90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 11 - Back to Square One - full transcript

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Before the 90 Days...

If we leave here and I'm not
in a relationship with you,

I'm done.

- Really?
- Yeah!

I came to spend time with Mena.

Mena.

Why did you stay out so late?

I'm not too happy about that.

I know I've caused
a lot of pain.

I just wanna apologize.
I'll never find someone...

as amazing as you, ever.



What would I do without you?

It will take work
to heal from this.

But it's hard to find love.

And I found that on Gino

and I don't wanna lose that

The only thing
I didn't tell him is that

when we talking
in the beginning,

I spent the night at
my ex-husband's house.

There is something
I want to talk to you about

that happened during the summer.

What?

What?

Oh, my gosh.

You are real?



Oh, my gosh!

I am so relieved that
Mahogany is a woman

and beautiful.

And I still have a lot to prove,

especially to your parents.

I still see her as
my future wife,

but she's just not the same
way that she was online.

I love you so much.

She's not saying
I love you back,

and that is very concerning.

- Every day that I'm here, okay?
- Mmm-hmm.

Are you happy though?

You look happy.

I'm scared to
get out of this bed, though.

I'll be walking all funny.

'Cause...

"Cassava"...

So, I had sex last night
with Usman

and he's my boyfriend!

What the is my life?

It was amazing.

It was absolutely amazing...

It was everything I could have
wished for, and more.

More.

There is definitely
a difference between, um,

African sex and then
American men sex.

There's just...
It's just different.

There is just a certain flow
and certain rhythm,

just certain intensity.

There isn't, like,
a lot of foreplay.

It's just kind of
getting into it, you know.

But the kissing part
was really good.

Like, he made sure
that was really good for me.

'Cause I've been wanting that.
Just a kiss.

Just a little mwah, mwah,
you know.

And he made sure that
that was good.

But it was... it was amazing.

So, he likes to flip things
around and you know.

Sorry.

That's a lot of information.

Sorry!

I was totally surprised
when you...

The girlfriend thing,

I was totally...
I was not expecting that.

You like to keep me on my toes.

That's how you do things.

Yeah, I don't... Like,

You gave me a lot of action
last night. Hey! High five.

Low five.

- Why you so happy?
- I don't know.

I wonder why.

I say, "Yummy, yummy."

Hoo!

Yeah, yeah.

I'm gonna make you very happy.

I already do.

You know?

The only thing
I'm worried about now

is we have to figure out
how this is gonna work.

That's the thing.

I mean, like, where we're
gonna... you know,

how we're gonna meet,
and all that stuff.

Get all that stuff down,
that's all.

But I'm very happy.
Very happy.

One of the biggest obstacles
that Usman and I are going to have

in our... Oh, my God!
In our "relationship"

is logistics.

Because we only have
a few more days together

before we both go back home

So it's just gonna hard not
reaching over being able to touch him

and then going back to video
calls and texts, and all that.

You know, it's gonna be
really hard for a minute.

It makes me cry
even thinking about it.

We can make this work, though.

- Mmm-hmm.
- We can. It'll work.

I'm gonna make you happier than
any woman you've ever been with.

Amen.

Amen.

I'll be there when you
get your Grammy

because I got the yammy
last night.

But the truth is...

there's something
I've been hiding from her,

and I don't want her
to find out in a wrong way.

Okay.

All right, babe.

All right, baby.
All right, boyfriend.

Bye.

Brand-new,
never tried it before.

It is my first bronzer.

Last night, I finally got to
meet my girlfriend, Mahogany,

for the first time,

and I can't wait
to see her again today.

If she sees me shirtless,

you know, yeah,
I wanna look good.

San Bartolo is a beach town,

so I'm meeting Mahogany
on the boardwalk.

I was a fitness model,

so I like having even skin tone.

I think that's
important to me, so...

Uh, my makeup artist.

Oh, it's cold.

Oh, no.

Oh, crap, I didn't
notice the sparkles.

That is not good.

I got sparkles on me.

This trip has not gotten of
to the best start.

She didn't show up
at the airport

and then ghosted me
for 24 hours.

But she finally agreed to meet
me at a restaurant last night.

It wasn't the first meeting
that I thought it was gonna be.

In my mind,
I had this slow-motion...

running towards each other
and kissing in the airport,

and I didn't get that.

But at the restaurant,
I felt chemistry,

and it was just such a
unbelievably magical moment.

So I'm gonna try this shirt.

This is gonna make me
just, like, pop.

It's like a compression shirt...

and I'm still like
a teenaged kid

trying to impress, you know,
his girlfriend, so.

It's inside out.

That's how nervous I am.

Like...

when I see her, I get crazy.

As relieved as I am
that things went well,

she definitely has some
hesitations about me.

So I think I'm going to have to

break down a few walls
and really bond with her

to be able to have the same
intimacy that we had online

now in real life.

San Bartolo, uh, boardwalk.

I'm a little nervous,

especially because she
really threw me for a loop

the last couple days

and I just don't know what
to expect from her right now

But I just wanna really
impress her

and I just want it to
go really well.

It's just so beautiful.

- Amazing!
- You are so beautiful.

Mmm!

It's so good to see you.

- You too.
- You look amazing, by the way.

Oh, my gosh.

Just gonna take a little walk,

have some lunch.

Gonna go up to a cafe up here.

- And just talk.
- Yes. Of course.

- How was your night?
- I can't believe I've got you.

I don't wanna let you go.

Beautiful view.

Yeah, it's...
a beautiful view.

Yeah.

Oh!

- And tell me...
- What I think?

- Yeah.
- Okay, here we go.

- I love it!
- Yes?

Yeah, that's good!

Ooh, the spice just kicked in.

Whoa.

The spice just kicked in.

Are you okay?

It's a little spicy.

Remember, I am Americano.

Like, the spiciest thing
I have is ketchup.

Whew!

So, my goal in coming out here
is to get to know you

and to see what is God's plan.

What is God's plan?

Okay...

So...

I'm gonna write it down
and try to say it in Spanish.

So...

What do you think they
will have a problem with?

With my age?

- The... the age, definitely, yeah.
- Yeah, okay.

So...

Mmm-hmm.

I know you haven't
been comfortable.

Yeah.

That means I've got
a lot of work to do

to impress him.

That's gonna be difficult.

- My work is cut out.
- Yes.

Um...

You love your dad,
and you should.

But I think he influences you

into thinking that maybe I
come here for the wrong reason.

So I think this whole thing
has to do with me...

- communicating with your dad...
- Mmm-hmm.

- And having that talk.
- Yes.

It's part of the process.

So we just... we go through it.

So, uh, can I meet
your parents tonight?

Um...

I think it will be
really difficult.

- Yeah, it's... it's not going to be easy.
- You know.

No.

Okay. You ask them,
and we'll see what happens.

I know Mahogany and I
need to spend time together

so she can feel
more comfortable with me.

But before we can even do that,

I already know that her parents
have misgivings about me,

so I need to win them over.

We can't continue
this relationship

while her parents are
right in her ear

saying, you know,
"Don't trust this guy."

So I really hope that
they agree to meet with me

because it's clear to me now

that if I don't get
their approval,

this relationship is
dead in the water.

It's not gonna go anywhere.

Oh, this is yours.

I took it,

because I wanted something
to remember you.

Well, I found your fingernail

and I put it in my bag,

because that's all I thought
I had left of you.

Of course, I'd much rather
have you than the fingernail.

How was dress shopping?

Okay, so...

I think I should get some of
that stuff in my bag.

Oh, my gosh.
This is so much.

Are you going to be able to get
all your clothes in your suitcase?

After all the drama
that was caused from

the topless photos of Jasmin
that I sent to my ex,

I think we're both
eager to... move forward

and we decided to leave
the island a day early

for a much-needed
change of scenery.

Oh, my gosh, baby.

Your toothbrush.

Yeah, I found it yesterday
outside.

When you threw it
into the, uh... woods,

I thought you were kinda like just
throwing away our whole relationship,

you know.

Um, so I wanted to grab it

because you can always
change the toothbrush head

and it's like new, you know?

Oh, this is yours.

I took it...

because I wanted something
to remember you.

Oh, really?

Well, I... you know, I...

I... I found your fingernail

and I put it in my bag,

because that's all I thought
I had left of you.

I seen it on the floor,

I put it in my bag and...

I wanted like a piece of you

to have that with me
all the time, so.

I know I put it in my bag.

But I have
a lot of crap in here.

You have like ten pens.

Yeah, I have
a lot of pens in here.

Why?

In case... I have too many.

Um, I haven't...

Just to write... with.

That's...

Yeah, these pens,

sometimes they only last
a short time, so.

They don't last very long,
you know?

That's why I have so many.

But... I know I put
the fingernail in my bag.

It's... I must have
misplaced it. Um...

Of course, I'd much rather
have you than the fingernail.

That's for sure.

Keeping someone's fingernail...

it's kind of weird, but

it's cute at the same time.

That's Gino.

So, today, we're going
to Panama City, right,

and tomorrow morning,
we're going to...

It's one of the most wonderful
provinces in Panama.

And David is close to
my mom's house and...

you know that I want you
to meet my mommy

and she wants to meet you, too.

Yeah, I'm super-excited
to meet you mom, finally.

I've been wanting
to meet her for... so long.

I'm nervous about
Gino meeting my mom,

especially after
everything we went through.

My mom is super-overprotecti
when it comes to me,

because she has seen me
at my lowest

after my divorce.

She doesn't want her daughter
to be hurt that way anymore

and she's not quite sure
about Gino's intentions.

So I really wanna listen to
what she has to say about him.

Got it?

I wanna leave this island,

honestly.

Beautiful place,
but not the best memory.

Yeah, I had... Yeah.

This trip to the island was
a big step backwards.

Now I only have a week
and a half here in Panama

to win back Jasmine's trust.

So this time
in Chiriqui is critical.

It will determine everything
for us and our future.

You're quiet.
How's everything going?

Okay.

I've never been
married before but, usually,

a bride is excited to get
a wedding dress.

Um, I'll just be
on the other side of the store

and I promise
I won't see a thing.

Okay, okay.

In these past few day

Ximena's like giving me
all these different signals

and it's making me
a little nervous.

So, even though it's
not typical for the man goin

to the wedding dress shop,

I'm kind of hoping that when Ximena
sees herself in a wedding dress,

it kind of makes her
happy again and just...

you know, show me that she
really does wanna marry me.

Okay, no.

Ah, okay.

So how was it, um,
dress shopping?

I look divine.

I look like a princess.

I want to tell you something

If you were going to
pay for the dress,

but for my operation,

you don't want
to give me the money.

This doesn't make sense.

But I like them
the way they are.

You don't need
to have the surgery.

I feel like Ximena is...

almost giving me, like,
an ultimatum.

Because if I don't
pay for the surgery,

there's no wedding dress.

With no wedding dress,
there's no wedding.

I'm not really for the surge

because different
complications can come up,

and it also costs $5,000.

She should be wanting to use
that money for our future together.

But that doesn't seem
to be on her mind,

and that really hurts.

I do not wanna talk
about surgery anymore

if that's okay with you.

You think we shouldn't
get married on this trip?

What?

Why would you ask me to come
to Tunisia and marry you

if you did not wanna
get married?

That is really ridiculous.

No marriage,
no more relationship.

You think we shouldn't
get married on this trip?

What?

I don't understand why you
would ask me to get married to you

and then have me do
all this stuff

and all this preparing
for nothing.

That is really ridiculous.

Why would you ask me to come
to Tunisia and marry you

if you did not wanna
get married?

I do not understand.

You lie, lie, lie, lie, lie.

Lie!

Yes, you're lying.

You're not nice.

I do not have
a long time to be here.

I need to know if
you want to marry me

while we're here, or not.

I want to be with you,

but if you do not want
to marry me,

I will go home.

No marriage,
no more relationship.

What!

Why?

I only have one divorce.

You cannot be afraid of
the past. You have to

forward to the future.

So you have to trust me.

Oh.

The prenup?

The... oh.

I do. I trust you, but I want
you to sign paper, okay?

- Okay.
- Okay.

So, do you want to marry me?

Okay.

I was shocked when Hamza said

that he wanted
to push back the wedding.

So now I'm even
more scared to tell Hamza

about me and my ex-husband.

But it is really important

for us to lay everything
on the line,

because I want
this relationship to work.

There is something
that I have to tell you.

During the summertime when
we were starting to date...

I stayed
at my ex-husband's house.

I was feeling kinda down, and he
said that I could stay at his house,

so I spent four nights
at his house,

but nothing happened sexually.

Hamza!

Hamza.

I might explore a little bit,
if that's okay.

Evidence and reports.

Clearly, a lot of tru
was lost, but I have a plan

to show Jasmine just
how determined I am

to win her trust back.

Thanks for the ride,
appreciate it.

Gino and Jasmine.

Okay, perfect. So go ahead.

You have to be careful
with this one.

Okay, baby.

Gosh.

Jasmine and I just
arrived in western Panama,

where Jasmine is from.

And tomorrow we're gonna mee
her mom and sister.

I'm so excited.

After everything
that happened on the island

we're not totally back
to normal quite yet.

But meeting Jasmine's mom
is a really big step

and I finally feel like
we're getting back on track

It's a big relief.

Very beautiful,
with the mountain.

Yeah. Oh, yes.

You will love it.

Western Panama, Chiquita.

What did you say?

Chiri... Oh, my God.

Yeah.

I have a good feeling, we're
gonna have a great time here.

But there's still so many
things that we need to work on.

Hmm-hmm.

I'm still angry at Gino but...

Wow.

Oh, my God.

However, I made plans for both
of my kids to stay with their father

'cause I'm not ready
to introduce Gino to them.

Not yet.

Okay...

I don't want my kids to meet a man
that I'm not 100% sure to be with.

Baby...

Oh, okay.

This...

I was hoping
there was an elevator.

It doesn't look that way.

Wow!

It's broken,
I'll have to carry it.

All right.

Wow, this is nice!

You can
take a nap if you're tired.

I might explore a little bit.

Is that... If that's okay?

Evidence and reports.

Before Gino came to Panama,

I made him report to me
on a daily basis.

She says, "Evidence, reports!"

So usually when I go out
I'll send her a screenshot

to check in with her

because she wants to know
where I am at at all times.

Gino needs to kno
that after what he did,

I'm not gonna make it
easy for him.

He has to work hard now
to get my confidence.

We are back to square one.

I'll see you in a little bit.

How are you doing today?

Would you be able to take me
to a jewelry store?

Awesome.

Clearly a lot of trust was lost
after the drama of the last few days,

but I have a plan
to show Jasmine

just how determined I am
to win her trust back.

Thanks for the ride.
Appreciate it.

My goal coming to Panama was to
find out if Jasmine was my soulmate,

and now that I've gotten
to know Jasmine better,

I wanna be with her
the rest of my life.

I'm just sending Jasmine some
evidence that I'm out in the city.

She fulfills everything
I've looked for in a woman,

she's caring, intelligent,
sexy and hot.

But most importantly,

Jasmine has a very good hear

So I'm gonna buy Jasmine
an engagement ring

and I plan to ask her to marry me
before I go back to the United States.

- Speak English?
- Yes.

- Yeah, yeah.
- Nice.

I was wondering if I could just see
some options for an engagement ring.

- If that's okay.
- Okay, no problem.

Uh-huh.

Yeah, I'm a little nervous
that I'll pick the wrong rin

I kinda have an idea
of her style,

but it's a little hard
to know because

she's told me
that my taste is horrible.

I like this one. How much?

Mmm-hmm.

- About 1,000 dollars.
- Yep.

Is it that expensive
because of the white gold?

- Exactly.
- Oh...

All right, got ya.

Could you tell me what the
price for these two rings is?

Okay.

They're both nice.

You know, I think I'm kinda
leaning towards this one here

because this one here
seems a little gaudy to me,

like it's a little bit much,
you know?

- I'll take this one.
- Okay, no problem.

Oh! Oh, you know what? Sorry.

Do you accept
credit card, or...? Good.

I think that most people
probably spend

2,000-3,000 dollars for a ring,

And Jasmine, she likes
the finer things.

I don't know if I got the
price tags mixed up, though.

250?

- 270?
- Yeah.

Okay, good.

I'm a super budget.

I'm not working right now.

- Thanks a lot.
- Oh, yeah.

But it's not the cost
of the ring that matters,

it's the love that you have
for each other.

I hope that Jasmine sees
how serious I am with this ring.

And despite all the problem
that we had, I hope that...

Hey.

Oh, okay.

In our texting,

she definitely told me that
she lived with her parents.

I thought your parents
live with you.

No.

So I'm just trying to figure out
what else has she not told me?

I'm heading over
to Mahogany's house,

where she lives
with her parents,

because she texted me and said
that they agreed to meet with me.

I'm relieved, but at the
same time, I'm really nervous

because everything hinges
on this one moment.

I've gotta do, like, the best job
I've ever done at charming parents.

There's this huge age gap,

there's a language barrier
I have to overcome.

And it's clear they have
a huge influence on Mahogany

I just have to get through I

and hopefully
win them over somehow.

Hey.

- Hi.
- Hi, how are you?

- I'm pretty good.
- Okay.

- Beautiful.
- You like that?

Yes! This is gorgeous.

Yes...

Yeah, I'd love to see it.

- Nice!
- Yes.

Here's some games.

Like, games for the night,
you know?

Nice.

I love that surf board,
who surfs here? Who surfs?

That's...

- It's not...
- Oh, decoration?

- Yes.
- Ah, okay.

And this is my kitchen.

Ah, beautiful!
So, do you cook?

Yeah, sometimes.

And sometimes not.

I'd like to see your cooking.

How do you say
kitchen in Spanish?

- "Cocina"?
- "Cocina."

Cocina? Cocina!

- Yeah...
- -Beautiful!

What's this?

- Yeah, that is just...
- Bunk beds?

Uh-huh.

Sure, sure. Guest bedroom.

Okay, this is my bedroom.

I love your view.

You could look out there,
see the ocean.

- Yeah...
- It's awesome.

So, guest bedroom, your bedroom,
where do your parents sleep?

My parents don't sleep here.

Oh, okay.
This is kind of your...

- This is just for me.
- This is just you? Nice.

Wow.

Uh, and this is...
everything, okay.

I did not know you had this.

I thought your parents
lived with you.

- No, not now.
- Oh, okay.

I just thought they did. Um...

That's fine. Where are
they tonight? Where...?

- Oh, they are coming.
- They're coming? Okay.

Yeah.

In our texting, she definitely
told me she lived with her parents.

And that was only, like,
a month ago.

You wanna go sit down
on the couch?

Oh, yes, of course!

The whole thing just is really
different than what I expected.

I could tell that she reall wasn't
that familiar with her apartment

and there was, like, games
that I know she's never played

and, like, decorations and a
surf board that she's never used.

And everything looks
way too expensive.

And it just...
it seemed so strange.

But I'm just not at that point
where I wanna accuse her

and judge her
for being dishonest.

Well, um...

I'm just so nervous

because this makes
the difference

as to whether they accept me,

whether they bless
what we're doing...

Yes, I know...

And I'm kind of
freaking out a little bit.

This is a really
weird moment for me.

Mahogany's not telling me the
truth about her living situation,

so I'm trying to figure out
what else has she not told me.

At the same time,

I'm trying to hold it togeth

because I need to stay focused
on trying to achieve my goal,

which is approval
of the parents, right now.

But I'm really
thrown off right now

because I've come all this way

and now I don't even know
if I can trust her.

So, uh...

Oh, my God!

That's...

Um...

Yeah, I got this.

We're good, we're good.

We are good.

We are not good.

I want
this relationship to work,

which is why there's something
I need to be honest about now.

Did you do something
I need to know about?

Oh, my God. Oh, my God.

Are we going to be intimate
at all on this trip, or not?

Why?

I can't wait to get
in this air conditioning.

You'll feel better
under air conditioning.

I swear, I can't wait

And I'm so looking forward
to the spice tour.

Usman and I have been
in Tanzania for a while now,

and we're finally
boyfriend and girlfriend.

Yay, Kim! You won, girl!

You won!

I feel like there's this shi and my
confidence level just went up, like, 50%.

I'm very happy.

Aw...

And then go home
and have more fun, okay?

Mmm-hmm.

- It's pretty, huh?
- Hm.

Hello.

- Hello, how are you?
- Hi.

Thank you, let's go.

So I decided to take Kimberly
on a spice tour.

We've known
each other for a year,

but we've only been
boyfriend and girlfriend

for, like, a day.

- Yeah.
- Thank you!

You know love?

It can, it's very true.

When you drink it,
you become high and...

This is nutmeg.

Okay, put it right here.

- What is this?
- This is cardamon.

Oh, I kiss him on the cheek.

Yeah!

- Let's move to another plant.
- Okay.

Are you shy, baby?

- No, I'm not.
- Are you shy?

- You know I'm not shy. No.
- Are you shy?

Oh, wait, wait, wait!

Mmm-hmm.

- Big, right?
- Big, uh-huh.

- The what?
- Nothing.

- You hope you get cassava tonight?
- Yeah.

Just ask Kimberly, she knows it.

Bam, bam, bam

King Africa.

Oh, you get to crown me now!

- Mmm.
- Ay!

What!

- Wait, wait, wait, hold on.
- Okay, here we go.

Thank you so much, thank you.

- I kiss everything.
- I love it.

- She's my queen.
- Oh.

Giving the kiss
on the cheek is enough.

It was amazing,
thank you so much.

You're welcome.

That was fun.

I know, I love it.

This is my favorite thing
we've done so far.

Aside from your video.

It's so crazy, like,
we came so far,

and everything's
accomplished now.

- Yeah, uh-huh.
- You know what I mean?

I got what I came here for.
I got my crown.

- Me, too.
- But, like, yeah.

Babe, there is something I
really wanna talk to you about.

You know?

What?

What are you talking about?

Did you do something
I need to know about?

Oh, my God. Oh, my God.

I swear to God, Usman.

Today we're gonna mee
Jasmine's mom.

Well, yeah, I don't plan
to do that.

You're gonna be
meeting my mother,

just take off your hat.

Can you come with me
and we talk?

- I tell you.
- Okay.

Okay...

Look at this.

So nice out today, isn't it?

Perfect weather, perfect day.

- Help me out.
- Yeah.

Oh, I have it.

Okay, baby.

- Yeah, of course.
- You have, like, a whole collection of pens.

Today, we're going to
meet Jasmine's sister and mom

who are not very far
from our resort.

This is the first people in
Jasmine's family that I'm meeting.

I'm so serious about Jasmin

that I bought her
an engagement ring yesterday

So making a good impression on
her family is very important to me.

Are you nervous?

Not really. I mean...

I got your mom
some chocolates and...

um, I'm wondering
if you could help me

write some words in the card.

I know she only
speaks Spanish, so...

What if you just
write it in English

and then I write the Spanish
version so she can understand?

I like that idea.

I'm curious about what
you're gonna write to my mom.

Honestly.

'Cause I really wanna be
with you, babe.

But...

That's the way it must be

in my family.

Yeah, I understand.

My mom's opinion
is extremely important

because when it was
about my ex-husband,

she had these
second thoughts about him.

I never listen to my mom,

and I just married the guy
and then divorced.

But this time,
I'm gonna be more cautious.

My mom is a very
old fashioned person,

she's very religious,

and I'm not sure...

for how direct my mom will be.

My mom, you know...

Yeah, yeah.

Okay, thank you
for telling me that.

It's good to know.

It's just that she's
this kind of person

- that are very traditional...
- Mmm-hmm.

I told her we connected

through, like,
an international conference

with the university that I
work for here in Panama.

- Oh.
- I know my mom.

And I wanted her so badly
to approve our relationship.

Oh, okay, okay.

You know, don't mention
anything like this craziness

about you wanting me
to have kids,

buying a pregnancy test...

Those things... please, don't.

Yeah. Um...

Because she's gonna get
a very bad idea about you.

Do you understand what I mean?

I understand.

Up until now, I was feeling
pretty good about this meeti

because usually moms like me.

Um... but now... I do feel
a little uncomfortable.

- You're done with this, babe?
- Yeah.

"Thank you for creating

such a wonderful daughter.

I look forward
to knowing you better."

"I'm so happy
to meet you today."

What is this, a happy face?

Yeah.

I wanna say, "Love, Gino" too.
I forgot to write it.

Okay, so...

I just hope Jasmine's mom is not

as critical as Jasmine
is making her out to be.

Perfect.

- Awesome.
- So?

So let's do it.

Oh, my gosh.

Mmm-hmm.

This is a big deal, you know.

Uh...

Why?

To show respect during a prayer.

So, what are you gonna do?

Yeah, well, I don't plan
to do that.

It shouldn't be a big deal,

but I know that for you it is.

So...

Come on, you're gonna
be meeting my mother,

just take off your hat.

That's silly to me.

But Gino is so delicate

when you talk about his hats.

Jesus Christ.

I'm fine.

Asking me to remove
my hat makes me anxious

and uncomfortable.

I just wanna be myself

and I prefer how I look
with the hat on.

But, uh...

a lot is riding on Jasmine's
mom's blessing, so...

this could be a problem.

Hamza.

Hamz.

After talking to
my foster sister, Ingrid,

I wanted to come clean
about some things to Hamza

about me staying
some nights with my ex.

Because I realize,
in order for Hamza and I

to trust each other,

we both need to be truthful about
everything before we get married.

But him walking away from me

kinda makes me feel
a little bit alone, and...

very upset that he is not really taking
time to figure out what's going on.

Let's talk about it.

I don't care,
let's talk about it.

I did not think it was
important for you to know

because we had
just started dating.

Yes, I did. I did respect you.

I did not sleep
in the bed with him,

I did not have sex with him.

I want you to be able
to trust me,

that is why I'm telling you now.

Okay?

Well, it.

Hmm?

Yeah, ex-husband.

What is the
reason for goin to your ex-husband's house?

It is really personal
why I went to his house

but I needed some moral support.

No, personal.

What...

I don't have a
lot of friends in Muskegon,

but I needed someone
to be there for me.

Can we talk about it?

- Can you come with me and we talk? I tell you.
- Okay.

- You okay?
- Yeah, just...

Right now,
I'm feeling a little emotional

talking about hard times
that I don't like to talk about.

Basically, what caused
that dark time

was that I didn't pass my state
boards the first time and I was...

I had lost it.

I was very depressed. I didn't
want to get up, I didn't want to eat,

I didn't want to do anything.

I couldn't really take care of my
children, so my ex-husband stepped up

and he really, like, fed me, and made
sure everything was taken care of,

the kids were clothed, and I laid
in bed for approximately four days.

Yeah.

Uh...

Yeah.

That was hard.

If I didn't go
to my ex-husband for support

my decisions,
at that point in time,

would have been
really detrimental to my lif

So you understand now?

You still love me?

You want to marry me?

Okay.

Love knows no age.

22? I thought you were 24?

Hey, Mama.

I'm waiting for my
girlfrien Mahogany's parents

to come in the door,
and I am nervous.

I am just freaked out right now.

She's told me some things
that don't add up,

and I'm supposed
to win her parent's approval

but I don't even know
if I can trust her right now.

Okay.

- Here's my mom, Silvia.
- Sylvia.

And he's my dad, José.

Okay.

Welcome, welcome.

It's my first time.

Ah.

So...

Okay.

Yeah. So, can you tell him,
"Love knows no age"?

What do you mean?

I
Am in love with their daughter.

Oh, okay.

Mmm-hmm.

22?

I thought you were 24?

- Oh, my gosh.
- Yeah.

- So, no.
- I didn't know.

Yeah.

Yeah, it was a mistake.

Yes. You think that
I have more age?

Uh...

- Yeah.
- Yeah. I mean...

- You made a mistake?
- Yeah, it must have been in the translation. Yeah.

I am 100% positive
that she told me

when I first met her she was 23.

And when I was wishing her a happy
24th birthday she never... denied it.

There was definitely more than
a miscommunication on this one.

My mistake.

Hmm?

Okay.

This is definitely not
how I expected the night to go.

The house isn't her house.
Definitely.

No photos of her anywhere.

And then I find out
she's not 24.

She's 22.

I don't know.
It's only two years,

but I've got a daughter
who's 22, so...

- Hug?
- Okay.

But, yeah, the fake
house, the age change,

this whole thing is, like,
freaking me out.

I think, like, right now I'm about
ready to go back to the airport.

Yeah, this is weird.
This is really weird.

Are you ready for bedtime?

Ximena has been a little
distant and stand-offish.

It doesn't seem like we're on the
same page about anything right now.

I just really just need to
know, do you love me?

I've been back in
Colombia for a few days now,

and things
aren't going too well.

Ximena has been a little distant

and stand-offish.

I'm frustrated that Ximena was disinterested
about getting the wedding dress,

and that the only thing she seems
to care about is her plastic surgery.

So it doesn't seem like we're on the
same page about anything right now.

Are you ready for bedtime?

You will sleep

in the room over there.

Would it be possible
if me and you could just have

a private conversation
just for a few minutes?

Since I've been in Colombia, the kids
have been sleeping in the bed with us

so we haven't
even been intimate yet.

And now she doesn't want me
in the bed with her,

and that makes me feel...

like we're getting
even more distant.

I'm just confused.

Are we going to be intimate
at all on this trip or not?

Why?

You
have something or maybe it's me.

No, it's you. You are weird

If I
got to one side, you do the same.

If I stop eating, you stop
eating. I don't like that about you

Neither will you like it.

Okay, I won't be on top of you.

I'll give you space, and...

I got up
and you're seeing m is strange things.

You no longer sleep because they
are spying for being watching me.

I know what that is.

No, no, I'm not spying on you.

I just like to look at you
because you're beautiful

when you sleep, when you're up.

You're beautiful all the time.

Well, the truth is that,

in that way, you are losing me.

I just want to let you know that

I will change and I'm sorry.

Hopefully.

While all
this happens I want space, I want time.

I still don't
want to get married.

I think that we get married,
yes, but not yet, no.

Between the trips it
seems like she's a different person.

It kind of makes me feel like she's really
just not into this relationship anymore.

I'm just confused
because I love you very much.

I want to spend
my life with you.

But I just really just need
to know, do you love me?

I do not love you.

Next time on Before the 90 Days.

Tell me something about
Mahogany you want me to know

as her new boyfriend.

Mahogany, am I your boyfriend
or just your friend?

I wanted to get your blessing
before I propose to Jasmine.

Things between Ximena and I
have been really tense,

so my friend, Nelsy,

agreed to talk with us
and translate.

I have to have a relationship...

- With the father of my children.
- This...

How dare you keep
a secret from me.

I've been loyal this whole time.

You're making me look
like a fool, yo.

Where's the car?