90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 2, Episode 5 - Seeds of Doubt - full transcript

PREVIOUSLY,
ON "BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

SO YOU WANT TO DO THIS?
Sí? Sí?

I HAVEN'T SPOKEN WITH MY MOTHER.
SHE'S GONNA FREAK OUT.

WE ARE TALKING ABOUT GOING
AND GETTING MARRIED.

YOU'RE NOT READY.

HERE'S MOTHER AND FATHER
ON THE FLOOR.

LIKE, I DON'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF.

HER BEHAVIOR RIGHT NOW IS CRAZY.

OH!

JUST STOP.

EVENTUALLY, SHE'S GONNA START
CALLING YOU "DADA," "PAPA."



I'M WALKING AROUND ALL DAY.

NO MELISSA.

I WAS NAIVE TO THINK
THAT WE HAD SOMETHING REAL.

AND COMING UP...

I'M NOT A VIOLENT PERSON.

YOU TRUST ME?

THINGS COULD HAPPEN
IF HE GETS ANGRY ENOUGH.

I HAVEN'T BEEN COMPLETELY HONEST
WITH MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY.

I'M GONNA GO FOR IT.

YOU KNOW, IT'S TIME TO
ROLL THE DICE.

IT'S REALLY MAKING ME RETHINK,

"DO I WANT TO MARRY HIM?"

I JUST DIDN'T EXPECT
TO BE ARGUING WITH YOU

ON THE THIRD DAY.



I'VE WORKED
IN RESTAURANTS, SO... OKAY.

THIS IS JUST MADNESS.

YOU RUIN EVERYTHING.

JESSE, MY CHILDREN ARE HERE..

A STRAIGHT-UP PERSON CAN ANSWER
A STRAIGHT-UP QUESTION.

HAVING DEAN
COME TO THE PHILIPPINES

WAS THE WORST DECISION
I EVER MADE.

GO!

EVERYTHING JUST SEEMS TO BE
FALLING APART.

THERE'S NOT GONNA BE A WEDDING.

KARINE?

CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS

STRAIGHT UP,
LIKE CHICKEN LEGS.

CHICKEN LEGS, CHICKEN LEGS,
CHICKEN LEGS.

BEING WITH JON
THESE LAST FEW DAYS

IS EVERYTHING I'VE HOPED
IT WOULD BE.

JON AND LUCY HAVE BONDED
QUITE A BIT.

THAT'S BEEN REALLY NICE TO SEE.

CAN I SAY GOOD NIGHT?

BUT AFTER MEETING
JON'S SISTER,

THERE'S STILL A LOT I NEED TO
KNOW ABOUT HIS PAST.

HAVE YOU EVEN EVER DATED
ANYONE WITH CHILDREN?

I COULD NEVER KEEP TRACK
OF JON'S GIRLFRIENDS

BECAUSE THERE WERE SO MANY.

THERE'S ONLY BEEN TWO.

I'VE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.

YEAH, I DON'T KNOW.
I THINK...

HEY, COME ON. THERE SHE IS.

TONIGHT, JON IS TAKING ME
TO MEET HIS FRIENDS,

SO I'M HOPING TO LEARN
A LITTLE BIT MORE ABOUT HIM

THROUGH THEM.

RACHEL SAYS YOU CAN GIVE HER
A BOTTLE ON...

IF SHE CRIES
FOR 10 MINUTES REALLY HARD,

PROBABLY WANTS A BOTTLE.

THAT'S FINE.

ENJOY YOURSELF.

JON'S MOM WILL BE WATCHING LUCY,

AND I'M A LITTLE BIT NERVOUS

BECAUSE I'VE NEVER LEFT HER
WITH A BABYSITTER BEFORE.

BUT HOPEFULLY JON'S FAMILY
WILL BECOME MY FAMILY,

SO I WANT TO BUILD THAT TRUST.

- YOU EXCITED?
- I AM.

I'VE NEVER MET
ANY OF YOUR FRIENDS.

- HELLO.
- HELLO, JON.

- GOD, HOW YOU DOING, MATE?
- HOW ARE YOU, MATE?

YOU ALL RIGHT?
- VERY WELL.

- HI.
- HELLO.

- RACHEL.
- NICE TO SEE YOU.

- YOU, TOO. WHAT'S YOUR NAME?
- DANIEL. "TURTLE."

- DANIEL. TURTLE.
- WHATEVER YOU PREFER.

TURTLE. I HEAR A LOT
ABOUT TURTLE.

- THIS IS JACK.
- HI, NICE TO MEET YOU.

- HOW ARE YOU?
- GOOD. HOW ARE YOU?

JACK AND TURTLE ARE FRIENDS
I GREW UP WITH

FROM ABOUT THE AGE OF 12, 13.

I'VE HAD SOME OF THE FUNNIEST
TIMES OF MY LIFE WITH THEM,

GETTING IN ALL KINDS OF TROUBLE.

DO YOU WANT A BEVERAGE?
- YES, PLEASE.

SO IN JON'S PAST RELATIONSHIPS,
I'VE KNOWN JON

TO, UH, NOT BE...

DIDN'T HE STEAL EVERY ONE OF
YOUR GIRLFRIENDS FOR 10 YEARS?

OH, CAN WE... CAN WE...
CAN WE WALK AWAY FROM THAT?

- I DO. WELL, CAN YOU?
- OH, YEAH, MASSIVELY.

HE'S GONE.

- WELCOME TO WESTON.
- YEAH, RACHEL.
- THANKS.

LET'S START FROM
THE BEGINNING, RIGHT?

YOU MET ON AN INTERNATIONAL
KARAOKE SITE?

YES, PLEASE, TELL ME, YEAH.
INTERNATIONAL KARAOKE SITE?

IS THAT THE GIST
OF IT, OR...

IT WAS A KARAOKE APP.
ANYWAYS, UM...

YEAH, IT GOT GOOEY, AND THEN
WE FELL IN LOVE, AND THEN, UM...

YEAH, A YEAR AND A HALF LATER,
HERE I AM.

HERE YOU ARE.

- OH, JEEZ!
- GET OUT, BOYS.

SHE SEEMS TO BE A DECENT,
DECENT GIRL.

- WHAT...
- AND I THINK SHE'S...

WE WERE DATING,
AND I WAS PREGNANT.

OKAY.

- YOU GOT TWO KIDS?
- YEAH.

OH, WOW. ARE THEY
BACK IN THE STATES THEN?

- ONE'S HERE.
- REALLY?

THE OTHER ONE I COULDN'T.
I SHARE CUSTODY WITH HER DAD.

WHY?

I, UM, I STRUGGLE
TO GET A VISA.

- AUTOMATIC DENIAL.
- REALLY?

AUTOMATICALLY.

- BECAUSE OF HIS RECORD?
- HIS CRIMINAL RECORD.

'CAUSE I'VE GOT
A CRIMINAL RECORD.

- BECAUSE OF THAT?
- YEAH.

WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH LUCY,
JON APPLIED FOR A VISITOR'S VISA

TO COME TO THE UNITED STATES,
AND WAS DENIED

BECAUSE OF HIS CRIMINAL RECORD.

HE TOLD ME HE'S BEEN CONVICTED
FOR FIGHTING MULTIPLE TIMES,

AND I'M WORRIED
THAT THERE MIGHT BE DETAILS

THAT I DON'T ALREADY KNOW.

GOING OVER THE YEARS
THAT WE'VE KNOWN YOU

AND ALL THE STUFF THAT'S...

- TROUBLE.
- YEAH, TROUBLE

THAT'S FOLLOWED YOU...

SHALL WE SAY FOLLOWED YOU
RATHER THAN INSTIGATED?

- WHAT SHALL WE SAY?
- FOLLOWED ME.

- FOLLOWED YOU...
- YEAH, YEAH.

YOU WOULDN'T SHY AWAY FROM
A BIT OF CONFRONTATION?

NO. NO.

A FEW YEARS AS IN 2 OR 3 OR 10?

SHH, SHH, SHH.

SO KNOWING JON,

DO YOU THINK THAT
HIS FIGHTING DAYS ARE OVER?

- YEAH, YEAH.
- DID YOU SAY "WOMANIZE"?

MUH... YEAH.

YOU'VE NEVER STARTED FIGHTS.
YOU'VE NEVER STARTED FIGHTS.

WHEN I'VE KNOWN YOU,
YOU'VE NEVER STARTED IT.

YOU KNOW?

EVEN THOUGH JON'S FRIENDS
ARE TRYING TO CONVINCE ME

I HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT,
I WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT THERE'S

NOT SOMETHING ELSE HE'S HIDING,
BECAUSE MY ENTIRE FUTURE

AND MY DAUGHTER'S FUTURE
IS ON THE LINE,

SO I WANT TO KNOW EVERY DETAIL
OF HIS CRIMINAL RECORD.

WE HAVE A VERY LIMITED TIME
TO GET MARRIED

BECAUSE I'M HERE ON
A TOURIST VISA.

AND KARINE HAS CONVINCED ME
TO START TRYING FOR A BABY,

SO THIS IS ALL MOVING VERY FAST.

UNFORTUNATELY, LIVING TOGETHER
IS DEFINITELY NOT GOING

LIKE I'VE EXPECTED.

YOU WANNA DO, UM...

UGH.

I COOKED YOUR STEAK ON IT,
BUT I WILL CLEAN IT OFF.

WHATEVER.

I FEEL LIKE I'M SHOPPING
WITH A 12-YEAR-OLD.

THERE IS SOME CONCERNS
ABOUT KARINE NOT BEING READY

FOR THE REALITY
OF BEING A MOTHER.

TELL ME WHAT'S WRONG.

I'VE JUST BEEN
VERY FRUSTRATED LATELY

WITH TRYING
TO KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN,

TRYING TO MAKE SURE
WE HAVE MONEY,

AND YOU SPEND SO MUCH TIME
IN BED ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

OKAY.

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME
YOU DID THE DISHES?

YOU'RE THE ONE WHO MESSES
THE HOUSE THE MOST.

JUST TO WASH THE DISHES,
THAT'S IT.

HOW WILL SHE TAKE CARE
OF A CHILD

IF SHE CAN'T EVEN
TAKE CARE OF HERSELF?

IF AND WHEN
WE HAVE A CHILD,

ARE YOU GOING TO HELP
CHANGE THE DIAPERS?

I'LL TAKE GOOD CARE
OF THE BABY,

AND I THINK
YOU'RE AN IDIOT.

SO YOU CAME FROM FAR AWAY
TO TREAT ME POORLY HERE?

YOU WAKE UP STRESSED
AND YELL AT ME.

MOST OF THE TIME,
I'M HANDLING THE HOUSE

AND ALL THE CHORES MYSELF.

IT'S STRESSFUL, AND, YES,

I ADMIT I GET VERY VOCAL
WITH HER.

YOU DO NOT SPEAK LOUD.
YOU SCREAM, SO...

DO YOU WANT ME TO
JUST LEAVE?

I DON'T KNOW, PAUL.

WE WILL NOT AGREE IF YOU
DO NOT KNOW HOW TO TALK.

DO WHAT YOU WANT.

ANOTHER WOMAN FROM
COLOMBIAN CUPID MESSAGED ME.

I'M GOING TO GO FOR IT,
BUT I'M AFRAID OF REJECTION.

IT'S REALLY MAKING ME RETHINK,
"DO I WANT TO MARRY HIM?"

I JUST DIDN'T EXPECT
TO BE ARGUING WITH YOU

ON THE THIRD DAY.

- SIR.
- OH.

GRACIAS. THANK YOU.

IT'S MY FOURTH DAY
HERE IN COLOMBIA.

I FEEL ABSOLUTELY ALONE BECAUSE

I STILL HAVEN'T HEARD FROM
MELISSA SINCE OUR FIRST DATE.

I THOUGHT WE HIT IT OFF GREAT,

AND SHE JUST, YOU KNOW,
BLEW ME OFF.

I HOPE THAT'S NOT THE WAY OF HER
TELLING ME SHE'S NOT INTERESTED.

IT'S... YOU KNOW.

I HAVE REACHED OUT TO MELISSA
CONSISTENTLY AFTER THAT,

MAYBE EVERY SINGLE HOUR,
AND...

NOTHING, YOU KNOW.

I'M GOING TO BE IN COLOMBIA
FOR ABOUT 2 WEEKS,

AND I FEEL STUPID THAT

I TRAVELED THIS FAR

FOR NOTHING.

I FEEL LIKE I WASTED
A LOT OF RESOURCES,

BOTH EMOTIONALLY
AND FINANCIALLY.

YOU KNOW, I'M AT A POINT
WHERE I'M THINKING,

"HEY, I'M JUST WASTING MY TIME."

MAYBE IT'S THE WAY I LOOK
OR SOMETHING I SAID.

BUT...

I HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FACT
THAT IT'S NOT GONNA HAPPEN.

JUST MOVE ON, RICKY.

YOU KNOW, JUST I'M THINKING,
"SHOULD I GO HOME?

"SHOULD I NOT GO HOME?
SHOULD I MAKE THE BEST OUT OF IT

AND, YOU KNOW,
SEE THE SIGHTS?"

BUT AT THE SAME TIME,
I REALLY WANT TO SEE THE SIGHTS

WITH SOMEBODY ELSE.

I WANT TO SHARE THIS EXPERIENCE
WITH SOMEBODY ELSE.

I HAVEN'T BEEN COMPLETELY HONEST
WITH MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY

ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP
WITH MELISSA.

BACK IN THE UNITED STATES,

WHEN MELISSA WAS DISTANT
WITH ME,

A LOT OF QUESTION MARKS POPPED.

IN MY MIND, I-I QUESTIONED
IF MELISSA REALLY LOVED ME.

DURING THE SAME TIME PERIOD,

ANOTHER WOMAN FROM
COLOMBIAN CUPID MESSAGED ME.

HER NAME WAS XIMENA.

XIMENA IS 27.

SHE HAS THESE SPARKLES
BEHIND HER EYES

AND A GREAT PERSONALITY.

YOU KNOW, I DECIDED
TO TALK TO HER.

IT WAS NOTHING SERIOUS.

HOWEVER THE CONVERSATION BECAME
A LITTLE BIT DEEPER AND DEEPER,

AND YOU CAN TELL BY THE WAY
SHE SPEAKS TO ME THAT

SHE REALLY, REALLY IS
INTERESTED IN ME AS A PERSON.

BUT MELISSA WAS THE FIRST PERSON
THAT I SPOKE TO,

AND I WAS IN LOVE WITH HER,

AND SO I DIDN'T WANT TO PUSH IT
TOO MUCH WITH XIMENA.

WHAT IS THERE TO LOSE NOW
THAT MELISSA IS NOT INTERESTED?

YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE,
SO I MIGHT AS WELL GIVE IT A GO

AND TEST MY LUCK TO SEE
IF XIMENA WANTS TO HANG OUT.

WE'LL SEE WHAT SHE SAYS.

I'M NERVOUS ABOUT IT
BECAUSE, LIKE ANY HUMAN BEING,

WE'RE AFRAID OF REJECTION.

LIKE, SHOULD I JUST
GET TO THE POINT?

I THINK THAT'S HOW YOU SAY IT.

OH, NO, WAIT! I PUT...

IN SPANISH, THE WAY I PUT IT
IS, LIKE,

"DO YOU WANT TO, LIKE, LIKE,
HAVE INTIMACY?"

WELL, HOPEFULLY
THAT'S NOT TOO DIRECT.

YEAH, TOMORROW.

PERFECT. SENT.

I'M STILL UPSET ABOUT MELISSA,

AND I'M NOT EVEN SURE
IF IT'S EVEN A GOOD IDEA.

BUT WHAT IF XIMENA TURNS OUT
TO BE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE?

I GUESS YOU CAN CALL ME
A HOPELESS ROMANTIC.

SO I'M GOING TO GO FOR IT.

YOU KNOW, IT'S TIME TO
ROLL THE DICE.

I'M GOING. NO...

OKAY, OKAY.

ALL RIGHT. SORRY. SORRY.

AFTER A FEW DAYS IN NIGERIA
WITH MICHAEL,

BEING TOGETHER IN PERSON IS
DIFFERENT THAN WHAT I THOUGHT.

WE ARE HAVING
A COUPLE DIFFICULTIES.

WE'RE HAVING PROBLEMS STILL
ABOUT THE CIGARETTES.

AND TODAY MICHAEL SAID
THAT I'M FAT,

AND IT WAS KIND OF A SHOCK TO ME
BECAUSE I DIDN'T EXPECT THAT.

- I'M FAT, MICHAEL, REALLY?
- NO, NO, NO, NO.

MICHAEL.

YOU WOULDN'T SAY THAT IF
YOU DIDN'T MEAN IT.

HOLD ON FOR ME. BABY.

YOU KNOW?

'CAUSE, I-I MEAN, I LIKE IT,
SO I'M JUST SAYING,

IF IT IS OKAY TO WEAR IT,
I WOULD LIKE TO WEAR IT.

IT'S FINE, MICHAEL.
IT'S JUST, WHY YOU WAIT

TILL I HAVE TO GET UPSET
TO EXPLAIN YOUR DAMN CULTURE?

I WAS... I WAS TRYING
TO EXPLAIN THAT.

IT'S NOT GOOD.

I KNOW YOU WEAR
AFRICAN ATTIRE.

THAT'S WHAT I KNOW,
AND YOU WANT ME IN A DRESS.

- BUT WE KNOW...
- THAT'S WHAT I KNOW.

YEAH, YEAH...

I TOLD YOU ABOUT...

'CAUSE I'M GOING TO HAVE
TO FIGURE IT OUT MYSELF

IF I STICK AROUND YOU.

WELL, JUST PUT ON
SOMETHING NICE.

I'LL PUT ON SOMETHING
THAT WILL SWEAT ME TO DEATH.

YOU KNOW?

OKAY, MICHAEL,
IS THIS BETTER?

I MEAN, IS THAT BETTER?

SURE.

LET ME HELP YOU.

THEN WE GO BACK TO YOU
TEACHING ME YOUR CULTURE.

SURE, SURE, I WILL...

I KNOW. I KNOW, BABY.
JUST BEAR WITH ME, OKAY?

BACK TO THE AGE THING,
AREN'T WE?

WHAT?

I SAID I'M BACK
TO THE AGE THING.

IT BOTHERS ME MORE THAN
IT BOTHERS YOU, SEE?

WELL, THEN WHY DID YOU...

DID YOU JUST SAY THAT?

OKAY, WHAT WAS IT?
DON'T THINK.

I WANT JUST YOU TO
BLURT IT OUT.

DON'T THINK ABOUT IT
AND TRY TO PUT IT...

JUST TELL ME.

I DIDN'T SAY VOODOO.

YOU DIDN'T MEAN THAT
EITHER, DID YA?

I DON'T FORGET.

YOU DIDN'T MEAN THAT?
YEAH, YOU DON'T.

BUT I'M NOT GOING TO KEEP
TAKING THESE EXCUSES,

THAT "I DIDN'T MEAN THAT.

OUR CULTURES ARE DIFFERENT,"
MICHAEL.

TRUST ME. TRUST ME.

WHEN I GET MAD
AND LASH OUT AT MICHAEL,

IT'S NOT BECAUSE I WANT TO.

IT'S FROM PAST EXPERIENCE, AND I
DON'T WANT TO GET HURT AGAIN,

AND I'M NOT GOING TO LET
MY GUARD DOWN.

I JUST DIDN'T EXPECT TO BE
ARGUING WITH YOU

ON THE THIRD DAY.

LORD, LET'S GO.

OH, MY GOD.

O.M.G.

- IT'S OKAY.
- MY BROTHER DEAN IS HERE.

MY GUT TELLS ME I SHOULD'VE
LEFT HIM IN VIRGINIA BEACH.

WHAT DID I DO NOW?

YOU LIKE TO A LOT.

I LOVE HIM, BUT IT'S GETTING
ANNOYING RIGHT NOW.

STOP BEING IMMATURE.
I KNOW YOU'RE 24, BUT PLEASE.

IT'S REALLY BEAUTIFUL HERE.

GLAD WE HAD A NICE SLEEP.

NICE BREEZE.

- YOU ALL RIGHT?
- MM-HMM.

YOU'RE FEELING
A LITTLE TENSE.

YOU GOOD?

IT'S MY FIRST MORNING
IN CONNECTICUT WITH JESSE.

WE'RE HERE SO HE CAN EXPERIENCE
WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE

TO LIVE HERE TOGETHER.

BUT SINCE THE DINNER LAST NIGHT
WITH MY TWIN SISTER STACEY,

HE'S BEEN A LITTLE STANDOFFISH
AND QUIET.

IS THIS REALLY REAL,
OR IS THIS GUY JUST, YOU KNOW,

TELLING HER WHAT
SHE WANTS TO HEAR?

- NO, I WILL... I WILL...
- I THINK IT TAKES TIME.

I WILL... I WILL...
I WILL BE THERE.

- LIKE THE THREE OF US?
- YEAH, IF YOU...

- FAMILY.
- EVER MOVE TO CONNECTICUT...

CAN YOU...
CAN YOU BE QUIET PLEASE?

- YOU KEEP DOING IT.
- OKAY, I'LL GO OVER HERE.

STACEY... THAT WAS A GOOD THING
FROM STACEY, BY THE WAY,

THAT SHE MADE YOU AWARE THAT
YOU WERE DOING THAT ONCE MORE.

I'M HOPING TODAY GOES
BETTER BECAUSE MY DAUGHTERS

ARE COMING OVER FOR DINNER.

FAMILY DINNER LIST.

THE KIDS REALLY LIKE,
YOU KNOW,

PASTA AND CHICKEN.

YOU DO BAKED POTATOES
OR MASHED POTATOES?

I'M ALL GOOD, BABE.
IT'S FINE.

I JUST WOULD LIKE TO HAVE,
YOU KNOW, YOUR INPUT.

MAKE THE LIST, AND WE'LL GO.

IT FEELS LIKE YOU'RE A LITTLE
CLOSED OFF RIGHT NOW. MM.

I JUST WANT YOU TO BE EXCITED.

THIS IS KIND OF, LIKE,
YOU KNOW,

A TEST TO SEE
WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE

IF WE GOT MARRIED
AND LIVED TOGETHER AND STUFF.

YEAH, LET'S DO IT...

WHAT DID I DO NOW?

I JUST WANT TO HAVE A NICE DAY
AND EXPERIENCE THAT.

CAN I SAY SOMETHING?

WELL, YOU LIKE
TO SAY THINGS A LOT,

AND YOU LIKE TO
A LOT, SO...

- LET'S GO.
- I'M NOT GOING.

I'LL GO 'CAUSE I'M GOING
TO FEED MY KIDS TONIGHT.

ALL RIGHT. WONDERFUL.

BEAUTIFUL, LOVING DINNER.

I'M JUST GOING TO SIT HERE
ON THE PORCH.

- GOODBYE.
- GOOD LUCK.

BABE, STOP BEING IMMATURE,
OKAY?

I-I KNOW YOU'RE 24,
BUT PLEASE,

I'M NOT IN THE MOOD TODAY.

I WANT TO GET DINNER READY
FOR MY KIDS.

IT'S TOO DRAMATIC FOR ME.
IT'S VERY IMMATURE.

I'VE NEVER BEEN WITH A MAN
LIKE THAT.

I'M, LIKE, TRYING TO...

BE CALM, AND I ALSO DON'T WANT
TO RUIN THE MOMENT,

AND I WANT TO BE HAPPY,

ESPECIALLY WHEN THE GIRLS
ARE THERE, SO I'M LIKE,

"JUST LET ME SIT HERE
FOR A MOMENT."

YOU'RE GOOD NOW?

LET'S PLEASE,
FOR THE KIDS' SAKE...

WE HAVE A LOT TO WORK ON.

WE NEED TO LEARN HOW TO TALK
TO EACH OTHER

WITH HONESTY AND RESPECT.

IN A FEW DAYS, HE'S GOT TO
GET BACK TO AMSTERDAM,

SO MY CLOCK IS TICKING.

UGH.

ALL RIGHT. YOU'RE...
THIS IS ALL YOU.

WE'RE GOING TO
PREPARE DINNER

FOR DARCEY'S DAUGHTERS TONIGHT,

SO I'M GOING TO BEHAVE
IN A POSITIVE WAY

BECAUSE I WANT NO NEGATIVITY.

I DON'T WANT TO FEEL
ANY TENSION.

OH, SALAD. HERE, WE'LL GET
TWO OF THESE.

LET'S GET THE BIGGER ONE BECAUSE
WE EAT A LOT, BIG FAMILY.

WANT TO PICK OUT A DESSERT
FOR THE KIDS?

CARROT CAKE, BABE.

YEAH, LET'S DO THE MINI
CARROT CAKE.

- IT'S DARCEY-SIZE.
- YAY!

YES. LOOK, IT'S ALMOST AS BIG
AS YOU. SO CUTE.

I KNOW.

- I LOVE OUR CARROT CAKE.
- YEAH, AW.

PERFECT.

MAYBE JUST ONE MORE?
THERE'S FOUR OF US.

THAT SHOULD BE GREAT, YEAH.

THE KIDS LOVE STEAK.

11 AND 12.

- WOW, WOW.
- YEAH.

- IT'S NOT MY KIDS.
- YEAH.

- YEAH.
- YEAH.

IS AN INCREDIBLY HARD
THING TO DO,

AND IT DOESN'T MATTER
WHAT AGE YOU ARE.

THESE ARE NOT MY CHILDREN,
YOU KNOW?

IT IS NOT THE SAME THING

AS BEING A BIOLOGICAL DAD.

OH, LOOK, BABY.
YOU WANT PAMPERS?

YOU KEEP HINTING
LIKE YOU WANT A BABY.

- WHAT?
- WHAT DO YOU MEAN?

I'M NOT HINTING AT ALL.

IN AMSTERDAM,
YOU ALWAYS WENT TO THAT AISLE.

- THAT'S CRAZY.
- HMM, I REMEMBER.

WHAT'S WRONG?
- WE NEED SOME JUICE?

I ALREADY SAID I WANT BABIES.

I KNOW. THAT'S GOOD.

43.
IT MIGHT BE A LITTLE TRICKY.

I WOULD LOVE TO HAVE
A CHILD WITH JESSE,

BUT I, UH...

JUST DON'T KNOW IF I CAN
BECAUSE OF MY AGE.

I'M NOT 24.

- YEAH.
- SORRY.

I WANT CHILDREN MYSELF,

BUT THE RELATIONSHIP
IS NOT STABLE RIGHT NOW,

SO I THINK THAT IT'S NOT SMART
FOR ME TO EVEN TALK ABOUT,

YOU KNOW, HAVING OUR OWN KID.

YEAH, LET'S JUST GET THIS
FOR THE KIDS.

THEY WILL LIKE IT.

SEE, I LIKE YOU
PICKING OUT STUFF.

IT SHOWS ME THAT
YOU'RE INTO IT.

IF I CAN'T GIVE HIM A CHILD,
I WONDER IF ME AND THE GIRLS

ARE GOING TO BE ENOUGH FOR HIM.

- YES.
- JUST SWIPE.

- JUST SWIPE?
- CORRECT.

I WANT TO BE WITH A MAN
THAT ACCEPTS US 100%.

CAN'T GET BETTER
THAN THIS, BABE.

YES.

GIVE ME SOME LIPS.

ALL RIGHT.

I'VE NEVER BEEN TO CHURCH FOR
15 HOURS STRAIGHT BEFORE, SO...

- 15 HOURS?
- I'M MESSING WITH YOU.

IT WAS, LIKE, 13.

IT'S ONLY 5 HOURS.

I-I ENJOYED IT.

I'VE BEEN IN THE PHILIPPINES
WITH HAZEL FOR 24 HOURS.

I SPENT THE WHOLE TIME IN CHURCH
WITH HER PARENTS,

AND IT WAS CRAZY.

BUT I'M IN THE PHILIPPINES
FOR A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME,

AND I'M SERIOUS ABOUT
MAKING THIS WORK.

ALL RIGHT. SO DEAN'S HERE.

MY BROTHER, DEAN, IS HERE.

HE DECIDED TO COME TO
THE PHILIPPINES

BECAUSE HE DOES NOT APPROVE OF
ME AND HAZEL BEING TOGETHER.

SHE'S GOT VERY GOOD GAME.

- OH, WOW.
- I DON'T THINK YOU KNOW, MAN,

WHAT YOU GETTING INTO.

I'M GONNA BE A VERY WATCHFUL EYE
WHEN I'M OUT THERE BECAUSE...

- OKAY.
- A CON ARTIST IS A CON ARTIST.

HE'S TOTALLY CONVINCED HIMSELF
THAT SHE ONLY WANTS

TO BE WITH ME BECAUSE SHE WANTS
A BETTER LIFE IN AMERICA.

BEFORE TARIK CAME,
HE TOLD ME THAT...

LET'S GET IT OVER WITH.

BEFORE I INTRODUCE DEAN
TO HAZEL, I WANT TO PREPARE HER

FOR HOW MY BROTHER COULD ACT.

OH, HE'S DOWNSTAIRS,

BUT I WANTED TO TALK TO YOU
A LITTLE BIT FIRST.

DEAN IS VERY PROTECTIVE,

BUT SOMETIMES,
HE CAN GO OVERBOARD.

SO WE'RE JUST GONNA
SAY "HI."

IT'S OKAY. IT'S ALL RIGHT.

IT'S ALL RIGHT.
IT'S ALL RIGHT.

I JUST HOPE HE'S NOT
ON A MISSION

TO RUIN THIS RELATIONSHIP
FOR ME.

MY GUT TELLS ME

I SHOULD HAVE LEFT HIM
IN VIRGINIA BEACH.

YOU'VE JUST GOTTA
THINK OF IT LIKE...

YOU'VE GOTTA THINK OF IT
LIKE...

IT'S ALL GOOD.

I AM WORRIED IF DEAN PUT DOUBTS
IN HEAD OF TARIK.

HE MIGHT NOT WANT TO BE WITH ME.

EVERYTHING JUST SEEMS
TO BE FALLING APART.

THERE'S NOT GOING TO BE
A WEDDING.

KARINE?

HOW MANY GIRLFRIENDS
HAS MICHAEL HAD?

THAT AIN'T HAPPENING.

I'M REALLY WORRIED
THAT KARINE'S PARENTS

MIGHT NOT EVEN SEE
MY POINT OF VIEW

AND TAKE KARINE'S SIDE
ON EVERYTHING.

OI. THANKS FOR COMING TODAY.
WE REALLY APPRECIATE IT.

IT'S DIFFICULT TRYING TO
COMMUNICATE WITH HER PARENTS

USING THE TRANSLATOR APP...

WHENEVER WE MEET
FACE-TO-FACE,

SO THEY UNDERSTAND
WHAT'S BEING SAID.

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR COMING
TO MEET WITH US TODAY.

I KNOW Y'ALL WANT TO HAVE SOME
DISCUSSION OVER SOME CONCERNS

BEFORE THE WEDDING.

SHE SAID
SHE IS VERY CONCERNED

BECAUSE YOU COULDN'T AGREE
WITH EACH OTHER.

I ACKNOWLEDGE HER CONCERNS,
AND I FEEL THAT'S SOMETHING

WE REALLY NEED TO WORK TOWARD
AND CORRECT.

UM...

SHE TELL ME SHE'S HAPPY
WHEN YOU DON'T FIGHT

BECAUSE YOU'RE JUST
STRESSED OUT SO EASY.

YEAH, THAT'S TRUE.

HEY, IT'S OKAY.

HEY. HEY.

KARINE?

WHAT... WHAT'S WRONG?

SHE SAID THAT THE PROBLEM
IS WHEN HER PARENTS ARE GONE,

YOU JUST BECOME ANOTHER PERSON,

AND THAT YOU SAID THAT SHE
COULDN'T TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE.

ONLY ROMANTICALLY.
OTHER THAN THAT,

SHE CAN TALK TO ANYBODY
SHE WANTS TO.

I JUST DON'T WANT HER TO TALK
TO ANYBODY WHERE IT HAS

INTIMACY INVOLVED, THAT'S IT.

WHEN I GOT BACK TO BRAZIL,

I CONFRONTED KARINE ABOUT
FLIRTING WITH THE GUYS ONLINE.

I UNDERSTAND SHE WANTS TO TALK
TO HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS,

BUT WHEN SHE TALKS TO OTHER MEN
THAT AREN'T PART

OF HER NORMAL FRIEND CIRCLE,
THAT REALLY BOTHERS ME.

WHAT'S THAT ABOUT?
WHAT'S THAT ABOUT?

WOULD YOU MIND TAKING
ANOTHER PREGNANCY TEST?

SO YOU'RE SUGGESTING THAT
I'VE HAD SEX WITH OTHER MEN?

KARINE SAID THAT SOMETIMES
YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HER

AND YOU MAKE HER CRY.

I THINK SOMETIMES,
I UNINTENTIONALLY TREAT KARINE

IN A WAY THAT SHE REALLY DOESN'T
DESERVE TO BE TREATED.

SHE'S STILL LEARNING,
AND I GET FRUSTRATED,

AND I'LL BE VERY VOCAL.

I WISH I COULD GO BACK
AND I COULD CHANGE THOSE THINGS,

BUT I CAN'T.

SO HE ASKED HER IF SHE'S READY
TO GET MARRIED,

AND SHE SAID
THAT SHE DOESN'T KNOW.

EVERYTHING JUST SEEMS
TO BE FALLING APART.

SO THERE'S A GOOD CHANCE THERE'S
NOT GONNA BE A WEDDING.

BABE.

WHAT SIDE
DO YOU WANT ME ON?

JUST... YEAH, JUST PUT
YOUR LEG IN AND...

YEAH, EXACTLY.

YOU OKAY?

IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE
A FUN NIGHT OUT

WITH MICHAEL'S FRIENDS,

AND, UM, I'M ALREADY
AT MY WIT'S END

WITH MICHAEL.

MM. OKAY.

HE KEEPS
SAYING HURTFUL THINGS TO ME

AND TELLING ME
HE DOESN'T MEAN IT.

I DON'T KNOW IF HE'S JUST
TELLING ME WHAT I WANT TO HEAR.

DOES HE MEAN IT OR DOES HE NOT?

I ALREADY MET TWO
OF MICHAEL'S FRIENDS.

HOPEFULLY, TONIGHT,
I CAN FIND OUT MORE FROM THEM

ABOUT MICHAEL'S PAST,

BECAUSE WHO BETTER
KNOWS MICHAEL THAN THEM?

AND I GET TO ASK SOME PERSONAL,
DEEP QUESTIONS.

WHEN ARE YOUR FRIENDS
SHOWING UP?

YEAH.

- HEY, MIKE.
- AH!

- WHAT'S UP, BRO?
- YEAH, I'M FINE.

- ADDIS.
- HEY, I'M PETER.

- HELLO.
- GOOD EVENING.

THANK YOU FOR COMING.

- I DON'T THINK I MET...
- NO, NO, YOU DIDN'T.

YEAH, OKAY.

YEAH.

YEAH, THANKS.

IT IS HOT, HUH?

I USUALLY LOOK ALL RIGHT
WHEN THERE'S HUMIDITY.

YOU'D THINK THEY'D PUT
A DAMN FAN SOMEWHERE ON US,

WOULDN'T YOU?
- YEAH.

DOES HE?

THE REASON I'M ASKING
ABOUT OTHER WOMEN

IS BECAUSE BEFORE I LEFT
THE STATES,

I LOOKED INTO MICHAEL'S
SOCIAL MEDIA PAGES.

I FOUND OUT THAT MICHAEL

HAD HUNDREDS OF
BEAUTIFUL YOUNG WOMEN

HE WAS FOLLOWING ON FACEBOOK.

HE TOLD ME HE WOULD DELETE THEM,
BUT I WANT TO MAKE SURE

I'M NOT BEING
MADE A FOOL OUT OF

AND I'M THE ONLY ONE
HE'S BEEN CHASING.

I'VE ALWAYS SAID
I CAN'T STAND LYING.

ONCE I LEARN WHAT...
WHAT... WHAT...

YOU KNOW?

THAT AIN'T HAPPENING.

SOUNDS LIKE THESE GUYS WANT ME
TO BE LIKE A NIGERIAN WOMAN,

BUT...

THAT'S NOT HOW IT'S BEEN DONE
HERE IN THE PART OF THE WORLD.

- THANK YOU.
- ALL RIGHT, BABY.

YOU KNOW, ANGELA IS
VERY OUTSPOKEN.

- YEAH.
- SHE TALKS.

YEAH, I KNOW ANGELA
IS OUTSPOKEN AND SHE...

LIKE, WHAT IS IT?

YOU KNOW?

WHAT WERE YOUR CHARGES?

I'M NOT A VIOLENT PERSON.

YOU TRUST ME?

THIS IS THE REPLICA
OF A 16th CENTURY BOAT.

I LOVE IT.
I THINK IT'S BEAUTIFUL.

I'M FALLING MORE IN LOVE
WITH JON EVERY DAY ON THIS TRIP,

BUT MEETING WITH HIS FRIENDS
LAST NIGHT DID RAISE

MORE QUESTIONS ABOUT HIS PAST.

PEOPLE WHO LIVE AROUND WATER
TAKE IT FOR GRANTED.

SIT DOWN WITH THE BABY.

OH, YOUR HANDS ARE
FREEZING, BABE.

MY TIME IN ENGLAND
IS RUNNING OUT,

SO I NEED TO KNOW EVERYTHING
ABOUT JON'S CRIMINAL RECORD

BEFORE WE CAN MOVE FORWARD.

- MAMA.
- OH!

IT DETERMINES OUR FUTURE

AS FAR AS WHETHER OR NOT
WE'LL BE TOGETHER.

OKAY, SO I KNOW
THAT, YOU KNOW, I'M HERE,

AND WE'RE HAVING
A REALLY GOOD TIME,

BUT I WAS WONDERING IF YOU COULD
GO INTO A LITTLE BIT MORE DETAIL

ABOUT YOUR CRIMINAL RECORD.

UM...

AND WHEN I FELT PEOPLE
HAD WRONGED ME

OR SAW THINGS I DIDN'T LIKE,
I... I ACTED.

AND SOME OF THE TIMES,

I GOT INTO FIGHTS
WITH MULTIPLE PEOPLE.

WHAT WERE YOUR CHARGES?

SOMEBODY'S VIOLENT TOWARDS ME,
I'LL BE VIOLENT TOWARDS THEM.

I'VE BEEN IN 50 OR 60 FIGHTS,

FIVE INSTANCES
WHERE I GOT CONVICTED.

THE MOST SERIOUS CONVICTION
I'VE GOT IS

A FIGHT I GOT INTO AGAINST
A COUPLE OF STUDENTS

WHEN I WAS STUDYING
AT UNIVERSITY.

CAN YOU GO INTO
A LITTLE BIT MORE DETAIL

ABOUT MAYBE EVEN
JUST THE BIGGER FIGHT?

I... I WAS AT UNI,

AND I'D BEEN OUT
WITH SOME FRIENDS.

STUFF ESCALATED,
AND I ENDED UP PUNCHING

A GROUP OF GUYS IN THE FACE.

- WHY?
- WHY?

YEAH.

THIS GROUP OF GUYS, THEY GET
A FEW DRINKS INSIDE OF THEM,

THEY THINK IT'S ACCEPTABLE

TO SAY DISRESPECTFUL THINGS
TO WOMEN.

AND THEY THINK
THEY'RE UNTOUCHABLE

'CAUSE THERE'S A BIG GROUP
OF THEM.

I GOT REALLY MAD, AND THEY ALL
TRIED GRABBING ME, AND...

THEY ARRESTED ME,
AND I WAS CONVICTED

OF BODILY HARM WITHOUT INTENT,

WHICH BASICALLY MEANS
HE DID SUSTAIN AN INJURY.

WHAT KIND OF INJURY?

AN EYE INJURY.

I TOLD THE POLICE AND THE COURTS
WHAT HAPPENED,

AND...

I PLEADED GUILTY
AND WAS CONVICTED

OF GRIEVOUS BODILY HARM
WITHOUT INTENT,

AND I WAS PUNISHED
APPROPRIATELY.

WHEN I WAS CONVICTED,
I WAS KICKED OUT.

I NEVER GRADUATED.

I DIDN'T GO TO PRISON,
BUT I PAID FOR IT MASSIVELY.

IT WORRIES ME.

IN THE BLINK OF AN EYE,
YOU KNOW, THINGS COULD HAPPEN

IF HE GETS ANGRY ENOUGH.

IT JUST CAN'T HAPPEN AGAIN.

I JUST WISH THAT MAYBE
IF SOMEBODY UPSETS YOU,

YOU DIDN'T MAKE A SCENE
OUT OF IT BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW

HOW THEY'RE GOING TO REACT
IN THAT SENSE.

YEAH, YEAH, YEAH, YEAH,
AND I GET THAT.

CAN YOU PROMISE ME THAT YOU'LL
LEAVE YOUR PAST IN THE PAST

AND THAT THIS TYPE OF STUFF
WON'T HAPPEN IN OUR FUTURE?

GROWING UP, I NEVER HAD
ANYTHING TO LOSE BY FIGHTING,

BUT NOW I HAVE.

AND...

I PROMISE YOU,

I WOULDN'T GET INTO TROUBLE.

OKAY.

I JUST WISH
IT NEVER HAPPENED.

LIKE, THAT WOULD MAKE LIFE
SO MUCH EASIER.

I ONLY HAVE HIS WORD TO GO ON,

BUT I THINK THAT THIS IS
A RISK WORTH TAKING.

I DO BELIEVE JON,

AND I WANT TO SPEND THE REST
OF MY LIFE WITH HIM.

BUT... IF HE MESSES UP AGAIN,

I MIGHT NOT BE ABLE
TO GO THROUGH WITH THIS.

IF I GET INTO AMERICA,
MY WORLD IS GOING TO CHANGE.

I'M NOT A VIOLENT PERSON.

I AM PROTECTIVE.

YOU TRUST ME?

YEAH.

GOOD.

DO YOU WANT TO TRY TO
MAKE THIS WORK?

I'M PRAYING THAT SHE'S WILLING
TO GIVE ME A CHANCE.

WHAT DO YOU FEEL
IN YOUR HEART?

GOT SOME CHOCOLATES,
ROSE PETALS.

XIMENA IS ABOUT TO COME.

OH, SHE ARRIVED.

I'M FREAKING OUT. I'M SWEATING.

I'M REALLY WORRIED...

WE'VE BEEN FIGHTING A LOT,
BUT I NEVER SAW THIS COMING.

I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW UPSET
KARINE WAS.

I MAY HAVE MESSED THINGS UP
FOR GOOD THIS TIME.

I'M VERY SORRY IF YOU FEEL

THAT I'VE TREATED YOU BADLY
IN THE PAST.

HOW WOULD YOU LIKE ME
TO CHANGE?

WHEN WE ARE IN TROUBLE,
YOU SHOULD TALK TO ME

AND DO NOT
TURN YOUR BACK ON ME.

YOU'RE RIGHT. THAT'S SOMETHING
I DEFINITELY NEED TO CORRECT.

I NEED TO START LEARNING
TO REMAIN CALM

AND NOT BE SO VOCAL AND ANGRY.

I JUST WANT TO PROVE

THAT YOU'RE GOING TO CHANGE
FOR REAL.

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER
THAN WORDS.

THERE'S NOTHING
I CAN REALLY SAY RIGHT NOW

THAT'S GONNA PROVE TO YOU,

ONLY BY ACTUALLY SHOWING YOU
IN THE FUTURE CAN I PROVE THAT.

PLEASE DON'T POSTPONE
THE WEDDING.

I'M HOPING TO GET KARINE
A SPOUSE VISA

SO SHE CAN COME BACK
TO THE UNITED STATES

AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

I'M PRAYING THAT SHE'S WILLING
TO GIVE ME A CHANCE.

WE'RE SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED
IN A WEEK,

SO THE CLOCK IS TICKING.

UNDERSTAND, HOWEVER,
ONCE MY VISA MAXES OUT,

I'LL HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL
NEXT YEAR UNTIL I CAN COME BACK.

SO DO YOU WANT TO TRY TO
MAKE THIS WORK?

WHAT DO YOU FEEL
IN YOUR HEART?

AWKWARD SILENCE.

I PROMISE I WILL DO MY BEST
TO BE THE BEST MAN POSSIBLE.

I STILL HAVE DOUBTS
IF WE WILL KEEP FIGHTING.

BUT I BELIEVE IN YOU.

I HOPE YOU ARE
A GOOD MAN FROM NOW ON.

ALL I CAN DO
IS DO MY VERY BEST.

EU TE AMO.

I LOVE YOU, TOO.

- SO CAN WE GET MARRIED?
- YES.

I'M REALLY RELIEVED.

I'M GONNA DO WHATEVER IT TAKES
TO MAKE THINGS RIGHT WITH HER,

AND I'M NOT GONNA LET HER DOWN.

THERE'S A LOT OF PLANNING,
A LOT OF MONEY

TO GIVE HER
THE WEDDING OF HER DREAMS,

BUT I'M GONNA TRY TO PULL
EVERYTHING I CAN TOGETHER

AND GIVE HER THE BEST WEDDING
THAT I POSSIBLY CAN.

OKAY.

IT'S BEEN 5 DAYS SINCE I ARRIVED
IN MEDELLíN, COLOMBIA.

ORIGINALLY, I CAME TO BE
WITH MELISSA,

BUT SHE'S NOT TEXTING BACK
OR COMMUNICATING WITH ME.

IT'S HEARTBREAKING.

JUST GOING TO FIX MY HAIR
REAL QUICK.

HOWEVER, DURING THE SAME
TIME PERIOD...

ANOTHER WOMAN FROM
COLOMBIAN CUPID MESSAGED ME.

HER NAME WAS XIMENA.

SHE LIVES IN THE COUNTRYSIDE
FIVE HOURS FROM MEDELLíN.

SHE'S ON HER WAY.

SO MY TIME IS VERY LIMITED.

10:12.

I GOT THREE BOTTLES OF WINE
HERE FOR HER.

GOT SOME CHOCOLATES. WHAT WOMAN
DOESN'T LIKE CHOCOLATES?

AND ROSE PETALS.

LET ME MAKE THIS ALL BEAUTIFUL.

OH, HOLD ON.

OH, SHE ARRIVED.

SAYING, "HOLA."

XIMENA IS GOING TO STAY WITH ME
FOR A FEW DAYS.

ROSE PETALS THERE.

I PLAN, MYSELF,
TO BE A RESPECTFUL GENTLEMAN

AND STAY ON THE COUCH.

SPREAD ALL AROUND.

I HOPE THIS SITUATION GOES IN
A TOTALLY DIFFERENT WAY

THAN WHAT HAPPENED WITH MELISSA.

I WONDER IF SHE'S, LIKE,
WEARING HEELS

AND IS, LIKE, 6-FOOT TALL.

I'M ONLY 5-FOOT-6.

GOT TO BE A LITTLE BIT TALLER.

YEAH.

THIS GIVES ME AT LEAST
ANOTHER HALF AN INCH. OKAY.

ALL RIGHT.

GONNA HELP HER
WITH THE LUGGAGE. OKAY.

IT STARTS.

OKAY. OKAY.

XIMENA.

OH, MY GOD.

OKAY.

I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE THIS.

GRACIAS. I TRY.

AH.

OH, MY GOD. THANK YOU.

OH, YOUR TONGUE.
CASANARE?

CASANARE. YES!

MARACAS. A MI ME GUSTA.

- Sí?
- Sí?.

THIS IS ABSOLUTELY DIFFERENT
THAN HOW I WAS WITH MELISSA.

OH.

I COULD IMMEDIATELY TELL THAT
WE HAVE THAT CHEMISTRY.

GRACIAS, THANK YOU,
THANK YOU, THANK YOU.

BUT I FEEL SO GUILTY
BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T KNOW

THE REAL REASON I CAME
TO COLOMBIA WAS FOR MELISSA.

I'M FEELING LIKE CRAP FOR THAT.

NO...

OKAY. WELL...

OKAY.

MAYBE IT'S THE OTHER ROOM.

HOWEVER,
IT DIDN'T WORK THAT WAY.

I TRIED, AND XIMENA WAS LIKE,
"UNH-UNH, GET OVER HERE."

MY HEART IS TELLING ME
TO TELL XIMENA

THE TRUTH ABOUT MELISSA.

Sí.

IT'S MY RESPONSIBILITY
AS A MAN TO DO THAT.

BUT THAT MAKES ME FEEL
VERY NERVOUS.

A STRAIGHT-UP PERSON CAN ANSWER
A STRAIGHT-UP QUESTION.

HAVING DEAN
COME TO THE PHILIPPINES

WAS THE WORST DECISION
I EVER MADE.

GO, ! GO!

IT'S OKAY. IT'S OKAY.

MY BROTHER JUST ARRIVED
IN MANILA TONIGHT...

ALL RIGHT. COME ON.

AND HAZEL IS ABOUT
TO MEET HIM.

THIS COULD GO REALLY BADLY.

÷IT WOULD REALLY, LIKE, HURT BAD

IF HE PUT ME IN A POSITION

TO WHERE, YOU KNOW,
TO WHERE I HAD TO CHOOSE.

MMM.

HELLO. HOW YOU DOING?

ALL RIGHT.

- WORD.
- WORD, MAN.

I CAME ALL THE WAY
FROM VIRGINIA BEACH TO MAKE SURE

THAT HE DOESN'T TAKE THIS STUFF
TOO FAR WITH THIS GIRL.

I WANT TO KNOW ABOUT
THIS EX-BOYFRIEND

THAT'S STILL IN THE PICTURE.

AIN'T HER CLOTHES
STILL AT HER DUDE HOUSE?

WHEN A FEMALE LEAVE HER CLOTHES
AT SOMEBODY'S HOUSE,

THAT MEAN THAT FEMALE IS
STILL WITH HIM.

I DON'T WANT TO HURT
THE GIRL'S FEELINGS,

BUT I WANT TO KNOW
ABOUT HER PAST.

PRETTY.
SHE'S PRETTY, MAN.

EXACTLY, I TOLD YOU. SEE?

- THANK YOU.
- PRETTY GIRL.

MY BROTHER,
WHEN I WAS GROWING UP,

WAS A FATHER FIGURE TO ME,
YOU KNOW?

MADE SURE THAT I'M NOT MAKING
BAD DECISIONS.

SO THAT'S, LIKE,
ONE OF THE THINGS THAT

I WAS JUST WONDERING,
YOU KNOW.

YOU GUYS... KIND OF FAST.
YOU KNOW? KIND OF FAST.

YOU JUST GOT OUT OF
A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEBODY?

SOME GUY?

CAN SHE SPEAK OR...

YEAH, SHE CAN SPEAK.

YEAH, SO I'M ASKING, YOU JUST
GOT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP

WITH SOME GUY, RIGHT?

THAT'S OVER, RIGHT?

OH. OKAY. OKAY.

WHEN I ASKED YOU THAT, YOU KIND
OF LOOKED DOWN AT THE GROUND.

YOU KNOW, "I DON'T KNOW."
HUH?

WATCH YOURSELF. WATCH YOURSELF.

JUST SAYING.
I'M JUST SAYING.

DEAN IS TRYING
TO CAUSE PROBLEMS

BETWEEN ME AND HAZEL,

BUT I TRUST THAT HER AND HER EX
ARE OVER COMPLETELY

AND THAT SHE'S IN THIS
BECAUSE SHE LOVES ME.

YOU GOT KIDS?

SO YOU GONNA HAVE YOUR SON
WITH YOU OR WHATEVER?

OR, LIKE...

MY SON LIVED WITH ME
WHEN HE WAS 3 YEARS OLD.

I LOVE HIM...

IF I HAVE A GOOD FUTURE
WITH TARIK,

I WANT TO GET MY SON AGAIN.

I MEAN, IT JUST, YOU KNOW,
SAYS A LOT ABOUT A WOMAN,

DEPENDING ON HOW HARD
SHE FIGHTS FOR HER KIDS,

ABOUT THAT WOMAN'S CHARACTER,
YOU KNOW?

SO THE IMPLICATION IS
THAT THERE'S SOMETHING,

THAT THERE'S A CHARACTER FLAW
THERE. THAT'S THE...

BRO,
I'M JUST ASKING QUESTIONS.

A STRAIGHT-UP PERSON CAN ANSWER
A STRAIGHT-UP QUESTION.

ALL RIGHT, WE'RE DONE.

WE'RE DONE. LET'S GO.

'CAUSE YOU CAN'T EVEN
HANDLE REGULAR QUESTIONS.

- DUDE, DUDE.
- I'M TRYING TO BE RESPECTFUL.

DUDE, I'M TRYING
TO TAKE HER AND GO.

WELL GO, ! GO!

'CAUSE I TRIED TO BE
RESPECTFUL TO YOUR ASS,

BUT YOU IGNORANT.

IT'S OKAY.

IT'S ALL RIGHT.

IT'S OKAY.

I'M JUST ASKING
SIMPLE QUESTIONS.

YOU CAN'T ANSWER THAT?
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?

SOMETHING AIN'T RIGHT
ABOUT THAT.

SOMETHING AIN'T FREAKING RIGHT
ABOUT HER, YO.

YEAH? COME ON.

NO. NO, NO, NO, I'M NOT GOING.

MY BROTHER'S LIVING
IN A DREAM WORLD.

HAZEL. HAZEL, STOP.

HAZEL, COME HERE.

HAZEL.

HAZEL HAS JUST RUN AWAY.

I AM BEYOND FURIOUS.

MAN, YO.

HAVING DEAN
COME TO THE PHILIPPINES

WAS THE WORST DECISION
I EVER MADE.

HAZEL!

THERE'S A WAY TO HANDLE ME,
AND MICHAEL BETTER LEARN.

IF YOU CAN'T BE
A STRONG ENOUGH MAN FOR ME,

- MICHAEL, THAT'S...
- THAT'S SCARY.

I ONLY HAVE A WEEK LEFT
IN NIGERIA WITH MICHAEL.

AFTER EVERYTHING THAT'S BEEN
GOING ON THESE LAST FEW DAYS,

I STILL HAVE THINGS TO
FIGURE OUT AND WORK OUT.

IF WE DON'T COMMUNICATE,
WE CAN'T TRUST.

WE CAN'T TRUST,
THERE'S NO RELATIONSHIP.

THAT'S JUST THE BOTTOM LINE.

YOU CAN'T BE PARTNERS IN LIFE
WITH SOMEBODY

THAT'S NOT UNDERSTANDING YOU.

SO I DEFINITELY NEED TO TALK
TO MICHAEL ABOUT OUR ISSUES.

YOU KNOW "JUNGLE BOOK"?

ANIMALS?
YEAH, SOMETHING LIKE THAT, YEAH.

TODAY WITH ANGELA, I WANT TO
HAVE GOOD QUALITY TIME

WITH HER, BECAUSE...

I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY

AND SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE
WITH HER IN AMERICA.

WOW, DANG! THAT'S THE BIGGEST
TURTLE I EVER SEEN IN MY LIFE.

YES, SAME HERE, TOO.

SO THIS IS A NATURE RESERVE,
NOT A ZOO.

- SO THEY ARE NOT CAGED?
- YES.

WE HAVE THE MONKEYS.
WE HAVE THE PEACOCKS, ANTELOPES.

- WE HAVE SNAKES AS WELL.
- NO! HELL, NO!

- YES, PLEASE!
- MICHAEL, YOU SAID NO SNAKES.

THE SNAKES!

IT'S VERY...
THIS IS OUT MY ZONE.

I DON'T EVEN GO
IN THE WOODS IN GEORGIA.

I'M TRYING TO...

OH, JEEZ, MICHAEL.

- OKAY.
- ARE YOU READY?

- YEAH, I'M READY.
- YEAH.

I DON'T...
IS IT GONNA WIGGLE?

YEAH.

MICHAEL! AAH!

MICHAEL, STOP WIGGLING IT!
STOP WIGGLING IT!

MIKEY!

OH, !

FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS.

THIS IS A TEST. THIS IS A TEST.

WHO'S JANE?
WHO'S JANE NOW?

OOH, WHERE MY TARZAN?

I'M OUT OF BREATH, BABY.

ALL RIGHT. WHEW.

OOH, BABY.

- BREATH, YOU OUT OF BREATH?
- YEAH, I'M FINE.

WE'RE ALMOST THERE, BABY.
THIS IS WHAT THE...

YOU KNOW, THIS CHALLENGE HERE
IS NOTHING.

IT'S SIMILAR TO
WHAT WE'RE DOING.

CLIMBING UP THIS THING, WE'VE
BEEN BATTLING OUR RELATIONSHIP

TO GET TO EACH OTHER.
- YEAH.

AND ONCE I'M HERE,
IT'S A LITTLE, YOU KNOW,

IRON-OUT THINGS,
BUT IT'S DOWNHILL FROM THERE.

IT SMOOTHES OUT.

BEING IN PERSON, I THINK
IT'S JUST OUR COMMUNICATION.

MY LITTLE SNAPPING YOU SAY,
IT AIN'T A SNAP.

IT'S WHEN I SAY SOMETHING
TO YOU OVER AND OVER,

AND I ASK YOU NOT TO DO IT,
AND YOU STILL CAN...

THAT MEANS YOU DIDN'T HEAR ME,
SO THEN I HAVE TO EXPRESS IT

LIKE THAT 'CAUSE YOU'RE NOT
HEARING ME LIKE THIS.

SO I JUST... YOU MAKE SNAP.

SO WE HAVE TO WORK ON
WHY DO I DO THAT.

YEAH.

I GOT YOU.
I UNDERSTAND, BABY.

BEING IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS

WHERE I COULDN'T TRUST
MY PARTNER

HAS PUT THE VULNERABILITY IN ME,

SO I DEFINITELY HAVE
AN AGGRESSIVE DEFENSE MECHANISM.

BUT THERE'S A WAY TO HANDLE ME,
AND MICHAEL BETTER LEARN IT.

YOU'RE NOT A GIRL.

YOU'RE A MAN.

AND IF YOU CAN'T BE
A STRONG ENOUGH MAN FOR THIS...

- FOR ME, MICHAEL, THAT'S...
- SCARY, TOO.

TAKE IT EASY ON YOU?

TAKE IT EASY ON ME.

I HAVE A HUGE DECISION TO MAKE
WITH MICHAEL ABOUT THE PROPOSAL,

AND, UM...

I'M NOT SURE
IF I GOT AN ANSWER.

IF YOU CUT IT ON A SLANT,
IT STAYS JUICY.

I'VE WORKED IN RESTAURANTS,
SO... OKAY.

THIS IS JUST MADNESS.
YOU RUIN EVERYTHING.

JESSE, MY CHILDREN ARE HERE.

HEY, GUYS!

HOW WAS YOUR DAY, BEAUTIFUL?

YOU GUYS READY
FOR A NICE DINNER?

YEAH, WE GOT SOME CARROT CAKE
AND SOME NICE STEAK

FROM THE BUTCHER.

I'M LOOKING FORWARD TO
HAVING DINNER WITH YOU GUYS.

THIS IS THE SECOND TIME
JESSE IS MEETING THE GIRLS.

I JUST WANT TO KIND OF GAUGE
HOW HE IS AROUND THEM.

I WANT TO SEE HIM REALLY MAKE
THE EFFORT TO GET CLOSE

WITH THE KIDS,

AND JUST, YOU KNOW, FOR HIM TO
REALLY FEEL PART OF THE FAMILY.

WELL,
WELCOME TO THE AIRBNB.

- ISN'T IT CUTE?
- MM-HMM.

SO LET'S GET YOUR BACKPACKS OFF
AND GET READY FOR DINNER, OKAY?

COME WITH MOM.

THERE IS A CONNECTION
BETWEEN ME AND THE GIRLS.

BUT IT'S JUST, LIKE, I FELT LIKE
I'M AN OUTSIDER, YOU KNOW.

LIKE, I'M JUST THERE.

ANIKO'S UPSTAIRS
DOING HER HOMEWORK.

WE'LL LET HER FINISH THAT,
AND THEN SHE'LL COME DOWN

FOR HER DINNER, OKAY?

YOU KNOW, IT IS HARD FOR ME
TO CONNECT...

ALL RIGHT. SO YOU GOT THE STEAK,
AND I'LL DO THE RICE?

- YES, LET'S DO IT THEN.
- PERFECT.

- OKAY.
- WHAT A TEAM!

I'M HAPPY THAT YOU CAME AND SAW,
LIKE, WHERE WE LIVED.

OH, THANK YOU.
THAT'S REALLY SWEET.

THAT'S REALLY SWEET.
THANK YOU.

WHAT IF JESSE MOVED
TO THE STATES,

OR CONNECTICUT,
WHAT WOULD YOU GUYS THINK?

- I WOULDN'T MIND.
- YEAH.

REALLY?

YEAH, IT'D BE GREAT
TO HAVE YOU HERE.

YOU KNOW, I THINK...
- I LOVE IT.

YEAH.

I LOVE SEEING WHEN JESSE'S
ENGAGED WITH THE GIRLS.

DID AMSTERDAM HAVE
GOOD, LIKE, FOOD?

AMSTERDAM HAS GREAT FOOD.

- WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE?
- I THINK MEXICAN.

MEXICAN?
I LOVE MEXICAN FOOD.

AWESOME! YES!

YOU KNOW, THESE ARE THE MOMENTS
I FEEL THAT IT WOULD WORK.

- OKAY.
- I LOVE YOU.

I LOVE YOU, TOO, MOM.

I DON'T KNOW WHY THIS STOVE
IS NOT HEATING UP HIGH.

IT SHOULD BE LIKE, ON HIGH,
BUT IT'S NOT REALLY HIGH.

NO, I KNOW.
USUALLY IT GETS RED.

- JUST SOME PATIENCE.
- I HAVE PATIENCE, DARLING.

BABY, RELAX. RELAX.

TRUST ME, I KNOW STEAK.

GOT IT. WHATEVER YOU SAY.

SHE'S, LIKE, YOU KNOW,

TRYING TO BE ALL MOMMY-LIKE,
WHICH I UNDERSTAND.

THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN,
YOU SEE IT IN HER EYES.

SHE'S, LIKE...

SHE BECOMES NERVOUS
AND, LIKE, NEUROTIC,

AND SHE'S, LIKE, "I NEED TO SHOW
THAT I'M A GOOD MOM."

- LET ME STIR THAT RICE.
- I JUST STIRRED IT.

I KNOW, BUT IT GETS STICKY.

- I JUST STIRRED IT.
- OKAY.

I DO APPRECIATE, YOU KNOW,
HIM HELPING, BUT WITH MY KIDS,

I LIKE THINGS DONE, LIKE,
A CERTAIN WAY.

WE GOTTA GET THAT
CHAR GRILL ON THERE, HONEY.

YOU GOTTA CUT IT
ON A BIAS, BABE.

LIKE, YOU'VE GOTTA SLICE IT
ON THE SIDE.

I USED TO WORK
IN A RESTAURANT.

OH...

I'M NOT PUSHING YOU.

SO YOU JUST... IF YOU CUT IT,
LIKE, ON THE BIAS,

IT STAYS JUICY.
- HONEY.

I'M JUST HELPING YOU. WE'RE
DOING THIS TOGETHER, RIGHT?

SO IF YOU CUT IT ON A BIAS,
AT A SLANT, IT SAVES THE JUICE.

I'VE WORKED IN RESTAURANTS,
SO... OKAY.

I'M DONE.

I KNOW HOW MY KIDS
LIKE IT, SO...

KIND OF AT A BIAS,

LIKE THIS.

WE HAD A LOVELY PREPARING DINNER
ALL TOGETHER AS A FAMILY,

AS SHE WANTED.

THEN THE ONLY THING I WAS DOING
IS PREPARING A STEAK,

AND EVEN THAT
SHE WANTS TO TAKE OVER.

WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO,
TO STAND THERE AND JUST WATCH?

NO, LISTEN, WE ARE
INTERACTING AS A FAMILY.

WE ALL DO SOMETHING.

THEN I CUT THE STEAK, AND THEN
SHE'S GOING TO IT LIKE THIS.

I WANT TO DO IT.

THIS IS JUST MADNESS.

- ARE YOU OKAY?
- YES, I'M FINE.

I JUST, YOU KNOW...

NOT GONNA BE...
LOOK LIKE A FOOL.

HE'S LASHING OUT ON HER
OVER A STEAK.

I THINK
HE WAS OVERDRAMATIC.

MY MOM, SHE IS TRYING
HER BEST TO, LIKE,

MAKE THE SITUATION NORMAL.

BABE, DINNER'S READY,
SO IT'S ALL GOOD.

- NO, IT'S NOT ALL GOOD.
- IT'S NOT? WHY?

YOU KEEP... I AM COOKING THIS
STEAK, AND ALL YOU DO IS THIS...

SERIOUSLY!

YEAH, BECAUSE IF YOU CUT IT
ON A BIAS, IT STAYS JUICY.

- I AM DONE.
- I WORKED IN A RESTAURANT.

- I KNOW.
- YEAH.

AND THAT'S HOW
MY KIDS LIKE IT.

WE WERE ALL DOING SOMETHING.

I WAS DOING THE STEAK, YOU WERE
DOING THE RICE AND THE SALAD.

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG.

YOU RUINED EVERYTHING.

JESSE, MY CHILDREN ARE HERE.

- MY CHILDREN...
- GUYS...

AND I WAS VERY MUCH BONDING
WITH THE GIRLS.

OKAY. YEAH, LET'S GO.

THIS IS NOT GOOD AT ALL.
COME ON, ASPEN.

I JUST WANT MY KIDS TO HAVE
A NICE MEAL IN A NICE HOME.

I'M JUST...

. UNREAL.

I DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH
MORE I CAN TAKE.

NEXT TIME ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

I NEED TO BE BRUTALLY HONEST
ABOUT MELISSA.

I'M NOT SURE HOW
SHE'S GOING TO REACT.

UH...

I DON'T WANT
TO LEAVE.

JON AND I's RELATIONSHIP
IS DOOMED.

I'M SITTING HERE,
WAITING FOR KARINE,

AND SHE'S JUST NOT SHOWING UP.

I FOUND OUT
MICHAEL'S FOLLOWING

A THOUSAND WOMEN ON INSTAGRAM.

WHY THE HELL ARE YOU FOLLOWING
ALL THEM WOMEN?

ARE YOU MASTURBATING,
AND YOU SAY YOU DON'T?

I DON'T KNOW!

I DON'T WANT TO LOSE YOU.

YOUR EX...
THAT'S OVER, RIGHT?

UM...

I'M GOING TO CALL THE POLICE.

- POLICE?
- SO GO... GO AWAY.

SHE THREW SHOES AT MY HEAD.
WHAT'S NEXT, A GLASS?

I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!