My Massive Cock (2022) - full transcript
Do you have a name for it?
I like to call him the weapon
of "ass" destruction.
I just thought, "Jesus Christ,
it's going to kill me."
Celebrated from poetry to porn...
Size really matters in my line
of work.
...bigger is often seen as better.
I'm still always on the look
for the next big one
that might tick all my boxes.
There's such a thing as too big.
But, for some, it's not always
a blessing.
It's either don't go out or someone
stares at your cock, really.
Instead, it can even be a curse...
People just want your attention
because of your penis,
not because of who you are.
I feel like they're looking
at me as if, you know,
"You should be ashamed of that."
...driving some to consider
taking extreme action...
Most people are looking
for penile enlargement,
and you're looking the opposite.
I have a big, a big penis.
...when size becomes an obsession...
That was like an 11-incher.
BBC isn't the broadcasting company.
It stands for Big Black Cock.
I got offered 400 quid for someone
to set me up once.
...and a humiliation.
It really makes you feel
like, you know, less of a human.
You're always worried.
Is it big enough?
What they want is clearly
below the waistline.
They don't care about
what's up here.
All right, let's just do a little
warm up around the goals, then.
Back to a light jog, then!
I'm 35.
Ancl my cock is about 9.4 inches
erect.
They are a bit tight, I know.
Don't worry about it.
Football coach Scott is single
and looking for love,
but his mates won't stop teasing him
for his big penis.
Good session, lads!
I've been joked about quite a lot,
about my click, mainly
in the changing rooms.
Scottie, how is it looking?
All right, mate!
You know, guys are always
talking about it.
Scottie, are you going to make it
dance?
They're the ones who objectify me
and have, obviously,
a bit of a laugh.
It is what it is,
at the end of the clay.
Do you think they're envious?
I think 100%, they're envious.
That's why they talk about it
all the time.
That's why they take pictures.
That's why they're always
asking questions.
First thing they thought was he
looks like an ageing porn star.
Yeah.
Ancl that's why, people I know
just said that straight away.
I generally take it in good humour.
It can be quite a laugh
and I don't mind it at times,
but it gets to a point where it can
get a bit, you know, a bit tedious.
But it's not just the lads
that are in the know.
Word has spread around town.
Randomly, I got a message saying,
"Send a pic,
the girls want to see it.
"My friend's gift."
So I just said,
"How many do you want?"
So I've literally pulled four
pictures off the group chat,
the video we've clone.
They couldn't believe it.
You're getting a reputation.
It's on my phone and I think
every single person
has seen your dick.
Seriously? Oh, God!
They're a good bunch of lads,
but, well,
I think it can affect my dating life
around this area because a lot
of people know about it.
When you quote the size,
do you use metric or imperial?
It's normally in inches.
It's weird when you start measuring
stuff in Scott's length!
15 Scott metres. Is this how it's
going to be, then, in future?
How does that feel to be in
there just having the piss taken
out of you like now?
Same as usual, really.
You know, when you've got your mates
speaking about you
and want to show it to their mates,
especially people that I don't
really know,
it does make you feel like people
just want your attention
because of your penis,
not because of who you are.
My favourite word for a penis
has to be schlong
because there's so much...
So much length to it.
Do you know what I mean? Schlong.
Like, I'm all about that.
ARCHIVE: The adolescent boy has
other problems, too.
I'm talking about his problems
in growth and development,
which can be as disturbing
to him as his sex pressures.
I used to go to a school
where we had to go swimming
in the bare.
I was so embarrassed about the size
of my penis
that I used to dread the clays we
had to go swimming.
Where every boy should realise
that the size of his genital organs
has nothing to do with fertility
or his capacity as a male.
So the average length of a penis
is just over five inches long,
and that's through many countries
and many, many studies.
Most men believe penises
are longer than that.
Our survey of 2,000 people reveals
that nearly half of British men
wish their penis was bigger.
If we're looking at a measurement
like eight inches,
probably well under 1 % of men
in the world have a penis that long.
And for those 1 %, life can sometimes
be a complete nightmare.
I've had people walk past me,
I've crossed paths with
people in the street,
and they kind of, like, stare
at you and look at me
in a way, like, you know, "Why
have you got that on display?"
Or, "Why, why...
Why would you have that?"
It's kind of like, nearly
as if I feel like they're looking
at me as if, you know,
"You should be ashamed of that.
"Do something about that."
I've got no choice because you can
kind of see it through whatever.
It's either don't go out or someone
stares at your cock, really.
22-year-old Joe can't hide
his problem.
He suffers daily abuse due
to his size.
We usually have a tally
to see how many people looked.
Like, just back there,
someone was staring.
I usually wear underwear that's got
like a pouch in the front
because if you try and push it down,
you get like a cock hamburger
with a ball either side.
I was about 14.
I was playing football and then one
of my mates went to my other mates
and just went, "Have you seen?
"That thing is despicable!"
And then it just started as a whole
rumour around the school
about how big it was.
I was in the showers
and was like, "Oh, OK.
"Yes, it is."
It's about nine and a half now
and I'm 5'6".
So that's 66 inches.
So it's like nearly a 12th
of my height.
The scaling is off, quite off.
It's thicker than my forearm.
It's about seven around.
I can get my hand around my wrist
quite easily,
but I can't get my hand around
my own dick.
It's not the best look in the world.
Joe needs to buy special underwear,
costing him over £200 per year.
These are the ones where, if I take
more than ten steps,
it's fallen out the end.
Yeah.
Even getting dressed, balls to one
side, cock to the other,
finding the perfect sort of place
to put it.
I have to think of my
thigh-to-cock ratio.
This is essentially,
it's got an extra pouch.
It's basically for people
who have big dicks
and it's the only ones I've got that
properly sort of fit everything in.
The issue is because I'm quite a
shower,
people just automatically
presume that I've got a boner,
because, like, I can't tuck
it round the side.
Despite Joe's special pants,
he still can't hide his bulge.
I went for this interview
and I thought the interview went
really well, but suit trousers
are well-fitting, very tight.
The response I got was,
"You're not going to get the job.
We thought you were a good
candidate,
"but we thought there was
inappropriate behaviour happening."
They thought I had an erection
throughout this whole interview
and they were very much, like,
"Your attire wasn't right."
They clearly meant, you know,
"We could see your dick."
Being very well-endowed isn't always
what it's cracked up to be,
so be careful what you wish for.
I remember the first time
I saw a massive penis.
I was in my late teens
and I just thought,
"Jesus Christ,
it's going to kill me."
There's no way that some magic
trick, this is going to happen.
That was like an 11-incher
and it was bloody hell.
That was...
There's such a thing as too big.
I think men are obsessed
with their penis sizes.
It's because, maybe it's something
ingrained from their childhood.
You know, they keep talking
about it.
It's sort of something relayed
to them when they're children
and they're just like, "Oh, OK,
if I have a big penis,
"then I am literally a hot guy
"who's going to be desirable to
all women,"
and they don't understand
there's more to it.
There's definitely more to it
because a big penis is just there,
but you need to know how
to swing it.
Our survey also found a third of men
believe a larger phallus
creates better sexual satisfaction.
Only one in four women agree...
...but there's always an exception.
So I'm a size queen.
So that basically means
that I prefer to have sex with guys
that have above average
or very huge penises.
Eight inches and above would be
making it worth my while, I think.
How big are you, tell me?
Above average, I'm like seven
and a half inches.
But I get most people with my girth,
which is seven inches.
So...
But I'm still always on the look
for the next big one
that might tick all my boxes.
Bonnie and her partner, Tommy,
have been together for seven years.
What do you think about this one?
They're now taking their sex life
on fine
and Bonnie is looking to engage
with the most generously endowed
guys in the country.
Big-dick energy.
What do you think?
We've always filmed our sex life
since the first time we met.
Filmed our first sex tape
on the first night.
Yeah, I was kind of like,
"Oh, this is a guy
"that I can be completely
honest with."
Nothing that I said to him
in the bedroom over that weekend
was, like, shocking to him.
No, I was actively encouraging.
Yeah.
Actually, I've got someone else.
Yeah? Looking at his Twitter.
He's ticking the size-queen box,
that's for sure.
That is a big click.
THEY LAUGH
I'm measuring me cock, it's ten
and a half inches
from the base to the tip.
So this really matters in my line
of work.
Ex-plumber Andy Lee is making
his impressive love muscle
work for him.
With over 25,000 followers, he's now
raking it in as an adult performer.
I've seen a guy in a gym
and he saw me in the changing rooms
and, "Jesus, that's a big old cock."
He said, "Would you ever
think about doing porn?"
I was like, "|'ll do it.
I don't care."
There's 21 comments on this one.
"Jesus, look at Bearkin."
"So big, Daddy."
So there's a photo of me here
with my cock in my hand
and a sledgehammer dressed
in work gear.
So it looks like demolition,
tool in each hand,
laying pipes, smashing doors
and filling cracks.
So I just got a message
off this couple, Bonnie and Tommy.
I've seen some of their stuff
before.
I've seen some of their TikTok
videos and stuff.
They look pretty cool.
Bonnie comes across as,
like, a cock destroyer,
hopefully arrange something
for this week.
Then we can organise a video
and we can fuck hard.
It's made me a lot of the focus
of attention.
Often my reputation has preceded me
in terms of my size.
39-year-old Cambridge graduate
Matt
hasn't been able to hold down
a relationship
as a result of his ten-and-a-half
inch penis.
His previous attempts to find
a partner online
have left him feeling fetishized.
I'm not an attention seeker,
I'm not an extrovert.
I'm not a particularly social
person.
Any attention I get
because of my size, you know,
unless it's from the right person,
then I'm generally not interested
in it.
I always have the issue that people
will think you're aroused
when you're not
in a regular swimming pool.
Ancl I'm always quite a conservative
and considerate guy.
So I try to make sure if I do feel
the need to cast off the shackles
of the usual nine to five, I can go
somewhere a bit more peaceful.
Being well-endowed gets you
attention.
It doesn't get you affection.
Women are very curious.
It doesn't mean they're going
to suddenly fall in love with you.
If anything, it's more of a handicap
to actually getting a relationship
because it's something you can't
really bring up
in the courtship process.
If you bring it up,
you're a bit sleazy.
Ancl if you don't bring it up,
then it causes complications.
But really, you want a nice
compromise between someone who likes
you for your mind and for your body.
But it's very hard to get
that perfect match.
Generally, I'll use these condoms.
They are the biggest on the market.
These are supposedly about nine
and a half inches around,
so it doesn't cover everything.
For comparison, here is
a regular-sized condom.
I've been light-headed before.
Certainly at my most engorged,
it can be difficult to concentrate.
Matt has felt objectified
in the past
and his penis can attract
the wrong kind of interest.
There's one girl who made
a replica of my erect penis.
Ancl then, next clay, ghosted me,
left me without any warning.
Most baffled I've been.
Maybe not the most charming person
in the universe,
but it still hurts when what they
want is clearly below the waistline.
They don't care about
what's up here.
It's very difficult to get
your self-esteem
when you get that level of
rejection.
Matt's extreme size has led him
to take drastic measures.
He's considering a rare
and extremely complicated surgery.
I've always wondered whether it
would be a good idea
to have a reduction.
It could help if I could lose three
or four inches
and be fine, then, I don't see why
I wouldn't consider it.
So this is the kit that
you basically make a replica
of your own penis.
Showerjoe is unable to hide
his trouser torpedo
but has found a way to tackle
the attention through art.
Well, I'm making the mould
because, well, I'm an artist
and everyone
talks about my cock constantly.
It's everywhere.
Why not make an art piece out of it?
A sculpture?
Let's do something fun.
This is disgusting.
Does it feel really weird?
It is horrible.
I'm... I'm going to use it as
decoration, no doubt.
Or someone can have it as
a birthday present.
It's all dry.
Is that a good representation
of you, would you say?
Yeah, that's pretty much identical.
Not actually being attached to me,
it's weird actually feeling
the scale of it.
So, yeah, it's actually come
out pretty decent.
There's been a lot of times
where people talk to me kind
of just like,
"Oh, you've got
a massive cock.
"I kind of want to try that.
"Let's just fuck it.
"Let's just go."
But a couple of times where people
have been like,
"Nah, like, you're a nice guy,
"but we won't have sex
in case I die."
My mates specifically think
it's hilarious on birthdays,
anything, is to just send me cards
with pictures of my cock on.
Every birthday, I'm inundated
with, like, 40 cards or something
just at a party, drunk boner.
They're like, "Ha,
you're in the shower," photo.
Ancl then that was bad because I was
sending nudes on Snapchat
and accidentally sent it to our...
Sent it to our group chat.
So about 30 notifications
of screens hot,
screens hot, screens hot,
screens hot.
The level of subtlety in a Cockney
friendship group
is they're like, you know what?
just reemphasise the point.
Joe has decided to surprise
his friends
with his new masterpiece,
which he's taking down the pub.
I hope they're not horrified
or traumatised.
Yeah, that's my click! That!
Oh, my gosh.
Because you can't look away from it.
Our survey reveals that one third
of the population
have problems with penis size
in the bedroom.
And this affects women
more than men.
Yeah, it's the sort of thing,
especially when I was younger,
and, you know, first losing
virginity, that sort of thing.
People who I was hooking up with,
they'd never seen a cock before,
so we'd have sex and then they'd
be, like,
"ls sex meant to hurt like that?"
Ancl I was like, "Oh, I hope not.
Oh, no."
But because I was 15, 16,
I also didn't know.
So I was like, "Oh, this is just...
This is just normal click."
All these poor people.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Honest, I never
knew that I had a big click.
And, obviously, me being very young
and not knowing about sex,
but when you're very new to
the gay world,
I feel like everything
is quite scary.
So I started seeing this guy.
The lights were off and we were
fucking and it was good.
It was OK.
It was just very wet,
like, everywhere.
So I turned the light on
and there was just blood everywhere.
It was... It was bad.
I just remember sitting there,
click in hand in the bath,
covered in blood, crying, like...
Uh-uh-uh!
Ancl he's like, "It's normal.
It's fine."
I'm like, "It's not fucking normal."
I never had sex for
a year after that.
Sometimes you do get a bit of guilt.
It is a very harsh thing to expect
someone to be able to take...
"all of you, or take your entire
limb,
especially if you know that
someone's struggling to take it
and still trying to take it
and just, like, in pure pain.
If you... If I put myself
in that situation,
I wouldn't want that to be me.
I have had an experience
with a big penis.
So as I moved the pubic hair,
and I saw the big penis
hanging out, I'm just like,
"Oh, my God, I am tiny. I'm not
going to be able to handle this."
So you didn't do it?
You didn't go there?
No, I didn't, because it was
a little intimidating for me.
Ancl it was really big.
Really, really big!
So I'm just hoping that he...
...lives up to my expectations,
from everything that I've
seen on his Twitter.
Size queen Bonnie and partner Tommy
are meeting up for a threesome
with Big Boy Andy Lee.
Andy is ten and a half inches erect,
double the size
of an average penis.
But even he's having doubts.
To be honest, I am a bit
nervous today.
I'm not normally, but today I'm a
little bit nervous, you know.
Why are you nervous today,
do you think?
What if I don't perform?
What if I took my click
and she was like,
"Oh, it's not actually that big"?
She seems like a lovely girl.
She's very attractive, so...
Ancl I'm sure Tommy is going
to be a great side man.
OK, then.
A recent survey found that...
...in the last year.
Was she impressed by...the size?
She was impressed by it, yeah.
She was happy with that?
Yeah, she seemed very happy!
She seemed very, very happy.
So...
Bonnie's appetite for larger sized
men means she's always looking
for the next big thing.
Continue to look for more cos
I'm greedy like that.
How does that make you feel? Like,
as a guy, you're always worried,
"Is it big enough?"
Sure, there's guys with much bigger
clicks in me that are still, like,
"Is it big enough?
Is it big enough?"
I think it's, like...
It's a guy thing, innit?
I'm not sorry about saying that I
want...guys that have got big clicks.
No. No. just saying what you, innit.
just say what I want.
Plenty of men say what they want
and...
"I get it all the time", or, like...
"Your boobs aren't big enough..."
I think women's bodies are
constantly fetishised
and men definitely don't get it to
the same degree
as what a woman does.
You cannae control your anatomy...
No. ..which I suppose is me
being a bit contradictory, like,
a guy can't control his anatomy
and what size his click is, but...
Mm-hm. I think, for guys,
it's a really... It's a touchy
subject.
It's a touchy subject, yeah.
Doesn't matter who you are.
I appreciate that, but then,
what I would say is like, do some
inner work on your ego, like...
Scott is looking for love,
but has previously had problems
with intimacy due to his size.
There's been a couple of times
where we've been dating for a while,
and then, when it gets to the
sex, that's when things struggle.
You know, you try and you try,
and keep trying and...
HE STUTTERS
You know, till it works,
but it just doesn't.
Tonight, he's going on a date
with Melina,
who doesn't know about his size,
which means that Scott can
break the news himself.
It's not something I normally
reveal on the first date,
but I think I'm at that point
in my life now
where I don't wanna to mess around,
I wanna get things right
and get things out in the open.
Applying...something that's
good for the shaft.
It's a sort of penile moisturiser,
so I do this quite regularly,
to be honest.
It just feels... just feels good.
You look great. Thank you, you too.
Cheers. Cheers! Great to...see you.
Thanks for inviting me out tonight.
My pleasure. Great to see you, too.
What are you doing now?
I am going into property
development. Oh, are you?
With the evening going well,
Scott decides to flag up
what's on his mind.
So partly, you know...
Struggle of... For...dating...
If I'm... If I'm being completely
honest, is that...
I have a... I have a...
I have...a big...
A big penis.
Oh, OK. So...
No, no, in all seriousness...
So, for example, if I'm dating
somebody, and it goes further
and then they see it and then, like,
"Oh, I guess it'll be
a problem, then," or...
Ancl it causes problems.
And it's just like,
well, maybe that should have been
mentioned before. Mm-hm...
Well, thank you for sharing
that with me.
It might not just be a problem for
me, it could also be a problem
for...women who maybe can't accept
the size as well. Mm-hm.
Ancl the fact that it might upset
you, that you can't handle it and...
I don't mean "you" specifically,
but... I know what you're saying -
females in general you're interested
in romantically. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I think we connected really well cos
she was able to have
that conversation with me
and I felt like,
"Wow, that's something different...
"Something I've really been able to
talk about that before, so...
It just went really well
and we were laughing...
I'd say there's a bit
of a connection there, yeah.
It's not a topic that you'd
necessarily bring up with...
"people, like...
I mean, if I was to bring up
elements of my private anatomy,
it is quite private, isn't it?
But I thought if he thought that
things could progress romantically,
it's an important thing to bring up.
It's just hard to know,
really, what would happen!
But never say never.
Well, yeah, as I say,
never say never.
So are you going to ask her
on another date?
SCOTT LAUGHS
Am I going to ask her on another
date? Yeah. Yeah, I'd like to.
Tonight went really
well, so I'm really happy.
I didn't know my one was bigger...
...until in my early 20s,
to be honest,
because I'm not really actively
looking at hard penises.
Until people started
actually commenting on it,
and women that I know who have
slept with a lot of black guys
and they're categorically
telling me, "You're bigger,"
that's when I'm thinking, "Hmm..."
That's when I realised, "OK, maybe
I'm a bit bigger than the average."
27-year-old YouTuber Cam has felt
objectified for his size
all his adult life,
something that has led him to create
videos exploring these taboos.
The main reason why I actually
started my YouTube channel
was because I actually wanted
to tackle difficult
and controversial topics.
First topic that I felt I had
to address was race-related,
and specifically the
fetishisation of black men.
Is it true that all black men seem
to have a bigger penis
than other races, for example?
Between me and my friends,
we've got thousands of examples.
It usually kind of shows itself
when you're talking to a girl
and they will always make it known
what their preference is,
and they seem to think that's
a compliment, but it really isn't.
For example, I was talking
to a girl.
The white girl made it very,
very clear.
She categorically said, you know,
"I don't date white guys,
"I only go for black guys."
That is obviously an example
of fetishisation.
OK... That's perfect.
What's going on, the people that
miss your boy, Cam Topical juice?
Ancl I'm back with another
video for y'all,
talking about the fetishisation
of black men.
I believe that a lot of this does
come from pornography.
Fed up with the depiction
of black men in porn,
Cam decides to make a new video
exploring the big black cock fetish.
BBC isn't the broadcasting company.
It is... It stands for
Big Black Cock.
Just... I basically just typed
in "BBC"
and this is just on
one random porn site...
...and it's got 85,101 results.
So you've got related search, "BBC
Rough", "BBC Orgasm", "Black Cock",
"BBC gang bang", "BBC threesome,
"blacked"...
Oh...! How I didn't mention
this in my video - blacked.
Ancl look, look at the common theme.
It's all...
It's black men,
but look at the women.
It's not ebony women, what they call
it, that's a porn category, "ebony".
It's not black women,
it's white women,
all being drilled by
big black cocks,
you know, by BBCs.
It really kind of makes you feel
like less of a human, type thing,
because I feel like a lot of women
should be able to empathise
with this a lot because women...are
sexualised heavily in society.
You know, the male gaze,
we're just looking...at
women as sexual objects.
Women don't like that -
they...kind of feel used.
I feel exactly the same.
Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I get objectified all the time.
It's happened to me a few times.
Like, I'd fall out
with someone and they're...
They'd, like, holler back
at me and get in touch.
Not to know how I'm doing, you know
what I mean,
but because of what's down there and
then it's just like... Oh.
The fetishisation of
the willies are...
In my head, I'm like, "Right, OK,
"we can't let the team down...!"
Cos it's...!
HE LAUGHS
Cos, obviously,
you know it's not true.
Like, they say, "Oh, yeah,
black men have bigger willies."
They really don't, but in my head,
I'm like, since I'm going to
represent, let's... Let's...
Let's...keep the stereotype going.
Matt feels he has been used
only for his large penis
in previous relationships.
There was one girl who was
very into me being at my biggest,
so she found...
Online, she ordered a
custom penis pump
that I could...use to be
basically as hard as long
as she wanted it to be.
You know, "I wanna see it
fully erect,"
and obviously the only way
to do that is with pumping.
It's not something you can maintain,
an erection.
It creates a vacuum seal, and then,
even if you're not particularly
aroused,
you end up filling up the tube.
She'd be doing the cooking,
I would be encouraged
to fill this up and then
you can unplug it and then you can
go about your daily business.
She'd be able to look at me like
some sort of phallic totem pole
while we were watching TV or playing
Scrabble or...doing whatever mundane
evening activities she wanted.
Ancl when you're in a situation,
you obviously are very exposed,
and it's perhaps flattering to get
that level of attention,
but also it's very...
You know, it's degrading to be...
...you know, expected
to perform like that.
She was a size-obsessed woman,
obviously...
...and she ended up just sharing my
pictures around...
...without my consent and that was
obviously pretty hurtful as well.
Like, you know, no-one wants
to be treated like a piece of meat.
To find true love,
Matt is considering a
drastic solution for his problem
and has plucked up the courage
to visit a surgeon specialising
in penis reduction surgery.
He's meeting Dr Djakovic,
a specialist in urology.
It's exciting, but I don't know
what he can do.
I always feel a bit, you know,
"Am I big enough for a reduction?"
Just to know what the options are,
realistically, at this point.
I mean, if he can just take...an
inch off,
that might be life-changing.
Obviously nervous because you
get a bit squeamish, you know,
thinking about what could be
happening.
I just wanna know what it entails.
Hi. Hello, hi.
Can you explain to me
what the reason is for this,
well, let's say unusual request?
Because most people are looking
for penile enlargement
and you're looking the opposite.
I've had a lot of issues all
my life. I think I've never had...
'n.
I know I'll never find a partner
who is that perfect fit,
I think, at my current size,
and it would be good just to maybe
just have...a slight reduction.
What we can offer to you
is an reasonable reduction
in length and girth, if this
is what you're looking for. Yes.
Then the surgery
will be clone in erection
and then we do the amputation
of that...amount,
what...is your desire.
Cos I'm definitely at the point
where I don't know how much
I would sensibly want to remove.
Ancl I'm assuming you couldn't
just take a little bit off
with a little bit more of surgery,
theoretically?
Yeah, well... Don't think you'd do
that, but...
Well, we can't do
the salami technique.
You can't cut a little bit and
each year, to cut a little bit,
so once we have clone it, that's it.
Yeah.
Is it possible?
Can I see your penis? Yes.
What size do have an erection?
About ten...and a half, yeah.
What would be the
appropriate length of your penis?
I don't know. I think of going down
to even just, like, nine or...
Nine inches? And the
reduction in girth is how much?
What do you think? Uh... Probably
about an inch...or two?
An inch? In circumference?
Not too... Yeah.
This is definitely possible. Yeah.
We put it in erection,
the corporeal body, you see here,
you fill it completely... Yeah.
Ancl then the measures are taken.
Then this will be amputated... Yeah.
Take off this part and then put
everything together. OK.
Ancl this is now
in complete erection.
First of all, you should know that
they are performed very seldomly
because there is no clear statistics
regarding success rate... OK.
...nor a clear statistic regarding
the complication rate.
But we have, per year, two or three
of these patients,
performing this type of surgery.
Thank you.
I did not realise the sheer number
of complications,
the possible difficulties,
the lack of an exact removal.
Just having spoken to someone
who knows the subject so well,
gave me that reassurance.
It's definitely an extreme solution,
but it's certainly something
that I could be considering.
So sometimes I do wish
I was a little bit smaller.
I would probably still be in one
or two of my relationships
from the past if I had
a smaller penis, you know.
So, yeah, sometimes I do wish I had,
I was a smaller size, yeah.
It's not difficult to attract love.
Might be somewhat difficult...
...keeping it, you know,
like, just depending on
how that partner,
how sex is affected with that
partner, for example.
If it's something that, you know,
if she loves, you know,
the situation that's there,
then incredible.
But if it's a problem,
then that's...
I don't want to say red flags,
she can't take dick.
You know what I mean, like,
that's not what I'd say,
but it's more like a,
it's definitely amber.
The date with Melina.
It went really well.
But there just wasn't quite
that connection in the end,
I think, so we've parted ways.
Scott's very large penis has often
meant sex has been difficult
in his relationships.
But at last, things are looking up.
I'd a new date since. I just met
somebody on a random night out.
We went on a date last night and
it really well, I think anyway.
I'd like to see where things go
with that, if I'm honest.
But while I was with her,
dancing with her...
...one of the guys went up to
her and just basically said,
"Yeah, Scott's got a big cock".
I was quite annoyed about
it cos again,
I don't want people to know
me because of that.
I want people to know me
for my personality.
As well as ruining his date,
the videos of Scott's penis
continue to do the rounds
and it's getting him down.
One of the guys created something
recently, a new group on WhatsApp.
He goes, "Oh, the video came out".
Ancl then one of the one
of the guys asked, "Which video?"
He replied, "Weymouth one,
where he comes out of the shower",
and one of the guys goes,
"Oh, I've got it",
and the other guy goes,
"Oh, yeah, I've got that
in my wank bank".
They've taken it without me knowing.
Just casually having a shower, come
out afterwards, getting changed.
And that happens.
It's that sort of stuff
just gets sent around.
That's not what I want
to be known for.
INTERVIEWER: Why have you put
up with it for so long?
Why have you not said anything?
Maybe I don't say it enough
that actually,
"Come on, guys, let's put
a stop to it for, you know,
"don't take it without my consent.
You know, enough's enough, really".
So I'm going to give my mate a call
and have a chat with him.
Would it be OK to catch up with you?
Bye.
So we'll see what happens.
YouTuber Cam is exploring
the fetishisation of black men
for a new video for his channel.
I'm expecting big clicks, expecting
women to be throwing themselves
at these black men on the stage.
Let's see what happens.
Tonight, he's visiting an all-male
black strip show to find out what's
so fascinating to the women
in the audience.
It's the whole shit.
Let's go. Two, one...
SCREAMING
To keep the audience satisfied
and to live up to the
stereotype of the black man,
the performers go to great LENGTHS.
It's just like an air vacuum.
Because there's nothing
here to arouse us,
like women or whatever,
we have to stimulate
that effect somehow.
So we use these pumps to get
all the blood in the penis.
Ancl then tie off the base
so the blood stays in.
Because if your performance is 20
minutes, 25 minutes,
nobody's really looking to
see a soft penis.
Having felt fetishised
himself in the past,
Cam wants to know
what the appeal is.
This idea of BBC,
the fetishisation of things.
What's your opinion on that?
Black men have been big clicks,
for example. Is that true?
I must say they're not all
the same size.
Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool.
They're not all massive. I think it is
very much a stereotype. Yeah. Yeah.
But me, personally, I've been with
some guys that have they got
smaller penises.
Ancl they're black as well, yeah?
What's the pros and cons
of a big penis?
I mean, pros is to say that,
yeah, you took a big, big penis.
Oh, OK, OK, OK. OK.
You can handle that.
To be fair,
because the reason I ask
is because what's your opinion
on, say, for example,
white women are only go for
black men, for instance?
I feel like if you're, the only
reason you'll go for black men
is because you think they got a big
click and you need to educate yourself.
OK.
Being a white woman, for example,
what is it about black men
that you are attracted to?
I mean, you saw what was
on the stage, right?
If I had to choose between a lot,
like a medium to larger size,
and there's more, then I probably
would go for a medium to large size.
If, for example, a black guy doesn't
have a big penis, for example,
do you think it's a bit of fun
to him, for example, that there's
this narrative that all black men
must have big clicks, but actually
there's a lot of men out
there that don't have big clicks?
As a woman, you have
to take responsibility to,
to support your man and say, you
know, "I like you the way you are".
But if you don't like the guy the
way he is, then you have to move on.
One of the major things
I've learned is that people
who have a preference, for example,
especially if they kind of fetishise
a certain race, they'll always do
mental hula hoops to kind
of rationalise it and justify
it in their mind.
A lot of these women, I think
secretly they do like the idea
of this BBC type thing,
but not all of them do.
When the white woman I actually
interviewed, she made a point
about actually it's just about
making men feel comfortable
no matter what the size.
This belief is much more common
amongst younger Brits.
I think it's a really good way
to judge the honesty of a man
to actually say,
"What is your size?
"Now prove it".
So that one's for girth.
It's an old-fashioned idea
that the bigger the cock,
the bigger the man.
Ancl it seems to be that a big cock
equals a like a really,
really manly person.
No such thing as an alpha male.
It's a complete fad.
There's a lot of positives to
having a big penis.
But I don't, I don't think having a
big penis should make anyone feel,
we shouldn't be any less of a man,
if I had a smaller penis.
Scott's had enough of the banter
and relentless sharing of pictures
amongst his team-mates.
He's meeting his mate,
Alec, in the hope
that something will change.
It's to do with obviously my penis
and a bit of banter about it
with you and the guys,
and you're one of the sort
of main forefront of it
and I feel at times
I feel a bit objectifying.
It sort of hampered my
dating scene locally
because everyone knows about it.
I think it's more a
celebration, though.
I think if you're honest, Scott,
I think you like a little bit
of the notoriety of it. I can
understand it could hamper you,
but I think it could also really
benefit you as well.
How would you feel if that was
your click being shown around?
I think I'd love it.
You'd love it? Yeah.
It's when pictures are taken and
videos are taken that aren't consented,
that get sent to the mates,
work colleagues
and people just know
Scott Newman for that.
Put all around Dorset and Somerset.
Listen, I know,
but the guys, it is in good humour.
Just imagine if it was like, say,
your wife's tits being sent around.
No-one would have access
to, to that.
No, but then why should they
have access to me?
You're in a changing room.
If were honest,
around the guys, you're not shy.
Not that you have to be.
When I'm in that situation, I
try and say, "Look, that's enough",
they keep going with it
or just keeps carrying on.
But I think I'm at that point
now where I'm like...
I still see it as a positive,
but I do understand that...
Yeah, no, I appreciate that.
...you're subject to a lot of
conversation. Yeah, I am.
Ancl I don't want... The only thing
worse than being spoken about
is not being spoken about.
You know that, Scott.
But I will have a
word with the guys,
if it would make life
in the changing room
a little bit easier on match clay.
I would definitely appreciate that.
Yeah?
I think it is all clone
in good humour.
But I can imagine, you know,
when the match has stopped,
the changing rooms are filled
and he goes home,
that perhaps it does maybe
weigh on him a little bit.
I don't think the guys know,
I certainly didn't know.
And, you know, I'm glad
he brought it to our attention.
And, you know, I probably
will perhaps act
a little bit differently.
I do feel a lot more confident
that he'll put it towards the lads
and subtly and sort of say,
yeah, you know,
"This is how Scott feels",
and so I'm hoping that will happen.
Maybe just give me a bit
more respect and
just, you know, just let me know
if you want to take a picture or,
you know, just don't do it
without me not knowing, you know?
Oh, my God.
Names for penises that
people have told me.
Little johnny.
You know, Whopper.
That's it, Destroyer.
Purple-headed Destroyer.
Dick, cock.
Uh...
I used to call him jimmy.
I don't know why.
I think just Old Willy or in
Scotland they say Bobby,
I think that's just a
bit boring, wasn't it?
So I just gave him, like,
a different name, Jimmy, just to,
I don't know why it was a
boring name anyway, so.
The timing's have worked out
that I've got to phone the doctor
now to let him know my decision.
It's been 20 days since his visit
to the surgeon to discuss a penis
reduction, and Matt has been
carefully considering his options.
Hello, this is Matt calling about
the recent reduction appointment.
Yeah, Matt...
Yes, I just wanted to say thank
you for your time.
It was really enlightening,
but I think you made it very clear
all of the risks.
Ancl until I'm 100% sure,
I don't think I can really go
along with it.
It's a very severe procedure.
Yeah.
Ancl I think this is a good idea
just if you're not sure.
Cheers. Thank you, bye. Bye.
I think what you want
is to be a good side of average.
But you should be proud
of yourself for who you are,
what your personality is,
what your accomplishments are,
not for what's between your legs.
You don't wanna give up too much,
still a romantic at heart.
So you want to think there's
someone out there for me,
whether that is reduced me or not.
Hopefully I can find enough peace
in myself with whatever conclusion
I come to that I will find
that person.
That's why it's really important
to the carrier of a big penis
to understand that, you know
your value of self should not
be attributed to your penis.
Like there's a lot more
to you than your penis.
So that's not something
that you want to go
bigging up in a conversation.
There's a thousand
things to bring up
before bringing up the
size of your penis.
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I like to call him the weapon
of "ass" destruction.
I just thought, "Jesus Christ,
it's going to kill me."
Celebrated from poetry to porn...
Size really matters in my line
of work.
...bigger is often seen as better.
I'm still always on the look
for the next big one
that might tick all my boxes.
There's such a thing as too big.
But, for some, it's not always
a blessing.
It's either don't go out or someone
stares at your cock, really.
Instead, it can even be a curse...
People just want your attention
because of your penis,
not because of who you are.
I feel like they're looking
at me as if, you know,
"You should be ashamed of that."
...driving some to consider
taking extreme action...
Most people are looking
for penile enlargement,
and you're looking the opposite.
I have a big, a big penis.
...when size becomes an obsession...
That was like an 11-incher.
BBC isn't the broadcasting company.
It stands for Big Black Cock.
I got offered 400 quid for someone
to set me up once.
...and a humiliation.
It really makes you feel
like, you know, less of a human.
You're always worried.
Is it big enough?
What they want is clearly
below the waistline.
They don't care about
what's up here.
All right, let's just do a little
warm up around the goals, then.
Back to a light jog, then!
I'm 35.
Ancl my cock is about 9.4 inches
erect.
They are a bit tight, I know.
Don't worry about it.
Football coach Scott is single
and looking for love,
but his mates won't stop teasing him
for his big penis.
Good session, lads!
I've been joked about quite a lot,
about my click, mainly
in the changing rooms.
Scottie, how is it looking?
All right, mate!
You know, guys are always
talking about it.
Scottie, are you going to make it
dance?
They're the ones who objectify me
and have, obviously,
a bit of a laugh.
It is what it is,
at the end of the clay.
Do you think they're envious?
I think 100%, they're envious.
That's why they talk about it
all the time.
That's why they take pictures.
That's why they're always
asking questions.
First thing they thought was he
looks like an ageing porn star.
Yeah.
Ancl that's why, people I know
just said that straight away.
I generally take it in good humour.
It can be quite a laugh
and I don't mind it at times,
but it gets to a point where it can
get a bit, you know, a bit tedious.
But it's not just the lads
that are in the know.
Word has spread around town.
Randomly, I got a message saying,
"Send a pic,
the girls want to see it.
"My friend's gift."
So I just said,
"How many do you want?"
So I've literally pulled four
pictures off the group chat,
the video we've clone.
They couldn't believe it.
You're getting a reputation.
It's on my phone and I think
every single person
has seen your dick.
Seriously? Oh, God!
They're a good bunch of lads,
but, well,
I think it can affect my dating life
around this area because a lot
of people know about it.
When you quote the size,
do you use metric or imperial?
It's normally in inches.
It's weird when you start measuring
stuff in Scott's length!
15 Scott metres. Is this how it's
going to be, then, in future?
How does that feel to be in
there just having the piss taken
out of you like now?
Same as usual, really.
You know, when you've got your mates
speaking about you
and want to show it to their mates,
especially people that I don't
really know,
it does make you feel like people
just want your attention
because of your penis,
not because of who you are.
My favourite word for a penis
has to be schlong
because there's so much...
So much length to it.
Do you know what I mean? Schlong.
Like, I'm all about that.
ARCHIVE: The adolescent boy has
other problems, too.
I'm talking about his problems
in growth and development,
which can be as disturbing
to him as his sex pressures.
I used to go to a school
where we had to go swimming
in the bare.
I was so embarrassed about the size
of my penis
that I used to dread the clays we
had to go swimming.
Where every boy should realise
that the size of his genital organs
has nothing to do with fertility
or his capacity as a male.
So the average length of a penis
is just over five inches long,
and that's through many countries
and many, many studies.
Most men believe penises
are longer than that.
Our survey of 2,000 people reveals
that nearly half of British men
wish their penis was bigger.
If we're looking at a measurement
like eight inches,
probably well under 1 % of men
in the world have a penis that long.
And for those 1 %, life can sometimes
be a complete nightmare.
I've had people walk past me,
I've crossed paths with
people in the street,
and they kind of, like, stare
at you and look at me
in a way, like, you know, "Why
have you got that on display?"
Or, "Why, why...
Why would you have that?"
It's kind of like, nearly
as if I feel like they're looking
at me as if, you know,
"You should be ashamed of that.
"Do something about that."
I've got no choice because you can
kind of see it through whatever.
It's either don't go out or someone
stares at your cock, really.
22-year-old Joe can't hide
his problem.
He suffers daily abuse due
to his size.
We usually have a tally
to see how many people looked.
Like, just back there,
someone was staring.
I usually wear underwear that's got
like a pouch in the front
because if you try and push it down,
you get like a cock hamburger
with a ball either side.
I was about 14.
I was playing football and then one
of my mates went to my other mates
and just went, "Have you seen?
"That thing is despicable!"
And then it just started as a whole
rumour around the school
about how big it was.
I was in the showers
and was like, "Oh, OK.
"Yes, it is."
It's about nine and a half now
and I'm 5'6".
So that's 66 inches.
So it's like nearly a 12th
of my height.
The scaling is off, quite off.
It's thicker than my forearm.
It's about seven around.
I can get my hand around my wrist
quite easily,
but I can't get my hand around
my own dick.
It's not the best look in the world.
Joe needs to buy special underwear,
costing him over £200 per year.
These are the ones where, if I take
more than ten steps,
it's fallen out the end.
Yeah.
Even getting dressed, balls to one
side, cock to the other,
finding the perfect sort of place
to put it.
I have to think of my
thigh-to-cock ratio.
This is essentially,
it's got an extra pouch.
It's basically for people
who have big dicks
and it's the only ones I've got that
properly sort of fit everything in.
The issue is because I'm quite a
shower,
people just automatically
presume that I've got a boner,
because, like, I can't tuck
it round the side.
Despite Joe's special pants,
he still can't hide his bulge.
I went for this interview
and I thought the interview went
really well, but suit trousers
are well-fitting, very tight.
The response I got was,
"You're not going to get the job.
We thought you were a good
candidate,
"but we thought there was
inappropriate behaviour happening."
They thought I had an erection
throughout this whole interview
and they were very much, like,
"Your attire wasn't right."
They clearly meant, you know,
"We could see your dick."
Being very well-endowed isn't always
what it's cracked up to be,
so be careful what you wish for.
I remember the first time
I saw a massive penis.
I was in my late teens
and I just thought,
"Jesus Christ,
it's going to kill me."
There's no way that some magic
trick, this is going to happen.
That was like an 11-incher
and it was bloody hell.
That was...
There's such a thing as too big.
I think men are obsessed
with their penis sizes.
It's because, maybe it's something
ingrained from their childhood.
You know, they keep talking
about it.
It's sort of something relayed
to them when they're children
and they're just like, "Oh, OK,
if I have a big penis,
"then I am literally a hot guy
"who's going to be desirable to
all women,"
and they don't understand
there's more to it.
There's definitely more to it
because a big penis is just there,
but you need to know how
to swing it.
Our survey also found a third of men
believe a larger phallus
creates better sexual satisfaction.
Only one in four women agree...
...but there's always an exception.
So I'm a size queen.
So that basically means
that I prefer to have sex with guys
that have above average
or very huge penises.
Eight inches and above would be
making it worth my while, I think.
How big are you, tell me?
Above average, I'm like seven
and a half inches.
But I get most people with my girth,
which is seven inches.
So...
But I'm still always on the look
for the next big one
that might tick all my boxes.
Bonnie and her partner, Tommy,
have been together for seven years.
What do you think about this one?
They're now taking their sex life
on fine
and Bonnie is looking to engage
with the most generously endowed
guys in the country.
Big-dick energy.
What do you think?
We've always filmed our sex life
since the first time we met.
Filmed our first sex tape
on the first night.
Yeah, I was kind of like,
"Oh, this is a guy
"that I can be completely
honest with."
Nothing that I said to him
in the bedroom over that weekend
was, like, shocking to him.
No, I was actively encouraging.
Yeah.
Actually, I've got someone else.
Yeah? Looking at his Twitter.
He's ticking the size-queen box,
that's for sure.
That is a big click.
THEY LAUGH
I'm measuring me cock, it's ten
and a half inches
from the base to the tip.
So this really matters in my line
of work.
Ex-plumber Andy Lee is making
his impressive love muscle
work for him.
With over 25,000 followers, he's now
raking it in as an adult performer.
I've seen a guy in a gym
and he saw me in the changing rooms
and, "Jesus, that's a big old cock."
He said, "Would you ever
think about doing porn?"
I was like, "|'ll do it.
I don't care."
There's 21 comments on this one.
"Jesus, look at Bearkin."
"So big, Daddy."
So there's a photo of me here
with my cock in my hand
and a sledgehammer dressed
in work gear.
So it looks like demolition,
tool in each hand,
laying pipes, smashing doors
and filling cracks.
So I just got a message
off this couple, Bonnie and Tommy.
I've seen some of their stuff
before.
I've seen some of their TikTok
videos and stuff.
They look pretty cool.
Bonnie comes across as,
like, a cock destroyer,
hopefully arrange something
for this week.
Then we can organise a video
and we can fuck hard.
It's made me a lot of the focus
of attention.
Often my reputation has preceded me
in terms of my size.
39-year-old Cambridge graduate
Matt
hasn't been able to hold down
a relationship
as a result of his ten-and-a-half
inch penis.
His previous attempts to find
a partner online
have left him feeling fetishized.
I'm not an attention seeker,
I'm not an extrovert.
I'm not a particularly social
person.
Any attention I get
because of my size, you know,
unless it's from the right person,
then I'm generally not interested
in it.
I always have the issue that people
will think you're aroused
when you're not
in a regular swimming pool.
Ancl I'm always quite a conservative
and considerate guy.
So I try to make sure if I do feel
the need to cast off the shackles
of the usual nine to five, I can go
somewhere a bit more peaceful.
Being well-endowed gets you
attention.
It doesn't get you affection.
Women are very curious.
It doesn't mean they're going
to suddenly fall in love with you.
If anything, it's more of a handicap
to actually getting a relationship
because it's something you can't
really bring up
in the courtship process.
If you bring it up,
you're a bit sleazy.
Ancl if you don't bring it up,
then it causes complications.
But really, you want a nice
compromise between someone who likes
you for your mind and for your body.
But it's very hard to get
that perfect match.
Generally, I'll use these condoms.
They are the biggest on the market.
These are supposedly about nine
and a half inches around,
so it doesn't cover everything.
For comparison, here is
a regular-sized condom.
I've been light-headed before.
Certainly at my most engorged,
it can be difficult to concentrate.
Matt has felt objectified
in the past
and his penis can attract
the wrong kind of interest.
There's one girl who made
a replica of my erect penis.
Ancl then, next clay, ghosted me,
left me without any warning.
Most baffled I've been.
Maybe not the most charming person
in the universe,
but it still hurts when what they
want is clearly below the waistline.
They don't care about
what's up here.
It's very difficult to get
your self-esteem
when you get that level of
rejection.
Matt's extreme size has led him
to take drastic measures.
He's considering a rare
and extremely complicated surgery.
I've always wondered whether it
would be a good idea
to have a reduction.
It could help if I could lose three
or four inches
and be fine, then, I don't see why
I wouldn't consider it.
So this is the kit that
you basically make a replica
of your own penis.
Showerjoe is unable to hide
his trouser torpedo
but has found a way to tackle
the attention through art.
Well, I'm making the mould
because, well, I'm an artist
and everyone
talks about my cock constantly.
It's everywhere.
Why not make an art piece out of it?
A sculpture?
Let's do something fun.
This is disgusting.
Does it feel really weird?
It is horrible.
I'm... I'm going to use it as
decoration, no doubt.
Or someone can have it as
a birthday present.
It's all dry.
Is that a good representation
of you, would you say?
Yeah, that's pretty much identical.
Not actually being attached to me,
it's weird actually feeling
the scale of it.
So, yeah, it's actually come
out pretty decent.
There's been a lot of times
where people talk to me kind
of just like,
"Oh, you've got
a massive cock.
"I kind of want to try that.
"Let's just fuck it.
"Let's just go."
But a couple of times where people
have been like,
"Nah, like, you're a nice guy,
"but we won't have sex
in case I die."
My mates specifically think
it's hilarious on birthdays,
anything, is to just send me cards
with pictures of my cock on.
Every birthday, I'm inundated
with, like, 40 cards or something
just at a party, drunk boner.
They're like, "Ha,
you're in the shower," photo.
Ancl then that was bad because I was
sending nudes on Snapchat
and accidentally sent it to our...
Sent it to our group chat.
So about 30 notifications
of screens hot,
screens hot, screens hot,
screens hot.
The level of subtlety in a Cockney
friendship group
is they're like, you know what?
just reemphasise the point.
Joe has decided to surprise
his friends
with his new masterpiece,
which he's taking down the pub.
I hope they're not horrified
or traumatised.
Yeah, that's my click! That!
Oh, my gosh.
Because you can't look away from it.
Our survey reveals that one third
of the population
have problems with penis size
in the bedroom.
And this affects women
more than men.
Yeah, it's the sort of thing,
especially when I was younger,
and, you know, first losing
virginity, that sort of thing.
People who I was hooking up with,
they'd never seen a cock before,
so we'd have sex and then they'd
be, like,
"ls sex meant to hurt like that?"
Ancl I was like, "Oh, I hope not.
Oh, no."
But because I was 15, 16,
I also didn't know.
So I was like, "Oh, this is just...
This is just normal click."
All these poor people.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Honest, I never
knew that I had a big click.
And, obviously, me being very young
and not knowing about sex,
but when you're very new to
the gay world,
I feel like everything
is quite scary.
So I started seeing this guy.
The lights were off and we were
fucking and it was good.
It was OK.
It was just very wet,
like, everywhere.
So I turned the light on
and there was just blood everywhere.
It was... It was bad.
I just remember sitting there,
click in hand in the bath,
covered in blood, crying, like...
Uh-uh-uh!
Ancl he's like, "It's normal.
It's fine."
I'm like, "It's not fucking normal."
I never had sex for
a year after that.
Sometimes you do get a bit of guilt.
It is a very harsh thing to expect
someone to be able to take...
"all of you, or take your entire
limb,
especially if you know that
someone's struggling to take it
and still trying to take it
and just, like, in pure pain.
If you... If I put myself
in that situation,
I wouldn't want that to be me.
I have had an experience
with a big penis.
So as I moved the pubic hair,
and I saw the big penis
hanging out, I'm just like,
"Oh, my God, I am tiny. I'm not
going to be able to handle this."
So you didn't do it?
You didn't go there?
No, I didn't, because it was
a little intimidating for me.
Ancl it was really big.
Really, really big!
So I'm just hoping that he...
...lives up to my expectations,
from everything that I've
seen on his Twitter.
Size queen Bonnie and partner Tommy
are meeting up for a threesome
with Big Boy Andy Lee.
Andy is ten and a half inches erect,
double the size
of an average penis.
But even he's having doubts.
To be honest, I am a bit
nervous today.
I'm not normally, but today I'm a
little bit nervous, you know.
Why are you nervous today,
do you think?
What if I don't perform?
What if I took my click
and she was like,
"Oh, it's not actually that big"?
She seems like a lovely girl.
She's very attractive, so...
Ancl I'm sure Tommy is going
to be a great side man.
OK, then.
A recent survey found that...
...in the last year.
Was she impressed by...the size?
She was impressed by it, yeah.
She was happy with that?
Yeah, she seemed very happy!
She seemed very, very happy.
So...
Bonnie's appetite for larger sized
men means she's always looking
for the next big thing.
Continue to look for more cos
I'm greedy like that.
How does that make you feel? Like,
as a guy, you're always worried,
"Is it big enough?"
Sure, there's guys with much bigger
clicks in me that are still, like,
"Is it big enough?
Is it big enough?"
I think it's, like...
It's a guy thing, innit?
I'm not sorry about saying that I
want...guys that have got big clicks.
No. No. just saying what you, innit.
just say what I want.
Plenty of men say what they want
and...
"I get it all the time", or, like...
"Your boobs aren't big enough..."
I think women's bodies are
constantly fetishised
and men definitely don't get it to
the same degree
as what a woman does.
You cannae control your anatomy...
No. ..which I suppose is me
being a bit contradictory, like,
a guy can't control his anatomy
and what size his click is, but...
Mm-hm. I think, for guys,
it's a really... It's a touchy
subject.
It's a touchy subject, yeah.
Doesn't matter who you are.
I appreciate that, but then,
what I would say is like, do some
inner work on your ego, like...
Scott is looking for love,
but has previously had problems
with intimacy due to his size.
There's been a couple of times
where we've been dating for a while,
and then, when it gets to the
sex, that's when things struggle.
You know, you try and you try,
and keep trying and...
HE STUTTERS
You know, till it works,
but it just doesn't.
Tonight, he's going on a date
with Melina,
who doesn't know about his size,
which means that Scott can
break the news himself.
It's not something I normally
reveal on the first date,
but I think I'm at that point
in my life now
where I don't wanna to mess around,
I wanna get things right
and get things out in the open.
Applying...something that's
good for the shaft.
It's a sort of penile moisturiser,
so I do this quite regularly,
to be honest.
It just feels... just feels good.
You look great. Thank you, you too.
Cheers. Cheers! Great to...see you.
Thanks for inviting me out tonight.
My pleasure. Great to see you, too.
What are you doing now?
I am going into property
development. Oh, are you?
With the evening going well,
Scott decides to flag up
what's on his mind.
So partly, you know...
Struggle of... For...dating...
If I'm... If I'm being completely
honest, is that...
I have a... I have a...
I have...a big...
A big penis.
Oh, OK. So...
No, no, in all seriousness...
So, for example, if I'm dating
somebody, and it goes further
and then they see it and then, like,
"Oh, I guess it'll be
a problem, then," or...
Ancl it causes problems.
And it's just like,
well, maybe that should have been
mentioned before. Mm-hm...
Well, thank you for sharing
that with me.
It might not just be a problem for
me, it could also be a problem
for...women who maybe can't accept
the size as well. Mm-hm.
Ancl the fact that it might upset
you, that you can't handle it and...
I don't mean "you" specifically,
but... I know what you're saying -
females in general you're interested
in romantically. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I think we connected really well cos
she was able to have
that conversation with me
and I felt like,
"Wow, that's something different...
"Something I've really been able to
talk about that before, so...
It just went really well
and we were laughing...
I'd say there's a bit
of a connection there, yeah.
It's not a topic that you'd
necessarily bring up with...
"people, like...
I mean, if I was to bring up
elements of my private anatomy,
it is quite private, isn't it?
But I thought if he thought that
things could progress romantically,
it's an important thing to bring up.
It's just hard to know,
really, what would happen!
But never say never.
Well, yeah, as I say,
never say never.
So are you going to ask her
on another date?
SCOTT LAUGHS
Am I going to ask her on another
date? Yeah. Yeah, I'd like to.
Tonight went really
well, so I'm really happy.
I didn't know my one was bigger...
...until in my early 20s,
to be honest,
because I'm not really actively
looking at hard penises.
Until people started
actually commenting on it,
and women that I know who have
slept with a lot of black guys
and they're categorically
telling me, "You're bigger,"
that's when I'm thinking, "Hmm..."
That's when I realised, "OK, maybe
I'm a bit bigger than the average."
27-year-old YouTuber Cam has felt
objectified for his size
all his adult life,
something that has led him to create
videos exploring these taboos.
The main reason why I actually
started my YouTube channel
was because I actually wanted
to tackle difficult
and controversial topics.
First topic that I felt I had
to address was race-related,
and specifically the
fetishisation of black men.
Is it true that all black men seem
to have a bigger penis
than other races, for example?
Between me and my friends,
we've got thousands of examples.
It usually kind of shows itself
when you're talking to a girl
and they will always make it known
what their preference is,
and they seem to think that's
a compliment, but it really isn't.
For example, I was talking
to a girl.
The white girl made it very,
very clear.
She categorically said, you know,
"I don't date white guys,
"I only go for black guys."
That is obviously an example
of fetishisation.
OK... That's perfect.
What's going on, the people that
miss your boy, Cam Topical juice?
Ancl I'm back with another
video for y'all,
talking about the fetishisation
of black men.
I believe that a lot of this does
come from pornography.
Fed up with the depiction
of black men in porn,
Cam decides to make a new video
exploring the big black cock fetish.
BBC isn't the broadcasting company.
It is... It stands for
Big Black Cock.
Just... I basically just typed
in "BBC"
and this is just on
one random porn site...
...and it's got 85,101 results.
So you've got related search, "BBC
Rough", "BBC Orgasm", "Black Cock",
"BBC gang bang", "BBC threesome,
"blacked"...
Oh...! How I didn't mention
this in my video - blacked.
Ancl look, look at the common theme.
It's all...
It's black men,
but look at the women.
It's not ebony women, what they call
it, that's a porn category, "ebony".
It's not black women,
it's white women,
all being drilled by
big black cocks,
you know, by BBCs.
It really kind of makes you feel
like less of a human, type thing,
because I feel like a lot of women
should be able to empathise
with this a lot because women...are
sexualised heavily in society.
You know, the male gaze,
we're just looking...at
women as sexual objects.
Women don't like that -
they...kind of feel used.
I feel exactly the same.
Yeah, yeah, yeah,
I get objectified all the time.
It's happened to me a few times.
Like, I'd fall out
with someone and they're...
They'd, like, holler back
at me and get in touch.
Not to know how I'm doing, you know
what I mean,
but because of what's down there and
then it's just like... Oh.
The fetishisation of
the willies are...
In my head, I'm like, "Right, OK,
"we can't let the team down...!"
Cos it's...!
HE LAUGHS
Cos, obviously,
you know it's not true.
Like, they say, "Oh, yeah,
black men have bigger willies."
They really don't, but in my head,
I'm like, since I'm going to
represent, let's... Let's...
Let's...keep the stereotype going.
Matt feels he has been used
only for his large penis
in previous relationships.
There was one girl who was
very into me being at my biggest,
so she found...
Online, she ordered a
custom penis pump
that I could...use to be
basically as hard as long
as she wanted it to be.
You know, "I wanna see it
fully erect,"
and obviously the only way
to do that is with pumping.
It's not something you can maintain,
an erection.
It creates a vacuum seal, and then,
even if you're not particularly
aroused,
you end up filling up the tube.
She'd be doing the cooking,
I would be encouraged
to fill this up and then
you can unplug it and then you can
go about your daily business.
She'd be able to look at me like
some sort of phallic totem pole
while we were watching TV or playing
Scrabble or...doing whatever mundane
evening activities she wanted.
Ancl when you're in a situation,
you obviously are very exposed,
and it's perhaps flattering to get
that level of attention,
but also it's very...
You know, it's degrading to be...
...you know, expected
to perform like that.
She was a size-obsessed woman,
obviously...
...and she ended up just sharing my
pictures around...
...without my consent and that was
obviously pretty hurtful as well.
Like, you know, no-one wants
to be treated like a piece of meat.
To find true love,
Matt is considering a
drastic solution for his problem
and has plucked up the courage
to visit a surgeon specialising
in penis reduction surgery.
He's meeting Dr Djakovic,
a specialist in urology.
It's exciting, but I don't know
what he can do.
I always feel a bit, you know,
"Am I big enough for a reduction?"
Just to know what the options are,
realistically, at this point.
I mean, if he can just take...an
inch off,
that might be life-changing.
Obviously nervous because you
get a bit squeamish, you know,
thinking about what could be
happening.
I just wanna know what it entails.
Hi. Hello, hi.
Can you explain to me
what the reason is for this,
well, let's say unusual request?
Because most people are looking
for penile enlargement
and you're looking the opposite.
I've had a lot of issues all
my life. I think I've never had...
'n.
I know I'll never find a partner
who is that perfect fit,
I think, at my current size,
and it would be good just to maybe
just have...a slight reduction.
What we can offer to you
is an reasonable reduction
in length and girth, if this
is what you're looking for. Yes.
Then the surgery
will be clone in erection
and then we do the amputation
of that...amount,
what...is your desire.
Cos I'm definitely at the point
where I don't know how much
I would sensibly want to remove.
Ancl I'm assuming you couldn't
just take a little bit off
with a little bit more of surgery,
theoretically?
Yeah, well... Don't think you'd do
that, but...
Well, we can't do
the salami technique.
You can't cut a little bit and
each year, to cut a little bit,
so once we have clone it, that's it.
Yeah.
Is it possible?
Can I see your penis? Yes.
What size do have an erection?
About ten...and a half, yeah.
What would be the
appropriate length of your penis?
I don't know. I think of going down
to even just, like, nine or...
Nine inches? And the
reduction in girth is how much?
What do you think? Uh... Probably
about an inch...or two?
An inch? In circumference?
Not too... Yeah.
This is definitely possible. Yeah.
We put it in erection,
the corporeal body, you see here,
you fill it completely... Yeah.
Ancl then the measures are taken.
Then this will be amputated... Yeah.
Take off this part and then put
everything together. OK.
Ancl this is now
in complete erection.
First of all, you should know that
they are performed very seldomly
because there is no clear statistics
regarding success rate... OK.
...nor a clear statistic regarding
the complication rate.
But we have, per year, two or three
of these patients,
performing this type of surgery.
Thank you.
I did not realise the sheer number
of complications,
the possible difficulties,
the lack of an exact removal.
Just having spoken to someone
who knows the subject so well,
gave me that reassurance.
It's definitely an extreme solution,
but it's certainly something
that I could be considering.
So sometimes I do wish
I was a little bit smaller.
I would probably still be in one
or two of my relationships
from the past if I had
a smaller penis, you know.
So, yeah, sometimes I do wish I had,
I was a smaller size, yeah.
It's not difficult to attract love.
Might be somewhat difficult...
...keeping it, you know,
like, just depending on
how that partner,
how sex is affected with that
partner, for example.
If it's something that, you know,
if she loves, you know,
the situation that's there,
then incredible.
But if it's a problem,
then that's...
I don't want to say red flags,
she can't take dick.
You know what I mean, like,
that's not what I'd say,
but it's more like a,
it's definitely amber.
The date with Melina.
It went really well.
But there just wasn't quite
that connection in the end,
I think, so we've parted ways.
Scott's very large penis has often
meant sex has been difficult
in his relationships.
But at last, things are looking up.
I'd a new date since. I just met
somebody on a random night out.
We went on a date last night and
it really well, I think anyway.
I'd like to see where things go
with that, if I'm honest.
But while I was with her,
dancing with her...
...one of the guys went up to
her and just basically said,
"Yeah, Scott's got a big cock".
I was quite annoyed about
it cos again,
I don't want people to know
me because of that.
I want people to know me
for my personality.
As well as ruining his date,
the videos of Scott's penis
continue to do the rounds
and it's getting him down.
One of the guys created something
recently, a new group on WhatsApp.
He goes, "Oh, the video came out".
Ancl then one of the one
of the guys asked, "Which video?"
He replied, "Weymouth one,
where he comes out of the shower",
and one of the guys goes,
"Oh, I've got it",
and the other guy goes,
"Oh, yeah, I've got that
in my wank bank".
They've taken it without me knowing.
Just casually having a shower, come
out afterwards, getting changed.
And that happens.
It's that sort of stuff
just gets sent around.
That's not what I want
to be known for.
INTERVIEWER: Why have you put
up with it for so long?
Why have you not said anything?
Maybe I don't say it enough
that actually,
"Come on, guys, let's put
a stop to it for, you know,
"don't take it without my consent.
You know, enough's enough, really".
So I'm going to give my mate a call
and have a chat with him.
Would it be OK to catch up with you?
Bye.
So we'll see what happens.
YouTuber Cam is exploring
the fetishisation of black men
for a new video for his channel.
I'm expecting big clicks, expecting
women to be throwing themselves
at these black men on the stage.
Let's see what happens.
Tonight, he's visiting an all-male
black strip show to find out what's
so fascinating to the women
in the audience.
It's the whole shit.
Let's go. Two, one...
SCREAMING
To keep the audience satisfied
and to live up to the
stereotype of the black man,
the performers go to great LENGTHS.
It's just like an air vacuum.
Because there's nothing
here to arouse us,
like women or whatever,
we have to stimulate
that effect somehow.
So we use these pumps to get
all the blood in the penis.
Ancl then tie off the base
so the blood stays in.
Because if your performance is 20
minutes, 25 minutes,
nobody's really looking to
see a soft penis.
Having felt fetishised
himself in the past,
Cam wants to know
what the appeal is.
This idea of BBC,
the fetishisation of things.
What's your opinion on that?
Black men have been big clicks,
for example. Is that true?
I must say they're not all
the same size.
Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool.
They're not all massive. I think it is
very much a stereotype. Yeah. Yeah.
But me, personally, I've been with
some guys that have they got
smaller penises.
Ancl they're black as well, yeah?
What's the pros and cons
of a big penis?
I mean, pros is to say that,
yeah, you took a big, big penis.
Oh, OK, OK, OK. OK.
You can handle that.
To be fair,
because the reason I ask
is because what's your opinion
on, say, for example,
white women are only go for
black men, for instance?
I feel like if you're, the only
reason you'll go for black men
is because you think they got a big
click and you need to educate yourself.
OK.
Being a white woman, for example,
what is it about black men
that you are attracted to?
I mean, you saw what was
on the stage, right?
If I had to choose between a lot,
like a medium to larger size,
and there's more, then I probably
would go for a medium to large size.
If, for example, a black guy doesn't
have a big penis, for example,
do you think it's a bit of fun
to him, for example, that there's
this narrative that all black men
must have big clicks, but actually
there's a lot of men out
there that don't have big clicks?
As a woman, you have
to take responsibility to,
to support your man and say, you
know, "I like you the way you are".
But if you don't like the guy the
way he is, then you have to move on.
One of the major things
I've learned is that people
who have a preference, for example,
especially if they kind of fetishise
a certain race, they'll always do
mental hula hoops to kind
of rationalise it and justify
it in their mind.
A lot of these women, I think
secretly they do like the idea
of this BBC type thing,
but not all of them do.
When the white woman I actually
interviewed, she made a point
about actually it's just about
making men feel comfortable
no matter what the size.
This belief is much more common
amongst younger Brits.
I think it's a really good way
to judge the honesty of a man
to actually say,
"What is your size?
"Now prove it".
So that one's for girth.
It's an old-fashioned idea
that the bigger the cock,
the bigger the man.
Ancl it seems to be that a big cock
equals a like a really,
really manly person.
No such thing as an alpha male.
It's a complete fad.
There's a lot of positives to
having a big penis.
But I don't, I don't think having a
big penis should make anyone feel,
we shouldn't be any less of a man,
if I had a smaller penis.
Scott's had enough of the banter
and relentless sharing of pictures
amongst his team-mates.
He's meeting his mate,
Alec, in the hope
that something will change.
It's to do with obviously my penis
and a bit of banter about it
with you and the guys,
and you're one of the sort
of main forefront of it
and I feel at times
I feel a bit objectifying.
It sort of hampered my
dating scene locally
because everyone knows about it.
I think it's more a
celebration, though.
I think if you're honest, Scott,
I think you like a little bit
of the notoriety of it. I can
understand it could hamper you,
but I think it could also really
benefit you as well.
How would you feel if that was
your click being shown around?
I think I'd love it.
You'd love it? Yeah.
It's when pictures are taken and
videos are taken that aren't consented,
that get sent to the mates,
work colleagues
and people just know
Scott Newman for that.
Put all around Dorset and Somerset.
Listen, I know,
but the guys, it is in good humour.
Just imagine if it was like, say,
your wife's tits being sent around.
No-one would have access
to, to that.
No, but then why should they
have access to me?
You're in a changing room.
If were honest,
around the guys, you're not shy.
Not that you have to be.
When I'm in that situation, I
try and say, "Look, that's enough",
they keep going with it
or just keeps carrying on.
But I think I'm at that point
now where I'm like...
I still see it as a positive,
but I do understand that...
Yeah, no, I appreciate that.
...you're subject to a lot of
conversation. Yeah, I am.
Ancl I don't want... The only thing
worse than being spoken about
is not being spoken about.
You know that, Scott.
But I will have a
word with the guys,
if it would make life
in the changing room
a little bit easier on match clay.
I would definitely appreciate that.
Yeah?
I think it is all clone
in good humour.
But I can imagine, you know,
when the match has stopped,
the changing rooms are filled
and he goes home,
that perhaps it does maybe
weigh on him a little bit.
I don't think the guys know,
I certainly didn't know.
And, you know, I'm glad
he brought it to our attention.
And, you know, I probably
will perhaps act
a little bit differently.
I do feel a lot more confident
that he'll put it towards the lads
and subtly and sort of say,
yeah, you know,
"This is how Scott feels",
and so I'm hoping that will happen.
Maybe just give me a bit
more respect and
just, you know, just let me know
if you want to take a picture or,
you know, just don't do it
without me not knowing, you know?
Oh, my God.
Names for penises that
people have told me.
Little johnny.
You know, Whopper.
That's it, Destroyer.
Purple-headed Destroyer.
Dick, cock.
Uh...
I used to call him jimmy.
I don't know why.
I think just Old Willy or in
Scotland they say Bobby,
I think that's just a
bit boring, wasn't it?
So I just gave him, like,
a different name, Jimmy, just to,
I don't know why it was a
boring name anyway, so.
The timing's have worked out
that I've got to phone the doctor
now to let him know my decision.
It's been 20 days since his visit
to the surgeon to discuss a penis
reduction, and Matt has been
carefully considering his options.
Hello, this is Matt calling about
the recent reduction appointment.
Yeah, Matt...
Yes, I just wanted to say thank
you for your time.
It was really enlightening,
but I think you made it very clear
all of the risks.
Ancl until I'm 100% sure,
I don't think I can really go
along with it.
It's a very severe procedure.
Yeah.
Ancl I think this is a good idea
just if you're not sure.
Cheers. Thank you, bye. Bye.
I think what you want
is to be a good side of average.
But you should be proud
of yourself for who you are,
what your personality is,
what your accomplishments are,
not for what's between your legs.
You don't wanna give up too much,
still a romantic at heart.
So you want to think there's
someone out there for me,
whether that is reduced me or not.
Hopefully I can find enough peace
in myself with whatever conclusion
I come to that I will find
that person.
That's why it's really important
to the carrier of a big penis
to understand that, you know
your value of self should not
be attributed to your penis.
Like there's a lot more
to you than your penis.
So that's not something
that you want to go
bigging up in a conversation.
There's a thousand
things to bring up
before bringing up the
size of your penis.
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