Ex Isle (2016-…): Season 1, Episode 1 - Welcome to Ex Isle - full transcript

Five former couples travel to a remote island to break free of their toxic relationships forever. The first night, jealousy pushes one of the exes to snap. In therapy, their darkest secrets are revealed.

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- This is "Ex Isle."

One remote island,
five former couples...

You guys all came here saying
you're ready to move on,

but I don't think you have.

Bound by money,

sex, children,
and the fear of being alone.

- Nobody is over their ex here!

- Meet Dr. Ish,
a board-certified psychiatrist.

- You can play her all day long,

but I'm gonna call you out
on your bull[bleep].

- Now with no distractions
and nowhere else to turn...



- I don't give a damn
about you lying to each other,

but you can't sit here
and lie to me.

- They'll confront
their demons.

- Shut up!
- Rip it out. No more hurt.

- Aah!

- And expose
their deepest secrets.

- I never had a relationship
with her.

It was an extended
one-night stand.

- I think that's
an absolute lie.

- And face the toughest
challenge of their lives.

- He's gonna [bleep] play me?

- I don't get
why this is so hard.

- You said you came here
to move on from your ex.

Today he's here
to get married.



- What the [bleep] is going on?

- 21 days,
one ultimate decision.

- You can choose
to leave this island alone.

- I'm done.

- You can choose
to leave here with your ex,

or you can choose
to leave with someone new.

- Maybe I'll [bleep]
somebody else.

- You probably will.

- Can these exes break free
before they break down?

- You think I didn't see
that [bleep]?

- It doesn't matter. Move on!
- Look, you [bleep]

- Everything about you...

- Stop her. Stop her.

- You shouldn't even be
in my life.

- Get the [bleep] out.

- Aah!

- This is too much.
- Consider this shock therapy.

- [sobbing]

- This is "Ex Isle."

[upbeat Latin music]

- Hello.
Welcome to Casa de Campo.

I have here your golf cart key
and your map.

- Samantha and I, we got
divorced 2013 in August,

but it just didn't work out.
- Yeah.

Oh, God.

- It's been off and on since we
started for six years

of my life, but I think...

- Worst.

- There was, like,
pockets of goodness there.

- Is that the right hand signal?

But we have a son,
so we still are connected.

- You know me.

I came to "Ex Isle"
looking for closure

because Samantha's holding
me back from new relationships.

She still wants to
be with me.

Why are you holding the map

if you're not gonna
give me directions?

But, like, I'm over it.

Like, I'm ready
for my next step.

- Wow. That is a really nice...
[sputters]

Oh, my God, a bug.

- No, you ain't driving.

- Why not? I'm a good driver.

We dated
for two and a half years,

and I decided to call things
off a year ago.

- She did. There you go
with your control factors.

I am still helping her
when she needs money for bills.

- A few of them, yes,
he does.

- I pay her bill
whether you pay one,

two, or three or half,
you paying somebody's bills,

so it's just that simple.
- Come on.

Like, you messed up.
- No.

- Read.

- So what do you think
is gonna happen?

What do you think, like,
we're gonna see at this house?

- I...I don't have
any expectations.

- Wow.

Jaymie and I were together for
about a year and a half.

She's bat-[bleep] crazy.

I'm high-strung emotional,
so together we

were like lighting and thunder
in a storm to be honest.

- I'm bat-[bleep] crazy?
- You are.

- We're kind of lost.
- We're lost.

See what happens when you let
your ex-girlfriend navigate?

- You do enough stuff
to make somebody crazy.

You stole from me.

You were the one
in charge of navigating.

- Hey. Hey.

- Because of the things
I've been through,

it's hard for me to trust men.
- You know what?

I owned up to it,
apologized for it,

and we became better friends

because honestly, like, Jaymie
was the girl that got away.

I got this like I had you.

- He clearly still has
feelings for me.

This is the reason
that John just doesn't even

try to move on any more.

- We don't need a map.

- Oh, my God.

- Wow. We made it. We made it.

Uh. Nicole and I, we dated
for about nine months.

All right, let me put
this in park so we don't die.

- No, I don't care.
I'm not waiting on you.

- There's been no closure
between Nicole and I

because we keep having sex
with each other.

- It's like, light switch
on, light switch off.

Light switch on,
light switch off.

- Everything about our
relationship was just intense.

You gonna help me with my bags?

- Oh, you can get it.
I'm too cute for that.

He wanted the whole thing,
marriage and kids,

and I ended this relationship
because I was scared.

- Oh,
you got your stripper heels.

You can't carry no bags
with stripper heels.

- [giggles]

- Is it this one right here?

- Whoa. This is...
- Green! Pillows!

- insane.
I was hoping for a bigger bed.

Brittney and I dated
for seven months,

and then we broke up.

- It was definitely
a tumultuous breakup.

Are we sharing a room?

- Uh, we are sharing a room.
- Okay.

- She was a little bit
too needy for my tastes.

No offense.

- That's not true.
No. Get...

- I wanted to see.
- Go do yours.

We both dated other people
after each other,

and they both ended
not so great,

and then we shared
all the same friends,

and the first person
I ran back to was this guy.

Before I know it,
I'm at his house,

and I'm like, "I just
need to sleep in your bed."

So I did,

and so you know,
I'm just vulnerable.

That's our pool?

Whoo!

Oh, my God.
- This is so badass.

Oh, my gosh.

- Ashley and I,
we want to move on,

but we still around each other.

We still doing things
with each other.

- We'll have to separate
our beds a little bit.

- Why? Why do you want
to separate them?

- 'Cause I know you gonna
be all up on me.

Antonio is definitely
my backup plan.

Antonio still loves me.
He don't...

- I mean, I still...I still
got love for her, no doubt.

- You got your nerves.

- Are we working on ourselves,
or are we gonna go

find some new tang
out in the streets?

[chuckles]

- Um, excuse me?

"New tang on the streets."

That's disgusting.

- When Samantha's holding
me back from new relationships,

she will zap my [bleep]
if it gets anywhere near female.

What are we doing?
- We're finding our happiness.

- She's the electric fence
of the [bleep].

Like, yeah. So I'm ready.

I'm ready to rock.

- We gonna have fun though,
right?

- Definitely.

- We're both
good individually,

but we're not good together.

- We're here to try to find

what we could not find
within our relationship.

- I can't remember the last time
I had any romance in my life.

- What are you trying to say?
I wasn't romantic?

I know.

I've gotten better at it though.

I've read a couple books.

- I've never gotten all the
closure that I need from John.

I keep trying to move on

and give to other people,
but it's hard.

- I just hope it's gonna
be smooth-sailing.

You know I'm sensitive.

- Hold on, wait.

There's a note.
Nicole and Freddy...

- "Please unpack
and freshen up...

- and come out back
to meet the other exes."

- All right, let's get to it.

- Got to get this pumped
before we meet these hot chicks.

I'm a little anxious to be in
a house with a bunch of exes.

I know that my personality

doesn't mix with a lot
of different personalities.

Oh!

[bleep] yeah.

- Let's go meet these exes,
girl.

Let's get the game face on.
- Don't touch me.

- I say we just go down now.
I feel good.

- I'm coming into this
with my ex-girlfriend,

so I'm assuming everyone else
has an ex-girlfriend

that they're,
like, getting rid of.

- Hey!

- Hi.
- What's up?

I like your necklace.
It's very nice.

- Well, thank you.
- Hi. Samantha.

- What's up, Samantha?
- Cheers.

To a great, great night.

- Hey, everyone.

- Oh, [bleep].

- Oh, my God!

It's Carmen effing Electra.

- What's up, guys?
all: Whoo!

- I love you, Carmen.

Carmen, you look amazing.

She's pretty hot.
- Game over.

- Hello, everyone.

Welcome to the only place

where exes come together to help
each other move on, right?

- Yes.

- So you need to put
your past relationships

where they belong...
in the past.

But trust me,

easier said than done.
- Yeah, it is.

- And one last thing, you'll be
in for a few surprises.

- Ooh.
- Oh.

- I like surprises.

- So have fun tonight,

and I will check in
with all of you tomorrow morning

at breakfast.
all: Whoo!

- What the exes don't know
is that I've hidden Dr. Ish,

a relationship therapist,

as the bartender,

and he'll be watching
their every move.

- Benson!
How you doing, Benson?

The head all shiny,
look at you,

just bling-blinging
in the moonlight.

- I want to go hang out
with the girls.

There's gonna
be people drinking alcohol.

Something's bound
to happen 'cause

this is the first night where
everybody's coming together...

- Get the shot.
Get the shot.

- so you can't really

know how you're gonna
handle those emotions

when you see your ex
flirting with somebody,

so I'm ready for war.

all: Whoo!

- Coming up on "Ex Isle."

- You want to watch
me stomp somebody out?

- Fight. Fight. Fight.

- Sean,
you're tripping right now.

- Say one [bleep] thing, bro.

- Whoa.
- Oh, my God.

What is going on here?

- We need you to hit
rock bottom.

- If Samantha
and I didn't have a kid,

we wouldn't have got married.

- When he started stepping out,

I kind of did too.
- Wow.

- I knew it.

- I just want to be
away from Antonio.

- Get the hell away.

- I don't want to be
with anybody else.

- That's disrespectful.

- You shouldn't even be
in my life.

- [sniffling, sobbing]

all: Whoo!

- How you doing?

- Okay, I need some more shots.

- How you doing?
- I'm good. I'm Jaymie.

- So which one is your ex?

- That's my ex-husband.
- Okay.

- Oh, you guys are married?

- Uh-huh. We were married.

We're divorced.

- That's crazy.

I was very surprised.

Sean and Samantha
were married.

I didn't know
they were married.

You know how ex-husbands are.
- Yeah.

- It's a recipe for disaster.

- Samantha.

- Yes. What's your name?

- Lucas.
- Lucas.

- Samantha is sexy.
We're hitting it off.

Do you have any,
like, hobbies or...

- I go to the beach.

I have two kids.
- Wow.

- Mm-hmm.

- With this guy?
- My son.

- You have a son
with the ex you brought?

- Mm-hmm.

I have a four-year old.
[laughs]

I'm married, divorced,
and have a son. Yeah.

- This is getting better
by the second.

- I know.
- Now, which one's your ex?

- Let's go swimming.

I'm so free with no shoes,
like, having fun.

- Okay, she's fun.
- Yeah.

How long did you guys date for?

- For nine months.

- Okay, yeah,
Lucas and I dated seven.

- And dating a little
on and off after that.

- Right?
It's like, "We're done.

No, we're not. We're done."
- You know,

you relapse a little bit,
you know?

I keep having sex
with Nicole 'cause

she wants to have sex with me.

She be wanting to come over.

She want to be naked,
and it's hard to say no.

But next thing you know,
whoop-whoop, my penis is out.

- Can I refill that for you?
- Okay.

- Oh, God. Oh, God.

- Okay,
you don't want him to drink?

- Lucas, this is your problem.
- That's my problem?

- If it gets crazy, it's...
- Really?

- A lot of our problems
happen when Sean is drinking.

He drinks too much
and starts getting jealous.

- You know how long it takes
to be a dirt bag like me?

- Dirt bag?

- Look at me.

- I just want to say hopefully
you guys are not like our exes

that we want to get away from.
- [bleep] damn, yo.

What the hell
is that supposed to mean?

- Exactly. Something different.

We're really best friends.

- Hey,
why did you and him broke up?

- You know what I did?
I lied, and I was an ass[bleep].

- He stole.

- You stole from her?

- I didn't steal from you!

- He steals things.
- I did not steal.

I might've not asked for it.

Bluntly, I used the ATM card
without asking.

- You stole money?

You stole from your girl?

- He was using your ATM card?

Oh, my God.

- So why are you all still best
friends?

- Because I figured out
that I lost a really good thing

because of my immature actions.
- Okay.

- And that's why we're able
to be friends.

- I would love to be
with her again,

but it's not gonna happen.

- I think you might love her
a little bit still.

- We're always gonna
have love for each other,

but am I in love with her?
- She didn't say...

- She did.

You said you love her.

- Do you love her, yes or no?

- Are you ignorant right now?

- Damn, son.

- Oh, hell.

I know how this is
gonna turn out...

- You said am I ignorant
right now?

-'cause I know
what happened to me

when I called her ignorant,
and then when she's drunk,

she's just like a ball
of emotions.

- You know I'm gonna turn
the [bleep] up.

- John,
you just punched a ticket

to Freddie B land, brother.

Good luck with that.

- Don't ever in your life
call me ignorant.

You're the [bleep]
ignorant one, bitch-ass.

- 'Cause you just asked me...
- I said,

"Do you still love her?"

Am I in love with Freddie? No!

- You should listen to yourself
'cause I just said the same...

- [bleep] dumbass mother[bleep].

- You said...you sound dumb.

- Nicole is definitely crazy.

She's deranged,

but now I'm not the one
catching it,

so this is beautiful to me.

- You just asked me "
Do I still love her?"

- You're ignorant, and goodbye.

- You don't sound smart
right now.

- Whoa.

- And you missed.

- Oh, [bleep]
- [bleep] damn.

- [bleep] you.
- You okay?

- She just killed my vibe.

- He's delusional.
He's stupid.

What John said took me back to,
like, me and Freddie's issues

and problems like,
he always makes me feel stupid

when he talks to me,
so that's a ultimate no.

- In love and having love
are two different things, right?

- I would think so.
- Right?

- So she must not understand.
- No more alcohol for her.

- A-S-S.

- Oh, my gosh.
They stressed me out over there.

Can I have some?

- Would you get back with your
ex if he started to act right?

- Before you
finish,

I want to let you know you're
the island psychiatrist,

so we going to...this is
what's gonna happen.

You are the psychiatrist,
so just get ready.

- The bartender always is.
- Exactly.

- Yeah.
- Hey, now!

- People seemed kind of tense.

I just wanted to liven
the party up.

- Oh!

- Game on, baby. Let's go.

Let's do this.
Get in the pool.

- Oh!

- Oh, [bleep].

- Oh, my God. I can't wait
to get in here, dog.

- Whoo!

- Oh! Look at Luke!
- Luke!

- We have exes, people trying
to make people jealous.

I'm just waiting

to see all the crazy [bleep]
that's bound to happen.

- Pull the clothes off,
baby.

Get in the pool.
Let's go.

- Push me in the pool.

- Oh!
- Too much?

- Too much, Luke.
- Good.

No, Luke, that was awesome, bro,

that flip thing you did,
every girl loves that.

- What's happening?
There you go!

- [laughter]

- Lucas is loud. He's letting
his presence be known.

- Everybody come have fun!

- And it's making
me pissed off.

If Lucas touches Samantha, it's
gonna end really, really bad.

- Even though we're divorced.

Sean is very much
a jealous person.

This is how it is.

- Hey-o.

- Oh, yeah,
you thought that [bleep]?

- [laughs]

- This [bleep] cat?
- Just stop.

- I didn't say anything.

- Sean is acting
like a jealous husband.

Quit sniffing
under your ex's ass.

- You want to watch
me stomp somebody out, bro?

- Be friends.
Hug it out or something.

- Lucas grabs Samantha
to bring her back in the pool,

and that just sets Sean off
on a firestorm.

- Have some [bleep] punk,
you [bleep] dirt bag.

- Lucas, watch out.

Keep your eye on him.

- Fight. Fight.
- What, bro?

- Hey, Luke,
shut up, Luke.

- Sean's bat-[bleep] crazy.

- I can [bleep] fight him.

- I'm scared.
If I lived with Samantha,

I might have
to lock my room door.

- Do you want to watch
me stomp somebody out?

- Sure.
- Hey, Luke!

- Hey, Sean,
you're tripping right now.

- Say one [bleep] thing, bro.

I'll go to jail
in the Dominican.

- Ugh!

- Have some [bleep] punk,
you [bleep] dirt bag.

You want to watch
me stomp somebody out, bro?

- Fight. Fight. Fight.
- What, bro?

- Hey, Luke, shut up, Luke.

- I can [bleep] fight.

- Sean.
- Hey, Luke.

- Don't.
- Hey, Sean.

- Hey. Say one [bleep] thing,
you [bleep] dirt bag.

- Whoa.

I'm sorry.
- Sorry, bro?

What are you sorry about, man?

- I'm sorry
about being an ass[bleep].

- What?
- I'm sorry about being a jerk,

you know?
- No, you're good, bro.

- Let's go to bed.

- Come take a walk with me.
Come on.

- Sean, like, chill out.
This is part of the deal.

You're supposed to hang out
with other people's exes.

It's called "Ex Isle."

- Where'd she go?

- I'll go to jail
in the Dominican.

Like, this is the worst thing,

like, the Dominican jail?

- No, it's not. It's just...
- I don't give a [bleep], bro.

- Stop.
- Oh, my God.

- Look at him.

Take a look at him.
- Please just...No.

- I'll go to jail
in the Dominican.

- Ugh! No.
- This [bleep] guy

thinks he's tough?
- He's crazy.

- Sean and Samantha
are quite the couple.

- I love you.
Please, just stop right now.

- They still have a lot
of emotions for each other.

They're kind of stuck
like chuck together.

- We have a son.

- Pull your shirt up.
- We're a team.

Sean is so explosive,
but we have a four-year old son,

so I just kind of got
to deal with it.

Please, just stop. No.

- All right,
get off of me please. Go inside.

- No one thinks...
No one thinks that.

Anything.
- Let's go to bed.

- Just stop.
- You're right.

Goodnight.

- Sean, it's
in everybody's best interest

that we go to bed.

- Oh, God, they were married.

- "I'll go to jail
in the Dominican."

- I'm going to bed too.
- This is wonderful.

I love you guys.

This is paradise!

- Ugh.
Why do I get hella drunk?

- Most of the couples made it
pretty clear the first night

that they're not
completely over each other.

- Good night.

- No!

- After everything that happened
last night, well, I'm just mad.

Like, I just feel stupid,
but you know, seeing Samantha

with another guy, I'm not
gonna lie. I got pissed off.

- I thought the first time
was great other

than almost getting my ass
kicked.

- And I thought everyone's
got way too much baggage.

- Let's go eat.
Let's have a little breakfast.

- All right, cheers
to a successful night.

all: Cheers.
- Oh, what do we got over here?

- Oh.
all: Whoo!

- Yeah.

- Hey, guys.
- Carmen Electra shows up.

She's looking hot per usual.

I think she's single,
so we'll see how this goes.

- Whoo.

- Hey.

- Now, last night

seemed to prove all of you
are still in each other's lives

and holding on to a piece
of the past,

right?
- Right.

- Yeah, a little jealousy.
A lot of jealousy.

- Yeah, we found out a whole lot
about last night.

- But if you're ready to start
a new healthy relationship,

you've got to put the past
to rest, guys.

- Amen.
- Trust me.

I know.
- Yeah.

- I'm not perfect.

I've been through probably each
and every one of your situations

at one time or another.

I'm the one that's here
to have fun with you guys.

You know that.

- Yeah.
- Whoo.

- But he's the one to help you.

- "He?" Who the hell is "he?"

- I want you guys

to meet Dr. Ish.
- Oh, my gosh.

- Oh, the bartender
from last night.

- The bartender.

- Sneaky.

- Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
Wait, what is going on here?

- Well, he's actually
a board-certified psychiatrist

watching you guys last night
and taking mental notes.

- Absolutely.

- He's seeing me act a fool
last night.

Oh, gosh.

- I am not "Benson," Freddie.
- Benson.

- My job is to make sure
you're completely over your ex.

But in order
for this to really work,

you're gonna have to open up
your hearts and minds

before you move on and try

to start that new relationship
with your next.

Now, guys,
after you've finished up,

meet me over in my lounge.
- Okay.

- Just when you think
you know what's going on here,

things change.

- Damn.

- Um, excuse me.

What is going on?

- It's gonna get tricky.

- I don't need any damn therapy.

- See you soon.
- All right.

- Bye.

- Ooh.
- Dr. Ish.

We're in trouble.

- Like,
what do they have planned?

- I am nervous.

I am anxious about
what we're going to be doing,

what we're gonna be talking
about, what we're gonna hear.

- Come on in, everybody.
Find a seat.

- I don't even know
what to expect.

- Now look, being here's
about moving on from your ex.

That's the whole idea.

You all think you've let
go of your relationships,

but let me level with you.

I don't think you have.

I was there last night.

I saw it firsthand.

But as an outsider
looking in,

it looked like you guys were
kind of acting out and craving

some attention trying to make
sure the other one was looking.

Now, when it comes to moving on,

we need to make sure
we work on yourselves first.

Over the next several weeks,
we're gonna do a series

of exercises that are designed
to help you guys move on

and be ready to fully open up
and accept love.

Today's exercise
is called "Admitting it."

The first step
to moving on

is admitting exactly
where you are

and exactly how you got there.

- Mm.

- What went wrong?

And let's be honest,
who's to blame?

Okay?

- Well, guys,
are you ready to get started?

- Oh, my God.
Like, what if I'm going first?

- Let's see. Let's see.

- Everybody has baggage,

but we have more than anybody
I feel like.

- Jaymie and John,
let's get started with you.

- I don't need this.

I don't need
a relationship therapist

because I don't have
relationship problems now.

- So what is it that happened?

How did it all go so wrong?

- I found out that he was taking
money out of my account.

- Oh, [bleep].
- And like, really...you know,

it all kind of came together

that he was just
using me for things.

- Now, John, did you ever
take money to see other females?

- I never...I never stepped out
in our relationship.

- Okay.
So basically what I'm hearing

is that this is John's fault.

- Yeah. I know it was my fault.
- Okay.

And you accept responsibility
for that?

- Yes. I've already...That's
why we're best friends now

because we didn't talk for,

like, a whole year,
and I admitted and I apologized,

like, sincerely about everything
that I did.

I can acknowledge
that I lost a great thing.

- But part of also

the admitting it is admitting
to some of the stuff

that you may actually
not want to say.

We talked to you guys in-depth
before you got here.

- Mm.

- Oh, yeah. That.

- I think it would be
very helpful for each of you

to see some of the things
you said.

- Is that why there's a TV?
- Oh, no!

- Oh, Dr. Ish!

- And you may not have
said it to each other.

- Oh, God. Jesus!

- I got to go.

[laughter]

I'm like,
"Oh, God, here we go."

I know exactly what I said
about Brittney.

This is going to be
really bad.

- This may seem
a little bit in-your-face,

because guess what?

It is.

We need you to hit rock bottom
and get it all out,

and that's the only way we're
ever gonna build you back up

and put you back on top.

All right, here we go.

Jaymie and John, we're gonna

play both of what you guys
said back-to-back,

and then we're gonna talk
about it after.

- At this moment,
I'm feeling really anxious

for the simple fact that I don't
know how Jaymie's gonna take it.

As soon as she hears the things
that I said,

she's gonna go
bat-[bleep] crazy,

and she's gonna
go from 0 to 100 real quick.

So...

Oh, you're playing it?

- Oh, [bleep]!

- Coming up on "Ex Isle."

- If Samantha
and I didn't have a kid,

we wouldn't have got married.

- When he started stepping out,
I kind of did too.

- Wow.
- I knew it.

I knew it,
and he keeps covering it up.

- See, this view
is beautiful right here.

- The best part
of being on this island...

It's Carmen effing Electra!

- It's time to party.
all: Whoo!

- Is this real life?

Looking into her eyes,

I feel immediately that I
could fall in love with her.

- Hey, baby, what's up?
[big cat roars]

I like to have fun.

- I'm in that room right there.

[chime]

- Bye.

- Carmen, I love you.

[playful growls]
- Leave her alone, Lucas.

- We talked to you guys in-depth
before you got here.

So, John, we're gonna
play both of what you guys

said back-to-back, and then
we're gonna talk about it after.

- This is totally gonna [bleep]
everything.

So you know,
being a personal trainer,

I wasn't making a lot of money.

Oh, you're playing this?

I abused her ATM card.

Oh!

I probably used her ATM card
three times,

and I took her card to go
hang out with other girls.

I went on a couple dates.

- Fail.

- Oh, my God.
- Oh!

- John just saw me as someone

that he could take from,
you know?

But I'm so fed up
with John's lies.

Everything
he's saying is bull[bleep].

I've never really confirmed
that I've been cheated on,

but I kind
of assume that he did.

- Damn.
- It is painful still,

you know, I think
it's the reason

that I'm still not able
to have a relationship

because it's extremely hard

for me to believe anything
that anybody tells me,

and I don't...to be honest,

I don't even try to date much.

It just seems like
every time I do,

it's harder than the last time,
so why even try?

- Wow. You just heard him say
that he's taking your money.

He's going to see other girls.

What does that do to you?

How does that make you feel
watching that, Jaymie?

- I didn't realize how much it
was affecting my relationships

now.

- It sounds like he destroyed
your faith in men.

- Yeah.

- Here's where we are, John.
You hurt this girl.

- I did. I know I did.

Everything that messed us up
was all me.

I did that.
She did nothing wrong.

I apologized about everything.

- So you took responsibility?

Good. So how are you able
to be his friend?

- I forgive people.
People aren't perfect.

People mess up.

- They're not there to make you
feel your girl, who's the one,

treat her like [bleep].
- I...I know.

- Why you trying
to make it okay?

- I'm not. I just...

There's no point in,

like, being upset about it.

- That's interesting, but here's
what I'm gonna tell you.

We've still got some work
to do on yourself.

- I know.

- Hearing everything that Dr.
Ish got out of John and Jaymie,

I wonder if Freddie's gonna
say horrible things.

Is he gonna say something
that I did not know?

- Nicole and Freddie,
you guys got real quiet.

- Like, I'm scared.

- So let's go ahead.
What was the breaking point?

- He was telling me things
that he wanted in life.

He wanted marriage and kids,

and I just kind
of got a little nervous.

Like, I have commitment issues,

and in my mind,
I heard "marriage, kids."

Whoa. I'm scared.

- So you were done at that?
That's when you knew?

- Yeah, that's when I was just
like, "Let me stop texting her."

- This is over.
- Yeah.

- And then did you get
back together after that?

- We started on and off.
- What's on and off?

Did you do back to boyfriend

and girlfriend or not?
- No.

- No. Never back to boyfriend,
girlfriend.

- It's primarily a physical...

- Hooking up?
So just hooking up.

- Yeah.
- Okay.

So maybe it's time to see
what you're really saying.

- I thought Freddie
could've been the one,

but I felt
like I was settling.

Like, he doesn't even realize
he puts me down.

He always makes me feel stupid
when talks to me.

It's just...so I feel
like he always made me feel

like I was never good enough.

I want somebody
to say "You are great.

You are good. You are good
enough for anything."

- I have
a college education,

and I've been around people
who are equally educated as me.

She's not at that particular,
you know,

area, so a lot of things
I would say

would go over her head,

and then I get irritated.

I get impatient.

Nicole and I keep on having sex
with each other,

and the cycle
of our relationship

definitely prevents us from,
you know, moving on.

There hasn't been
any closure.

- All right.

- Tough stuff.

Freddie...

what was the hardest thing
to listen to on that video tape?

- I mean, for me it's just,
you know, the tears.

You know, I never want to be
the cause of anyone with tears

streaming down their face.

Her feeling
like I'm talking down to her

or whatever like that,...
- Why'd you do that?

- Um, it was...

It was never my intentions.

It may be subconscious, maybe
just a knee-jerk type thing.

- Yeah.
- Yeah?

- You would think that you want
somebody to be by your side,

as we would say, a team,

but he puts me down, so...

- Talking
about hitting rock bottom,

it's getting to the point
where you can realize,

"Hey, you know what?

"I mean, you made her feel
like less of a person,

"and you're owning up to that,

but you're still going
through the same cycle."

You're exes for a reason.

Everybody did something wrong.
- Right.

- And all of you
need to remember that.

So lets keep going.
- Ready.

- Brittney and Lucas,

what was the thing that said,
"Hey, you know what?

We can't do this anymore."
- The fighting.

- The fighting.
- You saw it in the fighting.

Tell me about the fights.

- She's stubborn.
I'm stubborn.

It was just head-butting.

What she wanted and then what I
wanted, it just was clashing.

- Okay. And where is everything
with you guys now?

- She's a good friend of mine.

- And a large part of it is
'cause we have mutual friends.

We knew we'd eventually
see each other.

- Same circle of friends. Okay.
- And he was the first person

I came to, actually,
when I dated someone else,

and I ended that,

and I was like, "Can we talk?

Like, what am I doing?" Like...

- Okay.

Brittney, you're all in.

You're ready to move forward.
- I am.

- Lucas?
- Yeah.

I'm still attracted to her,
but, yeah.

- Let's see what you did say.

- [exhales sharply]

Brittney and I broke up
because Brittney

was getting a little
too controlling over my life,

and it just was,
like, suffocating.

At some points
it got to the point

where it would remind me of,

like, my mom
when I'm in high school.

It's like, "Where are you?

Why aren't you home
from school yet?"

She said that I was the first
guy to break up with her

'cause she's so great
and wonderful which...come on.

- I care for Lucas
a great deal,

but that ship has sailed.

Lucas is like a little child.

He'd act out, I think
sometimes, maybe for attention

which is like, [clicks tongue]
no, not okay.

Lucas will tell you
I'm needy 'cause

I wanted to hang out
more than ten times a week.

I expect if I'm with someone,
you want to see me.

You want to see
me probably every day.

I know that sounds crazy,
but like,

if you really feel something,
like, it's an addiction.

I deserve more.

- Wow. Let's start with you,
Brittney.

- I'm rarely ever
called controlling

because I want to spend
time with someone.

I want someone
to make me a priority.

I don't think that's unfair.

I want to make someone
a priority.

- You think it was fair?

- I don't think I could give her
what she needed, you know?

- But that's not fair to me.

- You know,
we all have certain needs

we need to have met in life.

This is a woman who's...

She needs some more attention
than I'm giving her.

But what's not fine is
when you get into a relationship

with somebody and you don't
communicate upfront.

- Right.
- "This is where I am,

and these are my priorities,"
and that's an honest talk.

Up next, Samantha and Sean.

- We've been
off and on for six years.

We've been through a lot.

We broke up a couple times
while I was pregnant also.

- Damn!

- Would you say
that you guys are friends now?

What's the situation now?

- When he wants a family,
we're there.

When he doesn't, we're not.

It's all or nothing.

It's hard.

He isn't ever gonna go away
because we have a son,

so it's not like I can just
never talk to you again

and get over it.

- I think now it may be time

to see what you
haven't told each other.

- [exhales]

- I have been
repeatedly heartbroken.

I know that we're
so bad together

at this point,
it's not going to work,

but if there's a way
that it can,

we're gonna figure it out
and make it better.

- Samantha's the issue.

My ex is the issue.

Like, I absolutely feel
like she's trying to keep me

from future relationships
because one, she's told me.

Two, she's done so.

If Samantha
and I didn't have a kid,

we wouldn't have
been together at all.

Definitely we wouldn't
have got married.

It would've been dead
in the water,

like, four years ago.

- Wow.
- That's hard to hear.

- It hurts.

- We've been divorced
since 2013.

I'm looking for the closure.

- I mean, there's a million
reasons why this isn't working.

I want to move on.

It's hard to let go.

I don't know why, but it is.

- We all know Sean
and Samantha

is not over each other.

I think they really want to
stick together, so yeah.

- You're still in love with him.

- It's hard to
let go of someone

you love when you want
them to be different.

I want him to be reliable.

- But the reality
is he's not that guy.

- Right.
- And that's what we're here

to do today is deal with
the reality of the situation.

Letting go is hard.

I'm glad you're here, and I
think you're at a good place

as far as just really
getting really honest

about where things were

and how honestly deep
down where it counts,

we're really not good
for each other.

So last but not least,
Ashley and Antonio.

So what happened?

- Well, he just stopped doing
the things that he used to do.

We stopped going out as much,

and he became busy.

- So you felt like something
was going on?

- Yeah. I felt like something
was going on,

and like, he stopped...
- So you're suspicious now.

- Yeah. That's why we got
to this point now.

- Okay.
- When we broke up,

the reason why we start
coming back toward each other

because she start having
problems,

and I was that person
to be there.

- What kind of problems?

- Money she needed
for some bill need to be paid.

- And why is that your problem?
You're broken up now.

- 'Cause I still had
the emotional attachment to her.

- You still paying her bills?

- Yeah.

- Ashley, we just
got to keep it real.

So are you keeping him on
the hook just to get some money?

Are you using him?

- No.

- 'Cause that's
what it sounds like.

I don't give a damn
about you lying to each other,

but you can't sit in here
and lie to me.

We got to come clean, guys,

and maybe the truth
is gonna be on tape.

Are you ready?
- Yeah, I guess.

- I don't feel guilty
about Antonio paying my bills.

I can take care of myself.
I have my own money.

I just use Antonio's
from time to time

because he's put
me through a lot.

Antonio, he says
he never cheated on me,

but the young lady,
she got my phone number,

and she sent me pictures,

like, of him in her bed.
- Wow.

- He denies everything, but I'm
like, "That's proof, dude."

Some people, if they have
a piece of their own medicine,

they might change.

They might be
like, "Oh," you know?

"Now I know how that feels.

I know, like, I'm hurt now."

So like, when he started
stepping out,

I kind of did too.

I got my revenge.

- This was
one particular girl.

We hooked up a couple times,

and I don't think
Ashley suspect that.

Me towards Ashley,

I think the guilt is keeping me
on board a little bit

because no matter about her

not knowing
that I cheated, I know.

- So, Ashley, you just
heard him say he cheated on you.

- [bleep]. She cheated
and stepped out too.

- You just heard him confirm
what you've suspected.

- Mm-hmm.
- So how does that make

you feel?

- I knew it.

It happened. I knew it.

- We both cheated.

- He thinks I'm dumb.

Like, he always thinks
I'm dumb.

I know it.
I knew it.

I knew it,
and he keeps covering it up,

covering it up, covering it up.

- You covering it up, too,
so it's not just me.

- I said,
"I didn't cheat first."

- Okay,

whether you cheated first,
last, second, third, whatever.

You cheated.
It don't matter.

- Dude, you...
- [bleep]. Like, seriously.

- Whoa, whoa, whoa.

- Coming up on "Ex Isle."

- I found out the truth,

and that hurt.

I just want to be
away from Antonio.

- So get the hell away.

- You threw me under the bus.

- [bleep] are you talking
to me like this?

- [sniffling, sobbing]

- I said,
"I didn't cheat first."

- Okay, whether you cheated
first, last,

second, third, whatever.

You cheated.
It don't matter.

- Dude, you...
- [bleep]. Like, seriously.

- Whoa, whoa, whoa.

So, Ashley,
where are you with this?

- I just want it to be done.
Like...

- She don't want it
to be done.

If we're done, the benefits
is gonna be cut off.

- Okay.
- Ashley, what is it about you

that makes a guy have to come up
out of his pocket

in order
to get your time and attention?

What's going on there?
- I don't know.

Maybe I feel like I want
to get back at him for,

like, the stuff
that he did to me.

- Hmm.
- So you're punishing him now.

- Maybe.
- You guys are definitely

struggling with the reality
of where you are.

There's not much left here,

but you're just clinging to it
by the last few strands,

and I think all of you
are still struggling.

And so you know, the point
of the video was, guys, that,

you know, a lot of times exes

have problems really telling
each other how they feel.

I think the thing
is you all are still clinging

on to that past pretty tightly.
- Yeah.

- This is called "Ex Isle"
for a reason.

We're here to deal with the ex.

Deal with it, put it to bed,

and walk away alone
or with someone new.

Thank you, guys.
- Thank you.

- We'll get through it together.

- Our situation
was worse than everybody.

- Oh, my goodness.

I found out the truth,
and that hurt.

It was like
a smack in the face.

I knew it.

By being confined
in that space with him,

it's just like an all-night.

I just want to be
away from Antonio.

Now he's like my enemy.

We're not friends anymore.

- Get the hell away.

- You have no [bleep] emotion
at all.

- You know you have so many
issues, but that's the thing.

If I say anything, you take it
as I'm talking down to you.

I'm trying to ridicule you,
or this, that, and the third,

and that's not the case.

You have a lot of issues.

- Yeah.

I just need a moment.

- You not understand you
can't have a real relationship

if you're not being honest
with your feelings.

- I just need a moment.

- And trying
to play a hard role.

- [bleep] annoying.

- Don't hop in the gangster game
if you not a gangster.

- Somebody please get me
out of here.

I can't with him.

- No.

- Whatever, bro.
Oh, God.

- Out of...out of everyone,
I feel like Prince Charming.

- It was crazy to hear
some of those stories.

Like, I can't imagine.

- Saying that you only got
married because you had a kid?

And if I was...

- Yeah, like,
what are you thinking?

- Can you let me speak?

- I'm sorry.

We had a heavenly breakup
comparatively.

[chuckling]

And I still hated you.
[giggles]

- I'm gonna talk to people.

- I got to get out of this room.
- I'm ready for the pool.

- Poor Jaymie.

- After all the drama

and the emotional stress
of the therapy,

all I want to do is have
a drink, calm down, relax.

- All the guys came here
thinking they were getting hella

[bleep] 'cause all these girls
are gonna want love,

and then all their dirty laundry
went out today, and...

- Yeah, it's like,
I could have a thief.

- I got a question.
- [screams]

- There's...there's a difference.

I was dating her.

There's a difference,
a big difference.

- It's okay to steal
from your girlfriend.

- There's a difference.
- But not from strangers.

- It wasn't even stealing.

It was called "entitlement."

- He thinks it's "entitlement?"
- Let's check this out.

If she's already...
- Entitlement.

- You're in a relationship,
like, what was something

you all, like, you all shared?

- An ATM card and my car.

- You gonna sit here and dog me?

That's disrespectful.

Ugh.

- Oh, my God.

- I make a few snide remarks,

and John, I feel like he's
acting out for attention,

but I feel bad for him,

so I want to check in on him,

and to be honest,

that's something
I kind of always do.

- Is it hard for you to hear

the doctor say we're not meant
for each other?

We're not right for each other?
- Yeah, it hurt my feelings.

- I just don't think we're right

for ourselves to be right
for each other right now.

- I don't want to be
with anybody else.

I don't want to go out
and find something else.

I want us to figure it out.

I mean, we have a family,

so my heart is so attached,

it's hard to just give it up.

I can't see myself without you
in my life.

I don't...
- But we're here to move on.

She just doesn't get it.

Even though we do have a son
that we share together,

I don't want this any more.

I don't.
I just don't want it any more.

- They had a rough day.
They need to sort it out.

- Are they getting pissed?
Is there some drama going on?

- I felt like you threw me
under the bus in the Jacuzzi.

You [bleep] ganged up on him.

Like, you [bleep] best friends
with them.

- I guess part of me
is still hurt

by what you [bleep] did to me.
- I owned up to that [bleep].

But you know what hurts most
though?

When they talk about us,
you [bleep] "A-ca-ca.

Yeah, you better
hide your ATM card."

- You're being so dramatic
right now.

- I am.
"Yeah, he's [bleep] this,

and yeah, he's [bleep] that."

- Why the [bleep] are
you talking to me like this?

You shouldn't even be
in my life.

- Like, I just need a minute.

I can't even...

[sobbing]

- John is acting
like nothing but a victim,

screaming and then crying
like a little bitch.

This is exactly why me and John
aren't together.

I don't even want
to be in that room.

- [sniffling, sobbing]

- What the hell
is going on right now?

This is the island from hell.

- [sobbing]