De Viaje Con Los Derbez (2019–…): Season 3, Episode 6 - ¡Dale, dale, dale! - full transcript
I love you.
Previously on Traveling with the Derbezes.
There, look. Do you see him?
I feel somewhat responsible
because I taught you to take risks
and that risky things were cool.
See, it's your fault.
Now you love me, right?
You have a real issue
with wanting to kill yourself.
-No, man, I mean…
-It's easier to slit your wrists.
Come to the School of Vision
with the Rastafaris.
-Where are you?
-At School of Vision.
It'll be nice to share it with you.
Okay.
I learned a new perspective on life.
You made this cool thing?
It's really hard.
When Aitana fell asleep,
I spent a long time
looking at pics and videos.
It's incredible. My heart is so full
seeing how much she's grown…
Let's see that tooth? Hello!
Someone's got a gap!
-Are you ready?
-I'm ready.
I can't believe she's turning eight.
I can't believe it's been eight years.
And we're on Traveling with the Derbezes.
TRAVELING WITH THE DERBEZES
-There are animals!
-They're people.
-They must've died…
-Trying to get here?
-You see them.
-Don't become one of them!
My stomach's cramping up. Seriously.
We spent hours walking and walking.
There were bugs. It was getting dark.
It was really noisy.
I did it because I'm dumb.
Are you okay?
-The mosquitos getting you?
-I want to cry.
You can't see anything down there.
What do we do?
There's no other way. We're almost there.
You got us to go up the mountain.
I swear if you'd said,
"Hey, yeah, come on over,
"but you have to spend two hours
going up a mountain,"
I'd say, "No, thanks."
You tricked us.
-What are you doing here?
-Vad!
What do you mean? We said we'd come.
-Now?
-I mean, yeah, but…
You were supposed to come
two hours ago, not now.
-No, that trail is a joke.
-Yeah, it's hard.
-No…
-No, that's not hard.
I went up the Great Wall of China
and was less tired.
I need a smoke.
Horrible. I want to go back to Mexico.
The fact that they're inviting us
is a great opportunity.
It's rare.
It's not a hotel.
People don't come and stay here.
They're inviting us
into their space, their community,
to share their food and their traditions.
It's a beautiful opportunity,
and I'll make the most of it.
Fight over your rooms.
-Let's see?
-Let's see.
-Let's see.
-How nice of them to let us stay.
-Look.
-It's very picturesque.
We finally made it there,
and we didn't get to see anything.
They just told us,
"No, that's it. Spend the night."
Sleeping in a place
where all kinds of bugs can get in. No!
-I can't believe you came.
-Me, neither.
I still don't know why I'm here.
We didn't know
how serious the situation was.
It's not the Four Seasons or the Hilton.
Someday. I still have hope…
-That we'll go to Las Vegas?
-To Las Vegas or Dubai.
Okay, one day you'll get
the vacation you want.
-You'll choose it.
-But what do you think of this vacation?
I want to thank you
because I feel it's the first trip ever
where you're making a real effort
to respect us, to let us go.
Well, except for those moments
on the catamaran,
since that was really tough.
Ta-da!
Ais, what's wrong?
-Dude, no!
-I can't.
-I rented the catamaran for two nights.
-What?
Aside from the catamaran,
I feel like you're making an effort.
I feel like you're really trying
to respect us as adults,
and I think
that's the hardest part for all of us.
When we're with Dad,
we fall into this dynamic
like we're little kids with their dad.
I'll always be your dad.
Vadhir, you almost lost your life.
When you were about to take off,
you don't know how many times I said,
"What if I stop this
and tell him to not do it?"
I almost told you, "Don't do it."
I said, "'He'll send me off.'
He'll say, 'Dad, I'm…'"
-It's good you didn't.
-I sent myself off.
When you fell,
there was something in me
that made me feel responsible.
-But it's a bit different, Dad.
-Why did I let you do that?
But, no matter what you say,
in the end, I'll do whatever I want.
And I'm thankful that you care.
I think seeing how worried
you were made me go, "Okay."
-"He loves me."
-Yes. "He loves me."
-It's better than not caring.
-Like when you say,
"Dad told you what's right and wrong.
"He taught you what works
and what doesn't, what could kill you."
Now let them fly.
If he screws up, hurts himself, or dies…
He still thinks we're five years old.
It's something in him
that he needs to work out in therapy.
But I struggle with another thing.
I didn't spend much time with you
because I was always working.
As for you… I couldn't see you.
I wasn't allowed to see you for years,
so I feel I owe it to you.
I find myself thinking,
"I should tell José Eduardo,
"'Honey, why don't you eat healthier?
Why don't you stop?'"
I know I nag a lot, but I do it
because I feel I wasn't there for you.
And I can make up for it
instead of sitting back like,
"He's a grown man.
If he wants to die, so be it."
It's tough as a dad.
It would bring us closer together
if you focused on what we do right,
on what we've done,
on how well things are going,
on the things we do right,
instead of trying to correct
what we do wrong.
Also, it's much more powerful
for you to enjoy us as friends,
to let us be ourselves.
When we're making a bad decision
and you want to give us advice, you say,
"Hey, I think this isn't right.
Let me advise you."
I'd be like, "He never corrects me
and now he is?"
Then we'll listen more
than if you're nagging us every day.
"You're eating that? It's bad.
Another tequila? Unbelievable.
-"You slept in? I can't believe it."
-Exactly.
Obviously, you can give us advice
if you see us making a mistake,
but do it as a friend.
It'll take some work, but…
But I'll do it.
You know what's also cool?
You have an 8-year-old girl…
Take it out on her!
-Exactly!
-Unload it all on her.
You can make up
for everything you didn't do with us.
Wait, tomorrow…
It's… Yes, it's her birthday.
Tomorrow's Aitana's birthday.
-You're kidding.
-We know.
-Alessandra will kill me.
-No.
No, we have to leave early.
-Promise.
-No, like this.
Who's calling?
It's Dad!
Let's see what he says. Hello?
-Hello?
-Hi, honey.
Hi, old woman.
What's up? I'm with Aitana.
You're on speaker.
-Old woman!
-Hi, honey. How are you?
Good.
She's asking why you called me old.
"Old woman!" Why?
It's affectionate.
-No.
-What's up, honey?
It'll sound strange, but…
We're at School of Vision.
Vadhir, Aislinn,
and José Eduardo are here.
They came, so I'm with my three kids.
And I also wanted to have
some time with them.
Have some bonding time, you know?
I wanted to see if it's okay
if we spend the night here.
It's just for tonight.
But you know tomorrow's Aitana's birthday?
I mean…
-But…
-No, I know.
It's a community, and it looks like
they don't let just anyone sleep over,
but they invited us.
It's like the full experience.
I don't want to say anything
in front of Aitana.
I don't want to say… "Excuse me? What?"
It's okay?
Yeah...
Okay, honey, I love you.
Thanks for understanding.
-Bye.
-Say, "Good night, Dad."
Good night.
-Bye, honey, kisses.
-Bye.
Now I'm really in for it.
It's like a ritual for Alessandra.
I have to be there
so that the second Aitana wakes up,
we wish her a happy birthday.
And I suddenly say to her,
"I'm spending the night
on top of a mountain,
"so I won't be there
on the morning of Aitana's birthday."
No, well. I don't know.
No, we have to leave really early.
How early?
As early as possible
so that when she wakes up…
-Hey, listen.
-…we celebrate.
I'm well aware
that tomorrow's Aitana's birthday,
and I think it would be great
to have a surprise party for her.
While you get it ready…
-We had an idea.
-We talked about it a bit.
You never leave her alone with us.
I'd love to spend the day with her.
-But without the parents.
-Yes.
You're always there
making sure she's okay.
Ale's always there.
-You should trust us.
-I do. Ale doesn't.
We have to persuade Ale.
Will you persuade Ale
to let her go with us?
-We want to go to a theme park.
-Yeah.
-Okay.
-Yeah?
But just us, without you two.
While you prepare the party.
-Fine.
-Okay.
I think it's very special
for all the siblings
to be together with her and have fun.
It's about time!
You'll be parents someday.
Actually…
No, not that.
Come on, bud!
I was kidding.
Carry me, Dad.
Let's remember the old days.
Take me to bed.
I do think our dad will change.
Maybe not much, but he's open to change.
He looks sincerely involved,
concerned, and wanting to improve
his relationship with us.
Let's go to bed.
-I love you.
-I love you, too.
He never hugged me like that.
God.
You're wider.
-What a compliment.
-Nice way to end the night.
I think we cleared everything up.
How we feel, what we want,
and I think he's starting to understand.
-You look wider.
-You gonna keep eating like that?
-You're wider.
-No, I'm stronger.
I understand what they're saying.
I know what they meant
during our conversation.
To let them be, to act like a friend,
to stop judging them, controlling them.
It's hard when you see that your son
could get sick from all his bad habits
and you can't say anything.
It's hard to see a son about to go flying
and you know he could get hurt
like what literally happened,
and all he wants to hear is...
"I support you, son. Go on."
I understand, but I don't know
if I can just be a friend to them,
because I think
I'll always be a father first.
I was scared when we got to the villa,
like my kids that day
when they didn't go to bed.
I understood them.
-Honey.
-Good morning.
-And Aitana?
-Upstairs.
How did it go?
Good. We came as soon as possible.
When I went in,
I said, "Ale will kill me."
She was really mad.
I could see it in her eyes.
Honey! My love!
Dad's here.
Honey.
This is the morning song
that King David sang
And this is how we sing it
to beautiful girls like you
-The flowers are for you, honey.
-Happy birthday.
-Happy birthday, honey.
-Happy birthday, beautiful girl.
Happy birthday, my love.
I think this trip
brought Aitana closer to her siblings.
-Do you agree?
-Yes.
I love seeing the four of them
doing something together.
I love seeing the older ones
including her, looking after her,
and I love how they each have
a different connection.
-Have you been awake for long?
-Yeah.
Not long, but she was awake
and she was getting anxious.
I had to say that Dad was going crazy.
-Fast asleep.
-No!
I did everything I could
to get here early.
Of course, she didn't make
a scene in front of the kids,
but she was mad I didn't come back.
Hey, Aitana, guess what?
We have a surprise for you.
A really good surprise
because we're taking you
to a secret place.
-Who?
-Just the siblings.
No, yeah. Later, Alessandra.
-What?
-Just the siblings.
-I'll tell you before…
-Hold on.
You didn't sleep here,
and now she's leaving.
We won't spend the day with her?
-Look…
-No, wait, don't get worked up.
If Ale tells my dad to let go,
then she also has to let go.
The siblings organized something
we think is really cool for her.
We don't think, we know.
-It's cool.
-Awesome.
Yes. So I think it's a great plan for her,
and, in the meantime,
we have to set things up.
The birthday party.
It's a really cool place.
We need Mom's permission.
She has to let you come with us
since she's staying here with Dad, right?
The fact that my kids want to celebrate
with Aitana is great.
Now I can patch things up with Alessandra.
We'll have some time alone
which we haven't had so far.
Aitana, do you want to spend your birthday
with us or with your mom?
With Mom and Dad.
-Wait.
-Let her answer.
-Yeah!
-Yeah, team!
Here, high five.
I was really glad to hear her say,
"I'll go with my siblings."
Because it shows me
that she's comfortable with them.
And that she doesn't feel forced
to spend time with Mom and Dad,
and I love that.
-Sorry.
-No, honey, don't apologize.
Don't apologize, honey. It's okay.
"Sorry, Mom. Don't hit me."
-Don't get mad at me.
-No.
I asked you
if it was okay to be with my kids.
You said it was.
I know, honey. We'll talk later.
Okay, later.
-Don't argue, it's…
-Happy birthday! Happy birthday!
This place is great.
-Like a jungle, right?
-And it has spiders.
-You excited?
-How is it being eight?
-Now you're big.
-It feels good.
-It feels good?
-Yeah.
Look at that slide.
Some pool time or what?
Wow! Eight years had to go by until
we could have the kid without supervision.
I mean, so that they'll let us
take her to a theme park.
We have to enjoy her!
Hey, you like going fast, right?
-You like adrenaline?
-You like it?
-Excitement?
-Yeah?
That's it. How about the roller coaster?
Okay!
There's another one!
There's a lot of water coasters.
I think that one where you sit
and have a seatbelt is less scary.
Want to go on it?
Listen, Dad's not here.
He won't tell you to get on any rides.
And your mom also won't be saying,
"No, it's too scary. Don't get on."
Neither one of them.
I feel we can help push her
out of her comfort zone.
And, at the same time, have adventures
while also feeling protected.
Do you like that we're big,
or do you want us to be small?
-More your age?
-This way.
-You like us like this?
-Yeah.
-Great.
-We're more fun than little kids.
Yeah, and we can do more things.
I told Ale, "In 10 years,
we'll go clubbing."
Well, if I still can, right?
Honey?
-Yeah!
-Look.
What?
Ta-da!
-What do you think?
-What's that? A piñata?
It's a pirate ship piñata.
-Where did you get that?
-At the Jamaican market.
-Not the supermarket…
-I understand.
Literally, the Jamaican market.
What's better than having
a pirate party here in Jamaica?
Aitana still loves
mermaids, pirates, the sea,
magic, and all that.
So I think it's the perfect theme,
and I love seeing her happy.
Put the candy here
and fill the piñata, okay?
Where do you fill this in? No idea.
The kids sent me a picture.
Of what? Can I see?
-Let me see.
-Wait, honey.
Hold on, honey. I know how you are.
-Let me see, please.
-I don't want…
-Let me see it.
-It's not bad.
I want you to relax.
You stress over everything.
If it's not bad, let me see the picture.
Where are they?
Damn!
Wait!
No, damn it! No!
I was so sure this would be nothing.
Like the little boats on Chapultepec Lake.
Where you row a bit,
have a snack, and that's it. But no.
Damn it! Damn it! Nothing.
I thought I'd fall off. I said,
"This thing could break."
Glory to our victorious Christ!
Appease your wrath.
It was great.
I think Aitana had lots of fun.
I like that she's more confident.
And that she's less of a mama's girl.
-Did you like it?
-It was great.
-You liked it?
-Yeah.
-Were you scared?
-No.
You weren't?
-No?
-Just a little.
How brave! I sure was scared.
-It was intense.
-Yeah.
-Great, love you.
-Let's go!
Let's go, birthday girl.
See why I didn't want to show you?
-Look. Seriously?
-What?
Why are you stressed?
Look, I'm nervous, okay?
It's a theme park.
I'm just nervous.
It's the first time she's…
-She's with--
-…alone.
I know she's with her siblings.
I know she's okay,
and I trust all three of them, but…
Come here.
-Let's see…
-Come. Come.
Why are you worried?
Honey, Vadhir almost died two days ago.
That's one thing I haven't processed yet.
I know it was the fright of your life.
When you called, when I heard you,
I thought the worst.
I know that if anyone
can look after Aitana,
it's Vadhir.
But I get very nervous
given what just happened.
So, you're completely calm? I mean…
Yes.
Aislinn and Vadhir can take care of her.
I know,
and she can also take care of herself.
I know that she…
has fun with her siblings
and loves being with them.
That gives me peace of mind.
I also can't believe she's already eight.
She's not a baby anymore!
I think being a parent
is one of the cruelest things in life.
Being a parent
is falling in love with your kids,
knowing that one day they'll leave.
Sooner or later.
I know they leave.
Yes, honey, but when Aitana
one day says, "I'm leaving,"
and you see her leave home with her bags…
You'll want to die.
It's really hard. Really hard.
It's horrible, honey.
Being a parent is cruel.
It's preparing yourself so you know…
that it's so short, and you'll lose it.
No matter what.
I know that I've been called out for…
trying to control my kids, but…
I think you do the same with Aitana.
You wanna know where she is,
where she's going,
what she's eating,
what she's not eating, everything.
I know.
For the first time…
I understand…
Eugenio a lot more.
And I understand
how hard it's been for him to let them go.
Hey, that was really exciting.
For real, yeah. But it's intense.
I was a bit scared.
Yeah, you feel like you'll fall off.
-It was rough.
-Were you scared, Ais?
-Yeah.
-I heard you screaming.
It was like…
Did you scream? Yeah? How did you scream?
Aitana's a gem.
And I hope she has
at least another 80 birthdays.
Make it to 88. That's a good age.
I guess I won't be around when she's 88.
No, I won't 'cause it's 23… No, I won't.
But, well,
I'll look after her from Heaven.
I really want you to enjoy
everything you do in life.
I want you to know
that we're here for you,
to look after you.
You can always say, "I've got my siblings.
"They love me,
and I know I'll always be okay."
You can always count on us.
We'll always be there.
You can tell us anything.
Anything you don't want to tell
Mom and Dad…
-You can tell us.
-You can tell us.
Yeah, right?
It's a fraternal circle of trust.
-Yes.
-We're a team. You like that?
-Yeah?
-We're a club.
We want you to be part of our club.
It's the sibling club.
We'll show you something special.
Yeah.
It's a secret handshake nobody else knows,
and we'll teach it to you.
Look.
It's with the left hand.
It's more original than the right one.
-And I'm hurt.
-And because Vadhir's hurt.
-Ready?
-Check this out.
-One.
-One.
-Two, three.
-Two, three.
-Four.
-Four.
-Five, six.
-Five, six.
Seven. Eight.
Practice or you'll forget, Aitana.
One.
This secret handshake is very special
because when you share
a secret with someone,
it means you trust them.
And I want Aitana
to be a part of this group,
this circle we created.
I don't want her
to feel left out due to her age.
I want her to feel she's a part of it.
Forehead.
We love you.
-Come here, bear hug.
-With the siblings.
-Bear hug.
-There's a test to pass.
You have to hold a spider.
-A hairy one!
-To show you're brave.
-Come on, team. So?
-Let's keep playing?
There!
-Like she said, "There!"
-Let's go.
Good, Aitana. Great. You did it.
That feeling
that they don't need me is what…
-Hey!
-I don't want to cry. I almost never cry.
Are we getting old?
-I think so.
-Right?
What hurts the most about my kids
is feeling that I'm not needed.
That's why I'm enjoying
being a father to Aitana so much.
Because every time she says…
"Take me to the bathroom."
Or "Do this for me,"
"Take me," or "Pick me up…"
I do whatever she asks because…
I know she'll stop asking soon.
I know that very soon…
I'll stop being…
her favorite person.
And that hurts a lot.
What did you envision when we first met?
-Many things.
-I didn't envision this.
Remember we didn't want any?
First, neither one wanted…
No!
You didn't want kids. I always did.
The day I met you,
the first thing I asked was
"So? Will you have more kids?"
And you answered,
"You tell me."
A great line! A great line!
Yeah…
Come on, team!
-C'mon, Scorpions! You almost fell.
-Wow! What's this?
-Look.
-A skull?
Why?
-There's balloons and a pirate?
-Ahoy!
Welcome!
Hi, honey. How did it go?
It's the second birthday we've had
while on Traveling with the Derbezes.
She's surrounded by adults.
Her siblings look like her parents,
and we look like grandparents.
Poor kid hasn't had
a normal party with other kids.
You sound like Santa.
What's this? He's really Santa Claus.
-Is this from a pirate show?
-Jack Sparrow.
-A "yo-ho" pirate show.
-"It's from a pirate show."
-Move it!
-Go on!
-How's it look?
-Great. Are we going to party or what?
The party's downstairs, so go on down.
Is Aitana changing?
Yeah, I told her to change.
Dress up if you want, you guys.
-Can I get a drink?
-It's your home.
-Buddy!
-You're at home.
-Buddy!
-What's up?
-Buddy!
-Yeah, bud, drink whatever you want.
It's the perfect excuse for José Eduardo.
I mean, what did pirates do?
Drink.
Obviously, he has to go with the theme.
Of course, bud. I'm not your dad anymore.
I'm your friend now. Let's drink.
-Drink from your glasses.
-Man!
Okay, drink up!
Let's hurry to start the party.
Look!
No, dude, what's up with that?
-Why, dude?
-What's that?
-Why?
-It's not Halloween.
Your mask is super creepy.
What mask? It's just a wig.
-I brought it from Mexico.
-What's that, son?
-It's a monkeypox mask.
-Put it on for Aitana to see.
Look, I think I left a hat around here.
What a beautiful pirate! Wait a second.
-Put this on.
-Look, a pirate.
That scared me in the bathroom last time.
-He has monkeypox.
-No.
-What's wrong with you?
-No.
-What did he do?
-It's true.
Stop! Don't laugh.
-What's up?
-José, what's wrong?
-What did you do?
-What's up?
-Nothing.
-Look.
-Nothing.
-No, look.
-What's that?
-Nothing.
I just have to poop.
-It's not true!
-Why do you scare your sister?
-I can't see.
-What's wrong with you? It's horrible!
Go get the monkeypox vaccine.
Hey, let me see.
This goes with your dress.
-Wait.
-Okay, ready.
Let's go downstairs.
-Let's go!
-Come! Look, let's go.
Hurry up!
Look! They really made an effort.
Wow! See that?
-You like it, Aitana?
-Yes.
Honey!
Coming!
Before going on this trip,
we agreed we wouldn't check
our phones or email,
no working or anything.
-Dad, but living together…
-I know.
Sorry, honey,
I just got a big order for M-fitness.
They ordered bottles…
Thermoses and more stuff.
I have to send it now
and I don't know how.
Can't you do it later?
It's our daughter's party.
Sorry, it's urgent.
How can I send it to Guadalajara?
Easy. How did I bring my paddleboard?
-Come, look.
-Yeah?
-Do you have the address?
-Yeah.
Can't you please do this later?
-You put it here.
-Honey…
It's quick, Dad, for real.
Tell them to take it to FedEx,
and it'll be there in a jiffy.
-Okay, great. Thanks.
-That's it.
-Look, seriously…
-Done?
-What?
-Seriously.
Do that later, please. Don't be like this.
We're done.
How nice. I didn't know.
I'll tell them now.
-Done?
-Thank you.
Dad, come with me.
That's it!
Look, darling, it's a pirate ship.
It's my pirate ship.
-It's so pretty, I feel bad hitting it.
-Yeah, it's nice.
-Isn't it great?
-Awesome.
This one only sails in "Jamaican water."
Okay, I like it.
It waves a "drown your sorrows" flag.
Who'll pull on the rope?
-I'll go up. Wait a second.
-Hey, honey, it's really cool.
You have to hit it hard
so it breaks, okay?
-Ready, honey? Higher?
-Can you?
-Sure.
-Let me take your hat.
-Hit it!
-Is he in the bathroom?
Hit it, hit it, hit it
Don't lose your aim
Because if you lose it
you will lose your way
You hit it once, you hit it twice
Harder!
You hit it three times
and now your time is up
I have to correct my ways.
It's time to correct the mistakes
I made with my three children
and be a great dad for Aitana.
I don't know if I'll manage,
but I think I'm on the right path.
Happy birthday, my love!
-Yes.
-Congrats.
Happy birthday, Aitana!
-Good!
-Happy birthday!
-Happy birthday!
-Happy birthday, my love!
Thanks.
We've done many things on this trip
together for the first time.
There, you see? Now he sees you.
If you want him to stop,
pull back on the reins.
Exactly.
They're unforgettable moments.
I'd never been horseback riding
in the water before.
It's incredible.
And Aitana was happy
because she loves animals.
She wanted to steer the horse.
When I tried to steer,
she said, "No, Dad, I wanna do it."
Daddy, me.
Honey, he's going that way.
We need him to go here.
There! That's it.
Don't pull back or he'll stop.
Yours already pooped.
Mine, too.
-Is there poop in the water?
-Yeah, the horse just pooped.
I love riding horses.
I took classes and rode a lot as a kid.
And it seems Alessandra and Aislinn
have never touched a horse,
not even by chance.
Nudge it a bit harder, be firmer
and move forward a bit in the saddle.
Aislinn said, "They get stressed."
No, you don't know how to steer.
It's just left, right.
Just turn… Like that, to one side.
Dad, what are you doing?
I want to tell you
that other than the places
we visit and the scenery,
I'm very happy
with this trip because I feel
like I took a step forward with my kids.
And with my family.
-Several, Dad.
-Several.
I think my relationship with all of you
has grown on this trip.
So, thank you.
I'll have beautiful memories
from this trip.
The truth is that it helped us
talk about things we never discuss,
and it's changed us as a family.
It was a great trip. I really enjoyed it.
My relationship with my siblings,
with Ale,
with Aitana, and with you is stronger.
It's like therapy for everyone.
It helped a lot.
I learned, as always, to be more tolerant,
to listen to my family,
to think about how they feel.
After what happened with Vadhir,
I learned to not take life for granted.
It can change in a second,
so we have to live every day
as if it were the last.
Namaste! I love you,
and I want to see you succeed.
I'm pleasantly surprised
because we all went with the flow.
We had our moments, of course,
but I'm happy to see Aitana
more in tune with her siblings.
And having celebrated
another birthday all together.
I love you all very much,
and I'm very grateful for this trip.
And my presents?
-Your presents, too.
-Later.
-At the house.
-What presents?
This trip went down to the family's core,
to its roots.
And it meant building a better future
and a much healthier and deeper bond
between each and every one of us.
I'm very proud of you, Dad,
since you're really trying hard
to grow and do things differently.
Thank you, everyone. I love you.
Aitana, you rock.
I have so much fun with you.
Welcome to the club.
What club?
I was hoping to heal old wounds,
to get him to see us differently,
to have him respect me
as the adult that I am,
to get him to let go
of all these expectations
and to stop judging us so much.
And I think we did it.
I'm so proud of you, Dad,
for the effort you made to let go.
I'd never seen you make such an effort.
So, in my opinion, this is our best trip.
Thank you for that, honey. Thanks.
-I love you.
-I'm proud of you all.
This trip brought us closer.
I thought that going alone
to experience Rastafarian culture
would really fulfill me spiritually.
The truth is that what I loved the most,
what fulfilled me the most,
and what made me feel change
was being there with my family.
-Love you, Vad.
-Love you, Dad.
Love you, Ais, José Eduardo.
I love you, too.
I love you all.
Aitana, the other hand.
-What's that?
-What's that?
Let me see?
-What's that?
-I love you, bud.
-What is that?
-Sibling love.
What's that?
-Don't worry about it.
-It's just for siblings.
Hey, chill out. It's not for you, Dad.
It's for siblings.
The sibling club, not for parents.
Show me how it goes, Ais.
I won't teach you.
Why not?
That place was cool.
Well, kind of, because your feet get wet
where the horses poop and pee.
It's not cool that the horses' tails
are in the pee and poop,
and they do this and splash your face.
It's very romantic.
Imagine proposing
to someone there, it has to be…
shitty.
Previously on Traveling with the Derbezes.
There, look. Do you see him?
I feel somewhat responsible
because I taught you to take risks
and that risky things were cool.
See, it's your fault.
Now you love me, right?
You have a real issue
with wanting to kill yourself.
-No, man, I mean…
-It's easier to slit your wrists.
Come to the School of Vision
with the Rastafaris.
-Where are you?
-At School of Vision.
It'll be nice to share it with you.
Okay.
I learned a new perspective on life.
You made this cool thing?
It's really hard.
When Aitana fell asleep,
I spent a long time
looking at pics and videos.
It's incredible. My heart is so full
seeing how much she's grown…
Let's see that tooth? Hello!
Someone's got a gap!
-Are you ready?
-I'm ready.
I can't believe she's turning eight.
I can't believe it's been eight years.
And we're on Traveling with the Derbezes.
TRAVELING WITH THE DERBEZES
-There are animals!
-They're people.
-They must've died…
-Trying to get here?
-You see them.
-Don't become one of them!
My stomach's cramping up. Seriously.
We spent hours walking and walking.
There were bugs. It was getting dark.
It was really noisy.
I did it because I'm dumb.
Are you okay?
-The mosquitos getting you?
-I want to cry.
You can't see anything down there.
What do we do?
There's no other way. We're almost there.
You got us to go up the mountain.
I swear if you'd said,
"Hey, yeah, come on over,
"but you have to spend two hours
going up a mountain,"
I'd say, "No, thanks."
You tricked us.
-What are you doing here?
-Vad!
What do you mean? We said we'd come.
-Now?
-I mean, yeah, but…
You were supposed to come
two hours ago, not now.
-No, that trail is a joke.
-Yeah, it's hard.
-No…
-No, that's not hard.
I went up the Great Wall of China
and was less tired.
I need a smoke.
Horrible. I want to go back to Mexico.
The fact that they're inviting us
is a great opportunity.
It's rare.
It's not a hotel.
People don't come and stay here.
They're inviting us
into their space, their community,
to share their food and their traditions.
It's a beautiful opportunity,
and I'll make the most of it.
Fight over your rooms.
-Let's see?
-Let's see.
-Let's see.
-How nice of them to let us stay.
-Look.
-It's very picturesque.
We finally made it there,
and we didn't get to see anything.
They just told us,
"No, that's it. Spend the night."
Sleeping in a place
where all kinds of bugs can get in. No!
-I can't believe you came.
-Me, neither.
I still don't know why I'm here.
We didn't know
how serious the situation was.
It's not the Four Seasons or the Hilton.
Someday. I still have hope…
-That we'll go to Las Vegas?
-To Las Vegas or Dubai.
Okay, one day you'll get
the vacation you want.
-You'll choose it.
-But what do you think of this vacation?
I want to thank you
because I feel it's the first trip ever
where you're making a real effort
to respect us, to let us go.
Well, except for those moments
on the catamaran,
since that was really tough.
Ta-da!
Ais, what's wrong?
-Dude, no!
-I can't.
-I rented the catamaran for two nights.
-What?
Aside from the catamaran,
I feel like you're making an effort.
I feel like you're really trying
to respect us as adults,
and I think
that's the hardest part for all of us.
When we're with Dad,
we fall into this dynamic
like we're little kids with their dad.
I'll always be your dad.
Vadhir, you almost lost your life.
When you were about to take off,
you don't know how many times I said,
"What if I stop this
and tell him to not do it?"
I almost told you, "Don't do it."
I said, "'He'll send me off.'
He'll say, 'Dad, I'm…'"
-It's good you didn't.
-I sent myself off.
When you fell,
there was something in me
that made me feel responsible.
-But it's a bit different, Dad.
-Why did I let you do that?
But, no matter what you say,
in the end, I'll do whatever I want.
And I'm thankful that you care.
I think seeing how worried
you were made me go, "Okay."
-"He loves me."
-Yes. "He loves me."
-It's better than not caring.
-Like when you say,
"Dad told you what's right and wrong.
"He taught you what works
and what doesn't, what could kill you."
Now let them fly.
If he screws up, hurts himself, or dies…
He still thinks we're five years old.
It's something in him
that he needs to work out in therapy.
But I struggle with another thing.
I didn't spend much time with you
because I was always working.
As for you… I couldn't see you.
I wasn't allowed to see you for years,
so I feel I owe it to you.
I find myself thinking,
"I should tell José Eduardo,
"'Honey, why don't you eat healthier?
Why don't you stop?'"
I know I nag a lot, but I do it
because I feel I wasn't there for you.
And I can make up for it
instead of sitting back like,
"He's a grown man.
If he wants to die, so be it."
It's tough as a dad.
It would bring us closer together
if you focused on what we do right,
on what we've done,
on how well things are going,
on the things we do right,
instead of trying to correct
what we do wrong.
Also, it's much more powerful
for you to enjoy us as friends,
to let us be ourselves.
When we're making a bad decision
and you want to give us advice, you say,
"Hey, I think this isn't right.
Let me advise you."
I'd be like, "He never corrects me
and now he is?"
Then we'll listen more
than if you're nagging us every day.
"You're eating that? It's bad.
Another tequila? Unbelievable.
-"You slept in? I can't believe it."
-Exactly.
Obviously, you can give us advice
if you see us making a mistake,
but do it as a friend.
It'll take some work, but…
But I'll do it.
You know what's also cool?
You have an 8-year-old girl…
Take it out on her!
-Exactly!
-Unload it all on her.
You can make up
for everything you didn't do with us.
Wait, tomorrow…
It's… Yes, it's her birthday.
Tomorrow's Aitana's birthday.
-You're kidding.
-We know.
-Alessandra will kill me.
-No.
No, we have to leave early.
-Promise.
-No, like this.
Who's calling?
It's Dad!
Let's see what he says. Hello?
-Hello?
-Hi, honey.
Hi, old woman.
What's up? I'm with Aitana.
You're on speaker.
-Old woman!
-Hi, honey. How are you?
Good.
She's asking why you called me old.
"Old woman!" Why?
It's affectionate.
-No.
-What's up, honey?
It'll sound strange, but…
We're at School of Vision.
Vadhir, Aislinn,
and José Eduardo are here.
They came, so I'm with my three kids.
And I also wanted to have
some time with them.
Have some bonding time, you know?
I wanted to see if it's okay
if we spend the night here.
It's just for tonight.
But you know tomorrow's Aitana's birthday?
I mean…
-But…
-No, I know.
It's a community, and it looks like
they don't let just anyone sleep over,
but they invited us.
It's like the full experience.
I don't want to say anything
in front of Aitana.
I don't want to say… "Excuse me? What?"
It's okay?
Yeah...
Okay, honey, I love you.
Thanks for understanding.
-Bye.
-Say, "Good night, Dad."
Good night.
-Bye, honey, kisses.
-Bye.
Now I'm really in for it.
It's like a ritual for Alessandra.
I have to be there
so that the second Aitana wakes up,
we wish her a happy birthday.
And I suddenly say to her,
"I'm spending the night
on top of a mountain,
"so I won't be there
on the morning of Aitana's birthday."
No, well. I don't know.
No, we have to leave really early.
How early?
As early as possible
so that when she wakes up…
-Hey, listen.
-…we celebrate.
I'm well aware
that tomorrow's Aitana's birthday,
and I think it would be great
to have a surprise party for her.
While you get it ready…
-We had an idea.
-We talked about it a bit.
You never leave her alone with us.
I'd love to spend the day with her.
-But without the parents.
-Yes.
You're always there
making sure she's okay.
Ale's always there.
-You should trust us.
-I do. Ale doesn't.
We have to persuade Ale.
Will you persuade Ale
to let her go with us?
-We want to go to a theme park.
-Yeah.
-Okay.
-Yeah?
But just us, without you two.
While you prepare the party.
-Fine.
-Okay.
I think it's very special
for all the siblings
to be together with her and have fun.
It's about time!
You'll be parents someday.
Actually…
No, not that.
Come on, bud!
I was kidding.
Carry me, Dad.
Let's remember the old days.
Take me to bed.
I do think our dad will change.
Maybe not much, but he's open to change.
He looks sincerely involved,
concerned, and wanting to improve
his relationship with us.
Let's go to bed.
-I love you.
-I love you, too.
He never hugged me like that.
God.
You're wider.
-What a compliment.
-Nice way to end the night.
I think we cleared everything up.
How we feel, what we want,
and I think he's starting to understand.
-You look wider.
-You gonna keep eating like that?
-You're wider.
-No, I'm stronger.
I understand what they're saying.
I know what they meant
during our conversation.
To let them be, to act like a friend,
to stop judging them, controlling them.
It's hard when you see that your son
could get sick from all his bad habits
and you can't say anything.
It's hard to see a son about to go flying
and you know he could get hurt
like what literally happened,
and all he wants to hear is...
"I support you, son. Go on."
I understand, but I don't know
if I can just be a friend to them,
because I think
I'll always be a father first.
I was scared when we got to the villa,
like my kids that day
when they didn't go to bed.
I understood them.
-Honey.
-Good morning.
-And Aitana?
-Upstairs.
How did it go?
Good. We came as soon as possible.
When I went in,
I said, "Ale will kill me."
She was really mad.
I could see it in her eyes.
Honey! My love!
Dad's here.
Honey.
This is the morning song
that King David sang
And this is how we sing it
to beautiful girls like you
-The flowers are for you, honey.
-Happy birthday.
-Happy birthday, honey.
-Happy birthday, beautiful girl.
Happy birthday, my love.
I think this trip
brought Aitana closer to her siblings.
-Do you agree?
-Yes.
I love seeing the four of them
doing something together.
I love seeing the older ones
including her, looking after her,
and I love how they each have
a different connection.
-Have you been awake for long?
-Yeah.
Not long, but she was awake
and she was getting anxious.
I had to say that Dad was going crazy.
-Fast asleep.
-No!
I did everything I could
to get here early.
Of course, she didn't make
a scene in front of the kids,
but she was mad I didn't come back.
Hey, Aitana, guess what?
We have a surprise for you.
A really good surprise
because we're taking you
to a secret place.
-Who?
-Just the siblings.
No, yeah. Later, Alessandra.
-What?
-Just the siblings.
-I'll tell you before…
-Hold on.
You didn't sleep here,
and now she's leaving.
We won't spend the day with her?
-Look…
-No, wait, don't get worked up.
If Ale tells my dad to let go,
then she also has to let go.
The siblings organized something
we think is really cool for her.
We don't think, we know.
-It's cool.
-Awesome.
Yes. So I think it's a great plan for her,
and, in the meantime,
we have to set things up.
The birthday party.
It's a really cool place.
We need Mom's permission.
She has to let you come with us
since she's staying here with Dad, right?
The fact that my kids want to celebrate
with Aitana is great.
Now I can patch things up with Alessandra.
We'll have some time alone
which we haven't had so far.
Aitana, do you want to spend your birthday
with us or with your mom?
With Mom and Dad.
-Wait.
-Let her answer.
-Yeah!
-Yeah, team!
Here, high five.
I was really glad to hear her say,
"I'll go with my siblings."
Because it shows me
that she's comfortable with them.
And that she doesn't feel forced
to spend time with Mom and Dad,
and I love that.
-Sorry.
-No, honey, don't apologize.
Don't apologize, honey. It's okay.
"Sorry, Mom. Don't hit me."
-Don't get mad at me.
-No.
I asked you
if it was okay to be with my kids.
You said it was.
I know, honey. We'll talk later.
Okay, later.
-Don't argue, it's…
-Happy birthday! Happy birthday!
This place is great.
-Like a jungle, right?
-And it has spiders.
-You excited?
-How is it being eight?
-Now you're big.
-It feels good.
-It feels good?
-Yeah.
Look at that slide.
Some pool time or what?
Wow! Eight years had to go by until
we could have the kid without supervision.
I mean, so that they'll let us
take her to a theme park.
We have to enjoy her!
Hey, you like going fast, right?
-You like adrenaline?
-You like it?
-Excitement?
-Yeah?
That's it. How about the roller coaster?
Okay!
There's another one!
There's a lot of water coasters.
I think that one where you sit
and have a seatbelt is less scary.
Want to go on it?
Listen, Dad's not here.
He won't tell you to get on any rides.
And your mom also won't be saying,
"No, it's too scary. Don't get on."
Neither one of them.
I feel we can help push her
out of her comfort zone.
And, at the same time, have adventures
while also feeling protected.
Do you like that we're big,
or do you want us to be small?
-More your age?
-This way.
-You like us like this?
-Yeah.
-Great.
-We're more fun than little kids.
Yeah, and we can do more things.
I told Ale, "In 10 years,
we'll go clubbing."
Well, if I still can, right?
Honey?
-Yeah!
-Look.
What?
Ta-da!
-What do you think?
-What's that? A piñata?
It's a pirate ship piñata.
-Where did you get that?
-At the Jamaican market.
-Not the supermarket…
-I understand.
Literally, the Jamaican market.
What's better than having
a pirate party here in Jamaica?
Aitana still loves
mermaids, pirates, the sea,
magic, and all that.
So I think it's the perfect theme,
and I love seeing her happy.
Put the candy here
and fill the piñata, okay?
Where do you fill this in? No idea.
The kids sent me a picture.
Of what? Can I see?
-Let me see.
-Wait, honey.
Hold on, honey. I know how you are.
-Let me see, please.
-I don't want…
-Let me see it.
-It's not bad.
I want you to relax.
You stress over everything.
If it's not bad, let me see the picture.
Where are they?
Damn!
Wait!
No, damn it! No!
I was so sure this would be nothing.
Like the little boats on Chapultepec Lake.
Where you row a bit,
have a snack, and that's it. But no.
Damn it! Damn it! Nothing.
I thought I'd fall off. I said,
"This thing could break."
Glory to our victorious Christ!
Appease your wrath.
It was great.
I think Aitana had lots of fun.
I like that she's more confident.
And that she's less of a mama's girl.
-Did you like it?
-It was great.
-You liked it?
-Yeah.
-Were you scared?
-No.
You weren't?
-No?
-Just a little.
How brave! I sure was scared.
-It was intense.
-Yeah.
-Great, love you.
-Let's go!
Let's go, birthday girl.
See why I didn't want to show you?
-Look. Seriously?
-What?
Why are you stressed?
Look, I'm nervous, okay?
It's a theme park.
I'm just nervous.
It's the first time she's…
-She's with--
-…alone.
I know she's with her siblings.
I know she's okay,
and I trust all three of them, but…
Come here.
-Let's see…
-Come. Come.
Why are you worried?
Honey, Vadhir almost died two days ago.
That's one thing I haven't processed yet.
I know it was the fright of your life.
When you called, when I heard you,
I thought the worst.
I know that if anyone
can look after Aitana,
it's Vadhir.
But I get very nervous
given what just happened.
So, you're completely calm? I mean…
Yes.
Aislinn and Vadhir can take care of her.
I know,
and she can also take care of herself.
I know that she…
has fun with her siblings
and loves being with them.
That gives me peace of mind.
I also can't believe she's already eight.
She's not a baby anymore!
I think being a parent
is one of the cruelest things in life.
Being a parent
is falling in love with your kids,
knowing that one day they'll leave.
Sooner or later.
I know they leave.
Yes, honey, but when Aitana
one day says, "I'm leaving,"
and you see her leave home with her bags…
You'll want to die.
It's really hard. Really hard.
It's horrible, honey.
Being a parent is cruel.
It's preparing yourself so you know…
that it's so short, and you'll lose it.
No matter what.
I know that I've been called out for…
trying to control my kids, but…
I think you do the same with Aitana.
You wanna know where she is,
where she's going,
what she's eating,
what she's not eating, everything.
I know.
For the first time…
I understand…
Eugenio a lot more.
And I understand
how hard it's been for him to let them go.
Hey, that was really exciting.
For real, yeah. But it's intense.
I was a bit scared.
Yeah, you feel like you'll fall off.
-It was rough.
-Were you scared, Ais?
-Yeah.
-I heard you screaming.
It was like…
Did you scream? Yeah? How did you scream?
Aitana's a gem.
And I hope she has
at least another 80 birthdays.
Make it to 88. That's a good age.
I guess I won't be around when she's 88.
No, I won't 'cause it's 23… No, I won't.
But, well,
I'll look after her from Heaven.
I really want you to enjoy
everything you do in life.
I want you to know
that we're here for you,
to look after you.
You can always say, "I've got my siblings.
"They love me,
and I know I'll always be okay."
You can always count on us.
We'll always be there.
You can tell us anything.
Anything you don't want to tell
Mom and Dad…
-You can tell us.
-You can tell us.
Yeah, right?
It's a fraternal circle of trust.
-Yes.
-We're a team. You like that?
-Yeah?
-We're a club.
We want you to be part of our club.
It's the sibling club.
We'll show you something special.
Yeah.
It's a secret handshake nobody else knows,
and we'll teach it to you.
Look.
It's with the left hand.
It's more original than the right one.
-And I'm hurt.
-And because Vadhir's hurt.
-Ready?
-Check this out.
-One.
-One.
-Two, three.
-Two, three.
-Four.
-Four.
-Five, six.
-Five, six.
Seven. Eight.
Practice or you'll forget, Aitana.
One.
This secret handshake is very special
because when you share
a secret with someone,
it means you trust them.
And I want Aitana
to be a part of this group,
this circle we created.
I don't want her
to feel left out due to her age.
I want her to feel she's a part of it.
Forehead.
We love you.
-Come here, bear hug.
-With the siblings.
-Bear hug.
-There's a test to pass.
You have to hold a spider.
-A hairy one!
-To show you're brave.
-Come on, team. So?
-Let's keep playing?
There!
-Like she said, "There!"
-Let's go.
Good, Aitana. Great. You did it.
That feeling
that they don't need me is what…
-Hey!
-I don't want to cry. I almost never cry.
Are we getting old?
-I think so.
-Right?
What hurts the most about my kids
is feeling that I'm not needed.
That's why I'm enjoying
being a father to Aitana so much.
Because every time she says…
"Take me to the bathroom."
Or "Do this for me,"
"Take me," or "Pick me up…"
I do whatever she asks because…
I know she'll stop asking soon.
I know that very soon…
I'll stop being…
her favorite person.
And that hurts a lot.
What did you envision when we first met?
-Many things.
-I didn't envision this.
Remember we didn't want any?
First, neither one wanted…
No!
You didn't want kids. I always did.
The day I met you,
the first thing I asked was
"So? Will you have more kids?"
And you answered,
"You tell me."
A great line! A great line!
Yeah…
Come on, team!
-C'mon, Scorpions! You almost fell.
-Wow! What's this?
-Look.
-A skull?
Why?
-There's balloons and a pirate?
-Ahoy!
Welcome!
Hi, honey. How did it go?
It's the second birthday we've had
while on Traveling with the Derbezes.
She's surrounded by adults.
Her siblings look like her parents,
and we look like grandparents.
Poor kid hasn't had
a normal party with other kids.
You sound like Santa.
What's this? He's really Santa Claus.
-Is this from a pirate show?
-Jack Sparrow.
-A "yo-ho" pirate show.
-"It's from a pirate show."
-Move it!
-Go on!
-How's it look?
-Great. Are we going to party or what?
The party's downstairs, so go on down.
Is Aitana changing?
Yeah, I told her to change.
Dress up if you want, you guys.
-Can I get a drink?
-It's your home.
-Buddy!
-You're at home.
-Buddy!
-What's up?
-Buddy!
-Yeah, bud, drink whatever you want.
It's the perfect excuse for José Eduardo.
I mean, what did pirates do?
Drink.
Obviously, he has to go with the theme.
Of course, bud. I'm not your dad anymore.
I'm your friend now. Let's drink.
-Drink from your glasses.
-Man!
Okay, drink up!
Let's hurry to start the party.
Look!
No, dude, what's up with that?
-Why, dude?
-What's that?
-Why?
-It's not Halloween.
Your mask is super creepy.
What mask? It's just a wig.
-I brought it from Mexico.
-What's that, son?
-It's a monkeypox mask.
-Put it on for Aitana to see.
Look, I think I left a hat around here.
What a beautiful pirate! Wait a second.
-Put this on.
-Look, a pirate.
That scared me in the bathroom last time.
-He has monkeypox.
-No.
-What's wrong with you?
-No.
-What did he do?
-It's true.
Stop! Don't laugh.
-What's up?
-José, what's wrong?
-What did you do?
-What's up?
-Nothing.
-Look.
-Nothing.
-No, look.
-What's that?
-Nothing.
I just have to poop.
-It's not true!
-Why do you scare your sister?
-I can't see.
-What's wrong with you? It's horrible!
Go get the monkeypox vaccine.
Hey, let me see.
This goes with your dress.
-Wait.
-Okay, ready.
Let's go downstairs.
-Let's go!
-Come! Look, let's go.
Hurry up!
Look! They really made an effort.
Wow! See that?
-You like it, Aitana?
-Yes.
Honey!
Coming!
Before going on this trip,
we agreed we wouldn't check
our phones or email,
no working or anything.
-Dad, but living together…
-I know.
Sorry, honey,
I just got a big order for M-fitness.
They ordered bottles…
Thermoses and more stuff.
I have to send it now
and I don't know how.
Can't you do it later?
It's our daughter's party.
Sorry, it's urgent.
How can I send it to Guadalajara?
Easy. How did I bring my paddleboard?
-Come, look.
-Yeah?
-Do you have the address?
-Yeah.
Can't you please do this later?
-You put it here.
-Honey…
It's quick, Dad, for real.
Tell them to take it to FedEx,
and it'll be there in a jiffy.
-Okay, great. Thanks.
-That's it.
-Look, seriously…
-Done?
-What?
-Seriously.
Do that later, please. Don't be like this.
We're done.
How nice. I didn't know.
I'll tell them now.
-Done?
-Thank you.
Dad, come with me.
That's it!
Look, darling, it's a pirate ship.
It's my pirate ship.
-It's so pretty, I feel bad hitting it.
-Yeah, it's nice.
-Isn't it great?
-Awesome.
This one only sails in "Jamaican water."
Okay, I like it.
It waves a "drown your sorrows" flag.
Who'll pull on the rope?
-I'll go up. Wait a second.
-Hey, honey, it's really cool.
You have to hit it hard
so it breaks, okay?
-Ready, honey? Higher?
-Can you?
-Sure.
-Let me take your hat.
-Hit it!
-Is he in the bathroom?
Hit it, hit it, hit it
Don't lose your aim
Because if you lose it
you will lose your way
You hit it once, you hit it twice
Harder!
You hit it three times
and now your time is up
I have to correct my ways.
It's time to correct the mistakes
I made with my three children
and be a great dad for Aitana.
I don't know if I'll manage,
but I think I'm on the right path.
Happy birthday, my love!
-Yes.
-Congrats.
Happy birthday, Aitana!
-Good!
-Happy birthday!
-Happy birthday!
-Happy birthday, my love!
Thanks.
We've done many things on this trip
together for the first time.
There, you see? Now he sees you.
If you want him to stop,
pull back on the reins.
Exactly.
They're unforgettable moments.
I'd never been horseback riding
in the water before.
It's incredible.
And Aitana was happy
because she loves animals.
She wanted to steer the horse.
When I tried to steer,
she said, "No, Dad, I wanna do it."
Daddy, me.
Honey, he's going that way.
We need him to go here.
There! That's it.
Don't pull back or he'll stop.
Yours already pooped.
Mine, too.
-Is there poop in the water?
-Yeah, the horse just pooped.
I love riding horses.
I took classes and rode a lot as a kid.
And it seems Alessandra and Aislinn
have never touched a horse,
not even by chance.
Nudge it a bit harder, be firmer
and move forward a bit in the saddle.
Aislinn said, "They get stressed."
No, you don't know how to steer.
It's just left, right.
Just turn… Like that, to one side.
Dad, what are you doing?
I want to tell you
that other than the places
we visit and the scenery,
I'm very happy
with this trip because I feel
like I took a step forward with my kids.
And with my family.
-Several, Dad.
-Several.
I think my relationship with all of you
has grown on this trip.
So, thank you.
I'll have beautiful memories
from this trip.
The truth is that it helped us
talk about things we never discuss,
and it's changed us as a family.
It was a great trip. I really enjoyed it.
My relationship with my siblings,
with Ale,
with Aitana, and with you is stronger.
It's like therapy for everyone.
It helped a lot.
I learned, as always, to be more tolerant,
to listen to my family,
to think about how they feel.
After what happened with Vadhir,
I learned to not take life for granted.
It can change in a second,
so we have to live every day
as if it were the last.
Namaste! I love you,
and I want to see you succeed.
I'm pleasantly surprised
because we all went with the flow.
We had our moments, of course,
but I'm happy to see Aitana
more in tune with her siblings.
And having celebrated
another birthday all together.
I love you all very much,
and I'm very grateful for this trip.
And my presents?
-Your presents, too.
-Later.
-At the house.
-What presents?
This trip went down to the family's core,
to its roots.
And it meant building a better future
and a much healthier and deeper bond
between each and every one of us.
I'm very proud of you, Dad,
since you're really trying hard
to grow and do things differently.
Thank you, everyone. I love you.
Aitana, you rock.
I have so much fun with you.
Welcome to the club.
What club?
I was hoping to heal old wounds,
to get him to see us differently,
to have him respect me
as the adult that I am,
to get him to let go
of all these expectations
and to stop judging us so much.
And I think we did it.
I'm so proud of you, Dad,
for the effort you made to let go.
I'd never seen you make such an effort.
So, in my opinion, this is our best trip.
Thank you for that, honey. Thanks.
-I love you.
-I'm proud of you all.
This trip brought us closer.
I thought that going alone
to experience Rastafarian culture
would really fulfill me spiritually.
The truth is that what I loved the most,
what fulfilled me the most,
and what made me feel change
was being there with my family.
-Love you, Vad.
-Love you, Dad.
Love you, Ais, José Eduardo.
I love you, too.
I love you all.
Aitana, the other hand.
-What's that?
-What's that?
Let me see?
-What's that?
-I love you, bud.
-What is that?
-Sibling love.
What's that?
-Don't worry about it.
-It's just for siblings.
Hey, chill out. It's not for you, Dad.
It's for siblings.
The sibling club, not for parents.
Show me how it goes, Ais.
I won't teach you.
Why not?
That place was cool.
Well, kind of, because your feet get wet
where the horses poop and pee.
It's not cool that the horses' tails
are in the pee and poop,
and they do this and splash your face.
It's very romantic.
Imagine proposing
to someone there, it has to be…
shitty.