90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 3, Episode 15 - Tell All: Part 2 - full transcript
In Part 2 of the Tell All, host Shaun Robinson dives back in to discuss more of the biggest moments with our couples and updates on where their relationships stand now.
ON "BEFORE THE 90 DAYS:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL"...
YOU HAVEN'T EVEN
MET MARIA YET.
I KNOW MARIA'S GONNA
SHOW UP TODAY
AND I FEEL IT'S GONNA BE
A TENSE SITUATION.
HAVE YOU CONSIDERED
THE FACT THAT,
IF SHE REALLY LOVED YOU,
SHE WOULDN'T WAIT YEARS
AND THEN STILL
NOT SHOW UP?
I WAS DOING
MUCH BETTER.
OUR SITUATION'S
REALLY HARD.
IF YOU THINK
IT'S HARD NOW,
LIVING THERE IS WHEN
THE REAL TEST COMES.
I'M WITH YOU, TOM.
REALITY AIN'T HIT
NEITHER ONE OF THEM.
WHAT WERE YOU THINKING WHEN YOU
SAW YOUR FACE ON HIS BODY?
I THOUGHT
IT WAS ROMANTIC.
YOU DON'T CALL
SOMEBODY A FREAK.
I DON'T THINK SHE'S WRONG
FOR POINTING OUT
THAT IT'S
A BIT STRANGE.
MORNING, GUYS.
NEW YORK CITY.
SUPER EXCITED TO BE BACK.
I KNOW JESSE'S GOING
TO BE HERE.
HE WANTS TO THINK
HE'S GONNA TAKE ME DOWN,
TRY IT.
AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN.
TOM, YOU'VE BEEN ENGAGED
TWICE BEFORE
- THAT'S CORRECT.
- AND YOU SAID, BOTH TIMES,
YOU WERE LEFT BY YOUR PARTNER.
- YOU WERE ENGAGED TWICE?
- SHE WANTS AN ENGAGEMENT RING.
- MM-HMM.
SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GET
TO KNOW WHO YOUARE.
THERE IS
A HUGEISSUE
THAT WE ARE SO VERY
WORRIED ABOUT.
IF HIS FAMILY WERE
TO FIND OUT,
HE'D HAVE TO CHOOSE
BETWEEN ME OR HIS FAMILY.
HOW OFTEN DID YOU TWO
TALK ABOUT JESSE?
MOST DAYS.
AND YOU KNOW
HE'S HERE, RIGHT?
TODAY'S THE DAY
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
WHY ARE YOU HERE,
THOUGH?
- WHY AM I HERE?
- YEAH.
THE LAST THING
I WANNA DO
IS TRIGGER HER
TO TEXT ME AGAIN
AND TO CALL ME AGAIN
BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT
SHE'S BEEN DOING.
NO, I WANNA HEAR IT
WITH DARCEY!
GET TO THE
TRUTH ABOUT IT
BECAUSE, NOW,
HE'S SAYING
COMPLETELY SEPARATE
THAN HER.
I'M SICK OF IT!
- OH, MY GOD.
WE GET TOO EXTREME,
MICHAEL,
BECAUSE YOU LIE.
IT'S LIKE, "WHY DO YOU
KEEP DOING THIS?!"
YOU WASN'T THERE!
- CALM. DOWN.
DON'T YOU TELL ME
TO CALM DOWN!
- IT'S NOT WORTH IT, GUYS.
- GUYS, IT'S NOT WORTH IT!
PLEASE!
IT'S NOT WORTH IT.
I MEAN, I KNOW THAT
LIKE LOVE IS BLIND
AND WE GET SUCKED
INTO THE IDEA OF LOVE,
BUT AT, YOU KNOW,
FIVE YEARS,
THREE CANCELED TRIPS,
AND IT ALMOST SEEMS LIKE
YOU'RE STILL
DEFENDING HER.
YOU GOT SCAMMED.
THAT'S IT.
LET US WELCOME MARIA.
OH, SHE'S THERE.
CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS
IN NINE.
I JUST DON'T KNOW
HOW YOU COULD EVER
BE MAD AT TOM
WITH THAT ACCENT.
- EXACTLY.
- LIKE HE'S GOTTA GET AWAY
WITH SO MUCH
JUST FROM THAT
ACCENT, ALONE.
IT SOUNDS SO NICE...
THAT YOU'RE JUST LIKE,
"OKAY, THANK YOU."
TOM, YOU'VE BEEN ENGAGED
TWICE BEFORE
- THAT'S CORRECT.
- AND YOU SAID, BOTH TIMES,
YOU WERE LEFT BY YOUR PARTNER.
- YOU WERE ENGAGED TWICE?
WHAT HAPPENED?
- OH, I DIDN'T KNOW THAT.
- WHAT?
- THAT HE WAS ENGAGED TWICE.
YEAH, THAT'S WILD.
AH, OKAY.
SHE DIDN'T KNOW,
EITHER.
HOLY
YOU DIDN'T KNOW
HE WAS ENGAGED TWICE?
- NO.
- DID YOU ASK?
OH.
YEAH.
- THAT'S SOMETHING YOU NEVER
TOLD HER, TOM?
- NO.
- HOPE I DIDN'T GET
THE SAME RING.
I HAVEN'T
BOUGHT YOU A RING.
I KNOW.
SEE, I HATE THAT "DON'T
ASK, DON'T TELL."
WHAT'S HER NAME
SAID THAT EARLIER.
LIKE YOU SHOULD BE HONEST
AND JUST TELL EVERYBODY
THAT KINDA
UPFRONT.
Do you even know
anything about him?
ARE YOU SURPRISED
THAT YOU DIDN'T...?
I GUESS IT WASN'T
IMPORTANT ENOUGH
FOR HIM TO TELL ME.
I DON'T KNOW.
I MEAN, I DON'T
JUDGE HIM ON IT.
- SEE HOW CALM SHE IS?
- OH, SHE'S TOTALLY
JUDGING HIM ON IT.
SHE'S TOTALLY JUDGING HIM
ON IT RIGHT NOW.
OKAY. WHAT HAPPENED?
JUST, THE FIRST TIME
WAS A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
AND THE SECOND ONE WAS
JUST TWO PEOPLE THAT
WERE HAVING FUN AND...
- MM-HMM.
- KIND OF FELT RIGHT AT THE TIME
AND THEN, IN HINDSIGHT,
LOOKED BACK AND SAID,
"MAYBE THIS WASN'T WHAT
WE REALLY WANTED, SO."
EMMA, WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS
ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE HEARING?
I don't think they know
each other very well
and I think that
they need to spend
more time getting
to know each other.
I don't know
if they're caught up
in the honeymoon bit of,
you know, where you
have lots of sex.
It's really fun.
You go out to bars.
You know, you're doing lots
of really nice things.
But, for me,
a marriage is something
completely different.
YEAH, WE DON'T KNOW THAT
MUCH ABOUT EACH OTHER.
I FEEL LIKE I'M
AN OPEN BOOK WITH HIM.
I FEEL LIKE HE DOES
KNOW A LOT ABOUT ME.
I DON'T KNOW WHY HE'S SAYING
THAT RIGHT NOW, BUT.
I THINK I'M RELIABLE
BECAUSE I'M THERE
FOR YOU
WHEN YOU NEED ME.
- I agree.
- AND I DON'T NECESSARILY THINK
YOU'RE THERE FOR ME
WHEN I NEED YOU.
- REALLY?
- YEAH.
- HOW'S THAT?
IF I EXPRESS MY SENTIMENT
OR FEELING ABOUT A MATTER,
IF IT'S NOT WRAPPED
IN THE RIGHT WAY,
DARCEY WILL BECOME
VERY UPSET
BECAUSE SHE TAKES IT
AS A REJECTION,
RATHER THAN ME
JUST BEING ABLE TO SAY,
"LOOK,
I DON'T LIKE THIS."
GIVE ME AN EXAMPLE.
LIKE THE ARGUMENT
WE HAD
THE OTHER NIGHT
IN THE HOTEL.
THAT WOULD BE
AN EXAMPLE.
WHAT WERE YOU ARGUING ABOUT?
I CAME DOWN
TO THE LOBBY.
SHE'S IN THE LOBBY
WITH ANOTHER GUY
WRAPPED ROUND HER.
- NO.
IF YOU CAME DOWNSTAIRS
AND I'VE GOT MY ARMS
WRAPPED ROUND
ANOTHER WOMAN,
THEN THAT'S NOT REALLY
A CLEAR INDICATION
AS THE, YOU KNOW,
"I'M HERE FOR YOU."
I WANTED TO SEE HOW
THINGS WERE GONNA GO.
DARCEY, DO YOU THINK
YOU WERE
BEING TOO AFFECTIONATE TO A GUY?
- NO, I WASN'T.
I THINK SOMEONE WAS
KIND OF HITTING ON ME,
BUT I WAS JUST LIKE
THERE TO TALK, YOU KNOW.
YOU'RE SAYING YOUR ARMS
WERE NOT AROUND HIM.
TOM, YOU SAID HER ARMS
WERE AROUND. EITHER THEY WERE
OR THEY WEREN'T.
- DID YOU SAY THE GUY'S ARMS
WERE LIKE ON ME
OR SOMETHING?
NO.
YEAH.
I THINK I WAS PROBABLY
UPSET ABOUT SOMETHING,
SO MAYBE HE WAS LIKE
CONSOLING ME.
THAT'S... 'CAUSE...
A RANDOM STRANGER,
CONSOLING YOU?
- OH, OKAY.
- It makes me angry to know
that he's flown all that way
and there's an argument
straightaway.
When you're first together,
you don't have
arguments like that.
You shouldn't be crying.
You should be having fun.
You should be laughing.
- YEAH.
- It should be upbeat.
It shouldn't be that,
"Please tell me
that you love me."
For me, that's
a very worrying sign
and I worry for you.
GOT IT. WELL, I'M INTERESTED
TO HAVE YOUR SISTER JOIN US
IN THIS CONVERSATION,
TO GET HERTAKE ON ALL OF THIS.
HI, STACEY.
HI. HOW ARE YOU?
YOU GOOD?
OH, YEAH. I'M GOOD.
ARE YOU?
- I'M GOOD.
- IF THERE IS ONE TOO MANY
PILLOWS BACK THERE...
- YEAH, I THINK THERE'S
TOO MANY PILLOWS.
- WE GOT BIG BUTTS.
- LET ME KNOW.
- AND THEY DON'T LIE.
WHAT?
SO, STACEY, WHAT DO YOU
THINK ABOUT TOM
AND DARCEY'S RELATIONSHIP?
DO YOU THINK THAT THEY KNOW
EACH OTHER WELL ENOUGH
OR DO YOU THINK
THAT THEY ARE COMPATIBLE?
WHAT ARE YOUR FEELINGS?
I THINK THAT
THEY DEFINITELY
ARE COMPATIBLE.
YOU KNOW, THERE'S
TIMES WHERE IT'S
KIND OF
AN UP-AND-DOWN,
LIKE WHEN YOU
DIDN'T CALL HER.
IF YOU LOVE HER
SO MUCH, THEN,
WHY WOULDN'T YOU
CONTACT HER?
-I DID RING HER,
-IT'S LIKE SHE'S KIND OF
BUT NOT EVERY...
- CONFUSED LIKE WHAT'S GOING ON.
I DID RING HER,
BUT IT'S NOT EVERY DAY.
AND WE SAT AND WE'VE
SPOKEN ABOUT THAT
AND SAID WE NEED
TO SPEAK MORE OFTEN.
- YES.
- OKAY.
I KNOW IT SOUNDS
STUPID TO SAY
YOU NEED TO SCHEDULE,
BUT WHEN THE TIME ZONES
ARE OUT AND PEOPLE
ARE WORKING SCHEDULES,
YOU NEED AT LEAST TO BE
ABLE TO SIT DOWN AND GO,
"WELL, IF YOU RING ME
AROUND 5:00 MY TIME,
- SCHEDULE IT.
- I'LL BE THERE."
YOU KNOW, WE'RE OBVIOUSLY
IN EACH OTHER'S LIVES
FOR A REASON
AND I MET HIM FOUR YEARS AGO
AND THAT CONNECTION
WAS VERY STRONG.
WELL, DARCEY WAS CONVINCED
WHOLEHEARTEDLY
THAT TOM WAS
HER PRINCE CHARMING,
BUT, AS THE SOUND OF WEDDING
BELLS RANG LOUDER IN HERMIND,
THE DOUBTS BEGAN
RINGING IN TOM'S.
I MADE IT CLEAR
LIKE I'M SEEING SOMEONE
-OH.
AND I WANTED TO GIVE IT
LIKE THAT WINDOW
TO SEE HOW IT GOES.
OKAY. SO IT'S LIKE
A TRIAL.
I'M ON A TRIAL BASIS?
OKAY.
FOUR YEARS,
TRIAL BASIS.
IN A WAY,
I GUESS I ALREADY FELT LIKE
WE WERE A COUPLE.
SO, IT'S HURTFUL
TO HEAR.
SO, WHEN YOU GUYS
GET MARRIED,
ARE YOU GONNA GET
MARRIED HERE IN ALBANIA,
OR ARE YOU GONNA GO
TO THE STATES?
YOU KNOW,
I THINK, RIGHT NOW,
IT MAKES MORE SENSE TO PROBABLY
HAVE A WEDDING HERE, FIRST.
SO WHAT'S LIKE
YOUR DREAM WEDDING, TOM?
HAVEN'T REALLYSPENT
THAT MUCH TIME THINKING
ABOUT BEING MARRIED.
I'M NOT SURE ABOUT DARCEY
AND TOM'S CONNECTION JUST YET,
BUT, I THINK HE CAN SENSE
THAT SHE WANTS SOMETHING MORE
AND IT'S SCARING HIM AWAY.
I'M HAPPY
YOU'RE ENGAGED.
YOU REALLY WANT ME HAPPY,
DARCE? I DON'T KNOW.
I WAS THINKING THE SAME
THING ABOUT YOU.
I'VE BEEN ENGAGED
FOR THREE AND A HALF YEARS.
LIKE LET ME ENJOY
THE MOMENT.
YOU CAN'T, CAN YOU?
NO.
I JUST WISH HE'D BE
HONEST WITH HIMSELF
ABOUT IT ALL.
SHE'S JEALOUS.
WHEN IT FEELS EASY,
THAT'S WHEN YOU KNOW
IT'S RIGHT.
REALLY? DON'T TELL ME
ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP.
WHY ARE YOU BEING SO
RUDETO YOUR SISTER?
- SHE NEEDS LOVE.
- I DON'T NEED LOVE.
DON'T MAKE ME LOOK LIKE
A NEEDY WOMAN.
I'VE BEEN STABBED IN THE HEART
SO MANY TIMES.
LIKE, YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND.
I MEAN, THIS IS SUPPOSED
TO BE ABOUT US
AND WE GO AND SPEND
TIME WITH THEM
AND IT'S NOT ROMANTIC.
I FEEL LIKE WE'RE
TWO FRIENDS
ON HOLIDAY TOGETHER.
- I DON'T WANT THAT.
- IT'S NOT SUPPOSED TO BE THAT.
IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE
A NICE, ROMANTIC TIME.
I GET IT.
HE'S NOT A KEPT MAN.
HE NEVER WILL BE.
IF YOU STOP HIM
FROM BEING HIM,
HE WON'T LIKE THAT.
DARCEY, BLESS HER.
I THINK SHE'S QUITE NAIVE,
IF SHE THINKS SHE'S NOT
THE JEALOUS TYPE.
I DON'T THINK
SHE KNOWS HOW TO DEAL
WITH HOW SHE'S FEELING
ABOUT MY BROTHER,
'CAUSE SHE'S IN LOVE
WITH HIM.
IT'S VERY OBVIOUS.
AND I THINK,
IF SHE'S NOT QUITE SURE
WHETHER MY BROTHER WANTS
TO BE WITH HER OR NOT,
THEN I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT
THAT MIGHT UPSET HER.
OKAY. I'M GONNA GO
TO YOU, STACEY.
DURING THAT TRIP TO ALBANIA,
TOM HAD MENTIONED THAT
YOU TWO ARE VERY COMPETITIVE
AND THAT SHE'S JEALOUS
OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH FLORIAN.
DO YOU THINK THAT SHE IS,
THAT SHE WAS TRYING TO PUSH
THE SAME TYPE
OF RELATIONSHIP WITH TOM
THAT YOU HAD WITH FLORIAN?
I MEAN,
I DON'T THINK SHE'S
JEALOUS, PER SE.
- NO.
- NO. I KNOW YOU'RE NOT, DARCE.
- MNH-MNH.
- YOU TELL ME THAT ALL THE TIME.
I don't understand this
at all, to be fair.
I mean, when you
look at the clip,
It's quite obvious
that the only thing
that Darcey seemed to be
bothered about is that,
I don't know if you're
a older or younger sister,
but it's almost as though,
you know,
she should've been the one
first to get engaged.
She should be the one
that's havin'
an engagement party first.
She should be the one who's
getting married first.
- THAT'S KINDA HOW IT CAME OFF.
- NO. I JUST DON'T WANNA SETTLE.
I THINK, BECAUSE I GOT
ENGAGED FAIRLY QUICKLY,
I JUST FEEL LIKE
SHE NEVER REALLY LET ME
ENJOY MY ENGAGEMENT.
AND HAVE YOU EVER...?
- THAT'S ON YOU.
HAVE YOU EVER SAID, "LET'S
THROW AN ENGAGEMENT PARTY,"
OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT?
- NO.
IT'S LIKE YOU DON'T
EVEN WANNA KNOW
- NO.
- THAT FLORIAN AND I EXIST.
YOU DON'T EVEN TELL US
ABOUT IT TOO MUCH.
IT'S OKAY.
YOU DON'T EVER ASK ME
QUESTIONS
ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP.
I DON'T WANNA KNOW ANYTHING
ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
I WANNA FOCUS ON LIKE
- YEAH. SELFISH.
- MY LIFE, TOO.
I WANTED TO GET TO KNOW TOM
ON A DEEPER LEVEL, YOU KNOW.
BUT IT'S LIKE,
YOU KNOW,
WE'RE ALL TOGETHER IN A GROUP,
SO IT'S LIKE, YOU KNOW,
OBVIOUSLY, SHE'S...
I'M HAPPY FOR HER.
SHE'S FOCUSING
ON HER RELATIONSHIP, TOO,
BUT IT WAS JUST LIKE
I FELT LIKE I WAS...
OURS WAS FRESH.
TOM, DID YOU HAVE A RING ON YOU
WHEN SHE CAME TO SEE YOU?
I DID AT ONE
POINT, YEAH.
AND YOU WERE PREPARED
TO GIVE IT TO HER?
I THOUGHT I'D PLANNED OUT
AN EXTREMELY ROMANTIC TRIP
TO A PLACE WHERE
MY FATHER
ASKED MY MOTHER TO MARRY HIM
AND THAT WE WOULD HAVE
AN EXTREMELY ROMANTIC TIME.
- YEAH.
I FELT THAT WAS COMING.
- AND IF, AT THAT POINT,
I FELT AS THOUGH
I WANTED TO PROPOSE,
THEN AT LEAST I WAS
PREPARED FOR THAT MOMENT.
DID YOU KNOW HE HAD A RING
WAITING FOR YOU?
- I JUST FELT IN MY GUT,
LIKE IF WE WENT TO GRAN CANARIA,
SOMETHING MAGICAL
AND SPECIAL
WOULD'VE HAPPENED.
AND THEN WE WENT TO ALBANIA
AND I JUST KINDA
FELT LIKE
WHAT WE HAD GOT SABOTAGED
A LITTLE BIT
AND I DIDN'T REALLY GET
TO FOCUS ON...
SO I RUINED IT
FOR YOU?
- NO. ALBANIA WAS...
- NO, I'M NOT SAYING THAT.
ALBANIA WAS GREAT, STACEY.
- I KNOW.
WE HAD A GREAT TIME.
- I'M NOT TRYING TO KNOCK THAT.
BUT THE WHOLE POINT, YOU KNOW,
WE WANTED TO GO...
YOU WANTED YOUR
"FAIRY-TALE" VACATION
- SURE. WELL, YOU HAD YOURS.
- WITH YOUR PRINCE CHARMING.
- OKAY. IT'S NOT TIT FOR TAT.
- OKAY. WELL, YOU KNOW.
JUST FELT LIKE HE WASN'T
HAVING A GOOD TIME
AND I FELT BAD, YOU KNOW?
MAYBE IT WOULD'VE BEEN
BETTER FOR HIM.
- Is that 'cause you were drunk?
- YEAH. WE WENT OUT A LOT.
- Maybe.
WE LET LOOSE THIS TRIP.
- Thomas has told you
he doesn't find that attractive.
NO, I KNOW. I'M SURE. YEAH.
- Because you're
out of control
when you're drunk.
DO YOU THINK THAT'S TRUE?
DO YOU THINK YOUR SISTER
CHANGES WHEN SHE DRINKS?
I MEAN, WHO DOESN'T,
WHEN THEY HAVE A COUPLE
DRINKS, YOU KNOW?
I MEAN, EVERYBODY DOES.
- I don't.
- WE WERE ALL PARTYING
AND WE WERE ON VACATION,
HAVIN' FUN,
LETTIN' LOOSE, DRUNK,
YOU KNOW.
- TEQUILA SHOTS.
- TOM, YOU WERE DRUNK, TOO.
YEAH. I WAS
DANCING ON BARS.
- DANCING ON BARS.
- WE WERE, YOU KNOW,
HAVIN' FUN.
- STACEY, LET ME ASK YOU THIS.
DO YOU THINK DARCEY IS
BRINGING THE JESSE BAGGAGE
INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP
WITH TOM?
NO. NO. I THINK
SHE'S OVER THAT.
THAT'S THE PAST.
SHE'S LET THAT GO.
I think you've still
got a lot of hangups
about the last relationship
'cause I don't think that
you've let go of that yet.
HOW OFTEN DID YOU TWO
TALK ABOUT JESSE
WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER?
- MOST DAYS.
- MOST DAYS? EVERY SINGLE DAY,
BASICALLY, HE CAME UP.
- YEAH, EVERY DAY.
- NO. I DON'T BELIEVE
THAT'S TRUE.
- YOU DON'T THINK SO, DARCEY?
NO.
NO.
OBVIOUSLY, IT'S
GONNA COME UP AS A TOPIC.
WHAT TO LIKE BEWARE OF,
YOU KNOW.
I UNDERSTOOD WHERE
IT CAME FROM, THOUGH.
RIGHT.
IT WAS THIS FEAR THAT
MAYBE I WAS NOT GONNA BE
QUITE WHAT
SHE THOUGHT I WAS
AND SHE WAS GONNA GET
A REPLICATION
OF WHAT SHE HAD.
- IT HAS TO END,
YOU KNOW.
IT WAS A VICIOUS CYCLE.
I DON'T WANT IT LIKE
LINGERING AROUND ANYMORE.
JESSE, GO ON STAGE.
JUST GET THIS
OVER WITH.
OKAY. I HAVE JUST
BEEN NOTIFIED
THAT THERE IS A LOT GOING ON
IN THE GREEN ROOM.
AND, LATER...
I TRIED, IN MY HEART,
TO BE A MAN
AND TO TRY TO DO
FOR HIS WOMAN
AND TO TRY
TO GET YOU HERE.
MY LAST OPTION WAS
TO SHOW EVERYBODY
HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU
AND THAT'S WHAT IT WAS!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
BEFORE THE 90 DAYS:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
WE'RE HERE WITH TOM, DARCEY,
STACEY, AND EMMA,
AND WE'VE BEEN
DISCUSSING JESSE,
WHO IS NOT YET FULLY
OUT OF THE PICTURE.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK.
HERE'S TO LOVE, LIFE,
AND HAPPINESS, GIRLS.
- RIGHT.
- TO BEING ABLE TO HAVE A DRINK
WITHOUT SOMEONE
CALLING YOU AN ALCOHOLIC.
EXACTLY.
OH!
JESSE, JESSE, JESSE.
IF I HAD A GLASS OF WINE OR TWO,
HE THOUGHT I WAS AN "ALCOHOLIC."
AND I JUST WANNA
ASK YOU
TO NEVER DRINK AGAIN.
- YEAH, KEEP DRINKING, DARCEY.
- REALLY?
I DON'T DRINK, HONEY.
- HIDE PROBLEMS.
-REALLY? GO TELL YOURSELF
-YEAH, GET ARRESTED
- THAT, JESSE.
- ONE MORE TIME.
I BASICALLY GAVE UP DRINKING
FOR HIM FOR TWO YEARS.
I THOUGHT MAKING THAT
IMPROVEMENT ABOUT MYSELF
WOULD IMPROVE OUR RELATIONSHIP,
BUT IT WAS JUST ABOUT CONTROL.
GUESS WHO CALLS AT 3:00
IN THE MORNING.
HERE HE IS.
MISSED CALL FROM JESSE,
3:13 AM.
I DON'T TALK
TO JESSE ANYMORE
BECAUSE, EVERY TIME HE REACHES
OUT, IT'S TO ANTAGONIZE ME.
SEEING THAT POP UP,
IT BROUGHT BACK WEIRD
FLASHBACKS OF THE PAST.
THE WHOLE THING'S
LIKE DRAINING.
- IT IS DRAINING.
- I DON'T WANNA LIKE
LISTEN TO IT
ANYMORE.
WOW. THAT WAS SOME
ROUGHTALK ABOUT JESSE.
DO YOU THINK THAT TOM
IS A BETTER MATCH FOR HER
THAN JESSE WAS?
YEAH. YEAH. ANYTHING'S
BETTER THAN JESSE.
WHY DO YOU SAY THAT?
UM...
IT'S KINDA OBVIOUS.
HE'S JUST...
I THINK HE LOVES HIMSELF
MORE THAN ANYTHING
ELSE ON THIS EARTH.
HE'S JUST VERY
SELF-ABSORBED
AND NEVER LOVED
MY SISTER.
SO, DARCEY, WHEN WAS THE LAST
TIME YOU'VE SPOKEN TO JESSE?
- THE TELL-ALL.
- THAT WAS THE LAST TIME?
- YEAH, IT WAS JUST PHONE CALLS.
- LAST YEAR?
YEAH.
IN THE SUMMER, HE REACHED OUT
A COUPLE TIMES.
SO THE LAST TIME YOU SPOKE,
HEREACHED OUT TO YOU?
UM, YEAH.
AND, WHEN HE WOULD REACH
OUT TO YOUFIRST,
- HE HAS, YEAH. STACEY WAS THERE.
- WHY WOULD HE BE
REACHING OUT?
- I HAD HIM ON SPEAKER.
HE EVEN SAID HE WAS GONNA
BOOK A FLIGHT TO CONNECTICUT.
I KEPT SAYING NO, 'CAUSE HE
SAID HE WANTED TO MEDIATE IT,
BUT I, YOU KNOW.
- AND YOU KNOW HE'S HERE, RIGHT?
- YEAH.
MENTALLY PREPARED FOR THAT.
HE CAN SAY WHATEVER
BAD HE WANTS.
IT'S GONNA HAPPEN.
POOR DARCEY, MAN.
SHE JUST ALWAYS GETS
Avery: YEP.
AT THAT POINT,
I WANTED TO BE LEFT ALONE
AND I WAS LIKE HAPPY
BEING "SINGLE,"
READY TO MINGLE, YOU KNOW?
JESSE JUST TRASHED HER
ONLINE LIKE FOUR
OR FIVE DAYS AGO.
- ARE YOU SERIOUS?
- I MEAN, TRASHEDHER.
- WHAT'D HE SAY?
- TALKIN' ABOUT HOW
SHE OWED HIM MONEY
OR SOMETHIN'.
JESSE WAS JUST LOOKING
FOR PROBLEMS.
LET'S GO!
WERE THERE PHONE CALLS?
YEAH. JUST LET IT GO.
IT'S JUST GONNA
KEEP ON GOING, BUT,
TODAY'S THE DAY
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
HE DOES NOT WANT HER
TO BE HAPPY,
SO, IF HE SEES HER
BEING LIKE HAPPY
WITH SOMEONE ELSE,
HE'S GONNA TRY TO GET
IN BETWEEN THAT
YEAH, FOR SURE.AND THEN LEAVE.
OH, HE'S SUCH A...
HE'S DOWNSTAIRS?
WHERE'S HE AT?
I HAVEN'T SEEN HIM.
I WANNA GO TALK
TO HIM LIKE.
- HEY. OH, MY GOSH.
- NICE TO SEE YOU.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU.
- OH, MY GOD.
- HOW ARE YOU?
HE JUST
PISSES ME OFF.
YEAH,
I CAN'T STANDHIM.
OH!
HELLO!
JESSE'S HERE.
HI.
HI, ANGELA.
- JESSE, HI.
- THIS IS CAESAR.
BENJAMIN.
- NICE TO MEET YOU, MAN.
I'M JESSE. HI.
- NICE TO MEET YOU.
SO NICE TO MEET YOU.
- IT'S OKAY.
OH, NO HANDS?
OKAY, OF COURSE. YEAH.
I DON'T WANNA MEET YOU,
EITHER, MAN.
ALRIGHT.
NICE TO MEET YOU, THOUGH.
WHY ARE YOU HERE,
THOUGH? LIKE.
- WHY AM I HERE?
- YEAH.
I AM HERE TO LIKE TALK
ABOUT MY PERSONAL
JOURNEY HERE IN THE U.S.
I'M NOT GOING
UP WITH HER.
I'M JUST GOING UP
SEPARATE.
BUT NICE
TO MEET YOU GUYS.
GOOD TO BE HERE.
I'M NOT TRYING
TO JUDGE YOU OFF THE BAT
BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW
YOU IN PERSON,
BUT, AS WHAT I'VE SEEN,
YOU REALLY MANIPULATED HER.
I MEAN, I DO
ONLY KNOW ONE SIDE,
BUT, HONESTLY,
LIKE LOOKING AT YOU,
I DON'T THINK
YOU SHOULD BE HERE.
YOU DON'T THINK YOU
BEIN' HERE IS KIND OF
UP DARCEY'S
NEW RELATIONSHIP?
NO, BECAUSE I'M NOT
TALKING ABOUT HER.
I READ A POST FROM YOU
THREE DAYS AGO
WHERE YOU WERE
TALKIN' ABOUT HER.
THEY'RE LIKE HAVING
RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
BECAUSE YOUR NAME
- YEAH.
- AND THEN YOU SHOW UP HERE.
IT JUST SEEMS LIKE
YOU WANT THEM
TO HAVE PROBLEMS.
SHE'S GOT
A NEW BOYFRIEND.
THAT'S GOTTA MAKE
THE BOTH OF THEM
SUPER UNCOMFORTABLE.
- HONESTLY,
I DON'T LIKE
TO JUDGE PEOPLE,
BUT I ALSO SEE DARCEY
YEAH.
AND HOW SHE IS NOW
AND, TO BE HONEST,
I BLAME YOU.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT
YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND,
THAT I'M NOT HERE
FOR THEM.
I'M HERE TO TALK ABOUT MY...
- BUT IT DOESN'T MATTER.
I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT HER.
SHE TALKS ABOUT ME.
- YEAH, IT'S SELFISH, MAN.
- YOU DON'T HAVE TO BELIEVE ME,
-NO, I DON'T, AND IT'S SELFISH
-BUT,
-BECAUSE SHE'S SITTING HERE
-THAT'S WHAT I SAID.
STILL CRYING ABOUT THAT
THAT'S WHY -
AND THEN YOU'RE HERE
BECAUSE YOU WANNA TALK
ABOUT YOURSELF?
LOOK WHAT YOU'RE
DOING TO HER.
- NOT TALK ABOUT MYSELF.
I DO THINK SHE'S
STILL AFFECTED BY ACTIONS
CREATED BY HIM
AND IF SHE FEELS...
SHE'S ALMOST LIKE WAITING
FOR THAT NEGATIVE RESPONSE,
SO THEN SHE'S ON EDGE.
I WANT THE PAST TO BE THE PAST
AND I DON'T WANT
ALL THAT TOXICITY
OUT THERE IN THE UNIVERSE.
I DON'T LIKE BAD BLOOD
IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS.
I WANNA MOVE ON
AND MOVE FORWARD.
TOM, DO YOU THINK DARCEY
STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR JESSE?
I DON'T THINK SHE DOES.
EMOTIONALLY, I'M DONE.
LIKE I WOULD NEVER GO BACK
IN THAT RELATIONSHIP.
JUST WANT PEACE.
WISH HIM WELL.
HE COULD SAY WHATEVER
BAD HE WANTS.
THE FACT THAT YOU THINK
THAT I'M HERE FOR THEM,
I THINK,
IS YOURPROBLEM.
-HOW DO YOU NOT SEE
-BRO.
- THAT YOU'RE ADDING DRAMA?
- HOW?
YOU THINK YOU'RE DOIN'
SOME GOOD DEED
-HOW?
-FOR THE WORLD
-EXCUSE ME.
- EXCUSE ME.
- BECAUSE YOU'RE HERE.
THIS AIN'T NONE
OF MY BUSINESS
AND IT AIN'T NONE
OF YOURBUSINESS
AND IT AIN'T NONE OF
YOURBUSINESS.
STAY IN YOUR
LANE, DUDE.
DON'T. Y'ALL
BULLYING THIS MAN.
THAT'S BETWEEN JESSE...
- LISTEN.
I'M STICKING UP FOR A FRIEND.
- YOU LISTEN!
I HAVE SIX GRANDKIDS!
YOU LISTEN!
YOU'RE A BEAUTIFUL GIRL.
YOU GOT ENOUGH
GOIN' ON IN YOURLIFE
TO NOT WORRY ABOUT HIM
AND DARCEY!
YOUSAY YOU'RE
A MUSLIM?
I CAN'T TELL
AT THIS MOMENT!
- I AM A MUSLIM.
- NO, YOU'RE NOT!
YOU'RE SITTING THERE
CONDUCTING YOURSELF
NOT LIKE A LADY! BUT,
AT THE END OF THE DAY...
TOM?! I LOVE TOM!
- YEAH.
BUT I'M NOT GONNA
SIT HERE
AND HEAR Y'ALL
JUMP THIS MAN
BECAUSE, AT THE END
OF THE DAY,
YOU DON'T REALLY KNOW
WHAT NEITHER ONE OF 'EM
WENT THROUGH.
JUST LIKE
YOU DON'T KNOW ME!
YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M
GOING THROUGH WITH MICHAEL.
ALL I'M SAYIN'
IS STOP!
STOP!
AND I HOPE YOU WASN'T
IN ON THIS
- I WASN'T.
- THANK GOD!
'CAUSE IT DOESN'T
MAKE NO SENSE.
- WELL, IN THIS...
- SOMETIMES YOU NEED
TO JUST HUSH!
HUSH!
- CAN I TALK? CAN I TALK, PLEASE?
- NO!
- WHY?
- HUSH.
- WHY? ACTUALLY,
- WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF.
- I'M ALLOWED TO TALK.
OKAY. I HAVE JUST BEEN
NOTIFIED BY THE PRODUCER
THAT THERE IS A LOT GOING ON
IN THE GREEN ROOM.
IT SEEMS THERE'S
A LOT OF ARGUING
BETWEEN JESSE
AND EVERYONE ELSE.
- WOW.
- FIGURED THAT WAS GONNA HAPPEN.
NOTHING ELSE YOU CAN REALLY SAY.
HE'S GONNA TURN IT AROUND, BUT,
- YEAH.
- IT'S OKAY.
BLAME ME, FOR ANYTHING
AND EVERYTHING.
- LET ME SAY SOMETHING, THEN.
- BULLYING IS NOT
GONNA HAPPEN
WHILE I'M AROUND.
DARCEY HAS A MAN!
LET HIM DO
WHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO.
- BUT, ANGELA,
I'VE HAD TO HEAR
ABOUT IT ALL DAY.
I'M TIRED OF IT.
EVERYBODY'S TIRED OF IT.
HE NEEDS TO FIX...
JUST GO HANDLE IT!
THAT'S WHAT HE'S
GONNA DO!
JESSE, STAND UP,
-I APPRECIATE YOU STANDING UP.
GO ON STAGE,
-MM-HMM.
AND JUST GET THIS
OVER WITH, MAN.
BUT IT'S NONE
OF OUR BUSINESS.
YOU HAVE A RIGHT
TO GET ON THAT STAGE.
I SAY GET IT
OVER WITH, JESSE.
I SAY GET IT
OVER WITH, JESSE.
YEAH.
I'M COMING OUT
WHEN THEY'RE GONE
BECAUSE I'M NOT
HERE FOR THEM.
I DON'T WANNA SEE HER.
I'M NOT HERE FOR HER.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN
TO ME, JESSE.
I KNOW.
OKAY. JESSE HAS SAID
THAT HE DOES NOT WANT TO TALK
TO YOU, DARCEY;
OR YOU, TOM.
SO, WE'RE GONNA LET YOU
GO IN THE BACK
AND WE'RE GONNA BRING ALL THE
OTHER COUPLES OUT ONTO THE SET.
EMMA, THANK YOU
SO MUCH FOR JOINING US.
STACEY, THANK YOU
FOR JOINING US.
OKAY.
- THANK YOU.
- THANK YOU, DARCE.
GO BACK TO THE WIDE SETUP.
- LISTEN. JESSE.
- I'M TIRED OF HEARIN' IT.
I'M DOWN THERE
AND I CAN
- JESSE.
- HEAR Y'ALL ATTACKING THIS MAN.
Y'ALL DON'T HAVE NO RIGHT
TELLIN' THIS MAN
TO FIX NOTHIN'. WE CAN'T FIX
OUR OWN DAMN LIVES.
THAT DON'T MAKE
NO SENSE, TIM.
BULLYING IS NOTWHAT
I WAS TRYING TO DO.
I KNOW, BUT, SWEETHEART,
I AM NOT HERE FOR THEM,
SO I DON'T WANNA TALK ABOUT HER.
- I KNOW, BUT LISTEN.
DAMN.
THE LAST THING
I WANNA DO
IS TRIGGER HER
TO TEXT ME AGAIN
AND TO CALL ME AGAIN
BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT
SHE'S BEEN DOING,
UNTIL LAST MONTH,
FOR OVER TWO
TO THREE YEARS.
NO, I WANNA HEAR IT
WITH DARCEY!
GET TO THE
TRUTH ABOUT IT
BECAUSE, NOW,
HE'S SAYING
COMPLETELY SEPARATE
THAN HER.
- YES.
- I'M SICK OF IT!
OKAY. CAN I TALK
TO YOU, SIR, HERE?
I THOUGHT YOU WERE COMING
HERE TO START DRAMA,
OKAY?
- NO. ABSOLUTELY NOT.
AND DARCEY IS SO NICE,
I FELT LIKE SHE
DID NOT DESERVE THAT.
I UNDERSTAND
YOU ONLY HAVE ONE SIDE
OF A STORY,
SO I CAN'T JUDGE THAT.
I DON'T PUT UP
WITH LIKE MANIPULATIVE
BECAUSE I'VE BEEN THROUGH
AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP.
YEAH.
EXACTLY.
AND THAT'S WHY
I WANNA LIKE,
DISTANCE MYSELF.
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
I STILL DON'T TRUST YOU,
BUT...
YEAH, NO. IT'S OKAY.
WHAT'S YOUR NAME AGAIN?
SORRY, I DIDN'T...
- AVERY.
- ALRIGHT. THANK YOU.
APPRECIATE THAT.
YEAH.
THANK YOU.
STOP. STOP, STOP,
STOP, STOP, STOP.
IT'S ALREADY
BEEN A LOT.
I KNOW!
YOU'VE ALREADY GOT
ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH, OKAY?
JUST CALM DOWN.
YOU GOT THIS.
WE'RE FINE.
I'M NOT A BULLY!
I'M NOT TRYIN'
TO PORTRAY MYSELF BADASS.
I'M NOT!
I'M NOT A BADASS.
BUT I'M ONE THAT WILL
FIGHT FOR RIGHTNESS
AND I WILL.
AND I WILL DO IT AGAIN.
THIS
I'M TIRED OF
WE GOT TO STAY STRONG
AS WOMEN TOGETHER.
YEAH. I DON'T WANNA
COME OFF LIKE A BULLY.
NO.
NO, NO, NO, HONEY.
I THINK PEOPLE
SEE THROUGH HIM
AND HE DOESN'T
LIKE THAT.
WHAT HE DID WAS WRONG
AND HE DESERVES TO BE TOLD
THAT THAT IS WRONG
FOR WHAT HE DID.
- THAT'S WHAT I FELT, TOO.
- AND THE FIRST TIME SOMEONE
STANDS UP TO HIM,
THEN YOU'RE BULLYING HIM.
I FELT LIKE I WAS
IN YOUR SITUATION
- YEAH.
- WHEN I SEEN IT.
- THANK YOU.
- SO LIKE I WANTED
TO STICK UP FOR YOU.
- THANK YOU.
APPRECIATE THAT.
- I'VE BEEN THROUGH
- YEAH, YEAH.
- A RELATIONSHIP.
- YEAH. I KNOW.
- LIKE I SEE.
IT'S NOT EASY.
I KNOW.
- AND FOR HIM TO COME HERE,
IT WAS LIKE I FELT LIKE
HE WAS TRYIN'
TO HURT YOU TWO,
WHERE YOU GUYS
DESERVE HAPPINESS.
YEAH.
AND I'M REALLY
SENSITIVE, LIKE YOU.
SO I UNDERSTAND.
- YEAH, NO. I FEEL YOU.
- I CRY AS MUCH AS YOU DO.
- I FEEL THIS ENERGY.
APPRECIATE IT.
YOU'RE IN A HEALTHY,
HAPPY RELATIONSHIP.
I'M PROUD OF YOU.
- THANK YOU.
- SKYLA, YOU GOTTA GO
BACK THAT WAY.
- OKAY.
- YEAH. YOU KNOW WHAT?
- I DON'T KNOW.
I'M JUST...
- SO, CAESAR, YOU'RE HERE.
- AND YOU WERE HERE, RIGHT?
- WE'RE GONNA HAVE YOU THERE.
- GREAT.
HAVE A SEAT.
YEAH, HAVE A SEAT.
- YOU WANT ME TO ADD THE...
- NO, I'M COOL. THANK YOU.
- MARK.
- GREAT.
ROLLING! QUIET, PLEASE.
OKAY. SO I WAS OUT HERE.
I WAS INTERVIEWING DARCEY
AND TOM AND STACEY
AND TOM'S SISTER EMMA.
WHAT HAPPENED?
ME.
TO BE HONEST, YEAH,
I DID COME OFF
JESSE STRONG,
WHICH WE ALL WERE,
BUT THAT'S BECAUSE...
DO YOU NEED TIME
TO GO CRY?
MNH-MNH.
I'M NOT BEIN' MEAN TO YOU,
BUT DO YOU NEED TIME TO GO CRY?
BECAUSE WHAT I SAW
BACK THERE
IS Y'ALL...
- I'M NOT CRYING OVER YOU.
BUT I'M SAYIN'.
YOU'RE NOT. YOU AIN'T.
I KNOW THAT.
I'M NOT CRYING
OVER THE BULLYING THING
'CAUSE I STILL THINK
I'M RIGHT.
WELL, YOU'RE GOING TO
'CAUSE YOU SAY
THAT ALL IN YOUR STATEMENTS
WHEN YOU DO WHO YOU ARE.
YOU'RE GONNA DO
WHAT YOU WANT.
YOU SAY THAT ABOUT YOUR
MOM, EVERYTHING ELSE.
I'M NOT HERE TO DO THAT
TO JUDGE YOU.
I HAVE MY OWN PROBLEMS.
- NO.
- LISTEN. THERE YOU GO.
YOU DON'T LISTEN.
- NO, THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING.
YOU DON'T LISTEN.
YOU'RE TALKING AND I...
- I DON'T NEED...
- I DON'T NEED IT!
I'M TAKIN' CARE
OF SIX GRANDKIDS!
I DON'T NEED NO ONE
SITTIN' BESIDE ME CRYIN'
WHEN THEY STARTED THAT.
I HEARD YOU AND EVERYBODY
ELSE DOWN THE HALL.
I DIDN'T WANNA
GET IN IT.
I HAVE MY OWN BATTLES.
- I ATTACKED HIM.
- BUT YOU DID GET IN IT.
I WAS THE ONE
SCREAMIN', NOT HER.
LISTEN, PLEASE STAY
OVER THERE.
ARE YOU REALLY
LIKE THIS, ANGELA?!
PLEASE BE MORE RESPECTFUL TO HER
BECAUSE OF HER AGE.
- LISTEN!
SHE'S A MARRIED WOMAN
AND NOW'S THE TIME TO...
- IT DOESN'T MATTER.
- LISTEN!
- IT'S NOT EVEN ABOUT MY AGE.
- SHE'S SITTING NEXT TO YOU...
- LISTEN!
SHUT THE UP!
PLEASE BE MORE RESPECTFUL TO HER
BECAUSE OF HER AGE.
- LISTEN!
SHE'S A MARRIED WOMAN
AND NOW'S THE TIME TO...
- IT DOESN'T MATTER.
- LISTEN!
- IT'S NOT EVEN ABOUT MY AGE.
- SHE'S SITTING NEXT TO YOU...
- LISTEN!
SHUT THE UP!
-DO NOTTALK TO SOMEONE
-YOU SHUT UP!
- LIKE THAT.
- PUT THAT DAMN FINGER DOWN!
DON'T YOU PUT YOUR FINGER
IN MY FACE, LITTLE GIRL.
- I LIKED YOU!
- OKAY.
YOU CAN'T HANDLE IT,
DON'T DO IT.
- I DON'T CARE.
- LISTEN.
- THIS IS NOT OKAY.
- NOBODY TOOK UP FOR JESSE
WHEN JESSE WAS BACK
THERE, ATTACKED!
YOU WASN'T THERE!
- CALM. DOWN.
DON'T YOU TELL ME
TO CALM THE DOWN.
DON'T TALK TO ME,
- LISTEN!
- OR HER, LIKE THAT.
THEN SHUT YOUR MOUTH!
I WASTALKING TO HER!
- I WANNA KNOW...
I WANNA KNOW...
LADIES, LADIES,
- WHAT DO YOU WANNA DO?
- I'M NOT GOING
- WHAT DO YOU WANNA DO?
- TO DO THIS WITH YOU.
- BACK. UP!
- YOU BETTER BACK ME UP.
ARE YOU TRASHY
LIKE THIS FOR REAL?
- OH, YOU BETTER BELIEVE IT!
- GUYS.
- I'M NOT GONNA LOWER MYSELF.
- ALL DAY LONG!
- GUYS.
- ALL... DAY... LONG.
-I'M NOT GONNA LOWER MYSELF
-I AM TRASHY,
- TO YOUR LEVEL.
- ALL DAY LONG.
- YOU NEED TO CALM. DOWN.
- YOU NEED TO KISS MY ASS!
- LADIES.
- OKAY, WHO'S BULLYING WHO?
KISS MY ASS. NO, 'CAUSE
YOU'RE THE STARTED.
TAKE YOUR ASS AND SIT DOWN.
BOO HOO.
DAMN, THIS IS
INSANE, BRO.
YOU OKAY?
TERI.
PLEASE. YOU WANT A WAR?
WELL, BRING IT.
BRING JESSE BACK IN HERE.
LISTEN, WHO ARE YOU?
- GUYS, CALM DOWN.
I WAS TRYING TO TALK NICE
TO YOUR DAUGHTER.
- YOU'RE BEING VERY RUDE.
- Y'ALL DIDN'T DO THIS TO JESSE!
- YOU'RE BEING VERY RUDE.
- YOU BETTER GET ONE
OF THESE BITCHES, BECAUSE YOU
DIDN'T GO TELL HER TO STOP
TALKING TO JESSE LIKE THAT
-I DID, ACTUALLY.
WHILE HE WAS IN TEARS.
- CAN WE MAKE HER STOP?
- AVERY. PLEASE...
- THIS IS NOT WHY I'M
JUST PLEASE SIT DOWN.
I WAS STICKING UP
FOR HER. NO.
PLEASE, PLEASE,
PLEASE, BACK UP.
YOU CAUSED ALL THIS
TEAR-EYED.
GO CRY YOU A RIVER.
GROW UP.
YOU'RE MARRIED WOMAN NOW.
- I AM A MARRIED WOMAN.
- YOU'RE A MARRIED WOMAN.
- GROW THE UP.
- AND I WAS STICKING UP
FOR DARCEY BECAUSE...
GROW THE UP.
SHE DON'T EVEN KNOW
NOTHING ABOUT DARCEY!
THAT
TOM CAN TAKE UP
FOR DARCEY WITH JESSE!
HE DON'T NEED A LITTLE GIRL
TAKING UP FOR HIS WOMAN
'CAUSE TOM CAN HANDLE JESSE!
- OKAY, GUYS.
- SHE IS NOTWORTH IT.
- LET'S TAKE A SEAT.
- THIS ISN'T YOU.
- I KNOW.
- HEY!
- JUST SIT DOWN.
- I KNOW. I'M SITTING DOWN.
- I LOVE YOU.
- I KNOW.
DON'T WORRY.
- REBECCA.
NO, BUT...
REBECCA, SIT DOWN.
AVERY.
- AVERY, CHILL.
JUST...
THIS IS A LOT.
I'M SORRY.
THAT IS NOTWORTH IT.
JUST TAKE A MOMENT.
BUT...
DO YOU WANNA GO
AND GET A CIGARETTE?
HEY, IT'S NOT WORTH IT, GUYS.
GUYS, IT'S NOT WORTH IT!
- WE'LL GO AND HAVE A CIGARETTE.
- PLEASE! IT'S NOT WORTH IT!
I DON'T LIKE
PEOPLE FIGHTING LIKE THIS.
IT'S NOT WORTH IT.
LISTEN. TOM,
YOU'RE A GENTLEMAN
AND I LOVE YOU
AND I LOVE DARCEY.
YOU WOULDN'T LIKE NOBODY
GANGIN' UP ON NOBODY.
THAT'S BULLYIN'.
I HEARD ENOUGH OF IT.
I SAID,
"LET TOM HANDLE HIM."
RIGHT? RIGHT?
I THINK YOU CAN
HANDLE YOURSELF!
- OF COURSE.
- I AIN'T NO BULLY.
- I'M REAL!
- YOU WANNA
I DON'T WANT
ANYONE FIGHTING, GUYS.
DARCEY, IT AIN'T
'CAUSEOF YOU, BABY.
- COME ON, LET'S RELAX.
- IT'S NOT BECAUSE OF YOU.
BUT I BELIEVE TOM
CAN TAKE UP FOR YOU
WITH JESSE.
THAT'S STUPID.
AND THEN,
WE'RE ALL IN THIS
TOGETHER.
NEVER FELT SO STRONG
ABOUT TOM AND YOU
AND...
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
YOU'RE 19, BUT,
WHEN YOU CROSS THE LINE
IN THERE, YOU CROSSED IT.
- YEAH.
I'M A GROWN WOMAN.
DON'T CROSS IT.
- AVERY, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
- JUST TAKE A MOMENT.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
OKAY?
YOU CANNOT START A FIGHT
IF YOU CAN'T FINISH IT.
OKAY.
SO, WHAT HAPPENED?
I DON'T TALK ABOUT MY PAST
BECAUSE I'VE BEEN
IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE
DARCEY AND JESSE,
BUT WAY WORSE,
TO BE HONEST.
I SEE LIKE
JESSE MORE
AS LIKE THAT GUY,
THAT DID IT TO ME.
PERSONALLY, THAT'S
WHAT I GOT FROM HIM
AND I HAD THE RIGHT
TO EXPRESS MY OPINION.
OKAY, BUT WHAT HAPPENED
BACKSTAGE? I'M STILL TRYING
TO FIGURE OUT...
- JESSE WALKED IN THE ROOM,
TRYING TO SHAKE HANDS
AND I'M JUST LIKE,
"IT'S DISRESPECTFUL
TO BE HERE.
LIKE YOU'RE CAUSING DRAMA
WITH DARCEY.
YOU'RE CAUSING DRAMA
WITH TOM."
IT'S JUST SETTING
A BAD ATMOSPHERE AROUND HERE.
LIKE THEY'RE TRYING TO MOVE ON.
- SO YOU REFUSED TO SHAKE
JESSE'S HAND?
- WE BOTH DID.
I DIDN'T FEEL
IT WAS RIGHT
BECAUSE IT WOULD BE
HYPOCRITICAL
TO BE WITH DARCEY
AND THEN COME IN
AND JUST BE LIKE,
"HEY, WHAT'S UP JESSE?"
YOU KNOW, THAT'S LIKE,
"OH, YOU'RE
BEST FRIENDS WITH ME.
- WE'VE ALREADY SLAMMED HIM,
SO I'M NOT GONNA
GO BACK ON MY WORD.
HE'S LIKE,
"I'M NOT HERE FOR DARCEY."
WELL, IT DOESN'T MATTER
IF YOU'RE HERE
- TO SWEEP THE FLOOR.
- NO OTHER REASON
THAT HE WOULD BE HERE.
- IT'S STILL AFFECTING HER,
WHETHER YOU'RE HERE
FOR HER OR NOT.
OKAY. BENJAMIN,
FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE,
WHAT HAPPENED BACKSTAGE?
YOU KNOW, WE STARTED OFF
WITH A GOOD CONVERSATION
AND WE WERE GOIN'...
- NOT ME.
WE WERE BEING RESPECTFUL,
AT FIRST.
WE HAD A RESPECTFUL
CONVERSATION.
- I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR HIM.
- AND I EVEN LIKE...
BUT YOU STARTED OFF
AT A GOOD POINT
AND THEN,
IT WENT DOWNHILL.
THE CONVERSATION THEN
JUST STARTED GETTING
INTO MORE OF A YELLING
MATCH THAN ANYTHING.
BETWEEN WHO?
TIM AND JESSE WERE REALLY
GOIN' AT EACH OTHER
AND THEN, OUT OF NOWHERE,
-BUT...
HERE COMES ANGELA,
LIKE A WRECKIN' BALL,
JUST RIGHT INTO THE
MIDDLE OF THE ROOM
AND SHE'S,
"EFF YOU, EFF YOU,
EFF YOU, EFF YOU.
- SCREAMING.
"YOU'RE A PIECE OF TRASH.
YOU'RE NOT DOING
THINGS RIGHT."
AND SHE'S JUST JUDGING EVERYBODY
IN THE ROOM LIKE WE'RE...
NO, BUT SHE WAS
DEFENDING JESSE.
- BUT, STILL.
- WHICH IS FINE,
SHE HAS A RIGHT TO, BUT.
- SHE COMES FLYING IN,
OFF-HANDLE.
EVERYTHING THAT LITTLE GIRL
HAD SAID ON THE THING
IS
I BELIEVE NOTHIN'
SHE SAYS.
I'M SORRY
FOR THE WAY I ACTED,
BUT I'M NOT SORRY
FOR WHAT I SAID
BECAUSE, AT THE END OF THE DAY
I DIDN'T DO THIS.
AND, NOW, I LOOK LIKE
THE BULLY WITH HER.
OKAY. CAESAR, FROM YOUR
PERSPECTIVE, WHAT HAPPENED?
IT JUST BROUGHT
AN EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER
WHEN HE CAME
INTO THE ROOM.
THAT'S ALL IT WAS.
BECAUSE A LOTTA PEOPLE
ARE SENSITIVE
AND THEY WANNA GET
THAT OUT, YOU KNOW?
BECAUSE OF THE SITUATION
DARCEY'S IN.
WHY COME HERE AND TRY
TO START DRAMA
WITH DARCEY AND TOM?
THAT JUST KIND OF SHOWS
THAT YOU'RE TRYING
TO GET IN BETWEEN IT.
- I TRY TO UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING
THAT'S GOING ON
AND I FEEL LIKE,
YOU KNOW, EVERYONE'S KIND OF...
- DID YOU SEE AND HEAR
PEOPLE FIGHTING BACKSTAGE?
I HEARD THAT THERE WAS
SOME ARGUING
IN THE BACK AND STUFF
AND, YOU KNOW, BASED OFF
OF MY RELATIONSHIP
WITH JESSE, AND I GUESS...
WAS HE BACK THERE?
FROM WHAT I HEAR... I WASN'T
IN THE ROOM AT THE TIME...
EVEN THOUGH AVERY
WAS KIND OF BEING
- NO, AVERY WAS BEING RESPECTFUL.
- HARSH ABOUT IT,
SHE WAS STILL BEING RESPECTFUL.
- SHE WAS RESPECTFUL, YEAH.
IT'S JUST NOT WORTH IT.
IT'S NOT WORTH IT, GUYS.
- RIGHT. RIGHT.
- IT'S NOT WORTH IT.
AND I THINK IT'S
A RELATABLE STORY
BECAUSE, YOU KNOW,
A LOT OF PEOPLE
HAVE BEEN PROBABLY
AFFECTED LIKE THAT
IN THEIR OWN LIVES,
IN THEIR OWN
RELATIONSHIPS, YOU KNOW?
AND I APPRECIATE
ALL YOU GUYS,
YOU KNOW, COMING TO MY
DEFENSE AND STUFF.
I JUST DON'T WANT
ANYBODY HURT.
IT'S JUST LIKE,
WHEN I WENT
THROUGH IT,
IT WAS, UM...
NO ONE BELIEVED ME,
SO, I FEEL THE SAME.
- YEAH. NO, I UNDERSTAND.
AND THAT'S HARD, TO GO
-AND THAT'S WHAT SUCKS.
THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
- LIKE I JUST KEEP ON
- THINKING ABOUT IT.
- OKAY.
OKAY, AVERY, YOU TAKE A BREATH.
WE'RE GOING TO TAKE A BREAK
AND WE'RE GOING TO BRING ALL
OF THE PARTNERS BACK.
ALRIGHT. THANK YOU.
APPRECIATE IT.
THIS IS NOT
WHAT WE HAD INTENDED.
WE WANTED
A CONVERSATION ABOUT
THE RELATIONSHIP
BETWEEN DARCEY AND TOM.
SO, WE'RE GONNA TAKE
A SHORT BREAK
AND WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK.
SHE'S CRAZY.
ALRIGHT, GUYS, WE'RE
GONNA DO SOME RESETTING,
SO, IF YOU WANNA
POP OUT, OKAY?
OH. NO, I APPRECIATE
IT. THANK YOU.
TO START FIGHTING LIKE THAT,
IT'S NOT OKAY, IN MY BOOK.
YOU CAN SPEAK UP
WITHOUT HAVING TO CURSE
AND BE JUST DISGUSTING.
OOH!
IT'S HEARTBREAKING TO SEE
SOMEBODY GO THROUGH THAT.
YOU OKAY?
JUST LIKE EMOTIONAL
AND I THINK IT'S JUST
'CAUSE IT'S SO MUCH.
THE WORLD'S BROKEN ALREADY.
WE NEED TO LOVE PEOPLE,
RATHER THAN HATE PEOPLE, SO.
I'M TIRED OF IT.
I'M TIRED OF REBECCA'S
MOUTH ALL DAY.
I'VE HEARD IT
AND I'M SICK OF IT.
WOW.
I'M NOT GONNA BE OUT THERE
WITH HER, RIGHT?
THEY'RE GONNA
MOVE YOU.
SHE'S STILL GOING
TRY SOMETHING.
YOU KNOW WHAT?
WHEN YOU BRING IT TO ME,
I'LL BRING IT BACK.
DON'T TALK TO HER.
AVERY,
- YOU GUYS GONNA STAY SEPARATE.
- PROMISE ME.
SEPARATE.
AND I WANT YOU
TO NOT FEED INTO HER.
IF YOU NEED TO GO PRAY-
-I THINK I HAVE TO PRAY SALAH.
YEAH.
- SERIOUSLY.
OKAY.
GIVE ME ONE MOMENT.
HE CAME TO REALLY
SHAME AND BASH.
THAT'S WHY HE CAME.
HER STORIES
DOESN'T MATCH UP
WITH REALITY.
THAT IS JUST
THE TRUTH.
I COULD BACK IT UP,
ALL.
AND, LATER...
CAESAR, WHAT PICTURE
ARE WE NOT SEEING?
THE THING THAT I SEE
IS THAT THEY DON'T KNOW
HER LIKE I KNOW HER
AND IS ACTUALLY
LIKE A REAL PERSON.
- RIGHT.
- I DON'T WANNA BE RUDE,
BUT IT JUST SEEMS LIKE
YOU'RE STILL
DEFENDING HER.
YOU GOT SCAMMED.
THAT'S IT.
I JUST DON'T WANT
ANYONE HURT
OR AFFECTED BY THIS
'CAUSE IT'S... TOO TOXIC.
LET HIM BLOW HIS
SMOKE UP HIS OWN ASS.
ALRIGHT, GUYS, LET'S RESET.
WE'RE BRINGING OUT
JESSE SOLO.
- HEY, JESSE.
- HEY.
LONG TIME NO SEE.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN.
HAS IT BEEN A YEAR?
- I DON'T EVEN KNOW.
- HAS IT BEEN?
MIGHT'VE BEEN A YEAR.
IT'S GOOD TO BE
BACK, THOUGH.
ALRIGHT, HERE WE GO GUYS.
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON
AND I AM HERE
WITH JESSE.
GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN, JESSE.
- LIKEWISE.
- OKAY. FIRST OF ALL,
WHAT HAPPENED BACKSTAGE?
YEAH. I-I, PBBT!
I DON'T KNOW,
LIKE I WENT
TO THE DRESSING ROOM.
WAS, YOU KNOW,
VERY JUDGMENTAL.
I'M LIKE, ALRIGHT,
THAT'S OKAY.
YOU CAN BE JUDGMENTAL.
I DON'T MIND.
BASICALLY, SHE WAS LIKE,
"WHY ARE YOU HERE?"
SO YOU DIDN'T GO IN THERE
WITH AN ATTITUDE
- OH! NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT.
- OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT
- ABSOLUTELY NOT. NO. ANGELA...
- OR BADMOUTHING?
I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW
THEY WERE THERE.
ANGELA INTRODUCED ME
AND, YOU KNOW, JUST LIKE,
FIRSTLY, JUST, YOU KNOW,
INTRODUCED ME
TO EVERYBODY.
THEN, LIKE, BASICALLY,
I THINK ANGELA CAME IN
BECAUSE SHE OVERHEARD
THE CONVERSATION
AND SHE WAS LIKE,
"WHY ARE YOU
LIKE JUDGING JESSE?"
AND LIKE SHE WAS LIKE
STANDING UP FOR ME
AND LIKE SHE'S REAL.
YOU CAN SAY WHAT
YOU WANT ABOUT ANGELA,
BUT SHE'S LIKE, SHE JUST
SAYS IT AS IT IS, RIGHT?
SO, IT'S LIKE, OKAY,
ANGELA, LIKE IT'S LIKE,
"THANK YOU FOR STANDING UP
FOR ME. I RESPECT THAT.
BUT LIKE, YOU KNOW,
WHAT WERE YOU SAYING BACK?
- LET THEM JUST JUDGE, THEN.
LIKE, IF THEY FEEL THE NEED
TO JUDGE, JUST LET THEM BE."
THEN THEY LEFT
AND WHATEVER HAPPENED THEN,
LIKE HERE, I DON'T KNOW.
OKAY, JESSE,
SINCE I'VE LAST SEEN YOU.
THERE'S BEEN A LOTGOING ON.
LET'S WATCH.
SINCE DARCEY AND I BROKE UP,
I'M DOING MORE
THAN EVER BEFORE.
I'M GRADUATING THIS YEAR
WITH A DEGREE IN PSYCHOLOGY.
I'M AN ACTOR. I'M, YOU KNOW,
ALSO COACHING PEOPLE...
TO BE ABLE TO REACH
SO MANY PEOPLE,
IT'S JUST INCREDIBLE.
GOOD AFTERNOON.
THANK YOU ALL FOR COMING.
I'VE BEEN WORKING WITH SENIORS
BEFORE I WAS 16 AND I LOVE IT.
I'M FROM AMSTERDAM,
THE NETHERLANDS.
I CAME TO THE U.S. FOR LOVE.
I DIDN'T SUCCEED
AND I FELL FOR, YOU KNOW,
SOMETHING THAT I EXPECTED
TO BE DIFFERENT.
I JUST LOVE INSPIRING PEOPLE,
YOU KNOW,
SPEAKING ON BIG STAGES.
ANY QUESTIONS, THUS FAR?
NO? AT THE END
OF THE PRESENTATION,
I'LL HAVE A SHEET
WHERE WE CAN JUST,
YOU KNOW,
LIKE TALK ABOUT ANYTHING
AND HAVE QUESTIONS,
SO THAT WILL BE GREAT.
WHEN I WAS WITH MY EX,
SHE WANTED TO MARRY,
HAVE KIDS,
LIKE FROM DAY ONE, RIGHT?
PEOPLE THOUGHT, OH, LIKE,
I'M IN IT FOR THE GREEN CARD.
AND I WAS LIKE, NO,
I BROKE UP.
IF I REALLY WANTED
THAT GREEN CARD,
I WOULD HAVE MARRIED.
I MOVED ON FROM DARCEY,
BUT, AFTER THE BREAKUP,
SHE'S BEEN STALKING ME
EVER SINCE,
IN ANY POSSIBLE WAY.
WHAT KIND OF STUFF
SHE SEND YOU?
SHE WOULD SAY THINGS LIKE,
"I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU"
AND "I THOUGHT WE HAD
ONE MORE CHANCE."
AND THEN I ACTUALLY
PICKED UP THE PHONE.
I WAS LIKE,
"I JUST WANNA LET YOU KNOW,
LIKE IF YOU'RE GONNA
KEEP STALKING ME,
I'M GONNA FILE A LAWSUIT."
DOES SHE KNOW YOU ARE
COMING TO NEW YORK?
NOT NOW. NO, NO, NO,
BECAUSE I HAVE LIKE
ZERO CONTACT WITH HER.
IF SHE KNOWS I'M
IN NEW YORK,
I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED
IF SHE WOULD REACH OUT.
SHE'S STILL OBSESSED
ABOUT ME.
IT'S SAD.
I WANT HER TO MOVE ON.
SO ARE YOU REALLY RELIEVED
YOU BROKE UP WITH HER?
100%, YEAH.
IT WAS WEARING ON ME.
I WAS NOT HAPPY ANYMORE.
I WAS NOT
AS POSITIVE ANYMORE.
AND THEN I JUST KNEW
THAT I NEEDED TO LET GO.
JESSE.
YEAH.
DARCEY HAD
A DIFFERENT STORY.
WHO'S CONTACTING WHO?
I REALLY WISHED
SHE MOVED ON,
BUT, UNTIL LAST MONTH,
SHE STILL REACHED OUT.
THE FACTS ARE THAT,
FOR TWO YEARS STRAIGHT,
SHE'S BEEN REACHING
OUT TO ME.
SO, WHEN SHE SAID THAT
YOU REACHED OUT TO HER
AND YOU WANTED
TO COME TO CONNECTICUT
TO HASH OUT EVERYTHING,
THAT IS NOT TRUE?
- THAT IS 100% NOT TRUE.
- YOU HAVE NEVER PICKED UP
THE PHONE TO CALL HER?
- I PICKED UP THE PHONE...
NO, I NEVER PICKED...
I PICKED UP THE PHONE,
BUT I NEVER CALLED HER.
- YOU MEAN, WHEN SHE CALLED YOU,
YOU PICKED IT UP.
- YEAH, SHE CALLED
THE WHOLENIGHT.
I WAS LIKE, "ALRIGHT,
IS SOMETHING WRONG
OR SOMETHING?"
SO I ANSWERED THE PHONE.
IT WAS CRAZY.
SHE WAS LIKE,
"I'M SO UPSET.
YOU CAN'T DO THIS TO ME."
AND THEN I WAS SAD.
IT'S LIKE, "YOU GOTTA HAVE
PEOPLE AROUND YOU
THAT CARE FOR YOU
AND, YOU KNOW, CAN HELP
YOU WITH COUNSELING."
AND SHE TWISTED THAT
AS IN LIKE
I WANTED COUNSELING
WITH HER.
NO.
HER STORIES
DOESN'T MATCH UP
WITH REALITY.
THAT IS JUST THE TRUTH.
SO THIS IS NOT
HE SAID/SHE SAID.
I CAN LIKE PROVE
ALL THE TRANSACTIONS
I MADE FOR HER,
THE BANK ACCOUNT
I MADE FOR HER,
THE GREECE TRIP
I PAID FOR HER.
I COULD BACK IT UP, ALL,
I JUST WANT HER TO BE
HAPPY, LIKE TRUTHFULLY.
PLEASE, IF YOU SAY YOU
MOVED ON, THEN DO IT.
HE CAME TO REALLY
SHAME AND BASH.
THAT'S WHY HE CAME.
- SO HE'S BEING DEFENSIVE.
- YEAH, HE'S GONNA BE
VERY DEFENSIVE AND HE
STUDIES PSYCHOLOGY,
SO HE'S GONNA REVERSE IT
AND, NOW, HE'S REALLY
GONNA SHAME AND BASH.
- NARCISSISTIC.
YEAH.
ON TO THE NEXT,
ON TO THE NEW.
I DON'T LIKE THE FACT
THAT HE'S STILL
UPSETTING DARCEY.
- I KNOW. IT'S SAD.
NO. BECAUSE IT'S
AFFECTING ME.
- I KNOW.
- IT'S AFFECTING ME
AND MYCHANCE TO ACTUALLY
HAVE A RELATIONSHIP
WITH SOMEONE THAT I CARE ABOUT.
- YES. I GET IT.
I WANT DARCEY TO SAY WHAT SHE
NEEDS TO SAY WITHOUT FEAR.
IF SHE GETS THAT,
THEN SHE CAN MOVE FORWARD
AND WE CAN MAYBE WORK SOMETHING
TO A POINT WHERE WE'RE HAPPY
AND WE'RE NOT HAVING TO DEAL
WITH THIS WHOLE THING.
I WANT HER TO HAVE
HER VOICE AGAIN.
'CAUSE SHE LOST IT
ALONG THE WAY.
OKAY. ONE MORE
QUESTION FOR YOU.
DO YOU HAVE
A NEW GIRLFRIEND?
I'M IN A PHASE WHERE,
YEAH, LIKE CLOSE TO IT.
IS SHE HERE IN THE STATES?
SOMETIMES.
WE'VE BEEN TRAVELING
THE WORLD TOGETHER, NOW.
WE'VE BEEN IN LIKE
GREEK ISLANDS
FOR LIKE MONTHS NOW.
BUT, YOU KNOW,
WE'RE GIVING IT TIME
SO I DON'T WANNA
LABEL IT RIGHT NOW.
- OKAY.
- BUT WE'RE VERY HAPPY.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING
YOUR STORY WITH US.
- THANK YOU, GUYS.
- OKAY.
THANK YOU JESSE.
- YEAH.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU.
- YOU LOOK GREAT, BY THE WAY.
- THANK YOU.
- THANK YOU SO MUCH
FOR EVERYTHING.
- THANK YOU. OKAY.
- ALRIGHT. BYE-BYE.
ALRIGHT, LET'S RESET
FOR ANGELA.
I REALLY, REALLY HOPED
DARCEY WOULD MOVE ON.
SHE DIDN'T.
AND THE HARDER SHE SCREAMS,
"I MOVED ON!"
THE MORE SHE REACHES
OUT TO ME.
SO, THANK YOU SO MUCH
FOR EVERYTHING.
APPRECIATE IT.
GOOD MAN.
SHE CAN PORTRAY ALL THESE,
YOU KNOW, IMAGES
OF WHAT SHE FEELS
IS GOING ON,
BUT THE TRUTH
IS VERY DIFFERENT.
GOING DOWN.
THAT MIGHT BE
CONFRONTING FOR HER,
BUT, THE TRUTH
WILL ALWAYS COME OUT.
MICHAEL, LET'S GET
CLARITY ABOUT THIS.
IF ANGELA CAN'T HAVE A BABY,
WOULD YOU LEAVE HER?!
AND, LATER...
CAESAR, ARE YOU READY?
YEAH.
LET US WELCOME MARIA.
OKAY, GUYS. WE'RE READY?
LET'S BRING ANGELA IN.
YOU ALRIGHT?
WHO DID THAT, ME?
HECK, YEAH.
I'LL FIX IT.
WELL, YOU BETTER
CATCH IT.
SO SORRY.
EXCUSE ME.
SHE'S KIND OF CRAZY.
NOBODY'S ARGUIN' THAT.
- MM-HMM.
- JUST MOVE ON, MAN.
I'M NOT GONNA SAY
ANYTHING ABOUT HER
'CAUSE IT'S
NOT NICE, BUT.
YOU'RE STRONG.
ALRIGHT, GUYS.
QUIET, PLEASE!
YOU GUYS READY?
LET ME JUST WALK.
WE ARE WALKING.
HI, GUYS.
HI, SKYLA.
- HELLO, SHAUN.
- WELCOME BACK.
'ELLO, OKUMI.
- Hey, baby.
- I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
ALRIGHT, HERE WE GO.
READY,
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK "TO 90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
WE ARE GOING TO SPEND
SOME TIME, NOW,
WITH ANGELA AND MICHAEL,
ANDANGELA'S DAUGHTER,
SKYLA, HAS ALSO JOINED US.
THANK YOU SO MUCH
FOR BEING HERE.
- THANK YOU.
- Thank you.
THERE WAS A...
ARGUMENT BACKSTAGE
WHILE I WAS TALKING
TO DARCEY AND TO TOM.
TELL ME, FROM YOUR
PERSPECTIVE, WHAT HAPPENED.
OH, MY. WELL.
AND I REALIZED IT WAS
JESSE IN THERE AND...
OKAY.
AND I GO IN THERE
AND I SAY,
"Y'ALL, STOP THIS."
AND BLAH BLAH BLAH."
AND, FINALLY, I'M LIKE,
"SHUT THE UP."
AND I'M SORRY
IT HAPPENED.
I'M GONNA LEAVE IT
AT THAT.
OKAY.
SO LET'S SWITCH GEARS.
EVERYONE WHO WATCHED
SEASON 2
OF "BEFORE THE 90 DAYS" KNOWS
THE BIGGEST ISSUE
BETWEEN THESE TWO HAS ALWAYS
BOILED DOWN TO ONE THING:
TRUST.
LET'S WATCH.
OH, JEEZ.
HE AIN'T ANSWERIN'
HIS PHONE.
ALL DAY AT WORK,
I BEEN CALLING HIM.
THE ONLY TIME
HE DON'T ANSWER HIS PHONE,
TOMMY, IS WHEN HE'S
TOLD ME A LIE.
IS IT ME?
- MNH-MNH.
AM I THE DAMN BITCH
HERE, OR WHAT?
MICHAEL!
WHAT HAPPENED, MICHAEL?
YOU HAVE A LYIN' PROBLEM.
YOU BEEN
ON A BOAT BEFORE?
HM.
YOU LIED ABOUT THAT,
YOU LIAR.
AT THE SAME BOAT DOCK
WITH WOMEN.
SO, THEREFORE, HE'S LYIN'
DEAD AND MY DAMN FACE.
YOU KNOW WHAT?
GET YOUR OWN HOTEL ROOM.
I GOT MY OWN MONEY.
I'M DONE WITH THIS.
YOU'RE A DAMN LIAR.
THAT'S NOT GONNA WORK
THIS TIME.
- BABY, PLEASE, PLEASE.
- I'M EMBARRASSED
THAT YOU COME UP HERE.
I'M ALREADY UPSET.
- I'M SORRY. I'M SORRY, BABY.
- NO, YOU'RE NOT SORRY.
THERE'S YOUR CAKE,
MICHAEL.
THAT DOESN'T WORK THIS TIME.
MICHAEL, IF YOU BREAK ANY
OF THEM RULES,
ESPECIALLY DURING 90 DAYS,
YOUR ASS IS GETTIN' A DAMN
ONE-WAY TICKET BACK.
STOP YOUR LYING,
- MM-HMM.
- STOP FOLLOWING WOMEN,
AND STOP BEIN' SNEAKY.
- LOOKING SNEAKY.
THAT WAS THE THIRD.
- YES.
WHOA! ANGELA, WHY DO YOU THINK
MICHAEL TELLS THESE LIES?
I THINK THE REASON HE THINKS
IT'S NOT A LIE...
BECAUSE IT'S REALLY HARMLESS
IS WHAT HE'S DOING
AND HE'S PROTECTIN' ME
FROM GETTING UPSET.
SO, MICHAEL, IS IT
THAT YOU ARE AFRAID
TO TELL ANGELA THE TRUTH
SOMETIMES?
Yeah.
WE GET TOO EXTREME,
MICHAEL,
BECAUSE YOU LIE.
IT'S LIKE, "WHY DO YOU
KEEP DOING THIS?!"
IS IT 'CAUSE
I'M A WHITE WOMAN
OR IS IT BECAUSE I'M
NOT NIGERIAN?
No, no, no.
Not at all.
WHAT IS YOUR REASONING?!
OKAY. SKYLA, I'M GONNA
BRING YOU IN HERE.
WHEN YOU SAW YOUR MOTHER
TAKE THAT CAKE
THAT MICHAEL GAVE HER
AND PUT IT IN HIS FACE,
DID YOU THINK THAT
WAS AN OVERREACTION?
NOT FOR MAMA.
- NO. NOT FOR YOUR MOTHER?
- NO, NO.
NOT AT ALL. THAT WAS
EASYGOIN'.
I WAS REALLY MAD
BECAUSE HE MADE ME
PUT THAT CAKE IN HIS FACE,
INSTEAD OF EATIN' IT.
BUT THE WAY
IT MADE HIM FEEL HURT,
THAT'S HOW HE MAKES ME FEEL
WHEN HE CONSTANTLY LIES
TO ME OVER AND OVER.
CAN MICHAEL HAVE
A SOCIAL LIFE IN NIGERIA
WITHOUT MAKING YOU ANGRY?
NO.
NOT 'TIL I TRUST HIM.
WHEN HE DOESN'T ANSWER ME
FOR AFTER SIX HOURS,
HE'S OUT...
NOT DOING NOTHING WRONG,
BUT HE'S STILL OUT
AND IT'S LIKE,
"DO YOU THINK I'M STUPID?"
SO, DO YOU THINK
HE NEEDS
TO CUT THAT SOCIAL LIFE
COMPLETELY?
WELL, I DON'T HAVE ONE
AND I'M WORKIN' HARD FOR US.
IF HE CAN HAVE A SOCIAL LIFE
AND HE'S GOT TIME ON HIS HANDS,
TIME ON HIS HANDS IS TO MAKE
SURE, NOWADAYS, WITH THIS VISA,
I DON'T WANNA... YOU KNOW, IT'S
A DIFFERENT WORLD OVER THERE.
I DON'T WANT HIM
IN NO TROUBLE.
ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN
TO DISRUPT THIS
AND, ONCE IT'S GONE,
THE VISA'S GONE.
OKAY, MICHAEL.
SO, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO
WHEN YOUR FRIENDS
ASK YOU TO GO OUT?
Maybe playing...
- DOING WHAT?
AND SPEND TIME WITH HIS MOM.
- UH-HUH.
I TOLD HIM TO TAKE
THIS OPPORTUNITY
BECAUSE YOU'RE GONNA MISS
YOUR MOM, MICHAEL.
HE'S NOT.
WE'RE NOT GONNA BE
ABLE TO AFFORD IT
'CAUSE WE'RE GONNA TRY TO GET
WHAT WE NEED TO GET
TO ESTABLISH THIS MARRIAGE.
OKAY.
ANGELA AND MICHAEL
HAVE HAD TO WORK
THROUGH THEIR SHARE OF PROBLEMS,
BUT, WITH THEIR AGE DIFFERENCE
THREATENING MICHAEL'S DREAM
OF BECOMING A FATHER,
THE COUPLE HAD TO FACE THEIR
BIGGEST OBSTACLE YET.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK.
YOU KNOW, MAYBE GOD
DON'T HAVE THAT
IN OUR PLANS,
FOR A BABY.
Mama.
- YES.
- You can not have
an egg
of mine.
- DAMN IT, MAN.
- SKYLA, WERE YOU SURPRISED
TO GET THE PHONE CALL
FROM YOUR MOM,
ASKING FOR ONE
OF YOUR EGGS?
I'M NOT SURPRISED
WHAT MAMA SAYS AT ALL.
OKAY. WELL, YOU SAID
THAT YOU WERE NOT,
UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES.
I'M NOT GIVIN'
A EGG 'CAUSE,
IF IT'S MY EGG,
THAT'S MY BABY.
NO, IT'S NOT.
- IT'S MY BABY.
- I TOLD YOU.
SO, YOU WOULD LOOK
AT IT, SKYLA,
AS YOU HAVING A BABY
WITH MICHAEL.
- ISN'T THAT CRAZY?
- YEAH.
OH, THAT'S CRAZY!
IT'S JUST A EGG.
THE BABY COULD LOOK LIKE ME
AND MICHAEL'S ACTUAL BABY.
OR GET SOMEBODY ELSE'S
EGG, SHAUN,
IT'LL LOOK LIKE MICHAEL
OR WHOEVER THE OTHER EGG DONOR.
OKAY. HM.
I'M HER MOTHER.
IF SHE KNOWS
I'M REALLY
WANTIN' IT,
I'M GONNA GET
THAT DAMN EGG.
BUT YOU REALLY
DON'T WANT IT.
- I DO WANT IT!
- MICHAELREALLY WANTS IT.
SKYLA SEEMS LIKE
SHE IS ADAMANT ABOUT IT.
AND I'M ADAMANT
TO CHANGE HER MIND.
SO, MICHAEL, WHAT HAPPENS
IF YOU CAN'T HAVE A BABY
WITH ANGELA?
- TSK.
YOU SAID THAT HAVING A BABY WAS
ACTUALLY MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU
THAN COMING HERE
TO THE UNITED STATES.
DID YOU MEAN THAT?
SO, MAINLY, IT'S MORE IMPORTANT
TO CARRY ON YOUR NAME
THAN BE WITH THE ONE THAT
LOVES YOU AND YOU LOVE THEM.
No, no, no, no.
OKAY. SO, MICHAEL,
LET'S GET CLARITY ABOUT THIS.
- Okay.
- IF ANGELA CAN'T HAVE A BABY,
WOULD YOU LEAVE HER?!
Well...
OH, WE GONNA TALK?
WE CAN TALK
ALL DAY LONG.
I TOLD HIM, "BE NICE TO HER."
SO, MICHAEL, WHAT IS
THE STATUS OF YOUR VISA?
OKAY, SO YOU THINK, BY THE END
OF THE YEAR, HE WILL BE HERE?
JUST AS SOON
AS POSSIBLE.
ALRIGHT. MICHAEL,
HOW EXCITED ARE YOU?
I can't wait.
I miss her so much.
OKAY. WELL, CONGRATULATIONS
- THANK YOU.
- TO YOU BOTH.
I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE
WHAT IS NEXT FOR YOU.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
AND, SKYLA, THANK YOU
FOR BEING HERE ALSO.
- Thank you.
- THANKS.
- WE'RE GOING TO SAY GOODBYE
TO ANGELA,
BUT DON'T GO ANYWHERE
BECAUSE WE HAVE
PLENTY MORE TO COME,
INCLUDING A CONVERSATION
WITH MARIA,
AND YOU CERTAINLY DON'T
WANNA MISS THAT.
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
THAT'S A WRAP!
- WELL.
OKAY, ANGELA. BYE-BYE, HON.
- THANK YOU, SHAUN.
SO SORRY, AGAIN.
- GOD BLESS YOU.
THANK YOU. I'M SORRY.
I'M NOT AS BAD AS I ACT.
I JUST DON'T TAKE
I CAN'T HELP IT.
I'VE TOOK ALL MY LIFE.
THE WHOLE DAY'S BEEN CHAOTIC.
WHY ARE WE TAKING ENERGY
TO FIGHT AMONGST EACH OTHER?
WHY?
I DON'T HAVE TIME
FOR THAT
I JUST DON'T RUN FROM IT.
BYE, GUYS!
THANK YOU!
YEAH. BUT LIKE
WHO'S GONNA BE THERE?
I FEEL MICHAEL AND I'S
RELATIONSHIP
JUST, FROM THIS POINT ON,
IS CHANGIN' FOR THE BETTER.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
- YOU'RE VERY WELCOME.
SORRY FOR THE TROUBLE.
WE'RE LEARNING MORE
ABOUT EACH OTHER
AND WE'RE REALLY TRYIN'
TO WORK THIS
TO BE HAPPY MARRIAGE,
YOU KNOW?
WE'VE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH.
BUT WHEN HE GETS HERE,
IT'S GONNA BE
ANOTHERSTORY, YOU KNOW?
THEN, YOU GOTTA LEARN
TO LIVE WITH EACH OTHER,
THE KIDS.
SO, RIGHT NOW, I'M NOT
GONNA THINK ABOUT THAT.
I'M GONNA THINK
ABOUT HOW FAR WE'VE GOTTEN
THROUGH THIS YEAR AND...
PRAY FOR THE BEST.
LET'S BRING EVERYBODY
BACK OUT PLEASE.
READY FOR TAKE 5?
YEAH, I'M READY.
- WE WERE HOLDING HANDS.
- WE'RE LIKE, "YEAH,
WE PROBABLY SHOULDN'T DO THAT."
YOU KNOW WHAT AVERY?
YOU SIT WHERE
YOU WERE SITTING.
FIDEL, HOW DO YOU THINK
BENJAMIN HANDLED
THE BRIDE PRICE?
AND, LATER...
THE THING ABOUT THE
RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN...
I WAS NOT ABOUT
TO BRING ZIED HERE
IF HE WAS GONNA BE
HOMOPHOBIC.
IF SHE HAD TOLD YOU BEFORE,
WOULD YOU HAVE TOLD HER
NOT TO COME?
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
HERE WE GO!
- One.
- QUIET, PLEASE.
Yes, I hear you, yes.
I'M GOOD. I'M READY
TO TALK TO MARIA.
AND... READY!
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
AND JOINING US, NOW, WE HAVE
A AKINYI'S BROTHER FIDEL.
HI. FIDEL. WELCOME.
Oh, hi.
AKINYI, HAS FIDEL
EVER SCARED OFF ANY
OF YOUR PREVIOUS SUITORS?
Yes, every time.
He is very strict,
just like my dad.
He has that aura around him
that just say it's no-nonsense.
FIDEL, HOW DO YOU THINK
BENJAMIN HANDLED HIMSELF
IN KENYA?
AVERAGE?
I don't know how to put it.
He is average because he's...
Benjamin does not have that, um,
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN,
BENJAMIN?
UH, I DON'T KNOW
THAT MUCH SWAHILI,
SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS.
He doesn't have the
alpha male kind of...
Um...
- Yes.
That matches to my dad
and my brother.
DO YOU LIKE CONSIDER
YOURSELF A ALPHA MALE?
UM, I DON'T LET PEOPLE
WALK ALL OVER ME, BUT.
- YEAH.
- I MEAN, I TRY TO BE RESPECTFUL
AND, YOU KNOW.
BUT IF I COME IN DEMANDING
INTO SOMEBODY ELSE'S HOME,
THAT WOULDN'T BE
RIGHT, EITHER.
CAN I SAY SOMETHING?
WHEN I FIRST MET MY EX
IN MOROCCO,
HE HANDLED HIMSELF...
HE WAS VERY IN CONTROL
AND VERY MUCH ALPHA MALE
AND KNEW EVERYTHING
THAT WAS GOING ON.
AND, AS SOON AS HE
GOT HERE, TO AMERICA,
IT COMPLETELY CHANGED.
HE HAD NO IDEA
WHERE HE WAS.
HE DIDN'T KNOW HOW
TO DRIVE A CAR, YOU KNOW,
WHERE THE GROCERY STORE WAS,
HOW TO MAIL A LETTER.
HE KNEW NOTHINGABOUT IT.
AND IT CHANGES
YOUR WHOLEDEMEANOR.
SO, IN BENJAMIN'S DEFENSE,
MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE
HE WAS IN HER COUNTRY
AND, WHEN SHE COMES TO AMERICA,
MAYBE IT'S COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!
I can understand why
she would think that, but,
you would need to look like
you know what you're doing,
So, for the most part,
you... didn't.
ALRIGHT.
WE'LL PUT A PIN IN THAT.
DATING ACROSS CULTURES
OFTEN REQUIRES LEARNING TO DEAL
WITH SOMEONE WHO MAY BELIEVE
DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU.
LET'S SEE WHAT HAPPENED
WHEN SOME OF THOSE
BELIEF SYSTEMS COLLIDED
AND OUR PARTNERS ATTEMPTED
TO LAY DOWN THE LAW.
- AVERY.
- YEAH?
WE'RE CELEBRATING
TONIGHT.
YEAH.
GET A GLASS OF WINE.
MOM, I DON'T DRINK.
AT ALL.
YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED
TO DRINK,
AS A MUSLIM WOMAN?
I KNOW THAT, BABY.
I KNOW.
NO.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
IT IS TIGHT.
YOU DON'T LIKE IT?
IF SHE FEELS PRETTY
AND SHE FEELS COMFORTABLE,
WHY WOULDN'T SHE BE
ALLOWED TO WEAR THAT?
SHOULD WE TELL OMAR
WHAT HE'S ALLOWED TO WEAR?
WHAT I REALLY WANNA
WEAR IS THIS.
NO?
THIS IS THE FIRST TIME
THAT I'VE SEEN ZIED BE,
IN ANY WAY, CONTROLLING.
I DON'T LIKE IT.
YOU'LL PROBABLY LIKE IT.
YES.
THAT'S THE ONLY ONE
THAT SHE'S ALLOWED.
THANK YOU.
DON'T GET DRUNK.
OH, MY GOD.
ALCOHOL IS NOT A MAJOR
PART OF MY LIFE, SO,
I'M REALLY KIND OF
TAKEN ABACK RIGHT NOW.
OKAY. BENJAMIN,
WHY DID YOU HAVE A PROBLEM
WITH AKINYI DRINKING?
IT'S NOT SO MUCH DRINKING,
IT'S JUST DRINKING
TO A POINT THAT YOU'RE
NOT ABLE
TO CONTROL YOURSELF.
I didn't know I would
get like that drunk.
I've never had
a margarita in my life.
I DIDN'T THINK THAT YOU WOULD,
FROM ONE MARGARITA, SO.
THAT SEEMS LIKE
SOMETHING SAFE
TO DO, SO.
FIDEL, HOW DID YOU FEEL
ABOUT SEEING BENJAMIN
WANTING TO CONTROL
HOW MUCH AKINYI
WAS DRINKING?
AKINYI, HOW DO YOU FEEL
ABOUT THAT?
AW, THAT WAS CUTE.
WELL, WE HAVE
A NEVER-BEFORE-SEEN CLIP
OF BENJAMIN'SNIGHT OUT
WITH FIDEL.
TAKE A LOOK, AKINYI.
TONIGHT, I'M GOING OUT
WITH FIDEL
AND A COUPLE OF HIS FRIENDS
AND JUST WORKING MORE
ON EARNING HIS TRUST
AND GETTING TO KNOW HIM.
YEAH.
- YEAH.
SO, AKINYI, BENJAMIN
WAS OUT DRINKING.
HOW'D YOU FEEL
ABOUT THAT?
I HAVEN'T TOLD YOU
THAT YOU CAN'T DRINK.
I HAVE SAID THAT I DON'T
WANT TO SEE IT GET
TO A POINT OF
NOT BEING ABLE TO BE
IN CONTROL OF YOURSELF.
AKINYI, DID YOU KNOW
THEY HAD GONE OUT DRINKING?
No, I didn't.
I just thought they
were going to have some
meat, roasted meat.
- WE DID HAVE SOME ROASTED MEAT.
- UH-HUH.
YOU DID HAVE SOME ROASTED MEAT.
- IT WAS GOOD.
WASHED IT DOWN
WITH SOME ALCOHOL.
AND WE WASHED IT
DOWN WITH SOME DRINKS.
SO DOES FIDEL THINK
THAT IT'S OKAY
FOR HIM TO DRINK,
AND NOT AKINYI?
WELL, FIDEL?
GOOD.
OKAY. AVERY, I'M GONNA
HEAD OVER TO YOU.
WE SAW YOU WANNA PICK
A PARTICULAR DRESS.
HOW DOES IT FEEL
TO HAVE A MAN TELL YOU
WHAT YOU SHOULD
AND SHOULD NOT WEAR?
I LIKE TO GET
OMAR'S INPUT
ON WHAT I'M WEARING.
IF HE DOESN'T
FEEL COMFORTABLE
WITH ME IN IT,
I DON'T REALLY CARE
TO CHANGE.
IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME.
DID IT BOTHER YOU
THAT I FOUGHT WITH YOU
OVER WHAT I WORE
TO THE RESTAURANT?
- Yeah.
- YEAH.
YES.
I'M NOT USED TO BEING
TOLD WHAT I CAN WEAR
AND SO I DIDN'T REACT
VERY WELL TO THAT.
HE'S NOT UPSET WITH ME
WEARING THIS SHIRT.
IT WAS BECAUSE
WE WERE IN HIS COUNTRY.
EUROPA.
JENIFFER, WHAT ABOUT YOU?
COULD YOU LIVE IN A PLACE
THAT RESTRICTED
WHAT YOU COULD WEAR
WHEN YOU WERE
OUTSIDE OF YOUR HOME?
No, I wouldn't.
I like to express myself
and be free about it.
OKAY. FIDEL, HOW DO YOU
THINK BENJAMIN HANDLED
THE BRIDE PRICE?
HOW MUCH MORE DOES BENJAMIN
OWE ON THE BRIDE PRICE?
OKAY.
The bride price
is technically a way
of telling the parents,
"Thank you for raising
this child
to this certain point."
In Africa, going to school
is very expensive.
So, someone who's gone to school
up to the university level
is high up on the bride price.
HER FATHER DID BRING OUT
THE SCHOOL RECORDS.
OKAY. TO PROVE THAT SHE HAD
THIS LEVEL OF EDUCATION?
- MM-HMM.
OKAY. ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT HOW
MUCH THE BRIDE PRICE WILL BE?
IT'S SOMETHING THAT
WEIGHS ON MY MIND.
SURE.
YOU KNOW, MAKING SURE
THAT I'M ABLE
TO FULLY, YOU KNOW,
COMPLETE EVERYTHING.
RIGHT. DO YOU HAVE A BUDGET?
WELL,
AKINYI'S PRICELESS,
IN MY MIND.
OKAY.
SO, NO,
I DON'T HAVE
A BUDGET IN MIND, SO.
- OKAY.
SO, THE NEXT TIME
THAT I GO TO KENYA,
I NEED TO FINISH
THE BRIDE PRICE.
I HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT.
FIDEL,
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
Okay.
Thank you.
SHE HADTO KNOW THAT
THAT WAS GONNA
CAUSE DRAMA.
YEAH.
AND, LATER...
MARIA, DID YOU EVER
LOVE CAESAR?
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
HERE WE GO!
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
I WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE
THAT ANGELA HAS LEFT
FOR THE EVENING,
BUT, I'D LIKE TO THANK
MICHAEL FOR STICKING AROUND.
Of course.
TIM AND JENIFFER,
LET'S MOVE ON OVER TO YOU.
THESE TWO HAD A LOT
OF OBSTACLES TO OVERCOME
DURING THEIR TIME TOGETHER...
EX-FIANCé DRAMA, FACING FEARS,
AND A USED ENGAGEMENT RING.
LET'S WATCH.
REMEMBER THIS?
IS THIS THE ONE
I PROPOSED WITH?
THAT'S THE ONE
YOU PROPOSED WITH.
I FIGURED MAYBE
IT WOULD HAVE
A BETTER USE
IN YOURHANDS.
IT'S AN ODD SITUATION
TO PROPOSE TO JENIFFER
WITH THE SAME RING THAT I
PROPOSED TO ANOTHER GIRL WITH,
BUT, VERONICA
GAVE ME THE RING
BECAUSE SHE WANTS
TO SEE ME HAPPY.
I see all the time
you are texting.
Are you still having feelings?
BEFORE TIM CAME TO COLUMBIA,
I DIDN'T KNOW
THAT HE WAS TALKING
WITH HIS EX EVERY DAY
AND I DON'T LIKE THAT.
YEAH, THIS IS WEIRD.
OKAY, WE GET IT. COOL.
WHAT THE?
THIS IS A SWING.
YOU HAVE
TO DO IT WITH ME.
NO, I'M NOT DOIN' IT.
-ARE YOU TOO COWARD
-I'M TOO COWARD.
- FOR THAT?
- I AM.
YOU'RE TOO
FOR EVERYTHING.
I KNOW.
HE'S NOT TRYING,
OR EVEN TRYING, ANYTHING.
HE DOESN'T EVEN WANT
TO HAVE SEX WITH ME.
IT'S THESE TYPE OF DAYS THAT
REALLY MAKE ME TAKE A STEP BACK
AND THINK, "YOU KNOW,
WHAT ARE WE DOIN'?"
I DON'T WANNA GO
THROUGH THIS HEARTBREAK.
I DON'T WANNA GO
THROUGH A DIVORCE.
I DON'T WANNA GO THROUGH THE
TROUBLE OF TRYING TO BRING HER
TO AMERICA FOR IT JUST
A BLOW UP IN MY FACE.
I THINK YOU'RE
BEAUTIFUL, REALLY.
THANK YOU.
I LIKE YOUR STYLE.
IT'S NOT TOO
FEMININE FOR YOU?
NO. THAT'S IMPORTANT
FOR ME.
HE'S NOT MY TYPE,
PHYSICALLY,
TO BE HONEST.
I'M A MANICURE
KINDA GUY,
NOT A "DIRT UNDER THE
FINGERNAIL" KINDA GUY.
THAT'S BECAUSE
YOU'RE A
I BOUGHT YOU A RING.
I WANNA GIVE IT TO YOU
AS A PROMISE RING.
SO, THIS IS NOT
A ENGAGEMENT RING?
UM...
AND I ACTUALLY
BOUGHT THE RING
FOR VERONICA.
LIKE SHE WORE
ANOTHER RING.
TIM, DID YOU BUY JENIFFER
HER OWN RING YET?
- NOT YET.
- NOT YET.
SO, AVERY, REBECCA,
AND DARCEY,
WHAT IF YOUR SIGNIFICANT
OTHER GAVE YOU A RING
THAT HE HAD GIVEN ANOTHER WOMAN?
- NO!
NO!
- NO, NEVER.
- NEVER.
- I'D RATHER HAVE A RUBBER BAND
ON MY FINGER THAN...
AND I'LL TELL YOU
SOMETHING ELSE...
VERONICA KNEW THAT
WHEN SHE GAVE IT TO HIM.
I WANNA BELIEVE
THAT SHE'S A GOOD PERSON,
BUT SHE HAD TO KNOW THAT
THAT WAS GONNA CAUSE DRAMA.
- YEAH.
I DON'T THINK VERONICA
HAD BAD INTENTIONS.
I THINK SHE WAS REALLY
JUST TRYING TO BE
A FRIEND
AND HELP ME OUT.
GOOD ANSWER.
AND GET YOU A NEW ONE?
THEY ALL WANT BIGGER.
TELL ME THIS.
VERONICA KEEPS SAYING
THAT JENIFFER DOES NOT KNOW
WHAT SHE'S GETTING INTO
BY DATING YOU.
WHAT DOES SHE MEAN BY THAT?
I MEAN, I DON'T KNOW.
I THINK I'M A PRETTY
STAND-UP GUY.
YOU ALREADY KNOW,
JENIFFER?
I MEAN,
I CAN BE MOODY,
- Hmph!
- YOU KNOW.
YES. AND THAT WAS
A PROBLEM WITH US
BECAUSE, YOU KNOW,
WE DON'T REALLY
KNOW EACH OTHER
IN PERSON
AND SHE HAD NEVER
REALLY SEEN THAT SIDE
BECAUSE,
WHEN I'M AT HOME,
IF I GET MOODY,
WE JUST HANG UP.
"I'LL TALK TO YOU LATER,"
AND THEN YOU GO BACK
TO YOUR LIVES
2,000 MILES APART.
WHEN YOU'RE IN PERSON,
YOU CAN'T REALLY HIDE THAT.
JENIFFER, YOU USED
A VERYDEROGATORY WORD
THAT STARTS
WITH THE LETTER "P"
WHEN YOU DESCRIBED TIM.
MICHAEL, YOU THINK
THAT'S FUNNY, HUH?
MINE'S BABY GIRL.
JUST THROWIN'
THAT OUT THERE.
- MINE'S HONEY.
- I'M NOT SAYING IT'S NORMAL,
BUT.
- SUGAR BRITCHES.
YOU KNOW, SHE ALWAYS
SAYS IT IN A JOKING WAY.
IT'S JUST I AM KIND OF,
YOU KNOW.
- YEAH, BUT THAT'S SO DEROGATORY.
IT'S NOT GOOD.
HE SHOULD'VE WENT
ON THE SWING, THOUGH.
LET'S BE HONEST.
I DON'T KNOW.
WOULD YOU HAVE GONE
ON THE SWINGS?
I WOULD'VE.
TWENTY TIMES.
WHAT?!
TOM SAID HE WOULD NOT HAVE GONE
- ARE YOU SERIOUS?
- ON THE SWING.
ALL ABOUT IT.
YOU HAD TO SEE
THAT SWING IN PERSON.
IF THAT ROPE BROKE,
YOU WERE DEAD.
I MEAN IT WAS
OFF A CLIFF.
SO, I'M GOOD.
LIKE I'M GOOD ON THAT.
LET ME ASK YOU THIS,
JENIFFER,
BECAUSE I'VE HEARD
YOU MENTION
THAT YOU THOUGHT TIM
WAS GAY.
AND TIM,
YOU'VE READ THE COMMENTS
- YEAH. OBVIOUSLY.
- ON SOCIAL MEDIA. YOU KNOW
PEOPLE HAVE QUESTIONED
YOUR SEXUALITY.
- YEAH, YEAH.
- YOU KNOW.
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY
TO THOSE PEOPLE?
I MEAN, I'VE BEEN,
YOU KNOW,
QUESTIONED
ABOUT MY SEXUALITY
FOR PROBABLY
THE LAST 15 YEARS.
- MM-HMM.
- AND, OBVIOUSLY,
THIS EXPERIENCE
WITH HER
DOES NOT HELP
MY CASE AT ALL
BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE LIKE,
"OH, SHE'S
A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN.
IF I WERE YOU,
I WOULD'VE NAILED THAT
ON THE FIRST
OR SECOND NIGHT."
IT'S A COMPLETELY
DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE
WHEN YOU'RE OVERSEAS
AND YOU'VE GOT
THE STRESS
OF MEETING FAMILY.
SO, I'M NOT GAY.
I DIDN'T USE
TO BE A WOMAN.
I WAS BORN A MAN.
NOT BISEXUAL.
NONE OF THOSE THINGS.
I LIKE WOMEN.
BUT IT'S NOT THE FIRST
TIME I'VE HEARD THAT
AND I'M SURE
IT WON'T BE THE LAST.
SO, BEFORE WE GO ON,
I JUST WANNA GET
A STATUS UPDATE.
I STILL LOVE JENIFFER.
I THINK SHE STILL
LOVES ME
AND I REALLY WANT HER
TO BE ABLE TO COME
AND SEE WHAT
AMERICA'S LIKE
AND WHAT
MY REAL LIFE IS.
I WANT HER
TO COME TO MY HOUSE,
YOU KNOW,
AND SEE THE REAL ME.
OKAY.
ALRIGHT. WE'VE GOT
PLENTY AHEAD.
STAY WITH US.
WHY DID YOU WAIT
UNTIL THE END OF YOUR TRIP
TO TELL ZIED AT THAT YOU
WERE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED?
IF HIS FAMILY WERE
TO FIND OUT,
HE'D HAVE TO CHOOSE
BETWEEN ME OR HIS FAMILY.
WELL, YOU KNOW
THEY'RE GOING TO FIND OUT.
AND, LATER...
DO YOU BELIEVE
IT WAS A GAME,
THAT MARIA
WAS PLAYING YOU?
I THINK THAT...
OKAY, EVERYBODY,
WE'RE ABOUT TO START.
TELEPHONES ON SILENT.
Yes.
No, I heard you, yeah.
OKAY, GOOD.
ALRIGHT,
CLOSE UP THE DOOR.
READY, IN THREE, TWO!
SO, WELCOME BACK
TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
REBECCA AND ZIED FOUND LOVE
DESPITE AN AGE GAP
AND LONG DISTANCE.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK.
I JUST FILED FOR DIVORCE
RIGHT BEFORE MY TRIP HERE,
BUT, I DON'T THINK ZIED
WOULD LIKE IT VERY MUCH
TO REALIZE THAT HE JUST HAD SEX
WITH A MARRIED WOMAN.
SO, WHAT YOU'RE SAYING...
THE ONLY WAY
THAT YOU WILL LOVE ME
IS IF I AM THE WAY
YOU WANT ME.
SO IF I TAKE OFF
MY JACKET,
SUDDENLY, NOW,
I'M A BAD PERSON.
HOW MUCH?
THREE TIMES.
MM-HMM.
Yeah.
SOMETHING IMPORTANT THAT
I WANNA TELL YOU.
I HAD A RELATIONSHIP
WITH A WOMAN.
WOW!
REBECCA, WHY DID YOU WAIT
UNTIL THE END OF YOUR TRIP
TO TELL ZIED THAT,
NUMBER ONE,
YOU HAD HAD A RELATIONSHIP
WITH A WOMAN
AND, NUMBER TWO, THAT YOU
WERE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED?
THE THING ABOUT
THE RELATIONSHIP
WITH A WOMAN...
I WAS NOT ABOUT
TO BRING ZIED HERE
IF HE WAS GONNA BE
HOMOPHOBIC.
I HATETHAT.
SO I THOUGHT,
"YOU KNOW WHAT?
I REALLY NEED TO JUST
LET HIM KNOW THAT."
THERE IS
A HUGEISSUE
THAT WE ARE STILL
VERY WORRIED ABOUT.
IF HIS FAMILY WERE
TO FIND OUT,
HE'D HAVE TO CHOOSE
BETWEEN ME OR HIS FAMILY.
WELL, YOU KNOW THEY'RE
GOING TO FIND OUT.
NO.
I DON'T KNOW THAT.
- YOU DON'T KNOW THAT. OKAY.
- NO.
YOU'RE NOT SURE
IF THEY WILL OR NOT.
WELL...
THEY DON'T WATCH
THE SHOW.
THEY DO NOT
SPEAK ENGLISH.
YEAH, THEY'RE PROBABLY
GONNA FIND OUT,
BUT DO I KNOWTHEY'RE
GONNA FIND OUT? NO.
THEY HAVE
TO REALIZE LIKE
THIS IS A COMPLETELY
DIFFERENT CULTURE.
- YEAH.
- AND, YOU KNOW,
WHAT HAPPENED IN YOUR
PAST IS YOUR PAST
AND THAT'S WHAT,
AS A MUSLIM FAMILY,
THEY SHOULD ALWAYS
ACCEPT THAT.
I WILL SAY THIS.
I HAVE A LOT
AGAINST ME RIGHT NOW.
I'VE BEEN MARRIED.
I'M TWICE HIS AGE.
I HAVE KIDS.
I HAVE TATTOOS.
- YEAH.
- HE, IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS,
TOLD ME I CAN'T HAVE
ANY MORE CHECKS OFF
ON THE LIST
- YEAH.
- AND SURVIVE IT.
IF SHE HAD TOLD YOU
BEFORESHE WENT TO TUNISIA,
WOULD YOU HAVE TOLD HER
NOT TO COME?
I DIDN'T INTEND TO WAIT
SO LONG TO TELL HIM,
BUT, THERE JUST DIDN'T EVER
SEEM TO BE A GOOD TIME,
SO, YOU KNOW, THAT WAS
BAD ON MY PART.
I WANNA MAKE IT CLEAR,
THOUGH, TO EVERYONE,
THE DIVORCE PAPERS
WERE SIGNED.
EVERYTHING WAS DONE.
THE ONLY THING THAT WASN'T
DONE WAS FILING THEM AND...
NOW, WE JUST WAIT.
SO IT'S NOT LIKE
I'M LEGIT STILL MARRIED.
IT WAS JUST
A TIME PROCESS.
HAD HE ASKED
AT ANY TIME,
I WOULD'VE BEEN HONEST.
LET ME SWITCH GEARS HERE.
ZIED, DO YOU STILL
HAVE ISSUES
WITH REBECCA DRESSING
TOO SEXY?
HE WAS ALSO DOING IT
FOR MY SAFETY
BECAUSE DRAWING THAT
MUCH ATTENTION TO YOURSELF
IN THAT SITUATION
COULD BE UNSAFE.
HE'S WORRIED ABOUT THE
ATTENTION THAT I WOULD GET
- WITH YOUR TATTOO?
- AND IT HAPPENED IMMEDIATELY.
AS SOONAS I
TOOK OFF MY JACKET,
THE GUY SITTING
NEXT TO ME
REACHED OUT
AND GRABBED MY ARM.
OKAY.
NOW, I WANT TO INVITE
REBECCA'S BUSINESS PARTNER
AND FRIEND TO JOIN US.
PLEASE WELCOME MELANIE.
- HI, THERE!
- HI.
- HEY.
- HEY.
WELCOME, MELANIE.
I'M GLAD YOU COULD BE WITH US.
THANK YOU
FOR HAVIN' ME.
SO, GIVEN THE BUSINESS
THAT YOU TWO ARE IN,
WERE YOU SURPRISED REBECCA
DID NOT DO A BACKGROUND CHECK
ON ZIED BEFORE SHE WENT
TO TUNISIA?
YES. I WAS VERY SURPRISED
THAT SHE DIDN'T DO ONE.
I THINK THAT WAS PROBABLY
A CASE OF HER
MORE SO THINKIN'
WITH HER HEART
THAN WITH HER BRAIN.
- MM-HMM.
BECAUSE OF MY LOVE
FOR MY FRIEND REBECCA,
I WOULD HATE TO SEE
ZIED COME
AND IT ALL BE ON REBECCA'S
SHOULDERS, YOU KNOW,
TO HAVE TO TAKE CARE
OF HIM AND SUPPORT HIM.
SO, INITIALLY, THE FINANCIAL
BURDEN IS GOING TO BE
-ABSOLUTELY.
COMPLETELY ON YOU.
ABSOLUTELY.
THAT'S A BIG
CONCERN OF MINE.
OKAY.
I WATCHED REBECCA
WITH HER EX
AND HE CAME
AND EVERYTHING WAS
ON REBECCA TO TAKE
CARE OF HIM, YOU KNOW.
IT WAS LIKE
HAVIN' A CHILD.
AND, AS SOON AS HE
STARTED MAKING MONEY,
IT WASN'T MY MONEY.
HIS MONEY.
MY MONEY WAS OUR MONEY.
HIS MONEY WAS HIS MONEY.
- OKAY.
- SHE WAS WITH ME THROUGHOUT
THE ENTIRE PROCESS WITH MY EX
AND
SHE LOANED ME THE TRACKER
TO PUT ON HIS CAR
WHEN I CAUGHT HIM
CHEATING AND...
SHE PICKED ME UP
AFTER I KICKED HIM OUT
AND THEN SHE WAS AROUND
WHEN I CALLED AND TOLD HER,
"GUESS WHAT.
I'M DOING IT AGAIN."
DO YOU THINK THAT
THERE'S A POSSIBILITY
THAT, WHEN ZIED GETS
OVER HERE, HE MIGHT CHANGE,
LIKE YOUR EX DID?
- ABSOLUTELY.
ABSO-FREAKING-LUTELY.
TSK. YEP.
HEY, ZIED.
CAN YOU SEE ME?
- Hello.
- CAN YOU HEAR ME?
Yes, I hear you.
DO YOU REMEMBER THE LAST
TIME YOU AND I SPOKE?
I WAS ASKING YOU WHAT KIND
OF A TRADE CAN YOU DO,
AS FAR AS HAVIN' A JOB?
SO, ACTUALLY,
WHAT I DO RIGHT NOW IS
I'M A RESTAURANT GM
AND PART-TIME P.I.,
SO, HE CAN WORK IN ONE
OF THE RESTAURANTS.
AND THEN, WE'VE TALKED
ABOUT HIM GOING TO SCHOOL
AND HE CAN LEARN
WHATEVER HE WANTS.
I WILL SAY THAT
THERE WERE SOMANY RED FLAGS
WITH MY EX
THAT I CHOSE TO IGNORE
AND...
I DON'T HAVE THE SAME
RED FLAGS WITH ZIED.
- RIGHT.
- NONE OF THEM.
- RIGHT.
- UNTIL HE'S HERE
AND I CAN SEE HOW THE
RELATIONSHIP IS GOIN'
BETWEEN HIM AND REBECCA
AND SEE HOW HARD HE IS
TRYIN' TO GET A JOB,
THEN, I'LL BE ABLE
TO TELL MORE SO, YOU KNOW.
WE'LL JUST HAVE TO SEE.
THERE'S NO ONE IN MY LIFE
THAT FEELS GOOD ABOUT THIS.
- HM.
- EVERYONE IS SUPPORTING ME
BECAUSE THEY LOVE ME,
BUT THERE'S NO ONE IN MY LIFE
THAT IS LIKE, "THIS IS THE
BEST THING YOU'VE EVER DONE!
THIS IS GREAT!"
I JUST DON'T KNOW YET.
YOU KNOW?
I KNOW THAT HER TRIP
TO TUNISIA,
THEY HAD
A GREAT TIME.
THAT WAS VACATION.
AND MY CONCERN IS,
ONCE ZIED GETS HERE,
YOU KNOW,
THE 90 DAYS ARE OVER
AND TRUE LIFE SETS IN.
UNTIL HE'S HERE
AND THEY START THAT LIFE,
I'M NOT 100% SOLD.
OKAY. MELANIE, WE WANNA
THANK YOU FOR JOINING US
AND GIVING US YOUR
VERY HONEST OPINION
ABOUT ZIED AND REBECCA'S
RELATIONSHIP.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
- THANK YOU FOR HAVIN' ME.
WHEN WE COME BACK, WE WILL SPEAK
WITH BOTH CAESAR AND MARIA
ABOUT THEIR
FIVE-YEAR RELATIONSHIP.
WE'VE GOT PLENTY AHEAD.
STAY WITH US.
I'M EXCITED TO SEE
IF MARIA POPS UP
AND, IF SHE DOES,
I DO HAVE WORDS FOR HER.
SHE'S PLAYING HIM
AND SHE'S LIKE USING SOMEBODY
AND THAT'S DEFINITELY
NOT OKAY.
LIKE THIS SCREAMS
JUST, "RUN, SCAM,
RED FLAG" TO ME.
SHE WAS
MANIPULATING YOU.
YOU USED HIM
AND YOU KNOW THAT.
CAESAR, YOU'RE BACK
IN YOUR SPOT.
THEN REBECCA,
TOM AND DARCEY.
YOU ALRIGHT?
OH.
- YOU OKAY?
- YEAH, I'M ALRIGHT.
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
QUIET, PLEASE!
CAESAR, ARE YOU READY?
YEAH.
READY, IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
MARIA WILL BE
JOINING US SHORTLY,
BUT, FIRST, LET'S TAKE A LOOK
BACK AT CAESAR'S JOURNEY.
IN A FEW DAYS,
I'M FLYING TO MEXICO
TO MEET MY UKRAINIAN GIRLFRIEND,
MARIA, FOR THE FIRST TIME.
I MET HER FIVE YEARS AGO
ON A INTERNATIONAL DATING SITE.
I HAD PLANNED
TO MEET MARIA IN UKRAINE,
BUT SHE WANTS
TO MEET IN MEXICO.
IF SHE KNEW IT WAS
HER MOM'S BIRTHDAY,
WHY DIDN'T SHE
JUST SAY IT TO ME?
SO THEN I WOULDN'T HAVE WENT
AND BOOKED THE TICKET.
WHY IS SHE GONNA TELL ME
AT THE LAST MINUTE?
SHE'S BREAKING
MY HEART RIGHT NOW.
LOOK, BABE, I JUST BOOKED
YOUR PLANE TICKET.
NOW, WE'RE GONNA
BE TOGETHER.
THERE WE GO. LOVE YOU.
ALRIGHT.
THERE IS SOMETHING
THAT WORRIES ME.
MY FLIGHT IS TOMORROW
AND I HAVEN'T HEARD
FROM MARIA IN TWO DAYS.
I'M GETTIN' NERVOUS.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT
THE HELL'S GOIN' ON.
OH, MY GOD!
WOW! THAT IS AWESOME.
WHEN I BRING HER IN HERE,
SHE'LL BE LIKE,
"OH, MY GOD, CAESAR.
YOU DID ALL THIS FOR ME?"
AND I THINK THAT
THAT'S REALLY ROMANTIC
AND I THINK
SHE'LL LIKE THAT.
DAMN, MAN.
SHE SAID HER FLIGHT'S CANCELED.
WHY? WHY?
WHY?
I'M HEARTBROKEN RIGHT NOW.
I FEEL HURT.
I FEEL HURT. THAT'S ALL.
IT WAS JUST A GAME.
THAT'S ALL IT WAS.
JUST SOME BIG GAME.
THAT'S ALL.
CAESAR,
HOW ARE YOU DOING?
I'M FEELIN'...
I'M FEELIN' ALRIGHT.
WHAT WAS IT LIKE LOOKING
BACK AT THAT MOMENT
WHEN YOU REALIZED,
AFTER ALL OF YOUR PLANNING
FOR THIS TRIP,
MARIA WASN'T SHOWING UP?
YEAH. IT'S KINDA
HEARTBREAKING BECAUSE,
YOU KNOW, I WAS REALLY,
REALLY SET
ON BEING THERE WITH HER,
YOU KNOW?
AND THEN, ALL OF A SUDDEN,
THAT JUST MESSED ME ALL UP.
I JUST FELT LIKE
I JUST MISMANAGED, UM,
LIKE I JUST
HAD SPENT TOO MUCH
ON TRYING TO GET
EVERYTHING READY FOR HER
AND THEN, WHEN I
MISMANAGED MY MONEY
TO TRY TO GET
EVERYTHING READY,
IT WAS LIKE EVERYTHING
JUST FELL OUT, YOU KNOW?
YOU HADN'T HEARD FROM HER
IN TWO DAYS.
WHY DID YOU THINK SHE WAS
ACTUALLY GOING TO COME?
I HAD FAITH IN HER.
I HAD...
I... I KNEW, PROBABLY,
SOMETHING...
I JUST FIGURED
THAT SOMETHING HAPPENED
AND SHE DIDN'T...
IS SHE GONNA COME ON?
CAN YOU HEAR ME?
MARIA?
NO, MARIA'S NOT HERE.
OH.
AT THAT TIME,
I FELT LIKE,
"HOW CAN YOU FIX IT?
IT'S ALREADY TOO LATE."
- MM-HMM, MM-HMM.
AND THEN, SHE ENDED UP
BREAKING UP WITH YOU.
YEAH.
THAT'S THE ONLY THING
YOU CAN DO.
I GENUINELY
FEEL SORRY FOR YOU
'CAUSE IT MUST BE
A HORRIBLE SITUATION
TO FIND YOURSELF IN,
WHEN YOU'VE GONE SOMEWHERE,
YOU'VE ORGANIZED IT
TO THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITY,
YOU TURN UP THERE
WITH ALL THE HOPE
AND PASSION OF FINDING
THAT PERSON BEING THERE
FOR THE FIRST TIME,
AND THEN,
THEM NOT BEING THERE.
THAT MUST'VE BEEN
A REAL HARD,
BITTER PILL TO SWALLOW.
AND, PLUS,
HAVIN' THE HOTEL ROOM
AND THEN, YOU'RE THE
ONLY ONE THAT'S
IN THE ROOM, BY YOURSELF.
- THE FAITH YOU HAVE
IN THAT WOMAN IS UNBELIEVABLE.
I FEEL LIKE THAT
SHE UNDERSTOOD
THAT THE JIG WAS UP,
THAT SHE COULDN'T STRING
HIM ALONG ANYMORE.
SHE EITHER SHOWED UP
THIS TIME, OR SHE KNEW
THAT SHE HAD TO SAY
THAT IT WAS OVER,
BUT I DON'T THINK
SHE WAS IN IT
FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.
YOU'VE TRIED TO SEE HER
SO MANY TIMES
- YEAH.
- AND SHE'S ALWAYS MADE AN EXCUSE
ON THE DAY OF, TO SAY,
"IT'S MY MOM'S BIRTHDAY"?
YOU KNOW YOUR MOM'S
BIRTHDAY EVERY YEAR.
TELL HER SCHEDULE IT
-IT'S THE SAME DAY
- THE WEEK AFTER.
- EVERY YEAR.
I'm sorry for him.
If she canceled once,
that's understandable.
Twice, thrice?
He shouldn't have
been in that relationship,
in the first place.
SHE WAS
GETTING THIS MONEY.
SHE WAS TAKING
ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
LIKE WAIT UNTIL YOU FIND
THE RIGHT PERSON
- YEAH.
- AND IT'S GONNA BE AMAZING
AND THAT'S ALL
YOU HAVE TO DO.
YOU WILL FIND SOMEBODY
THAT HAS THE SAME FAITH
IN YOU THAT YOU HAVE IN HER.
- EXACTLY.
IF ALL OF YOU WERE
IN THIS SITUATION,
WOULD YOU HAVE
GIVEN UP SOONER?
YES.
YOU ATTEMPTED TO MAKE
A MEETING, AT ONE POINT,
AND THEN, IT GOT CANCELED,
AND CANCELED AGAIN?
I WOULD'VE BEEN FINISHED
AT THAT TIME.
DEPENDS WHAT YOU'VE CREATED
IN YOUR MIND'S EYE.
RIGHT. WE WEREN'T
IN THE CONVERSATIONS
THAT YOU WERE HAVING.
I FEEL POSITIVE
SHE MADE YOU FEEL
LIKE SHE LOVED YOU
OR YOU WOULD NOT BE DOING
WHAT YOU WERE DOING.
CAESAR, LOOKING BACK,
DO YOU THINK THERE WAS ANYTHING
THAT YOU COULD'VE
DONE DIFFERENTLY?
GOD! YOU KNOW...
ACTUALLY, NO.
THERE'S NOTHING
THAT I COULDA DID.
SHE COULD'VE CALLED
AND SHE COULD'VE TOLD ME
SOMETHING EARLIER
AND THEN,
IT WOULD'VE BEEN...
WE WOULDA...
SHE WOULD'VE BEEN THERE.
- RIGHT.
AND I'VE TRIED,
YOU KNOW.
YOU'VE READ ON SOCIAL
MEDIA, YOU KNOW,
THEY SAID THAT YOU
WERE A SUCKER,
THAT YOU WERE NOT SMART
FOR, YOU KNOW,
FALLING FOR WHATEVER
THIS WAS.
I MEAN, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY
TO THOSE PEOPLE
WHO SAY THOSE THINGS
ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
THE THING THAT I SEE
IS THAT
THEY DON'T KNOW HER
LIKE I KNOW HER
AND THEY WEREN'T THERE,
HAVING
THOSE CONVERSATIONS
AND THEY SEE THAT
SHE'S LIKE FAKE,
BUT SHE'S ACTUALLY
LIKE A REAL PERSON.
- RIGHT.
- YOU KNOW, IT JUST FEELS LIKE
I CAN'T FINISH
BECAUSE SHE'S NOT THERE.
I'M TORN WITH CAESAR
AND I HATE IT
BECAUSE HE'S SUCH
A NICE GUY, YOU KNOW,
AND YOU REALLY WANNA
FEEL SORRY FOR HIM.
BUT, AT THE SAME TIME,
LIKE THIS SCREAMS
JUST, "RUN, SCAM,
RED FLAG" TO ME.
AND I HAVE
TO WONDER JUST WHY
YOU DIDN'T RECOGNIZE IT.
AND I MEAN, I KNOW
THAT LIKE LOVE IS BLIND
AND WE GET SUCKED IN
TO THE IDEA OF LOVE,
BUT AT, YOU KNOW,
FIVE YEARS,
THREE CANCELED TRIPS
AND IT ALMOST SEEMS LIKE
YOU'RE STILL
DEFENDING HER.
YOU GOT SCAMMED.
THAT'S IT.
ALL THE EXCUSES,
THE MONEY,
WHEN HE WOULD DO
SO MUCH FOR HER
AND SHE WOULD SAY,
"YOU DON'T CARE
OR YOU'RE NOT
TRYING ENOUGH."
LIKE SHE WAS
MANIPULATING YOU
AND THAT IS SO SAD.
You know?
CAESAR,
WHAT DID YOU DO
WITH THE RING
THAT YOU GOT MARIA?
I KEPT IT.
I KEPT THE RING.
YOU KNOW, I COULD'VE WENT
AND I COULD'VE LIKE
JUST WENT BACK
AND GOT MY MONEY
AND JUST DID THAT, BUT,
BUT I WANTED
TO JUST KEEP IT.
THAT'S GOOD!
THERE'S NOTHIN' WRONG WITH THAT.
AND I KEPT LIKE THE
EDIBLE PANTIES, YOU KNOW,
AND I HAD A WHIP, YOU KNOW.
YOU LOST US ON THAT ONE,
THERE, CAESAR.
OH, GOSH!
WHAT REALLY MAKES ME
REALLY PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW
IS THAT, YOU KNOW,
SHE'S NOT HERE
AND I STILL CAN'T SAY
WHAT I WANNA SAY,
BUT, NOW, IT'S JUST
LIKE I'M JUST...
I'M JUST...
I'M JUST HERE.
WHERE DOES YOUR RELATIONSHIP,
TODAY, STAND WITH MARIA?
NON-EXISTENT.
IT'S GONE NOW.
WELL, WHEN WE RETURN,
WE DO HAVE MARIA
AND SHE IS READY TO TELL
HER SIDE OF THE STORY.
SO DON'T GO ANYWHERE.
FIRST, I WANTED
TO SAY SOMETHING.
ARE YOU SEEING
SOMEBODY ELSE?
CAESAR SAID HE HAS SENT YOU
AROUND $40,000.
ALRIGHT, GUYS, HERE WE GO.
IN THREE, TWO...
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
WE HAVE BEEN TALKING TO CAESAR
ABOUT HIS TRIP TO MEXICO
AND HAVING TO FACE
HIS FRIENDS,
WHO QUESTIONED THE REALITY
OF HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH MARIA.
WELL, I AM HAPPY TO SAY
THAT MARIA IS NOW READY
TO GIVE US HER SIDE
OF WHAT HAPPENED BETWEEN THEM.
CAESAR, ARE YOU READY?
CAESAR, BREATHE.
YOU'RE OKAY.
CAESAR... YOU'LL FIND WHAT IT IS
YOU'RE LOOKING FOR
AND WHATEVER THIS IS,
WHATEVER COMES WITH IT,
YOU'LL GET WHAT YOU WANT
EVENTUALLY.
OKAY.
LET US WELCOME MARIA.
OH, SHE'S THERE.
HI, MARIA.
SO GLAD YOU CAN JOIN US.
- Hi.
- HOW ARE YOU?
HI, MARIA.
HOW YOU DOING, BABY GIRL?
OKAY, SO, OF COURSE,
WE HAVE A LOT OF QUESTIONS,
BUT SINCE MOST OF YOUR STORY
WAS TOLD
FROM CAESAR'S PERSPECTIVE,
LET'S TAKE A LOOK
AT THIS RELATIONSHIP
THROUGH ANOTHER LENS.
YEAH, BABY.
YOUR MAN LOVES YOU.
HOW I LOOK?
I LOOK SEXY? YOU LIKE THAT?
MNH-MNH.
I DON'T KNOW.
HM...
YOU KNOW, FIRST, I WANTED
TO SAY SOMETHING.
ARE YOU SEEING
SOMEBODY ELSE?
THERE... OKAY,
SO THERE'S NOBODY. OKAY.
- THEN WHY DID SHE SAY THERE WAS?
- YEAH.
SO, WHO WERE
YOU DESCRIBING TO US?
IT WAS A JOKE?
GEEZ.
I BELIEVE
THERE IS A BOYFRIEND.
EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T HAVE
THE BOYFRIEND,
THE DESCRIPTION
OF WHAT SHE WANTS...
RIGHT.
- DOESN'T MATCH.
- DOESN'T EXACTLY MATCH.
I THINK YOU DODGED A BULLET,
TO BE FAIR.
- YEAH.
- ABSOLUTELY.
I THINK
SHE'S DONE YOU A FAVOR.
NOW, MARIA, WHERE DO YOU STAND
WITH CAESAR AT THIS POINT?
YES.
DID YOU EVER CONSIDER
CAESAR YOUR BOYFRIEND?
YOU DID.
FOR HOW LONG DID YOU
CONSIDER HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND?
YOU'RE SAYING THAT YOU GUYS HAD
A FIVE-YEAR RELATIONSHIP?
SHE'S NOT PAINTING IT
AS A FIVE-YEAR RELATIONSHIP.
WHEN WE HAD MET ON THE SITE,
WE WERE TALKING,
AND THEN, WE HAD TOOK
A BREAK AFTER THAT.
I WENT BACK ON THE SITE
TO SEE IF SHE WAS THERE.
THEN I WANTED
TO GET OFF THE SITE
AND ACTUALLY HAVE
A ONE-ON-ONE WITH HER.
HOW COME YOU NEVER SAW
EACH OTHER?
WHY WERE YOU MISSING
THESE FLIGHTS TO COME SEE HIM
WHEN YOU CONSIDERED
HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND
AND HE WAS TRYING TO SEE YOU?
GIVE US
YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY.
SO...
WHAT WAS THE PROBLEM THAT
SHE FACED WITH AN AMERICAN VISA?
WHAT I DON'T UNDERSTAND IS WHY
IF SHE'S APPLIED FOR A VISA
AND DOESN'T GET
GRANTED ACCESS,
WHY THE NEXT THING WOULDN'T BE
FOR YOU TO FLY AND SEE HER?
MARIA, DID YOU EVER WANT CAESAR
TO COME AND VISIT YOU?
WHY DIDN'T HE?
SHE WANTED SOMETHING
WHERE IT CAN FEEL LIKE...
OKAY, LET'S TALK
ABOUT THE MONEY.
CAESAR SAID HE HAS SENT YOU
AROUND $40,000.
HOW MUCH MONEY HAS CAESAR
SENT YOU OVER THE YEARS?
WOULD YOU SAY
IT WAS HALF OF THAT?
MAYBE $20,000?
$5,000?
SINCE THE CANCELED VACATION
IN MEXICO,
HAVE YOU SENT MARIA
ANY MORE MONEY?
YEAH,
I DID SEND HER MONEY.
I THINK IT WAS,
LIKE, AROUND
LIKE $2,000 TO $3,000.
THEN THAT'S WHEN
WE STOPPED TALKING.
YOU REFUSED IT.
SO YOU...
YOU DID NOT ACCEPT IT.
SHE TOOK THE MONEY,
BUT...
I'M NOT GONNA SEND YOU
ANY MORE MONEY.
THAT'S HOW IT IS,
THAT'S HOW YOU'RE GONNA BE,
AND I'M DONE.
THAT'S IT.
I JUST DON'T KNOW WHY...
WHY SHE'S DOING THIS.
DO YOU BELIEVE IT WAS A GAME,
THAT MARIA WAS PLAYING YOU?
SHE TOOK THE MONEY,
BUT...
I'M NOT GONNA SEND YOU
ANY MORE MONEY.
THAT'S HOW IT IS,
THAT'S HOW YOU'RE GONNA BE,
AND I'M DONE.
THAT'S IT.
I JUST DON'T KNOW WHY...
WHY SHE'S DOING THIS.
DO YOU BELIEVE IT WAS A GAME,
THAT MARIA WAS PLAYING YOU?
I THINK THAT AND I'M STILL...
I... YOU KNOW.
I THINK THAT, ORIGINALLY,
THAT SHE...
THAT SHE TRIED,
AND I KNOW YOU GUYS THINK
I'M REAL STUPID FOR SAYING THAT,
BUT I THINK,
IF THE PLANE TICKET
WAS THERE,
I THINK SHE WOULD
HAVE BEEN THERE.
MARIA, DID YOU EVER
LOVE CAESAR?
YOU DO.
OKAY, THEN YOU MADE A FACE
WHEN YOU SAID THAT.
YOU DOOR YOU DID?
OKAY.
CAESAR, YOU SAID THAT
THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP
RIGHT NOW WITH MARIA.
WELL...
DO YOU WANT TO ADD
ANYTHING TO THAT?
I KNOW... I KNOW I'M...
I KNOW I'M PROBABLY CRAZY
FOR DOING THIS,
AND I KNOW I, YOU KNOW,
I SHOULD'VE JUST CUT IT OFF,
BUT I WANTED
TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT...
THAT, YOU KNOW,
THAT SHE'S A GOOD PERSON
AND THAT I STILL WANT
TO TRY AND MAKE IT WORK
AND BRING HER HERE,
AND I KNOW THAT...
I KNOW THAT SHE'S UPSET,
BUT I STILL WANT
TO BRING HER DOWN HERE,
AND I WANT TO SHOW THE WORLD
THAT SHE'S A GOOD PERSON
AND I STILL LOVE HER.
YOU MEAN YOU WANT
TO BRING HER TO AMERICA?
- WELL, I WANT TO GO DOWN THERE.
- YOU WANT TO GO DOWN THERE.
WELL, FIRST, I WANT
TO GO DOWN THERE TO UKRAINE.
UKRAINE?
YES.
- TO TRY TO REKINDLE...
- TO TRY TO RE...
WHAT YOU LOST.
OKAY. MARIA,
YOU HEARD CAESAR SAY
HE WOULD LIKE TO FLY
DOWN TO UKRAINE
AND TRY TO SALVAGE
THE RELATIONSHIP.
WELL, WHAT PART OF THIS
DO YOU FEEL IS CAESAR'S FAULT?
WHAT PICTURE
ARE WE NOT SEEING?
BUT WHEN YOU SAY
HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS,
WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
I KNOW
WHAT SHE'S TALKING ABOUT.
SHE'S TALKING ABOUT
THAT EVERYBODY IS SAYING,
"OH, WOW,
WE FEEL SORRY FOR YOU,"
AND EVERYBODY'S SAYING
THAT SHE'S FAKE
AND THAT EVERYBODY
HATES HER AND EVERYTHING.
I DON'T CARE
WHAT PEOPLE THINK.
YOU KNOW, I UNDERSTAND
THAT YOU'RE PISSED OFF AT ME
AND YOU WANT TO SAY
WHATEVER YOU WANT TO SAY,
BUT I TRIED IN MY HEART
TO TRY TO BE A MAN
AND TO TRY TO DO
FOR HIS WOMAN
AND TO TRY
TO GET YOU HERE.
I KEPT TRYING,
AND THEN EVERYTHING
JUST STARTED UP,
AND I NEEDED ANOTHER WAY.
SO, THIS WAS THE ONLY WAY
THAT I CAN TRY
TO GET YOU DOWN HERE.
IF I DIDN'T LOVE YOU,
I WOULDN'T HAVE DONE ANYTHING.
I WOULD'VE JUST STOPPED
THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP,
AND I WOULD'VE JUST SAID,
"FORGET IT
BECAUSE IT'S NOT WORTH IT."
BUT YOU ARE WORTH
A LOT TO ME.
THAT'S WHY I INVESTED
EVERYTHING,
AND MY LAST OPTION
WAS FOR ME TO SHOW EVERYBODY
HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU,
AND THAT'S WHAT IT WAS.
BABY, I AM STRONG.
I ALWAYS AM STRONG.
HE JUST POURED HIS HEART OUT
TO YOU.
WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE
TO WHAT HE JUST SAID?
THERE...
THERE'S HER RESPONSE.
SHE DOESN'T CARE.
I HEAR YOU.
I HEAR YOU, BABE.
Yes, okay.
OH, YOU MADE YOURSELF
LOOK BAD.
HE'S NEVER SAID ONE THING BAD
ABOUT YOU.
ACTUALLY, TO THIS DAY,
HE'S STILL DEFENDING YOU,
WHICH HE SHOULDN'T BE.
YOU USED HIM,
AND YOU KNOW THAT.
I KNOW...
I KNOW I COULD JUST STOP,
BUT I STILL LOVE YOU.
EVEN IF I GO ON
AND I DO SOMETHING ELSE,
YOU'LL ALWAYS BE THERE
IN MY MIND...
YOU KNOW,
BECAUSE YOU'RE ALWAYS,
LIKE,
MY FIRST LOVE, BABY.
YOU'RE MY EVERYTHING, BABY.
I JUST WANTED
TO HOLD YOU IN MY ARMS
AND JUST TO LOOK
INTO YOUR EYES.
DID YOU HEAR HER SAY
SHE WANTS YOU TO MOVE ON?
OKAY.
WE DON'T KNOW IF WE'LL SEE
EACH OTHER AGAIN,
JUST BECAUSE
OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES.
I DO LOVE YOU AND I DO CARE
ABOUT YOU A LOT,
SO I THINK THAT I'M JUST
GONNA GIVE YOU A BREAK.
READY, IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
MICHAEL, WE ARE SAYING
GOODBYE TO YOU.
I APPRECIATE
YOU HANGING IN THERE
BECAUSE I KNOW IT'S VERY,
VERY EARLY WHERE YOU ARE.
Thank you.
OKAY, SO AFTER HEARING
FROM MARIA,
DOES ANYBODY HAVE
A DIFFERENT OPINION OF HER
THAN BEFORE WE MET HER?
- I THINK A LITTLE BIT.
- YEAH.
BUT I THINK MORE OR LESS,
IT'S NOT JUST SO MUCH
THAT WE HAVE
A DIFFERENT OPINION OF HER.
I FEEL LIKE THE SITUATION,
THE WHOLE STORY,
MAY BE A LITTLE BIT DIFFERENT
THAN WHAT WE THOUGHT.
- MM-HMM.
- I DON'T KNOW.
I KNOW I'M
A LITTLE MORE CONFUSED
THAN I WAS
AT THE BEGINNING OF THE HOUR.
I'M MORE CONFUSED.
ALRIGHT, HOLD THAT THOUGHT.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK AT ONE
OF THE MOST DIFFICULT PARTS
OF A LONG-DISTANCE
RELATIONSHIP...
SAYING GOODBYE.
I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE.
WE'LL BUY US SOME FOUR-WHEELERS
AND SOME LAND,
AND WE'RE GONNA HAVE KIDS.
I KNOW.
THE LAST TWO WEEKS HAVE BEEN...
REALLY A GREAT TIME.
JUST... I'VE NEVER HAD
ANYTHING LIKE THIS BEFORE.
HERE WE GO, BABY.
I LOVE YOU TOO, BABY.
MM.
- AWW!
- AWW!
JUST PRAY AND HOPE THAT,
YOU KNOW,
I GET TO SEE HER AGAIN SOON,
AND WE CAN MAKE IT WORK.
IT'S NOT GOODBYE.
IT'S TILL NEXT TIME.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.TAKE CARE.
MM.
OH, MY.
THAT IS HEARTBREAKING.
AVERY, WHAT WAS IT LIKE SAYING
GOODBYE TO OMAR
SO SOON
AFTER GETTING MARRIED?
WELL, IT WAS REALLY,
LIKE, SO HARD,
ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS,
LIKE, I'VE DONE.
WE DON'T KNOW IF WE'LL SEE
EACH OTHER AGAIN
JUST BECAUSE
OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES.
SO IT WAS REALLY HARD
JUST TO THINK,
"MAYBE THIS IS THE LAST TIME
WE SEE EACH OTHER."
THAT'S NOT WHAT WE WANT,
BUT YOU NEVER KNOW
WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS.
BUT ANY CHANCE WE GET,
EVERY LUNCH BREAK, BEFORE BED,
WE HAVE OUR SCHEDULE PLANNED OUT
THAT WE AT LEAST GET TO TALK
FOR AT LEAST A FEW HOURS A DAY,
EVERY DAY.
SO...
DARCEY AND TOM,
THAT WAS A PASSIONATE KISS
WHEN YOU GUYS WERE
LEAVING THE AIRPORT.
WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS WHILE
YOU'RE HERE IN THE U.S., TOM?
SO YOU ONLY HAVE A COUPLE
OF DAYS, AND THAT'S IT.
- YEAH.
- IT'S A SHORT TRIP.
WHAT DO YOU THINK THINGS ARE
GOING TO BE LIKE
WHEN HE GOES BACK?
I THINK WE'LL JUST, YOU KNOW,
STAY IN COMMUNICATION,
BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER,
AND JUST, YOU KNOW,
BE HOPEFUL FOR THE FUTURE
AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS,
YOU KNOW?
- MM-HMM. MM-HMM.
- OKAY.
AKINYI AND BENJAMIN,
SO, WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS?
I'M JUST GETTING
THE K-1 PROCESS WRAPPED UP
AND FOR AKINYI
TO BE ABLE TO COME HERE, SO...
WILL YOU BE GOING BACK
TO KENYA ANYTIME SOON?
THE PLAN WOULD BE FOR ME
TO GO BACK
ONCE WE GET
TO AN INTERVIEW DATE...
MM-HMM.
AND BE ABLE TO GO BACK
AND VISIT
WITH HER FAMILY, SO...
AND WHAT DID SHE SAY?
"AND PAY THE DOWRY"?
"PAY THE DOWRY."
- AND FINISH PAYING THE DOWRY.
SO YOU'RE NOT GOING BACK
OVER THERE
UNTIL YOU'VE GOT SOME MONEY
WITH YOU, RIGHT?
THAT'S CORRECT.
- OKAY.
- YEAH.
JEN AND TIM, HOW DID
YOUR RELATIONSHIP CHANGE
ONCE YOU GOT BACK
TO THE STATES?
WE HAD
A FUTURE TO PLAN FOR.
I MEAN, WE WERE TESTING
THE WATERS THERE,
AND WHEN WE FIGURED OUT
THAT WE WANTED TO CONTINUE,
IT GAVE US SOMETHING
TO LOOK FORWARD TO, I THINK.
RIGHT.
I'm very excited to see him.
I know this is
just a continuation.
So this story is just beginning,
so I'm happy for it.
AND, ZIED, WHAT WAS
THE HARDEST PART
ABOUT SAYING GOODBYE TO REBECCA
AT THE AIRPORT?
Well...
WE WERE TOGETHER
FOR 21 DAYS,
SO IT WAS A REALLY LONG TIME,
AND IT WAS VERY HARD.
LIKE I'VE SAID BEFORE, I ALMOST
DIDN'T GET ON THE PLANE.
MM. BUT
WHAT ARE THE UPDATES
ON ZIED COMING HERE
TO THE STATES?
THERE WAS A DELAY
BECAUSE OF THE DIVORCE
BEING FINALIZED ON MY END,
BUT AS OF LAST WEEK,
THE PAPERS HAVE BEEN FILED.
NOW WE JUST WAIT.
BUT I KNOW THAT,
IN THE NEXT TWO MONTHS,
I DEFINITELY AM
GOING BACK TO TUNISIA.
AND, CAESAR, WHERE DO YOU STAND
AT THIS POINT?
WELL, I WANT TO SAY
I THINK THAT...
I DO LOVE YOU,
AND I DO CARE
ABOUT YOU A LOT.
SO I THINK THAT I'M JUST
GONNA GIVE YOU A BREAK,
AND I THINK, RIGHT NOW,
WE NEED TO LIVE OUR OWN LIVES,
AND I'M GOING TO LET YOU DO
WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO.
- AND I'M JUST...
- YOU'RE DONE, RIGHT?
I'M JUST... I'M JUST
DONE.RIGHT? NO MORE MONEY?
AND I THINK WE NEED
TO GIVE IT A BREAK.
- NO MORE MONEY.
- THAT'S IT.
YOU'RE NOT GONNA SEND HER
ANY MORE MONEY?
I THINK I'M JUST
GONNA BE ALONE FOR AWHILE.
HOW TOUGH WAS IT TO MAKE
THAT DECISION, CAESAR?
IT'S REALLY TOUGH BECAUSE
YOU WANT TO SHOW THAT PERSON
HOW MUCH
THAT YOU LOVE THEM.
ONLY TIME WILL TELL.
AND SO I THINK THE BEST THING
IS IF WE SEPARATE
AND WE STOP TALKING.
MARIA, WHAT PARTING WORDS
WOULD YOU LIKE TO SAY TO CAESAR?
OKAY. ALRIGHT.
WELL, I WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU
FOR COMING TODAY
AND SHARING THE MOST
INTIMATE PARTS OF YOUR LIVES.
I KNOW IT'S BEEN VERY TOUGH.
DEFINITELY A ROLLER COASTER,
HIGHS AND LOWS,
BUT I WISH YOU ALL
THE VERY BEST.
SO, THANK YOU VERY MUCH,
EVERYONE.
AND THAT WILL DO IT FOR US.
GOOD NIGHT, EVERYBODY.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
- THANK YOU, GUYS.
- IT WAS NICE TO MEET YOU.
THANK YOU, EVERYBODY.
I MISS YOU.
I miss you, too.
WE'RE GONNA GO
TO THE GREENROOM.
OKAY.
FOURTH FLOOR.
THE BRIDE PRICE
IS OBVIOUSLY STILL AN ISSUE
BETWEEN ME
AND AKINYI'S FAMILY,
AND, AT THIS TIME,
I DON'T KNOW WHERE WE'RE GOING
TO END WITH THE BRIDE PRICE.
IT CERTAINLY IS SOMETHING
THAT WEIGHS ON ME.
IT WORRIES ME THAT I MAY NEVER
BE DONE PAYING THE BRIDE PRICE.
TOM... YOU KNOW, HE'S OPENING UP
SLOWLY BUT SURELY...
NO PRESSURE HERE.
- WHERE YOU WANT TO GO?
- SHOWER.
- YEAH.
- GLAD I DIDN'T SEE JESSE.
I DON'T NEED TO
DEFEND MYSELF ANYMORE.
I CAN START MANIFESTING
BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN MY LIFE.
I ACTUALLY WANT
TO SPEND SOME TIME
WHERE WE CAN JUST BE RELAXED
WITHOUT ALL THE INTERFERENCE
OF ANYONE ELSE.
- WE'LL BE YOUR ANGELS.
- AWW!
YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU LIVE
IN SEPARATE COUNTRIES,
YOU KIND OF LIVE
SEPARATE LIVES.
BUT WE'VE APPLIED
FOR THE TOURIST VISA.
WE'RE STILL COMMITTED.
WE'RE STILL PLANNING
A FUTURE TOGETHER,
WE'RE JUST WAITING
ON THAT PAPER
SO WE CAN, YOU KNOW,
JUST PROGRESS
WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP.
OKAY.
I DON'T THINK TODAY
CHANGED ZIED AND I AT ALL.
I WAS A LITTLE BIT WORRIED ABOUT
HAVING TO REHASH THE EX THING,
BUT, ULTIMATELY,
I THINK ZIED AND I ARE OKAY.
I THINK THE BIGGEST PROBLEM THAT
ZIED AND I ARE GONNA HAVE IS,
ONCE HE GETS TO AMERICA,
IF HE CHANGES.
THAT'S WHEN WE'RE GONNA BE
ABLE TO SEE IF HE'S,
YOU KNOW, STAYS THE STAND-UP GUY
THAT HE SAYS HE IS.
ME AND OMAR DEFINITELY HAVE
SO MANY OBSTACLES
WE HAVE TO OVERCOME,
AND THERE'S GONNA BE
A LOT OF CHALLENGES.
BUT WE ARE A STRONG COUPLE,
AND I REALLY BELIEVE
THAT WE'LL MAKE IT WORK,
AND WHAT WE'RE DOING NOW...
IT'S WORKING SOMEHOW,
AND WE'RE HAPPY.
SO WE'LL GET THROUGH IT.
I'M EXCITED BECAUSE
I BOUGHT TICKETS
TO GO SEE OMAR IN LEBANON.
AND IT'S JUST ONE WEEK,
BUT AT LEAST IT'S ONE WEEK
THAT I GET TO SPEND WITH HIM.
SO, IT'LL BE NICE.
THE COUPLES TELL ALL"...
YOU HAVEN'T EVEN
MET MARIA YET.
I KNOW MARIA'S GONNA
SHOW UP TODAY
AND I FEEL IT'S GONNA BE
A TENSE SITUATION.
HAVE YOU CONSIDERED
THE FACT THAT,
IF SHE REALLY LOVED YOU,
SHE WOULDN'T WAIT YEARS
AND THEN STILL
NOT SHOW UP?
I WAS DOING
MUCH BETTER.
OUR SITUATION'S
REALLY HARD.
IF YOU THINK
IT'S HARD NOW,
LIVING THERE IS WHEN
THE REAL TEST COMES.
I'M WITH YOU, TOM.
REALITY AIN'T HIT
NEITHER ONE OF THEM.
WHAT WERE YOU THINKING WHEN YOU
SAW YOUR FACE ON HIS BODY?
I THOUGHT
IT WAS ROMANTIC.
YOU DON'T CALL
SOMEBODY A FREAK.
I DON'T THINK SHE'S WRONG
FOR POINTING OUT
THAT IT'S
A BIT STRANGE.
MORNING, GUYS.
NEW YORK CITY.
SUPER EXCITED TO BE BACK.
I KNOW JESSE'S GOING
TO BE HERE.
HE WANTS TO THINK
HE'S GONNA TAKE ME DOWN,
TRY IT.
AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN.
TOM, YOU'VE BEEN ENGAGED
TWICE BEFORE
- THAT'S CORRECT.
- AND YOU SAID, BOTH TIMES,
YOU WERE LEFT BY YOUR PARTNER.
- YOU WERE ENGAGED TWICE?
- SHE WANTS AN ENGAGEMENT RING.
- MM-HMM.
SHE DOESN'T WANT TO GET
TO KNOW WHO YOUARE.
THERE IS
A HUGEISSUE
THAT WE ARE SO VERY
WORRIED ABOUT.
IF HIS FAMILY WERE
TO FIND OUT,
HE'D HAVE TO CHOOSE
BETWEEN ME OR HIS FAMILY.
HOW OFTEN DID YOU TWO
TALK ABOUT JESSE?
MOST DAYS.
AND YOU KNOW
HE'S HERE, RIGHT?
TODAY'S THE DAY
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
WHY ARE YOU HERE,
THOUGH?
- WHY AM I HERE?
- YEAH.
THE LAST THING
I WANNA DO
IS TRIGGER HER
TO TEXT ME AGAIN
AND TO CALL ME AGAIN
BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT
SHE'S BEEN DOING.
NO, I WANNA HEAR IT
WITH DARCEY!
GET TO THE
TRUTH ABOUT IT
BECAUSE, NOW,
HE'S SAYING
COMPLETELY SEPARATE
THAN HER.
I'M SICK OF IT!
- OH, MY GOD.
WE GET TOO EXTREME,
MICHAEL,
BECAUSE YOU LIE.
IT'S LIKE, "WHY DO YOU
KEEP DOING THIS?!"
YOU WASN'T THERE!
- CALM. DOWN.
DON'T YOU TELL ME
TO CALM DOWN!
- IT'S NOT WORTH IT, GUYS.
- GUYS, IT'S NOT WORTH IT!
PLEASE!
IT'S NOT WORTH IT.
I MEAN, I KNOW THAT
LIKE LOVE IS BLIND
AND WE GET SUCKED
INTO THE IDEA OF LOVE,
BUT AT, YOU KNOW,
FIVE YEARS,
THREE CANCELED TRIPS,
AND IT ALMOST SEEMS LIKE
YOU'RE STILL
DEFENDING HER.
YOU GOT SCAMMED.
THAT'S IT.
LET US WELCOME MARIA.
OH, SHE'S THERE.
CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS
IN NINE.
I JUST DON'T KNOW
HOW YOU COULD EVER
BE MAD AT TOM
WITH THAT ACCENT.
- EXACTLY.
- LIKE HE'S GOTTA GET AWAY
WITH SO MUCH
JUST FROM THAT
ACCENT, ALONE.
IT SOUNDS SO NICE...
THAT YOU'RE JUST LIKE,
"OKAY, THANK YOU."
TOM, YOU'VE BEEN ENGAGED
TWICE BEFORE
- THAT'S CORRECT.
- AND YOU SAID, BOTH TIMES,
YOU WERE LEFT BY YOUR PARTNER.
- YOU WERE ENGAGED TWICE?
WHAT HAPPENED?
- OH, I DIDN'T KNOW THAT.
- WHAT?
- THAT HE WAS ENGAGED TWICE.
YEAH, THAT'S WILD.
AH, OKAY.
SHE DIDN'T KNOW,
EITHER.
HOLY
YOU DIDN'T KNOW
HE WAS ENGAGED TWICE?
- NO.
- DID YOU ASK?
OH.
YEAH.
- THAT'S SOMETHING YOU NEVER
TOLD HER, TOM?
- NO.
- HOPE I DIDN'T GET
THE SAME RING.
I HAVEN'T
BOUGHT YOU A RING.
I KNOW.
SEE, I HATE THAT "DON'T
ASK, DON'T TELL."
WHAT'S HER NAME
SAID THAT EARLIER.
LIKE YOU SHOULD BE HONEST
AND JUST TELL EVERYBODY
THAT KINDA
UPFRONT.
Do you even know
anything about him?
ARE YOU SURPRISED
THAT YOU DIDN'T...?
I GUESS IT WASN'T
IMPORTANT ENOUGH
FOR HIM TO TELL ME.
I DON'T KNOW.
I MEAN, I DON'T
JUDGE HIM ON IT.
- SEE HOW CALM SHE IS?
- OH, SHE'S TOTALLY
JUDGING HIM ON IT.
SHE'S TOTALLY JUDGING HIM
ON IT RIGHT NOW.
OKAY. WHAT HAPPENED?
JUST, THE FIRST TIME
WAS A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
AND THE SECOND ONE WAS
JUST TWO PEOPLE THAT
WERE HAVING FUN AND...
- MM-HMM.
- KIND OF FELT RIGHT AT THE TIME
AND THEN, IN HINDSIGHT,
LOOKED BACK AND SAID,
"MAYBE THIS WASN'T WHAT
WE REALLY WANTED, SO."
EMMA, WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS
ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE HEARING?
I don't think they know
each other very well
and I think that
they need to spend
more time getting
to know each other.
I don't know
if they're caught up
in the honeymoon bit of,
you know, where you
have lots of sex.
It's really fun.
You go out to bars.
You know, you're doing lots
of really nice things.
But, for me,
a marriage is something
completely different.
YEAH, WE DON'T KNOW THAT
MUCH ABOUT EACH OTHER.
I FEEL LIKE I'M
AN OPEN BOOK WITH HIM.
I FEEL LIKE HE DOES
KNOW A LOT ABOUT ME.
I DON'T KNOW WHY HE'S SAYING
THAT RIGHT NOW, BUT.
I THINK I'M RELIABLE
BECAUSE I'M THERE
FOR YOU
WHEN YOU NEED ME.
- I agree.
- AND I DON'T NECESSARILY THINK
YOU'RE THERE FOR ME
WHEN I NEED YOU.
- REALLY?
- YEAH.
- HOW'S THAT?
IF I EXPRESS MY SENTIMENT
OR FEELING ABOUT A MATTER,
IF IT'S NOT WRAPPED
IN THE RIGHT WAY,
DARCEY WILL BECOME
VERY UPSET
BECAUSE SHE TAKES IT
AS A REJECTION,
RATHER THAN ME
JUST BEING ABLE TO SAY,
"LOOK,
I DON'T LIKE THIS."
GIVE ME AN EXAMPLE.
LIKE THE ARGUMENT
WE HAD
THE OTHER NIGHT
IN THE HOTEL.
THAT WOULD BE
AN EXAMPLE.
WHAT WERE YOU ARGUING ABOUT?
I CAME DOWN
TO THE LOBBY.
SHE'S IN THE LOBBY
WITH ANOTHER GUY
WRAPPED ROUND HER.
- NO.
IF YOU CAME DOWNSTAIRS
AND I'VE GOT MY ARMS
WRAPPED ROUND
ANOTHER WOMAN,
THEN THAT'S NOT REALLY
A CLEAR INDICATION
AS THE, YOU KNOW,
"I'M HERE FOR YOU."
I WANTED TO SEE HOW
THINGS WERE GONNA GO.
DARCEY, DO YOU THINK
YOU WERE
BEING TOO AFFECTIONATE TO A GUY?
- NO, I WASN'T.
I THINK SOMEONE WAS
KIND OF HITTING ON ME,
BUT I WAS JUST LIKE
THERE TO TALK, YOU KNOW.
YOU'RE SAYING YOUR ARMS
WERE NOT AROUND HIM.
TOM, YOU SAID HER ARMS
WERE AROUND. EITHER THEY WERE
OR THEY WEREN'T.
- DID YOU SAY THE GUY'S ARMS
WERE LIKE ON ME
OR SOMETHING?
NO.
YEAH.
I THINK I WAS PROBABLY
UPSET ABOUT SOMETHING,
SO MAYBE HE WAS LIKE
CONSOLING ME.
THAT'S... 'CAUSE...
A RANDOM STRANGER,
CONSOLING YOU?
- OH, OKAY.
- It makes me angry to know
that he's flown all that way
and there's an argument
straightaway.
When you're first together,
you don't have
arguments like that.
You shouldn't be crying.
You should be having fun.
You should be laughing.
- YEAH.
- It should be upbeat.
It shouldn't be that,
"Please tell me
that you love me."
For me, that's
a very worrying sign
and I worry for you.
GOT IT. WELL, I'M INTERESTED
TO HAVE YOUR SISTER JOIN US
IN THIS CONVERSATION,
TO GET HERTAKE ON ALL OF THIS.
HI, STACEY.
HI. HOW ARE YOU?
YOU GOOD?
OH, YEAH. I'M GOOD.
ARE YOU?
- I'M GOOD.
- IF THERE IS ONE TOO MANY
PILLOWS BACK THERE...
- YEAH, I THINK THERE'S
TOO MANY PILLOWS.
- WE GOT BIG BUTTS.
- LET ME KNOW.
- AND THEY DON'T LIE.
WHAT?
SO, STACEY, WHAT DO YOU
THINK ABOUT TOM
AND DARCEY'S RELATIONSHIP?
DO YOU THINK THAT THEY KNOW
EACH OTHER WELL ENOUGH
OR DO YOU THINK
THAT THEY ARE COMPATIBLE?
WHAT ARE YOUR FEELINGS?
I THINK THAT
THEY DEFINITELY
ARE COMPATIBLE.
YOU KNOW, THERE'S
TIMES WHERE IT'S
KIND OF
AN UP-AND-DOWN,
LIKE WHEN YOU
DIDN'T CALL HER.
IF YOU LOVE HER
SO MUCH, THEN,
WHY WOULDN'T YOU
CONTACT HER?
-I DID RING HER,
-IT'S LIKE SHE'S KIND OF
BUT NOT EVERY...
- CONFUSED LIKE WHAT'S GOING ON.
I DID RING HER,
BUT IT'S NOT EVERY DAY.
AND WE SAT AND WE'VE
SPOKEN ABOUT THAT
AND SAID WE NEED
TO SPEAK MORE OFTEN.
- YES.
- OKAY.
I KNOW IT SOUNDS
STUPID TO SAY
YOU NEED TO SCHEDULE,
BUT WHEN THE TIME ZONES
ARE OUT AND PEOPLE
ARE WORKING SCHEDULES,
YOU NEED AT LEAST TO BE
ABLE TO SIT DOWN AND GO,
"WELL, IF YOU RING ME
AROUND 5:00 MY TIME,
- SCHEDULE IT.
- I'LL BE THERE."
YOU KNOW, WE'RE OBVIOUSLY
IN EACH OTHER'S LIVES
FOR A REASON
AND I MET HIM FOUR YEARS AGO
AND THAT CONNECTION
WAS VERY STRONG.
WELL, DARCEY WAS CONVINCED
WHOLEHEARTEDLY
THAT TOM WAS
HER PRINCE CHARMING,
BUT, AS THE SOUND OF WEDDING
BELLS RANG LOUDER IN HERMIND,
THE DOUBTS BEGAN
RINGING IN TOM'S.
I MADE IT CLEAR
LIKE I'M SEEING SOMEONE
-OH.
AND I WANTED TO GIVE IT
LIKE THAT WINDOW
TO SEE HOW IT GOES.
OKAY. SO IT'S LIKE
A TRIAL.
I'M ON A TRIAL BASIS?
OKAY.
FOUR YEARS,
TRIAL BASIS.
IN A WAY,
I GUESS I ALREADY FELT LIKE
WE WERE A COUPLE.
SO, IT'S HURTFUL
TO HEAR.
SO, WHEN YOU GUYS
GET MARRIED,
ARE YOU GONNA GET
MARRIED HERE IN ALBANIA,
OR ARE YOU GONNA GO
TO THE STATES?
YOU KNOW,
I THINK, RIGHT NOW,
IT MAKES MORE SENSE TO PROBABLY
HAVE A WEDDING HERE, FIRST.
SO WHAT'S LIKE
YOUR DREAM WEDDING, TOM?
HAVEN'T REALLYSPENT
THAT MUCH TIME THINKING
ABOUT BEING MARRIED.
I'M NOT SURE ABOUT DARCEY
AND TOM'S CONNECTION JUST YET,
BUT, I THINK HE CAN SENSE
THAT SHE WANTS SOMETHING MORE
AND IT'S SCARING HIM AWAY.
I'M HAPPY
YOU'RE ENGAGED.
YOU REALLY WANT ME HAPPY,
DARCE? I DON'T KNOW.
I WAS THINKING THE SAME
THING ABOUT YOU.
I'VE BEEN ENGAGED
FOR THREE AND A HALF YEARS.
LIKE LET ME ENJOY
THE MOMENT.
YOU CAN'T, CAN YOU?
NO.
I JUST WISH HE'D BE
HONEST WITH HIMSELF
ABOUT IT ALL.
SHE'S JEALOUS.
WHEN IT FEELS EASY,
THAT'S WHEN YOU KNOW
IT'S RIGHT.
REALLY? DON'T TELL ME
ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP.
WHY ARE YOU BEING SO
RUDETO YOUR SISTER?
- SHE NEEDS LOVE.
- I DON'T NEED LOVE.
DON'T MAKE ME LOOK LIKE
A NEEDY WOMAN.
I'VE BEEN STABBED IN THE HEART
SO MANY TIMES.
LIKE, YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND.
I MEAN, THIS IS SUPPOSED
TO BE ABOUT US
AND WE GO AND SPEND
TIME WITH THEM
AND IT'S NOT ROMANTIC.
I FEEL LIKE WE'RE
TWO FRIENDS
ON HOLIDAY TOGETHER.
- I DON'T WANT THAT.
- IT'S NOT SUPPOSED TO BE THAT.
IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE
A NICE, ROMANTIC TIME.
I GET IT.
HE'S NOT A KEPT MAN.
HE NEVER WILL BE.
IF YOU STOP HIM
FROM BEING HIM,
HE WON'T LIKE THAT.
DARCEY, BLESS HER.
I THINK SHE'S QUITE NAIVE,
IF SHE THINKS SHE'S NOT
THE JEALOUS TYPE.
I DON'T THINK
SHE KNOWS HOW TO DEAL
WITH HOW SHE'S FEELING
ABOUT MY BROTHER,
'CAUSE SHE'S IN LOVE
WITH HIM.
IT'S VERY OBVIOUS.
AND I THINK,
IF SHE'S NOT QUITE SURE
WHETHER MY BROTHER WANTS
TO BE WITH HER OR NOT,
THEN I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT
THAT MIGHT UPSET HER.
OKAY. I'M GONNA GO
TO YOU, STACEY.
DURING THAT TRIP TO ALBANIA,
TOM HAD MENTIONED THAT
YOU TWO ARE VERY COMPETITIVE
AND THAT SHE'S JEALOUS
OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH FLORIAN.
DO YOU THINK THAT SHE IS,
THAT SHE WAS TRYING TO PUSH
THE SAME TYPE
OF RELATIONSHIP WITH TOM
THAT YOU HAD WITH FLORIAN?
I MEAN,
I DON'T THINK SHE'S
JEALOUS, PER SE.
- NO.
- NO. I KNOW YOU'RE NOT, DARCE.
- MNH-MNH.
- YOU TELL ME THAT ALL THE TIME.
I don't understand this
at all, to be fair.
I mean, when you
look at the clip,
It's quite obvious
that the only thing
that Darcey seemed to be
bothered about is that,
I don't know if you're
a older or younger sister,
but it's almost as though,
you know,
she should've been the one
first to get engaged.
She should be the one
that's havin'
an engagement party first.
She should be the one who's
getting married first.
- THAT'S KINDA HOW IT CAME OFF.
- NO. I JUST DON'T WANNA SETTLE.
I THINK, BECAUSE I GOT
ENGAGED FAIRLY QUICKLY,
I JUST FEEL LIKE
SHE NEVER REALLY LET ME
ENJOY MY ENGAGEMENT.
AND HAVE YOU EVER...?
- THAT'S ON YOU.
HAVE YOU EVER SAID, "LET'S
THROW AN ENGAGEMENT PARTY,"
OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT?
- NO.
IT'S LIKE YOU DON'T
EVEN WANNA KNOW
- NO.
- THAT FLORIAN AND I EXIST.
YOU DON'T EVEN TELL US
ABOUT IT TOO MUCH.
IT'S OKAY.
YOU DON'T EVER ASK ME
QUESTIONS
ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP.
I DON'T WANNA KNOW ANYTHING
ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
I WANNA FOCUS ON LIKE
- YEAH. SELFISH.
- MY LIFE, TOO.
I WANTED TO GET TO KNOW TOM
ON A DEEPER LEVEL, YOU KNOW.
BUT IT'S LIKE,
YOU KNOW,
WE'RE ALL TOGETHER IN A GROUP,
SO IT'S LIKE, YOU KNOW,
OBVIOUSLY, SHE'S...
I'M HAPPY FOR HER.
SHE'S FOCUSING
ON HER RELATIONSHIP, TOO,
BUT IT WAS JUST LIKE
I FELT LIKE I WAS...
OURS WAS FRESH.
TOM, DID YOU HAVE A RING ON YOU
WHEN SHE CAME TO SEE YOU?
I DID AT ONE
POINT, YEAH.
AND YOU WERE PREPARED
TO GIVE IT TO HER?
I THOUGHT I'D PLANNED OUT
AN EXTREMELY ROMANTIC TRIP
TO A PLACE WHERE
MY FATHER
ASKED MY MOTHER TO MARRY HIM
AND THAT WE WOULD HAVE
AN EXTREMELY ROMANTIC TIME.
- YEAH.
I FELT THAT WAS COMING.
- AND IF, AT THAT POINT,
I FELT AS THOUGH
I WANTED TO PROPOSE,
THEN AT LEAST I WAS
PREPARED FOR THAT MOMENT.
DID YOU KNOW HE HAD A RING
WAITING FOR YOU?
- I JUST FELT IN MY GUT,
LIKE IF WE WENT TO GRAN CANARIA,
SOMETHING MAGICAL
AND SPECIAL
WOULD'VE HAPPENED.
AND THEN WE WENT TO ALBANIA
AND I JUST KINDA
FELT LIKE
WHAT WE HAD GOT SABOTAGED
A LITTLE BIT
AND I DIDN'T REALLY GET
TO FOCUS ON...
SO I RUINED IT
FOR YOU?
- NO. ALBANIA WAS...
- NO, I'M NOT SAYING THAT.
ALBANIA WAS GREAT, STACEY.
- I KNOW.
WE HAD A GREAT TIME.
- I'M NOT TRYING TO KNOCK THAT.
BUT THE WHOLE POINT, YOU KNOW,
WE WANTED TO GO...
YOU WANTED YOUR
"FAIRY-TALE" VACATION
- SURE. WELL, YOU HAD YOURS.
- WITH YOUR PRINCE CHARMING.
- OKAY. IT'S NOT TIT FOR TAT.
- OKAY. WELL, YOU KNOW.
JUST FELT LIKE HE WASN'T
HAVING A GOOD TIME
AND I FELT BAD, YOU KNOW?
MAYBE IT WOULD'VE BEEN
BETTER FOR HIM.
- Is that 'cause you were drunk?
- YEAH. WE WENT OUT A LOT.
- Maybe.
WE LET LOOSE THIS TRIP.
- Thomas has told you
he doesn't find that attractive.
NO, I KNOW. I'M SURE. YEAH.
- Because you're
out of control
when you're drunk.
DO YOU THINK THAT'S TRUE?
DO YOU THINK YOUR SISTER
CHANGES WHEN SHE DRINKS?
I MEAN, WHO DOESN'T,
WHEN THEY HAVE A COUPLE
DRINKS, YOU KNOW?
I MEAN, EVERYBODY DOES.
- I don't.
- WE WERE ALL PARTYING
AND WE WERE ON VACATION,
HAVIN' FUN,
LETTIN' LOOSE, DRUNK,
YOU KNOW.
- TEQUILA SHOTS.
- TOM, YOU WERE DRUNK, TOO.
YEAH. I WAS
DANCING ON BARS.
- DANCING ON BARS.
- WE WERE, YOU KNOW,
HAVIN' FUN.
- STACEY, LET ME ASK YOU THIS.
DO YOU THINK DARCEY IS
BRINGING THE JESSE BAGGAGE
INTO THIS RELATIONSHIP
WITH TOM?
NO. NO. I THINK
SHE'S OVER THAT.
THAT'S THE PAST.
SHE'S LET THAT GO.
I think you've still
got a lot of hangups
about the last relationship
'cause I don't think that
you've let go of that yet.
HOW OFTEN DID YOU TWO
TALK ABOUT JESSE
WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER?
- MOST DAYS.
- MOST DAYS? EVERY SINGLE DAY,
BASICALLY, HE CAME UP.
- YEAH, EVERY DAY.
- NO. I DON'T BELIEVE
THAT'S TRUE.
- YOU DON'T THINK SO, DARCEY?
NO.
NO.
OBVIOUSLY, IT'S
GONNA COME UP AS A TOPIC.
WHAT TO LIKE BEWARE OF,
YOU KNOW.
I UNDERSTOOD WHERE
IT CAME FROM, THOUGH.
RIGHT.
IT WAS THIS FEAR THAT
MAYBE I WAS NOT GONNA BE
QUITE WHAT
SHE THOUGHT I WAS
AND SHE WAS GONNA GET
A REPLICATION
OF WHAT SHE HAD.
- IT HAS TO END,
YOU KNOW.
IT WAS A VICIOUS CYCLE.
I DON'T WANT IT LIKE
LINGERING AROUND ANYMORE.
JESSE, GO ON STAGE.
JUST GET THIS
OVER WITH.
OKAY. I HAVE JUST
BEEN NOTIFIED
THAT THERE IS A LOT GOING ON
IN THE GREEN ROOM.
AND, LATER...
I TRIED, IN MY HEART,
TO BE A MAN
AND TO TRY TO DO
FOR HIS WOMAN
AND TO TRY
TO GET YOU HERE.
MY LAST OPTION WAS
TO SHOW EVERYBODY
HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU
AND THAT'S WHAT IT WAS!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
BEFORE THE 90 DAYS:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
WE'RE HERE WITH TOM, DARCEY,
STACEY, AND EMMA,
AND WE'VE BEEN
DISCUSSING JESSE,
WHO IS NOT YET FULLY
OUT OF THE PICTURE.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK.
HERE'S TO LOVE, LIFE,
AND HAPPINESS, GIRLS.
- RIGHT.
- TO BEING ABLE TO HAVE A DRINK
WITHOUT SOMEONE
CALLING YOU AN ALCOHOLIC.
EXACTLY.
OH!
JESSE, JESSE, JESSE.
IF I HAD A GLASS OF WINE OR TWO,
HE THOUGHT I WAS AN "ALCOHOLIC."
AND I JUST WANNA
ASK YOU
TO NEVER DRINK AGAIN.
- YEAH, KEEP DRINKING, DARCEY.
- REALLY?
I DON'T DRINK, HONEY.
- HIDE PROBLEMS.
-REALLY? GO TELL YOURSELF
-YEAH, GET ARRESTED
- THAT, JESSE.
- ONE MORE TIME.
I BASICALLY GAVE UP DRINKING
FOR HIM FOR TWO YEARS.
I THOUGHT MAKING THAT
IMPROVEMENT ABOUT MYSELF
WOULD IMPROVE OUR RELATIONSHIP,
BUT IT WAS JUST ABOUT CONTROL.
GUESS WHO CALLS AT 3:00
IN THE MORNING.
HERE HE IS.
MISSED CALL FROM JESSE,
3:13 AM.
I DON'T TALK
TO JESSE ANYMORE
BECAUSE, EVERY TIME HE REACHES
OUT, IT'S TO ANTAGONIZE ME.
SEEING THAT POP UP,
IT BROUGHT BACK WEIRD
FLASHBACKS OF THE PAST.
THE WHOLE THING'S
LIKE DRAINING.
- IT IS DRAINING.
- I DON'T WANNA LIKE
LISTEN TO IT
ANYMORE.
WOW. THAT WAS SOME
ROUGHTALK ABOUT JESSE.
DO YOU THINK THAT TOM
IS A BETTER MATCH FOR HER
THAN JESSE WAS?
YEAH. YEAH. ANYTHING'S
BETTER THAN JESSE.
WHY DO YOU SAY THAT?
UM...
IT'S KINDA OBVIOUS.
HE'S JUST...
I THINK HE LOVES HIMSELF
MORE THAN ANYTHING
ELSE ON THIS EARTH.
HE'S JUST VERY
SELF-ABSORBED
AND NEVER LOVED
MY SISTER.
SO, DARCEY, WHEN WAS THE LAST
TIME YOU'VE SPOKEN TO JESSE?
- THE TELL-ALL.
- THAT WAS THE LAST TIME?
- YEAH, IT WAS JUST PHONE CALLS.
- LAST YEAR?
YEAH.
IN THE SUMMER, HE REACHED OUT
A COUPLE TIMES.
SO THE LAST TIME YOU SPOKE,
HEREACHED OUT TO YOU?
UM, YEAH.
AND, WHEN HE WOULD REACH
OUT TO YOUFIRST,
- HE HAS, YEAH. STACEY WAS THERE.
- WHY WOULD HE BE
REACHING OUT?
- I HAD HIM ON SPEAKER.
HE EVEN SAID HE WAS GONNA
BOOK A FLIGHT TO CONNECTICUT.
I KEPT SAYING NO, 'CAUSE HE
SAID HE WANTED TO MEDIATE IT,
BUT I, YOU KNOW.
- AND YOU KNOW HE'S HERE, RIGHT?
- YEAH.
MENTALLY PREPARED FOR THAT.
HE CAN SAY WHATEVER
BAD HE WANTS.
IT'S GONNA HAPPEN.
POOR DARCEY, MAN.
SHE JUST ALWAYS GETS
Avery: YEP.
AT THAT POINT,
I WANTED TO BE LEFT ALONE
AND I WAS LIKE HAPPY
BEING "SINGLE,"
READY TO MINGLE, YOU KNOW?
JESSE JUST TRASHED HER
ONLINE LIKE FOUR
OR FIVE DAYS AGO.
- ARE YOU SERIOUS?
- I MEAN, TRASHEDHER.
- WHAT'D HE SAY?
- TALKIN' ABOUT HOW
SHE OWED HIM MONEY
OR SOMETHIN'.
JESSE WAS JUST LOOKING
FOR PROBLEMS.
LET'S GO!
WERE THERE PHONE CALLS?
YEAH. JUST LET IT GO.
IT'S JUST GONNA
KEEP ON GOING, BUT,
TODAY'S THE DAY
IT NEEDS TO STOP.
HE DOES NOT WANT HER
TO BE HAPPY,
SO, IF HE SEES HER
BEING LIKE HAPPY
WITH SOMEONE ELSE,
HE'S GONNA TRY TO GET
IN BETWEEN THAT
YEAH, FOR SURE.AND THEN LEAVE.
OH, HE'S SUCH A...
HE'S DOWNSTAIRS?
WHERE'S HE AT?
I HAVEN'T SEEN HIM.
I WANNA GO TALK
TO HIM LIKE.
- HEY. OH, MY GOSH.
- NICE TO SEE YOU.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU.
- OH, MY GOD.
- HOW ARE YOU?
HE JUST
PISSES ME OFF.
YEAH,
I CAN'T STANDHIM.
OH!
HELLO!
JESSE'S HERE.
HI.
HI, ANGELA.
- JESSE, HI.
- THIS IS CAESAR.
BENJAMIN.
- NICE TO MEET YOU, MAN.
I'M JESSE. HI.
- NICE TO MEET YOU.
SO NICE TO MEET YOU.
- IT'S OKAY.
OH, NO HANDS?
OKAY, OF COURSE. YEAH.
I DON'T WANNA MEET YOU,
EITHER, MAN.
ALRIGHT.
NICE TO MEET YOU, THOUGH.
WHY ARE YOU HERE,
THOUGH? LIKE.
- WHY AM I HERE?
- YEAH.
I AM HERE TO LIKE TALK
ABOUT MY PERSONAL
JOURNEY HERE IN THE U.S.
I'M NOT GOING
UP WITH HER.
I'M JUST GOING UP
SEPARATE.
BUT NICE
TO MEET YOU GUYS.
GOOD TO BE HERE.
I'M NOT TRYING
TO JUDGE YOU OFF THE BAT
BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW
YOU IN PERSON,
BUT, AS WHAT I'VE SEEN,
YOU REALLY MANIPULATED HER.
I MEAN, I DO
ONLY KNOW ONE SIDE,
BUT, HONESTLY,
LIKE LOOKING AT YOU,
I DON'T THINK
YOU SHOULD BE HERE.
YOU DON'T THINK YOU
BEIN' HERE IS KIND OF
UP DARCEY'S
NEW RELATIONSHIP?
NO, BECAUSE I'M NOT
TALKING ABOUT HER.
I READ A POST FROM YOU
THREE DAYS AGO
WHERE YOU WERE
TALKIN' ABOUT HER.
THEY'RE LIKE HAVING
RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
BECAUSE YOUR NAME
- YEAH.
- AND THEN YOU SHOW UP HERE.
IT JUST SEEMS LIKE
YOU WANT THEM
TO HAVE PROBLEMS.
SHE'S GOT
A NEW BOYFRIEND.
THAT'S GOTTA MAKE
THE BOTH OF THEM
SUPER UNCOMFORTABLE.
- HONESTLY,
I DON'T LIKE
TO JUDGE PEOPLE,
BUT I ALSO SEE DARCEY
YEAH.
AND HOW SHE IS NOW
AND, TO BE HONEST,
I BLAME YOU.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT
YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND,
THAT I'M NOT HERE
FOR THEM.
I'M HERE TO TALK ABOUT MY...
- BUT IT DOESN'T MATTER.
I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT HER.
SHE TALKS ABOUT ME.
- YEAH, IT'S SELFISH, MAN.
- YOU DON'T HAVE TO BELIEVE ME,
-NO, I DON'T, AND IT'S SELFISH
-BUT,
-BECAUSE SHE'S SITTING HERE
-THAT'S WHAT I SAID.
STILL CRYING ABOUT THAT
THAT'S WHY -
AND THEN YOU'RE HERE
BECAUSE YOU WANNA TALK
ABOUT YOURSELF?
LOOK WHAT YOU'RE
DOING TO HER.
- NOT TALK ABOUT MYSELF.
I DO THINK SHE'S
STILL AFFECTED BY ACTIONS
CREATED BY HIM
AND IF SHE FEELS...
SHE'S ALMOST LIKE WAITING
FOR THAT NEGATIVE RESPONSE,
SO THEN SHE'S ON EDGE.
I WANT THE PAST TO BE THE PAST
AND I DON'T WANT
ALL THAT TOXICITY
OUT THERE IN THE UNIVERSE.
I DON'T LIKE BAD BLOOD
IN PAST RELATIONSHIPS.
I WANNA MOVE ON
AND MOVE FORWARD.
TOM, DO YOU THINK DARCEY
STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR JESSE?
I DON'T THINK SHE DOES.
EMOTIONALLY, I'M DONE.
LIKE I WOULD NEVER GO BACK
IN THAT RELATIONSHIP.
JUST WANT PEACE.
WISH HIM WELL.
HE COULD SAY WHATEVER
BAD HE WANTS.
THE FACT THAT YOU THINK
THAT I'M HERE FOR THEM,
I THINK,
IS YOURPROBLEM.
-HOW DO YOU NOT SEE
-BRO.
- THAT YOU'RE ADDING DRAMA?
- HOW?
YOU THINK YOU'RE DOIN'
SOME GOOD DEED
-HOW?
-FOR THE WORLD
-EXCUSE ME.
- EXCUSE ME.
- BECAUSE YOU'RE HERE.
THIS AIN'T NONE
OF MY BUSINESS
AND IT AIN'T NONE
OF YOURBUSINESS
AND IT AIN'T NONE OF
YOURBUSINESS.
STAY IN YOUR
LANE, DUDE.
DON'T. Y'ALL
BULLYING THIS MAN.
THAT'S BETWEEN JESSE...
- LISTEN.
I'M STICKING UP FOR A FRIEND.
- YOU LISTEN!
I HAVE SIX GRANDKIDS!
YOU LISTEN!
YOU'RE A BEAUTIFUL GIRL.
YOU GOT ENOUGH
GOIN' ON IN YOURLIFE
TO NOT WORRY ABOUT HIM
AND DARCEY!
YOUSAY YOU'RE
A MUSLIM?
I CAN'T TELL
AT THIS MOMENT!
- I AM A MUSLIM.
- NO, YOU'RE NOT!
YOU'RE SITTING THERE
CONDUCTING YOURSELF
NOT LIKE A LADY! BUT,
AT THE END OF THE DAY...
TOM?! I LOVE TOM!
- YEAH.
BUT I'M NOT GONNA
SIT HERE
AND HEAR Y'ALL
JUMP THIS MAN
BECAUSE, AT THE END
OF THE DAY,
YOU DON'T REALLY KNOW
WHAT NEITHER ONE OF 'EM
WENT THROUGH.
JUST LIKE
YOU DON'T KNOW ME!
YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I'M
GOING THROUGH WITH MICHAEL.
ALL I'M SAYIN'
IS STOP!
STOP!
AND I HOPE YOU WASN'T
IN ON THIS
- I WASN'T.
- THANK GOD!
'CAUSE IT DOESN'T
MAKE NO SENSE.
- WELL, IN THIS...
- SOMETIMES YOU NEED
TO JUST HUSH!
HUSH!
- CAN I TALK? CAN I TALK, PLEASE?
- NO!
- WHY?
- HUSH.
- WHY? ACTUALLY,
- WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF.
- I'M ALLOWED TO TALK.
OKAY. I HAVE JUST BEEN
NOTIFIED BY THE PRODUCER
THAT THERE IS A LOT GOING ON
IN THE GREEN ROOM.
IT SEEMS THERE'S
A LOT OF ARGUING
BETWEEN JESSE
AND EVERYONE ELSE.
- WOW.
- FIGURED THAT WAS GONNA HAPPEN.
NOTHING ELSE YOU CAN REALLY SAY.
HE'S GONNA TURN IT AROUND, BUT,
- YEAH.
- IT'S OKAY.
BLAME ME, FOR ANYTHING
AND EVERYTHING.
- LET ME SAY SOMETHING, THEN.
- BULLYING IS NOT
GONNA HAPPEN
WHILE I'M AROUND.
DARCEY HAS A MAN!
LET HIM DO
WHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO.
- BUT, ANGELA,
I'VE HAD TO HEAR
ABOUT IT ALL DAY.
I'M TIRED OF IT.
EVERYBODY'S TIRED OF IT.
HE NEEDS TO FIX...
JUST GO HANDLE IT!
THAT'S WHAT HE'S
GONNA DO!
JESSE, STAND UP,
-I APPRECIATE YOU STANDING UP.
GO ON STAGE,
-MM-HMM.
AND JUST GET THIS
OVER WITH, MAN.
BUT IT'S NONE
OF OUR BUSINESS.
YOU HAVE A RIGHT
TO GET ON THAT STAGE.
I SAY GET IT
OVER WITH, JESSE.
I SAY GET IT
OVER WITH, JESSE.
YEAH.
I'M COMING OUT
WHEN THEY'RE GONE
BECAUSE I'M NOT
HERE FOR THEM.
I DON'T WANNA SEE HER.
I'M NOT HERE FOR HER.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO EXPLAIN
TO ME, JESSE.
I KNOW.
OKAY. JESSE HAS SAID
THAT HE DOES NOT WANT TO TALK
TO YOU, DARCEY;
OR YOU, TOM.
SO, WE'RE GONNA LET YOU
GO IN THE BACK
AND WE'RE GONNA BRING ALL THE
OTHER COUPLES OUT ONTO THE SET.
EMMA, THANK YOU
SO MUCH FOR JOINING US.
STACEY, THANK YOU
FOR JOINING US.
OKAY.
- THANK YOU.
- THANK YOU, DARCE.
GO BACK TO THE WIDE SETUP.
- LISTEN. JESSE.
- I'M TIRED OF HEARIN' IT.
I'M DOWN THERE
AND I CAN
- JESSE.
- HEAR Y'ALL ATTACKING THIS MAN.
Y'ALL DON'T HAVE NO RIGHT
TELLIN' THIS MAN
TO FIX NOTHIN'. WE CAN'T FIX
OUR OWN DAMN LIVES.
THAT DON'T MAKE
NO SENSE, TIM.
BULLYING IS NOTWHAT
I WAS TRYING TO DO.
I KNOW, BUT, SWEETHEART,
I AM NOT HERE FOR THEM,
SO I DON'T WANNA TALK ABOUT HER.
- I KNOW, BUT LISTEN.
DAMN.
THE LAST THING
I WANNA DO
IS TRIGGER HER
TO TEXT ME AGAIN
AND TO CALL ME AGAIN
BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT
SHE'S BEEN DOING,
UNTIL LAST MONTH,
FOR OVER TWO
TO THREE YEARS.
NO, I WANNA HEAR IT
WITH DARCEY!
GET TO THE
TRUTH ABOUT IT
BECAUSE, NOW,
HE'S SAYING
COMPLETELY SEPARATE
THAN HER.
- YES.
- I'M SICK OF IT!
OKAY. CAN I TALK
TO YOU, SIR, HERE?
I THOUGHT YOU WERE COMING
HERE TO START DRAMA,
OKAY?
- NO. ABSOLUTELY NOT.
AND DARCEY IS SO NICE,
I FELT LIKE SHE
DID NOT DESERVE THAT.
I UNDERSTAND
YOU ONLY HAVE ONE SIDE
OF A STORY,
SO I CAN'T JUDGE THAT.
I DON'T PUT UP
WITH LIKE MANIPULATIVE
BECAUSE I'VE BEEN THROUGH
AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP.
YEAH.
EXACTLY.
AND THAT'S WHY
I WANNA LIKE,
DISTANCE MYSELF.
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
I STILL DON'T TRUST YOU,
BUT...
YEAH, NO. IT'S OKAY.
WHAT'S YOUR NAME AGAIN?
SORRY, I DIDN'T...
- AVERY.
- ALRIGHT. THANK YOU.
APPRECIATE THAT.
YEAH.
THANK YOU.
STOP. STOP, STOP,
STOP, STOP, STOP.
IT'S ALREADY
BEEN A LOT.
I KNOW!
YOU'VE ALREADY GOT
ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH, OKAY?
JUST CALM DOWN.
YOU GOT THIS.
WE'RE FINE.
I'M NOT A BULLY!
I'M NOT TRYIN'
TO PORTRAY MYSELF BADASS.
I'M NOT!
I'M NOT A BADASS.
BUT I'M ONE THAT WILL
FIGHT FOR RIGHTNESS
AND I WILL.
AND I WILL DO IT AGAIN.
THIS
I'M TIRED OF
WE GOT TO STAY STRONG
AS WOMEN TOGETHER.
YEAH. I DON'T WANNA
COME OFF LIKE A BULLY.
NO.
NO, NO, NO, HONEY.
I THINK PEOPLE
SEE THROUGH HIM
AND HE DOESN'T
LIKE THAT.
WHAT HE DID WAS WRONG
AND HE DESERVES TO BE TOLD
THAT THAT IS WRONG
FOR WHAT HE DID.
- THAT'S WHAT I FELT, TOO.
- AND THE FIRST TIME SOMEONE
STANDS UP TO HIM,
THEN YOU'RE BULLYING HIM.
I FELT LIKE I WAS
IN YOUR SITUATION
- YEAH.
- WHEN I SEEN IT.
- THANK YOU.
- SO LIKE I WANTED
TO STICK UP FOR YOU.
- THANK YOU.
APPRECIATE THAT.
- I'VE BEEN THROUGH
- YEAH, YEAH.
- A RELATIONSHIP.
- YEAH. I KNOW.
- LIKE I SEE.
IT'S NOT EASY.
I KNOW.
- AND FOR HIM TO COME HERE,
IT WAS LIKE I FELT LIKE
HE WAS TRYIN'
TO HURT YOU TWO,
WHERE YOU GUYS
DESERVE HAPPINESS.
YEAH.
AND I'M REALLY
SENSITIVE, LIKE YOU.
SO I UNDERSTAND.
- YEAH, NO. I FEEL YOU.
- I CRY AS MUCH AS YOU DO.
- I FEEL THIS ENERGY.
APPRECIATE IT.
YOU'RE IN A HEALTHY,
HAPPY RELATIONSHIP.
I'M PROUD OF YOU.
- THANK YOU.
- SKYLA, YOU GOTTA GO
BACK THAT WAY.
- OKAY.
- YEAH. YOU KNOW WHAT?
- I DON'T KNOW.
I'M JUST...
- SO, CAESAR, YOU'RE HERE.
- AND YOU WERE HERE, RIGHT?
- WE'RE GONNA HAVE YOU THERE.
- GREAT.
HAVE A SEAT.
YEAH, HAVE A SEAT.
- YOU WANT ME TO ADD THE...
- NO, I'M COOL. THANK YOU.
- MARK.
- GREAT.
ROLLING! QUIET, PLEASE.
OKAY. SO I WAS OUT HERE.
I WAS INTERVIEWING DARCEY
AND TOM AND STACEY
AND TOM'S SISTER EMMA.
WHAT HAPPENED?
ME.
TO BE HONEST, YEAH,
I DID COME OFF
JESSE STRONG,
WHICH WE ALL WERE,
BUT THAT'S BECAUSE...
DO YOU NEED TIME
TO GO CRY?
MNH-MNH.
I'M NOT BEIN' MEAN TO YOU,
BUT DO YOU NEED TIME TO GO CRY?
BECAUSE WHAT I SAW
BACK THERE
IS Y'ALL...
- I'M NOT CRYING OVER YOU.
BUT I'M SAYIN'.
YOU'RE NOT. YOU AIN'T.
I KNOW THAT.
I'M NOT CRYING
OVER THE BULLYING THING
'CAUSE I STILL THINK
I'M RIGHT.
WELL, YOU'RE GOING TO
'CAUSE YOU SAY
THAT ALL IN YOUR STATEMENTS
WHEN YOU DO WHO YOU ARE.
YOU'RE GONNA DO
WHAT YOU WANT.
YOU SAY THAT ABOUT YOUR
MOM, EVERYTHING ELSE.
I'M NOT HERE TO DO THAT
TO JUDGE YOU.
I HAVE MY OWN PROBLEMS.
- NO.
- LISTEN. THERE YOU GO.
YOU DON'T LISTEN.
- NO, THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING.
YOU DON'T LISTEN.
YOU'RE TALKING AND I...
- I DON'T NEED...
- I DON'T NEED IT!
I'M TAKIN' CARE
OF SIX GRANDKIDS!
I DON'T NEED NO ONE
SITTIN' BESIDE ME CRYIN'
WHEN THEY STARTED THAT.
I HEARD YOU AND EVERYBODY
ELSE DOWN THE HALL.
I DIDN'T WANNA
GET IN IT.
I HAVE MY OWN BATTLES.
- I ATTACKED HIM.
- BUT YOU DID GET IN IT.
I WAS THE ONE
SCREAMIN', NOT HER.
LISTEN, PLEASE STAY
OVER THERE.
ARE YOU REALLY
LIKE THIS, ANGELA?!
PLEASE BE MORE RESPECTFUL TO HER
BECAUSE OF HER AGE.
- LISTEN!
SHE'S A MARRIED WOMAN
AND NOW'S THE TIME TO...
- IT DOESN'T MATTER.
- LISTEN!
- IT'S NOT EVEN ABOUT MY AGE.
- SHE'S SITTING NEXT TO YOU...
- LISTEN!
SHUT THE UP!
PLEASE BE MORE RESPECTFUL TO HER
BECAUSE OF HER AGE.
- LISTEN!
SHE'S A MARRIED WOMAN
AND NOW'S THE TIME TO...
- IT DOESN'T MATTER.
- LISTEN!
- IT'S NOT EVEN ABOUT MY AGE.
- SHE'S SITTING NEXT TO YOU...
- LISTEN!
SHUT THE UP!
-DO NOTTALK TO SOMEONE
-YOU SHUT UP!
- LIKE THAT.
- PUT THAT DAMN FINGER DOWN!
DON'T YOU PUT YOUR FINGER
IN MY FACE, LITTLE GIRL.
- I LIKED YOU!
- OKAY.
YOU CAN'T HANDLE IT,
DON'T DO IT.
- I DON'T CARE.
- LISTEN.
- THIS IS NOT OKAY.
- NOBODY TOOK UP FOR JESSE
WHEN JESSE WAS BACK
THERE, ATTACKED!
YOU WASN'T THERE!
- CALM. DOWN.
DON'T YOU TELL ME
TO CALM THE DOWN.
DON'T TALK TO ME,
- LISTEN!
- OR HER, LIKE THAT.
THEN SHUT YOUR MOUTH!
I WASTALKING TO HER!
- I WANNA KNOW...
I WANNA KNOW...
LADIES, LADIES,
- WHAT DO YOU WANNA DO?
- I'M NOT GOING
- WHAT DO YOU WANNA DO?
- TO DO THIS WITH YOU.
- BACK. UP!
- YOU BETTER BACK ME UP.
ARE YOU TRASHY
LIKE THIS FOR REAL?
- OH, YOU BETTER BELIEVE IT!
- GUYS.
- I'M NOT GONNA LOWER MYSELF.
- ALL DAY LONG!
- GUYS.
- ALL... DAY... LONG.
-I'M NOT GONNA LOWER MYSELF
-I AM TRASHY,
- TO YOUR LEVEL.
- ALL DAY LONG.
- YOU NEED TO CALM. DOWN.
- YOU NEED TO KISS MY ASS!
- LADIES.
- OKAY, WHO'S BULLYING WHO?
KISS MY ASS. NO, 'CAUSE
YOU'RE THE STARTED.
TAKE YOUR ASS AND SIT DOWN.
BOO HOO.
DAMN, THIS IS
INSANE, BRO.
YOU OKAY?
TERI.
PLEASE. YOU WANT A WAR?
WELL, BRING IT.
BRING JESSE BACK IN HERE.
LISTEN, WHO ARE YOU?
- GUYS, CALM DOWN.
I WAS TRYING TO TALK NICE
TO YOUR DAUGHTER.
- YOU'RE BEING VERY RUDE.
- Y'ALL DIDN'T DO THIS TO JESSE!
- YOU'RE BEING VERY RUDE.
- YOU BETTER GET ONE
OF THESE BITCHES, BECAUSE YOU
DIDN'T GO TELL HER TO STOP
TALKING TO JESSE LIKE THAT
-I DID, ACTUALLY.
WHILE HE WAS IN TEARS.
- CAN WE MAKE HER STOP?
- AVERY. PLEASE...
- THIS IS NOT WHY I'M
JUST PLEASE SIT DOWN.
I WAS STICKING UP
FOR HER. NO.
PLEASE, PLEASE,
PLEASE, BACK UP.
YOU CAUSED ALL THIS
TEAR-EYED.
GO CRY YOU A RIVER.
GROW UP.
YOU'RE MARRIED WOMAN NOW.
- I AM A MARRIED WOMAN.
- YOU'RE A MARRIED WOMAN.
- GROW THE UP.
- AND I WAS STICKING UP
FOR DARCEY BECAUSE...
GROW THE UP.
SHE DON'T EVEN KNOW
NOTHING ABOUT DARCEY!
THAT
TOM CAN TAKE UP
FOR DARCEY WITH JESSE!
HE DON'T NEED A LITTLE GIRL
TAKING UP FOR HIS WOMAN
'CAUSE TOM CAN HANDLE JESSE!
- OKAY, GUYS.
- SHE IS NOTWORTH IT.
- LET'S TAKE A SEAT.
- THIS ISN'T YOU.
- I KNOW.
- HEY!
- JUST SIT DOWN.
- I KNOW. I'M SITTING DOWN.
- I LOVE YOU.
- I KNOW.
DON'T WORRY.
- REBECCA.
NO, BUT...
REBECCA, SIT DOWN.
AVERY.
- AVERY, CHILL.
JUST...
THIS IS A LOT.
I'M SORRY.
THAT IS NOTWORTH IT.
JUST TAKE A MOMENT.
BUT...
DO YOU WANNA GO
AND GET A CIGARETTE?
HEY, IT'S NOT WORTH IT, GUYS.
GUYS, IT'S NOT WORTH IT!
- WE'LL GO AND HAVE A CIGARETTE.
- PLEASE! IT'S NOT WORTH IT!
I DON'T LIKE
PEOPLE FIGHTING LIKE THIS.
IT'S NOT WORTH IT.
LISTEN. TOM,
YOU'RE A GENTLEMAN
AND I LOVE YOU
AND I LOVE DARCEY.
YOU WOULDN'T LIKE NOBODY
GANGIN' UP ON NOBODY.
THAT'S BULLYIN'.
I HEARD ENOUGH OF IT.
I SAID,
"LET TOM HANDLE HIM."
RIGHT? RIGHT?
I THINK YOU CAN
HANDLE YOURSELF!
- OF COURSE.
- I AIN'T NO BULLY.
- I'M REAL!
- YOU WANNA
I DON'T WANT
ANYONE FIGHTING, GUYS.
DARCEY, IT AIN'T
'CAUSEOF YOU, BABY.
- COME ON, LET'S RELAX.
- IT'S NOT BECAUSE OF YOU.
BUT I BELIEVE TOM
CAN TAKE UP FOR YOU
WITH JESSE.
THAT'S STUPID.
AND THEN,
WE'RE ALL IN THIS
TOGETHER.
NEVER FELT SO STRONG
ABOUT TOM AND YOU
AND...
YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
YOU'RE 19, BUT,
WHEN YOU CROSS THE LINE
IN THERE, YOU CROSSED IT.
- YEAH.
I'M A GROWN WOMAN.
DON'T CROSS IT.
- AVERY, DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
- JUST TAKE A MOMENT.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
OKAY?
YOU CANNOT START A FIGHT
IF YOU CAN'T FINISH IT.
OKAY.
SO, WHAT HAPPENED?
I DON'T TALK ABOUT MY PAST
BECAUSE I'VE BEEN
IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE
DARCEY AND JESSE,
BUT WAY WORSE,
TO BE HONEST.
I SEE LIKE
JESSE MORE
AS LIKE THAT GUY,
THAT DID IT TO ME.
PERSONALLY, THAT'S
WHAT I GOT FROM HIM
AND I HAD THE RIGHT
TO EXPRESS MY OPINION.
OKAY, BUT WHAT HAPPENED
BACKSTAGE? I'M STILL TRYING
TO FIGURE OUT...
- JESSE WALKED IN THE ROOM,
TRYING TO SHAKE HANDS
AND I'M JUST LIKE,
"IT'S DISRESPECTFUL
TO BE HERE.
LIKE YOU'RE CAUSING DRAMA
WITH DARCEY.
YOU'RE CAUSING DRAMA
WITH TOM."
IT'S JUST SETTING
A BAD ATMOSPHERE AROUND HERE.
LIKE THEY'RE TRYING TO MOVE ON.
- SO YOU REFUSED TO SHAKE
JESSE'S HAND?
- WE BOTH DID.
I DIDN'T FEEL
IT WAS RIGHT
BECAUSE IT WOULD BE
HYPOCRITICAL
TO BE WITH DARCEY
AND THEN COME IN
AND JUST BE LIKE,
"HEY, WHAT'S UP JESSE?"
YOU KNOW, THAT'S LIKE,
"OH, YOU'RE
BEST FRIENDS WITH ME.
- WE'VE ALREADY SLAMMED HIM,
SO I'M NOT GONNA
GO BACK ON MY WORD.
HE'S LIKE,
"I'M NOT HERE FOR DARCEY."
WELL, IT DOESN'T MATTER
IF YOU'RE HERE
- TO SWEEP THE FLOOR.
- NO OTHER REASON
THAT HE WOULD BE HERE.
- IT'S STILL AFFECTING HER,
WHETHER YOU'RE HERE
FOR HER OR NOT.
OKAY. BENJAMIN,
FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE,
WHAT HAPPENED BACKSTAGE?
YOU KNOW, WE STARTED OFF
WITH A GOOD CONVERSATION
AND WE WERE GOIN'...
- NOT ME.
WE WERE BEING RESPECTFUL,
AT FIRST.
WE HAD A RESPECTFUL
CONVERSATION.
- I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR HIM.
- AND I EVEN LIKE...
BUT YOU STARTED OFF
AT A GOOD POINT
AND THEN,
IT WENT DOWNHILL.
THE CONVERSATION THEN
JUST STARTED GETTING
INTO MORE OF A YELLING
MATCH THAN ANYTHING.
BETWEEN WHO?
TIM AND JESSE WERE REALLY
GOIN' AT EACH OTHER
AND THEN, OUT OF NOWHERE,
-BUT...
HERE COMES ANGELA,
LIKE A WRECKIN' BALL,
JUST RIGHT INTO THE
MIDDLE OF THE ROOM
AND SHE'S,
"EFF YOU, EFF YOU,
EFF YOU, EFF YOU.
- SCREAMING.
"YOU'RE A PIECE OF TRASH.
YOU'RE NOT DOING
THINGS RIGHT."
AND SHE'S JUST JUDGING EVERYBODY
IN THE ROOM LIKE WE'RE...
NO, BUT SHE WAS
DEFENDING JESSE.
- BUT, STILL.
- WHICH IS FINE,
SHE HAS A RIGHT TO, BUT.
- SHE COMES FLYING IN,
OFF-HANDLE.
EVERYTHING THAT LITTLE GIRL
HAD SAID ON THE THING
IS
I BELIEVE NOTHIN'
SHE SAYS.
I'M SORRY
FOR THE WAY I ACTED,
BUT I'M NOT SORRY
FOR WHAT I SAID
BECAUSE, AT THE END OF THE DAY
I DIDN'T DO THIS.
AND, NOW, I LOOK LIKE
THE BULLY WITH HER.
OKAY. CAESAR, FROM YOUR
PERSPECTIVE, WHAT HAPPENED?
IT JUST BROUGHT
AN EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER
WHEN HE CAME
INTO THE ROOM.
THAT'S ALL IT WAS.
BECAUSE A LOTTA PEOPLE
ARE SENSITIVE
AND THEY WANNA GET
THAT OUT, YOU KNOW?
BECAUSE OF THE SITUATION
DARCEY'S IN.
WHY COME HERE AND TRY
TO START DRAMA
WITH DARCEY AND TOM?
THAT JUST KIND OF SHOWS
THAT YOU'RE TRYING
TO GET IN BETWEEN IT.
- I TRY TO UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING
THAT'S GOING ON
AND I FEEL LIKE,
YOU KNOW, EVERYONE'S KIND OF...
- DID YOU SEE AND HEAR
PEOPLE FIGHTING BACKSTAGE?
I HEARD THAT THERE WAS
SOME ARGUING
IN THE BACK AND STUFF
AND, YOU KNOW, BASED OFF
OF MY RELATIONSHIP
WITH JESSE, AND I GUESS...
WAS HE BACK THERE?
FROM WHAT I HEAR... I WASN'T
IN THE ROOM AT THE TIME...
EVEN THOUGH AVERY
WAS KIND OF BEING
- NO, AVERY WAS BEING RESPECTFUL.
- HARSH ABOUT IT,
SHE WAS STILL BEING RESPECTFUL.
- SHE WAS RESPECTFUL, YEAH.
IT'S JUST NOT WORTH IT.
IT'S NOT WORTH IT, GUYS.
- RIGHT. RIGHT.
- IT'S NOT WORTH IT.
AND I THINK IT'S
A RELATABLE STORY
BECAUSE, YOU KNOW,
A LOT OF PEOPLE
HAVE BEEN PROBABLY
AFFECTED LIKE THAT
IN THEIR OWN LIVES,
IN THEIR OWN
RELATIONSHIPS, YOU KNOW?
AND I APPRECIATE
ALL YOU GUYS,
YOU KNOW, COMING TO MY
DEFENSE AND STUFF.
I JUST DON'T WANT
ANYBODY HURT.
IT'S JUST LIKE,
WHEN I WENT
THROUGH IT,
IT WAS, UM...
NO ONE BELIEVED ME,
SO, I FEEL THE SAME.
- YEAH. NO, I UNDERSTAND.
AND THAT'S HARD, TO GO
-AND THAT'S WHAT SUCKS.
THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
- LIKE I JUST KEEP ON
- THINKING ABOUT IT.
- OKAY.
OKAY, AVERY, YOU TAKE A BREATH.
WE'RE GOING TO TAKE A BREAK
AND WE'RE GOING TO BRING ALL
OF THE PARTNERS BACK.
ALRIGHT. THANK YOU.
APPRECIATE IT.
THIS IS NOT
WHAT WE HAD INTENDED.
WE WANTED
A CONVERSATION ABOUT
THE RELATIONSHIP
BETWEEN DARCEY AND TOM.
SO, WE'RE GONNA TAKE
A SHORT BREAK
AND WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK.
SHE'S CRAZY.
ALRIGHT, GUYS, WE'RE
GONNA DO SOME RESETTING,
SO, IF YOU WANNA
POP OUT, OKAY?
OH. NO, I APPRECIATE
IT. THANK YOU.
TO START FIGHTING LIKE THAT,
IT'S NOT OKAY, IN MY BOOK.
YOU CAN SPEAK UP
WITHOUT HAVING TO CURSE
AND BE JUST DISGUSTING.
OOH!
IT'S HEARTBREAKING TO SEE
SOMEBODY GO THROUGH THAT.
YOU OKAY?
JUST LIKE EMOTIONAL
AND I THINK IT'S JUST
'CAUSE IT'S SO MUCH.
THE WORLD'S BROKEN ALREADY.
WE NEED TO LOVE PEOPLE,
RATHER THAN HATE PEOPLE, SO.
I'M TIRED OF IT.
I'M TIRED OF REBECCA'S
MOUTH ALL DAY.
I'VE HEARD IT
AND I'M SICK OF IT.
WOW.
I'M NOT GONNA BE OUT THERE
WITH HER, RIGHT?
THEY'RE GONNA
MOVE YOU.
SHE'S STILL GOING
TRY SOMETHING.
YOU KNOW WHAT?
WHEN YOU BRING IT TO ME,
I'LL BRING IT BACK.
DON'T TALK TO HER.
AVERY,
- YOU GUYS GONNA STAY SEPARATE.
- PROMISE ME.
SEPARATE.
AND I WANT YOU
TO NOT FEED INTO HER.
IF YOU NEED TO GO PRAY-
-I THINK I HAVE TO PRAY SALAH.
YEAH.
- SERIOUSLY.
OKAY.
GIVE ME ONE MOMENT.
HE CAME TO REALLY
SHAME AND BASH.
THAT'S WHY HE CAME.
HER STORIES
DOESN'T MATCH UP
WITH REALITY.
THAT IS JUST
THE TRUTH.
I COULD BACK IT UP,
ALL.
AND, LATER...
CAESAR, WHAT PICTURE
ARE WE NOT SEEING?
THE THING THAT I SEE
IS THAT THEY DON'T KNOW
HER LIKE I KNOW HER
AND IS ACTUALLY
LIKE A REAL PERSON.
- RIGHT.
- I DON'T WANNA BE RUDE,
BUT IT JUST SEEMS LIKE
YOU'RE STILL
DEFENDING HER.
YOU GOT SCAMMED.
THAT'S IT.
I JUST DON'T WANT
ANYONE HURT
OR AFFECTED BY THIS
'CAUSE IT'S... TOO TOXIC.
LET HIM BLOW HIS
SMOKE UP HIS OWN ASS.
ALRIGHT, GUYS, LET'S RESET.
WE'RE BRINGING OUT
JESSE SOLO.
- HEY, JESSE.
- HEY.
LONG TIME NO SEE.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN.
HAS IT BEEN A YEAR?
- I DON'T EVEN KNOW.
- HAS IT BEEN?
MIGHT'VE BEEN A YEAR.
IT'S GOOD TO BE
BACK, THOUGH.
ALRIGHT, HERE WE GO GUYS.
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON
AND I AM HERE
WITH JESSE.
GOOD TO SEE YOU AGAIN, JESSE.
- LIKEWISE.
- OKAY. FIRST OF ALL,
WHAT HAPPENED BACKSTAGE?
YEAH. I-I, PBBT!
I DON'T KNOW,
LIKE I WENT
TO THE DRESSING ROOM.
WAS, YOU KNOW,
VERY JUDGMENTAL.
I'M LIKE, ALRIGHT,
THAT'S OKAY.
YOU CAN BE JUDGMENTAL.
I DON'T MIND.
BASICALLY, SHE WAS LIKE,
"WHY ARE YOU HERE?"
SO YOU DIDN'T GO IN THERE
WITH AN ATTITUDE
- OH! NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT.
- OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT
- ABSOLUTELY NOT. NO. ANGELA...
- OR BADMOUTHING?
I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW
THEY WERE THERE.
ANGELA INTRODUCED ME
AND, YOU KNOW, JUST LIKE,
FIRSTLY, JUST, YOU KNOW,
INTRODUCED ME
TO EVERYBODY.
THEN, LIKE, BASICALLY,
I THINK ANGELA CAME IN
BECAUSE SHE OVERHEARD
THE CONVERSATION
AND SHE WAS LIKE,
"WHY ARE YOU
LIKE JUDGING JESSE?"
AND LIKE SHE WAS LIKE
STANDING UP FOR ME
AND LIKE SHE'S REAL.
YOU CAN SAY WHAT
YOU WANT ABOUT ANGELA,
BUT SHE'S LIKE, SHE JUST
SAYS IT AS IT IS, RIGHT?
SO, IT'S LIKE, OKAY,
ANGELA, LIKE IT'S LIKE,
"THANK YOU FOR STANDING UP
FOR ME. I RESPECT THAT.
BUT LIKE, YOU KNOW,
WHAT WERE YOU SAYING BACK?
- LET THEM JUST JUDGE, THEN.
LIKE, IF THEY FEEL THE NEED
TO JUDGE, JUST LET THEM BE."
THEN THEY LEFT
AND WHATEVER HAPPENED THEN,
LIKE HERE, I DON'T KNOW.
OKAY, JESSE,
SINCE I'VE LAST SEEN YOU.
THERE'S BEEN A LOTGOING ON.
LET'S WATCH.
SINCE DARCEY AND I BROKE UP,
I'M DOING MORE
THAN EVER BEFORE.
I'M GRADUATING THIS YEAR
WITH A DEGREE IN PSYCHOLOGY.
I'M AN ACTOR. I'M, YOU KNOW,
ALSO COACHING PEOPLE...
TO BE ABLE TO REACH
SO MANY PEOPLE,
IT'S JUST INCREDIBLE.
GOOD AFTERNOON.
THANK YOU ALL FOR COMING.
I'VE BEEN WORKING WITH SENIORS
BEFORE I WAS 16 AND I LOVE IT.
I'M FROM AMSTERDAM,
THE NETHERLANDS.
I CAME TO THE U.S. FOR LOVE.
I DIDN'T SUCCEED
AND I FELL FOR, YOU KNOW,
SOMETHING THAT I EXPECTED
TO BE DIFFERENT.
I JUST LOVE INSPIRING PEOPLE,
YOU KNOW,
SPEAKING ON BIG STAGES.
ANY QUESTIONS, THUS FAR?
NO? AT THE END
OF THE PRESENTATION,
I'LL HAVE A SHEET
WHERE WE CAN JUST,
YOU KNOW,
LIKE TALK ABOUT ANYTHING
AND HAVE QUESTIONS,
SO THAT WILL BE GREAT.
WHEN I WAS WITH MY EX,
SHE WANTED TO MARRY,
HAVE KIDS,
LIKE FROM DAY ONE, RIGHT?
PEOPLE THOUGHT, OH, LIKE,
I'M IN IT FOR THE GREEN CARD.
AND I WAS LIKE, NO,
I BROKE UP.
IF I REALLY WANTED
THAT GREEN CARD,
I WOULD HAVE MARRIED.
I MOVED ON FROM DARCEY,
BUT, AFTER THE BREAKUP,
SHE'S BEEN STALKING ME
EVER SINCE,
IN ANY POSSIBLE WAY.
WHAT KIND OF STUFF
SHE SEND YOU?
SHE WOULD SAY THINGS LIKE,
"I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU"
AND "I THOUGHT WE HAD
ONE MORE CHANCE."
AND THEN I ACTUALLY
PICKED UP THE PHONE.
I WAS LIKE,
"I JUST WANNA LET YOU KNOW,
LIKE IF YOU'RE GONNA
KEEP STALKING ME,
I'M GONNA FILE A LAWSUIT."
DOES SHE KNOW YOU ARE
COMING TO NEW YORK?
NOT NOW. NO, NO, NO,
BECAUSE I HAVE LIKE
ZERO CONTACT WITH HER.
IF SHE KNOWS I'M
IN NEW YORK,
I WOULDN'T BE SURPRISED
IF SHE WOULD REACH OUT.
SHE'S STILL OBSESSED
ABOUT ME.
IT'S SAD.
I WANT HER TO MOVE ON.
SO ARE YOU REALLY RELIEVED
YOU BROKE UP WITH HER?
100%, YEAH.
IT WAS WEARING ON ME.
I WAS NOT HAPPY ANYMORE.
I WAS NOT
AS POSITIVE ANYMORE.
AND THEN I JUST KNEW
THAT I NEEDED TO LET GO.
JESSE.
YEAH.
DARCEY HAD
A DIFFERENT STORY.
WHO'S CONTACTING WHO?
I REALLY WISHED
SHE MOVED ON,
BUT, UNTIL LAST MONTH,
SHE STILL REACHED OUT.
THE FACTS ARE THAT,
FOR TWO YEARS STRAIGHT,
SHE'S BEEN REACHING
OUT TO ME.
SO, WHEN SHE SAID THAT
YOU REACHED OUT TO HER
AND YOU WANTED
TO COME TO CONNECTICUT
TO HASH OUT EVERYTHING,
THAT IS NOT TRUE?
- THAT IS 100% NOT TRUE.
- YOU HAVE NEVER PICKED UP
THE PHONE TO CALL HER?
- I PICKED UP THE PHONE...
NO, I NEVER PICKED...
I PICKED UP THE PHONE,
BUT I NEVER CALLED HER.
- YOU MEAN, WHEN SHE CALLED YOU,
YOU PICKED IT UP.
- YEAH, SHE CALLED
THE WHOLENIGHT.
I WAS LIKE, "ALRIGHT,
IS SOMETHING WRONG
OR SOMETHING?"
SO I ANSWERED THE PHONE.
IT WAS CRAZY.
SHE WAS LIKE,
"I'M SO UPSET.
YOU CAN'T DO THIS TO ME."
AND THEN I WAS SAD.
IT'S LIKE, "YOU GOTTA HAVE
PEOPLE AROUND YOU
THAT CARE FOR YOU
AND, YOU KNOW, CAN HELP
YOU WITH COUNSELING."
AND SHE TWISTED THAT
AS IN LIKE
I WANTED COUNSELING
WITH HER.
NO.
HER STORIES
DOESN'T MATCH UP
WITH REALITY.
THAT IS JUST THE TRUTH.
SO THIS IS NOT
HE SAID/SHE SAID.
I CAN LIKE PROVE
ALL THE TRANSACTIONS
I MADE FOR HER,
THE BANK ACCOUNT
I MADE FOR HER,
THE GREECE TRIP
I PAID FOR HER.
I COULD BACK IT UP, ALL,
I JUST WANT HER TO BE
HAPPY, LIKE TRUTHFULLY.
PLEASE, IF YOU SAY YOU
MOVED ON, THEN DO IT.
HE CAME TO REALLY
SHAME AND BASH.
THAT'S WHY HE CAME.
- SO HE'S BEING DEFENSIVE.
- YEAH, HE'S GONNA BE
VERY DEFENSIVE AND HE
STUDIES PSYCHOLOGY,
SO HE'S GONNA REVERSE IT
AND, NOW, HE'S REALLY
GONNA SHAME AND BASH.
- NARCISSISTIC.
YEAH.
ON TO THE NEXT,
ON TO THE NEW.
I DON'T LIKE THE FACT
THAT HE'S STILL
UPSETTING DARCEY.
- I KNOW. IT'S SAD.
NO. BECAUSE IT'S
AFFECTING ME.
- I KNOW.
- IT'S AFFECTING ME
AND MYCHANCE TO ACTUALLY
HAVE A RELATIONSHIP
WITH SOMEONE THAT I CARE ABOUT.
- YES. I GET IT.
I WANT DARCEY TO SAY WHAT SHE
NEEDS TO SAY WITHOUT FEAR.
IF SHE GETS THAT,
THEN SHE CAN MOVE FORWARD
AND WE CAN MAYBE WORK SOMETHING
TO A POINT WHERE WE'RE HAPPY
AND WE'RE NOT HAVING TO DEAL
WITH THIS WHOLE THING.
I WANT HER TO HAVE
HER VOICE AGAIN.
'CAUSE SHE LOST IT
ALONG THE WAY.
OKAY. ONE MORE
QUESTION FOR YOU.
DO YOU HAVE
A NEW GIRLFRIEND?
I'M IN A PHASE WHERE,
YEAH, LIKE CLOSE TO IT.
IS SHE HERE IN THE STATES?
SOMETIMES.
WE'VE BEEN TRAVELING
THE WORLD TOGETHER, NOW.
WE'VE BEEN IN LIKE
GREEK ISLANDS
FOR LIKE MONTHS NOW.
BUT, YOU KNOW,
WE'RE GIVING IT TIME
SO I DON'T WANNA
LABEL IT RIGHT NOW.
- OKAY.
- BUT WE'RE VERY HAPPY.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING
YOUR STORY WITH US.
- THANK YOU, GUYS.
- OKAY.
THANK YOU JESSE.
- YEAH.
- GOOD TO SEE YOU.
- YOU LOOK GREAT, BY THE WAY.
- THANK YOU.
- THANK YOU SO MUCH
FOR EVERYTHING.
- THANK YOU. OKAY.
- ALRIGHT. BYE-BYE.
ALRIGHT, LET'S RESET
FOR ANGELA.
I REALLY, REALLY HOPED
DARCEY WOULD MOVE ON.
SHE DIDN'T.
AND THE HARDER SHE SCREAMS,
"I MOVED ON!"
THE MORE SHE REACHES
OUT TO ME.
SO, THANK YOU SO MUCH
FOR EVERYTHING.
APPRECIATE IT.
GOOD MAN.
SHE CAN PORTRAY ALL THESE,
YOU KNOW, IMAGES
OF WHAT SHE FEELS
IS GOING ON,
BUT THE TRUTH
IS VERY DIFFERENT.
GOING DOWN.
THAT MIGHT BE
CONFRONTING FOR HER,
BUT, THE TRUTH
WILL ALWAYS COME OUT.
MICHAEL, LET'S GET
CLARITY ABOUT THIS.
IF ANGELA CAN'T HAVE A BABY,
WOULD YOU LEAVE HER?!
AND, LATER...
CAESAR, ARE YOU READY?
YEAH.
LET US WELCOME MARIA.
OKAY, GUYS. WE'RE READY?
LET'S BRING ANGELA IN.
YOU ALRIGHT?
WHO DID THAT, ME?
HECK, YEAH.
I'LL FIX IT.
WELL, YOU BETTER
CATCH IT.
SO SORRY.
EXCUSE ME.
SHE'S KIND OF CRAZY.
NOBODY'S ARGUIN' THAT.
- MM-HMM.
- JUST MOVE ON, MAN.
I'M NOT GONNA SAY
ANYTHING ABOUT HER
'CAUSE IT'S
NOT NICE, BUT.
YOU'RE STRONG.
ALRIGHT, GUYS.
QUIET, PLEASE!
YOU GUYS READY?
LET ME JUST WALK.
WE ARE WALKING.
HI, GUYS.
HI, SKYLA.
- HELLO, SHAUN.
- WELCOME BACK.
'ELLO, OKUMI.
- Hey, baby.
- I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
ALRIGHT, HERE WE GO.
READY,
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK "TO 90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
WE ARE GOING TO SPEND
SOME TIME, NOW,
WITH ANGELA AND MICHAEL,
ANDANGELA'S DAUGHTER,
SKYLA, HAS ALSO JOINED US.
THANK YOU SO MUCH
FOR BEING HERE.
- THANK YOU.
- Thank you.
THERE WAS A...
ARGUMENT BACKSTAGE
WHILE I WAS TALKING
TO DARCEY AND TO TOM.
TELL ME, FROM YOUR
PERSPECTIVE, WHAT HAPPENED.
OH, MY. WELL.
AND I REALIZED IT WAS
JESSE IN THERE AND...
OKAY.
AND I GO IN THERE
AND I SAY,
"Y'ALL, STOP THIS."
AND BLAH BLAH BLAH."
AND, FINALLY, I'M LIKE,
"SHUT THE UP."
AND I'M SORRY
IT HAPPENED.
I'M GONNA LEAVE IT
AT THAT.
OKAY.
SO LET'S SWITCH GEARS.
EVERYONE WHO WATCHED
SEASON 2
OF "BEFORE THE 90 DAYS" KNOWS
THE BIGGEST ISSUE
BETWEEN THESE TWO HAS ALWAYS
BOILED DOWN TO ONE THING:
TRUST.
LET'S WATCH.
OH, JEEZ.
HE AIN'T ANSWERIN'
HIS PHONE.
ALL DAY AT WORK,
I BEEN CALLING HIM.
THE ONLY TIME
HE DON'T ANSWER HIS PHONE,
TOMMY, IS WHEN HE'S
TOLD ME A LIE.
IS IT ME?
- MNH-MNH.
AM I THE DAMN BITCH
HERE, OR WHAT?
MICHAEL!
WHAT HAPPENED, MICHAEL?
YOU HAVE A LYIN' PROBLEM.
YOU BEEN
ON A BOAT BEFORE?
HM.
YOU LIED ABOUT THAT,
YOU LIAR.
AT THE SAME BOAT DOCK
WITH WOMEN.
SO, THEREFORE, HE'S LYIN'
DEAD AND MY DAMN FACE.
YOU KNOW WHAT?
GET YOUR OWN HOTEL ROOM.
I GOT MY OWN MONEY.
I'M DONE WITH THIS.
YOU'RE A DAMN LIAR.
THAT'S NOT GONNA WORK
THIS TIME.
- BABY, PLEASE, PLEASE.
- I'M EMBARRASSED
THAT YOU COME UP HERE.
I'M ALREADY UPSET.
- I'M SORRY. I'M SORRY, BABY.
- NO, YOU'RE NOT SORRY.
THERE'S YOUR CAKE,
MICHAEL.
THAT DOESN'T WORK THIS TIME.
MICHAEL, IF YOU BREAK ANY
OF THEM RULES,
ESPECIALLY DURING 90 DAYS,
YOUR ASS IS GETTIN' A DAMN
ONE-WAY TICKET BACK.
STOP YOUR LYING,
- MM-HMM.
- STOP FOLLOWING WOMEN,
AND STOP BEIN' SNEAKY.
- LOOKING SNEAKY.
THAT WAS THE THIRD.
- YES.
WHOA! ANGELA, WHY DO YOU THINK
MICHAEL TELLS THESE LIES?
I THINK THE REASON HE THINKS
IT'S NOT A LIE...
BECAUSE IT'S REALLY HARMLESS
IS WHAT HE'S DOING
AND HE'S PROTECTIN' ME
FROM GETTING UPSET.
SO, MICHAEL, IS IT
THAT YOU ARE AFRAID
TO TELL ANGELA THE TRUTH
SOMETIMES?
Yeah.
WE GET TOO EXTREME,
MICHAEL,
BECAUSE YOU LIE.
IT'S LIKE, "WHY DO YOU
KEEP DOING THIS?!"
IS IT 'CAUSE
I'M A WHITE WOMAN
OR IS IT BECAUSE I'M
NOT NIGERIAN?
No, no, no.
Not at all.
WHAT IS YOUR REASONING?!
OKAY. SKYLA, I'M GONNA
BRING YOU IN HERE.
WHEN YOU SAW YOUR MOTHER
TAKE THAT CAKE
THAT MICHAEL GAVE HER
AND PUT IT IN HIS FACE,
DID YOU THINK THAT
WAS AN OVERREACTION?
NOT FOR MAMA.
- NO. NOT FOR YOUR MOTHER?
- NO, NO.
NOT AT ALL. THAT WAS
EASYGOIN'.
I WAS REALLY MAD
BECAUSE HE MADE ME
PUT THAT CAKE IN HIS FACE,
INSTEAD OF EATIN' IT.
BUT THE WAY
IT MADE HIM FEEL HURT,
THAT'S HOW HE MAKES ME FEEL
WHEN HE CONSTANTLY LIES
TO ME OVER AND OVER.
CAN MICHAEL HAVE
A SOCIAL LIFE IN NIGERIA
WITHOUT MAKING YOU ANGRY?
NO.
NOT 'TIL I TRUST HIM.
WHEN HE DOESN'T ANSWER ME
FOR AFTER SIX HOURS,
HE'S OUT...
NOT DOING NOTHING WRONG,
BUT HE'S STILL OUT
AND IT'S LIKE,
"DO YOU THINK I'M STUPID?"
SO, DO YOU THINK
HE NEEDS
TO CUT THAT SOCIAL LIFE
COMPLETELY?
WELL, I DON'T HAVE ONE
AND I'M WORKIN' HARD FOR US.
IF HE CAN HAVE A SOCIAL LIFE
AND HE'S GOT TIME ON HIS HANDS,
TIME ON HIS HANDS IS TO MAKE
SURE, NOWADAYS, WITH THIS VISA,
I DON'T WANNA... YOU KNOW, IT'S
A DIFFERENT WORLD OVER THERE.
I DON'T WANT HIM
IN NO TROUBLE.
ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN
TO DISRUPT THIS
AND, ONCE IT'S GONE,
THE VISA'S GONE.
OKAY, MICHAEL.
SO, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO
WHEN YOUR FRIENDS
ASK YOU TO GO OUT?
Maybe playing...
- DOING WHAT?
AND SPEND TIME WITH HIS MOM.
- UH-HUH.
I TOLD HIM TO TAKE
THIS OPPORTUNITY
BECAUSE YOU'RE GONNA MISS
YOUR MOM, MICHAEL.
HE'S NOT.
WE'RE NOT GONNA BE
ABLE TO AFFORD IT
'CAUSE WE'RE GONNA TRY TO GET
WHAT WE NEED TO GET
TO ESTABLISH THIS MARRIAGE.
OKAY.
ANGELA AND MICHAEL
HAVE HAD TO WORK
THROUGH THEIR SHARE OF PROBLEMS,
BUT, WITH THEIR AGE DIFFERENCE
THREATENING MICHAEL'S DREAM
OF BECOMING A FATHER,
THE COUPLE HAD TO FACE THEIR
BIGGEST OBSTACLE YET.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK.
YOU KNOW, MAYBE GOD
DON'T HAVE THAT
IN OUR PLANS,
FOR A BABY.
Mama.
- YES.
- You can not have
an egg
of mine.
- DAMN IT, MAN.
- SKYLA, WERE YOU SURPRISED
TO GET THE PHONE CALL
FROM YOUR MOM,
ASKING FOR ONE
OF YOUR EGGS?
I'M NOT SURPRISED
WHAT MAMA SAYS AT ALL.
OKAY. WELL, YOU SAID
THAT YOU WERE NOT,
UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES.
I'M NOT GIVIN'
A EGG 'CAUSE,
IF IT'S MY EGG,
THAT'S MY BABY.
NO, IT'S NOT.
- IT'S MY BABY.
- I TOLD YOU.
SO, YOU WOULD LOOK
AT IT, SKYLA,
AS YOU HAVING A BABY
WITH MICHAEL.
- ISN'T THAT CRAZY?
- YEAH.
OH, THAT'S CRAZY!
IT'S JUST A EGG.
THE BABY COULD LOOK LIKE ME
AND MICHAEL'S ACTUAL BABY.
OR GET SOMEBODY ELSE'S
EGG, SHAUN,
IT'LL LOOK LIKE MICHAEL
OR WHOEVER THE OTHER EGG DONOR.
OKAY. HM.
I'M HER MOTHER.
IF SHE KNOWS
I'M REALLY
WANTIN' IT,
I'M GONNA GET
THAT DAMN EGG.
BUT YOU REALLY
DON'T WANT IT.
- I DO WANT IT!
- MICHAELREALLY WANTS IT.
SKYLA SEEMS LIKE
SHE IS ADAMANT ABOUT IT.
AND I'M ADAMANT
TO CHANGE HER MIND.
SO, MICHAEL, WHAT HAPPENS
IF YOU CAN'T HAVE A BABY
WITH ANGELA?
- TSK.
YOU SAID THAT HAVING A BABY WAS
ACTUALLY MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU
THAN COMING HERE
TO THE UNITED STATES.
DID YOU MEAN THAT?
SO, MAINLY, IT'S MORE IMPORTANT
TO CARRY ON YOUR NAME
THAN BE WITH THE ONE THAT
LOVES YOU AND YOU LOVE THEM.
No, no, no, no.
OKAY. SO, MICHAEL,
LET'S GET CLARITY ABOUT THIS.
- Okay.
- IF ANGELA CAN'T HAVE A BABY,
WOULD YOU LEAVE HER?!
Well...
OH, WE GONNA TALK?
WE CAN TALK
ALL DAY LONG.
I TOLD HIM, "BE NICE TO HER."
SO, MICHAEL, WHAT IS
THE STATUS OF YOUR VISA?
OKAY, SO YOU THINK, BY THE END
OF THE YEAR, HE WILL BE HERE?
JUST AS SOON
AS POSSIBLE.
ALRIGHT. MICHAEL,
HOW EXCITED ARE YOU?
I can't wait.
I miss her so much.
OKAY. WELL, CONGRATULATIONS
- THANK YOU.
- TO YOU BOTH.
I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE
WHAT IS NEXT FOR YOU.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
AND, SKYLA, THANK YOU
FOR BEING HERE ALSO.
- Thank you.
- THANKS.
- WE'RE GOING TO SAY GOODBYE
TO ANGELA,
BUT DON'T GO ANYWHERE
BECAUSE WE HAVE
PLENTY MORE TO COME,
INCLUDING A CONVERSATION
WITH MARIA,
AND YOU CERTAINLY DON'T
WANNA MISS THAT.
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
THAT'S A WRAP!
- WELL.
OKAY, ANGELA. BYE-BYE, HON.
- THANK YOU, SHAUN.
SO SORRY, AGAIN.
- GOD BLESS YOU.
THANK YOU. I'M SORRY.
I'M NOT AS BAD AS I ACT.
I JUST DON'T TAKE
I CAN'T HELP IT.
I'VE TOOK ALL MY LIFE.
THE WHOLE DAY'S BEEN CHAOTIC.
WHY ARE WE TAKING ENERGY
TO FIGHT AMONGST EACH OTHER?
WHY?
I DON'T HAVE TIME
FOR THAT
I JUST DON'T RUN FROM IT.
BYE, GUYS!
THANK YOU!
YEAH. BUT LIKE
WHO'S GONNA BE THERE?
I FEEL MICHAEL AND I'S
RELATIONSHIP
JUST, FROM THIS POINT ON,
IS CHANGIN' FOR THE BETTER.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
- YOU'RE VERY WELCOME.
SORRY FOR THE TROUBLE.
WE'RE LEARNING MORE
ABOUT EACH OTHER
AND WE'RE REALLY TRYIN'
TO WORK THIS
TO BE HAPPY MARRIAGE,
YOU KNOW?
WE'VE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH.
BUT WHEN HE GETS HERE,
IT'S GONNA BE
ANOTHERSTORY, YOU KNOW?
THEN, YOU GOTTA LEARN
TO LIVE WITH EACH OTHER,
THE KIDS.
SO, RIGHT NOW, I'M NOT
GONNA THINK ABOUT THAT.
I'M GONNA THINK
ABOUT HOW FAR WE'VE GOTTEN
THROUGH THIS YEAR AND...
PRAY FOR THE BEST.
LET'S BRING EVERYBODY
BACK OUT PLEASE.
READY FOR TAKE 5?
YEAH, I'M READY.
- WE WERE HOLDING HANDS.
- WE'RE LIKE, "YEAH,
WE PROBABLY SHOULDN'T DO THAT."
YOU KNOW WHAT AVERY?
YOU SIT WHERE
YOU WERE SITTING.
FIDEL, HOW DO YOU THINK
BENJAMIN HANDLED
THE BRIDE PRICE?
AND, LATER...
THE THING ABOUT THE
RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN...
I WAS NOT ABOUT
TO BRING ZIED HERE
IF HE WAS GONNA BE
HOMOPHOBIC.
IF SHE HAD TOLD YOU BEFORE,
WOULD YOU HAVE TOLD HER
NOT TO COME?
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
HERE WE GO!
- One.
- QUIET, PLEASE.
Yes, I hear you, yes.
I'M GOOD. I'M READY
TO TALK TO MARIA.
AND... READY!
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
AND JOINING US, NOW, WE HAVE
A AKINYI'S BROTHER FIDEL.
HI. FIDEL. WELCOME.
Oh, hi.
AKINYI, HAS FIDEL
EVER SCARED OFF ANY
OF YOUR PREVIOUS SUITORS?
Yes, every time.
He is very strict,
just like my dad.
He has that aura around him
that just say it's no-nonsense.
FIDEL, HOW DO YOU THINK
BENJAMIN HANDLED HIMSELF
IN KENYA?
AVERAGE?
I don't know how to put it.
He is average because he's...
Benjamin does not have that, um,
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN,
BENJAMIN?
UH, I DON'T KNOW
THAT MUCH SWAHILI,
SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS.
He doesn't have the
alpha male kind of...
Um...
- Yes.
That matches to my dad
and my brother.
DO YOU LIKE CONSIDER
YOURSELF A ALPHA MALE?
UM, I DON'T LET PEOPLE
WALK ALL OVER ME, BUT.
- YEAH.
- I MEAN, I TRY TO BE RESPECTFUL
AND, YOU KNOW.
BUT IF I COME IN DEMANDING
INTO SOMEBODY ELSE'S HOME,
THAT WOULDN'T BE
RIGHT, EITHER.
CAN I SAY SOMETHING?
WHEN I FIRST MET MY EX
IN MOROCCO,
HE HANDLED HIMSELF...
HE WAS VERY IN CONTROL
AND VERY MUCH ALPHA MALE
AND KNEW EVERYTHING
THAT WAS GOING ON.
AND, AS SOON AS HE
GOT HERE, TO AMERICA,
IT COMPLETELY CHANGED.
HE HAD NO IDEA
WHERE HE WAS.
HE DIDN'T KNOW HOW
TO DRIVE A CAR, YOU KNOW,
WHERE THE GROCERY STORE WAS,
HOW TO MAIL A LETTER.
HE KNEW NOTHINGABOUT IT.
AND IT CHANGES
YOUR WHOLEDEMEANOR.
SO, IN BENJAMIN'S DEFENSE,
MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE
HE WAS IN HER COUNTRY
AND, WHEN SHE COMES TO AMERICA,
MAYBE IT'S COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!
I can understand why
she would think that, but,
you would need to look like
you know what you're doing,
So, for the most part,
you... didn't.
ALRIGHT.
WE'LL PUT A PIN IN THAT.
DATING ACROSS CULTURES
OFTEN REQUIRES LEARNING TO DEAL
WITH SOMEONE WHO MAY BELIEVE
DIFFERENTLY THAN YOU.
LET'S SEE WHAT HAPPENED
WHEN SOME OF THOSE
BELIEF SYSTEMS COLLIDED
AND OUR PARTNERS ATTEMPTED
TO LAY DOWN THE LAW.
- AVERY.
- YEAH?
WE'RE CELEBRATING
TONIGHT.
YEAH.
GET A GLASS OF WINE.
MOM, I DON'T DRINK.
AT ALL.
YOU'RE NOT ALLOWED
TO DRINK,
AS A MUSLIM WOMAN?
I KNOW THAT, BABY.
I KNOW.
NO.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
IT IS TIGHT.
YOU DON'T LIKE IT?
IF SHE FEELS PRETTY
AND SHE FEELS COMFORTABLE,
WHY WOULDN'T SHE BE
ALLOWED TO WEAR THAT?
SHOULD WE TELL OMAR
WHAT HE'S ALLOWED TO WEAR?
WHAT I REALLY WANNA
WEAR IS THIS.
NO?
THIS IS THE FIRST TIME
THAT I'VE SEEN ZIED BE,
IN ANY WAY, CONTROLLING.
I DON'T LIKE IT.
YOU'LL PROBABLY LIKE IT.
YES.
THAT'S THE ONLY ONE
THAT SHE'S ALLOWED.
THANK YOU.
DON'T GET DRUNK.
OH, MY GOD.
ALCOHOL IS NOT A MAJOR
PART OF MY LIFE, SO,
I'M REALLY KIND OF
TAKEN ABACK RIGHT NOW.
OKAY. BENJAMIN,
WHY DID YOU HAVE A PROBLEM
WITH AKINYI DRINKING?
IT'S NOT SO MUCH DRINKING,
IT'S JUST DRINKING
TO A POINT THAT YOU'RE
NOT ABLE
TO CONTROL YOURSELF.
I didn't know I would
get like that drunk.
I've never had
a margarita in my life.
I DIDN'T THINK THAT YOU WOULD,
FROM ONE MARGARITA, SO.
THAT SEEMS LIKE
SOMETHING SAFE
TO DO, SO.
FIDEL, HOW DID YOU FEEL
ABOUT SEEING BENJAMIN
WANTING TO CONTROL
HOW MUCH AKINYI
WAS DRINKING?
AKINYI, HOW DO YOU FEEL
ABOUT THAT?
AW, THAT WAS CUTE.
WELL, WE HAVE
A NEVER-BEFORE-SEEN CLIP
OF BENJAMIN'SNIGHT OUT
WITH FIDEL.
TAKE A LOOK, AKINYI.
TONIGHT, I'M GOING OUT
WITH FIDEL
AND A COUPLE OF HIS FRIENDS
AND JUST WORKING MORE
ON EARNING HIS TRUST
AND GETTING TO KNOW HIM.
YEAH.
- YEAH.
SO, AKINYI, BENJAMIN
WAS OUT DRINKING.
HOW'D YOU FEEL
ABOUT THAT?
I HAVEN'T TOLD YOU
THAT YOU CAN'T DRINK.
I HAVE SAID THAT I DON'T
WANT TO SEE IT GET
TO A POINT OF
NOT BEING ABLE TO BE
IN CONTROL OF YOURSELF.
AKINYI, DID YOU KNOW
THEY HAD GONE OUT DRINKING?
No, I didn't.
I just thought they
were going to have some
meat, roasted meat.
- WE DID HAVE SOME ROASTED MEAT.
- UH-HUH.
YOU DID HAVE SOME ROASTED MEAT.
- IT WAS GOOD.
WASHED IT DOWN
WITH SOME ALCOHOL.
AND WE WASHED IT
DOWN WITH SOME DRINKS.
SO DOES FIDEL THINK
THAT IT'S OKAY
FOR HIM TO DRINK,
AND NOT AKINYI?
WELL, FIDEL?
GOOD.
OKAY. AVERY, I'M GONNA
HEAD OVER TO YOU.
WE SAW YOU WANNA PICK
A PARTICULAR DRESS.
HOW DOES IT FEEL
TO HAVE A MAN TELL YOU
WHAT YOU SHOULD
AND SHOULD NOT WEAR?
I LIKE TO GET
OMAR'S INPUT
ON WHAT I'M WEARING.
IF HE DOESN'T
FEEL COMFORTABLE
WITH ME IN IT,
I DON'T REALLY CARE
TO CHANGE.
IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME.
DID IT BOTHER YOU
THAT I FOUGHT WITH YOU
OVER WHAT I WORE
TO THE RESTAURANT?
- Yeah.
- YEAH.
YES.
I'M NOT USED TO BEING
TOLD WHAT I CAN WEAR
AND SO I DIDN'T REACT
VERY WELL TO THAT.
HE'S NOT UPSET WITH ME
WEARING THIS SHIRT.
IT WAS BECAUSE
WE WERE IN HIS COUNTRY.
EUROPA.
JENIFFER, WHAT ABOUT YOU?
COULD YOU LIVE IN A PLACE
THAT RESTRICTED
WHAT YOU COULD WEAR
WHEN YOU WERE
OUTSIDE OF YOUR HOME?
No, I wouldn't.
I like to express myself
and be free about it.
OKAY. FIDEL, HOW DO YOU
THINK BENJAMIN HANDLED
THE BRIDE PRICE?
HOW MUCH MORE DOES BENJAMIN
OWE ON THE BRIDE PRICE?
OKAY.
The bride price
is technically a way
of telling the parents,
"Thank you for raising
this child
to this certain point."
In Africa, going to school
is very expensive.
So, someone who's gone to school
up to the university level
is high up on the bride price.
HER FATHER DID BRING OUT
THE SCHOOL RECORDS.
OKAY. TO PROVE THAT SHE HAD
THIS LEVEL OF EDUCATION?
- MM-HMM.
OKAY. ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT HOW
MUCH THE BRIDE PRICE WILL BE?
IT'S SOMETHING THAT
WEIGHS ON MY MIND.
SURE.
YOU KNOW, MAKING SURE
THAT I'M ABLE
TO FULLY, YOU KNOW,
COMPLETE EVERYTHING.
RIGHT. DO YOU HAVE A BUDGET?
WELL,
AKINYI'S PRICELESS,
IN MY MIND.
OKAY.
SO, NO,
I DON'T HAVE
A BUDGET IN MIND, SO.
- OKAY.
SO, THE NEXT TIME
THAT I GO TO KENYA,
I NEED TO FINISH
THE BRIDE PRICE.
I HOPE IT ALL WORKS OUT.
FIDEL,
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
Okay.
Thank you.
SHE HADTO KNOW THAT
THAT WAS GONNA
CAUSE DRAMA.
YEAH.
AND, LATER...
MARIA, DID YOU EVER
LOVE CAESAR?
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
HERE WE GO!
IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
I WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE
THAT ANGELA HAS LEFT
FOR THE EVENING,
BUT, I'D LIKE TO THANK
MICHAEL FOR STICKING AROUND.
Of course.
TIM AND JENIFFER,
LET'S MOVE ON OVER TO YOU.
THESE TWO HAD A LOT
OF OBSTACLES TO OVERCOME
DURING THEIR TIME TOGETHER...
EX-FIANCé DRAMA, FACING FEARS,
AND A USED ENGAGEMENT RING.
LET'S WATCH.
REMEMBER THIS?
IS THIS THE ONE
I PROPOSED WITH?
THAT'S THE ONE
YOU PROPOSED WITH.
I FIGURED MAYBE
IT WOULD HAVE
A BETTER USE
IN YOURHANDS.
IT'S AN ODD SITUATION
TO PROPOSE TO JENIFFER
WITH THE SAME RING THAT I
PROPOSED TO ANOTHER GIRL WITH,
BUT, VERONICA
GAVE ME THE RING
BECAUSE SHE WANTS
TO SEE ME HAPPY.
I see all the time
you are texting.
Are you still having feelings?
BEFORE TIM CAME TO COLUMBIA,
I DIDN'T KNOW
THAT HE WAS TALKING
WITH HIS EX EVERY DAY
AND I DON'T LIKE THAT.
YEAH, THIS IS WEIRD.
OKAY, WE GET IT. COOL.
WHAT THE?
THIS IS A SWING.
YOU HAVE
TO DO IT WITH ME.
NO, I'M NOT DOIN' IT.
-ARE YOU TOO COWARD
-I'M TOO COWARD.
- FOR THAT?
- I AM.
YOU'RE TOO
FOR EVERYTHING.
I KNOW.
HE'S NOT TRYING,
OR EVEN TRYING, ANYTHING.
HE DOESN'T EVEN WANT
TO HAVE SEX WITH ME.
IT'S THESE TYPE OF DAYS THAT
REALLY MAKE ME TAKE A STEP BACK
AND THINK, "YOU KNOW,
WHAT ARE WE DOIN'?"
I DON'T WANNA GO
THROUGH THIS HEARTBREAK.
I DON'T WANNA GO
THROUGH A DIVORCE.
I DON'T WANNA GO THROUGH THE
TROUBLE OF TRYING TO BRING HER
TO AMERICA FOR IT JUST
A BLOW UP IN MY FACE.
I THINK YOU'RE
BEAUTIFUL, REALLY.
THANK YOU.
I LIKE YOUR STYLE.
IT'S NOT TOO
FEMININE FOR YOU?
NO. THAT'S IMPORTANT
FOR ME.
HE'S NOT MY TYPE,
PHYSICALLY,
TO BE HONEST.
I'M A MANICURE
KINDA GUY,
NOT A "DIRT UNDER THE
FINGERNAIL" KINDA GUY.
THAT'S BECAUSE
YOU'RE A
I BOUGHT YOU A RING.
I WANNA GIVE IT TO YOU
AS A PROMISE RING.
SO, THIS IS NOT
A ENGAGEMENT RING?
UM...
AND I ACTUALLY
BOUGHT THE RING
FOR VERONICA.
LIKE SHE WORE
ANOTHER RING.
TIM, DID YOU BUY JENIFFER
HER OWN RING YET?
- NOT YET.
- NOT YET.
SO, AVERY, REBECCA,
AND DARCEY,
WHAT IF YOUR SIGNIFICANT
OTHER GAVE YOU A RING
THAT HE HAD GIVEN ANOTHER WOMAN?
- NO!
NO!
- NO, NEVER.
- NEVER.
- I'D RATHER HAVE A RUBBER BAND
ON MY FINGER THAN...
AND I'LL TELL YOU
SOMETHING ELSE...
VERONICA KNEW THAT
WHEN SHE GAVE IT TO HIM.
I WANNA BELIEVE
THAT SHE'S A GOOD PERSON,
BUT SHE HAD TO KNOW THAT
THAT WAS GONNA CAUSE DRAMA.
- YEAH.
I DON'T THINK VERONICA
HAD BAD INTENTIONS.
I THINK SHE WAS REALLY
JUST TRYING TO BE
A FRIEND
AND HELP ME OUT.
GOOD ANSWER.
AND GET YOU A NEW ONE?
THEY ALL WANT BIGGER.
TELL ME THIS.
VERONICA KEEPS SAYING
THAT JENIFFER DOES NOT KNOW
WHAT SHE'S GETTING INTO
BY DATING YOU.
WHAT DOES SHE MEAN BY THAT?
I MEAN, I DON'T KNOW.
I THINK I'M A PRETTY
STAND-UP GUY.
YOU ALREADY KNOW,
JENIFFER?
I MEAN,
I CAN BE MOODY,
- Hmph!
- YOU KNOW.
YES. AND THAT WAS
A PROBLEM WITH US
BECAUSE, YOU KNOW,
WE DON'T REALLY
KNOW EACH OTHER
IN PERSON
AND SHE HAD NEVER
REALLY SEEN THAT SIDE
BECAUSE,
WHEN I'M AT HOME,
IF I GET MOODY,
WE JUST HANG UP.
"I'LL TALK TO YOU LATER,"
AND THEN YOU GO BACK
TO YOUR LIVES
2,000 MILES APART.
WHEN YOU'RE IN PERSON,
YOU CAN'T REALLY HIDE THAT.
JENIFFER, YOU USED
A VERYDEROGATORY WORD
THAT STARTS
WITH THE LETTER "P"
WHEN YOU DESCRIBED TIM.
MICHAEL, YOU THINK
THAT'S FUNNY, HUH?
MINE'S BABY GIRL.
JUST THROWIN'
THAT OUT THERE.
- MINE'S HONEY.
- I'M NOT SAYING IT'S NORMAL,
BUT.
- SUGAR BRITCHES.
YOU KNOW, SHE ALWAYS
SAYS IT IN A JOKING WAY.
IT'S JUST I AM KIND OF,
YOU KNOW.
- YEAH, BUT THAT'S SO DEROGATORY.
IT'S NOT GOOD.
HE SHOULD'VE WENT
ON THE SWING, THOUGH.
LET'S BE HONEST.
I DON'T KNOW.
WOULD YOU HAVE GONE
ON THE SWINGS?
I WOULD'VE.
TWENTY TIMES.
WHAT?!
TOM SAID HE WOULD NOT HAVE GONE
- ARE YOU SERIOUS?
- ON THE SWING.
ALL ABOUT IT.
YOU HAD TO SEE
THAT SWING IN PERSON.
IF THAT ROPE BROKE,
YOU WERE DEAD.
I MEAN IT WAS
OFF A CLIFF.
SO, I'M GOOD.
LIKE I'M GOOD ON THAT.
LET ME ASK YOU THIS,
JENIFFER,
BECAUSE I'VE HEARD
YOU MENTION
THAT YOU THOUGHT TIM
WAS GAY.
AND TIM,
YOU'VE READ THE COMMENTS
- YEAH. OBVIOUSLY.
- ON SOCIAL MEDIA. YOU KNOW
PEOPLE HAVE QUESTIONED
YOUR SEXUALITY.
- YEAH, YEAH.
- YOU KNOW.
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY
TO THOSE PEOPLE?
I MEAN, I'VE BEEN,
YOU KNOW,
QUESTIONED
ABOUT MY SEXUALITY
FOR PROBABLY
THE LAST 15 YEARS.
- MM-HMM.
- AND, OBVIOUSLY,
THIS EXPERIENCE
WITH HER
DOES NOT HELP
MY CASE AT ALL
BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE LIKE,
"OH, SHE'S
A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN.
IF I WERE YOU,
I WOULD'VE NAILED THAT
ON THE FIRST
OR SECOND NIGHT."
IT'S A COMPLETELY
DIFFERENT EXPERIENCE
WHEN YOU'RE OVERSEAS
AND YOU'VE GOT
THE STRESS
OF MEETING FAMILY.
SO, I'M NOT GAY.
I DIDN'T USE
TO BE A WOMAN.
I WAS BORN A MAN.
NOT BISEXUAL.
NONE OF THOSE THINGS.
I LIKE WOMEN.
BUT IT'S NOT THE FIRST
TIME I'VE HEARD THAT
AND I'M SURE
IT WON'T BE THE LAST.
SO, BEFORE WE GO ON,
I JUST WANNA GET
A STATUS UPDATE.
I STILL LOVE JENIFFER.
I THINK SHE STILL
LOVES ME
AND I REALLY WANT HER
TO BE ABLE TO COME
AND SEE WHAT
AMERICA'S LIKE
AND WHAT
MY REAL LIFE IS.
I WANT HER
TO COME TO MY HOUSE,
YOU KNOW,
AND SEE THE REAL ME.
OKAY.
ALRIGHT. WE'VE GOT
PLENTY AHEAD.
STAY WITH US.
WHY DID YOU WAIT
UNTIL THE END OF YOUR TRIP
TO TELL ZIED AT THAT YOU
WERE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED?
IF HIS FAMILY WERE
TO FIND OUT,
HE'D HAVE TO CHOOSE
BETWEEN ME OR HIS FAMILY.
WELL, YOU KNOW
THEY'RE GOING TO FIND OUT.
AND, LATER...
DO YOU BELIEVE
IT WAS A GAME,
THAT MARIA
WAS PLAYING YOU?
I THINK THAT...
OKAY, EVERYBODY,
WE'RE ABOUT TO START.
TELEPHONES ON SILENT.
Yes.
No, I heard you, yeah.
OKAY, GOOD.
ALRIGHT,
CLOSE UP THE DOOR.
READY, IN THREE, TWO!
SO, WELCOME BACK
TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
REBECCA AND ZIED FOUND LOVE
DESPITE AN AGE GAP
AND LONG DISTANCE.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK.
I JUST FILED FOR DIVORCE
RIGHT BEFORE MY TRIP HERE,
BUT, I DON'T THINK ZIED
WOULD LIKE IT VERY MUCH
TO REALIZE THAT HE JUST HAD SEX
WITH A MARRIED WOMAN.
SO, WHAT YOU'RE SAYING...
THE ONLY WAY
THAT YOU WILL LOVE ME
IS IF I AM THE WAY
YOU WANT ME.
SO IF I TAKE OFF
MY JACKET,
SUDDENLY, NOW,
I'M A BAD PERSON.
HOW MUCH?
THREE TIMES.
MM-HMM.
Yeah.
SOMETHING IMPORTANT THAT
I WANNA TELL YOU.
I HAD A RELATIONSHIP
WITH A WOMAN.
WOW!
REBECCA, WHY DID YOU WAIT
UNTIL THE END OF YOUR TRIP
TO TELL ZIED THAT,
NUMBER ONE,
YOU HAD HAD A RELATIONSHIP
WITH A WOMAN
AND, NUMBER TWO, THAT YOU
WERE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED?
THE THING ABOUT
THE RELATIONSHIP
WITH A WOMAN...
I WAS NOT ABOUT
TO BRING ZIED HERE
IF HE WAS GONNA BE
HOMOPHOBIC.
I HATETHAT.
SO I THOUGHT,
"YOU KNOW WHAT?
I REALLY NEED TO JUST
LET HIM KNOW THAT."
THERE IS
A HUGEISSUE
THAT WE ARE STILL
VERY WORRIED ABOUT.
IF HIS FAMILY WERE
TO FIND OUT,
HE'D HAVE TO CHOOSE
BETWEEN ME OR HIS FAMILY.
WELL, YOU KNOW THEY'RE
GOING TO FIND OUT.
NO.
I DON'T KNOW THAT.
- YOU DON'T KNOW THAT. OKAY.
- NO.
YOU'RE NOT SURE
IF THEY WILL OR NOT.
WELL...
THEY DON'T WATCH
THE SHOW.
THEY DO NOT
SPEAK ENGLISH.
YEAH, THEY'RE PROBABLY
GONNA FIND OUT,
BUT DO I KNOWTHEY'RE
GONNA FIND OUT? NO.
THEY HAVE
TO REALIZE LIKE
THIS IS A COMPLETELY
DIFFERENT CULTURE.
- YEAH.
- AND, YOU KNOW,
WHAT HAPPENED IN YOUR
PAST IS YOUR PAST
AND THAT'S WHAT,
AS A MUSLIM FAMILY,
THEY SHOULD ALWAYS
ACCEPT THAT.
I WILL SAY THIS.
I HAVE A LOT
AGAINST ME RIGHT NOW.
I'VE BEEN MARRIED.
I'M TWICE HIS AGE.
I HAVE KIDS.
I HAVE TATTOOS.
- YEAH.
- HE, IN NO UNCERTAIN TERMS,
TOLD ME I CAN'T HAVE
ANY MORE CHECKS OFF
ON THE LIST
- YEAH.
- AND SURVIVE IT.
IF SHE HAD TOLD YOU
BEFORESHE WENT TO TUNISIA,
WOULD YOU HAVE TOLD HER
NOT TO COME?
I DIDN'T INTEND TO WAIT
SO LONG TO TELL HIM,
BUT, THERE JUST DIDN'T EVER
SEEM TO BE A GOOD TIME,
SO, YOU KNOW, THAT WAS
BAD ON MY PART.
I WANNA MAKE IT CLEAR,
THOUGH, TO EVERYONE,
THE DIVORCE PAPERS
WERE SIGNED.
EVERYTHING WAS DONE.
THE ONLY THING THAT WASN'T
DONE WAS FILING THEM AND...
NOW, WE JUST WAIT.
SO IT'S NOT LIKE
I'M LEGIT STILL MARRIED.
IT WAS JUST
A TIME PROCESS.
HAD HE ASKED
AT ANY TIME,
I WOULD'VE BEEN HONEST.
LET ME SWITCH GEARS HERE.
ZIED, DO YOU STILL
HAVE ISSUES
WITH REBECCA DRESSING
TOO SEXY?
HE WAS ALSO DOING IT
FOR MY SAFETY
BECAUSE DRAWING THAT
MUCH ATTENTION TO YOURSELF
IN THAT SITUATION
COULD BE UNSAFE.
HE'S WORRIED ABOUT THE
ATTENTION THAT I WOULD GET
- WITH YOUR TATTOO?
- AND IT HAPPENED IMMEDIATELY.
AS SOONAS I
TOOK OFF MY JACKET,
THE GUY SITTING
NEXT TO ME
REACHED OUT
AND GRABBED MY ARM.
OKAY.
NOW, I WANT TO INVITE
REBECCA'S BUSINESS PARTNER
AND FRIEND TO JOIN US.
PLEASE WELCOME MELANIE.
- HI, THERE!
- HI.
- HEY.
- HEY.
WELCOME, MELANIE.
I'M GLAD YOU COULD BE WITH US.
THANK YOU
FOR HAVIN' ME.
SO, GIVEN THE BUSINESS
THAT YOU TWO ARE IN,
WERE YOU SURPRISED REBECCA
DID NOT DO A BACKGROUND CHECK
ON ZIED BEFORE SHE WENT
TO TUNISIA?
YES. I WAS VERY SURPRISED
THAT SHE DIDN'T DO ONE.
I THINK THAT WAS PROBABLY
A CASE OF HER
MORE SO THINKIN'
WITH HER HEART
THAN WITH HER BRAIN.
- MM-HMM.
BECAUSE OF MY LOVE
FOR MY FRIEND REBECCA,
I WOULD HATE TO SEE
ZIED COME
AND IT ALL BE ON REBECCA'S
SHOULDERS, YOU KNOW,
TO HAVE TO TAKE CARE
OF HIM AND SUPPORT HIM.
SO, INITIALLY, THE FINANCIAL
BURDEN IS GOING TO BE
-ABSOLUTELY.
COMPLETELY ON YOU.
ABSOLUTELY.
THAT'S A BIG
CONCERN OF MINE.
OKAY.
I WATCHED REBECCA
WITH HER EX
AND HE CAME
AND EVERYTHING WAS
ON REBECCA TO TAKE
CARE OF HIM, YOU KNOW.
IT WAS LIKE
HAVIN' A CHILD.
AND, AS SOON AS HE
STARTED MAKING MONEY,
IT WASN'T MY MONEY.
HIS MONEY.
MY MONEY WAS OUR MONEY.
HIS MONEY WAS HIS MONEY.
- OKAY.
- SHE WAS WITH ME THROUGHOUT
THE ENTIRE PROCESS WITH MY EX
AND
SHE LOANED ME THE TRACKER
TO PUT ON HIS CAR
WHEN I CAUGHT HIM
CHEATING AND...
SHE PICKED ME UP
AFTER I KICKED HIM OUT
AND THEN SHE WAS AROUND
WHEN I CALLED AND TOLD HER,
"GUESS WHAT.
I'M DOING IT AGAIN."
DO YOU THINK THAT
THERE'S A POSSIBILITY
THAT, WHEN ZIED GETS
OVER HERE, HE MIGHT CHANGE,
LIKE YOUR EX DID?
- ABSOLUTELY.
ABSO-FREAKING-LUTELY.
TSK. YEP.
HEY, ZIED.
CAN YOU SEE ME?
- Hello.
- CAN YOU HEAR ME?
Yes, I hear you.
DO YOU REMEMBER THE LAST
TIME YOU AND I SPOKE?
I WAS ASKING YOU WHAT KIND
OF A TRADE CAN YOU DO,
AS FAR AS HAVIN' A JOB?
SO, ACTUALLY,
WHAT I DO RIGHT NOW IS
I'M A RESTAURANT GM
AND PART-TIME P.I.,
SO, HE CAN WORK IN ONE
OF THE RESTAURANTS.
AND THEN, WE'VE TALKED
ABOUT HIM GOING TO SCHOOL
AND HE CAN LEARN
WHATEVER HE WANTS.
I WILL SAY THAT
THERE WERE SOMANY RED FLAGS
WITH MY EX
THAT I CHOSE TO IGNORE
AND...
I DON'T HAVE THE SAME
RED FLAGS WITH ZIED.
- RIGHT.
- NONE OF THEM.
- RIGHT.
- UNTIL HE'S HERE
AND I CAN SEE HOW THE
RELATIONSHIP IS GOIN'
BETWEEN HIM AND REBECCA
AND SEE HOW HARD HE IS
TRYIN' TO GET A JOB,
THEN, I'LL BE ABLE
TO TELL MORE SO, YOU KNOW.
WE'LL JUST HAVE TO SEE.
THERE'S NO ONE IN MY LIFE
THAT FEELS GOOD ABOUT THIS.
- HM.
- EVERYONE IS SUPPORTING ME
BECAUSE THEY LOVE ME,
BUT THERE'S NO ONE IN MY LIFE
THAT IS LIKE, "THIS IS THE
BEST THING YOU'VE EVER DONE!
THIS IS GREAT!"
I JUST DON'T KNOW YET.
YOU KNOW?
I KNOW THAT HER TRIP
TO TUNISIA,
THEY HAD
A GREAT TIME.
THAT WAS VACATION.
AND MY CONCERN IS,
ONCE ZIED GETS HERE,
YOU KNOW,
THE 90 DAYS ARE OVER
AND TRUE LIFE SETS IN.
UNTIL HE'S HERE
AND THEY START THAT LIFE,
I'M NOT 100% SOLD.
OKAY. MELANIE, WE WANNA
THANK YOU FOR JOINING US
AND GIVING US YOUR
VERY HONEST OPINION
ABOUT ZIED AND REBECCA'S
RELATIONSHIP.
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
- THANK YOU FOR HAVIN' ME.
WHEN WE COME BACK, WE WILL SPEAK
WITH BOTH CAESAR AND MARIA
ABOUT THEIR
FIVE-YEAR RELATIONSHIP.
WE'VE GOT PLENTY AHEAD.
STAY WITH US.
I'M EXCITED TO SEE
IF MARIA POPS UP
AND, IF SHE DOES,
I DO HAVE WORDS FOR HER.
SHE'S PLAYING HIM
AND SHE'S LIKE USING SOMEBODY
AND THAT'S DEFINITELY
NOT OKAY.
LIKE THIS SCREAMS
JUST, "RUN, SCAM,
RED FLAG" TO ME.
SHE WAS
MANIPULATING YOU.
YOU USED HIM
AND YOU KNOW THAT.
CAESAR, YOU'RE BACK
IN YOUR SPOT.
THEN REBECCA,
TOM AND DARCEY.
YOU ALRIGHT?
OH.
- YOU OKAY?
- YEAH, I'M ALRIGHT.
ALRIGHT, GUYS,
QUIET, PLEASE!
CAESAR, ARE YOU READY?
YEAH.
READY, IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
MARIA WILL BE
JOINING US SHORTLY,
BUT, FIRST, LET'S TAKE A LOOK
BACK AT CAESAR'S JOURNEY.
IN A FEW DAYS,
I'M FLYING TO MEXICO
TO MEET MY UKRAINIAN GIRLFRIEND,
MARIA, FOR THE FIRST TIME.
I MET HER FIVE YEARS AGO
ON A INTERNATIONAL DATING SITE.
I HAD PLANNED
TO MEET MARIA IN UKRAINE,
BUT SHE WANTS
TO MEET IN MEXICO.
IF SHE KNEW IT WAS
HER MOM'S BIRTHDAY,
WHY DIDN'T SHE
JUST SAY IT TO ME?
SO THEN I WOULDN'T HAVE WENT
AND BOOKED THE TICKET.
WHY IS SHE GONNA TELL ME
AT THE LAST MINUTE?
SHE'S BREAKING
MY HEART RIGHT NOW.
LOOK, BABE, I JUST BOOKED
YOUR PLANE TICKET.
NOW, WE'RE GONNA
BE TOGETHER.
THERE WE GO. LOVE YOU.
ALRIGHT.
THERE IS SOMETHING
THAT WORRIES ME.
MY FLIGHT IS TOMORROW
AND I HAVEN'T HEARD
FROM MARIA IN TWO DAYS.
I'M GETTIN' NERVOUS.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT
THE HELL'S GOIN' ON.
OH, MY GOD!
WOW! THAT IS AWESOME.
WHEN I BRING HER IN HERE,
SHE'LL BE LIKE,
"OH, MY GOD, CAESAR.
YOU DID ALL THIS FOR ME?"
AND I THINK THAT
THAT'S REALLY ROMANTIC
AND I THINK
SHE'LL LIKE THAT.
DAMN, MAN.
SHE SAID HER FLIGHT'S CANCELED.
WHY? WHY?
WHY?
I'M HEARTBROKEN RIGHT NOW.
I FEEL HURT.
I FEEL HURT. THAT'S ALL.
IT WAS JUST A GAME.
THAT'S ALL IT WAS.
JUST SOME BIG GAME.
THAT'S ALL.
CAESAR,
HOW ARE YOU DOING?
I'M FEELIN'...
I'M FEELIN' ALRIGHT.
WHAT WAS IT LIKE LOOKING
BACK AT THAT MOMENT
WHEN YOU REALIZED,
AFTER ALL OF YOUR PLANNING
FOR THIS TRIP,
MARIA WASN'T SHOWING UP?
YEAH. IT'S KINDA
HEARTBREAKING BECAUSE,
YOU KNOW, I WAS REALLY,
REALLY SET
ON BEING THERE WITH HER,
YOU KNOW?
AND THEN, ALL OF A SUDDEN,
THAT JUST MESSED ME ALL UP.
I JUST FELT LIKE
I JUST MISMANAGED, UM,
LIKE I JUST
HAD SPENT TOO MUCH
ON TRYING TO GET
EVERYTHING READY FOR HER
AND THEN, WHEN I
MISMANAGED MY MONEY
TO TRY TO GET
EVERYTHING READY,
IT WAS LIKE EVERYTHING
JUST FELL OUT, YOU KNOW?
YOU HADN'T HEARD FROM HER
IN TWO DAYS.
WHY DID YOU THINK SHE WAS
ACTUALLY GOING TO COME?
I HAD FAITH IN HER.
I HAD...
I... I KNEW, PROBABLY,
SOMETHING...
I JUST FIGURED
THAT SOMETHING HAPPENED
AND SHE DIDN'T...
IS SHE GONNA COME ON?
CAN YOU HEAR ME?
MARIA?
NO, MARIA'S NOT HERE.
OH.
AT THAT TIME,
I FELT LIKE,
"HOW CAN YOU FIX IT?
IT'S ALREADY TOO LATE."
- MM-HMM, MM-HMM.
AND THEN, SHE ENDED UP
BREAKING UP WITH YOU.
YEAH.
THAT'S THE ONLY THING
YOU CAN DO.
I GENUINELY
FEEL SORRY FOR YOU
'CAUSE IT MUST BE
A HORRIBLE SITUATION
TO FIND YOURSELF IN,
WHEN YOU'VE GONE SOMEWHERE,
YOU'VE ORGANIZED IT
TO THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITY,
YOU TURN UP THERE
WITH ALL THE HOPE
AND PASSION OF FINDING
THAT PERSON BEING THERE
FOR THE FIRST TIME,
AND THEN,
THEM NOT BEING THERE.
THAT MUST'VE BEEN
A REAL HARD,
BITTER PILL TO SWALLOW.
AND, PLUS,
HAVIN' THE HOTEL ROOM
AND THEN, YOU'RE THE
ONLY ONE THAT'S
IN THE ROOM, BY YOURSELF.
- THE FAITH YOU HAVE
IN THAT WOMAN IS UNBELIEVABLE.
I FEEL LIKE THAT
SHE UNDERSTOOD
THAT THE JIG WAS UP,
THAT SHE COULDN'T STRING
HIM ALONG ANYMORE.
SHE EITHER SHOWED UP
THIS TIME, OR SHE KNEW
THAT SHE HAD TO SAY
THAT IT WAS OVER,
BUT I DON'T THINK
SHE WAS IN IT
FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.
YOU'VE TRIED TO SEE HER
SO MANY TIMES
- YEAH.
- AND SHE'S ALWAYS MADE AN EXCUSE
ON THE DAY OF, TO SAY,
"IT'S MY MOM'S BIRTHDAY"?
YOU KNOW YOUR MOM'S
BIRTHDAY EVERY YEAR.
TELL HER SCHEDULE IT
-IT'S THE SAME DAY
- THE WEEK AFTER.
- EVERY YEAR.
I'm sorry for him.
If she canceled once,
that's understandable.
Twice, thrice?
He shouldn't have
been in that relationship,
in the first place.
SHE WAS
GETTING THIS MONEY.
SHE WAS TAKING
ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
LIKE WAIT UNTIL YOU FIND
THE RIGHT PERSON
- YEAH.
- AND IT'S GONNA BE AMAZING
AND THAT'S ALL
YOU HAVE TO DO.
YOU WILL FIND SOMEBODY
THAT HAS THE SAME FAITH
IN YOU THAT YOU HAVE IN HER.
- EXACTLY.
IF ALL OF YOU WERE
IN THIS SITUATION,
WOULD YOU HAVE
GIVEN UP SOONER?
YES.
YOU ATTEMPTED TO MAKE
A MEETING, AT ONE POINT,
AND THEN, IT GOT CANCELED,
AND CANCELED AGAIN?
I WOULD'VE BEEN FINISHED
AT THAT TIME.
DEPENDS WHAT YOU'VE CREATED
IN YOUR MIND'S EYE.
RIGHT. WE WEREN'T
IN THE CONVERSATIONS
THAT YOU WERE HAVING.
I FEEL POSITIVE
SHE MADE YOU FEEL
LIKE SHE LOVED YOU
OR YOU WOULD NOT BE DOING
WHAT YOU WERE DOING.
CAESAR, LOOKING BACK,
DO YOU THINK THERE WAS ANYTHING
THAT YOU COULD'VE
DONE DIFFERENTLY?
GOD! YOU KNOW...
ACTUALLY, NO.
THERE'S NOTHING
THAT I COULDA DID.
SHE COULD'VE CALLED
AND SHE COULD'VE TOLD ME
SOMETHING EARLIER
AND THEN,
IT WOULD'VE BEEN...
WE WOULDA...
SHE WOULD'VE BEEN THERE.
- RIGHT.
AND I'VE TRIED,
YOU KNOW.
YOU'VE READ ON SOCIAL
MEDIA, YOU KNOW,
THEY SAID THAT YOU
WERE A SUCKER,
THAT YOU WERE NOT SMART
FOR, YOU KNOW,
FALLING FOR WHATEVER
THIS WAS.
I MEAN, WHAT WOULD YOU SAY
TO THOSE PEOPLE
WHO SAY THOSE THINGS
ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
THE THING THAT I SEE
IS THAT
THEY DON'T KNOW HER
LIKE I KNOW HER
AND THEY WEREN'T THERE,
HAVING
THOSE CONVERSATIONS
AND THEY SEE THAT
SHE'S LIKE FAKE,
BUT SHE'S ACTUALLY
LIKE A REAL PERSON.
- RIGHT.
- YOU KNOW, IT JUST FEELS LIKE
I CAN'T FINISH
BECAUSE SHE'S NOT THERE.
I'M TORN WITH CAESAR
AND I HATE IT
BECAUSE HE'S SUCH
A NICE GUY, YOU KNOW,
AND YOU REALLY WANNA
FEEL SORRY FOR HIM.
BUT, AT THE SAME TIME,
LIKE THIS SCREAMS
JUST, "RUN, SCAM,
RED FLAG" TO ME.
AND I HAVE
TO WONDER JUST WHY
YOU DIDN'T RECOGNIZE IT.
AND I MEAN, I KNOW
THAT LIKE LOVE IS BLIND
AND WE GET SUCKED IN
TO THE IDEA OF LOVE,
BUT AT, YOU KNOW,
FIVE YEARS,
THREE CANCELED TRIPS
AND IT ALMOST SEEMS LIKE
YOU'RE STILL
DEFENDING HER.
YOU GOT SCAMMED.
THAT'S IT.
ALL THE EXCUSES,
THE MONEY,
WHEN HE WOULD DO
SO MUCH FOR HER
AND SHE WOULD SAY,
"YOU DON'T CARE
OR YOU'RE NOT
TRYING ENOUGH."
LIKE SHE WAS
MANIPULATING YOU
AND THAT IS SO SAD.
You know?
CAESAR,
WHAT DID YOU DO
WITH THE RING
THAT YOU GOT MARIA?
I KEPT IT.
I KEPT THE RING.
YOU KNOW, I COULD'VE WENT
AND I COULD'VE LIKE
JUST WENT BACK
AND GOT MY MONEY
AND JUST DID THAT, BUT,
BUT I WANTED
TO JUST KEEP IT.
THAT'S GOOD!
THERE'S NOTHIN' WRONG WITH THAT.
AND I KEPT LIKE THE
EDIBLE PANTIES, YOU KNOW,
AND I HAD A WHIP, YOU KNOW.
YOU LOST US ON THAT ONE,
THERE, CAESAR.
OH, GOSH!
WHAT REALLY MAKES ME
REALLY PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW
IS THAT, YOU KNOW,
SHE'S NOT HERE
AND I STILL CAN'T SAY
WHAT I WANNA SAY,
BUT, NOW, IT'S JUST
LIKE I'M JUST...
I'M JUST...
I'M JUST HERE.
WHERE DOES YOUR RELATIONSHIP,
TODAY, STAND WITH MARIA?
NON-EXISTENT.
IT'S GONE NOW.
WELL, WHEN WE RETURN,
WE DO HAVE MARIA
AND SHE IS READY TO TELL
HER SIDE OF THE STORY.
SO DON'T GO ANYWHERE.
FIRST, I WANTED
TO SAY SOMETHING.
ARE YOU SEEING
SOMEBODY ELSE?
CAESAR SAID HE HAS SENT YOU
AROUND $40,000.
ALRIGHT, GUYS, HERE WE GO.
IN THREE, TWO...
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
I'M SHAUN ROBINSON.
WE HAVE BEEN TALKING TO CAESAR
ABOUT HIS TRIP TO MEXICO
AND HAVING TO FACE
HIS FRIENDS,
WHO QUESTIONED THE REALITY
OF HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH MARIA.
WELL, I AM HAPPY TO SAY
THAT MARIA IS NOW READY
TO GIVE US HER SIDE
OF WHAT HAPPENED BETWEEN THEM.
CAESAR, ARE YOU READY?
CAESAR, BREATHE.
YOU'RE OKAY.
CAESAR... YOU'LL FIND WHAT IT IS
YOU'RE LOOKING FOR
AND WHATEVER THIS IS,
WHATEVER COMES WITH IT,
YOU'LL GET WHAT YOU WANT
EVENTUALLY.
OKAY.
LET US WELCOME MARIA.
OH, SHE'S THERE.
HI, MARIA.
SO GLAD YOU CAN JOIN US.
- Hi.
- HOW ARE YOU?
HI, MARIA.
HOW YOU DOING, BABY GIRL?
OKAY, SO, OF COURSE,
WE HAVE A LOT OF QUESTIONS,
BUT SINCE MOST OF YOUR STORY
WAS TOLD
FROM CAESAR'S PERSPECTIVE,
LET'S TAKE A LOOK
AT THIS RELATIONSHIP
THROUGH ANOTHER LENS.
YEAH, BABY.
YOUR MAN LOVES YOU.
HOW I LOOK?
I LOOK SEXY? YOU LIKE THAT?
MNH-MNH.
I DON'T KNOW.
HM...
YOU KNOW, FIRST, I WANTED
TO SAY SOMETHING.
ARE YOU SEEING
SOMEBODY ELSE?
THERE... OKAY,
SO THERE'S NOBODY. OKAY.
- THEN WHY DID SHE SAY THERE WAS?
- YEAH.
SO, WHO WERE
YOU DESCRIBING TO US?
IT WAS A JOKE?
GEEZ.
I BELIEVE
THERE IS A BOYFRIEND.
EVEN IF SHE DOESN'T HAVE
THE BOYFRIEND,
THE DESCRIPTION
OF WHAT SHE WANTS...
RIGHT.
- DOESN'T MATCH.
- DOESN'T EXACTLY MATCH.
I THINK YOU DODGED A BULLET,
TO BE FAIR.
- YEAH.
- ABSOLUTELY.
I THINK
SHE'S DONE YOU A FAVOR.
NOW, MARIA, WHERE DO YOU STAND
WITH CAESAR AT THIS POINT?
YES.
DID YOU EVER CONSIDER
CAESAR YOUR BOYFRIEND?
YOU DID.
FOR HOW LONG DID YOU
CONSIDER HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND?
YOU'RE SAYING THAT YOU GUYS HAD
A FIVE-YEAR RELATIONSHIP?
SHE'S NOT PAINTING IT
AS A FIVE-YEAR RELATIONSHIP.
WHEN WE HAD MET ON THE SITE,
WE WERE TALKING,
AND THEN, WE HAD TOOK
A BREAK AFTER THAT.
I WENT BACK ON THE SITE
TO SEE IF SHE WAS THERE.
THEN I WANTED
TO GET OFF THE SITE
AND ACTUALLY HAVE
A ONE-ON-ONE WITH HER.
HOW COME YOU NEVER SAW
EACH OTHER?
WHY WERE YOU MISSING
THESE FLIGHTS TO COME SEE HIM
WHEN YOU CONSIDERED
HIM YOUR BOYFRIEND
AND HE WAS TRYING TO SEE YOU?
GIVE US
YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY.
SO...
WHAT WAS THE PROBLEM THAT
SHE FACED WITH AN AMERICAN VISA?
WHAT I DON'T UNDERSTAND IS WHY
IF SHE'S APPLIED FOR A VISA
AND DOESN'T GET
GRANTED ACCESS,
WHY THE NEXT THING WOULDN'T BE
FOR YOU TO FLY AND SEE HER?
MARIA, DID YOU EVER WANT CAESAR
TO COME AND VISIT YOU?
WHY DIDN'T HE?
SHE WANTED SOMETHING
WHERE IT CAN FEEL LIKE...
OKAY, LET'S TALK
ABOUT THE MONEY.
CAESAR SAID HE HAS SENT YOU
AROUND $40,000.
HOW MUCH MONEY HAS CAESAR
SENT YOU OVER THE YEARS?
WOULD YOU SAY
IT WAS HALF OF THAT?
MAYBE $20,000?
$5,000?
SINCE THE CANCELED VACATION
IN MEXICO,
HAVE YOU SENT MARIA
ANY MORE MONEY?
YEAH,
I DID SEND HER MONEY.
I THINK IT WAS,
LIKE, AROUND
LIKE $2,000 TO $3,000.
THEN THAT'S WHEN
WE STOPPED TALKING.
YOU REFUSED IT.
SO YOU...
YOU DID NOT ACCEPT IT.
SHE TOOK THE MONEY,
BUT...
I'M NOT GONNA SEND YOU
ANY MORE MONEY.
THAT'S HOW IT IS,
THAT'S HOW YOU'RE GONNA BE,
AND I'M DONE.
THAT'S IT.
I JUST DON'T KNOW WHY...
WHY SHE'S DOING THIS.
DO YOU BELIEVE IT WAS A GAME,
THAT MARIA WAS PLAYING YOU?
SHE TOOK THE MONEY,
BUT...
I'M NOT GONNA SEND YOU
ANY MORE MONEY.
THAT'S HOW IT IS,
THAT'S HOW YOU'RE GONNA BE,
AND I'M DONE.
THAT'S IT.
I JUST DON'T KNOW WHY...
WHY SHE'S DOING THIS.
DO YOU BELIEVE IT WAS A GAME,
THAT MARIA WAS PLAYING YOU?
I THINK THAT AND I'M STILL...
I... YOU KNOW.
I THINK THAT, ORIGINALLY,
THAT SHE...
THAT SHE TRIED,
AND I KNOW YOU GUYS THINK
I'M REAL STUPID FOR SAYING THAT,
BUT I THINK,
IF THE PLANE TICKET
WAS THERE,
I THINK SHE WOULD
HAVE BEEN THERE.
MARIA, DID YOU EVER
LOVE CAESAR?
YOU DO.
OKAY, THEN YOU MADE A FACE
WHEN YOU SAID THAT.
YOU DOOR YOU DID?
OKAY.
CAESAR, YOU SAID THAT
THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP
RIGHT NOW WITH MARIA.
WELL...
DO YOU WANT TO ADD
ANYTHING TO THAT?
I KNOW... I KNOW I'M...
I KNOW I'M PROBABLY CRAZY
FOR DOING THIS,
AND I KNOW I, YOU KNOW,
I SHOULD'VE JUST CUT IT OFF,
BUT I WANTED
TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT...
THAT, YOU KNOW,
THAT SHE'S A GOOD PERSON
AND THAT I STILL WANT
TO TRY AND MAKE IT WORK
AND BRING HER HERE,
AND I KNOW THAT...
I KNOW THAT SHE'S UPSET,
BUT I STILL WANT
TO BRING HER DOWN HERE,
AND I WANT TO SHOW THE WORLD
THAT SHE'S A GOOD PERSON
AND I STILL LOVE HER.
YOU MEAN YOU WANT
TO BRING HER TO AMERICA?
- WELL, I WANT TO GO DOWN THERE.
- YOU WANT TO GO DOWN THERE.
WELL, FIRST, I WANT
TO GO DOWN THERE TO UKRAINE.
UKRAINE?
YES.
- TO TRY TO REKINDLE...
- TO TRY TO RE...
WHAT YOU LOST.
OKAY. MARIA,
YOU HEARD CAESAR SAY
HE WOULD LIKE TO FLY
DOWN TO UKRAINE
AND TRY TO SALVAGE
THE RELATIONSHIP.
WELL, WHAT PART OF THIS
DO YOU FEEL IS CAESAR'S FAULT?
WHAT PICTURE
ARE WE NOT SEEING?
BUT WHEN YOU SAY
HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS,
WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
I KNOW
WHAT SHE'S TALKING ABOUT.
SHE'S TALKING ABOUT
THAT EVERYBODY IS SAYING,
"OH, WOW,
WE FEEL SORRY FOR YOU,"
AND EVERYBODY'S SAYING
THAT SHE'S FAKE
AND THAT EVERYBODY
HATES HER AND EVERYTHING.
I DON'T CARE
WHAT PEOPLE THINK.
YOU KNOW, I UNDERSTAND
THAT YOU'RE PISSED OFF AT ME
AND YOU WANT TO SAY
WHATEVER YOU WANT TO SAY,
BUT I TRIED IN MY HEART
TO TRY TO BE A MAN
AND TO TRY TO DO
FOR HIS WOMAN
AND TO TRY
TO GET YOU HERE.
I KEPT TRYING,
AND THEN EVERYTHING
JUST STARTED UP,
AND I NEEDED ANOTHER WAY.
SO, THIS WAS THE ONLY WAY
THAT I CAN TRY
TO GET YOU DOWN HERE.
IF I DIDN'T LOVE YOU,
I WOULDN'T HAVE DONE ANYTHING.
I WOULD'VE JUST STOPPED
THE WHOLE RELATIONSHIP,
AND I WOULD'VE JUST SAID,
"FORGET IT
BECAUSE IT'S NOT WORTH IT."
BUT YOU ARE WORTH
A LOT TO ME.
THAT'S WHY I INVESTED
EVERYTHING,
AND MY LAST OPTION
WAS FOR ME TO SHOW EVERYBODY
HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU,
AND THAT'S WHAT IT WAS.
BABY, I AM STRONG.
I ALWAYS AM STRONG.
HE JUST POURED HIS HEART OUT
TO YOU.
WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE
TO WHAT HE JUST SAID?
THERE...
THERE'S HER RESPONSE.
SHE DOESN'T CARE.
I HEAR YOU.
I HEAR YOU, BABE.
Yes, okay.
OH, YOU MADE YOURSELF
LOOK BAD.
HE'S NEVER SAID ONE THING BAD
ABOUT YOU.
ACTUALLY, TO THIS DAY,
HE'S STILL DEFENDING YOU,
WHICH HE SHOULDN'T BE.
YOU USED HIM,
AND YOU KNOW THAT.
I KNOW...
I KNOW I COULD JUST STOP,
BUT I STILL LOVE YOU.
EVEN IF I GO ON
AND I DO SOMETHING ELSE,
YOU'LL ALWAYS BE THERE
IN MY MIND...
YOU KNOW,
BECAUSE YOU'RE ALWAYS,
LIKE,
MY FIRST LOVE, BABY.
YOU'RE MY EVERYTHING, BABY.
I JUST WANTED
TO HOLD YOU IN MY ARMS
AND JUST TO LOOK
INTO YOUR EYES.
DID YOU HEAR HER SAY
SHE WANTS YOU TO MOVE ON?
OKAY.
WE DON'T KNOW IF WE'LL SEE
EACH OTHER AGAIN,
JUST BECAUSE
OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES.
I DO LOVE YOU AND I DO CARE
ABOUT YOU A LOT,
SO I THINK THAT I'M JUST
GONNA GIVE YOU A BREAK.
READY, IN THREE, TWO!
WELCOME BACK TO "90 DAY FIANCé:
THE COUPLES TELL ALL."
MICHAEL, WE ARE SAYING
GOODBYE TO YOU.
I APPRECIATE
YOU HANGING IN THERE
BECAUSE I KNOW IT'S VERY,
VERY EARLY WHERE YOU ARE.
Thank you.
OKAY, SO AFTER HEARING
FROM MARIA,
DOES ANYBODY HAVE
A DIFFERENT OPINION OF HER
THAN BEFORE WE MET HER?
- I THINK A LITTLE BIT.
- YEAH.
BUT I THINK MORE OR LESS,
IT'S NOT JUST SO MUCH
THAT WE HAVE
A DIFFERENT OPINION OF HER.
I FEEL LIKE THE SITUATION,
THE WHOLE STORY,
MAY BE A LITTLE BIT DIFFERENT
THAN WHAT WE THOUGHT.
- MM-HMM.
- I DON'T KNOW.
I KNOW I'M
A LITTLE MORE CONFUSED
THAN I WAS
AT THE BEGINNING OF THE HOUR.
I'M MORE CONFUSED.
ALRIGHT, HOLD THAT THOUGHT.
LET'S TAKE A LOOK AT ONE
OF THE MOST DIFFICULT PARTS
OF A LONG-DISTANCE
RELATIONSHIP...
SAYING GOODBYE.
I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE.
WE'LL BUY US SOME FOUR-WHEELERS
AND SOME LAND,
AND WE'RE GONNA HAVE KIDS.
I KNOW.
THE LAST TWO WEEKS HAVE BEEN...
REALLY A GREAT TIME.
JUST... I'VE NEVER HAD
ANYTHING LIKE THIS BEFORE.
HERE WE GO, BABY.
I LOVE YOU TOO, BABY.
MM.
- AWW!
- AWW!
JUST PRAY AND HOPE THAT,
YOU KNOW,
I GET TO SEE HER AGAIN SOON,
AND WE CAN MAKE IT WORK.
IT'S NOT GOODBYE.
IT'S TILL NEXT TIME.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.TAKE CARE.
MM.
OH, MY.
THAT IS HEARTBREAKING.
AVERY, WHAT WAS IT LIKE SAYING
GOODBYE TO OMAR
SO SOON
AFTER GETTING MARRIED?
WELL, IT WAS REALLY,
LIKE, SO HARD,
ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS,
LIKE, I'VE DONE.
WE DON'T KNOW IF WE'LL SEE
EACH OTHER AGAIN
JUST BECAUSE
OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES.
SO IT WAS REALLY HARD
JUST TO THINK,
"MAYBE THIS IS THE LAST TIME
WE SEE EACH OTHER."
THAT'S NOT WHAT WE WANT,
BUT YOU NEVER KNOW
WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS.
BUT ANY CHANCE WE GET,
EVERY LUNCH BREAK, BEFORE BED,
WE HAVE OUR SCHEDULE PLANNED OUT
THAT WE AT LEAST GET TO TALK
FOR AT LEAST A FEW HOURS A DAY,
EVERY DAY.
SO...
DARCEY AND TOM,
THAT WAS A PASSIONATE KISS
WHEN YOU GUYS WERE
LEAVING THE AIRPORT.
WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS WHILE
YOU'RE HERE IN THE U.S., TOM?
SO YOU ONLY HAVE A COUPLE
OF DAYS, AND THAT'S IT.
- YEAH.
- IT'S A SHORT TRIP.
WHAT DO YOU THINK THINGS ARE
GOING TO BE LIKE
WHEN HE GOES BACK?
I THINK WE'LL JUST, YOU KNOW,
STAY IN COMMUNICATION,
BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER,
AND JUST, YOU KNOW,
BE HOPEFUL FOR THE FUTURE
AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS,
YOU KNOW?
- MM-HMM. MM-HMM.
- OKAY.
AKINYI AND BENJAMIN,
SO, WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS?
I'M JUST GETTING
THE K-1 PROCESS WRAPPED UP
AND FOR AKINYI
TO BE ABLE TO COME HERE, SO...
WILL YOU BE GOING BACK
TO KENYA ANYTIME SOON?
THE PLAN WOULD BE FOR ME
TO GO BACK
ONCE WE GET
TO AN INTERVIEW DATE...
MM-HMM.
AND BE ABLE TO GO BACK
AND VISIT
WITH HER FAMILY, SO...
AND WHAT DID SHE SAY?
"AND PAY THE DOWRY"?
"PAY THE DOWRY."
- AND FINISH PAYING THE DOWRY.
SO YOU'RE NOT GOING BACK
OVER THERE
UNTIL YOU'VE GOT SOME MONEY
WITH YOU, RIGHT?
THAT'S CORRECT.
- OKAY.
- YEAH.
JEN AND TIM, HOW DID
YOUR RELATIONSHIP CHANGE
ONCE YOU GOT BACK
TO THE STATES?
WE HAD
A FUTURE TO PLAN FOR.
I MEAN, WE WERE TESTING
THE WATERS THERE,
AND WHEN WE FIGURED OUT
THAT WE WANTED TO CONTINUE,
IT GAVE US SOMETHING
TO LOOK FORWARD TO, I THINK.
RIGHT.
I'm very excited to see him.
I know this is
just a continuation.
So this story is just beginning,
so I'm happy for it.
AND, ZIED, WHAT WAS
THE HARDEST PART
ABOUT SAYING GOODBYE TO REBECCA
AT THE AIRPORT?
Well...
WE WERE TOGETHER
FOR 21 DAYS,
SO IT WAS A REALLY LONG TIME,
AND IT WAS VERY HARD.
LIKE I'VE SAID BEFORE, I ALMOST
DIDN'T GET ON THE PLANE.
MM. BUT
WHAT ARE THE UPDATES
ON ZIED COMING HERE
TO THE STATES?
THERE WAS A DELAY
BECAUSE OF THE DIVORCE
BEING FINALIZED ON MY END,
BUT AS OF LAST WEEK,
THE PAPERS HAVE BEEN FILED.
NOW WE JUST WAIT.
BUT I KNOW THAT,
IN THE NEXT TWO MONTHS,
I DEFINITELY AM
GOING BACK TO TUNISIA.
AND, CAESAR, WHERE DO YOU STAND
AT THIS POINT?
WELL, I WANT TO SAY
I THINK THAT...
I DO LOVE YOU,
AND I DO CARE
ABOUT YOU A LOT.
SO I THINK THAT I'M JUST
GONNA GIVE YOU A BREAK,
AND I THINK, RIGHT NOW,
WE NEED TO LIVE OUR OWN LIVES,
AND I'M GOING TO LET YOU DO
WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO.
- AND I'M JUST...
- YOU'RE DONE, RIGHT?
I'M JUST... I'M JUST
DONE.RIGHT? NO MORE MONEY?
AND I THINK WE NEED
TO GIVE IT A BREAK.
- NO MORE MONEY.
- THAT'S IT.
YOU'RE NOT GONNA SEND HER
ANY MORE MONEY?
I THINK I'M JUST
GONNA BE ALONE FOR AWHILE.
HOW TOUGH WAS IT TO MAKE
THAT DECISION, CAESAR?
IT'S REALLY TOUGH BECAUSE
YOU WANT TO SHOW THAT PERSON
HOW MUCH
THAT YOU LOVE THEM.
ONLY TIME WILL TELL.
AND SO I THINK THE BEST THING
IS IF WE SEPARATE
AND WE STOP TALKING.
MARIA, WHAT PARTING WORDS
WOULD YOU LIKE TO SAY TO CAESAR?
OKAY. ALRIGHT.
WELL, I WANT TO THANK ALL OF YOU
FOR COMING TODAY
AND SHARING THE MOST
INTIMATE PARTS OF YOUR LIVES.
I KNOW IT'S BEEN VERY TOUGH.
DEFINITELY A ROLLER COASTER,
HIGHS AND LOWS,
BUT I WISH YOU ALL
THE VERY BEST.
SO, THANK YOU VERY MUCH,
EVERYONE.
AND THAT WILL DO IT FOR US.
GOOD NIGHT, EVERYBODY.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.
- THANK YOU, GUYS.
- IT WAS NICE TO MEET YOU.
THANK YOU, EVERYBODY.
I MISS YOU.
I miss you, too.
WE'RE GONNA GO
TO THE GREENROOM.
OKAY.
FOURTH FLOOR.
THE BRIDE PRICE
IS OBVIOUSLY STILL AN ISSUE
BETWEEN ME
AND AKINYI'S FAMILY,
AND, AT THIS TIME,
I DON'T KNOW WHERE WE'RE GOING
TO END WITH THE BRIDE PRICE.
IT CERTAINLY IS SOMETHING
THAT WEIGHS ON ME.
IT WORRIES ME THAT I MAY NEVER
BE DONE PAYING THE BRIDE PRICE.
TOM... YOU KNOW, HE'S OPENING UP
SLOWLY BUT SURELY...
NO PRESSURE HERE.
- WHERE YOU WANT TO GO?
- SHOWER.
- YEAH.
- GLAD I DIDN'T SEE JESSE.
I DON'T NEED TO
DEFEND MYSELF ANYMORE.
I CAN START MANIFESTING
BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN MY LIFE.
I ACTUALLY WANT
TO SPEND SOME TIME
WHERE WE CAN JUST BE RELAXED
WITHOUT ALL THE INTERFERENCE
OF ANYONE ELSE.
- WE'LL BE YOUR ANGELS.
- AWW!
YOU KNOW, WHEN YOU LIVE
IN SEPARATE COUNTRIES,
YOU KIND OF LIVE
SEPARATE LIVES.
BUT WE'VE APPLIED
FOR THE TOURIST VISA.
WE'RE STILL COMMITTED.
WE'RE STILL PLANNING
A FUTURE TOGETHER,
WE'RE JUST WAITING
ON THAT PAPER
SO WE CAN, YOU KNOW,
JUST PROGRESS
WITH OUR RELATIONSHIP.
OKAY.
I DON'T THINK TODAY
CHANGED ZIED AND I AT ALL.
I WAS A LITTLE BIT WORRIED ABOUT
HAVING TO REHASH THE EX THING,
BUT, ULTIMATELY,
I THINK ZIED AND I ARE OKAY.
I THINK THE BIGGEST PROBLEM THAT
ZIED AND I ARE GONNA HAVE IS,
ONCE HE GETS TO AMERICA,
IF HE CHANGES.
THAT'S WHEN WE'RE GONNA BE
ABLE TO SEE IF HE'S,
YOU KNOW, STAYS THE STAND-UP GUY
THAT HE SAYS HE IS.
ME AND OMAR DEFINITELY HAVE
SO MANY OBSTACLES
WE HAVE TO OVERCOME,
AND THERE'S GONNA BE
A LOT OF CHALLENGES.
BUT WE ARE A STRONG COUPLE,
AND I REALLY BELIEVE
THAT WE'LL MAKE IT WORK,
AND WHAT WE'RE DOING NOW...
IT'S WORKING SOMEHOW,
AND WE'RE HAPPY.
SO WE'LL GET THROUGH IT.
I'M EXCITED BECAUSE
I BOUGHT TICKETS
TO GO SEE OMAR IN LEBANON.
AND IT'S JUST ONE WEEK,
BUT AT LEAST IT'S ONE WEEK
THAT I GET TO SPEND WITH HIM.
SO, IT'LL BE NICE.