things
like that would be nice.
Racecars? Painting?
- That's nice.
- That's, yeah, I'll hold onto that.
Mike is very naive and I think
Mike's blinded by her looks,
and he's roped into
what she's telling him,
but the truth is
they haven't met
and it's gonna get real,
and it's gonna happen fast.
So I think we're good.
So here, put
it in your carriage.
We're ready.
Did you folks
find everything all right?
- Yeah, we did.
- We sure did.
- Okay.
- Thank you.
Oh, you made
very nice selections.
Who are these toys for?
They're for my
girlfriend's children.
Oh, how nice.
He's actually going to Colombia
to meet his girlfriend
for the first time.
Wow, you may be
in for quite a surprise then.
Yeah.
They should be
happy with the toys anyway.
Flying to another country
to meet a new girlfriend?
I think it's risky.
But if it doesn't work out, I hope he
gets a good cup of coffee, anyhow.
Mikey, before we go,
can we just have
a little conversation.
Sure.
You know that we care for you a
lot and we want the best for you.
I know.
Like, you're really sure
that you wanna do this?
Yeah, yeah, I wanna do this.
You know, I know
you work your ass off.
You've been saving your money,
you've been doing
the right thing.
I don't want to see that hard-earned
money that you're getting...
just, like, blowing it.
No, I know.
So how much money are,
have you been spending?
Um, so I do
help her out with like,
like rent and things like
that, temporarily, um...
What?
What else have you
paid, besides rent?
Um...
so the, that, I helped,
helped her with, like, uh,
-That's it -Wow.
How do you know that there's not
another Mike in Colorado.
She could have all these guys,
all over just.
This chick's milking you.
I just think that
you're going too fast.
It's crazy.
I think that
she's just using him,
using him for his money,
and to probably come here.
This is beyond red flags.
This is like the
nuclear airhorn blowin'
across the country,
your TV messages are coming up,
saying, "Warning!
Warning! Warning!"
He's not getting it.
The floodgates are closing.
The National Guard is here,
like, all the signs are out.
You really trust her?
I really trust her.
My friend's concerns,
they're valid concerns,
because this relationship
seems like it's, really,
too good to be true.
But at the end of the
day, I know that this is real,
and this makes me happy.
So, yeah, we're just gonna...
go with it.
We're going to Tunisia!
We're going to Tunisia!
I have so many nerves
just bottled up inside of me,
- All right, bye!
- Bye!
And there's a chance that,
once he sees me in person,
he's not 100 percent
attracted to me.
I just hope that he
does not disappoint me.
Oh, that's me.
What's the password?
What's the password?
- Yeah.
- You want to see something?
I can check if you're
being a good boy.
We're going to Tunisia!
We're going to Tunisia!
Hey, well, I ain't
going nowhere.
But damn, hey, we going!
We going!
I'm on my way to the airport
to finally meet
my fiance, Hamza,
and I can't wait to
get my hands on him.
Girl, he gonna
be all on you. Ooh!
She cute, he gonna pick
you up to kiss you. Zoot!
I hope so!
Oh, my God. I'm 'bout
to be with my man,
I'm 'bout to hold his hand!
Oh, my gosh,
the first embrace...
- Oh, my God.
- Like, when y'all see each other.
I'm just gonna be like...
Girl, you're gonna
be coming off a plane,
how you gonna be that sexy?
Oh, my
God. I'm so nervous.
Even though Hamza and I
video chat all the time,
there's a chance that
once he sees me in person,
he's not 100 percent
attracted to me.
In a past relationship,
I did have a problem
where the intimacy
wasn't there, emotionally
and physically, and so
we just didn't connect
like I wanted us to.
So, that really made me feel
like the guy wasn't
attracted to me,
and I've had some lower
self-esteem issues because of that.
So, knowing that he
truly is attracted to me
is gonna be very important.
No, no, oh.
That was the car.
Look at that.
Oh, it's okay, I'll get it.
Memphis is definitely
nuts for doing this.
Meeting someone online,
and going all the way
to Tunisia to marry them...
- I'mma miss you.
- I'm gonna miss you, too.
You better call me.
If it's not gonna work,
this would be a big waste of
time, and money, and energy.
And I don't want her to go
through another let-down.
That would be very hard
for her to come back from.
- All right, bye.
- Bye.
Don't do nothing crazy.
Yeah, right.
Aw.
It's gonna be a
long day, long flight.
It's gonna be
worth it in the end.
I'm taking the most
important trip of my life.
I have so many nerves
just bottled up inside of me.
Leaving my kids for three
weeks will be very difficult.
But I am a thousand
percent invested in
marrying a man that
I've never met before
and to make him a father
figure to my children.
Ah!
Having a complete family
with a partner that I can trust
is something that I've
always dreamed of.
You're now welcome to board.
It's time for me to be happy.
I truly believe that
Hamza is the man for me.
I just hope that he
is who he says he is
and that he does
not disappoint me.
Whoo! Yeah.
Oh, my gosh.
Panama's beautiful.
Right, you like it, baby?
The water, the
trees... It is paradise.
Mmm-hmm.
Oh, my goodness.
- God.
- Yeah.
Wow.
After nine months of, you
know, texting and video chatting,
it's surreal to see
Jasmine in person.
Oh, my goodness.
Come, babe.
I see us being together forever
and having a family, so...
Yeah, it's awesome
just to be here.
Come in.
Whoo!
Ahem.
Oh, my God!
Oh, my gosh!
Gino loves Jasmine.
It's beautiful.
Baby, just let me see your
face. Let me see your teeth.
Baby.
I finally get to be
with you. Oh, my God.
Baby, I want you
to check the bed.
- Yeah?
- Is it okay?
Let's see.
It's so cozy.
Is it good, the pillows?
Yeah, it's so
comfortable. Oh, my God.
Do you wanna take it off?
Not yet.
Not yet?
Okay.
I can wait.
Mmm. Oh, lookie here.
Look what I got.
- What is it?
- For you.
An electric toothbrush.
This gift that I brought
for Jasmine is meaningful,
because manually, trying to
clean your teeth, it's difficult.
That thing's spinning,
you know, at a high rate.
And, you know, uh...
So much easier to use.
Plus, I-I don't even know if
they have these in Panama.
- That goes with it.
- Oh.
-So, those are the extra
tooth... - "Three brush heads."
Toothbrush heads.
You think about everything.
Thank you, baby.
What I want is, like,
something to remember.
But, a toothbrush...
Ooh, I got these.
What is that?
Pregnancy test.
We agree, we're
both ready for it.
So, you can check
yourself at the end of my trip.
I have always wanted
to have my own kids.
A boy and a girl, if
it works out that way.
That would be amazing.
At this point, I know
I'm a little older,
but I'm ready.
I just needed to meet the right person,
and Jasmine, to me, is the right person.
Thank you,
baby. I'm gonna put it away.
He wants to have
a baby right away,
that's, that's crazy.
Of course.
So, Gino doesn't know
I'm taking birth control pills.
And I'm nervous to tell him the truth,
because he's gonna be very disappointed.
Yeah, let's go.
Huh?
Oh yeah, it's here.
See, I have this
picture of you on my...
- Let me see.
- Phone.
Oh, that's me.
What's the password?
- What's the password?
- Yeah.
Just to unlock the screen.
- Hmm?
- Give me your password.
My face.
Your face? So, even if you're sleeping,
if I do like this, it's gonna show up?
Yeah.
Oh, good.
Did you want see something?
I can check...
if you're being a good boy.
- If I'm a good boy, yeah.
- Yes, baby, that's important.
- Right?
- Yeah.
Good boy. Okay, let's go.
Jasmine and I have
good chemistry so far.
But, there's a side of Jasmine
that worries me a little bit.
Yes.
She can be a jealous,
controlling person.
But, it's only day one,
and I hope that, um,
you know, this stuff, uh, kinda
goes away is what I'm hoping.
- Come, baby.
- Okay.
I'm scared if he's gonna walk out the
door, see me sitting in the wheelchair,
he's just gonna go, "Ew, what?"
Maybe I'll be just, you know,
like, really awkward and be like...
"Hi."
"Hi."
Today, I'm finally meeting Caleb,
and I can't believe that it's happening.
And I'm feeling
excited, weird, confused,
and just all spectrum
of emotions.
All these 13 years were leading
to this very moment, to today.
I really appreciate you
helping me with all that.
But, I don't know. I really, like,
this moment of meeting Caleb...
- Uh-huh.
- I really want...
you know, I really want
it to be only between us.
- Okay, so?
- Uh, so, I don't know.
I was thinking maybe we'll
go to the airport together,
and then, you, you leave?
So, why should I go
to the airport at first?
Uh, because I'm nervous,
and it's a long way,
and I'm just gonna go
crazy if I do it by myself.
I'm really
disappointed about that,
because the main, uh, point of
me, uh, came here is to protect her,
and Caleb might not act like
a gentleman or something.
Now, it's really impossible
for me to look out for her.
- Okay.
- Look at that.
- Wow, looking gorgeous. Thanks so much.
- Okay.
- Beautiful work.
- I'm a professional iron man.
Yeah, I'm very excited now.
- Let's go for it.
- Yes!
- You're so professional at this.
- Yeah.
Okay, I'll help you.
I hope we are not
going to be late.
Finally.
I'm excited.
When I imagine
Caleb and I meeting,
I'm scared if he's gonna walk out the
door, see me sitting in the wheelchair,
maybe he's just gonna go, "Ew,
what? It's not how I imagined her," and...
I just don't know
what I would do.
Okay.
There's a lot going
through my head right now.
I'm about to meet
Alina after 13 years.
Is it gonna go like we
hoped? Is this real?
I hope it's not awkward.
But, I'm really excited to
finally see her in front of me.
I'm very exhausted, didn't
get any sleep on that flight.
It's been 30 hours,
probably, since I've slept.
Ugh, I smell bad, too.
This is not a good smell.
Ah.
Ugh.
Okay.
Just drop you inside
and then leave?
- Yeah.
- And you stay fierce.
I will.
I hope that everything will be
fine, but Alina has very high hopes.
And if this guy, like, tried to come
for my girl, I'm probably whoop his ass.
Okay, and here we go.
I've known Alina for a long time, but
I've never actually seen her in person.
On video's a much different world than,
you know, the actuality of the flesh.
And I don't really know what
it'll be like with her being little.
So, I guess my biggest apprehension
is just what that'll be like in reality,
to see her in front of me.
I'm feeling so nervous, my heart
probably will jump off my chest.
But, I really don't know
how this is gonna go,
and it just makes me
very, very, very nervous.
Next time on 90
Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days...
We have to leave a tip.
No, no, I'm just nice.
This is the first time I've seen
Jasmine's jealousy in person.
I-I don't see any reason for it.
I stopped listening to you, like, five
minutes ago. Do whatever you want.
I want someone
that me and my kids
can trust and count
on for the rest of my life.
My obsession with Asian
culture got me my Asian prince.
Hey, baby. I miss you a lot.
I've been naked on
video chat with him.
You did what?
Johnny and I have
an interesting sex life.
But, I'm really hoping that in person,
he isn't surprised by how big I am.
I mean, like, he invited
me here to watch the video.
I did wanna come.
I did wanna come.
I just landed here in Pereira.
But, I texted Ximena.
She's not responding.
Where is she?
She said she would be
waiting for me in baggage claim.
I don't see her.
Did I just get stood up?
Fiance: Before the 90 Days...
Whoa!
I'm flying across the world to meet
Alina for the very first time, in person.
What type of stuff will
you need help with?
My wheelchair.
I don't know.
I might have
to help Alina a lot.
And I just wonder, if that's gonna
be a problem that I can't really predict.
Boobies for you.
Eight months ago, I met
the love of my life, Hamza.
And when I get to Tunisia,
we're getting married.
How do you know if he's
not wanting to come
over here for a green card?
It's the craziest thing to think
that I would fall in love with
a singer slash rapper guy.
We're dating and we're
gonna see what happens, so.
I consider us dating.
Usman calls me his
potential girlfriend, so...
That's why this trip to
Tanzania is so important
because I need to prove
that I am the woman for him.
Do you plan on getting
intimate with him?
100 percent, but we've
decided on two separate rooms.
Why is it always gotta
be so defensive, though?
Like, can you guys
be happy for me?
Me.
Quiet.
Jasmine is like my soul mate.
And I haven't even met her yet.
I'll be able to kiss her for the
first time, today's the big day.
But I do have some
nerves seeing her
in person.
Jasmine can be a bit jealous,
so hopefully it's less of an
issue when we're together.
Jasmine, I'm
coming, see you soon.
Here we are, um,
now in Atlanta airport,
halfway to Panama.
And I just got this
photo from Jasmine,
she's looking good today.
I'm on my way to see my
34-year-old girlfriend, Jasmine,
for the very first time.
Ever since my divorce,
seven years ago,
I haven't had very much
luck finding true love.
And even though I've known
Jasmine for only nine months,
on video chat.
I picture my future
with Jasmine,
raising a family and
growing old together.
Starting to feel real now, wow.
Dying to see her, can't wait.
My name is Jasmine, I'm 34-years-old,
and I live in Panama City, Panama.
Because I'm hot,
beautiful and intelligent.
Plus...
We are not tameable.
I'm more than just a hot body.
I love reading,
that's my passion,
that's why I'm an
American literature teacher.
I am also a mother of
two beautiful baby boys.
Well, they are not babies but
they will always be my babies.
My eldest lives
with my ex-husband.
And the youngest lives with me.
But he has a special condition,
and during this pandemic
he was having a really
hard time in the city,
with the lockdown, so,
my mother and I
made the decision
to take him, with her,
temporarily to the countryside.
This year has been
very difficult for me.
But, meeting
Gino, it felt so good.
It was like therapy.
I have never been with
someone from the United States.
But I was like, whoa,
he's a very smart person.
And I was like, wow, this
guy wants someone to love.
But, we're very different.
I'm super extrovert,
he's introvert.
I eat healthy, he eats
I have never seen him
without his stupid hat.
Gino's a special person.
Oh, my gosh, this is the place.
Oh, wow.
Tomorrow I will finally
meet Gino, I can't believe it.
Since Gino and I, we
wanted to have some privacy.
Ohhh!
Aw, I just got a
message from Gino.
Who's my pretty bonita?
Me!
Latina, hot Latina.
We have what we call, baby talk.
And I love it.
It's like, "Who's my little
baby?" and it's like, "Me."
The love of my life.
Who's my little baby?
Me, baby, and you're
the love of my life, too.
So sweet.
I'm super excited because I want
to hug him, I want to smell him.
And I've been fantasizing
about making love with him.
And I just bought a few things.
This is, you know,
his favorite color.
I want to look cute for him,
you know, that's what I want.
Because...
I try.
He's very skinny...
So, I'm afraid of...
Oh, my gosh, coming.
Ohhh! There you are!
Grisel is one of
my best friends.
And she is coming to help
me decorate the room for Gino.
- The flowers...
- Oh, my gosh.
It's hermoso.
Thank you.
My concern about Gino,
I don't think that
she know him for real.
Maybe he's lying
about something and...
Jasmine will get, like...
I'm very worried.
I hope so.
Are you worried about
the, uh, age difference?
The thing is, at
the beginning...
but he's actually a
few days away of 52.
He hasn't lied to
you in other things.
Because I know,
I'm always calling him
and when he goes outside,
He has to video call me
when he's at the place,
when he's in the car,
when he's back home.
What?
You don't trust him.
I trust him, because
he does that.
I'm not joking when I
ask Gino about evidence.
You can be the perfect
wife, look so beautiful,
treat them good.
It's never enough.
But, that's not gonna
happen to me again, no.
I have told him that you
cannot be nice to women.
Especially if I'm around.
Hey, that's kind of psycho.
It's not psycho,
it's just that... -Yeah.
It should be very interesting
what is going to happen
in the next few weeks.
Even though I believe Gino is
very different from all the other guys,
trust is something
that you build over time.
That he can handle me.
I'm hoping that.
After 13 years of knowing
each other, in a couple of days
I'm going to Turkey
to finally meet Alina.
We have great chemistry online,
I just don't know
how it'll be in person.
And also, I've never
dated a little person before
so I don't really
know what to expect.
But I don't want to
keep waiting to find out
if our connection is
everything I think it is.
Hey, guys.
Come on in,
it's good to see you.
- Hey, Mom, how are you?
- Good.
- Hey, Dad.
- Hey.
My parents don't know about
my relationship with Alina.
- How are you?
- I'm fine.
How about you?
I'm good, I'm gonna
grab some food, okay?
Help yourself.
I've really
avoided telling my parents
too much about
relationships in the past.
Because I grew up in a
very Christian, religious home,
where, if we dated, we
were expected to get married.
So, I really hope they're supportive
of my choice now to go and visit Alina.
So, what's
going on besides work?
Well, I was actually hoping
to grab a suitcase from ya.
- Suitcase?
- What?
- Yeah.
- Where ya going?
Well, I'm going to Turkey.
I didn't know Turkey was on
your list of countries to visit.
Gonna go see a friend.
Tell me more about
what this friend is.
You're smiling.
Yeah, that means you're
up to something sneaky.
Her name's Alina.
Tell us more.
Uh, she's a friend I've
known for a long time.
Um, she lives in Russia.
She sings, she's very artistic.
She's also a little person.
- A little person?
- Yeah.
Meaning like...
Has a version of dwarfism.
Hmm, well, hmm.
So she's a little person,
but how tall is she really?
Yeah, she's probably
just around 3-feet.
How does she get
around, does she need a...
crutches or a wheelchair
or what's she use?
She'll roll around
in a wheelchair a lot.
She can walk but she
gets tired really easily.
Will that be in the way trying to
do a lot of stuff that you want to do?
I don't know, I'd like to think
it won't be a problem, but...
I'm gonna go and
just see what it's like.
I'm shocked. Uh, not only to
find out that he's seeing someone
but also to find out she's
from another country,
is currently in another country,
and is a little
person or a dwarf.
Uh, so there was a lot
to learn about tonight.
Does she live with her parents
or does she live with friends or...
- She has a roommate.
- Uh-huh.
So, actually, he's gonna be
coming along to support her.
Well, you already
have a chaperone then,
so I don't need to offer
to go to chaperone.
Mmm-hmm.
I can't help
but thinking, what if...
it goes further,
and you were to get married, uh,
what about children?
Would they be like her?
Um, I think that's way ahead.
But don't you think it's important
before you go, "Oh, yeah, you're the one."
Yeah, but you know, that's life,
if you take all the
what-ifs and the problems
before you actually move
forward with anything
you're never gonna go anywhere.
I find that I really do need to
bite my tongue a lot with Caleb
because he's not
afraid to take risks.
Which has its good
points and bad points
but I like that about him.
But it also does
cause us a little anxiety,
seeing him take risks that we
would be resistant to do ourselves.
Yes.
I mean, I think right
now the big issue is just
can we get along with
our differences in size.
Like, that's what we're
really putting to the test here.
And to make sure we are the
people we think each other are
because, you know, virtually versus
in person, there's a difference there.
- Well, and I know it's a lot to take in.
- Yeah.
My parents have expressed
some reservations about Alina and I.
There's a lot of unknown's here and
the questions they're asking are valid.
There's some obstacles
I haven't thought about,
which might be a real
issue down the line,
and in some ways that's scary.
I just hope that the
bond Alina and I have is
strong enough to endure any
hurdles that may come our way.
- This relationship I think could really be a challenge.
- Yes.
I just want your hearts to be okay
regardless of how this all comes out.
- I feel selfish, like, I'm leaving, you know?
- No!
No, no, no. Don't feel that way.
You're gonna ruin your own trip.
I love Usman,
but he doesn't know if he
wants to be in a relationship
with an American woman again.
Every ounce of my being is telling
me to do this, but is it fair to her?
Like, I'm taking a
chance being gone
and something happening to her.
And I hope he's worth this.
So, does Hamza know
about your ex-husband?
He don't need to know nothing.
Memphis tends
to be very impulsive.
I am concerned that Hamza
really does not know who she is.
Okay, this is the last of
it. I'm about to fall over.
- Oh, my God.
- I know.
- You're only gonna be gone for two weeks.
- I know.
Today is the day that I am
flying to Tanzania, Africa
to meet Usman AKA SojaBoy.
Usman and I met
online 11 months ago.
I became a fan of his music, I
mean, like, a big fan of his music,
and I fell in love with him.
Usman is from Nigeria, but I'm
going to meet him in Tanzania
because he's shooting his music
video there for his song "Zara."
I don't know much
about Tanzania,
but I know that it is
going to be paradise
because I'm going to be
discovering all this new culture,
the new food, all that stuff.
With the man of my dreams.
So, are you okay? Are you
gonna be okay with me going?
I'm not gonna be okay mentally
because I'm gonna miss your face, but, um,
I want you to just concentrate on
having... seriously want you to have,
enjoy this once-in-a-lifetime
experience.
And you're all set
up. You have your...
I got my medic alert.
- You have the neighbors, you have my friends.
- The neighbor, Andy.
- You have Alyssa, you have Vanessa's number.
- Yes.
But you just got to be...
Take care of yourself.
I will. I promise. I
wouldn't do anything,
even take a chance
of doing anything
to make this trip not
wonderful for you.
- I know, but it's not just about me.
- Yes, it is.
- It's about you, too. You know what I mean?
- I'll be fine.
- Okay.
- You know?
I'll be fine. Don't
worry about it.
- Mom, you've got to take care of yourself, seriously.
- I promise I will, my pudding.
Like, I'm freaking out.
No, like, I feel selfish
like, I'm leaving, you know?
No! No, no, no. Don't feel that
way. You're not being selfish.
Don't feel that way. You're
gonna ruin your own trip.
I feel like I should do this, like, every
ounce of my being is telling me to do this,
but is it fair to her?
Like, I'm taking a chance being
gone halfway across the world
and something happening
to her, you know?
And I hope he's worth this.
Bye, honey.
I'm so worried. Please be okay.
- Promise me you'll be okay.
- I promise, I promise.
And it'll be fine.
Uber, yes!
- All right, I love yo so much.
- I love you more.
You just want
the best for your kid,
so I hope that there is a
love connection and if not,
at least she'll know now
rather than dream about it
or fantasize about it, you know?
Where are we going today?
- I am going to Tanzania.
- Awesome.
This is probably
one of the wildest things
I've ever done in
my life, honestly.
I love Usman,
but he doesn't know if he
wants to be in a relationship
with an American woman
again because of his ex-wife.
This trip is my
chance to prove to him
that I am not like his ex-wife and then
to see if we can build a future together.
- This is it.
- All right. I'll get your bags out for you.
Thank you so much.
If I go over
there and we find out
that it's not in the universe's
plan for him and I to be together,
I'm gonna be really hurt.
But I feel like once he sees me
in person and can, like, touch me
and hold my hand and
whatever else is gonna happen,
I feel like, you know, I
think it's going to go great.
Oh, Lord.
I just dropped off
my kids to my ex-husband's house
because today is the day
that I'm flying to Tunisia
to meet and marry
my fiancé Hamza.
Oh, my gosh. Maybe I
should push these up a little bit.
There we go. I can do this now.
And I am so excited
that I am finally
going to kiss those juicy
lips that I always see.
I am feeling
butterflies right now.
Hey!
- Hey, girl. How you doing?
- Hey, all right!
- Ooh, I miss you. Oh, my gosh.
- I miss you, too.
Hey, uh-uh, girl. Can you
get this big one right here?
- No, I want the little one.
- Girl, look at us.
- Oh, my gosh.
- Girl, come on, now. You got a little bit of muscle
I know you got
something going there.
Ingrid is my foster sister
and she is driving me
to the airport today.
- Ooh, look at your hair. I love it.
- Thank you.
You come on in.
Her mother was my foster mom
when I was approximately 16 years old.
So, what you got to eat
'cause I'm kinda hungry.
I mean, I ain't trying to, like, just
come and eat and just leave but...
- Mmm-hmm. Sure.
- I'm hungry.
It was one of my favorite homes
and we have a really close relationship.
If you have some bacon
I would love some bacon
'cause I can't have no
bacon when I go down there.
I sure can't. You know, it's
his religion and, you know,
I wanna kinda, like, you
know, follow it and respect it
when I'm down there, so can I
get about six, seven, eight pieces?
Look, I got some bacon.
Ingrid has been a great
support system through the years
and I really take
what she says to heart.
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
Girl, you gonna be
gone a long time.
- Mmm-hmm.
- I don't know if I can do that.
- Why?
- Be gone without my kids for a couple weeks.
What I'm doing is gonna
benefit my kids in the long run
'cause they are gonna
have a great father figure.
We are gonna have a great life.
- I have a lot of faith.
- Girl.
- I know.
- I don't buy it.
Why don't you?
You've seen us interact.
We have a good
connection. It's just amazing.
- Stop.
- You know?
- Yeah, well, not in person, but...
- Not in person.
But, I mean, FaceTime
is, like, enough
to see someone, like,
interacting and doing good.
- No, it's not.
- Yes, it is!
I don't know why Memphis is
choosing to get married so quickly,
but Memphis tends
to be very impulsive.
And he really does
not know who she is.
Memphis is a hothead and
could be very intimidating,
so I am concerned that
Hamza is not ready for Memphis.
So, does Hamza know
about your ex-husband?
He knows that he is the
biological father of my son.
- Okay.
- Okay, and he don't need to know nothing.
Hamza knows my ex-husband
and I co-parent very well,
and he's a really good support
system to me and my children.
I mean, he is more of a father to
Kennedy than her biological father.
But what Hamza doesn't know
is that when we started dating,
I was going through a
rough patch in my life,
so I spent a couple
nights with my ex-husband,
not in an intimate way, but only
for emotional and moral support.
But Hamza is very jealous,
so if he finds out, it's
gonna be a problem.
Memphis, Memphis.
I haven't really had a relationship
in the past 20 years or so,
but I met someone that
made my dreams come true.
If everything works out, when I'm
down there, the plan is I wanna propose.
A lot of times he doesn't
make the best decisions,
but this is on a
whole other level.
You have to make sure
she has the right intentions.
Ooh! Ooh!
I'm bringing condoms
just to be safe.
I'm a pretty
sexually open person,
so I'm excited but
a little bit anxious
because a lot of the things you
take for granted in regular-size sex
are off the table.
Twenty-one.
These two pieces.
Ooh, I need two of those.
My name is Mike, I'm
from Thiells, New York,
and I'm 34 years old.
My primary job, I'm
an IT support technician
and I volunteer
as a firefighter.
I'm not too outgoing, so I kind of
keep to myself most of the time.
That's fine with me.
Twenty-one goes here.
For fun I like to, like,
build models, build LEGOs.
It's a McLaren. It's a racecar.
It's gonna be so cool.
It makes me happy
just to, like, let loose
and just zone out and just
refresh my brain kind of thing.
You coming down
for breakfast anytime soon?
I'll be right down!
Currently, I still live at
home with my dad and grandfather.
Who's hungry?
I have two younger brothers,
but they have
their own families.
So I help my dad take care of
my grandfather 'cause he's 94.
We gotta check his
sugar, put him to bed,
get him undressed,
things like that.
Pop, are you ready
for your hearing aids?
I hear what I wanna
hear, believe me.
You're very stubborn, Pop.
I'm not stubborn!
There you go.
It makes me happy, but it definitely
cramps my style living at home.
Michael, keep an
eye on those pancakes
'cause they'll burn on one side.
I know.
It's like if I go
out, they'll be like,
"Oh, where were you? Why didn't
you tell us? We were worried about you."
And I'm like, "Argh,
leave me alone."
Pop, are they good, bad?
You have to answer that.
Okay.
Just in the future, if you're
gonna settle down somewhere,
very important for a
man to know how to cook.
My past relationships,
they've consisted of, um...
That's really a tough question.
I haven't really had a relationship
in the past 20 years or so.
- Here you go.
- Okay.
Oops, sorry
about that. A little bit.
In high school I had a...
somewhat of a serious relationship.
It was for about a year.
That pretty much sums it up.
- He's very good-natured. That's what I love about him.
- Yep.
I'm not a kid anymore, Pop.
Yeah, I know.
I was always looking
for a serious relationship,
someone to just
settle down with.
So since I went 34 years without
finding a woman in my local area,
I just decided to change my
location in a dating application
and just switch it
over to Colombia.
And I met someone that
made my dreams come true.
My girlfriend's name is Ximena.
She's 24 years old, and she
lives in Pereira, Colombia.
And she's the most
beautiful woman in the world.
I was just, like, wow
is this really happening.
I had to, like, pinch myself.
Ximena and I have been
talking for about a year now.
And I feel like I know
Ximena fairly well.
And, um, even though we've
never physically met before,
she's the first person that I
truly feel like I fell in love with.
And we've even
gone as far as talking
about getting married
and having kids together.
We have that connection
both emotionally, mentally.
But the main problem between
me and Ximena is the language.
I speak English with a little bit of
Spanish, and she speaks only Spanish.
I think communication will
be a lot easier in person,
which is really good because I finally
booked, uh, my ticket to Colombia
to meet Ximena,
my love of my life.
So I'm leaving for
Colombia in a week.
I can't stand to be
apart from her anymore.
I'm just so ready to get to,
like, hold her and hug her
and be with her in person.
- What are you doing?
- Just testing the tools and the batteries.
You need help with anything?
- Uh, yeah, can we check the, uh, AD over there?
- Yeah.
Ever since high school, I've
been a volunteer firefighter.
I take pride in helping
people, helping my community.
My younger brother
Steven also joined as well.
- There we go.
- Okay, let's lift this up.
We're very close.
And he kinda acts kinda
like the voice of reason for me.
But we definitely
don't look alike.
My brother's about 5'10".
I'm like 5'4".
And he has a decent set of
hair, so he's definitely not like me.
- So you getting excited?
- Yeah.
So about a week away.
It's, uh... It's crazy.
I mean, you're going
across the world
to go meet a girl
you've never met before.
Yeah, I know, but I love her.
Well, not for nothing, it's the happiest
I've seen you since Mom passed away.
Nine years ago, uh, my mom passed
away from stage 4 colon cancer.
And that was a really
rough time in my life.
I would get... Sometimes, I would
get too emotional. I would get angry.
I wasn't really
opening up to anybody.
But Ximena changed
my whole life around.
So just from there, I just started
opening up more and more.
And this is, like, the
happiest I've ever been.
So I don't wanna
ever let that go.
I just wanna keep moving forward and
progressing towards our future together.
So, like, are you planning on, like,
marrying this girl. Like, what's the plan?
Uh, well, if everything works
out, when I'm down there,
um, the plan is I wanna propose.
You're gonna propose down there?
Uh, maybe, yeah.
- Do you have a ring?
- I do, yeah.
When the heck did you buy a ring?
I got a, like, a
small little nice ring.
Dude, marriage is serious.
- I know.
- Me and Amanda were together for, like, ten years
before I even thought
about proposing, you know.
So you should really know someone
a lot, you know, their goods, their bads.
You know, secrets come out, but
secrets aren't gonna come out in two weeks.
You don't know anything
about her personal life.
You kinda only know what
she wants you to know.
I've had that concern.
But after this past year,
we're on like a level of trust.
So if anything comes up I'm
gonna just talk to her in person
and like, "Hey,
what's this about?"
Just to get, like,
an honest answer.
'Cause she hasn't
lied to me, so...
Well, that you know of.
- So you're trusting her?
- Yeah.
Okay.
Mike is, uh, seven
years older than me,
but a lot of the times, I
feel like I'm the older brother
just 'cause I've kind of had a little
bit more life experience than he has
when it comes to relationships.
A lot of times, he doesn't make
the best decisions for himself.
But not like this.
This is on a whole other level.
You know, he's planning on
marrying somebody he's never met.
I think he needs to take his time
and get to know her before that.
But unfortunately, he's gonna
do whatever he wants to do.
I know emotions are there,
and you want this to work,
but you have to make sure
she has the right intentions.
Just, like, my gut feeling just tells
me that she, like, she really does care.
Um, she always asks me, like,
whether I ate breakfast or ate lunch.
She always, like, tells me that.
So once I get back, I'll start
on, like, the, uh, paperwork
for the visa.
Once that's all approved, she
would move in with me, Dad and Pop.
That's a lot.
Just gotta think about this,
man.
Steven has some good points,
but it doesn't change the
way I feel about Ximena.
I love her. I trust her.
She hasn't really given
much to not believe about her.
So I just really
wanna go for it.
I've, over time, watched my friends,
my brother settle down, have children.
And I've waited 34 years
for my turn to be happy.
So I just feel like
it's my time now.
And Elijah's helping me out
to pick up the best outfits
just so Caleb is gonna
be head over heels for me.
Oh, my God.
Dressed to kill.
My mom is really worried about me
going all the way to Turkey by myself.
So I offered the idea of
Elijah coming with me.
It's good because Elijah
helps me a lot in my life.
And Caleb has never
navigated a wheelchair.
So Elijah can show Caleb
how to help me with everything.
And then Caleb
will start doing it.
So it's like a gradual change.
- Finally.
- Yes, for real.
I've known Alina
for six years already.
I know about Caleb a little.
He seems to be,
uh, a pretty good guy.
But you never know.
So I think it will be a great thing
for me to be with her to help her
if this relationship
will not work out.
- For real?
- Come on the top, girl.
Who's gonna be the bottom?
Today is the
day I leave for Turkey.
I've got a long
flight ahead of me.
But it'll be so worth it to finally get
to see Alina in person after 13 years.
Got my protein powder so I
can stay fit. Get all my protein.
Got my tarot deck here.
Read some cards out in Turkey.
Bringing condoms,
too, just to be safe.
I'm not trying to force things.
I really want to see
what feels organic.
But, you know, I'm
seeing her for two weeks.
Anything could happen.
Despite my religious upbringing,
I'm a pretty sexually
open person.
So I'm excited but
a little bit anxious
because with Alina, a lot of
the things you take for granted
in regular size sex
are off the table.
Like, you can't make
out and have sex.
They're either on
you or they're up here.
So I really don't
know what to expect.
It's gonna be a different world.
But our connection's so deep I
don't think Alina's size will matter.
What's up, bro?
Dude, thanks so
much for the ride.
Yeah, of course, happy to help.
So you know what
you're in for in Turkey?
Dude, I'm sure we'll hit it off.
We've got to. You know,
we've talked for so long.
- The only thing would be if it is just weird in person.
- Mmm-hmm.
I think it's crazy.
It's wild that he's gonna go
travel so far just to meet this girl.
I feel like it might not work
out too well as Alina and him
are very different when it
comes to physical compatibility.
But I feel like Caleb's
expectations are pretty high.
He seems real committed to it,
so hopefully it doesn't come
around and bite him in the ass.
I really, like... I'm so
nervous sometimes
that I think I'm gonna throw up.
- Okay.
- Like, I don't know.
But also happy.
Whoo!
All right.
- Stay safe, okay.
- Have fun.
You, too!
- I'll text you.
- All right.
Taking a shot at happily
ever after with Alina.
It's a little nerve-racking,
but I see the potential of what Alina and
I can be and how great a person she is.
Inside, my heart
is beating fast.
And I have a huge
spectrum of emotions.
I don't want Caleb to see
me just as a little person.
I'm more than that.
And I feel that Caleb and I
could spend our lives together.
So I hope this is the
beginning of something amazing
and unforgettable
for both of us.
Panama.
I have been dreaming about
meeting Jasmine for months now.
I'm just so excited, but
My heart will be
broken if it don't work.
Here goes nothing.
I just touched down in Panama.
And I can't believe finally the day
has come were I'm gonna see Jasmine.
Panama.
I got to take some of these
clothes off before I meet Jasmine.
I have been dreaming about meeting
Jasmine in person for months now.
And, wow,
Jasmine's in the same
building as me right now.
How exciting is that?
Oh, my gosh.
I just want him to be here.
Everything
excites me about Gino coming.
All I've been doing is
communicating, communicating,
getting to know each other.
A lot of talking,
I'm very excited to
see how he looks.
Physical appearance is important
but what matters to me the most
is the connection that we have,
and I just hope that
it's the same when
we are together.
My hands are shaking.
I'm very nervous,
but I'm ready.
How do you get down there?
I'm just so excited.
I'm walking to meet
Jasmine right now
for the first time,
are you kidding?
There are some things
that can come between us,
like Jasmine's jealousy
and trust issues.
But I already picture
my future with Jasmine.
So, my heart will be
broken if it don't work.
Oh, my God.
Here goes nothing.
Whoa, look at you.
Oh, my
God. Is it...
Jasmine?
- Oh, my God.
- Oh, my God is it you?
Oh, my God.
Ohhh.
I can finally hold you.
I've... We finally meet.
It's real.
Baby. Yeah.
We finally meet,
can you believe it?
No.
- Oh, my God.
- Baby...
Yeah.
It feels amazing
to be together in person
and I'm so excited.
She's super-hot, beautiful.
I mean, look at her.
Don't get me wrong I
knew she was beautiful
but seeing her in person...
Whoo.
Are you kidding?
Say it, give me the baby talk.
Who's my little baby?
Wah.
Gino looks in person
super handsome.
-Aw. -So cute.
Better than...
- What I look like on video chat?
- You look so perfect.
- Yeah.
- Yes.
Aw.
Baby.
Let's go home.
Let's go.
My goal coming to Panama
is to see how things go.
And if things go
great then I could
propose to Jasmine
at the end of my trip.
Do you wanna be in the window?
Uh, yeah.
So far it seems like we're
even more connected in person.
Really? Oh, my God.
And now that we're together,
I'm...
excited to be
intimate with Jasmine.
But... It's a little
nerve-racking, too.
Now that I see you in person
it's, like, "Wow, you...
Really take care of yourself."
Yes.
Oh, my God.
It's been a few years, since
I've been with a woman sexually.
So...
I'm just hoping
everything goes well.
I don't wanna disappoint her.
Yeah.
Of course.
It's already going wrong.
I have taken two flights,
and traveled over 27 hours.
I am very exhausted
but I have one more flight
to go to get to Tanzania
and get that much
closer to Usman.
I will be arriving in
Tanzania, later on today.
But Usman won't be there
until tomorrow as he is flying
from his hometown in Nigeria.
Ay, what a...
All right.
Right?
I won't let anything
stand in the way
of being successful.
Something special.
Do you like it?
You look so good.
Oh, my God, love you.
And that's why I invite her
to come to Zanzibar, Tanzania,
for my music video shoot
What's up?
SojaBoy.
- Fine.
- Yeah, hold on.
Okay.
Okay.
Yeah, sure.
Bringing a woman
to a video shoot...
When we are done
she can come over
and see you
specially, but now...
All right, all right, fine.
She's going to be loyal.
She's not going to
control my career.
But, I have to move on,
and I decided to just
focus on Kimberly.
No, no, no, no, no, no.
If everything works out
she can be my wife.
It's already going wrong.
But does it have an elevator?
I'm at upset at Caleb
booking this hotel.
Oh, my God.
I feel very nervous.
He doesn't
understand my abilities.
It's... It's
higher than me.
Oh, my God, we just
arrived to Istanbul.
Woohoo!
Let's go, girl.
Yes!
I finally arrived to Turkey,
and I feel very, very excited.
My friend is picking
us up from the airport,
and we are going to
the hotel, gonna check in,
get my beauty sleep,
because Caleb is
coming tomorrow.
Really, the anticipation
has been building up in me.
This is crazy.
- Hi, girl!
- Hi!
- Finally!
- Finally, I can visit you.
My friend Maria was my
classmate from university days.
She lives in Istanbul now,
and I'm so happy to see her.
- This is your car?
- Okay, that's the car.
Nice, nice to meet your car.
Hi, car.
And I'm also very, very excited
that she's gonna
meet Caleb, too,
maybe give me a
different perspective.
Elijah, isn't it weird?
She's going to meet some
guy she never met before?
It's, uh, pretty
interesting experience.
Is he going to
stay at the same hotel?
- With you?
- We're staying in the same room.
I'm ready, like,
why, why waste any time.
I mean, it's been 13 years.
- I mean, yes, I'm nervous about that, too.
- Excuse me?
I'm nervous.
I'm-I'm scared if I'm not
gonna be able to, you know,
go to the bathroom
while he's in there.
I mean, like, to poop.
- Mmm.
- Girls, come in.
Wow, nice.
- So, sorry guys, I can't stay long here.
- Yeah, okay.
- Thanks for coming, I'm so happy to see you.
- And thank you
for picking us up,
really, I'm just so grateful.
- Okay, no problem.
- Yeah.
- Can't wait to see him.
- Yeah.
Bye, bye.
- Hi.
- Hello, welcome.
Thank you, here's my passport.
Of course.
Mmm-hmm.
But does it have an elevator?
That's bad.
Thank you.
Oh, my God.
Okay, this is hard now.
Excuse me.
Caleb's responsibility
was to choose the hotel,
and there is no elevator.
Like, why?
And again, upstairs.
It's not even the second floor,
it's second-and-a-half.
Maybe he'll have
to carry me, sometimes.
It's gonna be hella workout
of going up and down,
up and down on these stairs.
- Oh, wow.
- Wow.
- It's really like an apartment.
- Oh, wow!
The bed is even high for me.
It's high, it's higher than me.
It's very high.
- Oh, wow.
- Oh, wow.
Oh, wow!
Yeah, I don't know,
do they have,
like, a chair here,
and I will also need the
chair to get in the bed,
or Caleb.
One or two even,
because it's very high.
It's very high, yeah.
- Even for me, like that is...
- Yeah.
I'm not a huge
fan of the design.
I think it's kinda ugly.
But, when you're asleep...
It doesn't matter.
You will have probably some...
- Action.
- Action!
Yeah, oh, my gosh.
I'm meeting Caleb
in less than 24 hours,
and I'm just very excited
to see him in real life,
but at the same time,
I'm upset at Caleb
booking this hotel.
It just makes me think, maybe,
Caleb doesn't
understand my abilities.
So, I feel very nervous
about tomorrow.
So maybe, uh, you need me
to stay over here, uh, tonight?
Yeah, yeah, that would be cool.
How much money have
you been spending?
I do help her out with,
like, rent and things like that.
Wow.
She could have all
these guys, all over,
just...
This chick's milking you.
When do you go to Colombia?
Uh, Sunday.
Wow, Mikey, I'm excited for you.
I'm leaving for
Colombia in a few days,
and I'll be meeting my girlfriend,
Ximena, for the first time.
We've been texting
for about a year now.
My hopes are to propose
towards, like, the end of
the trip.
And then we'll start our life together.
Before I go on the trip, I
wanted to go to the toy store,
and get some toys, so I
don't go empty-handed.
Aw, nice. Very cute.
I'm starting a new
life with not just Ximena,
but also, her two kids.
She has a three-year-old,
and a seven-year-old.
So that's why I asked
my best friend, John,
and his wife,
Nelcy, to come out,
pick out some toys that,
maybe, the kids would like,
because they have
a three-year-old,
and I don't have any
experience with kids.
You know, you're a
good kid for going to do this.
What is your budget, Mikey?
Um, nothing,
maybe, too expensive,
maybe, $100, $150.
Mikey money-bags over here.
I've always wanted
to have kids someday,
and that's something that me and
Ximena have actually talked about.
But to take on that
stepfather role...
it kinda makes me a little,
a little terrified.
Remember these kids are
gonna be looking up to you.
It's papi.
- Oh, I know.
- This is real stuff, man.
But I love Ximena so much,
and I hope that when
I bring them their gifts,
it'll prove to Ximena, and
her kids and her family,
that I'm fully committed
to this relationship.
- Thank you.
- Ladies first.
- Thank you.
- Sorry, I went first.
I've been friends
with Mike for over 20 years,
and we're almost like brothers.
This is Mike's first
relationship, first girlfriend.
I-I-I... God bless.
Oh, what do you
guys think of that pogo thing?
It's flimsy, but I don't know.
You want to try it and see?
- There you go.
- I don't know if I can do that.
So he doesn't have
any past history
to gauge this woman on.
I think coloring books
and markers and things
like that would be nice.
Racecars? Painting?
- That's nice.
- That's, yeah, I'll hold onto that.
Mike is very naive and I think
Mike's blinded by her looks,
and he's roped into
what she's telling him,
but the truth is
they haven't met
and it's gonna get real,
and it's gonna happen fast.
So I think we're good.
So here, put
it in your carriage.
We're ready.
Did you folks
find everything all right?
- Yeah, we did.
- We sure did.
- Okay.
- Thank you.
Oh, you made
very nice selections.
Who are these toys for?
They're for my
girlfriend's children.
Oh, how nice.
He's actually going to Colombia
to meet his girlfriend
for the first time.
Wow, you may be
in for quite a surprise then.
Yeah.
They should be
happy with the toys anyway.
Flying to another country
to meet a new girlfriend?
I think it's risky.
But if it doesn't work out, I hope he
gets a good cup of coffee, anyhow.
Mikey, before we go,
can we just have
a little conversation.
Sure.
You know that we care for you a
lot and we want the best for you.
I know.
Like, you're really sure
that you wanna do this?
Yeah, yeah, I wanna do this.
You know, I know
you work your ass off.
You've been saving your money,
you've been doing
the right thing.
I don't want to see that hard-earned
money that you're getting...
just, like, blowing it.
No, I know.
So how much money are,
have you been spending?
Um, so I do
help her out with like,
like rent and things like
that, temporarily, um...
What?
What else have you
paid, besides rent?
Um...
so the, that, I helped,
helped her with, like, uh,
-That's it -Wow.
How do you know that there's not
another Mike in Colorado.
She could have all these guys,
all over just.
This chick's milking you.
I just think that
you're going too fast.
It's crazy.
I think that
she's just using him,
using him for his money,
and to probably come here.
This is beyond red flags.
This is like the
nuclear airhorn blowin'
across the country,
your TV messages are coming up,
saying, "Warning!
Warning! Warning!"
He's not getting it.
The floodgates are closing.
The National Guard is here,
like, all the signs are out.
You really trust her?
I really trust her.
My friend's concerns,
they're valid concerns,
because this relationship
seems like it's, really,
too good to be true.
But at the end of the
day, I know that this is real,
and this makes me happy.
So, yeah, we're just gonna...
go with it.
We're going to Tunisia!
We're going to Tunisia!
I have so many nerves
just bottled up inside of me,
- All right, bye!
- Bye!
And there's a chance that,
once he sees me in person,
he's not 100 percent
attracted to me.
I just hope that he
does not disappoint me.
Oh, that's me.
What's the password?
What's the password?
- Yeah.
- You want to see something?
I can check if you're
being a good boy.
We're going to Tunisia!
We're going to Tunisia!
Hey, well, I ain't
going nowhere.
But damn, hey, we going!
We going!
I'm on my way to the airport
to finally meet
my fiance, Hamza,
and I can't wait to
get my hands on him.
Girl, he gonna
be all on you. Ooh!
She cute, he gonna pick
you up to kiss you. Zoot!
I hope so!
Oh, my God. I'm 'bout
to be with my man,
I'm 'bout to hold his hand!
Oh, my gosh,
the first embrace...
- Oh, my God.
- Like, when y'all see each other.
I'm just gonna be like...
Girl, you're gonna
be coming off a plane,
how you gonna be that sexy?
Oh, my
God. I'm so nervous.
Even though Hamza and I
video chat all the time,
there's a chance that
once he sees me in person,
he's not 100 percent
attracted to me.
In a past relationship,
I did have a problem
where the intimacy
wasn't there, emotionally
and physically, and so
we just didn't connect
like I wanted us to.
So, that really made me feel
like the guy wasn't
attracted to me,
and I've had some lower
self-esteem issues because of that.
So, knowing that he
truly is attracted to me
is gonna be very important.
No, no, oh.
That was the car.
Look at that.
Oh, it's okay, I'll get it.
Memphis is definitely
nuts for doing this.
Meeting someone online,
and going all the way
to Tunisia to marry them...
- I'mma miss you.
- I'm gonna miss you, too.
You better call me.
If it's not gonna work,
this would be a big waste of
time, and money, and energy.
And I don't want her to go
through another let-down.
That would be very hard
for her to come back from.
- All right, bye.
- Bye.
Don't do nothing crazy.
Yeah, right.
Aw.
It's gonna be a
long day, long flight.
It's gonna be
worth it in the end.
I'm taking the most
important trip of my life.
I have so many nerves
just bottled up inside of me.
Leaving my kids for three
weeks will be very difficult.
But I am a thousand
percent invested in
marrying a man that
I've never met before
and to make him a father
figure to my children.
Ah!
Having a complete family
with a partner that I can trust
is something that I've
always dreamed of.
You're now welcome to board.
It's time for me to be happy.
I truly believe that
Hamza is the man for me.
I just hope that he
is who he says he is
and that he does
not disappoint me.
Whoo! Yeah.
Oh, my gosh.
Panama's beautiful.
Right, you like it, baby?
The water, the
trees... It is paradise.
Mmm-hmm.
Oh, my goodness.
- God.
- Yeah.
Wow.
After nine months of, you
know, texting and video chatting,
it's surreal to see
Jasmine in person.
Oh, my goodness.
Come, babe.
I see us being together forever
and having a family, so...
Yeah, it's awesome
just to be here.
Come in.
Whoo!
Ahem.
Oh, my God!
Oh, my gosh!
Gino loves Jasmine.
It's beautiful.
Baby, just let me see your
face. Let me see your teeth.
Baby.
I finally get to be
with you. Oh, my God.
Baby, I want you
to check the bed.
- Yeah?
- Is it okay?
Let's see.
It's so cozy.
Is it good, the pillows?
Yeah, it's so
comfortable. Oh, my God.
Do you wanna take it off?
Not yet.
Not yet?
Okay.
I can wait.
Mmm. Oh, lookie here.
Look what I got.
- What is it?
- For you.
An electric toothbrush.
This gift that I brought
for Jasmine is meaningful,
because manually, trying to
clean your teeth, it's difficult.
That thing's spinning,
you know, at a high rate.
And, you know, uh...
So much easier to use.
Plus, I-I don't even know if
they have these in Panama.
- That goes with it.
- Oh.
-So, those are the extra
tooth... - "Three brush heads."
Toothbrush heads.
You think about everything.
Thank you, baby.
What I want is, like,
something to remember.
But, a toothbrush...
Ooh, I got these.
What is that?
Pregnancy test.
We agree, we're
both ready for it.
So, you can check
yourself at the end of my trip.
I have always wanted
to have my own kids.
A boy and a girl, if
it works out that way.
That would be amazing.
At this point, I know
I'm a little older,
but I'm ready.
I just needed to meet the right person,
and Jasmine, to me, is the right person.
Thank you,
baby. I'm gonna put it away.
He wants to have
a baby right away,
that's, that's crazy.
Of course.
So, Gino doesn't know
I'm taking birth control pills.
And I'm nervous to tell him the truth,
because he's gonna be very disappointed.
Yeah, let's go.
Huh?
Oh yeah, it's here.
See, I have this
picture of you on my...
- Let me see.
- Phone.
Oh, that's me.
What's the password?
- What's the password?
- Yeah.
Just to unlock the screen.
- Hmm?
- Give me your password.
My face.
Your face? So, even if you're sleeping,
if I do like this, it's gonna show up?
Yeah.
Oh, good.
Did you want see something?
I can check...
if you're being a good boy.
- If I'm a good boy, yeah.
- Yes, baby, that's important.
- Right?
- Yeah.
Good boy. Okay, let's go.
Jasmine and I have
good chemistry so far.
But, there's a side of Jasmine
that worries me a little bit.
Yes.
She can be a jealous,
controlling person.
But, it's only day one,
and I hope that, um,
you know, this stuff, uh, kinda
goes away is what I'm hoping.
- Come, baby.
- Okay.
I'm scared if he's gonna walk out the
door, see me sitting in the wheelchair,
he's just gonna go, "Ew, what?"
Maybe I'll be just, you know,
like, really awkward and be like...
"Hi."
"Hi."
Today, I'm finally meeting Caleb,
and I can't believe that it's happening.
And I'm feeling
excited, weird, confused,
and just all spectrum
of emotions.
All these 13 years were leading
to this very moment, to today.
I really appreciate you
helping me with all that.
But, I don't know. I really, like,
this moment of meeting Caleb...
- Uh-huh.
- I really want...
you know, I really want
it to be only between us.
- Okay, so?
- Uh, so, I don't know.
I was thinking maybe we'll
go to the airport together,
and then, you, you leave?
So, why should I go
to the airport at first?
Uh, because I'm nervous,
and it's a long way,
and I'm just gonna go
crazy if I do it by myself.
I'm really
disappointed about that,
because the main, uh, point of
me, uh, came here is to protect her,
and Caleb might not act like
a gentleman or something.
Now, it's really impossible
for me to look out for her.
- Okay.
- Look at that.
- Wow, looking gorgeous. Thanks so much.
- Okay.
- Beautiful work.
- I'm a professional iron man.
Yeah, I'm very excited now.
- Let's go for it.
- Yes!
- You're so professional at this.
- Yeah.
Okay, I'll help you.
I hope we are not
going to be late.
Finally.
I'm excited.
When I imagine
Caleb and I meeting,
I'm scared if he's gonna walk out the
door, see me sitting in the wheelchair,
maybe he's just gonna go, "Ew,
what? It's not how I imagined her," and...
I just don't know
what I would do.
Okay.
There's a lot going
through my head right now.
I'm about to meet
Alina after 13 years.
Is it gonna go like we
hoped? Is this real?
I hope it's not awkward.
But, I'm really excited to
finally see her in front of me.
I'm very exhausted, didn't
get any sleep on that flight.
It's been 30 hours,
probably, since I've slept.
Ugh, I smell bad, too.
This is not a good smell.
Ah.
Ugh.
Okay.
Just drop you inside
and then leave?
- Yeah.
- And you stay fierce.
I will.
I hope that everything will be
fine, but Alina has very high hopes.
And if this guy, like, tried to come
for my girl, I'm probably whoop his ass.
Okay, and here we go.
I've known Alina for a long time, but
I've never actually seen her in person.
On video's a much different world than,
you know, the actuality of the flesh.
And I don't really know what
it'll be like with her being little.
So, I guess my biggest apprehension
is just what that'll be like in reality,
to see her in front of me.
I'm feeling so nervous, my heart
probably will jump off my chest.
But, I really don't know
how this is gonna go,
and it just makes me
very, very, very nervous.
Next time on 90
Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days...
We have to leave a tip.
No, no, I'm just nice.
This is the first time I've seen
Jasmine's jealousy in person.
I-I don't see any reason for it.
I stopped listening to you, like, five
minutes ago. Do whatever you want.
I want someone
that me and my kids
can trust and count
on for the rest of my life.
My obsession with Asian
culture got me my Asian prince.
Hey, baby. I miss you a lot.
I've been naked on
video chat with him.
You did what?
Johnny and I have
an interesting sex life.
But, I'm really hoping that in person,
he isn't surprised by how big I am.
I mean, like, he invited
me here to watch the video.
I did wanna come.
I did wanna come.
I just landed here in Pereira.
But, I texted Ximena.
She's not responding.
Where is she?
She said she would be
waiting for me in baggage claim.
I don't see her.
Did I just get stood up?