90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 10 - Time's Up - full transcript

Previously on
90 Fiance: Before the 90 Days.

Will you marry me?

I feel like
all my dreams have come true.

But I'm nervous about

leaving Ximena here alone

because I just don't want us

to grow apart.

Well, I just feel bad for ya.

But I don't know what to do.

I only have like

one other option.



I will be going to Dubai.

It's been almost 24 hours
since I've been in Peru,

and I still have
not seen Mahogany yet.

At this point
there's a possibility

that she is not
who she said she is.

Like, am I just being set up?

I wanted to talk

to you about getting
a prenuptial agreement.

Because...

If you do not sign the contract,

I do not want to marry you.

Why don't you want to have sex

with me, though?
I don't understand.

You think my son would love
the way you're treating me right now?



You have to get his approval.

This is my baby.

Well, if you can't talk

peacefully then you can...

Ooh, I'm gonna go change, okay?

Okay, change.

I mean, I don't want you
to be mad at me all day.

Or I'm mad at you, you know?

But we definitely need to talk.

And I'm tired of talking.

I'm so tired of talking
and having drama.

This isn't who I am.

And if... I'll talk
to you when I get done.

Last night, Usman finally
moved into my room.

Which, to me,
is a major victory,

and then all of a sudden
it got really, really heated.

And now this morning,

the tension between us
is really thick.

I feel like our whole potential
relationship is on ice right now.

I'm so frustrated.

I mean, he hasn't
even kissed me yet.

But at the same time,

I'm scared to lose the
connection that I have with Usman

because, like, I love him,
you know,

and I opened my heart up to him.

Kimberly.

What?

You ready?

You look cute.

At least, you're holding
my hand again.

I don't want no more drama,
you know.

But we have to talk.

Do you want to sit out here or
do you want to go up there and sit?

Up there, let's get something
to drink.

It's hot, huh?

Yeah, it's really hot today.

It's smoldering.

"If" I'm coming to Nigeria, now.

You know, like this whole...

Coming here and not knowing
about, like, the sex thing.

Like, I had no idea you weren't
going to kiss me. I had no idea.

And I think it was
kind of selfish, to be honest.

- Yeah.
- That's how I feel.

I mean it's, it's part of being
in a relationship though.

It's part of like finding out,
you know, it's just two different...

No, we're not in a...

Listen,

if we leave here and I'm not in
a relationship with you, I'm done.

Like, I'm dead serious. I'm
done and I'll start dating at home.

I'm not going to just be
your friend. I'm not gonna...

I'm just not gonna do it.

Not going to do it.

Because I love you, Usman,

and I'm not gonna sit here

and beg some dude to have sex
with me, beg some dude to kiss me.

And then go home
and not have any answers

and just be your friend after all
weeks we've spent together here?

No, I'll be done.

And, um, yeah,
I have feelings for her.

And if, all of a sudden,
she's out of my life...

I would be sad.

I don't want that.

Look what happened last night.

Look what happened.

- Look how bad the argument was.
- Yeah.

That argument was terrible.

Like, look how
you're talking about my son.

I hope so.

You think yelling at me
is being respectful?

For you to tell me that
you don't want to talk to him,

that puts a big, big damper
on this whole thing

because he's my son.

And I want him and you to have
some kind of relationship.

I'm not saying you have to
be his best friend.

I'm not saying you have to
talk to him every day, but...

I really need you
to talk to Jamal.

Um...

But I need you to really
either think about it...

Really? You'll do it?

Okay.

I want you.

I don't got you.

I don't got you.

No, I don't got you.
No, I don't.

- No, we're not.
- We are.

Really? So, like,
we're gonna have sex.

- Really, though?
- Mmm-hmm.

We're having sex tonight.

What the...
What does that mean?

Okay, arm.

- I can't wait.
- I'm telling you.

African way.

I was shocked as hell

when Usman said he was gonna
have sex with me tonight.

So now I'm like all excited
and nervous.

And does this mean that
after we have sex

that means I'm in
a relationship with him

or is he testing out the goods before
he buys the product? I don't know.

- Oh.
- Pop.

But when I say, I want an answer

if we're gonna be in
a relationship

or not by the end of our trip
in Zanzibar,

I mean it. And I really think
he knows I mean it now.

Maybe he didn't know at first,
but yeah, he knows now.

I drew the line in the sand.

Oh.

Okay.

Hmm.

Ever since I left Colombia,

Ximena was mentioning she wants

some augmentation
for her breasts.

- Really?
- Yeah, and she's like trying to

ask me to pay for it
and all that.

- No, I wouldn't do that.
- No.

I think Ximena is using Michael.

I mean, you can't buy love.

'Cause when the money runs out
the love is gone.

He texted his ex-girlfriend

naked pictures of me.

And the worst part of it is

his attitude after I
discovered all of his lies.

I don't want to be close to him.

So I packed my stuff, and
I'm going to another bedroom.

I don't want to be close to him.

I felt like a clown,
like a joke to him.

Leave this island
and take a plane

and go back home tomorrow.

I know it was so good
to be true.

But, but...

It's not... It's...

That person
is just in my dreams.

The real Gino,

I got to know him today.

Hmm...

It's a bad feeling.

'Cause Jasmine,

You know, I wanted...

I really wanted to
be with Jasmine

the rest of my life,
and she was the one for me.

And so, but this has
completely messed that up.

I can't defend what I did.

But I wish Jasmine

could understand that I would
never deliberately hurt her.

Because I love Jasmine

more than I ever thought
I could love a woman.

I know that
if I lose Jasmine like this,

I will never find love
like this again.

So...

I'd be devastated.

So I'm really trying to, uh,
focus on being

a little bit neater,
a little bit more organized.

Um, 'cause it
meant a lot to Ximena.

I left Colombia
about two months ago,

but it feels a lot longer.

Um, these are just some

watches that I'm just
putting back.

I just do my day-to-day,
hang out with my friends,

but, uh... It's hard to be in
a long-distance relationship,

because I do miss Ximena a lot.

I always just wanna call her

just to tell her how
my day was, things like that.

I just wanna be around her,
not be, like, alone.

I plan on keeping this place
in good shape,

not just for me, but for, uh,
Ximena as well.

So, just in case if I don't
have a place right away,

um, this'll be like
a temporary... temporary home.

Since I've been home,
I have been talking

to a lawyer
about the visa process.

And I have tried to make more
wedding plans with Ximena

because we're supposed to get
married in Colombia next month.

Hey, hey!

The room is clean.
See you soon.

Even though I'm trying to
move things forward with Ximena,

I feel like things
have shifted a little bit.

She is being a little,
like, standoff-ish.

So, since I can work
remotely from anywhere,

I decided to plan
a last-minute trip to Colombia

so we can reconnect in person.

There's my favorite grandson,
right there.

I don't want the other two to
hear me say that.

- Okay.
- 'Sup, Mike?

- Oh, comfortable seat.
- What's going on?

So, I'm...

getting ready
and packing and things

'cause I'm going back
to Colombia tomorrow.

Good. Good for you.

But, ever since I left
Colombia, um, it was good

up until two weeks ago.

Um, I noticed something seems
a little off with Ximena.

She's just getting
a little bit more distant.

And, um, Ximena
was mentioning on the chats

that she wants to get
some kind of plastic surgery.

Um, she wants, I guess,
like lipo to get skinner.

And she wants some
augmentation for her breasts.

- Really?
- Yeah.

I told her that she looks fine
the way she is,

but she's like adamant
about getting it.

And she's like trying to ask
me to pay for it and all that.

- I... I wouldn't do that.
- No.

I would... I wouldn't.

- It ain't your responsibility, Michael.
- Yeah.

You got enough to take care of.

Are you still sending her money?

Or any... any kind of money
for anything?

Um, I'm helping her with like
half, like, rent.

I think that should stop.
Honestly.

I think Ximena is using
Michael to get her bills paid

and live a lavish life
down there.

I don't know why he's
making her his responsibility.

I really don't know.

I mean, you can't buy love.

'Cause when the money
runs out, the love is gone.

I know you guys have
your concerns, um,

but Ximena's like the first
person that I've actually loved.

So, I'm positive things are
gonna work out for the best.

Yep.

Grandmother.

But that's not the point.

I know that Ximena and I
do need to work on our relationship,

and that's why I need to
go back to Colombia.

What I hope happens
on this trip is...

we work out the differences,

find out why
she changed a little bit,

why her texts are different.

But I'm confident when we're
back together in person,

I'm gonna feel the same love
that we had on the first trip.

I hope everything
works out for you.

Really, I really do.

Listen, you just gotta be alert.

You gotta look for those
red flags, that's it.

You don't wanna make a mistake.

'Cause it could ruin your life.

- Yeah.
- Remember that.

Yeah.

But that's what we have.

Like, I'm starting
to feel like you really

didn't want to come
in the first place.

This is my cereal.

You'll get fed later.

After waiting a year and a half,

I have decided to take matters
into my own hand

and finally meet Johnny,
the love of my life, in person.

All right,
what do you think, guys?

Should we look for some tickets?

Flights to Dubai.

So, the plan was for Johnny
to buy a ticket to Dubai,

quarantine for 14 days,

and then buy a ticket to come
to the United States.

But now he's worried
about COVID in America,

but he still hasn't canceled
his ticket to Dubai.

So I've decided I'm gonna get
my own ticket to go to Dubai

and meet him there.

Johnny has no idea
that I'm doing this,

but I'm hoping
that booking my ticket

lights a fire under his ass

to get over to Dubai
to meet me in person.

What do you think, guys?
It's only two stops.

I feel like my mother's
going to kill me.

It's a good thing
my credit card limit went up.

This is a huge risk for me.

I'm putting myself
out there yet again,

spending money that I don't have

and there's no guarantee that
Johnny will actually come.

But I definitely love him
enough that I am willing

to risk it all just to meet
the love of my life.

"Your trip to Dubai
is booked."

Now, I need to call Johnny and
tell him the, hopefully, good news.

Scoot over. I gotta figure out
how to put this on.

What do you think, Sonko?

Do I look Dubai-worthy?

Oh.

Do you notice anything?

So, this is something
that I will need

because I bought a ticket
to go to Dubai.

But it's doable.

But it's hard to for me
to have to go to Dubai.

So, we'll both
be making sacrifices.

But aren't you tired of waiting?

Don't you want to meet?

But that's what we have.

Like, it's either like,
now for two weeks,

or who knows when?

Like, I'm starting to feel like

you really didn't want to come

in the first place,
is what I feel.

I... I want to meet now.

I just always feel that
with you it's a waiting game,

and I will be waiting
for forever.

So, if you're not willing
to come to Dubai,

I am going to start
looking at other options.

Like having
an open relationship.

I put so much
of my heart into this

and maybe I'm a fool to do it,

but I just keep
holding on to hope

that the love
that we shared is real.

Excuse me?

When, when do you guys close?
Salida? When do you close?

Okay. Thank you.

I arrived in Peru last night

to meet my girlfriend Mahogany
for the first time.

But she didn't show up
at the airport.

So I decided to drive
to her town

to make a second attempt
to meet her.

I texted her a time
and place to meet,

but she didn't say
if she would come

and I've already been
waiting here over an hour.

At this point, it crosses my
mind that she may not be real.

And if that's true, my whole
world just is falling apart.

I put so much
of my heart into this.

And... and maybe, maybe
I'm a fool to do it,

but I just keep
holding on to hope

that the love
that we shared is real.

It's like, here we are again.
Right?

But I've got nowhere to go so,

I'm not going anywhere
for a while.

Oh.

Oh, my gosh.

Mahogany?

Oh. Ah!

You are real?

Oh, my gosh.

Oh, my God.

Wow.

Yes!

- You made me wait.
- Oh, my gosh. I'm so sorry.

- No, it's fine.
- You wait for me too much time maybe.

- No, it's fine.
- Oh, my gosh.

Oh, my gosh.

- Wow...
- Ah!

When she walked down
that little hallway, I was blown away.

And, since she never
video chatted me,

I am so relieved that Mahogany
is a woman and beautiful.

Seeing her,
it all comes back to me,

all of the texts, all of
the spiritual connections.

It was just such
a unbelievably magical moment.

It was worth the wait
at the end.

Wow.

- Wow what?
- I am in shock.

- Oh really?
- I can't believe. I'm still in shock.

- Are you shocked?
- Yes. I'm in shock.

- Why?
- Because I've waited a long time to see you.

- I'm sorry.
- No, it's... It's fine.

No, no.

That's okay.

- Thank you.
- That's okay. No apologies for anything.

- Okay?
- Okay.

None.

So do you like me to call you
"Ma-ho -gany" or " Ma -ho-gany"?

No, "Ma-ho-gany."

- "Ma-ho-gany."
- Yes.

- Mahogany.
- It's okay.

- Okay.
- I like that.

So what do you think
of the real-life

Um...

Ah...

Okay, you need to practice more.

- I do. I do.
- Yes.

I told you, I'm not...
I'm not there yet.

You also speak very quickly.

- What about me?
- Um...

- Oh, really?
- I do.

- Oh.
- It's so beautiful.

In person, Mahogany does
look a little different

than she does in the pictures,

and I could tell that
her pictures that she sent me

were doctored a little bit.

But,
to me, the most important thing

is the aura that she gives off.

And just this
presence of kindness

and love that just
emanates from her.

Um...

No, I've never had one.

- Oh really?
- Yeah. What's... What's inside?

- It's chicken.
- Yeah. I don't know what's in here.

Well, empanada, it's no
too much Peruvian, I think.

Oh, this is not bad.

- It's good. Mmm.
- Mmm-hmm.

Yeah.

Um... Okay.

- Okay. Come on.
- Okay, all right.

Um...

Um...

Why do you love me?

Why?

Aww.

No, not...

Okay.

Yeah.

- I think both of us have a long road ahead of us.
- Yes.

And it's gonna be built
on trust.

- Uh-huh.
- And I want, I want to earn that trust.

And I still have a lot to prove,
especially to your parents.

- Yes.
- But I will. I will.

- I'm very confident.
- Okay.

Oh, my gosh. It's really night, I think.

It is.

Yes.

- Let's go.
- Okay.

- There.
- Ah.

- I want to hug you first.
- What?

- I want to hug you first and say goodbye.
- Okay.

Ohh.

But I love you so much.

And I'm so glad that you came
to see me.

You are an amazing person.

Amazing.

I love you.

I definitely still see
her as my future wife...

but we are definitely on
two different levels right now.

I still have my heart out there.

I love her.
I want to express that to her.

But she is not reciprocating.

And she's just not the same
way that she was online.

She's not saying
"I love you" back.

And that is very concerning.

I'm showing all my.

Your breasts are showing.
That's correct.

But they are not nudes.

So, take off your damn hat!

Today, it has been one
of the hardest moments of my life.

I was never expecting,
you know, to be this way.

Why did I fall in love
with Gino?

About what's been going on
with me and Gino.

I'm trying to stay calm,
but it's very hard.

What? Say what now?

What nudes?

That nudes you sent to her!

Those weren't nudes.

I'm showing all my!

Yeah, your.
Your breasts are showing.

That's correct,
but they're not nudes.

So, take off your damn hat!

Well, if you can't talk
peacefully then you can.

"Peacefully!"

Why the did you
send her my nudes?

That was part of my privacy!

How can you do that?

How?

I made a mistake
to send the pictures.

But I can't take it back.

You know how I feel?

Do you wanna know how I feel?

Speak!

Speak.

Have the balls to say something.

Do you want?
You want me to talk about it?

Why did you do it?

- I told you why.
- Why?

- To rub it into her so that she...
- Rub what?

No. It's not, it's not...

No.

You were obsessed with her.

Wrong.

- So what?
- I broke up with her. Don't forget.

Your tiny!

If you wanna send my
to one of your exes, go ahead.

No.

I don't really care.

My pictures were hot.

You're depressing.

Whoopee.

I don't wanna see you anymore.

That's your choice.

- My choice?
- Yeah.

You were my choice.

I made a mistake.

I'm gonna kill this old
and depressing man.

Stop.

Stop, stop.

I trusted on you!

So, Jamal, this is Usman.
Usman, this is Jamal.

Hi, Jamal. How are you?

- Hey, how are you doing? What's up?
- How are you?

This is a huge deal for me
to have Usman meet my son.

This is big.

I'm not gonna sit here and say
that I trust you, Usman.

You know what I'm saying?

Ximena, I'm here.

It seems that you're surprised
that I came.

But is it a good surprise
or is it a bad surprise?

Yeah.

I was not expecting
in a million years

that Usman was gonna tell me
that we're gonna have sex tonight.

- So, you...
- So, I'm a little nervous about this.

I just hope this thing
will go well.

But before that, Usman's gonna
take this time for me to talk to my son.

Jamal and I have
been through a lot.

So, he has every right
to be protective over me.

This is a huge deal for me
to have Usman meet Jamal.

I don't really discuss my life
as far as dating with Jamal.

And to show him the
man I love, like, this is big.

This is huge.

- Ready?
- Uh-huh.

Why you cutting me?
Like, I should be there.

-So that he can... -I'm not
cutting you. It's not me doing it.

- Okay, let's switch.
- All right.

- Mmm.
- Yeah.

- There, that's better.
- Let me see my son.

Don't call him...
don't call him your son.

Please, for the love of God,
don't call him your son.

There he is. Here he comes.

Here we go.

- Hey!
- Hello.

- Hey! How are you doing? What's up?
- How are you?

So, Jamal, this is Usman.
Usman, this is Jamal.

- Hi, Jamal. How are you?
- How's everything going...

Everything is fine here. Um...

I've been here with your mom.
She has been telling me about you.

So, here we are.

- Here we are.
- Mmm-hmm.

Yeah, so, I'm not gonna sit here

and say that I trust you, Usman.

Like, I know how men work.

And at the end of the day if
y'all end up not working out,

like, I'm the one who has to
deal with those repercussion.

I understand you.

But, like, so many things, you
know, like, that I love about her,

like, she's so loyal,
like, 100% loyalty to me.

I'm fine.

It's not every lady
understand that. Kimberly does.

That sounds to me more like
someone that can be an assistant,

not someone that you can be
in a relationship with.

- Tell him I'm beautiful, too. What?
- We're living together.

What? He knows that.

He is my...

Uh-huh, it's good, you know, like, you
know, for you to watch your mom's back.

But what I want
to guarantee you here is that

I'm not gonna hurt her.

I mean, look, to be honest
'cause of, like, the age difference

y'all's relationship
doesn't seem ideal.

You know what I'm saying?

But whatever my mom wants
if she's happy, I'm happy.

You know what I'm saying.

- Okay.
- I love you.

It's good for me to see you and you, too,
to see me, so that's the purpose of this.

No, it was, literally nice
talking to you.

I appreciate y'all calling.

You're welcome, bro.
You're welcome.

- All right.
- All right, I love you.

- All right, I love you, too.
- All right, bye.

So, how do you think that went?

Nah, it's cool, like... He's
fine and I think at least...

I thought he was gonna be
a lot harder on you, though.

But I'm glad we got that done.

It really meant a lot to me that Usman
was willing to sit down and talk to Jamal.

It makes me feel like he's finally
taking our relationship seriously.

So, tonight, I hope we take
another big step in our relationship.

Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
Oh, my God. Oh, my God.

I'm a little nervous,
to be honest.

Having that conversation that I had
with him today, earlier on the beach,

I really think, like, I just
finally got through to him.

Like, "Okay, she's not playing.
She is not going to put up

with my anymore."

I have questions.

Like, does this come with
being in a relationship status

or is this just this?

And then nothing?

So, it's kind of scary,
but cool at the same time.

You know, like,
you to be like...

Yes!

- Eh.
- Is this what you're wearing to bed?

- Yeah.
- Yeah?

I'm dying.

Oh, God.
Oh, what you're gonna do?

Are you gonna strip for me?
Do I need some money?

Whoo!

- You're so funny.
- Uh-huh.

- You're so funny. What are you doing?
- Uh-huh.

Baby.

With the glasses on, though?

- You have to take the chain of there.
- Okay.

Where have you been
for eight days?

- Where have you been?
- Baby.

Oh, no.

Wait, you didn't tell me that.
You didn't tell me that.

You never told me that.

- You are like... really?
- Yeah.

- I made it.
- Yeah.

Really?

No, really, like, seriously.

Usman, shut up. Really?

So...

- Oh, I'm gonna miss potential.
- Mmm-hmm.

- But, I won.
- Yes.

- I won.
- Yeah.

I cannot believe
this is happening.

Like, this is exactly
what I came here for.

Oh, God, what?

What does that mean?

No.

You are so funny.

I have to ask you,
what made you decide now?

That's so crazy.

- That's what you call me.
- You are officially...

- Queen Kimberly.
- That's crazy.

Yeah.
And for that, for that...

This is so crazy. Oh, okay.

Come in.

Come in.

Come in.

I just landed in Colombia

after 12 hours of travelling,

and I'm kind of nervous
to see Ximena

because she hasn't really
been acting like herself lately.

She didn't come to the airport
like she did on the first visit.

And that kind of
made me feel a little...

like something is wrong.

So, I hope spending some time together
in person will help us to reconnect.

Ximena, I'm here!

Ah!

I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
I'll make sure to buy you a new rug.

Not off to the best start.

Ximena's very meticulous
about the house,

everything's dusted, cleaned,

and I literally just tracked
in dog poop on the carpet.

My trip was good.

It was really long 'cause I was
up since 2:00 in the morning.

But it's definitely worth it.

I came to spend time with Ximena

and the children,
and to meet the entire family,

and get to know everybody more.

He was not going to come.

But I told you I was coming.

Um, you
seem surprised that I came,

but is it a good surprise
or is it a bad surprise?

Okay.

I can't really tell if
Ximena's glad I came or not,

but it still feels really good
that I'm back here with her.

And I'm sure that after
Ximena sees how much

I've worked on myself
these past couple months,

she'll warm up,

and we can pick up where
we left off on the first trip.

I'm not too tired,

but I do have to work
tomorrow. I have to get up early.

But I'll go out with you
for a little while.

Okay.

What?

Why?

No. No.

If you're not willing
to come to Dubai,

I am going to start
looking for other options,

like having
an open relationship.

I know that,
but we have little solutions.

Like you can go to Dubai.

Like, why not seize
that opportunity and do it?

I love Johnny, and I don't
wanna be with anyone else.

But I am seriously at wit's end,

and I need him to know that.

I really want a family,

and Johnny knows
how important this is to me.

I'm almost 30 years old.
Like, I can't keep waiting.

So if he's not willing
to meet me in person,

I'm gonna have to move on.

Do you want to come to
Dubai to meet me, yes or no?

I'm gonna give you
a few days to think it over,

but then I need a final answer.

So I will let you go for now,

and we'll continue to talk
about this later, okay?

Bye. I love you a lot.

I definitely think that Johnny
would be risking

losing me if I have
to keep waiting.

Just because, like,
I want somebody now.

I've, I've waited
for 29 years...

and it's all I ever wanted,

is to be with somebody
and to love somebody

and have them love me
just as much.

Hello.

I've been in Tunisia for
over a week with my fiance, Hamza.

And things between me and
Hamza have been up and down.

It's concerning to me that we're
getting married in the next week

and there are a lot of things that
Hamza and I don't know about each other.

Oh, thank you. Straightened
my hair, you like it?

- Uh-huh.
- Yeah.

Oh, you're gonna say,
"Uh-huh"? Whatever, you a hater.

Uh, lots has happened.

I had an episode where
I accidentally drank the water

and, um I was myself
all day long.

All night and all day.

- Oh, Lord.
- It was horrible.

You don't wanna hear
about my diarrhea?

Hell, no.

We've been, like,

preparing for, you know,
getting married.

So he was supposed
to get us a ride.

He said we had a ride
to the embassy, right,

to get the wedding papers.

We literally sat for hours,

and so we didn't
get there on time

because he didn't plan
anything right, you know?

So that's what
I'm kinda nervous about.

Like, is he gonna come through?

You know, and I feel like
that's a maturity thing.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Well, accidentally...

um, Hamza's real age came out.

He's not 28. He's 26.

Yeah.

He has a degree.
He wasn't lying about that.

I've seen it.

But now he's not working.

No.

That's another reason why
I really need to think about

getting this prenup situated.

It really makes me think now

that I need to protect myself.

But I don't feel like
he's hiding anything else.

Yeah.

The only thing I didn't
tell him is that,

you know, when we were
talking in the beginning,

you know, I spent the night
at my ex-husband's house.

I didn't tell him that.

I didn't think like, it was really,
you know, a need-to-know thing

because it...
nothing happened.

We do not have no intimate
sexual relations

since I filed for divorce.

Before me and my ex-husband
got married, we were best friends.

And he's just always
has had my back

through any type
of hardship in my life.

But what Hamza
doesn't know is that

I did spend a couple of nights
with my ex-husband

around a month in of me
and Hamza dating.

I really needed some moral support
at the time, and he was there for me.

But we didn't sleep together.

I know that Hamza wouldn't
like it, he would be very upset.

And I feel like
it's not lying to him

by not telling him.

Ingrid is right.

I feel like if I expect Hamza

to be 100% transparent with me,

that's something I'm gonna
have to give in return.

But Hamza doesn't really know

how involved my ex-husband
is in my life.

And I don't think culturally
he would understand.

You know, in his culture
if you are an ex,

ex-husband, you shouldn't
have any contact.

I have a child with him.
We do talk, you know?

And I think he's gonna
be really jealous, so...

that's my biggest fear
right now.

Okay, well,
I will think about everything.

And, uh, probably talk to you
a little bit later.

Okay.

All right, love you.

- Bye.
- Bye.

Hi.

How are you?

Good.

- And you?
- You tired?

- No, no. It's fine.
- Can we talk?

- I wanna talk to you. Can I have your translator?
- Okay.

There is something I want
to talk to you about

that happened during the summer.

No. What?

What?

What?

Why?

No. No.

You think we shouldn't
get married on this trip?

Yesterday was
the worst day of my life.

I think I lost her.

Yesterday was, like,
the worst day of my life.

I think I lost her.

Yesterday, Jasmine found out
that I sent some texts

to my ex-girlfriend that were
really inappropriate.

I've never seen her
that mad before.

I'm pretty sure
she's done with me.

But I can understand that.

I've been crying

all night long.
I do believe

that even if I want to cry
at this moment,

I don't have any more tears
in my

body.

I still can't believe
what happened.

It's the worst nightmare ever.

I've never been this mad
in my whole life.

I need to go
to Gino's room because

I haven't been able
to find my purse,

and I cannot leave
the island without it.

But the last thing
I want to do is

go and see him again
after what he did.

I just came for my purse.
I left it in here.

Okay.

I'm leaving.

Um...

Before you leave, can...

Can you sit down for a minute?
I want to...

There's something
I want to tell you.

I don't have that much time.

I just want to apologize
to you that...

You know, for what I did.

That was just really stupid.

I know I've caused
a lot of pain,

and

I'm really devastated
about, you know,

about all this.

Well, you know,

um...

All right. Okay.

Go ahead.

Um...

I just feel really,
really terrible.

It was a huge, selfish mistake
on my part.

I mean, it just
totally destroyed

you know, all the
good connection that we had.

Not, so it...

You know, it just...

I'm really sorry about that.

After what happened yesterday,

I feel that I don't know you.

Who you are.

It... I can tell you, it's not
gonna happen again.

Um...

I will never communicate
with her again.

I just want a chance, you know.

And why would I have
to give you that chance?

How do I know that now
you just want one woman,

and you are committed...

and that's what you're like.

I cannot be playing games,
you know.

Um...

Well...

Um...

I love you very much.

And, uh...

My intentions are long-term.

You know.

You're the only one
I care about.

You, and only you.

And nobody else.

You're like, the perfect...

You're the perfect woman.

And...

I... I really don't want
to lose you,

'cause I'll never find someone

as amazing as you, ever,

in this world.

And I love you.

You know that I do, Gino.

I love you too much
to lose you, Gino.

I love you, too.

Very much.

Mmm.

I'm so happy to have you
in my arms again.

I was so worried.

But...

It's hard to find love.

And I found that in Gino,
and I don't want to lose that.

What time did you
get home last night?

Did you spend time
with any men, or anyone?

Ximena and I

are supposed
to get married soon,

but now, she doesn't have me
as a priority anymore.

Ximena.

Ximena.

Xime...

Ximena!

Um...

Yesterday, I came to Colombia
for the second time,

and last night,

Ximena wanted to go out

to a club, so we
went out together.

But around 12:00,

I told Ximena I was exhausted,
and I wanted to go home,

have some alone time,
but she wanted to stay.

So, I definitely feel
a little hurt

that my first night back,
I came home alone.

What time did you
get home last night?

Why did you stay out so late?
What did you do?

Did you spend time
with any men, or anyone?

I just want you to understand
how I'm feeling, because

you leave me here by myself
the first night.

I'm just not too happy
about that.

The first time
I came to Colombia,

Ximena was excited to see me.

But now, um...

it seems like she's
not as happy to see me,

and it feels like, um,

she

doesn't have me
as a priority anymore.

Ximena and I are
supposed to get married soon,

and I definitely want to be
higher on the list

than what I seem to be
right now.

Okay, okay.
I have no problem with that.

I trust you. You can go out,
party with your friends.

I totally trust you.

I do trust Ximena.
I just

wish she was a little bit
more understanding

of where I'm coming from.

I'm only here for 10 days
this time around,

and I came on this trip

to spend some more time
with her,

but it seems like
I'm the only one

putting in the effort
to connect.

I'm hoping for it to get better,

because

if not, then

the relationship, it's...

I don't think it's gonna work.

Next time on
Before the 90 Days...

You love your dad,
and you should,

but I think he influences you

into thinking that maybe

I come here
for the wrong reason.

So, can I meet
your parents tonight?

I'm hoping that when
Ximena sees herself

in a wedding dress, it kind of
makes her happy again.

I think this'll show me that

she really does
want to marry me.

You know that I want
you to meet my mommy,

and she wants to meet you, too.

Yeah, I've been wanting
to meet her for so long.

I only have a week and a half
to win back Jasmine's trust,

so making a good impression
on her family is critical.

- Yeah.
- Thank you.

But the truth is,

there is something
I've been hiding from her.

What are you talking about?

Did you do something
that I need to know about?

Oh, my God.

I swear to God, Usman.

You have to trust me.

I think
it's important that we just

lay everything on the line.

When we were starting to date,

I stayed
at my ex-husband's house.

Hamza!

Hamza!