90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 4, Episode 15 - The Neverending Story - full transcript

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"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

HOW'S ROSE?

NO ROSE, NO ROSE.

NO ROSE? OH.

I HAD THE BEST CHANCE AT LOVE

AND I HATE BEING SINGLE AGAIN.

IF TOM COULD SEE ME NOW.

BYE.
‐BYE.

TOM IS OUT OF MY LIFE FOR GOOD.

DID YOU MEET ERIKA'S FAMILY?

YES. HER MOM AND HER DAD.



I WANT TO TELL MY MOM THAT
I'M BISEXUAL, BUT I'M SCARED.

THERE'S BEEN NOBODY ELSE
THAT MAKES ME FEEL

LIKE I FEEL WITH HER.

I'M REALLY HOPING THAT SHE WILL
SHOW ME THE AFFECTION I NEED,

SO I CAN MAKE THAT DECISION
TO PROPOSE TO HER THIS TRIP.

I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO
INVITE YOU TO MY HOTEL TONIGHT.

I think
it's a bit early for that.

I TRAVELED 7,000 MILES
TO MARRY THIS MAN.

I TRIED AND I FAILED.

‐WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.
‐NOPE, GOODNIGHT. I'M DONE.

I DIDN'T KNOW
THAT SHE WAS COMING.

THIS IS VARYA.

‐NICE TO MEET YOU.
‐HEY.

‐HI!
‐OH, WOW.



OH, MY GOD.

SHE WANTS A WAR,
SHE WILL GET THE WAR.

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DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS

‐HI!
‐OH, MY GOD.

I HAVEN'T TALKED TO
MARY SINCE SHE LEFT

AFTER VARYA SHOWED UP
ON MY DOORSTEP.

SHE WAS OBVIOUSLY UPSET.

SO, I'M REALLY SURPRISED
TO SEE HER HERE.

‐HOW ARE YOU?
‐I'M GOOD, HOW ARE YOU?

HOW ARE YOU? GIVE ME A HUG.

WILL YOU COME TALK TO ME
FOR A MINUTE?

‐HUH?
‐YEAH, YEAH.

I'M GONNA ‐‐ YES.

I'M ON YOUR TEAM, LET'S GO.

I CAME TO THE BAR
BECAUSE I ABSOLUTELY WANT

TO KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON.

THE LAST THAT I KNEW,
THEY WERE DONE.

HE'S LIKE, "YEAH, I WANT TO
PURSUE THINGS WITH YOU"

OR SO I THOUGHT, YOU KNOW?

HE HAS A LOT OF EXPLAINING
TO DO.

SHE WAS IN THE WRONG,
ALL RIGHT?

YOU KNOW, I...

SO NOW WHAT?

I MEAN, WHAT ‐‐ HOW AM I
SUPPOSED TO FEEL?

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO HERE?

I MEAN...

I DON'T ‐‐ I DON'T KNOW.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
RIGHT NOW.

NOW, I'M EMBARRASSING MYSELF
BECAUSE I'M CRYING.

I BROUGHT MARY INTO THIS.

OF COURSE, I CARE FOR MARY.

I CARE FOR HER A LOT,
SHE'S ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS.

AND I DON'T KNOW THAT IT'S GONNA
GO ANYWHERE WITH VARYA,

BUT I HOPE THAT MARY
WILL ACCEPT WHATEVER I CHOOSE.

I DON'T WANT TO LOSE
OUR FRIENDSHIP.

I'M JUST SO CONFUSED
AT WHAT I SHOULD DO.

LET'S GO HANG OUT.

LET'S JUST ‐‐
LET'S DO THIS, OKAY?

TAKE HER FOR A MINUTE?

SURE.

AND...

YOU CAME ALL THE WAY
FROM RUSSIA

AND SURPRISED HIM
OUT OF THE BLUE,

WHEN YOU TURNED DOWN
HIS PROPOSAL.

SO WHY THE
ARE YOU HERE?

OH, I'M PRETTY SURE
AT THIS POINT ‐‐

STAY AWAY?

OKAY, YOU REALIZE ‐‐

NO, YOU'RE WRONG.

I'VE BEEN A CONSTANT
IN HIS LIFE.

YOU DON'T KNOW HIM LIKE I DO.

NO, I GIVE IT SIX MONTHS MAX.

NOW YOU'RE RIGHT,
I CAN'T SEE THE FUTURE.

ARROGANCE?

I'M PRETTY SURE YOU PROBABLY
NEED TO GO LOOK IN THAT MIRROR.

OH! GOSH.

SO, YEAH.

WHAT HAPPENED?
WHAT ‐‐ WHAT WAS SAID?

VARYA?
‐VARYA?

HEARING VARYA TELL ME
TO STAY AWAY,

OH, THAT IS THE MOST ASININE
THING I HAVE HEARD.

THAT'S ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS.

I DON'T KNOW WHO THE
SHE THINKS SHE IS.

I DON'T KNOW WHERE THINGS
ARE GONNA GO FROM HERE.

I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD
JUST TRY A DIFFERENT ANGLE.

I DON'T KNOW IF I SHOULD
JUST WALK THE AWAY

AND JUST CALL IT A DAY.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT HE WANTS

AND THAT JUST BREAKS MY HEART.

USMAN AND I ARE SUPPOSED
TO GET MARRIED TOMORROW,

BUT WE JUST GOT INTO A HUGE
FIGHT IN FRONT OF HIS BROTHERS,

AND I STORMED OFF.

I GOT TIRED OF USMAN
SITTING THERE

COMPLAINING ABOUT CONTROL,
CONTROL, CONTROL.

IT HAS NOTHING TO DO
WITH CONTROL.

IT IS ALL ABOUT RESPECT.

USMAN...

I'M COMING.

I'M SORRY.

I KNOW WHY I'M MARRYING YOU.

IT'S NOT BECAUSE

YOU ARE A CELEBRITY HERE
IN YOUR COUNTRY.

I'M MARRYING YOU BECAUSE
I LOVE YOU, USMAN UMAR.

I THINK WHAT WE HAVE

IS WORTH WORKING THIS OUT,

SO I WILL
MARRY YOU TOMORROW.

DO YOU STILL
WANT TO MARRY ME?

SO...

IT'S JUST BEEN VERY CRAZY
DOWN HERE FOR YOU AND I

FOR THREE WEEKS.

TOMORROW OPENS A NEW CHAPTER
IN OUR LIFE,

A NEW BEGINNING
AS HUSBAND AND WIFE.

AND I BELIEVE
WITH ALL MY HEART,

IT'S ONLY GONNA GROW
BIGGER AND BETTER.

I LOVE YOU.
‐I LOVE YOU, TOO.

OH, GOD.

I LOVE YOU.

I'VE BEEN IN UKRAINE NOW
FOR EIGHT DAYS,

BUT I'VE ONLY SEEN LANA
FOR TWO OF THOSE EIGHT DAYS.

LANA HAD TOLD ME THAT SHE IS
STILL NOT COMFORTABLE

WITH MEETING ME AT THE HOTEL.

LANA AND I STILL ONLY MAKE
PLANS THROUGH THE WEBSITE.

BECAUSE I'M PAYING
FOR OUR COMMUNICATION.

IT'S BEEN THIS WAY
FOR SEVEN YEARS.

TIME IS RUNNING OUT.

I'M GOING INTO THE FINAL
FEW DAYS OF THIS TRIP.

I JUST FEEL LIKE, RIGHT NOW,

I NEED TO KNOW THAT SHE'S ON
THE SAME PAGE WITH ME.

I WOULD LIKE TO GO HOME
NOT AS A SINGLE MAN.

LANA TOLD ME THAT
SHE WAS BUSY ALL DAY.

SO TONIGHT, SHE'S MEETING ME
AT A CAFé.

I MADE THE DECISION YEARS AGO.

LANA MADE THE DECISIONS
YEARS AGO ALSO

FOR US TO HAVE
A FUTURE TOGETHER,

BUT I JUST WANT TO BE SURE THAT
WE'RE STILL ON THE SAME PAGE.

OH, WOW.

BABY, BABY!

HELLO.

MM.

I'M SO GLAD YOU CAME.

SIT RIGHT HERE.

MM‐HMM.

MM‐HMM, MM‐HMM.

I'VE HAD A GREAT TIME
WITH YOU THIS WEEK.

I AM REALLY HAPPY THAT
WE AT LAST MET.

AT LAST.

BUT...

I'M GONNA HAVE TO GO HOME.

I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW NOW

IF WE'RE ON THE SAME PAGE.

AND I WOULD LIKE
TO LEAVE THE SITE.

YES, I AGREE.

I ALSO I WANT TO LEAVE
THE WEBSITE.

I'M... IN LOVE WITH YOU.

AND I HAVE
SOMETHING FOR YOU,

AND I DON'T KNOW HOW
YOU'RE GONNA REACT.

THIS PHONE WILL ALLOW US
TO COMMUNICATE

WITHOUT THE WEBSITE
ANY TIME OF DAY.

WE'LL HAVE VIDEO CHAT ON HERE

AND WE'LL HAVE TRANSLATION
ON HERE ALSO.

EVERYTHING YOU NEED
WILL BE ON HERE.

DO YOU LIKE IT?

WHAT IS THE PROBLEM?

IF IT HELPS TO COMMUNICATE TO US
WITHOUT THE WEBSITES,

I CAN ACCEPT IT.

DO YOU WANT TO GO TAKE A WALK?

DA.

THEN, LET'S GO.

I'M VERY HAPPY. VERY HAPPY.

‐YES.
‐YES, "ME, TOO."

NOW THAT LANA HAS THE CELLPHONE,

WE'LL BE ABLE TO TALK
TO EACH OTHER

WHENEVER WE WANT
AND AT ANY TIME OF THE DAY.

AND WE WON'T BE
ON THE WEBSITES ANYMORE.

PERFECT. PERFECT.

OH. I FEEL SO GOOD.

I KNOW
I DIDN'T LISTEN TO YOU.

I'M JUST READY TO MEND MY
RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAUGHTER.

SO, I'M YOUR MAN AGAIN?

I GOT BACK TO SAN DIEGO
A FEW DAYS AGO

FROM THE PHILIPPINES
AFTER THINGS ENDED WITH ROSE.

I'M SAD IT DIDN'T WORK OUT,

BUT I HAD
TO GO THROUGH THAT PROCESS.

I HAD TO MEET HER IN PERSON
AND TRY TO LEARN AS MUCH

AS I COULD ABOUT HER,
WHICH I THINK I DID.

AND ULTIMATELY,
IN THE END, IT FAILED,

BUT I'M GONNA BE OKAY.

AND NOW, I'M JUST READY TO MEND
MY RELATIONSHIP

WITH MY DAUGHTER.

I REACHED OUT TO TIFFANY
AND SHE HAS AGREED TO MEET.

SO, I'M GONNA GO PICK HER
UP AT MY MOM'S.

TIFFANY AND I'S RELATIONSHIP
BEFORE I LEFT

FOR THE PHILIPPINES
WAS PRETTY MUCH OVER.

SHE THOUGHT I WAS MAKING
A DEVASTATING MISTAKE.

I'VE BEEN WANTING TO TELL HER
WHAT HAPPENED,

BUT I'M NOT REALLY SURE WHAT
TIFFANY IS GONNA SAY TO ME

OR, YOU KNOW,
HOW SHE'S GONNA REACT.

SHE'S THE MOST IMPORTANT
PERSON IN MY LIFE,

AND KNOWING THAT YOUR DAUGHTER
IS MAD AT YOU

AND NEVER WANTS
TO TALK TO YOU AGAIN.

THAT'S BEEN REALLY HARD
FOR ME TO DEAL WITH.

‐HEY.
‐HI.

‐HERE YOU GO.
‐THANK YOU.

YEAH, SO, I THOUGHT WE WOULD GO
SOMEWHERE AND TAKE A WALK.

‐OKAY.
‐THAT GOOD?

YEAH, THAT'S FINE.

WHEN MY DAD TOLD ME
ABOUT ROSEMARY, I FREAKED OUT,

AND MY DAD AND I HAD
A HUGE ARGUMENT ON THE PHONE.

I WAS SO HURT WITH THE FACT

THAT HE WASN'T LISTENING
TO HIS ONLY DAUGHTER

THAT IS COMING
FROM A PLACE OF LOVE

AND CONCERN THAT I CEASED
ALL CONTACT WITH HIM.

I DON'T KNOW HOW TO MOVE PAST
THAT, AT LEAST RIGHT NOW.

OH, LOOK AT THE KITES.

I KNOW.

SO, WHAT'S UP?

WELL...

YOU WERE RIGHT.

YEAH, IT JUST...

KIND OF BLEW UP IN MY FACE.

I TRIED TO WARN YOU.

I HAD TO DO IT.

I HAD TO FOLLOW THROUGH,
YOU KNOW,

AND I KNOW
I DIDN'T LISTEN TO YOU.

I DIDN'T REALLY UNDERSTAND
WHY YOU WERE SO UPSET.

I WAS UPSET THAT YOU'RE OLD
ENOUGH TO BE HER DAD.

AND I WAS JUST LIKE,
"WHAT ARE YOU DOING?"

23?

I'M 29.

WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN COMMON
WITH HER?

LIKE, I JUST...

IT WAS HARD

BECAUSE YOU WERE
BLOWING ME OFF

AND ESSENTIALLY SAYING, "F‐YOU.

LIKE, I DON'T GIVE A
I'M JUST GONNA DO WHATEVER."

I WAS SELFISH...

AND I'M SORRY.

ONE THING THAT I DEFINITELY WANT
YOU TO KNOW IS THAT YOU WERE,

AND ARE, AND HAVE ALWAYS
BEEN THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.

WE HAVE SUCH A GREAT FOUNDATION.

I DID REALIZE, WELL,
I JUST PROBABLY FLUSHED

THAT ALL DOWN THE TOILET

AND THAT'S WHAT SCARED ME
THE MOST.

FOR WHAT IT'S WORTH, I'M SORRY
FOR NOT LISTENING, YOU KNOW,

TO YOU AND THE FACT THAT
I HURT YOU.

I APPRECIATE THAT.

‐I'M HUMAN.
‐I KNOW.

I'M A DUMB ASS.

I'M A HUMAN FUNNY, DUMB ASS.

I REALLY WANT TO FOCUS
ON PUTTING MY RELATIONSHIP

BACK TOGETHER
WITH MY DAUGHTER,

BUT I HAVE NO REGRETS
ABOUT FINDING ROSE

AND FALLING IN LOVE.

IT BROKE MY HEART.

I SPENT A LOT OF TIME,
A LOT OF MONEY,

BUT I JUST WANTED
TO BE HAPPY.

I WANTED WHAT EVERY COUPLE
I SEE EVERY DAY HAS.

I WANT INTIMACY. I WANT LOVE.

GOOD MORNING.

YOUR FEET ARE COLD.

YOUR TOES, NOT TOYS.

TOYS.

LAST NIGHT, IT DIDN'T GO THE WAY
THAT I HAD ENVISIONED IT.

I WAS DISAPPOINTED THE WAY
THE THINGS ENDED AT THE BAR.

MARY AND VARYA GOT UPSET,

SO I WANTED TO GET
THE HELL OUT OF THERE.

BUT VARYA IS HERE.

I KNOW IT LOOKS BAD,
YOU KNOW,

I WAS WITH MARY THE DAY PRIOR,

AND THEN, YOU KNOW,
NOW I'M WITH VARYA.

I'M NOT SURE WHERE
THE SITUATION'S GOING.

I HAVE THESE DOUBTS
STILL LINGERING

IN THE BACK OF MY HEAD.

I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT AGAIN.

YOU KNOW, I THINK...

I THINK LAST NIGHT
WAS CRAZY.

HOW DO YOU FEEL
ABOUT THINGS NOW?

MARY'S MY FRIEND.

SO I'M YOUR MAN AGAIN?

I JUST WANT TO SLOWLY MOVE
INTO THINGS.

OKAY.

I'LL SHOW YOU MY WAY OF LIFE.

I'LL SEE IF YOU WANT THIS
AND THEY'LL GO FROM THERE.

I THINK VARYA IS EXPECTING ME
TO JUST FALL BACK

INTO THIS WHOLE SITUATION.

WHEREAS, I'VE GOT TO HAVE
A LITTLE TIME.

I'VE GOT TO TAKE IT A LITTLE
SLOW AND, YOU KNOW,

SEE WHERE THINGS GO.

HAWK.

THERE HAVE BEEN EAGLES
AROUND HERE, YES.

COME ON. LET'S GO.
IT'LL BE FUN.

WOW.

YOU NEED MORE TIME HERE, HUH?

JUST YOU HERE, RIGHT?

MM‐HMM.

WELL, I DIDN'T EVER THINK
I WAS GONNA SEE YOU AGAIN.

I REALLY DIDN'T.
I HAD MOVED ON.

I HAD MOVED PAST.

IN RUSSIA, I WAS HAPPY
WHERE THINGS WERE GOING.

I WAS HAPPY ABOUT MY FEELINGS.

AND I FEEL LIKE YOU CONVEYED
THE EXACT SAME FEELINGS TO ME,

AND THEN I WAS JUST KIND OF
BOMBARDED WITH...

YOUR ANSWER.

YEAH. BUT YOU ‐‐

YES.

WAS IT A MISTAKE TELLING ME NO
WHEN I ASKED YOU TO MARRY ME?

WHAT WOULD YOU SAY RIGHT NOW
IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME?

YES.

IT'S JUST A LOT TO PROCESS.

I'M HAPPY TO HEAR
VARYA SAY THAT,

BUT PART OF ME
STILL QUESTIONS

IF SHE REALIZES HOW BAD
SHE REALLY HURT ME.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK
ABOUT THIS WHOLE SITUATION.

I JUST WANT TO REALLY KNOW
IF IT'S RIGHT.

I WASN'T TRUTHFUL ABOUT
THE REASON

I WENT TO AUSTRALIA.

IT'S TIME TO COME OUT TO MY MOM

AND TELL HER WHAT HAPPENED
WITH ERIKA.

I'VE BEEN BACK FROM AUSTRALIA
FOR A FEW WEEKS NOW,

AND I STILL HAVEN'T
TALKED TO ERIKA.

I RISKED A LOT
GOING TO MEET HER,

ESPECIALLY WITH MY ILLNESS.

I WANTED TO BUILD TRUST
WITH ERIKA,

BUT I JUST COULDN'T.

AND IF YOU DON'T HAVE TRUST,

YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE ANYTHING.

AND...

I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO TALK
TO MY MOM ABOUT ANYTHING

BECAUSE I'M NOT OUT TO HER YET.

BUT IT'S TIME TO COME OUT
TO MY MOM AND TELL HER

ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED
WITH ERIKA.

THE LAST TIME I SAW MY MOM,

SHE PICKED ME UP
FROM THE AIRPORT.

I FEEL SO NERVOUS ABOUT
COMING OUT TO MY MOM

BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW
HOW SHE'S GOING TO REACT.

SHE JUST HAS THIS
VERY CLEAR PICTURE

OF WHAT SHE WANTS FOR ME,

BUT I JUST WANT MY MOM
TO ACCEPT IT

AND SEE ME FOR WHO I AM.

COME ON.

THE WORST CASE SCENARIO IS THAT
SHE DOESN'T BELIEVE IT,

SHE INVALIDATES MY FEELINGS,

OR SHE JUST COMPLETELY
SHUTS ME OUT.

IT'S SCARY.

SO WHY DON'T YOU HELP US
AT THE TABLE?

‐HEY!
‐WHY DON'T YOU BRING THIS?

‐HOW'S IT GOING?
‐I'M JUST CHILLIN'.

OKAY.

SO BRING THIS TO THE TABLE.

‐CAN YOU BRING ‐‐
‐AND BRING THE PLATE.

I'M GONNA TAKE THE BREAD.

OKAY.
HERE'S THE GOULASH, GUYS.

I'M ABOUT TO BE
IN GOULASH HEAVEN.

I'M SO HAPPY YOU'RE BACK.
I WAS SO WORRIED, HONEY.

YOU HAVE NO IDEA.

IT'S SO GOOD
TO BE BACK HOME.

WHEN I PICKED YOU UP
AT THE AIRPORT,

YOU REALLY DIDN'T SOUND
LIKE YOURSELF.

I KNOW YOU TRAVELED,
BUT YOU WERE, LIKE,

VERY, VERY DIFFERENT.

WHAT'S WRONG?

UM...

I WASN'T 100% TRUTHFUL
ABOUT EVERYTHING

THAT HAPPENED IN AUSTRALIA.

SO...

I MET ERIKA ON THE INTERNET

AND...

OVER THE PAST FEW MONTHS,

THINGS BETWEEN ME AND HER

TOOK A MORE ROMANTIC TURN.

AND THE REASON WHY I WENT
TO AUSTRALIA

WAS TO START A RELATIONSHIP
THAT WAS MORE SERIOUS WITH HER

THAT WOULD MAYBE LEAD TO HER
MOVING TO THE UNITED STATES,

BUT IT DIDN'T WORK OUT.

WHY ARE YOU
SHAKING YOUR HEAD?

I DON'T KNOW, BECAUSE...

I DON'T THINK I'M REALLY
CONFUSED, MOM.

THIS IS NOT SOMETHING NEW.

LIKE, THIS ISN'T THE FIRST TIME
THAT I'VE EVER HAD FEELINGS

FOR ANOTHER WOMAN.

I AM BISEXUAL.

THIS IS ME,
WHO I AM AS A PERSON.

I JUST ‐‐

STEPHANIE BEING BISEXUAL,

THIS IS SOMETHING
I HAVE TO DEAL WITH.

SO IF IN THE FUTURE, I AM
IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN.

DO YOU WANT ME TO TELL YOU?

OF COURSE.

CAN I GIVE YOU A HUG?

HONEY, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

I LOVE YOU, BABY.
MY ANGEL.

I'M GLAD THAT I TOLD HER.

ALL RIGHT, I'M GONNA
HELP YOU CLEAR THE TABLE.

AND EVEN THOUGH MY MOM
DIDN'T EMBRACE

THE WHOLE IDEA
OF ME BEING BISEXUAL,

SHE'S ALSO NOT COMPLETELY

REJECTING THE IDEA
AND THE THOUGHT.

SO I JUST NEED TO CONTINUE
BEING HONEST WITH HER

AND JUST LIVING MY TRUTH.

I'M NOT HIDING ANYTHING
FROM ANYBODY ANYMORE.

‐I LOVE YOU.
‐I LOVE YOU.

‐HI.
‐HI.

HELLO.

I'M CONFUSED, LIKE,
I MEAN, IF MARY WAS THERE,

HOW DID THAT WORK?

OH, MY GOD.

OH, MY GOD.

I BLOCKED TOM, BUT HE TRIED
TO REACH OUT TO ME AGAIN.

SO I DON'T NEED THIS.

IT LOOKS LIKE SERGEI,
THE PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR,

HE SENT ME A LIST OF SITES

SHOWING WHERE HE FOUND ONE,
HIS INFORMATION.

SERGEI CLAIMED THAT LANA
WAS SCAMMING ME

BECAUSE SHE HAD PROFILES
ON OTHER WEBSITES

SO I FIRED HIM,

BUT HE DECIDED
TO SEND ME THE LINKS ANYWAY.

IT'S HER PHOTO. IT'S HER.

DIFFERENT CITIES,
DIFFERENT NAMES,

ANASTASIA LIVING IN MOSCOW.

THAT'S A PICTURE OF LANA
AND IT'S TELLING ME SHE'S 28.

SHE IS 28.

THAT'S ACCURATE,
HER BIRTH DATE IS ACCURATE,

HER HEIGHT IS EVEN ACCURATE.

SHE'S GOT THREE PROFILES
ON THIS RUSSIAN WEBSITE.

THESE LINKS ARE ALL
BULL.

AND I ALREADY CALLED
SERGEI OUT ON HIS BULL.

HEY, SERGEI,

ADD THIS TO MY CASE FILE.

CASE CLOSED.

TOMORROW, I'M LEAVING TO GO
BACK TO THE USA,

BUT LANA'S BUSY
BABYSITTING HER NEPHEW

AND IT'S A LITTLE HURTFUL.

FEELING A LITTLE LONELY TODAY.

I JUST REALLY WISH I HAD
MORE HOURS WITH HER

BECAUSE MY TRIP IS OVER.

AND IT'S STILL HARD FOR ME
TO UNDERSTAND

EXACTLY WHERE SHE STANDS
ABOUT GETTING MARRIED.

THIS WHOLE TRIP HERE,

IT'S JUST BEEN ME IN THE BED.

LANA DIDN'T SPEND
ANY OVERNIGHTS WITH ME.

LANA'S BEEN A LITTLE WISHY
WASHY ON WHICH DIRECTION

SHE REALLY WANTED TO GO,

TELLING ME THAT SHE WANTED TO
TAKE THINGS ONE STEP AT A TIME,

BUT SHE HAS PROMISED ME SHE IS
GOING TO ACTUALLY MEET ME HERE

AND SEE ME OFF
AT THE AIRPORT TOMORROW.

THAT'S A BIG STEP
IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

SHE'S ACTUALLY ‐‐
SHE WANTS TO SEE ME OFF.

SHE WANTS TO SAY GOODBYE
AT THE LAST POSSIBLE MINUTE.

I'M AT THE AIRPORT MANY TIMES
AND I SEE COUPLES IN THERE

AND THEY'RE SAYING GOODBYE.

AND I THINK,
"WOW, I WISH THAT WAS ME."

I WAS REALLY HOPING TO SEE
LANA TODAY,

BUT AT LEAST RIGHT NOW
I CAN CALL HER.

HI, BABY.

I AM REALLY SAD THAT WE DIDN'T
GET TO SEE EACH OTHER TODAY,

ON MY LAST REAL DAY
HERE IN UKRAINE.

CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU
TOMORROW.

THANKS, BABY. KISSES.

BYE‐BYE.

IT WAS DEFINITELY WORTH IT
TO COME ON THIS TRIP

AND ACTUALLY MEET HER,

BUT I DON'T ACTUALLY
HAVE MY GIRL YET.

I NEED TO PUT A RING
ON THE FINGER.

IN MY RELATIONSHIP WITH LANA
OVER THE PAST SEVEN YEARS,

I HAVE ALWAYS QUESTIONED
WHETHER SHE WAS ATTRACTED TO ME

AS MUCH AS
I'M ATTRACTED TO HER

BECAUSE SHE NEVER SHOWS IT
AS MUCH AS I SHOW IT TO HER.

WE'VE HAD SOME AMAZING
MOMENTS TOGETHER,

BUT SHE'S BEEN HOT AND COLD.

I DON'T KNOW IF IT'S TIME
TO TAKE THAT NEXT STEP

AND MAKE THAT PROPOSAL.

I REALLY DON'T WANT HER
TO SAY NO.

SO I'VE GOT A LOT TO THINK
ABOUT TONIGHT.

‐YOU WANT TO SIT DOWN?
‐WHOA.

I KNOW, IT'S BEAUTIFUL,
ISN'T IT?

UH‐HUH. LOVE IT.

AFTER SPENDING A FEW DAYS
TOGETHER WITH VARYA, YOU KNOW,

IT'S MAKING ME THINK ABOUT
WHERE THIS IS GONNA GO.

YOU EXCITED ABOUT MEETING
THE BOYS?

TODAY WE'RE GONNA GET TO
SPEND SOME TIME WITH MY KIDS,

PAXTON AND DAKOTA.

THEY ARE IN COLLEGE RIGHT NOW

AND THEY'RE COMING OVER
TO MEET UP WITH US.

I REALLY WANT THEM
TO GIVE ME THEIR OPINION.

THERE THEY ARE.

‐HI.
‐HELLO.

YOU WANT TO GO SEE
THE SUNSPHERE?

‐YEAH.
‐YEAH.

I WOULD LOVE TO.
I HAVEN'T BEEN THERE IN YEARS.

LET'S ROLL.

I MET VARYA AT MY DAD'S.

WHEN SHE SHOWED UP OUT
OF NOWHERE

AND A HUGE ORDEAL
WAS STARTED.

IT WAS PRETTY AWKWARD,

BUT I DON'T WANT
THAT FIRST IMPRESSION

TO BE THE BASIS
OF THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP.

HOW ARE YOU LIKING TENNESSEE?

THIS IS ALL NEW STUFF

BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T SAY
THAT BEFORE.

SHE'S MORE OF A CITY GIRL.

I THINK VARYA COMING HERE
WAS A VERY BOLD MOVE.

I THINK IT SHOWS THAT SHE WANTS
TO BE A PART OF THIS.

BUT I DON'T WANT DAD SAD
ALL OVER AGAIN.

ARE THERE SKYSCRAPERS
IN RUSSIA, I'M GONNA GUESS?

MOSCOW'S HUGE.

OH, WELL, YEAH.
THAT MAKES SENSE.

I MEAN, MAJORLY HUGE.

IT'S PRETTY GOOD TO FINALLY
MEET YOU AND STUFF.

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT HER?

‐THAT'S SO WEIRD.
‐YOU'RE WEIRD.

‐AND I LIKE EMBARRASSING YOU.
‐YOU ARE EMBARRASSING ME.

SO WHAT DO YOU THINK
ABOUT HER, THOUGH, FOR REAL?

WELL, I'M CONFUSED.

LIKE, I MEAN, IF MARY WAS THERE
AND EVERYTHING,

YOU JUST GO OKAY,
"BYE MARY."

LIKE HOW DID THAT WORK?

DO YOU TALK TO HER ANYMORE
OR WHAT'S THAT?

I'M HOPEFUL THAT SHE'LL
COME AROUND AS A FRIEND STILL.

HOPEFULLY THAT'LL ‐‐

‐MAYBE IN TIME ‐‐
‐MAYBE IN TIME?

BECAUSE MARY, YOU KNOW,
MARY IS GOOD FRIEND.

HE'S DEFINITELY BEEN SMILING
A LOT FROM WHAT I'VE SEEN.

THEY REALLY BOUNCE OFF
EACH OTHER,

I THINK THIS IS GONNA BE
REALLY GOOD FOR HIM.

ALL RIGHT.

AW. THANK YOU.

I'M OKAY WITH THAT.

AS LONG AS THEY DON'T MAKE
THE SAME MISTAKES I DID IN LIFE.

OH.

I'M EXCITED.

UH‐HUH.

TONIGHT, I'M GONNA TAKE VARYA
ON THIS COOL LITTLE CRUISE

AROUND THE TENNESSEE RIVER.

COOL.

WE'RE HAVING A GOOD TIME
AND I'M LETTING MY GUARD DOWN.

I'M OPENING MYSELF UP, BUT
I'VE BEEN HURT BY VARYA BEFORE,

SO I'M NOT SURE WHERE THINGS
PROGRESS FROM HERE ON OUT.

BUT, YOU KNOW, I THINK THAT
WE'RE STARTING MOVING,

YOU KNOW,
IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION.

ARE YOU READY TO BE HERE
FOR GOOD?

I FEEL THAT...

I LOVE YOU.

I'VE ALWAYS LOVED YOU.
I'VE NEVER STOPPED LOVING YOU.

YOU KNOW, I TRIED TO COVER IT UP
WITH ANOTHER WOMAN

BUT ONCE YOU WERE AT MY DOOR,
ALL THESE EMOTIONS

AND I'M TRYING MY BEST
TO BLOCK,

THEY ALL CAME UP AND THEY ALL ‐‐
THEY WERE REAL.

SO...

SHE'S KIND OF ‐‐

SHE'S KIND OF PUSHING ME,

AND I FEEL IN AN AWKWARD
POSITION, HONESTLY.

I DON'T KNOW THAT
I'M READY AT THIS

VERY MOMENT TO SAY, YOU KNOW,
"HEY, WILL YOU MARRY ME?"

I SEE THE AFFECTION
THAT VARYA HAS

AND I'M GETTING THOSE EMOTIONS
THOSE FEELINGS

THAT I THOUGHT WERE GONE.

MAKING THIS DECISION,
WHETHER OR NOT TO PROPOSE

TO VARYA AGAIN,
IT'S GONNA BE REALLY HARD.

I WILL MISS YOU, FOR SURE.

AFTER FINDING WILLIAMS'
PHOTOS ONLINE,

WHEN WE DID
THE REVERSE IMAGE SEARCH,

I'VE BEEN TRYING
TO CONVINCE MY MOM

THAT WILLIAMS
HAS BEEN SCAMMING HER,

BUT I FOUND OUT MY MOM
IS STILL TALKING TO WILLIAMS

AND I NEED TO SHUT
THIS WHOLE THING DOWN.

THIS HAS GONE ON LONG ENOUGH.

I DON'T WANT TO SEE MY MOM
BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.

I JUST WANT SOMETHING BETTER
FOR HER.

SO I HIRED A PRIVATE
INVESTIGATOR

TO FINALLY GET MY MOM
SOME ANSWERS.

SHE SAID SHE WILL
SPEAKING TO HIM.

HEY MA, COME ON,
LET'S GO DO THIS CALL.

MY DAUGHTER, KARRA, HAS BEEN
TRYING TO GET ME TO TALK

TO A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR

AND NOW I'M FINALLY
GONNA DO IT

BECAUSE WILLIAMS DIDN'T RESPOND
TO ME FOR WEEKS,

BUT SUDDENLY
HE REACHED OUT TO ME.

I TOLD HIM THAT I WAS FEELING
LIKE HE LEFT ME

COMPLETELY BY MYSELF.

HE TOLD ME
HE STILL LOVES ME.

I DO STILL LOVE HIM.

I'M SO CONFUSED AT THIS POINT.

‐HI.
‐HI.

HI.

THIS IS MY MOM, YOLANDA.

SO TELL ME A LITTLE BIT
HOW YOU MET THIS GENTLEMEN.

WE MET ON SOCIAL MEDIA
AND WE'VE BEEN TALKING

FOR QUITE A FEW MONTHS

GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER
VERY WELL,

BUT HE NEVER FACETIMED ME

BECAUSE, YOU KNOW, HE CLAIMED
HIS CAMERA WAS BROKEN.

OKAY.

IS IT ALL BEEN THROUGH TEXTING

OR HAVE YOU ACTUALLY BEEN ABLE
TO SPEAK TO HIM ON THE PHONE?

WE'VE BEEN TALKING QUITE A LOT
ON THE PHONE

AND WE'VE BEEN TEXTING.
‐OKAY.

WHERE DOES HE SAY
THAT HE'S FROM?

MANCHESTER.

MANCHESTER, ENGLAND?

‐YES.
‐YEAH, BUT HE DOESN'T KNOW

ANY INFORMATION
ABOUT MANCHESTER.

BASICALLY, HIS INSTAGRAM
ACCOUNT WAS DELETED.

IT JUST CHANGED TO A NIGERIAN
EDUCATIONAL CENTER.

AND THEN SHE TOLD ME ABOUT
AN EMAIL SHE RECEIVED,

A THREATENING EMAIL.

CAN YOU TELL ME THE DETAILS
OF THOSE THREATENING EMAILS?

YEAH, IT JUST CAME OUT
OF NOWHERE, ASKING ME FOR MONEY,

AND SAID THAT THEY HAD
PICTURES OF ME

AND THEY KNOW
WHERE I LIVE IN LAS VEGAS.

AND DID THEY ACTUALLY PROVIDE
YOU WITH YOUR HOME ADDRESS

OR DID THEY JUST SAY
THEY HAD IT?

NO, THEY JUST SAID
THEY HAD IT.

AND YOU'VE SPOKEN TO HIM
SINCE THIS?

YES, MM‐HMM.

SO WHAT WAS HIS EXPLANATION
FOR THAT?

FOR THE INSTAGRAM ACCOUNT,

HE SAID THAT HE BELIEVED
HE GOT HACKED.

AND I NEVER QUESTIONED HIM
ABOUT THE EMAIL.

OKAY.

SO BASICALLY WHAT WE WOULD DO
AT MY FIRM

IS WE WOULD TAKE
ALL OF THE INFORMATION

THAT HE HAS GIVEN YOU.

WE WOULD USE DIFFERENT TYPES
OF DATABASES

AND SEE IF THIS PERSON
REALLY EXISTS.

BASED ON WHAT YOU TWO ARE BOTH
TELLING ME HERE TODAY ‐‐

MM‐HMM.

I BELIEVE THAT
YOU'VE PROBABLY BEEN

A VICTIM OF A CATFISHING SCAM.

LOT OF SIMILARITIES,

BUT LET US DIG
FURTHER INTO THIS

AND THEN MAYBE WE CAN FIGURE OUT
WHAT HIS TRUE IDENTITY IS.

OKAY.

THANK YOU.

‐THANK YOU.
‐SAME TO YOU. BYE.

‐BYE.
‐BYE‐BYE.

HOPEFULLY THE PRIVATE
INVESTIGATOR WILL COME BACK

WITH SOME INFORMATION THAT SHOWS
WILLIAMS IS REALLY REAL.

THAT'S WHAT I'M HOPING FOR.

WAKE UP.

TODAY IS MY WEDDING DAY
AND I CANNOT WAIT.

LAST NIGHT, USMAN AND I
GOT INTO A HUGE FIGHT

IN FRONT OF BOTH
OF HIS BROTHERS.

I DO FEEL BAD, BUT HIM AND I
TALKED ABOUT IT

AND WE'RE NOT GONNA
THROW AWAY

JUST BECAUSE WE HAD
AN ARGUMENT OR TWO,

PLUS I'M FLYING BACK
TO THE U. S. TOMORROW.

IT'S TIME TO GET YOUR BUTT
OUT OF BED.

GET UP.

OH, MY GOD.

MY WEDDING DAY!

LET ME SEE, TURN.

I GUESS IT'S TIME FOR ME
TO GET DRESSED, HUH?

OKAY.

HURRY UP. LET ME SEE YOU.

WOW.

IT'S BEAUTIFUL.

OOH!

AFTER WE GOT MOMMY'S BLESSINGS,

USMAN AND I PICKED OUT
THE MATERIAL FOR MY GOWN.

IT'S BEAUTIFUL
AND SO DELICATE.

THE SEQUINS,
THEY'RE STUNNING.

I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT.

BUT USMAN'S TAILOR CREATED
THIS CINDERELLA GOWN.

IT WAS BREATHTAKING.

OH, MY GOD.

AAH.

MM, BUT THE BRA IS GONNA SHOW,
YOU DON'T WANT THE BRA TO SHOW.

YEAH, I'LL JUST ADJUST THE GIRLS
UP TO WHERE THEY NEED TO BE.

WAIT, WAIT, WAIT.

YEAH, LET'S GO,
MY AFRICAN KING.

LET'S GO DO THIS
AND MAKE IT LEGAL.

YES.

IT'S NOT BEEN A EASY JOURNEY
TO GET HERE,

BUT I'M ABOUT TO MARRY
THE MAN OF MY DREAMS.

OH, THIS IS GOING TO BE FUN.

I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS DAY
FOR TWO YEARS.

TWO YEARS ‐‐ TWO YEARS,
WE WAITED FOR THIS.

THE DESTINY HAS COME.

MM‐HMM.

ARE WE READY FOR THIS?

MM‐HMM.

‐I DON'T WANT MY DRESS WET.
‐MM‐HMM.

THIS WAY.

OH, MY GOD.

WHEN WE WALK INTO
THE MARRIAGE REGISTRY,

THERE IS MORE PEOPLE
THAN I EXPECTED.

BUT EVERYONE'S REALLY VERY QUIET
AND I'M NOT IN AMERICA,

SO I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT'S
GOING ON AT THIS TIME.

LAST NIGHT, LISA HAD A BIG BLOW
UP IN FRONT OF MY BROTHERS.

OKAY.

‐I...
‐I...

USMAN UMAR, SOJABOY.

‐DO TAKE YOU...
‐DO TAKE YOU...

LISA.

TO BE MY LOVELY WEDDED WIFE.

TO BE MY LOVELY WEDDED WIFE.

SO HELP ME, GOD.

‐I...
‐I...

‐YOUR NAME.
‐LISA.

DO TAKE YOU...

DO TAKE YOU, USMAN UMAR.

TO BE MY LOVELY
WEDDED HUSBAND.

TO BE MY LOVELY
WEDDED HUSBAND.

SO HELP ME GOD.

SO HELP ME GOD.

AMEN.

OKAY?

CONGRATULATIONS.

THANK YOU.

‐LET'S GO.
‐MM‐HMM.

WE DID IT.

WE'RE GETTING READY TO GO BACK
TO THE HOTEL ‐‐

YES.

I GOT TO CHANGE OUT OF THIS BIG,
HEAVY DRESS ‐‐

MM‐HMM.

AND PUT ON
MY NEXT DINNER DRESS.

MM‐HMM...

EATING, YES.

YES, WITH THE FAMILY
AND YOUR CRAZY FRIENDS.

YES.

LISA!

LISA!

THERE'S A LOT OF DANCING
GOING ON AT THIS WEDDING,

BUT I'M NOT ALLOWED
TO BE A PART OF IT.

HERE IN NIGERIA, THE WOMEN
DO NOT DANCE WITH THE MEN.

BUT IT IS A LOT OF FUN
TO WATCH MY HUSBAND DANCE.

UNFORTUNATELY, USMAN'S MOM
WAS NOT FEELING WELL,

SO HER AND MUHAMMED
ARE MISSING THE RECEPTION.

I'M DISAPPOINTED THAT
THEY COULDN'T BE THERE.

HELLO.

HI.

I THANK YOU SO MUCH.

I FEEL LIKE I'M LIVING
A CINDERELLA STORY.

THIS IS WILD.

I'M HAPPY, SUPER EXCITED.

I'M LIKE WHOO!

ALL RIGHT.

GOT YOUR HIKING SHOES ON?

‐YEP.
‐GOOD.

IT'S VARYA'S LAST DAY
IN TENNESSEE

AND I'M REALLY
GONNA MISS HER.

SPENDING THIS TIME WITH VARYA,
IT'S REKINDLED MY FEELINGS

PROBABLY MORE SO THAN I HAD
EVER EXPECTED IN ALL OF MY LIFE.

I KNOW
I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HER.

AND I WANT HER TO KNOW
THAT BEFORE SHE LEAVES.

SO THIS IS THE PLACE.

SO WHAT YOU DO, GRAB ONE
OF THESE LITTLE THINGS

AND YOU WRITE A WISH ON HERE.

AND THERE'S A PLACE OVER HERE
WHERE WE'RE GONNA PUT IT UP

AND WE'RE GONNA TIE IT
TO THE LITTLE THING

AND YOU RING A BELL

AND YOUR WISH
SUPPOSEDLY COMES TRUE.

SO WE'RE GONNA WRITE A WISH.

SO SAD TO REALIZE THAT

TWO WEEKS
PASSED LIKE IN ONE MOMENT

AND I WILL MISS HIM A LOT.

I'M READY.
‐ALL RIGHT, LET'S GO.

FOLLOW ME.

I CAN'T BELIEVE
YOU'RE LEAVING TOMORROW.

I'M NOT GONNA LET YOU
TAKE HALF BACK.

SO WHAT WE DO IS WE TAKE
OUR WISH THAT WE JUST GOT,

WE PUT IT
ON THE WALL IN HERE.

COOL.

SO FIND A SPOT THAT YOU WANT
TO PUT IT ON.

AND THEN ME.

THIS WAY.

THIS IS THE BELL
THAT I WAS TALKING ABOUT.

SO WHAT WE DO IS,

IS YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES...

AND YOU RING THE BELL,

AND MAGICAL CREATURES
ARE SUPPOSED TO, YOU KNOW,

MAKE THINGS COME TRUE.

VARYA...

I DIDN'T REALIZE
HOW MUCH I TRULY LOVED YOU

AND HOW MUCH I TRULY MISSED YOU
UNTIL YOU SAID,

"SURPRISE," AT MY DOORSTEP.

I MADE A WISH AND THE WISH

WAS FOR YOU TO BE
A PART OF MY FAMILY.

WILL YOU MARRY ME?

YES.

YOO‐HOO!

WILL YOU TAKE THIS RING
AND YOU'LL BE MY WIFE?

IT'S YES.

GIVE ME ANOTHER HUG.

WE'RE ENGAGED.

SHE FINALLY SAID YES.

BUT I WAS
REALLY KIND OF WORRIED

THAT I WAS GONNA GET ANOTHER,
"NOT YET."

I LOVE YOU.

I LOVE YOU, TOO.

‐TO CARRY YOU?
‐UH‐HUH.

ALL RIGHT, COME ON.

HI.

IT'S HARD BECAUSE

STACEY'S PROBABLY
GONNA GET MARRIED.

I WANT TO DO, LIKE...

IT MAKES ME
A LITTLE NERVOUS.

WE ARE GOING TO BE
7,000 MILES APART.

HELLO? SISTER.

HOLD ON, STACE.

I'VE GOT TO ZHUZH UP
A LITTLE BIT.

YOU NEVER KNOW
WHO YOU MIGHT RUN INTO.

IT'S BEEN A FEW WEEKS
SINCE I LAST SAW TOM.

I BLOCKED TOM.

I DON'T NEED TO TALK TO HIM.

I DON'T NEED TO HEAR FROM HIM.

JUST GOT TO MOVE ON.

THERE YOU ARE.
‐ARE YOU READY?

OH, I'VE BEEN READY.

OH, ALL RIGHT.

I'M JUST TRYING TO GET MY LIFE
BACK ON TRACK

AND USE THIS TIME
TO LOVE MYSELF, BETTER MYSELF,

AND I JUST WANT
TO FOCUS ON ME AGAIN.

SO DO YOU THINK TOM'S STILL
WITH THAT WOMAN?

‐OH, THE BLONDE?
‐YEAH.

WHO KNOWS?

EVEN IF HE'S NOT,
DOESN'T MATTER,

I'M NOT GONNA BE
PLAYED FOR A FOOL, YOU KNOW?

I GAVE MY HEART
AND I TRIED MY BEST,

BUT IT'S LIKE,
YOU CAN ONLY DO IT FOR SO LONG.

I DESERVE BETTER AND HE TRIED
TO REACH OUT TO ME AGAIN.

I LEFT TOM BEHIND,
BUT A FEW DAYS AGO

I GOT A MESSAGE AND I DIDN'T
RECOGNIZE THE NUMBER,

BUT THE GUY
IDENTIFIED HIMSELF

AS A GOOD FRIEND OF TOM'S
FROM THE U. K.

HE BASICALLY WAS LIKE,
"I'M A FRIEND OF TOM'S.

"WE'VE KNOWN EACH OTHER
OVER 20 YEARS IN NOTTINGHAM.

"FROM MY CONVERSATIONS WITH TOM,

"HE TOLD ME
THAT HE HAD MADE A MISTAKE.

"I WANTED TO SEE IF I COULD
BRIDGE

"THE CONVERSATION
BETWEEN YOU TWO.

"I KNOW HE WOULD LOVE THAT.

PLEASE LET ME KNOW
WHAT YOU THINK."

I DID NOT RESPOND.

I'LL FIND SOMEONE ELSE.

I DON'T NEED THIS.

I DIDN'T REPLY TO HIS FRIEND
AND BASICALLY A FEW HOURS LATER,

I GOT A SIMILAR MESSAGE
FROM HIS MOM.

I DIDN'T REPLY.
I DON'T WANT TO REPLY.

HE COULD SEND ALL THE MESSAGES
THROUGH OTHER PEOPLE

IF HE WANTS, BUT NO ONE'S
GONNA GET A RESPONSE BACK.

I AM DONE.

I MEANT IT AND I MEAN IT.

I MEAN, I'M REALLY PROUD
OF YOUR STRENGTHS

AND TO KNOW YOUR WORTH
AND TO MOVE ON.

I KNOW MY WORTH
AND HE AIN'T GETTING IT.

WHEN TO MOVE ON.

I HOPE YOU STICK TO IT.

TRUST ME, I WILL.

I AM VERY LUCKY TO HAVE STACEY

WHEN THINGS GET TOUGH
AND REALLY BAD IN RELATIONSHIPS,

WE HAVE EACH OTHER'S BACKS
AND GRATEFUL FOR THAT.

‐HI.
‐HI, I'M GOOD.

BUT AT THE SAME TIME,
IT'S HARD

BECAUSE STACEY'S PROBABLY
GONNA GET MARRIED.

WHAT DO YOU LIKE TODAY
FOR YOU?

I WANT TO DO, LIKE, FULL ON
GLAM, BLINGY BLING, SPARKLE.

MANIFEST IT.
GET YOUR MAN HERE.

YEAH.

FLORIAN'S K‐1 VISA INTERVIEW
IS COMING VERY SOON.

HE'S FROM ALBANIA.

WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER
FOUR AND A HALF YEARS

AND, YOU KNOW, I'M READY TO
START OUR FUTURE TOGETHER.

I WANT TO MAKE ROOTS WITH HIM

AND JUST LIVE
THE AMERICAN DREAM TOGETHER.

I'M, LIKE, NERVOUS, BUT EXCITED
AT THE SAME TIME.

YEAH.

I DON'T KNOW.

I KNOW WHAT YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH
AND IT'S TOUGH

AND IT'S REALLY SAD.
IT'S HEARTBREAKING.

I DON'T WANT YOU TO EVER HAVE
TO GO THROUGH THAT AGAIN.

I'M DEFINITELY GONNA KEEP
MY HEART OPEN.

IT'S DEFINITELY TIME
FOR A CHANGE.

THE LAST THREE YEARS
HAVE FELT TOXIC

AND I'VE GONE
THROUGH THE WORST.

I PICKED THE WRONG GUYS.

EXPECT LOVE TOO SOON, MAYBE?

BUT I AM WHO I AM AND I'M
GONNA LOVE REGARDLESS.

NEXT TIME,
I'LL BE MORE CAUTIOUS

BECAUSE I NEVER WANT TO BE
IN A SITUATION LIKE THAT AGAIN.

SO, I'LL WAIT
FOR THE RIGHT ONE.

I'M READY TO LOVE LIFE AGAIN.

DIAMONDS EVERYWHERE.

I DON'T NEED A MAN TO PUT
A DIAMOND ON MY FINGER.

WE HAVE EVERYTHING?

I'M GETTING READY TO DO
THE HARDEST THING OF OUR LIFE.

HMM?

MM‐HMM.

I'M LEAVING
MY BEST FRIEND TODAY,

MY HUSBAND, MY EVERYTHING.

NOT TO BE ABLE TO PHYSICALLY
HOLD HIM,

HAVE HIM NEXT TO ME IS GONNA
BE THE HARDEST THING

I HAVE TO DO IN MY LIFE.

I DON'T KNOW
HOW I'M GONNA DO THIS.

GOD GIVE US STRENGTH.

‐GET DOWN TO THE EMBASSY‐
‐YEAH.

AND START THE VISA.

AMEN, AMEN, AMEN.

YEAH.

I WILL.

‐USMAN?
‐MM.

WE'RE HERE.

PASSPORT CONTROL.

DON'T CRY, BABY LOVE.
DON'T, DON'T.

LOVE YOU.

USMAN IS MY DESTINY.

HE IS THE MAN I WILL SPEND
THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH,

BUT IT MAKES ME
A LITTLE NERVOUS

THAT WE ARE GOING TO BE
7,000 MILES APART.

IS HE GOING TO BE
FAITHFUL TO ME?

WHEN I GET BACK TO THE STATES,
I WILL APPLY FOR A SPOUSAL VISA.

I'M HOPING THAT HE WILL BE
IN THE UNITED STATES

WITHIN SIX MONTHS,

BUT NOT BEING TOGETHER,
IT WILL BE VERY DIFFICULT.

I KNOW I DON'T WANT TO BE AWAY
FROM YOU FOR 12 MONTHS,

WHATEVER IT CAN BE,
WITH A K‐1.

HOW ARE YOU FEELING ABOUT
OUR RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW?

I DON'T WANT TO GO YET.

MM.

‐CAN YOU HELP ME?
‐OF COURSE.

‐READY?
‐MNH‐MNH.

YOU CAN'T BE READY FOR THAT.

‐THANK YOU.
‐MM‐HMM.

I'M GONNA MISS HIM.

I JUST CAN'T BELIEVE
THAT IT'S ALREADY HERE.

I KNOW I DON'T WANT TO BE AWAY
FROM YOU FOR EIGHT, 10 MONTHS,

12 MONTHS,
WHATEVER IT CAN BE WITH A K‐1.

YOU HAVE EVERYTHING?

YEAH.

THIS IS GUT WRENCHING.

IT'S GUT WRENCHING
FOR BOTH OF US.

BUT I'M HAPPY.
I'M HAPPY FOR THE FUTURE.

I'M HAPPY FOR WHAT'S GONNA
HAPPEN AND WHAT'S GONNA COME.

IT DIDN'T START OUT AS HAPPINESS
WHEN I SAW HER AT MY DOORSTEP.

IT WAS REALLY ‐‐
I WAS SCARED,

BUT IT TURNED INTO
A BEAUTIFUL TIME.

A BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE.

NO, DON'T CRY.

THIS IS HAPPY STUFF, OKAY?

WE'RE GONNA SEE EACH OTHER
AGAIN SOON.

YOU HAVE A PROMISE FROM ME
ON YOUR FINGER, OKAY?

I AGREE.

IT'S ALL RIGHT,
IT'S GOOD, OKAY?

BE CAREFUL.

‐BYE.
‐BYE, BABY.

IT'S A DEPRESSING TIME

THAT WE'RE GONNA HAVE
AWAY FROM EACH OTHER.

K‐1 VISA TAKES ROUGHLY
EIGHT MONTHS AVERAGE,

WHICH IT COULD BE
EVEN MORE THAN THAT.

BUT IN THE END,
IT'S GONNA BE WORTH IT.

WHAT'S EIGHT MONTHS
IN THE GRAND SCHEME OF THINGS,

WHEN IT COMES TO A LIFETIME,
A FUTURE,

YOU KNOW, ROCKING CHAIRS,

OLD PEOPLE, KIDS, GRANDKIDS,
ALL THAT STUFF WITH VARYA.

I KNOW IN THE END,
WE'RE GONNA BE TOGETHER.

SO IT'S OKAY.

TODAY IS THE DAY
I LEAVE UKRAINE.

I HAVE A REALLY EARLY FLIGHT
TO THE UNITED STATES

THIS MORNING,
BUT I DON'T WANT TO GO.

I WANT MORE TIME WITH LANA.

IN THE PREVIOUS FOUR TRIPS
I DIDN'T MEET LANA.

I LEFT EMPTY‐HANDED
AND DISAPPOINTED EACH TIME.

TRIP NUMBER FIVE WAS
A VERY BIG SUCCESS.

BUT I REALLY WAS HOPING
TO BE ENGAGED BY NOW.

HEY.

‐HELLO.
‐HOW ARE YOU, MY BABY?

OH, THANK YOU FOR COMING.

LUCKILY SHE IS COMING HERE
TO SEE ME OFF

FOR THE LAST MINUTES
OF MY TIME IN UKRAINE.

MM.

‐YOU READY?
‐YOU READY?

YES, I'M READY.

IT'S THIS WHITE CAR.

SO I'M VERY SAD
TO LEAVE RIGHT NOW.

I WISH I COULD HAVE MORE TIME
FOR US TO BE TOGETHER.

TO ME, IT IS ALSO SAD,

BUT I AM SURE THAT WE WILL
BE ABLE TO MEET AGAIN SOON.

SO, HOW ARE YOU FEELING ABOUT
OUR RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW?

THAT WILL BE VERY GOOD.

WE ARE HERE.

OUR LAST PLACE TOGETHER.

SAYING GOODBYE, IT'S GONNA
BE ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE.

LANA MEANS THE WORLD TO ME.

SO THIS IS IT.

I'M GONNA SAY GOODBYE.

‐YES.
‐MMM.

MM, I DON'T WANT TO GO YET.

SO, OKAY.

WRITE ME WHEN YOU CAN.

YES. GOOD, OKAY.

MM.

MMM.

OKAY, ALL RIGHT, BABY.

‐OKAY, YES.
‐ALL RIGHT, I SEE YOU SOON.

YES.

HAVE NICE TRIP.

THANK YOU. THANK YOU.

‐BYE‐BYE.
‐BYE.

I DON'T WANT TO GO YET.

I DON'T WANT TO GO YET.

MM.

I LOVE YOU.

LANA...

OH.

WILL YOU MARRY ME?

LANA...

WILL YOU MARRY ME?

OH.

OH.

‐YES.
‐YES?

YES?

YES.

MM.

‐ OOH.
‐ OH, MY GOD.

SHE SAID YES.

DA.

NICE.

NICE.

MMM.

MM.

I HAVE MY GIRL NOW.

I REALLY HAVE HER.

EVERYBODY THOUGHT SHE WASN'T
GONNA BE THERE TO MEET ME.

NOT ONLY WAS SHE THERE,
BUT SHE'S NOW MINE.

YES.

MM.

MM.

‐OKAY.
‐OKAY.

YES.

OKAY, BABY.

YES, BYE.

SEE YOU VERY SOON.

I HAVE MY OTHER HALF NOW.

I DID IT.

LET'S DO THIS.

NEXT TIME ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS:

THE COUPLES TELL ALL."

‐HEY, DARCEY.
‐HI.

THREE, TWO, ONE.

I WAS READY TO GO BACK TO SEE
ROSE UNTIL I LOOKED ON HER WALL.

ROSE HAS BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP
WITH A GIRL.

ROSE, IS THAT TRUE?

EVERYBODY'S ON
PINS AND NEEDLES.

WHAT DID YOU FIND OUT
ABOUT WILLIAMS?

UM...

SO LANA IS STILL
ON THOSE DATING SITES?

YES, I KNOW SHE'S NOT
SCAMMING ME.

‐ED, THAT IS NOT HOW IT WORKS.
‐OH, YES, IT IS.

THAT IS HOW IT BETTER WORK.

DAVID, WHERE DO YOU GO
FROM HERE?

‐YOU HAVE LIED TO MY FACE.
‐WOW.

TALK ABOUT, LIKE,
A KNIFE IN THE HEART.

WHY DID YOU SAY THAT?

I'M NOT WILLING TO CONTINUE
TALKING WHILE SHE'S HERE.

‐WHILE WHO'S HERE?
‐AVERY.

WHAT HAPPENED?

BEING STEPHANIE'S BEST FRIEND.

YOU WERE NOT THERE.
THANKS TO ME ‐‐

HOLD ON, HOLD ON, HOLD ON.
‐QUIET, QUIET.

'CAUSE I WILL SHUT
MY LAPTOP OFF.

I'M JUST BEING HONEST WITH YOU.

WHAT THE HELL DO YOU KNOW
ABOUT HONESTY?

WHAT THE
YOU KNOW ABOUT HONESTY?

USMAN, DO YOU SEE YOURSELF
TAKING MORE WIVES?

OH, MY GOD.
OH, MY GOD.