90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 4, Episode 13 - The Pleasure Principle - full transcript

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"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

NOT WITH ME, NO.

I FEEL LIKE I'M IN A NIGHTMARE.

I WANT NOTHING
TO DO WITH TOM.

I'LL NEVER LET MYSELF
BE TREATED LIKE THIS AGAIN.

HE CAN TAKE
HIS RICKETY ASS KEY BACK.

IT WAS AN ABSOLUTE
TRAIN WRECK.

PROBABLY, I SHOULD'VE JUST SAID,
"LOOK, I'VE MET SOMEONE. SORRY."

MY CHILDREN DECIDED TO LOOK IN
TO MY BOYFRIEND, WILLIAMS.

OKAY.

SO IT'S A BUNCH OF STOCK PHOTOS
OF THE SAME GUY.



IT'S DEFINITELY
A CATFISH.

THEN WHO HAVE I BEEN TALKING TO
THIS WHOLE TIME?

ASH WANTS TO COME TO AMERICA
WITH TAJ.

HAS HE TALKED TO YOU
ABOUT HOW THAT WOULD WORK?

TAJ IS MY WORLD.

I CANNOT EVEN FATHOM BEING
IN A DIFFERENT C‐‐

I JUST CAN'T.

I'M GOING HOME.

I'M GOING TO LIVE MY LIFE
APART FROM YOU.

I'M NOT SURE SHE KNOWS
HOW BAD SHE REALLY HURT ME

WHEN SHE TURNED ME DOWN.

I'M A BAD PERSON, OKAY.

YEAH.

MAYBE SHE JUST NEEDS TIME.



I NEED TO LET HER CALM DOWN.

IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL.
IT'S AN EX!

THIS IS AN ENTIRE
10‐YEAR RELATIONSHIP

THAT YOU HAVE COMPLETELY
HIDDEN FROM ME.

SHE'D NEVER MENTIONED
A LONG‐TERM RELATIONSHIP

WHERE SHE WAS KEPT A SECRET.

BUT THAT'S IT.

I'M GOING OUT THERE
TO GET MY GIRL.

LOOKING GOOD.

OH!

MM!

CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS

I'M ON MY WAY
HOME TO KNOXVILLE

AFTER A PRETTY DISASTROUS TRIP
TO MEET VARYA IN RUSSIA.

SHE SAID NO TO MY PROPOSAL.

I GUESS SHE COULDN'T
GET OVER THE FACT THAT

I HAD A CRIMINAL BACKGROUND.

BUT VARYA'S BEEN CONSTANTLY
TEXTING ME MY WHOLE TRIP.

YOU KNOW,
I'M NOT REPLYING TO HER.

I'M NOT TEXTING HER BECAUSE
I THINK, AT THIS POINT,

ENGAGING WITH VARYA IS
GONNA MESS WITH MY HEAD.

YOU KNOW, THE BEST THING FOR ME
TO DO IS TO JUST IGNORE IT

AND TRY TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE.

I FEEL LIKE SHE'S MESSING
WITH MY HEART.

FATHER.

‐HEY. GIVE ME HUGS.
‐LOOK AT YOU.

‐HOW YOU DOING?
‐HOW YOU BEEN?

OH, MY GOSH.
TIRED. EXHAUSTED.

YOU STILL JET‐LAGGED?

I'LL STAY JET‐LAGGED.

LOOK AT I GOT YOU.

OH, MAN.

‐OH, MY GOSH.
‐WAIT, ARE THOSE SHIRTS?

YEAH, THEY'RE SHIRTS.

‐WHAT? YOU DON'T ‐‐
‐I LOVE IT. I LOVE IT.

I GUARANTEE YOU,
YOU'RE GONNA BE THE ONLY ONES

THAT HAVE THOSE SHIRTS.

FROM RUSSIA...
WITH LOVE.

ALRIGHT.
GRAB THIS. GOOD?

WE WENT
CAMPING THERE.

OH, MAN.
YEAH.

YOU NEED TO TAKE ME
NEXT TIME.

IT FEELS GREAT SEEING MY SONS,

BUT IT'S GONNA BE HARD
TO TELL THEM THAT...

ULTIMATELY, WHAT I WANTED TO DO

ENDED UP BEING A FAILURE.

TELL ME ABOUT RUSSIA.
HOW WAS RUSSIA?

YEAH. SO, WHEN I FIRST
GOT TO MOSCOW,

IT WAS, LIKE, AN AWKWARD TIME
FOR US BOTH.

BUT WE ENDED UP
KIND OF WORKING IT OUT.

THEN WE FLEW TO SIBERIA,
WHERE HER MOM LIVES.

THAT'S WHERE I TOLD HER...

THAT I'D WENT TO PRISON.
OH.

SO I ENDED UP TELLING HER MOM
AND HER BROTHER.

YOU TELL HIM BOTH
AT THE SAME TIME?

YEP.

THEY WERE PISSED ABOUT IT.
MESSED UP ABOUT IT.

WHICH KIND OF PRETTY MUCH
SET THE TONE

FOR THE REST
OF THE TRIP.

OH, LORD.

AND THEN WE WENT TO
THIS REALLY AWESOME PLACE,

LIKE, THIS ROMANTIC FIELD
WITH THESE SIDEWALKS

AND THERE'S TREES
ALL ABOUT IT.

AND THEN STARTED TALKING TO HER
ABOUT A LOT OF THINGS.

AND I FELT THAT WAS THE TIME,
AND I ASKED HER ‐‐

I ACTUALLY ASKED HER
TO MARRY ME.

REALLY?
YEAH.

I ASKED HER ‐‐
WHAT'D SHE SAY?

SHE SAYS BASICALLY
IN A LOT OF WORDS, NO.

I KNEW IT WASN'T
GONNA HAPPEN.

WH‐‐ WHAT DO
YOU MEAN?

I JUST DIDN'T HAVE
A GOOD FEELING ABOUT IT.

ANYWAY...

UM...

WE GET TO THE AIRPORT,

AND, YOU KNOW,
I'M TALKING TO HER,

AND I'M LIKE, YOU KNOW,
"BYE. HAVE A GOOD TIME."

HOLY CRAP.

BUT SHE SENDS ME A TEXT,

AND THE TEXT SAYS,

"I DON'T WANT SUCH
A STUPID END.

PLEASE FORGIVE ME.
I MADE A MISTAKE."

I DON'T KNOW...
WHAT SHE EXPECTS.

I'M GETTING THESE MESSAGES,

AND I CAN'T HELP BUT TO BE
JUST CONFUSED RIGHT NOW.

SHE WAS...

SHE WASN'T READY.

I WANT SOMEBODY THAT'S READY.

I WANT SOMEBODY THAT'S GONNA
PUT THEIR HEART AND SOUL IN IT,

AND LOOK AT ME AND SAY,
"YES, YOU ARE MY MAN.

YOU ARE THE ONE I'D SPEND
THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH."

BUT IT'S ‐‐

I GUESS WE'RE JUST NOT READY
FOR EACH OTHER.

I GUESS WE'RE JUST NOT
COMPATIBLE IN THAT SENSE.

IT'S NICE TO BE HOME,
THAT'S FOR SURE.

IT'S SAD.

I NEED TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE

AND PUT VARYA IN THE PAST.

THANK YOU.

MY TIME'S ALMOST UP
IN NEW YORK,

AND IT'S BEEN NICE HAVING HAD
A FEW DAYS JUST TO LET

EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED
WITH DARCEY SINK IN.

UM, CALM AFTER THE STORM
THIS TIME.

MR. TOM.

HAMMY, HAMMY, HAMMY.

HAMMY THE HAMSTER, RIGHT?

‐HOW YOU DOING, BROTHER?
‐I'M REALLY GOOD.

TODAY I AM MEETING A VERY
GOOD FRIEND OF MINE

THAT I HAVE NOT SEEN
FOR A WHILE, HAMMY.

THANK YOU.

AFTER EVERYTHING I'VE BEEN
THROUGH WITH DARCEY,

SEEING A FRIENDLY FACE IS GONNA
BE A NICE THING FOR ME.

SO HOW LONG YOU
BEEN HERE, TOM?

‐UH, ABOUT A WEEK NOW.
‐ONE WEEK?

YEAH, ABOUT A WEEK.

‐WORK'S BEEN GOOD.
‐YEAH.

YEAH, BUT THE OTHER SIDE OF
LIFE'S NOT BEEN SO GOOD.

WE'RE IN TROUBLE,
BUT, HEY, IT HAPPENS.

‐IT'S A DIFFICULT ONE.
‐YEAH, JUST TRY, MAN.

I'LL HELP YOU. I'LL HELP YOU.

I'LL PUSH YOU.

I CAN'T GET AWAY WITH ANYTHING
WHEN IT COMES TO HAMMY.

HE'S KNOWN ME FOR MANY A YEAR.

HE'S SEEN MY ANTICS.

IF I SIT AND SAY SOMETHING
TO HIM THAT'S NOT QUITE CORRECT,

HE'S GONNA CALL ME OUT ON IT.

THAT'S HOW HE IS.

I JUST, UM ‐‐
WHILE I WAS HERE,

I THOUGHT I'D REACH OUT TO
THE GIRL I WAS SEEING, DARCEY,
YEAH. YEAH.

AND IT DIDN'T GO TOO WELL.

WHAT HAPPENED?

JUST ‐‐
OVER THE LAST YEAR OR SO

IT'S NOT BEEN GREAT.

UM, BUT I JUST WANTED TO SEE
IF THERE WAS ANYTHING

STILL THERE IF WE MET IN PERSON,

AND I WANTED TO KNOW THAT
IF IT'S DONE, IT'S DONE,

AND I COULD WALK AWAY
FROM IT SAYING,

"LOOK, ME AND YOU DON'T WORK.

"WE LOVED EACH OTHER, BUT IT'S
THE WRONG TYPE OF LOVE FOR ME,

AND IT'S THE WRONG TYPE
OF LOVE FOR YOU."
RIGHT.

BUT IT DIDN'T GO DOWN LIKE THAT.

I MET HER.
WE HAD AN ARGUMENT. SHE LEFT.

SO I WENT THE NEXT DAY
TO CONNECTICUT.

I'D WRITTEN HER A LETTER,

GAVE HER THE LETTER...
‐MMMM!

AND THEN I GET THE DOOR
SLAMMED IN MY FACE.

YEAH.
NOW? HM.

IT'S DONE.

I DIDN'T MAKE THINGS EASY 'CAUSE
I'D KINDA STARTED SEEING

SOMEONE ELSE AS WELL,
AND SHE'D FOUND OUT ABOUT IT.

‐OH, YOU DID?
‐YEAH.

‐OOH.
‐YEAH, I TOLD ‐‐

THAT'S GONNA DRIVE HER
CRAZY, MAN.
YEAH, WELL SHE'S ‐‐

NOW I WONDER WHY
SHE SHUT THE DOOR...

‐YEAH
‐...ON YOUR FACE

WITH YOUR LETTER.

NOW IT MAKES SENSE.

JUST REMEMBER
ONE ‐‐ THIS, MAN.

KARMA'S A BITCH, MAN.
‐I KNOW.

IF YOU DO SOMETHING BAD
TO SOMEBODY,

‐I KNOW YOU GET IT BACK, RIGHT?
‐IT WILL GET YOU BACK, MAN.

YEAH.
HM, MR. TOM.

MR. TOM. YEAH.

‐SO, WHAT'S NEXT?
‐CANADA.

I MET SOMEONE THERE,
SO I'M GONNA GO AND SEE THEM.

YOU ALREADY MET
SOMEBODY THERE?

YEAH, I MET SOMEONE,

BUT THEN THERE'S STILL A PART
OF ME THAT FEELS I SHOULD GO

AND, LIKE, SPEAK WITH DARCEY,

AND SAY LOOK, "I DON'T WANT
IT TO BE LIKE THAT.

"I JUST WANNA BE ‐‐

YOU CANNOT KEEP DANCING LIKE
THAT WITH YOUR FEELINGS AND ‐‐

YOU GOTTA SHUT THAT DOOR
COMPLETELY, 100%.

NOT EVEN MENTION HER NAME AGAIN.

THEN YOU CAN MOVE TO
THE NEXT PLACE.

NO, NO, I DON'T WANT TO PLAY
WITH PEOPLE'S FEELINGS

‐IT'S ONLY FAIR, MAN.
‐I DON'T WANT TO DO THAT ANYWAY.

YEAH.

HE SHOULD MOVE ON ‐‐

100%,

BUT I'LL BELIEVE IT
WHEN I SEE IT,

BECAUSE I KNOW TOM,
HE CHANGES HIS MIND.

HE'S A CHAMELEON.
THAT'S HIS NICKNAME.

I HOPE YOU LEARN FROM YOUR
MISTAKE AS WELL, MAN.

'CAUSE YOU'RE NOT GONNA
STAY YOUNG, GOOD‐LOOKING,

FOR A LONG TIME.

THIS IS TIME FOR YOU
TO SETTLE DOWN ‐‐

GET ENGAGED AND GET MARRIED
AND HAVE KIDS.

I KNOW.

NO, IT'S NOT GOOD.

YOU'RE GONNA BE 50, 60,
YOU'RE GONNA BE BY YOURSELF,

SAD AND LONELY.

IT'S TIME TO BE SERIOUS NOW.

I KNOW.

HAVING SPOKEN TO HAMMY TODAY,
HE'S RIGHT.

I NEED TO MOVE ON WITH
MY FUTURE

AND FIND WHAT IT IS
I NEED IN SOMEONE ELSE.

SO, I WANT TO STRIKE WHILE
THE IRON'S HOT

AND GO AND BE WITH SOMEONE
I THINK I COULD HAVE

A POSSIBLE FUTURE WITH.

Hello. This is Pam.

GOOD AFTERNOON, PAM.
HI, MY NAME IS LISA.

I NEED A COPY
OF MY DIVORCE PAPERS.

Uh‐huh.

USMAN AND I
ARE BACK IN ABUJA,

AND OUR WEDDING IS
ONLY A FEW DAYS AWAY.

WE WANT TO GET MARRIED
BEFORE I LEAVE,

BECAUSE MY PLAN
IS TO BRING HIM BACK

TO THE UNITED STATES
ON THE SPOUSAL VISA.

BUT WE JUST FOUND OUT
THE MARRIAGE REGISTRY

WANTS TO SEE A COPY
OF MY DIVORCE DECREE.

WELL, GUESS WHAT?
I DON'T HAVE IT

BECAUSE MY FIANCE DID NOT CHECK

TO SEE WHAT I NEEDED
BEFORE I ARRIVED.

SO, I HAVE TO CONTACT
THE COURTHOUSE BACK HOME,

IN THE US.

I HAVE NO CLUE, AT THIS TIME,
WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN.

NO CLUE.

You say you need a copy
of the divorce decree?

YES, I DO.
BUT HERE'S THE CATCH.

I'M OVER IN NIGERIA
RIGHT NOW.

HOW CAN I OBTAIN THAT
DIVORCE DECREE BEING IN NIGERIA?

BECAUSE I NEED IT
FOR A MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE.

You can send in a letter
requesting a copy of it.

IS THERE AN E‐MAIL?

Just one moment.

ISN'T SHE ABOUT
THE MOST PLEASANT PERSON

ON THE PHONE?

I'M GETTING PISSED OFF

BECAUSE THIS WAS A COMPLETELY
AVOIDABLE SITUATION,

IF HE JUST DID WHAT
I TOLD HIM HE NEEDED TO DO.

AND IF I DON'T HAVE
THAT DIVORCE DECREE,

THERE IS NO WEDDING.

Okay.
Hold on a second.

I can e‐mail it to you.

THAT IS WONDERFUL.

I'll make up the decree,
and I'll scan it in,

and I'll e‐mail it.

YOU JUST MADE MY NIGHT
AND HIS NIGHT.

THAT'S WONDERFUL NEWS.
YOU ARE A LIFESAVER.

THANK YOU SO MUCH, PAM.
HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY.

Thank you. Take care.

THANK YOU.
YOU, TOO. BYE.

LET'S TAKE A MINUTE.

I NEED TO RELAX
AFTER THIS PHONE CALL.

I'M READY
TO TAKE MY BATH

BECAUSE WE ARE
GOING OUT.

USMAN AND I HAVE OVERCOME
SO MANY HURDLES

JUST TO BE ABLE TO GET MARRIED.

I'M PRAYING THAT'S
THE LAST ONE...

BECAUSE USMAN'S FAMILY
IS COMING TOMORROW

TO BE THERE AT OUR WEDDING.

SO WE NEED EVERYTHING PERFECT.

I LOVE YOU.

I LOVE YOU.

SIT DOWN.
SIT DOWN.

TWO HOURS AGO
I WAS VERY HAPPY.

BUT BACK IN THE HOTEL,
THAT CHANGED VERY QUICK.

THANK YOU SO MUCH.

SO...

WE HAVE A FEW THINGS
TO DISCUSS.

IF WE DON'T BRUSH THEM UP
TONIGHT,

ONE THING IN PARTICULAR,
THERE'LL BE NO MARRIAGE.

AFTER WHAT I SAW...

DON'T PLAY STUPID.

I TOOK PICTURES
WITH MY OWN CELLPHONE.

THIS ONE...

YOU THINK
YOU'RE A WANNABE PLAYER.

LET ME TELL YOU
SOMETHING.

I'VE BEEN WATCHING HER
FOR MONTHS

ON FACEBOOK.

THIS IS A STUPID

THAT PUT A SAD EMOJI
WHEN YOU POSTED SOMETHING TO ME.

"YOU THAT'S IN LOVE
WITH A WHITE WOMAN.

YOU NO GET MY TIME NOW.

YOU KNOW THAT I LOVE YOU,
BUT HMM.

YOU LOVE WHO? ME?"

AND THEN UP TOP, IT SAYS,
"MWAH! I LOVE YOU, BABY."

WHO IN THE
DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?

EARLIER THIS EVENING,

I TRIED TO ACTIVATE MY Wi‐Fi
OFF HIS PHONE,

AND IT OPENED
TO HIS MESSENGER.

AND I SAW THIS ONE WOMAN SAY,
"I LOVE YOU."

HE'S LIKE, MWAH,
BABY THIS, BABY THAT.

NO.

WHO IN THE DO YOU THINK
YOU'RE PLAYING WITH, USMAN?

I OPEN YOUR PHONE
AND SEE THIS?

OH.

MM. "OH."

OKAY.

AND YOU'RE TELLING HER,
"I LOVE YOU."

YOU HAVE NO CLUE HOW BAD
YOU HURT ME WHEN I SEEN THIS.

I AM SO MAD
RIGHT NOW.

FIRE IS GOING THROUGH ME
RIGHT NOW.

I WILL NOT BE HUMILIATED
BY THIS NIGERIAN WHORE

AND HIM WRITING POINT BLANK,
"I LOVE YOU."

I NEED TO MAKE SURE
HE HAS BEEN FAITHFUL TO ME

BECAUSE IF NOT,
THERE'S GONNA BE NO USMAN AND I.

WELL, I'LL TELL
YOU WHAT ‐‐

NO, YOU'RE STICKING TO ME
AND USING ME

WHILE YOU'RE SOME BITCH
HERE IN NIGERIA

WHEN I'M 70,000 MILES AWAY.

NO, YOU ‐‐ NO!

DON'T TELL ME
TO LISTEN.

AND YOU WANT TO PLAY?
YOU TELL ME NOW,

BECAUSE I TELL YOU WHAT,
I'M OLDER THAN YOU.

I PLAYED THIS GAME
A LOT LONGER THAN YOU,

AND I PLAY A LOT HARDER,
AND I ALWAYS WIN.

YOU'RE GONNA
HEAR ME NOW.

NO, YOU'RE NOT
GONNA SPEAK.

YOU EITHER BLOCK THEM

AND CLEAN UP THAT
PAGE TONIGHT

OR WE'RE NOT
GETTING MARRIED.

NO, NO.
LET ME TELL YOU ‐‐

REALLY?
YES.

I DON'T WANT TO MARRY YOU THEN.
YOU KNOW WHY?

BUT I CHOSE YOU.

YOU KNOW WHAT?

YOU'RE NOT
THAT BIG OF A STAR,

YOUR
LOCAL TALENT.

- OKAY.
- LET'S GET THIS STRAIGHT.

YOU'RE A LIAR TO ME.

- I'M DONE.
- I DON'T NEED THIS.

- NO YOU.
- DON'T TELL ME.

DON'T TELL ME.

I'LL GET A CAB.

BEST LUCK TO YOU
IN YOUR LIFE.

WHO IN THE
DOES HE THINK HE IS?

YOU LOOK LIKE YOU
CAME OUT OF A BARBIE FACTORY.

OH.

WHERE'S YOUR KEN?

I HAVE TO MAKE
MYSELF HAPPY,

AND I HAVE TO GO AND GET WHAT
IT IS I REALLY, TRULY WANT.

SO THAT'S WHAT I'M DOING.

I WAS GONNA ASK YOU
SOMETHING.

SIAN SAID YOU GUYS
ONLY DIVORCED A YEAR AGO.

I REALLY DO WISH

THAT ASH WAS HONEST WITH ME
FROM THE BEGINNING.

UM...

YEAH.

OH, MY GOD.

WOW.

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT.

"WHY?"

ALRIGHT, GUYS.

WHICH ONES DO YOU
WANT TO DO?

YOU HAVE A COUPLE
OF OPTIONS.

I WANT TO DO ONE
OF THOSE REGULAR FACE MASKS.

OKAY, SO YOU WANT ‐‐
ME TOO.

WHICH ONE DO YOU
WANT TO DO, ANI?

I'LL DO THE AVOCADO.

AVOCADO?

THAT'S LIKE FOOD
FOR THE FACE.

I LIKE IT.
FOOD FOR THE FACE?

YEAH. I THINK MOMMY'S GONNA
DO THE MIRACLE MASK.

I NEED A MIRACLE IN MY LIFE
RIGHT NOW.

EVER SINCE I CUT
THE CORD WITH TOM,

LIFE'S BEEN GREAT.

ME AND THE GIRLS
ARE EMBRACING LIFE

IN A NEW WAY, A NEW CHAPTER.

HOW DOES MOMMY LOOK?

OH.
EW.

IT WAS LOPSIDED.

OH, MY GOD.
I LOOK LIKE...

OH, IF TOM COULD
SEE ME NOW. BYE!

"BYE."

EVER SINCE THE BREAKUP,

THE GIRLS HAVE
BEEN THERE FOR ME.

THEY SAID, "JUST STAY EMPOWERED.

DON'T LET A MAN
GET YOU DOWN.

YOU DESERVE BETTER."

YOU LOOK LIKE YOU CAME
OUT OF AN ABSTRACT PAINTING.

AND YOU LOOK LIKE YOU
CAME OUT OF A BARBIE FACTORY.

MOM IS BARBIE.
OH.

WHERE'S YOUR KEN?

HOPEFULLY,
COMING SOON.

BECAUSE I'M NOT REALLY HAPPY
WITH THE LAST ONE.

OR THE LAST ONE
BEFORE THE LAST.

OR ANY OF THEM.

YOU KNOW,
IT'S COMING.

THE RIGHT ONE.

YOU GUYS WOULD FEEL IT,
TOO, I BET.

‐MM‐HMM.
‐YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?

I HAVEN'T
FELT THAT IN A WHILE.

YEAH, I KNOW.
I'M SORRY, GUYS.

- MOMMY'S TRYING HER BEST.
- DON'T APOLOGIZE.

EVERYTHING HAPPENS
FOR A REASON.

TRUE, AND MAYBE ‐‐

AND THAT'S THE GOOD THING
ABOUT IT, YOU KNOW?

YOU'RE RIGHT.

I WANT YOU GUYS HAPPY,
AND THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS.

YOU GUYS COME FIRST.

MY GIRLS HAVE SEEN ME GO
THROUGH HEARTACHE AND PAIN

AND BAD RELATIONSHIPS,

BUT I THINK I HAVE BEEN
THE BEST ROLE MODEL

I CAN BE FOR MY DAUGHTERS.

AND I'M EXCITED THAT TOM
IS OUT OF MY LIFE FOR GOOD.

I'M FEELING GOOD TODAY.

I'M LEAVING NEW YORK.

AND I SUPPOSE I WAS
ONLY EVER HOPING

THAT I GOT THAT DARCEY
THAT I REALLY LIKE BACK,

AND SHE NEVER DID TURN UP.

I THINK I'VE FOUND SOMEONE
VERY SPECIAL,

AND I WANTS TO PURSUE THAT.

AND WHEN YOU WANT
SOMETHING ENOUGH,

YOU MAKE THE EFFORT
TO GO AND GET IT.

I THINK I TRIED TO DO THINGS
IN THE RIGHT WAY,

AND THEY JUST...
DON'T ALWAYS GO THE RIGHT WAY.

BUT AT LEAST I TRIED,

AND NOW I CAN LOOK FORWARD
TO MY FUTURE.

YES, PLEASE.

WE WERE BOTH
NOT ON THE SAME PAGE,

AND NOW WE ARE.

IT'S NOT NICE
TO HAVE THE ARGUMENTS,

BUT WE KNOW IT'S OVER,

AND WE CAN MOVE ON
WITH OUR LIVES.

WHEN I CAME TO NEW YORK,

I THINK PART OF ME WAS REALLY
WANTING TO GET DARCEY BACK.

IT ALWAYS FELT LIKE I HAD TO GET
THE DARCEY I FIRST MET BACK.

I WISH I COULD HAVE LOVED HER
THE WAY SHE WANTED TO.

SHE DESERVES THAT,

BUT I JUST WISH HER THE BEST
WITH THE REST OF HER LIFE.

I HAVE TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE.
I HAVE TO MAKE MYSELF HAPPY,

AND I HAVE TO GO AND GET
WHAT IT IS I REALLY TRULY WANT.

SO THAT'S WHAT I'M DOING.

I'M GOING TO TORONTO TO SEE
MY NEW GIRLFRIEND, SHANNON.

I'M BOARDING IN LIKE
ABOUT AN HOUR.

AND SO I'M GOING TO GO OFF
AND GET MY ON PLANE

AND START THE NEW JOURNEY
OF MY LIFE.

SO I'LL SEE YOU LATER.

OKAY.

UH...

GOOD.

YESTERDAY,
I MET ASH'S SON, TAJ,

AND HIS EX WIFE, SIAN.

MEETING SIAN SHED LIGHT
ON SOME OF THE CONCERNS

THAT I'VE HAD
SINCE THE BEGINNING,

AND LAST NIGHT, I DIDN'T REALLY
SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT TO ASH

BECAUSE IT TAKES ME A WHILE
TO REALLY PROCESS THINGS.

BUT AT THIS POINT,

I ONLY HAVE A COUPLE DAYS
LEFT IN AUSTRALIA,

AND THERE'S A LOT OF THINGS
THAT WE NEED TO FIGURE OUT.

ARE WE GONNA
SEE TAJ TODAY?

I THINK WE ARE,
ACTUALLY.

I'D LIKE TO JUST SPEND A BIT
OF TIME WITH HIM.

MM‐HMM.

GOOD.

IT IS A SCARY THOUGHT.

UM...

WHEN I TALKED TO SIAN,

YOU KNOW,
ONE OF MY BIGGEST CONCERNS WAS,

I WANT TO REALLY
UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION

WITH YOU COMING TO
SPEND TIME IN AMERICA WITH TAJ.

I REMEMBER WHEN I WAS TALKING
TO YOU ABOUT THE SITUATION,

YOU, LIKE...

YOU KIND OF PLAYED IT DOWN...
YEAH.

LIKE EVERYTHING
WAS FINE.

BUT WHEN I TALKED TO HER,

SHE WAS GENUINELY, LIKE...
UPSET ABOUT THE SITUATION.

OKAY, BUT THERE'S A DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN CREATING NEGATIVITY

AND BEING REAL
WITH REALITY.

THOSE ARE THINGS
I DON'T WANT YOU

TO JUST WRITE OFF.

REALLY LET ME UNDERSTAND

THE SITUATION
FOR WHAT IT IS.

I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHERE
YOU'RE COMING FROM WITH THAT.

SHE BELIEVES THAT
I HAVE NOT BEEN UP FRONT.

AND, YOU KNOW,
THE CHALLENGE HERE IS THAT...

THAT'S THE TRUTH.
SHE WAS OKAY AT THE BEGINNING.

BUT MAYBE THAT INFORMATION
WAS LOST.

AND, UM...

YEAH.

WELL, I DO WANT

TO BE CLOSE TO YOU,

BUT AT THE AGE
THAT TAJ IS AT RIGHT NOW,

MAYBE IT'S NOT THE BEST TIME
TO COME PERMANENTLY.

MAYBE THE BEST THING TO DO
IS TO SPEND THREE MONTHS

AT A TIME
WITH ME IN AMERICA.

AND THEN THE MAJORITY
OF THE TIME,

YOU'RE BACK IN AUSTRALIA
WITH TAJ

UNTIL, LIKE, YOU KNOW,
HE'S OLDER AND UNDERSTANDS.

I THINK THAT'S ACTUALLY
A REALLY GOOD RESOLUTION,

AND I'M VERY OPEN FOR THAT,
ACTUALLY.

GOOD.

I REALLY DO WISH
THAT ASH WAS HONEST WITH ME

FROM THE BEGINNING
ABOUT HOW SIAN IS FEELING.

THE BIGGEST PLAN THAT WE HAD WAS

TO BE ABLE
TO COMBINE OUR FAMILIES,

AND FINDING OUT THAT EVERYBODY
ISN'T ON THE SAME PAGE,

IT HURTS.

AND THERE IS ANOTHER THING
THAT SIAN REVEALED

THAT I WANT
TO CONFRONT HIM ABOUT.

I WAS GONNA
ASK YOU SOMETHING.

SIAN SAID YOU GUYS
ONLY DIVORCED A YEAR AGO.

MM. MM.

YEAH.
YEAH.

I THINK...

YEAH.

I MEAN, JUST LET ME KNOW WHY
YOU DIDN'T WANT TO TELL ME

THAT IT WAS
JUST A YEAR AGO.

AND WE WERE NOT TRYING
TO WORK OUT ANYTHING.

WELL...
THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID.

SO I AM GLAD
THAT YOU GUYS ARE

ON THE SAME PAGE
WITH THAT.

WHEN I HEARD THAT FROM HER,
I WAS LIKE,

"OKAY, THAT MAKES SENSE."

I WOULD HAVE HAD
THE EXACT SAME RESPONSE

IN THE BEGINNING
OF OUR RELATIONSHIP,

IF YOU JUST TOLD ME
THE TRUTH.

OKAY.
YOU KNOW?

I UNDERSTAND.

SO I DON'T WANT YOU
TO FEAR THE OUTCOME ANYMORE.

OKAY.

THIS COULD BE, LIKE,
ONE OF THE FIRST TIMES

THAT I'VE BEEN ABLE TO HAVE

A CONSTRUCTIVE CONVERSATION
WITH HIM.

AND IT DEFINITELY

MAKES ME LOVE HIM MORE
AS A PERSON,

KNOWING THAT HE IS SOMEBODY THAT

I CAN WORK WITH AND GROW WITH
IN A RELATIONSHIP.

BUT I KNOW THAT THERE'S GONNA BE

A LOT LONGER PERIOD NOW
TO HAVE TO WAIT

BEFORE WE COULD POSSIBLY
EVEN LIVE TOGETHER

AS A COUPLE IN AMERICA.

THERE'S JUST SO MANY THINGS

THAT ARE JUST REALLY
BEING STACKED AGAINST US.

I LOVE ROSE,

AND I DON'T WANT
OUR RELATIONSHIP

TO END LIKE THIS.

I'M GONNA GO BACK TO OUR ROOM
AND SEE IF SHE'LL TALK TO ME.

I REACHED
OUT TO WILLIAMS,

AND HE DID CONTACT ME BACK,

AND WILLIAMS TELL ME
THAT HE'S BROKEN AND IN PAIN.

IT'S BEEN A FEW WEEKS

SINCE MY KIDS DID
THE REVERSE IMAGE SEARCH

AND FOUND OUT THAT THE PHOTOS
WILLIAMS WAS SENDING ME

ARE STOCK PHOTOS.

IT'S HARD FOR ME TO ACCEPT.

WILLIAMS AND I HAVE BEEN TALKING

FOR OVER SEVEN MONTHS EVERY DAY.

WE HAD SUCH GOOD CONVERSATIONS

ABOUT OUR LOVE,
OUR RELATIONSHIP,

OUR FUTURE.

OUR PLANS ARE REAL.

I CARE ABOUT WILLIAMS A LOT.

AND I CARE ABOUT
HIM TELLING ME THE TRUTH.

I REALLY WANT TO KNOW
WHO EXACTLY I'M DEALING WITH.

SO I REACHED OUT TO WILLIAMS,
AND HE DID CONTACT ME BACK.

THE FIRST THING I SENT HIM,

WHEN I REACHED OUT TO HIM
WAS TELLING HIM,

"I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM YOU."

AND WILLIAMS TELL ME
THAT HE'S BROKEN AND IN PAIN.

AND HE SAID,
"I LOST MY ONLY AUNTIE."

IF MY KIDS FOUND OUT
THAT I CONTACTED WILLIAMS,

THEY WOULD BE VERY UPSET.

I JUST REALLY WANTED
TO ASK HIM FOR SOME TRUTHS

ABOUT WHO HE REALLY IS.

THE REVERSE IMAGE SEARCH TOLD ME

THAT HIS PHOTOS
ARE STOCK PHOTOS.

SO I JUST NEED TO GET ANSWERS.

I TOLD HIM...

YOU KNOW, I KNOW NOW WHY YOU
DON'T WANT TO FaceTime ME.

HE IMMEDIATELY GOT DEFENSIVE

WHEN I TOLD HIM THAT, SAYING,

I DON'T WANT TO ARGUE.

YOU KNOW,
I'M NOT HERE TO QUARREL

OR HAVE AN ARGUMENT
WITH YOU, PLEASE.

AND I TOLD HIM,
"I'M NOT, EITHER.

I JUST WANT YOU TO BE HONEST
WITH ME FROM NOW ON.

SO PLEASE SEND ME

A PICTURE OF YOU."

AND THEN HE REVERSED IT ON ME

AND SAID, "HOW DO I KNOW
YOU'RE REALLY YOLANDA."

I SENT HIM A PICTURE OF MYSELF,
AND I SAID,

"NOW, PLEASE DON'T USE
ANYONE'S PIC BUT YOURSELF.

I DON'T CARE WHO YOU ARE.

I JUST WANT TO SEE
THE REAL YOU."

BUT, YOU KNOW, HE DIDN'T
RESPOND BACK AT ALL.

NO, I DIDN'T ASK HIM
ABOUT THE THREATS.

I GOT THIS E‐MAIL

FROM A STRANGER.

IT'S SAYING THAT THEY WILL
RELEASE SOME PRIVATE PICTURES

IF I DID NOT GIVE HIM MONEY.

THE ONLY ONE I GAVE
PRIVATE PICTURES TO

IS WILLIAMS.

I ALSO DIDN'T ASK HIM

ABOUT BEING NIGERIAN,

OR THE INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT,

BECAUSE THE LAST TIME
I ASKED HIM,

WAS HE NIGERIAN,
HE STOPPED REACHING OUT TO ME.

HE STOPPED CALLING
AND TEXTING ME.

SO, I JUST WANTED TO ASK HIM,
WAS HE REALLY HIMSELF.

I AM STILL IN LOVE WITH HIM.

I MEAN, I CAN'T FALL
OUT OF LOVE WITH HIM...

JUST THAT FAST.

A LOT OF THINGS STILL COULD
BE TRUE WITH WILLIAMS.

SO, UNTIL I'M A 100% SURE
THAT HE'S DECEIVING ME,

THEN I STILL FEEL
THE WAY I FEEL ABOUT HIM.

THE MAGIC OF LOVE IS ‐‐
IT'S JUST WONDERFUL.

I LOVE THE FEELING

THAT LOVING SOMEONE GIVES YOU.

EVEN THOUGH MY KIDS BELIEVE
THAT HE IS CATFISHING ME,

MY HEART IS TELLING ME,

YOU KNOW,
JUST TO STILL TRUST HIM

AND JUST TO HEAR HIM OUT.

I DEFINITELY STILL WANT TO GO
TO ENGLAND TO MEET HIM.

WE CAN TALK AND, YOU KNOW,

JUST FINALLY SEE EACH OTHER.

I THINK IT'LL MAKE
A WORLD OF A DIFFERENCE

FROM US SEEING EACH OTHER
FACE‐TO‐FACE.

HE'S WILLIAMS.

AND HE'S THE MAN
I FELL IN LOVE WITH,

AND I WANT TO SEE THAT IN PERSON

AND SEE IT FOR MYSELF.

LAST NIGHT, ROSE AND I
GOT INTO A BIG FIGHT

BECAUSE I DIDN'T TELL HER
BEFORE I CAME ON THIS TRIP

THAT I DON'T WANT MORE KIDS.

AND THEN THIS MORNING,
SHE TOLD ME IT'S OVER.

I LOVE ROSE,

AND I DON'T WANT
OUR RELATIONSHIP

TO END LIKE THIS.

SO, I'M GONNA GO
BACK TO OUR ROOM

AND SEE IF SHE'LL TALK TO ME.

SHE'S GONE.
HER STUFF'S GONE.

SHE'S REALLY GONE.

SHE SAID SHE WANTED TO LEAVE,

BUT SHE DIDN'T EVEN SAY GOODBYE.

IT JUST HIT ME.

I FAILED...

AGAIN.

28 YEARS IS A LONG TIME

TO BE SINGLE,

AND THEN YOU FIND SOMETHING
THAT YOU THINK IS REAL...

TO LATER FIND OUT
THAT IT'S NOT.

I KNOW THAT
IT'S OVER WITH ROSE.

SO, I NEED TO TRY TO PUT
MY LIFE BACK TOGETHER.

I WANT TO REACH OUT
TO MY DAUGHTER, TIFFANY.

I WANT HER TO KNOW

THAT THIS WAS ABOUT
ME FOLLOWING MY HEART.

IT WAS ABOUT ME TRYING
TO FIND LOVE FOR ME.

AND IN THE END...

YOU KNOW, I GET NOTHING.

SO I'M GOING BACK TO MANILA,

AND THEN FROM MANILA
BACK TO SAN DIEGO.

TO THE AIRPORT.

RAISING MY DAUGHTER.

THAT'S THE ONE THING

I'M MOST PROUD OF...

AND THAT'S PROBABLY
THE ONE THING I THREW AWAY,

FOR ME TO BE HAPPY,

BECAUSE I TOOK A CHANCE IN LOVE.

I REALLY THOUGHT
THAT ROSE WAS THE ONE.

I WANTED TO BELIEVE SO BADLY

THAT IT WAS REAL.

BUT I WAS ‐‐

I WAS WRONG.

HI.

I DON'T KNOW IF THIS
RELATIONSHIP IS SALVAGEABLE,

BUT I LOVE HER.

YOU SAID THAT YOU
WANTED TO TALK,

SO...

HERE WE ARE.

YESTERDAY,

I BROKE UP WITH ERICA.

AFTERWARDS,
I ENDED UP TAKING A TAXI

TO GO BACK TO ADELAIDE
THREE HOURS AWAY

BECAUSE MY FLIGHT TO THE US

LEAVES FROM HERE TOMORROW,

AND IT DIDN'T MAKE SENSE TO STAY
IN PORT AUGUSTA WITHOUT ERIKA.

BUT NOW I'M JUST
REALLY CONFUSED.

ALRIGHT.
LET'S GO SEE.

I TEXTED ERIKA TO SEE
IF SHE WOULD MEET UP WITH ME.

AND THANKFULLY, SHE AGREED.

I DON'T KNOW IF THIS
RELATIONSHIP IS SALVAGEABLE,

BUT I LOVE HER,

AND IT WAS NEVER MY INTENTION

TO HURT HER.

I JUST HOPE THAT
SHE'S WILLING TO LISTEN TO ME.

HI.

HI!

SO HOW'S IT GOING?

NOT THE BEST.

YOU SAID THAT YOU
WANTED TO TALK,

SO...

I GUESS HERE WE ARE.

I'VE DRIVEN THREE HOURS

TO TALK TO STEPH AGAIN

BECAUSE SHE'S IMPORTANT TO ME,

BUT I PUT MY HEART ON THE LINE
FOR STEPH.

I CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS.

I WAS PREPARED TO RISK
SO MUCH FOR HER,

BUT SHE REALLY HURT ME,

AND I DON'T KNOW
IF I CAN COME BACK FROM THAT.

SO...

THIS TRIP HAS HAD
ITS GOOD MOMENTS,

BUT IT'S OBVIOUSLY HAD

SOME NOT‐SO‐GREAT MOMENTS,
AS WELL.

BUT IF THERE'S ANY WAY
THAT I CAN LEAVE HERE,

AND WE NOT LEAVE
ON SUCH A BAD NOTE,

THEN...

I WOULD LIKE THAT.

WE'VE HAD A LOT
OF APOLOGIES

OVER THE PAST
COUPLE OF WEEKS,

AND I JUST FEEL LIKE
IT'S BEEN, REALLY...

JUST AN ABSOLUTE MESS,

AND IT'S REALLY HARD
TO, LIKE...

EVEN THINK ABOUT
BEING ON GOOD TERMS.

I TOOK A STEP
THAT YOU WOULDN'T EVEN TAKE.

I CAME OUT TO MY PARENTS,

BECAUSE I BELIEVED
THAT, YOU KNOW...

IT'S REALLY.

ALL I CAN DO HERE TODAY
IS APOLOGIZE.

I STILL HAVE THESE
CRAZY INSECURITY

AND JEALOUSY ISSUES
THAT I NEED TO WORK ON,

AND I FEEL REALLY TERRIBLE

THAT I BROUGHT THAT
INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP.

THE POINT ISN'T, LIKE,

YOU EXPLAINING TO ME
THESE THINGS,

IT'S LIKE,
YOU SHOULD'VE TOLD ME

ABOUT ANY INSECURITIES YOU HAVE
ABOUT MY LIFE,

OR, LIKE, WHO I AM
AS A PERSON,

BEFORE YOU DECIDED
TO JUMP ON A PLANE.

LIKE...

YOU NEED TO FIGURE
OUT YOUR

BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING
LIKE THAT.

MM‐HMM.
THAT'S HUGE.

LIKE, IT'S HUGE, STEPH.

IS THERE ANYTHING ELSE
YOU'D LIKE TO TALK ABOUT?

I THINK I'VE SAID EVERYTHING
THAT I WANT TO SAY.

I JUST DON'T GIVE
A ANYMORE...

OKAY.
TO BE HONEST.

I'M SICK OF ARGUING
ABOUT IT.

I JUST WANT TO FORGET
ANY OF THIS HAPPENED,

BUT UNFORTUNATELY,
I CAN'T,

BECAUSE ALL OF MY FRIENDS
ARE ASKING ME ABOUT IT,

MY PARENTS ARE
ASKING ME ABOUT IT.

I HAVE TO TALK
ABOUT IT.

AND I GET TO GO HOME
AND BE UPSET,

AND I CAN'T TELL ANYBODY WHY,
AND I JUST BOTTLE IT UP.

SO WE'RE BOTH IN
SITUATIONS.

OKAY.

WELL, I REALLY APPRECIATE
YOU COMING HERE

AND TAKING THE TIME.

WELL, REACH OUT
IF YOU EVER WANT TO TALK.

OKAY.

I WISH THIS TRIP
WENT DIFFERENTLY.

I WISH THAT I HAD
THE PERFECT TRIP THAT I WANTED

WITH THE PERSON
THAT I FELL IN LOVE WITH

SO INSANELY ONLINE.

BUT IT'S OVER.

VARYA'S BEEN
HARD TO GET OVER...

BUT I WANT TO FIND HAPPINESS,

AND I WANT SOMEBODY TO FIND
THAT HAPPINESS WITH ME.

SO I JUST HOPE THINGS
GO GREAT TONIGHT.

HI.

HI.

OH, AMAZING.
I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU GO.

OH, MY GOD.

MM.

OH, MY GOD.

THAT'S HER.

THAT IS HER.

OH, MY GOD.

OH.

MM!

OH, WOW.

OOH.

OH, MY GOD.

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT.

WHY?

"WHY?"

HMM.

IT'S BEEN
JUST OVER THREE WEEKS

THAT I'VE BEEN BACK IN TENNESSEE
FROM RUSSIA.

VARYA'S BEEN
CONSTANTLY TEXTING ME,

AND I'VE BEEN AVOIDING HER

BECAUSE SHE ALREADY TOLD ME NO
WHEN I ASKED HER TO MARRY ME,

AND I DON'T WANT TO INVEST
ANYTHING ELSE INTO THIS.

IT STILL HURTS.

AND RIGHT NOW, I WANT TO PUT
THAT WHOLE SITUATION BEHIND ME.

SO TONIGHT,

I'M TAKING MARY
TO A NICE DINNER.

WHEN I LEFT RUSSIA,

IT WAS KIND OF DEPRESSING,

BUT I JUST DON'T THINK THAT
I SHOULD HOLD BACK ANYMORE.

I THINK THAT I SHOULD

REALLY EXPLORE WHAT'S
OUT THERE FOR ME.

WHILE I WAS HERE WITH MARY,

SHE ACTUALLY SAID, YOU KNOW,
"WHY NOT ME?" YOU KNOW?

WHY RUSSIA?

WHY ARE YOU EVEN GOING THERE
INSTEAD OF HERE,

2 FEET FROM YOU?

WHY AM I NOT
GOOD ENOUGH?

AND SO WHEN I CAME BACK,
WE TALKED AND HUNG OUT,

AND I THINK THAT WE'RE
POTENTIALLY GOING SOMEWHERE,

SO I'M EXCITED ABOUT IT.

MARY IS A VERY SPECIAL PERSON
TO ME.

SHE KNOWS ME REALLY WELL.

I MEAN, WE HAVE
A HISTORY TOGETHER.

THINGS DIDN'T WORK OUT
IN THE PAST.

WE WEREN'T ON THE SAME TIMELINE,

BUT I TRULY FEEL, THIS TIME,
IT COULD BE DIFFERENT.

OH, NO NOT AT ALL.

I KNOW SHE STILL
HAS FEELINGS FOR ME,

BUT I WASN'T GONNA BE
IN AN IFFY RELATIONSHIP.

YOU KNOW, I FEEL THAT...

YOU'RE GOING TO PUT YOURSELF
IN A SITUATION,

YOU PUT IT ALL IN THERE,

AND THAT'S WHAT I WAS DOING,

AND I DON'T FEEL LIKE
I WAS GETTING ALL BACK FROM HER.

WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEBODY,
YOU PUT YOUR HEART OUT THERE,

YOU CAN'T JUST AUTOMATICALLY
FORGET ABOUT THEM,

BUT I WANT TO FIND HAPPINESS,

AND I WANT SOMEBODY TO FIND
THAT HAPPINESS WITH ME.

I REALLY DO SEE A FUTURE
WITH MARY.

SO, I'M HOPING THE CLOSER
THAT I GET WITH HER,

I'LL NATURALLY START FORGETTING

THESE FEELINGS
THAT I HAD FOR VARYA.

HI.
HI.

I WAS JUST ABOUT
TO CALL YOU.

HI.
LATE AS I SEE.

THANK YOU, AS ALWAYS.
HOW ARE YOU?

I'M WELL.
HOW ARE YOU?

DOING WELL.
GOOD.

THANK YOU.
THEY'RE PRETTY.

IT'S A LITTLE COZY,
AS THEY SAY.

IT IS.
IT'S NICE.

THANK YOU.
YOU'RE WELCOME.

I KNOW THAT GEOFFREY
PROPOSED IN RUSSIA,

BUT AS SOON AS HE GOT BACK,
WE STARTED HANGING OUT,

AND IT FEELS RIGHT.

I MEAN, THIS HAS BEEN
SOME YEARS IN THE MAKING.

THIS ISN'T OVERNIGHT.

SO I'M EXCITED.

YOU LOOK SO NICE.

THANK YOU.
YOU LOOK BETTER THAN I DO.

WELL, THANK YOU.

BUT I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE

HE'S AS IN AS I AM.

HOW ARE THINGS?
HOW HAVE THINGS BEEN?

I'M GOOD.

I WAS LEGIT EXCITED
FOR TONIGHT.

DO YOU KNOW HOW LONG IT'S BEEN
SINCE I'VE HAD A TIE ON?

I KNOW.

THIS IS ACTUALLY
A PRETTY SPECIAL MOMENT FOR ME.

YOU LOOK SO HANDSOME.

I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THAT.
YOU LOOK GREAT!

I ACTUALLY FEEL REALLY SPECIAL
THAT YOU DRESSED UP.

YEAH, THAT'S WHAT I WANTED.

ANYWAY...

ARE YOU SEEING OTHER PEOPLE,
OR YOU...?

NO, I'M NOT.
I DON'T KNOW.

I'VE NEVER ASKED YOU
THAT QUESTION,

SO IT'S KIND OF ‐‐

I'M ACTUALLY SURPRISED
THAT YOU HAVEN'T ASKED ME.

THAT'S THE POINT
THAT I'M GETTING AT.

I DO NOT WANT TO ‐‐

I DON'T WANT TO UP
OUR FRIENDSHIP.

I CAN HONESTLY SAY
THAT I WANT YOU

AS A LIFE PARTNER
OR AS A FRIEND FOREVER.

WHAT WOULD YOU RATHER
BETWEEN US,

AS FAR AS STAYING
THE LEVEL WE ARE AS...

FRIENDS,

OR A RELATIONSHIP?

LIKE, A REAL,
LEGIT RELATIONSHIP?

I WOULD LIKE
A RELATIONSHIP.

I WOULDN'T BE HERE ‐‐
ALRIGHT.

LET'S AGREE THAT
THAT'S GONNA BE THE ‐‐

ON ONE CONDITION.

SEE, I KNEW THAT IT WAS GONNA BE
A "BUT" TO THIS.

ONE CONDITION.
WHAT IS THE "BUT"?

DO YOU STILL TALK TO HER?

DO YOU STILL
TALK TO VARYA?

NO, I DO NOT.

OKAY.

I MEAN, THERE'S NO...

THERE'S NO DAY‐TO‐DAY
CONVERSATION?

NO, THERE'S NOT.
ABSOLUTELY NOT. UNH‐UNH.

SHE'S ON THE OTHER SIDE
OF THE WORLD.

AND I TOLD HER WHEN I LEFT,
"I'M MOVING ON WITH MY LIFE.

I AM DONE."

SO YOU HAVE NO PLANS
TO MOVE FORWARD WITH HER?

NO. NONE.

ZERO. MNM‐MNM.

I REALLY FEEL GOOD
ABOUT THIS.

I SEE MYSELF WITH YOU.

I'M WILLING TO PROVE TO YOU,
HOWEVER I NEED TO PROVE TO YOU,

TO KEEP THIS GOING

IN THE DIRECTION
THAT WE'RE GOING,

BECAUSE I LIKE THIS DIRECTION,
AND IT FEELS RIGHT.

IT FEELS GOOD.

OKAY.

TO OUR FUTURE.

TO OUR FUTURE.

I CAN UNDERSTAND
HER REASONING

FOR ASKING THESE QUESTIONS,

AND I THINK IT'S IMPORTANT
TO BE HONEST

AND CONTINUE TO BE
HONEST WITH HER.

I REALLY CARE ABOUT MARY.

WE'RE HAVING A GOOD TIME,
AND I'M HAPPY.

MAYBE I DIDN'T NEED TO GO ALL
THE WAY TO RUSSIA TO FIND LOVE.

MAYBE MARY IS MY LIFE PARTNER.

COME ON.
GOOD JOB.

TAJ OBVIOUSLY
LOVES HIS DAD,

AND THE LAST THING I WANT
TO DO IS CREATE ISSUES...

SO FILING THE K‐1 VISA
MAY NOT BE IN OUR FUTURE.

ALRIGHT, BABE.
LET'S GO, BABY.

ASH AND I PLAN TO RETURN

TO MELBOURNE TONIGHT.

BUT BEFORE WE GO BACK,

WE'RE GONNA BE SPENDING
QUALITY TIME

WITH HIS SON, TAJ, TODAY.

OH, YEAH.
I KNOW.

I'M EXCITED TO ACTUALLY
SPEND TIME WITH TAJ TODAY

BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH ASH WON'T
BE ABLE TO MOVE TO AMERICA

FULL‐TIME ANYTIME SOON,

WE STILL NEED TO TAKE
INTO CONSIDERATION

HOW OUR RELATIONSHIP
IS GOING TO AFFECT TAJ.

I JUST WANT HIM TO BE ABLE

TO FEEL OKAY
WITH THIS NEW DYNAMIC

AND THIS NEW SITUATION

THAT'S BEING INTRODUCED
INTO HIS LIFE.

HELLO, PAPA.
HI, SWEETHEART.

HOW YOU'RE DOING?

GOOD.

DO YOU WANT
TO GIVE HER A HUG?

HI, TAJ!

LET'S GO
TO THE PARK.

LET'S GO, BABY.

TO MAKE THINGS WORK,

I WILL HAVE TO BE DOING
A LITTLE BIT OF TRAVELING

TO THE STATES
BACK TO AUSTRALIA...

THAT'S THE LAKE.
OH, MY GOSH.

IT'S SO PRETTY HERE.

YEAH.

I'VE GOT TO RETHINK ABOUT IF
IT'S OKAY TO MOVE FORWARD.

COME ON.
CHOP CHOP.

WATCH YOUR STEP.

ALRIGHT.
LEAD THE WAY, TAJ.

YES.

‐OOH!
‐OOF!

YEAH.

TELL AVERY THE OTHER TIME,
WHEN WE WERE IN THE CAR,

AND THERE WAS A CAR BEHIND US,
AND THE MOTOR WAS REVVING,

AND THEN YOU'RE LIKE,
"OH, THAT'S A GTI."

WOW.

NO, I SAW IT.

WHICH ONE WAS IT?
I SAW IT.

NO, I SAW.

A SOL? S‐O‐L?
OH, YOU SAW IT?

YOU SAW IT.
SORRY, SWEETIE.

SO I KNEW.

YOU KNEW IT, OKAY,
MIGHT MAKE SENSE NOW.

TAJ, CAN YOU SKIP ROCKS?
YEAH.

OKAY. LET'S DO THAT.
SOMETIMES.

WATCH THIS.

JUST TRY NOT TO HIT THE DUCKS.
OH, YEAH.

I SHOULD PROBABLY
GO THIS WAY.

SO, YOU GOT
TO GO REALLY LOW.

OKAY.
LET'S DO THIS.

‐OH, WOW!
‐OH, WOW.

‐YOU DID WELL.
‐DID YOU GUYS SEE THAT?

AS A PARENT MYSELF,

I KNOW THAT IT'S A LITTLE BIT
HARD TO READ CHILDREN,

BUT I DEFINITELY FEEL LIKE TAJ
IS KIND OF WARMING UP TO ME,

AND I'M LOVING SPENDING
THIS TIME WITH BOTH OF THEM.

‐OH, YOU DID WELL.
‐THAT WAS REALLY GOOD!

I MEAN, TAJ OBVIOUSLY
LOVES HIS DAD SO MUCH,

BUT IT'S A LITTLE BIT

BITTERSWEET SEEING
THEM TOGETHER...

BECAUSE IF ASH WERE TO COME

TO AMERICA TO BE WITH ME

FOR LONGER PERIODS OF TIME,

HE WOULD HAVE TO SPEND TIME
AWAY FROM TAJ.

AND THE LAST THING I WANT
TO DO IS CREATE ISSUES

BETWEEN A PARENT
AND THEIR CHILD.

JUMP OUT, BABY.

BYE, TAJ.

I'LL SEE YOU IN A FEW DAYS,
YEAH.

AWW, THAT'S GOOD.

I LOVE TAJ, AS WELL.

I'M JUST IN
THAT WEIRD PHASE

BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE
THERE'S CHALLENGES,

BUT I ONLY HAVE
A COUPLE OF DAYS LEFT HERE.

YEAH.

AND NOW I'M, LIKE,
REALLY WORRIED ABOUT

WHEN I LEAVE YOU,

BECAUSE NOW THAT
WE HAVE ACTUALLY

BEEN TOGETHER
IN PERSON,

I JUST KNOW I'M GONNA REALLY,
REALLY, REALLY MISS YOU.

LIKE, REALLY MISS YOU.

I CAME TO AUSTRALIA
HOPING TO GET ENGAGED TO HIM.

BUT EVEN THOUGH HIM
AND I HAVE SO MUCH LOVE

AND SO MUCH PASSION
FOR EACH OTHER,

THIS IS A REALLY
COMPLICATED SITUATION.

AND FILING THE K‐1 VISA
MAY NOT BE IN OUR FUTURE.

WE HAVE A LOT TO FIGURE OUT
BEFORE I LEAVE.

YOU REMEMBER MARY, RIGHT?

YES.

KIND OF BEEN GOING OUT WITH HER
A COUPLE TIMES.

IS THAT WHERE
YOU'VE BEEN GOING?

THINGS ARE GOING
PRETTY WELL.

YOU KNOW,
WE'RE BOTH LOOKING FOR A FUTURE,

AND I THINK THAT
WE HAVE A CHANCE NOW.

SURPRISE!

YESTERDAY STEPH AND I
HAD A BIG FIGHT

AND WE BROKE UP,

BUT STEPH AND I MET
IN ADELAIDE EARLIER

BECAUSE SHE SAID THAT
SHE WANTED TO TALK.

IT DID NOT GO WELL.

THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER.

BUT MY FEELINGS FOR STEPH
WERE VERY STRONG.

SO RIGHT NOW IT'S
REALLY HURTFUL AND CONFUSING.

‐HEY, WHAT'S UP?
‐HEY.

WHAT'S GOING ON?

UM, THINGS ARE REALLY BAD
WITH STEPH,

LIKE, REALLY BAD.

WHY? WHAT'S HAPPENED?

UM, WELL, I TRIED TO TALK TO HER
A LITTLE ABOUT, LIKE, HOW

IT UPSETS ME THAT SHE MAY NEVER,
LIKE, COME OUT

TO HER MOM AND STUFF.

SHE JUST KIND OF FLIPPED OUT.

SHE SAID THAT I WAS HIDING
THINGS AND WHATEVER,

AND IT JUST SPIRALED,
LIKE, REALLY QUICKLY.

‐OH, THAT'S NO GOOD.
‐IT WAS PRETTY BAD.

YEAH, WELL YOU DON'T NEED
TO BE A PART OF THAT.

YEAH. SHE'S ACTING LIKE SHE
DOESN'T KNOW THE TYPE OF PERSON

THAT I AM, WHEN I'M PRETTY
MUCH AN OPEN BOOK.

AND I JUST FEEL LIKE
SHE'S JUST BEEN, LIKE,

‐PLAYING WITH MY FEELINGS...
‐YEAH.

THIS WHOLE TIME.

SO, WHAT'S YOUR STATUS WITH
STEPH AT THE MINUTE?

ARE YOU JUST HAVING A LITTLE
REST FOR THE DAY,

OR IS IT OVER
OR WHAT?

‐NO I THINK ‐‐
‐WHAT IS YOUR PLAN?

I THINK I'M DONE.

LIKE, I FEEL LIKE
IT'S ALWAYS ME.

LIKE, GIVING SO MUCH
OF MYSELF AND LIKE ‐‐

THAT'S BECAUSE OF YOUR
BEAUTIFUL SOUL ERIKA.

I JUST WANT THE PEOPLE THAT
I CARE ABOUT TO BE HAPPY,

AND, LIKE, THAT'S WHAT
I'VE BEEN TRYING.

LIKE, I'VE HAD SO MANY RED FLAGS
IN THE PAST COUPLE WEEKS,

BUT I'VE JUST CHOSEN TO
SEE THE BEST IN HER,

AND, LIKE...
‐YEAH.

TRY AND WORK WITH HER
TO MAKE IT BETTER,

SO THAT SHE CAN BE HAPPY.

BUT IT'S BECOME CLEAR
TO ME THAT

SHE'S NOT READY FOR ANY
KIND OF RELATIONSHIP,

BECAUSE SHE'S GOT HER OWN
THAT SHE NEEDS

TO WORK THROUGH.
‐YEAH.

I'M REALLY FRUSTRATED BECAUSE
I TOOK A REALLY BIG STEP

WITH YOU AND DAD, AND IT FEELS
LIKE IT'S FOR NOTHING BECAUSE...

WELL, IT'S NOT FOR ANYTHING
BECAUSE I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU

BEEN ABLE TO COME HOME
AND TALK TO ME ABOUT IT.

THINGS HAVEN'T GONE THE WAY
THAT THEY HOPED

HER AND STEPH WOULD GO,

BUT THANKFULLY WE HAVE A GOOD
RELATIONSHIP THAT SHE WAS ABLE

TO TALK TO ME.

WE'VE NEVER EVER JUDGED HER
ON ANYTHING SHE'S CHOSEN TO DO.

WE'VE ALWAYS SUPPORTED HER.

MY MAIN CONCERN IS
ERIKA'S HAPPINESS.

I WOULD HATE TO SEE HER
GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP

WHERE SHE'S NOT HAPPY.

YOU HAVE TO LOOK AFTER YOURSELF.

BY THE END OF THE DAY,
I THINK YOU'RE DOING

THE RIGHT THING.

YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT
COMPLIMENTS YOU

AND SEES YOU FOR
WHAT YOU ARE ‐‐

THAT CARING, NURTURING
PERSON THAT WE ALL SEE.

DO YOU NEED A HUG?

‐MAYBE.
‐COME ON.

‐ COME TO MOM.
‐ MOM, DON'T BE WEIRD!

EVEN THOUGH STEPH AND I
DIDN'T WORK OUT,

IT REALLY MEANT A LOT TO ME
THAT I COULD TALK TO MY MOM

ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP,
AND I CAN GO INTO THE FUTURE

BEING 100% MYSELF WITH ALL OF
THE PEOPLE IN MY LIFE,

ESPECIALLY MY PARENTS.

IT'S BEEN NICE GETTING BACK INTO
MY LITTLE COUNTRY LIFESTYLE.

I'VE GOT A FEW
SKID MARKS, DAD.

WHEN I WAS IN RUSSIA,

I REALLY MISSED
DAKOTA AND PAXTON.

SO, IT'S NICE TO GET BACK
WITH MY BOYS AND HANG OUT

AND, YOU KNOW,
HAVE A GOOD TIME WITH THEM.

I'VE ALSO BEEN
SPENDING TIME WITH MARY,

AND WE'VE BEEN DOING
RATHER WELL.

BUT MOVING FROM A FRIENDSHIP
TO A RELATIONSHIP,

IT'S DIFFERENT, YOU KNOW?

IT'S FRESH.

YOU KNOW,
IT FEELS COMFORTABLE.

IT FEELS NORMAL, YOU KNOW?

AND I LOVE IT.

I WANT MORE OF IT,
AT THIS POINT.

YOU REMEMBER MARY,
RIGHT?

YES.
YEAH.

SO, I'VE KIND OF BEEN

GOING OUT WITH HER
A COUPLE OF TIMES.

IS THAT WHERE
YOU'VE BEEN GOING?

I'M HAPPY
FOR MY DAD.

IT GIVES HIM...
SOMEONE ELSE TO TALK TO.

IT GIVES HIM SOMEONE ELSE
TO TALK TO,

SOMEONE ELSE
TO RELATE TO.

AND I THINK THIS
IS GONNA BE REALLY GOOD FOR HIM.

YOU'VE BEEN
TALKING TO VARYA?

SHE'S REACHED OUT,
BUT, YOU KNOW,

I'M NOT REALLY

INTO WASTING TIME,
AND THAT'S WHAT I ‐‐

IT KIND OF IS.

YEAH.

AND I'M OKAY WITH THAT.

I MEAN,
I PUT EVERYTHING IN IT,

AND I DON'T THINK
I GOT EVERYTHING BACK.

DOES SHE KNOW
ABOUT MARY?

NO.

I'M JUST TRYING TO LIVE LIFE
TO ITS FULLEST.

I DO WANT
TO HAVE SOMEBODY.

YOU KNOW,
I'M INDEPENDENT.

I CAN LIVE BY MYSELF
THE REST OF MY LIFE,

I CAN BE THE BIGGEST
HERMIT EVER,

BUT I DON'T WANT TO BE,
YOU KNOW?

IT'S ALL ABOUT WANT
FOR ME NOW,

AND I WANT MARY.

RIGHT NOW,
I'M GONNA FOCUS ON MARY

BECAUSE TIMING IS RIGHT.

YOU KNOW, WE'RE BOTH
LOOKING FOR A FUTURE,

AND I THINK THAT
WE HAVE A CHANCE NOW.

ALRIGHT. YOU WANT TO FINISH
RACING ONTO FOUR‐WHEELER?

YES.

ALRIGHT.
LET'S ROLL.

‐I GET TO DRIVE THIS TIME.
‐YEAH, YOU SURE YOU CAN DRIVE?

SURPRISE!

I WANT TO GET GEOFFREY BACK,
BUT...

I'M HERE FOR GEOFFREY.

HI.
HOW ARE YOU?

YES, I'M SURE.

THAT'S GONNA BE
THE ROOM NUMBER THERE.

THE ELEVATOR'S RIGHT AROUND
THIS CORNER.

YOU'RE WELCOME.

BYE.

OH, AMAZING.
I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU GO.

HEY!

WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO?
I'M LEAVING.

I DON'T NEED
YOUR BULL.

I DON'T NEED YOU.

I HAVE NEVER BEEN
THIS IRATE AND HURT IN MY LIFE.

YOU'RE NOT GONNA MISTREAT ME.

HEY!

WHAT? WHAT?

I'M LEAVING.

I DON'T NEED
YOUR BULL.

I DON'T NEED
YOUR WHORES.

I DON'T NEED YOU.

YOU KNOW THAT.

I HAVE NEVER BEEN THIS
IRATE AND HURT IN MY LIFE.

YOU KNOW,
IF I WAS IN MY HOME COUNTRY,

I WOULD'VE CHANGED
MY PHONE NUMBER ALREADY,

BUT I DO LOVE THIS MAN.

AND AFTER ALL THE TIME THAT
USMAN AND I HAVE BEEN TOGETHER,

I'M WILLING TO LISTEN TO HIM.

YOU UP
WITH THIS BITCH.

I SEE IT CLEAR AS DAY.

YOU CAN SIT HERE
AND DO THE SONG AND DANCE

AND BLOW SMOKE UP EVERYONE'S ASS
IN THE RESTAURANT,

BUT I'M NOT BUYING IT,
USMAN.

NO, NO, NO.
IT HAS NOTHING ‐‐

NO! IT HAS NOTHING
TO DO WITH COMMANDING.

IT'S CALLED RESPECT
AND COMMUNICATION.

IF YOU THINK YOU NEED
TO GO PUT YOUR

IN SOME STRANGE,
GO RIGHT AHEAD.

YOU KNOW, YOU MIGHT AS WELL HAVE
JUST STUCK A KNIFE IN MY HEART

WHEN I FOUND THAT
ON YOUR PHONE, REALLY.

YOU HAVE NO IDEA
HOW MUCH YOU HURT ME.

I'M HURT,
AND I'M PISSED OFF,

AND I HAVE
EVERY RIGHT TO BE.

THAT WOULD BE LIKE YOU
JUMPING IN MY PHONE,

AND YOU SEE THAT I'M TELLING
SOME DUDE THAT I LOVE HIM.

NOT COOL.

I HAVE BEEN
CHEATED ON BEFORE,

AND THERE'S ALWAYS
THAT FEAR IN MY MIND, IS,

ARE YOU GONNA CHEAT ON ME
LIKE THE OTHERS?

BE PATIENT.

DESPITE ALL
THE BULL DRAMA

BETWEEN USMAN AND I,

I DO LOVE USMAN MORE THAN LIFE,

AND I BELIEVE HIM WHEN HE SAYS
THIS WOMAN IS NOTHING TO HIM.

BUT I DON'T THINK
USMAN'S EVER HAD A WOMAN

EVER PUT HIM IN HIS PLACE,

AND I AM THAT WOMAN
WHO HAS JUMPED UP AND SAID,

"HEY, YOU'RE NOT
GONNA MISTREAT ME."

OH, MY GOD.

THAT'S HER.

THAT IS HER.

OH, MY GOSH.

OH, WOW.

OH.
IT IS COLD.

YES.
LOOK AT YOU.

OH, MY GOD.

WOW.

WE HAVE TO GET
OUT OF THIS COLD.

OH!

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT.

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT.

WHY?

"WHY?"

OH, YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFUL.

OH, MY GOD.

OH.

OH, WOW.

I CAN'T BELIEVE
YOU'RE HERE.

I CAN'T BELIEVE I'M WITH YOU
RIGHT NOW.

ME SEEING HER AT THE POINT
THAT I SAW HER,

AND THEN ACTUALLY
HER WALKING UP,

AND THEN AT ONE POINT

WHEN I FULLY RECOGNIZED HER
AND KNEW IT WAS HER.

THAT WAS JUST WONDERFUL.

IT COULDN'T HAVE BEEN BETTER.

I FELT LIKE
I JUST FOUND LOVE.

I HAVE
THE TRANSLATOR APP HERE.

UM...

DA. DA. DA.

UH, SHE SAYS,

"FINALLY AT LAST WE MEET."

OH, IT FEELS SO GOOD.
I CAN'T BELIEVE IT.

SEVEN YEARS, SHE'S HERE.

MM!

OH, AMAZING.
I DON'T WANT TO LET YOU GO.

OH, GOD.

IT'S COLD.

WE NEED TO GO SOMEWHERE
TO BE WARM.

OH!

IT'S TOO COLD
TO BE OUT HERE.

OH, GOD.

I CAN'T BELIEVE
YOU'RE HERE.

WOW.

OH!

HOLD ON.

NOTHING IN THE PAST
EVEN MATTERS.

THE TIMES THAT
SHE DIDN'T MEET BEFORE,

SHE HAD REASONS.

THIS TIME, THERE WAS NO REASON.

THIS TIME, SHE'S HERE.

IT'S TIME TO START MY LIFE.

IT'S TIME TO START
OUR LIFE TOGETHER.

MM.

I ‐‐

LET'S GO BACK AND GET HER.

THIS IS GREAT.

OOH!

UGH!

SO, WHAT IS
GOING ON?

AWW!

REALLY? WELL,
WELCOME TO AMERICA.

THANK YOU.

IS IT YOUR FIRST TIME?

YES.
IT'S MY FIRST TIME.

IT REMINDS ME OF SIBERIA.

BUT I JUST SEE HOUSES,

TREES.

UH‐HUH.

REALLY?
YES.

CONGRATULATIONS.

OH, NO!

WELL, THERE'S ALWAYS
SECOND CHANCES.

OH!

WE ARE ALMOST THERE.

YES.

GOOD LUCK.
YOU'RE GONNA BE FINE.

YOU'RE GONNA BE FINE.

AAH!

OH.

AAH!

UGH!

HEY! HI!

OH, MY GOSH.

AAAH!

WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

I'M REALLY SURPRISED,
ACTUALLY.

AWW.

UM...

YEAH.

NEXT TIME ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

DID YOU MEET
ERIKA'S FAMILY?

YES. HER...

MOM AND HER DAD.

MY MOM KNOWS ME
BETTER THAN ANYBODY,

AND SHE KNOWS
THERE'S SOMETHING NOT RIGHT.

I CAN'T BELIEVE
I'M GONNA BE LEAVING TOMORROW.

I WANT TO MARRY YOU.

OH, MY GOD!

TEDDY BEAR!

THERE'S SO MUCH
I HAVE TO TELL YOU.

HOW'S ROSE?

I HAD THE BEST
CHANCE AT LOVE,

AND I SCREWED UP,

BUT THERE'S A BIG PART OF ME

THAT HOPES ROSE WILL
TALK TO ME AGAIN.

IT'S BULL.

I DON'T CARE WHAT
OUR PROBLEMS ARE,

HE SHOULD HAVE PROPOSED BY NOW.

I HAVE SOMETHING
TO TELL YOU.

I HIRED A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR
TO FIND YOU.

I DID NOT KNOW
SHE WAS COMING.

YOU'RE THE ONE
IN THE WRONG HERE.

HOLD ON A SECOND ‐‐

DON'T YELL AT ‐‐