90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 4, Episode 5 - Our Lips Are Sealed - full transcript

PREVIOUSLY ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

ASH AND I HAVE TALKED ABOUT
HOW OUR FIRST NIGHT WOULD GO,

BUT NOT ACTUALLY HAVING SEX.

YOU'RE GOING TO STAY IN THERE,
AND THEN WE'LL JUST SEE

IF YOU CAN MIGRATE OVER
TO THE OTHER ROOM.

WOW!
YEAH.

I FINALLY SCHEDULED THE TRIP
TO UKRAINE.

BUT SHE DOESN'T SHOW UP.

I'VE ATTEMPTED TO MEET
MY GIRLFRIEND, LANA, BEFORE.

THE FIRST TIME,
SHE DID STAND ME UP.

SECOND TIME,
HER BROTHER DIED.



THIRD TIME, SHE HAD
A MEDICAL ISSUE.

I TRULY BELIEVE
IT'S A SCAM.

HOW MUCH IS THAT?
HOLD ON.

ROSE IS GRABBING MY WALLET
AND PULLING MONEY OUT.

KEEP THE CHANGE?!
IT'S OKAY.

THAT PISSED ME OFF.
I'M DONE WITH THIS.

I WANT TO GO.

I WAS GOING
TO SEND HIM A MESSAGE,

BUT WHILE SCROLLING
TO HIS ACCOUNT, IT WAS GONE.

HE GOT SOME EXPLAINING TO DO.

THIS IS CRAZY.

OFF TO THE AIRPORT.
LET'S DO THIS.

ERIKA CAN'T WAIT TO KISS ME
WHEN SHE FIRST SEES ME.

AFTER MY LAST RELATIONSHIP
ENDED, I DECIDED TO BE CELIBATE.



ON TOP OF THAT,
MY FAMILY DOESN'T KNOW

I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP
WITH A WOMAN.

WISH ME LUCK. BYE.

HERE IT IS.

WE HAVEN'T BEEN
TALKING FOR YEARS.

WE'VE BEEN TALKING
FOR MONTHS.

IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU HAD
THIS GOAL OF GOING TO THE U. S.

I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY,
OKAY?

CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS

HOW'D YOU SLEEP?

I ARRIVED IN AUSTRALIA
ONE DAY AGO

TO MEET MY BOYFRIEND, ASH,
FOR THE FIRST TIME.

UM, I DID NOT
GO STRAIGHT TO BED.

UM...

MM‐HMM.

DID YOU HAVE A GOOD NIGHT
LAST NIGHT?

MM.

THE PLAN WAS
TO SLEEP IN SEPARATE ROOMS,

BUT IT IS REALLY HARD TO RESIST

HAVING SUCH A SEXY MAN
IN FRONT OF ME.

WOW.

THERE WAS A LOT OF... CONNECTION.

UH, HE'S BETTER THAN ANYTHING
I'VE EVER HAD BEFORE

IN MY ENTIRE LIFE.

YEAH. YEAH, HE'S GOOD.

BABE?
MM‐HMM.

WHAT DO WE HAVE PLANNED
FOR TODAY?

SO...

DO YOU THINK
HE'S GOING TO LIKE ME?

YOU KNOW
UM, LIKE...

I KNOW. I'M JUST ‐‐
I'M GETTING A LITTLE NERVOUS.

ASH AND HIS BROTHER
SHARE AN APARTMENT TOGETHER.

BUT ASH'S BROTHER DID ASK HIM

TO FIND ANOTHER PLACE
FOR US TO STAY WHILE I'M HERE.

IT JUST MAKES ME WONDER HOW
HE FEELS ABOUT THE SITUATION.

OKAY. SO, I'M GOING TO
CUT THE TOMATOES FIRST

AND THEN AFTER THAT,
YOU CAN HAVE AT IT.

I'M GOING TO MAKE YOURS
ALL ARTSY, OKAY?

SO, WE'RE GOING TO MEET
YOUR BROTHER.

I JUST WANT TO MAKE
A GOOD IMPRESSION.

BUT HE DIDN'T, LIKE, WANT US
OR ME TO STAY THERE?

I DON'T KNOW.

WHAT WAS THE REASON?

WELL, HOW DOES HE FEEL, LIKE,
ABOUT, YOU KNOW,

THE FACT
THAT I LIVE IN AMERICA?

UM...

I MEAN, BE HONEST, THOUGH.

OKAY.

AND I THINK THAT'S THE THING.
LIKE, WHEN HE MEETS YOU,

I THINK
ALL THAT WILL CHANGE.

DO YOU THINK THAT
I SHOULDN'T DRINK, THEN?

WOULD THAT EVEN
CAUSE ANY ISSUES?

YEAH. I DO.
YEAH? OKAY.

IS THAT OKAY WITH YOU?

I HAVE A LOT OF DIFFERENT
LIFESTYLE HABITS THAN ASH.

I LIKE TO DRINK WINE,
AND I ALSO PARTAKE IN CANNABIS,

BUT ASH DOESN'T DO
ANY OF THAT KIND OF STUFF.

AND FROM WHAT I GATHER,
HIS BROTHER DOESN'T, EITHER.

IN ALL HONESTY, THOUGH,
I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE

THAT I DON'T HAVE TO, LIKE,
HIDE ANYTHING ABOUT MYSELF.

YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
YEAH.

LIKE, I WANT TO BE ABLE
TO JUST BE OPEN

AND AUTHENTIC
AND WHO I AM.

WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HAVE,
LIKE, THE PERFECT ANSWER

TO EVERYTHING?

IT'S LIKE
YOU'RE COACHING ME.

YEAH. YOU'RE LIKE,
"THANK YOU FOR SAYING THAT.

I CAN TELL ‐‐"

OKAY.

BUT YOU, LIKE, WOULD
TOTALLY SUPPORT ME?

OKAY. I JUST WANT
TO MAKE SURE.

ASH HAS AN AMAZING TALENT

FOR JUST MAKING PEOPLE
FEEL COMFORTABLE.

BUT BECAUSE OF WHAT ASH DOES
FOR A LIVING

AS A RELATIONSHIP COACH,

SOMETIMES I WONDER IF HE'S JUST
TELLING ME WHAT I WANT TO HEAR

BECAUSE HE KNOWS
WHAT I WANT TO HEAR.

AT THIS POINT,
COMING INTO TONIGHT,

BEING MY FULL AUTHENTIC SELF
IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT,

AND I JUST HOPE THAT IT MAKES
A GOOD IMPRESSION ON ANTISH.

OKAY.

I'M GOOD. I'M JUST ‐‐
I'M KIND OF TIRED.

I THINK YOU'RE SWEET.

TODAY'S MY FIRST DAY
IN MANILA WITH ROSE.

WE STARTED OUR DAY
IN A MARKETPLACE,

AND IT WAS KIND OF A DISASTER.

THIS IS CRAZY!

I'M DYING.
I'M, LIKE, SO HOT RIGHT NOW.

YOU'RE HOT?

I NEED AIR CON.
I NEED AIR CONDITIONING.

I WANT TO GO.

AND IN THE MOMENT,
OUT OF FRUSTRATION,

I KIND OF SNAPPED AT ROSE.

I DON'T WANT TO GET OFF
ON THE WRONG FOOT.

YOU WANT TO GET
YOUR NAILS DONE?

SO I WANT TO GET OUT
OF THIS HEAT,

AND I WANT TO PAMPER HER
A LITTLE BIT.

OH, MY GOD.
IT'S SO COOL IN HERE.

HI. OH, MY GOD. I CAN FEEL
THAT FAN ON MY BACK.

SO, WE WOULD LIKE
TO GET MANI‐PEDIS.

YES, SIR. THIS WAY.

YEAH.

YEAH. OH, IT'S SO ‐‐ OH, MY GOD.
IT'S SO COOL IN HERE.

MEN DON'T HAVE
PEDICURES HERE?

THEY DON'T KNOW
WHAT THEY'RE MISSING.

YEAH.

I'M SORRY
I KIND OF LOST IT THERE.

I DIDN'T MEAN
TO GET MAD AT YOU.

YOU PROMISE?

ALWAYS ON MY SIDE?

SO, ROSE, I JUST
CAN'T SHAKE THIS.

AND I KNOW I KEEP ASKING YOU
AGAIN AND AGAIN, BUT I'M JUST ‐‐

THAT YOU HAVE...

A LOT OF FRIENDS
ON FACEBOOK.

SO, ARE ANY OF THEM
ANY OF YOUR EX‐BOYFRIENDS?

ROSE HAS ALWAYS AVOIDED TALKING
ABOUT HER EX‐BOYFRIENDS,

AND THAT BOTHERS ME,
BECAUSE MY INTENTION

IS TO LEAVE HERE ENGAGED.

BUT I WANT TO MAKE
ABSOLUTELY SURE

I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HER PAST
BEFORE I MAKE THAT COMMITMENT.

WHEN WAS YOUR LAST
EX‐BOYFRIEND?

OH, SO YOU DID MEET HIM
ON FACEBOOK?

SO...

SO YOU SAID THAT NONE OF YOUR
4,000 FRIENDS ON FACEBOOK

HAVE EVER BEEN
A BOYFRIEND OF YOURS.

NO.

BUT THEN YOU SAID,

WELL, ONE OF THEM
YOU BLOCKED ON FACEBOOK.

OKAY, SO SOME OF YOUR EXES
WERE ON FACEBOOK.

IN MY MIND, I'M LIKE,
OKAY, ROSE JUST LIED TO ME

ABOUT HAVING EX‐BOYFRIENDS
ON HER FACEBOOK.

BUT THEN I'M LIKE,
THERE IS A LANGUAGE BARRIER,

SO MAYBE SHE DIDN'T
UNDERSTAND MY QUESTION.

SINCE WE'VE BEEN DATING
ON FACEBOOK,

HAVE YOU
BEEN FAITHFUL TO ME?

I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING
ABOUT YOUR PAST.

YOU DON'T WANT TO TELL ME
YOUR PAST.

I HAVE NO IDEA HOW MANY
RELATIONSHIPS SHE'S HAD,

AND IT'S GIVING ME MORE
OF A REASON NOT TO TRUST HER.

ALRIGHT. OKAY.

OKAY.

IT MAKES ME CONCERNED
THAT I COULD BE HER WAY OUT.

SHE WOULD COME TO THE U. S.
PRETENDING TO LOVE ME,

AND I SUPPORT HER AND HER SON
TO GET HERE,

AND THEN SHE LEAVES.

‐SO, YOU NERVOUS?
‐OH, YES.

IN 24 HOURS, I'M GOING
TO MEET LANA IN PERSON.

THIS IS DIFFERENT.

WE'VE SPENT SEVEN YEARS

TRYING TO MAKE SOMETHING
OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP.

THAT HAS TO MEAN SOMETHING.

THIS TIME IS GOING TO BE IT.

HI, BABY LOVE.

BABY LOVE.

MMM, YOU EATING BREAKFAST?
YEAH.

BOY, THAT STUFF
IS SO SPICY.

I'VE BEEN IN NIGERIA FOR A FEW
DAYS WITH MY FIANCé, USMAN.

RIGHT NOW, WE'RE IN KADUNA WHERE
HE LIVES WITH HIS ROOMMATES,

BUT WE ARE STAYING IN HOTELS
SO WE CAN HAVE SOME PRIVACY.

OH, I HAVE
MANY EMOTIONS RUNNING,

BECAUSE I GET TO SEE
SojaBoy IN ACTION.

YEAH.

TOMORROW, IT'S THE PREMIERE
PARTY FOR THE MUSIC VIDEO

FOR THE SONG
THAT USMAN WROTE FOR ME.

AFTER TWO YEARS
OF DATING SojaBoy ONLINE,

I WILL BE ABLE
TO SEE HIM PERFORM LIVE.

AND I'M EXCITED TO SEE THAT PART
OF HIM, BECAUSE, LET'S FACE IT,

I'VE NEVER MET ANY CELEBRITIES,

LET ALONE BE ENGAGED TO ONE.

BUT THEN I'M GOING TO EXPECT YOU
TO KNOW HOW TO HANDLE IT.

NO, I'LL HANDLE IT.

I AM A LITTLE NERVOUS

AND A LITTLE BIT ANXIOUS
ABOUT GOING TO THE CLUB,

BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW HIS
FEMALE FANS ARE GOING TO ACT.

I DON'T KNOW IF THEY'RE GOING
TO BE TOUCHY, GRABBY, SCREAMY.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT.

SO, THIS IS
A SURPRISE, HUH?

YOU CANNOT EVEN GIVE ME
ONE LITTLE HINT?

DO NOT CLOSE MY DRESS IN AGAIN.

OH.

NO HINTS?

NO HINTS. ALRIGHT.

IS THIS
WHERE WE'RE PARKING?

WHAT IS THIS?
"CARDS, TOYS, WEARS, COSMETICS."

BABY LOVE, WHERE HAVE YOU
BROUGHT ME?

AH.

WHERE ARE WE?

WOW.
MM‐HMM.

SO THIS IS
WHERE IT ALL HAPPENED.

WOW.

YES, YES.
YOU'RE COOKING.

I WAS SO EXCITED, BECAUSE THIS
IS WHERE HE ACTUALLY SAT DOWN,

CUT THE BEAT. THIS IS WHERE
MY BABY LOVE DID MY SONG.

THIS IS REALLY COOL.

I'M IMPRESSED.

WHO WAS THAT?

THE VIDEO DIRECTOR?
YEAH.

THE IDIOT.

HELLO, BABY GIRL, LISA.
YOU KNOW ANYTIME I TALK TO YOU

ON THE PHONE, I ALWAYS TELL YOU
THAT I LOVE YOU.

THE FIRST VIDEO SUCKED.

‐ALRIGHT.
‐COME.

I AM SHE.

NICE TO MEET YOU.

WHAT'D HE SAY?
NO. WHAT DID HE SAY?

THANK YOU.
MM‐HMM.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

OKAY.

THANK YOU.

OKAY, THANK YOU.
THANK YOU.

VERY IMPRESSIVE.
THIS IS WHERE YOU CUT MY SONG.

I LOVE IT.

HOW YOU DOING TODAY?

PRETTY GOOD. LOOKING FOR...
WHAT CAN I HELP YOU FIND?

ENGAGEMENT RINGS.

ENGAGEMENT RINGS,
RIGHT OVER HERE.

TOMORROW MORNING, I'M
GOING TO BE TRAVELING TO UKRAINE

TO MEET MY GIRLFRIEND, LANA.

I MET LANA ON A FOREIGN
DATING SITE SEVEN YEARS AGO,

BUT WE'VE NEVER SPOKEN
TO EACH OTHER ON THE PHONE,

AND WE'VE NEVER MET IN PERSON.

WE COMMUNICATE ONLY THROUGH
THE DATING WEBSITE,

BUT I'M IN LOVE.

SHE IS 27 YEARS OLD.

SHE'S BEAUTIFUL.
SHE'S INTELLIGENT.

AND I FEEL VERY LUCKY
THAT SHE WANTS TO BE WITH ME.

SO, TELL ME A LITTLE BIT
ABOUT HER.

OH, UM, BLONDE,
SMALL HANDS.

SMALL HANDS? DO YOU HAPPEN
TO KNOW HER FINGER SIZE?

NO, I ACTUALLY ‐‐
THAT'S ALWAYS TRICKY.

YEAH, I KNOW,
AND I, UH ‐‐

I'VE NEVER MET HER.

YOU'VE NEVER MET HER?

SHE'S IN
A FOREIGN COUNTRY.

OH, OKAY.
I'VE DATED HER ONLINE.

I'VE HAD THOUSANDS OF HOURS
OF CHAT WITH HER,

AND I'VE NEVER MET HER.

SO I'M GOING TO MEET HER
FOR THE FIRST TIME

AND GOING TO PROPOSE
TO HER.

WOW.

YEAH.

WELL, WE HAVE
LOTS OF DIFFERENT RINGS HERE.

HAVE YOU STARTED
LOOKING AROUND?

HAVE YOU DONE YOUR HOMEWORK
ON DIAMOND SHOPPING?

I'M ACTUALLY LOOKING FOR
SOMETHING LESS THAN A DIAMOND.

MAYBE CUBIC ZIRCONIA OR ‐‐

CUBIC ZIRCONIA?

WELL, 'CAUSE THEY SHINE,
I GUESS.

THEY SURE DO. YEAH.

I'VE BEEN ENGAGED TWO TIMES
BEFORE WITH AMERICAN WOMEN.

EACH TIME, THE WOMEN WEREN'T
READY TO COMMIT TO A MARRIAGE,

AND THAT WAS
A REAL DISAPPOINTMENT.

I HAVE EXPECTED TO BE MARRIED

DEFINITELY, FOR SURE,
BY THE AGE I AM NOW.

SO I'M REALLY HOPING THAT THIS
TIME WITH LANA, IT WORKS OUT.

LET ME SHOW YOU
THIS ONE RIGHT HERE.

THIS IS A NICE,
CLASSIC SOLITAIRE,

SOMETHING YOU REALLY
CAN'T GO WRONG WITH.

YEAH, YEAH. THAT REALLY
LOOKS NICE.

LET'S DO IT.
LET'S WRAP THIS ONE UP.

ALRIGHT.
ALRIGHT, GREAT.

HEY, BABY.

WHAT'S UP WITH YOU?

GOING TO MISS YOU.

TODAY IS THE DAY
THAT I GET ON THE AIRPLANE.

I CAN'T BELIEVE
THAT IN 24 HOURS,

I'M GOING TO MEET LANA
IN PERSON.

I ALWAYS UNDERESTIMATE HOW LONG
IT'S GOING TO TAKE ME TO PACK.

GPS, NEVER WANT
TO FORGET THAT.

AND MASSAGE OIL, OF COURSE.

I'M AN EXPERT.

HOPEFULLY I WILL GET TO USE IT.

I'M NOT EXPECTING ANY INTIMACY
ON THIS TRIP,

BUT IF IT HAPPENS, OH, YES,
I WOULD ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT.

I HAVEN'T BEEN INTIMATE
WITH GIRLS IN A LONG TIME,

I THINK 10 YEARS NOW.

I DIDN'T GO INTO THIS
10 YEARS AGO THINKING THAT,

"OH, I'M NOT GOING TO BE
INTIMATE FOR 10 YEARS,"

THEN START COUNTING
DOWN THE DAYS.

IT JUST ‐‐ SUDDENLY,
IT BECOMES THAT MANY DAYS.

I AM NERVOUS, BUT IF SUCCESSFUL,

I GET THE GIRL I WANT
FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.

HEY. YOU READY, DAVE?
ALRIGHT, BUDDY. HOW'S IT GOING?

HOW MUCH LUGGAGE YOU GOT?

JUST THIS?
YES.

SO, YOU NERVOUS?
OH, YES.

DID YOU GET ANY SLEEP?
BARELY.

WHERE ARE YOU FLYING INTO?
YOU FLYING INTO KIEV?

FLYING INTO ODESSA.

AND THEN I'M JUST HOPING
THAT WE'RE GOING TO DO

ALL THESE ACTIVITIES
WHEN I GET THERE.

OKAY.

MAN, YOU GOT A LOT
OF RED FLAGS HERE.

MEDICAL REASONS, YEAH.

THEY WERE VALID REASONS,
AND THIS IS DIFFERENT.

OKAY.

YOU KNOW, FOLLOW YOUR HEART,
OBVIOUSLY,

BUT FOLLOW IT WITH CAUTION,
YOU KNOW?

NO ONE WANTS
TO SEE YOU GET BURNED.

WELL, I GOT TO DO
WHAT I GOT TO DO.

WHY NOT GIVE IT A SHOT?

LET'S GET THIS GOING.
YEP.

HE'S BEEN DOWN THIS ROUTE
A COUPLE TIMES,

BUT HE'S NOT GOOD AT LISTENING
TO PEOPLE, YOU KNOW?

HE'S A LITTLE BIT STUBBORN,
DEFINITELY.

THANKS, JIM.

SEE YOU LATER.

THERE'S SO MUCH
RIDING ON THIS TRIP.

WE'VE SPENT SEVEN YEARS

TRYING TO MAKE SOMETHING
OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP,

AND THAT HAS TO MEAN SOMETHING.

OKAY, YOUR BAG IS GOING
ALL THE WAY TO ODESSA.

THANK YOU.
HAVE A GREAT TRIP.

I'M REALLY DOING IT.

IT'S RIGHT.
I FEEL RIGHT ABOUT THIS.

THAT'S WHAT I SAID BEFORE,
BUT...

THIS TIME, I THINK,
IS GOING TO BE IT.

YEAH, IT'S BEEN A LONG TIME.

CAPTAIN'S LOG.
JUST GOT ON THE FIRST FLIGHT.

24 HOURS TO GO.

‐HEY!
‐WHAT'S UP?

I'M GETTING READY FOR STEPH
TO GET HERE VERY SOON, AND ‐‐

AND WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS KNOW
ABOUT STEPHANIE?

BITS AND PIECES.

I HAVEN'T COME OUT
TO MY PARENTS YET.

THIS IS SERIOUS,
SO I HAVE TO TELL THEM.

THAT'S REALLY SCARY TO ME,

THAT I'M GOING TO BE COMING OUT
TO THEM WHILE STEPH IS HERE.

WILLIAMS'
INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT'S GONE.

I REQUESTED SOME ANSWERS,
AND HE RESPONDED.

I'M ON MY WAY TO AUSTRALIA
TO MEET MY GIRLFRIEND, ERIKA,

FOR THE FIRST TIME.

SHE'S BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT,

AND WE HAVE
AN INTENSE CONNECTION

THAT I'VE NEVER
EXPERIENCED BEFORE.

I HAVE A DISEASE CALLED
APLASTIC ANEMIA.

I'M RISKING MY HEALTH
TO COME VISIT HER.

NORMAL PEOPLE
WITH HEALTHY IMMUNE SYSTEMS

GET SICK WHEN THEY FLY,

SO I HAVE TO TAKE
CRAZY PRECAUTIONS.

CAN'T REALLY TOUCH
A LOT OF THINGS.

I HAVE TO WEAR A MASK
ALL THE TIME.

I HAVE TO MAKE SURE
I BRING MY ANTIBIOTICS WITH ME.

EVEN SOMETHING
AS MINOR AS A COLD

CAN LAND ME IN THE HOSPITAL.

I'M WONDERING IF THIS IS CRAZY
OR STUPID OR BOTH,

BUT I THINK THIS RISK
MIGHT BE WORTH IT.

I THINK SHE MIGHT BE THE ONE.

VERY GOOD.

I'M ERIKA, I'M 24, AND I'M FROM
PORT AUGUSTA, SOUTH AUSTRALIA.

I'M FROM THE OUTBACK. CRIKEY.

DO YOU HAVE ANYTHING
SPECIFIC IN MIND?

ANY PHOTOS
THAT WE CAN USE FOR FUNDRAISING.

I AM A PHOTOGRAPHER,
AND I LOVE IT.

I GET TO BE CREATIVE
AND WORK FOR MYSELF.

I DON'T HAVE
A LOT OF BOUNDARIES,

WHICH IS REALLY IMPORTANT,
BECAUSE MY LIFESTYLE,

IT'S JUST NOT CONVENTIONAL.

CAN I TAKE YOUR PICTURE?

I'M VERY INDEPENDENT,

AND I LIKE DOING
WHAT WHATEVER I WANT TO DO.

TO ME, LIVING LOUDLY
IS VERY IMPORTANT.

I'M JUST A VERY COLORFUL WEIRDO.

SHE'S GOING TO LOVE THIS.

HEY, BOO. I AM AT
A KANGAROO SANCTUARY FOR WORK,

AND THE WHOLE TIME,
I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT

HOW MUCH YOU WOULD LOVE IT.
I'LL TALK TO YOU SOON. BYE.

I MET STEPH ABOUT A YEAR AGO
THROUGH HER YouTube VIDEOS.

AND I REMEMBER SAYING,
"I REALLY LIKE THIS GIRL."

WELCOME TO MY LIFE, GUYS.

MY PLACE IS MESS.

I AM VERY ATTRACTED TO THE FACT

THAT SHE'S VERY UNAPOLOGETIC
ABOUT WHO SHE IS.

SHE'S LOUD. SHE'S FUNNY.

SHE LIKES TO BE PROUD
OF HER "SEXUALNESS."

BACK TO MY OLD WAYS,

MY BOOBIES OUT
AND TALKING ABOUT SEX.

AND WE SEEM TO HAVE
THIS REALLY GENUINE,

BEAUTIFUL THING
THAT I'VE NEVER FELT BEFORE.

THROUGHOUT MY LIFE, I'VE ALWAYS
KNOWN THAT I WAS BISEXUAL.

I DO FIND THAT WOMEN
ARE A LITTLE MORE SENSUAL

WHEN THEY HAVE SEX.

BUT THERE'S NOT VERY MANY
OF THEM IN PORT AUGUSTA

THAT ARE ALSO BISEXUAL OR GAY.

SO I DIDN'T HAVE MUCH LUCK.

UP UNTIL NOW, I JUST HOPED THAT
ONE DAY, SOME BEAUTIFUL LADY

WOULD COME AND SWEEP ME
OFF MY FEET IN THE OUTBACK.

AND I REALLY HOPE
THAT STEPH'S THAT PERSON.

TODAY, I'M MEETING UP
WITH MY FRIENDS CLAIR AND JESS,

AND WE'RE GOING
TO ONE OF THE SPOTS

THAT WE ALWAYS HANG OUT
AROUND TOWN.

WE LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN
IN THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE.

IT'S VERY BORING.

SO WE HANG OUT ANYWHERE.

HEY, GUYS.

‐HEY.
‐WHAT'S UP?

AH, I DID IT!

THAT WAS SMOOTH.

HOW ARE YOU?
I'M GOOD.

GETTING READY FOR STEPH
TO GET HERE VERY SOON, AND ‐‐

ARE YOU NERVOUS?
YEAH, I'M, LIKE, FREAKING OUT.

I LITERALLY, LIKE, ALL WEEK
HAVE BEEN, LIKE, PREPARING.

I, LIKE, WENT
AND GOT MY HAIR DONE.

I'M JUST REALLY EXCITED,

'CAUSE I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.

ALRIGHT. YOU'VE KNOWN
HER FOR HOW LONG?

LIKE ‐‐ WELL, I'VE KNOWN HER
FOR LIKE A YEAR,

BUT WE'VE BEEN, LIKE, ROMANTIC
FOR FOUR MONTHS.

ERIKA'S ALREADY CALLING HER
HER GIRLFRIEND,

AND SHE HASN'T EVEN
MET HER YET.

YEAH.
IT'S A BIT INTERESTING.

THE FACT THAT STEPHANIE'S
COMING ALL THE WAY

TO THIS PART OF AUSTRALIA
AFTER ONLY BEING...

SERIOUS.
KIND OF SERIOUS

AND "INTIMATE" ONLINE
FOR FOUR MONTHS,

IT'S KIND OF CONCERNING.

IT WILL DEFINITELY
BE A BIT OF A CULTURE SHOCK

FOR HER TO COME HERE.
I GUESS WE'LL WAIT AND SEE.

AND WHAT DO YOUR PARENTS
KNOW ABOUT STEPHANIE?

BITS AND PIECES.

I LIVE AT HOME WITH MY PARENTS,

BUT STEPH AND I, WE'RE GOING
TO GET A HOTEL TOGETHER,

MAINLY BECAUSE I HAVEN'T
COME OUT TO MY PARENTS YET.

THEY KNOW THAT
WE'RE REALLY CLOSE,

AND, I MEAN, THEY KIND OF
HAVE BEEN, LIKE, HINTING

ABOUT THE GAY THING.

YEAH.

YEAH.
I'VE NEVER TOLD THEM,

BECAUSE, LIKE, I'VE NEVER HAD A
GIRL THAT'S BEEN SPECIAL TO ME

THAT I'VE WANTED
TO COMMIT TO FULLY.

SO NOW THAT THERE IS SOMEONE,
I'M LIKE

I HAVE TO TELL THEM.
LIKE, THIS IS SERIOUS.

SO, YEAH. WE'LL SEE.

IN AUSTRALIA, WE HAVE
LEGALIZED SAME‐SEX MARRIAGE,

BUT THERE'S STILL PEOPLE AROUND,
YOU KNOW, THAT CAN BE BIGOTED

AND CAN BE RUDE AND NASTY
AND UN‐SUPPORTIVE.

SO, ALTHOUGH MY PARENTS
ARE VERY OPEN

AND ACCEPTING OF WHO I AM,
THAT'S REALLY SCARY TO ME

THAT I'M GOING TO BE COMING OUT
TO THEM WHILE STEPH IS HERE.

I MEAN, FOR US
TO ACTUALLY BE, LIKE, SERIOUS,

I WOULD NEED TO MOVE.

BUT FIRST, I JUST WANT TO SEE
HOW IT IS WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER.

YEAH.
I NEED THAT REASSURANCE

THAT IT'S GOING TO BE
JUST AS NICE AND SPECIAL

AND PERFECT
IN PERSON, I GUESS.

‐YEAH.
‐YEAH.

WE'LL SEE WHAT HAPPENS,
BUT...

I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT WILL
HAPPEN WHEN SHE GETS HERE.

I'M HOPING
TO GO TO ENGLAND REAL SOON

TO MEET MY BOYFRIEND, WILLIAMS,
FACE TO FACE.

ME AND WILLIAMS HAVE BEEN
TALKING FOR SEVEN MONTHS,

AND I'M SO IN LOVE WITH HIM.

WE MET ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

WE'VE PROBABLY SPENT HUNDREDS
OF HOURS ON THE PHONE TALKING.

HE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE

I'M THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN
IN THE WORLD.

BUT LAST NIGHT,
SOMETHING HAPPENED

THAT REALLY GOT ME CONCERNED.

I WENT TO LOOK
AT WILLIAMS' INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT,

AND IT'S GONE.

LAST NIGHT, I REQUESTED
SOME ANSWERS,

AND HE RESPONDED THIS MORNING.

HE SAID, "I DON'T KNOW
WHAT HAPPEN TO MY INSTAGRAM.

IT'S NOT OPENING."
SO I ANSWERED HIM BACK AND SAID,

"I WAS SO UPSET, YOU KNOW,
WHEN I SEEN MISSING."

AND HE ANSWERED ME BACK AGAIN
AND SAID,

"OH, I'M SO SORRY.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPEN."

SO I ASKED HIM, "IS IT POSSIBLE

FOR YOU TO GET
THE INSTAGRAM BACK?"

AND HE SAID, "I DON'T KNOW.
I HAVE TRIED,

AND IT'S STILL NOT RESPONDING."

I'M SO RELIEVED
WILLIAMS GOT BACK TO ME AND...

WHICH MADE ME FEEL BETTER.

I MEAN, HE TEXTED ME
A LOT TODAY, WHICH IS GOOD.

SO I'M PRETTY HAPPY.

I'LL JUST WAIT AND SEE WHAT HE
FINDS OUT ABOUT HIS INSTAGRAM,

AND IN THE MEANTIME, I'M STILL
MOVING FORWARD WITH IT.

MY PLAN IS TO GO SEE HIM.

KIM, HI!

OH, HI, GIRL.

HOW ARE YOU?

HOW YOU DOING?
I'M DOING GOOD.

MY BEST FRIEND KIM
HAS BEEN THERE FOR ME

THROUGH THICK AND THIN,

AND SHE'S REALLY SUPPORTED ME

SINCE MY LATE HUSBAND, DWAYNE,
PASSED AWAY.

OH, MY GOODNESS.

YOU KNOW I'M PLANNING
TO GO SEE WILLIAMS,

SO I HAVE TO FIND
SOMETHING CUTE AND SEXY.

OKAY. HELP YOU OUT.
FIND SOMETHING, THEN.

OKAY. OKAY.

THAT'S HIM NOW.

LOOK AT THE HEARTS
HE'S SENDING.

YOLANDA, SHE HAS
BEEN THROUGH A LOT.

SHE DESERVES TO BE HAPPY.

BUT WITH THIS NEW BOYFRIEND,

I'M STILL SKEPTICAL
ABOUT THE WHOLE SITUATION,

BECAUSE SHE'S NEVER MET HIM.

AND NOW SHE'S GOING ON
THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD

TO GO MEET HIM.

YEAH, I DON'T KNOW
HOW I FEEL ABOUT THIS.

OH, YOU'RE LIKE MY DAUGHTER.
MY DAUGHTER FEEL THAT WAY, TOO.

YOU'VE NEVER MET HIM
FACE TO FACE, THOUGH.

BUT WE TALK ALL THE TIME.

I WAS JUST TALKING TO HIM
EARLIER THIS MORNING,

BECAUSE SOMETHING
WEIRD HAPPENED.

LAST NIGHT, HIS WHOLE
INSTAGRAM DISAPPEARED.

OH, MY GOODNESS.

ALL HIS PERSONAL PHOTOS
ARE COMPLETELY GONE.

THAT JUST SEEMS
REALLY FISHY, THOUGH.

HE SAID, "I DON'T KNOW.
I CAN'T TELL YOU WHAT HAPPENED.

I JUST FOUND OUT
WHEN YOU TEXTED ME IT WAS GONE."

YOU TRUST HIM THEN?

UM, I DO. I TRUST HIM.

I'M GIVING HIM
THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT,

'CAUSE WE'VE BEEN
TALKING SO LONG.

I DON'T SEE HOW HIS OWN
INSTAGRAM COULD GET DELETED.

HE'S THE ONLY ONE
THAT CAN DELETE IT.

BUT SHE'S IN LOVE.

SO HOPEFULLY
HE'S NOT STRINGING HER ALONG.

I DON'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT.
I DON'T ‐‐

I UNDERSTAND.
YOU'RE MY FRIEND

AND YOU GOT MY BACK
THE SAME WAY MY DAUGHTER DO,

BUT, YOU KNOW,
I HAVE TO GO AND SEE FOR MYSELF.

KIM HAS CONCERNS, AND
IT'S DEFINITELY UNDERSTANDABLE,

BUT I'VE COMMITTED SEVEN MONTHS
TO THIS RELATIONSHIP.

SO I REALLY WANT TO FLY OVER TO
ENGLAND AND SEE HIM IN PERSON.

FROM THE VERY MOMENT
THAT YOU STARTED TALKING TO ME,

YOU STARTED PLANNING
TO GO TO AMERICA.

VARYA WAS THE ONE
THAT REACHED OUT

ON THE INTERNATIONAL
DATING SITE.

I'M WONDERING NOW IF SHE WAS
ACTUALLY REACHING OUT

TO A LOT OF OTHER AMERICAN MEN.

IF WE DON'T WORK OUT,
IS IT ONTO THE NEXT AMERICAN?

YOU NEED
TO INVEST IN SOME BLINDS.

THE SUN COMES UP
LIKE AT 4:00 A. M. HERE.

NO. NO. CAN YOU NOT TELL
BY MY EYES?

I THINK IT'S OKAY.

I'VE BEEN IN RUSSIA THREE DAYS
NOW WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, VARYA.

AND LAST NIGHT, I SPENT
THE NIGHT IN HER APARTMENT.

YOU'RE USED TO IT.
I'M NOT.

SUNLIGHT COMING IN,
SLEEPING ON A COUCH.

I SLEPT HORRIBLE LAST NIGHT.

NOT ONLY WAS I UNCOMFORTABLE,

BUT I HAD TO THINK
ABOUT THE FACT

THAT SHE TOLD ME I'M THE REASON
HER HOUSE IS NOT FINISHED.

I'M VARYA'S OPPORTUNITY
TO GET OUT OF RUSSIA.

I CAME ALL THIS WAY
TO MEET THIS WOMAN

THAT I FELL IN LOVE WITH ONLINE.

AND I'M EXCITED THAT WE'RE ABLE
TO SPEND TIME WITH EACH OTHER,

BUT I'M KIND OF WORRIED
THAT I'M BEING USED RIGHT NOW.

WE GOING TO GO NOW,
OUT OF THE CITY.

YOU WILL LIKE IT.

SOMETHING SPECIAL.
THE TREES, THE BIRDS.

YEAH?
EVERYTHING YOU LIKE. YEAH.

BUT I WANT
TO PUT THIS BEHIND US AND RELAX

AND HAVE FUN IN ONE
OF MY FAVORITE PLACES

BEFORE WE MEET
MY FRIENDS TONIGHT.

I LOVE THE BIRDS.
MM‐HMM

THAT'S THE COUNTRY.

MM‐HMM.

LIKE THIS PLACE?

I DO.

I DON'T KNOW.
JUST THINKING, I GUESS.

ABOUT WHAT?

I REALLY DON'T KNOW
WHAT YOUR INTENTIONS ARE.

MY INTENTIONS?
WHAT DO YOU MEAN?

LAST NIGHT, YOU SAID YOU STOPPED
WORKING ON YOUR HOUSE

THE MOMENT YOU STARTED
TALKING TO ME

BACK MONTHS AND MONTHS AGO.

JUST MAKES ME THINK THAT,

FROM THE VERY MOMENT
THAT YOU STARTED TALKING TO ME,

YOU STARTED PLANNING
TO GO TO AMERICA.

NO. NO.
THAT'S HOW I FELT,

ESPECIALLY AFTER YOU SAID
I AM AN OPPORTUNITY.

THAT'S NOT A BAD WORD.

I SAID IT'S A BIG OPPORTUNITY
TO MOVE TO AMERICA, PLUS YOU.

DID YOU SEE THE ORDER
THAT YOU SAID THOSE IN?

YOU SAID "THE OPPORTUNITY
TO COME TO AMERICA,

AND THEN THERE'S YOU."

NO.
YES.

SO, IF WE DON'T WORK OUT,
IS IT ONTO NEXT AMERICAN?

VARYA AND I MET
ON AN INTERNATIONAL DATING SITE.

SINCE VARYA WAS THE ONE
THAT REACHED OUT TO ME,

I'M WONDERING NOW
IF SHE WAS ACTUALLY REACHING OUT

TO A LOT OF OTHER
AMERICAN MEN

AND JUST TRYING
TO GET TO AMERICA,

JUST TRYING TO GET
A GREEN CARD.

AND I'M THE ONLY ONE
THAT TOOK THE BAIT.

I GUESS MY QUESTION IS,
DO YOU LIKE ME?

YEAH.
ARE YOU STARTING TO LIKE ME ‐‐

I DON'T LIKE YOUR QUESTION,
BUT I LIKE YOU.

SO...

I JUST ‐‐ I WANTED
TO EXPLAIN TO YOU MY THOUGHTS.

I WANTED TO TELL YOU MY FEELINGS
AND CLEAR THE AIR,

BUT... I'M GOING TO TRUST YOU.

LET'S GO HAVE FUN. OKAY?

YEAH.

MAYBE I'M NOT GIVING THIS GIRL
A FAIR SHAKE.

MAYBE I'M COMING AT HER
WITH DISBELIEVING EYES

OR I'VE BEEN JADED SO MUCH
FROM MY OWN PAST

THAT I'M TAKING OUT
MY PAST ONTO HER.

ARE YOU A GOOD DRIVER?

I JUST HOPE THAT SHE'S NOT
GOING TO HURT ME.

I GUESS TIME WILL TELL.

I LOVE IT.
THIS IS AWESOME.

MM‐HMM.

I JUST ARRIVED IN UKRAINE,

AND LANA DOESN'T GET HERE
UNTIL THE MORNING.

ANYA.

LUCKILY, MY FRIEND ANYA
CAN MEET ME AT THE AIRPORT.

THIS SONG
IS ABOUT ME AND HIM.

THE MODEL SHOULD NOT
HAVE BEEN IN THE VIDEO.

SHUT THE UP.

WAIT, WAIT, WAIT,
WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.

I JUST ARRIVED IN UKRAINE
AFTER 22 HOURS OF TRAVEL TIME

TO MEET MY GIRLFRIEND, LANA,
FOR THE FIRST TIME.

I'M VERY EXCITED.
I'VE WAITED SEVEN YEARS,

AND I CAN'T WAIT
TO HAVE HER IN MY ARMS.

LANA IS NOT MEETING ME
AT THE AIRPORT

BECAUSE SHE HAS A 10‐HOUR
OVERNIGHT TRAIN RIDE

FROM HER HOMETOWN TO ODESSA,

AND SHE DOESN'T GET HERE
UNTIL THE MORNING.

ANYA IS A FRIEND OF MINE.

I MET HER ON
A FOREIGN DATING SITE

ABOUT 12 YEARS AGO.
SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL

AND I WENT TO UKRAINE
TO MEET HER.

WE WENT ON A DATE, BUT THERE
WASN'T ANY AFFECTION FROM HER.

SO I DIDN'T FEEL
ANY ROMANTIC CONNECTION TO ANYA.

BUT WE'VE STAYED FRIENDS
FOR THE LAST 12 YEARS,

AND SHE KNOWS A LOT ABOUT LANA.

ANYA.

LOOK AT YOU.

HELLO.
OH, MY GOD. HOW YOU DOING?

OH, THERE GOES
MY SUITCASES.

WOW.

FANTASTIC.

SHE'S ON A TRAIN RIGHT NOW,
COMING ACROSS THE COUNTRY,

AND I'LL MEET HER
IN THE MORNING.

OKAY.

BUT I'LL TELL YOU
ALL THE DETAILS.

OKAY.

SO, WE GOT TO PICK UP THE CAR
AND GET OUT OF HERE.

OKAY.
GREAT.

TURN LEFT ON

YEAH, 8:00 A. M.

I UNDERSTAND
THAT IT'S STRANGE SITUATION

THAT SHE HASN'T SHOWN UP.

BUT I'M GOING TO PROPOSE
TO LANA ON THIS TRIP.

AND AS SOON AS LANA AND I
GET ENGAGED,

SHE'S GOING TO GET A VISA.
I'M GOING TO GET A VISA FOR HER,

AND SHE'S GOING
TO COME TO USA.

AND WE NEEDED PHOTOS, 'CAUSE
YOU NEED PHOTOS TO DO THE VISA.

SHE SAID, "WE'RE GOING TO DO
THE PHOTOS THIS TIME."

LANA AND I HAVE DISCUSSED
THE K‐1 VISA PROCESS.

AND IN ORDER TO GET
THE K‐1 VISA,

WE HAVE TO HAVE
THE PROOF OF MEETING,

PROOF OF
OR EVIDENCE OF A RELATIONSHIP.

BUT WE DON'T HAVE PHOTOS ‐‐

THEREFORE, WE CAN'T
PROCESS A VISA.

LANA HAS BEEN VERY EAGER
TO FILE FOR THE VISA.

SO THIS HAS TO BE
DONE THIS TIME.

WE HAVE TO MEET. WE HAVE
TO GET THAT DOCUMENTATION

AND START THE VISA PROCESS.

THANKS FOR YOUR HELP.

I'LL KEEP YOU
IN THE LOOP.

BYE‐BYE.

BYE‐BYE.

GUESS I'LL HAVE TO PRESS
THE BUTTON, HUH?

SEE YOU.
SEE YOU.

SHE SHOULD BE ON THE TRAIN
RIGHT NOW,

GETTING CLOSER TO ME
BY THE MINUTE.

I'VE WAITED FOR SEVEN YEARS.

I'VE TRAVELED 8,000 MILES,
AND I CAN'T BELIEVE

THAT AFTER ALL THIS TIME,
I'M FINALLY GOING TO MEET LANA.

TOMORROW IS THE FIRST DAY
OF THE REST OF MY LIFE,

AND I'M READY.

MM. AAH. STOP.

AI, THE WAY
THESE PEOPLE DRIVE.

TONIGHT, WE'RE GOING
TO A LOCAL BAR

TO MEET UP WITH ONE
OF USMAN'S FRIENDS, ABBA.

HE'S ALSO IN
THE ENTERTAINMENT FIELD.

HERE'S MY GUY.

BRO, WHAT'S UP?
WHAT'S UP, MAN?

WHAT'S UP?

I'M REALLY EXCITED
TO MEET HIS FRIEND,

BECAUSE I WANT TO GET TO KNOW
MORE ABOUT THE MUSIC LIFE

AND WHY THIS IS HIS PASSION.

I MET HIM AS USMAN, NOT SOJABOY.

THERE'S A DIFFERENCE.

YES. EXACTLY.

YEAH.

REALLY?

I DID NOT LIKE IT. IT TOOK AWAY
FROM THE CONCEPT OF THE SONG.

SO I HAD EDITED THE VIDEO
TO TAKE OUT THE MODEL.

THE CONCEPT OF THE SONG
IS I'M 7,000 MILES AWAY.

THIS SONG IS ABOUT ME AND HIM.

THE MODEL SHOULD NOT
HAVE BEEN IN THE VIDEO.

UH, YES.

YES. YES.

REALLY, THAT IS AN INSULT.

I'M GOING TO TELL YOU
RIGHT NOW AT THIS POINT.

SHUT THE UP.

TELL YOUR FRIEND ‐‐
TAKE CARE OF YOUR FRIEND.

I DON'T WANT TO HEAR
NO MORE FROM HIM,

OR I GET UP. AND I LEAVE.
NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, BABY LOVE.

YOU THINK I'M JOKING?
NO, NO, NO, BABY LOVE.

WAIT, WAIT, WAIT,
WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.

YEAH, I KNOW YOU LOVE HER.

AND THAT'S WHY I SING
THE SONG FOR HER.

NO, NO, NO, NO.
YOU KNOW WHAT?

THIS GUY'S AN IDIOT.

NO, NO, BABY LOVE.
WAIT, WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.

NAH.

HE'S DISRESPECTING ME AND YOU.
NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO.

YES.

REALLY? I THINK I'M HEARING HIM
CLEARLY. HE JUST SAID ‐‐

YOU WANT TO GO?
YEAH.

OKAY.

NO, DON'T ‐‐ YOU WON'T SEE ME.
I WILL SEE YOU.

USMAN'S NOT SEEING
THAT THIS IS REALLY HURTING ME.

HE WAS JUST SITTING AT THE TABLE
LAUGHING ABOUT IT.

AND I'M THINKING,
"YOU'RE MY FIANCé.

WHY ARE YOU LETTING
THIS GUY DISRESPECT ME

AND RUN THE TRASH
OUT OF HIS MOUTH?"

I'LL LET YOU HAVE A FEW
MINUTES WITH HIM ‐‐

NO, NO, NO, NO, BABY LOVE.
NO, NO, I'M LEAVING.

THIS GUY IS THE MOST
DISRESPECTFUL NIGERIAN

I HAVE EVER MET.

YOU'RE GOING TO SIT THERE
AND JUDGE ME

BECAUSE I DIDN'T LIKE
THE VIDEO? HIM.

YOU'RE STILL IN NIGERIA. YOU'RE
NOT THAT BIG OF AN ARTIST.

YOU'RE NOT THAT BIG
OF A PRODUCER. YOU'RE NOTHING.

YES.

YEAH, I UNDERSTAND.
SHE'S JEALOUS.

THIS VIDEO IS ON POINT.
THE MODEL IS ON POINT.

‐ THE SHOOTING ‐‐ ‐ SojaBoy.

IT'S LIKE THIS.
I'M READY TO GO NOW. LET'S GO.

YOU LET YOUR FRIEND
DISRESPECT ME.

‐BABY, YOU WANT APOLOGIZE?
‐HEY, YOU KNOW WHAT?

WHAT'D I TELL YOU
ABOUT THE WORD SORRY?

SORRY CAN ONLY GO SO FAR.

BABY LOVE, IT'S OKAY, IT'S OKAY.
IT'S OKAY.

IT'S OKAY,
IT'S OKAY, IT'S OKAY.

- AH, HELLO.
- HELLO!

GOOD EVENING.

I'M NERVOUS ABOUT
MEETING ASH'S BROTHER.

WHAT ABOUT DIFFICULTIES
LIKE CHILDREN

AND BEING ON THE OTHER SIDE
OF THE WORLD?

OH, THAT'S ACTUALLY SOMETHING
THAT WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT.

MM.

I KNOW YOU'RE TIRED
OF ME ASKING ABOUT YOUR PAST,

AND I DON'T WANT
TO DO THAT ANYMORE.

I WANT TO PUT IT BEHIND US.
BUT I HAVE A FAVOR.

SO, THERE'S A TEST
THAT YOU CAN TAKE

IF YOU HAVE, LIKE,
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE.

THIS IS REALLY, REALLY COOL.

THIS IS GREAT.

THIS IS WHERE I WANTED
TO TAKE YOU.

MY BOYFRIEND, ASH, AND I HAVE
BEEN DATING FOR NINE MONTHS,

BUT WE HAVE ONLY BEEN TOGETHER
IN PERSON FOR ONE DAY.

THIS IS ACTUALLY A REALLY,
REALLY COOL CITY, BABE.

IT'S AMAZING. LOOK AT THAT.
IT'S AMAZING, ACTUALLY.

I THOUGHT THAT ASH AND I WOULD
HAVE THOSE AWKWARD MOMENTS

IN THE BEGINNING THAT YOU GET
WHEN YOU'RE AROUND SOMEBODY NEW.

BUT SO FAR, EVERYTHING
IS GOING REALLY AMAZING,

AND I JUST HOPE THAT THINGS
WILL CONTINUE TO GO WELL

WHEN I MEET HIS BROTHER TONIGHT.

OH, GOD.

YEAH. LITTLE BIT.
LITTLE BIT. I CAN FEEL IT.

- AH, HELLO.
- HELLO!

GOOD EVENING.
NICE TO MEET YOU.

NICE TO MEET YOU.

LIKEWISE.

HAVE YOU EATEN HERE BEFORE?

YES.
OH. HMM. INTERESTING.

HI, GUYS. CAN I GET YOU
SOME DRINKS TO START?

‐YES, THAT'D BE GREAT.
‐WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE?

I WOULD LIKE
AN EXTRA DIRTY MARTINI...

OKAY.
WITH VODKA.

OKAY, SURE.
NOT A PROBLEM.

IT'S REALLY GOOD.

WHAT ABOUT YOU, SIR?

YOU KNOW WHAT?
I ACTUALLY DON'T USUALLY DRINK,

BUT...

‐THAT WOULD BE GREAT, THANK YOU.
‐PERFECT. AND FOR YOU, SIR?

GUYS, COCKTAILS
ARE READY FOR YOU.

OH, MY GOD.

IT'S FUNNY
HOW THESE THINGS HAPPEN.

JUST THINKING ABOUT
HOW YOU GUYS MET

ON SOCIAL MEDIA,
AND NOW WE ARE HERE,

AND YOU GUYS ARE
PLANNING LIFE TOGETHER.

YEAH.

I DON'T KNOW. I FEEL LIKE
EVERYTHING HAS BEEN

EXTREMELY NATURAL.

I HAVEN'T REALLY
EXPERIENCED THAT WITH SOMEBODY.

IN MY EYES, I'VE BEEN
COMPLETELY DEVOTED

TO EVERY RELATIONSHIP
I'VE BEEN IN.

IT JUST DIDN'T TURN OUT
TO BE THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP.

HOW DO YOU FEEL YOUR CHILDREN
WILL REACT TO ASH?

I MEAN, OBVIOUSLY, IT'S GOING
TO BE A DIFFERENT SITUATION,

BUT I FEEL LIKE HE WOULD BE
A GREAT ADDITION

TO THE DYNAMIC
THAT WE ALREADY HAVE SET.

INTERESTING.

THE VIBE I'M GETTING FROM ANTISH

IS NOT GREAT.

IT FEELS LIKE AN INTERVIEW.

YEAH.

SO WHAT CHANGED?

SO, WE'VE HAD
OUR UPS AND DOWNS.

I HAVE GOTTEN IN MY HEAD ABOUT
WHAT HE DOES FOR A LIVING.

WHAT KEPT PULLING ME BACK
WAS THE FACT

THAT WE HAD
SUCH A GREAT CONNECTION.

AND I HAVE NOT HAD THAT,
SO THAT'S KIND OF WHY I'M HERE

AND WHY I'M TRYING
TO NAVIGATE THAT WITH HIM.

WHAT ABOUT DIFFICULTIES
LIKE CHILDREN

AND BEING ON THE OTHER SIDE
OF THE WORLD?

NO, THAT'S ACTUALLY SOMETHING
THAT WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT.

HE IS WILLING
TO MOVE TO AMERICA.

AND HE HAS A SON,

BUT HE HAS EXPRESSED
THAT THERE WOULD BE NO ISSUES

WITH HIS EX‐WIFE.

FROM WHAT I CAN SEE,

MY PREDICTION IS
THEY WILL HAVE PROBLEMS.

BUT ASH DOES NOT LISTEN
TO ANYONE'S ADVICE.

HE WILL DO WHATEVER HE WANTS.

BUT STILL, HE SHOULD BE
CONCERNED ABOUT IT.

THIS ENTRANCE?

YEAH, I THINK SO,
RIGHT HERE.

TODAY WASN'T AS SMOOTH
AS I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE.

I ASKED ROSE FACE TO FACE
ABOUT HER PAST ONCE AGAIN,

AND ONCE AGAIN, SHE CLAMMED UP.

LET ME PULL YOUR CHAIR.

GOOD?
YEAH.

EVEN THOUGH I HAVE
SOME DOUBTS ABOUT ROSE,

IT'S ONLY OUR FIRST DAY
TOGETHER,

SO I HOPE WE CAN
WORK THROUGH ALL OF THIS.

THANK YOU SO MUCH.

ARE YOU GOING TO EAT WITH THESE?
NO.

HEY, I'M GOING TO STICK THESE
IN MY NOSE.

SO FUNNY.

‐THANK YOU.
‐THANKS.

‐THANK YOU SO MUCH.
‐THANK YOU, THANK YOU.

I FEEL I'M VERY HAPPY.

I LOVE YOU VERY, VERY MUCH.

I WANT NOTHING MORE

THAN TO GIVE YOU AND PRINCE
THE BEST LIFE EVER.

I WANT NOTHING MORE
THAN THAT.

OH, IT'S NICE.

I KNOW YOU'RE TIRED
OF ME ASKING ABOUT YOUR PAST,

AND I DON'T WANT
TO DO THAT ANYMORE.

I WANT TO PUT IT BEHIND US.

BUT I HAVE A FAVOR.

SO, THERE'S A TEST
THAT YOU CAN TAKE.

NO ‐‐ YEAH ‐‐
IT'S A TEST FOR, UM ‐‐

I DON'T KNOW IF YOU UNDERSTAND.
IT'S STD,

WHICH IS ‐‐ I THINK
IT'S A BLOOD TEST,

AND THEY JUST TEST TO SEE

IF YOU HAVE SEXUALLY
TRANSMITTED DISEASE.

SO, THAT ‐‐
SO I WAS ASKING

IF YOU'RE WILLING
TO TAKE THAT TEST,

I'LL NEVER ASK YOU ANOTHER
QUESTION ABOUT YOUR PAST.

I DON'T MEAN TO OFFEND YOU.
BUT EVERY TIME

I ASKED YOU
ABOUT YOUR FACEBOOK FRIENDS,

EVERY TIME I ASKED YOU
ABOUT PAST RELATIONSHIPS,

YOU DON'T WANT
TO TALK ABOUT IT.

SO I'M NOT COMFORTABLE.

YOU'RE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH ME?
I'M NOT COMFORTABLE.

NO, I'M NOT.

I WANT HER TO TAKE THE STD TEST

BECAUSE I WANT TO KNOW
FOR MYSELF THAT I CAN TRUST HER

AND THAT SHE'S NOT SOMEONE
THAT SLEEPS AROUND.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

SO TAKE THIS SIMPLE TEST,

AND I'LL NEVER ASK YOU AGAIN.

OKAY.

YOU WANT ME
TO TAKE A TEST?

I WOULD FEEL COMFORTABLE
IN THE STATES.

I'LL TAKE A TEST,
BUT I'M NOT GOING TO DO IT HERE.

I WOULD FEEL
MORE COMFORTABLE ‐‐

I FEEL ANGRY. I FEEL.

WHY CAN'T YOU TALK
ABOUT YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP?

OKAY, BUT THEN
THAT'S NOT FAIR TO ME.

I CAN'T TRUST YOU
AT THIS POINT...

'CAUSE YOU'RE THE ONE
THAT'S NOT BEING HONEST WITH ME.

BEFORE WE TALK ABOUT
ME TAKING ANY TESTS,

IF YOU'RE NOT GOING
TO TALK ABOUT YOUR PAST,

THEN I'M NOT COMFORTABLE MOVING
FORWARD WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP.

SO WHY DON'T YOU
THINK ABOUT IT?

I NEED SOME AIR, OKAY?

I JUST ASKED ROSE
TO TAKE AN STD TEST,

AND IT'S SO FRUSTRATING, BECAUSE
I DON'T THINK SHE UNDERSTANDS

WHY I NEED TO KNOW THAT.

AND I CERTAINLY DON'T UNDERSTAND
WHY SHE'S HIDING THINGS FROM ME.

DO YOU WANT
TO TALK ABOUT IT?

I'M NOT GOING
TO LEAVE YOU HERE.

I WANT TO MAKE SURE
THAT YOU GET HOME SAFE.

ED, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.

NO, I AM GOING TO WORRY
ABOUT YOU.

DON'T WANT. I DON'T CARE.

I'M SORRY. I'M SORRY.

BECAUSE I HURT.

OKAY.
OKAY?

IT WAS NEVER MY INTENTION
TO HURT ROSE IN ANY WAY,

BUT HOW CAN WE BEGIN OUR LIFE
ON A FOUNDATION OF HONESTY

IF SHE WON'T
BE UP‐FRONT WITH ME?

I LOVE HER, BUT I STILL
HAVE A LOT OF QUESTIONS.

I JUST WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH.

IF YOU'RE WILLING TO SIT DOWN
AND TALK TO ME

ABOUT EVEN
YOUR LAST BOYFRIEND ‐‐

WHAT YOU WANT?
WHAT YOU WANT?

I WANT TO KNOW.
I WANT TO KNOW

WHERE PRINCE'S DAD IS.

AND I'M SORRY.
I'M NOT GOING TO SPEND

THE REST OF MY LIFE
WITH SOMEBODY I CAN'T TRUST.

I JUST WISH ‐‐
THAT'S ALL.

AND THAT WAS FOUR YEARS AGO,
RIGHT?

TALK TO ME ABOUT WHAT'S HAPPENED
IN THE LAST FOUR YEARS.

WITH ‐‐

THAT'S ALL.

THIS IS ALL I WANTED,
WAS WHAT YOU JUST SAID.

RIGHT THERE.
THAT'S ALL I WANTED.

WELL, HELLO?
I DON'T SPEAK TAGALOG, PLEASE.

ROSE, WE'RE GETTING SOMEWHERE.
PLEASE.

YOU CAN HATE MY GUTS.
I DON'T CARE ABOUT THAT.

THE ONLY THING I CARE ABOUT
IS YOUR SAFETY.

SO, ROSE, I CAN BOOK YOU A HOTEL
OUTSIDE OF WHERE WE'RE STAYING.

I CAN BOOK YOU A ROOM
AT MY SAME HOTEL.

OKAY.

OKAY.

OKAY. ALRIGHT, SO, I FOUND ONE
THAT'S ABOUT 10 MINUTES AWAY,

OKAY? SO I'M GOING TO GO AHEAD
AND BOOK YOUR ROOM.

OKAY?

OKAY.

FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH,
I'M SORRY.

I DON'T KNOW.

BUT I...

DO NOT BELIEVE IN LOVE.

MY HEART IS BEATING SO FAST.

I'M, LIKE, SO OUT OF BREATH.
AAH!

I DEFINITELY DON'T LOOK
MY BEST RIGHT NOW.

I FEEL LIKE I SMELL WEIRD,

SO I HOPE SHE STILL THINKS
I'M PRETTY.

I JUST ARRIVED
IN ADELAIDE, AUSTRALIA,

AND I JUST CANNOT WAIT
TO SEE ERIKA.

IT'S ABOUT DAMN TIME.

IT TOOK THREE SEPARATE FLIGHTS

AND 30 HOURS FOR ME TO GET HERE.

I'VE BEEN AROUND SO MANY GERMS
AND SO MANY SICK PEOPLE.

I DID HAVE TO TAKE
A LOT OF PRECAUTIONS, THOUGH.

I WORE MY MASK
A LOT OF THE TIME.

I HAND‐SANITIZED CONSTANTLY.

WITH MY ILLNESS,
THIS IS SO RISKY,

BUT THIS RISK WORTH IS TAKING
BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE

ERIKA IS SOMEBODY I CAN SPEND
THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH.

I'M NERVOUS 'CAUSE
I DON'T FEEL CUTE RIGHT NOW.

I FEEL LIKE I SMELL WEIRD
AND MY MAKEUP IS REALLY CAKEY,

'CAUSE I JUST HAVE BEEN
LAYERING IT ON CONSTANTLY.

SO I HOPE SHE STILL
THINKS I'M PRETTY.

WE HEART IS BEATING SO FAST.
I'M, LIKE, SO OUT OF BREATH.

AAH!

I JUST KNOW I'M GOING TO
TURN THE CORNER ANY MINUTE,

AND I'M GOING TO SEE HER.

WHEW.

OH, MY GOD!

HI!

OH, MY GOD.

OH, MY GOD.

OH, MY GOD.

I HAVE SOMETHING FOR YOU.

AWW!

OH, MY GOD.

I'M, LIKE, SHAKING.

OH, MY GOD.
OH, MY GOD.

GOOD. GOOD.

I SMELL DISGUSTING.
I'M, LIKE ‐‐

YOU'RE FINE.
YOU'RE ALL GOOD.

MY LITTLE SQUISHY PINEAPPLE.

I'VE BEEN WAITING SO LONG TO BE
ABLE TO HOLD HER IN MY ARMS,

AND NOW SHE'S FINALLY HERE.

SHE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL,

BEST‐SMELLING, BEST‐DRESSED,

MOST AMAZING HUMAN BEING.
WHAT CAN I SAY.

I PROBABLY LIKE HER WAY MORE
THAN SHE LIKES ME RIGHT NOW,

BUT IT'S OKAY.
WE'VE GOT TIME TO WORK ON IT.

I KNOW. THIS IS INSANE.

WE'RE BOTH TINY. IT'S FINE.
I KNOW. I KNOW.

LOOK AT YOU.
I'M GOING TO JUST TAKE THIS OFF.

WHAT THE I CAN'T STOP,
LIKE, LOOKING AT YOU.

WHY?
DO I LOOK THE SAME?

YEAH, YOU DO.
REALLY? NO, LIKE, SURPRISE?

IMAGINE YOU COME DOWN,
I'M LIKE, "MM..."

OH, GOD.
NO, YOU LOOK ‐‐

YOU LOOK GORGEOUS.

I FEEL LIKE I WANT
TO GIVE HER A KISS,

BUT THAT IS REALLY NOT ME.

I'M NOT MUCH OF A PDA TYPE,

AND I HOPE THAT ERIKA
ISN'T DISAPPOINTED BY THAT.

BUT TO ME,
EVEN THOUGH WE DIDN'T KISS,

I FELT LIKE THE FIRST MEETING
WE HAD WAS PERFECT.

YOU GOT IT?
I GOT THIS.

ARE YOU SURE
YOU GOT THIS?

IT'S, LIKE, BUSTING
AT THE SEAMS.

OH, MY GOD.
IT'S SO FREAKING HEAVY.

WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN THERE?

PRESENTS FOR YOU.

DO YOU WANT ME TO TAKE ONE?
LET'S PUT THE COOKIES ON TOP.

YES. PERFECT. ALRIGHT.
YES! PERFECT.

OKAY.
LET'S GO.

LOVELY.

IT HONESTLY FEELS SURREAL,
'CAUSE RIGHT NOW,

WE'VE ONLY BEEN GIRLFRIENDS
INSIDE OF AN AIRPORT

AND ON OUR PHONES.

SO I'M READY TO JUST
BUST OUT INTO THE WILD

AND, LIKE, SHOW THE WORLD.
I'M GAY.

YEAH.

MY GOD. WHAT THE

‐THIS IS REALLY CRAZY.
‐HOW ROMANTIC. LOOK AT US.

IT FEELS SO GOOD, BUT I'M TRYING
TO FIGURE OUT,

SHOULD WE HOLD IT LIKE THIS?
LIKE THIS OR LIKE ‐‐

LET'S DO ‐‐
NO, NO, THE OTHER ONE.

REALLY? I LIKE IT
THAT OTHER WAY.

OH
OH, NO.

UH‐OH.
HOW ABOUT THIS?

MAGIC.

HERE IS MY CAR.
OOH!

OH, YOUR CAR'S CUTE.

STEPH IS EXACTLY THE PERSON
THAT I THOUGHT SHE WOULD BE.

SHE'S BEAUTIFUL.
SHE IS MAKING ME LAUGH.

THIS IS SO WEIRD.
I AM SO FREAKED OUT.

I AM FEELING PRETTY HAPPY,

AND I REALLY THINK

THAT THIS IS THE START
OF OUR FUTURE TOGETHER.

OH, MY GOD. I CAN'T
BELIEVE I'M WITH YOU RIGHT NOW.

AFTER MONTHS OF WAITING, ERIKA
AND I ARE FINALLY TOGETHER,

AND IT FEELS SO AMAZING.

BUT I'M NERVOUS FOR
WHEN WE GO BACK TO THE HOTEL,

BECAUSE IT'S BEEN A WHILE SINCE
I'VE BEEN INTIMATE WITH ANYONE.

I DO KNOW THAT ERIKA
IS A GIRL WHO ENJOYS SEX.

IT'S SOMETHING THAT'S REALLY
IMPORTANT TO HER,

SO I'M WORRIED MAYBE I'M NOT
GOING TO BE READY

TO DO THAT WITH HER
AS QUICKLY AS SHE WANTS ME TO,

AND I JUST DON'T WANT THIS
TO BE A DEAL‐BREAKER.

I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND

THAT I HAVE
THE BEST INTENTIONS FOR HER.

I CAME TO RUSSIA.

THERE'S NO REASON I SHOULD BE
INTERROGATED LIKE THIS.

THIS PLACE ACTUALLY REMINDS ME

OF A PLACE IN TENNESSEE
CALLED MARKET SQUARE.

UH‐HUH.
IT'S A WALKING STREET?

IT'S A WALKING STREET, AND
YOU HAVE ALL THIS KIND OF STUFF.

TODAY, GEOFFREY IS MEETING
MY FRIENDS,

AND I'M FEELING
NERVOUS ABOUT IT.

‐HEY!
‐HEY!

THIS IS GEOFFREY.

‐NICE TO MEET YOU.
‐NICE TO MEET YOU.

NICE TO MEET YOU, TOO.

BUT I HOPE OUR MEETING IN PERSON

WILL HELP CHANGE THEIR MIND.

SHE'S THE BEST
IN ENGLISH.

NO, NO.

HOW WAS YOUR FLIGHT?

FLIGHT WAS LONG. VERY LONG.

TELL ME ABOUT YOUR LIFE.
I MEAN, WHAT DO YOU DO?

I HAVE SOME RENTAL HOUSES,
AND I RENT THEM OUT FOR MONEY.

‐MM‐HMM.
‐RIGHT?

YOUR LAST RELATIONSHIP.

MY LAST SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
WAS MY EX.

AFTER THAT?

I MEAN, I HAD RELATIONSHIPS,
BUT NOT SERIOUS.

OH, I'M SERIOUS.
I'M CAME TO RUSSIA.

I KNOW THAT YOU WORRY
ABOUT VARYA,

BUT I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND

THAT I HAVE THE BEST
INTENTIONS FOR HER.

"HOW COULD SHE TRUST
YOUR WORDS?"

I MEAN, I HAVE A PAST,

BUT... I DON'T TALK
ABOUT MY PAST.

I DON'T ASK ABOUT HER PAST.

THERE'S NO REASON I SHOULD
BE INTERROGATED LIKE THIS.

I MEAN, I'M HERE.
I'M ALL THE WAY IN RUSSIA.

I CAME TO SEE YOUR FRIEND,

AND THAT SHOULD BE
ALL THAT MATTERS.

IT'S NOT ABOUT HAVING SECRETS.

IT'S ABOUT US GROWING.

RIGHT?

WHAT? WHAT'S SHE SAYING?

NOTHING SERIOUS.

WHAT DID SHE SAY?
AMERICAN MAN, WHAT?

SHE SAID I USED TO COMMUNICATE
WITH ANOTHER AMERICAN

BEFORE I MET YOU,

AND I DIDN'T
TELL YOU ABOUT THAT.

HUH.

YOU TOLD ME THAT I WAS THE ONLY
AMERICAN THAT YOU SPOKE TO.

YOU STRAIGHT‐UP
LIED TO ME.

I'VE DATED
OTHER AMERICANS ONLINE,

BUT I DIDN'T TELL GEOFFREY

BECAUSE I THINK
IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL.

YOU'VE BEEN DISHONEST
WITH ME.

THIS PLAYS INTO THE WHOLE FACT
UH ‐‐

THAT ‐‐ NO, THIS PLAYS INTO
THE WHOLE FACT

THAT YOU JUST WANT
TO COME TO AMERICA.

Shh.
NO. NO "Shh" NOTHING.

TAKE IT EASY.
IS THIS FUNNY?

‐NO.
‐IT'S FUNNY?

NOT FUNNY. NOT ‐‐
IT'S NOT FUNNY.

THIS IS RIDICULOUS.

MAN ‐‐

YOU LIED TO ME.

I'M DONE.

THIS IS BULL

I'M READY TO GET THE
OUT OF RUSSIA, MAN.

THIS IS BULL

HER WHOLE THOUGHT PROCESS

IS ONLY TO GET
A GREEN CARD, RIGHT?

I'M JUST THE PERSON THAT'S GOING
TO GET HER THERE, RIGHT?

RIGHT NOW, I THINK I'M FAILING
MYSELF IN THIS WHOLE SITUATION.

I'M FAILING MYSELF.

I SHOULD HAVE BEEN
SMARTER THAN THIS.

NEXT TIME ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

I TRAVEL 7,000 MILES
TO BE INSULTED BY YOUR FRIEND,

AND YOU THINK IT'S FUNNY?

I DON'T WANT HIM THERE.

HIM.

I WANT TO KISS YOU.
YEAH?

BUT... I'M ALSO WANTING
TO TAKE A BATH.

I'VE BEEN CELIBATE
FOR QUITE SOME TIME,

SO I'M NERVOUS
TO MAKE THAT BIG STEP.

I'LL MEET YOU IN THE BATHROOM?

THIS IS IT. AFTER SEVEN YEARS,

TODAY IS THE DAY
I'M FINALLY GOING TO MEET LANA.

THERE'S A TRAIN
ARRIVING RIGHT NOW.

LET'S SEE IF THIS IS IT.

I MAY HAVE LOST ROSE,
AND I FEEL SICK TO MY STOMACH.

SHE'S NOT ANSWERING.

YOU WERE BLATANTLY
BEING DISHONEST WITH ME.

TELL ME RIGHT NOW
THAT THERE'S NO ONE ELSE.

I'LL BE MEETING DARCEY SOON.

I'M EXTREMELY NERVOUS.

OKAY.
WONDERFUL. THANK YOU.

TOM HAS NOT TOLD ME
ABOUT THIS OTHER WOMAN.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING
TO HAPPEN WHEN I SEE HIM TODAY.

HELLO. NO, THAT'S OKAY.
I DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE.