90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 16 - Unfinished Business - full transcript

Previously
on Before the 90 Days.

We're married!

So I'm pregnant.

- You're pregnant?
- Yes.

I helped her get a new,
uh, new apartment over here.

So, you know,
I am worried about money.

She's being irrational,
so to talk about a prenup

right now, it's not a good idea.

Bye.

- No.
- Yes.

- No.
- Yes.



- Yeah, bye.
- Bye.

He won't kiss me
in public still.

Now I'm leaving
on a doubtful note like,

"How are we gonna
make this work?"

Chow.

I will see you again.

I think we're on
a different level now,

but she hasn't been
transparent with me
about everything.

And the idea of going home

without talking about
any of that
is really, really scary.

What I am concerned about
is if you're hiding something
from me.

I just wanna say goodbye
to the kids in the morning.

You'll never see me
ever again, I promise you.

Ximena has been
taking advantage of me.



Just comes to a point
where I just
can't take it anymore.

I tried to do what I can,
but I can't make
any sense to her.

Tonight
is my last night in Colombia

and Ximena doesn't want me
sleeping here because
the relationship's over.

It's definitely hard
for me emotionally,

so I'm just trying everythin
in my power
just to hold it together.

Ximena, can I call you
tomorrow morning

and see if we can
work something out
to say goodbye to everybody.

Ximena

Okay.

I'm...

Hun.

Ximena?

We've had
this great connection
this past year

and even on the first trip
that it just makes giving up
that much harder.

This past year
was the happiest
I've ever been,

and I really
haven't loved anyone
as much as I loved Ximena.

Hi.

Oh

Sexy time.

- We.
- Oh.

You're gonna miss me?

Oh, thank you, ah.

I know.

I'm sad.

Today is the day
that I am leaving Tunisia.

I am excited
to go back to America

and finally see my kids
after all this time.

But I really wanna take
my husband with me.

And now that I'm pregnant,
it's even sadder

that I have to say goodbye
to Hamza.

I feel like my heart
is being ripped
out of my chest.

Ooh!

Oh, I'm gonna miss you.

Oh.

I'm sad too.

Yeah.

Okay.

Bye.

I will miss you a lot, too.

Oh.

Yes.

You take care
of yourself here
and your family.

You go to school,
you learn English.

Yes, it's very important.

I have to go home
and get this visa
going as soon as possible.

I'm gonna talk
to a lawyer tomorrow.

Hopefully, you'll be
in America soon, I hope.

I pray.

You with me is happiness.

Leaving Tunisia,
there are so many unknowns.

Oh, no.

Okay.

I don't know when Hamza

will be able to come to the US,

but even when he does,
he is gonna need
to adjust to my life

and being in a whole new place.

- Oh.
- You got it.

Plus on top of tha
learning how to be a dad.

I think
it's gonna be difficult
for both of us,

but I'm hoping
that we can get through it.

Come on.
We gotta go over there.

Yeah

Oh.

I don't know.
I don't know if it's gonna be
a long time.

Yeah, I know.

Hoh!

I love you.

No, wait...

I love you...

Bye...

I'm gonna probably be
a single mother again
for some time.

I know that it won't be forever.

And that's what I have
to hold on to,
is that it won't be forever.

It doesn't feel good
saying goodbye.

But I'm married.

He's a great guy.

He's got a great family.
I've got great kids.

Like, God has truly
blessed me...

Mahogany?

I'm not gonna
get in here
if you don't want me in here.

I-I do need to talk
to you, though.

Hold on.
Hold on. Wait.

Oh, my gosh.

I don't know
why you're saying that.

I'm gonna give her some time.

See, it's... it's actually
just a maturity thing.
It's a maturity thing.

She's not willing
to talk through
the hard conversations.

And she's not willing
to see my perspective.

She just thinks I'm here
to, uh, to play games.

Okay.

Mahogany?

If she genuinely think
she did not hide her age,

she doesn't remember
telling me anything
and it was not a problem,

she still should understand
where I'm coming from.

She should know that
it looks like that to me

and just be able
to give me a break
and let me say my piece.

You know, that's...
that's where
the maturity level comes in.

No.

No, no.

I'm not gonna
get in here
if you don't want me in here.

I-I do need to talk
to you, though.

Like, I didn't get to finish
the whole point
of what I was trying to say.

I'm not trying to play games.

I need to tell you my heart.

And there's a point to it.

I'm not gonna get in.

I'm not gonna get in the car

if you don't want me in the car.

Mahogany,
you can get in the car.

I'm not gonna get in the car.

You know,
I'm willing to have
a life with her

and I'm willing to, you know,
overlook those things.

And, you know,
we all make mistakes.

I just wanted her
to be able to listen.

But I think she is paranoid

that I'm here
for the wrong reasons,

and anything that leads her
to that conclusion

gets magnified
and she just wants to escape.

And that happened
the other day when she left
our vacation spot.

She just took off.

Hold on, hold on. Wait.

- Oh, my gosh.
- Wait.

I didn't know
that our relationship

was this fragile, to be honest.

I thought we could have
a conversation.

But if I can't ask her
about these things,

we don't...
We don't have a relationship.

There's just no trust at all

I mean, she obviously
does not love me.

It's hard.

I'm worried that
even at this point,

Jasmine and I have tons
of stuff that we need
to work on.

I'm gonna not wash it.

And...

I don't want him to leave.

I should have
just enjoyed
that moment with you.

I'm very sorry.

I, of course I forgive you.

There's been some wasted time
arguing and stuff,

and I did not find
the right time

to talk prenup with Jasmine

But now, you know,

all that I'm worried
about this morning
is leaving each other today

It's not fun.

I know, it's sad.

But I have to go back
and get... get find a job.

It's not gonna be easy.

And of course,
I'm going to miss...
miss cuddling with you

and going to bed with you,
holding hands when...
when we're walking...

- I love you.
- Yeah.

I love you so, so much.

Hmm.

I just hope that this time
you will send me
sexy videos, too.

Even though I kno
that Gino loves me so much,

I know what's coming
is not easy.

And...

I mean, he is an attractive man.

- Are this yours, baby?
- Yeah.

You never wore this.

I wish I have seen this before.

This is so sexy.

Okay.

But...

So you're gonna be okay, right?

The hardest thing for me tod

is we grew
a very strong bond in person.

And here we are. We're going back to
WhatsApp and text messages and chats.

So it's hard.

So...

It's not a goodbye.

Not a goodbye, baby.

Will never be a goodbye
between you and me,
right?

Never.

Never. Right?

Right. Exactly.

I'll be waiting for you...

Like, because
this is actually happening.

He is leaving.

I love you, too.

I cant...

But I know
that I'm in his heart
and he's gonna stay in mine.

I'm gonna go. Okay?

It's gonna be okay.

Bye.

So I go this way?

Jasmine and I have tons of stuff

that we need to work on
even at this point.

But at the end of the day,

she has loved me
more than any other woman
has loved me before.

So I would be willing to do
anything to keep
our relationship strong

because I would never find
someone like her again.

Someone I could have...

someone I could have.

After spending
two weeks together
with Kimberly in Tanzania,

this morning Kimberly
flew back to United States

and I leave
for Nigeria tomorrow.

At this point
I think I love her, but.

I'm good. How are you?

I'm fine, um.

Oh, thank you for calling me.

Okay.

But between the filming
music video

and the fighting with Kimberly,

Zara is in my mind right now.

But I don't think
I'm doing
anything wrong because.

And...

But it's like,
"Hey, wait a minute.

I think I need to call Zara,
you know,
just to talk to her."

- Did she ever ask about me?
- Yeah.

What did you tell her?
Did you?

I told her the truth
about what happened.

- Okay.
- She knew.

She took it
that I was hurt by it.

If I should ask you,
do you miss anything about me?

Are you sure about that?

Yeah, I'm positive.

I care about you
so much as a person.

You were like my best friend

I talked to you
every single day
for hours on end.

- We laughed.
We did everything.
-Mm-hmm.

And to not be able to talk
to you now is hard.

Like, it hurts.

Aye, aye, aye, aye. Ah.

Aye, aye.

And young.

She is 26.

I don't know.

Am I going to get
that real love
I had before now?

Yeah. Okay.

Talking to Zara reminds me
all the good time we had.

I'm conflicted
because I love Kimberly.

But now I started to wonder
if I made the wrong decision

Zara?

Okay.
We'll see, Usman...

bye.

- Okay. Bye.
- Bye. Bye.

Yeah.

Yesterday, I reached o
to Mahogany several times

after she left the park,
and I didn't get any response.

And then finally I got a text.

I'm really struggling
just to stay positive

and... and just, you know,
come away with something.

I never did wear this shirt

that I got in Michigan for Peru,

saving it
for a nice dinner
that we never had.

Today is the day I leave Per

It's super early in the morning

and I'm very, very tired.

I'm emotionally spent.

So I'm just going
through the motions
and just trying to get home

I'm really struggling
just to hang on
to the good parts,

you know,
and just remember them
and stay positive

and... and just, um you know,
come away with something.

I did get one last text.

Yesterday, I reached out
to her several times

after she left the park,

hoping that, you know,
we can talk it out
a little bit.

And I didn't get any response.

And then finally
I got a text late...
late at night.

She said, "I wish
that God bless you always."

I've been second guessing
whether I should've
confronted her or not.

Things were finally
going pretty well.

But at the same time,
I also feel it was necessar

to know before I left
if she was
really deceiving me.

And I just guess I get...
I got my answer.
I didn't like the answer.

So it was the right thing to do.

Just the wrong outcome.

The fact that
she's not willing to try
to get through issues,

it makes me think that

there's just a very
superficial relationship
that we had,

and it must not have been real.

Well, that's a...
That's a dune buggy once.

Yeah, those are great.

In the sand, selfie on the,

uh, ledge before the park.

Just before we went to the park.

Man, every picture
is just like, uh,
an arrow right in the heart.

I got feel it all the way in.

You know, it was real
for a while.
It was real until it wasn't.

There's always
two different people,

the online person
and then the real life person.

Ah!

And I mean,
that's why I came here to do

just to see
how she was in real life.

And it wasn't the same.

It was not the same.

My heart is shattered
It really is.

I put a lot into this

and I deserve the same energy
that I give out.

I deserve unconditional love.

And, you know,
maybe one day I'll find that.

It's my last morning
in Colombia.

Uh, I'm here in a hotel room

because Ximena
kicked me out last night

and wouldn't let me sleep
in the house.

Right now, me and Ximena
are on terrible terms,

but I still wanna give her
a call and see
if I can come to the house

and just say goodbye
to her family

and thank them
for everything they did.

And just also say goodbye
to the kids, too.

No, no.

- See you, Mike.
- Okay.

Bye, Zuleny. Bye, Juan.

Bye, Mike.

Bye, Harold.

Okay.

This is a big loss for me

because I've grown attached
to Harold and Juan

and I deserve better
than just saying goodbye
over the phone.

Um, it really feels like cra

But I'm really just ready
to just go home

and just move on
with, uh, my life.

Hey dad and Pop.

Um, I'm on my way
to the airport.

I should be home soon.

Things didn't go well here
in Colombia.

Um, I'll tell you
about it more
when I get home.

I love you guys.
All right. Bye.

Once I get back home,
I just need to just think

and figure out what's going on,

but, I'm definitely
not gonna be the first person
to reach out.

If she wants to reach out
and apologize, she can...

Gracias.

Oh, thank you.

I'm done with Ximena
taking advantage of me.

So, I'll just focus on me
and do what's best for me.

Okay.

Ah, okay.

Upset.

Me and Ximena both said
some really things
to one another out of anger.

But I really, truly love her

I love her kids.

Our first trip,
we got engaged...

and everything...
And everyone was happy.

Ximena was happy.
The kids were happy.

And she's worth it to fight for.

Okay...