90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 2, Episode 4 - Family Ties - full transcript

PREVIOUSLY ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

- ONE BED, PLEASE.
- ONE BED.

THE ONLY PROBLEM I GOT

IS YOU'RE STILL DRESSED,
MICHAEL.

I THOUGHT
THERE WERE TWO BEDS.

I REALLY JUST HOPE SHE HASN'T
BEEN PLAYING ME THIS WHOLE TIME.

OKAY.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT THE I'M DOING.

HEY, GUYS!

IT IS...

ANIKO AND ASPEN ARE HERE.



I REALLY FEEL LIKE

I'M IN A POLICE INTERROGATION
ROOM AGAIN.

OKAY.

AND I'M SITTING HERE
REALLY NERVOUS.

I'M LIKE, "HEY, THIS IS REALLY
HAPPENING RIGHT NOW."

I WANT TO START A FAMILY.

YES.

I JUST DON'T KNOW IF THIS IS
REALLY THE RIGHT TIME

TO BRING A CHILD
INTO THIS WORLD.

HAZEL'S MOTHER AND FATHER
ARE ON THE FLOOR.

LIKE, I DON'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF.

HER BEHAVIOR RIGHT NOW IS CRAZY.

HAVE YOU EVEN EVER DATED
ANYONE WITH CHILDREN?

I COULD NEVER KEEP
TRACK OF JON'S GIRLFRIENDS



BECAUSE THERE WERE SO MANY.

- OKAY.
- OH.

JUST STOP.

IT WAS VERY INSULTING.

I'M WALKING AROUND ALL DAY.
NO MELISSA.

I WAS NAIVE TO THINK
THAT WE HAD SOMETHING REAL.

CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS

OH, I'M READY.

YEP.

IT'S MICHAEL AND I'S
FIRST MORNING

TOGETHER IN NIGERIA,

AND MEETING MICHAEL
FOR THE FIRST TIME

WAS JUST THE MOST
BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE.

TODAY I'M GOING TO MICHAEL'S
NEIGHBORHOOD TO MEET HIS MOM

AND SOME OF HIS FRIENDS.

I'M NERVOUS MEETING HIS MOM.

I MEAN, WHAT IS SHE THINKING
ABOUT IT?

I'M FRICKIN' NERVOUS.

COME ON, BABY.

HELLO.

AAH!

HOW ARE YOU?
HELLO. HELLO.

HOW ARE YOU?
- WELCOME.

IS IT BIG ENOUGH?

SHE LIKE THIS?

GET HER ONE LIKE IT?
- YEAH, YEAH.

LET ME TAKE YOU INSIDE THE...

UNH-UNH.

MEETING MICHAEL'S MOM

IS JUST REALLY
AND TRULY HEART-TOUCHING.

BUT IT'S STILL NERVE-RACKING...

MAMA, ARE YOU CONCERNED
THAT I WOULDN'T DO

FOR MICHAEL

WHAT A NIGERIAN WIFE
MIGHT DO FOR MICHAEL?

SHE SAYS SHE'S ALWAYS
CARED ABOUT THE GUN.

YEAH.

RIGHT HERE ARE MY GUNS.

WE CALL 'EM GUNS.

BUT, NO, MAMA, I HAVE NO...
I DON'T LIKE GUNS.

I WON'T LET NO ONE HURT HIM.

ON TV,
WE WATCH ABOUT HOW THEY...

- OH. YUMMY.
- TAKE IT.

THANK YOU.

YEAH.

FOR ME?

OH.

IT LOOKS GOOD.

IT'S WHAT?
SNAILS?

OH.

YAY.

I'M JUST A SIMPLE PERSON.

SO BEING RESPECTFUL TO HIS MOM,

I'M GOING TO TASTE WHATEVER
SHE BRINGS OUT THERE,

BUT, GOD,
I AM TERRIFIED RIGHT NOW.

THANK YOU, MAMA.

THANK YOU BOTH.

OKAY, MAMA.
- MM-HMM!

OH, THANK YOU.

THANK YOU.

- MICHAEL.
- YEAH, HOW YOU DOING?

- HELLO.
- MEET MY FRIENDS.

THIS ANGELA.
- WOW.

THE ONE I'VE BEEN
TELLING YOU ABOUT, MY BABY.

- REALLY?
- YEAH.

Y'ALL THE SAME AGE
OR OLDER?

WELL, YOU KNOW WHAT?
I'M OLDER THAN ALL OF Y'ALL.

- COME ON.
- YEAH.

DO WE LOOK OKAY?

SURE.

CAN I ASK Y'ALL
A QUESTION?

YEAH.

WELL, I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR THEM
TELL ME THE REASON.

AH! SHH!

WHAT IS THE REASON YOU THINK
HE DON'T HAVE

MY PICTURE ON HIS PHONE?

BEFORE I CAME TO
NIGERIA, MICHAEL HAD TOLD ME

HE COULDN'T HAVE MY PICTURE
ON HIS PHONE,

AND THAT CAUSED A LOT OF TENSION
WITH MY FAMILY.

"THEY'LL ARREST ME
'CAUSE I AM YOUNG,

AND THEY'LL THINK
I'M SCAMMING."

I DON'T BELIEVE THAT
HE CAN GO TO JAIL

FOR HAVING YOUR PICTURE.
I DON'T BELIEVE THAT.

HE HAS TO TAKE PRECAUTIONS
BECAUSE THEY GO AHEAD

AND TAKE YOU TO JAIL.

I WANT TO MAKE SURE I'M NOT
BEING MADE A FOOL OUT OF

AND IT'S NOT BECAUSE
HE WAS EMBARRASSED OF ME.

SO YOU WERE
TELLING THE TRUTH.

- I TOLD YOU.
- BUT CAN YOU DO IT NOW?

- SURE.
- YEAH, SURE.

SO YOU'RE GONNA PUT ONE
ON YOUR PHONE?

I LOVE MY BABE.
MWAH!

- LOVE YOU, TOO, BABY.
- YEAH.

I'M A LITTLE SKEPTICAL
HIS FRIENDS

MIGHT'VE BEEN COVERING FOR HIM,
SO YOU BETTER BELIEVE

I'MA BE LOOKING FOR
MY PICTURE ON THAT PHONE.

MY BOYFRIEND, JESSE,
IS HERE IN AMERICA, VISITING ME.

AND TODAY, FOR MY BIRTHDAY,

JESSE GOT TO MEET MY DAUGHTERS
FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME.

AMAZING.

IT WAS A BEAUTIFUL MOMENT,
AND I'LL CHERISH THAT.

READY?

SAY "CHEESE!"

AWW!
- NICE MEMORY.

SEEING JESSE EMBRACE US
ALL TOGETHER WAS BEAUTIFUL.

I FELT LOVED.

FELT LIKE A LITTLE FAMILY.

HE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE THERE'S
A POSSIBLE PROPOSAL COMING SOON,

SO I'M EXCITED TO SEE
WHAT COMES NEXT.

LET'S GET SOME PIZZA!

THANK YOU.

I'M HAPPY THAT JESSE AND I
ARE GETTING ALONG.

AFTER WE HAD A LITTLE BIT
OF A ROUGH START

IN THE BEGINNING
OF HIS TRIP,

I JUST WANT US TO HAVE
A GOOD TIME

AND STAY FOCUSED
ON FUTURE HOPES AND PLANS.

ANGELO'S PIZZA.

SAY, "I WANT A SLICE
OF NEW YORK PIZZA."

YOU FOLD IT.

OH, I'M NOT...
FOLDING YOUR PIZZA?

THAT'S HOW YOU DO IT,
YEAH!

NO! HELL NO.

- OKAY.
- SOMETHING TO DRINK?

THANK YOU SO MUCH.
I APPRECIATE THAT.

THANK YOU.

CHEERS.

REALLY HAPPY THAT WE GOT TO DO
THE FUN DAY WITH THE KIDS.

TOUCHED MY HEART.

I HAD A GREAT TIME.

IT WAS AMAZING.

MEETING, LIKE, THE GIRLS
WAS QUITE SIGNIFICANT.

- THAT'S BEAUTIFUL.
- LOOK AT THIS.

LOOK AT THAT!

- ISN'T THAT AMAZING?
- WOW.

YOU GONNA POST THEM
ON YOUR FACEBOOK?

I'LL POST THAT FOR YOU.

WHICH PICTURES DO YOU THINK
YOU'RE GONNA POST?

SINCE I DON'T REALLY GET TO SEE
YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA SINCE...

I'M NOT REALLY
ON THERE AND...

I DON'T REALLY FEEL LIKE TALKING
ABOUT SOCIAL MEDIA,

IF YOU DON'T MIND.

LOOK, I KNOW, IN THE PAST,
THAT ONE SITUATION THAT WE...

YOU KNOW,
I HAD ALREADY APOLOGIZED

AND WE'D COME TO
A NEW UNDERSTANDING.

YES, I CAN.
WHY ARE YOU SPEAKING FOR ME?

JESSE FEELS I SHOULDN'T
BE ON SOCIAL MEDIA

BECAUSE I POSTED
SOMETHING ON FACEBOOK.

IT REALLY PISSED HIM OFF.

HE JUST HASN'T GOTTEN OVER IT,
SO I'VE KIND OF STAYED OFF.

BUT I LOVE SOCIAL MEDIA.

I SHOULDN'T FEEL LIKE I NEED
TO STAY OFF OF IT.

I JUST FEEL LIKE I SHOULD BE
ABLE TO NOT FEAR GOING BACK ON

BECAUSE, YOU KNOW, YOU'RE NOT
GONNA BE HAPPY ABOUT IT.

HEY, HONEY, IF YOU WANT TO GO
ON SOCIAL MEDIA, GO AHEAD.

GO AHEAD.
KEEP TALKING FOR ME.

DO YOUR THING.

I'M JUST TIRED OF
GETTING BULLIED

AND TOLD WHAT TO DO
ALL THE TIME.

YOU KNOW, I'M LIKE,
"MAKE A CHOICE, DARCEY.

YOU'RE VERY SENSITIVE
AND INSECURE.

ISN'T IT BETTER FOR YOU
TO JUST FOCUS ON YOURSELF

INSTEAD OF USING A PLATFORM

THAT CAUSES A LOT OF TENSION
AND STRESS?"

I HAVE NOTHING TO SAY
TO YOU, BUDDY.

YEAH.

I JUST WANT TO ENJOY
THE ANGELO'S PIZZA.

COOL.

THAT'S THE ONLY THING THAT'S
NOT BULL RIGHT NOW.

HMM.

YES.

- SORRY ABOUT THAT.
- YEP.

THERE YOU ARE.

I'M DOING EVERYTHING
I CAN TO PLEASE HIM.

HE ALWAYS SAYS HE DOESN'T
WANT THE DRAMA,

BUT I FEEL LIKE HE CONTINUES
TO SHUT ME DOWN.

IT'S FRUSTRATING.

AWESOME.

- BON APPéTIT.
- GO POST RIGHT NOW, BABY.

- NAH, IT'S OKAY.
- TAKE A PICTURE.

YOU'LL JUST GET MAD AT ME
ONCE AGAIN.

START ACTING YOUR AGE,
AND IF YOU CAN'T,

START RESTRUCTURING
YOURSELF AND YOUR BEHAVIOR.

ABSOLUTELY DO.

I THINK YOU SHOULD DO
THE SAME THING.

TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE.

I'M DONE TALKING TO YOU.
I WANT TO ENJOY NEW YORK.

THAT DOESN'T ADD UP
TO ME.

I AM DONE WITH YOU.
BYE-BYE.

OKAY.
BYE.

THIS

I'M A STRONG WOMAN,

AND IF I SAY MY PIECE
OR DEFEND MYSELF,

HE DOESN'T LIKE IT,
SO HE TALKS LOUDER AND BIGGER

AND THEN STOMPS OFF.

NOTHING.
I'M JUST DONE.

IF YOU WANT TO KEEP BULL
FINE, BUT NOT WITH ME.

I'M DONE. I'M DONE.
I'M DONE.

IT'S LIKE HIS WAY
OR THE HIGHWAY.

IT'S LIKE EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE
HAS TO GET SHUT DOWN BUT...

I DON'T KNOW.

I'M DONE. I'M DONE.
I'M DONE.

I JUST NOW WALKED AWAY
FROM A DINNER,

BUT MAYBE, NEXT TIME,
I'LL JUST WALK FULLY AWAY.

WITH DARCEY
AND HER DAUGHTERS.

BUT I'M ONLY WILLING TO DO THAT

IF THERE IS A FOUNDATION
OF HARMONY.

HER BEHAVIOR RIGHT NOW
IS CRAZY.

I JUST DON'T KNOW WHY, LIKE,

THIS WHOLE TOPIC NEEDS
TO KEEP COMING BACK UP.

TO ME, IT WAS DONE.

WE ALREADY TALKED ABOUT IT,
AND HE SHOULD KNOW THAT.

I HAVE A BIG VISION,

AND I WANT HIM TO BE
A PART OF THAT SO BAD.

BUT I WANT HIM TO WANT IT
FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.

I'M GOING TO SLEEP
ON THE COUCH.

I JUST THINK THAT WE NEED
TO TALK TOMORROW MORNING.

IT'S TOO TENSE NOW.

WE'LL TALK ABOUT IT
TOMORROW.

WHAT THE...

I'M FEELING CONFUSED
AND NOT QUITE SURE

WHERE HE WANTS
THIS RELATIONSHIP TO GO.

IT'S LIKE WE'RE GOING THROUGH
ALL THESE OBSTACLES

JUST TO GET TO THE LOVE,
THE REAL, THE REAL LOVE.

OKAY.
- OKAY.

I DON'T WANT TO FIGHT,

BUT IS THIS
JUST SUPERFICIAL MAKING UP LIKE,

"ALL RIGHT, YOU KNOW,
LET'S JUST MOVE ON..."

THE QUESTION REALLY IS,
IS DARCEY ABLE TO FIX HERSELF

FOR IT TO BE A RELATIONSHIP THAT
IS LONG-LASTING AND WORKABLE?

IT'S MY FIRST FULL DAY

HERE IN BEAUTIFUL MEDELLíN,
COLOMBIA,

AND EVEN THOUGH SHE WAS ABOUT
2 1/2 HOURS LATE FOR DINNER,

LAST NIGHT, ME AND MELISSA
HAD A GREAT TIME TOGETHER.

MEANS THAT
THEY LOVE YOU.

AND THAT'S HOW I FEEL
ABOUT YOU.

OKAY.

OH, THAT'S GOOD.

I KNOW IT'S CRAZY BECAUSE
I JUST MET MELISSA IN PERSON,

BUT I'M DEEPLY
IN LOVE WITH HER.

I WANT HER TO BE MY WIFE.

SO TODAY I WANT TO TAKE HER OUT

SO WE CAN EXPLORE THIS
BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY TOGETHER.

LOOK AT THOSE MOUNTAINS.

I COULDN'T ASK FOR A BETTER
PLACE.

THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL.
I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I'M HERE.

THE COFFEE'S OUTSTANDING.

I JUST CAN'T DRINK ENOUGH
OF THIS COFFEE.

THIS IS AWESOME.
I LOVE THIS PLACE.

THIS MORNING,
I SENT A TEXT TO MELISSA.

I STATED, "HEY, LISTEN,

I'M SUPER EXCITED
TO HANG OUT AGAIN."

IT WAS A GREAT NIGHT.

IT SEEMS LIKE WE HAD
A GREAT CONNECTION.

SHE LOOKS BETTER IN PERSON.

SHE'S HOT, SEXY, BEAUTIFUL,
INTELLIGENT.

I MADE PLANS WITH MELISSA
TO GO TO PUERTO PLAZA,

SO IT'S A LITTLE BIT
DISAPPOINTING.

SHE SENT ME PICTURES,
WHICH MADE ME FEEL BETTER.

SHE WORKS AS A NURSE,
AND SHE'S IN SCHOOL RIGHT NOW,

SO SHE HAS
A VERY BUSY LIFESTYLE.

YOU KNOW, AS A GENTLEMAN,

I DON'T WANT TO ADD
ANY PRESSURE.

I HOPE THAT'S NOT THE WAY OF HER
TELLING ME SHE'S NOT INTERESTED.

I REALLY HOPE THAT'S NOT TRUE.

AFTER ALL THESE MONTHS OF
TALKING AND BEING INVESTED,

I WOULD BE HEARTBROKEN.

ALL RIGHT.

- Yo.
- HEY, CUZ. WHAT'S UP?

What's goin' on, cuz-o?

JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW
HOW IT WENT LAST NIGHT.

SHE LOOKS HOT AS HELL.

SHE LOOKS BETTER IN PERSON.
- For real?

YEAH.
HOWEVER, SHE TOLD ME

SHE WAS GONNA BE THERE AT 7:30,

AND IT'S 8:00 P.M.
THEN IT'S 8:30.

SHE FINALLY SHOWS UP
AROUND 9:00.

Wait, wait.

So you waited two hours, right?

That's what you tellin' me?
You waited two hours?

TWO HOURS, AFTER I CAME
ALL THE WAY FROM COLUMBUS, OHIO.

HOWEVER, YOU KNOW,
THE DATE WENT WELL,

AND THEN I CALLED A CAB FOR HER,

AND SHE WANTED TO GIVE ME
A KISS,

BUT, YOU KNOW,
I DIDN'T GO FOR IT.

YEAH.
I TURNED TO THE SIDE.

VAMOS, OKAY?

OKAY.

YEAH, YOU KNOW,
'CAUSE I GOT TO BE RESPECTFUL.

SO, BASICALLY, I UP.

BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?
IT'S JUST... I DON'T KNOW.

I ATTEMPTED TO MAKE PLANS WITH
HER JUST TO GO OUT TO A PLAZA,

AND SHE'S TELLING ME
THAT SHE'S BUSY WITH SCHOOLWORK.

AW, MAN.
DON'T TELL ME THAT, MAN.

THAT'S NO REASON
TO LAUGH, MAN.

THAT'S MESSED UP.

MAYBE HE'S RIGHT.
MAYBE I MESSED UP.

THANKS FOR THE ADVICE.

I APPRECIATE YOU, YOU KNOW,
TALKING TO ME.

OKAY, I LOVE YOU, CUZ.

I REGRET NOT KISSING HER,

BUT I DIDN'T WANT TO LEAVE
THAT IMPRESSION

THAT THAT'S ALL
I WANT FROM HER.

I JUST WANTED TO BE A GENTLEMAN.

WAS IT A GOOD DECISION?

I DON'T KNOW.

SO...

STILL GONNA GO TO
PUERTO PLAZA.

HOPEFULLY, I'LL TALK
TO HER LATER

AND SEE IF SHE CAN
COME SEE ME TODAY.

I'M WILLING TO DO WHATEVER
IT TAKES TO WIN HER OVER.

I WANT TO START A FAMILY.

I JUST DON'T KNOW IF THIS
IS REALLY THE RIGHT TIME

TO BRING A CHILD
INTO THIS WORLD.

YOU'RE NOT GONNA
GIVE UP.

HAZEL'S MOTHER AND FATHER
ARE ON THE FLOOR.

LIKE, I DON'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF.

SO BEAUTIFUL.

IT'S REALLY NICE BEING
BACK HERE IN BRAZIL WITH KARINE.

I MISSED HER A LOT.

ME AND KARINE REALLY WANT
TO GET MARRIED ON THIS TRIP,

BUT THE LAST FEW DATES HAS BEEN
A REAL ROLLER COASTER

FOR US BOTH.

BEFORE GIVING ME PERMISSION
TO MARRY THEIR DAUGHTER.

AND I WAS SHOCKED.

NOW THAT WE CAN FINALLY
MOVE FORWARD

WITH OUR WEDDING PLANS
IN BRAZIL,

WE JUST NEED TO REGISTER
OUR INTENT TO MARRY.

YES.

ONCE I GET MARRIED TO KARINE
IN BRAZIL,

I'M HOPING THAT KARINE
GET A SPOUSE VISA

SO SHE CAN COME BACK
TO THE UNITED STATES

AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

BUT I'M ON A TOURIST VISA,

SO WE HAVE A VERY LIMITED TIME
TO GET MARRIED.

WE WANTED TO REGISTER
TO MARRY TODAY.

OKAY.

PASSPORT, VISA,
AND I HAVE THIS IF YOU NEED IT.

TO GET MARRIED IN BRAZIL,

YOU HAVE TO HAVE
A LOT OF SPECIAL DOCUMENTS.

IF THEY DON'T APPROVE
THESE DOCUMENTS,

WE'RE NOT GETTING MARRIED
IN BRAZIL.

THEY CAN DO THE MARRIAGE
IN 30 DAYS.

AWESOME.

I CAN SHOW YOU THE PLACE.

OKAY, YEAH,
I'D LOVE TO SEE IT.

OKAY, WE'LL DO
THE CEREMONY HERE?

SO YOU WANT TO DO THIS?

YES.

I WANT TO TALK
ABOUT OUR FUTURE.

OKAY.

I WANT TO START A FAMILY.

UM...

YES.

DO YOU FEEL THAT
WE'RE READY FOR THAT BIG

OF A JUMP
IN OUR RELATIONSHIP?

IF WE HAVE A CHILD,
OUR RELATIONSHIP

WILL BE MUCH STRONGER
AND WE WILL STOP FIGHTING.

IF WE WORK TOGETHER,
WE CAN HAVE A FAMILY.

YOU'RE NOT GONNA GIVE UP.

PAUL.

ALL RIGHT.

I WANT TO HAVE A BABY
AT SOME POINT,

AND I REALLY WANT
TO MAKE KARINE HAPPY,

BUT THIS IS ALL MOVING
A LITTLE BIT TOO FAST.

I JUST DON'T KNOW IF THIS
IS REALLY THE RIGHT TIME

TO BRING A CHILD
INTO THIS WORLD.

YESTERDAY, I ARRIVED IN MANILA
AND MET MY GIRLFRIEND,

HAZEL,
FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME.

WE MET ONLINE.

IT REALLY WAS LOVE
AT FIRST SIGHT.

AND I WAS HOPING FOR
A ROMANTIC FIRST EVENING,

AND IT DID NOT GO WELL.

NO, I LITERALLY...

OH, SO THIS
WILL SEPARATE US?

YEAH.

THAT'S WHY I LOVE YOU.

LAST NIGHT, HAZEL AND I
DID NOT HAVE SEX.

I GOT, LIKE, A GOOD-NIGHT PECK,
YOU KNOW,

JUST LIKE A LITTLE CHICKEN PECK,
BUT I'M NOT RUSHING IT.

I'M NOT PUSHING IT.

YEAH.
MM-HMM.

GOOD.

YOU TRYING TO SAY I'M GOING
AROUND DRAGON-BREATHED?

THERE'S A LOT OF PRESSURE
ON ME THIS MORNING

BECAUSE HAZEL'S
INTRODUCING ME TO THE PARENTS.

SO I'M TRYING TO PUT
MY SHOES ON.

SEEMS REALLY CRAZY THAT
I'VE ONLY KNOWN HAZEL

IN THE PHYSICAL FOR ONE DAY

AND IT'S TIME
TO MEET THE PARENTS.

OKAY.

HERE WE GO.

WHOO!

YEAH!

THIS IS WHAT
I'M TALKING ABOUT.

THIS IS LIVING RIGHT HERE.

I LIKE IT.

YEAH.

I WANT TARIK TO CHOOSE ME.

MEN FIRST.

I'VE FLOWN LITERALLY TO
THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD.

I SPENT A NICE PIECE OF MONEY.

I'M DOING ALL OF THIS
TO BE WITH HER.

YEP.

BUT SHE'S TOLD ME THAT,
IF I DON'T IMPRESS HER PARENTS,

THERE'S A CHANCE THAT WE MIGHT
NOT EVEN BE TOGETHER AT ALL.

COME ON. COME IN.
MM-HMM.

HAZEL DEFINITELY CARES
ABOUT WHAT HER PARENTS THINK

ABOUT THE DECISIONS
THAT SHE MAKES.

SO THIS IS A HUGE DEAL.

THIS IS REALLY...
THIS IS BIG-TIME HERE.

HERE, I'M JUST GONNA
PUSH OVER HERE

'CAUSE
YOU KEEP ELBOWING ME.

I'M SORRY.

I'M NOT, BUT YOU WERE
KIND OF DOING THAT.

I'M NOT.

IT'S JUST SO MUCH FREAKING DRAMA
AND BULL

HAVE YOU EVEN EVER
DATED ANYONE WITH CHILDREN?

I COULD NEVER KEEP
TRACK OF JON'S GIRLFRIENDS

BECAUSE THERE WERE SO MANY.

DID YOU SLEEP GOOD?
YOU WANT TO GET TICKLES?

DO YOU LIKE BEING IN ENGLAND?

LOOK OUTSIDE.

THAT DOESN'T LOOK
LIKE OUR WINDOW.

YOU GONNA BE ALL RIGHT
WITH THAT THERE?

YEAH.

IT'S MY FIRST MORNING
IN ENGLAND.

THIS IS THE BEST MORNING
OF MY LIFE

BECAUSE I ACTUALLY WOKE UP
NEXT TO JON.

I HAD TO POKE HIM JUST TO
MAKE SURE HE WAS REAL.

I WOKE UP, AND IT WAS
JUST HARD TO BELIEVE

THAT YOU'RE ACTUALLY NEXT
TO ME. IT WAS...

IT WAS PRETTY SURREAL.

IT WAS, UM...

IT WAS...
IT WAS VERY NICE.

THE BABY
WAS THERE SLEEPING.

CANDLES WERE LIT.

BUT SHE WASN'T THERE.
SHE WAS IN A DIFFERENT ROOM.

YEAH, SHE WAS THERE
IN A DIFFERENT ROOM.

LET'S MAKE THAT CLEAR.

IT WAS PRETTY INTENSE,

THE CHEMISTRY,
AT LEAST ON MY END.

- MM.
- MM!

LET'S GO.

I'M TAKING RACHEL
TO SEE MY SISTER TODAY.

MY SISTER'S KIDS,
THEY'RE A LOT OF FUN.

I'M EXCITED TO FINALLY
MEET THEM.

I'M A LITTLE NERVOUS
TO MEET HIS SISTER, ABBY.

LUCY.

ARE YOU NERVOUS?

FROM WHAT I'VE HEARD,
ABBY SPEAKS HER MIND

AND SHE DOESN'T REALLY CARE
IF SHE OFFENDS ANYBODY.

I REALLY WANT TO GET OFF
ON THE RIGHT FOOT WITH HER.

DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.

BASICALLY, MY SISTER
DOESN'T UNDERSTAND

MY RELATIONSHIP WITH RACHEL
AND MY ROLE IN LUCY'S LIFE.

- OH, BOY.
- AH!

- HI.
- HELLO!

HI.
IT'S NICE TO MEET YOU.

- HI. AND YOU.
- THIS IS LUCY.

HI, LUCY.

COME ON IN.
- ALL RIGHT.

WHEN JON WAS YOUNGER...

YOU KNOW, WHEN I SAY YOUNGER
I MEAN IN THE LAST TWO YEARS...

I COULD NEVER KEEP TRACK
OF JON'S GIRLFRIENDS

BECAUSE THERE WERE SO MANY.

HOW ARE YOU?

I'M FINE, THANK YOU.

- GOOD.
- WELCOME.

HI, BABY.

IT WOULD JUST BE
LIKE ONE GIRL...

"I'M GOING ON ANOTHER DATE
WITH THIS OTHER PERSON."

SO, UM...

AWW!
YOU'RE SO SWEET.

SHE'S THE PRETTIEST WOMAN
IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD.

- APART FROM ME.
- AND MUMMY.

AHH!

SO, YOU'VE MET EACH OTHER.
HOW HAS IT BEEN?

IT'S BEEN AMAZING.

BEEN AMAZING, YEAH.

I CAN REACH OUT, AND I CAN
TOUCH HIM, AND IT'S AMAZING.

IT'S AMAZING.

PEOPLE TAKE HOLDING HANDS
FOR GRANTED.

YOU'RE FUNNY.

SO, YEAH,
I'VE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.

I'VE NEVER FELT MORE SECURE
IN A RELATIONSHIP.

YEAH, NOW HAVING BEEN HERE
AND SEEING HIM

AND KISSED HIM
AND TOUCHED HIM,

I WANT TO BE
WITH HIM EVEN MORE.

YEAH, I DON'T KNOW.

I THINK IT JUST HASN'T HAD
ENOUGH TIME YET

TO GET BORING FOR YOU.

I'M WILLING TO BE
BORED WITH HIM.

ABBY, DOES IT SURPRISE YOU
THAT IT'S NOT

LIKE MY OTHER
RELATIONSHIPS?

YEAH, 'CAUSE YOU'VE NOT BEEN
A FAMILY MAN.

I'VE ONLY SEEN YOU WITH A BABY
FOR THE LAST LIKE HALF AN HOUR.

FIRST TIME.

AND HAVE YOU EVEN EVER DATED
ANYONE WITH CHILDREN?

- THERE'S ONLY BEEN TWO.
- WHAT DO YOU MEAN, TWO?

PART OF ME WONDERS

IF SHE'S
TRYING TO WARN ME ABOUT JON.

OBVIOUSLY, A LOT OF THINGS
I STILL DON'T KNOW ABOUT JON.

I THINK PARENTING COMES
ALONG WITH EXPERIENCE.

YEAH, BUT YOU'RE NOT GONNA
GET THAT, ARE YOU,

HANDS-ON EXPERIENCE?

HE JUST DROPPED THE BABY.

SHH, SHH, SHH, SHH!

SHH!

THEY SEEM TO BE VERY HAPPY,

BUT JON KNOWS NOTHING
ABOUT BABIES,

AND I DON'T THINK
JON AND RACHEL REALIZE

THAT THEY'RE STILL
IN THE HONEYMOON STAGE

OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

THERE'S LOTS OF PEOPLE
LIKE ABBY,

WHO THINK THAT WE'RE JUST...

WASTING OUR TIME.

IT'S JUST A SHAME, ISN'T IT,

THAT YOU JUST DIDN'T
LIVE DOWN THE ROAD.

THAT'S EXACTLY
WHAT WE THINK.

- READY, BABE?
- OH, YES, BABE.

JESSE'S TIME IN NEW YORK CITY

DIDN'T GO EXACTLY
HOW I WOULD WISH FOR.

SINCE LAST NIGHT'S DRAMA,
WE KIND OF KISSED AND MADE UP.

I'M HOPING TODAY
WE'LL HAVE A NEW DAY,

A BREATH OF FRESH AIR,
AND, YOU KNOW, START NEW.

I THINK IT'S TIME FOR HIM
TO KIND OF SEE MY HOMETOWN

SO WE CAN EXPERIENCE
WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE

FOR HIM TO MOVE HERE.

THE NEXT STEP IS TO GET,
YOU KNOW, ENGAGED

AND MAYBE LOOK
INTO THE K-1 VISA

AND SEE WHERE WE GO.

AWW!

I WANT TO HAVE THAT WHOLE
EXPERIENCE OF US

AT THE DINNER TABLE,
COOKING A NICE MEAL TOGETHER,

YOU KNOW,
LIKE HOW IT WOULD BE...

I'M LOOKING FORWARD
TO EXPERIENCE

HOW SHE LIVES IN CONNECTICUT

AND TO SEE THE DYNAMIC
WITH HER TWIN SISTER

AND, LIKE, HOW DO WE GO
TO THE GROCERY STORE.

ARE WE USING A BIKE,
OR ARE WE USING A CAR?

YEAH, YOU'LL SEE IT.
WE'LL PICK UP ASPEN.

IN CONNECTICUT, I DECIDED FOR US
TO STAY IN AN AIRBNB

INSTEAD OF THE CONDO...

JESSE AND I CAN HAVE
SOME ONE-ON-ONE TIME,

AND THE GIRLS
CAN COME VISIT US.

WELCOME TO CONNECTICUT,
BABY!

I WASN'T.

I WAS EXCITED.

OH, MY EARS, BABY BELLE.

I'M EXCITED TO SHOW YOU
CONNECTICUT.

I'M VERY EXCITED
TO BE HERE.

WELCOME HOME.

OH, BABE, THIS IS...
OH, MY GOD.

DO YOU WANT TO BUY
A HOUSE ON THE RIVER?

YES, THIS IS BEAUTIFUL.

OH, YEAH, SO ARE THE HOUSES
ON THE RIVER.

- I WANT TO LIVE HERE.
- REALLY?

CONNECTICUT'S IT?
- LOOK, DID YOU SEE THAT?

YEAH!
THAT'S WHERE I LIVE.

LIKE A LITTLE CREEK?
LIKE, ON THE WATER?

I CAN HAVE A LITTLE BOAT,
AND I CAN HAVE A CAMPFIRE.

LET'S JUST COME ON OVER.
YOU CAN SELL, YEAH.

OR I'D RATHER RENT IT OUT,
YOU KNOW?

- RENT IT OUT, YEAH.
- YEAH.

WOW.

CONNECTICUT IS EVEN
MORE BEAUTIFUL

THAN I COULD EVER IMAGINE.

I WAS STUNNED BY THE BEAUTY
OF IT.

HERE, I'M JUST GONNA
PUSH OVER HERE

'CAUSE YOU KEEP
ELBOWING ME.

- I'M NOT!
- I'M SORRY.

WHY YOU ARE LYING?

I'M NOT, BUT YOU WERE
KIND OF DOING THAT.

- I'M NOT.
- I'LL JUST GO OVER HERE.

I AM JUST SITTING HERE
STRETCHING, BABE.

OH.
GEEZ, YOU'RE SO RUDE.

NO, THAT'S
JUST THE REALITY.

WE NEED TO FIGURE THAT
OUT FAST.

'CAUSE I DON'T WANT
THAT AROUND THE KIDS.

I DON'T NEED TO BE
TALKED DOWN TO.

PLEASE STOP.

I'M A STRONG WOMAN,

AND I DON'T NEED TO BE,
LIKE, BELITTLED.

YEAH, YOU'RE NOT BEING
BELITTLED, HONEY.

THAT'S ONLY BETWEEN
YOUR EARS, ALL RIGHT?

OKAY, COOL.

ANYWAY, LET ME START
APPRECIATING

THIS BEAUTIFUL NATURE
AROUND ME.

- YES, THE FOLIAGE.
- NATURE.

YEAH, 'CAUSE YOU
DON'T APPRECIATE... YEAH.

I DON'T APPRECIATE
BULL YEAH.

PBHT!

IT'S JUST SO FRUSTRATING
TO EXPERIENCE

SO MUCH FREAKING DRAMA
AND BULL

I HAVE TO ASK MYSELF, LIKE,
DO I REALLY WANT THAT?

IT'S EXHAUSTING.

DON'T BRING OUT
THE DRESS...

- OKAY.
- OH.

JUST STOP.

YESTERDAY, I MET
MICHAEL'S MOM AND HIS FRIENDS.

IT WAS A LITTLE NERVE-RACKING,
SO IT MENTALLY EXHAUSTED ME.

BUT MICHAEL'S TAKING ME
TO THE MARKET TODAY

BECAUSE WE HAVE TALKED
IN THE PAST ABOUT HIM

WANTING ME TO WEAR
AFRICAN ATTIRE.

COME ON.

COME ON.
LET ME SHOW YOU.

THEY'RE BEAUTIFUL OUTFITS.

THEY REALLY ARE,
BUT THEY'RE NOT FOR ME.

SO I'M OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE.

WAIT, WAIT.

YOU'RE SWEATING.

YEAH, YOU'RE
MAKING ME SWEAT.

AW.
EASY.

THANK YOU.

OH, MICHAEL.
HA HA.

WHAT?

NO, I DON'T LIKE IT.

WAIT, WAIT,
LET ME EXPLAIN, PLEASE.

I NEED A CIGARETTE
NOW AND THEN.

I KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE IT.
I KNOW YOU WANT ME TO STOP.

IT'S NOT LIKE
I CAN JUST STOP.

- YEAH.
- I'M TRYING.

LET ME GET THIS PACK.

I'M GONNA TRY TO STOP
AFTER THIS PACK.

- OH, NO.
- HOW MUCH ARE THEY?

I GOT IT, BABY.

I'M GONNA SMOKE A CIGARETTE
AFTER I BUY THEM NOW.

CAN I HAVE ONE PACK,
PLEASE?

- BABY.
- IT'S OKAY.

IT'S...
- WAIT A MINUTE.

YOU KNOW YOU HAVE TO...
- MICHAEL, IT'S OKAY.

YOU'RE MAKING A SCENE.

PEOPLE THINK YOU'RE TALKING DOWN
TO ME, BABY.

NO, I'M NOT
TALKING DOWN TO YOU.

- MICHAEL.
- FOR YOU.

OKAY, I'M GOING TO SMOKE NOW,
MICHAEL.

I'M... I'M TRYING
TO BE CALM, HONEY.

I WANT TO SMOKE
THE CIGARETTE NOW.

THANK YOU.
- ALL RIGHT.

I'M GOING TO SMOKE. BYE.
- BYE.

ALL RIGHT.
THANK YOU.

BEING IN A DIFFERENT
ENVIRONMENT, I AM NERVOUS,

AND PEOPLE THAT SMOKE KNOW THAT,

WHEN YOU'RE NERVOUS,
YOU KNOW, YOU SMOKE MORE,

AND I JUST THINK
IT'S NOT APPROPRIATE FOR HIM

TO MAKE ME FEEL LIKE
I'M DOING SOMETHING WRONG.

BABY.

COME ON.

- I WANT TO FIND THE...
- BABY, IT'S...

YES, YES.
VERY PRETTY, YEAH.

LOOK, THIS ONE MIGHT
FIT YOU, YOU KNOW?

SEE?
WOW.

OH!
PRETTY BOOK BAGS.

YOU CAN GET IT
FOR SCHOLAR.

OKAY, WE'LL LOOK.

THAT'S PRETTY FABRIC.

YEAH.

CAN WE JUST LOOK
AT THE MATERIAL

AND DON'T BRING OUT
THE DRESSES AND ALL?

OKAY.

CAN WE JUST START
WITH THAT, MICHAEL?

ALL RIGHT.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

WHAT DO YOU THINK
ABOUT IT? HUH?

THEY'RE VERY BEAUTIFUL,
MICHAEL. I'M JUST...

ALL RIGHT.
OKAY.

I'M NOT NIGERIAN,
THOUGH, MICHAEL.

NO, NO, NO.
I'M JUST SAYING I'M AMERICAN,

AND YOU KNEW THAT
WHEN I COME HERE, RIGHT?

EXPLAIN THAT IT'S NOT
HER MATERIAL,

BUT I'M SELF-CONSCIOUS
ABOUT MY WEIGHT.

OKAY.

YOU CAN MAYBE BRING IT OUT,
BUT DON'T WANT...

OKAY.

I'M NOT FAT.

I'M FAT, MICHAEL?
REALLY?

- NO, NO, NO, NO.
- WHAT THE

I JUST...

NO, IT'S FINE.
I'M NOT MAD.

IT'S HOW YOU FEEL, MICHAEL.
- NO, NO.

I'M FINE.
JUST STOP.

IT'S ALREADY... YOU KNOW,
I'M TRYING TO GET USED

TO THE AGE DIFFERENCE
MAYBE IN MY HEAD,

AND THEN, YOU KNOW,
I GOT A LITTLE WEIGHT UP HERE

AND HERE,
AND, I MEAN,

IT WAS VERY EMBARRASSING
TO ME AND INSULTING.

YOU SAID IT, YOU DID IT,
YOU MEANT IT... THAT'S IT.

YOU WOULDN'T SAY THAT
IF YOU DIDN'T MEAN IT.

SHE FEELS INSECURE ABOUT IT,

AND SHE GETS UPSET SO QUICKLY.

BABY.

IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE THAT
HE MIGHT BE ASHAMED OF ME.

I'M JUST SELF-CONSCIOUS
ABOUT MY WEIGHT.

KARINE REALLY WANTS
TO HAVE A BABY.

NO.
YOU'RE NOT READY.

I HOPE I DON'T MAKE
A HUGE MISTAKE DOING THIS.

I'M ABOUT TO MEET
HAZEL'S PARENTS,

AND I'M REALLY WORRIED

ABOUT WHAT THEY'RE GONNA
THINK ABOUT ME.

I'M DEFINITELY FEELING
THE PRESSURE.

I MEAN, I'M NOT GONNA LIE
AND SAY I'M NOT,

BECAUSE I'VE COME
A REALLY LONG WAY.

ALL OF US CAN BE HAPPY.

AH! DADDY!

IN MANILA, FAMILIES LIVE
IN VERY SMALL APARTMENTS.

I'M HERE IN THIS PROBABLY
8x8 ROOM.

WALKING IN HERE, SEEING HER
FAMILY'S HOME

JUST REALLY BRINGS INTO FOCUS

THAT HAZEL DOESN'T HAVE
MUCH MONEY.

IT IS... HUMBLING.

OKAY.

I'M A LITTLE TALL.

I'M FEELING A LITTLE
SELF-CONSCIOUS RIGHT NOW.

I JUST DON'T WANT TO SAY
THE WRONG THING.

SO, TELL YOUR MOM I SEE

WHERE YOU GET
YOUR BEAUTY FROM.

AND DAD IS
VERY HANDSOME.

- OKAY.
- YEAH.

DEAR JESUS LORD...

IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

HAZEL'S PARENTS ARE
REALLY RELIGIOUS

AND CONSERVATIVE.

I'M WORRIED THAT,
BECAUSE I'M NOT RELIGIOUS,

THAT THEY WON'T
APPROVE OF ME.

SAY AGAIN.

WHAT?

I REALLY WASN'T EXPECTING
FOR THIS CONVERSATION

TO GET THIS SERIOUS
SO SOON.

TELL HER THAT IT'S MY HOPE
FOR THE FUTURE.

OKAY.

MM-HMM.
OH, OH, OH, OH, OH.

YEAH.
FOR SURE.

ACTUAL MARRIAGE IS
WHAT I WANT TO DO.

JUST TELL THEM THAT.

LET ME IN ON THE JOKE
FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.

SHE'S JOKING, "TOMORROW."

OH, OH, OH.
OKAY.

YEAH, YEAH,
YEAH, YEAH.

HER PARENTS KNOW I CAN GIVE HER

A MUCH BETTER LIFE
THAN SHE HAS NOW.

I'M IN LOVE FOR REAL.

I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE
SHE LOVES ME FOR REAL.

OH, WOW.

IF YOU WANT TO.
- YEAH.

OKAY.

HAZEL'S MOM WANTS ME
TO GO TO CHURCH WITH THEM.

I DON'T WANT TO BE STANDOFFISH
AND SAY,

"OH, I DON'T DO THAT,"

EVEN THOUGH I DON'T DO THAT.

OKAY.

IT'S IMPORTANT TO HAZEL
THAT HER PARENTS ACCEPT ME,

AND ME MAKING THIS GESTURE,

I THINK, IS A GOOD WAY
TO KEEP HAZEL HAPPY.

I HAVE NOT SPOKEN
WITH MY MOTHER

SINCE I'VE ARRIVED HERE
IN BRAZIL,

SO I HAVEN'T TOLD HER
ABOUT ME AND KARINE'S PLANS

TO GET MARRIED
WHILE I'M DOWN HERE,

BUT I THINK IT'S TIME TO GO
AHEAD AND FACE THE MUSIC.

I'M REALLY NERVOUS RIGHT NOW.

MOM'S NOT GONNA TAKE
THIS WELL, I'M SURE.

HEY, MOM.

HEY.
CAN YOU SEE ME ALL RIGHT?

YES, MA.
I CAN SEE YOU OKAY.

OKAY.
I CAN SEE YOU PERFECT.

DID YOU HAVE
A GOOD DAY TODAY?

IT WAS BUSY.

WE'VE BEEN REALLY
BUSY THERE AT WORK.

I'M SORRY.

IT'S GOING GREAT.
UM...

WE ARE TALKING ABOUT

GOING TO GET MARRIED
WHILE I'M OVER HERE.

NO.

YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW
EACH OTHER YET!

I LOVE HER VERY MUCH, SHE'S
GOT A REALLY GOOD HEART,

AND SHE REALLY SEEMS LIKE
SHE WANTS TO BE

IN THIS WITH ME, SO...

I THINK YOU'RE CRAZY.
REALLY, I REALLY DO.

YOU'RE CRAZY.

I THINK YOU SHOULD GET
TO KNOW EACH OTHER

A LITTLE BETTER.

I WOULD WORK
ON THAT FIRST.

SO YOU THINK
IT'S A BAD IDEA?

WHAT DO YOU THINK, PAUL?

DO YOU THINK
IT'S A GOOD IDEA?

ME AND MY MOTHER HAVE
A VERY CLOSE RELATIONSHIP,

AND HER OPINION
IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME.

IT'S GONNA BE HARD TO GO AHEAD
WITH THE WEDDING

WITHOUT HER BLESSING.

YEAH.

THE LANGUAGE BARRIER,
THE DISTANCE, EVERYTHING.

YEAH, WE STILL GOT THE TRUST
ISSUES EVERY NOW AND AGAIN.

SO WHY ARE YOU RUSHING?

WHAT'S THE POINT?
TELL ME.

I MEAN, I DON'T
UNDERSTAND STILL.

I GOT A VERY LIMITED AMOUNT
OF TIME

TO MAKE A DECISION
THIS TIME.

MY VISA'S LIMITED.

MY MARRIAGE LICENSE
IS LIMITED.

WHEN DOES
YOUR VISA EXPIRE?

90 DAYS.

IT'S REALLY HARD TO HEAR
MY MOTHER

IS NOT FULLY SUPPORTIVE
OF MY CHOICES.

I THINK THAT, DEEP DOWN...

AND I REALLY FEEL BAD
ABOUT THAT.

I FEEL LIKE COMPLETE CRAP
THAT I DIDN'T SET UP AN OPTION

WHERE MY PARENTS COULD BE THERE.

SO, ANOTHER THING I WANT
TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT.

KARINE HAS BEEN REALLY
TALKING ABOUT IT,

AND SHE REALLY WANTS
TO HAVE A BABY.

NO.
YOU'RE NOT READY.

I THINK A WEDDING WAS
ALREADY WAY TOO MUCH TO ACCEPT,

BUT IF YOU SAY
HAVE A BABY,

I DON'T THINK
THAT'S A GOOD IDEA.

YOU HAVE TO BE RESPONSIBLE

AND BE ABLE TO
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

AND PROVE IT, YOU KNOW?

KARINE IS VERY YOUNG,
AND SHE'S GOT PLENTY OF TIME

IF YOU WANT TO HAVE
A BABY LATER ON,

BUT YOU NEED TO GET
TO KNOW EACH OTHER FIRST.

IF YOU HAVE A WIFE, YOU HAVE
TO HAVE STEADY INCOME.

YOU'RE GONNA BE MOVING,
AND YOU'RE GONNA HAVE

TO HAVE A PLACE TO LIVE,
AND THEN PUT A BABY IN IT?

THAT'S VERY EXPENSIVE.

THERE'S A LOT OF THINGS
TO THINK ABOUT.

I KNOW.

MY MOM'S REALLY GOT ME THINKING.

I REALLY NEED TO MAKE SURE THAT
I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF

AND THAT WE'RE GONNA BE
FINANCIALLY STABLE

AND READY TO DO THIS.

I'VE GOT TO REALLY CONSIDER
THESE THINGS.

I HOPE I DON'T MAKE
A HUGE MISTAKE DOING THIS.

I HOPE YOU PRAY TO MAKE
THE RIGHT CHOICE.

AND SO
REALLY THINK ABOUT IT.

OKAY?
- OKAY.

- LOVE YOU VERY MUCH.
- ALL RIGHT.

LOVE YOU VERY MUCH.
BYE.

ALL RIGHT.
LOVE YOU, TOO.

- LOVE YOU, TOO.
- BYE.

ALL RIGHT.
BYE.

EVENTUALLY, SHE'S GONNA
START CALLING YOU

DADA, PAPA.

I'M WALKING AROUND ALL DAY.

NO MELISSA.

I WAS NAIVE TO THINK
THAT WE HAD SOMETHING REAL.

PEEKABOO!

IS HE READY?

RACHEL, I'M COMING.

- HE'S COMING!
- OKAY, COME ON.

EASY! WHOA!

JON'S SISTER SEEMS SKEPTICAL
ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP.

YAY!
SO AFTER THIS MORNING,

I HOPE THAT JON DOESN'T HAVE
ANY DOUBTS ABOUT HIS ROLE

WITH LUCY OR OUR RELATIONSHIP.

SHE'LL HAVE A LOVELY
BUBBLE BATH TODAY.

UNDER THE ARMPITS.

- IN HER LITTLE ROLLS.
- MM-HMM.

WHOOP, WHOOP, WHOOP!

WHOOP, WHOOP, WHOOP!

LUCY, WHAT'S HIS NAME?

WHAT'S HIS NAME?

IT IS LEAKING EVERYWHERE.

THERE'S WATER EVERYWHERE!
- GRAB A TOWEL, QUICK!

QUICK!
- LUCY, COME HERE.

I THINK WE'RE DONE.

OOH. OH.
OKAY.

AW!

OH, NO.

BABIES ARE HARD WORK,

AND I AM REALLY WORRIED THAT
I MIGHT DO SOMETHING WRONG.

JON HAS A LOT TO LEARN
ABOUT TAKING CARE OF A BABY,

BUT I'M HOPING THAT TWO WEEKS
IS ENOUGH TIME TO ADAPT

TO BEING A DAD
OUT OF NOWHERE.

WHEN IT COMES TO LUCY,
EVENTUALLY,

SHE'S GONNA START
CALLING ME MAMA AND YOU...

DADA, PAPA.

I DON'T KNOW.

I KIND OF FEEL LIKE THAT
WOULD BE WRONG FOR US

TO SAY TO HER,
"SAY DADDY.

THERE'S YOUR DAD."

A FALSE...

IT'S JUST...

AND HE'S LIKE, "HI.
I'M YOUR DAD."

AND I WENT, "HOW'S WORK?"
HE'S LIKE, "FINE."

I'M LIKE, "ALL RIGHT.
HOW'S WORK?"

AND HE'S LIKE, "YEAH,
THAT'S GOOD.

OKAY, SAME TIME NEXT YEAR.
SEE YOU LATER, MATE."

I NEVER REALLY
SAW HIM AS DAD.

HE WAS JUST THAT GUY
WHO GAVE ME 23 CHROMOSOMES.

IT'S A LITTLE CONFUSING THAT JON
DOESN'T WANT TO BE CALLED DAD,

BECAUSE HE WAS THERE BEFORE
HER BIRTH, DURING HER BIRTH.

HE PAYS FOR HER DAYCARE.

IT'S A LITTLE SHOCKING.

IT'S NEVER GONNA BE
A SECRET

THAT I CAME
INTO YOUR LIFE LATER,

AND BY TEACHING HER
THAT WORD,

IT'S ALMOST TEACHING HER
SOMETHING

THAT WE'LL HAVE
TO EXPLAIN TO HER LATER.

I WANT HER TO CALL HIM DAD
BECAUSE I THINK IT'S...

IT'S FITTING.

IT'LL BE REALLY HARD LATER

IF WE ENCOURAGE HER
TO CALL ME DAD.

I AM SOMEBODY
OTHER THAN...

BUT YOU'RE NOT.
NO.

YOU KNOW, IF DNA
DOESN'T MATTER...

I DON'T KNOW.
I JUST THINK...

I LOVE YOU.

HER CALLING ME DAD, UM,

IS GONNA BE A BRIDGE...
WE'LL CROSS LATER.

FIRST, WE HAVE TO DECIDE
WHETHER WE WANT TO SPEND

THE REST
OF OUR LIVES TOGETHER.

OOH.

PRETTY SURE
SHE JUST SAID DADA.

JON IS EVERYTHING
I'VE ALWAYS WANTED IN A MAN,

AND I HOPE
THAT WE GET ENGAGED.

IT WOULD JUST MAKE ME FEEL GOOD
FOR LUCY TO JUST SEE HIM AS DAD.

I REALLY HOPE THAT JON
WILL CHANGE HIS MIND.

I'M HERE IN COLOMBIA,
AND LAST NIGHT,

I FINALLY MET
MELISSA IN PERSON.

I THOUGHT WE HAD A GOOD TIME,
UNTIL SHE BLEW ME OFF.

SHE TOLD ME, "HEY, RICKY,
I'M UNABLE TO HANG OUT WITH YOU

BECAUSE I NEED TO STUDY
FOR THIS PSYCHOLOGY EXAM."

I TRAVELED SO FAR TO SEE HER.

I'M REALLY INVESTED IN THIS.

SO I HAVE MY FINGERS CROSSED
THAT SHE'S GONNA CHANGE HER MIND

AND COME MEET ME TODAY.

OH, THAT'S A COOL SHOT.

COLOMBIA HAS A VERY
RICH CULTURE.

LIKE TO GIVE THIS
TO MY GIRLFRIEND.

NICE.

1, 2, 3...

STILL.

THERE YOU GO.
- ALL RIGHT.

I WISH I COULD'VE ENJOYED
THIS MOMENT WITH MELISSA.

THROUGHOUT THE DAY,
I'M CHECKING MY PHONE

WITH THE HOPES THAT
SHE'LL COME AND MEET ME.

BUT...

NO MELISSA.

SHOOT.

HOLA.
¿CóMO ESTáS?

BIG HEAD.

BEEN WALKING AROUND ALL DAY,

AND I STILL HAVEN'T HEARD
A SINGLE WORD,

AND I'M FEELING UPSET.

I'M GETTING TIRED OF THIS CRAP,
HONESTLY.

IT'S JUST...

IT JUST...

I'M GONNA MAKE THE BIG DECISION
AND SAY,

"IS IT EVEN WORTH IT
AT THIS TIME?"

BECAUSE SHE'S KIND OF SHOWING
HER TRUE COLORS, YOU KNOW?

BUT AT THE SAME TIME, I STILL
GOT THIS EMOTION FOR HER,

AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

THE ENTIRE REASON
I CAME TO COLOMBIA

IS JUST TO MEET MELISSA.

I THOUGHT IT WAS TRULY DESTINY,
AND I PLANNED TO PROPOSE TO HER.

THIS IS ROMANTIC.

IT'S A SHAME THAT MELISSA'S
NOT HERE TO SEE THIS WITH ME.

I THOUGHT MELISSA'S THE ONE,

BUT IT SEEMS LIKE
SHE HAS NO TIME FOR ME.

I WAS NAIVE TO THINK
THAT WE HAD SOMETHING REAL.

IT'S HEARTBREAKING
THAT SHE'S NOT HERE.

WILL YOU PLEASE GET OFF
SOCIAL MEDIA FOR A MINUTE?

HOW WILL SHE TAKE CARE
OF A CHILD

IF SHE CAN'T EVEN
TAKE CARE OF HERSELF?

I'M SHOPPING WITH
A 12-YEAR-OLD.

HAZEL'S MOTHER AND FATHER
ARE ON THE FLOOR.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO
WITH MYSELF.

ME AND KARINE ARE MOVING TO OUR
VERY FIRST APARTMENT TOGETHER.

WE'LL BE STAYING HERE...

THIS PLACE IS A MESS.

ME AND KARINE HAVE BEEN LIVING
TOGETHER FOR A FEW WEEKS NOW,

AND IT'S NOT GOING AS GOOD
AS I HOPED IT COULD'VE.

AND THAT'S CONCERNING

BECAUSE WE'RE GETTING MARRIED
IN A COUPLE WEEKS.

UGH.

AND SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE KARINE
CAN BE A LITTLE BIT LAZY.

SHE DEFINITELY SLEEPS A LOT,

AND SHE LIVES A LOT
LIKE A TEENAGER.

LET'S CLEAN IT UP.

YOU WANT TO DO LAUNDRY?
YOU WANT TO DO...

BUT I'M REALLY CONCERNED
THAT KARINE MIGHT NOT

BE READY
TO HAVE A CHILD.

- YOU.
- ME?

OH, YOU WANT ME TO DO IT?

I COOKED YOUR STEAK ON IT,
BUT I WILL CLEAN IT OFF.

WHATEVER.

WHY'S IT SMELL LIKE FISH?
OOH, GOD.

LIKE, GARBAGE, TRASH,
AND YOU DO THIS?

AW, NO.
NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO.

YOU GOT TO CLEAN
THIS THING OUT.

LAST TIME YOU DIDN'T DO IT,

IT WAS LIKE
3 INCHES THICK.

OH, GOD.

THIS ONE?

ALWAYS TRY TO TAKE CARE
OF EVERYTHING ON MY OWN.

THIS ONE OR THIS ONE?

YOU DON'T KNOW?

EVERY DAY, I GOT A LIST
OF THINGS I GOT TO DO.

CLEANING, COOKING, PAY BILLS,
PLANNING THE WEDDING.

IT'S STRESSFUL.

WILL YOU PLEASE GET OFF
SOCIAL MEDIA FOR A MINUTE?

SERIOUSLY?

I WILL JUST FIGURE THINGS
OUT MYSELF.

I FEEL LIKE I'M SHOPPING
WITH A 12-YEAR-OLD.

THE MORE I START REALIZING...

HOW WILL SHE TAKE CARE
OF A CHILD

IF SHE CAN'T EVEN
TAKE CARE OF HERSELF?

I'VE BEEN HERE IN
THE PHILIPPINES FOR 24 HOURS.

I ALREADY MET HAZEL'S PARENTS,

AND NOW THEY'VE INVITED ME
TO GO TO CHURCH WITH THEM.

I'M NOT RELIGIOUS, BUT I WANT
TO IMPRESS HER PARENTS,

AND I WANT
TO KEEP HAZEL HAPPY.

YES!

OUR RELATIONSHIP TO THE LORD
IS THE MOST IMPORTANT.

I HOPE TARIK UNDERSTAND
THAT IT'S IMPORTANT TO ME.

THIS IS SO DIFFERENT
THAN ANY CHURCH SERVICE

I'VE EVER BEEN TO.

THIS IS ON A COMPLETELY
DIFFERENT LEVEL.

HER MOTHER AND FATHER
ARE ON THE FLOOR.

THERE ARE PEOPLE SHOUTING,
SCREAMING, CRYING.

LIKE, IT'S BONKERS.

LIKE, I DON'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF.

YES, LORD!

FILL THIS PLACE
WITH THAT SPIRIT!

COME ON!

I CAN'T WAIT TO GET OUT OF HERE.

IT'S JUST... CRAZY.

UM...

WHEW!

ALLELUIA.

I JUST SPENT SIX HOURS
IN A MADHOUSE CHURCH,

BUT THIS IS HAZEL'S UPBRINGING.

THE TRUTH IS, THERE WILL
PROBABLY BE SOME LAND MINES

THAT WE'VE GOT TO
JUMP OVER ABOUT RELIGION.

MY PARENTS WANT TO TALK,
THE FOUR OF US, ABOUT RELIGION,

OUR BELIEFS AND MINE.

OH.
YEAH.

UM...

ULTIMATELY, WHAT I WANT
TO SAY TO THEM

IS THAT I BELIEVE
IN GOD,

BUT I'M NOT CHRISTIAN,
EITHER.

THEY DIDN'T SEE ME PRAYING?
- ME.

- OH, YOU DIDN'T SEE ME PRAYING?
- NO.

- WELL, I PRAYED CONSTANTLY...
- IN YOUR MIND?

YEAH, IN MY MIND,
SO I DON'T THINK

IT REALLY HAS TO DO
WITH WHAT YOU DO PHYSICALLY.

SHE SAID, "DO YOU WANT
TO GET BAPTIZED?"

RIGHT.

HMM.

UH...

UH...

NO.

TELL HER THAT THE REASON
THAT I CAME HERE WITH YOU

WAS SO THAT THEY COULD SEE THAT,
EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT CHRISTIAN,

I DIDN'T WANT TO BE
DISRESPECTFUL TO THEM.

MY PARENTS MIGHT NOT LIKE
THAT TARIK IS NOT RELIGIOUS.

OKAY.

WELL, TELL THEM "SALAMAT"
A THOUSAND TIMES.

OKAY.

I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE HER
MOM HAPPY,

BUT, YOU KNOW, I'M GONNA
STAY MYSELF REGARDLESS.

TIME TO GO HOME.

TIME TO GO.

CULTURALLY, WE ARE WORLDS
APART RIGHT NOW,

AND, UH,
THAT'S A PROBLEM.

THIS EXPERIENCE IS ALREADY
SORT OF OVERWHELMING,

AND MY BROTHER DEAN
IS COMING HERE TOMORROW,

SO IT'S GONNA GET
10 TIMES AS CRAZY.

YES.

- HEY, SIS.
- HELLO.

JESSE'S ABOUT TO MEET
MY TWIN SISTER, STACEY.

I THINK SHE'S A LITTLE
SKEPTICAL OF HIM.

LIKE, "IS THIS REALLY REAL,
OR IS THIS GUY JUST TELLING HER

WHAT SHE WANTS TO HEAR?"

THAT CAR RIDE TO CONNECTICUT
WAS A LITTLE AWKWARD.

WOW.
THIS IS CRAZY.

IT'S A NICE, CUTE TOWN.

BUT NOW I WANT US
TO KIND OF RID THE DRAMA

AND JUST BE IN THE MOMENT.

NO, YOU'RE NOT GRUMPY...
NO, BABY.

- YOU MAKE ME GRUMPY GRANDPA.
- YEAH.

THIS TRIP TO CONNECTICUT
HASN'T STARTED ON A GOOD NOTE,

BUT I'M HERE NOW,
AND I'M GOING TO EMBRACE IT.

AHHHHHH!

OH, MY GOD, BABE.
IT'S...

AH. MY GOD.

THIS IS BEAUTIFUL.

I DECIDED FOR US TO STAY
IN AN AIRBNB

INSTEAD OF THE CONDO
THAT I SHARE

WITH MY TWIN SISTER, STACEY.

WE HAVE OUR OWN BALCONY.

OH! OH.

STACEY AND I HAVE A,
YOU KNOW...

A RELATIONSHIP WHERE...
WE'RE TWINS, OKAY?

WE LOVE EACH OTHER,
BUT IT'S JUST... WE BUTT HEADS.

LET'S GET READY.
LET'S GET ROLLING.

LET'S GET READY, HONEY.

SOMETIMES WE JUDGE EACH OTHER
ON EACH OTHER'S CHOICES

WHEN IT COMES TO OUR LOVE LIFE.

I THINK HE'S THE ONE.

- JUST TRYING TO BE REALISTIC.
- RIGHT, RIGHT.

I'M JUST TRYING FOR YOU

TO COME DOWN TO EARTH
A LITTLE BIT.

I DON'T HAVE TO SEE HIM
EVERY DAY TO KNOW

THAT I CARE FOR HIM,
STACEY.

I KNOW
WE CARE FOR EACH OTHER.

YEAH.
RIGHT, RIGHT.

I THINK SHE'S A LITTLE SKEPTICAL
OF HIM

BECAUSE OUR AGE DIFFERENCE
IS SUCH A LARGE GAP,

SO I HONESTLY DON'T
TELL HER EVERYTHING

ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP.

I GOT MY WALLET,
I GOT MY PHONE.

BUT I THINK IT'S TIME FOR HIM
TO MEET STACE.

YOU KNOW, IT'S JUST...
WE'RE FAMILY.

SO TONIGHT WE'RE GOING
TO DINNER.

I CAN ONLY GO BY WHAT
I'VE HEARD FROM DARCEY,

AND THAT IS, DARCEY AND STACEY'S
RELATIONSHIP,

IT'S DYSFUNCTIONAL.

THEY ARE JEALOUS OF EACH OTHER.

LET'S DO IT.

BUT DARCEY FEELS IT IS IMPORTANT

HOW STACEY WILL THINK ABOUT US.

SO I AM TRYING TO BE MATURE,
AND WE'LL SEE HOW IT GOES.

- I AM SO EXCITED.
- YAY.

OH, IT'S CLOSED.
I'M SORRY, BABE.

- NO, IT'S NOT CLOSED.
- OH.

HELLO!

WOW.
HI, GUYS.

- HI.
- YOU LOOK CUTE.

- HI, JESSE.
- SO NICE TO MEET YOU FINALLY.

- NICE TO MEET YOU, TOO.
- HI, STACEY.

WOW.
LOOK AT YOU.

- GREAT.
- DARCE.

- NICE TO SEE YOU.
- THANK YOU.

TAKE A SEAT, YOU GUYS.

SO...

YOU GUYS LOOK DIFFERENT,
YOU KNOW?

- YEAH, RIGHT.
- SO, YEAH.

WHO'S THE PRETTIER TWIN?

- OH, PLEASE, DARCEY.
- OHH.

I'M JOKING... JOKING!

THANK YOU.
GOOD ANSWER, GOOD ANSWER.

I CAN TELL THERE'S
A PHYSICAL CONNECTION

BETWEEN THEM, YOU KNOW?

I JUST WANT TO MAKE SURE THAT
HE'S THE PERSON HE SAYS HE IS.

SO, HOW'S YOUR GUY'S
RELATIONSHIP?

I MEAN, YOU GUYS SEEM HAPPY.
- GOOD.

YOU KNOW, WE HAVE OUR HIGHS
AND LOWS LIKE ANYBODY ELSE.

BUT IT'S BEEN
AN INCREDIBLE JOURNEY SO FAR.

THIS MEETING, I THINK
IT'S GOOD BECAUSE YOU CAME

ALL THE WAY OUT HERE.

YOU KNOW, MAYBE JUST WANT
TO SEE HOW SERIOUS YOU ARE.

LIKE, "IS THIS REALLY REAL,

OR IS THIS GUY
JUST TELLING HER

WHAT SHE WANTS TO HEAR?"

IF IT WAS NOT SERIOUS,
I WOULDN'T BE SITTING HERE.

I AM GROWING WITH HER,

AND WHEN THAT FOUNDATION
IS THERE...

I WILL... OH.
- I THINK IT TAKES TIME.

YES, I WILL.

I WILL, YOU KNOW,
BE THERE

TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP,
YEAH.

SO, HOW DID THE BIRTHDAY DINNER
GO WITH YOU GUYS?

YOU KNOW, DIDN'T GET TO THE
BIRTHDAY CAKE, UNFORTUNATELY,

AND, YOU KNOW, I THINK WE JUST
TRIGGERED EACH OTHER

IN CERTAIN TOPICS,

SO WE JUST ENDED UP
STORMING OFF.

- WHO GOT TRIGGERED?
- I DON'T KNOW.

I THINK WE BOTH DO IT
TO EACH OTHER, STACEY,

SO I'LL TAKE BLAME FOR MY PART.

I FEEL LIKE SHE'S JUST JUDGING
OUR RELATIONSHIP

ON THE OUTSIDE SURFACE.

I UNDERSTAND SHE HAS CONCERNS
ABOUT SOME THINGS,

BUT LET ME HANDLE THAT
FOR MYSELF.

I FEEL LIKE, WITH ME,
EVEN THOUGH WE'RE TWINS,

I KIND OF LET THINGS KIND
OF SLIDE OFF MY SHOULDER MORE.

SHE KIND OF HOLDS ON TO THAT.
- YEAH.

WHERE I'M JUST LIKE,
"WHATEVER, JUST LET IT GO."

I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE SAYING.

I'M MORE CAREFREE,
NOT AS NEEDY.

NO, I LIKE
TO LET THINGS GO.

DEFINITELY LIKE
TO LET THINGS GO.

I KNOW YOU DO, DARCE.

I RUB IT O...
LIKE, BRUSH IT OFF.

NO, NO,
THAT'S NOT THE CASE.

NOBODY'S PERFECT.

THAT'S JUST SOMETHING THAT
MAYBE SHE NEEDS TO WORK

ON PERSONALLY,
YOU KNOW, SO...

I DID SENSE SOME SORT OF
BICKERING BACK AND FORTH,

WHICH STEMS FROM SOMEWHERE.

I'M NOT QUITE SURE
WHAT IT'S FROM,

BUT I DON'T JUDGE
THE RELATIONSHIP.

I DON'T JUDGE JESSE,
I DON'T JUDGE DARCEY.

I JUST WANT THEM BOTH
TO BE HAPPY.

IT MIGHT SEEM TO OTHERS THAT
IT'S, YOU KNOW, TUMULTUOUS,

BUT THERE'S SO MUCH PASSION
THAT'S DEEP-ROOTED,

WHICH IS BEAUTIFUL.

- BEAUTIFUL.
- THAT'S GOOD YOU FEEL LIKE THAT.

OBVIOUSLY, HOPEFULLY,
YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY.

BUT, YOU KNOW, JUST GO
WITH THE FLOW, YOU KNOW?

AND WE'RE DOING
JUST THAT.

OKAY.

WELL, IT'S BEEN A PLEASURE.

THANK YOU.

- THANK YOU SO MUCH.
- THANK YOU SO MUCH.

- THANK YOU.
- THANK YOU.

DINNER WITH STACEY,
I THINK IT WENT WELL SO...

VERY NICE,
AND WE HAVE A NICE...

THERE'S A LOT MORE
WHERE THAT COMES FROM.

- I WAS STILL TALKING.
- OKAY.

AS FAR AS I COULD SEE,
I THINK SHE'S POSITIVE.

I'M OPEN TO HER FEEDBACK.

DOES IT REALLY MATTER
TO ME?

NO, BECAUSE I HAVE
A RELATIONSHIP WITH DARCEY.

LIKE THE THREE OF US?

- YEAH, IF YOU EVER...
- PROBABLY.

CAN YOU BE QUIET,
PLEASE?

I'M TALKING...
I'M TRYING TO ELABORATE

ON WHAT SHE ASKED ME.

YOU KEEP DOING IT,
AND STACEY...

THAT WAS A GOOD THING
FROM STACEY, BY THE WAY,

THAT SHE MADE YOU AWARE

THAT YOU WERE DOING THAT
ONCE MORE.

I CAN'T TALK WITH YOU.

- I'M JUST SAYING, MOST OF THE...
- I CAN'T TALK WITH YOU.

THANK YOU SO MUCH.

NEXT TIME ON
"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

HE DID SUSTAIN AN INJURY.

WHAT KIND OF INJURY?

AN EYE INJURY.

THINGS COULD HAPPEN
IF HE GETS ANGRY ENOUGH.

A STRAIGHT-UP PERSON CAN ANSWER
A STRAIGHT-UP QUESTION.

HAVING DEAN COME
TO THE PHILIPPINES

WAS THE WORST DECISION
I EVER MADE.

GO GO!

STOP.

IF YOU CUT IT ON A SLANT,
IT STAYS JUICY.

I'VE WORKED
IN RESTAURANTS, SO...

OKAY.

THIS IS JUST MADNESS.

YOU RUIN EVERYTHING.

JESSE,
MY CHILDREN ARE HERE.

I HAVEN'T BEEN
COMPLETELY HONEST

WITH MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY.

I'M GONNA GO FOR IT, YOU KNOW?

IT'S TIME TO ROLL THE DICE.

MY GOD.

IT'S REALLY MAKING ME RETHINK,
"DO I WANT TO MARRY HIM?"

I JUST DIDN'T EXPECT
TO BE ARGUING WITH YOU

ON THE THIRD
DAY.

EVERYTHING JUST SEEMS
TO BE FALLING APART.

THERE'S NOT GONNA BE A WEDDING.

KARINE?