Catfish: The TV Show (2012–…): Season 4, Episode 17 - Andria & David - full transcript
David is the only love Andria has ever known. His passionate love letters and voice messages have a way of making Andria stay. But having never met after 10 years, Andria needs to know what David is hiding that keeps him away.
>> Can you tell I'm nervous?
I know, like,
what I'm about to face,
but I still don't.
>> This is your moment
to finally get all the answers
after ten years of not knowing.
>> Ten long years.
>> Yeah, let's do it.
[suspenseful music]
*
[knock at door]
*
[knock at door]
*
This guy is torturing her.
This week, Max had to go back
to California to film
his awesome movie
coming out, We Are Your Friends.
I'm out here on the road.
Max is gonna meet up
with us tomorrow,
but to get things started, we're
gonna just video chat him in.
Hello.
Wow, Max,
you got a real director's chair.
>> Action!
I feel terrible
that I can't be there,
and I feel even worse
that everyone's gonna
have to be subjected
to your bad camera work.
>> It's not so bad, actually.
No, but look.
I got an email here,
and the subject
is "12 going on 21."
"Dear Nev and Max,
my name is Andria.
I'm 21 years old,
and I live in St. Louis,
Missouri.
I've been in an
on-and-off relationship
for almost ten years
with a guy named David Walker
from Chicago, Illinois."
Wait.
This is crazy if this
is what I think it is--
if they've been talking
for ten years and never met.
She was in St. Louis.
He was in Chicago.
>> That is not far at all.
>> She said, "I met him
when I was in middle school
on a social media
website called Bebo."
>> * I came to see the future
>> "We were both young
at the time.
I had just gotten
my first cell phone,
so I gave David my number."
>> * I understand you now
>> "We immediately hit it off,
and I couldn't
get enough of him."
>> * I understand you now
>> "David is a few years older
than me, so it was exciting
to have an older guy
calling me at that time.
We grew closer and developed
stronger feelings
for one another."
>> * I understand you now
* Yes, I do
* I understand you now
* Yes, I do
* I understand you now
>> "I grew so attached to him
because he was always someone
I could go to.
We became boyfriend
and girlfriend,
but the excuses and failed
attempts at meeting each other
had built up too much.
I've reached my breaking point."
And this is all caps.
"I really need you guys.
Please, help me find out
who this man is."
>> Wow.
>> This is crazy, and they met
when they were really young.
This may be
the longest relationship
we've ever had on the show.
I think we should get Andria
on the phone.
>> Get her on the horn.
>> Here we go.
[phone line trilling]
>> Hey.
>> Hey.
So we just read your email.
Pretty intense.
Tell us a little bit
about yourself.
>> I'm a preschool teacher.
I teach the ages of two to six.
>> And so you met this guy
when you were how old?
Like, at 12 or 11?
>> Yep, pretty much.
I was in sixth grade.
He was older, and that's
what made it exciting.
That's what made it fun.
>> For the last ten years,
it's been almost all the time.
>> Mm-hmm. All the time.
Always texting,
always talking on the phone.
When we're texting or when
we're on the phone, like,
nothing else around me matters.
Basically grew up together.
>> He's already a part
of your entire history.
>> Yeah, basically.
He is my history.
>> Yeah.
>> He had been there for me
since forever,
if I was going through stuff
with family or personal issues.
Like, I actually
had a miscarriage last year,
and he was there for me
through that.
>> Wow, and this guy's helped
you through all of that?
>> Yeah, he's always there.
I always can call on him.
I mean, he's not gonna
never just ignore me.
He knows everything.
>> Does he consider you
his girlfriend?
>> Yeah, he does, and he talks
about getting married
and starting a family
and everything.
He talks about it all,
but he got to get here first.
>> And when you ask him
to video chat, what does he say?
>> Nope, he doesn't have
a smart phone,
and he's just not gonna do it.
It's always an excuse.
I had threatened, "I'm just
gonna put you on Catfish."
I'm hopeful
that he is who he say he is,
but it's kind of like,
"Tell me the truth,
so I can move on."
I need some help.
>> And we're the only guys
who can do it.
>> So that's what we're
gonna do.
>> Yay.
>> Let's all met in St. Louis
tomorrow,
and we'll get this catfish
on the line,
and we'll reel him in.
>> All right, let's get him in.
>> Reel him in.
>> Bye, guys.
Let's go.
Off to St. Louis.
>> * Say it like you mean it
* Say it like you do
* She like the way it move
>> Here we are.
*
Hello.
>> both: Hey.
>> Hi. How are you?
>> Hi. All right.
>> Nice to meet you.
>> You too.
I can't believe y'all here.
>> Let's get inside.
>> We're shivering
with excitement.
>> Oh, my God,
did you just move in?
>> Yeah.
>> Is this your first place?
>> Mm-hmm, yeah.
>> Wow. Congratulations.
>> Thank you.
>> You need some decor.
We'll get there.
>> I do.
[laughter]
>> [grunts]
>> You play too much.
>> All right, cool.
>> Let's turn back the clock.
>> Yeah.
You're 12.
You're talking to this guy,
David.
>> It was exciting.
You kind of have to understand,
this is the first person
I told I love.
I gave all of my time
and everything to this person,
and even now, I still would.
No matter what, I always
will have him to lean on.
>> Were there any situations
where you, like,
were really heartbroken?
>> He was supposed
to be here for Christmas.
When he was on his way here, he
got pulled over by the police,
and they arrested him
for contraband in his car.
Now, he's on house arrest.
>> That's so weird.
>> I stopped going to school.
He was actually supposed
to come get me,
and we were supposed
to start this life.
>> When was this?
We missed that.
>> This--it was this semester.
>> Just this last semester?
>> Mm-hmm, just spring.
>> He said, "I want you
to come to Chicago."
>> He's coming down here
to get me.
>> So you're not in school
right now.
>> Mm-mm, no.
>> Because of him?
>> Yeah.
>> But why are you
still giving this guy your--
your time and your love?
>> It's just hard
to get rid of it and just act
like it never happened.
I can't just lock it up
in a cage.
I want it.
>> Al right.
Well, I'm so curious.
Do you--what photos do you have
of this person?
All right, so these--this is
a picture of when he first
sent you pictures in an email.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> And I can see why you
thought, like,
"This is a really cute guy.
I'm into him."
Then?
>> I told him,
"I'm gonna put you on Catfish,"
and then he said,
"You want to Skype, or you
want me to send pictures?"
He was like, "I'm Geo.
I'm a female.
I'm sorry that I hurt you."
>> What?
He texted you, and it was these?
Okay, so it was this one...
>> Yeah.
>> Which is...
>> Wow.
>> Pretty clearly a woman
smoking, and then
this weird photo.
>> That's really disturbing.
>> It looks like
the same person.
>> Yeah.
>> I said, "If you gonna
send me pictures, I want
you to send me a picture
with my name on it."
>> So David sent you this,
saying, "Sorry, Andria."
What's this?
>> He just randomly
sent me that.
>> So randomly, you also got
a picture of an
Illinois driver's license...
>> Wow.
>> Of the girl.
So this seems pretty legit.
>> And with a name
and an address.
>> Christina [bleep].
>> And the letters he sent
me has that address on there,
but that's supposedly
his mom's address.
>> Date of birth--
>> Wait. He sent you letters?
>> Mm-hmm.
>> What did it say?
>> It's over there, actually,
if you want to read it.
>> Yeah, I want to see it.
>> Okay.
>> Whoa.
"What's up?
I miss you like crazy.
I haven't heard you tell me
you love me in so long
or that you missed me.
I haven't felt it, neither.
I just want to be wanted
or loved, and I hate
how you take that away.
Just got to be the best man
that I can be for you,
but I'm being real."
Wow, that's, like, a--I mean,
a really passionate love letter.
What did you think
when you read that?
>> To be honest, I was kind of
surprised that he even sent it.
>> This is--oh,
is there something in here?
>> Yeah, it's the same thing.
>> Oh, "I love you, baby.
I wish I was next to you,
on top of you, [bleep] of you."
Oh, wow.
>> What is that?
>> Just--is that an outline of--
>> It's hard to even--
>> Did he just lay it down
on a table
and, like, trace it?
Is that what that is?
>> That looks like
what that's supposed to be.
>> I know, right?
All right.
But all kidding aside...
>> Uh-huh?
>> We've entered
into a whole new level
of catfish correspondence here.
So this is interesting.
And it's the same address.
>> No self-respecting catfish
puts their return address
on an envelope.
>> Yeah.
>> This person wants
to be found.
>> I don't feel like I have
been talking to a woman.
The person I've been
talking to sounds like a dude.
Do you want to hear
the voice mails?
>> Sure.
>> Yeah.
Let's hear this voice mail.
>> Wow.
Is he always so emotional?
>> Mm-hmm.
>> I think that that could be
a woman.
We don't know anything
for sure right now,
and we're gonna
do some investigating
and find things out, but I think
you got to start making space
for the possibility
that this could be that woman.
>> He couldn't do that to me.
You know?
>> We're gonna figure this out.
All right?
>> Okay. Yep.
>> both: All right.
>> We'll talk to you
in a little bit.
>> Okay, I'll see you.
>> Good night.
>> This is a serious story.
Oh, man.
When you see it and you feel her
wanting this relationship so bad
and not being able to let go
of it, like, it really
comes through.
>> But like,
it's probably that woman.
I mean,
she sent her a driver's license.
>> Well, if nothing, that proves
that that person's at least
a part of the story.
Still a lot of questions
to get answers to.
>> Did you hear a knock
at the door?
>> I did hear a knock
at the door.
>> I wasn't expecting guests.
Let me just freshen up.
>> The parlor, here.
>> Hello?
Oh...all right.
We got work to do.
This is yours.
>> All right. Recap.
>> Andria met a guy named David
Walker she's been dreaming of
and in love
with the last ten years.
>> He won't Skype or video chat.
Then, a few months ago,
David says,
"You should drop out of school
and come live with me."
David never shows up.
She's so annoyed
and upset that she says,
"I'm gonna bring you on Catfish.
We're gonna get to the bottom
of it," at which point,
he freaks out
and says, "No, no, no, no.
Don't do that,"
and sends her pictures,
and he says,
"This is who I really am,
a woman named Christina."
>> And a photo holding up a
piece of paper that says,
"Sorry, Andria."
>> When we listened to the voice
mail that David left her,
we both agreed that it could be
a woman's voice.
>> Definitely.
>> So that leaves us
with a strong hunch
that David is probably
this woman,
Christina, from Chicago.
>> I mean,
I think it's more than a hunch.
She has to let go of the fantasy
that she's been
living for the last ten years.
This guy is torturing her.
So here's what we got.
Here's the pictures
of Christina.
>> What the [bleep]?
That is really freaky.
>> I bet you
she works at a hospital.
>> She could be a nurse.
>> Yeah.
I mean, that's what's crazy.
This is the address.
>> There it all is.
>> And the address
on the driver's license
matches the return address
that they put on the letter.
>> Correct. This is pretty
conclusive evidence.
>> I agree.
>> But all right.
>> All right, so she's got
David Walker's phone number.
First thing's first.
Let's search
David Walker's cell phone number
and see what we get.
>> Not much.
>> Nothing, really.
All right, let's run this email
that Andria's been talking to.
Geostain?
>> Geostain.
>> Geostain.
>> What do we got?
Possible match.
>> Oh, boy.
>> "Gender: female."
>> Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Open link.
>> both: Whoa!
>> We got it.
>> Got it.
Look, pictures. Oh!
This is the picture she sent.
>> That's--yeah, we found her.
That's Christina.
>> "I leave stains in life.
If you met me, you met me real."
>> #realRealizingreal.
The key word is "real,"
which is ironic.
>> Yikes.
So now, what do we do, Max?
Because I think we've proven
that Christina is Geostain,
and Geostain is David.
>> And David is Christina.
>> So I mean, I--
>> Case closed.
>> Right, but now, we can say
to Andria, "There is no David."
>> "This is who you've been
talking to within 98%
certainty."
>> Or more.
Andria has poured her heart
out for the past ten years
to this person.
Christina may not have any real
regard for her feelings.
If she really cared for her,
why would she put her
through this for ten years?
Maybe she doesn't.
That could be the most
heartbreaking part of all.
We've got to present
all of this to Andria,
and she's got to accept it
and come to grips with it.
>> Come to grips with it.
>> It's gonna be a tough blow.
>> Hi, Andria?
>> Hey, Andria.
Where are you?
>> All right, great.
See you in a second.
>> Bye.
>> For the last ten years,
she's done a pretty good job
of convincing herself
that somehow this is
all gonna work out
and everything's gonna be okay.
>> But it's not.
>> But it's not.
>> Nope.
>> And today,
she's got to face the music.
>> This is like finding out
the person you've been married
to for the last ten years
is not who they said they were.
>> It's gonna be tough.
Oh, you brought a friend.
>> How do you guys
know each other?
>> We met in middle school,
sixth grade.
>> For the past ten years,
you've been an eyewitness
to everything
that David put Andria though.
>> Like, some nights,
when we would try to go out
and go have fun,
David would ruin it.
>> Yeah, he's just gonna
blow my phone up, nonstop.
I can wake up to,
like, 25 to 30,
like, missed calls.
>> Wow.
>> 25 to 30?
>> I have before.
>> That's--that's really
intense.
>> Yep, with a voice mail
after every phone call.
>> What about the most
recent photos of the girl?
>> I don't think
it's that person.
>> You saw those, right?
>> Yes, but I don't think
it's that person either.
>> Why--what?
>> Because of the voice.
>> Right.
You've talked to David?
>> Yes.
>> Right.
>> Multiple times.
And there was one time
I tried to have a heart-to-heart
to get David to really come,
but David flipped it
and put it on her.
I just want her to get
her answers and her closure--
whatever she needs.
And I really
want her to move on.
>> Max and I did our sort
of investigation,
and we found some things
that are pretty significant that
we want to talk about with you,
and if it's okay,
Camille can stay,
and we can go over this
together.
>> Okay.
>> Do it as a group.
>> Let's do it.
>> You've been through a lot
the last ten years.
You're ready to move on.
I think we may have
some answers for you
that might help you do that.
So a few years ago,
you got an email from Geostain.
>> So we did a Google search...
>> Right.
>> For Geostain.
>> And the first thing that
comes up is a Facebook page.
[somber music]
*
There are pictures here
of the same girl in the pictures
that David texted you.
*
>> Geo is Christina [bleep].
*
>> And Christina [bleep]
is David.
*
>> [stammers]
Like...
like, I don't even know how to--
How do you,
like, put words to that?
>> I think it's time to really
start accepting that this guy,
who even sent you pictures of
a woman and said, "This is me.
I'm Geo," that's who that is.
*
>> It's just frustrating.
*
I never, like,
told lies or nothing.
*
I just don't get it.
Don't make sense.
>> I do believe that she
probably means a lot of what
she says, but she definitely
hasn't been honest with you.
>> * With my love
* I can't win *
*
* Can't let him go *
* Can't let him go *
* Can't let him go *
*
>> I mean,
I know this is a shock.
Meeting this person might be
something you should do.
>> I also don't think
you're gonna believe it
until you get a confession.
>> It just don't make--
I just don't get it.
It just never crossed my mind.
>> I could call and tell her
we know what's up.
Are you okay with that?
>> You're shell-shocked.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm cool with that.
>> Okay, we'll just
do this once and for all.
>> Let's take a break
for a second.
>> Yeah, let's just take--
let's just take a minute.
[somber music]
*
[phone line trilling]
*
>> Yeah, hi.
Who am I speaking with?
Oh, yeah.
This is Nev from the show,
Catfish.
>> I'm shivering.
>> You probably know
why I'm calling.
I'm here with Andria.
Now, we're pretty confident that
you're Christina, aka David.
She'd like to get a chance
to finally meet the person
she's been talking to.
>> As you can imagine,
she's taking it pretty hard.
She's definitely upset
and confused,
but still wants to meet you.
>> Max, it's been ten years.
Like--
>> And we knew
that it was something off.
Like, we knew,
and we tried to rule out
all the possibilities,
and being a woman was one.
Like, we were like, "No,
it's--it can't be a girl."
>> I don't like it.
>> You guys have been talking
since you were teenagers,
and that's not something
that just goes away.
Like,
she wants to meet the person
that she's been
talking to all these years.
>> But let me know soon,
because you know,
she's been waiting ten years,
and I don't really think
she deserves to have
to wait that much longer.
All right, so I'll look forward
to hearing back from you soon,
okay?
All right, bye.
>> All right, let's go back in.
*
>> You all right?
>> Yep.
>> I did just get off the phone
with Geo.
I explained
that we're here with you.
We just showed you everything
we know.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> And basically, all of that
was just me getting to,
"So do you think
we can come and meet you?"
She didn't have an answer
for me.
She was sort of freaked out
by that idea,
which we already know,
because she spent
the last ten years avoiding it.
>> Right.
>> But she said she would think
about it and let me know.
But we do know where she lives.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> We don't need to wait
for her to say, "Thumbs up,"
to get on a plane and fly up
to Chicago tomorrow morning.
Whether she likes it or not,
I don't really think it matters.
>> No, I just need to be
at her front door.
>> Right.
>> Yeah, she owes you that much.
>> Right.
>> I just need to be there,
front and center.
Let's do it.
[suspenseful music]
*
>> The Windy City.
>> This is really weird.
Like, I have never been anywhere
but Texas and Atlanta.
[cell phone vibrates]
>> Max, check this for me?
I think I got a text message.
>> From David.
"I am willing to meet up
with Andria and you guys..."
>> Wow.
>> "But it won't be easy."
>> Have you really accepted
that this guy
you've been talking to
for ten years is actually Geo?
>> I've accepted that.
Like, I still have to see
her talk and move
at the same time.
>> This is your moment
to finally get all the answers
after ten years of not knowing.
>> I know, like,
what I'm about to face,
but I still don't know.
>> Let's do it.
*
>> Okay.
Here goes nothing.
[knocks on door]
*
Hello.
>> Hello. How you doing?
>> How you doing?
>> I'm good.
>> You want to come down?
Hmm.
Let's go.
Christina?
>> Christina.
How you doing?
>> I'm all right.
>> That's good.
>> How are you?
>> I'm all right.
>> Well, obviously,
this is a little awkward.
>> It is.
>> We've spent the last few days
with Andria,
hearing what happened
from 12 years old till now.
It's been ten years...
>> Right.
>> That you've been pretending
to be someone else.
>> Yeah.
>> A guy.
>> Yeah.
>> Kind of would like
to know your side of things.
>> It started off totally as
a joke.
A bet, really--$25 bet.
>> $25?
>> I was, like--
was in sixth grade or something,
like, 12, 13.
Just saw her.
And I don't know.
I just saw the picture
of her--a girl--a young girl.
I asked for her number
or whatever.
>> At that time,
were you attracted to girls?
Was it a romantic--
>> Yeah, I've been all--
I've been--all my whole life,
I've been attracted to females.
>> Okay.
>> Do you have kind
of a full concept
of what she's been
through on her side?
>> I'm sure she's been
through a lot.
>> Yeah, I mean, you put her
through a lot of hoops.
>> Yeah, a whole lot.
>> She keeps on jumping through.
>> I know.
>> You told her that you had
some trouble with the law.
>> Is that why you've been
on house arrest?
>> My house arrest?
I probably did tell you
I was on house arrest.
>> Yeah, you told me a lot.
>> She's now taken a semester
off of school to be with you
because she believed
that you were in love with her.
But you didn't mean that?
>> Basically.
>> Why not just pull the plug
on it?
>> She was there for me.
>> Well, what was
this relationship for you?
>> I mean, it was a bond.
That's it, that's all.
>> It was a what?
>> A bond.
That's it, really.
It was just somebody that I
could just get away and talk to.
That's all.
'Cause I don't really,
you know, have friends much.
>> But it was something
for so long, though.
I mean, now, you're just saying,
like, it was just a friendship
and you was just talking to me
when you couldn't talk
to nobody else.
We talked every day, all day.
>> But I mean, on my end,
she don't know me.
I'm not--I mean, like I just
said, it was a bond.
>> I been knowing you
for this long.
What do you mean?
That don't even make no sense.
>> I didn't take it
to the heart.
Even us telling each other
that we love each other,
all that, it wasn't--
>> You never meant that?
>> I mean, I meant that.
As a human being,
I wouldn't want nothing
to happen to you,
but I'm not in love with you.
So I'll leave it alone.
>> You never left it alone.
Calling, texting,
crying on the voice mail.
>> It just don't make sense
to me.
It don't.
Because you could cry
until you fell asleep
if I didn't answer the phone,
or you would tell me you love me
until I'm blue in the face.
Why with me for ten years?
I'm just--
>> Because I didn't have
that bond with nobody else
for ten years.
Now, I didn't have--
I don't have no one else
that I call a friend.
If I was, like, really--
you know, really wanted you,
I would've told you,
"This is me,
and I'm in love with you,
and this is who--"
I didn't feel that way.
I--you know what I'm saying?
I'm being real and being honest.
>> I don't buy it. I don't--
>> I know it's messed up.
>> Well, I don't buy that.
That's so heartless.
You were just so needy,
and you don't have anyone else
to talk to,
and you don't care
about her feelings
or how you're affecting
her or [bleep] her over
or wasting her life because
you're like a little baby
and need to cry--
you need to cry to her?
>> I care about her feelings.
>> Not really.
Come on, man.
This is like getting in a fight
with someone in kindergarten.
You're like,
"I-I was never friends
with you anyway."
>> No.
>> Yeah.
It feels like that immature.
Like, "When I told you
I loved you?
That was fake."
I saw the letter.
>> Yeah, I have a letter
she wrote me too.
>> That thing was--that thing
was written with passion.
You can't fake that.
>> [laughs]
I was about to say thank you,
'cause I mean, I'm telling you,
like--
>> That was fake.
That was a fake love letter?
>> I mean, yeah, but--
>> I don't believe that.
>> Well, it's not our--
>> No, it's not our place.
But I'm just saying,
I know that's not true.
>> Well, I mean,
but that's the point.
It wasn't even for me to believe
or y'all to believe.
It was written
for her to actually believe.
She believed it at that moment.
>> Because you wanted to make
sure she stayed dedicated
to being your close friend.
>> Basically.
>> I just feel like it's full
of [bleep].
>> Don't sit up here
and get mad at me over something
that you did also.
She lied to me too.
>> When did I lie?
>> At first, you was telling me
you was another female...
>> No, I wasn't. You said--
>> With blond hair, a white
girl.
>> A white girl?
>> So what you're saying--when
you first met Andria, you
thought she looked like
something else?
>> Yeah, she was sending me
pictures of another female.
>> I was in sixth grade.
How I'm even fixing to know
to make up somebody's picture
and put it up there?
That don't even make no sense.
>> The same reason
how I'm able to do it.
>> Okay, that was you.
That ain't me.
>> Guys, it's hard to know
what you're telling the truth
about and what you're not
telling the truth about,
because you kept...
>> Not really if you just--
>> You kept some big, big lies
going for ten years.
>> At the end of the day,
there's certain things that I
was telling her the truth,
and there's certain things that
I wasn't telling her the truth.
That's all.
>> Well, look.
It's the end of a very long,
played-out game for both of you.
So maybe we talk more tomorrow,
but--
>> I don't know.
I don't think it's no reason to.
>> Well, let's just--we'll play
it by ear, see how we feel.
>> All right.
>> See ya.
*
>> Now we know who it is.
We got to talk
about something else.
Why have you been in
this relationship for ten years?
*
[knock at door]
>> all: Hey.
>> What's up?
>> How are you?
>> How'd you sleep?
>> Good.
>> You stayed in this
relationship a very long time.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> I don't know that
there's, you know, anything good
that can come from you guys
staying in touch anymore.
Like--
>> Yeah, I just feel like I--
now, it's more of,
like, a good-bye.
>> All right,
let's call Christina
and see where she is at.
[phone line trilling]
>> Yeah, hey, Christina.
>> Hey, it's Nev, good morning.
Maybe today,
we can all sit down and talk
a little bit more calmly
and figure some things out.
>> Yeah, you know what
I'm saying?
Like...
>> I--
>> Let's just meet up and end
things on, you know, good terms.
>> That's just the kind of stuff
that just makes me mad
all over again.
>> I mean,
she seems to have lied a lot,
but if you were also
faking your picture,
if there's any validity
to the story
that Christina's telling,
then we got to know that
because that needs
to be represented.
>> Is any of that true about her
thinking you were someone else?
>> No, only 'cause I just
made the profile page
to find that person on MySpace,
and that's when they did not
accept me as a friend.
>> So you made a MySpace profile
of someone else...
>> Yeah.
>> To try and friend
David, 'cause you didn't want
him to know it was you.
>> To friend David.
And they didn't accept me.
Mm-hmm, and they didn't accept
me as the friend or anything.
>> Right.
Mm-hmm.
No, it was my--it was my name.
I don't know.
>> It would make sense to me
that you would find
a David Walker profile,
and because David told you
he never had social media,
you would create a fake profile
to befriend him.
>> With a fake name.
>> Right.
>> And have you kept
that profile up?
>> Nope, that profile is not up.
>> And did you ever say to her,
"Hey, I've been
lying to you about my pictures"?
>> Yeah, that's when I had
stopped the MySpace page.
It was not that far along from
when we had first met.
>> So when she's saying that she
thought you were someone else
for the first eight years.
>> That was that MySpace.
It has not--I got emails.
Like, it has not--
it was a long time ago
when I first made
that MySpace page.
>> For the last nine years,
have you been sending
her pictures of you?
>> Mm-hmm.
Of the--
>> Of you?
>> Yes.
>> So we are completely
confused by this,
and to be perfectly honest,
it doesn't really matter.
>> This tit for tat,
you know, "You lied.
I lied." Like--
>> It's really annoying.
>> You haven't been clear
or communicating with each other
in any kind
of functional, honest way
from the very beginning, so I
feel like all the more reason
why today should be some kind
of an ending.
So let's text her, then.
Let's go downstairs.
There's a room
we can use to meet with her.
>> Okay.
>> Let's see if we can get
to the bottom of this
decade-long catfish mystery.
>> This episode of Catfish:
The TV Show continues now.
>> I do think there's something
for you to learn from this,
which is that a lot of this has
been your responsibility also.
Like, you played along
in the relationship.
You put up with stuff too long.
>> Right.
>> Let's go in there and see
how it goes.
Where is she?
[knocks on door]
>> All right, so look.
Yesterday was not the best way
to sort of first meet
someone that you've been
talking to for this long,
but there's no reason
that you two can't acknowledge
what this is, what it's been,
and hopefully, move forward
in positive new directions.
>> I do want to start off
by saying that I did have
some fault in all these years.
I don't want you to feel
like I just came at you
and just was stepping all
over you, 'cause that ain't--
that's not what I came down here
for at all.
I did want to meet you because
I've given you most of my life.
It's been a long time.
>> First of all,
I'm gonna say I'm sorry.
I apologize for--
you know what I'm saying?
I was just bogus.
But I don't accept your apology,
but, yeah, okay.
>> Why don't you
accept my apology?
>> Because, like, you
don't even know what you did.
How can you apologize
for something that you
don't even know what you did?
You gonna point fingers at me?
Point one back at yourself.
Like, if I'm being real
with you, be real with me, man.
If I'm apologizing
and telling you I was wrong,
you should do the same thing,
especially when
you know you was wrong and know
your issues and the problems
and the situations
we was in or whatever, man,
and learn from your mistakes,
for real, 'cause,
like, you was bogus.
I was too.
>> Okay. I don't--I--
>> Say it.
>> I just--I--
it's just the same thing
like it has been all this time.
>> You want the apology
to be your way.
You want everything
to be your way, but it's not.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm just gonna sit here
and leave it at that.
I apologize, man.
That's it, that's all.
>> It just seemed like it all
started off on the wrong foot.
From--she got a different story.
I got a different story.
>> You guys are both to blame
for staying in this thing
for ten years.
>> Yeah, but we weren't telling
each other we love each other.
>> You did send that letter.
>> Yeah.
>> You took the time to really
write a long love letter.
>> Yeah, 'cause she asked me to.
>> Suggests that maybe--
>> She asked me to.
She was like, "Can you
write back to my letter?"
>> You were just pretending?
Just totally pretending?
>> I was just pretending.
>> That is pretty messed up.
>> It is.
>> You guys are not gonna agree
on how you got to this point.
>> No, we're not.
>> I mean, at the end of
the day, we still was together
for this long of a time.
>> Right, but--right.
But for Christina,
you were not together.
>> Yeah, right.
>> And so...
>> We was just friends.
>> She's been looking
at this relationship
very differently
than you have for a long time.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> Now I think it's sad that you
say that you have no friends.
I mean, I'm just saying--
>> I never said
I didn't have no friends.
I said I didn't have no friends
that I have a bond with
that I had with her.
>> Yeah, but you--
>> You can replay it on me,
but that's exactly what I said.
>> Well, you said that she
was your only close friend,
and that everyone else
was an associate.
>> That I have a bond with.
>> All right.
I can see how talking to you
is frustrating.
>> Yeah.
>> Because these little
technicalities
change from day to day.
>> I never said I
don't have no friends at all.
>> That is the impression
you gave yesterday,
and that's why you stayed
in this relationship so long,
because she was the only
friend--whatever, bond--
person you had a bond with...
>> Okay.
>> That you had, and it was so
important to you to keep that.
You kept it going, and you said
things you didn't mean,
and you fake cried,
and all that stuff.
>> That was the impression,
not what I said.
>> No, That's what you
[bleep] said.
>> All right, you just said
that was my impression.
I mean, you're saying
this is what you--
>> I stand 100% behind Andria.
I think that you're full
of [bleep].
I seriously
doubted Andria, 'cause you made
us doubt her story.
But I think that you turn
everything around on people.
I think your story
changed a million times,
and you're just
twisting it all around to have
your version of the story
so you don't look as guilty
as you probably are.
>> Okay, but who cares?
Tell me that.
>> I don't think
that she deserves
someone like you in her life.
>> I don't want to be
in her life no more,
so you just wasted five minutes
of my life, so...
>> You've wasted
ten years of hers.
>> Wow.
>> That's hers--hers--Andria.
>> Sure, sure.
>> What's your name again?
>> Max.
>> Okay, right.
So go [bleep].
>> You just proved how you've
manipulated her for the last
ten years in the last, like,
three minutes with me.
>> I feel as if I didn't have
no relationship with her.
It was just a friendship.
I still stand by that.
>> I call BS on you.
>> Okay, that's your opinion.
>> Yep.
>> Let's go.
>> All right, well,
then let's go.
>> * Dusk is rolling in
* Ooh
* Dusk is rolling in
>> See ya.
>> * Ooh
* Dusk is rolling in
>> I did doubt you,
and after that, I get it.
I get it.
>> * It rolls, it rolls
>> I have been apologizing
to her for the longest time,
and it still was always
like a slap in the face.
>> It's okay.
>> It's done now.
[upbeat music]
*
[phone line trilling]
>> both: Hey!
>> Hey.
>> How you doing?
>> Good.
Start school again in August,
so...
>> Congratulations.
That's great.
I'm really happy to hear that.
>> Thanks, I'm gonna try.
>> Yeah.
What's going on with Geo?
>> She sent me this long text
message that week--
how sorry she was
about what she said on the show.
>> You actually kind
of texted me what she said.
>> Yep.
>> Basically said to you
that she does still
have strong feelings for you.
>> Yeah.
>> She does still want
to be with you.
>> Every morning, I've been
getting a text message.
I kind of replied,
like, "I'm still uncomfortable
with this situation."
I don't--there's not nothing
I can really say.
>> This is the same thing
that's basically been
happening for the last ten years
with this girl.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> You need to just,
like, shut it down, because...
>> Completely.
>> This girl plays mind games.
>> Nice seeing you.
>> Bye.
>> Nice to see you too, Andria.
[phone line trilling]
>> Hello.
>> Hey, what's up?
>> Hey, how you doing?
>> Now that you've had
a little bit of time to think
about everything that happened,
have you and Andria
had a chance to talk?
>> We haven't been in contact.
You know,
I really don't want to.
That's all.
Nothing hasn't really changed.
That's all.
I'm done with it.
>> Is there anything, like,
maybe that you feel like you
learned from all this?
>> Yeah.
Now, be more open.
>> Well, we just wanted to check
in and see how you were doing,
and I hope everything
goes well for you, and...
>> Same to you.
>> Maybe we'll see you soon.
>> All right.
Have a beautiful life.
>> All right, you too.
>> Good luck. Bye.
>> See ya.
>> Lies. More lies.
>> "We developed a bond
that was something
you dream about in the movies."
>> He wrote me
and was like, "I have a feeling
that you're somewhere
you're not supposed to be."
It made me feel like, "Oh,
my God, is she watching me?"
>> It's her.
They're all her.
She's keeping tabs on you.
>> I have no idea
who she could even be.
I don't know
what she's capable of.
>> The lies end now.
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00:41:05.
I know, like,
what I'm about to face,
but I still don't.
>> This is your moment
to finally get all the answers
after ten years of not knowing.
>> Ten long years.
>> Yeah, let's do it.
[suspenseful music]
*
[knock at door]
*
[knock at door]
*
This guy is torturing her.
This week, Max had to go back
to California to film
his awesome movie
coming out, We Are Your Friends.
I'm out here on the road.
Max is gonna meet up
with us tomorrow,
but to get things started, we're
gonna just video chat him in.
Hello.
Wow, Max,
you got a real director's chair.
>> Action!
I feel terrible
that I can't be there,
and I feel even worse
that everyone's gonna
have to be subjected
to your bad camera work.
>> It's not so bad, actually.
No, but look.
I got an email here,
and the subject
is "12 going on 21."
"Dear Nev and Max,
my name is Andria.
I'm 21 years old,
and I live in St. Louis,
Missouri.
I've been in an
on-and-off relationship
for almost ten years
with a guy named David Walker
from Chicago, Illinois."
Wait.
This is crazy if this
is what I think it is--
if they've been talking
for ten years and never met.
She was in St. Louis.
He was in Chicago.
>> That is not far at all.
>> She said, "I met him
when I was in middle school
on a social media
website called Bebo."
>> * I came to see the future
>> "We were both young
at the time.
I had just gotten
my first cell phone,
so I gave David my number."
>> * I understand you now
>> "We immediately hit it off,
and I couldn't
get enough of him."
>> * I understand you now
>> "David is a few years older
than me, so it was exciting
to have an older guy
calling me at that time.
We grew closer and developed
stronger feelings
for one another."
>> * I understand you now
* Yes, I do
* I understand you now
* Yes, I do
* I understand you now
>> "I grew so attached to him
because he was always someone
I could go to.
We became boyfriend
and girlfriend,
but the excuses and failed
attempts at meeting each other
had built up too much.
I've reached my breaking point."
And this is all caps.
"I really need you guys.
Please, help me find out
who this man is."
>> Wow.
>> This is crazy, and they met
when they were really young.
This may be
the longest relationship
we've ever had on the show.
I think we should get Andria
on the phone.
>> Get her on the horn.
>> Here we go.
[phone line trilling]
>> Hey.
>> Hey.
So we just read your email.
Pretty intense.
Tell us a little bit
about yourself.
>> I'm a preschool teacher.
I teach the ages of two to six.
>> And so you met this guy
when you were how old?
Like, at 12 or 11?
>> Yep, pretty much.
I was in sixth grade.
He was older, and that's
what made it exciting.
That's what made it fun.
>> For the last ten years,
it's been almost all the time.
>> Mm-hmm. All the time.
Always texting,
always talking on the phone.
When we're texting or when
we're on the phone, like,
nothing else around me matters.
Basically grew up together.
>> He's already a part
of your entire history.
>> Yeah, basically.
He is my history.
>> Yeah.
>> He had been there for me
since forever,
if I was going through stuff
with family or personal issues.
Like, I actually
had a miscarriage last year,
and he was there for me
through that.
>> Wow, and this guy's helped
you through all of that?
>> Yeah, he's always there.
I always can call on him.
I mean, he's not gonna
never just ignore me.
He knows everything.
>> Does he consider you
his girlfriend?
>> Yeah, he does, and he talks
about getting married
and starting a family
and everything.
He talks about it all,
but he got to get here first.
>> And when you ask him
to video chat, what does he say?
>> Nope, he doesn't have
a smart phone,
and he's just not gonna do it.
It's always an excuse.
I had threatened, "I'm just
gonna put you on Catfish."
I'm hopeful
that he is who he say he is,
but it's kind of like,
"Tell me the truth,
so I can move on."
I need some help.
>> And we're the only guys
who can do it.
>> So that's what we're
gonna do.
>> Yay.
>> Let's all met in St. Louis
tomorrow,
and we'll get this catfish
on the line,
and we'll reel him in.
>> All right, let's get him in.
>> Reel him in.
>> Bye, guys.
Let's go.
Off to St. Louis.
>> * Say it like you mean it
* Say it like you do
* She like the way it move
>> Here we are.
*
Hello.
>> both: Hey.
>> Hi. How are you?
>> Hi. All right.
>> Nice to meet you.
>> You too.
I can't believe y'all here.
>> Let's get inside.
>> We're shivering
with excitement.
>> Oh, my God,
did you just move in?
>> Yeah.
>> Is this your first place?
>> Mm-hmm, yeah.
>> Wow. Congratulations.
>> Thank you.
>> You need some decor.
We'll get there.
>> I do.
[laughter]
>> [grunts]
>> You play too much.
>> All right, cool.
>> Let's turn back the clock.
>> Yeah.
You're 12.
You're talking to this guy,
David.
>> It was exciting.
You kind of have to understand,
this is the first person
I told I love.
I gave all of my time
and everything to this person,
and even now, I still would.
No matter what, I always
will have him to lean on.
>> Were there any situations
where you, like,
were really heartbroken?
>> He was supposed
to be here for Christmas.
When he was on his way here, he
got pulled over by the police,
and they arrested him
for contraband in his car.
Now, he's on house arrest.
>> That's so weird.
>> I stopped going to school.
He was actually supposed
to come get me,
and we were supposed
to start this life.
>> When was this?
We missed that.
>> This--it was this semester.
>> Just this last semester?
>> Mm-hmm, just spring.
>> He said, "I want you
to come to Chicago."
>> He's coming down here
to get me.
>> So you're not in school
right now.
>> Mm-mm, no.
>> Because of him?
>> Yeah.
>> But why are you
still giving this guy your--
your time and your love?
>> It's just hard
to get rid of it and just act
like it never happened.
I can't just lock it up
in a cage.
I want it.
>> Al right.
Well, I'm so curious.
Do you--what photos do you have
of this person?
All right, so these--this is
a picture of when he first
sent you pictures in an email.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> And I can see why you
thought, like,
"This is a really cute guy.
I'm into him."
Then?
>> I told him,
"I'm gonna put you on Catfish,"
and then he said,
"You want to Skype, or you
want me to send pictures?"
He was like, "I'm Geo.
I'm a female.
I'm sorry that I hurt you."
>> What?
He texted you, and it was these?
Okay, so it was this one...
>> Yeah.
>> Which is...
>> Wow.
>> Pretty clearly a woman
smoking, and then
this weird photo.
>> That's really disturbing.
>> It looks like
the same person.
>> Yeah.
>> I said, "If you gonna
send me pictures, I want
you to send me a picture
with my name on it."
>> So David sent you this,
saying, "Sorry, Andria."
What's this?
>> He just randomly
sent me that.
>> So randomly, you also got
a picture of an
Illinois driver's license...
>> Wow.
>> Of the girl.
So this seems pretty legit.
>> And with a name
and an address.
>> Christina [bleep].
>> And the letters he sent
me has that address on there,
but that's supposedly
his mom's address.
>> Date of birth--
>> Wait. He sent you letters?
>> Mm-hmm.
>> What did it say?
>> It's over there, actually,
if you want to read it.
>> Yeah, I want to see it.
>> Okay.
>> Whoa.
"What's up?
I miss you like crazy.
I haven't heard you tell me
you love me in so long
or that you missed me.
I haven't felt it, neither.
I just want to be wanted
or loved, and I hate
how you take that away.
Just got to be the best man
that I can be for you,
but I'm being real."
Wow, that's, like, a--I mean,
a really passionate love letter.
What did you think
when you read that?
>> To be honest, I was kind of
surprised that he even sent it.
>> This is--oh,
is there something in here?
>> Yeah, it's the same thing.
>> Oh, "I love you, baby.
I wish I was next to you,
on top of you, [bleep] of you."
Oh, wow.
>> What is that?
>> Just--is that an outline of--
>> It's hard to even--
>> Did he just lay it down
on a table
and, like, trace it?
Is that what that is?
>> That looks like
what that's supposed to be.
>> I know, right?
All right.
But all kidding aside...
>> Uh-huh?
>> We've entered
into a whole new level
of catfish correspondence here.
So this is interesting.
And it's the same address.
>> No self-respecting catfish
puts their return address
on an envelope.
>> Yeah.
>> This person wants
to be found.
>> I don't feel like I have
been talking to a woman.
The person I've been
talking to sounds like a dude.
Do you want to hear
the voice mails?
>> Sure.
>> Yeah.
Let's hear this voice mail.
>> Wow.
Is he always so emotional?
>> Mm-hmm.
>> I think that that could be
a woman.
We don't know anything
for sure right now,
and we're gonna
do some investigating
and find things out, but I think
you got to start making space
for the possibility
that this could be that woman.
>> He couldn't do that to me.
You know?
>> We're gonna figure this out.
All right?
>> Okay. Yep.
>> both: All right.
>> We'll talk to you
in a little bit.
>> Okay, I'll see you.
>> Good night.
>> This is a serious story.
Oh, man.
When you see it and you feel her
wanting this relationship so bad
and not being able to let go
of it, like, it really
comes through.
>> But like,
it's probably that woman.
I mean,
she sent her a driver's license.
>> Well, if nothing, that proves
that that person's at least
a part of the story.
Still a lot of questions
to get answers to.
>> Did you hear a knock
at the door?
>> I did hear a knock
at the door.
>> I wasn't expecting guests.
Let me just freshen up.
>> The parlor, here.
>> Hello?
Oh...all right.
We got work to do.
This is yours.
>> All right. Recap.
>> Andria met a guy named David
Walker she's been dreaming of
and in love
with the last ten years.
>> He won't Skype or video chat.
Then, a few months ago,
David says,
"You should drop out of school
and come live with me."
David never shows up.
She's so annoyed
and upset that she says,
"I'm gonna bring you on Catfish.
We're gonna get to the bottom
of it," at which point,
he freaks out
and says, "No, no, no, no.
Don't do that,"
and sends her pictures,
and he says,
"This is who I really am,
a woman named Christina."
>> And a photo holding up a
piece of paper that says,
"Sorry, Andria."
>> When we listened to the voice
mail that David left her,
we both agreed that it could be
a woman's voice.
>> Definitely.
>> So that leaves us
with a strong hunch
that David is probably
this woman,
Christina, from Chicago.
>> I mean,
I think it's more than a hunch.
She has to let go of the fantasy
that she's been
living for the last ten years.
This guy is torturing her.
So here's what we got.
Here's the pictures
of Christina.
>> What the [bleep]?
That is really freaky.
>> I bet you
she works at a hospital.
>> She could be a nurse.
>> Yeah.
I mean, that's what's crazy.
This is the address.
>> There it all is.
>> And the address
on the driver's license
matches the return address
that they put on the letter.
>> Correct. This is pretty
conclusive evidence.
>> I agree.
>> But all right.
>> All right, so she's got
David Walker's phone number.
First thing's first.
Let's search
David Walker's cell phone number
and see what we get.
>> Not much.
>> Nothing, really.
All right, let's run this email
that Andria's been talking to.
Geostain?
>> Geostain.
>> Geostain.
>> What do we got?
Possible match.
>> Oh, boy.
>> "Gender: female."
>> Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
Open link.
>> both: Whoa!
>> We got it.
>> Got it.
Look, pictures. Oh!
This is the picture she sent.
>> That's--yeah, we found her.
That's Christina.
>> "I leave stains in life.
If you met me, you met me real."
>> #realRealizingreal.
The key word is "real,"
which is ironic.
>> Yikes.
So now, what do we do, Max?
Because I think we've proven
that Christina is Geostain,
and Geostain is David.
>> And David is Christina.
>> So I mean, I--
>> Case closed.
>> Right, but now, we can say
to Andria, "There is no David."
>> "This is who you've been
talking to within 98%
certainty."
>> Or more.
Andria has poured her heart
out for the past ten years
to this person.
Christina may not have any real
regard for her feelings.
If she really cared for her,
why would she put her
through this for ten years?
Maybe she doesn't.
That could be the most
heartbreaking part of all.
We've got to present
all of this to Andria,
and she's got to accept it
and come to grips with it.
>> Come to grips with it.
>> It's gonna be a tough blow.
>> Hi, Andria?
>> Hey, Andria.
Where are you?
>> All right, great.
See you in a second.
>> Bye.
>> For the last ten years,
she's done a pretty good job
of convincing herself
that somehow this is
all gonna work out
and everything's gonna be okay.
>> But it's not.
>> But it's not.
>> Nope.
>> And today,
she's got to face the music.
>> This is like finding out
the person you've been married
to for the last ten years
is not who they said they were.
>> It's gonna be tough.
Oh, you brought a friend.
>> How do you guys
know each other?
>> We met in middle school,
sixth grade.
>> For the past ten years,
you've been an eyewitness
to everything
that David put Andria though.
>> Like, some nights,
when we would try to go out
and go have fun,
David would ruin it.
>> Yeah, he's just gonna
blow my phone up, nonstop.
I can wake up to,
like, 25 to 30,
like, missed calls.
>> Wow.
>> 25 to 30?
>> I have before.
>> That's--that's really
intense.
>> Yep, with a voice mail
after every phone call.
>> What about the most
recent photos of the girl?
>> I don't think
it's that person.
>> You saw those, right?
>> Yes, but I don't think
it's that person either.
>> Why--what?
>> Because of the voice.
>> Right.
You've talked to David?
>> Yes.
>> Right.
>> Multiple times.
And there was one time
I tried to have a heart-to-heart
to get David to really come,
but David flipped it
and put it on her.
I just want her to get
her answers and her closure--
whatever she needs.
And I really
want her to move on.
>> Max and I did our sort
of investigation,
and we found some things
that are pretty significant that
we want to talk about with you,
and if it's okay,
Camille can stay,
and we can go over this
together.
>> Okay.
>> Do it as a group.
>> Let's do it.
>> You've been through a lot
the last ten years.
You're ready to move on.
I think we may have
some answers for you
that might help you do that.
So a few years ago,
you got an email from Geostain.
>> So we did a Google search...
>> Right.
>> For Geostain.
>> And the first thing that
comes up is a Facebook page.
[somber music]
*
There are pictures here
of the same girl in the pictures
that David texted you.
*
>> Geo is Christina [bleep].
*
>> And Christina [bleep]
is David.
*
>> [stammers]
Like...
like, I don't even know how to--
How do you,
like, put words to that?
>> I think it's time to really
start accepting that this guy,
who even sent you pictures of
a woman and said, "This is me.
I'm Geo," that's who that is.
*
>> It's just frustrating.
*
I never, like,
told lies or nothing.
*
I just don't get it.
Don't make sense.
>> I do believe that she
probably means a lot of what
she says, but she definitely
hasn't been honest with you.
>> * With my love
* I can't win *
*
* Can't let him go *
* Can't let him go *
* Can't let him go *
*
>> I mean,
I know this is a shock.
Meeting this person might be
something you should do.
>> I also don't think
you're gonna believe it
until you get a confession.
>> It just don't make--
I just don't get it.
It just never crossed my mind.
>> I could call and tell her
we know what's up.
Are you okay with that?
>> You're shell-shocked.
>> Yeah.
>> I'm cool with that.
>> Okay, we'll just
do this once and for all.
>> Let's take a break
for a second.
>> Yeah, let's just take--
let's just take a minute.
[somber music]
*
[phone line trilling]
*
>> Yeah, hi.
Who am I speaking with?
Oh, yeah.
This is Nev from the show,
Catfish.
>> I'm shivering.
>> You probably know
why I'm calling.
I'm here with Andria.
Now, we're pretty confident that
you're Christina, aka David.
She'd like to get a chance
to finally meet the person
she's been talking to.
>> As you can imagine,
she's taking it pretty hard.
She's definitely upset
and confused,
but still wants to meet you.
>> Max, it's been ten years.
Like--
>> And we knew
that it was something off.
Like, we knew,
and we tried to rule out
all the possibilities,
and being a woman was one.
Like, we were like, "No,
it's--it can't be a girl."
>> I don't like it.
>> You guys have been talking
since you were teenagers,
and that's not something
that just goes away.
Like,
she wants to meet the person
that she's been
talking to all these years.
>> But let me know soon,
because you know,
she's been waiting ten years,
and I don't really think
she deserves to have
to wait that much longer.
All right, so I'll look forward
to hearing back from you soon,
okay?
All right, bye.
>> All right, let's go back in.
*
>> You all right?
>> Yep.
>> I did just get off the phone
with Geo.
I explained
that we're here with you.
We just showed you everything
we know.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> And basically, all of that
was just me getting to,
"So do you think
we can come and meet you?"
She didn't have an answer
for me.
She was sort of freaked out
by that idea,
which we already know,
because she spent
the last ten years avoiding it.
>> Right.
>> But she said she would think
about it and let me know.
But we do know where she lives.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> We don't need to wait
for her to say, "Thumbs up,"
to get on a plane and fly up
to Chicago tomorrow morning.
Whether she likes it or not,
I don't really think it matters.
>> No, I just need to be
at her front door.
>> Right.
>> Yeah, she owes you that much.
>> Right.
>> I just need to be there,
front and center.
Let's do it.
[suspenseful music]
*
>> The Windy City.
>> This is really weird.
Like, I have never been anywhere
but Texas and Atlanta.
[cell phone vibrates]
>> Max, check this for me?
I think I got a text message.
>> From David.
"I am willing to meet up
with Andria and you guys..."
>> Wow.
>> "But it won't be easy."
>> Have you really accepted
that this guy
you've been talking to
for ten years is actually Geo?
>> I've accepted that.
Like, I still have to see
her talk and move
at the same time.
>> This is your moment
to finally get all the answers
after ten years of not knowing.
>> I know, like,
what I'm about to face,
but I still don't know.
>> Let's do it.
*
>> Okay.
Here goes nothing.
[knocks on door]
*
Hello.
>> Hello. How you doing?
>> How you doing?
>> I'm good.
>> You want to come down?
Hmm.
Let's go.
Christina?
>> Christina.
How you doing?
>> I'm all right.
>> That's good.
>> How are you?
>> I'm all right.
>> Well, obviously,
this is a little awkward.
>> It is.
>> We've spent the last few days
with Andria,
hearing what happened
from 12 years old till now.
It's been ten years...
>> Right.
>> That you've been pretending
to be someone else.
>> Yeah.
>> A guy.
>> Yeah.
>> Kind of would like
to know your side of things.
>> It started off totally as
a joke.
A bet, really--$25 bet.
>> $25?
>> I was, like--
was in sixth grade or something,
like, 12, 13.
Just saw her.
And I don't know.
I just saw the picture
of her--a girl--a young girl.
I asked for her number
or whatever.
>> At that time,
were you attracted to girls?
Was it a romantic--
>> Yeah, I've been all--
I've been--all my whole life,
I've been attracted to females.
>> Okay.
>> Do you have kind
of a full concept
of what she's been
through on her side?
>> I'm sure she's been
through a lot.
>> Yeah, I mean, you put her
through a lot of hoops.
>> Yeah, a whole lot.
>> She keeps on jumping through.
>> I know.
>> You told her that you had
some trouble with the law.
>> Is that why you've been
on house arrest?
>> My house arrest?
I probably did tell you
I was on house arrest.
>> Yeah, you told me a lot.
>> She's now taken a semester
off of school to be with you
because she believed
that you were in love with her.
But you didn't mean that?
>> Basically.
>> Why not just pull the plug
on it?
>> She was there for me.
>> Well, what was
this relationship for you?
>> I mean, it was a bond.
That's it, that's all.
>> It was a what?
>> A bond.
That's it, really.
It was just somebody that I
could just get away and talk to.
That's all.
'Cause I don't really,
you know, have friends much.
>> But it was something
for so long, though.
I mean, now, you're just saying,
like, it was just a friendship
and you was just talking to me
when you couldn't talk
to nobody else.
We talked every day, all day.
>> But I mean, on my end,
she don't know me.
I'm not--I mean, like I just
said, it was a bond.
>> I been knowing you
for this long.
What do you mean?
That don't even make no sense.
>> I didn't take it
to the heart.
Even us telling each other
that we love each other,
all that, it wasn't--
>> You never meant that?
>> I mean, I meant that.
As a human being,
I wouldn't want nothing
to happen to you,
but I'm not in love with you.
So I'll leave it alone.
>> You never left it alone.
Calling, texting,
crying on the voice mail.
>> It just don't make sense
to me.
It don't.
Because you could cry
until you fell asleep
if I didn't answer the phone,
or you would tell me you love me
until I'm blue in the face.
Why with me for ten years?
I'm just--
>> Because I didn't have
that bond with nobody else
for ten years.
Now, I didn't have--
I don't have no one else
that I call a friend.
If I was, like, really--
you know, really wanted you,
I would've told you,
"This is me,
and I'm in love with you,
and this is who--"
I didn't feel that way.
I--you know what I'm saying?
I'm being real and being honest.
>> I don't buy it. I don't--
>> I know it's messed up.
>> Well, I don't buy that.
That's so heartless.
You were just so needy,
and you don't have anyone else
to talk to,
and you don't care
about her feelings
or how you're affecting
her or [bleep] her over
or wasting her life because
you're like a little baby
and need to cry--
you need to cry to her?
>> I care about her feelings.
>> Not really.
Come on, man.
This is like getting in a fight
with someone in kindergarten.
You're like,
"I-I was never friends
with you anyway."
>> No.
>> Yeah.
It feels like that immature.
Like, "When I told you
I loved you?
That was fake."
I saw the letter.
>> Yeah, I have a letter
she wrote me too.
>> That thing was--that thing
was written with passion.
You can't fake that.
>> [laughs]
I was about to say thank you,
'cause I mean, I'm telling you,
like--
>> That was fake.
That was a fake love letter?
>> I mean, yeah, but--
>> I don't believe that.
>> Well, it's not our--
>> No, it's not our place.
But I'm just saying,
I know that's not true.
>> Well, I mean,
but that's the point.
It wasn't even for me to believe
or y'all to believe.
It was written
for her to actually believe.
She believed it at that moment.
>> Because you wanted to make
sure she stayed dedicated
to being your close friend.
>> Basically.
>> I just feel like it's full
of [bleep].
>> Don't sit up here
and get mad at me over something
that you did also.
She lied to me too.
>> When did I lie?
>> At first, you was telling me
you was another female...
>> No, I wasn't. You said--
>> With blond hair, a white
girl.
>> A white girl?
>> So what you're saying--when
you first met Andria, you
thought she looked like
something else?
>> Yeah, she was sending me
pictures of another female.
>> I was in sixth grade.
How I'm even fixing to know
to make up somebody's picture
and put it up there?
That don't even make no sense.
>> The same reason
how I'm able to do it.
>> Okay, that was you.
That ain't me.
>> Guys, it's hard to know
what you're telling the truth
about and what you're not
telling the truth about,
because you kept...
>> Not really if you just--
>> You kept some big, big lies
going for ten years.
>> At the end of the day,
there's certain things that I
was telling her the truth,
and there's certain things that
I wasn't telling her the truth.
That's all.
>> Well, look.
It's the end of a very long,
played-out game for both of you.
So maybe we talk more tomorrow,
but--
>> I don't know.
I don't think it's no reason to.
>> Well, let's just--we'll play
it by ear, see how we feel.
>> All right.
>> See ya.
*
>> Now we know who it is.
We got to talk
about something else.
Why have you been in
this relationship for ten years?
*
[knock at door]
>> all: Hey.
>> What's up?
>> How are you?
>> How'd you sleep?
>> Good.
>> You stayed in this
relationship a very long time.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> I don't know that
there's, you know, anything good
that can come from you guys
staying in touch anymore.
Like--
>> Yeah, I just feel like I--
now, it's more of,
like, a good-bye.
>> All right,
let's call Christina
and see where she is at.
[phone line trilling]
>> Yeah, hey, Christina.
>> Hey, it's Nev, good morning.
Maybe today,
we can all sit down and talk
a little bit more calmly
and figure some things out.
>> Yeah, you know what
I'm saying?
Like...
>> I--
>> Let's just meet up and end
things on, you know, good terms.
>> That's just the kind of stuff
that just makes me mad
all over again.
>> I mean,
she seems to have lied a lot,
but if you were also
faking your picture,
if there's any validity
to the story
that Christina's telling,
then we got to know that
because that needs
to be represented.
>> Is any of that true about her
thinking you were someone else?
>> No, only 'cause I just
made the profile page
to find that person on MySpace,
and that's when they did not
accept me as a friend.
>> So you made a MySpace profile
of someone else...
>> Yeah.
>> To try and friend
David, 'cause you didn't want
him to know it was you.
>> To friend David.
And they didn't accept me.
Mm-hmm, and they didn't accept
me as the friend or anything.
>> Right.
Mm-hmm.
No, it was my--it was my name.
I don't know.
>> It would make sense to me
that you would find
a David Walker profile,
and because David told you
he never had social media,
you would create a fake profile
to befriend him.
>> With a fake name.
>> Right.
>> And have you kept
that profile up?
>> Nope, that profile is not up.
>> And did you ever say to her,
"Hey, I've been
lying to you about my pictures"?
>> Yeah, that's when I had
stopped the MySpace page.
It was not that far along from
when we had first met.
>> So when she's saying that she
thought you were someone else
for the first eight years.
>> That was that MySpace.
It has not--I got emails.
Like, it has not--
it was a long time ago
when I first made
that MySpace page.
>> For the last nine years,
have you been sending
her pictures of you?
>> Mm-hmm.
Of the--
>> Of you?
>> Yes.
>> So we are completely
confused by this,
and to be perfectly honest,
it doesn't really matter.
>> This tit for tat,
you know, "You lied.
I lied." Like--
>> It's really annoying.
>> You haven't been clear
or communicating with each other
in any kind
of functional, honest way
from the very beginning, so I
feel like all the more reason
why today should be some kind
of an ending.
So let's text her, then.
Let's go downstairs.
There's a room
we can use to meet with her.
>> Okay.
>> Let's see if we can get
to the bottom of this
decade-long catfish mystery.
>> This episode of Catfish:
The TV Show continues now.
>> I do think there's something
for you to learn from this,
which is that a lot of this has
been your responsibility also.
Like, you played along
in the relationship.
You put up with stuff too long.
>> Right.
>> Let's go in there and see
how it goes.
Where is she?
[knocks on door]
>> All right, so look.
Yesterday was not the best way
to sort of first meet
someone that you've been
talking to for this long,
but there's no reason
that you two can't acknowledge
what this is, what it's been,
and hopefully, move forward
in positive new directions.
>> I do want to start off
by saying that I did have
some fault in all these years.
I don't want you to feel
like I just came at you
and just was stepping all
over you, 'cause that ain't--
that's not what I came down here
for at all.
I did want to meet you because
I've given you most of my life.
It's been a long time.
>> First of all,
I'm gonna say I'm sorry.
I apologize for--
you know what I'm saying?
I was just bogus.
But I don't accept your apology,
but, yeah, okay.
>> Why don't you
accept my apology?
>> Because, like, you
don't even know what you did.
How can you apologize
for something that you
don't even know what you did?
You gonna point fingers at me?
Point one back at yourself.
Like, if I'm being real
with you, be real with me, man.
If I'm apologizing
and telling you I was wrong,
you should do the same thing,
especially when
you know you was wrong and know
your issues and the problems
and the situations
we was in or whatever, man,
and learn from your mistakes,
for real, 'cause,
like, you was bogus.
I was too.
>> Okay. I don't--I--
>> Say it.
>> I just--I--
it's just the same thing
like it has been all this time.
>> You want the apology
to be your way.
You want everything
to be your way, but it's not.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm just gonna sit here
and leave it at that.
I apologize, man.
That's it, that's all.
>> It just seemed like it all
started off on the wrong foot.
From--she got a different story.
I got a different story.
>> You guys are both to blame
for staying in this thing
for ten years.
>> Yeah, but we weren't telling
each other we love each other.
>> You did send that letter.
>> Yeah.
>> You took the time to really
write a long love letter.
>> Yeah, 'cause she asked me to.
>> Suggests that maybe--
>> She asked me to.
She was like, "Can you
write back to my letter?"
>> You were just pretending?
Just totally pretending?
>> I was just pretending.
>> That is pretty messed up.
>> It is.
>> You guys are not gonna agree
on how you got to this point.
>> No, we're not.
>> I mean, at the end of
the day, we still was together
for this long of a time.
>> Right, but--right.
But for Christina,
you were not together.
>> Yeah, right.
>> And so...
>> We was just friends.
>> She's been looking
at this relationship
very differently
than you have for a long time.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> Now I think it's sad that you
say that you have no friends.
I mean, I'm just saying--
>> I never said
I didn't have no friends.
I said I didn't have no friends
that I have a bond with
that I had with her.
>> Yeah, but you--
>> You can replay it on me,
but that's exactly what I said.
>> Well, you said that she
was your only close friend,
and that everyone else
was an associate.
>> That I have a bond with.
>> All right.
I can see how talking to you
is frustrating.
>> Yeah.
>> Because these little
technicalities
change from day to day.
>> I never said I
don't have no friends at all.
>> That is the impression
you gave yesterday,
and that's why you stayed
in this relationship so long,
because she was the only
friend--whatever, bond--
person you had a bond with...
>> Okay.
>> That you had, and it was so
important to you to keep that.
You kept it going, and you said
things you didn't mean,
and you fake cried,
and all that stuff.
>> That was the impression,
not what I said.
>> No, That's what you
[bleep] said.
>> All right, you just said
that was my impression.
I mean, you're saying
this is what you--
>> I stand 100% behind Andria.
I think that you're full
of [bleep].
I seriously
doubted Andria, 'cause you made
us doubt her story.
But I think that you turn
everything around on people.
I think your story
changed a million times,
and you're just
twisting it all around to have
your version of the story
so you don't look as guilty
as you probably are.
>> Okay, but who cares?
Tell me that.
>> I don't think
that she deserves
someone like you in her life.
>> I don't want to be
in her life no more,
so you just wasted five minutes
of my life, so...
>> You've wasted
ten years of hers.
>> Wow.
>> That's hers--hers--Andria.
>> Sure, sure.
>> What's your name again?
>> Max.
>> Okay, right.
So go [bleep].
>> You just proved how you've
manipulated her for the last
ten years in the last, like,
three minutes with me.
>> I feel as if I didn't have
no relationship with her.
It was just a friendship.
I still stand by that.
>> I call BS on you.
>> Okay, that's your opinion.
>> Yep.
>> Let's go.
>> All right, well,
then let's go.
>> * Dusk is rolling in
* Ooh
* Dusk is rolling in
>> See ya.
>> * Ooh
* Dusk is rolling in
>> I did doubt you,
and after that, I get it.
I get it.
>> * It rolls, it rolls
>> I have been apologizing
to her for the longest time,
and it still was always
like a slap in the face.
>> It's okay.
>> It's done now.
[upbeat music]
*
[phone line trilling]
>> both: Hey!
>> Hey.
>> How you doing?
>> Good.
Start school again in August,
so...
>> Congratulations.
That's great.
I'm really happy to hear that.
>> Thanks, I'm gonna try.
>> Yeah.
What's going on with Geo?
>> She sent me this long text
message that week--
how sorry she was
about what she said on the show.
>> You actually kind
of texted me what she said.
>> Yep.
>> Basically said to you
that she does still
have strong feelings for you.
>> Yeah.
>> She does still want
to be with you.
>> Every morning, I've been
getting a text message.
I kind of replied,
like, "I'm still uncomfortable
with this situation."
I don't--there's not nothing
I can really say.
>> This is the same thing
that's basically been
happening for the last ten years
with this girl.
>> Mm-hmm.
>> You need to just,
like, shut it down, because...
>> Completely.
>> This girl plays mind games.
>> Nice seeing you.
>> Bye.
>> Nice to see you too, Andria.
[phone line trilling]
>> Hello.
>> Hey, what's up?
>> Hey, how you doing?
>> Now that you've had
a little bit of time to think
about everything that happened,
have you and Andria
had a chance to talk?
>> We haven't been in contact.
You know,
I really don't want to.
That's all.
Nothing hasn't really changed.
That's all.
I'm done with it.
>> Is there anything, like,
maybe that you feel like you
learned from all this?
>> Yeah.
Now, be more open.
>> Well, we just wanted to check
in and see how you were doing,
and I hope everything
goes well for you, and...
>> Same to you.
>> Maybe we'll see you soon.
>> All right.
Have a beautiful life.
>> All right, you too.
>> Good luck. Bye.
>> See ya.
>> Lies. More lies.
>> "We developed a bond
that was something
you dream about in the movies."
>> He wrote me
and was like, "I have a feeling
that you're somewhere
you're not supposed to be."
It made me feel like, "Oh,
my God, is she watching me?"
>> It's her.
They're all her.
She's keeping tabs on you.
>> I have no idea
who she could even be.
I don't know
what she's capable of.
>> The lies end now.
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