90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days (2017–…): Season 2, Episode 2 - Face to Face - full transcript

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"BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

NIGERIA!

I DECIDED WHEN I GET TO NIGERIA
I'M GOING TO PROPOSE TO HIM.

I THOUGHT YOU WAS
ON MY DAMN SIDE.

I AM ON YOUR SIDE, BUT IT'S
A LOT OF RED FLAGS, MAMA.

I JUST WANT TO TOUCH
YOU IN THE FLESH.

I'M FLYING TO ENGLAND
WITH A BABY.

I COULD BE COMING
HOME DEVASTATED.

I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW
WHAT EVERYTHING IS,

BUT YOU DON'T KNOW.

A LOT OF HIS COMMENTS COME
ACROSS AS VERY BELITTLING.



I JUST FEEL LIKE
I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

MELISSA,
THE WAY SHE LOOKS...

KARINE HAS BEEN TALKING
TO OTHER AMERICAN MEN

ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

AND COMING UP...

PEOPLE THINK HAZEL'S
JUST FROM A POOR COUNTRY

TAKING ME FOR A RIDE.

OH, MY GOD.
HEY.

I CAME TO COLOMBIA
BECAUSE OF MELISSA.

THERE'S ALL THESE TEXT MESSAGES
AND NO RESPONSE FROM HER.

THIS WHOLE THING IS CRAZY.

I'VE NEVER BEEN OUT
OF THE COUNTRY BEFORE.

IT REALLY JUST DOES PISS ME OFF.

THIS IS JUST TOO MUCH.



I NEVER SAID
THAT YOU CHEATED.

NOT BEING
INCRIMINATED AGAINST

BECAUSE YOU WANT ME
TO SAY CERTAIN THINGS

THAT YOU'RE THINKING
IN YOUR HEAD!

CAPTIONS PAID FOR BY
DISCOVERY COMMUNICATIONS

I AM ON MY WAY TO ENGLAND

TO FINALLY MEET
MY BOYFRIEND, JON.

I HAVE NEVER EVEN MET
JON IN PERSON BEFORE.

WE MET ON A KARAOKE APP.

JON IS SWEET.

HE'S FUNNY.

AND HE'S SO ROMANTIC.

I'VE BEEN LOOKING
FORWARD TO THIS MOMENT

FOR A YEAR AND A HALF.

IT'S ALMOST MAGICAL.

BUT I'M BRINGING MORE
THAN JUST MY SUITCASES.

I'M BRINGING MY
EIGHT-MONTH-OLD BABY.

HER NAME IS LUCY.

I BELIEVE THAT JON AND I
ARE DESTINED TO BE TOGETHER.

I THINK THAT
HE'D BE A GREAT DAD.

AND I AM HOPING FOR A PROPOSAL.

WE'RE HERE.
WE MADE IT TO LONDON.

HERE WE GO.

SOME PEOPLE THINK
THAT IT'S CRAZY,

THAT I AM TRAVELING
OVER 4,000 MILES WITH A BABY

TO MEET SOMEBODY
FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME,

BUT LUCY AND I ARE
A PACKAGE DEAL,

SO I NEED TO KNOW THAT
HE CAN HANDLE FATHERHOOD.

I GOT A MESSAGE FROM JON
SAYING THAT HE'S NOT HERE.

AND IN FACT, I NEED TO TAKE
A TRAIN TO PADDINGTON STATION.

WHO KNOWS?

BEEN LOOKING FORWARD
TO SEEING HIM JUST OVER THERE.

I'VE NEVER BEEN
OUT OF THE COUNTRY BEFORE.

I'M NOT MUCH OF A TRAVELER.

AND JON DOESN'T EVEN
SHOW UP AT THE AIRPORT.

I LIKE SURPRISES JUST NOT
ON TWO HOURS OF SLEEP.

THIS TRAIN WILL BE
DEPARTING IN ONE MINUTE.

I KNOW. I KNOW.
I'M SORRY.

STAND CLEAR
OF THE CLOSING DOOR.

STAND CLEAR
OF THE CLOSING DOOR.

I'M A LITTLE UPSET.

I AM TRAVELING
ABROAD WITH A BABY.

HEY.
- THANK YOU.

IT'S A LOT OF WORK,
A LOT OF LUGGAGE, AND...

TO SAY THAT I'M ANXIOUS
IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT.

I THINK THE MOMENT THAT
I CAN ACTUALLY TOUCH JON,

FEEL HIM, SMELL HIM, KISS HIM,

IT'S GONNA BE SURREAL.

THAT'S SOMETHING
I LITERALLY DREAM ABOUT,

BUT THAT CHANCE THAT
HE'S NOT WHO HE SAYS HE IS

THAT TERRIFIES ME.

WE'RE HERE!

I'M CURRENTLY ON MY
WAY BACK TO BRAZIL.

I HAVEN'T SEEN MY FIANCéE
KARINE IN ABOUT FOUR MONTHS.

SHE'S MY DREAM WOMAN, BUT
THERE'S A LOT MORE ON THE LINE

ON THIS TRIP.

KARINE AND I REALLY WANT TO
GET MARRIED IN BRAZIL.

AND KARINE'S FATHER...

HAS DEMANDED TO SEE
MY ENTIRE CRIMINAL RECORD,

SO I BROUGHT
ALL MY COURT DOCUMENTS.

IT'S DEFINITELY
VERY, VERY TERRIFYING

BECAUSE I'M NOT QUITE SURE
IF HE COULD EVER ACCEPT

A CRIMINAL EVER
MARRYING HIS DAUGHTER.

NOW THAT I'VE ARRIVED
HERE IN BRAZIL,

I'M VERY NERVOUS ABOUT WHAT MAY
OR MAY NOT HAPPEN ON THIS TRIP

BECAUSE THESE LAST FEW WEEKS...

AND I DON'T KNOW
WHAT'S GOING ON WITH KARINE

AND HER ONLINE FRIEND, JOE.

LIKE HEART-EYE EMOJIS
AND LITTLE KISSY FACES.

AND I SAW THESE
SHIRTLESS PICTURES, YOU KNOW.

I'M REALLY WORRIED.

I'M NOT SEEING ONE PIECE
OF MY LUGGAGE, NONE OF IT.

I MEAN, LITERALLY NONE OF IT.

I'M NOT QUITE SURE HOW YOU'D
LOSE FIVE PIECES OF LUGGAGE,

AND FOUR GIANT FOOTLOCKERS
AND A GIANT DUFFEL BAG.

FINISH. FINISH.
NO MORE.

OKAY. IT'S DONE.

EVERY SINGLE PIECE
OF LUGGAGE IS MISSING.

EVERYTHING IS IN THOSE BAGS.
I HAVE...

THIS DAY JUST UTTERLY SUCKS.

THE BEST PART ABOUT
THIS WHOLE SITUATION

IS I GET TO SEE KARINE.

THAT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING.

SO, GRANTED, I HAVE NOTHING.

I STILL HAVE HER.

THERE'S A LOT OF OBSTACLES
STANDING IN OUR WAY,

BUT I STILL LOVE HER
WITH ALL MY HEART.

I HOPE THAT SHE FEELS
THE SAME WAY ABOUT ME.

HELLO.

OH, MY GOD.
HEY.

HOW ARE YOU?

AND HUG HER
AND HOLD HER AND SMELL HER.

HMM?

AW,
YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL.

- NO, YOU.
- YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL.

HMM?

AH, IT'S ALL... POOF!...
GONE.

I MAY HAVE A FULL-FLEDGED
PANIC ATTACK.

LET'S GO.

SEAT BELT.

OH, THE CHILD BELT.

THANK YOU.

THIS IS JUST TOO MUCH.

HAZEL'S JUST
TAKING ME FOR A RIDE.

THIS IS LIKE MAD FRUSTRATING.

OH, YOU GOT ME.

MY NAME IF TARIK.

I'M 43 YEARS OLD, AND I'M
FROM VIRGINIA BEACH, VIRGINIA.

OH, THE FEET.
I GOT THE FEET.

I'M A REALTOR, AND I LIVE
ALONE WITH MY DAUGHTER.

OKAY,
I KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.

HER NAME IS ARIELA.

WE CALL HER ARIE FOR SHORT.

TRASH.

SHE HAS HIGH-FUNCTIONING AUTISM.

SHE'S A REGULAR, NORMAL
FIVE-YEAR-OLD GIRL.

SHE JUST HAS A DELAY
IN UNDERSTANDING CONVERSATION.

MY DAUGHTER IS THE MOST
IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE.

SHE REMINDS ME
OF HOW BEAUTIFUL LIFE IS.

AAH!

BEING A SINGLE DAD
WITH A CHILD WITH AUTISM

IS NOT EASY.

ALL THROUGHOUT THE DAY,
I DO COLORS, NUMBERS, LETTERS.

THREE.

MAKING SURE SHE'S GONNA
HAVE A BRIGHT FUTURE.

WE GOT TO PUT YOUR
SOCKS ON, OKAY.

ARIE'S MOM AND I,
WE WERE NEVER MARRIED.

WE HAD A VERY
TUMULTUOUS RELATIONSHIP,

AND WE HAVEN'T BEEN
TOGETHER SINCE SHORTLY

AFTER SHE WAS BORN.

I'VE NEVER BEEN MARRIED
BECAUSE AFTER ARIE WAS BORN

MY HEART AND SOUL WENT INTO HER,
AND I SHUT EVERYBODY ELSE OUT.

HERE WE GO. HERE WE GO.

HERE WE GO. HERE WE GO.
HERE WE GO.

YEAH!

I THINK I'VE GOT
THE DAD PART DOWN,

BUT LONELINESS HAPPENS.

SO A COUPLE OF YEARS AGO, I JUST
WANTED TO MEET NEW PEOPLE,

SO I STARTED TRAVELING.

THAT IS A PICTURE OF THAILAND.

I WENT TO ASIA FOR A FEW WEEKS
AND IT WAS AMAZING.

THE FOOD, ART,
YOU KNOW, THE LANGUAGES,

AND OF COURSE
ASIAN WOMEN ARE HOT, MAN.

I ENDED UP WITH A GIRLFRIEND...

THAT DIDN'T WORK OUT.

BUT I REALIZED I WAS REALLY
ATTRACTED TO ASIAN WOMEN,

SO I DECIDED TO GO
ON ASIAN DATING WEBSITES,

AND I GOT LUCKY.

HIT THE JACKPOT, SO TO SAY.

NOW, I HAVE A NEW LOVE INTEREST.

HER NAME'S HAZEL.
SHE'S FROM THE PHILIPPINES.

SHE IS THE YIN TO MY YANG.

YOU KNOW, I'M 6'2".

SHE'S LIKE 5'2".

I'M 43.
HAZEL IS 25.

I MEAN, JUST ANGELINA JOLIE.

FULL LIPS, HIGH CHEEKBONES.

DROP-DEAD GORGEOUS TO
THE POINT THAT IT MAKES ME DUMB.

EVEN THOUGH WE'VE
NEVER MET FACE TO FACE

I HAVE TOLD HER I LOVE HER,

AND VERY SOON
I'M GETTING ON A PLANE

AND FLYING TO MEET
HER THERE IN MANILA.

KICK 'EM.

I'M LEAVING MY DAUGHTER
FOR TWO WEEKS WITH HER MOM.

I'VE SPENT
A NICE PIECE OF MONEY.

I GUESS YOU CAN SAY
I'M RISKING A LOT.

I'M GONNA CALL HAZEL NOW.

THIS IS HER TEXTING.

SHE SAID, "I'M SORRY.
I TOLD YOU I'M SHY."

HAZEL KEEPS SAYING SHE'S SHY,

SO THAT'S WHY SHE WANTS
TO KEEP CHATTING BY TEXT.

THIS IS LIKE MAD FRUSTRATING.

I REALLY WANTED ASSURANCE
THAT'S SHE'S JUST AS EXCITED

AS I AM ABOUT US MEETING
IN PERSON FOR THE FIRST TIME.

SO... UM...

THIS IS SHOCK TO ME
BECAUSE FOR WEEKS

I'VE BEEN TELLING HER

I'M FLYING 9,000-PLUS
MILES TO SEE YOU.

I'VE GOT A FEELING
SHE'S GETTING COLD FEET.

I'M A LITTLE OLD
FOR THE GAME THING.

SOME PEOPLE IN MY FAMILY
THINK HAZEL'S JUST A GIRL

FROM A POOR COUNTRY
TAKING ME FOR A RIDE.

I REALLY WANT TO
PROVE THEM WRONG,

SO I HOPE IT'S NOT
A WASTE OF TIME.

I'M GOING TO MEET
MY BOYFRIEND, MICHAEL,

IN NIGERIA FOR THE FIRST TIME.

I'M LEAVING TODAY,

AND I THINK IT'S JUST
GONNA BE A CULTURE SHOCK.

MY FAMILY REALLY DIDN'T
WANT ME TO TALK TO MICHAEL

BECAUSE HE WAS FROM NIGERIA,
AND WE ARE 20 YEARS APART.

I HOPE
HE'S NOT SCAMMING YOU.

HOW'S HE SCAMMING ME?

I THOUGHT YOU WAS
ON MY DAMN SIDE.

I AM ON YOUR SIDE, BUT THERE'S
A LOT OF RED FLAGS, MAMA.

BUT I FEEL A STRONG
CONNECTION WITH MICHAEL

AND WHEN I GET TO NIGERIA
I'M GONNA PROPOSE TO HIM,

BUT THERE IS A BIG PROBLEM.

THEY TOLD ME I'D GET IT
IN TIME FOR MY TRIP,

AND IT HAS NOT COME.

NO PASSPORT, NO VISA, NO TRIP.

SO, THIS IS JUST
A DISASTER FROM THE GET.

MY STUFF HASN'T COME YET.

THE POST OFFICE IS JUST,
OH, MY GOD.

NO, I'M NOT.

I GOT TO GET ON
THAT FLIGHT AT 6:00.

IF IT AIN'T HERE RIGHT
NOW AT THE POST OFFICE,

IT WON'T BE HERE.

TIME IS TICKING,

AND I WAS SUPPOSED TO
BE ON THE PLANE AT 6:00.

GOT TO BE THERE AT 3:00
OR 4:00 AT THE AIRPORT,

AND IT'S TWO HOURS AWAY.

I'M VERY STRESSED OUT
RIGHT NOW ABOUT IT.

I CAN'T... DAMN IT.

I'M A STRONG WOMAN, BUT

THIS IS JUST TOO MUCH.

I'M NOT TAKING THIS LIGHTLY.

HI. I'M CHECKING TO SEE IF
MY PASSPORT AND VISA ARRIVED.

HERE'S MY LICENSE.

OKAY.

AH, THEY'RE LYING.
THEY'RE LYING.

THERE'S SOMETHING GOING ON.
I'M TELLING YOU.

IS THERE A POSSIBILITY
IT'S LOST?

THIS IS JUST RIDICULOUS.

WHAT THE HELL AM I GONNA DO NOW?

I DON'T KNOW.
DON'T KNOW.

I'LL FIGURE SOMETHING OUT.

GOD, CAN ANYTHING EVER
GO EASY FOR ME, EVER?

I'VE ALREADY SPENT
SO MUCH MONEY ON THIS TRIP.

I'M NOT SURE IF I CAN AFFORD
TO CHANGE THE FLIGHTS.

IT'S JUST NOT A GOOD FEELING.

IT'S
IT'S NOT A GOOD FEELING.

SO, I JUST GOT A NOTICE IT'S
TIME TO CHECK IN FOR MY FLIGHT,

AND I'M NOT CHECKING IN.

OH, GOD,
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

NOW, I GOT TO CALL MICHAEL.

OKAY.

HEY, HONEY.

I'M... I'M... UGH.

MICHAEL, I DON'T
THINK I'M COMING.

THEY STILL...

WHAT'S GOING ON IS
THE PACKAGE STILL IS NOT HERE.

DID YOU REALLY SAY
TRY AND LOOK IT UP?

DO YOU THINK I'M JUST SITTING
HERE WAITING ON THE MAILMAN?

I'M SPEECHLESS 'CAUSE
I'M TRYING TO JUST FIGURE

WHY IS THIS GOING ON.

I WANT TO GET OVER
THERE TO MICHAEL.

I'VE BEEN WAITING A YEAR,
AND I'VE WORKED HARD.

IT'S COSTING ME A LOT OF MONEY.

I WANT TO MEET MY SOUL MATE,
AND I'M NOT THERE.

I'M NOT GONNA BE THERE.

I'M TIRED OF TALKING ABOUT IT.
I GOT TO THINK.

I ALREADY BEEN
UPSET THIS MORNING.

IT'S JUST OVERWHELMING ME.

I'M UPSET.

TONIGHT, I'M GONNA MEET MELISSA,

BUT I'M WORRIED THAT
SHE'S NOT GONNA SHOW UP.

THERE'S ALL THESE TEXT MESSAGES
AND NO RESPONSE FROM HER.

I AM OWNING IT.
WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO SAY?

THREE HOURS OUT BEFORE
I ARRIVE TO MENAJE, COLOMBIA.

I'M EXCITED.

I'M TRAVELING TO MEET MELISSA.

SHE IS A HOT COLOMBIAN
WOMAN I MET ONLINE.

WE HIT IT OFF.

WE SPOKE ABOUT
WHAT HER DREAMS ARE,

AND WHAT MY DREAMS ARE.

EVEN THOUGH WE'VE JUST BEEN
COMMUNICATING THROUGH TEXTS

I STARTED TO REALIZE
LIKE WOW, THIS IS REAL.

I FELL IN LOVE SO QUICKLY.

BUT IN THE PAST FEW DAYS,
THE CONVERSATIONS

ARE REALLY, REALLY LIMITED.

EVEN THOUGH SHE'S BEEN
A LITTLE BIT DISTANT,

AND THE LAST TIME
I COMMUNICATED WITH HER

WAS A COUPLE DAYS AGO, I'M
STILL COMING WITH A DIAMOND RING

IN HOPES OF PROPOSING
TO MELISSA.

I JUST LANDED AT BEAUTIFUL,
MENAJE, COLOMBIA.

MELISSA SAID THAT SHE CAN'T
MEET ME AT THE AIRPORT.

TONIGHT IS THE FIRST NIGHT
WHERE I'M GONNA MEET MELISSA.

AND THE NEXT TIME
I COME TO THIS AIRPORT

TWO THINGS CAN HAPPEN.

NUMBER ONE, I HAVE A FIANCéE,

OR NUMBER TWO I
COULD BE HEARTBROKEN.

THROUGHOUT MY LIFE I HAD
AN EXTREMELY HARD TIME

FINDING TRUE LOVE,
BUT THIS IS MY LAST RODEO.

I WANT TO MEET
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.

WOW.
IT'S LIKE JURASSIC PARK.

COLOMBIA HAS A LOT OF DANGERS,

ESPECIALLY IN REGARDS
TO THE TRAFFICKING

AND SMUGGLING OF DRUGS,

BUT IT'S A BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY.

THIS IS COOL.
THIS IS COOL.

AS SOON AS I ARRIVED,
THE FIRST THING I DID

WAS TEXT MELISSA.

AND LOOK, THERE'S ALL THESE,

ALL THESE TEXT MESSAGES,
AND NO RESPONSE FROM HER.

I TOLD HER WHAT RESTAURANT
WE'RE GONNA GO TO.

I TOLD HER 7:00.

SHE HASN'T RESPONDED.

AND I DON'T KNOW.
IT'S CRAZY.

THIS WHOLE THING IS CRAZY.
IT REALLY IS.

SIR.

GIRLFRIEND.

¿COMO?
MY GIRLFRIEND.

THE REASON I CAME TO COLOMBIA
IS BECAUSE OF MELISSA.

I HOPE MELISSA SHOWS UP TONIGHT.

IT'S THE INTERNET.

THERE'S SHADY PEOPLE
ON THE INTERNET,

BUT I THINK
SHE KNOWS I'M DIFFERENT,

AND I'M OPTIMISTIC THAT
SHE'S GONNA SHOW UP.

I KNOW FOR A FACT
THAT SHE'S GONNA SHOW UP.

IT'S GONNA BE A GREAT DAY.

LET'S GO AHEAD
AND GET READY FOR DINNER.

GET YOU LOOKING
ON POINT.

OH, LOOK AT YOU

IN YOUR CALVIN KLEIN'S.

JESSE JUST FLEW
IN FROM AMSTERDAM.

WE'RE STAYING IN
A HOTEL HERE IN THE CITY,

SO WE CAN ENJOY
THE BIG APPLE TOGETHER

BEFORE HE MEETS MY DAUGHTERS.

YOU'RE LOOKING SHARP.

YEAH.

EVER SINCE I CAME
BACK FROM AMSTERDAM

THE COMMUNICATION'S
BEEN VERY STRAINED.

SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE HE WANTS
TO KIND OF KEEP ME BENEATH HIM.

IT MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE,
AND IT CAUSES FRICTION.

IT CAUSES US TO ARGUE AND FIGHT.

MAKEUP?

TO HAVE HIM MEET
MY DAUGHTERS FOR THE FIRST TIME

IS A HUGE STEP,
BUT BEFORE I HAVE THAT HAPPEN

I'M REALLY HOPING WE CAN
HAVE AN OPEN AND HONEST

HEART TO HEART ABOUT OUR ISSUES.

NEW YORK'S GONNA LOVE YOU,
SO LET'S ENJOY IT,

OUR FIRST NIGHT
IN THE CITY.

ENJOY SOME NICE FOOD.

THIS TRIP IS VERY IMPORTANT.

I AM GOING TO MEET HER
DAUGHTERS FOR THE FIRST TIME.

I WANT TO EMBRACE
DARCEY'S LIFE IN AMERICA.

IT'S NOW 2:30 A.M.
IN THE NETHERLANDS.

YEAH.

SO WHEN THERE IS FRUSTRATION
OR WHEN THERE IS AN ARGUMENT

SHE CHOOSES
TO RANT TO SOCIAL MEDIA

AND I DON'T WANT TO
BE ASSOCIATED

WITH A PARTNER THAT
BEHAVES LIKE THAT.

AFTER YOU, MISS.

THANK YOU.

FINALLY, LOVE THAT.

YEAH.

BEAUTIFUL.

MY HOPE FOR THIS TRIP
IS FOR US TO RECONNECT

AND GET TO A PLACE
WHERE WE CAN MEND THINGS

AND JUST GET BACK TO THAT
CLOSENESS THAT WE DO SHARE,

FOR OUR SOULFUL LOVE,
AND I'M DYING FOR THAT.

I CRAVE THAT, I WANT THAT.

DESPITE OUR DIFFERENCES,
I LOVE HIM.

I STILL WANT TO BE HIS WIFE.

NO MATTER WHAT, UPS AND DOWNS,
WE CAN FIGURE IT OUT.

- TRUE.
- WE CAN.

WE HAVE TO FIGHT
FOR OUR LOVE, I FEEL.

I FEEL LIKE, NO MATTER
ALL THAT CRAP,

WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS.
- YEAH.

YOU KNOW?

AND HAVEN'T I BEEN
PROACTIVE, LIKE?

YOU HAVE.

YEAH, BUT IT'S NOT SOMETHING
I NEED TO STAY OFF OF

BECAUSE...

I JUST WANT TO GET MY OUTLET,
TO HAVE A VOICE.

SO SHE POSTED ON FACEBOOK.

SHE STATED THAT SHE WAS OVER IT,

AND I COULD
OTHER BITCHES.

BECAUSE YOU COULD ONLY IMAGINE
HOW PEOPLE PERCEIVED THAT.

"HEY, WHAT DID JESSE DO?
DID HE CHEAT?"

I FEEL LIKE I NEED
TO UNDERSTAND WHY...

ABSOLUTELY NOT,
NO, NO, NO, NO, THAT'S NOT.

RUINING MY BUSINESS
AND MY LIFE.

HOW WOULD I RUIN YOUR
BUSINESS AND YOUR LIFE?

I NEVER SAID THAT
YOU WERE A CHEATER.

FOR HER TO SPEAK LIKE THAT
ON SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS,

I LOSE BUSINESS BECAUSE OF THAT.

IF SHE DOESN'T TAKE
RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER ACTIONS,

THEN THIS RELATIONSHIP
HAS NO FUTURE.

YOU NEED TO STRUCTURE YOUR
OWN LIFE AND YOUR OWN...

MY LIFE IS
STRUCTURED, HONEY.

NO, IF YOU TALK LIKE THAT,
YOUR LIFE IS NOT STRUCTURED.

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT,
THAT WAS ONE RANT.

YES, THANK YOU.

- CHICKEN PLATTER.
- YES.

- SALMON.
- THANK YOU, SIR.

APPRECIATE IT.
THANK YOU, SIR.

- OKAY, BON APPETIT.
- IT LOOKS WONDERFUL,

BON APPETIT.

KEEP
AND LYING, BABY.

OWN YOUR MISTAKES.

I AM OWNING IT.
WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO SAY?

I APOLOGIZED TO YOU,

BUT I NEVER SAID
THAT YOU CHEATED.

DON'T MAKE ME ADMIT
SOMETHING THAT I DIDN'T DO.

I'M NOT BEING
INCRIMINATED AGAINST

BECAUSE YOU WANT ME
TO SAY CERTAIN THINGS

THAT YOU'RE THINKING
IN YOUR HEAD!

GO.

THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,
I FEEL HE IS SHUTTING ME OUT,

AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

I FEEL LIKE MAYBE
HE DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH ME.

I DON'T KNOW, MAYBE I FEEL
LIKE HE'S BEEN THINKING THAT

FOR A WHILE, BUT WANTED TO
COME HERE FOR AN OPPORTUNITY.

I'M DONE.

I FEEL, LIKE,
SUFFOCATED RIGHT NOW,

AND I JUST NEED TO BREATHE.

I CAN'T BELIEVE DARCEY JUST
NOW WALKED AWAY FROM A DINNER.

FIRST DAY I ARRIVE,
IT ALREADY STARTS.

AH, I JUST WANT TO LOVE.

I JUST WANT TO HAVE
A GOOD TIME WITH YOU.

WHY IS IT SO HARD TO DO THAT?

YEAH.

HE CAME ALL THE WAY FROM
EUROPE JUST TO SEE ME.

HE'S IN A CITY
HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW,

AND I'M GONNA BE HERE FOR HIM.

I'M NOT GONNA LEAVE HIM
IN A RESTAURANT BY HIMSELF.

I CAN GIVE YOU THE KEY

IF YOU WANT TO GO UPSTAIRS
AND REST.

THANK YOU.

I'M SORRY, JESSE.

I NEVER, EVER...

THAT'S ALL
YOU GOT TO SAY, YEAH.

- I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW.
- SHH, THAT'S ALL YOU GOT TO SAY.

OWN IT, AND WE MOVE ON,
OKAY, IT'S THAT EASY.

WE'RE HERE TO GROW
AND TO EVOLVE.

I KNOW.

I LOVE YOU, DARCEY.

I WANT TO HAVE
A BEAUTIFUL LIFE WITH YOU,

WHERE WE CAN
MAKE MISTAKES,

AND WHERE IT'S OKAY
TO MAKE MISTAKES,

AND TO SAY, "HEY, YOU
KNOW WHAT, I UP

BECAUSE I STAND
FOR MY INTEGRITY."

I LOVE YOU, OKAY?

I KNOW.

THANK YOU.

BECAUSE I THOUGHT
THEY KNOW WHO THEY ARE.

THEY HAVE A SENSE OF THE SELF,
BUT I REALIZE THAT...

THAT DOESN'T MEAN
ONE IS MORE MATURE.

I CAN ONLY HOPE THAT
SHE WILL WORK ON HERSELF,

AND THAT SHE WILL
TAKE THE RIGHT ACTIONS

TO PREVENT THIS FROM
HAPPENING AGAIN.

- SNUGGLE?
- YEAH.

THAT'S JUST WHAT I...
I JUST WANT THE CONNECTION.

I DON'T WANT US TO...

- OF COURSE, YEAH.
- EXPLODE AT EACH OTHER.

I THINK IN LIFE WE NEED TO
LEARN HOW TO LET THINGS GO.

ALL RIGHT, BABE,
ARE YOU READY?

ARE YOU READY?

YES, I AM.
I GOT THE KEY.

GREAT.

I JUST WANT TO EMBRACE
THE MOMENT FOR WHAT IT IS,

AND JUST FEEL SOME OF THE LOVE.

LET'S TRY TO MAKE
THE REST OF THE TRIP

DRAMA-FREE, OKAY.

BUT JESSE NEEDS TO PROMISE ME

THAT HE'S NOT GONNA FIGHT
WITH ME IN FRONT OF MY GIRLS.

MY WORST FEAR IS FOR MY KIDS
TO SEE ME IN AN ARGUMENT

WITH THE MAN
I'M SUPPOSED TO LOVE.

I WANT THEM TO SEE MOMMY HAPPY
AND FEELING EMPOWERED AND LOVED.

AND OBVIOUSLY I DIDN'T GET TO GO

'CAUSE MY VISA WAS STILL
LOST SOMEWHERE IN THE MAIL.

BUT LAST NIGHT,
I GOT A KNOCK AT THE DOOR,

AND LOOK WHAT I GOT!

GOING TO NIGERIA,
BABY, WHOO!

I'M GONNA GO FOR REAL.

I WAS ABLE
TO GET ANOTHER FLIGHT.

IT COST ME BIG,
BUT IT WAS WORTH IT.

THESE ARE MICHAEL'S.

I AIN'T
NEVER MET THE GUY!

SCOTTIE, SHE'S SCARED.

I KNOW HE'S THE ONE,

AND WHEN I GET TO NIGERIA,
I'M GONNA PROPOSE TO HIM.

CAN'T WAIT TO MEET HIM.

GETTING NERVOUS.

AND WHO'S THIS FOR, MAMA?
THIS IS YOURS, OR?

NO, I BOUGHT HIS MOTHER.

YOU PICKED THIS OUT
FOR MICHAEL'S MAMA?

IF YOU WANT TO JUST
THROW IT IN THERE.

"OH, SHE'LL BUY ME
ANYTHING I WANT."

I MEAN,
HE'S NOT LIKE THAT.

WHAT IF SHE GETS OVER
THERE AND FINDS OUT MICHAEL

REALLY DON'T
WANT TO BE WITH HER?

AND THEN, SHE DID
ALL THIS FOR NOTHING.

MONEY WASTED,
TIME WASTED, EVERYTHING.

I DON'T KNOW
IF YOU GOT MY BLESSING,

BUT YOU'RE GROWN,
AND I CAN'T STOP YOU, SO.

PEOPLE DO,
ALL THE TIME, PISS ME OFF

ABOUT HIM SCAMMIN',
SCAMMIN', SCAMMIN', SCAMMIN',

AND I TRULY REALLY
DON'T BELIEVE THAT.

AND WHEN SCOTTIE COMES
INTO THE PICTURE DOING IT,

THAT BOTHERS ME.

BUT SHE SHOULD TRUST ME.

HE BETTER BE THERE.
NOW YOU GOT ME WORRIED.

MY HEART'S BEATING FAST.

OH, MY GOD.
I'M REALLY HERE.

COME ON!

I'VE NEVER BEEN NOWHERE
OUTSIDE OF THE UNITED STATES.

JUST BEING AN AMERICAN
GOING TO NIGERIA,

THAT'S A CONCERN BECAUSE
I DON'T KNOW THE LAWS,

I DON'T KNOW THE RULES,
AND I'M COMING OVER THERE

TO PROPOSE TO ONE
OF YOUR NATIVES, YOU KNOW?

WHAT THE HELL AM I THINKING?

OH

LOVE'S GOT A STRANGE WAY

OF MAKING PEOPLE DO THINGS,
DON'T IT?

HI, IS THIS WHERE I GO?

IT'S REALLY INSANE
WHAT SHE'S DOING.

GOING ALL THE WAY ACROSS COUNTRY
TO SEE IF A MAN LIKES HER.

SHE WANTS TO PROPOSE TO HIM,
HASN'T EVEN MET HIM YET.

AND REMIND YOU,
I'M OLDER THAN HIM, NOW.

SO I'M OLDER THAN
MY MOTHER'S "BOYFRIEND."

SIR, THANK YOU
FOR BEING KIND.

- AND TO YOU AS WELL, NO PROBLEM.
- THANK YOU.

I GUESS THIS IS IT.

WANT TO GO
TELL MEEMAW BYE?

LOVE YOU, MEEMAW'S LEAVING
RIGHT NOW, LIKE RIGHT NOW.

- FOR REAL.
- YOU WANT TO TELL MEEMAW BYE?

GIVE ME MY LOVING.

YOU KNOW, I'M OLDER,
AND I AIN'T GOT TIME

TO BE WAITING 10 YEARS
TO SEE IF IT'S REAL.

I'M GONNA GO FOR IT.

ALL RIGHT, MAMA.

I LOVE YOU.

SAY BYE, BYE,
LIKE THIS, SAY MWAH.

MWAH.

I WANT TO MARRY MICHAEL
BECAUSE I BELIEVE

I'VE MET MY SOUL MATE.

I COULD BE WRONG, I COULD.

I DON'T FEEL I AM,
BUT I WILL NOT KNOW

UNLESS I GO OVER THERE, WILL I?

AIN'T HER CLOTHES STILL
AT HER DUDE HOUSE?

THERE'S DEFINITELY
OTHER MEN IN HAZEL'S LIFE.

A CON ARTIST IS
A CON ARTIST.

YOU GOT TO BE REAL
WITH YOURSELF, MAN.

I'M LOOKING FOR HIM,
AND HE'S NOT THERE.

I HAVE NO MONEY FOR A HOTEL,
FOR A NEW FLIGHT HOME.

HOLD UP, TARIK,
FOR REAL.

SUP, BOY? HOW YOU LIVING?
READY TO GET BUSY?

DEAN IS MY YOUNGER BROTHER,

AND HE'S THE CLOSEST PERSON
TO ME, OTHER THAN MY DAUGHTER.

SAME OLD THING.

DEAN AND I HAVE BEEN
TIGHT SINCE WE WERE KIDS.

HE'S BOISTEROUS AND OUTSPOKEN,
SO THERE IS BRUTAL HONESTY,

YOU KNOW, WHEN HE AND I ARE
TOGETHER, AND IT'S LOUD.

SLAP 'EM
FOR GOOD LUCK, BABY.

MY BROTHER KNOWS ABOUT HAZEL,

AND HE HAS EXPRESSED
SOME RESERVATIONS.

'BOUT TO GET ON A PLANE.

ABOUT THAT, BRO.

GO ON OUT THERE,
HAVE A GOOD TIME.

I'M GONNA HAVE
A GOOD TIME!

FREAK OFF?

THAT'S WHAT THEY'RE
THERE FOR, AIN'T THEY?

FREAK OFF.
THAT'S WHAT WHO THERE FOR?

MAIL ORDER, DUDE, WHAT
ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?

HAZEL AIN'T NO DIFFERENT
THAN ALL THEM OTHER CHICKS

ON THEM BUY ME, MARRY ME SITES.

MY BROTHER'S A REALLY NICE GUY,

BUT SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE
HE'S A LITTLE TOO NICE.

SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE
HIS HEART IS A LITTLE TOO OPEN.

I'M SMART ENOUGH
TO KNOW THAT,

IF YOU FIND SOMEBODY
WHO CARES ABOUT YOU

MORE THEN THEY CARE
ABOUT THEMSELVES,

YOU DON'T LET 'EM GO,
YOU DON'T LET 'EM GET AWAY.

THAT WHAT SHE TOLD YOU,

SHE CARE ABOUT YOU MORE
THAN SHE CARE ABOUT HERSELF?

SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO TELL ME,
SHE DIDN'T HAVE TO TELL ME!

OH, WOW.

I'M REALLY SKEPTICAL
ABOUT THIS SITUATION.

HE FELL IN LOVE
WITH THIS GIRL SO FAST.

THEY'RE ALL OUT TO GET MONEY,
THAT'S HOW I LOOK AT IT.

PERIOD, POINT BLANK.

AIN'T SHE STILL TALKING'
TO HER EX-BOYFRIEND?

AIN'T HER CLOTHES
STILL AT HER DUDE HOUSE?

WHEN A FEMALE LEAVE HER
CLOTHES AT SOMEBODY'S HOUSE,

THAT MEAN THAT FEMALE
STILL WITH HIM.

THERE'S DEFINITELY
OTHER MEN IN HAZEL'S LIFE.

SHE'S STILL IN TOUCH
WITH SOME OF HER EXES.

SHE SAYS THEY'RE JUST FRIENDS.

I REALLY WANT TO BELIEVE
THAT I'M THE ONLY MAN FOR HER,

BUT AFTER
SHE BLEW ME OFF YESTERDAY,

YOU KNOW, I DON'T KNOW
WHAT TO THINK ABOUT THAT.

A CON ARTIST IS
A CON ARTIST.

YOU GOT TO BE REAL
WITH YOURSELF, MAN.

I TOLD DEAN THAT HAZEL
WAS ACTING SUSPICIOUSLY.

I DON'T THINK YOU KNOW,
MAN, WHAT YOU GETTING INTO.

THAT'S WHY I'M GLAD
I'M GOING, MAN.

AND HE HAS DECIDED
HE'S GONNA JOIN ME ON THE TRIP.

UM...

AND HE THINKS HE'S GOING THERE,
IN HIS WORDS, TO PROTECT ME.

IF YOU GONNA COME,
YOU GONNA COME WITH A CAVEAT.

DON'T DISRESPECT HER.

DON'T DISRESPECT
HER FAMILY.

I UNDERSTAND HIS CONCERNS, BUT
IF HE BLOWS IT UP ON PURPOSE,

I DON'T KNOW IF I WOULD BE
ABLE TO FORGIVE HIM FOR THAT.

I'M GONNA BE A VERY WATCHFUL
EYE WHEN I'M OUT THERE.

OKAY, YOU BE RESPECTFUL,
DON'T MESS IT UP FOR ME.

I WOULDN'T MESS IT UP FOR YOU,
AND WE ALL GOOD.

I'VE JUST ARRIVED IN ENGLAND,
AND I GOT A TEXT FROM JON

SAYING HE'S NOT GOING TO
BE AT THE AIRPORT.

AND THAT I HAD TO TAKE A TRAIN
TO GO TO THE PADDINGTON STATION.

I'M TRYING NOT TO GET UPSET,

BUT I'M JUST WORKING
ON TWO HOURS OF SLEEP,

AND I'VE NEVER TRAVELED
INTERNATIONALLY WITH A BABY.

I'M MORE EXHAUSTED THAN
I COULD POSSIBLY IMAGINE.

SORRY.

I'M LOOKING FOR HIM,
AND HE'S NOT THERE.

I'M JON, I'M 34 YEARS OLD,

AND I'M FROM
WESTON-SUPER-MARE IN ENGLAND.

- SEE YOU LATER.
- ALL RIGHT.

I LIVE WITH MY MUM BECAUSE IT
MAKES IT EASIER TO SAVE MONEY.

SEE YA.
BYE!

I'M JUST A MAN WHO WAKES UP,
GOES TO WORK, AND COMES HOME.

I WORK IN WASTE MANAGEMENT,
SORTING THROUGH RUBBISH,

MAKING SURE
THAT DIFFERENT MATERIALS

GET RECYCLED CORRECTLY.

IT'S A HARD JOB, BUT ME AND
RACHEL WERE SAVING FOR HER TRIP.

SHE'S FINALLY COMING.
IT'S INCREDIBLE.

WE'RE GONNA TURN
INTO LITTLE EMOJI,

AND WE'RE GONNA HAVE LITTLE
EYE-HEARTS ON OUR EYES,

AND WE'RE GONNA BE LIKE,
PING-PING-PING-PING.

AND IT'S GONNA BE LIKE THAT,
FOR THE ENTIRE TIME SHE'S HERE.

SHE'S ACTUALLY, IT'S TODAY.

SHE GETS ON A FLIGHT
IN THE NEXT FEW HOURS,

AND THEN SHE'S HERE.

SHE'S JUST GOT THESE BIG, BROWN
EYES, AND THE KINDEST SMILE.

WHEN SHE TOLD ME
THAT SHE WAS PREGNANT,

IT DIDN'T CHANGE
HOW I FELT ABOUT HER.

I WAS ALREADY COMMITTED.

I WAS LUCKY ENOUGH NOT ONLY
TO FALL IN LOVE WITH RACHEL,

BUT I NOW LOVE LUCY.

THESE LITTLE THINGS UP HERE
IS WHAT RACHEL SENT ME

WHEN LUCY WAS FIRST BORN,
AND ONE OF THESE.

IT WAS THE FIRST LITTLE
ONESIE THAT LUCY WORE.

AND THEN THIS IS A LITTLE CHEST
THAT RACHEL SENT ME.

IT'S GOT A LITTLE HEART IN HERE.

THERE'S SO MUCH ABOUT BEING
A PARENT I HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT,

AND I'M SCARED.

OH, MY GOODNESS!

THIS, I JUST THOUGHT
WOULD BE FUN TO LOOK AT.

HE HAS THIS BRILLIANT IDEA
WHERE HE'S GONNA SWOOP IN,

AND HE'S GONNA BE LUCY'S DAD,
AND THAT'S GONNA BE WONDERFUL.

BUT JON KNOWS
NOTHING ABOUT BABIES.

- JUST TO SHAKE AROUND?
- CHEWING ON.

DO YOU THINK
I'M MISSING ANYTHING?

UM, A CHILD.

I WORRY BECAUSE BEFORE,
HE, YEAH,

LOTS OF GIRLFRIENDS,
LOTS OF DATES,

AND NOW HE HAS LUCY AND RACHEL.

SEE YOU LATER.

SEE YA.

IN THE U.K...

I WAS INTERESTED
IN A LOT OF WOMEN.

MY FRIENDS WOULD DESCRIBE ME
AS JUST A LITTLE CRAZY.

BUT I'M NOT
THE SAME PERSON I WAS

BECAUSE I HAVE
A GIRL IN AMERICA.

OH, HELLO, HELLO, HELLO.

OH, LOVELY.
THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

BOW-CHICKA-WOW-WOW.

SO I JUST WANTED TO
CATCH UP WITH THEM

BEFORE RACHEL GETS HERE.

YEAH,
SO RACHEL'S COMING SOON,

SO I CAN PROVE
TO YOU GUYS SHE IS REAL.

SO, BASICALLY...

DO I FEEL LIKE
I'VE BEEN CATFISHING HER?

YEAH, 'CAUSE I BET YOU MADE
OUT THAT YOU'RE LIKE SIX-FOOT.

TAKE OFF ANOTHER FOOT,
AND THEN MAYBE.

WHAT IF SHE GETS OFF THE FLIGHT
AND SEES HOW SMALL YOU ARE

AND JUST TURNS AROUND?

MATE, WHAT IF SHE
TURNS UP, AND YOU JUST...

AND LIKE...

IT'S GONNA BE, AH,
IT'S GONNA BE FINE.

I THINK THE WORST-CASE
SCENARIO WOULD BE

THEM TO NOT ACTUALLY
GET A-CLICKING.

EVERYONE TALKS ABOUT THAT
SPARK, AND IF THAT'S NOT THERE,

THEN IT'S A LONG WAY TO GO.
- YEAH.

I WOULDN'T SIGN UP
FOR THIS SORT OF RELATIONSHIP.

HE'S LEFT HIMSELF OPEN TO
A LOT OF THINGS TO GO WRONG,

AND PERSONALLY, I DON'T THINK
I COULD DO THAT.

NONE OF THAT MATTERS.

- JON'S IN LOVE!
- I AM IN LOVE.

AND THINGS ARE GOING WELL...

OR GIVE HER A KISS?

YEAH.

MATE, THAT'S WEIRD,
THAT'S CRAZY, THAT IS MAD.

YEAH.

'CAUSE YOU GOT TO
MEET EACH OTHER FIRST,

AND LIKE EACH OTHER
AND THEN MAYBE THINK ABOUT THAT.

WHERE DO YOU
GO FROM THAT, LIKE,

WHERE YOU GO NOW OR,
YOU JUST CAN'T FORGET ABOUT,

LIKE,
WHAT HAPPENS AFTERWARDS.

THAT'S THE CRUCIAL PART.

I'VE ALREADY TRIED TO GET
A VISA TO GO TO THE U.S.,

BUT MY VISA APPLICATION
WAS DENIED.

DOES SHE KNOW,
HAVE YOU TOLD HER?

YEAH, YEAH, YEAH, IN LOOSE
TERMS, WE SPOKE ABOUT...

NO, IT IS A BIG THING.

I WORRY THAT, AFTER FINDING OUT

THE EXTENT
OF MY CRIMINAL RECORD,

THAT SHE MIGHT NOT
WANT ME IN HER LIFE.

THAT IS WHERE
MY WHOLE LIFE CHANGES.

KARINE'S BEHAVIOR
ON SOCIAL MEDIA

HAS BEEN WEIGHING HEAVILY
ON MY MIND.

I DON'T THINK HER
INTENTIONS ARE PURE.

SHE HASN'T RESPOND
TO MY TEXT MESSAGES.

OH, MY GOD.
THIS IS IT.

COMING BACK HOME WITH NOBODY,
I WOULD BE EXTREMELY DEVASTATED.

HOW, HERE?

YES.

I'VE TRAVELED
3,000 MILES BACK TO BRAZIL

AFTER FOUR MONTHS OF BEING
APART FROM MY FIANCéE KARINE.

SHE'S EVERYTHING
THAT I COULD EVER DREAM OF,

BUT WE HAVE A LOT OF PROBLEMS
WE GOT TO WORK OUT ON THIS TRIP.

ARE YOU
SPEAKING PORTUGUESE?

I'M LEARNING, LEARNING.

PAUL.
YEAH.

OH.

BEAUTIFUL CITY OF MANAUS.

- DO YOU LIKE MANAUS?
- I LOVE MANAUS.

ALL RIGHT, COOL BEANS.

I THOUGHT I'D TREAT KARINE
TO A REALLY NICE HOTEL

SO WE CAN CELEBRATE
BEING REUNITED,

BUT RENTING A HOTEL ROOM
FOR A LONG PERIOD OF TIME

IS EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE,
SO IN A FEW DAYS,

WE'LL BE MOVING INTO
AN APARTMENT

FOR MY THREE-MONTH STAY.

OH, THIS IS
DIFFERENT, NICE.

I THINK THREE MONTHS
LIVING TOGETHER

IS GONNA BE THE ULTIMATE TEST
OF OUR RELATIONSHIP.

YOU DIDN'T!

I'M SORRY!

EVEN GOT THE MOSQUITO
BLANKET THING.

GOT IT!

I WANTED TO
SURPRISE YOU.

BETTER TO HAVE IT
AND NOT NEED IT

THAN NEED IT
AND NOT HAVE IT.

SO YES, I APPRECIATE YOU
LOOKING OUT FOR MY HEALTH.

MOSQUITOES.
PSH.

SNN... KA!

WHAT'S IN THE BAG?

OH, REALLY NICE COLOGNE.

THE ONLY THING IS
THAT PERFUMES

AND COLOGNES
ATTRACT MOSQUITOES.

I'M TALKING TO YOU
LIKE YOU UNDERSTAND ME,

AND YOU PROBABLY HAVE
NO IDEA WHAT I'M SAYING,

AND I KEEP DOING THAT.

THANK YOU.

SEEING HER FACE-TO-FACE,

I CAN'T EXPLAIN HOW
WONDERFUL IT MAKES ME FEEL.

OKAY, COME ON.

HAS BEEN WEIGHING
HEAVILY ON MY MIND.

I'VE ALREADY INVESTED A LOT
OF TIME, EFFORT, AND MONEY,

AND I REALLY NEED
SOME ASSURANCES FROM HER

THAT HER INTENTIONS ARE PURE.

RUNNING LATE,
AS ALWAYS, THAT'S ME.

THIS IS THE MOMENT.

I'M FEELING REALLY NERVOUS,
YOU KNOW, I TOOK A QUICK SHOWER.

I GOT THE FLOWERS.

TODAY'S MY FIRST DAY
IN COLOMBIA.

I'M EXTREMELY NERVOUS BECAUSE
I'M GONNA MEET MELISSA.

IT'S GONNA BE OUR FIRST DATE.

I HAVE NEVER MET
MELISSA IN PERSON,

BUT WE HAVE A STRONG CONNECTION.

LET'S DO THIS.

I'M REALLY EXCITED
TO HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL,

ROMANTIC EVENING WITH HER.

I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE
THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.

I'M NERVOUS, I'M SWEATING.

I NEED TO BE COOL,
CALM, AND COLLECTED.

ONCE SHE SEES ME,
SHE'S GONNA BE LIKE,

"WHO IS THIS RICO SUAVE?"

LET ME SEE.

PERFECT.

I'M GONNA MAKE SURE
THAT SHE KNOWS I'M READY.

MELISSA HASN'T TEXT ME AT ALL
SINCE ARRIVING TO COLOMBIA,

BUT AT THIS MOMENT,
THE ONLY THING I CAN DO

IS JUST GO OVER THERE,
TO THE RESTAURANT,

AND SEE IF SHE COMES.

LET'S DO THIS.

ALL RIGHT, IT'S TIME,
LET'S ROCK AND ROLL.

I HOPE SHE'S THERE.

THAT'S REALLY STRESSING
ME OUT, I HOPE SHE COMES.

HEY, CARLITO!

I'M OVER HERE, ABOUT TO MEET
MELISSA FOR THE FIRST TIME.

I KNOW, I KNOW.
I'M NERVOUS, MAN.

YOU KNOW, TALKING TO YOU MAKES
ME FEEL A LITTLE BIT BETTER.

I'M NERVOUS
'CAUSE, YOU KNOW,

SHE HASN'T RESPOND
TO MY TEXT MESSAGES.

When's the last time
you spoke to her?

ABOUT TWO DAYS AGO.

Okay.

GOT YOU.

THANK YOU.
ALL, RIGHT COUSIN.

OH, MY GOD. THIS IS IT.

I'M REALLY INVESTED IN THIS

BOTH FINANCIALLY
AND EMOTIONALLY.

I'M TRULY IN LOVE
AND I WANT TO PROPOSE TO HER.

IF SHE'S NOT THERE,
IT'LL BE EMBARRASSING

BECAUSE I'M TELLING
EVERYBODY, HEY,

JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART,

AND COMING BACK HOME
WITH NOBODY,

I WOULD BE
EXTREMELY DEVASTATED.

HAZEL'S BEEN ACTING STRANGE.

EVERYTHING THAT YOU
HAVE PLANNED OUT

CAN TURN ON A DIME
AND IT'S ALL OVER.

I'M REALLY NERVOUS.

I'M WORRIED.

IF THIS ISN'T LOVE.

I'M THINKING I'M GONNA
TAKE ABOUT FIVE OUTFITS.

BOOM.

I'M GETTING READY
TO FLY 9,000-PLUS MILES

TO MANILA, SO SEE A GIRL
I'VE NEVER PHYSICALLY MET.

THAT'S ONE OUTFIT, OKAY.

BAM.

I KNOW THAT PROBABLY
SOUNDS WACKO,

BUT WHEN I MET HAZEL ONLINE,

LIKE IT'S CORNY,
BUT SHE REALLY STOLE MY HEART.

SHE'S PRETTY,
SHE'S SWEET-NATURED.

SHE THE WOMAN OF MY DREAMS.

BOY, THIS THING IS HEAVY.

SO I'M READY
TO TAKE THE BIGGEST RISK

I'VE EVER TAKEN IN MY LIFE.

WHAT COLOR IS... THIS?

WHITE.

AND WHAT COLOR IS THIS?

PINK.
THAT'S RIGHT.

YOU GOT 'EM ALL RIGHT.

I REALLY ONLY HAVE
ONE GOODBYE TO DO

AND IT'S TO ARIE.

GOT TO GO NOW, OKAY?

I MISS YOU.

I MISS YOU MORE.

I'LL BE BACK.

IT'S LIKE A PUNCH IN THE GUT,

BUT I THINK HAZEL WOULD
BE A GOOD STEP-MOM,

SO I'M NOT ONLY
DOING THIS FOR ME.

I'M DOING IT FOR ARIE, AS WELL.

GOT TO GO NOW.

WHILE I'M OVERSEAS,
ARIE WILL BE STAYING

WITH HER MOM.

MOMMY'S HERE.

SAYING GOODBYE TO MY DAUGHTER
REALLY REMINDS ME

OF THE INCREDIBLE LEAP
OF FAITH THAT I'M TAKING.

ESPECIALLY BECAUSE HAZEL
WAS ACTING SUSPICIOUSLY.

I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'S GOING
ON IN HAZEL'S HEAD RIGHT NOW.

LET'S GET CRACKING'.

YEAH.

IT'S LIKE 4:00 IN THE MORNING

AND I'M ON MY WAY
TO THE AIRPORT

TO FLY TO THE PHILIPPINES.

I'VE GOT FIVE CONNECTING
FLIGHTS AHEAD OF ME,

I THINK A TOTAL
TRANSIT TIME OF 36 HOURS.

MY BROTHER IS GOING TO
JOIN ME ON THIS TRIP.

HE'S GOING THE DAY AFTER ME.

I'M NERVOUS THAT DEAN
WILL MESS STUFF UP,

SO I'VE TOLD HIM
I WANT SOME ALONE TIME

WITH HAZEL BEFORE HE GETS THERE.

FEEL NERVOUS.

LET ME CHECK.

HAZEL'S BEEN ACTING
STRANGE LATELY.

THERE IS ALWAYS
A POSSIBILITY THAT

EVERYTHING THAT YOU HAVE
PLANNED OUT IN YOUR MIND

CAN TURN ON A DIME
AND IT'S ALL OVER.

ABSOLUTELY.

YOU KNOW THAT MIGHT PUSH ME
BACK INTO MY SHELL.

TICKETS TO THE REST
OF MY LIFE RIGHT HERE.

GOT TO KEEP CHECKING
TO MAKE SURE

THE PACKAGE IS STILL HERE.

STILL HERE.

I BOUGHT AN ENGAGEMENT RING.

I KNOW IT SOUNDS CRAZY

FOR ME TO TAKE A RING
FOR A GIRL I'VE NEVER MET.

THANK YOU.

BUT I REALLY BELIEVE
SHE'S THE ONE.

I REALLY HOPE
SHE'S INVESTED IN THIS

AS MUCH AS I AM.

THIS IS PROBABLY
THE MOST EXCITING THING

I'VE EVER DONE IN MY LIFE.

AND I'VE DONE SOME
PRETTY EXCITING THINGS,

BUT NOTHING AS CRAZY AS THIS.

I JUST ARRIVED
IN ENGLAND ON TWO HOURS OF SLEEP

AND I JUST GOT A TEXT THAT JON

WILL NOT BE MEETING ME
AT THE AIRPORT.

SO NOW I'M AT PADDINGTON STATION
WHERE HE TOLD ME TO MEET HIM.

I'M EXTREMELY TIRED
AND FRUSTRATED.

IT'S NOT THE MOMENT I HOPED
AND DREAMED IT WOULD BE.

I'M LOOKING FOR HIM
AND HE'S NOT THERE.

I AM SHAKY.

I CAN'T SEE HIM.
I DON'T KNOW WHERE HE IS.

I HAVE NO MONEY FOR A HOTEL,
FOR A NEW FLIGHT HOME.

I WOULD BE STRANDED IN
A FOREIGN COUNTRY WITH A BABY.

I'M REALLY NERVOUS.

OH.

I'M MEETING RACHEL,
AND I'M REALLY NERVOUS

BECAUSE IT'S GONNA BE DIFFERENT
WHEN WE MEET IN PERSON.

I'M WORRIED.

I DON'T WANT TO
TASTE LIKE BREAKFAST,

BUT THIS IS IT.

IF THIS ISN'T LOVE,
THEN I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS.

OH, MY GOD!

YOU'RE REAL!

I LOVE YOU, TOO.

IT'S BETTER
THAN I EXPECTED.

HE'S SO MUCH CUTER IN PERSON
AND THAT JUST LIKE BLEW ME AWAY.

I'D BE LIKE, "AAAH!"

A YEAR AND A HALF.

YEP, YEP.

YEAH, I'M TIRED.

IT'S GREAT.

YEAH, OKAY.

WHO IS THIS?

YOU REMEMBER HIM?

HELLO.

OH, I GET TO
HOLD YOUR HAND.

HI, LOVE.

- LOVE YOU.
- I LOVE YOU.

- LOVE YOU.
- OH, MY GOD.

YEAH, THAT WAS
MY LAST FIRST KISS.

MINE, TOO.

PINKY PROMISE.

NO, I NEED
YOUR PINKY.

JERK.

SORRY.

EVEN THOUGH JON AND I HAVE SPENT
A YEAR AND A HALF VIDEO CALLING

AND TALKING ON THE PHONE,
THERE'S OBVIOUSLY

A LOT OF THINGS
I STILL DON'T KNOW ABOUT JON.

I DO HAVE A LOT OF CONCERNS
AND FEARS ABOUT HIS PAST.

I HAVE TWO WEEKS
TO DIG AS DEEP AS I CAN

INTO JON'S LIFE,
FIND OUT WHO HE IS.

KIND OF PUTS A LOT
OF ANXIETY ON THE SITUATION.

I NOTICED A LOT
OF FLIRTATIOUS COMMENTS.

20?!

THIS SHOULD LOOP SOMEHOW.

UH...

I'VE TRAVELED BACK TO BRAZIL

TO FINALLY SEE MY
FIANCéE KARINE AGAIN.

IF EVERYTHING GOES WELL,

ME AND KARINE WILL BE
GETTING MARRIED ON THIS TRIP.

I GOT SOME GREAT NEWS
LAST NIGHT

THAT THE AIRLINES
FOUND MY LUGGAGE.

THAT I NEED TO GO THROUGH
WITH KARINE'S DAD.

I'M DEFINITELY RELIEVED,
BUT ALSO VERY NERVOUS.

BECAUSE NOW
I HAVE TO FACE THE MUSIC.

BUT RIGHT NOW,
I'M TRYING TO JUST TO RELAX

AND ENJOY THE MOMENT.

PRESENTES.

WHAT?

OH, THANK YOU.

AND YOUR OTHER
FAVORITE EMOJI.

I REALLY WANT TO ADDRESS...

BEFORE I SIT DOWN
AND TALK TO HER PARENTS.

OH, THANK YOU.
I LIKE.

SO LET'S GO
TO THE CITY CENTER.

I CAME BACK TO BRAZIL
WITH A LOT BETTER PHONE

THAT ACTUALLY ALLOWS ME
TO USE THE VOICE FUNCTION

ON THE TRANSLATOR APP.

WE CAN ACTUALLY
LOOK AT EACH OTHER AND TALK

SO IT MAKES IT EASIER THAN
JUST CONSTANTLY TYPING.

OH, LOOK.

OH, WOW, THE CHURCH
IS REALLY BEAUTIFUL.

IT'S KIND OF COOL,
IT'S GOT THINGS UP LIKE THAT.

YOU LIKE?
YES.

PRETTY.

HERE, SIT DOWN.

AGUA?

I'VE BEEN GONE FOR MONTHS
AND NOW I'M FINALLY HERE.

DID YOU MISS ME?

IF YOU REALLY MISS ME,
WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS

ON YOUR PHONE
TALKING TO OTHER PEOPLE?

WHILE I'VE BEEN GONE,
I FOUND OUT KARINE

HAS BEEN FLIRTING WITH
OTHER AMERICAN GUYS ONLINE.

IT'S JUST REALLY
UPSETTING TO ME.

QUAL PROBLEMA?

WHAT'S THE PROBLEM?

I DON'T KNOW WHO THIS GUY IS.
HE'S AMERICAN.

YOU KNOW, I SEE
THESE SHIRTLESS PICTURES

AND IT'S JUST CONCERNING.

WHY IS SHE EVEN TALKING
TO THESE GUYS LIKE THAT?

OKAY,
SO WHAT'S THAT ABOUT?

NO, WHAT'S THAT ABOUT?

I HAVEN'T SEEN KARINE IN MONTHS.

THERE'S NO TELLING WHAT SHE'S
BEEN DOING BEHIND MY BACK.

I REALLY HOPE KARINE
HASN'T CHEATED ON ME

WHILE I'VE BEEN
IN THE UNITED STATES.

I HAVE A LOT OF CONCERNS
WITH ALL THE THINGS

I'VE SEEN ONLINE.

WOULD YOU MIND TAKING
ANOTHER PREGNANCY TEST?

THAT'S NOT GOOD.

YOU MESSAGED ME NO?

HUH?
PORQUE?

WELL, IT'S GETTING THAT TIME.

I'VE BEEN FLYING ALL NIGHT
AND IT'S GETTING CLOSER.

AND...

LIKE THREE HOURS LEFT TO GO.

WHOOPS.

I'M GOING TO MEET
MY BOYFRIEND MICHAEL

IN NIGERIA FOR THE FIRST TIME.

I'M RISKING ALL OF MY
OUT-OF-COMFORT-ZONE FOR HIM.

I HAVE A STRONG
CONNECTION WITH MICHAEL.

HE MAKES ME HAPPY.

HE MAKES ME FEEL LOVED.

I KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THINK
AND WHAT THEY'RE THINKING

WHEN I TELL THEM ABOUT MICHAEL.

I GUESS 'CAUSE
OF THE AGE DIFFERENCE

AND HIM BEING FROM NIGERIA

THEY THINK HE'S SCAMMING ME.

AND WHAT AM I DOING?
AM I STUPID?

I'M NOT STUPID.
I DON'T CARE WHAT THEY THINK.

OOH, OH, MY GOD.
I'M HERE, I'M HERE, I'M HERE.

I'M JUST LOOKING AT MY HOT MESS.

MICHAEL'S GETTING
READY TO MEET ME,

HE'S WAITING OUT
THERE AND I'M LIKE,

A HOT MESS, THOUGH.

HERE GOES NOTHING!

OH, MY GOD!

I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT AFRICA
EXCEPT IT'S HOT.

AND THAT'S IT.

I KNOW NOTHING.

PASSPORT?

I'M FREE?
OKAY.

THANK YOU FOR LETTING
ME COME, THANK YOU.

THAT'S WHAT I THINK.

I'M AN AMERICAN,
I'M WHITE, FEMALE.

AND I'M GONNA BE
A SPOT ON THE WALL.

THIS TRIP IS MAKE OR BREAK.

YOU KNOW, I'VE PUT
SO MUCH MONEY IN IT,

SO MUCH TIME, SO MUCH HEART.

WHERE IS...

THIS WAY?

IT'S NOW OR NEVER.

MY NAME IS MICHAEL.

I'M 30 YEARS OLD
FROM LAGOS, NIGERIA.

IN THE UNITED STATES.

OH, SEE...

I LOOK UP TO HIM

BECAUSE, YOU KNOW,
I LOVE BUSINESS.

HE'S A GREAT MAN,
AND I LOVE AMERICA SO MUCH

AND I WOULD LOVE TO MEET HIM

WHEN I COME TO
THE UNITED STATES WITH ANGELA.

- HELLO, MIKE.
- HOW YOU DOING, BRO?

- I'M FINE, I'M FINE.
- WHAT'S UP, WHAT'S UP?

ANGELA IS
COMING TOMORROW.

THAT'S THE REASON
WHY YOU'RE WASHING YOUR CAR?

YEAH, I JUST WANT TO
MAKE IT SUPER CLEAN.

ANGELA...

AND I RESPECT HER SO MUCH.

WILL YOU BRING ANGELA
OVER TO YOUR SPACE?

YEAH,
SHE'S GONNA COME HERE,

SEE MOM, MY MOM.

AND I THINK
YOU'LL BE THE FIRST MAN

TO BRING A WHITE LADY DOWN
TO THIS REGION.

BUT SERIOUSLY
I'M SUPER SURPRISED

THAT A WHITE LADY COME DOWN
TO THIS REGION OF THE WORLD.

SHE'S OLDER THAN ME.

20 YEARS.

COME ON, MIKE,
THAT'S TOO MUCH.

MIKE, THAT'S... THAT'S
TOO MUCH, MAN.

IT'S WEIRD.

DOES SHE HAVE KIDS?

YEAH, SHE HAS
TWO DAUGHTERS AND...

YES.

SHE'S NOT MY GRANDMA.

SHE'S MY FUTURE WIFE.

YEAH, SURE.
- THEY'RE ALWAYS LIKE STUBBORN,

MANLY, BOSSY.
- YEAH, YEAH.

IN THIS PART OF
THE WORLD, WE BELIEVE

A MAN IN CONTROL
OF EVERYTHING

AND...

IT'S NOT NEW TO ME.
I'M USED TO IT.

I KNOW SHE ALWAYS
LIKE TO BE BOSS.

ANGELA, SHE LIKES
TO BE THE BOSS LADY.

OH, LIKE, "OH, MIKE!
WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?

I'VE BEEN CALLING
YOU."

SHE'S SO DRAMATIC.

YEAH,
I'VE MADE UP MY MIND.

I APPRECIATE.
- GOOD LUCK, BRO.

- I'LL GIVE YOU A CALL.
- OKAY.

MIKE, MIKE.

- MIKE.
- YEAH.

YEAH.

WHERE IS THIS WOMAN?
IS SHE PLAYING GAMES WITH ME?

I'M JUST GONNA GO.

I JUST ARRIVED AT THE RESTAURANT

AND I'M GOING TO
SEND HER A PICTURE

TO ACTUALLY SHOW HER
THAT I'M HERE, WAITING FOR HER.

I CAME ALL THE WAY
TO MENAJE, COLOMBIA

TO MEET MELISSA.

A PERSON THAT I MET
ON ColombianCupid.

TONIGHT IT'S GONNA BE
OUR FIRST DATE.

SHE HASN'T TEXTED ME BACK
FOR A FEW DAYS,

BUT I NEED TO BELIEVE
THAT SHE'S GONNA COME.

I'M NERVOUS.
I'M GONNA GET A SHOT.

FIRST TIME IN COLOMBIA.

YEAH, BEAUTIFUL COUNTRY.

I'M MEETING A WOMAN.

MY FUTURE...
YEAH!

YES, I LIKE THAT,
YOU GOT IT.

THANK YOU SO MUCH.

THIS IS FOR TRUE LOVE.

IT'S PERFECT.

IS MELISSA THE ONE?
I'M HIGHLY POSITIVE THAT SHE IS.

WHEN SHE MEETS ME,
SHE'S GONNA SEE THAT, TOO.

I JUST FEEL SHE'S NERVOUS.

PERFECT, AWESOME.

NOW I FEEL BETTER.

I AM EXTREMELY RELIEVED
THAT MELISSA TEXTED ME BACK.

SHE SAYS THAT
SHE'S GONNA BE HERE AT 7:30.

I'M FREAKIN' FRIGHTENED
RIGHT NOW.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY.
I DON'T KNOW.

JUST GONNA BE MYSELF,
THAT'S ALL.

OH, MY GOD.
THIS IS SO COOL.

I CAN'T WAIT TO MEET HER.

7:26.

I'M FREAKIN' OUT,
MY HANDS ARE SWEATY.

7:39.

FROM MY EXPERIENCES, WOMEN
NEED SOME TIME TO GET READY.

SHE'S PROBABLY TRYING
TO LOOK HOT AS HELL FOR ME.

SO...

RIGHT NOW, IT IS 8:10.

SHE'LL BE HERE ANY TIME
SOON, I FEEL IT IN MY GUT.

MELISSA TEXTED ME,
I'M GONNA BE THERE AT 7:30,

BUT WHERE IS THIS WOMAN?

IT'S 8:49

AND...

MY ENERGY'S STARTING
TO GO DOWN A LITTLE BIT.

YEAH.

I DON'T KNOW.

THAT'S THE WORST THING
THAT COULD HAPPEN.

IF SHE DOESN'T COME, FORGET IT.

IT'S GONNA DEPRESS
THE CRAP OUT OF ME

'CAUSE AFTER SHE SAID,
"HEY, I'LL BE THERE AT 7:30,"

AND THEN SHE DOESN'T COME,
LIKE, WHO DOES THAT?

LIKE, REALLY?

I DON'T KNOW
IF SHE'S PLAYING WITH ME.

LIKE HOW CAN THIS
WOMAN DO THIS TO ME

WHEN I TRAVELED SO FAR

AND SHE CAN'T EVEN
SEND ME A TEXT MESSAGE BACK

AND SAY I'M SORRY.

THERE'S A CERTAIN TIME LIMIT
WHERE I'M JUST GONNA GO.

IF MELISSA
DOESN'T SHOW UP TONIGHT,

I'M GONNA BE EXTREMELY
HEART BROKEN.

NEXT TIME
ON "BEFORE THE 90 DAYS"...

I CAN'T WAIT
TO SEE MY BABY.

AAH!

HERE WE GO.

I'M WORRIED HAZEL
IS JUST USING ME...

THIS IS THE MOMENT OF TRUTH

AND I'M JUST
ONE OF MANY SUCKERS.

OKAY.

THIS IS MY FIRST
TIME WITH A BABY.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT THE I'M DOING.

HEY, GUYS.

IT IS...

ANIKO AND ASPEN ARE HERE.

I HOPE IT'S REALLY HER.

THAT'S GONNA BE
UP IF IT'S NOT.

I NEEDED CONCRETE
PROOF THAT KARINE

HAS BEEN FAITHFUL TO ME.