90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 5, Episode 18 - Tell All Part 2 - full transcript

Previously
on Before the 90 Days,

The Couples Tell All.

No, that's not true.

Kim, you said that
you would allow Usman

to marry a second
wife and have kids?

I don't want any more children

but I feel like it's his culture

for him to have children.

You know, people who are saying

that cheating is
horrible like I...

It's not the same thing, Ella.



It's not cheating because
he's not lying to me about it.

You lied.

Mike, the last time that
we saw you and Ximena,

things were not
going well at all.

So Mike, what is the status
of your relationship today?

Um, we were able to work it out.

And today, we're back together.

- Wow.
- Yeah.

I did not expect
you to say that.

Gino, have you messaged
Benjamin's friend, Jessica?

Uh, no.

I think she messaged me
"hi" and I responded back,

"Hello, how are you?"

I was just being friendly,



having a friendly
conversation with her.

So there's nothing there.

When Kim left Tanzania,

she thought she was
leaving her issues

about Zara behind.

What she didn't realize was that

Usman might not have
closed that book entirely.

Wow.

You really up.

You didn't know that
Usman had called Zara?

No.

I need a minute.

Why are you clapping
at her like that?

We hear you, Usman.

We're giving everybody
a little bit of a break.

No, Usman. Hold up a second.

Okay. Usman,
hold that thought.

We're gonna give
Kim a minute, okay?

Oh, come here, come here,
come here, come here, come here.

Oh...

After everything
I did, to call Zara,

it's a slap in my face.

I just feel like that just
hit me out of nowhere.

I don't even know,
like what do I do now?

Do I make it work now?

I mean, we're in a relationship.

Usman's always
been honest with me

and forthcoming about things.

But I feel like with
that, I didn't know.

I don't... I don't know
what to say right now

and my head is just spinning.

So I will, um, address
this later definitely.

Thank you very
much for joining us.

Okay.

- Sorry.
- It's okay, sweetie.

Thank you.

Um, tell me what
you're thinking.

I didn't know about that.

I just...

So Jamal, you
heard what Usman said,

what did you think
about the call?

I find that mad
disrespectful to my mom

because he knew
how she felt about him,

you know, and it's like...

she did all the for you

and, like, I know more than
anybody, my mom has been,

"Sojaboy this, Usman that,"

and it seems like he
was kind of juggling

between what he was gonna do

which to me tells me that
he might still have some

kind of connection or
some feelings with Zara.

I know what I just saw.

I saw a connection.

Usman, you know that was up.

I'm gonna... I'm gonna
be honest, Usman...

I'm at a loss.

I'm just...

So, Usman... Okay.

The words came
out of your mouth,

flirting came naturally.

Here we go.

- Wow.
- That's confronting.

- It's awesome.
- Yeah, that's just messed up.

What the

But Usman,
why did you call Zara?

But I didn't know
about this phone call.

I didn't know about that.

That seemed like
something pretty big to forget about

and she just left.

And you just said,
um, this is my girlfriend.

You are my girlfriend.
Bye-bye. Okay.

Okay. Hey, Zara,
what's up? Just saying.

I would like to say something.

Go ahead.

Usman's over here yelling

and this mean I can
get any woman I want

and I wouldn't do...
It's like, all right, like,

if you know that
you not in the wrong,

then just be like, you
know, I'm not in the wrong,

like, that's what it is.

But you're over here
defending everything...

How do you think I
feel not knowing about it

and sitting here watching it?

So now take your...
take yourself...

take yourself out
of it and think of me.

And I'm sitting
here watching this,

I knew nothing about it.

Uh, I would like
to say to Usman that

I really respect him,

but I feel like the
video was really real.

And, uh, there
was like, you know,

real, uh, emotions
in that video.

But you should
take consider of Kim,

and she's an amazing woman.

Thank you. Thank you.

The context of that call
was definitely a little too flirty

for someone that you say
you don't have feelings for

and, uh, that you broke up with.

Okay, so Usman, you
have two men on this set

who feel that, um,

there was a connection
between you and Zara.

Right, and Kimberly said

she felt there was
some type of connection.

I did... I did.

I saw something,

but Usman and I will
talk about that later.

Okay.

Jamal, uh, we wanna thank you

- for coming here and opening up to us.
- Of course.

Please take care.

- Nice to see you.
- Bye, Jamal.

- Nice to see you.
- Okay. Bye.

- Love you.
- Love you. Okay.

Well, Kim, Usman, we,
uh, wish you the best.

Okay.

Now, let's move on
over to Ella and Johnny.

These two had many
obstacles in their relationship

that prevented them
from meeting in person.

And when we last saw them,

Ella revealed that she had slept

with another man.

Take a look.

I love Johnny

and I want him to
be my everything.

But I can't keep
waiting forever.

Hey, babe, how is
everything going?

I don't think
that you understand

how hard this has been on me

I need physical attention.

And when you have been
going back and forth with this,

I called over a friend

and we ended up having sex.

- What?
- I didn't mean for that to happen.

It just happened because
I was so distraught

and so upset.

This was definitely
a weak moment,

but I'd rather be
honest than a liar.

I still love you.

I just don't know where
we should stand right now.

Um, Ella?

Where do things stand
between you and Johnny today?

We are very, very strong.

Um, after that one incident,

nothing has happened
with anybody else.

And I need it to be known, like,

my love language is touch.

And...

two years is a really long time

to have to wait,

really long time.

So, yeah, then you shouldn't
be in a long distance relationship

if you're... if you're
that vulnerable.

And don't put yourself
in that situation.

Me and him, you know,
we have been away

from each other for a
long time just like you.

You have to do little things
like the sexy time and stuff

to try to, like, keep that going

because temptation
is a you-know-what.

You know, for me,
I didn't think that

he would come and
so I thought it was over.

And like, yeah, I know I up.

- I owned it.
- Did I not own it?

- I owned it.
- But why are you so defensive right now?

Because we're
talking about it, right?

Because I know everybody
here has had something to say

about my relationship
with this man.

But let me tell you
something, okay?

If you're in an
international relationship,

you don't cheat...

because that's one of
the most important things.

- That is the trust issue.
- Trust, yes.

- It's trust.
- Yeah.

I have zero respect
for you for that.

And you can sit up here and
say you have excuses all day

that, you hurt that man.

And when I saw that on
camera, it broke my heart.

So did you at least
like give him that, like,

say, hey, if this is it...

- Okay. Okay.
- Many times. Many, many times.

I said like, "If you're
not gonna do this,

then I'm, like, gonna
see other people."

I told that to him
several times.

But would you rather I lied

and never have told you
or you rather I be honest?

Ella, how would you have felt

if Johnny had told you he
had slept with someone else

because of the long distance
and he could not handle it?

Honestly, I would
not be very hurt by it,

because people make mistakes

and distance is a big problem.

And I totally understand

that I did wrong
and I know that.

But no, I would
not have been mad.

I would not have been upset.

I would have been
understanding from the start.

I wouldn't have
even freaked out.

- I don't believe that.
- I don't believe that.

I don't believe
that. You know why?

Because you did it, so you can say that.

No, I just... Because...

So Ella...

I did.

I was upset.

And I was vulnerable.

And...

I'm proud of you
for owning up to it

but there's no excuse for that.

There's no excuse you can
give that makes that okay.

You hurt that man so bad.

I'm sorry. That's how I feel.

So, Ella, I wanna...
I wanna know this

and I'd like for
you to be honest.

Since that time,

have you been
faithful to Johnny?

100%.

You have not
been with anybody else

since that time?

So what about your birthday?

What do you mean
about my birthday?

What happened on your birthday?

Who were you with
on your birthday?

I had a friend come out
and hang out with me.

- Mmm-hmm.
- A guy?

Coming up...

So you had a guy fly in

to spend your birthday with you?

Were you guys intimate at all?

And later...

No, no, no.

Why didn't you just show her
from your phone, your side?

If you had nothing
to hide, why delete it?

Exactly. If you have nothing
to hide, why did you delete it?

Ella, what happened
on your birthday?

Who were you with?

I had a friend come out
and hang out with me.

Mmm-hmm.

And we had a great time.

And absolutely nothing happened.

- A guy?
- Yeah, it was a guy.

- Mmm-hmm.
- And I was talking to him.

And so he had offered to fly
out and celebrate my birthday

because I told him that
I was gonna be alone.

And so...

So you had a guy fly in

to spend your birthday with you?

Okay.

How did you meet this guy?

He reached out to me on,

like, just the
Asian people chat.

So it was a chat,
like, White women,

Asian men chat?

- Yeah.
- Why?

So why are you still
on these dating sites?

I'm not on the dating
sites. It was a Facebook page.

It was somebody that you had met

on a... on a
previous dating site,

and then you guys kept in touch?

About just the birthday thing.

Okay. So
he flies in to see you.

Where did he spend
the night that night?

In the spare bedroom.

So he spent the
night at your house? Okay.

Were you guys intimate at all?

No.

He flew in to see you,
spent your birthday with you,

stayed in the next
room, no problem?

Just as friends.

Oh.

Do you not remember
the conversation

that we had about him
the whole time after?

I just offered
instead of the hotel

because he wanted to save money.

I just honestly was just
trying to be nice to him.

I just...

So Ella, you're saying
that you told Johnny

that this guy spent the night?

I did. And we talked
about everything.

And I told him
everything that happened.

Ella, I think you're sorry.

Because I'll tell you one thing,

if there was a man
staying at my house,

Usman would be
calling me day and night.

If there was a woman
staying at Usman's house,

I would be on the
next flight to Nigeria.

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

Why would you call a man

to come spend your
birthday with you?

Because everybody bailed on me.

Everybody bails
on me all the time.

Are you... are
you a grown adult?

Do you need people
to, like, coddle you,

like you can't spend your
birthday with yourself?

I didn't do anything.

Just
saying... Just, future,

I mean, you never know.

Obviously, you
have a tendency...

On all things you hold sacred,

no kiss on the lips, nothing?

Not this one, no.

Um, Johnny?

Do you believe her?

Uh, so...

You want to trust her
but do you believe her?

- Uh, okay.
- Nothing happened.

That's a valid question.

I'm sorry that there
was a misunderstanding.

I thought when this had happened

that he was okay with it.

Because I honestly did,
like, ask for permission.

And I thought that we
were on the same page.

And obviously we were not.

If he had said no, I
would not have invited him.

Johnny, when will you see Ella?

So you're coming in one month?

Do you believe
he's going to come?

I'm just waiting to see.

And I will just keep waiting.

Okay.

Let's take a break.
We'll be right back.

You okay?

Yeah. I know.

What are you feeling right now?

That was a rough, rough listen.

Yeah. Yeah.

If a guy buys a plane ticket,

and comes all the
way to another city

to spend the night

and he knew where he
was spending the night

'cause you gotta
get a hotel before.

- Right.
- So they talked about it.

I have the problem that he came

and he stayed the night.

I feel like you need
that attention so much

that you're just willing
to go some guy

because your man's not here.

I feel like if you really
love your person,

you're not gonna cheat.

I don't care.

There's been times
Usman has pissed me off

to the point where
I'd throw my phone.

I mean, I've just been
so upset with him,

and you have to own up
to your I don't know.

I don't respect people that
don't own up to their.

Hey.

Coming up...

I wanna bring in Jessica.

This is Benjamin's friend
that Gino was talking to.

And later...

As an ex-pastor,

I have counseled
a lot of couples.

Before you and Jasmine
go too much further,

spend the money on getting
good professional therapists.

You had so much
criticism for my relationship

and for everybody on here,

and yours is the worst one here.

Here we go. Quiet.

And three, two, one.

We are back with 90 Day Fiance,

Before the 90 Days,
The Couples Tell All.

Right now, I want
to dive back in

with Gino and Jasmine.

One of the biggest
obstacles in their relationship

was when Gino forwarded

nude photos of
Jasmine to his ex.

Let's take a look
at that moment.

I know.

Your breasts are showing.

That's correct. But
they're not nudes.

Oh!

Well, if you can't talk
peacefully then you can...

No, that's not good.

Uh, I'd like to clarify.

Okay. Go ahead, Gino.

First of all, I take
full responsibility

of what happened, okay?

But, um, it wasn't
nude pictures, plural.

So this happened
a couple of months

after I met Jasmine

because I was excited
about meeting Jasmine.

Okay.

Now, my ex, she
rubbed me the wrong way

when we broke up

and she was saying
a lot of stuff to me

about her new
boyfriend and stuff.

So what this was is
my immaturity, um,

in trying to get back
at her in revenge.

Now, what happened was

I selected a group of
pictures on my phone

and one of the pictures

I accidentally sent
was a topless photo.

And it was one time

and this was meant to
be a one-time thing only

but I didn't want...

I didn't send a nude
photo on purpose to her.

And it was one that
accidentally sent.

Is that true, Jasmine

Was it accidental or no?

No, no, no.

It was one time. This
was one time only.

There were three pictures?

Yeah.

No.

That's something you
should just never do.

Gino, it just seemed
like your story changed.

It seemed like you told
Jasmine one thing at first

and now you're saying
something different.

So are you saying that Jasmine

doesn't have her story straight?

What story is that?

Jasmine said that you
sent a picture then a text,

then a picture, then a text,

then a picture.

She said you sent three photos.

That were nude. That were nude.

No, no, no.

It was only one
partial nude pic.

So Jasmine doesn't know
what she's talking about?

Yeah. It was only
one partial nude pic.

Well, that's my question.
Why didn't you just show her

from your phone your side?

So see... I mean, why, like...

Okay. I don't agree with that.

If he had nothing to
hide, why delete it?

Yeah. Exactly.

If you have nothing to
hide, why did you delete it?

Um...

because...

Well, it had nothing...

I accidentally sent the
one partially nude picture.

And it was a one-time thing.

So you know that
you were, like, wrong,

like that was probably
a very bad idea?

Yes. That was very
wrong of me to do it.

- Okay.
- And it's a lesson learned

for me not to do it again.

I just wanted to make
clear that that was

very painful for me.

And we still have a
lot of things to work on.

You understand?

Okay. I don't
think we're gonna resolve

this tonight.

I think everybody could
use a break after that.

How you doing, man?

Surviving and that was rough.

Dude.

He looks like a deer in
the headlights half the time.

So, I feel like I need
to, like, step up for him.

Before you and Jasmine go
too much further, you know,

spend the money on getting
good professional therapists.

What we just spoke
about was my past.

- Yeah.
- Okay?

- But you're obviously...
- But I understand.

But you're obviously
still having issues

coming back to the present.

I wanna move on to the future.

- Yeah.
- In the present.

As an ex-pastor, I
have counseled a lot

of couples, and I've
realize I should have been

counseling myself because
my marriage ended in divorce

Um, but I see some patterns.

So I got a follow
up with this though.

I feel like everybody
thinks Usman has a type.

He likes older women.

- Mmm-hmm.
- And like all the young girls in...

Dropping his DMs, you're
not worried about that

because he has a type.

I think, you know, you
really can't get to that point

of true intimacy where you're
just like you are boyfriend

and girlfriend, until
you get that face-to-face.

And then everything
behind you has just gotta go,

like you can't bring it up.

It's in the past.

I'm sorry. Ben's telling us
all about our relationships

like his is so perfect.

Don't sit up here
and be all pastor-y

and acting like you can
just judge every single

one of us, but you
better take some

of that judgment on yourself.

That's just how I feel.

Coming up.

You had never
talked on the phone?

No.

You only have seen
pictures of her in texts?

- Right.
- And you send her $1,000?

Yes.

Yes. Go ahead.

And later...

Nelcy, shut up.

Shut up.

Then just leave.

Nelcy, sit down.

And five,

four, three, two...

All right. Now let's
turn our attention

to Benjamin and Mahogany.

Benjamin took a major
leap of faith to travel to Peru

to meet Mahogany,

who is 30 years
younger than him.

But sadly, their
relationship came

to an end before his trip did.

Let's take a look back at some

of the miscommunication
that led to their breakup.

I'm heading
over to Mahogany's house

where she lives with
her parents because

she said that they
agreed to meet with me.

- Beautiful.
- Do you like that?

Yes. It's gorgeous.

- It looks nice.
- Yeah. And that, it's just...

Bunk beds...

All right.

Sure. Sure.
Uh, guest bedroom.

This is my bedroom.

- I...
- And where do your parents sleep?

My parents don't sleep here.

Oh, okay.

In our texting, she
definitely told me

that she lived with her parents.

And that was only
like a month ago.

Mahogany is not telling
me the truth about her

living situation.

So I'm just trying to
figure out what else

has she not told me.

I thought you're 24.

So trust works both ways.

You don't trust me?

You told me you
were 23 going on 24.

I don't remember.

It felt like you were
hiding that from me.

Mmm-hmm.

Because I did not
know for that long.

Yeah.

I just need to go.

Mahogany.

I need to tell you my heart
and there's a point to it.

Wow. Benjamin, how do you feel

looking back at that?

That's tough to see.

That's tough to watch.

Yeah.

I felt like I had
lost a part of me.

And I thought it
was gone forever.

Why you didn't go to the airport

to meet him when he arrived?

Yes.

Mahogany, if you
weren't going to meet him,

why didn't you just
text him to tell him that?

But how long did it take
you to actually get in touch

with her once you
arrived, Benjamin?

Uh, I think it was
about a day and a half,

- maybe two days.
- What... Okay.

And once you arrived,
it was almost two days

before she even
responded to your texts?

I wasn't even sure if
I would ever see her

- the entire trip.
- Oh, my gosh.

Um, Kim, could
you imagine if, uh,

you had gone to meet Usman

and he did not contact
you for two days?

No. Are you crazy?

What are you
thinking over there?

I would have probably
just went back home.

I would have too.

Well, if I really loved her,

I'd probably stay and try to...

- Uh-huh.
- Get a hold of her.

Yes, Gino. That's
what I'm saying.

- So, yeah.
- I'm gonna find whoever it is.

I don't even know who it
is, but I'm gonna find her.

That must be a
Michigan thing then,

'cause I wouldn't do it. Sorry.

You know what I'm saying?

Okay. Let's talk about
the miscommunication

about how old
Mahogany really is.

Mahogany, did you tell Benjamin

that you were older
than you actually were?

Okay. Why one?

Why one year, you know?

It was... It was
actually two years.

So if you had
known her real age,

would you still have
pursued the relationship?

I don't know.

I don't know.

But it's only a two-year
difference, right?

- It's kind of a bit... Yeah.
- Yes. It's not much.

Yeah.

So would that really
make a difference?

I mean, no. Not...

It's two years.

Okay. All right.

Right now, I want
to bring in one

of Benjamin's friends who
wasn't shy about sharing

concerns about Benjamin's
relationship with Mahogany.

Everyone, please
welcome Jessica.

Hi, Jessica.

Good. Thank
you so much for joining us.

And just to be clear,
this is Benjamin's friend

that Gino was talking to.

You've been listening
to the conversation

I've been having with
Benjamin and Mahogany

and what are your thoughts?

Oh, painful?

Okay. Why?

Did you send her $1,000?

- But I did. Yes.
- Okay.

- You had never seen...
- I'd never seen her.

- Mahogany?
- No.

You only had seen
pictures of her in texts?

- Right.
- And you send her $1,000?

Yes.

To me, it was
worth all the time,

which is hours and hours
of texting and feeling like

for the first time,
I think, in my life,

to be honest, something
that felt like love.

Even if it wasn't
real, for the first two,

three months that
we spent together,

completely worth the money.

And you had never
talked on the phone.

No.

I think we had one
conversation on the phone,

maybe two.

Whether she was real or not,

I had a heart for
whoever was texting me.

And the time that we
had spent was worth it.

As dumb as this might
sound, I was all in.

- Okay.
- Now, wouldn't you wanna

at least video chat with her,

at least once or a couple times

to make sure she's
absolutely real?

That's what everyone
keeps saying.

She said that she was
really shy and didn't want to.

And that was good enough for me.

Yes. Go ahead.

Yes. She said she wanted borrow.

Yes.

Coming up.

Mahogany, are you in
Benjamin boyfriend and girlfriend?

Um...

I'm calling
on this. Sorry.

She is running
game on you so bad.

Wow.

Wow, Ben.

She has boundaries. If she says,

"I don't wanna video
chat" for any reason,

I need to respect that and
I'm gonna be cool with it.

All right. Well, Benjamin
actually went back to Peru

after the breakup and
filmed his experience.

And right now, we
are going to show you

that exclusive footage
for the very first time.

Take a look.

So here I am,
Detroit Metro Airport

headed for Peru again.

I've got questions that
need to be answered.

That is Milongas.

This is the first
place that I met her.

And so we agreed to start over.

This is gonna be like
the first time I saw her.

Okay, that was interesting.

Supposed to meet at the Milongas

then she changed her mind.

So I walked over to the beach
and miraculously I found her.

She was right there.

It was awkward. It was cold.

And she's very distrusting.

I think she's very
scared to fall in love,

deeply in love. I
think she loves me

but not in love with
me. I don't know.

Still working through all that.

I just don't understand
my "girlfriend."

Her room is completely empty.

So I just need to
make a decision while

I'm clear headed, you
know, when I'm, like,

not under her spell
and just say this is it.

I really wish I didn't care
about her as much as I do

because it'd
make it a lot easier.

- It's amazing.
- You are amazing.

- Mahogany.
- Yeah.

Thank you.

All right. I'm about
to make a prediction.

- What do you mean?
- That Mahogany and I,

- one year from now...
- Oh, my gosh.

Will be back here in this park.

- Yes.
- As husband and wife.

Oh, my gosh, baby.

- That's my prediction.
- I love you.

- We'll see what happens.
- Okay.

All right...

Wow.

I cannot believe this.

Okay.

Wait. You all are clapping?

- I'm not.
- Who's clapping?

Everybody. They
love to see love.

No, I'm not clapping.

Can I tell you why
I'm not clapping?

When we're in the green
room, you had so much to say

about all of our
different relationships.

And I'm calling bull
on this. Sorry.

I feel like she is running
game on you so bad.

Sorry.
That's how I feel.

I don't know you, honey.

But, like, this, oh,
I'm gonna get married

in a year. I hope...
I pray for you.

I hope it works, you
know what I'm saying?

- Yeah. Well, there's probably...
- And you had so...

You had so much criticism

for my relationship and
for everybody on here.

- Yeah. We all...
- And yours is the worst one here.

Jessica, go ahead.

I have no drama.

This... No, I mean, this
right here is the drama.

Give me a
break. Give me a break.

I think that was the drama
Mahogany was talking about.

Okay.

Let's just... Let's just clean
this up for just a minute.

Jessica, you said
that Gino reached out

to you first, right?

Gino, you said
Jessica reached out to you first?

Mmm-hmm.

Even though that was the case...

I literally wrote back
and said my husband...

Stop talking. Stop talking.

I literally
wrote back and said...

Okay, ladies. We can't
understand anybody right now.

Okay.

Okay. Go ahead, Jessica.

I think that
Jessica really does have

- Ben's best intentions because they are friends.
- Ugh.

- I mean...
- But do you think that Benjamin

is kind of pitting them
against each other.

Oh, definitely. I'm
sorry, Ben, but if the...

If these girls can't get along,

keep them separated, all right?

Like, do not engage.

You're confiding to
Jessica as your good friend

about Mahogany
but then you're telling

Mahogany things about Jessica

that are unflattering,
is that right, Benjamin?

Um...

I don't... I mean,
I say the truth.

Some of the truth is gonna
be unflattering but it's not,

you know, to pit them
against each other.

Ben, you're fake.

You are the fakest person
I've literally ever known.

Mahogany calls me fake.

Jasmine calls me fake.

You're fake.

You're like I need your advice,

I need you to be
my voice of reason.

Not because I'm
"dramatic" but because

clearly your head
has been in the clouds.

That is a hundred
percent correct

and you're also dramatic.

I also think that you gave me

some really good
advice along the way.

Well, I wouldn't know it by the

you've been talking
to everybody else.

I wasn't talking, no.

I said that, yes,
you are dramatic

and that is fine.

And you are a narcissist.

I'm dramatic and
you are a narcissist,

and you're delusional.

Okay. So Benjamin and Mahogany,

you guys are back
together, right?

Yes.

Mahogany, are you and Benjamin

back together as
boyfriend and girlfriend?

Um...

Oh, boy.

Well, Benjamin said
they're back together.

Yeah.

Mahogany, are you and Benjamin

boyfriend and girlfriend?

Wow. I think
his intentions were good

when he came down
there twice to see you.

- Yeah, I'm kind of...
- His intentions were good

when you weren't
running away from him.

- Yeah.
- I think you need to grow up

a little bit, little girl.

We have a
very young relationship.

It's very new.

And she's worried
that I'm still not here

for the right reasons.

And it takes trust.

There's just no
replacement for trust.

And there's no
replacement for time.

You can't substitute
anything for that

no matter how much
you love someone.

So it's gonna take a while.

Um, Jessica, I really
appreciate you coming on.

I wanna know, is this friendship

between you and
Benjamin still intact?

Do you still consider
him a good friend?

Before I even address
Ben, I actually wanna say

one last thing to Mahogany,
and that's that I am sorry.

Jessica, what is the
issue? Did you think I told...

I have nothing to say to you.

- Did you think that I told...
- I have zero to say to you.

Ben, you're a fraud.

You're a narcissist.
You are thirsty as all hell.

So despite what Jasmine
wants to accuse me

of and you're a liar
and a friend

and that's the truth.

What is the issue?
Because I don't understand.

You've literally been
talking me.

You told her that I
was here for the drama.

So, let's be clear on that.

Jessica, I
said you were dramatic.

So are you.
And you're selfish.

And you only put yourself first.

I actually felt sorry for you
but after hearing Mahogany

and after the things
you said about me,

I have no sympathy
for you at all.

I think that you're
such a two-faced person

and a friend.

So you can consider any
loyalty from me to be done.

Wow.

So I don't think
we're gonna resolve

this situation
tonight and I'm sorry

that the friendship has
been fractured here.

Jessica, I appreciate
you joining us tonight.

Thank you.

Benjamin and Mahogany,
I know this was tough.

Very tough for you guys and
I appreciate you opening up.

I'm about to go
and get something.

I can't...

What's happening?

I need
something. My head is banging

and the lights are
just making it worse.

Okay. So Memphis
had to step away for a minute.

Apparently, she's
not feeling well.

We're going to
give her some time.

Hopefully, she returns soon.

Okay. I think we need a break.

- Oh, sick?
- Brutal, right?

Mike and Ximena, I'm not
quite sure where they're at.

You know, like.

And Mike's got
such a good heart and I'm...

- I worry for him.
- Yeah, he's a really good guy.

The fact
that he's supporting her

and the fact that
she wouldn't let him

say goodbye to those kids,

I was so mad at her,
I was like shaking.

Yeah, I feel like
he really loves her.

- A lot.
- Yeah.

A lot.

I'm really not looking
forward to seeing Ximena.

I didn't like the way
stuff played out with her.

Nobody should support you.

You're grown. It's disgusting.

- Yeah.
- Everybody needs a wake-up call.

- Yeah.
- Like, a really strong one.

- I needed one too, you know.
- I thought he got one.

Like a couple times.

And the wake-up call
didn't wake him up.

So maybe today.

The pot calling the kettle
black. There's a lot of that today.

I think with Benjamin,
I just felt like kicking hi

in the kneecap and
be like bro, wake up.

I feel like Mahogany is
very young but she looks like

she's smarter than we think
she is, you know what I mean?

Hey, what's up?

What's up, man?

I'm worried about my
friend John and Nelcy.

Just saying, oh, she's
using you for money.

She doesn't love you.

What I'm dreading is
when Ximena sees Nelcy.

I really don't want Nelcy to
intervene in the relationship.

I feel what you're doing

because we all are
love blind at some point.

But, dude, I can
tell you, you know,

with Ximena, everything
was about her and not you.

- Yeah.
- Okay.

My issue is her disgust
basically on some

of the things, you
know, and I was just like,

dude, you're gonna
live with this man.

He's gonna toot.
He's gonna burp.

You're gonna have to get used to it.

Yeah. And I'm just like why are you like...

Yeah.

I will defend
Mike, like, I think

she did wrong and she
needs to admit to that.

I just don't respect someon
who just keeps taking

and taking and taking and
then how she treated him

with, like, "You disgust me,"

and I'm just like then
what are you doing?

Mike, can I weigh
in a little bit?

- Yeah.
- Make sure

that you're being
treated right...

- Yes. That's all I care about.
- Because you're a good man.

You're supporting
somebody for a whole year

and then... and then you sa
you're not in love with them

Be like bitch, why am
I sending you money?

Let me tell you,
there's tons of women

in San Diego that
ask me about you...

I think I'm definitely
gonna have to...

defend Ximena today.

Coming up.

Ximena, are you back together?

Wow.

Memphis, what
happened? Are you okay?

Just headache and,

like, vomiting and stuff.

Just not feeling good.

And so I'm gonna end up leaving.

- Oh, no, you're gonna go?
- Yeah.

I just got to go, you know?

- Okay.
- It's just too much.

- It's okay, sweetie.
- Okay. I'm so sorry.

- It is what it is.
- I'm so sorry, Memphis.

- I love you, Memphis.
- All right.

- Love you.
- I hope you feel better.

Wow, goodness.

- Hamza?
- Yeah.

All right. Are you
going to stay with us?

- Yes.
- Okay. Um...

Well, Memphis
unfortunately had to leave.

But Hamza has
agreed to stay with us

for a little while longer.

Now, before
Memphis left Tunisia,

something happened

that would forever
change their new marriage.

Let's take a look.

How are you?

Hmm, I don't feel too good.

I think it's because
I'm pregnant.

Yes.

Yes.

Okay.

Yes. Look, two lines.

Two lines, one, two pregnant.

Yes.

Aw.

Hamza.

And let us just
say congratulations

on the new baby.

Aw.

Hamza, were you able
to be there with Memphis

for the birth of your baby?

Oh.

So how old was your baby

when you first saw them?

Five weeks old. Okay.

So how does it
feel to be a father

for the very first time?

Congratulations.

- Yes.
- I'm so glad you're here.

- Yes. Welcome...
- Yeah, congratulations.

- Welcome to America.
- Thank you. Thank you.

All right. Now, let's
turn our attention

to Mike and Ximena.

When Mike flew to
Colombia to first meet Ximena,

things went well
enough that he proposed

and she said yes.

But when he came
back for a second visit,

their connection
just wasn't the same.

Do you just want me
out of your life forever?

You don't even care?

This only reinforces the fact

that you were
using me for money.

Oh, man.

Wow.

Wow.

That was hard to watch.

Yeah. Yeah.

Mike, how did you feel...

about the way Ximena
abruptly broke up with you?

Um, I felt really bad

but I did say some bad
things that I wish I'd never said.

And I meant to say I'm stupid.

I didn't mean to
call her stupid.

Yeah. That
really set her off.

- Yeah.
- You guys had a...

terrible breakup.

But now you are back together.

- Yes.
- As a couple.

Ximena, is Mike your boyfriend?

Are you back together?

I'm sorry, Mike.

I don't have any
words right now.

Time for what?
He's paying all of her bills.

What does he need to...

What do you need time for?

He's been there already.

He's proved to you
what a good person he is,

to your children,
he supports you.

What more can you want?

I mean, this is a good dude.

My heart is breaking
for him right now.

Yes.

Ximena, do you understand

that a relationship is two ways

because in the... in the show,

you're asking Mike to change
all of this stuff about him.

And yet here you are
after he's worked so hard,

really given it like a
hundred and ten percent

and all you can say
is, "I still don't love you."

Well, it seems
like Mike still wants

to be in the relationship.

He still loves her.

Well, when Mike and
Ximena were at a crossroads

during his second visit,

Mike reached out to his
friends John and Nelcy

to help clear the air.

John and Nelcy are
now going to join us

to tell us how they
feel about Mike

and Ximena's relationship.

Oh, she's crazy.

John and Nelcy,

have you been
listening backstage

to the conversation?

Yeah.

Yes, you've heard everything.

How do you see
their relationship?

He's just buying her anything.

Companionship.

Yes.

If something
happens to you, Mike, like,

God forbid, knock on
wood, there's an accident.

And you can't
provide, you can't work,

you're gone, bro.

You're never gonna
hear from her again.

Rent, food.

But she has to
decide if she loves you or not,

that's crazy.

Yeah. You deserve
a lot more than that, Mike.

Ximena, to a lot of people

it seems like you're
just in this relationship

with Mike for the money.

You went around your apartment

and showed everything
he bought for you.

And then that last night,
you couldn't even let him stay

in the apartment
that he pays for you?

Damn.

Mike, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

You deserve so
much better than that.

I have friends in
California, honey.

I'll help you out
because that's crazy.

- Okay. Okay.
- Can I talk to her?

Can I ask her a couple
of questions maybe?

Absolutely. Go ahead.

Um...

Why are you with Mike?

Why are you with Mike?

The hand, the foot..

Ximena, is that true?

Like if something happened
to me, you would just leave?

Mike, you're gonna
believe what she tells you?

- Mike, seriously, Mike.
- No.

- Mike. Mike. Mike.
- I want her to say it

in front of everybody.

She's gonna tell you whatever
she wants you to hear, bro.

Don't you know that by now?

Oh, no.

- Wow.
- Oh, wow.

Yeah. Apparently, her
vagina has got Voodoo.

Trying to learn
Spanish. You keep...

She's just not.

Stop.

It seems like we
have lost Ximena.

Can someone tell her
to come back, please?

Oh.

She walked off and...

we'll see if we
can get her back.

Yup.

Left.

Oh, yeah, even if right now...

he's gonna call her back
when he gets to the hotel room

and he's gonna
apologize on our behalf.

- Yes.
- And just so you know,

we are not apologizing.

Before you got here,

she even said she was gonna...

give me that
second chance and...

Second chance?

What is it... What exactly...
What did you do wrong?

I didn't do anything
wrong. But...

A second chance what?
What does that mean?

You got to send
her a direct deposit?

I wanted to see what
happens on this last trip.

What do you see
what would happen?

Yeah, she's the one who needs

to prove herself to you.

- Exactly.
- She does.

I agree with you a
hundred percent, Usman.

Can someone try to
get her back, please?

- Don't worry about her.
- Okay. We're gonna see...

- No, get her back, please.
- If we can get her back.

Mike...

most of the people here

feel that this is not the
best relationship for you.

How are you
feeling at this point?

Mike...

- Wait. What happened?
- Nelcy, shut up!

Then just leave.

Nelcy, sit down.

Tell her the person
she hates is gone.

Yeah. Can we get Ximena back?

Mike really wants
to talk to her.

Mike, if we get Ximena back,

what do you wanna say to her?

I just wanna say
that I'm my own man.

I can make my own decisions.

I still wanna go to Cartagena
and see what happens.

Then I wanna ask her to
see if she could really change

because I changed for her.

She said that she knows
that she has to work and...

Okay. She's back.

I'm my... I'm my own man.

I can... I'm gonna
make my own decisions.

Everyone here has their
own opinions, whatever.

I still wanna go to
Cartagena with you

and just see how things work.

But can you please
be more understanding

and actually change?

Would you want a woman to do

what you're doing to
Mike to your two sons?

Would you want that?

So why do it to Mike?

But you know what,

he's got to learn this himself.

You have to... You
have to experience this.

You know, I mean,
I hate to say that

because we all
care, we all see it.

He has to. This
is his relationship.

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

And he's got
to learn this himself.

Mike, what do you
want Ximena to change?

The main thing
I really want is...

to really put in the
effort to learn English.

There you go,
Ximena, learn Ingles.

I'll help you.

Yes.

So...

Mike...

When it was... I wanna go back

to how it was on the first trip.

Bye.

So Mike, Ximena
just made you, I guess,

somewhat of a promise
that she was going to try

to make this a
better relationship

and how did you feel
about what she said?

I felt a lot better.

Because I put...

I put all my
effort into it. So...

I'm glad that she's
gonna definitely try too.

So stopped crying.

If it doesn't work
there, we're all coming.

Okay. We are all coming.

Okay?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Nelcy, welcome back.

You got really upset
at that moment.

What would you
like to say to him?

No. -

But she did say
you guys did hear it,

- she did say she's gonna try.
- Mike, because...

Yeah, and we
really hope she does.

- We're really rooting for...
- I think she will.

I think we're all
here truly hoping

- that she will try, yeah?
- It's at least she could...

Yes.

- Okay.
- John and Nelcy,

I wanna thank both
of you for being here.

You gave your friend
some tough love.

But we could definitely see

that you care about
Mike very much.

So thank you very
much for joining us.

Thanks for having us.

Thank you.

Take care.

And that brings us to
the end of this Tell All.

We have witnessed
surprising secrets,

heated confrontations,

and a whole lot of emotions.

Your journeys have been intense

and we appreciate you
sharing them with us.

We wish you all the
very best in the future.

Have a good night.

Okay, guys.
Thank you. Good job.

- Good job, everyone.
- We're good?

It's very nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you and good luck.

Bye, sweetheart.
I'll talk to you later.

- Nice meeting you.
- Bye-bye, Gino. Thank you.

Bye, Jasmine.

Hamza, thank you very much.

I wanna get my phone.

I have some hope.

Yeah.

I'm rooting for you.

I...

I'm really praying.

I think you
just need to find out.

I really hope.

You need to find
out for yourself...

- Yeah.
- How it's gonna go.

You know, you cannot let someone

trample all over you like that.

You got to stand
up for yourself.

I just thought the
male cast members

this season just
have been really weak,

just weak.

Everyone seems to just,
kind of, be going along

with a stronger personality

and that was
frustrating to watch.

I felt really bad tha
Memphis didn't stay today.

I felt bad that she got sick.

And I think that's sad.

Poor thing.

I got nothing left to say.

I think I've said it all.

For Mahogany, this might
have been the last straw.

- Bye, guys.
- Ben.

I think she's probably had it.

You know, this has been a
really long journey for her.

And it did not go as planne

and went far, far worse
than I could have ever thought

and probably killed
our relationship.

- Travel safe.
- Thank you.

Today was a really long day

The little Zara

just put me in a totally
different mind frame.

It'll be okay.

No more crying. None
of us are gonna cry.

I might cry a
little bit tonight.

I don't know. I wipe
all this makeup off.

I might cry.

That was just a low blow.

Laying on my bed
with your shirt open

like who the are you?

All right. Okay. I love you.

- Take care.
- All right.

Sorry, it really upsets me

to think that, like, that
hurt me really bad today.

And to think that he would
just, like, that that's okay.

But like what do I do?

Do I end it now?

I don't know right now.

Wait.

Yes. Yes.

I don't think this made
us any stronger today.

If anything, might
have hurt me...

to relive all the
difficult moments,

this gets her all
fired up again.

You know, I've
submitted the K1 visa.

Now the question
is does Jasmine...

wanna come to the USA?

Because she seemed to
be questioning that today.

I'm hoping that we'll find
a way to make it work.

- Bye.
- See you.

- Good seeing you.
- See you.

Thank you. I would say
that I totally enjoyed it,

but there was a little bit
of un-enjoyment there.

But it was worth
it. I don't regret it.

I don't regret it.

It was rough.

But I told my truth.

And I still have my man

and we're still strong.

So that's all that
matters to me.

- Have a seat.
- Yes. Thank you.

- No problem.
- Thank you.

Johnny and I are
still as strong as ever.

I don't wanna brag
but I'm pretty sure

we are the most
stable relationship.

Bye, everybody.

Thank you for a wonderful time.

Yeah, one month from today,

my man will be here.

I know that we're
gonna get married

and we are gonna start
having children in three years.

No. Oh, thank you.

I definitely feel we
were attacked today.

I just wanted to
call her, tell her,

like, how I really feel.

Both of us have to put
in the effort together

and just to really make
the relationship stronger.

Okay.

She does care for me.

She does love me.

Just that she puts
a hard shell outside

because of all the past
that she's been through.

I really think Ximena
is gonna change

for the better this time.