Second Chance (1950) - full transcript
A bank president and his wife, facing a crisis in their life and both nearing the age of fifty, look back on what has happened to them over the years of their marriage; they were young people who got married in the average way, lived average lives, raised two sons and realize that most of the incidents in their lives were counterpoint to most people---hard times, salary raises, promotions, loss of a son in war, discharge of social and economic obligations---and the effect of such was a gradual drifting-away from their church and a diminishing importance they gave their religion.
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I'll catch the 3:30 plane tomorrow that
ought to get me in st. Louis about five
if you want me I'll be at the Plaza
Hotel em hmm I heard you he'll be at the
plantain for a moment I thought I was
talking to myself don't forget you have
an appointment to see dr. Matthews at
two o'clock tomorrow afternoon oh well I
don't know I don't like that pain you've
been getting in your side probably
nothing
probably but it's much better to be sure
now don't you try to run out on it two
o'clock and dr. Matthews office all
right all right all right
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she's still in there doctor you better
see if she's all right
mrs. Dean Cassie are you alright if I'm
alrighty
shall I call your husband so he can pick
you up
thank you but he's not in town you had
to make a trip to st. Louis I'm just as
glad and away brother tell him this sort
of thing myself
you know our husbands are no I guess you
don't do you shall I call you a taxi I
supposed oh all right but no Eva wait
wait dear I've so much to think about
nice day I I think I'd rather walk that
might be too much exertion I'd better
ask the doctor no no don't bother him
please Eva I've known you ever since you
were gods oh hi haven't I
yeah I have grown up graduate nurse the
thing to other people's troubles I
suppose you heard everything dr.
Matthews said to me didn't you yeah
she's funny thing nobody expects to live
forever your doctor tells you at the end
of the road it's very far ahead could be
any time at all just can't believe it
not one atom of your body belief
well oh you talking about it again I'm
sorry that's all right mrs. Dean I'll be
careful
I should get tired I'll call a cab I
would if I were you
bye bye
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Emily Dean had known these streets for
years without really seeing them
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now well it seems she might never see
them again they were suddenly very dear
to her her eyes clung to every familiar
detail she began to remember things the
small odds of Em's of fifty years of
living
50 years
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there were milepost along the years of
her life pointing like accusing fingers
she had long known they were there but
it had been easier not to see certain
things the things she had left undone
and things she had intended to do but
never quite got around to she and Ed
it didn't seem so long ago that shianet
had walked through this park
hand-in-hand and sat on that same edge
Oh where'd I'm so excited just by this
time tomorrow D poor head perhaps she
had taken him a little too much for
granted these last few years was it so
long ago it didn't seem so and so time
in reaching for eternity paused for a
moment to look back this ring I give
thee this ring I give thee in token and
pledge in token and pledge of our
constant faith of our constant faith and
abiding love and abiding love I now
pronounce the man and wife in the name
of the Father and the Son and the Holy
Ghost amen
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oh and the banks
Oh
it's a wonderful let's keep it this way
always
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he doesn't look too bad for my first
dinner does it
terrific mrs. Dean oh I'm so full of
thanks for everything yeah me too
saying it's just words we have to do
better than that
I think we have to live it every single
day I'm with you in
it's also beautiful
I guess a lot of people have the idea
that about all of minister does is
preach and visit the sick well what else
does he do well I try to visit people
when they're not sick I often find that
people need help and don't know it
take take you too for instance you found
something wonderful together it's not
not just your love or your home
something deeper than that it's a
quality of life we'd like to keep it
cost you it and you can too but it won't
be easy I think there are two or three
things you need to remember one is don't
try to go out alone there are too many
forces at work in the world trying to
tear down your ideals your sense of
values you need the strength that comes
from working in the Fellowship of a
church second remember that there are
three of you and a partnership Edie
Emily and God don't forget to talk to
that third partner regularly last and I
guess if you don't remember anything
else I say today and remember this our
visit will have been worthwhile
if you want to keep that quality of life
you've got to share it you can't just
live for yourselves alone you've got to
work and pray and give not just for
people you know but for people whom you
don't know whom you'll never see that's
one of the functions of the church it
can serve as the medium through which
you express this well this matter of
sharing
we both used to be active in church work
I think I'd like to be again oh I'd like
nothing better than to see you both in
church every Sunday morning we'll find
lots of work for you to do but first why
don't you join the couples club that's a
group of young people young married
people like yourselves they're active
workers in the community trying to make
a better community in a better world for
that matter there's a meeting this uh
this next Friday night can you make it
what yes we'd be glad to wouldn't we it
thanks for coming over this evening
doctor well thank you for letting me
come it's been a real pleasure thanks
for the cookie
I just came home a little early that's
all I washed the windows cleaned all the
woodwork did the shopping had to bake a
cake in the middle of it all for the
church and then I shuffle wait a minute
wait hold everything look I just came
home to tell you something I got a raise
hmm five dollars more a week oh oh I
know it isn't much but it means they
like me down to the bank and maybe
someday I'll even get to be an assistant
cashier or cashier even I'll get a real
raise then what she wrote darling
you think you got a real raise when
you're president okay you bet your life
I will mm-hmm
oh why haven't any time for you get away
from me we got a hurry many many the cup
of club remember oh yeah we've enjoyed
getting to know you mr. Saunders and
thanks for signing the card well see you
in church next Sunday yes indeed mr.
Saunders I'm looking forward to meeting
mrs. Saunders
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oh that's a fine demonstration thank you
very much
I wonder if you people realize what a
great work you're doing calling on new
people and inactive members of the
church you see some of us are called to
the Christian ministry here or as
missionaries but most of us are
laypeople that means our work is right
here another thing as laypeople you have
a great many opportunities that aren't
even open to me for instance there's a
minister I mean the people you live with
and work with if they're going to see
God they're probably going to have to
see him in you you can live so that
Christ has a living witness in you
wherever you are day or night and what
you say and what you do and then what
you are dr. Emory when we talk to these
people how much emphasis should we put
on giving well I'm sure of one thing
giving is essential to Christian growth
giving is essential to life life is more
than just a matter of all intake and no
out goal
otherwise we've become like the Dead Sea
no sir you show me at either a man who
gives a tenth and I'll show you a life
in which the power of God is at work the
person who doesn't give or who gives
grudgingly is almost sure to be
spiritually anemic
this pledge card that's more than just
an ordinary pledge card it's more than a
request for money it's a passport to a
whole new way of life it's a symbol of
dedication to Christ and that kind of
dedication means change lives and change
lives mean a changed community and maybe
even a changed world ah
now about this card well we feel when
you realize how much the church means to
you that you want to become active
members of it give regularly to its
support oh we used to be very active in
church work but just like we've been
terribly busy you have no idea
sure I know how it is but this is
important
oh it isn't that we aren't interested we
are we try to be good Christians but
it's just we thought we were Christians
too we found it it isn't easy outside
the church we need help
oh I'm for the church it's a great
institution the church is a great
institution it's a world institution and
if we don't want to have another war
we've got to think about the whole world
and the people in China and Africa and
India and do something to help them find
a better way to live now by ourselves we
can't do much but through the church we
can do a lot if we all pitch in and help
well I don't know what we can do right
now maybe later on we can help out well
what my husband's trying to say is that
it isn't that the church needs us it's
that we need the church I don't know how
to say this very well but it's made a
big difference to adding me to put
Christ at the center of our lives and
and to be with other people who are
trying to do the same thing we haven't
been married very long we think we've
found something and we want to keep it
we want others to have it too
well anyway we'll let when we see you in
church next Sunday if we possibly can
yes now well about this card
oh let's not decide this tonight Sara
you know how things been this year we'll
talk it over and see what we can do
we'll let you know
sure that'll be fine
well it's been very nice meeting you
good Oh wedding
but in spite of discouragement and and
Emily plunged wholeheartedly into the
life and work of the church
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listen that guy have any morning to talk
to you I could so much about that
neighborhood house tell me what kind of
work do you do down there
oh we serve the people who don't have
any other place to get together some of
the need food and clothing and jobs but
even more than that we try to give them
a new spirit in their lives so they can
do more for themselves oh well that
sounds wonderful mr. Decker
I'd give a lot if I could get you and Ed
to come down and give us a hand one
night a week Oh what could we do we've
never done anything like that oh you can
help with the games and the crap work
lots of things but above everything else
you'll be helping by just being there
really yes you see if they can just feel
that somebody likes them or cares a
little bit about their problems they
need that like all the rest of us I see
with that wonderful yes it is it's
really wonderful what you're doing
I wish ed and I went so binti with a lot
of other things but I don't see how we
could take on anything else just now
maybe later think about it when Emily
we're trying to get Christianity across
to these people but words don't mean
very much to them but they really
understand are things that happen things
that they can see well think about it
really Emily suppose we didn't have a
nice house to give parties in the birth
we had to depend on the neighborhood
house sounds like you've been talking to
Harry Dekker
I suddenly have Lazard to turn him down
I don't see how we could go down there
one night a week way too busy that's
what I told him so don't worry about it
he'll find somebody to help him out yes
I guess so
only Rosie doesn't forget it I wish I
could but I keep thinking about those
people he was talking about we think
we're pretty good Christians but maybe
we need to put it into practice more mr.
Decker says those people don't
understand words just there's things
that happen things they can see Edie and
you know who those people really are no
there are our neighbors
yeah yeah that's right they are
and it would only take one night a week
wouldn't it why don't we try it alright
let's try it okay she and dad had
something in those days something fine
why haven't they been able to keep it
young lady young lady drop you
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Emme away
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did you feel oh you bet I saw it what a
guy
his eyes were open - I got a good look
at him they're gonna be just like yours
yeah but he's got your nose uh he's as
bright as the dollar he's the
best-looking one of the bunch - I looked
at them all that must be it doesn't
happen he's a stand-up anti Richard
Richard do you decide on that what in 19
no Richard
Elwood Dean after my father oh that's
nice
Richard Dean day Dickie Dickie Dean
Dickie diamond that's good innit
do you accept for yourself and for your
son the Covenant of God and there in
consecrate your son to him I do I
and do you promise to instruct him in
the principles of our holy religion as
contained in the scriptures to pray with
him and for him and to bring him up in
the nurture and the admonition of the
Lord
I do I do
Richard Elwood Dean and so after Emily
dedicated a new life and accepted the
responsibility that goes with it but he
was never anything but Dicky - Adam
Emily of course he had become the center
of their lives in fact the center of
everything sound asleep
only time I get any rest are here won't
you sit down
thank you no Emily we're trying to get a
nursery started a day nursery for the
children of working mothers I think
that's a wonderful idea doctor how'd you
like to help you know perhaps one day a
week you can take your own baby with you
it wouldn't be much different from
sitting here oh I'm afraid I have my
hands full right now dr. Emory dick he's
been off his diet the last few weeks and
but since ed took on my work at the bank
I've had a lot of extra entertaining -
June we even had to give up our work at
the neighborhood house yes I know Emily
but this is a way for you to help
yourself when children come so many
mothers narrow their lives down to the
horizon of their homes you are to your
family to keep your personality growing
one way to do that is through service to
others
you and that have something very fine in
your lives Emmeline you must never lose
it no no we don't want to nobody does it
just happens sometimes
I don't know he isn't even paid for yes
Oh give me time honey oh wait I eat all
so many bills doctor bills hospital
bills all the things for the baby and I
had to get some clothes for myself hey
did you have to join the country club
right now well that's business
you want me to be president of the bank
someday don't you all right I've got to
meet the big shots yeah but where you
know we haven't kept up our pledge to
the church either yeah that's right
we'll just have to wait a while I guess
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Emily tried to manage the details of
living but as sometimes happens the
details of living began to manage Emily
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you're robbing my good interest that
belong to your great-grandmother Elwood
until you learn to behave it was a daily
round of the butcher the baker the
candlestick maker
dozens of household frustrations
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hello hello a.m. listen honey I just now
let me tell you something if you ever
leave those shaving materials on that
washed and again but I know I M yes the
plum has been here all day the waters
turned off it I'm going crazy now wait a
minute listen I'm trying to tell you
something I've got to run up to Chicago
this afternoon and testify in a Czech
case why don't you come along come along
how can I come along who's gonna take
care of deke bring deke we can have
dinner there catch a train back in the
morning you know tomorrow's the day that
I'm entertaining those wives of your
bank officials how can I go gallivanting
off to Chicago I've got to clean the
house thoroughly bake a cake it I don't
know what I'm gonna get it all done as
it is all right all right oh I won't be
home for dinner M see you later honey
bye bye take no thought for your life
what you shall eat or what ye shall
drink Oh yet for your body what ye shall
put on is not the life more than food
and the body than raiment your heavenly
Father knoweth that you have need of all
these things therefore seek ye first the
kingdom of God and His righteousness and
all these things shall be added unto you
the Sermon on the Mount
but it had been easier not to listen too
closely to those great words
there was a faraway look in her eyes as
she looked across toward the pond
somewhere she had read that swans sing
when they were going to die
she thought of it now she didn't feel a
bit like singing all she could think of
was a line of a prayer she used to say
when she was a little girl if I should
die before I wake
why should children be taught to say
things like that now I lay me down to
sleep I pray the Lord my soul to keep if
I should die before I wake I pray the
Lord my soul to take
god bless mommy and daddy that's right
and a-one amen
mm-hmm amen that's a good boy to keep Oh
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Emma you alright
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hey say you'd better go see dr. Matthews
in the morning happy right
I'd like to introduce you to a new
brother Jimmy Dickie this is Jimmy and
vice versa we have the most wonderful
family in the whole world
you bet at least it's a nice beginning
Oh Edward Elwood Dean do you expect to
go to church in your pajamas Oh golly
it's almost 10:30 mm-hmm I didn't
realize it was so late you see honey out
well
what about yourself what well I haven't
had time to do anything but get Jimmy
and Dickie off to sunny school and wash
the breakfast dishes I've got to read
these financial pages sometime today
besides I've brought home a lot of work
from the bank Oh ed I think we ought to
go in helmand I know we should honey
we'll make it next Sunday huh but you
that's a promise okay okay but next
Sunday
you know I wouldn't want to say a word
about Judy Morrison that day did you
hear that her husband had left her oh no
I heard he'd been drinking pretty
heavily terrible hmm well just between
us of course I'm not too surprised oh I
feel so sorry for that little girl of
hers she's such a bad mannered child I
do oh oh I really shouldn't Casablanca
you're playin I forgot you were having a
party
you know everyone oh yes of course hello
mrs. Gordon forgive me for breaking in
like this come here you'll excuse me
girls I'm dummy anyway please go right
ahead
well I got it you got what I've just
been made cashier really oh and that's
wonderful I'll play golf for the
officers the bank and you play bridge
with their wives and maybe we'll get
some play oh and guess what what I've
just been asked to join the Garden Club
oh that's fine you go ahead and do it it
won't do us a bit of harm that's what I
thought
things began to look up for Anton Emily
with Ed's promotion they move from the
old house where they had lived when they
were first married to a new house and
what was called the better part of town
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awfully good of you to stop by and give
me a hand at this doctor Emily where's
your Emily I like to do a little
gardening when I have the chance but
your green thumb probably win a prize at
the Garden Club this year nothing ensued
me better unless it would be to get you
to chair a committee for me Oh what kind
of a committee
well the factories have laid the workers
off again some of them have been able to
find jobs others are sick and need our
help
you know clothing medical care proper
food for the children I see there's
going to be a meeting this this next
Tuesday night well got in the city take
care of that sort of thing either the
county leave this to the city or the
county these people need help it's our
Christian responsibility oh yes we
should do something about it shouldn't
we then you'll be there Tuesday Tuesday
well there's something I have to do on
Tuesday I can't just think what is it
oh that's Ed's night at the club that
just don't seem to be enough days
we'll come if we can alright Emily
good to see you again anyway it's always
good to see you dr. Henry you give that
my best I'll do that
how do you need to tell me this table
has been dusted well I thought I dusted
it well it doesn't look it so we're
having guests but dinner tonight and I
want this room absolutely perfect yes
ma'am Sarah what's wrong she just went
upstairs the Sun set
did you see the Sun set is this your cap
young man sure mom
what's it doing hanging over there I'm
sorry you're sorry how do you expect me
to have time to look at sons that's what
I have to pick up after you all over the
house now put it in your room where it
belongs
okay mom no father never gonna pick up
after himself either tons it
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hello yes this is indeed Oh
Farren Teachers Association oh yes well
we'll try to come if we can but but
don't count on us oh no I couldn't
possibly serve on any committee no it's
not that I'm not interested but well
we're just too busy this is the last
straw your father's going to hear this
ed you've got to do something about this
son of yours oh when he's bad he's my
son and when he's good he's yours is
that I warned you not to buy in that
chemistry set
he's almost set fire to the house twice
now he's splattered some blue stuff all
over that wall upstairs me mama and hurt
nursing you should see that didn't hurt
anything you should see that war little
past week it was frogs in the bathtub I
don't care so much what they do what
they just wouldn't do it here in the
house why can't you collect stamps Oh
something civilized like that
Oh get on up there and clean up that
mess go on now and Richard how many
times must I tell you not to put your
feet on the furniture huh
young man I spent my whole time trying
to keep this house looking decent in
case somebody drops in and you you sit
there and you it will you please put out
that smelly pipe
hello dear hiya boy I was Church all
right
what was the sermon about something
about what powerful man if he gain the
whole world and lose lose his own soul
that's right Oh Jimmy do you have to
play the radio on Sunday morning well I
don't mind I don't want to listen to it
go upstairs and play your own video okay
MA
you heard what your mother said doesn't
there I'm going up gentlemen I interrupt
the program to tell you that word has
just come that pearl harbors been bombed
by the Japanese stay tuned to this
station for further details war
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ah you look mighty fine let's see how
they took care of it down there that's
pretty good fit
hey take it easy well I can still take
care of you you know it's a bet next
time I come in take take it easy mom
look it's getting kind of late I have to
get back to the base you know
yes well I'm away I guess right let's go
look I want something here yes sure
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gee dad I don't see why he won't let me
do it Jimmy
there are lots of other jobs besides
that of being a soldier why you're not
even 18 yet but a lot of the guys have
already joined us never mind about a lot
of guys look mom can't you talk to dad
do some James the matter is settled I
want to hear no more about it what is it
in our department
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missing in action
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that doesn't mean it
that just means that he's missing
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how could God do this to us
oh goody Oh Wars are born in the hearts
of men not in the love of God you've got
to try to understand that without
bitterness in times like these we've got
to cling tighter to our faith in God
than ever before because what a personal
disaster of this sort comes it can sweep
us away
we are to blame for the Wars of this
world and because we've tried to settle
our problems and this way we've got to
be prepared to pay the penalty to the
last farthing
Christ came to tell us this but we won't
listen
you've got to put your hand in God's
Emily and walk with him like a little
child if you do that you'll find
strength and remember Jesus said
to him who hath shall be given from him
who hath not shall be taken away
even that which he had
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the wounds of the world were deep they
were spiritual as well as physical there
was need for a renewal of faith and the
healing touch of time what is there for
the heads in the emily's of the world
when the spiritual well runs dry
Emily suspected that something was wrong
she and Ed were drifting apart but she
refused to believe such a thing or that
it could be her fault
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yes
hello-hello em I won't be home for
dinner tonight
yes I've got to fly down to st. Louis
don't suppose you'd like to come along
would you well in the first place have
Garden Club meeting tomorrow and all the
weekend shopping to do not to mention
the fact that the house has to be
cleaned from top to bottom the laundress
ordered the dry cleaning picked up and
when you remember that the car has to be
serviced today then I thought I'd why
don't you stop fussing you'll get
everything done yes I may be gone the
weekend too no you can reach me at the
Plaza Hotel bye
goodbye and where do you think you're
going young man to Hilldale I've been
offered a job over there
Hilary hmm he'll march right back
upstairs a little bit the job you want
your father I'll get you one right here
where I can keep an eye on you that's
just what I'm trying to avoid my hot
don't get upset
it's just that I want to stand on my own
two feet once in the heart I intend to
do it wait this is your home mm-hmm BYE
MOM
you come back here I'm not finished
talking to you
yes life was slipping away from Emily
and Ed years strewn with good intentions
and lost opportunities
what had happened to them they had
started out so beautifully why was it
that things hadn't worked out the way
they had planned
and now Jimmy was gone too
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it's a very undesirable family just
moved in down the block I think they're
foreigners oh Emily so what after all
we have our position to maintain Edie I
do we should take a look at that new
house I've been telling her about by the
way have you heard from Jimmy is he
coming home for Thanksgiving don't try
to change the subject I'm not trying to
change the subject I just want to know
if you've heard from Jim you know
perfectly well I hadn't um there's a
phone
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hello Oh Jimmy well it's about time you
called your mother you want yeah we got
married last week
well we better very suddenly we decided
it was better that way married but Jimmy
you can't do that I haven't even met the
girl what's her name
Irene well Irene who well Irene Dean of
course I'll tell you all about it when I
see you mom
you're gonna love her well you're coming
over tonight oh well we were just going
out look oh no no that that's all right
we'll wait of course
okay
Jimmy married no
I named Irene
well what do you know we don't even know
the girl
so what it'll be alright just wait and
see
hello hello jimmy-boy mother
dad this is I ring how do you do how do
you do
welcome home Irene say Jimmy I admire
your taste May I kiss the bride well I
guess there isn't very much I can say
mrs. Dean except that I love Jimmy very
much I see oh come on mom
breakdown we've just have to make the
best of it I presume
Oh Jimmy uh what I think well your
mother means perhaps is that well she
would have preferred to have a big
church wedding you know with all the
trimmings but that's just what we didn't
want of course it's all right mom
wait'll you get acquainted well let's go
out in the kitchen and make some coffee
come on
give me you your mother doesn't like me
oh sure she does
you just don't know mom yet give her a
chance huh I didn't know she was gonna
be like that come on snap out of it come
on
why did you have to give them the deep
freeze after all he's our son and he
married the girl he loved why do you
have to make it so difficult for them I
don't even know the girl
anything about her family it's just that
you're hurt and jealous that's all well
of course I resent my son being whisked
away from me by that girl listen Emily
whether you know it or not you've grown
very dictatorial these past few years
you drove your son away from home to
begin with and you'll never get him back
if you go on like this
you're so wrapped up in your your home
and yourself you can't see anything
beyond it how dare you talk that way to
me
it's about time somebody told you of
course we expect you and Jimmy to make
your home address you may have the front
bedroom upstairs Oh that'll be fine mom
Oh more coffee for you my dear No thank
you mrs. Dean well Irene we may as well
understand each other from the beginning
there are certain things that I expect
in this household and I must ask you to
comply with whatever I may
well mother I'm afraid it won't do it
for us to stay here what where you do
well I suppose I could drive back and
forth to Hilldale it's only 15 miles but
I think it's better we have our own
place near my job sorry dad so long
Emily remember that first dinner you
cook for us you didn't talk like that in
those days I wonder what's happened to
us
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with terrifying clarity emily was
beginning to see the sort of person she
had become
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we are from the couples Club at the
church dr. emre said you used to be
members of it yes we used to be quite
active but for some reason we just
couldn't seem to find time to keep it up
there so many demands on our time now
you understand but don't you see mrs.
Dean Christianity isn't something that
you keep to yourself it's well you've
got to share it if you want to keep it
as soon as I've heard that somewhere
before a long time ago
it isn't that we're not interested
because we are it's just a bit well but
don't you see it isn't so much that the
church needs us it's that we need the
church how it's meant so much to us
calling on people and getting to know
them in their own homes and really
trying to do something for Christ every
day you see mrs. Dean we think we found
something we want to keep it always
until we want others to have it too I've
heard that somewhere before too
I hope you can keep it perhaps mrs. Dean
you'd like to sign one of these cards oh
well I couldn't sign it just now mr.
Dean and I'll have to talk it over first
all right mrs. Dean it's been very nice
to see you young folk yes thank you for
coming both of you
oh that's all right we'll look for you
Sunday at church
well uh maybe you can bring the card
with you good night good night good
night good night I'll show you to the
door
nice kids like we used to be I hope
nobody tells him what they have to look
forward to maybe he doesn't want to be
just a bank president how long is it
since you've been to church what does
that got to do with it I've always tried
to lead a good Christian life yes your
Christianity isn't you get it out like a
guest towel when somebody comes then you
fold it up and put it away back on the
shelf how can you say those things to me
do you think you are any better yourself
at least I have raised our two children
and taken care of your home I cooked and
cleaned and washed and ironed and
scrubbed and entertained also you could
be president of your little piggy bank
what have you ever done to help nothing
not one thing you've always been too
fiddly
Oh wham what's happened to us
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I'm sorry
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I never meant to die
I never meant to be unfriendly
intolerant
[Music]
all the things she had seen and had
denied through the years were coming
back to her one by one
the tenderness that she had without the
impatience over trivialities
the Sun was setting she remembered the
time when Dicky had wanted to show her
the sunset
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why had she closed her life to all this
why had she closed her life to God
if only she could find him again if only
there were still time
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it would be that bit
[Music]
thank you
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what's the matter
ed what are you doing here hmm Oh who's
a better right
what's the matter and we have a bad
dream
you whippet Alafia sleep last night
thrashed around - I almost had to wake
you no I have to fly down to st. Louis
this afternoon but you went yesterday M
of you slipped a cog I was right here
last night remember the nice young
couple that called on us we've had last
night
but then what day is this Wednesday Oh
yesterday was Wednesday I had an
appointment with dr. Matthew as a 2
o'clock no honey
today is Wednesday then today's the day
I see dr. madness yeah I wouldn't be the
least bit surprised what's the joke oh I
guess I dreamed it went away and I
thought today was Thursday only it isn't
tonight and I still have to see dr. mash
yep
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edie call me this afternoon before you
leave the bank okay
that's why well I I think I know what
dr. Matthews is going to say to me
that's all right
don't forget it
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look em there's nothing wrong with you
with a little exercise and a proper diet
won't take care of that cartograph was
quite unnecessary I suppose you feel
better now you've seen it yes I do
doctor you've got a lot of good years
ahead of you now run along behave
yourself and give my best to it thank
you doctor man thank you I'll do that
goodbye goodbye
hello hello and I'm glad at you yeah
just walked in the front door this
minute I could man who says I'm gonna
live just what I thought well I just
called to say goodbye I'm taking off for
st. Louis in a couple of hours don't
suppose it's much Houston asking if
you'd like to change your mind and come
along oh I've got those curtains to hem
up and the painters coming you remember
how to do the back porch I've been
having trouble with that maid again
she's it wait a minute
Edie and did you ask me to go to st.
Louis with you do you really want me
well I wouldn't ask you if I didn't mean
it
we haven't been anywhere together for a
long time have we yet why am what's come
over you
we'll take a car drive down make a
weekend of it oh that would be wonderful
we've got so much to talk about so much
Edie and could we well there I'd like to
stop and see Irene and Jimmy and the
baby yeah that's on the way could we
on Edie
I'd let the plan to be back Sunday
morning I've got an appointment I'd like
to keep alright honey
we will
thank you
thank you
for a second chance
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you
I'll catch the 3:30 plane tomorrow that
ought to get me in st. Louis about five
if you want me I'll be at the Plaza
Hotel em hmm I heard you he'll be at the
plantain for a moment I thought I was
talking to myself don't forget you have
an appointment to see dr. Matthews at
two o'clock tomorrow afternoon oh well I
don't know I don't like that pain you've
been getting in your side probably
nothing
probably but it's much better to be sure
now don't you try to run out on it two
o'clock and dr. Matthews office all
right all right all right
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she's still in there doctor you better
see if she's all right
mrs. Dean Cassie are you alright if I'm
alrighty
shall I call your husband so he can pick
you up
thank you but he's not in town you had
to make a trip to st. Louis I'm just as
glad and away brother tell him this sort
of thing myself
you know our husbands are no I guess you
don't do you shall I call you a taxi I
supposed oh all right but no Eva wait
wait dear I've so much to think about
nice day I I think I'd rather walk that
might be too much exertion I'd better
ask the doctor no no don't bother him
please Eva I've known you ever since you
were gods oh hi haven't I
yeah I have grown up graduate nurse the
thing to other people's troubles I
suppose you heard everything dr.
Matthews said to me didn't you yeah
she's funny thing nobody expects to live
forever your doctor tells you at the end
of the road it's very far ahead could be
any time at all just can't believe it
not one atom of your body belief
well oh you talking about it again I'm
sorry that's all right mrs. Dean I'll be
careful
I should get tired I'll call a cab I
would if I were you
bye bye
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Emily Dean had known these streets for
years without really seeing them
[Music]
now well it seems she might never see
them again they were suddenly very dear
to her her eyes clung to every familiar
detail she began to remember things the
small odds of Em's of fifty years of
living
50 years
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there were milepost along the years of
her life pointing like accusing fingers
she had long known they were there but
it had been easier not to see certain
things the things she had left undone
and things she had intended to do but
never quite got around to she and Ed
it didn't seem so long ago that shianet
had walked through this park
hand-in-hand and sat on that same edge
Oh where'd I'm so excited just by this
time tomorrow D poor head perhaps she
had taken him a little too much for
granted these last few years was it so
long ago it didn't seem so and so time
in reaching for eternity paused for a
moment to look back this ring I give
thee this ring I give thee in token and
pledge in token and pledge of our
constant faith of our constant faith and
abiding love and abiding love I now
pronounce the man and wife in the name
of the Father and the Son and the Holy
Ghost amen
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oh and the banks
Oh
it's a wonderful let's keep it this way
always
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he doesn't look too bad for my first
dinner does it
terrific mrs. Dean oh I'm so full of
thanks for everything yeah me too
saying it's just words we have to do
better than that
I think we have to live it every single
day I'm with you in
it's also beautiful
I guess a lot of people have the idea
that about all of minister does is
preach and visit the sick well what else
does he do well I try to visit people
when they're not sick I often find that
people need help and don't know it
take take you too for instance you found
something wonderful together it's not
not just your love or your home
something deeper than that it's a
quality of life we'd like to keep it
cost you it and you can too but it won't
be easy I think there are two or three
things you need to remember one is don't
try to go out alone there are too many
forces at work in the world trying to
tear down your ideals your sense of
values you need the strength that comes
from working in the Fellowship of a
church second remember that there are
three of you and a partnership Edie
Emily and God don't forget to talk to
that third partner regularly last and I
guess if you don't remember anything
else I say today and remember this our
visit will have been worthwhile
if you want to keep that quality of life
you've got to share it you can't just
live for yourselves alone you've got to
work and pray and give not just for
people you know but for people whom you
don't know whom you'll never see that's
one of the functions of the church it
can serve as the medium through which
you express this well this matter of
sharing
we both used to be active in church work
I think I'd like to be again oh I'd like
nothing better than to see you both in
church every Sunday morning we'll find
lots of work for you to do but first why
don't you join the couples club that's a
group of young people young married
people like yourselves they're active
workers in the community trying to make
a better community in a better world for
that matter there's a meeting this uh
this next Friday night can you make it
what yes we'd be glad to wouldn't we it
thanks for coming over this evening
doctor well thank you for letting me
come it's been a real pleasure thanks
for the cookie
I just came home a little early that's
all I washed the windows cleaned all the
woodwork did the shopping had to bake a
cake in the middle of it all for the
church and then I shuffle wait a minute
wait hold everything look I just came
home to tell you something I got a raise
hmm five dollars more a week oh oh I
know it isn't much but it means they
like me down to the bank and maybe
someday I'll even get to be an assistant
cashier or cashier even I'll get a real
raise then what she wrote darling
you think you got a real raise when
you're president okay you bet your life
I will mm-hmm
oh why haven't any time for you get away
from me we got a hurry many many the cup
of club remember oh yeah we've enjoyed
getting to know you mr. Saunders and
thanks for signing the card well see you
in church next Sunday yes indeed mr.
Saunders I'm looking forward to meeting
mrs. Saunders
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oh that's a fine demonstration thank you
very much
I wonder if you people realize what a
great work you're doing calling on new
people and inactive members of the
church you see some of us are called to
the Christian ministry here or as
missionaries but most of us are
laypeople that means our work is right
here another thing as laypeople you have
a great many opportunities that aren't
even open to me for instance there's a
minister I mean the people you live with
and work with if they're going to see
God they're probably going to have to
see him in you you can live so that
Christ has a living witness in you
wherever you are day or night and what
you say and what you do and then what
you are dr. Emory when we talk to these
people how much emphasis should we put
on giving well I'm sure of one thing
giving is essential to Christian growth
giving is essential to life life is more
than just a matter of all intake and no
out goal
otherwise we've become like the Dead Sea
no sir you show me at either a man who
gives a tenth and I'll show you a life
in which the power of God is at work the
person who doesn't give or who gives
grudgingly is almost sure to be
spiritually anemic
this pledge card that's more than just
an ordinary pledge card it's more than a
request for money it's a passport to a
whole new way of life it's a symbol of
dedication to Christ and that kind of
dedication means change lives and change
lives mean a changed community and maybe
even a changed world ah
now about this card well we feel when
you realize how much the church means to
you that you want to become active
members of it give regularly to its
support oh we used to be very active in
church work but just like we've been
terribly busy you have no idea
sure I know how it is but this is
important
oh it isn't that we aren't interested we
are we try to be good Christians but
it's just we thought we were Christians
too we found it it isn't easy outside
the church we need help
oh I'm for the church it's a great
institution the church is a great
institution it's a world institution and
if we don't want to have another war
we've got to think about the whole world
and the people in China and Africa and
India and do something to help them find
a better way to live now by ourselves we
can't do much but through the church we
can do a lot if we all pitch in and help
well I don't know what we can do right
now maybe later on we can help out well
what my husband's trying to say is that
it isn't that the church needs us it's
that we need the church I don't know how
to say this very well but it's made a
big difference to adding me to put
Christ at the center of our lives and
and to be with other people who are
trying to do the same thing we haven't
been married very long we think we've
found something and we want to keep it
we want others to have it too
well anyway we'll let when we see you in
church next Sunday if we possibly can
yes now well about this card
oh let's not decide this tonight Sara
you know how things been this year we'll
talk it over and see what we can do
we'll let you know
sure that'll be fine
well it's been very nice meeting you
good Oh wedding
but in spite of discouragement and and
Emily plunged wholeheartedly into the
life and work of the church
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listen that guy have any morning to talk
to you I could so much about that
neighborhood house tell me what kind of
work do you do down there
oh we serve the people who don't have
any other place to get together some of
the need food and clothing and jobs but
even more than that we try to give them
a new spirit in their lives so they can
do more for themselves oh well that
sounds wonderful mr. Decker
I'd give a lot if I could get you and Ed
to come down and give us a hand one
night a week Oh what could we do we've
never done anything like that oh you can
help with the games and the crap work
lots of things but above everything else
you'll be helping by just being there
really yes you see if they can just feel
that somebody likes them or cares a
little bit about their problems they
need that like all the rest of us I see
with that wonderful yes it is it's
really wonderful what you're doing
I wish ed and I went so binti with a lot
of other things but I don't see how we
could take on anything else just now
maybe later think about it when Emily
we're trying to get Christianity across
to these people but words don't mean
very much to them but they really
understand are things that happen things
that they can see well think about it
really Emily suppose we didn't have a
nice house to give parties in the birth
we had to depend on the neighborhood
house sounds like you've been talking to
Harry Dekker
I suddenly have Lazard to turn him down
I don't see how we could go down there
one night a week way too busy that's
what I told him so don't worry about it
he'll find somebody to help him out yes
I guess so
only Rosie doesn't forget it I wish I
could but I keep thinking about those
people he was talking about we think
we're pretty good Christians but maybe
we need to put it into practice more mr.
Decker says those people don't
understand words just there's things
that happen things they can see Edie and
you know who those people really are no
there are our neighbors
yeah yeah that's right they are
and it would only take one night a week
wouldn't it why don't we try it alright
let's try it okay she and dad had
something in those days something fine
why haven't they been able to keep it
young lady young lady drop you
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Emme away
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did you feel oh you bet I saw it what a
guy
his eyes were open - I got a good look
at him they're gonna be just like yours
yeah but he's got your nose uh he's as
bright as the dollar he's the
best-looking one of the bunch - I looked
at them all that must be it doesn't
happen he's a stand-up anti Richard
Richard do you decide on that what in 19
no Richard
Elwood Dean after my father oh that's
nice
Richard Dean day Dickie Dickie Dean
Dickie diamond that's good innit
do you accept for yourself and for your
son the Covenant of God and there in
consecrate your son to him I do I
and do you promise to instruct him in
the principles of our holy religion as
contained in the scriptures to pray with
him and for him and to bring him up in
the nurture and the admonition of the
Lord
I do I do
Richard Elwood Dean and so after Emily
dedicated a new life and accepted the
responsibility that goes with it but he
was never anything but Dicky - Adam
Emily of course he had become the center
of their lives in fact the center of
everything sound asleep
only time I get any rest are here won't
you sit down
thank you no Emily we're trying to get a
nursery started a day nursery for the
children of working mothers I think
that's a wonderful idea doctor how'd you
like to help you know perhaps one day a
week you can take your own baby with you
it wouldn't be much different from
sitting here oh I'm afraid I have my
hands full right now dr. Emory dick he's
been off his diet the last few weeks and
but since ed took on my work at the bank
I've had a lot of extra entertaining -
June we even had to give up our work at
the neighborhood house yes I know Emily
but this is a way for you to help
yourself when children come so many
mothers narrow their lives down to the
horizon of their homes you are to your
family to keep your personality growing
one way to do that is through service to
others
you and that have something very fine in
your lives Emmeline you must never lose
it no no we don't want to nobody does it
just happens sometimes
I don't know he isn't even paid for yes
Oh give me time honey oh wait I eat all
so many bills doctor bills hospital
bills all the things for the baby and I
had to get some clothes for myself hey
did you have to join the country club
right now well that's business
you want me to be president of the bank
someday don't you all right I've got to
meet the big shots yeah but where you
know we haven't kept up our pledge to
the church either yeah that's right
we'll just have to wait a while I guess
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Emily tried to manage the details of
living but as sometimes happens the
details of living began to manage Emily
[Music]
you're robbing my good interest that
belong to your great-grandmother Elwood
until you learn to behave it was a daily
round of the butcher the baker the
candlestick maker
dozens of household frustrations
[Music]
hello hello a.m. listen honey I just now
let me tell you something if you ever
leave those shaving materials on that
washed and again but I know I M yes the
plum has been here all day the waters
turned off it I'm going crazy now wait a
minute listen I'm trying to tell you
something I've got to run up to Chicago
this afternoon and testify in a Czech
case why don't you come along come along
how can I come along who's gonna take
care of deke bring deke we can have
dinner there catch a train back in the
morning you know tomorrow's the day that
I'm entertaining those wives of your
bank officials how can I go gallivanting
off to Chicago I've got to clean the
house thoroughly bake a cake it I don't
know what I'm gonna get it all done as
it is all right all right oh I won't be
home for dinner M see you later honey
bye bye take no thought for your life
what you shall eat or what ye shall
drink Oh yet for your body what ye shall
put on is not the life more than food
and the body than raiment your heavenly
Father knoweth that you have need of all
these things therefore seek ye first the
kingdom of God and His righteousness and
all these things shall be added unto you
the Sermon on the Mount
but it had been easier not to listen too
closely to those great words
there was a faraway look in her eyes as
she looked across toward the pond
somewhere she had read that swans sing
when they were going to die
she thought of it now she didn't feel a
bit like singing all she could think of
was a line of a prayer she used to say
when she was a little girl if I should
die before I wake
why should children be taught to say
things like that now I lay me down to
sleep I pray the Lord my soul to keep if
I should die before I wake I pray the
Lord my soul to take
god bless mommy and daddy that's right
and a-one amen
mm-hmm amen that's a good boy to keep Oh
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Emma you alright
[Music]
hey say you'd better go see dr. Matthews
in the morning happy right
I'd like to introduce you to a new
brother Jimmy Dickie this is Jimmy and
vice versa we have the most wonderful
family in the whole world
you bet at least it's a nice beginning
Oh Edward Elwood Dean do you expect to
go to church in your pajamas Oh golly
it's almost 10:30 mm-hmm I didn't
realize it was so late you see honey out
well
what about yourself what well I haven't
had time to do anything but get Jimmy
and Dickie off to sunny school and wash
the breakfast dishes I've got to read
these financial pages sometime today
besides I've brought home a lot of work
from the bank Oh ed I think we ought to
go in helmand I know we should honey
we'll make it next Sunday huh but you
that's a promise okay okay but next
Sunday
you know I wouldn't want to say a word
about Judy Morrison that day did you
hear that her husband had left her oh no
I heard he'd been drinking pretty
heavily terrible hmm well just between
us of course I'm not too surprised oh I
feel so sorry for that little girl of
hers she's such a bad mannered child I
do oh oh I really shouldn't Casablanca
you're playin I forgot you were having a
party
you know everyone oh yes of course hello
mrs. Gordon forgive me for breaking in
like this come here you'll excuse me
girls I'm dummy anyway please go right
ahead
well I got it you got what I've just
been made cashier really oh and that's
wonderful I'll play golf for the
officers the bank and you play bridge
with their wives and maybe we'll get
some play oh and guess what what I've
just been asked to join the Garden Club
oh that's fine you go ahead and do it it
won't do us a bit of harm that's what I
thought
things began to look up for Anton Emily
with Ed's promotion they move from the
old house where they had lived when they
were first married to a new house and
what was called the better part of town
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awfully good of you to stop by and give
me a hand at this doctor Emily where's
your Emily I like to do a little
gardening when I have the chance but
your green thumb probably win a prize at
the Garden Club this year nothing ensued
me better unless it would be to get you
to chair a committee for me Oh what kind
of a committee
well the factories have laid the workers
off again some of them have been able to
find jobs others are sick and need our
help
you know clothing medical care proper
food for the children I see there's
going to be a meeting this this next
Tuesday night well got in the city take
care of that sort of thing either the
county leave this to the city or the
county these people need help it's our
Christian responsibility oh yes we
should do something about it shouldn't
we then you'll be there Tuesday Tuesday
well there's something I have to do on
Tuesday I can't just think what is it
oh that's Ed's night at the club that
just don't seem to be enough days
we'll come if we can alright Emily
good to see you again anyway it's always
good to see you dr. Henry you give that
my best I'll do that
how do you need to tell me this table
has been dusted well I thought I dusted
it well it doesn't look it so we're
having guests but dinner tonight and I
want this room absolutely perfect yes
ma'am Sarah what's wrong she just went
upstairs the Sun set
did you see the Sun set is this your cap
young man sure mom
what's it doing hanging over there I'm
sorry you're sorry how do you expect me
to have time to look at sons that's what
I have to pick up after you all over the
house now put it in your room where it
belongs
okay mom no father never gonna pick up
after himself either tons it
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hello yes this is indeed Oh
Farren Teachers Association oh yes well
we'll try to come if we can but but
don't count on us oh no I couldn't
possibly serve on any committee no it's
not that I'm not interested but well
we're just too busy this is the last
straw your father's going to hear this
ed you've got to do something about this
son of yours oh when he's bad he's my
son and when he's good he's yours is
that I warned you not to buy in that
chemistry set
he's almost set fire to the house twice
now he's splattered some blue stuff all
over that wall upstairs me mama and hurt
nursing you should see that didn't hurt
anything you should see that war little
past week it was frogs in the bathtub I
don't care so much what they do what
they just wouldn't do it here in the
house why can't you collect stamps Oh
something civilized like that
Oh get on up there and clean up that
mess go on now and Richard how many
times must I tell you not to put your
feet on the furniture huh
young man I spent my whole time trying
to keep this house looking decent in
case somebody drops in and you you sit
there and you it will you please put out
that smelly pipe
hello dear hiya boy I was Church all
right
what was the sermon about something
about what powerful man if he gain the
whole world and lose lose his own soul
that's right Oh Jimmy do you have to
play the radio on Sunday morning well I
don't mind I don't want to listen to it
go upstairs and play your own video okay
MA
you heard what your mother said doesn't
there I'm going up gentlemen I interrupt
the program to tell you that word has
just come that pearl harbors been bombed
by the Japanese stay tuned to this
station for further details war
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ah you look mighty fine let's see how
they took care of it down there that's
pretty good fit
hey take it easy well I can still take
care of you you know it's a bet next
time I come in take take it easy mom
look it's getting kind of late I have to
get back to the base you know
yes well I'm away I guess right let's go
look I want something here yes sure
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gee dad I don't see why he won't let me
do it Jimmy
there are lots of other jobs besides
that of being a soldier why you're not
even 18 yet but a lot of the guys have
already joined us never mind about a lot
of guys look mom can't you talk to dad
do some James the matter is settled I
want to hear no more about it what is it
in our department
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missing in action
[Music]
that doesn't mean it
that just means that he's missing
[Music]
how could God do this to us
oh goody Oh Wars are born in the hearts
of men not in the love of God you've got
to try to understand that without
bitterness in times like these we've got
to cling tighter to our faith in God
than ever before because what a personal
disaster of this sort comes it can sweep
us away
we are to blame for the Wars of this
world and because we've tried to settle
our problems and this way we've got to
be prepared to pay the penalty to the
last farthing
Christ came to tell us this but we won't
listen
you've got to put your hand in God's
Emily and walk with him like a little
child if you do that you'll find
strength and remember Jesus said
to him who hath shall be given from him
who hath not shall be taken away
even that which he had
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the wounds of the world were deep they
were spiritual as well as physical there
was need for a renewal of faith and the
healing touch of time what is there for
the heads in the emily's of the world
when the spiritual well runs dry
Emily suspected that something was wrong
she and Ed were drifting apart but she
refused to believe such a thing or that
it could be her fault
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yes
hello-hello em I won't be home for
dinner tonight
yes I've got to fly down to st. Louis
don't suppose you'd like to come along
would you well in the first place have
Garden Club meeting tomorrow and all the
weekend shopping to do not to mention
the fact that the house has to be
cleaned from top to bottom the laundress
ordered the dry cleaning picked up and
when you remember that the car has to be
serviced today then I thought I'd why
don't you stop fussing you'll get
everything done yes I may be gone the
weekend too no you can reach me at the
Plaza Hotel bye
goodbye and where do you think you're
going young man to Hilldale I've been
offered a job over there
Hilary hmm he'll march right back
upstairs a little bit the job you want
your father I'll get you one right here
where I can keep an eye on you that's
just what I'm trying to avoid my hot
don't get upset
it's just that I want to stand on my own
two feet once in the heart I intend to
do it wait this is your home mm-hmm BYE
MOM
you come back here I'm not finished
talking to you
yes life was slipping away from Emily
and Ed years strewn with good intentions
and lost opportunities
what had happened to them they had
started out so beautifully why was it
that things hadn't worked out the way
they had planned
and now Jimmy was gone too
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it's a very undesirable family just
moved in down the block I think they're
foreigners oh Emily so what after all
we have our position to maintain Edie I
do we should take a look at that new
house I've been telling her about by the
way have you heard from Jimmy is he
coming home for Thanksgiving don't try
to change the subject I'm not trying to
change the subject I just want to know
if you've heard from Jim you know
perfectly well I hadn't um there's a
phone
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hello Oh Jimmy well it's about time you
called your mother you want yeah we got
married last week
well we better very suddenly we decided
it was better that way married but Jimmy
you can't do that I haven't even met the
girl what's her name
Irene well Irene who well Irene Dean of
course I'll tell you all about it when I
see you mom
you're gonna love her well you're coming
over tonight oh well we were just going
out look oh no no that that's all right
we'll wait of course
okay
Jimmy married no
I named Irene
well what do you know we don't even know
the girl
so what it'll be alright just wait and
see
hello hello jimmy-boy mother
dad this is I ring how do you do how do
you do
welcome home Irene say Jimmy I admire
your taste May I kiss the bride well I
guess there isn't very much I can say
mrs. Dean except that I love Jimmy very
much I see oh come on mom
breakdown we've just have to make the
best of it I presume
Oh Jimmy uh what I think well your
mother means perhaps is that well she
would have preferred to have a big
church wedding you know with all the
trimmings but that's just what we didn't
want of course it's all right mom
wait'll you get acquainted well let's go
out in the kitchen and make some coffee
come on
give me you your mother doesn't like me
oh sure she does
you just don't know mom yet give her a
chance huh I didn't know she was gonna
be like that come on snap out of it come
on
why did you have to give them the deep
freeze after all he's our son and he
married the girl he loved why do you
have to make it so difficult for them I
don't even know the girl
anything about her family it's just that
you're hurt and jealous that's all well
of course I resent my son being whisked
away from me by that girl listen Emily
whether you know it or not you've grown
very dictatorial these past few years
you drove your son away from home to
begin with and you'll never get him back
if you go on like this
you're so wrapped up in your your home
and yourself you can't see anything
beyond it how dare you talk that way to
me
it's about time somebody told you of
course we expect you and Jimmy to make
your home address you may have the front
bedroom upstairs Oh that'll be fine mom
Oh more coffee for you my dear No thank
you mrs. Dean well Irene we may as well
understand each other from the beginning
there are certain things that I expect
in this household and I must ask you to
comply with whatever I may
well mother I'm afraid it won't do it
for us to stay here what where you do
well I suppose I could drive back and
forth to Hilldale it's only 15 miles but
I think it's better we have our own
place near my job sorry dad so long
Emily remember that first dinner you
cook for us you didn't talk like that in
those days I wonder what's happened to
us
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with terrifying clarity emily was
beginning to see the sort of person she
had become
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we are from the couples Club at the
church dr. emre said you used to be
members of it yes we used to be quite
active but for some reason we just
couldn't seem to find time to keep it up
there so many demands on our time now
you understand but don't you see mrs.
Dean Christianity isn't something that
you keep to yourself it's well you've
got to share it if you want to keep it
as soon as I've heard that somewhere
before a long time ago
it isn't that we're not interested
because we are it's just a bit well but
don't you see it isn't so much that the
church needs us it's that we need the
church how it's meant so much to us
calling on people and getting to know
them in their own homes and really
trying to do something for Christ every
day you see mrs. Dean we think we found
something we want to keep it always
until we want others to have it too I've
heard that somewhere before too
I hope you can keep it perhaps mrs. Dean
you'd like to sign one of these cards oh
well I couldn't sign it just now mr.
Dean and I'll have to talk it over first
all right mrs. Dean it's been very nice
to see you young folk yes thank you for
coming both of you
oh that's all right we'll look for you
Sunday at church
well uh maybe you can bring the card
with you good night good night good
night good night I'll show you to the
door
nice kids like we used to be I hope
nobody tells him what they have to look
forward to maybe he doesn't want to be
just a bank president how long is it
since you've been to church what does
that got to do with it I've always tried
to lead a good Christian life yes your
Christianity isn't you get it out like a
guest towel when somebody comes then you
fold it up and put it away back on the
shelf how can you say those things to me
do you think you are any better yourself
at least I have raised our two children
and taken care of your home I cooked and
cleaned and washed and ironed and
scrubbed and entertained also you could
be president of your little piggy bank
what have you ever done to help nothing
not one thing you've always been too
fiddly
Oh wham what's happened to us
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I'm sorry
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I never meant to die
I never meant to be unfriendly
intolerant
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all the things she had seen and had
denied through the years were coming
back to her one by one
the tenderness that she had without the
impatience over trivialities
the Sun was setting she remembered the
time when Dicky had wanted to show her
the sunset
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why had she closed her life to all this
why had she closed her life to God
if only she could find him again if only
there were still time
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it would be that bit
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thank you
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what's the matter
ed what are you doing here hmm Oh who's
a better right
what's the matter and we have a bad
dream
you whippet Alafia sleep last night
thrashed around - I almost had to wake
you no I have to fly down to st. Louis
this afternoon but you went yesterday M
of you slipped a cog I was right here
last night remember the nice young
couple that called on us we've had last
night
but then what day is this Wednesday Oh
yesterday was Wednesday I had an
appointment with dr. Matthew as a 2
o'clock no honey
today is Wednesday then today's the day
I see dr. madness yeah I wouldn't be the
least bit surprised what's the joke oh I
guess I dreamed it went away and I
thought today was Thursday only it isn't
tonight and I still have to see dr. mash
yep
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edie call me this afternoon before you
leave the bank okay
that's why well I I think I know what
dr. Matthews is going to say to me
that's all right
don't forget it
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look em there's nothing wrong with you
with a little exercise and a proper diet
won't take care of that cartograph was
quite unnecessary I suppose you feel
better now you've seen it yes I do
doctor you've got a lot of good years
ahead of you now run along behave
yourself and give my best to it thank
you doctor man thank you I'll do that
goodbye goodbye
hello hello and I'm glad at you yeah
just walked in the front door this
minute I could man who says I'm gonna
live just what I thought well I just
called to say goodbye I'm taking off for
st. Louis in a couple of hours don't
suppose it's much Houston asking if
you'd like to change your mind and come
along oh I've got those curtains to hem
up and the painters coming you remember
how to do the back porch I've been
having trouble with that maid again
she's it wait a minute
Edie and did you ask me to go to st.
Louis with you do you really want me
well I wouldn't ask you if I didn't mean
it
we haven't been anywhere together for a
long time have we yet why am what's come
over you
we'll take a car drive down make a
weekend of it oh that would be wonderful
we've got so much to talk about so much
Edie and could we well there I'd like to
stop and see Irene and Jimmy and the
baby yeah that's on the way could we
on Edie
I'd let the plan to be back Sunday
morning I've got an appointment I'd like
to keep alright honey
we will
thank you
thank you
for a second chance
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you