90 Day Fiancé (2014–…): Season 10, Episode 8 - Do You Take One Another? - full transcript

Previously
on 90 Day Fiance...

Yeah!

- Yeah.
- Today, I'm meeting Justin's family.

I feel... nervous.

But if they don't
accept their son

falling in love with
a trans woman...

There's just so much
I can hold until I snap.

- Trying to be nice.
- Perfect. Perfect. I'm leaving.

Anali's dad has no
idea that I even exist.

Well, where does she
think he is right now?

In America, for work.



My brother
is blinded by love.

I am gonna be over-protective.

Always...

This
house is infected...

I had a life before I met you.

Is she gonna be
always this jealous?

Am I, like, not gonna be able to
have any conversation with a woman?

I think since Gino had
a bachelor party already,

we should do a girls' night.

- He had one?
- They went out...

to a strip club.

I'm trying to keep
it cool in front of Michelle

but all I wanna do is
go home and face Gino.

He's still guarded with
me about certain things.



Your personal life is private?

Like, I am your personal life.

You are here for
me, in my country.

I wish I would have
found out in England.

'Cause I would not have
been coming to America.

You give me a chance,
I will make it up to you...

We only have
90 days to get married.

So I really only have
90 days to get over it.

Yeah.

All right.

This fight is one of the worst
fights we've ever been in.

And, I don't know how it's gonna
affect the rest of our relationship.

And Sophie says that she's
gonna come home with me,

so we're gonna get
back to the house,

get away from this
Airbnb and get away

from the idea that
she's just gonna leave.

And I'm just hoping that

she can see that...

no, she's got a good guy.
He just made a mistake.

I'm staying with Rob because

it's not necessarily...
He didn't cheat on me.

He... he did something he
knew would hurt me, and it sucks.

But I don't think

what he's done

is... is worth throwing us away.

You look good,
being back in here.

Rob has a lot to prove to me

in order for me
to trust him again

but to be honest, I just
don't know if he'll do it

or... what I even
need to see from him.

And I just feel like it's not
looking good in terms of...

us being married in 90 days.

It doesn't really
look realistic.

You down to put
the ring back on, though?

Is it this finger?

It's the left.

- Yeah.
- Does it fit?

- Yes.
- Leave it on.

Aw.

Don't make that face.

Stop it. Un-duck that.

All right, we're getting
close. Watch your step.

It's a little
bit of a surprise.

I know you like the beach.

I know you like these
houses over here.

I appreciate you

giving me a chance to do
something like this for you.

When I woke up today,
Rob surprised me and said

that he has something
planned for me at the beach

and I should just go
and pack my clothes.

Rob isn't, like, the best
at ideas or surprises

so I'm just really excited to
see what he has planned for me.

But at the same time,
Rob has really hurt me.

And I'm not someone that
can just forgive things so easily.

All right, we're going
here. This blue building.

Pull it.

I
don't like that at all.

That's confusing.

It's super cute.

All right, so,

we're going up these steps
but check out the view real quick.

- This is so nice.
- Like it?

Yeah, thank you.

- I love the ocean.
- It's super cute.

- We're going up this way. You wanna lead the way?
- Yeah.

It's really lovely.

Ladies first.

This is so nice.

It's really cute.

- Yeah.
- You did this for me?

Of course. You're always
talking about how you...

you want a house
on the beach and...

Yeah, let's settle in.

This is really lovely, what
Rob's done and everything,

but he thinks that, like, romanticness
equals, like, something expensive.

Or he has to have a
bunch of money to do it

when ultimately, like,
just be nicer to me.

It's not really that
difficult to just...

be a bit more sweet,
like, he can very much...

'cause he used to be sweet.

Before I met him,
online, he was saying,

he was sending me
paragraphs of how much

he can't wait to be with me and
he's been struck by Cupid's arrow.

That's why it's like
I know it's in there.

And sometimes, I do
see it and I'm really happy.

But it's like I want
it to be consistent.

- You happy?
- I'm very happy.

I'm glad you're happy.

I try to make you happy.

Now you got lipstick
on your mouth.

- I got lipstick all over my mouth?
- You look beautiful.

- Guess what this place has?
- What?

It has a bathroom
right down that hallway.

- Does it?
- Yeah.

- Wow.
- Like a whole, like, a whole new world.

Bathroom's inside.

The bathroom's inside.

I... I
figured that was essential.

I was not gonna find a place
without a bathroom inside.

I don't think there is
any other place that's

- with a bathroom outside.
- Which was, yeah, it wasn't hard to...

find a place where
the bathroom is inside.

Easy access.

Yeah. That is nice.

I'm not gonna say it's a
turn-on 'cause like, it's like,

a bathroom is normal.

But, yeah, I'm very glad

there is a bathroom
inside the house.

And the view is so nice.

Let's go out here
and soak it up a little bit.

The beach. The sailboats.

The waves.

- That's a lot better view than your apartment.
- Yeah, well.

Thank you, I appreciate it.

- Glad you do.
- I like when you do stuff like this for me.

I do wish I could do
more of this type of stuff.

- Yeah. Yeah.
- I try when I can, you know.

So you just... you just
keep working with me

and lovin' me and I'll always
try my best to do stuff for you.

I appreciate you.

My engineering paid off.

That's why I went to college.

So I can do stuff like this.

Yesterday, I
walked in the house

and Jasmine, she had all this
stuff that she found in my house.

You know, pictures of my exes,

Valentines' cards.

I mean, she was really upset

because she found this stuff and I
didn't get rid of it before she got here.

You know. And I don't think
she should be getting upset.

This is, this is like
my past relationships.

Why would you get
upset about that?

I just hope it gets better.

I really do.

Where is your dad?

What is that?

These are the steps for Coco.

So he doesn't have to
jump on the bed anymore.

So how was the nail salon?

It was nice.

I would love... to know

about something.

Um, I would love to know

what you did the
day before I arrive...

Day before you arrived.

- The day before you arrived?
- Yeah.

I didn't go out the
day before you arrived.

Um, what about you spending time

with Dana, Anthony?

You talking about
my bachelor party?

What's... what's up with that?

So number one
thing, you didn't tell me

you have a bachelor's party.

And I get it.
Because I have one,

it's fair you have one.
But why didn't you tell me?

Well...

honestly, I didn't want
you to be pissed off or upset

preparing to come
to the United States,

because I'm going
out on a bachelor party

which to me is very normal here in the
United States, if you're getting married

to go out for a bachelor party.

Okay.

Stupid excuse but okay.

- When were you planning...
- I don't think it's stupid.

- I'm already here. I've been here for a while.
- Yeah.

When were you
planning to tell me?

I, you know, I wasn't really...

going to tell you unless
you asked. I mean...

If you had asked me about it,

- I'd be more than happy to...
- How the heck would I ask about you?

How would I know?

What did you do? You
went with your family.

- But... Be more specific.
- I went with my family.

- Where? Where?
- Big deal.

We went to a strip club.

And a lot of people
have bachelor parties,

by the way, in my
country, in strip clubs.

Did you enjoy it?

I didn't even ask
for any dances.

I didn't touch any girls.

Whoo!

Hello!

Let's see what you got.

I wasn't that bad of a boy.

I was with my family.

This is a fun night
out before you come.

Why are you so upset about that?

It's your freakin'
attitude, you know?

And it has been like this
same for three years.

I always have to discover
from other people.

- All the time.
- What's my attitude?

You careless!

Like, "You got
mad. You shouldn't.

- You shouldn't get mad."
- Yeah, you shouldn't be.

Why are you upset?

But I am! Because
you lie to me, Gino!

- All the time! You're hiding things!
- Lied to you?

- That's up to you.
- I don't wanna marry you because I don't...

I... I can't marry someone that

- gets upset, like, and angry like you.
- I... I...

You're way over-reacting.

You're way out of control.

I think you need some
help is what I think.

That's what I think.

- You're way over-reacting about a stupid bachelor party.
- No, I need...

I need a ticket back...

- A once-in-a-lifetime bachelor party...
- I need a ticket back.

That you're getting this upset.

I need a ticket back to Panama.

- That's up to you.
- Okay.

I'm not joking, Gino.

- Okay.
- I'm not joking.

You act like I cheated
on you or something.

This is something...
That's the way it feels!

- I didn't... - That's
the way it feels, Gino!

I'm tired of having
to tell you that

I'm sorry for the way
that you make me feel!

- And... Okay. All right.
- Here. Take... Take that.

- Thanks.
- Take that . I don't want it.

Give it
to someone else.

Okay.

Yeah, I don't want you here...

I know you don't want me!

If you're so angry...

- You make me angry!
- Let me finish my sentence.

I can't speak to
you, I can't talk...

- you, Gino.
- Okay.

It's crazy, you know.

Yeah, it's crazy.

This happens all the time.

It's starting to wear me out.

She's always
threatening to leave.

It's getting to become
too much... for me.

'Cause my life
shouldn't be like that.

Yeah.

I'm worried. I don't
know a lot about them.

I've never thought
about going to US.

I think like America is
something too far away.

Always smiling.

- Very cute.
- Let's go say hello!

So I'm willing to
go to US for her.

I think we should
go through security first.

Okay.

Yeah.

- Yay!
- Hey!

- There they are. Kevin.
- We finally meet you.

You're real!

Yeah, glad to meet you, too!

Let me give you a hug.

How are you?

- Very well.
- So glad you made it!

I thought it wasn't
gonna happen!

You look just the
same as I picture.

You know what I mean?

- You look the same, too.
- Yeah? Okay.

Except you're real. Like, you are real.

Not just this made-up
person Devin had.

Nick being
from South Korea,

he's really coming
into a strange situation.

The primary concerns that I
have about their relationship

is just the unknowns about
how they interact in person.

We're looking forward
to figuring that out

since we're all gonna be
under one roof together.

Their relationship's
in front of us.

So if they have an argument,
we're gonna be seeing and hearing it.

Okay, okay.

There's so much
going on in my head.

There's so many
things I have to take in.

- Gonna get it?
- Is that yours? Is that it?

- Yeah, that's it right there.
- Yeah, yeah.

I'm the only one.
That's overwhelming.

- I have no idea where the car's at.
- It's up here to the right.

- Yeah, this is not a safe town that we're in.
- Really?

- It is day one.
- Yeah.

- My day one...
- You know what that means?

I think he's saying he wants
to make it longer than day one.

Yeah.

This is day one of 90 days
until we have to get married.

It's something that...

Thank you.

All right. Let's go.

I don't know about him, it still hasn't,
like, set in completely, yet, for me.

The second we
came off that plane,

that's when the
clock started ticking.

Okay, baby. We're getting
closer to my parents' house, and...

We have a lot to,
like, work on, like, after.

Right now, I'm just
gonna live in the moment.

- What?
- First time.

First time in my life I see how
cows each other here.

Okay, baby, this is
my parents' house.

Okay.

I definitely feel like it's the wrong
energy to go and see his family

after we had a huge
blow-up in the car.

Justin made such a big deal about
how I look, making me feel a little bit,

you know, insecure.

Go straight ahead.

But for the sake of tonight, we both
need to put our differences to the side,

and try to make it a better
vibe for us to meet his family.

Hi.

- Look at the dog.
- Jessica! Jessica!

- Nicole, this is my stepfather.
- Hi.

Daniel.

Nice to meet you.

Meeting with my parents,
they are, like, older generation.

Mom!

That's her son, you
know, and the way that it went down

and the way we broke up,
it's still a little nerve-racking,

and it's a little
uncomfortable for me.

And now I'm nervous
if she forgive this all.

Wow!

Wow!

How
are you? How you been?

She will show
you the pictures of our family.

Who is this cute boy?

Aw!

- She kept it.
- This is terrible photo.

Justin Timberlake.

She kept our photo.

- It's...
- At least she didn't rip it up.

She could've... - No, no, no.

- Look, she starting.
- Burn it.

No, no, she
starting, and then she stop.

No, you probably did it.

This one, I don't
have, I don't have this photo.

Maia, it
means, like, it means a lot

that you still kept my photos and our
photos together from many years ago.

I'm very happy that you didn't close
your heart and have your mind open

for us to try again.

She say
she don't forget nothing.

How do you think
it's going right now?

- You like it?
- Like it? I like it.

So how do you think
it's going with your mom?

Yeah?

Yes.

Justin has put a lot on the line

for even being with
me in the first place.

I can tell that Justin has been
preparing his parents to accept me,

which I love, you know, 'cause
that shows how much he loves me.

It means a lot to me.

I'll try not to be
so difficult with you

and try to be more
understanding.

- Okay.
- Okay.

We're supposed to be having a
wedding in 70 something days,

and you're arguing over coffee?

What the is going on?

We are not on the same
wavelength right now.

It's, like, scaring me
at how ignorant this is.

So, my love, we're gonna
be gone, like, all day.

Rico, what
are we doing, honey?

We don't get on the
table. Get off the table.

You know we don't
get on the table.

We need to go get coffee, so I
don't wanna hear your mouth about it.

So, I have a
lot of errands to run today.

And I'm taking Manuel with me so I
can get him out of the house a little bit.

It's incredibly important for Manuel
to start to feel here at home in the US,

no matter how much he's
missing his family in Ecuador,

because this is his new home.

Fine.

Okay?

Manuel...

- Manuel, Manuel...
- Yeah?

- Yes.
- Yeah.

I don't even
know what we're arguing about. I don't.

And I feel like I'm not doing
anything wrong. I'm just living.

And he is just
picking at things.

Hey.

I'm just calling you because
I'm on the verge of tears,

and I just need to, like, chill.

He's pissy right now. He's
carrying on and on about the coffee.

Yes.

And I... Drinking
too much coffee.

It's, like, so stupid.

Yeah, he's right next to me.

What world are you
living in? And is this gonna be my world?

Maybe it's something bigger than
coffee, and it's, like, scaring me

at how ignorant this
is, I'm not even gonna lie.

Yeah.

We're supposed to be having a
wedding in 70 something days,

- and you're arguing over coffee?
- What the is going on?

Part of me wants to turn around.

We are not on the same
wavelength right now.

90 days is not even close to
enough time to assess the situation.

I wanna get through this. I wanna
marry him, but on some real.

It's moments like these where
I'm like, "Am I in over my head?"

Like, I'm not even joking
right now. Like, deadass.

Surprise! It's a pool.

Okay.

Whoa, whoa, whoa! What
the are you doing? Hold on, now.

Okay.

I think Anali and Brandi
need to spend more time with each other.

I think it's weird to
have her, kind of,

insulting and not getting
along with my fiance

because, you know, I love
my sister, but I also love Anali.

It, kind of, like, snaps me back to reality,
like, "We need to resolve this."

The pigs are very stressed.

Ooh, this is so nice.

He thinks that, like, romanticness
equals something expensive.

Do you forgive me? Or...

Do you think you ever will?

I don't, like, want the same
thing that happened the last time

to happen again.

Let's go outside, 'cause
I'mma get this fire started.

And we can have a
drink and eat some dinner.

I gotta figure out how
to get this thing started.

- Hey!
- You did it.

Hey, your boy got talent.

Good job.

Wow and it's blowing
right at me, I love it.

Yeah. Yeah, look,
the glass is warm.

- Here's yours.
- What did you get for food?

Well, when it
comes to the food...

I wanted to show
you that I know you.

I found chicken korma.

I love Indian food.
It's like my favorite.

So it does mean a lot to me that Rob's
chosen like a meal that he knows I love

and not just like what he wants.

So, I appreciate him like
really putting in the effort.

I feel really bad
about everything...

and I just didn't feel like...

I don't know if I'll ever
feel like I've done enough.

But I just feel like, I
wanted to do more

to show you that I'm sorry

and hopefully,

make you happy
and keep you happy.

Like, you can't just act like
nothing happened, you know?

I'm not gonna act
like nothing happened.

'Cause you hurt me a lot.

I'm sorry and I
know that and I'm...

not gonna act like
nothing happened.

I know it was
stupid and ignorant

to think there was a
difference or that there was...

levels of what's
appropriate and what's not.

None of it was appropriate.

Um, and I'm sorry.

I'm sorry that...

I allowed anything
like that to go down.

Do you forgive me or...

do you think you ever will?

I mean, I forgive you,

I haven't forgotten what
you did but I forgive you.

I'm serious about
like what I need.

And if anything like
this happens again,

like, I'm leaving,
like, I'm not,

you know, we're
actually together now,

I'm in America, you
have no excuse, like,

I have no reason to give
you the benefit of the doubt,

like, I'm here, you know?

So, if you do anything like
it like, I'm gonna be gone.

Without a doubt in my
mind, I don't want anybody else

and I haven't
wanted anybody else

since I knew,
since I met Sophie.

But, yeah, I am
definitely kicking myself

that I was, that I've
made any mistakes

along the way.

I just wish I could
take it all back.

I'm still gonna check your phone

till I can trust you again.

That's fine.

Every time that
you'd think about...

my mistakes from the past...

remind yourself about
our potential future.

Okay.

I'm definitely hopeful
for the future of the relationship.

And I don't, I
don't feel like...

I'm gonna find somebody
who's closer to what I want

than who Sophie is.

You know, she is who I want

and her personality
is what I want.

The person that I see, us,

you know, her being and
who we are 10 years from now,

I feel like that... that works.

What she wants in
life, what I want in life,

work.

Who she is, who I am work.

As long as we can push
out all the negative things,

we will work and I
feel confident in that.

Okay, make a toast to me.

Okay.

Just to
me. Not us, to me.

I won't jump off a
building if I didn't have you.

- You would.
- But I might go live in a Hobbit hole.

- If you didn't have me in your life?
- Cheers!

Yeah, I'd go live in the woods

in a hole in the ground.

You'd see me
covered in like moss.

Collecting wood.

That's kind of romantic.

- In Rob's way that's romantic.
- That's the real love...

That's my love right there.

Hello!

Aww.

My goodness.
That looks so good.

So, we have about
four more months

before the K-1 Visa is approved.

And how are you gonna
feel him leaving again?

I know you must
feel a little bit nervous.

When I came back
from United States...

For the first time, I was very upset

and very worried.

It made me upset, too.

I really, like, at
that moment, I tried.

Don't be sad.

Okay. Okay.

I don't wanna make
this like so emotional.

Like, I want this to
be a happy moment.

I don't wanna
like, relive the past

because it's making...

it's making her upset.

We've a lot like...

we've a lot of people.

Our feelings are invested

and other people's
feelings are invested

and our parent's
feelings are invested

and our friend's
feelings are invested

and everyone's
feelings are invested.

And, Um...

I don't, like, want the same
thing that happened the last time

to happen again.

Well, well, well.

Hi.

I know I was kind of
a turd the last time.

Is that what you call it?

- In five minutes.
- Five minutes.

Yeah.

Okay.

Wow.

Good job, chiqui.

All right, Mama. Me and
Anali are gonna go now.

Well, be careful driving.

Me and Anali are
headed to Indiana this weekend

for some alone time.

We're also gonna visit my
sister Brandi while we're up there.

Coco, chunker boy,

you're a chunker boy.

You chunky boy.

- You chunky...
- Yeah.

Just about every
part of our relationship

has reconnected by now

but the one thing that's
missing is our intimacy.

But me and Anali are
gonna be away from home.

We're gonna be
alone in a hotel room.

Hopefully, things happen when...

you know, we're alone
and mom's not in the house.

You know, maybe
this might be the time.

Hopefully.

Brandi has invited me
and Anali to an orchard.

I don't know if apple
picking is a thing in Peru.

But it is an American thing

and me and my sister used
to come to this apple orchard.

So, I have fond childhood
memories of this place.

Brandi and Anali meeting for a
second time is really important to me.

Because I care about
them both very much.

But I do know that Brandi
is a type of person that will

cut someone off in the
family if she doesn't like them.

But I'm not just gonna
send Anali packing

because my sister
doesn't like her.

Like, they have to get along.

Well, well, well.

- Hi.
- Hello.

- We meet again.
- Yup.

- How are you guys?
- Appreciate the empty bucket.

You're welcome.

- Hi. How are you?
- I'm fine. You?

Good. Good.

I wanted Anali and
Clayton to come here today

because after how
things went last time,

I feel bad...

a little bit.

A lot. Um...

I just thought that this
would be a nice place

and it's like a
childhood memory,

so, maybe he will forget
how big of a bitch I was being.

I didn't react the way
I wanted to last time.

But it was like an information
overload all at once,

finding all of this stuff out.

But I want him to be happy.

So, I plan to keep my doubts

to myself the best that I can.

Because I still have a lot.

All the good apples are up high

and I'm short,
so I can't get 'em.

Which one do you want?

I didn't get your height.

Thank you guys for coming today.

Because I know I was
kind of a turd the last time.

Is that what you call it?

Turd?

I mean,
it's okay. Yeah.

Okay.

Um...

Thanks for that.

Makes her feel better.

The reason why I acted so crazy

the last time is because...

I just feel like it kind
of was like all at once.

What? I mean, I...

Like, everything was just
an information overload

and it just like
made me emotional.

And so, I'm not gonna take it
out on you, 'cause you're my...

"baby."

So you take it out on her?

I mean, yeah,
it's not fair but...

I just always...

see you as like...

my 12-year old little brother.

Okay. I'm gonna read
you what she wrote.

"For me, it was very difficult

to leave my country,
mainly for my mother

because she is in
very delicate health

and without someone
to accompany her.

So when you said that...

I was just here
for a green card,

I really wanted to
cry at that moment,

because it was hard for
me to leave my mother alone.

And I really wanted
Clayton to be in Peru but...

for my leaving my
family was not easy."

I'm sorry. That makes me sad.

Eww, I hate crying.

It's making me sad
to hear about her mom

because I...

only have my mom.

And so, especially being

overseas and not
being there for her...

I couldn't imagine.

She's here for like a
bigger reason than what you think.

Like, it's basically
our relationship.

She's here for a bigger
reason than just...

- like citizenship or...
- I hope so.

I mean, you both deserve love.

Brandi's finally starting to
get know the Anali I know.

The one that she should
have known the first time

had she just asked
normal questions.

And I'm just really
excited to move forward.

It's been mostly
okay, just hard to...

have like private
time.

Eww.

Gross.

Well, I mean how did you do it
when you're still living with mom and...

you got pregnant with Brooklyn.

No. Sorry.

- Yeah.
- Holy Brandi.

Rob is
not listening to me.

I'm hoping my mum could
put some sense into him.

Hi. Good.

It's like a bar, like
brewery type place

in like Downtown, LA.

Just cause like, if I call
you when I'm at Rob's,

he can hear our conversation

and there's no like privacy.

So I just came like here

to call you.

It's not to get away from Rob.

There's no privacy.

It's not sad.

It's literally just a
change of scenery.

I'm gonna give him a chance.

'Cause, obviously, like,

this is not a
normal relationship,

and it's not like he was doing
that while we was together

in the same house, we was apart
for like eight months or whatever.

This is the last chance.

This is like, "I'm here
now. This is a relationship.

I was accepted," like,

there's no problems,
so it's like this is it.

Go on.

I know he wasn't real cheating
because I tracked his phone

and he doesn't know and he
was always just in his house.

It's not like I ever
was, "Give me your location."

Basically, I felt unsafe
one time in a taxi

and me and Rob shared
locations to make sure I was safe

and then he stupidly
never turned his off.

And I just never told him that

I had it the whole time.

He still doesn't know
I have his location.

He still doesn't know.

Don't tell him. No one tell him.

It's been like three years
I've had it.

But that's how I know he's
never cheated in real life,

so it makes me feel better.

Yeah, I know. Don't do that.

You can't be mean to
Rob when you're here.

Like, you have to try to get
along with him, you know.

I'm a bit nervous that
my mum's gonna cause problems

between me and Rob

just because I know that like,

Rob and my mum don't
have the best relationship.

My mum used to visit me while I
was staying in Mexico with Rob.

They would have little
arguments and tiffs

because my mum would
see how Rob was talking to me

and she didn't like it.

And then like Rob would see

me and my mum
having our usual like,

we have little arguments, too,

but it's not like serious

and he didn't like it.

And so I think they just...

both were sticking
up for me to each other

and it would cause
them to argue.

Yeah, you too. I'll
speak to you soon.

Bye. Bye-bye.

I don't think she's
a100 percent at peace

with "I'm gonna be
with this man forever."

So, honestly,

I'm kind of hoping
that my mum is able to

tell him like what he
should be doing for me.

'Cause he's not listening to me

and I'm hoping my mum
could put some sense into him

and, you know, that's
his problem to deal with.

Me and Anali haven't
had sex in over a month.

Chiqui, chiqui.

But I'm hoping that
tonight that changes.

No.

No.

I can see how much
you love your son

and I just want you to know
that he's in good hands with me.

Do we have your
blessing to get married?

Are you okay now, Maya?

If you're not close to
your mother, this is...

Mother feel pain.

Yeah.

I can see how much you love
your son, and I just want you

to know that he's in
good hands with me.

How did you find it inside
yourselves to accept me being trans?

Because I know culture.

Your culture here in your
country is very not open

to accepting people like me.

So how did you and Daniel
come to accept my life,

my life, who I am?

That's true.

Okay.

So I think I know the
answer, but I really just want

to double-check
with both of you.

So we do.

Do we have your
blessing to get married?

Okay.

Thank you. Thank you.

Tell her I'm very happy
to have this moment

with them to celebrate
our engagement.

Are you coming? You will come?

- She said no.
- Shut up!

I feel really happy that
we got to see your family

and that I got the
blessing that I wanted to get

from his mom.

That meant the world to me.

It was a sweet moment
and I'll cherish that.

Hello. Checking in.

I'm really relieved
that things went well

with Brandi today, but
that wasn't the only reason

I wanted to get
away this weekend.

Okay, chiqui, um...

Okay.

I wanted to book a romantic
night at a hotel because

me and Anali haven't
had sex in over a month.

Okay.

Being sexually frustrated
is uncomfortable.

It's normal to have
sex in a relationship.

It's normal to not have
sex for short periods of time,

but when it's abnormal behavior,

it's something
you take notice of.

Anali has been talking about...

wanting to do massages
when we get to the US.

Well, now she is here in the US,

so I think tonight's
massage is going to be

what gets the romance
flowing with me and Anali.

I'm hoping these little doodads

will get her in
the mood as well.

I forgot the most important
thing, believe it or not,

because friction
is not your friend.

And this Rubik's Cube
is in case she falls asleep

and I get bored.

She won't see this here.

Definitely not.

Okay.

Chiqui, chiqui.

Hi.

Hi.

Okay.

Love you.

No.

No.

No.

Yeah.

I think that I'm being
patient with Anali about

not having sex because she
doesn't like to be pressured.

And especially
when it comes to sex,

I don't want to
pressure her at all.

I want it to just happen.

But sex is an important
part of any relationship,

especially when we've been
so accustomed to having sex

whenever we are together.

Given that she's here
now and it's not happening,

it's just weird.

I'm having
revelations in real time

how much his family
depends on him.

Where are you going?

Okay.

- Hello.
- Hi, Manuel.

- Hi, guys.
- I missed you.

I missed you.

- You look so cute.
- Thank you.

- How are you?
- Good to see you.

I am so excited to
update you guys.

I'm excited, too. I'm
excited to be here.

- I've never even...
- I'm excited about this candle place.

I'm excited to be here, too.

Ooh.

Let's do it.

- I smell it already.
- Wow.

God.

Okay, perfect.

- Thank you.
- Thank you so much.

- Let me know if you have questions.
- I will.

I'm gonna start over there.

After Manuel and I got
into this huge fight in the car,

I am now realizing that
we have a lot of work to do.

It feels like sometimes
we're on the same page

in the bedroom, but when
we're not in the bedroom,

we're, like, not
on the same page.

Whipped cream.

I love whipped cream.

This makes me
think of nasty things.

We didn't get to know each other

like your average couple.

If you think about
your average couple,

they have a lot of time,
relatively speaking,

to get to know the ins
and outs of that person

and how that person works.

Even when we met initially,
we were always around

his family or we were
around my friends.

We were always
in group settings.

So getting to know
each other one-on-one

and how we work from day to day,

I think that's what's going on.

You know, we kind
of moved backwards.

Okay.

So, you're gonna
blend your oils together.

It's a combination of the oils,

whatever ratios you
want, so smell as you go.

- Okay.
- All right.

And when we're done,
we just call you back over?

Yeah, yeah. Shout
if you start smelling

and you're not loving
it, I'm here to help.

- Shout if you need me.
- Okay.

He said that you explained it so well.

All right.

He said, if it's bad, I don't understand anything.

So I think he's
saying thank you.

I'm gonna start
with wild currant.

- I'm gonna start with this goji berry.
- Okay.

So what else have you guys done
so far for, like, wedding planning?

Um, we are super close
to a final head count.

It's looking like it's
gonna be closer to 30.

And we ordered his suit
that's coming on Tuesday.

We're getting it
going. I'm excited.

I'm really excited.

He doesn't like it.

He doesn't like
anything. I like it.

It's like, everything
you do, he's like, no.

I was going to say, what
have you been doing

to make sure that he is
nice and comfortable here?

We've
been cooking a lot.

I mean, I think,
let him tell it,

and he would say he's doing more
of the cooking, because he kind of

is doing more of the cooking.

I think what I mean to say
is that I'm providing the food.

Because, you
know, I eat like a bird.

So there's a lot more food
in my house these days.

- Yeah.
- Right.

So last time we hung
out, we were talking about,

like, he wanted, like,
$250 or something to send.

We sent some money
to his family. Yeah.

How are you
feeling about all that?

Sending
money back home to Ecuador

has been a source
of tension for us.

I think it's a cultural thing.

I don't really know
what that's like to have

to take care of a parent
financially or a child or a sister

or anybody financially.

He does.

And so it is a point of tension

because I don't
fully understand it.

And I also wasn't given much
time to understand it either.

This is something he has
done without me for 30 years.

So the only thing he wants
is to be able to help them.

I knew Manuel was not
just gonna leave his family

high and dry, but I
didn't know how much

they depended on him.

Like, how do you feel about
that coming out of her pocket?

He said, a part of
him feels bad because

it's work from her
and it's her money.

He said, if she can help me
now with time, I can help her.

Essentially, he's saying, I
hope I can pay you back.

I hope to marry this person,
and this person has children.

So that's number one, you know?

So I got that coming
in, but I didn't realize

how deep it was.

The baby's mother isn't
really around like she needs

to be, so the financial care

leans quite heavily on Manuel.

I knew this was gonna
be like a monthly bill,

but I didn't know how much.
I know, I saw your eyes.

- It's gonna be a monthly bill.
- It's a monthly, yeah.

It's gonna be a monthly bill.

I have a question.

Yeah.

So I was like, okay, so, like,
do you expect me to send money

down there, like, every month?

And he was like, well, yeah.
And I was like, how much?

And he's like, you want numbers?

And I was like, yeah.
And he was like, like, 300.

- $300?
- A month.

So he's saying, okay...

He said, I pay
what I need to pay.

He goes, there's money for
me, there's money for them.

If they need more money, then
they're gonna get more money,

whatever it is they need.

I definitely see the
pressure that he's under.

I definitely see what
he's going through.

However, I don't think it
should fall on Ashley's shoulders.

I feel like this should
have been established

- before he got here.
- Yes.

Since you've been here,
it seems like you're making

your family more of
a priority than Ashley.

So why are you here?

Did she know that?

It's not the same.

He said the dog and
the cat cost more...

The dog and that
cat cost more than this.

You're talking about
your mom, your step dad,

your brother, your
sister, your aunty.

- Everybody needs Ashley's money, not you.
- That's a lot for Ashley.

- Manuel.
- Okay, where are you going?

He's saying she thinks it's
easy. She thinks it's easy.

I don't
think it's easy.

I think you're putting a
lot of pressure on her.

He's like I would prefer
to pay the vet $300...

Where's he going?

Wow.

I aggressively underestimated
how intense this process is.

In Ecuador, when we
get into an argument,

we can hang up the phone.

He can go dick around
and do whatever the

he wants and choose
not to answer or whatever.

But I think it's a different
beast when you're in it.

- He's a baby.
- I'm gonna go see about Manuel.

I am incredibly sad and
emotional and frustrated

and tired.

I don't know where
we go from here.

He's going to have to acclimate.

It's going to be hard.
It's going to be difficult.

But if your goal here
is to make a family

and to do this, then
we got to get used to it.

That's crazy.

Next time on 90 Day Fiance.

- Baby. - Hi, baby.

I told my fiance,
Citra, about my drug past.

She still looked past all that.

Citra's dad, Herman,
he's a police officer,

and it's just a
little nerve-racking

and it's just I've been keeping
kind of a secret from Citra,

so I'm worried
that when I tell her

and she tells her dad
that he's gonna forbid her

from marrying me.

Manuel...

I'm not shocked
that he walked out.

I think Manuel has a
tendency to be unreasonable.

I think Manuel is very
used to getting his way.

My.

Are you serious?

Look at this.

Him calling her piggy, I
wish he wouldn't do that.

Today, I'm about to tell
Rob that I'm bisexual.

I'm not really
looking forward to it.

It's like these rush of
feelings come through.

Sophie, are you crying?

Has there been any girls
that you around with?

So before that, you
were other girls.

I knew it.

You are not being
faithful.

I'm out of here.