Ordinary People (1980) - full transcript
Beth, Calvin, and their son Conrad are living in the aftermath of the death of the other son. Conrad is overcome by grief and misplaced guilt to the extent of a suicide attempt. He is in therapy. Beth had always preferred his brother and is having difficulty being supportive to Conrad. Calvin is trapped between the two trying to hold the family together.
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♪ in the silence of our souls ♪
♪ o lord,
we contemplate thy peace ♪
♪ free from all
the world's desires ♪
♪ free of fear
and all anxiety ♪
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ sing alleluia
We've made love 113 times.
I figured it out
on my bowmar calculator.
To know someone
that well is wonderful.
Two lumps?
No, one.
I don't know
your favorite actors.
I can't remember
the name of your
favorite perfume.
That's funny.
It's "my sin."
In the last 24 years,
I've always loved you.
Well, did we like it?
Ben walsh was wonderful.
It was funny.
It was a comedy, wasn't it?
Clyde banner's getting fat.
He should never turn profile.
Most of us
shouldn't
turn profile.
What were you thinking about?
When?
[car alarm on]
[car alarm off]
Yeah?
You o.K.?
Yeah.
Trouble sleeping?
No.
You're sure?
Mm-hmm.
Burning the midnight oil?
Yeah.
O.K.
Have you
thought about
calling that doctor?
No.
The month's up.
What about the plan?
That was if I needed him.
Yeah, o.K. Don't
worry about it.
Get some sleep.
I'll get those
michigan state
tickets.
O.K.
Did you call the warrens?
Look at this.
Everybody I grew up with
Is in the paper these days.
"joey georgella,
new football coach
for trinity."
What about those
michigan state tickets?
Jane's checking with john.
Where's conrad?
This will get cold.
Con!
Drop my suits at the cleaners?
They won't be back Saturday.
That's o.K.
Connie!
Conrad!
Be right there!
Here he is.
Morning.
Good morning.
Did you sleep?
Yeah.
Hungry?
Uh... Hungry.
It's french toast.
It's your favorite.
Yeah.
I'm not really hungry.
Breakfast, pal. Remember?
Main meal, energy.
So you're not hungry.
Hang on. He'll eat.
Con, it's french toast.
There's fresh fruit later.
What are you doing?
You can't save french toast.
I've got to run.
Will you call mr. Herman
about the shutters?
You have to charm him.
Did you charm him?
You have to eat, con.
You must get stronger.
Dad, I'm not hungry.
Are you o.K.?
Yeah.
I got to go.
Lazenby's picking me up.
Oh, is he? Great.
Why is it great?
Well, I don't see
the old gang much anymore.
I miss them.
Bring them around...
Phil, don, and dick.
We'll play some touch football.
See you later.
Con!
[horn honks]
It's called flake.
Come on.
We're late.
Let's go!
Jarrett, come on!
We're late
'cause dickie's mom
was packing his lunch.
I studied
all night for
this poly sci exam.
That guy wants a damn
personal analysis of it all.
How can you understand that?
You read it.
Yeah. Right!
We swim.
When can we study?
I swim and I study.
What you reading?
Hardy.
You should try meditation.
That's just like thinking.
Have you
got all junior
classes this year?
Didn't they
pass you on anything?
They don't
pass you
on breathing
Without taking the final.
Hey, quit with that radio.
I'm trying to study.
Hope it's a long train.
I'm going to flunk.
We're going to be late.
Does my hair look like shit?
Yeah.
Thanks.
Hey, hey, hey!
Hey, there's pratt.
Let me out.
No dirty stuff.
Pratt, you have nice knees!
Hey, interested in
something, jarrett?
Hey, cleary!
Hey, cleary!
Let's discuss theory.
Conrad, what's your
theory on jude fawley?
Conrad?
What's your theory
on jude fawley?
Was he powerless in
the grip of circumstances,
Or could he
have helped himself?
I don't... Powerless?
He thought he was.
He was a jerk.
He was hung up on morals.
It was senseless.
That's too easy, joel.
Paul?
I found the book
hard to follow.
Come on!
[telephone rings]
Hello.
Hello.
Dr. Berger?
Yes?
Hi. This
is conrad jarrett.
Who?
Conrad jarrett.
Dr. Crawford
at hillsboro hospital
gave me your number.
I'm with a patient now.
Can you
call back at 2:15?
I don't think I'll be free.
Give me your number.
I'll call you tonight.
Hello?
Hello?
I'll call you back.
Thanks.
Go!
Come on.
Move it, you guys!
Keep it going!
Keep plugging!
Use those legs!
Lazenby, get with it!
Jarrett, head down!
Work it!
Come on, now!
Push off!
Get your head down, jarrett!
Come on!
Keep it going!
Dig in there!
Come on!
Push off, jarrett!
Push off!
Is he actually
inclined to lose?
Well, regionally.
It's too bad.
I mean...
It's tragic, really.
Look at him now.
He's lost everything.
Fish too dry?
It's not too dry.
C&s has a new mechanic.
What happened to harry?
I think he moved to skokie.
This new mechanic
is so awkward.
Is that shirt ripped?
Leave it on the table
in the hallway.
Wasn't that girl
in the hospital from skokie?
What was her name?
Karen.
Will you play round robin
at the club?
I haven't played in a year.
Well, isn't it time to start?
We're going
to clark murray's
birthday party Saturday.
I bought him that book on wine.
Not the murrays.
The rope, bucky!
We're going in!
Give me your hand!
Bucky!
Bucky.
Bucky.
Hi.
How are you?
Oh, I'm fine.
Couldn't be better.
Terrific. Yeah.
Come in.
They all do that.
Jarrett.
Come in.
Sit down.
I just have to...
Wire some...
Volume.
[music blares]
Sorry. Sit down.
You have trouble
finding the place?
Not yet.
[telephone rings]
Uh... Jarrett.
How long since
you've been out
of the hospital?
A month and a half.
Feeling depressed?
No.
On stage?
Pardon me?
People nervous,
Treating you
like you're a
dangerous character?
Yeah, I guess a little.
Are you?
I don't know.
How long were you
in the hospital?
Four months.
What did you do?
I tried to off myself.
It doesn't
say what
your method was.
Double-edged
super blue.
Oh.
Is everybody glad
to see you home?
Yeah.
Friends?
Yeah.
You're back in school.
Everything o.K.
There? Teachers?
Yeah.
No problems?
Uh-uh.
So why are you here?
Uh...
I'd like to be more in control.
Why?
So people can quit
worrying about me.
Who's worried about you?
My father mostly.
This is his idea.
And your mother?
Isn't she worried, too?
I don't know.
Look, I'll be
straight with you.
I don't like this already.
As long as you're straight.
Have you talked to crawford?
Yes. He called me.
He told me to look for you.
He said you had
a brother who died.
Boating accident, wasn't it?
Want to tell me about it?
You talked
this over with
crawford, right?
Right.
How did that go?
It didn't change anything.
What needed changing?
I'd like to be more in control.
Why?
So people can
quit worrying about me.
Well, I'll tell you something.
I'll be straight
with you, o.K.?
I'm not big on control.
But it's your money.
So to speak.
So to speak.
O.K.
How's tuesdays...
And fridays, same time?
Twice a week?
Well, control's a tough nut.
I've got
swim practice
every night.
Well, that's a problem.
How do we solve that?
Guess I'll skip
practice twice a week.
Well, it's up to you.
I don't like being here.
I don't like it at all.
Mm-hmm.
I saw mort swain.
His sister died.
The one from idaho?
The one with the restaurant.
She died in idaho?
I guess so.
Why?
You said she was
always traveling.
I don't know.
Maybe in idaho.
Maybe kansas city.
I went to see
dr. Berger.
Berger?
Yeah.
You didn't say
anything. Good!
I went today.
I didn't know
you made an appointment.
How was it?
It's a lot of money.
It's o.K.
It's $50 an hour, twice a week.
It's o.K.
It is necessary.
What did you talk about?
Not much.
What about your schedule?
Well...
It'll cut into
swim practice.
Where's his office?
Highland park.
Head straight!
I don't want to tell you again.
This is what I see.
I see you yawning
and you coming late.
I don't see you having fun.
Are you getting enough sleep?
Yeah.
Are you having fun?
Fun?
There's no point
if you're not
having fun.
Yeah, I guess so.
You guess so.
Are you on medication?
Tranquilizers?
Anything?
No. No, sir.
Did I ask you if
they gave you shock?
Yeah.
Yeah what?
Yeah, you asked me.
Yeah, they did.
Don't look at us, lazenby.
Get in the water!
I'm no doctor, jarrett.
I wouldn't let them
put electricity
in my head.
He drives me nuts!
Everybody drives you nuts.
Don and fenetch looked good.
They looked very good.
Is he giving you a hard time?
Want a clarinet?
Van buren wants a clarinet.
Who's selling it?
My brother.
He needs a motorcycle.
You stand
behind me
in the choir.
Oh, I do?
Is that you?
You have a lot of energy.
I do?
I mean, that's good.
My name's jeannine pratt.
Nice. Hi.
You're conrad jarrett.
Right.
Yeah. Um... Bye.
Bye-bye.
You've got a lot of energy.
Trick or treat!
You're the scariest
ghost I've ever seen!
You look wonderful.
Thank you.
There you go.
Be careful.
Thank you.
Good-bye.
The cabots.
Julie's first time.
She's so cute!
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!
Know what I've been thinking?
That christmas in london
Would be like
something out
of dickens.
We've never done that before.
Maybe we shouldn't
plan to go away
right now.
We talked about it.
We decided on that.
Yeah, I know that.
But the timing
doesn't seem right.
We've always gone
away at christmas.
It'd be good for him, too.
Let's get back to normal.
He's just started
with this doctor.
He'll miss three weeks.
Why interrupt it?
Because I want to get away.
I think we should.
It's important.
Not if he doesn't
go through with this now.
He might change his mind.
If he changes his mind,
It wasn't right for him.
Does he want to go?
He doesn't know what he wants.
Ahh!
Don't do that!
I'm sorry.
I didn't think you were here.
I just got in.
No golf today.
Too cold.
How was golf?
I didn't play.
It's colder today.
I mean, for the year,
it's colder.
Weren't you swimming?
Yeah. Sorry
I scared you.
How'd it go?
Good.
I swam well.
Good.
I could swim
the 50 if my...
My timing got better.
I'm a little off.
You must work at that.
Yeah.
I got 74 on a trig quiz.
74?
Gee, I was awful at trig.
Oh, yeah?
Did you...
You took trig?
Wait a minute.
Did I take trig?
I bought you two shirts.
They're on your bed.
Who'll be there?
Well, the murrays,
the gunthers,
and the caines.
Let's go to the movies instead.
Don't be negative.
That's not negative.
That's unpredictable.
Let's go to the movies.
O.K.
Really?
O.K., yeah.
Come on. Let's go.
What's our excuse?
Beth wanted to go
to the movies.
Good.
Very good.
All right now, smile.
Remember, not
too many martinis.
Will you put that
with the others?
Look. We're in time.
Look who's here!
Three blocks
away and the
last t0 arrive.
Come on in.
Happy birthday!
You look wonderful.
Is that new?
Yes, it is.
Do you like it?
You did the mousse?
It turned out well?
Hey, partner.
How are you?
Hi there.
Hi, beth.
Good to see you.
Borrow the money.
I'll go public.
I wouldn't
do it now because
the market's low.
Your hair looks wonderful.
It's shorter.
You like it?
I said,
"please put
out your cigar."
He says, "huh?
I don't have
another one."
Good to see you!
You look beautiful, as ever.
In school,
They think they've got
to walk on the edge of danger.
What are these hushed tones?
He told the funniest joke!
I'm not talking to you.
Why?
I have my fingers
crossed on this merger.
Let's have lunch.
I don't know my schedule.
I'm free most days.
Bob mclean's leaving
coleman and johnson.
Where is he going?
He doesn't know.
Jesus.
No, you didn't.
Isn't he the meanest
man you've met?
When a ball is in play,
If a player or caddy
accidentally move it...
♪ ...Jolly good fellow
♪ for he's
a jolly good fellow... ♪
♪ won't regret can't forget ♪
♪ what we did
♪ for
♪ love
Hi, annie.
What's your
boy up to?
Oh, who knows?
How's conrad doing?
He's great.
Just great.
I asked donald.
He says they
haven't talked much.
I said maybe
he's self-conscious.
Oh!
No, no, no.
No, he's...
There's a doctor
in highland park
That he sees twice a week.
He's great.
Just great.
Is he still
having some problems?
No, nothing like that.
Just somebody to talk to...
To polish off the rough edges.
How are you, darling?
Is he falling asleep on you?
Nah. He's great.
Mr. Great.
That's me.
Hey.
You drank too much.
I'm not drunk.
Why did you tell annie
about conrad's psychiatrist?
Why not?
People don't hear
that thing easily.
For most people,
it's a status
symbol.
Well, your blurting it out
Was a violation of privacy.
Whose privacy?
The family's privacy!
I think it is
a very private matter.
I tell you my dreams?
I don't believe in dreams.
What kind of
a psychiatrist
are you?
What's happening?
What's going on?
I just feel...
I feel so...
What?
Jumpy.
I don't know.
Look, kiddo...
I lied.
I believe in dreams.
Sometimes I want to know
what's happening
when you're awake.
Something's making you nervous.
Maybe I need a tranquilizer.
Tranquilizer?
What do you think?
You look like something
out of the body snatchers.
It's not my
impression that you
need a tranquilizer.
What is this?
A clock.
You can
tell the time,
but I can't.
So you know when the hour's up?
Right.
50, 55 minutes?
Maybe I don't
want to swim
anymore.
My timing is for shit.
Two guys
better than me
swim the 50.
They're a bunch
of boring jocks.
And him...
I can't stand him.
Thought about quitting?
You telling me to?
Nope.
It wouldn't look good.
How does it feel?
How does it feel?
Yes.
How does it feel?
It's the same damn thing
I did last year.
Are you the same person now?
That's why you need
a tranquilizer?
You're a doctor.
I'm supposed to
feel better, right?
Not necessarily.
Is it getting
any easier
with your friends?
No. It's still hard.
Is any place easy?
The hospital was.
It was? Why?
Because nobody
hid anything there.
Was there anyone there
you could talk to?
Uh-huh.
I mean besides
dr. Crawford?
Uh-huh.
Whoa!
Hi.
Karen!
How are you?
Good.
Sit down, please.
Thank you.
Wow.
When did you get back?
The end of August.
Good.
It's great seeing you.
Oh, you, too.
Listen, I've
got a meeting
over at school.
Drama club meeting.
We're doing a thousand clowns.
You know it?
Anyway,
we're going crazy
getting it together.
Don't let me hang you up.
No. I wanted
to see you.
I didn't know what to expect.
You sounded funny on the phone.
It was just a gray day.
Everything's great.
I'm on the swim team.
Oh, you're swimming?
Terrific, conrad.
That's really wonderful.
I could be benched all year.
You'll do great.
I'll bet
your folks are
real proud of you.
Yeah.
What can I get you?
Are you hungry?
Just a coke.
Two cokes, please.
Did we offend him?
Something I said?
A low
self-image day.
So, uh...
Are you...
what did...
I can't believe
how beautiful you look.
You really look beautiful.
So do you.
Do you miss it?
Miss what?
The hospital.
No.
Thank you.
You don't miss it?
No.
You don't miss
leo's corny jokes?
Are you seeing a doctor?
Yeah, I'm seeing one.
Are you?
Uh, dr. Crawford
gave me a name.
I went for a while.
It didn't work.
He told me
the things
I already knew.
Finally, I decided
The only one who
can help me
is myself.
At least,
that's what
my dad says.
If it's
something
you want to do,
That's what you
should be doing.
I don't know
how long I'll keep it up.
Your hair grew in.
Oh. That was such
a dumb thing to do.
I like it.
You do?
Yeah.
I don't know.
I just...
I miss it sometimes.
The hospital.
I really do.
Things have to
change, you know?
But that's where we laughed.
But that was a hospital.
This is the real world.
I guess you're right.
I really have to go.
I'm sorry.
I have a meeting at the school.
We're doing a thousand clowns.
You told me.
Did I?
Yeah.
I better hurry.
Don't want to be late.
Thanks for seeing me.
Conrad...
Let's have a great christmas.
O.K.?
Let's have...
A great year.
Let's have
the best year
of our lives.
This could be
the best year
ever.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Will you call me?
Yeah.
You mean it?
Yep.
You, uh...
You look good, conrad.
Yeah.
Bye.
Bye-bye.
Hey!
Would you cheer up?
It's cold.
You should put that on.
Do you want a sweater?
Do I need one?
What are you doing?
Nothing.
Thinking.
About what?
Not about anything.
Your hair is
starting to grow out.
It's looking...
Looking better.
I was thinking about the pigeon
That hung around the garage,
How it used
to get on top
of your car.
Oh, yeah, I remember.
I remember
how scared I got...
That wsssshhhhh!
Flap, flap, flap...
Every time I started the car.
That was the
closest we came
to having a pet.
Buck tried to
talk you into
getting a dog.
He said, "if
it's the size
of a football?"
You know,
that animal next door,
That pepper or pippin...
Pippin, pippin, pippin.
He's not friendly,
Whatever
mr. Mcgreary says.
He wanted the retriever.
Each time that dog comes here
I try to get him out.
Arf!
Arf! Arf!
Put that on if
you're staying out here.
Can I help?
With this?
No.
I will.
You can go to your room
And clean the closet.
Mom.
O.K.?
Because it's really a mess.
[telephone rings]
[ring]
Hello.
Oh, hi.
I didn't get there.
How did it go?
No, I'm not doing anything.
Just getting dinner ready.
Uh-huh.
Did she really?
Mary ann ramon
started just
to scream, right?
We got so drunk,
we couldn't talk.
It was the last day of school.
We walked out of the building.
Oh, bucky.
No, stop!
What do you expect from her?
We just don't connect.
Why not?
We just don't.
What are you thinking?
That I jack off a lot.
So what's new?
Does it help?
For a minute.
What now?
John boy.
Who?
John boy on the waltons.
Yeah.
What about him?
After buck died,
dad came to my room.
He didn't know what to say.
He put his arm around me,
We just sat there.
I remember watching his shoe.
And thinking...
His shoe was turned
over on its side.
I was thinking,
he's so uptight!
It's gonna crack off.
I knew I should've
felt something.
I didn't know what to feel.
On tv,
they say stuff
like, "oh, no!"
But I didn't say that
Because I didn't feel sad
So much as...
So much as what?
I kept thinking
john boy would've
said something
About how he felt.
What would he say?
I don't know.
Come on.
Come on.
Come on what?
Don't hold back.
Well,
at least she's
an improvement.
That's what you get
When your
partner does
the hiring.
That's my fault.
I can't tell anybody
That they're not making it.
Wait a minute.
That's not the problem.
Where are you?
What?
I've been losing you
these days.
Oh, I'm sorry.
That's o.K.
That's o.K.
You off the track?
Huh?
Come on.
I've known you
for 20 years.
Is something wrong?
How's connie?
Connie's all right.
He is.
He's o.K.
It's none of my business,
But you worry too much.
You've been on
the rack about him
long enough.
I'm not on the rack about him.
In a year, he'll be gone,
Off to michigan
or wherever he
wants to go.
Maybe he'll tour europe.
Who knows?
I can't argue with who knows.
I'm giving you
the benefit of
my experience.
Thanks.
Valerie isn't
just living
away from home,
She's gone.
Got her own friends,
her own life.
She breezes in
a few days
on vacations.
I don't know.
Maybe girls
are different.
Or maybe she was too aware
Of what was
happening between
nance and me.
But they leave,
and that worrying's
just wasted energy.
Give me back my sweater!
Hang on.
Dad, what's possession?
Give it to me!
It's already on me.
Whose sweater is it?
It's my sweater!
I'll give it back
If you give me my skis.
All right.
Conrad!
Conrad!
What?
Watch your back.
Cuts are vertical.
He really meant business.
Let's go.
Lake forest is next.
Lake forest.
[laughing]
What do you want?
I don't know what else to do.
I'm not asking for anything.
You're kidding me.
I don't get it.
You're excused from practice
To see some shrink,
I work with you
at your convenience.
What more should I do?
Nothing.
A bright kid like you.
I don't get it.
Why keep messing up your life?
I don't think that
quitting swimming
Will mess up my life.
O.K.
O.K.
Now, this is it.
Yeah.
You're a big kid.
Actions have consequences.
I'm not taking you back.
I won't ask you to.
[laughing]
What happened?
You all right?
Yeah.
You quit the swim team.
Yeah.
Why?
It was a bore.
That's no reason!
What's going on?
Nothing.
Talk to me.
Swimming's a bore, that's all.
I talked to...
Quit talking to people!
O.K.?
Holy shit.
Yeah, sure.
Fuck you, jarrett.
Ooh!
Ohh!
Shut up.
Leave it alone.
I told you the guy's a flake.
What did your dad say?
I haven't told him yet.
How come?
The timing isn't right.
He sweats everything.
He'll just get worried.
Can you tell your mother?
My mother?
I told you we don't connect.
What do people
have in common
with mothers anyway?
It's all surface junk.
You know?
"clean your room,
brush your teeth,
Get good grades."
I'm not feeling anything today.
I'm sorry.
No. Sorry's out.
Something's on your mind.
What time is it?
Never mind.
There's time.
Remember the contract?
Control?
Maybe there's some connection
Between control
and lack of feeling.
I said I feel things.
When?
Come on.
When?
Sometimes.
I don't know.
I thought you didn't
like fooling around.
What do you want?
Don't say,
"I don't know."
Should I make up answers?
Make one up
about there's
no feelings there.
I have feelings.
Get it together, jarrett.
You're trying to make me mad.
Are you mad?
No!
You don't like being pushed.
Do something about it!
What?
No. I can't do this.
Why not?
Getting mad
takes too much energy.
It takes more holding it back.
When I let myself feel,
I feel lousy.
I never promised
you a rose garden.
Fuck you, berger.
Fuck you.
Yeah?
That's it.
What do you feel?
Do you jack off?
What do you think?
You married a fat lady
And you fuck
the daylights
out of her!
Sounds good to me.
Little advice
about feeling...
Don't expect it
always to tickle.
Do you know how to aim that?
Be quiet, I have to
concentrate.
Be quiet.
Is it in focus?
Smile, smile.
O.K. Good.
I want to
take the three
young ones.
Dad, get out of there.
All right.
Connie.
Be quiet.
Conrad, where are you?
Between
your mother
and father.
You're taller
than your
mother is!
Will you be quiet?
This is beautiful.
Shut up.
Wonderful.
Now cal and beth.
Sure.
Go on.
You can do better than that.
I want one of connie and beth.
Let's get
the three men in there.
Move closer to your mother.
Prize winner.
Yeah, that's great.
Do it.
Isn't it marvelous?
Yes, it is.
It isn't cocked.
Calvin.
Hold it.
Connie, smile.
Calvin!
Smile.
Give me the camera.
Give me the camera.
I want a really good picture.
I want a shot of you three men.
Not until I get you two.
Give her the goddamn camera!
Smile.
Who's hungry?
I'll make
the sandwiches.
[crash]
Beth!
It can be saved.
That was so dumb.
I don't think
he's happy in school.
Have you talked
to his teachers?
People don't
want to be with him.
He provokes people.
Well, it's an awkward age.
Thank you.
Maybe he needs a change.
Is he eating enough?
Yes, mother.
He'll be all right...
If you're firm with him.
I think he should
go away to school.
I can't deal with him.
Who'd make that decision?
I suppose this
doctor he's seeing.
What sort of doctor
Would make that
decision for you?
A psychiatrist.
I thought that was finished.
No.
What's his name?
Berger.
Jewish doctor?
I suppose he's jewish.
Maybe just german.
What does
cal say about
all this?
This can be saved.
It's a nice clean break.
♪ amen, amen, alleluia
♪ amen
♪ amen
O.K.
That last "e" natural
could be higher.
Officers, don't forget
your meeting tonight.
♪ mmm mm mmm
♪ mmm mm mmm
♪ mmm mmm
♪ mmm mm mmm
Hi, jeannine.
You're really a terrific tenor.
In fact,
you should be
doing the solo.
No, I...
No, I'm serious.
You sing well.
I'm getting to know your voice.
How can you hear me
if you're singing?
Well...
I don't always sing.
Sometimes I just listen.
For instance,
marcia blair
can't sing a note.
Janet fox
mouths the words
and never sings.
A detective.
Do you like vivaldi?
Telemann?
Telemann? Um...
What kind of music do you like?
Oh, uh...
Modern jazz, I like.
Folk rock, spoon on a glass.
Spoon on a glass?
Oh, you mean,
like, table spoons?
Oh, dear.
Why do I ask dumb questions?
I'm just showing off.
Why is it so hard
The first time
you talk
to somebody?
You make it look easy.
Really?
That's my bus.
I got to go.
I'll see you later!
You're really a terrific tenor.
♪ ah, you're just saying that ♪
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ ah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ♪
♪ ha ha ha ha
ha ha ha ha ha alleluia ♪
♪ alleluia, alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
Hello.
Is karen there?
Who's calling?
A friend of hers
from hillsboro.
Oh.
She's not home from school yet.
Oh, um...
Hmm...
Tell her I called.
This is conrad.
Tell her I'm feeling great
And I wanted to talk to her.
Yes, I will.
Thank you.
Hello, jeannine.
This is conrad.
Hello, jeannine.
This is conrad.
Hello, jeannine.
This is conrad.
Conrad.
Conrad?
What a dumb name.
Hello, jeannine.
This is bill.
Uuuuugh!
Hello.
Hello.
This is...
Hello. This is
conrad calling.
Jarrett.
Oh.
Oh, hi!
Listen, I was...
I was wondering
if maybe you'd like
To go out sometime.
Like on a date?
We wouldn't have
to call it a date.
We could see how it goes.
That was dumb.
Now start over.
This is conrad jarrett.
I'd love to.
When?
I didn't see you.
What do you think?
Fine.
Rawlins used to have
great scotch pines.
They look like
skeletons this year.
Hi. What do
you think?
It's very nice.
What is wrong?
Ask him what's wrong.
Maybe you won't
have to hear it
from carol lazenby.
Hear what?
I quit the swim team.
Carol thought I knew.
It happened over a month ago.
Quit? When?
Where have you
been every night?
Nowhere.
The library mostly.
I didn't think it mattered.
That was meant for me.
It's important
to hurt me, right?
You have that backwards.
Do I embarrass you
in front of friends?
"poor beth believes
every lie her son tells."
I didn't lie.
You did when
you came home at 6:30!
If the lying's starting again,
I can't stand it!
Then go to europe!
She only gives a fuck
because someone else
knew about it first!
She never came to the hospital
Because she's busy
going to goddamn
Spain and portugal!
She doesn't care
if I'm hung up by
the balls out there.
They may talk
like this at
the hospital,
But we're not at the hospital.
You never came to the hospital!
She had the flu and
couldn't come inside.
She would've
visited buck
in the hospital!
Buck never
would've been
in the hospital!
That is enough!
I won't do it again.
What in hell has happened?
Somebody better go up there.
He walks all over us,
Then you apologize to him.
You've been apologizing to him
Since he returned
from the hospital!
I'm trying to
goddamn understand him!
Don't talk to me
The way he talks to you.
Let's not fight, o.K.?
No fighting, o.K.?
Please.
Let's go upstairs.
I want to talk to you.
I didn't mean any of it.
Please don't be mad.
I'm trying to
understand what happened.
I don't know what happened.
I didn't mean it.
Tell her I'm sorry, will you?
Why don't you?
God, I can't!
I can't talk to her!
Why not?
It doesn't change anything.
It doesn't
change the way
she looks at me.
She was hurt because
you quit the team.
I don't mean just now.
I don't mean just today.
Explain it to me.
I can't. You don't
see things.
What things?
What things?
I want you to tell me.
Can't you see she hates me?
She doesn't hate you.
You're right.
She doesn't.
Please leave me alone.
Do you think
dr. Berger's helping you?
It's not his fault.
I'll be downstairs
if you need me.
Tuesday everything
was hunky-dory.
You're the doctor.
Don't take refuge
in one-liners, o.K.?
Because that pisses me off.
O.K. O.K.
Everything was fine
Till you
had the fight
with your mother?
I don't blame her.
She's got her reasons.
It's impossible,
After all the shit I've pulled.
What shit have you pulled?
I'm talking about proportion.
Now, what shit?
You can find one example.
Don't say you tried suicide.
What have you done lately?
I'll never
be forgiven for that.
Never.
You can't get out
the blood in her towels
And in her rug.
Everything had to be pitched.
The bathroom tile
had to be regrouted.
She fired the maid
Because she
couldn't dust right.
If you think I'll forgive...
She'll forgive me...
What?
I think
I just figured
something out.
What?
What is who can't forgive who.
A real problem has
a real solution.
I've heard this before.
Doesn't make it any less true.
I'm so tired.
That's some secret
you've been keeping.
So what do I do now?
Recognize her limitations.
Like she can't love me.
No. Like she can't
love you enough.
Don't blame her
for not loving you
More than she's able.
She loves my father.
She loved my brother.
It's me.
We're back
to the rotten
kid routine.
She can't
love you because
you're unlovable.
How come your dad loves you?
He feels responsible.
Besides, he loves everybody.
The guy's got no taste.
He loves you, but he's wrong.
Look...
Maybe she can't express it
The way you'd like.
Maybe she's
afraid to show
her feelings.
What do you mean?
There's someone
besides your mother
You've got to forgive.
You mean me?
For trying to off myself?
Don't stare.
What for?
Why don't you
let yourself
off the hook?
What did I do?
What did I do?
We'll talk Thursday.
Come on!
Time's up.
What did I do?
You know the rules.
What rules?
Think about it.
Just think about it.
Jesus!
Say, after going to a new high
It falls to 112 1/4,
And then rallies
on good volume.
I order to buy 4,000.
If I get the 4,000
at 113 3/4, I know
something's wrong.
But suppose I order
to buy the 4,000 shares,
And I plug in at 113 3/4.
I get 2,000 at 114,
500 at 114 1/4,
And the rest on the way up.
Then I know I'm right.
I'm going to peel off here.
See you later.
Suppose the order to buy...
He walks all over us,
And you apologize.
500 at 114...
Dad, you don't see things.
You've been apologizing
Since he returned
from the hospital.
Tell her to stop it!
Buck never would've
been in the hospital!
She hates me!
I want to be clear.
That's good.
In the car,
I was thinking,
"be clear."
I suppose
that's what
psychiatry's about...
Being precise and clear.
And honest, of course.
I'm not
a great believer
in psychiatry.
O.K.
What happens
here is between
you and him,
And I respect that.
He's better.
I can see that.
I just don't believe
in psychiatry
As a panacea for everybody.
Neither do I.
I wish I knew what
I was doing here.
You said you could
shed some light
on some things.
I meant in terms of conrad.
I knew something was wrong
Even before he tried suicide.
But I thought that...
It's clear that
he's very smart.
He's always
been an "a" student.
Naturally, I thought
intelligent people
Could work out their problems.
But you still feel responsible?
Yeah, sure I do.
It's hard not to.
It was just luck
that I happened
to be there
When he tried it.
We both could've been away.
You think of yourself
as a lucky man?
No. No, no.
I used to think that
I was a lucky person
Before the accident.
I guess the whole of life
Is nothing but an accident,
What happens to you.
That sounds like
the philosophy
of a drifter.
Yeah. Maybe.
Maybe I am drifting a little.
I can see the two of them
Drifting away from me,
And I just stand watching.
What would you
want to do about that?
Something.
I don't know what.
I feel like I'm
sitting on a fence.
They're on
opposite sides
of this fence?
Yeah... No.
I don't know.
I see her
not being able
to forgive him.
For what?
I don't know exactly.
Being too much like her.
People always think
that she and buck
are... Were alike.
But it's really she and conrad.
They were the only two
That didn't cry at the funeral.
It's not easy for me
to admit this,
But, um...
She didn't...
His mother
doesn't show him
much affection.
I'm not trying to put her down.
Did she give buck
much affection?
God, yes.
She loved buck.
Bucky got so much.
What she felt
for him was special.
He was
her first-born.
And you?
I loved buck.
I mean your wife's affection.
For me?
Yes.
She's very...
No, there's
no problem
with her for me.
We've been married
nearly 21 years.
Everybody loves beth.
For conrad,
it's been difficult.
He didn't talk about that?
We don't know
what happens here.
It doesn't come up.
I guess that's what it is.
It's private here, isn't it?
Mm-hmm.
Very private.
I think I know why I came here.
I think I came
here to talk
about myself.
O.K. Why don't we?
Hi.
Calvin?
What's the matter?
This will sound strange.
What I'm
going to say
will sound strange.
What happened?
Come inside.
Could we talk about
buck's funeral?
What?
It'll seem trivial,
but it's on my mind.
I'd like to talk about it.
When I was
getting dressed for
buck's funeral...
What could
getting dressed
for buck's funeral
Have to do with anything?
I was wearing a blue shirt.
You said,
"wear a white shirt
and other shoes."
It was nothing,
but it seemed
to stay with me.
What difference did it make
What I wore to buck's funeral?
Hear me out, beth!
No one would listen to that.
I just want to talk about it.
Why do you want to remind me?
Because I've wondered
what it mattered
what I wore.
I was crazy that day.
We were going
to our son's funeral.
You were worried
about what
I wore on my feet.
It sticks with me,
And I wanted to
tell you about it.
It's all right.
Beth! How are you?
Fine.
How are you?
I haven't seen you.
I'll call you.
How's brad?
Fabulous! Is
everything o.K.?
Isn't this madness?
It gets worse every year.
Good-bye.
May I show you this
in your size?
What?
May I show you this?
Oh, no.
No, thanks.
Bennetts, grants, and foleys.
Conrad should
get something
for my parents.
He's not getting
something for
his doctor, is he?
We should
go see dr. Berger.
What?
We could all go see him.
Why?
He thinks it's a good idea.
What's he know about me?
I've never even met him.
Wouldn't it be
easier if we all
talked about it?
What will we talk about?
Don't try to change me.
Hasn't enough happened?
Let's hold on
to what we've got.
That's what this is for.
Maybe you'll be surprised.
I don't want surprises.
I know I'm not perfect.
If I can't hug
everybody like you,
I'm sorry.
You're missing the point.
I don't want to see counselors.
This is my family.
We will solve our problems
In the privacy of our own home,
Not by running
to some...
Ready to order?
Could you give me
a few minutes?
Running to experts
every time something
goes wrong.
I know you mean well.
I want this to
be a nice christmas.
I want them all to be nice.
You and I need time together.
We must get away.
New years.
We'll spend
time in houston
With my brother.
Play some golf, relax.
I've talked to mother.
Conrad can stay with them.
Please don't worry about it.
Please,
for his sake,
don't indulge him.
We need time together.
O.K.?
O.K.
O.K.
I love you.
I love you, too.
Let's just give
things time, o.K.?
O.K.
Conrad.
Hmm?
I don't bowl.
I'm a horrible bowler.
That's all right.
Yeah. Well...
I got it.
The thing is
I'm a funny bowler.
Listen, we don't
have to go bowling.
I'm not a bowling nut.
How funny are you?
On a scale
from 1 to 10...
About a 10.
That's pretty funny.
I promise you won't look silly.
Guarantee it?
Guarantee it.
Can you break the ball?
Can't break anything
in a bowling alley.
That's what I like
about bowling alleys.
Can't even break the record.
Anyway...
Hmm? What?
It's a conversation starter.
Catchy.
You like it?
I've been working
on it all day.
Are people punished
for things they do?
By god?
Yeah.
I don't believe in god.
Not at all?
Either you do or don't.
I believe in god.
You afraid
he'll punish you
for something?
I've done
many things
I'm ashamed of.
Yeah?
So have I.
Did it hurt?
I don't remember really.
You don't want
to talk about it?
I've never really
talked about it.
To doctors,
but not to anyone else.
You're the first who's asked.
Why did you do it?
Uh...
I don't know.
It was like...
Falling into a hole.
It was like
falling into a hole.
It keeps getting bigger,
And you can't escape.
All of a sudden, it's inside,
And you're the hole.
You're trapped,
and it's all over.
Something like that.
It's not really scary,
Except when
you think back on it.
'cause you know
what you were feeling...
♪ like mcdonald's can ♪
♪ nobody can do it
♪ like mcdonald's can ♪
♪ you deserve a break today ♪
♪ so get up and get away ♪
Hey, jarrett.
How you doing?
How about some fries?
What are you doing?
Hey, lighten up.
Hey, I don't like
your attitude.
Energetic, those guys.
They were pretty funny.
No.
You thought they were.
No, I...
I'm sorry.
What for?
Anyway...
Do you want to talk?
About what?
Are you o.K.?
Yeah.
Yeah, I'm fine.
I'll give you a call.
Will you?
I want you to.
Sure.
Well...
I'll see you in choir.
O.K. Yeah.
Thanks.
O.K.
I mean, good night.
Good night.
Seven.
In preparation
for our landing in houston,
Observe the fasten
seat belt sign,
And no smoking until
well inside the terminal.
Watch this.
Pessimistic golfer.
Pessimistic golfer.
Oh, damn!
Are we two up?
Two.
Let's hustle up.
It is flat here.
But we decided
to teach you to love it.
He wants everybody
to move here.
It's good to see you.
You look tired, cal.
Why am I still hungry?
'cause you're in texas.
We'll get you home,
Get some steaks on.
A baked potato, too?
How long
has he had
that drawl?
Since joining the club.
[laughing]
It sure wasn't funny.
We weren't that bad.
I can't listen to
that buck jarrett
lecture again.
He bugs me when he does that.
Will he ever stop
kissing his picture?
Stillman, shut up.
Connie, want a ride?
Oh, no, thanks.
We could've used you today.
I don't think so.
Nobody could've helped us.
I hear you got eyes for pratt.
Made it with her yet?
Don't be a prick.
You're the prick.
You give me a goddamn
pain in the ass.
Connie, come on!
Come on!
Connie!
Connie, that's enough.
No!
No!
Let go!
Let go!
It's all right!
Just calm down.
You're crazy!
You know that?
Send him back
where he came from!
It's over.
It's over.
All right!
Shit!
Here's your hat.
You want to talk?
The guy's a nothing.
He's a zero upstairs.
Since fourth grade,
you've known that.
So you look stupid
When you let him get to you!
So I look stupid?
What's with you?
Why do you want
to be in this alone?
You know, I miss him, too.
The three of us
were best friends.
It hurts too much
to be around you.
I got to go.
Yeah, o.K.
[honk]
Hello.
Hello. Is karen there?
She...
Bill.
Hello.
Is karen there?
This is conrad jarrett.
I'm a friend of hers.
Karen's dead.
What? What?
She killed herself.
Let's have the best
christmas ever.
We can, you know.
We could have the best year
Of our whole lives.
Get the sail down!
Keep it starboard!
Get the sail down!
Starboard!
Keep trying!
I can't!
Let it out!
Let it out!
Just keep it starboard!
I can't!
Ahh!
Bucky!
Give me your hand!
We screwed up, buddy!
Dad's gonna haul ass over this!
It ain't so goddamned funny!
Don't let go!
I won't, buck!
Everything will be o.K.!
Hang on, brother!
Don't let go!
Stay with me!
Stay with me!
Stay with me!
Oh, god!
Bucky!
Buck!
Buck!
Hello.
This is conrad.
What's going on?
I need to see you.
Where are you?
I don't know.
All right.
Get to the office.
I'll meet you there.
O.K.
Good. You're here.
Something happened.
Just a minute.
Wait till we get inside.
There.
Shit.
You'd think they'd
assume there'd be
emergencies.
Don't take it off.
Just sit down.
Something happened.
What?
It's...
It's what?
Oh, god!
I need something.
What?
It keeps coming.
I can't stop it!
Don't try.
Got to get off the hook.
For what?
What I did to him!
What?
It must be somebody's fault
Or there's no point!
What point?
It happened!
Oh, no.
I don't mean that.
It's just that...
Bucky, I didn't mean it.
Bucky, I didn't mean it.
Bucky!
It wasn't your fault.
You said,
"get the sail down!"
I couldn't!
It jammed!
And then the halyard jammed!
Because the goddamned
halyard jammed!
Then you're sittin' here
screwing around!
Until it's too late!
And I'm supposed
to take care of it!
That wasn't fair.
No! And then
you say, "hang on!"
"hang on!"
Then you let go!
Why'd you let go?
I got tired!
Yeah? Well,
screw you, you jerk!
It hurts to be mad at him.
Yeah.
He just wasn't careful.
He didn't see
how a bad thing
might happen.
Bad things happen even
when people are careful.
We should've come in
When it started to look bad.
So you made a mistake.
Why did he let go?
Why?
Maybe you were stronger.
Did that ever occur to you?
How long will
you punish yourself?
When will you quit?
I'd like to.
Why don't you?
It's not that easy.
God...
I loved him.
I know.
What happened?
What started all this?
Karen.
She killed herself.
I just found out she's dead.
Jesus.
She was fine.
No. She wasn't.
She told me!
She said she was....
What?
She was busy and
feeling good and...
What?
What?
If I'd known,
I could've done something.
You're taking her on, too?
No!
No?
No, I just...
What?
That isn't it.
I feel really bad about this.
Just let me feel
bad about this!
O.K.
Listen, I feel
bad about it, too.
Why do things happen to people?
It isn't fair.
You're right.
It isn't fair.
You just do one wrong thing,
And...
Um-hmm.
And what was the one
wrong thing you did?
You know.
You know.
I hung on.
I stayed with the boat.
Exactly.
Now, you can live
with that, can't you?
I'm scared!
I'm scared.
Feelings are scary.
And sometimes they're painful.
If you can't feel pain,
You won't feel anything else.
You know what I'm saying?
I think so.
You're here.
You're alive.
Don't say you don't feel that.
It doesn't feel good.
It is good.
Believe me.
How do you know?
Because I'm your friend.
I don't know
what I would've done
If you hadn't been here.
You're really my friend?
I am.
Count on it.
Hi.
I would've called,
But I didn't
want to wake anyone.
About the other night...
I liked being with you.
I didn't like myself.
Conrad, I was stupid.
That was dumb of me to laugh.
It was my fault.
I was embarrassed.
Really?
You were embarrassed?
When those boys came in,
It was awful and awkward.
When I'm embarrassed, I laugh.
They were just
having a good time.
I let them
interfere with
what was happening.
It was dumb.
I've done lots of
dumb things lately.
I just didn't know
if you were being
straight with me.
Yeah?
Anyway, I'd like
to try it again.
It worked o.K.,
Except for the bowling.
Yes.
Yes?
Yes.
Are you going to school?
No, not on Sunday.
Have you eaten?
No, I haven't.
Do you want some breakfast?
O.K.
Mom!
All right.
How about that?
Boy, oh, boy.
I do love that.
These holes sure do love you.
We should spend more time
playing golf together.
Maybe our next vacation
strictly golf.
Pinehurst, myrtle beach...
Pinehurst would be nice.
I think
connie would
like pinehurst.
Is that deliberate
or just a reflex?
I assumed you meant him, too.
I'm surprised you
haven't called him.
I'll call him tonight.
Can we have a little drink?
Drink, yes.
Little, no.
Let's finish this.
What?
What you started.
Me? There's no point.
He controls you.
He isn't the problem.
Isn't he?
No. Let's talk about
what's bothering you.
No. Let's discuss
what's bothering you.
How did I make
you so angry with me?
You blame me for everything.
Can't you see beyond yourself?
No, I can't!
Neither can you
or anybody else!
I'm just honest.
Stop being honest
And start being generous!
Think about him!
What does he expect from me?
He wants a hug
when he passes exams?
I can't respond
when someone says,
"I did something
great. Love me."
He wants to know
you don't hate him.
Mothers don't hate their sons.
Is that what he told you?
You accept
what he says
with no questions.
I'm trying to
keep this family...
What does everyone
want from me?
Listen, we all just
want you to be happy.
Happy?
Yes.
You tell me
the definition of happy.
First, be sure
your kids are safe,
That nobody's been hit by a car
Or drowned in
your swimming pool!
Then tell me how to be happy!
I'm turning in.
Dinner was good.
Really good.
It's early.
You tired?
It was a rough week.
Your grandmother
wasn't too tough on you?
No. She was fine.
I'm glad you're back.
Good night.
Calvin?
Why are you crying?
Can I, uh...
Can I get you something?
I don't...
What did you say?
Calvin, what did you say?
Ohhh...
Tell me.
You are beautiful.
And you are unpredictable.
But you're so cautious.
You're determined, beth,
But you know something?
You're not strong.
I don't know if
you're really giving.
Tell me something.
Do you love me?
Do you really love me?
I feel the way
I've always felt about you.
We would've been all right
If there hadn't
been any... Mess.
But you can't handle mess.
You need everything
neat and easy.
I don't know.
Maybe you can't love anybody.
It was so much buck.
It's as if you
buried all your
love with him.
I don't understand that.
Maybe it wasn't even buck.
Maybe it was just you.
Maybe, finally,
it was the best of
you that you buried.
But whatever it was...
I don't know who you are.
I don't know what
we've been playing at.
So I was crying.
Because I don't know
if I love you anymore.
And I don't know what
I'll do without that.
[door slams]
Dad?
The yard looks
smaller without leaves.
Dad, what happened?
Your mother's
going away for a while.
Where?
Why?
Back to houston.
I don't know.
Why? What...
I know why.
It's me, isn't it?
No.
It's my fault.
Don't do that to yourself!
It's nobody's fault!
Things happen. People
don't always have answers.
I don't know why
I'm yelling at you.
You should do that more often.
Haul my ass a little.
Get after me.
Like you did for him.
He needed it.
You didn't.
You were always
so hard on yourself,
I never had the heart.
Oh, dad, don't.
Well, it's the truth.
I never worried about you.
I just wasn't listening.
I wasn't sending
many signals then.
You couldn't do anything.
I should've
got a handle
on it somehow.
I used to figure you had
a handle for everything.
You knew it all.
You always made us feel
everything would be all right.
I've thought about
that a lot lately.
I really admire you for it.
Don't admire people too much.
They'll disappoint
you sometimes.
I'm not disappointed.
I love you.
I love you, too.
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♪ in the silence of our souls ♪
♪ o lord,
we contemplate thy peace ♪
♪ free from all
the world's desires ♪
♪ free of fear
and all anxiety ♪
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ ooooh, ooooh
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ sing alleluia
We've made love 113 times.
I figured it out
on my bowmar calculator.
To know someone
that well is wonderful.
Two lumps?
No, one.
I don't know
your favorite actors.
I can't remember
the name of your
favorite perfume.
That's funny.
It's "my sin."
In the last 24 years,
I've always loved you.
Well, did we like it?
Ben walsh was wonderful.
It was funny.
It was a comedy, wasn't it?
Clyde banner's getting fat.
He should never turn profile.
Most of us
shouldn't
turn profile.
What were you thinking about?
When?
[car alarm on]
[car alarm off]
Yeah?
You o.K.?
Yeah.
Trouble sleeping?
No.
You're sure?
Mm-hmm.
Burning the midnight oil?
Yeah.
O.K.
Have you
thought about
calling that doctor?
No.
The month's up.
What about the plan?
That was if I needed him.
Yeah, o.K. Don't
worry about it.
Get some sleep.
I'll get those
michigan state
tickets.
O.K.
Did you call the warrens?
Look at this.
Everybody I grew up with
Is in the paper these days.
"joey georgella,
new football coach
for trinity."
What about those
michigan state tickets?
Jane's checking with john.
Where's conrad?
This will get cold.
Con!
Drop my suits at the cleaners?
They won't be back Saturday.
That's o.K.
Connie!
Conrad!
Be right there!
Here he is.
Morning.
Good morning.
Did you sleep?
Yeah.
Hungry?
Uh... Hungry.
It's french toast.
It's your favorite.
Yeah.
I'm not really hungry.
Breakfast, pal. Remember?
Main meal, energy.
So you're not hungry.
Hang on. He'll eat.
Con, it's french toast.
There's fresh fruit later.
What are you doing?
You can't save french toast.
I've got to run.
Will you call mr. Herman
about the shutters?
You have to charm him.
Did you charm him?
You have to eat, con.
You must get stronger.
Dad, I'm not hungry.
Are you o.K.?
Yeah.
I got to go.
Lazenby's picking me up.
Oh, is he? Great.
Why is it great?
Well, I don't see
the old gang much anymore.
I miss them.
Bring them around...
Phil, don, and dick.
We'll play some touch football.
See you later.
Con!
[horn honks]
It's called flake.
Come on.
We're late.
Let's go!
Jarrett, come on!
We're late
'cause dickie's mom
was packing his lunch.
I studied
all night for
this poly sci exam.
That guy wants a damn
personal analysis of it all.
How can you understand that?
You read it.
Yeah. Right!
We swim.
When can we study?
I swim and I study.
What you reading?
Hardy.
You should try meditation.
That's just like thinking.
Have you
got all junior
classes this year?
Didn't they
pass you on anything?
They don't
pass you
on breathing
Without taking the final.
Hey, quit with that radio.
I'm trying to study.
Hope it's a long train.
I'm going to flunk.
We're going to be late.
Does my hair look like shit?
Yeah.
Thanks.
Hey, hey, hey!
Hey, there's pratt.
Let me out.
No dirty stuff.
Pratt, you have nice knees!
Hey, interested in
something, jarrett?
Hey, cleary!
Hey, cleary!
Let's discuss theory.
Conrad, what's your
theory on jude fawley?
Conrad?
What's your theory
on jude fawley?
Was he powerless in
the grip of circumstances,
Or could he
have helped himself?
I don't... Powerless?
He thought he was.
He was a jerk.
He was hung up on morals.
It was senseless.
That's too easy, joel.
Paul?
I found the book
hard to follow.
Come on!
[telephone rings]
Hello.
Hello.
Dr. Berger?
Yes?
Hi. This
is conrad jarrett.
Who?
Conrad jarrett.
Dr. Crawford
at hillsboro hospital
gave me your number.
I'm with a patient now.
Can you
call back at 2:15?
I don't think I'll be free.
Give me your number.
I'll call you tonight.
Hello?
Hello?
I'll call you back.
Thanks.
Go!
Come on.
Move it, you guys!
Keep it going!
Keep plugging!
Use those legs!
Lazenby, get with it!
Jarrett, head down!
Work it!
Come on, now!
Push off!
Get your head down, jarrett!
Come on!
Keep it going!
Dig in there!
Come on!
Push off, jarrett!
Push off!
Is he actually
inclined to lose?
Well, regionally.
It's too bad.
I mean...
It's tragic, really.
Look at him now.
He's lost everything.
Fish too dry?
It's not too dry.
C&s has a new mechanic.
What happened to harry?
I think he moved to skokie.
This new mechanic
is so awkward.
Is that shirt ripped?
Leave it on the table
in the hallway.
Wasn't that girl
in the hospital from skokie?
What was her name?
Karen.
Will you play round robin
at the club?
I haven't played in a year.
Well, isn't it time to start?
We're going
to clark murray's
birthday party Saturday.
I bought him that book on wine.
Not the murrays.
The rope, bucky!
We're going in!
Give me your hand!
Bucky!
Bucky.
Bucky.
Hi.
How are you?
Oh, I'm fine.
Couldn't be better.
Terrific. Yeah.
Come in.
They all do that.
Jarrett.
Come in.
Sit down.
I just have to...
Wire some...
Volume.
[music blares]
Sorry. Sit down.
You have trouble
finding the place?
Not yet.
[telephone rings]
Uh... Jarrett.
How long since
you've been out
of the hospital?
A month and a half.
Feeling depressed?
No.
On stage?
Pardon me?
People nervous,
Treating you
like you're a
dangerous character?
Yeah, I guess a little.
Are you?
I don't know.
How long were you
in the hospital?
Four months.
What did you do?
I tried to off myself.
It doesn't
say what
your method was.
Double-edged
super blue.
Oh.
Is everybody glad
to see you home?
Yeah.
Friends?
Yeah.
You're back in school.
Everything o.K.
There? Teachers?
Yeah.
No problems?
Uh-uh.
So why are you here?
Uh...
I'd like to be more in control.
Why?
So people can quit
worrying about me.
Who's worried about you?
My father mostly.
This is his idea.
And your mother?
Isn't she worried, too?
I don't know.
Look, I'll be
straight with you.
I don't like this already.
As long as you're straight.
Have you talked to crawford?
Yes. He called me.
He told me to look for you.
He said you had
a brother who died.
Boating accident, wasn't it?
Want to tell me about it?
You talked
this over with
crawford, right?
Right.
How did that go?
It didn't change anything.
What needed changing?
I'd like to be more in control.
Why?
So people can
quit worrying about me.
Well, I'll tell you something.
I'll be straight
with you, o.K.?
I'm not big on control.
But it's your money.
So to speak.
So to speak.
O.K.
How's tuesdays...
And fridays, same time?
Twice a week?
Well, control's a tough nut.
I've got
swim practice
every night.
Well, that's a problem.
How do we solve that?
Guess I'll skip
practice twice a week.
Well, it's up to you.
I don't like being here.
I don't like it at all.
Mm-hmm.
I saw mort swain.
His sister died.
The one from idaho?
The one with the restaurant.
She died in idaho?
I guess so.
Why?
You said she was
always traveling.
I don't know.
Maybe in idaho.
Maybe kansas city.
I went to see
dr. Berger.
Berger?
Yeah.
You didn't say
anything. Good!
I went today.
I didn't know
you made an appointment.
How was it?
It's a lot of money.
It's o.K.
It's $50 an hour, twice a week.
It's o.K.
It is necessary.
What did you talk about?
Not much.
What about your schedule?
Well...
It'll cut into
swim practice.
Where's his office?
Highland park.
Head straight!
I don't want to tell you again.
This is what I see.
I see you yawning
and you coming late.
I don't see you having fun.
Are you getting enough sleep?
Yeah.
Are you having fun?
Fun?
There's no point
if you're not
having fun.
Yeah, I guess so.
You guess so.
Are you on medication?
Tranquilizers?
Anything?
No. No, sir.
Did I ask you if
they gave you shock?
Yeah.
Yeah what?
Yeah, you asked me.
Yeah, they did.
Don't look at us, lazenby.
Get in the water!
I'm no doctor, jarrett.
I wouldn't let them
put electricity
in my head.
He drives me nuts!
Everybody drives you nuts.
Don and fenetch looked good.
They looked very good.
Is he giving you a hard time?
Want a clarinet?
Van buren wants a clarinet.
Who's selling it?
My brother.
He needs a motorcycle.
You stand
behind me
in the choir.
Oh, I do?
Is that you?
You have a lot of energy.
I do?
I mean, that's good.
My name's jeannine pratt.
Nice. Hi.
You're conrad jarrett.
Right.
Yeah. Um... Bye.
Bye-bye.
You've got a lot of energy.
Trick or treat!
You're the scariest
ghost I've ever seen!
You look wonderful.
Thank you.
There you go.
Be careful.
Thank you.
Good-bye.
The cabots.
Julie's first time.
She's so cute!
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!
Know what I've been thinking?
That christmas in london
Would be like
something out
of dickens.
We've never done that before.
Maybe we shouldn't
plan to go away
right now.
We talked about it.
We decided on that.
Yeah, I know that.
But the timing
doesn't seem right.
We've always gone
away at christmas.
It'd be good for him, too.
Let's get back to normal.
He's just started
with this doctor.
He'll miss three weeks.
Why interrupt it?
Because I want to get away.
I think we should.
It's important.
Not if he doesn't
go through with this now.
He might change his mind.
If he changes his mind,
It wasn't right for him.
Does he want to go?
He doesn't know what he wants.
Ahh!
Don't do that!
I'm sorry.
I didn't think you were here.
I just got in.
No golf today.
Too cold.
How was golf?
I didn't play.
It's colder today.
I mean, for the year,
it's colder.
Weren't you swimming?
Yeah. Sorry
I scared you.
How'd it go?
Good.
I swam well.
Good.
I could swim
the 50 if my...
My timing got better.
I'm a little off.
You must work at that.
Yeah.
I got 74 on a trig quiz.
74?
Gee, I was awful at trig.
Oh, yeah?
Did you...
You took trig?
Wait a minute.
Did I take trig?
I bought you two shirts.
They're on your bed.
Who'll be there?
Well, the murrays,
the gunthers,
and the caines.
Let's go to the movies instead.
Don't be negative.
That's not negative.
That's unpredictable.
Let's go to the movies.
O.K.
Really?
O.K., yeah.
Come on. Let's go.
What's our excuse?
Beth wanted to go
to the movies.
Good.
Very good.
All right now, smile.
Remember, not
too many martinis.
Will you put that
with the others?
Look. We're in time.
Look who's here!
Three blocks
away and the
last t0 arrive.
Come on in.
Happy birthday!
You look wonderful.
Is that new?
Yes, it is.
Do you like it?
You did the mousse?
It turned out well?
Hey, partner.
How are you?
Hi there.
Hi, beth.
Good to see you.
Borrow the money.
I'll go public.
I wouldn't
do it now because
the market's low.
Your hair looks wonderful.
It's shorter.
You like it?
I said,
"please put
out your cigar."
He says, "huh?
I don't have
another one."
Good to see you!
You look beautiful, as ever.
In school,
They think they've got
to walk on the edge of danger.
What are these hushed tones?
He told the funniest joke!
I'm not talking to you.
Why?
I have my fingers
crossed on this merger.
Let's have lunch.
I don't know my schedule.
I'm free most days.
Bob mclean's leaving
coleman and johnson.
Where is he going?
He doesn't know.
Jesus.
No, you didn't.
Isn't he the meanest
man you've met?
When a ball is in play,
If a player or caddy
accidentally move it...
♪ ...Jolly good fellow
♪ for he's
a jolly good fellow... ♪
♪ won't regret can't forget ♪
♪ what we did
♪ for
♪ love
Hi, annie.
What's your
boy up to?
Oh, who knows?
How's conrad doing?
He's great.
Just great.
I asked donald.
He says they
haven't talked much.
I said maybe
he's self-conscious.
Oh!
No, no, no.
No, he's...
There's a doctor
in highland park
That he sees twice a week.
He's great.
Just great.
Is he still
having some problems?
No, nothing like that.
Just somebody to talk to...
To polish off the rough edges.
How are you, darling?
Is he falling asleep on you?
Nah. He's great.
Mr. Great.
That's me.
Hey.
You drank too much.
I'm not drunk.
Why did you tell annie
about conrad's psychiatrist?
Why not?
People don't hear
that thing easily.
For most people,
it's a status
symbol.
Well, your blurting it out
Was a violation of privacy.
Whose privacy?
The family's privacy!
I think it is
a very private matter.
I tell you my dreams?
I don't believe in dreams.
What kind of
a psychiatrist
are you?
What's happening?
What's going on?
I just feel...
I feel so...
What?
Jumpy.
I don't know.
Look, kiddo...
I lied.
I believe in dreams.
Sometimes I want to know
what's happening
when you're awake.
Something's making you nervous.
Maybe I need a tranquilizer.
Tranquilizer?
What do you think?
You look like something
out of the body snatchers.
It's not my
impression that you
need a tranquilizer.
What is this?
A clock.
You can
tell the time,
but I can't.
So you know when the hour's up?
Right.
50, 55 minutes?
Maybe I don't
want to swim
anymore.
My timing is for shit.
Two guys
better than me
swim the 50.
They're a bunch
of boring jocks.
And him...
I can't stand him.
Thought about quitting?
You telling me to?
Nope.
It wouldn't look good.
How does it feel?
How does it feel?
Yes.
How does it feel?
It's the same damn thing
I did last year.
Are you the same person now?
That's why you need
a tranquilizer?
You're a doctor.
I'm supposed to
feel better, right?
Not necessarily.
Is it getting
any easier
with your friends?
No. It's still hard.
Is any place easy?
The hospital was.
It was? Why?
Because nobody
hid anything there.
Was there anyone there
you could talk to?
Uh-huh.
I mean besides
dr. Crawford?
Uh-huh.
Whoa!
Hi.
Karen!
How are you?
Good.
Sit down, please.
Thank you.
Wow.
When did you get back?
The end of August.
Good.
It's great seeing you.
Oh, you, too.
Listen, I've
got a meeting
over at school.
Drama club meeting.
We're doing a thousand clowns.
You know it?
Anyway,
we're going crazy
getting it together.
Don't let me hang you up.
No. I wanted
to see you.
I didn't know what to expect.
You sounded funny on the phone.
It was just a gray day.
Everything's great.
I'm on the swim team.
Oh, you're swimming?
Terrific, conrad.
That's really wonderful.
I could be benched all year.
You'll do great.
I'll bet
your folks are
real proud of you.
Yeah.
What can I get you?
Are you hungry?
Just a coke.
Two cokes, please.
Did we offend him?
Something I said?
A low
self-image day.
So, uh...
Are you...
what did...
I can't believe
how beautiful you look.
You really look beautiful.
So do you.
Do you miss it?
Miss what?
The hospital.
No.
Thank you.
You don't miss it?
No.
You don't miss
leo's corny jokes?
Are you seeing a doctor?
Yeah, I'm seeing one.
Are you?
Uh, dr. Crawford
gave me a name.
I went for a while.
It didn't work.
He told me
the things
I already knew.
Finally, I decided
The only one who
can help me
is myself.
At least,
that's what
my dad says.
If it's
something
you want to do,
That's what you
should be doing.
I don't know
how long I'll keep it up.
Your hair grew in.
Oh. That was such
a dumb thing to do.
I like it.
You do?
Yeah.
I don't know.
I just...
I miss it sometimes.
The hospital.
I really do.
Things have to
change, you know?
But that's where we laughed.
But that was a hospital.
This is the real world.
I guess you're right.
I really have to go.
I'm sorry.
I have a meeting at the school.
We're doing a thousand clowns.
You told me.
Did I?
Yeah.
I better hurry.
Don't want to be late.
Thanks for seeing me.
Conrad...
Let's have a great christmas.
O.K.?
Let's have...
A great year.
Let's have
the best year
of our lives.
This could be
the best year
ever.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Will you call me?
Yeah.
You mean it?
Yep.
You, uh...
You look good, conrad.
Yeah.
Bye.
Bye-bye.
Hey!
Would you cheer up?
It's cold.
You should put that on.
Do you want a sweater?
Do I need one?
What are you doing?
Nothing.
Thinking.
About what?
Not about anything.
Your hair is
starting to grow out.
It's looking...
Looking better.
I was thinking about the pigeon
That hung around the garage,
How it used
to get on top
of your car.
Oh, yeah, I remember.
I remember
how scared I got...
That wsssshhhhh!
Flap, flap, flap...
Every time I started the car.
That was the
closest we came
to having a pet.
Buck tried to
talk you into
getting a dog.
He said, "if
it's the size
of a football?"
You know,
that animal next door,
That pepper or pippin...
Pippin, pippin, pippin.
He's not friendly,
Whatever
mr. Mcgreary says.
He wanted the retriever.
Each time that dog comes here
I try to get him out.
Arf!
Arf! Arf!
Put that on if
you're staying out here.
Can I help?
With this?
No.
I will.
You can go to your room
And clean the closet.
Mom.
O.K.?
Because it's really a mess.
[telephone rings]
[ring]
Hello.
Oh, hi.
I didn't get there.
How did it go?
No, I'm not doing anything.
Just getting dinner ready.
Uh-huh.
Did she really?
Mary ann ramon
started just
to scream, right?
We got so drunk,
we couldn't talk.
It was the last day of school.
We walked out of the building.
Oh, bucky.
No, stop!
What do you expect from her?
We just don't connect.
Why not?
We just don't.
What are you thinking?
That I jack off a lot.
So what's new?
Does it help?
For a minute.
What now?
John boy.
Who?
John boy on the waltons.
Yeah.
What about him?
After buck died,
dad came to my room.
He didn't know what to say.
He put his arm around me,
We just sat there.
I remember watching his shoe.
And thinking...
His shoe was turned
over on its side.
I was thinking,
he's so uptight!
It's gonna crack off.
I knew I should've
felt something.
I didn't know what to feel.
On tv,
they say stuff
like, "oh, no!"
But I didn't say that
Because I didn't feel sad
So much as...
So much as what?
I kept thinking
john boy would've
said something
About how he felt.
What would he say?
I don't know.
Come on.
Come on.
Come on what?
Don't hold back.
Well,
at least she's
an improvement.
That's what you get
When your
partner does
the hiring.
That's my fault.
I can't tell anybody
That they're not making it.
Wait a minute.
That's not the problem.
Where are you?
What?
I've been losing you
these days.
Oh, I'm sorry.
That's o.K.
That's o.K.
You off the track?
Huh?
Come on.
I've known you
for 20 years.
Is something wrong?
How's connie?
Connie's all right.
He is.
He's o.K.
It's none of my business,
But you worry too much.
You've been on
the rack about him
long enough.
I'm not on the rack about him.
In a year, he'll be gone,
Off to michigan
or wherever he
wants to go.
Maybe he'll tour europe.
Who knows?
I can't argue with who knows.
I'm giving you
the benefit of
my experience.
Thanks.
Valerie isn't
just living
away from home,
She's gone.
Got her own friends,
her own life.
She breezes in
a few days
on vacations.
I don't know.
Maybe girls
are different.
Or maybe she was too aware
Of what was
happening between
nance and me.
But they leave,
and that worrying's
just wasted energy.
Give me back my sweater!
Hang on.
Dad, what's possession?
Give it to me!
It's already on me.
Whose sweater is it?
It's my sweater!
I'll give it back
If you give me my skis.
All right.
Conrad!
Conrad!
What?
Watch your back.
Cuts are vertical.
He really meant business.
Let's go.
Lake forest is next.
Lake forest.
[laughing]
What do you want?
I don't know what else to do.
I'm not asking for anything.
You're kidding me.
I don't get it.
You're excused from practice
To see some shrink,
I work with you
at your convenience.
What more should I do?
Nothing.
A bright kid like you.
I don't get it.
Why keep messing up your life?
I don't think that
quitting swimming
Will mess up my life.
O.K.
O.K.
Now, this is it.
Yeah.
You're a big kid.
Actions have consequences.
I'm not taking you back.
I won't ask you to.
[laughing]
What happened?
You all right?
Yeah.
You quit the swim team.
Yeah.
Why?
It was a bore.
That's no reason!
What's going on?
Nothing.
Talk to me.
Swimming's a bore, that's all.
I talked to...
Quit talking to people!
O.K.?
Holy shit.
Yeah, sure.
Fuck you, jarrett.
Ooh!
Ohh!
Shut up.
Leave it alone.
I told you the guy's a flake.
What did your dad say?
I haven't told him yet.
How come?
The timing isn't right.
He sweats everything.
He'll just get worried.
Can you tell your mother?
My mother?
I told you we don't connect.
What do people
have in common
with mothers anyway?
It's all surface junk.
You know?
"clean your room,
brush your teeth,
Get good grades."
I'm not feeling anything today.
I'm sorry.
No. Sorry's out.
Something's on your mind.
What time is it?
Never mind.
There's time.
Remember the contract?
Control?
Maybe there's some connection
Between control
and lack of feeling.
I said I feel things.
When?
Come on.
When?
Sometimes.
I don't know.
I thought you didn't
like fooling around.
What do you want?
Don't say,
"I don't know."
Should I make up answers?
Make one up
about there's
no feelings there.
I have feelings.
Get it together, jarrett.
You're trying to make me mad.
Are you mad?
No!
You don't like being pushed.
Do something about it!
What?
No. I can't do this.
Why not?
Getting mad
takes too much energy.
It takes more holding it back.
When I let myself feel,
I feel lousy.
I never promised
you a rose garden.
Fuck you, berger.
Fuck you.
Yeah?
That's it.
What do you feel?
Do you jack off?
What do you think?
You married a fat lady
And you fuck
the daylights
out of her!
Sounds good to me.
Little advice
about feeling...
Don't expect it
always to tickle.
Do you know how to aim that?
Be quiet, I have to
concentrate.
Be quiet.
Is it in focus?
Smile, smile.
O.K. Good.
I want to
take the three
young ones.
Dad, get out of there.
All right.
Connie.
Be quiet.
Conrad, where are you?
Between
your mother
and father.
You're taller
than your
mother is!
Will you be quiet?
This is beautiful.
Shut up.
Wonderful.
Now cal and beth.
Sure.
Go on.
You can do better than that.
I want one of connie and beth.
Let's get
the three men in there.
Move closer to your mother.
Prize winner.
Yeah, that's great.
Do it.
Isn't it marvelous?
Yes, it is.
It isn't cocked.
Calvin.
Hold it.
Connie, smile.
Calvin!
Smile.
Give me the camera.
Give me the camera.
I want a really good picture.
I want a shot of you three men.
Not until I get you two.
Give her the goddamn camera!
Smile.
Who's hungry?
I'll make
the sandwiches.
[crash]
Beth!
It can be saved.
That was so dumb.
I don't think
he's happy in school.
Have you talked
to his teachers?
People don't
want to be with him.
He provokes people.
Well, it's an awkward age.
Thank you.
Maybe he needs a change.
Is he eating enough?
Yes, mother.
He'll be all right...
If you're firm with him.
I think he should
go away to school.
I can't deal with him.
Who'd make that decision?
I suppose this
doctor he's seeing.
What sort of doctor
Would make that
decision for you?
A psychiatrist.
I thought that was finished.
No.
What's his name?
Berger.
Jewish doctor?
I suppose he's jewish.
Maybe just german.
What does
cal say about
all this?
This can be saved.
It's a nice clean break.
♪ amen, amen, alleluia
♪ amen
♪ amen
O.K.
That last "e" natural
could be higher.
Officers, don't forget
your meeting tonight.
♪ mmm mm mmm
♪ mmm mm mmm
♪ mmm mmm
♪ mmm mm mmm
Hi, jeannine.
You're really a terrific tenor.
In fact,
you should be
doing the solo.
No, I...
No, I'm serious.
You sing well.
I'm getting to know your voice.
How can you hear me
if you're singing?
Well...
I don't always sing.
Sometimes I just listen.
For instance,
marcia blair
can't sing a note.
Janet fox
mouths the words
and never sings.
A detective.
Do you like vivaldi?
Telemann?
Telemann? Um...
What kind of music do you like?
Oh, uh...
Modern jazz, I like.
Folk rock, spoon on a glass.
Spoon on a glass?
Oh, you mean,
like, table spoons?
Oh, dear.
Why do I ask dumb questions?
I'm just showing off.
Why is it so hard
The first time
you talk
to somebody?
You make it look easy.
Really?
That's my bus.
I got to go.
I'll see you later!
You're really a terrific tenor.
♪ ah, you're just saying that ♪
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ ah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ♪
♪ ha ha ha ha
ha ha ha ha ha alleluia ♪
♪ alleluia, alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
♪ alleluia
Hello.
Is karen there?
Who's calling?
A friend of hers
from hillsboro.
Oh.
She's not home from school yet.
Oh, um...
Hmm...
Tell her I called.
This is conrad.
Tell her I'm feeling great
And I wanted to talk to her.
Yes, I will.
Thank you.
Hello, jeannine.
This is conrad.
Hello, jeannine.
This is conrad.
Hello, jeannine.
This is conrad.
Conrad.
Conrad?
What a dumb name.
Hello, jeannine.
This is bill.
Uuuuugh!
Hello.
Hello.
This is...
Hello. This is
conrad calling.
Jarrett.
Oh.
Oh, hi!
Listen, I was...
I was wondering
if maybe you'd like
To go out sometime.
Like on a date?
We wouldn't have
to call it a date.
We could see how it goes.
That was dumb.
Now start over.
This is conrad jarrett.
I'd love to.
When?
I didn't see you.
What do you think?
Fine.
Rawlins used to have
great scotch pines.
They look like
skeletons this year.
Hi. What do
you think?
It's very nice.
What is wrong?
Ask him what's wrong.
Maybe you won't
have to hear it
from carol lazenby.
Hear what?
I quit the swim team.
Carol thought I knew.
It happened over a month ago.
Quit? When?
Where have you
been every night?
Nowhere.
The library mostly.
I didn't think it mattered.
That was meant for me.
It's important
to hurt me, right?
You have that backwards.
Do I embarrass you
in front of friends?
"poor beth believes
every lie her son tells."
I didn't lie.
You did when
you came home at 6:30!
If the lying's starting again,
I can't stand it!
Then go to europe!
She only gives a fuck
because someone else
knew about it first!
She never came to the hospital
Because she's busy
going to goddamn
Spain and portugal!
She doesn't care
if I'm hung up by
the balls out there.
They may talk
like this at
the hospital,
But we're not at the hospital.
You never came to the hospital!
She had the flu and
couldn't come inside.
She would've
visited buck
in the hospital!
Buck never
would've been
in the hospital!
That is enough!
I won't do it again.
What in hell has happened?
Somebody better go up there.
He walks all over us,
Then you apologize to him.
You've been apologizing to him
Since he returned
from the hospital!
I'm trying to
goddamn understand him!
Don't talk to me
The way he talks to you.
Let's not fight, o.K.?
No fighting, o.K.?
Please.
Let's go upstairs.
I want to talk to you.
I didn't mean any of it.
Please don't be mad.
I'm trying to
understand what happened.
I don't know what happened.
I didn't mean it.
Tell her I'm sorry, will you?
Why don't you?
God, I can't!
I can't talk to her!
Why not?
It doesn't change anything.
It doesn't
change the way
she looks at me.
She was hurt because
you quit the team.
I don't mean just now.
I don't mean just today.
Explain it to me.
I can't. You don't
see things.
What things?
What things?
I want you to tell me.
Can't you see she hates me?
She doesn't hate you.
You're right.
She doesn't.
Please leave me alone.
Do you think
dr. Berger's helping you?
It's not his fault.
I'll be downstairs
if you need me.
Tuesday everything
was hunky-dory.
You're the doctor.
Don't take refuge
in one-liners, o.K.?
Because that pisses me off.
O.K. O.K.
Everything was fine
Till you
had the fight
with your mother?
I don't blame her.
She's got her reasons.
It's impossible,
After all the shit I've pulled.
What shit have you pulled?
I'm talking about proportion.
Now, what shit?
You can find one example.
Don't say you tried suicide.
What have you done lately?
I'll never
be forgiven for that.
Never.
You can't get out
the blood in her towels
And in her rug.
Everything had to be pitched.
The bathroom tile
had to be regrouted.
She fired the maid
Because she
couldn't dust right.
If you think I'll forgive...
She'll forgive me...
What?
I think
I just figured
something out.
What?
What is who can't forgive who.
A real problem has
a real solution.
I've heard this before.
Doesn't make it any less true.
I'm so tired.
That's some secret
you've been keeping.
So what do I do now?
Recognize her limitations.
Like she can't love me.
No. Like she can't
love you enough.
Don't blame her
for not loving you
More than she's able.
She loves my father.
She loved my brother.
It's me.
We're back
to the rotten
kid routine.
She can't
love you because
you're unlovable.
How come your dad loves you?
He feels responsible.
Besides, he loves everybody.
The guy's got no taste.
He loves you, but he's wrong.
Look...
Maybe she can't express it
The way you'd like.
Maybe she's
afraid to show
her feelings.
What do you mean?
There's someone
besides your mother
You've got to forgive.
You mean me?
For trying to off myself?
Don't stare.
What for?
Why don't you
let yourself
off the hook?
What did I do?
What did I do?
We'll talk Thursday.
Come on!
Time's up.
What did I do?
You know the rules.
What rules?
Think about it.
Just think about it.
Jesus!
Say, after going to a new high
It falls to 112 1/4,
And then rallies
on good volume.
I order to buy 4,000.
If I get the 4,000
at 113 3/4, I know
something's wrong.
But suppose I order
to buy the 4,000 shares,
And I plug in at 113 3/4.
I get 2,000 at 114,
500 at 114 1/4,
And the rest on the way up.
Then I know I'm right.
I'm going to peel off here.
See you later.
Suppose the order to buy...
He walks all over us,
And you apologize.
500 at 114...
Dad, you don't see things.
You've been apologizing
Since he returned
from the hospital.
Tell her to stop it!
Buck never would've
been in the hospital!
She hates me!
I want to be clear.
That's good.
In the car,
I was thinking,
"be clear."
I suppose
that's what
psychiatry's about...
Being precise and clear.
And honest, of course.
I'm not
a great believer
in psychiatry.
O.K.
What happens
here is between
you and him,
And I respect that.
He's better.
I can see that.
I just don't believe
in psychiatry
As a panacea for everybody.
Neither do I.
I wish I knew what
I was doing here.
You said you could
shed some light
on some things.
I meant in terms of conrad.
I knew something was wrong
Even before he tried suicide.
But I thought that...
It's clear that
he's very smart.
He's always
been an "a" student.
Naturally, I thought
intelligent people
Could work out their problems.
But you still feel responsible?
Yeah, sure I do.
It's hard not to.
It was just luck
that I happened
to be there
When he tried it.
We both could've been away.
You think of yourself
as a lucky man?
No. No, no.
I used to think that
I was a lucky person
Before the accident.
I guess the whole of life
Is nothing but an accident,
What happens to you.
That sounds like
the philosophy
of a drifter.
Yeah. Maybe.
Maybe I am drifting a little.
I can see the two of them
Drifting away from me,
And I just stand watching.
What would you
want to do about that?
Something.
I don't know what.
I feel like I'm
sitting on a fence.
They're on
opposite sides
of this fence?
Yeah... No.
I don't know.
I see her
not being able
to forgive him.
For what?
I don't know exactly.
Being too much like her.
People always think
that she and buck
are... Were alike.
But it's really she and conrad.
They were the only two
That didn't cry at the funeral.
It's not easy for me
to admit this,
But, um...
She didn't...
His mother
doesn't show him
much affection.
I'm not trying to put her down.
Did she give buck
much affection?
God, yes.
She loved buck.
Bucky got so much.
What she felt
for him was special.
He was
her first-born.
And you?
I loved buck.
I mean your wife's affection.
For me?
Yes.
She's very...
No, there's
no problem
with her for me.
We've been married
nearly 21 years.
Everybody loves beth.
For conrad,
it's been difficult.
He didn't talk about that?
We don't know
what happens here.
It doesn't come up.
I guess that's what it is.
It's private here, isn't it?
Mm-hmm.
Very private.
I think I know why I came here.
I think I came
here to talk
about myself.
O.K. Why don't we?
Hi.
Calvin?
What's the matter?
This will sound strange.
What I'm
going to say
will sound strange.
What happened?
Come inside.
Could we talk about
buck's funeral?
What?
It'll seem trivial,
but it's on my mind.
I'd like to talk about it.
When I was
getting dressed for
buck's funeral...
What could
getting dressed
for buck's funeral
Have to do with anything?
I was wearing a blue shirt.
You said,
"wear a white shirt
and other shoes."
It was nothing,
but it seemed
to stay with me.
What difference did it make
What I wore to buck's funeral?
Hear me out, beth!
No one would listen to that.
I just want to talk about it.
Why do you want to remind me?
Because I've wondered
what it mattered
what I wore.
I was crazy that day.
We were going
to our son's funeral.
You were worried
about what
I wore on my feet.
It sticks with me,
And I wanted to
tell you about it.
It's all right.
Beth! How are you?
Fine.
How are you?
I haven't seen you.
I'll call you.
How's brad?
Fabulous! Is
everything o.K.?
Isn't this madness?
It gets worse every year.
Good-bye.
May I show you this
in your size?
What?
May I show you this?
Oh, no.
No, thanks.
Bennetts, grants, and foleys.
Conrad should
get something
for my parents.
He's not getting
something for
his doctor, is he?
We should
go see dr. Berger.
What?
We could all go see him.
Why?
He thinks it's a good idea.
What's he know about me?
I've never even met him.
Wouldn't it be
easier if we all
talked about it?
What will we talk about?
Don't try to change me.
Hasn't enough happened?
Let's hold on
to what we've got.
That's what this is for.
Maybe you'll be surprised.
I don't want surprises.
I know I'm not perfect.
If I can't hug
everybody like you,
I'm sorry.
You're missing the point.
I don't want to see counselors.
This is my family.
We will solve our problems
In the privacy of our own home,
Not by running
to some...
Ready to order?
Could you give me
a few minutes?
Running to experts
every time something
goes wrong.
I know you mean well.
I want this to
be a nice christmas.
I want them all to be nice.
You and I need time together.
We must get away.
New years.
We'll spend
time in houston
With my brother.
Play some golf, relax.
I've talked to mother.
Conrad can stay with them.
Please don't worry about it.
Please,
for his sake,
don't indulge him.
We need time together.
O.K.?
O.K.
O.K.
I love you.
I love you, too.
Let's just give
things time, o.K.?
O.K.
Conrad.
Hmm?
I don't bowl.
I'm a horrible bowler.
That's all right.
Yeah. Well...
I got it.
The thing is
I'm a funny bowler.
Listen, we don't
have to go bowling.
I'm not a bowling nut.
How funny are you?
On a scale
from 1 to 10...
About a 10.
That's pretty funny.
I promise you won't look silly.
Guarantee it?
Guarantee it.
Can you break the ball?
Can't break anything
in a bowling alley.
That's what I like
about bowling alleys.
Can't even break the record.
Anyway...
Hmm? What?
It's a conversation starter.
Catchy.
You like it?
I've been working
on it all day.
Are people punished
for things they do?
By god?
Yeah.
I don't believe in god.
Not at all?
Either you do or don't.
I believe in god.
You afraid
he'll punish you
for something?
I've done
many things
I'm ashamed of.
Yeah?
So have I.
Did it hurt?
I don't remember really.
You don't want
to talk about it?
I've never really
talked about it.
To doctors,
but not to anyone else.
You're the first who's asked.
Why did you do it?
Uh...
I don't know.
It was like...
Falling into a hole.
It was like
falling into a hole.
It keeps getting bigger,
And you can't escape.
All of a sudden, it's inside,
And you're the hole.
You're trapped,
and it's all over.
Something like that.
It's not really scary,
Except when
you think back on it.
'cause you know
what you were feeling...
♪ like mcdonald's can ♪
♪ nobody can do it
♪ like mcdonald's can ♪
♪ you deserve a break today ♪
♪ so get up and get away ♪
Hey, jarrett.
How you doing?
How about some fries?
What are you doing?
Hey, lighten up.
Hey, I don't like
your attitude.
Energetic, those guys.
They were pretty funny.
No.
You thought they were.
No, I...
I'm sorry.
What for?
Anyway...
Do you want to talk?
About what?
Are you o.K.?
Yeah.
Yeah, I'm fine.
I'll give you a call.
Will you?
I want you to.
Sure.
Well...
I'll see you in choir.
O.K. Yeah.
Thanks.
O.K.
I mean, good night.
Good night.
Seven.
In preparation
for our landing in houston,
Observe the fasten
seat belt sign,
And no smoking until
well inside the terminal.
Watch this.
Pessimistic golfer.
Pessimistic golfer.
Oh, damn!
Are we two up?
Two.
Let's hustle up.
It is flat here.
But we decided
to teach you to love it.
He wants everybody
to move here.
It's good to see you.
You look tired, cal.
Why am I still hungry?
'cause you're in texas.
We'll get you home,
Get some steaks on.
A baked potato, too?
How long
has he had
that drawl?
Since joining the club.
[laughing]
It sure wasn't funny.
We weren't that bad.
I can't listen to
that buck jarrett
lecture again.
He bugs me when he does that.
Will he ever stop
kissing his picture?
Stillman, shut up.
Connie, want a ride?
Oh, no, thanks.
We could've used you today.
I don't think so.
Nobody could've helped us.
I hear you got eyes for pratt.
Made it with her yet?
Don't be a prick.
You're the prick.
You give me a goddamn
pain in the ass.
Connie, come on!
Come on!
Connie!
Connie, that's enough.
No!
No!
Let go!
Let go!
It's all right!
Just calm down.
You're crazy!
You know that?
Send him back
where he came from!
It's over.
It's over.
All right!
Shit!
Here's your hat.
You want to talk?
The guy's a nothing.
He's a zero upstairs.
Since fourth grade,
you've known that.
So you look stupid
When you let him get to you!
So I look stupid?
What's with you?
Why do you want
to be in this alone?
You know, I miss him, too.
The three of us
were best friends.
It hurts too much
to be around you.
I got to go.
Yeah, o.K.
[honk]
Hello.
Hello. Is karen there?
She...
Bill.
Hello.
Is karen there?
This is conrad jarrett.
I'm a friend of hers.
Karen's dead.
What? What?
She killed herself.
Let's have the best
christmas ever.
We can, you know.
We could have the best year
Of our whole lives.
Get the sail down!
Keep it starboard!
Get the sail down!
Starboard!
Keep trying!
I can't!
Let it out!
Let it out!
Just keep it starboard!
I can't!
Ahh!
Bucky!
Give me your hand!
We screwed up, buddy!
Dad's gonna haul ass over this!
It ain't so goddamned funny!
Don't let go!
I won't, buck!
Everything will be o.K.!
Hang on, brother!
Don't let go!
Stay with me!
Stay with me!
Stay with me!
Oh, god!
Bucky!
Buck!
Buck!
Hello.
This is conrad.
What's going on?
I need to see you.
Where are you?
I don't know.
All right.
Get to the office.
I'll meet you there.
O.K.
Good. You're here.
Something happened.
Just a minute.
Wait till we get inside.
There.
Shit.
You'd think they'd
assume there'd be
emergencies.
Don't take it off.
Just sit down.
Something happened.
What?
It's...
It's what?
Oh, god!
I need something.
What?
It keeps coming.
I can't stop it!
Don't try.
Got to get off the hook.
For what?
What I did to him!
What?
It must be somebody's fault
Or there's no point!
What point?
It happened!
Oh, no.
I don't mean that.
It's just that...
Bucky, I didn't mean it.
Bucky, I didn't mean it.
Bucky!
It wasn't your fault.
You said,
"get the sail down!"
I couldn't!
It jammed!
And then the halyard jammed!
Because the goddamned
halyard jammed!
Then you're sittin' here
screwing around!
Until it's too late!
And I'm supposed
to take care of it!
That wasn't fair.
No! And then
you say, "hang on!"
"hang on!"
Then you let go!
Why'd you let go?
I got tired!
Yeah? Well,
screw you, you jerk!
It hurts to be mad at him.
Yeah.
He just wasn't careful.
He didn't see
how a bad thing
might happen.
Bad things happen even
when people are careful.
We should've come in
When it started to look bad.
So you made a mistake.
Why did he let go?
Why?
Maybe you were stronger.
Did that ever occur to you?
How long will
you punish yourself?
When will you quit?
I'd like to.
Why don't you?
It's not that easy.
God...
I loved him.
I know.
What happened?
What started all this?
Karen.
She killed herself.
I just found out she's dead.
Jesus.
She was fine.
No. She wasn't.
She told me!
She said she was....
What?
She was busy and
feeling good and...
What?
What?
If I'd known,
I could've done something.
You're taking her on, too?
No!
No?
No, I just...
What?
That isn't it.
I feel really bad about this.
Just let me feel
bad about this!
O.K.
Listen, I feel
bad about it, too.
Why do things happen to people?
It isn't fair.
You're right.
It isn't fair.
You just do one wrong thing,
And...
Um-hmm.
And what was the one
wrong thing you did?
You know.
You know.
I hung on.
I stayed with the boat.
Exactly.
Now, you can live
with that, can't you?
I'm scared!
I'm scared.
Feelings are scary.
And sometimes they're painful.
If you can't feel pain,
You won't feel anything else.
You know what I'm saying?
I think so.
You're here.
You're alive.
Don't say you don't feel that.
It doesn't feel good.
It is good.
Believe me.
How do you know?
Because I'm your friend.
I don't know
what I would've done
If you hadn't been here.
You're really my friend?
I am.
Count on it.
Hi.
I would've called,
But I didn't
want to wake anyone.
About the other night...
I liked being with you.
I didn't like myself.
Conrad, I was stupid.
That was dumb of me to laugh.
It was my fault.
I was embarrassed.
Really?
You were embarrassed?
When those boys came in,
It was awful and awkward.
When I'm embarrassed, I laugh.
They were just
having a good time.
I let them
interfere with
what was happening.
It was dumb.
I've done lots of
dumb things lately.
I just didn't know
if you were being
straight with me.
Yeah?
Anyway, I'd like
to try it again.
It worked o.K.,
Except for the bowling.
Yes.
Yes?
Yes.
Are you going to school?
No, not on Sunday.
Have you eaten?
No, I haven't.
Do you want some breakfast?
O.K.
Mom!
All right.
How about that?
Boy, oh, boy.
I do love that.
These holes sure do love you.
We should spend more time
playing golf together.
Maybe our next vacation
strictly golf.
Pinehurst, myrtle beach...
Pinehurst would be nice.
I think
connie would
like pinehurst.
Is that deliberate
or just a reflex?
I assumed you meant him, too.
I'm surprised you
haven't called him.
I'll call him tonight.
Can we have a little drink?
Drink, yes.
Little, no.
Let's finish this.
What?
What you started.
Me? There's no point.
He controls you.
He isn't the problem.
Isn't he?
No. Let's talk about
what's bothering you.
No. Let's discuss
what's bothering you.
How did I make
you so angry with me?
You blame me for everything.
Can't you see beyond yourself?
No, I can't!
Neither can you
or anybody else!
I'm just honest.
Stop being honest
And start being generous!
Think about him!
What does he expect from me?
He wants a hug
when he passes exams?
I can't respond
when someone says,
"I did something
great. Love me."
He wants to know
you don't hate him.
Mothers don't hate their sons.
Is that what he told you?
You accept
what he says
with no questions.
I'm trying to
keep this family...
What does everyone
want from me?
Listen, we all just
want you to be happy.
Happy?
Yes.
You tell me
the definition of happy.
First, be sure
your kids are safe,
That nobody's been hit by a car
Or drowned in
your swimming pool!
Then tell me how to be happy!
I'm turning in.
Dinner was good.
Really good.
It's early.
You tired?
It was a rough week.
Your grandmother
wasn't too tough on you?
No. She was fine.
I'm glad you're back.
Good night.
Calvin?
Why are you crying?
Can I, uh...
Can I get you something?
I don't...
What did you say?
Calvin, what did you say?
Ohhh...
Tell me.
You are beautiful.
And you are unpredictable.
But you're so cautious.
You're determined, beth,
But you know something?
You're not strong.
I don't know if
you're really giving.
Tell me something.
Do you love me?
Do you really love me?
I feel the way
I've always felt about you.
We would've been all right
If there hadn't
been any... Mess.
But you can't handle mess.
You need everything
neat and easy.
I don't know.
Maybe you can't love anybody.
It was so much buck.
It's as if you
buried all your
love with him.
I don't understand that.
Maybe it wasn't even buck.
Maybe it was just you.
Maybe, finally,
it was the best of
you that you buried.
But whatever it was...
I don't know who you are.
I don't know what
we've been playing at.
So I was crying.
Because I don't know
if I love you anymore.
And I don't know what
I'll do without that.
[door slams]
Dad?
The yard looks
smaller without leaves.
Dad, what happened?
Your mother's
going away for a while.
Where?
Why?
Back to houston.
I don't know.
Why? What...
I know why.
It's me, isn't it?
No.
It's my fault.
Don't do that to yourself!
It's nobody's fault!
Things happen. People
don't always have answers.
I don't know why
I'm yelling at you.
You should do that more often.
Haul my ass a little.
Get after me.
Like you did for him.
He needed it.
You didn't.
You were always
so hard on yourself,
I never had the heart.
Oh, dad, don't.
Well, it's the truth.
I never worried about you.
I just wasn't listening.
I wasn't sending
many signals then.
You couldn't do anything.
I should've
got a handle
on it somehow.
I used to figure you had
a handle for everything.
You knew it all.
You always made us feel
everything would be all right.
I've thought about
that a lot lately.
I really admire you for it.
Don't admire people too much.
They'll disappoint
you sometimes.
I'm not disappointed.
I love you.
I love you, too.
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