In Treatment (2008–2010): Season 3, Episode 8 - Adele: Week Two - full transcript
Paul tells Adele he feels betrayed by Gina, and worries about the impact his potential illness will have on his children.
Hi, I'm Adele Brouse.
Paul Weston.
Please, come inside.
I didn't expect you
to be so... young.
Does my age bother you?
If you're able
to fill out a prescription,
then your age doesn't
bother me at all.
You said on the phone
you're in need of a refill.
I explained that my sleep
has been difficult.
I can't just dispense
medication without...
Fine. Go ahead.
You're afraid you
may have Parkinson's.
Do you think it has something to do
with the dream that you've been having?
I've actually been in treatment
for the last 20 years.
I really didn't come today
to continue that process.
My door is always open to you.
What did you just say?
I feel that
I'm growing intimate
With your outgoing message.
Anyway, Gina, it's Paul.
I'm not certain
if you got my last...
Well, why wouldn't you
have gotten
My last message?
In any event, I...
I've yet to hear back from you.
And let's just say
That you've made some
pretty interesting
Character choices in your novel
Which I...
I wanted to talk to you about.
So could you
call me back, please,
So that I...
I...
Thank you for seeing me.
Of course.
I know that I was a bit...
Difficult the last time.
A bit reluctant to engage in...
Anyway, my situation
has changed.
My son Max
Is living with me.
I arrived home from
our session last week
And he was sitting
on the doorstep.
He'd come up from Baltimore
On the train
by himself with his...
With his suitcase.
And he was saying
That he wanted to live with me.
He's 12.
That is quite a change.
Of course my ex-wife
is furious with me
For allowing him to stay
And for enrolling him
in the wrong school
And who knows how many
other transgressions.
How has it been for you
To have Max living
in your home?
You spoke last time
About feeling alienated
from your children.
Well, it's been two years
since I lived with them.
And when I did, I'd have to say
That Kate was more
Primary in their lives,
At least in the
day-to-day stuff, yeah.
So this is the first time
you'll be playing that part.
Mm, a critical age, 12.
They're just on the edge of...
Everything really.
Does that feel like
a lot of pressure?
I do...
I do feel pressure,
But not...
The other morning I was
passing the cereal to Max
And...
My hand started to shake.
He didn't notice, but...
As much as I want
to have Max with me,
At some int very soon
I'm gonna have to tell
him about my illness.
That I...
That I have Parkinson's.
I just owe it to him
to do it correctly,
To discuss it with somebody
And to do it...
to do it right.
That's why I'm here.
That's why I came back.
I'm glad you did.
You had said you were
seeing a neurologist.
I also have to admit
That you were right
about something last week.
Okay.
You asked me if I have
someone to talk to,
Who I confide in.
Well, I don't really.
Wendy's becoming
less and less that person.
And now that Max
is living with me,
I've had to ban her
from staying over.
Well, what I mean is ask.
I've had to ask her
Not to stay over
at my apartment.
Would she prefer
to stay with you?
She'd have her name
on the lease on Tuesday
If I'd agree to it.
And a fridge
full of soy products.
She keeps asking
to meet Max.
She... she says
she loves kids.
But I had to say no.
You know, I just think
That he's so disturbed
From living with Kate
And her fiancé
That I just don't think it's fair
to put him in that position.
Has Max talked to you
about being disturbed?
Oh, he's been
begging me for weeks
To come live with me, saying
how much he hates Steve.
That's the fiancé...
Steve?
Yes yes.
I'd actually expected
My daughter Rosie
To have a harder time
living with him and Kate,
But she hasn't.
Why did you expect Rosie
to have a harder time?
'cause we used to be
Close.
Well, certainly closer
than we are now, yeah.
Are you equally worried to talk
with her about your medical...?
You were also right about
something else last week.
Oh, what's that?
About Gina toll.
You questioned her professional
judgment last week.
I defended her.
Now that I've been
reading her new book,
I have to say
that you were right.
You're not enjoying the book?
She's revealed herself to be
Completely indiscreet,
utterly selfish.
In my opinion, she should
have her license revoked.
So you were right.
Is it easier for you
to justify coming here
If you think of Gina as
selfish and me as right?
Excuse me?
Last week you had
real doubts about me,
And this week you're telling me
I'm right about quite a lot.
Jesus Christ, some people
Really have a hard time
taking a compliment.
Look, you were right about her.
I don't know
how else to say it.
It took you 30 minutes to
discern something about Gina
That I apparently was blind to
For 25 years.
While I was chatting away
about my problems,
She was contriving the basis
Of one of the most
miserable characters
That I have ever
encountered in a novel.
Like the demon spawn
of Bartleby and Shylock...
This depressive,
groveling outcast.
It's just despicable.
She's despicable.
And now she's avoiding
my phone calls.
She won't return my messages.
You seem quite convinced...
And if you read the book,
it's perfectly obvious.
The guy is
an associate Professor
At an East coast college,
Repeatedly denied tenure by the
chairwoman of the department.
Gina toll famously
denied me the opportunity
To head up
the psychoanalytic institute.
In the novel
she describes this guy
As obsessed
with his students...
Their academic work,
with their personal lives.
So much so that he ignores
his real relationship...
The lovely wife
and the two kids.
In one bit she says
that this guy is
Self-sabotaging,
self-defeating,
That he's in a prison
of his own making.
She even calls the guy John,
As if she needed to be more overt
about who she's attacking.
John was my father's name.
- John?
- Yeah.
You're reading this
as a personal attack.
You don't believe me?
I don't know what Gina's
doing or not doing.
I am much more interested in
how certain you seem to be
That she's based one of her
main characters on you.
Do you think
I'm making this up?
Can you tell me which part of
what she wrote is most upsetting?
All of it.
The whole lot of it.
Everything.
There aren't specific passages
in it that stand out for you?
You mentioned
in particular the phrases
"self-defeating," "self sabotaging.
" can you tell me about...?
No, I can't.
Listen, let's just...
Let's just move on from that.
There's nothing to be done.
It's not a question of whether
there's something to be done or not.
Look, I just don't want to
talk about Gina toll anymore.
I'll finish reading the book.
And then if you like
We could get back to it
next week.
Can you explain one...?
Please, you know what?
I...
Is your hand bothering you?
No.
Earlier you said
you're concerned about
How best to tell Max
you have Parkinson's.
You mentioned last week
you're seeing a neurologist.
Yes.
Did you see a neurologist?
You seem reluctant to tell
me what the doctor said.
Oh, I mean, you go
to a top specialist,
Cornell's fancy new wing,
State-of-the-art...
You'd think he'd at least order
A c.A.T. Scan
or an m.R.I.
He didn't do that?
He asked me to touch my nose,
Walk down the hall,
hop on one foot.
And?
How was that?
I touched my nose.
I walked. I hopped.
Then he told me
that Parkinson's
Is a hard disease to diagnose.
That they misdiagnose
30% of the time.
He said the scans can't
really tell you anything
Until the later stages.
But for you at this point
he thought...?
He thought, after our
low-tech encounter,
That I'm not exhibiting
enough symptoms
For a positive diagnosis.
He said we'd have to
wait and see.
You don't seem
terribly relieved.
I was so fucking relieved
I actually called up Wendy
And asked her out for sushi.
She seemed shocked.
She kept remarking about
how up I seemed.
So we sat down to lunch
And I thought to myself,
"wow, here I am
Opposite this beautiful,
fun woman."
I found myself wondering
why I ever doubted her.
Sounds as if the doctor's visit
had a significant effect.
Yeah, it did
for about 20 minutes.
And then the food arrived.
If you're worried about
your hand shaking,
Don't hold a piece of fish
Between two 10" sticks of wood.
I have an appointment
in two weeks.
I'm gonna get a second opinion.
You're seeing
another neurologist?
Yes.
Well, I've had these
symptoms for four months
And they're not
getting any better.
It runs in my family.
I think I owe myself
A second opinion.
Don't tell me you disagree.
If it will make you more comfortable
to get a second opinion,
That's probably
something you should do.
You're genuinely frightened
about being sick.
How has your sleep been
this week?
Do you wake up
thinking about all this?
I take a pill and...
Are you still king up
after several hours?
Are you still having
the same dream?
Yes.
What, are you hoping
for another compliment?
I'm sorry?
Another compliment to reject?
I'm not sure I...
Are you hoping I'll tell you
that your theory was right?
That my dream contains images
Of entrapment and paralysis?
That's what you asked me
at the end of last week.
Does it?
Not that it was such a terribly
difficult guess to make,
But yeah.
So go ahead,
Make a note in your book...
"patient continues
to lionize therapist
To justify replacement
of long-term analyst."
I'll make a mental note.
Sounds good.
Will you tell me
what you've been dreaming?
I'm...
I'm running
Along the outside of this
Tall wrought-iron
fence.
I'm outside.
It's a field,
Daytime, really bright.
The fence starts to curve
And I can sense
This opening up ahead...
Gates.
And I have this tremendous
feeling of excitement.
My heart is thumping.
I have this anticipation.
And then
My legs just...
They get...
they get heavy
And I'm slowing down
As if I'm stuck in quicksand.
And I can't move.
I sense something behind me.
And I turn my head.
And...
It's my father.
He's walking towards me.
I'm paralyzed.
He's coming closer.
And he's lurching
Towards me.
And...
And then I wake up
with a start.
I just startle awake.
I've been having
that dream for months,
Since just after
the symptoms started.
I...
Think I'm becoming my father.
I'm being overtaken by him.
I've tried my best
to ignore it...
The symptoms of the disease,
The coming paralysis.
Then I have the dream again
And it's...
it's clear to me
What it's communicating.
I just can't...
I can't ignore it anymore.
I woke up the other night,
I went to check on Max.
I watched him sleep.
I just can't bear the thought
Of what I might be
passing on to him.
Besides the physical issues,
Are there personal traits
You worry about passing on
to your children?
What, Parkinson's isn't enough?
I asked you before,
but you didn't answer...
How has your relationship been
with Max since he arrived?
It's been a full week.
Honestly,
I've been worried about him.
He just has his head in his
sketchbook eight hours a day.
He's got this
leather-grade callus
On his fingers from
where he grips the pen.
What are his drawings like?
Gloomy, abstract,
vaguely violent.
My teenage patient Jesse
Happened to see him
in the hallway
Outside my apartment.
He said he seemed sad,
Headed for a world of pain.
It's hard to hear him
describe Max like at?
Yes, it was.
Jesse's been trying to get me
To ask his social worker
out on a date.
He says
She's sad just like me.
Is that how you see yourself?
As sad?
Why do you ask?
What, do you think of me
as chipper?
Could that be what you're worried
about passing on to Max?
Well, I hope that
he's happier than I am,
And healthier.
But, you see,
you have to understand,
That's a major part of it...
being sick...
The burden I'll be
placing on them.
Not so easy to be happy when you
got that dragging you down.
"dragging me down"...
that's very similar
To how you described
yourself in the dream.
You feel this weight
in your dream
Is connected
to the Parkinson's.
I'm being pursued by my father,
Overtaken by his illness.
That's one interpretation.
You described yourself
As running along
a wrought-iron fence
In a field.
Do you have any associations
with that place,
Where you might be?
The feeling you describe...
I'm just...
I'm just running.
I-I-I...
As I said, I feel excited.
There's this feeling of,
I don't know, possibility.
And my father stops me
Just like he did in life.
As he's doing now
with my genetic inheritance.
I'm struck by the fact that you
Become stuck, begin to slow
Before you turn and see
your father approaching.
What do you mean, before?
Well, that's what you said.
I'm wondering
if you have some agency
In stopping yourself
from moving forward.
I'm slowing down.
I'm dragged down.
Then I turn and I see
It's my father who's doing it.
It angers you when I ask you
about your role in this.
You were also disturbed
by what you take to be
Gina's account of you
As self-defeating
or self sabotaging.
Look, any shrink will tell you
That a patient is
the author of his own life.
Of course.
Of course that's true.
You may now proceed
To second-year
graduate studies
In human psychology.
But if you'll also recall
Some of your coursework
in medical school,
You'll remember that you
can't deny the fact
That certain diseases
are inherited.
I've inherited this illness
from my father.
It's been forced on me.
I didn't ask to have Parkinson's.
I didn't ask to be sick.
Do you think about
what your life might become
If you do have Parkinson's?
Of course I do.
Every day.
What do you envision?
What would your
day-to-day life like?
I don't know.
Probably something very similar
To what it held for my father.
I'd be less and less able
to leave the house,
Less and less able
to take care of myself.
Eventually I'd need care
In my own home.
Then, in the final stages,
I'd be lifted up
And carried off
to a nursing home
Still in my fucking chair,
given round-the-clock care
Like an infant
in diapers and a bib.
Is there anything that
feels comforting to you
In that fantasy?
Fantasy?
Is that a joke?
Does it seem significant to you
That you chose the image of
an infant being cared for
As your notion of what it
would be like to be sick?
No, but it clearly does
to you.
I am a grown man.
The idea of being swaddled
and wiped and burped
Doesn't fall under the most
attractive scenarios
For the majority of adult men.
We're not talking about the majority of adult men.
We're talking about you.
Precisely. Why the fuck would I
want to have Parkinson's disease?
Why on earth would I
find that comforting?
This is why I should
have been more diligent
In finding a therapist with
a bit of life experience.
You feel free to propose
these absurd theories
Because you really
don't have any idea
About what aging feels like...
Watching your body fall apart.
You have no idea
What that is.
And you have no idea that
just around the next corner
Might be complete disability,
Might be the beginning
Of a very short road to death.
You're 57 years old, not 80.
You were told this week
by a qualified neurologist
That you probably
don't have Parkinson's...
He said that we would
have to wait and see.
And yet you continue
to be invested
In this possibility
that you do.
I'm trying to understand why.
You've been to see two doctors
this week, including me.
You have plans to see a third.
Do you find it comforting
To be cared for,
protected in this way?
Can you tell me
what it is you feel
These doctors are
protecting you from?
I'm sick.
There are doctors out there
Who help you when you're sick.
I understand.
Who help you if it turns out
when you're ill,
I'll be here for you
As long as you want
to talk with me.
Okay.
I think
We're out of time.
Will you tell me something
before we finish?
In the beginning
of your dream...
You described it
quite vividly...
That excitement,
The feeling of openness,
possibility.
When was the last time
you felt that?
Can you remember?
Truthfully,
No idea.
Will you tell me something?
Sure.
When I was talking about
Gina's book earlier on,
You seemed to know
the reference I was making
When I said that
The character was
like bartleby.
Did you?
Why is it important
to you to know?
Because I like
to be understood.
I need to know that when...
When I'm talking to somebody,
That they understand me.
They understand
what I'm saying.
Do you know who I was
talking about?
The scrivener.
I gave Wendy this book
The first week that we met.
It's called
"the memory of running."
She hasn't read it yet,
But she still thinks
it's about running
It's not?
Have a good week.
Paul Weston.
Please, come inside.
I didn't expect you
to be so... young.
Does my age bother you?
If you're able
to fill out a prescription,
then your age doesn't
bother me at all.
You said on the phone
you're in need of a refill.
I explained that my sleep
has been difficult.
I can't just dispense
medication without...
Fine. Go ahead.
You're afraid you
may have Parkinson's.
Do you think it has something to do
with the dream that you've been having?
I've actually been in treatment
for the last 20 years.
I really didn't come today
to continue that process.
My door is always open to you.
What did you just say?
I feel that
I'm growing intimate
With your outgoing message.
Anyway, Gina, it's Paul.
I'm not certain
if you got my last...
Well, why wouldn't you
have gotten
My last message?
In any event, I...
I've yet to hear back from you.
And let's just say
That you've made some
pretty interesting
Character choices in your novel
Which I...
I wanted to talk to you about.
So could you
call me back, please,
So that I...
I...
Thank you for seeing me.
Of course.
I know that I was a bit...
Difficult the last time.
A bit reluctant to engage in...
Anyway, my situation
has changed.
My son Max
Is living with me.
I arrived home from
our session last week
And he was sitting
on the doorstep.
He'd come up from Baltimore
On the train
by himself with his...
With his suitcase.
And he was saying
That he wanted to live with me.
He's 12.
That is quite a change.
Of course my ex-wife
is furious with me
For allowing him to stay
And for enrolling him
in the wrong school
And who knows how many
other transgressions.
How has it been for you
To have Max living
in your home?
You spoke last time
About feeling alienated
from your children.
Well, it's been two years
since I lived with them.
And when I did, I'd have to say
That Kate was more
Primary in their lives,
At least in the
day-to-day stuff, yeah.
So this is the first time
you'll be playing that part.
Mm, a critical age, 12.
They're just on the edge of...
Everything really.
Does that feel like
a lot of pressure?
I do...
I do feel pressure,
But not...
The other morning I was
passing the cereal to Max
And...
My hand started to shake.
He didn't notice, but...
As much as I want
to have Max with me,
At some int very soon
I'm gonna have to tell
him about my illness.
That I...
That I have Parkinson's.
I just owe it to him
to do it correctly,
To discuss it with somebody
And to do it...
to do it right.
That's why I'm here.
That's why I came back.
I'm glad you did.
You had said you were
seeing a neurologist.
I also have to admit
That you were right
about something last week.
Okay.
You asked me if I have
someone to talk to,
Who I confide in.
Well, I don't really.
Wendy's becoming
less and less that person.
And now that Max
is living with me,
I've had to ban her
from staying over.
Well, what I mean is ask.
I've had to ask her
Not to stay over
at my apartment.
Would she prefer
to stay with you?
She'd have her name
on the lease on Tuesday
If I'd agree to it.
And a fridge
full of soy products.
She keeps asking
to meet Max.
She... she says
she loves kids.
But I had to say no.
You know, I just think
That he's so disturbed
From living with Kate
And her fiancé
That I just don't think it's fair
to put him in that position.
Has Max talked to you
about being disturbed?
Oh, he's been
begging me for weeks
To come live with me, saying
how much he hates Steve.
That's the fiancé...
Steve?
Yes yes.
I'd actually expected
My daughter Rosie
To have a harder time
living with him and Kate,
But she hasn't.
Why did you expect Rosie
to have a harder time?
'cause we used to be
Close.
Well, certainly closer
than we are now, yeah.
Are you equally worried to talk
with her about your medical...?
You were also right about
something else last week.
Oh, what's that?
About Gina toll.
You questioned her professional
judgment last week.
I defended her.
Now that I've been
reading her new book,
I have to say
that you were right.
You're not enjoying the book?
She's revealed herself to be
Completely indiscreet,
utterly selfish.
In my opinion, she should
have her license revoked.
So you were right.
Is it easier for you
to justify coming here
If you think of Gina as
selfish and me as right?
Excuse me?
Last week you had
real doubts about me,
And this week you're telling me
I'm right about quite a lot.
Jesus Christ, some people
Really have a hard time
taking a compliment.
Look, you were right about her.
I don't know
how else to say it.
It took you 30 minutes to
discern something about Gina
That I apparently was blind to
For 25 years.
While I was chatting away
about my problems,
She was contriving the basis
Of one of the most
miserable characters
That I have ever
encountered in a novel.
Like the demon spawn
of Bartleby and Shylock...
This depressive,
groveling outcast.
It's just despicable.
She's despicable.
And now she's avoiding
my phone calls.
She won't return my messages.
You seem quite convinced...
And if you read the book,
it's perfectly obvious.
The guy is
an associate Professor
At an East coast college,
Repeatedly denied tenure by the
chairwoman of the department.
Gina toll famously
denied me the opportunity
To head up
the psychoanalytic institute.
In the novel
she describes this guy
As obsessed
with his students...
Their academic work,
with their personal lives.
So much so that he ignores
his real relationship...
The lovely wife
and the two kids.
In one bit she says
that this guy is
Self-sabotaging,
self-defeating,
That he's in a prison
of his own making.
She even calls the guy John,
As if she needed to be more overt
about who she's attacking.
John was my father's name.
- John?
- Yeah.
You're reading this
as a personal attack.
You don't believe me?
I don't know what Gina's
doing or not doing.
I am much more interested in
how certain you seem to be
That she's based one of her
main characters on you.
Do you think
I'm making this up?
Can you tell me which part of
what she wrote is most upsetting?
All of it.
The whole lot of it.
Everything.
There aren't specific passages
in it that stand out for you?
You mentioned
in particular the phrases
"self-defeating," "self sabotaging.
" can you tell me about...?
No, I can't.
Listen, let's just...
Let's just move on from that.
There's nothing to be done.
It's not a question of whether
there's something to be done or not.
Look, I just don't want to
talk about Gina toll anymore.
I'll finish reading the book.
And then if you like
We could get back to it
next week.
Can you explain one...?
Please, you know what?
I...
Is your hand bothering you?
No.
Earlier you said
you're concerned about
How best to tell Max
you have Parkinson's.
You mentioned last week
you're seeing a neurologist.
Yes.
Did you see a neurologist?
You seem reluctant to tell
me what the doctor said.
Oh, I mean, you go
to a top specialist,
Cornell's fancy new wing,
State-of-the-art...
You'd think he'd at least order
A c.A.T. Scan
or an m.R.I.
He didn't do that?
He asked me to touch my nose,
Walk down the hall,
hop on one foot.
And?
How was that?
I touched my nose.
I walked. I hopped.
Then he told me
that Parkinson's
Is a hard disease to diagnose.
That they misdiagnose
30% of the time.
He said the scans can't
really tell you anything
Until the later stages.
But for you at this point
he thought...?
He thought, after our
low-tech encounter,
That I'm not exhibiting
enough symptoms
For a positive diagnosis.
He said we'd have to
wait and see.
You don't seem
terribly relieved.
I was so fucking relieved
I actually called up Wendy
And asked her out for sushi.
She seemed shocked.
She kept remarking about
how up I seemed.
So we sat down to lunch
And I thought to myself,
"wow, here I am
Opposite this beautiful,
fun woman."
I found myself wondering
why I ever doubted her.
Sounds as if the doctor's visit
had a significant effect.
Yeah, it did
for about 20 minutes.
And then the food arrived.
If you're worried about
your hand shaking,
Don't hold a piece of fish
Between two 10" sticks of wood.
I have an appointment
in two weeks.
I'm gonna get a second opinion.
You're seeing
another neurologist?
Yes.
Well, I've had these
symptoms for four months
And they're not
getting any better.
It runs in my family.
I think I owe myself
A second opinion.
Don't tell me you disagree.
If it will make you more comfortable
to get a second opinion,
That's probably
something you should do.
You're genuinely frightened
about being sick.
How has your sleep been
this week?
Do you wake up
thinking about all this?
I take a pill and...
Are you still king up
after several hours?
Are you still having
the same dream?
Yes.
What, are you hoping
for another compliment?
I'm sorry?
Another compliment to reject?
I'm not sure I...
Are you hoping I'll tell you
that your theory was right?
That my dream contains images
Of entrapment and paralysis?
That's what you asked me
at the end of last week.
Does it?
Not that it was such a terribly
difficult guess to make,
But yeah.
So go ahead,
Make a note in your book...
"patient continues
to lionize therapist
To justify replacement
of long-term analyst."
I'll make a mental note.
Sounds good.
Will you tell me
what you've been dreaming?
I'm...
I'm running
Along the outside of this
Tall wrought-iron
fence.
I'm outside.
It's a field,
Daytime, really bright.
The fence starts to curve
And I can sense
This opening up ahead...
Gates.
And I have this tremendous
feeling of excitement.
My heart is thumping.
I have this anticipation.
And then
My legs just...
They get...
they get heavy
And I'm slowing down
As if I'm stuck in quicksand.
And I can't move.
I sense something behind me.
And I turn my head.
And...
It's my father.
He's walking towards me.
I'm paralyzed.
He's coming closer.
And he's lurching
Towards me.
And...
And then I wake up
with a start.
I just startle awake.
I've been having
that dream for months,
Since just after
the symptoms started.
I...
Think I'm becoming my father.
I'm being overtaken by him.
I've tried my best
to ignore it...
The symptoms of the disease,
The coming paralysis.
Then I have the dream again
And it's...
it's clear to me
What it's communicating.
I just can't...
I can't ignore it anymore.
I woke up the other night,
I went to check on Max.
I watched him sleep.
I just can't bear the thought
Of what I might be
passing on to him.
Besides the physical issues,
Are there personal traits
You worry about passing on
to your children?
What, Parkinson's isn't enough?
I asked you before,
but you didn't answer...
How has your relationship been
with Max since he arrived?
It's been a full week.
Honestly,
I've been worried about him.
He just has his head in his
sketchbook eight hours a day.
He's got this
leather-grade callus
On his fingers from
where he grips the pen.
What are his drawings like?
Gloomy, abstract,
vaguely violent.
My teenage patient Jesse
Happened to see him
in the hallway
Outside my apartment.
He said he seemed sad,
Headed for a world of pain.
It's hard to hear him
describe Max like at?
Yes, it was.
Jesse's been trying to get me
To ask his social worker
out on a date.
He says
She's sad just like me.
Is that how you see yourself?
As sad?
Why do you ask?
What, do you think of me
as chipper?
Could that be what you're worried
about passing on to Max?
Well, I hope that
he's happier than I am,
And healthier.
But, you see,
you have to understand,
That's a major part of it...
being sick...
The burden I'll be
placing on them.
Not so easy to be happy when you
got that dragging you down.
"dragging me down"...
that's very similar
To how you described
yourself in the dream.
You feel this weight
in your dream
Is connected
to the Parkinson's.
I'm being pursued by my father,
Overtaken by his illness.
That's one interpretation.
You described yourself
As running along
a wrought-iron fence
In a field.
Do you have any associations
with that place,
Where you might be?
The feeling you describe...
I'm just...
I'm just running.
I-I-I...
As I said, I feel excited.
There's this feeling of,
I don't know, possibility.
And my father stops me
Just like he did in life.
As he's doing now
with my genetic inheritance.
I'm struck by the fact that you
Become stuck, begin to slow
Before you turn and see
your father approaching.
What do you mean, before?
Well, that's what you said.
I'm wondering
if you have some agency
In stopping yourself
from moving forward.
I'm slowing down.
I'm dragged down.
Then I turn and I see
It's my father who's doing it.
It angers you when I ask you
about your role in this.
You were also disturbed
by what you take to be
Gina's account of you
As self-defeating
or self sabotaging.
Look, any shrink will tell you
That a patient is
the author of his own life.
Of course.
Of course that's true.
You may now proceed
To second-year
graduate studies
In human psychology.
But if you'll also recall
Some of your coursework
in medical school,
You'll remember that you
can't deny the fact
That certain diseases
are inherited.
I've inherited this illness
from my father.
It's been forced on me.
I didn't ask to have Parkinson's.
I didn't ask to be sick.
Do you think about
what your life might become
If you do have Parkinson's?
Of course I do.
Every day.
What do you envision?
What would your
day-to-day life like?
I don't know.
Probably something very similar
To what it held for my father.
I'd be less and less able
to leave the house,
Less and less able
to take care of myself.
Eventually I'd need care
In my own home.
Then, in the final stages,
I'd be lifted up
And carried off
to a nursing home
Still in my fucking chair,
given round-the-clock care
Like an infant
in diapers and a bib.
Is there anything that
feels comforting to you
In that fantasy?
Fantasy?
Is that a joke?
Does it seem significant to you
That you chose the image of
an infant being cared for
As your notion of what it
would be like to be sick?
No, but it clearly does
to you.
I am a grown man.
The idea of being swaddled
and wiped and burped
Doesn't fall under the most
attractive scenarios
For the majority of adult men.
We're not talking about the majority of adult men.
We're talking about you.
Precisely. Why the fuck would I
want to have Parkinson's disease?
Why on earth would I
find that comforting?
This is why I should
have been more diligent
In finding a therapist with
a bit of life experience.
You feel free to propose
these absurd theories
Because you really
don't have any idea
About what aging feels like...
Watching your body fall apart.
You have no idea
What that is.
And you have no idea that
just around the next corner
Might be complete disability,
Might be the beginning
Of a very short road to death.
You're 57 years old, not 80.
You were told this week
by a qualified neurologist
That you probably
don't have Parkinson's...
He said that we would
have to wait and see.
And yet you continue
to be invested
In this possibility
that you do.
I'm trying to understand why.
You've been to see two doctors
this week, including me.
You have plans to see a third.
Do you find it comforting
To be cared for,
protected in this way?
Can you tell me
what it is you feel
These doctors are
protecting you from?
I'm sick.
There are doctors out there
Who help you when you're sick.
I understand.
Who help you if it turns out
when you're ill,
I'll be here for you
As long as you want
to talk with me.
Okay.
I think
We're out of time.
Will you tell me something
before we finish?
In the beginning
of your dream...
You described it
quite vividly...
That excitement,
The feeling of openness,
possibility.
When was the last time
you felt that?
Can you remember?
Truthfully,
No idea.
Will you tell me something?
Sure.
When I was talking about
Gina's book earlier on,
You seemed to know
the reference I was making
When I said that
The character was
like bartleby.
Did you?
Why is it important
to you to know?
Because I like
to be understood.
I need to know that when...
When I'm talking to somebody,
That they understand me.
They understand
what I'm saying.
Do you know who I was
talking about?
The scrivener.
I gave Wendy this book
The first week that we met.
It's called
"the memory of running."
She hasn't read it yet,
But she still thinks
it's about running
It's not?
Have a good week.