90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 4, Episode 4 - Baby Be Mine - full transcript

PREVIOUSLY ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

IT'S YOU.

YOUR DADDY'S HERE
TO PICK YOU UP, SWEETIE.

I AM LEAVING FOR AUSTRALIA TODAY

TO MEET MY BOYFRIEND, ASH.

BYE, BABE.

THIS IS THE LONGEST I'VE EVER
BEEN AWAY FROM MY KIDS.

IF THIS IS ALL FOR NOTHING,

IT'S GOING TO BE
A HUGE DISAPPOINTMENT.

I'M JUST GOING
TO GO VISIT HER,

AND WE'RE GOING
TO JUST HANG OUT.



MY FAMILY DOESN'T KNOW THAT I'M
IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW
ANYTHING ABOUT THE FRIEND.

WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS?

BUT COMING OUT TO YOUR
PARENTS IS A REALLY BIG MOMENT,

AND I DIDN'T FEEL READY TONIGHT.

HONESTLY, IT DOESN'T
MAKE SENSE TO ME.

THE WHOLE PREMISE OF THIS TRIP

IS TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER
A LOT MORE.

I CAN'T HELP BEING HURT.

AM I WHAT YOU EXPECTED?
DO YOU LIKE?

I GOT A TEXT FROM STACEY
WITH SOME PICTURES

OF TOM AND ANOTHER WOMAN.

I JUST REALLY WANT TO UNDERSTAND

WHERE I STAND
IN THIS RELATIONSHIP.



I NEED TO FIND OUT
WHAT'S GOING ON.

CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS

MM. MM.

IT IS MY FIRST MORNING
IN NIGERIA.

I OPEN MY EYES,

AND THERE IS MY DESTINY
LAYING NEXT TO ME.

I HAVE JET LAG,
SO I'M DEFINITELY UP.

GET UP.

LAST NIGHT WAS USMAN AND MY
FIRST EVENING TOGETHER,

AND ONE THING LEADS TO ANOTHER.
BADA‐BING.

WE MADE LOVE.

BUT YOU'RE TIRED.

MM‐HMM.

I'M NOT LAZY.

THERE IS A BIG CULTURAL
DIFFERENCE IN MAKING LOVE,

AMERICAN VERSUS NIGERIAN,
LIKE ORAL SEX.

HE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT IT WAS.

I HAD TO SHOW HIM THAT,
AND I WAS LIKE, REALLY?

TIME TO GET UP.

WHEN I HAD SEX WITH LISA...

OH, GOOD LORD.

LET ME SHOW YOU WHAT THESE CRAZY
AMERICANS SENT ALONG FOR YOU.

LOOK.

WHO GIVE YOU THIS?

WHO?

CONDOM.
MM‐HMM.

MNH‐MNH. SO, BEING
THIS WAS YOUR FIRST TIME

NOT EVER USING A CONDOM?

MM‐HMM.

DID YOU ENJOY IT?

YES.

YOU LIKE IT.

YOU LOVE IT.

I TOLD YOU.

LET'S GET READY.

YOU GO TO THE BATHROOM,
AND YOU'RE DONE NOW?

YEAH, NO,
I GOT TO FIND CLOTHING.

MM‐HMM.

LOVE YOU.

HEY. WOW.
WOW.

USMAN AND I ARE GOING TO MEET
HIS ROOMMATES FOR BREAKFAST,

AND I'M LIKE, WHY?

I REALLY HOPE THIS IS NOT A SIGN

THAT I GOT TO SPEND
MY WHOLE TIME WITH THESE PEOPLE,

BECAUSE I WANT ALONE TIME
WITH USMAN.

HERE COMES YOUR FOOD.
YEAH, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.

‐THAT'S GOOD.
‐THIS IS FOR YOU.

OH.

THAT'S CABBAGE AND ‐‐

MM.
I'M NOT TRYING YOURS.

I FOUND OUT FROM USMAN
BEFORE I LEFT

THAT HIS MOTHER
IS UNDER THE IMPRESSION

THAT I WANT TO BRING HER SON TO
THE UNITED STATES TO BE A SLAVE.

HER REASON WHY
SHE DOESN'T LIKE WHITE,

IT KNOCKED ME BACK
LIKE 10 STEPS.

I'M LIKE, I CANNOT BELIEVE
PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD

STILL THINK THIS.

I'LL TELL YOU THIS
RIGHT NOW.

WE'RE GOING TO BE MARRIED
WITH OR WITHOUT HER BLESSING.

WITH, WITHOUT?
WITH OR WITHOUT HER BLESSING?

WITH OR WITHOUT.
THAT IS CORRECT.

NO, NO, NO, NO.

HEY, TELL THEM.

NOW YOU GONNA TELL ME
SOMETHING DIFFERENT?

NO, I'M THINKING THERE'S
TWO DIFFERENT STORIES HERE

RIGHT NOW.

I WANT TO KNOW
IN FRONT OF THEM.

WHAT IF YOUR MOM
ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY SAYS,

"NO, YOU ARE NOT MARRYING HER."
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO?

THAT DOES NOT TELL ME
WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO DO.

USMAN HAS TOLD ME WE DO NOT NEED
HIS MOM'S BLESSING.

BUT NOW WE'RE SITTING HERE,

AND HE'S CHANGED HIS STORY.

SO NOW I'VE GOT
A WHOLE LOT OF ANXIETY

JUST RUSH OVER MY BODY.

IF SHE REFUSES
TO GIVE HER BLESSING,

THERE IS A GOOD POSSIBILITY
THAT I WILL BE RETURNING

TO THE UNITED STATES
AS A SINGLE WOMAN.

JUST WOKE UP. I'M ALONE.

SLEPT ALONE.

YESTERDAY HAD ITS UPS
AND LOTS OF DOWNS.

HOPEFULLY TODAY
WILL BE A TURNAROUND.

I ARRIVED IN RUSSIA YESTERDAY.

I FLEW ALL THE WAY HERE
TO MEET MY GIRLFRIEND VARYA.

THINGS WERE REALLY AWKWARD
WHEN WE FIRST MET.

AND THEN LAST NIGHT,
SHE PROMISED HER FRIENDS

SHE WOULDN'T STAY
THE NIGHT WITH ME.

BUT I'M HOPING THAT
WE'LL GET MORE COMFORTABLE

WITH EACH OTHER.

TODAY, VARYA'S GOING TO TAKE ME
AROUND MOSCOW TO SIGHT‐SEE.

HEY. HOW ARE YOU?
HI. MORNING.

HOW ARE YOU?
I'M VERY FINE.

DID YOU HAVE
A GOOD SLEEP?

YEAH.

HOPEFULLY TODAY WILL BE
A LOT BETTER THAN YESTERDAY.

I'M SURE IT WILL BE.
YESTERDAY WAS AWKWARD.

AWKWARD.

I CAN'T WAIT
TO SHOW YOU MOSCOW.

I'M EXCITED.
ARE YOU READY?

I'M READY. LET'S ROLL.

WOW. IT'S SO BEAUTIFUL.

LIKE, THEY DON'T HAVE ANY
OF THIS STUFF IN AMERICA.

READY?

I LOVE IT.

GOT TO GET ON THIS SIDE.
YOU READY?

OH, WOW, I GOT A KISS
OUT OF THAT ONE.

THE DAY IS GOING GREAT
SO FAR.

THE AWKWARDNESS IS GONE.

I COULDN'T BE HAPPIER.

DO YOU HEAR?

KURANTY.
NOT BIG BEN, BUT KURANTY.

IT'S THE SAME
AS BIG BEN.

YEAH.

TODAY WE FINALLY
FOUND THE KEY.

NOW I KNOW HE'S THE PERSON

I'VE BEEN CHATTING WITH
FOR FIVE MONTHS,

AND I FEEL THAT WE ARE
REALLY STARTING TO CONNECT.

I LOVE IT.

CABLE CARS?
YEAH.

OH, THIS IS GOING
TO BE AWESOME.

UH‐HUH.

I THINK IT'S ABSOLUTELY
BEAUTIFUL.

IT KIND OF DOES.

MAYBE YOU LIKE MOSCOW
EVEN MORE THAT KNOXVILLE?

I LIKE MOSCOW A LOT.

WHAT WOULD YOU THINK ABOUT
MAYBE COMING TO TENNESSEE?

OH, THERE'S LOTS TO DO
IN TENNESSEE.

I MEAN,
IT'S ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL.

I THINK YOU'D BE
PLEASANTLY SURPRISED.

WE ARE MOVING SO FAST.

LET'S SEE WHERE OUR RELATIONSHIP
WILL TAKE US.

I WASN'T ASKING YOU TO MOVE
TO TENNESSEE YET.

I'M JUST SUPER EXCITED
TALKING ABOUT THIS,

AND IT MAKES ME
REALLY HAPPY.

ME, TOO.

GOOD.

I FEEL THAT VARYA
IS OPENING HER HEART UP TO ME.

SHE GIVES ME THESE LITTLE SMILES

AND THESE LITTLE INNUENDOS
OF TRUE LOVE.

I JUST HOPE
SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY

WHEN I TELL HER ABOUT MY PAST.

I'M AN EX‐CONVICT.

I JUST WANT TO FIND
THE RIGHT TIME.

THIS IS SUPER ROMANTIC,
BY THE WAY.

YOU DID GOOD ON THIS.
I LIKE IT, TOO.

YOU CHOSE THIS WELL.

TODAY WAS
FREAKING AWESOME.

I JUST FEEL
SO COMFORTABLE.

YEAH.

AND I'M HOPING THAT THE NIGHT
WILL BE AWESOME, TOO.

WHY DON'T YOU STAY OVER,
STAY AT THE HOTEL?

HUH.
HMM.

HERE'S MY HOTEL.

OH.

SO, WHAT DO YOU THINK?

WOULD YOU LIKE TO COME UP?

I WILL.
YES?

LET'S DO IT.

I CAN'T BELIEVE
YOU SAID YES.

IT DOES. I'M EXCITED.

I DECIDED TO GO
BECAUSE I FELT WE'RE COMPATIBLE,

SO WE WILL SEE
WHERE IT BRING US.

THIS IS MINE.

I REMEMBER.

NOW IT'S OURS.

OH, NICE.
WOW.

HOW DO YOU FEEL,
ME SITTING IN FRONT OF YOU

AND YOU'RE ACTUALLY
TALKING TO ME?

I NEED TO KNOW
THAT SHE REALLY LIKES ME.

YOU REALLY
DON'T SOUND EXCITED.

I JUST GOT OFF THE PLANE,

AND I AM ABOUT
TO FIND WHERE ASH IS.

I DO WORRY.
I DON'T ACTUALLY KNOW

THE MAN THAT'S WAITING ON THE
OTHER SIDE OF THE GATE FOR ME.

WE'RE HERE. FINALLY.

HERE WE ARE.

HERE WE BE.

I'VE JUST TRAVELED
5,000 MILES TO MEET ROSE.

SHE'S MORE BEAUTIFUL
THAN I EXPECTED.

SO, WE NEED THIS BAG HERE.

WE MET ONLINE THREE MONTHS AGO,

AND WE'VE BEEN TALKING
EVER SINCE.

OKAY, YOU READY?
LET'S GO.

BUT ROSE HAS ALWAYS AVOIDED
MY QUESTIONS ABOUT HER PAST,

SO NOW THAT WE'RE FACE‐TO‐FACE,
I CAN ASK HER.

I'M DEFINITELY LOOKING FORWARD
TO GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER.

OH, WOW, IT'S NICE.

THIS MY FIRST TIME TO BIG HOTEL.

‐HELLO.
‐HELLO, SIR.

THANK YOU SO MUCH.
HERE'S MY PASSPORT.

THANK YOU.

ANYWAYS, THAT'S YOUR COLOR,
BY THE WAY.

BROWN?
NO, RED ‐‐ "BROWN."

NO, BROWN'S
THE COLOR OF YOUR SKIN.

NO, THE RED DRESS.

OKAY.

BUT DEFINITELY MAKE SURE
IT'S TWO BEDS,

OR MY MOM WILL KILL ME.

CERTAINLY, SIR.

RIGHT?
SO, I HOPE YOU ENJOY YOUR STAY.

THANK YOU SO MUCH.
OKAY, BYE‐BYE. OKAY.

OH, NICE.
WOW, LOOK AT THIS.

THERE'S ONLY ONE BED.

OH, WAIT A MINUTE.
THEY'RE PUSHED TOGETHER.

BECAUSE I WANT
TO TAKE IT SLOW.

OKAY.

YEAH. I WANT YOU
TO FEEL COMFORTABLE.

I WANT NOTHING MORE THAN TO BE
INTIMATE WITH ROSE RIGHT NOW,

BUT I'M NOT REALLY
COMFORTABLE DOING THAT YET.

I STILL KNOW NOTHING
ABOUT HER PAST.

SO I'M NOT PLANNING
ON HAVING SEX WITH ROSE

UNTIL SHE TAKES AN STD TEST.

I WANT TO KNOW FOR MYSELF

THAT I CAN TRUST HER.

HOW DO YOU FEEL,
ME SITTING IN FRONT OF YOU,

AND YOU'RE ACTUALLY
TALKING TO ME? IS IT ‐‐

ME, TOO.

I CANNOT BELIEVE...

YOU KNOW?

EXCITED? YOU REALLY DON'T
SOUND EXCITED. I'M KIDDING.

YOU DON'T SOUND EXCITED
'CAUSE YOU'RE TIRED, YES?

YEAH, OF COURSE.

AND GUESS WHAT? WE'RE THE SAME
HEIGHT WHEN I'M SITTING DOWN.

THERE YOU ARE. AWESOME.
HOW YOU DOING? YEAH, COME IN.

I GOT YOU A SHIRT
THAT YOU CAN WEAR TO SLEEP IN.

OKAY.

IT'S REALLY CUTE.

OH.

SAYS ‐‐
SAN DIEGO. THAT'S NICE.

OKAY, IS THAT NICE?
OKAY. YEAH.

SO YOU WEAR THAT,
AND THEN ‐‐

YEAH, PERFECT. OKAY?
OKAY, SO...

ROSE HAS NEVER BEEN TO MANILA.

SHE'S NEVER STAYED
IN A HOTEL LIKE THIS BEFORE.

I ASKED HER, "YOU WANT TO GO
AHEAD AND PUT ON YOUR PAJAMAS?"

AND SHE EITHER DOESN'T HAVE THEM
OR DIDN'T BRING THEM,

WHICH NOW I FEEL BAD.

MAYBE I SHOULD HAVE
BOUGHT HER PAJAMAS.

IT FEELS KIND OF AWKWARD NOW
THAT WE'RE GOING TO GO TO BED,

AND WE'VE NEVER MET,
BUT IT'S GOING TO BE AWKWARD.

I WANT TO SEE. OH, LOOK.

IT SAYS SAN DIEGO.

THAT'S MY HOMETOWN.
OH?

YEAH.
IT'S NICE.

YEAH, IT'S NICE.
SO, YOU LIKE?

YEAH, LIKE.

OKAY, SO, I'M GOING TO
BRUSH MY TEETH.

AND WE CAN GO TO BED.

SURE.
OKAY.

OH, I'M EXHAUSTED.

OH.

AFTER SEEING ROSE
FOR THE FIRST TIME,

I DEFINITELY THINK
THERE'S CHEMISTRY.

I KNOW THERE'S CHEMISTRY.

HEY, ROSE,
YOU WANT TO WATCH TV?

I GUESS NOT.

BUT I WANT TO MAKE SURE
THAT SHE REALLY LIKES ME

'CAUSE MY INTENTION,
WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT,

IS TO PROPOSE.

I LOVE YOU, MY QUEEN.

I JUST GOT OFF THE PLANE,

AND I AM ABOUT
TO FIND WHERE ASH IS.

HE'S SOMEWHERE HERE.
I'M GETTING SO NERVOUS.

I'VE JUST ARRIVED IN AUSTRALIA

TO MEET MY SMOKING‐HOT
BOYFRIEND, ASH.

ASH AND I MET ONLINE, AND WE'VE
BEEN DATING FOR NINE MONTHS.

OH, MY GOD.

I SLEPT MAYBE TWO HOURS
ON THE FLIGHT,

AND THEN I STARTED PLAYING
THE WHOLE SCENARIO IN MY HEAD,

AND I STARTED GETTING
EXTREMELY NERVOUS.

WHAT IF HE DOESN'T LIKE ME?

WHAT IF I LOOK TERRIBLE
AFTER THIS 19‐HOUR FLIGHT?

I HAVEN'T SHOWERED. I SMELL.

I HAVE NO IDEA
WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN.

THE ENTIRE NINE MONTHS
THAT WE'VE BEEN DATING,

WE'VE HAD AN EXTREME
CONNECTION WITH EACH OTHER.

BUT HAVING CHEMISTRY
OVER THE PHONE

IS DIFFERENT THAN IN PERSON.

AND BECAUSE ASH IS
A RELATIONSHIP COACH,

I FEEL LIKE IT GIVES HIM
AN ADVANTAGE

TO BE ABLE TO SAY THE RIGHT
THINGS AT THE RIGHT TIME.

I DO WORRY I DON'T ACTUALLY KNOW

THE MAN THAT'S WAITING ON THE
OTHER SIDE OF THE GATE FOR ME.

I'M SHAKING TOO RIGHT NOW.
ARE YOU GOOD?

YEAH, I'M GOOD.

OOF. COME.

OH, MY GOSH.

IT'S AMAZING TO BE ABLE
TO ACTUALLY, LIKE, TOUCH HIM

AND FEEL HIM.

I'M LIKE, "OH, MY GOD.
TAKE MY BREATH AWAY."

AWW, BABY.

AH!

HOW YOU FEELING?
I'M GOOD.

I KNOW.

I'VE BEEN WAITING
NINE MONTHS FOR THIS MOMENT.

I THINK IT'S EVERYTHING AND MORE
THAN I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE.

THE CHEMISTRY IS UNDENIABLY
VERY STRONG AND PRESENT.

WAY, WAY BETTER.

WHERE ARE WE GOING?

I KNOW.

YOU TAKE THAT.
YES.

MEETING ASH IS EVERYTHING
THAT I HAD IMAGINED.

HE SEEMS LIKE EVERYTHING
THAT I COULD EVER WANT IN A GUY.

BUT I ALSO AM CONCERNED,

BECAUSE DESPITE THE CHEMISTRY
THAT ASH AND I HAVE,

I HAVE PUT A TON ON THE LINE
TO BE HERE IN AUSTRALIA.

I NEED TO LEARN MORE ABOUT ASH.

I JUST HOPE
THAT HE IS THE PERSON

THAT I'VE BEEN FALLING
IN LOVE WITH FOR NINE MONTHS.

WELCOME TO MELBOURNE!

I MET MY GIRLFRIEND,
LANA, ON A FOREIGN DATING SITE.

I HAVE SPENT OVER $100,000
ON THE WEBSITE.

I'VE TALKED TO HER
FOR THOUSANDS OF HOURS,

AND I'VE KNOWN HER
FOR SEVEN YEARS.

YOU KNOW A COMPUTER.

I TRULY BELIEVE
IT'S A SCAM.

I HAVE A LITTLE BIT
OF AN ISSUE WITH HIS FEMALE FANS

THAT ARE CONSTANTLY
BLOWING UP THE PHONE.

CHECK YOUR PHONE.
SOMEBODY WAS BLOWING IT UP.

‐HOW YOU DOING?
‐HEY, GOOD. I'M KYLE.

‐DAVE.
‐DAVE, GOOD TO MEET YOU.

I AM LOOKING
FOR A MOTOR HOME.

OKAY.

MY NAME IS DAVID.
I'M 60 YEARS OLD,

AND I'M FROM LAS VEGAS, NEVADA.

OH, WOW.

OH, THIS IS LIKE
A LUXURY APARTMENT.

OHH.

SCOTTY, WARP FIVE.

THAT'S WHAT WE'RE
GOING TO DO HERE.

WOW, THAT'S ‐‐

GEEZ.

I'VE DONE WELL FOR MYSELF,
BUT SOON I'LL BE RETIRING,

AND I'LL BE TRAVELING
ALL THE TIME.

BUT I STILL HAVE
A LOT OF STUFF TO SELL

BEFORE I ACTUALLY
PURCHASE THE R. V.

THERE'S ONLY ONE THING IN HERE
THAT I WON'T SELL.

THOSE ARE THE UNICYCLES
THAT I'VE HAD FOR 40 YEARS.

WHOA. I'M HAVING TO USE MY HANDS
FOR BALANCE.

I CAN'T WAIT
TO START THIS NEW LIFE

LIVING IN THE R. V. FULL‐TIME,

AND I WANT TO SHARE THAT
WITH SOMEONE.

MOTHRA?

THERE YOU ARE.

MOTHRA, COME ON, BABY.

I LOVE MY CATS, BUT I DEFINITELY
WANT TO BE MARRIED.

THE CATS DON'T REPLACE THAT.

AND I THINK I'VE MET THAT GIRL
THAT I WANT TO MARRY,

AND I'M READY FOR IT TO HAPPEN.

MY GIRLFRIEND, LANA,
IS FROM PAVLOGRAD IN UKRAINE.

SHE IS 27 YEARS OLD.

SHE'S BEAUTIFUL, AND ACTUALLY,
I THINK SHE'S OUT OF MY LEAGUE.

THE SLAVIC BEAUTY
JUST DAZZLES ME.

I WAS VERY INTERESTED
IN THE SLAVIC ACCENT

EVER SINCE WATCHING
BULLWINKLE CARTOON SHOWS

WITH BORIS AND NATASHA.

SO JUST LIKE YOU, DARLING,

ALWAYS TRYING TO HELP OTHERS
GET A LITTLE MORE PAIN.

HEARING NATASHA SPEAK JUST
ALWAYS DID SOMETHING FOR ME,

EVEN WHEN I WAS 5 YEARS OLD.

I MET LANA ON A FOREIGN
DATING SITE SEVEN YEARS AGO.

I THOUGHT SHE WAS
AGGRESSIVELY INTERESTED IN ME.

AND OVER THE COURSE
OF THE NEXT MONTH OR TWO,

WE STARTED CHATTING
MORE AND MORE,

AND I ACTUALLY SAID,
"ARE WE BOYFRIEND‐GIRLFRIEND?"

AND SHE SAID,
"YEAH, I THINK SO."

THIS IS HER PAGE.
IT HAS A LOT OF PHOTOS, AND ‐‐

NO, SHE'S NOT.

SO, I'LL SAY,
"HI, HONEY. HOW ARE YOU DOING?"

LANA AND I HAVE
NEVER MET IN PERSON,

BUT OVER THE LAST SEVEN YEARS,

WE'VE PROBABLY SPENT
5,000 HOURS CHATTING.

AND I DON'T FEEL LIKE
I'M TALKING

TO SOMEONE
THAT'S 30 YEARS YOUNGER.

LANA DOES NOT WRITE ME LETTERS
ON THE SITE. WE CHAT.

NAH, THAT DOESN'T HAPPEN
ON THIS SITE.

ANYTHING THAT HAPPENS
ON THIS SITE LIVE,

AS SOON AS SHE LOGS OUT,
ALL THE TEXT IS GONE.

OUR COMMUNICATION HAS ONLY BEEN
THROUGH CHAT ON THE SITE,

WHICH IS TRANSLATED,
BECAUSE SHE SPEAKS NO ENGLISH.

SO I PAY FOR THAT CHAT
BY THE MINUTE,

AND IT'S VERY EXPENSIVE.

I'VE HAD MANY DISCUSSIONS
WITH HER

ABOUT WHY WE CAN'T
COMMUNICATE

THROUGH SOME OTHER MODERN
COMMUNICATION METHOD,

BUT SHE WILL GET ANGRY ABOUT IT.
SHE'S TOLD ME SHE'S VERY SHY,

AND IT'S TOO
OVERWHELMING TO HER.

SO I DO WHAT I HAVE TO
TO KEEP LANA HAPPY.

I THINK DURING THE WHOLE TIME
THAT I'VE BEEN WITH LANA,

I HAVE SPENT OVER $100,000
ON THE WEBSITE.

THAT'S HOW MUCH IT COSTS.

NO, BECAUSE DURING THAT TIME,
I WOULD HAVE DATED HER.

YES, I DON'T HAVE
THE PHYSICAL.

I DON'T HAVE THE FUN
AND THE INTIMACY AND STUFF,

BUT I'M NOT, LIKE ‐‐
I'M NOT LONELY.

I'VE GOT HER WITH ME
IN MY HEART.

BUT I'VE INVESTED SO MUCH
IN THIS RELATIONSHIP,

IT'S TIME TO MEET FACE‐TO‐FACE.

SO NEXT WEEK, I AM LEAVING
FOR UKRAINE.

ALL WE TALK ABOUT NOW
IS OUR FUTURE,

WHAT WE'RE GOING TO DO TOGETHER.
I CAN'T WAIT FOR IT TO START.

HOW YOU DOING, GUYS?

GOOD.

‐ALRIGHT.
‐WHAT'S UP, BROTHER?

OH, YEAH.

DAVE AND VICTORIA,

THEY'RE MY BEST FRIENDS
FOR 25 YEARS, BASICALLY.

YEAH. WORK IS CRAZY.

DOING NEW PROJECTS, BUT THEY'RE
FINALLY COMING TO AN END.

SO I FINALLY
SCHEDULED THE TRIP.

REALLY?
WOW.

GOING BACK TO UKRAINE.

I MEAN, YOU'VE SPENT
SO MUCH TIME, SO MUCH MONEY.

I'VE TALKED TO HER
FOR THOUSANDS OF HOURS,

AND I'VE KNOWN HER
FOR SEVEN YEARS.

BUT SHE DOESN'T SHOW UP.

MY FRIENDS KNOW
THAT I'VE ATTEMPTED TO MEET LANA

ON THREE EARLIER OCCASIONS.

EACH TIME,
THINGS DIDN'T WORK OUT.

THE FIRST TIME,
SHE DID STAND ME UP.

SECOND TIME,
HER BROTHER DIED.

THIRD TIME, SHE HAD
A MEDICAL ISSUE.

SHE HAD TO GO HAVE SURGERY,

AND IT PUT HER OUT OF COMMISSION
FOR THREE WEEKS.

DAVE, DAVE, DAVE, DAVE,
DAVE, DAVE, DAVE.

THAT DOESN'T SOUND LIKE
A VERY GOOD TRACK RECORD, MAN.

IT ISN'T, BUT I STILL
AM ATTRACTED TO HER,

STILL WANT TO BE WITH HER.

I'M NOT READY TO GIVE UP.

I'VE KNOWN DAVE
FOR LIKE 20 YEARS.

AND DAVE IS A GUY WHO WILL
PERSEVERE NO MATTER WHAT.

BUT I DON'T REALLY THINK
SHE'S GOING TO SHOW.

I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU DON'T KNOW
THIS GIRL LIKE I DO.

YOU WERE
ONE OF THOSE GIRLS.

YOU DID THIS BEFORE.
YOU KNOW.

I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU'RE
TALKING ABOUT, BUT I'M DOING IT.

I'M GOING THERE.

I'M GOING TO DO IT.
I'M GOING TO DO IT. YOU'LL SEE.

SHE STOOD ME UP
THREE TIMES BEFORE,

BUT I'M WILLING TO DO
WHATEVER IT TAKES TO MEET LANA,

AND I HAVE CONFIDENCE
THAT SHE'S GOING TO BE THERE.

SO, I HAD DINNER
WITH MY FAMILY.

YEAH, HOW DID THAT GO?

PART OF ME DOES FEEL REGRET

FOR NOT TELLING MY FAMILY
THAT I'M BISEXUAL.

I DIDN'T REALLY
TELL HER THE DETAILS.

I JUST SAID
YOU'RE MY FRIEND.

WHAT THE

BLONDE BABE,
DARCEY LOOK‐ALIKE.

I'M JUST WORRIED
THAT IT'S GOING TO END

THE SAME WAY THAT IT DID
WITH JESSE.

IT'S NOT OKAY.

WHAT'S UP, BUDDY?

YOU WANT TO CALL ERIKA?

YOU WANT TO SAY HI?

IN A FEW DAYS,
I AM GOING TO AUSTRALIA

TO MEET MY GIRLFRIEND,
ERIKA, IN PERSON.

ERIKA AND I MET ON INSTAGRAM
A YEAR AGO,

AND NOW I LOVE LITERALLY
EVERYTHING ABOUT HER,

AND I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE HER.

AAH!

HEY.

YOU LOOK SO CUTE.
I JUST WANT TO PINCH YOUR CHEEK.

OH, MY GOSH.
I CAN'T WAIT TO BE THERE.

AND THEN YOU WON'T BE ABLE
TO GET RID OF ME.

AWW.

SO, I HAD DINNER
WITH MY FAMILY.

MY MOM IS REALLY NERVOUS
ABOUT MY TRIP TO AUSTRALIA,

AND THEY WERE ASKING
SOME QUESTIONS

ABOUT WHO I WAS
GOING TO VISIT.

I DIDN'T REALLY
TELL HER THE DETAILS.

I JUST SAID
YOU'RE MY FRIEND.

MM‐HMM.

AND THAT I'M GOING TO VISIT,
AND THEN THAT'S IT.

I LEFT IT AT THAT.

YEAH.

NO. I CHICKENED OUT.
SO, I DON'T KNOW.

I'M JUST SO EXCITED
TO MEET YOU.

I DON'T WANT TO CONNECT
FAMILY DRAMA

AND MAKE THIS, LIKE,
A BIG FIASCO

BEFORE I EVEN GET OVER THERE
AND MEET YOU, YOU KNOW?

UH‐HUH.

I WANTED TO TELL MY FAMILY
THAT I'M BISEXUAL BEFORE I LEFT.

PART OF ME DOES FEEL REGRET
FOR NOT TELLING THEM ABOUT IT,

BUT I'M GOING INTO
THIS SITUATION WITH ERIKA

WITH OPTIMISM AND EXCITEMENT,

AND I DON'T WANT
TO SPOIL ANY OF THAT

BY GETTING INTO A HUGE FIGHT
WITH MY FAMILY ABOUT THIS.

SO I'M JUST HOPING
SHE CAN UNDERSTAND THAT.

SO, WHAT ARE YOU UP TO?
WHAT ARE YOU DOING TODAY?

OH, THAT'S FUN.

I FEEL SOMETIMES LIKE THE CRAZY
JEALOUS GIRLFRIEND

'CAUSE YOU KNOW
A LOT OF PEOPLE.

YOU HAVE A LOT OF FRIENDS,
AND SOMETIMES I'M LIKE,

"WELL, WHO IS THAT?"

I HAVE NO PLANS.
YEAH.

I MEAN,
I MIGHT, LIKE, EAT SOME CHEESE

AND, LIKE, WATCH A MOVIE.

ERIKA LIVES A MUCH MORE
EXCITING LIFE THAN I DO.

SHE'S ALWAYS GOING OUT
AND PARTYING WITH HER FRIENDS.

BUT HONESTLY, MOST OF THE TIME,
I'M JUST SITTING AT HOME,

WATCHING TV WITH MY DOGS

AND I'M WORRIED
THAT THOSE DIFFERENCES

MIGHT BE A PROBLEM
LATER ON DOWN THE ROAD.

ARE YOU NERVOUS ABOUT ANYTHING
WITH ME COMING TO AUSTRALIA?

UM...

LIKE WHAT?

YEAH, I HOPE SO, TOO.

I REALLY HOPE THEY LIKE ME.

ALRIGHT, WELL,
HAVE AN AMAZING DAY.

THANK YOU.

WE HAVE HIT IT OFF
SO WELL ONLINE,

I KIND OF WORRY
THAT I'M GOING TO GET THERE,

AND IT'S GOING TO FALL SHORT
OF MY EXPECTATIONS.

I HAVE BUILT IT UP
IN MY HEAD SO MUCH

AS THIS, LIKE, INCREDIBLE,
AMAZING THING.

IT'S LIKE, "CAN WE EVEN
REPLICATE THAT IN PERSON?"

BYE, MY LOVE.

BYE.

UGH, GOSH. I NEED THIS, GUYS.

LADIES.

‐AWW, THANK YOU.
‐ENJOY.

‐BEAUTIFUL.
‐AWW, THANK YOU.

TODAY IS GIRLS' DAY AT THE SPA
WITH MY SISTER, STACEY,

AND OUR FRIEND REINA.

THE LAST FEW DAYS
HAVE BEEN REALLY HARD,

BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I DON'T KNOW

WHERE MY RELATIONSHIP
WITH TOM STANDS.

SEEING THE PICTURE
HAD MY HEAD SPINNING,

BECAUSE HE NEVER TOLD ME
THAT OUR RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER,

SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK.

I STILL HAVE NOT CONFRONTED HIM
ABOUT IT YET,

MAYBE BECAUSE I'M NOT READY
TO FACE THE TRUTH.

JUST WHAT WE NEEDED.

YES.

‐WOW, THIS IS BEAUTIFUL.
‐I KNOW.

I FEEL LIKE
WE'RE IN EUROPE.

MONTE CARLO.
SAINT TROPEZ.

SO, HOW'S EVERYTHING ELSE GOING?
HAVE YOU HEARD FROM TOM?

HONESTLY, THERE'S BEEN
NOT A LOT OF COMMUNICATION.

AND TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE...
MM‐HMM.

STACEY TEXTED ME THE OTHER DAY,
'CAUSE FLORIAN...

WAIT TILL
YOU SEE THIS, REI.

FOUND SOME PICTURES.

WHAT THE?
IS THIS A RECENT PIC?

BLONDE BABE,
DARCEY LOOK‐ALIKE.

WAIT, WAIT, WAIT. ARE YOU SURE
THIS ISN'T A DECADE AGO?

NO, BECAUSE
HE CUT HIS HAIR SHORT,

AND HE LOST 45, 50 POUNDS.

WHO IS THIS?

‐HAND ON THE THIGH.
‐YEAH. YEAH.

OH, MY GOD. DARCE.

HAVE YOU SPOKEN TO TOM
SINCE THIS?

NO, BUT HE'S BEEN MESSAGING,
AND I'M NOT REPLYING

BECAUSE I THINK HE SHOULD
OWN IT FOR HIMSELF.

HE SHOULD BE SAYING,
"THIS IS NOT TRUE,"

OR, "THIS IS TRUE,
AND I'M SORRY."

I'M SURE HE KNOWS
THAT I KNOW,

BUT I'M NOT GOING TO BE
THE ONE SAYING IT.

WOW.

TOM AND DARCEY'S RELATIONSHIP
IS CRAZY.

THEY ALMOST CAN'T BREAK AWAY
FROM ONE ANOTHER

IN A SICK KIND OF SENSE.

IT'S JUST
A VERY CONFUSING SITUATION,

BUT IT DOESN'T SEEM GOOD.

AND THEN ALL ALONG,
I'M, LIKE ‐‐

BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL.
BEING PLAYED FOR A FOOL

AND STILL WANTS TO KIND OF
SEE ‐‐ HAVE A FRESH START.

"LET'S SEE WHERE THIS GOES.
I WANT TO MEET YOU FOR LUNCH,"

OR IS HE GOING TO TELL ME
AT LUNCH WHAT ALL THIS IS ABOUT?

I DON'T NEED TO GO
ALL THE WAY TO NEW YORK

FOR HIM TO THROW THIS
IN MY FACE.

ARE YOU TELLING ME
THAT TOM'S COMING TO NEW YORK?

BEFORE I SAW THE PHOTOS,
TOM ASKED ME

TO MEET HIM IN NEW YORK.

WELL, WHAT ARE
YOUR INTENTIONS?

I WOULD PREFER
TO TALK TO YOU...

WHAT DO YOU
THINK OF THIS?

NO, I'M JUST
ON MY SISTER'S SIDE.

I HAVE HER BACK, AND
SHE'S BEEN THROUGH A LOT,

AND SHE DESERVES MORE.

I DON'T BELIEVE
TOM WANTS A FRESH START.

WHY KEEP TELLING MY SISTER
YOU WANT TO GIVE IT ANOTHER GO

AND THEN NOT PUT EFFORT IN
AND JUST CAUSE CONFUSION?

IT'S NOT RIGHT, AND IT'S NOT
FAIR TO MY SISTER.

DARCEY?

RIGHT NOW,
I FEEL HURT AND SCARED,

BECAUSE I'M JUST WORRIED
THAT IF I GO TO NEW YORK,

IT'S GOING TO END THE SAME WAY
THAT IT DID WITH JESSE.

- YOU NEVER LOVED ME.
- THIS IS A JOKE.

WHY DID YOU HAVE ME COME
TO NEW YORK TO DO THIS TO ME?

NO, YOU SHOULD HAVE JUST
CALLED ME ON THE PHONE.

DARCEY, I WISH YOU
ALL THE BEST.

MEETING JESSE IN NEW YORK

WAS ONE OF THE WORST DAYS
OF MY LIFE.

I FELT GANGED UP ON,

MANIPULATED.

AND IT BROKE MY HEART.

AND I DON'T WANT THAT
TO HAPPEN WITH TOM.

IT'S NOT OKAY.

NOBODY SAID
IT WAS OKAY, HONEY.

WE'RE TELLING YOU THAT
BECAUSE IT'S NOT OKAY.

YOU HAVE TO STICK UP
FOR YOURSELF, DEFEND YOURSELF.

I AM, AND I DO, BUT I ‐‐

NOT OVER THE PHONE, DARCEY.

PLEASE. LOOK HOW YOU LEFT
THE THING WITH JESSE.

I'M SICK OF THESE GUYS
DOING THAT TO ME.

WE'RE SICK OF IT, TOO,

AND WE WANT TO SEE YOU
SIT FACE‐TO‐FACE WITH THIS MAN,

TELL HIM HOW
HE DID YOU WRONG.

YEAH, YOU GO AND YOU BE
THE BADASS BITCH YOU ARE

AND SHOW HIM WHAT HE LOST.

IF I GO, IT WON'T BE BECAUSE
OF THIS AND THESE PHOTOS

OR WHATEVER HE'S DOING.

I'M GOING TO EMPOWER MYSELF

AND SHOW HIM MY STRENGTH
AND SELF‐LOVE

IN THE WORDS THAT I HAVE FOR ME
AND MY DAUGHTERS.

YEAH.

IT'S NOT FOR THIS MESS.

DARCEY, HONEY...

BE STRONG, BITCH.
BE STRONG.

‐YEAH.
‐BE STRONG.

REINA AND STACEY HAVE
ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME.

THEY'VE SEEN ME GO
THROUGH HEARTACHE AND PAIN

AND BAD RELATIONSHIPS.

SO, I LOVE THEM FOR THAT.

I'M GOING TO GO SEE TOM
TO CONFRONT HIM AND LET HIM KNOW

THAT THIS IS NOT HOW
YOU SHOULD TREAT SOMEBODY.

CHEERS.
TO NEW YORK.

NYC, BABY.
TO BADASS BITCHES.

MM‐HMM.

GEOFFREY, CAN YOU COME HERE?

THIS IS DEFINITELY
A SIDE OF VARYA

THAT I'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE.

NEVER EXPECTED
YOU WOULD GET JEALOUS

OVER SOMETHING LIKE THIS.

GOOD MORNING.

GOOD MORNING.

DID YOU SLEEP WELL?

MM‐HMM.

YOU READY TO GET UP?

YEAH.

I'M STILL REALLY TIRED
FROM LAST NIGHT...

AS I'M SURE
YOU ARE, TOO.

MM, I'M OKAY.
I'M FULL OF ENERGY.

WAKING UP TO VARYA,
IT'S LIKE A DREAM COME TRUE.

WE HAD A REALLY BUMPY
START TO BEGIN WITH,

BUT NOW I THINK WE'RE
MUCH CLOSER THAN WE WERE.

I FEEL THERE IS
A LOT OF SPARKS,

FLAME, ENERGY,
CHEMISTRY WITHIN US.

I'M GLAD YOU STAYED OVER.

YEAH, SO,
IF WE KEEP THIS PATH GOING,

MAYBE IT WILL
JUST KEEP GOING UP.

YEAH.

LIKE A RUSSIAN CABLE CAR.

ARE YOU READY
TO GO TO MY PLACE?

IN RYAZAN?
MM‐HMM.

YOU'RE NERVOUS ABOUT ME
MEETING YOUR FRIENDS?

MM‐HMM.

SHOULD I WORRY?

YEAH.

I'M CONCERNED FOR GEOFFREY
MEETING WITH MY FRIENDS,

BECAUSE THEY DON'T TRUST HIM
AT THIS POINT,

BECAUSE I WAS ONLY
TALKING TO HIM ONLINE.

THEY DON'T BELIEVE THAT
IT COULD BE A TRUE RELATIONSHIP.

THEY CAN QUESTION ME. IT'S OKAY.
I HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS.

MY INTENTIONS ARE REAL.

RIGHT?

WELL, I MEAN, I'LL DO
AS MUCH AS I CAN.

ALRIGHT. WELL, I GUESS
WE NEED TO GET READY.

I UNDERSTAND
IT'S A LONG DRIVE, YEAH?

YEAH. THREE
OR MAYBE MORE HOURS.

GEOFFREY!
CAN YOU COME HERE?

YOU THREW AWAY MY COMB?

YEP.
WHY?

WHY?

BECAUSE MY HAIR.

YOU CAN BUY ANOTHER.

IT'S LIKE A MEMORY.

A COMB IS A MEMORY?

YEAH.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
LIKE, WHAT ‐‐

I NEED IT FOR MY HAIR.

I DON'T WANT
TO IRRITATE YOU.

I DON'T KNOW WHY
THE NAME IS ON THERE,

BUT IT'S JUST A COMB.
I JUST GOT A COMB. I JUST ‐‐

IT'S JUST A COMB TO ME.

I PUT NO MEMORY
IN THIS WHATSOEVER.

I DON'T EVEN REMEMBER
WHY IT'S ON THERE.

I DON'T CARE.

I DIDN'T EVER EXPECT

THAT YOU WOULD GET JEALOUS
OVER SOMETHING LIKE THIS.

THEN...

NOTED.

HAD NO IDEA
SHE'D BE SO JEALOUS OVER AN EX.

I HOPE THAT THIS IS
JUST A ONE‐TIME INCIDENT.

WE REALLY TURNED
A CORNER LAST NIGHT,

AND I DON'T WANT TO TAKE
A STEP BACK ALREADY.

HOW IS IT GOING WITH LISA?

THERE'S SOMETHING
ABOUT HER ATTITUDE.

SERIOUSLY.

ACTUALLY,
THIS IS MY ROOM,

'CAUSE ISN'T THERE
A SECOND ROOM?

YOU'RE GOING TO STAY IN THERE,
AND THEN WE'LL JUST SEE

IF YOU CAN MIGRATE
OVER TO THE OTHER.

WOW! MIGRATE.
YEAH.

HEY, COME ON.
I'M READY TO GO.

YOU'VE GOT ALL THIS STUFF
TO PACK YET.

I JUST ARRIVED IN NIGERIA
YESTERDAY

TO MEET MY FIANCé, USMAN.

HUH?
YOU KEEP SINGING.

YOU THINK THAT'S GOING
TO KEEP ME CALM?

YES.

AND NOW WE'RE PACKING UP,

AND WE'RE TRAVELING TO KADUNA
WHERE HE LIVES,

BECAUSE HE HAS A HUGE EVENT
COMING UP.

YEAH.

WE NEED YOU GUYS TO HELP

WITH ALL THIS STUFF WE HAVE
TO TAKE WITH US.

YEAH, YEAH, YEAH,
YEAH, YEAH, YEAH.

USMAN AND I PLAN ON
GETTING MARRIED WHILE I'M HERE.

ORIGINALLY,
USMAN DID REASSURE ME

WE DID NOT NEED
HIS MOTHER'S BLESSINGS,

BUT THIS MORNING, USMAN REVEALS
THAT WE DO NEED HER BLESSINGS.

DO WE HAVE EVERYTHING?

MY BIGGEST FEAR IS THAT
SHE IS GOING TO SAY NO.

SO ALL I CAN DO
IS HOPE FOR THE BEST.

BEFORE WE TRAVEL TO HIS HOMETOWN
TO MEET HIS MOM,

IT IS IMPORTANT FOR ME
TO SEE KADUNA,

BECAUSE THIS IS WHERE HE DOES
HIS BUSINESS, WHERE HIS LIFE IS.

I WANT TO SEE
WHAT IS SojaBoy ABOUT.

GOOD.

OKAY.

I AM APPREHENSIVE
OF GOING TO KADUNA,

BECAUSE I HAVE A LITTLE BIT OF
AN ISSUE WITH HIS FEMALE FANS.

HE HAS TOO MANY FOLLOWERS,
TOO MANY FRIENDS

THAT ARE CONSTANTLY
BLOWING UP THE PHONE.

AND THAT DRIVES ME CRAZY.

‐HEY.
‐HEY.

HEY. CHECK YOUR PHONE.
SOMEBODY WAS BLOWING IT UP.

AH. WHO WAS THAT?

I DON'T KNOW,
BUT IT WAS NOT ME.

YOUR PHONE IS, LIKE,
BLOWING UP.

NOW WE'RE
COMING INTO KADUNA.

YES. VERY CLOSE.

OH, WOW.

OH. SO THIS IS IT.

WELCOME TO OUR HOUSE.

WE ARRIVE TO KADUNA.

USMAN TAKES ME TO WHERE
HIM AND HIS ROOMMATES LIVE.

WOW.
LIKE IT?

IT LOOKS SO DIFFERENT
IN PERSON.

THIS IS THE KITCHEN.
OKAY.

WOW.

HOW DO ALL THREE OF YOU GUYS
SLEEP IN THIS TINY, LITTLE ROOM?

HMM.
THIS IS A CHILD'S BED.

MM.

BABY LOVE,
THIS IS THE BATHROOM.

OH, MY GOD.

THIS IS IT.

NO, IT WILL NOT.

USMAN'S HOME DOES NOT FEEL LIKE
A CELEBRITY'S HOME TO ME AT ALL.

SEEING THE CONDITIONS
THAT THEY LIVE IN,

IT'S NOT WHAT I PICTURED.

THANK GOD WE'RE STAYING
AT A HOTEL.

I'M JUST GOING TO WASH MY HANDS,
FRESHEN UP A MINUTE.

OKAY.
GIVE ME A MINUTE, OKAY?

OKAY.
ALRIGHT, BABE.

OH, MY GOD.
SOMEONE'S JOKING ME.

IT SWIVELS BACK AND FORTH?

SO LET'S JUST WAIT AND SEE
WHAT IS GOING TO HAPPEN.

OH, YOU GUYS RIDE
ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE CAR?

YEAH.
WEIRD.

I ARRIVED IN AUSTRALIA
EARLY THIS MORNING

TO MEET THE LOVE OF MY LIFE

AFTER DATING ONLINE
FOR NINE MONTHS.

I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE
THAT HE'S ACTUALLY NEXT TO ME.

HE'S IN PERSON, AND YOU DON'T
HAVE TO IMAGINE THIS ANYMORE.

IT'S SO STRANGE THAT YOU'RE
ON THE LEFT SIDE OF THE ROAD.

I FEEL LIKE ‐‐ I'M LIKE,
"OH, BABE ‐‐ NO. OH, OKAY."

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

WELL, YOUR HANDS
ARE VERY SOFT.

YEAH.

OKAY.

ASH LIVES
WITH HIS BROTHER ANTISH,

BUT HIS BROTHER HAS ASKED HIM
TO GET AN AIRBNB WHILE I'M HERE.

I DO WANT US TO HAVE
OUR ALONE TIME

AND OUR SPACE TO REALLY
GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER,

BUT IT MAKES ME FEEL
KIND OF NERVOUS

THAT HIS BROTHER
DOESN'T WANT ME TO STAY THERE...

COME, SWEETHEART.

BECAUSE I HAVE NO CLUE

WHAT ASH HAS TOLD HIS FAMILY
ABOUT ME.

OH, BABE, THIS IS CUTE.

DO YOU LIKE IT?
YEAH.

OOH, VERY NICE.

WHAT'S ALL THAT?

THIS ONE OR THAT ONE?
ACTUALLY, THIS IS MY ROOM

'CAUSE ISN'T THERE
A SECOND ROOM?

ASH AND I HAVE TALKED ABOUT
HOW OUR FIRST NIGHT WOULD GO.

OH, NICE.

AND I'M INTO CONNECTING
FROM A SPIRITUAL LEVEL

BUT NOT ACTUALLY
HAVING SEX RIGHT AWAY.

IT'S AN AMAZING ROOM,
AND IT'S VERY SPACIOUS.

SO, YOU'RE GOING TO STAY IN
THERE, AND THEN WE'LL JUST SEE

IF YOU CAN MIGRATE OVER
TO THE OTHER ROOM.

WOW! MIGRATE.
YEAH.

OH, WELL, YOU KNOW.

YEAH.
HAVE A SEAT.

I HAVE SOMETHING
FOR YOU RIGHT NOW.

OOH. OKAY.

OH, MY GOSH.

OH. OH.

WHAT ‐‐ OH, SHUT UP.

YEAH.

NO.

WAIT. WHAT ‐‐

WHAT?

I KNOW YOU LOVE BLACK,
SO...

OH, MY GOSH.
DO YOU LIKE IT?

OH, MY GOD. I LOVE IT.

THANK YOU, BABE.

YOU ARE VERY WELCOME.

OH, THESE ARE
THE BRACELETS.

THOSE ARE THE FAMOUS BRACELETS
THAT ACTUALLY LED US TO ‐‐

BREAKING UP ONE TIME?

YEAH. THAT'S EXACTLY RIGHT.

I KEPT THEM,
AND THEY'RE STILL WITH ME.

THAT ONE IS YOURS, THE RED ONE.
"ASH LOVES AVERY."

AND THAT ONE IS MINE.

IN THE NINE MONTHS
THAT WE'VE DATED,

I HAVE BROKEN UP WITH ASH
THREE TIMES.

THE LAST TIME I BROKE UP
WITH HIM, WHAT PUSHED ME AWAY

WAS, ASH HAD PURCHASED
THESE BRACELETS.

HE ACTUALLY SHOWED IT ON SOCIAL
MEDIA AND MADE IT A BIG THING.

HE WAS JUST SO DEEPLY
INTO THE RELATIONSHIP

AND HE WAS OVERWHELMING ME
WITH LOVE,

BUT I WASN'T READY
TO ACCEPT THAT,

AND IT JUST PUSHED ME AWAY.

I WAS JUST REALLY NERVOUS
ABOUT WHERE WE WERE GOING

AND THAT KIND OF STUFF.

BUT I SHOULDN'T HAVE
JUST GHOSTED YOU.

FOR ME IT WAS LIKE, AH,
IT'S JUST SUCH A SUDDEN CHANGE

FROM SUPER HOT
TO COMPLETELY COLD.

YEAH.

AND THAT'S
WHAT I WAS THINKING.

I'M LIKE, "WELL, IT'S NOT
A NORMAL REACTION,"

'CAUSE I KNOW YOU LOVE ME.

DO YOU STILL HAVE FEARS, THOUGH,
ABOUT, LIKE,

ANY OF THAT POTENTIALLY
HAPPENING AGAIN?

NO, NOT AT ALL,
NOT AT ALL.

I LOVE THAT ASH ALWAYS LIKES
TO FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE.

BUT IN THE PAST,
I'VE HAD GENUINE CONCERNS.

SO MY GOAL
WHILE I'M HERE IN AUSTRALIA

IS TO REALLY DIVE DEEP
AND GET TO KNOW ASH

FOR WHO HE IS.

I CAN'T BRING ASH TO AMERICA

UNTIL I 100% KNOW
HOW GENUINE OUR RELATIONSHIP IS,

BECAUSE I DON'T WANT HIM
TO MEET MY FAMILY

OR MY KIDS OR ANY OF THAT
UNTIL I KNOW

THAT THIS IS A RELATIONSHIP
THAT I WANT TO PURSUE LONG‐TERM.

OH, MY GOD. PAJAMAS.

‐HOW MUCH?
‐180.

180? HOW MUCH IS THAT?
HOLD ON, HOLD ON, HOLD ON.

ROSE IS GRABBING MY WALLET
AND PULLING MONEY OUT.

KEEP THE CHANGE?!

THAT PISSED ME OFF.
I'M DONE WITH THIS RIGHT NOW.

LET'S GO.

HERE IT IS.

YOU HAVE EXPOSED WIRING.

GOOD MORNING.
GOOD MORNING.

LAST NIGHT, ROSE AND I
SPENT OUR FIRST NIGHT TOGETHER,

BUT WE DID NOT CONSUMMATE
OUR RELATIONSHIP.

I WANT TO TAKE THINGS SLOW
WITH ROSE,

BECAUSE I WANT TO BE RESPECTFUL,

BUT ALSO, I WANT HER
TO TAKE AN STD TEST FIRST,

AND I HAVE NOT FOUND
THE RIGHT TIME TO ASK HER.

GOOD MORNING.
MORNING.

BUT FOR THE FIRST TIME IN
28 YEARS, I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND.

YEAH, YEAH,
JUST CHARGE IT TO THE ROOM.

OKAY, I'M GOING TO USE
THE BATHROOM FIRST. YOU OKAY?

I FEEL GOOD.

HI. GOOD AFTERNOON, SIR.
I'M HERE FROM ROOM SERVICE.

GREAT. RIGHT HERE. PERFECT.

OKAY, MY LOVELY QUEEN,

YOU WANT TO CHOW DOWN?
WOW.

YOU WANT?

YEAH. IF YOU WANT...

OPEN UP. NICE.

ARE YOU HAVING
A GOOD TIME?

YEAH?
YOU LIKE THE ROOM?

I LIKE THIS ROOM.

WELL, YOU KEEP EATING
'CAUSE YOU NEED YOUR ENERGY,

BECAUSE TODAY, I WANT
TO TAKE YOU SHOPPING

AND KIND OF SPEND
SOME ONE‐ON‐ONE TIME

BEFORE I MEET YOUR FAMILY.

SURE.

SO TODAY, I WANT IT TO BE FUN.
I WANT TO TAKE ROSE SHOPPING.

I WANT TO HOLD
MY GIRLFRIEND'S HAND

AND JUST GET TO KNOW HER.

‐THANK YOU ‐‐
‐THANK YOU, SIR.

LADIES FIRST.

ARE YOU EXCITED?

OUR FIRST DAY
IN THE PHILIPPINES!

OH, MY GOODNESS.
THE PHILIPPINES!

YEAH.

THIS IS MY FIRST TIME
TO THE PHILIPPINES,

AND I'M IN THIS
BIG CITY CALLED MANILA.

WE'RE ABOUT THREE
TO FOUR HOURS AWAY

FROM WHERE ROSE'S HOMETOWN IS.

I KNEW IT WOULD BE
A LITTLE CRAZY,

BUT IT'S QUITE A SHOCKER.

OH, MY GOD. LOOK HOW ‐‐
IT IS SO CONGESTED.

LOOK AT THIS.

‐THIS IS CRAZY!
‐YEAH.

I LIKE IT.
DON'T GET ME WRONG.

IT'S JUST A LOT TO TAKE IN.

HI!

HI. DO YOU SPEAK ENGLISH?
DOES ANYBODY SPEAK ENGLISH?

OH, MY GOD.

PAJAMAS.
I THINK THESE ARE PAJAMAS.

THE FACT THAT ROSE
DOESN'T EVEN HAVE PAJAMAS

MADE ME FEEL REALLY SAD.

SO THE FIRST THING I'M GOING
TO DO IS GET HER PAJAMAS.

OH, THEY HAVE PINK!

YEAH.
YEAH? NICE?

‐HOW MUCH?
‐180.

180 PESOS.

YOU CAN'T JUST GRAB
FROM MY WALLET, OKAY?

I WANT TO SEE HOW MUCH THIS IS.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW
HOW MUCH THIS IS.

HOW MUCH? 180?

AWESOME.

NO.
NO?

KEEP THE CHANGE?!
IT'S OKAY.

THANK YOU.
OKAY.

SEE THIS.

I'M JUST IN A SWARM
OF HOT, SWEATY PEOPLE.

RIGHT NOW, IT'S PROBABLY
OVER 100 DEGREES.

I'M SWEATING MY ASS OFF
RIGHT NOW.

OH, YOU WANT TO BUY A SHIRT
WITH FLOWERS?

YEAH, YOU WANT THIS?
OKAY. OKAY.

OH, THIS ONE.
YOU LIKE THIS?

I LIKE THIS ONE.
OKAY, SO, HOW MUCH?

480, SIR.

480. HOW MUCH IS THAT?
HOLD ON, HOLD ON, HOLD ON.

I'M NOT COMFORTABLE
WITH ROSE GRABBING MY MONEY

BECAUSE THAT'S NOT WHAT YOU DO.

THANK YOU.
THANK YOU.

I THINK IT'S BORDERLINE
INAPPROPRIATE.

AND I ALREADY HAVE QUESTIONS
ABOUT HER SISTER

BECAUSE SHE ASKED ME
FOR MONEY.

HER SISTER TEXTED ME
THE OTHER NIGHT.

SHE BASICALLY SAID,
"I NEED HELP.

MY STORE IS GOING TO CLOSE,"
AND SHE'S ASKING ME FOR MONEY.

OH, MY GOSH.

I DON'T WANT TO BELIEVE
THAT THIS COULD JUST BE A SCAM,

BUT I DON'T KNOW
IF ROSE IS IN ON IT OR NOT.

LISTEN, I'M DYING.
I'M, LIKE, SO HOT RIGHT NOW.

YOU'RE HOT?
YEAH.

I'M SOAKING WET, ROSE.
I KNOW. I KNOW.

I WANT TO GO.

I AM SO UNCOMFORTABLE RIGHT NOW.

THE ONLY THING I WANTED
TO DO WAS SPOIL ROSE,

BUT I'M SWEATING LIKE A PIG,
AND I'M UPSET

BECAUSE ROSE
IS GRABBING MY WALLET

AND PULLING MONEY OUT
AND HANDING IT TO VENDORS.

I'M JUST ‐‐
I'M DONE WITH THIS RIGHT NOW.

I WANT OUT OF HERE.

THIS IS THE NORMAL.
IT'S A NORMAL MARKET.

I KNOW, BUT I JUST ‐‐
ROSE, I WANT TO GO.

I NEED AIR CON.
I NEED AIR CONDITIONING.

I'M DYING.

I WANT TO GO, OKAY?
I WANT TO GO.

GOD, I'M DYING RIGHT NOW.

AFTER THREE FAILED ATTEMPTS,

I'M LEAVING IN A FEW DAYS
TO GO TO UKRAINE

TO MEET MY GIRLFRIEND,
LANA, FOR THE FIRST TIME.

BUT SHE CAN'T REMEMBER
WHERE SHE SAVED THE TICKETS.

BUT I'M 100% SURE THAT
WE'RE GOING TO MEET THIS TIME.

ERIKA KEEPS TELLING ME
SHE CAN'T WAIT TO KISS ME

WHEN SHE FIRST SEES ME.

AFTER MY LAST RELATIONSHIP
ENDED, I DECIDED TO BE CELIBATE.

IT'S BEEN SUCH A LONG TIME.

HOPEFULLY, MY CELIBACY
WILL END WHEN I MEET ERIKA.

I'M LEAVING IN A FEW DAYS
TO GO TO UKRAINE

TO MEET MY GIRLFRIEND,
LANA, FOR THE FIRST TIME.

I'VE BEEN CHATTING WITH LANA
FOR SEVEN YEARS.

AND EVEN THOUGH
I'VE NEVER MET LANA IN PERSON,

WE FEEL LIKE
AN OLD MARRIED COUPLE.

OKAY, I SEE SHE'S ONLINE.
GOOD. I'M INVITING HER TO CHAT.

"HI, HONEY."

I THINK I TALK TO LANA
PROBABLY FOUR HOURS A DAY.

SOMETIMES IT FEELS GREAT
JUST TO GET OUT IN THE OPEN AIR

AND HAVE MY CHATS OUTSIDE.

IT FEELS LIKE SHE'S MORE
A PART OF MY LIFE

WHEN I GET TO TALK TO HER
IN DIFFERENT PLACES.

THERE SHE GOES.

"HELLO, DEAR," SHE SAYS.

SHE'S GIVING ME A LITTLE ICON,
A WALKING GUY DOING THIS.

I HAVE VIDEO CHATTED WITH LANA
ON THE SITE,

BUT THERE IS NO AUDIO.

IT'S VISUAL ONLY.
YOU CAN SEE THE PERSON.

YOU CAN SEE THEM SMILING.

YOU CAN SEE THEM REACTING
TO WHAT YOU'VE WRITTEN.

YOU CAN'T SPEAK TO EACH OTHER.

BUT SOMETIMES,
I JUST WANT TO SEE HER.

SHE'S JUST SO BEAUTIFUL TO ME.

BUT IT'S ALSO
MUCH MORE EXPENSIVE

TO USE THEIR VIDEO CHAT
SERVICES.

SO I CAN'T WAIT
TO SEE HER IN PERSON.

PERFECT.
THAT'D BE EASY TO SPOT.

YEAH, I WAS CHATTING
WITH LANA LAST NIGHT,

AND I WAS ASKING HER THE DETAILS
ABOUT THE TRAIN TICKET

TO MEET WITH ME IN ODESSA.

BUT SHE CAN'T REMEMBER
WHERE SHE SAVED THE TICKETS.

LAST NIGHT, SHE TOLD ME
IT ARRIVES AT 8:00 A. M.,

AND I TRUST LANA.

I DON'T THINK SHE WOULD BE
FAKING THE TICKET TO ME.

I SAID, "OKAY, HONEY.
HAVE A GREAT EVENING.

KISSES. I LOVE YOU."

I LIKE THE ICONS SHE SENT.

THE LITTLE DEVIL THING
IS PROBABLY A TEASE

OF CERTAIN TYPES OF CHATS
THAT WE HAVE SOMETIMES.

AND YOU WANT TO GO THERE.

THEY CAN BE
VERY INTERESTING SOMETIMES.

YEAH, WE'LL GET INTO SEXUAL
CHATS OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT.

AND SHE WRITES BACK,
"SEE YOU SOON. SO EXCITED."

AND I'M WRITING BACK
IN ALL CAPITALS, "YES"

AND "MMM."

AFTER THREE FAILED ATTEMPTS
TO MEET LANA,

I'M 100% SURE THAT WE'RE
GOING TO MEET THIS TIME,

AND WE'RE GOING
TO ENJOY OURSELVES.

HELLO.

HEY, ANYA,
HOW ARE YOU DOING?

I'M FINE.
AND HOW ARE YOU?

GUESS WHAT?

I'M COMING TO UKRAINE.

BEFORE I STARTED
CHATTING WITH LANA,

I WENT TO ODESSA, UKRAINE,
TO MEET A FEW WOMEN,

AND ANYA WAS ONE OF THOSE GIRLS.

AND I THOUGHT, "WOW,
ANYA'S REALLY CUTE.

I WONDER IF SOMETHING
COULD HAPPEN WITH HER."

BUT ANYA WAS JUST
TOO SHY FOR ME,

AND IT DIDN'T CLICK.

BUT WE STAYED FRIENDS,

AND ANYA KNOWS ALL ABOUT
MY RELATIONSHIP WITH LANA.

I HAVE TO TELL YOU UP‐FRONT

THAT LANA ISN'T SURE
ABOUT MEETING YOU.

I THINK SHE'S
A LITTLE JEALOUS OF YOU,

BECAUSE I KNOW YOU ALREADY
FOR A LONG TIME.

ANYA IS VERY VOCAL TO ME
ABOUT NOT LIKING LANA.

SHE JUST KNOWS HER
AS THE GIRL THAT,

"HEY, SHE STOOD YOU UP
THREE TIMES.

COME ON, DAVE.
STOP BEING NAIVE."

I DON'T FEEL NERVOUS THAT SHE'S
NOT GOING TO BE THERE AT ALL.

WE'VE TALKED
ABOUT THE MEETING.

SHE'S TOLD ME SHE'S GOING
TO WEAR A BLUE DRESS

AT THE TRAIN STATION.

UH‐HUH.

I DON'T THINK I'M BEING
SCAMMED FROM LANA.

I STILL HAVE HIGH, HIGH, HIGH
CONFIDENCE THAT SHE WILL ARRIVE.

I CAN'T IMAGINE THAT SHE WON'T.

FOR YEARS, WE'VE TALKED ABOUT
ULTIMATELY GETTING MARRIED

AND OUR FUTURE TOGETHER,

SO I AM STILL 99.9% SURE
SHE'S GOING TO BE THERE.

OH, MY GOSH.

WATCH ME, LIKE, FORGET UNDERWEAR

OR SOMETHING, LIKE,
RIDICULOUSLY CRUCIAL.

IT'S THE DAY
I LEAVE FOR AUSTRALIA.

AND KNOWING THAT
IN LESS THAN 24 HOURS

I AM GOING TO BE MEETING ERIKA

IS MAKING MY HEART BEAT
A MILLION MILES PER MINUTE.

OKAY, THAT DOESN'T
SMELL TOO BAD.

I'D LIKE TO SPEND THE REST
OF MY LIFE WITH ERIKA,

BECAUSE IT IS A CONNECTION

UNLIKE ANYTHING
I'VE EVER HAD BEFORE.

SO MAYBE THERE IS AN ENGAGEMENT
AT THE END OF ALL OF THIS,

BUT I GUESS WE'LL HAVE TO SEE.

HEY!
HI.

OH, MY GOD!

AW. AW.

I'M GOING TO MISS YOU!
I'M GOING TO MISS YOU.

WHAT AM I GOING TO DO
WITHOUT YOU FOR THREE WEEKS?

IT'S A LONG TIME.

I'M SO NERVOUS.

MY BEST FRIEND HEATHER
IS COMING OVER TO SEE ME OFF

AND DRIVING ME TO THE AIRPORT.

HOW MUCH MORE PACKING
DO YOU HAVE?

I JUST HAVE TO PACK
MY MEDICATION,

AND I CAN'T FORGET
ANY OF IT.

SO I'M GOING TO GO GRAB THAT.
YEAH.

I HAVE A LOT
TO TAKE WITH ME.

WHEN TRAVELING, I HAVE
TO TAKE CRAZY PRECAUTIONS

THAT NORMAL PEOPLE
DON'T HAVE TO TAKE

BECAUSE I HAVE APLASTIC ANEMIA,
WHICH AFFECTS MY IMMUNE SYSTEM.

SO WHEN I FLY,
I HAVE TO WEAR A MASK.

I HAVE TO MAKE SURE
I BRING MY ANTIBIOTICS WITH ME

AND BE CONSTANTLY
HAND‐SANITIZING.

THESE, WE'RE JUST GOING
TO PACK IN HERE.

ARE THEY GOING
TO QUESTION YOU AT THE AIRPORT

LIKE YOU'RE DRUG‐SMUGGLING?
'CAUSE THIS IS OBSCENE.

YEAH, I KNOW.

SOMETIMES I WORRY
THAT WHEN ERIKA SEES

HOW MUCH I HAVE TO DO TO STAY
HEALTHY, IT WILL SCARE HER AWAY.

BUT I DON'T HAVE A CHOICE,

IF I'M GOING TO BE
IN THE OUTBACK OF AUSTRALIA,

I DON'T KNOW WHERE
THE NEAREST PHARMACY IS,

SO I HAVE TO BE EXTRA CAREFUL.

OKAY, I WANT TO SHOW YOU SOME
OF THE PRESENTS THAT I GOT HER,

BECAUSE I WANT YOUR OPINION.

LET ME SEE,
'CAUSE YOU'RE PRETTY ECCENTRIC

WITH YOUR STUFF,
SO I'M CURIOUS.

SO, I GOT HER THIS BAG.
DO YOU LIKE IT?

I DO.
IT'S ACTUALLY KIND OF EXPENSIVE.

CAN I SEE IT?
YEAH.

IT'S LIKE $200.

STEPHANIE!
I KNOW, I KNOW.

I KIND OF WENT
A LITTLE BIT OVERBOARD.

I GOT HER A BUNCH
OF CANDLES.

SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE LIKED
PUMPKIN SPICE STUFF,

AND THEY DON'T REALLY
HAVE PUMPKIN SPICE STUFF

IN AUSTRALIA.
SHE LOVES HALLOWEEN,

SO I GOT HER LIKE THIS CUTE,
LITTLE SOAP DISPENSER THING.

SEE, I FEEL LIKE
I KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT HER.

I KNOW SHE'S GOING TO LIKE
EVERYTHING I GOT HER.

IN RELATIONSHIPS, STEPHANIE
DEFINITELY LEADS WITH HER HEART.

I THINK SHE TENDS TO JUMP IN

BECAUSE SHE'S CONCERNED
ABOUT HER OWN MORTALITY.

I HOPE I BROUGHT ENOUGH
HAND SANITIZER.

BUT THEY DO LIVE
VERY DIFFERENT LIVES

IN VERY DIFFERENT COUNTRIES.

I DON'T KNOW THAT THIS GIRL'S
GOING TO WANT TO DROP

EVERYTHING SHE HAS GOING ON
TO BE WITH SOMEBODY

WHO LIVES KIND OF
A LIMITED LIFESTYLE,

AND THAT'S REALLY
MY MAIN CONCERN.

OFF TO THE AIRPORT.
LET'S DO THIS.

MM‐HMM.

WHEW. OH, MY GOSH.

ERIKA KEEPS TELLING ME

THAT SHE CAN'T WAIT TO KISS ME
WHEN SHE FIRST SEES ME.

ARE YOU NERVOUS ABOUT ‐‐
LIKE, THAT'S YOUR FIRST KISS.

MM‐HMM. YEAH.

ARE YOU GOING, LIKE, BALLS OUT,
"AAH," OR JUST ‐‐

NO! NO.
I'M KIDDING.

WE'VE BEEN OBVIOUSLY TALKING
ABOUT SEXUAL STUFF

AND SENDING EACH OTHER CUTE,
LITTLE SUGGESTIVE MESSAGES.

SO I'M EXCITED, JUST BECAUSE
IT'S BEEN SUCH A LONG TIME

SINCE I'VE
BEEN WITH ANYBODY.

AFTER MY LAST RELATIONSHIP
ENDED, I DECIDED TO BE CELIBATE.

I REALIZED
THAT IN RELATIONSHIPS,

I GIVE MYSELF EMOTIONALLY
AND PHYSICALLY

TO PEOPLE THAT HURT ME
AND SCREW ME OVER.

SO I DECIDED THAT THE NEXT TIME,
I WANT TO KNOW

THAT THAT PERSON REALLY,
REALLY CARES ABOUT ME.

AND HOPEFULLY, MY CELIBACY
WILL END WHEN I MEET ERIKA,

AND EVERYTHING GOES AS PLANNED.

I'M GOING TO MISS YOU.
MISS YOU.

I LOVE YOU.
WISH ME LUCK.

GOOD LUCK.
TEXT ME. CALL ME.

I'M SCARED!
YOU'RE GOING TO BE FINE.

I'M SO SCARED.
I'M MORE CONCERNED

ABOUT YOU GETTING ALL THIS
LUGGAGE WHERE IT NEEDS TO GO.

IT'S REALLY HEAVY!

BYE!

I DON'T THINK
YOU CAN EVER BE FULLY PREPARED

FOR A TRIP LIKE THIS.

I'M DEFINITELY RISKING
BOTH MY HEART AND MY HEALTH.

IF YOU WOULD'VE TOLD ME
A YEAR AGO

WHEN I STARTED TALKING
TO THIS GIRL

THAT I WAS GOING TO BE
GOING AUSTRALIA TO MEET HER,

I WOULD NOT BELIEVE IT.

BUT I'M GOING TO MEET
AN INCREDIBLE PERSON

WHO HAS MADE ME SO HAPPY.

I'M REALLY IN LOVE WITH HER,

AND I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE HER.

I'M SO EXCITED.

BOARDING THE PLANE.
NO TURNING BACK NOW.

BYE, NEW YORK.

I SEE THAT YOU'RE
MISSING A SINK.

IS THIS REALLY WHAT YOU USE
TO WASH YOUR HANDS?

YEAH.

THIS IS A COMPLETE SHOCK TO ME.

IT SEEMS LIKE IT'S OBVIOUS

THAT YOU HAVE THIS ULTIMATE GOAL
OF GOING TO THE U. S.

WELL, THAT WAS FUN.
NOW I GET TO SEE YOUR HOME.

UH‐HUH.

I'VE BEEN IN MOSCOW
FOR TWO DAYS NOW.

VARYA AND I SPENT
OUR FIRST NIGHT TOGETHER

LAST NIGHT, WHICH WAS GREAT.

THANK YOU.

BUT THINGS GOT A LITTLE WEIRD
THIS MORNING

WHEN SHE FOUND A COMB
WITH MY EX'S NAME ON IT.

BUT AFTER SHE FINISHED GETTING
READY, SHE SEEMED TO BE OVER IT.

SO I JUST WANT TO GO
WITH THE FLOW

AND REALLY HAVE
A GOOD TIME TOGETHER.

YEAH.

TODAY, WE'RE TAKING A TAXI
TO VARYA'S APARTMENT.

SHE LIVES OUTSIDE OF MOSCOW
IN A SMALL CITY CALLED RYAZAN,

WHICH IS 3 1/2, 4 HOURS AWAY.

WE'RE GOING TO BE STAYING THERE
FOR A FEW DAYS

BEFORE WE FLY TO SIBERIA
TO MEET HER MOM.

I'M EXCITED TO SEE
HOW SHE LIVES.

YEAH? THIS IS YOUR HOME.

YEAH.

YEAH?
UH‐HUH.

LET'S GO.

WOW.

WELCOME.

THERE'S A LOT OF, UH ‐‐

IT'S BARE.

YOU HAVE EXPOSED WIRING.
AH?

SO THIS IS NOT DONE YET.
OR IS IT?

OKAY, GOOD.

WELL, THE BATHROOM'S CUTE.

I SEE THAT YOU'RE
MISSING A SINK.

IS THIS REALLY WHAT YOU USE
TO WASH YOUR HANDS?

YEP.

SEEING HER APARTMENT
THE WAY THAT IT IS,

THIS IS A COMPLETE SHOCK TO ME.

I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT
PUTTING CROWN MOLDING UP.

I'M TALKING ABOUT PUTTING
A SINK IN A BATHROOM,

COVERING THE EXPOSED WIRING.

THERE'S A LIGHT BULB
HANGING FROM THE CEILING

LIKE YOU WOULD SEE IN PRISON.

I LIKE YOUR COUCH.
WHERE'S YOUR TV?

WHERE DO YOU, UM ‐‐
WHERE DO YOU SLEEP?

SO THIS IS YOUR
BEDROOM/LIVING ROOM‐SLASH ‐‐

WOW.

I DON'T KNOW.
BY LOOKING AT THIS,

IT SEEMS LIKE YOU HAVEN'T DONE
A LOT OF STUFF HERE.

WHY DID YOU STOP ALL
PREPARATIONS FOR LIVING HERE?

WHAT IS ‐‐
WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT?

JUST SEEING THIS HOUSE

AND SEEING THAT YOU
STOPPED EVERYTHING

BECAUSE YOU STARTED
TALKING TO ME,

IT SEEMS LIKE IT'S OBVIOUS

THAT YOU HAVE THIS ULTIMATE GOAL
OF GOING TO THE U. S.

I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY,
OKAY?

SO YOU LOOK AT ME

AS THE OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU
TO GO TO THE U. S., RIGHT?

NO. CAN YOU GET A VISA
RIGHT NOW?

NO. NO.
NO?

CAN A RANDOM PERSON ASK YOU,
SAY, "HEY, WILL YOU MARRY ME?"

AND WOULD YOU BE ABLE
TO GET A VISA THEN?

SO YOU COULD NOT
GET A VISA RIGHT NOW,

BUT THE PERSON THAT YOU "LOVE"
COULD GET YOU A VISA?

WHAT IF WHEN YOU GET TO AMERICA,
YOU'VE GOT YOUR GREEN CARD,

MAYBE SOMETHING ELSE WILL
COME ALONG ONCE YOU'RE THERE.

MY HEART SAYS,
"HEY, THIS GIRL'S GREAT.

THIS GIRL'S" WHATEVER,
THIS GIRL'S ‐‐

MY BRAIN'S SAYING,
"WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING?

SHE'S USING YOU."

WHY WOULD YOU STOP
WORKING ON YOUR HOUSE?

YOUR HOUSE. THAT'S NOT A RENTAL.
THAT'S HER HOUSE.

AND WE HAVEN'T BEEN
TALKING FOR YEARS.

WE'VE BEEN TALKING FOR MONTHS.
AND YOU STOP?

YOU KNOW, IT MAKES ME THINK

SHE HAD THIS GOAL
IN THE VERY BEGINNING.

SHALL WE
GET READY FOR BED?

THIS ISN'T ABOUT ME
JUST BEING SUSPICIOUS.

THIS IS WHAT'S GOING ON.
I MEAN, IT'S OBVIOUS.

I DON'T KNOW
WHAT I'M GOING TO DO.

NEXT TIME ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

I'M RISKING MY HEALTH
TO COME VISIT HER.

I'M WONDERING IF THIS IS CRAZY
OR STUPID OR BOTH,

BUT ERIKA MIGHT BE THE ONE.

OH, MY GOD.

I KNOW YOU'RE TIRED OF ME
ASKING ABOUT YOUR PAST,

BUT I HAVE A FAVOR.

THERE'S A TEST
THAT YOU CAN TAKE

IF YOU HAVE, LIKE,
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE.

FROM THE VERY MOMENT
THAT YOU STARTED TALKING TO ME,

YOU STARTED PLANNING
TO GO TO AMERICA.

IF WE DON'T WORK OUT,
IT'S ONTO THE NEXT AMERICAN?

LAST NIGHT, HIS WHOLE
INSTAGRAM DISAPPEARED.

OH, MY GOODNESS.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND
WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS INSTAGRAM.

YOU TRUST HIM, THEN?

UM...

YEAH.
LITTLE BIT. I CAN FEEL IT.

GOOD EVENING.

AFTER SEVEN YEARS,
I'M FINALLY GOING TO MEET LANA.

I CAN'T WAIT
TO HAVE HER IN MY ARMS.

LOOK AT YOU.

THE SONG IS ABOUT
ME AND HIM.

THE MODEL SHOULD NOT
HAVE BEEN IN THE VIDEO.

SHUT THE UP.

WAIT, WAIT, WAIT,
WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.