90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 15 - Cold and Calculated - full transcript

Previously on 90 Day
Fiancé: Before the 90 Days...

Jasmine, will you marry me?

Of course, yes.

We got married.

Oh, sorry.

Gino just proposed

It's a beautiful ring,

but I don't know if it
is a diamond or not.

This is exactly
the type of effort

that I was hoping
to get from him.

It just proved, like, how
much he really loves me.



Mmm.

But I'm a little worri

that we won't have that intimacy

once we go back to our
normal lives, and that's hard.

If he can't sign the paper
then I don't wanna get married.

I'm ready to go
o with the rest of the wedding

if Hamza's willing
to sign a post-nup.

Okay.

Your parents are
probably pretty upset at me

for not showing
up for breakfast.

Despite how poorly
this trip has gone so far...

I still have a
little bit of hope.

I'm still in this.

Is Mahogany here?



Where's her car?

I can't believe she left.

I cannot believe she left.

Who does that?

I don't know what I did wron

No, but we need to
do some cleaning here.

- Yeah, right? Dirty.
- I know.

Jasmine and I are
back in Panama City

after our engagement,

and the last few days have
been wonderful and amazing.

Be careful with our
super-expensive wine.

Our wonderful wine.

Our $4 wine!

I know, but it's good.

But it's good!

Today, Jasmine and
I are at her new apartment.

She had a roommate previousl

But she had trouble,
um, in that situation,

and she couldn't
afford her own place.

So I offered to pay
for this apartment.

We pulled the trigger
pretty quick on this

because I want her to
be comfortable and happy

until I can get us
through the K-1 process

and bring Jasmine to the USA.

How do you feel getting
in your new apartment?

I feel very
excited and happy, baby.

Especially after
all the craziness.

Yeah.

The amount of money that
I'm going to be helping Jasmine

with her apartment is a lot
of money for me right now,

because I'm not working.

You know, I have to pay
all my bills back in the USA

and my rent, and then help
Jasmine here in Panama.

I know it's only
a temporary thing.

But, um, the K-1 visa
process could take a long time.

So I'm a little
worried about that.

But for me it is a lot.

But, um...

so, you know, it's
still not cheap though.

You've got, we've got cable,

we've got electricity
now we've got to pay for,

you know, we got wifi.

You know, I'm concerned about
making all these payments for,

you know, for long
periods of time.

I don't know if you want
a roommate in here,

or how you feel about that.

Probably not, right?

No. It's hard
to live with someone

that is not family, you
have to stand people

- and all that.
- Right.

I don't know what Gino was
expecting about the prices.

This is a big city, Panama City,

you know, and
houses are expensive.

I feel like he's a
very cheap, salty guy.

And he is, like, being cautious

when it is about
spending money on me.

And that's not fair
for me, you know?

Gino and I have
made a commitment,

so I don't see a
problem, you know,

helping me out with...

Um...

You know, if I don't find a job,

it could be kinda a
struggle to help you out

with everything I
wanna pay for here.

Gino, I need your help.

It's a must,

to get to pay this place.

I cannot afford it. Not
even with my three jobs.

I mean, it's not like...

No, no, no, no. But
on the other hand,

I know that you can do it.

I have my stock investments
always to back myself up.

But, um, that's for retirement
and the future, you know?

Luckily I have a
lot of investments.

Uh, I buy and sell my own stock.

And my value hit, like...

But that's basically
money for our retirement,

so I don't wanna touch
any of that right now.

I want you to
be getting a job kind of fast

once you're in
the United States.

Right, yeah, that's the goal.

There's still a pandemic
so it could be rough.

I don't know...

No.

Because, you know,
once I go to my house...

You know?

That's expensive, you know?

Well, start saving money

or doing something
about it, baby.

Um... It's hard
for me to say no to Jasmine.

Because after all the arguments

and ups and downs,

uh, I don't want to do
anything to upset her.

But especially since
we got engaged,

I don't know, I'm
a little concerned

about the way Jasmine
talks about, like, finances.

It makes me worry a
lot about, like, our future.

And I'm just hoping it's
something we can work out.

And I'm the... the only one.

You know?

I'm devasta

I don't know what I wanna do

I don't know what I did wrong.

I've been...

Everything she
said on the first trip,

I tried to fix myself.

I just don't know what
else more I could do.

This whole one-year relationship

was all over probably
freakin' money.

I thought it was real.

I'm just, like, hurt
and frustrated.

It seems like this whole
past year was a waste.

Um, 'cause I put
so much into this.

I love this girl.

I eventually wanna marry her

And it's really hurtful that...

and sad that she
doesn't feel the same way.

I don't know what to think.

But right now, I'm
really not feeling good.

Uh...

Maybe we can talk tomorrow

but I'm just tired now,
I wanna go to bed.

Okay.

- You okay?
- Yeah, it's okay.

Thinking about the last
few weeks with Hamza and I,

I do trust him.

But I don't know if you
can trust anyone enough.

Please consider meeting me

where we met on our
first full day together.

At this point I think it
would take a miracle

to get back what we had.

But God is the God of miracles.

If he wants that to
happen, it's gonna happen.

I arrived back in
San Bartolo yesterday,

after Mahogany left
me in Huacachina.

And I still haven't
heard from her.

I feel totally disconnected
from her right now.

There's been almost
no romance on this trip,

and now, in two days, I'll
be on a plane going hom

I'm feeling mentally and
emotionally exhausted.

But despite everything
that's happened,

I still want to see her.

So I'm not giving up yet.

My love, please consider

meeting me today

where we met on our
first full day together.

There is much to say.

Now that I've had some
time to think about it,

I really do owe her an apology.

I was being a little immatur skipping
that breakfast really backfired.

I want her to know
that I still care about her.

Even after all this,

there's still something
there and I wanna pursue it.

- Hello.
- Hi.

Uh, you look amazing.

Um...

I appreciate you coming,
you did not have to come.

The other day,

when I didn't show up
for breakfast that morning,

I was upset that you
weren't texting me back.

And I should have texted you
and told you I'm not coming.

That was childish
of me, it was...

It was just... It
was really wrong.

And I wanna
apologize to you for that.

I got you a little gift.

What? Aw.

- It says amor, because I call you mi amor.
- That's beautiful.

But what about the restaurant?

So...

I was expecting your parents.

And when you showed up,

I was very confused.

I was just thinking about me.

And just how shocked I
was that they weren't there

and I wasn't paying
attention to you.

That you did not feel important?

You're right, I...

should have cared more about
you and your feelings at that time.

And I wanna apologize and say

that I am really
sorry about that.

No excuses.

So, do you forgive me?

Yes.

Okay.

Okay.

I will not. I will not.

- You promise me? Okay.
- I promise you. Yes.

So let's take a walk.

Yeah.

Yes.

Can I tell you my truth?

Yeah, tell me.

My truth

is I still love you.

And I always will.

Baby, I always will.

If God has put us together,

no one can separate us.

No one can.

Oh, Benjamin.

You think it's impossible?

I love you.

You're crazy.

Really crazy.

I love you so much, baby.

So we have a second chance?

All right, let's see
what happens. Okay.

That was hot. Mmm.

So what do we do now?

- Go to the home.
- Go home. All right.

Let's spend some time tomorrow.

Yeah.

And let's, um, just start over.

Okay.

Okay. All right, bye-bye.

- Bye-bye.
- Good seeing you.

I've never kissed
anyone like that.

It was...
It was mind-blowing.

I feel like, uh, that
was our first step

to really making progress
in our relationship.

- Bye-bye.
- Bye.

And I'm pretty
excite about that.

But, unfortunately, the
end of my trip is coming up.

So, I'm running out of time

to try to solidify that
connection and to make it real.

Oh.

Today is my wedding day.

I'm so excited, but on top
of that, I'm really nervous.

Thinking about the
last few weeks with Hamza and I,

I know that we've had
some ups and downs.

But after talking to Hamza
about doing the post-nup,

and him actually saying
that he would sign it,

even though it
was uncomfortable,

I feel like that is something
that we needed to solidify

the rest of, you
know, this marriage.

You okay?

Oh, yeah. It's okay.

You like?

Yes.

This...

Oh.

Thank you.

Nervous. Yes.

Hamza looks so regal.

I mean, just like the work
on the outfit and everything,

like, it's very impressive and
the whole setting, you know,

seeing Hamza surrounded by his
loved ones and very celebratory noise.

Are we going?

It really feels like, you know,
they were joining me into their family

And, you know,
it warms my heart.

Who are
they? Your friends?

I feel like Hamza and I

have been able to really
get to know each other

in this last two weeks that
we've been together and

I do trust him, but I don't know
if you can trust anyone enough.

Yeah?

You sure?

I'm feeling very nervous,

but in my heart, I do feel like
I'm making the right decision.

Hamza gives me a sense of family
that I don't think I've ever really felt

and I deserve it.

But, ultimately, I don't know
what to expect in the future.

I just hope and pray that I'm
not making the wrong decision.

I'm about to say goodbye
to this man and I don't know

when I'm going to see him again.

Bye. Thank you.

- No.
- Yes.

-No. -Yes.

You're always on your phone.

Maybe it's because
you're younger than me,

I just don't
understand it, but...

Younger.

Yeah, maybe 'cause
you're younger than me.

Like...

I know, like, I'm here and it's
been like that since I've been here.

Today, I am going
home to San Diego

after spending two weeks
here in Tanzania with Usman.

There were a lot of
times where I didn't think

Usman and I were gonna make it.

But I love him immensely.

I truly love Usman from
the bottom of my heart.

And last night
when he sang to me,

it made me feel
on top of the world,

and it made me
feel totally hopeful

for my future with him.

I want my shirt back
too, don't forget it.

- Which one?
- That one.

- You can't keep it.
- This?

- Yeah.
- Oh.

Do you like it, though?
It's comfortable, huh?

- I like it.
- Okay.

I'm sad that I'm leaving him

I'm going to miss his
presence so much.

You ready to go to the airport?

Not really, but, yeah.

I'm very sad to say
that goodbye to her.

But, um, it's something
that we have to do.

All right, bye.

Yes.

What?

What?

Kim!

Kim!

Stop.

Hmm? Stop.

Stop.

- Stop, Kimberly!
- You're annoying.

Kimberly!

Mwah!

Knowing I'm about to
say goodbye to this man

and I don't know when
I'm going to see him again,

I'm feeling all
kinds of emotions.

It took a lot of sweat and tears

for me to get to this
point with Usman.

And I just don't want
this to be for nothing.

Mmm.

Mmm.

I feel for a long time,

I haven't felt, like, love
like that, like he gives me.

And he's so attentive with
me and he is so loving with me.

I feel like, um,

I haven't felt that
for a long time,

and I deserve that.

So, that's how I
feel about that.

Best vacation of my life.

Yes.

It was.

Oh, my God, okay.

- Okay?
- Okay.

You too, right?

- Right?
- Yes, babe.

Promise?

Yes.

I trust you that way
though, you know?

What?

I know.

Okay.

All right, thank you.

Hey.

You are.

Mmm.

Mmm. Oh, my God.

Stop, stop, stop, stop,
stop, please. Stop.

It's okay, it's okay.

I'm afraid that if I leave here,

like, I'm just not... it's not
gonna be the same feeling.

Like, over video chat
and all that, you know?

And he does make me happy.

When we're not fighting.

Bye, thank you.

- Um, so...
- Yes.

- I don't know. No. No.
- Yes.

Can we just go?

You need to be on the
same page with me, Kimberly.

I am on the same page.

No, it's fine.

I'm not, I'm just saying that,

like, my plane's
gonna leave soon, so...

This has been an
experience of a lifetime.

And I'm leaving as
Usman's girlfriend.

I should be going home happy

But the fact that he won't
kiss me in public, still,

still, after all this time,

it hurts me a
little bit, it's like,

you know, are you ashamed
of me? I mean, what is it?

Bye.

- Sorry as well.
- Okay.

Yes.

Hi five.

You're so dumb.

All right, I'll see you later.

Yeah.

Love you.

- Yeah, bye.
- Bye.

I don't know where
things are gonna go

in the future with Usman and I.

It's really hard to be in a
long-distance relationship

You have to be so secure.

And sometimes, he
makes me feel insecure.

And now I'm leaving
on a doubtful note, like,

how are we gonna make this work?

I am taking another
chance by trusting him

to not break my heart
when I get back to the State

But I think Usman
is worth the risk.

She could really blow up

over something like that,

and take it the
wrong way, like...

Oh, yeah.

Can I have one of these?

Perfect.

I know that Jasmine would want,

wants me to eat more healthy.

But she's taking a nap
in the apartment right now.

So I decided I would
sneak away and treat myself

at the local Panamanian cafe

Thanks.

I'm gonna be flying back
home in a couple of days.

But I feel a little anxious

because we still
have a lot to figure out

before I leave Panama.

Hey!

What's up, Uncle Marco?

Long time no talk.

Yeah.

My Uncle Marco and I,
we've always been close.

But we haven't talked much
since I arrived in Panama.

So I wanna let him know
how things are going.

Yeah.

I'm leaving and coming
home this Thursday.

I'm really sad to leave
Jasmine, you know,

'cause I've never had a girl
love me the way she loved me,

and I love her a lot too,
so it's not just one way.

Yeah. I proposed
to her recently.

And she said yes.

-Really? -Yeah.

Yeah! Yeah, right.

Um, well, it's not,
like, perfect-perfect.

You know, we all have
our little issues and stuff.

Oh, okay.

She's gonna come to
the USA on a fiancé visa.

But it takes a good
six to nine months, so...

Right, right.

I helped her get a new
apartment over here.

So, you know, I am definitel
worried about money.

'Cause I got a condo
that I'm responsible for,

you know, in Michigan.

Well...

Uh, no, Jasmine, Jasmine's
not with me right now, I...

Oh, okay. Let me ask you this.

So... Yeah,
that's tough. Um...

So, you know, uh,
I haven't really put

too much thought into it lately,

because of so much
other stuff going on, but...

This is serious.

This ain't no joking around.

Even though I really
feel in my heart

that Jasmine is
not after my money,

I know from experience,

anything can happen
after we're married.

I did not have my
ex-wife sign a pre-nup.

And I brought her over
on a K-1 visa from Brazil.

We did end up getting a divorce.

And I did have
to give her money.

And had a huge
impact on my savings.

But at the same time,
I didn't have the value

of stock like I do now.

So I'm concerned,

because let's say
things don't work out,

and Jasmine and I,
we're divorced in a month.

Then all the money that I saved,

you know, it's
gone in an instant.

I appreciate that, that
you're looking out for me.

Um, and I totally
agree with you.

Um, but honestly,

But honestly,
conversation about a prenup

you know, it's a big
deal. It's like, this...

I'm, I'm nervous because
it could, you know,

she could really blow up
over something like that

and take it the wrong way.

Like, "Oh, you don't trust
me? You think that I'm going to

just marry you to steal
your money? Why not..."

Truth. Yeah, yeah.
That's true, right?

I can understand
why my uncle has concerns.

If I want to be with
her the rest of my life,

obviously it's really
important for us

to be able to talk about our
finances and agree to them.

Okay.

Yeah, I love you.

- See you.
- All right. See you, bye.

Bye.

I don't even know
how to hang this up.

A prenup, that's a huge topic

and I'm going to have
to go there at some point.

And I have to figure out
when, when is that going to be?

But it obviously it needs
to be before I leave.

I just don't want
to, like, piss her off

and end our
relationship on the spot.

I have no
clue what they're saying.

They've got their hands out.

I'm not sure if I'm supposed
to have my hands out.

I'm realizing that I have no idea
how people get married in Tunisia.

Do you just want
me out of your life forever?

You don't even care?

She's a mean, evil, bitch.

Walking into the wedding venue

makes me, like, forget
about like, all my worries.

Nothing is going through
my head except for excitement

knowing that this is the family
that I'm going to belong to.

I just feel like a
foster kid again,

getting picked up
by my new family.

I feel like now God
is rewarding me

for all that loss that I
had in my childhood.

"You waited long
enough. Here you go."

Do I sign?

Okay.

Okay. Okay.

I'm realizing that I have

no idea how people
get married in Tunisia.

I have no clue
what they're saying.

They've got their hands out.

I'm not sure if I'm supposed
to have my hands out.

And they're speaking
some type of...

like prayer.

We're married!

The one thing
the surprised about the ceremony

is the fact that it's so
quick, I mean, seriously.

Like, we get there,
then, doop, it's done.

Are you happy?

- Wow.
- Ooh.

- Nice.
- Nice.

Nice.

Beautiful, yes.

Come on.

It feels amazing
to be married, finally.

But, it is going to be very
hard and heartbreaking

to, like, leave him here.

I'm praying
that the proces doesn't take too long

and I can get him to
America as soon as possible.

Tomorrow, Hamza and
I are heading out to our honeymoon.

And I am very excited for
some sexy time with Hamza

without being at home
with mom and sister.

And now we can, like,
actually creak the bed a little bit.

Drink a little, maybe.

No. Stay up?

Okay.

This only reinforces the fact

that you were
using me for money.

Because right now,
you're cold and calculated.

I pay the rent in
this house, so I'm not leaving.

I'm going to go pack my clothes.

Okay.

Last night me and
Ximena broke up

and today has
been really awkward.

So I'm just...

Just really sad because
I leave tomorrow.

But a small part of me
feels like it's not over just yet.

Um, because she told me

I could still stay
here until my flight.

So, I'm hoping that she'll
think things over and just...

maybe relax a little bit,

calm down and
come to her senses.

Hola.

Okay.

I give you the
two wedding rings and the engagement ring.

Oh. Why don't you keep
the rings and guard them safe

until we can work
out our differences?

You do
realize that you're losing

the best thing that you
could have ever had?

The best thing I could have had

are my children and
the rest I don't care.

Throughout this year
and a half relationship,

I was able to keep
you secure in a house

so you weren't out on the street

with you and your children.

What kind of modeling
job are you going to work for?

Are you going to go back to
that, um, adult internet job?

If we were able
to work out our differences,

I could have opened up so
many opportunities for you.

I could have helped
you learn English

to get better jobs in New York.

I
Never want to go to live in New York.

I want to be in Colombia.

Why are you like this?

Do you just want me
out of your life forever?

You don't even care?

This only reinforces the fact

that you were
using me for money.

Because right now
you're cold and calculated.

I have proof that I pay the rent

in this house, so
I'm not leaving.

I have work in the morning.

It makes me feel like

that nothing else
mattered to her

besides the money
that I was sending her.

For all I care, she can be a freaking
adult entertainment model for all I care.

She's a mean, evil, cold, bitch.

Ciao.

I will see you again.

I think we're at a
different level now.

But she hasn't been transparent
with me about everything

and the idea of going home

without talking
about any of that

is really, really scary.

What I am concerned about is if
you're hiding something from me.

- Hi, baby.
- Hi!

We're on our honeymoon,

but I have something
to tell Hamza...

Come sit.

And I have no idea
how he's going to react.

Today's my last day in Peru,

and so Mahogany and I
are taking a car to Lima

where we're gonna spend
the day exploring the city,

and then the next morning,
I'm headed to the airport.

After a lot of ups and downs

I really think Mahogany
and I are back on track.

We kissed for the
first time last night,

and having that
physical connection

I think helps us turn a corner,

so I think we're at a
different level now...

Hola!

but
at the same time,

it's just... It's really sad

because we finally
really connected,

and now I have to leave.

Ciao!

Are... You feel sad?

Yes, but I will see you again.

I wanna spend as
much time as possible.

That's sweet.

It feels really good to have
more time with Mahogany right now,

but I'm disappointed that
so much time was wasted

because of all the bad things
that have happened on this trip...

and as much as I want
to enjoy the moment,

feel her presence
and just have fun...

in the back of my mind,

I am thinking about the
fact that she hasn't been

transparent with
me about everything.

This is my university.

Oh...

Okay.

I don't know.
That's a good question.

There are some inconsistencies

about her age or
her place she lives,

and the idea of going home

without talking
about any of that

is really, really scary.

In order for this
relationship to work out,

we have to be able to be
completely vulnerable and honest

and up-front with everything...

and I think Mahogany
and are now close enough

where maybe I can try to have
a heart-to-heart conversation

and get everything on the table

so we can move forward.

Yes.

It's cold.

I know. I'm
gonna take my jacket.

Wow. Nice!

- Let's check out the sea.
- Okay.

What beach...

Uh...

- I would say San Bartolo.
- It does.

No, only because this is too
public and there's too many people.

Yes.

So...

I need to talk to
you before I leave.

Okay.

So, you have obviously
had a hard time trusting me,

but trust works both ways.

I came here to Peru

and I have to trust
you as well, right?

You don't trust me?

Well, when I first came here,
I didn't even know if you were

a man, a woman, a...
Like, who... Who were you?

Remember, you didn't, like,
give me any, uh, video chats.

- But no video calls.
- No. No,

and, I mean, that
takes a lot of trust

to come all this way...

and when I come here,

the pictures do look
different, you know?

Like, didn't look the same...

and then,

you had told me you
were 23 going on 24,

- I told you this?
- Yes.

No.

I do. I have it on...
I have it on chat

that... That you said you
were 23 when I met you.

I don't remember.

Yeah.

I don't remember.

I didn't know how old you were

until, in front of your parents,

I find out that you were 22.

I don't know.

So, were you hiding
your... Your age from me?

I don't understand.
What do you mean?

Um...

Were you hiding your age from me

because of the age gap?

No.

What I am concerned about is if
you're hiding something from me.

It's the trust issue.

That's what's important to me.

It's crazy.

Having...

Having important conversations

where we tell each
other our heart...

is what I want before I leave.

I'm sorry, Benjamin.

I'm not playing with you.

I want everything on the table.

I wanna be honest.

- It felt like you were hiding that from me...
- Mmm-hmm.

- Because I did not know for that long.
- Yeah.

Yes.

I don't know why
you're saying that.

Hamza and I
got married a few days ago.

Waking up next to Hamza,

knowing that he is my husband,

feels beyond amazing.

Right now, we're
on our honeymoon.

We took a trip around
the coast of Tunisia,

so it was really nice to
kin see how beautiful it is...

but the fairy tale of
the honeymoon is over.

Now, we're back to reality.

So, we're heading back to his
mother's house this morning,

but before we go,

I have something to tell Hamza,

and I have no idea
how he's going to react.

Hi!

Uh-uh.

Thank you.

What is that?

Come sit.

Why?

How are you?

Oh, I don't feel too good.

My stomach was hurting.

So...

I'm pregnant.

Yes.

Yes.

- You?
- Yes!

Yes, really.

Pregnant.

The last couple of days,

I've been waking up
feeling a little nauseous

and not quite like myself...

so before Hamza
woke up in the morning,

I snuck out and
went to the pharmacy

so that I could get
a pregnancy test.

Okay.

I was not trying to get
pregnant on this trip,

but we weren't taking
a lot of precautions,

so, I mean, we knew that this
is something that could happen.

To be perfectly honest,

the idea of having more
kid is really stressful.

Yes!

Yes!

I have children already,
and I'm pretty much settled...

but because I love Hamza so much

and I know that he
wants to be a father,

that makes me
want to give him one.

Look, two lines.

Two lines. One, two. Pregnant.

Oh!

Yes!

Love you.

I know. It's sad.

I'm sad.

I don't know.

Hopefully, you can be there for
baby come out.

About to have a baby, yes.

Yeah, I know.

Yes.

Oh, I think that's our
car - Yeah.

I'm sad that in
two days, I have to go home.

When I go to the U.S.,

I need to apply for the
spousal visa for him,

and I don't know how long that
whole process is gonna take...

but I really hope
that he is there

for the birth of our baby.

You okay?

Hi!

Hi!

- Congratulations.
- Thank you.

Right now, I'm
only three weeks pregnan

And I'm already
totally exhausted.

And now I'm gonna be going home.

And reality is
really hitting me,

that Hamza's not gonna be
there to support me, to help me.

So, it's just hard

Like, I don't know how
I'm gonna do this alone.

Uh...

Yeah.

Yeah, I'm tired.

I think we should probably start to
talk about things we have to figure out

before we get married.

It's really important for me to
speak with her about a prenup.

But, I'm not
looking forward to it.

I don't give a.

- This place is rocking at night.
- Right.

- Yes, sir.
- Love it.

After three weeks in
Panama I am flying back

to United States tomorrow.

It's gonna be a hard day.

So I want for us to have
a very good night tonight.

- This is our place, baby.
- My God.

- Thank you.
- Yeah.

But, I also know it's
really important for m

to speak with her
about a prenup.

Um, I'm not
looking forward to it.

I'm kinda sad, babe.

Yeah, we've had a lot of
good times together, for sure.

Yes, and sometimes I look
back at the issues that we had.

And I love you one
day, and the next day,

Mmm-hmm.

Yeah.

But now we're here, enjoying
the night, and laughing about it.

Yeah, that's crazy.

I'm nervous about bringing
u the issue of a prenup.

Because I've learned that..

She can blow up, you
know, at the slightest thing.

But, I don't wanna wait until
I go back home to Michigan.

- Oh, gracias.
- Gracias.

I wanna do it in person.

So, I mean...

you know, I think we...

Pretty soon, we should
probably start to talk about things

we have to figure out
before we get married.

It's super important to let
each other know how we feel.

And...

What's that?

All the issues that we have
it was because of your exes.

You know?

- Right.
- And...

Now that we are at this point
in which we can talk about it.

Um...

Eight years.

About eight.

- Eight years.
- Mmm.

Well...

Yeah.

Gino, you married the bitch
and let her keep your last name.

That means like, to a certain
extent, it's like you're still...

You're family.

Come on, give me a break. Take
your father's last name. Not my man's.

I don't sit and look at her last
name everyday, or anything like that.

Or think about what
is her last name.

I don't give a.

This last name stuff I don't know
why she's making a big deal out of it.

She shouldn't be
making a big deal.

Does that affect her on her day-to-day
life? That my ex has my last name.

Come on now.

I don't even know if she
can change her last name.

I would have to do
research on it to see...

I don't give a is she has

Bitch, I want her
to take it off. Period.

So you have to talk to her.

Right. Yeah, I got ya.

Am I crazy? Yes,
maybe, a little bit.

But, that's the
way I see things.

She's being irrational.

And to talk about a
prenup, right now...

it's not a good idea.

Yep. Yeah.

Okay.

Not only do I have
to figure out, like,

how I'm gonna talk to her about a
prenup when I'm back in the USA,

But also, I mean,
after all this time

she's getting hung up on
the same small stupid stuff

that we've been going throug
since even before I came to Panama.

I don't know. It doesn't,
you know... Um...

Right now, I'm not feeling
very good at this moment, so.

I really don't
like confrontation at all.

But, I needed to speak
up for myself more.

'Cause I kinda feel like Ximena
has been taking advantage of me.

Um, I really feel...

like I'm treated like a
third-class citizen on this trip.

So, just... It comes to
a point where I just...

I really just can't
take it anymore.

All I wanted to do was
just stay this last night

just so I could say
goodbye to the children.

You're acting very
immature right now.

All I wanna do is, I
wanna do the right thing.

I just wanna say goodbye
to the kids in the morning.

You'll never see me
ever again, I promise you.

No. You're just saying these
things because you're angry.

Sorry.

So...

So, if I go to a hotel.

Can I still come back tomorrow

and say goodbye to your mom,
your brothers, and the children?

It's just that you, your mom, your
dad, they were all so nice to me.

Okay.

Next time on Before the 90 Days.

It's hard.

I'm worried that,
even at this point,

Jasmine and I have tons of
stuff that we need to work on.

Hopefully,
you'll be in America soon.

I don't know when Hamza
will be able to come to the US.

There are so many unknowns.

I feel like my heart is
being ripped out of my chest.

I don't know.

Mahogany.

I didn't know that our
relationship was this fragile.

I thought we could
have a conversation.

I need to tell you my heart
and there's a point to it.

Hold on, hold on, wait.