Swingers (2020) - full transcript

We had about 170 people

in last night.

They were queuing up like...

..they were waiting for a bus.

Not unusual.

Oh, God.

They've moved the bed!

The bed's moved.

Oh, I'm going

to have to do it with some gloves.

It's not nice picking up

other people's used items,

but this is all, erm,

part of the job.

PHONE RINGS

Liberty Elite can I help you?

'Hi, there.'

It's February at Liberty Elite,

one of Britain's most exclusive

swinging and fetish clubs.

We don't put them out unless we've

got somebody there to supervise.

Boasting over 12,000 members,

it's the 'go to' place,

for nonmonogamous couples

and randy singles

craving no-strings sex

with strangers.

Located just off the A5 near Rugby,

the club attracts up to 200 guests

a night.

Which means a substantial

clean up job for the staff.

It's a lot of bedding, 250 towels,

60 sheets,

but you just keep it rolling.

40 degrees again.

What do you think's

on all these towels?

Erm...

..body fluid.

It's no different to

changing your own beds, is it?

The only thing is

you've got probably

an accumulation of different DNA.

Oh, dear, missed one.

They get

caught up in the towels and that.

We cater for all age groups.

Mature Mischief,

which is Wednesday.

And then you've

got the younger crowd. Hot Wives.

But the people are great.

Some of them are that nice,

they're as nice as the people you

meet, going to Asda or Morrisons.

Wife swapping

became popular in the late '60s,

and today there're over

one and a half million Brits

on the scene, desperate

to spice up their sex lives.

Come on, let's get this right.

Cashing in on our erotic desires,

is Liberty's head honcho.

78-year-old, John.

I don't drink, I don't smoke,

I've been divorced since 1974.

The two main hobbies in my life,

one is making money

and the other one, of course,

is young ladies.

Or ladies,

which I'm very passionate about.

I've been on the swingers scene

since the late 1960s.

20 years ago this complete

building was up for sale.

I bought it. I've probably spent

one and a half million on it.

Liberty is one of over 200

swingers clubs in the UK,

all vying to be number one

for the discerning swinger.

We try and have equipment

that people don't have at home.

This sort of thing is quite

difficult to explain to the family,

but the lady would be

lying just with her legs,

sort of resting gently

and just relaxing.

It moves with you,

nice rocking movement.

Have you ever used this?

Only a few times.

We're going into the main play area.

The first time I swung, 50 years

ago, we were at a house party.

People started pairing off

and we thought well, OK, let's...

let's pair off, and we did.

It works wonders for your sex life.

What I designed here

is there's two sliders,

so that what you can do, you can

restrain someone using those.

And turn them over without

having to release them.

OK.

How often do you have sex?

Oh, gosh!

I'm down to perhaps two or

three times a week now, but no more.

Swinging is a way of life.

I'm not sure that anybody

was designed to have sex

with just one person

for the whole of their life.

Nice, isn't it?

I hate Valentine's Day, I do.

One of the worst things

in the world.

Aw, it's nice. Stop being so soppy.

Aw!

At least twice a week,

the club hosts themed events.

Yeah, that looks nice. Does it?

Receptionist Sheree

and club manager Chanelle

are busy preparing for one of

their biggest nights of the year,

Valentine's.

All of our events are a big deal.

It's just nice to make an effort.

That is vile.

What is it?

We try and cater for everybody,

from all walks of life.

Couples...

..your single guys...

..single ladies.

Everyone's got needs.

When was the last time you had sex?

Oh! A good couple of months ago.

Cos I know this event is coming up

and I know I'm just going to get

fucked left, right and centre!

People get the wrong perception

of the people that attend this club.

It's just normal everyday people.

It's just that they choose to do

something different

with their social life.

This one has been

inside Hannah's vagina.

Why are you holding it

that way around?

Because that's the way it went!

HANNAH LAUGHS

Engineer Justin

and stay-at-home mum Hannah

live with their two young children.

We met about seven years ago,

and when I was actually pregnant

with my second child,

food cravings didn't happen for me.

I got more sexual cravings instead.

I just turned around to Justin

and was like,

"I fancy adding a third person

to the bedroom department."

After we had kids the frequency that

we had sex did go down quite a bit.

Like many new onto the scene,

the pair joined a partner swapping

website to find their first hook up.

It started off with a single female.

She came over for some pizza

and it sort of evolved from then.

And we made him sit and watch.

I think they were going at it

together for...

..a good hour or so.

Every time

I came near they pushed me away.

I did want him to get involved.

But I thought

I'm having my fun first.

I did feel a bit left out, yeah,

cos for the majority of the night

I wasn't able to do anything.

The couples situation

is more suitable for us

because then we both get

something out of it.

I've always been self-conscious

of my body, felt overweight,

unattractive. I'm just not

a very confident person.

I was never one of the popular kids.

I used to get bullied in school.

They used to pull my hair,

laugh at me.

They used to think that

I was a bit of a nerd.

It wasn't a really, fun time.

When Justin tells me

that I look beautiful,

it just doesn't feel

like it's enough.

Our relationship wouldn't have

survived if he'd have said no,

because obviously, you know,

you have feelings for that person

and you take their feelings

into consideration.

But I want other people to look at

me and think, wow,

she looks really sexy,

to make me feel that I still got it,

even after having children.

After two years

of swinging from home,

the party will be their first

visit to a club.

So what are we taking then? Well...

Mm! Not a great deal to them.

They're probably going to come

off by the end of the night anyway.

if not by me, by someoneelse.

This Valentine's Day we're going

to go have sex with a load

of other people.

What could be more romantic?

Having sex with other people,

it gives me a thrill.

The more that I go

down the swinging route,

the more I can be the woman

I want to be.

You'll never be fully happy until

you've fulfilled needs and stuff.

We do provide a good spread.

We do a selection of sandwiches,

smoked salmon and prawn ring.

No expense spared.

Yeah, that looks good. Yeah? Yeah.

When John first opened this club

there weren't a lot of

swingers clubs around.

Now there's probably one

in every town.

Some people might not even realise

that there's one on the doorstep.

Fanny Cradock, eat your heart out!

To help stand out

in a crowded market, the club

boasts 12 four-star hotel rooms,

which guests can stay in

for 60 quid a night.

I didn't think I would be somewhere

like here for Valentine's,

not that I'm complaining.

I've come alone

so I can just do what the hell

I want, when I want.

We're all here to have

a bloody good time.

And maybe a good fuck, I don't know!

That's what I'm here for!

Men, don't want one,

haven't got time for one.

I haven't met a decent one

in 33 years.

Single mum Malika works as a dancer

to support her young daughter.

I have trust issues, cos I've

been treated so shit by men,

do you know what I mean?

When damage is done

and trust is broken,

you lose trust in everyone, really.

Since a messy break-up, Malika has

turned her back on relationships.

Maybe if I'd been treated like a

princess all my life, I wouldn't

feel like I just want to use

and abuse them all the time.

I was in a full-on relationship

way too young.

I was with him for ten years.

He was always controlling,

possessive.

My dream was to be

a professional dancer.

He was holding me

back from my dreams.

When I found out

he was cheating on me,

I packed our stuff

and never went back.

Now I call the shots.

Lap dancing makes you feel strong,

sexy.

I love the power I have over men.

It's quite a turn on.

When you're at a swinging party,

it's a really free vibe.

If it's there on a plate

I'm just going to go for it.

Why the hell not?

I know like to see you

enjoying yourself.

With guys and girls? Or just girls?

Whichever you want. Oh!

Whichever takes your fancy.

Sounds like an experience

is going to happen. Mm!

Right.

It's the day of the Valentine's

Party at Liberty Elite,

Britain's premier swinging

and fetish club.

Happy Valentine's Day.

Gone all out, haven't I?

I can see what's been done.

I'll go and switch everything on.

Tonight, eager guests are arriving

from across the country

in search of some fun

between the sheets.

Very sexy.

The swingers community

is quite substantial.

On your street, there will be

somebody in the swingers scene.

For seasoned swingers

and husband and wife of 13 years

Simon and Carolyn,

it's their second visit to Liberty.

Swinging cannot save a marriage

that is on the downhill path.

But it can make a good relationship

better.

Some people might think this is

an odd way to spend Valentine's Day,

but we're not ordinary people.

This is more of a roll of the dice.

We don't have to play if we don't

want to

and it's nice to kind of be

picky, really, a bit.

Yeah. I'm sharing my husband

with people.

It's like lending your car out to

someone.

You wouldn't just let

any old stranger have a, like,

drive around the block in it.

I told him I was bisexual really

early on

to make him aware of things

that I don't think I'd ever be

prepared to let go of.

I didn't want to get to, like,

my old age and not ever have lived.

It was when my mum sadly passed

away a few years ago,

that really impacted me

because my mum loved life

and we just really felt that it was

important

to live life to the most,

why not try different things and see

how it feels?

He wouldn't share a pizza, so

nothing took me by surprise more

than you agreeing to have a go

at that kind of lifestyle.

So did you just get into swinging

because you were worried about

Carolyn running off with a woman?

No, no, not at all!

I was possibly the most jealous

person that I've met

before this scene.

You never know what's going to make

you jealous, though,

and sometimes it can just be a kiss,

sometimes it could be

your wife just wants to fuck someone

with a massive cock.

But actually, it was really

enjoyable.

More than having sex,

it was about building a connection.

Are you sure? Yeah, quite sure!

The couple got onto the scene

four years ago

and they're members

of a wife-swapping website

boasting over 200,000 users.

So we've had a new message.

"I'm 38 I love teasing females.

I can - but not essential -

"tie, restrain and tease their pussy

and ass

"until they have multiple orgasms.

"Even better if they can squirt".

Interested? No.

We like someone that has

read about what we're into,

what we're interested in,

that can actually use English,

full stops, commas. You know,

a semi-colon would be orgasmic.

Yeah, should be OK, I think.

There's an hour to

go before the party kicks off.

OK, I'm happy enough with that.

And the guests are dressing

to impress.

It's time for Mum to have

her playtime.

Wow. All right?

You look lovely. Ta-da!

That looks stupid, right?

No, it doesn't, it looks good.

For partners of seven years

Justin and Hannah,

tonight will be their first

time inside a swingers' club.

Never know, might be a couple that

we can join. Yeah.

It can be quite

daunting for first-timers.

It's exactly the same as visiting

your local tennis club.

When you first go in,

you wonder who you're going

to have a game of tennis with,

who to have a drink with

and what to do.

You ready?

I'm as ready as I'll ever be.

Come on, then, let's go.

Everything's fine.

Good.

Come on in,

welcome to the club.

Please be aware of the step.

To ensure the club

brings in suitable clientele,

guests are vetted before they arrive

and couples pay a £20 a year

membership, as well as an entry fee.

We welcome people from all walks

but they have to be quite nice,

and I don't mean particularly

attractive,

I just mean they have to be nice

people.

Does it help if they're attractive?

Well, I think in all walks of life,

it helps if you're attractive.

Hi, guys.

Thank you!

People do have a misconception

of what a swingers' club is like,

dirty old men just perving

over women.

There she goes. Kerching!

They're quite surprised when they

walk straight into a posh wine bar.

It may look like a swanky wine bar,

but for those who play their cards

right, a few hours from now

they could be having sex

with a beautiful stranger.

Now, before we go

through to the playroom,

just so you know, we don't allow

you in there fully clothed.

You look like you're panicking,

don't panic. Underwear is fine.

Just not fully clothed.

I don't swing.

It's just not for me.

I couldn't imagine seeing my partner

with somebody else.

I think I'd be more likely to punch

them than anything else!

Something strong.

Can I get a Jameson's

and lemonade, please?

Can't beat a good Irish whiskey.

I'm not much of a rum fan.

It's a good ambition.

You'll be fine.

I do get nervous meeting new people.

I worry about whether they're

going to be interested in me.

I just want to make a good

impression.

For some, club nights

are an opportunity to satisfy

an insatiable appetite for sex.

We do have some ladies

that go to the extreme.

I do know one lady that's had 18,

in a night.

Don't ask me how, cos

I have absolutely no idea.

18's rather a lot, isn't it?

Can I come

and say hello to you guys?

67-year-old Siobhan has been

on the scene for the past 10 years.

Are you the owner?

I wish, my dear, I wish.

LAUGHTER

No, I'm just visiting.

This is different to the ones

I normally go to.

Yeah, the Jacuzzi, I'd worry

about that, you know what I mean?

That's why I'd go in there

now, before the cum starts.

Just don't swallow anything.

Plenty of sucking,

but no swallowing.

LAUGHTER

Valentine's Day is lovely for me,

being a florist,

because I can make money.

But personally,

it passes me by, like Christmas.

Having never settled down,

Siobhan has lived

alone for much of her life.

Nice and firm.

Just as we like it.

One reason why I might not have

married

is that I think I might get bored

just with one person.

When was the last time

someone bought you flowers?

Er, a few weeks ago, actually.

A friend of mine came around with a

nice bunch of lilies...

..er, for an inspection.

What's an inspection?

Basically,

to check out the size of his cock.

Right, come on, then.

This is my playroom.

Bigger, the better. I invite lots

of bi boys to come around and play.

One there and one here.

One in the middle and one there.

And then one over there

and one there.

And then we'd have two at the end...

..watching and wanking, probably,

and then we all swap round.

I just love watching them

suck each other's cocks.

Oh!

When I first did this,

I couldn't believe that a

20-year-old

would want to have sex

with a 60-something-year-old,

erm, but they do,

and I'm happy to oblige.

Do you think sex would be better

if you were in love?

Possibly, but then

it could also be boring.

Would I choose to be swinging

or in an unhappy marriage?

No question, is it?

Swinging.

One big bag of toys.

This is probably my biggest.

That goes up the guy's bum.

And that goes inside me.

Now, not many guys can take that.

The most sessions I've

had in a day would be three or four.

Breakfast, lunch, tea...

..and possibly even supper.

It won't turn off!

I'll have to use it then, won't I?

I would be disappointed if I didn't

play with one person at least,

but I'd be very happy if I sucked

his cock, he licked my pussy,

he shot his load and I had multiple

orgasms. Perfect.

Siobhan. Are you staying?

Yeah. Yeah.

On the scene,

single ladies like Siobhan

are known as "unicorns",

considered as rare as

the mythical creatures themselves.

Hiya. Hi! Welcome to Liberty Elite,

there's your locker key.

Tonight, two have come at once,

as 33-year-old single mum

and fellow unicorn Malika arrives.

For years, I was the most prudish

person you could get in the bedroom.

I was a shit fuck.

In the last couple of years,

I've been scored quite high.

I don't have a type,

I'm just looking for somebody fun

who I can have a laugh with.

Are you going in the Jacuzzi?

With the party in full swing,

a group has caught Justin

and Hannah's eye.

I love a Jacuzzi, I do.

It's my favourite place

in the world.

In an ideal scenario,

we'll both end up playing.

I'd like to find a single girl

or a nice couple that we can have

some fun with.

To be able to just go wild

is going to be quite an incredible

experience.

Scrub up, we'll see you in there.

Let's go, come on.

Oh, my God, I'm so nervous.

I did a couple of blow jobs

with some guys with some serious

truncheons.

Oh, my God!

Too big to go in there.

And definitely too big to

go in there.

Oh. I'll just plonk

myself down here for a second.

Husband and wife Carolyn and Simon

are on the lookout for a "full

swap", sex with another couple.

Yes, yes,

we've been 20 years together.

We are always looking for a girl.

OK. That's your dynamic?

For her interest, for my interest.

I've identified as bisexual,

since, oh, my God,

yeah, for, like, nearly 22 years now

and he's happy for me to do what we

do.

I like the adrenaline rush,

like that thrill of a chase.

You get to flirt with somebody, you

get to feel that chemistry building

that you don't really ever get

to replicate

in a long-term relationship.

What are you guys looking for?

What's the deal?

Yeah?

How's it going, guys? I think

we're with that group right now?

Yeah, seem to be. You all done?

I'm still getting to grips

with the whole scene.

I feel like if I enjoy it too much,

something's going to go wrong.

We'd both be open

to the idea of an orgy.

The more people, the better,

because it would make me

feel more sexy,

just give me more confidence

in myself.

This programme contains

strong language, nudity

and sexual content throughout.

Have you got the dips?

It's halfway through

the big Valentine's Day party

at Liberty Elite, and the guests

are still hungry for action.

Ooh!

It looks lovely.

Olives? Yeah. OK.

Our buffet's out, if you're ready.

The key ingredient of a pleasant

night at a swingers' club

is your ability to socially

interact with other people.

It's a lovely club.

Thank you, thank you.

If you can't socially interact,

you're not going to get

a sexual encounter.

You're very attractive, which might

scare the bloody death

out of a lot of chaps,

but once you start talking you go,

"All, right? I'm from Norfolk."

You become much warmer.

Ah, thank you.

I wish I was 40 years younger,

I'd tell you exactly how much of a

gem you are.

Would you like another roll of meat?

I've got two, I'm fine thank you.

All right.

The buffet isn't the only thing

husband and wife

Simon and Carolyn have their eye on.

What's the best scenario for you?

You love playing with the ladies.

Yeah.

I love playing with the ladies,

you love playing with the men,

that's our ideal situation.

Could have a little

poke around soon?

SHE LAUGHS

It's a common question,

"How can you love somebody

and yet be on the swingers scene?"

Lots of people would never

dream of being unfaithful.

However, they do quite like the

occasional different sexual partner.

What does love mean, then?

I have no idea.

Some nights, the club provides

a variety of fetish contraptions

for guests on the kinkier side to

enjoy.

It feels nice.

MAN: I'll give anything a go once.

Twice, just in case. You never know.

Swinging is now a big

part of my life and took me

in a completely different direction

that I never thought I'd go down.

Six months ago, my heart was broken.

Me and my ex-partner

planned this holiday,

but the relationship broke up.

I decided, "I'm going on my own

anyway, I'm going to make the most

of it."

I'd stumbled across the swinging

site while looking through dating

apps.

There was one section

for Gran Canaria.

I had the best holiday I've ever

had.

I had sex around 15 times.

Five different women in six days.

Nice and fresh.

Hello!

34-year-old divorce Martyn

has suffered two major break-ups in

four years...

Hey, up son, you all right?

Yeah, you?

..and lives at home with dad Ty,

who split with Martyn's

mum 12 years ago.

When my most recent relationship

ended, it did hit me very hard.

I was broken for a little bit.

It hurt.

I am definitely done with love.

Right now, I'm about going out,

having fun

and making the most of it.

All right? Yeah, you?

Glad to be home.

Oh, I bet.

Despite only recently finding

out about Martyn's new lifestyle,

Ty has been fully behind him.

I have had my heart broken

enough times.

And you could see that.

You have pretty much jumped from one

relationship to another

to another, and I don't think you

probably ever had that just

time with you, and understanding

what it is

you want from a relationship.

You know, I had you very young.

And you do look back sometimes and

go,

"Well when was life ever about

me as an individual?"

So I think it really is important

that you take a direction.

And whatever direction that is,

all I can say is I'm there to

support that.

If you'd have asked me

six months ago

whether I would have preferred

someone to love

or someone to give me great sex I'd

have said somebody to love.

Come and join you.

Hi! Join our little party.

But, currently, good sex.

Have you been here before?

No, this is the first time I've ever

been here.

It was not something I kind of

thought about, to be fair,

until six months ago.

My first experience would have been

about five, six months ago too,

so...

So what brought you into it?

Well, I'm single and I've got needs.

That's got to be by choice surely?

That you're single. Yeah.

The thing is, it's hard to make

friends when you get older

unless it's through work.

Everything's just bloody dating

apps, and I'm quite old-fashioned.

I like just going in a room with no

distractions, and just talking.

I'm going to visit

the little boys' room.

I was going to say,

I need the toilet as well, actually.

OK, we'll be back in a sec.

He's attractive.

He's fuckable.

She's beautiful.

Once we've sat and had a drink,

we're going to go and sit in the hot

tub.

Single ladies that don't want

the commitment,

they can get what they need

and leave safely.

They socialise, they have a drink,

they get fed,

and then they get pleasure.

Malika has been single since

a ten year long relationship ended.

I was just young and dumb then.

It changed me, lowered my

confidence.

I wouldn't tolerate

behaviour like that from a man now.

Would you like to be loved?

No.

I just don't feel like I have to be

loved

and I need somebody to love me,

and I need somebody to want me.

I'm not seeking that, I don't need

it.

Would you like a boyfriend?

No.

SHE CHUCKLES

I don't want a boyfriend,

I don't want a husband.

What do I want one of those for?

Oooh! Two fluffy towels.

Oooh! Wow! Look at them,

underneath there.

My Valentine's outfit.

Oh, yeah! Lady in red!

67-year-old Siobhan hasn't got lucky

so far, but that doesn't stop

her slipping into something

a little more comfortable.

So you're from Norwich?

Norfolk way, yeah.

Yes, that's where my sisters

live, in Norfolk.

Do you go up sometimes or..?

No, cos we don't talk.

Oh, OK. Fair enough.

They don't understand my lifestyle

or florist by day,

porn star by night. I love that!

Sod it, I'll just jump in at the

deep end.

We've measured it, it's bigger than

a wine bottle.

We've tried a wine bottle. Yeah, I

got the head in.

I'm still working on the rest.

Here she is!

Sorry, I'm Martyn. Hello, Martyn.

Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you, too.

You smell lovely.

Thank you very much.

Mont Blanc.

I shall bear that in mind.

Yeah. Jump in the hot tub?

Jump in the hot tub, I think.

OK, we're going through.

Right.

These two, they're lovely.

Sexy guy.

She's gorgeous.

Who wouldn't?

I thought they'd just go off

together,

but they want me to join them.

That's how it happens, isn't it?

Get a bit friendly.

All innocent, harmless fun.

With a couple of hours to go

until closing, time the playroom

begins to fill.

because nobody wants me I'm being

serious, nobody actually wants me

When we have a bad experience,

it really does

lower my self-esteem,

it makes you think you're not

attractive, or you're not what

they're looking for.

People shouldn't come here

expecting to get action,

because then you just get

disappointed if it doesn't happen.

We can have a little threesome.

What happened with you? Because you

said,

"Oh, my family didn't get me and my

life,"

and then you went from that to...

I was brought up a Catholic...

Right. ..and then - I was a bit

rebellious -

and then I met these Christians

and got really heavily into it,

and you couldn't have sex

outside of marriage.

So you don't go to church

and that any more, then? No.

Basically, I had a load of shit

in my life, from when I was young.

Oh, OK. Yeah.

Have you always liked sex?

No, basically.

I don't think I did like sex until I

was 57.

Being gang-raped

when I was 17 really didn't help.

Got in with the wrong crowd.

There were seven of them.

They would take one of us

into the wood and, basically,

all rape us, one by one.

And then you'd go back,

and then they'd take the next girl

and do the same with her.

Um...

And you could fight and scream

as much as you want, but you're in

a wood, nobody could hear, so there

wasn't a lot you could do with it.

It just screws you up, really.

You learn not to trust men.

You have all those feelings that you

had when it was happening -

anger, fear, pain, all of those -

and they stay with you, you know?

I became a Christian, I joined a

local church,

I didn't have sex for 40 years.

I prayed, you know? "Please, dear

God, help me with this."

And there was nothing.

And I got to the point

when I thought, "I don't even know

"if there's a God and, if there is,

he don't give a shit about me."

Right, just get naked

and get in the hot tub. OK.

Swinging, I have to say, is very

empowering.

Now I am in control of my life,

and swinging is part of that life.

The main thing is being in control

of my sex life.

I know that I can say no to

something, and they accept that.

I can I tell them to fuck off, and

they'll fuck off.

Do you trust men?

Yeah, I do now.

If you didn't trust men,

you wouldn't do it.

But it has to be on my terms.

I am happier than I have ever been,

I'm just slightly disappointed

I had to wait so long

to find the happiness.

This programme contains

strong language, nudity

and sexual content throughout.

Those ladies look nice over there.

Yeah.

At Liberty Elite, there's just

an hour to go before closing time,

and the play room is hotting up.

When you first go onto the scene,

you may decide it isn't for you.

But, for a lot of people, it becomes

a much bigger way of life

than they could imagine.

Without a doubt.

The thing is, I have to sort of be

comfortable that they want me there.

We were just hoping that it might

have made us a bit more confident.

I think I've done well,

wearing what I'm wearing now.

You have, you have.

I don't expect to get any

action tonight.

Sometimes it happens

and sometimes it doesn't, you know?

You can't force these things.

But the important thing is that

you just have fun.

And if you can connect with

people in whatever way, it's good.

Haven't even done a blowjob.

I'm slipping.

SHE MOANS

Do you want to put your head in?

We'll just have a little wander.

Shall we have a look?

See what's going on.

Having spent all night in the bar,

Simon and Carolyn decide to find out

what they're missing.

Shall we go out again? Yeah.

It's too hot already for him.

Would you like a nightcap, dear?

There's probably only one element of

that relationship that would appeal.

I think you saw her

and was like, "Whoa, I like this."

I did. I know, I know.

You're right.

But... But, then not

so much the other side.

Yeah. You shouldn't ever

settle for something

just because you're in an

environment which promotes that.

Having sex with other people doing

the same thing, turned me on.

I don't know about you. Yeah.

It helps that I've got such

an amazingly attractive woman here.

If you say so. I do say so.

OK.

SHE LAUGHS

I believe you.

The thing I like about swinging

as such is, it isn't 100% about sex.

It's slightly more than that.

It's little relationships

all the time.

I think it's rather lovely.

Our marriage would be amazing,

with or without the swinging,

but I do feel there's probably

lots of benefits.

Got your tea? Yeah, I've got my tea.

OK, come here. I'm happy.

It's kind of like the cherry on top

of an already great relationship.

It makes me fall in love again.

It sounds corny, but it really does.

A bit disheartening. Yeah.

I don't think it's put us off,

though.

Oh, no, definitely not.

Once we get a chance

to come to another one,

we're definitely going to go for it.

We're not giving up.

No, we're not giving up, no.

No, we're not giving up.

Come here, then.

WOMAN LAUGHS

Good night?

Yeah. Yeah, it was a good night.

I definitely want to fuck him again.

One night wasn't enough for me.

He was awesome.

And she was also

equally as awesome.

He's cute, isn't he?

HE LAUGHS

Deep down, I would like somebody

to come home to.

I just can't go through another

break-up.

It just hurts too much.

I like to have my fun when there's

no strings, no emotions,

all that crap.

I catch flights,

not feelings.

Does an experience like that put you

off the world of swinging?

No.

Sex... Sex is very important.

If I had it my way,

on my grave stone I would have

"She shagged until the very end."

Good for her.