Mary & Tim (1996) - full transcript
The love that develops between a mentally challenged young man and the older, lonely widow who takes him under her wing.
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(hammering)
(woman speaking on TV)
Three, four, squat, squat,
squat, squat...
To the left...
Now, start to the right...
To the left and hold.
Two, three, four and hold.
More, more, more,
coming around.
Tippy toe stretches for our
calves, good, two, three,
four, turning around.
Three... (exhaling)
And breathing out, we start
again, grab that rainbow,
pull it, yank it, good.
Two, three, four.
Now bend to the earth.
Reach and touch, two...
(inhaling)
Three, four and squat,
Squat, squat, squat.
And reaching to the right.
Left, now reach to the stars.
First to the right.
Then the left.
I don't honestly think either
one of us is ever gonna look
like that, do you?
Not if you sit in that chair,
you won't.
Maybe if I wore that outfit.
What outfit?
She's wearing a bra
and dental floss.
Did I leave the door open?
I used my key.
It's amazing, isn't it,
how simply watching an exercise
program can actually affect
the metabolic process?
Might those be cookies in a bowl
of milk?
They have fiber in them.
Besides, haven't you heard
your whole life how cookies
and milk make the perfect
combination?
(dog barking)
Oh, joy, more workmen
have arrived.
Well, at least they're
on schedule.
Do your best.
Always.
Thanks, Dad.
Hey, guys.
Yo, Tim, how's it going?
Good, my mom baked
Mrs. Hutman some muffins.
Does this go in
the dishwasher?
Mary?
Brian was good
with his hands.
He built the gardening shed
for Mom.
Just about single handedly kept
this house on its
foundation until she died.
Your mother would be very
proud of how beautifully you've
taken care of this house.
Say, are you in the mood
to peel beets?
Ooh, no, thank you.
I don't even want to be in the
same house with beets.
Bye, neighbor.
(vegetables snapping)
(drill saw powering down)
Hey, Tim, do me a favor.
I have a problem with the hose.
Some kind of blockage.
It'll only take a minute.
I'd really appreciate the help.
Let me get these boards in
the house. Good thinking.
I just called you.
I'm not home.
And I won't be
until much later.
You want some more coffee?
No, I want to tell you why
I came over in the first place.
Okay, tell.
Well, "ask" really.
Are you doing anything tonight?
Several things is more
like it.
I'm spending a few hours at the
animal shelter.
And then I'm spying on another
bookstore to see what their book
signings are like.
Okay, just chalk it up
to another lost opportunity.
Let me guess.
Another last minute fix-up and
this time he's really
Mister Perfect.
Well, no, he's not, but I did
mention to him that you were,
and that you might be at dinner.
Sorry, thanks anyway.
Good luck.
Look down inside and tell me
if you see anything.
You see anything?
What's going on?
Now?
(laughing)
Oh!
Ow!
Are you all right?
Yes.
What happened?
He's accident-prone.
Bill, turn off the water.
Steve.
Get back to work.
I'm really sorry.
I could do something to fix it.
I know how,
and I could if you wanted.
Go on, I'll work it out.
Hey, we know you didn't do it
on purpose, huh?
It's okay.
Go on, that's a good guy.
How in the world did that
happen?
Have your gardener replace
the plants and you, uh,
send me the bill.
Thank you.
I don't have a gardener.
He quit last week.
Something about hay fever.
Just tell me what to order
and I'll find somebody.
Well, let's see: foxgloves,
impatiens, marigolds...
Dale's azalea.
What about your worker?
Which worker?
The one who did it.
You mean to fix it up?
Well, he said he could.
That, uh, young man, uh,
he's a few cans short
of a six-pack,
if you know what I mean.
I don't care if he has two
heads as long as he can do
the work.
Is there a possibility he knows
something about gardening?
His old man's a retired
landscaper.
We go back a ways.
Tell me what you want him to do.
This guy has played tricks
on you before, right?
He plays lot of tricks on me.
All right, so you should have
been on your guard against him,
right?
I should have been on my
guard with him, that's for sure.
Okay, now.
The next time, this same guy
asks you to do something for
him, what's the first thing
that's going to pop up in your
mind, huh?
The first thing, the first
thing... that's going to pop up
in your mind is "This guy plays
tricks on me.
Maybe he doesn't really want me
to do something for him at all.
Maybe he just wants
to play a trick."
I'm never going to fix
the hose for him anymore.
You're damn right you're not.
You're never going to do
anything for him anymore 'cause
he can't be trusted.
That's for sure.
Good boy.
Except I might do something
for him sometimes because
he's a pretty nice guy.
Go tell your sister and
Steven to wash up for supper.
What would you say if I asked
you to marry me?
(chuckling)
If you asked me to marry you?
I'm conducting the Justine
Melville preliminary survey.
(laughing)
Oh, oh.
Mom says it's time to wash up
for supper.
(gasping)
Tim, don't ever do that!
Mom told me to.
(laughing)
No, I know, but what I mean
is, um, don't, uh, sneak up on
people, especially when they're
together.
Alone.
Let them know you're there
by knocking on the door and
saying, "Excuse me."
Excuse me.
Hey, guess who I ran into
downtown this afternoon?
Hank Pearn.
Hank? Mm-hmm.
That lived across the street
from us when the kids were
little? Same guy.
Oh, for heaven's sake.
Heavier, same frizzy hair,
only less of it.
I told him Justine was
practically a judge now.
Dad, that would make me the
only person in history
to graduate law school
and go directly to the bench.
He asked me if I was talking
about the little kid with the
two front teeth missing.
Dad!
(chuckling)
Steven, you've hardly eaten.
Are you sick?
No, no...
Um...
I'm just a little nervous.
Okay, um, there's something
I have to do, and...
I guess I'd better get it
over with.
(chuckling)
Justine, with your family
as my witness,
I'm kneeling on your kitchen
floor, which is murder on my
right patella,
to ask you to be my wife.
It's a ring.
(chuckling)
So if it so pleases the
Court, the plaintiff...
(chuckling)
requests an answer
of "yes" or "no".
Your Honor?
Honey?
Yes, yes.
(laughing)
Oh, that's great.
Congratulations.
Congratulations, darling.
That's wonderful.
Come here.
I'm getting married, Timmy.
I thought that's what it was.
Come here, give me a hug.
(all laughing)
(light knocking on door)
I'm not sleepy.
Mom: Any idea why?
Is Justine going away?
You mean when she marries
Steven?
Uh-huh.
Yes.
She and Steven will live
together.
Will she come back like when
she came back from college?
She'll come back to visit,
but she won't live here again.
Will she still be my little
sister?
Forever and always.
But I'm going to have a life
with Steven now, Timmy.
We're going to have our
own home together.
Someday we'll even
have children.
Everything that's the end
of one thing, Tim, is the
beginning of something else.
Ant that makes this happy and
sad at the same time.
Why can't Steven come
live here?
He's leaving his family, too
to be with me.
That's what you do
when you grow up.
I want you to live with me.
We'll live together again
someday, Timmy.
When?
You know, my brother missed
me when I left home to marry
your dad.
But if I hadn't married him,
I wouldn't have you two angels,
would I?
Sometimes I'm not an angel.
No...
(chuckling)
It's time for sleep.
Okay, I guess you can marry
Steven.
Thanks, big brother.
Now that I have your permission,
I will.
Good night.
(meowing)
You know, as long as I have
to get up every four hours to
dole this stuff out, the least
you could do is to have
a good attitude.
Come on, come on.
Good.
(meowing)
All right, that's it.
Cats.
(meowing)
They ought to make tuna-flavored
medicine for cats.
Remember, it's Saturday.
It's the day we sleep in.
(dog whimpering)
(lawn mower powering up)
(motor revving loudly)
(dog barking)
Excuse me.
Excuse me.
What do you think you're doing?
That must be a trick
question.
No, it's not a trick
question, I just wanna know.
What exactly do you think
you're doing?
Cutting the grass.
Well, would you stop, please?
Would you stop?
I'd like...
Stop!
Do you have any idea how
inappropriate it is to just
march into someone's garage
without permission and create
ear-splitting pandemonium,
mowing a lawn nobody asked you
to mow in the first place
at 6:00-- What?
It's yellow.
It's cat medicine.
You have a sick cat?
No, I'm a volunteer
at the shelter.
Some cats needed medicating
through the night,
so I took them home.
I fixed the flowers.
Thank you.
You want to see?
Okay.
It's perfect.
How long have you been here?
Few hours.
I like to see the sun come up.
Did you ever think that if you
got up after sunrise, that you
could've slept for two days and
skipped a whole day in between
and you'd never know?
No, I never thought that.
I don't want to skip
any days, that's for sure.
No, I don't either.
I weeded and fed the flowers
and I turned the compost
in the back.
That was very thoughtful.
Thank you.
I'll pay you for any
extra work you've done.
Oh, no, you won't.
I broke the flowers
'cause I wasn't on my guard.
My dad says you have to take
responsibility for your actions.
He says "Do more than people
expect," "Always mind your
P's' and Q's" and "Never
take 'no' for an answer."
Your father has a lot to say.
That's for sure.
You can put the mower
away now.
Sorry, no can do.
I've got to finish the job.
You've got to finish the jobs
you start.
Your dad said that?
My dad says that.
He says a garden is like
the person who grows it,
and yours is pretty happy,
but it could be more
taken care of.
What's your name?
Tim.
I'm Mary, Mary Horton.
Tim, how would you like a job?
Well, I've got a job.
No, I mean, on Saturdays.
Taking care of my garden.
Sure.
I'd like that a lot.
Okay then, Saturdays.
But not before 9:00.
Not before 9:00,
that's for sure.
Mary Mary Horton?
You're a very nice person.
It's, it's just one "Mary".
Thank you.
You're a very nice person, too.
Yes, I am.
Good morning, Forbsie.
It might be good, if it
weren't for the damn cicadas.
I don't know how they can hear
themselves think.
Well, the way I understand
it, cicadae don't have brains or
ears, so as far as they're
concerned, it's just good
vibrations.
Anything happening I should
know about?
Oh, your travel agent
left a packet by the door.
It's under the counter.
Where are you off to
this year?
Well, I don't know.
Someplace quiet.
Bali, I think.
It's the rainy season there.
You better bring a good book,
if you can find one.
So, what's the scoop
about tonight?
I got the coffee, and, uh,
the rental place will deliver
the chairs by 3:00, and the
bakery called to say the
pastries will be here at 11:00.
You know when I was
spying at "Pages" the other
night, they were handing out
free bookmarks.
We don't have bookmarks.
Well, I have to go to
the nursery later, I could pick
some up on my way.
You haven't found
a gardener yet?
Actually, I think I have.
Why can't he go to
the nursery?
I'm not sure he drives.
Oh, you hired a kid?
No, a man.
Apparently with some
limitations.
How unusual.
Can he garden?
He can most definitely
garden.
And he's charming.
"Charming" is important
in a gardener.
At least Lady Chatterley
thought so.
(chatter)
Ah, one for the champ.
There you go.
Hey, Ron.
Hey, Ed, how you doing?
How you doing buddy?
Good.
Still doing construction?
Yup, and I got a new job,
too.
Oh, yeah?
I'm going to be a gardener
for the lady next door
to my other job.
I could use a little
work myself.
Tell me your secret.
I fell into the lady's bed.
(all laughing)
Come on, knock it off,
will you?
Get your minds out
of the gutter.
He had an accident and fell
into the lady's flower bed.
Yeah, right.
My boy don't think that way.
Take another look, Ron.
And remember.
Boys will be boys.
(laughing)
(applause)
Thank you all very much
for joining us.
Um, in a few minutes, our
esteemed guest will be ready to
sign your books and, in the
meantime, we have refreshments
for you.
(applause)
Terrific, really terrific.
Thanks.
Mary, it was great.
I may have mentioned Joel to
you, Mary.
David's old college friend?
Uh, David's former college
friend, if you don't mind.
(chuckling)
Well, anyway, Mary Horton,
Joel Shore.
Hello.
How do you do?
Your program was nicely done.
Thank you.
As a matter of fact, I do
freelance consulting for event
packaging, so if you're
interested, uh, there may be
some ways of making these
evenings of yours even more
successful than they
already are.
We're, uh, going for a drink.
Why don't you join us and take
advantage of some free advice?
Sounds great, but I really
should stay here.
Maybe another time?
Absolutely, another time.
Nice having met you.
Joel.
You didn't even give
him a chance.
He could've been Mr. Right.
He could only have been
Mr. Right Now.
Dale, there's no such thing
as Mr. Right.
Right.
Do your best.
Always.
Thanks, Dad.
Son!
Remember, be a gentleman.
So, you know how to
prepare a plot for planting.
I know how to do that,
that's for sure.
Okay, well, um, everything
you'll need is here.
I've made a, a planting plan.
It shows where I want all the
various crops to be, um...
For example, the, uh, shelling
peas go there, and the snap peas
go over here, and, um,
so on and so on.
Does that make sense to you?
I've planted vegetables
lots of times.
Okay, well, let me know
if you need anything?
Okay.
(sound of digging continues)
Excuse me.
I didn't knock on the door
because there isn't any,
but I said "Excuse me."
So, you're finished then?
Easy as pie.
Well, now I know there's at
least one other person on the
planet who can read my writing.
I didn't need the plan.
But I asked you to use
the plan for a reason.
I like to rotate my crops.
I did.
I rotated them.
How could you have
without the plan?
I can tell where you planted
things last year by the old
leaves and vines on the ground.
That's certainly a special
gift, but...
Do you by any chance wear
glasses?
No.
Tim...
Can you read?
Are you going to have
to let me go?
The thing is,
I may not always be here
when you come to garden.
In fact, I'm going away
in a few weeks, I...
I'd hoped I'd be able to leave
you instructions.
(cicadae chirping loudly)
(sighing)
They give me such a headache.
(chirping stops)
How did you do that?
He's the choirmaster.
When you stop him from singing,
they all stop.
How did you know where
to find him?
His voice is different.
I can hear him.
I can't.
I can't really read.
Have you ever tried to learn?
Once.
It's real hard.
You don't want to get
rid of him, do you?
No.
He just does
what he's made to do.
(chirping begins again)
I own a bookstore.
I bet you a nickel
I could pick out some
stories you'd like.
Probably.
Or I could teach you
how to read.
No.
Why?
Well, it would be bad if I..
If what?
If, if it were hard or,
or if it took time?
If I couldn't do it.
That'd feel bad.
Well, and I don't know
absolutely that I could teach
you, but still, we could try.
I really like you, Mary
Horton, that's for sure.
And you like me too.
(reading haltingly) "Frog... ran
up... the... path...
to... Toad's...
house.
He...
kan-nocked..."
The "K" is silent.
She's just keeping the "N"
company while he does the
talking, so it's...
"He...
knocked...
on... the...
front... door."
That's it.
"There was no answer."
"'Toad, Toad,'
shouted... Frog.
'Wake up.
It is spring.'"
"'Blah,' said a voice from
inside the house."
(chuckling)
Read that part again.
"'Blah,' said a voice from
inside the house."
(laughing)
All right, your homework
is to work on this story until
you can read the whole thing
just as beautifully as you read
this part.
Okay.
Did I tell you I'm keeping
our lessons a secret?
I'm not telling Mom or Dad.
And I'm especially not telling
Justine.
Really?
Who's Justine?
Oh, there you are.
I brought back the magazines
I borrowed.
I was just on my way in.
Uh, you remember Tim.
Hi.
Hello.
I'll be in the house
if you need me.
(dog whimpering)
Oh, giving a party
I'm not invited to?
It's Mother's china.
So it is.
I take it down every so
often and wash it.
You should use it,
not clean it.
Well, I did use it, but then
one day, not long after Brian
died, I dropped a cup and it
broke into about a million
pieces, and so did I.
That one little cup made me
feel like I lost my mother
and Brian all over again.
Stay and keep me company?
I'll dry if you trust me.
(dog barking)
So, he's the new gardener?
Well, he fixed the damage
he did so well,
I decided to hire him.
You don't mind, do you?
Not at all.
I was just wondering
if the picnic lunch
was part of his contract.
It wasn't lunch.
(dog barking)
It was a snack.
(chuckling) A snack.
He brings his lunch.
His mother makes it.
Oh, I get it.
The lunch isn't part of the
contract, but the blanket and
the lying in the grass...
You know, I would imagine
that living in the clouds would
get to you after a while.
(chuckling) Hasn't yet.
He is stunning, though,
isn't he?
He has a mild impairment.
I discovered he couldn't read
well enough to follow the
written instructions I left
him, so I decided to work
with him on it.
Even so, it could fall into
the category of a stray
cat rescue.
I didn't find out he had the
problem until after I hired him.
He was so thrilled to have the
work, I couldn't bring myself
to disappoint him.
Okay, I admit,
I have a mushy heart.
(chuckling)
Except when it comes
to getting fixed up.
Dale...
I had one magical,
truly wonderful relationship.
That's more than some people
ever get, you know?
I do.
And I like my life, and...
I like working,
and I like rescuing cats.
And I even like having nosy
neighbors as friends.
(chuckling)
And I admit he's painfully
attractive and very sweet
and really very pleasant
to be with.
But I'm not interested
in another relationship, Dale.
Sorry.
Whoa!
(chuckling)
(car departing)
Well, let's have a little
drink to our kids, shall we?
You know, I'm not much
of a champagne man.
How would you rate that one?
I believe that's
a wedding vintage.
I told the guy in the
store, I said these folks are
used to the best.
What's the matter?
Oh, nothing.
Huh?
I just thought we should
wait for Tim.
Well, if we do, we're going
to have flat champagne.
And a cold dinner.
Tim's got two jobs now.
We never know when we're
going to see him.
Gardening's the job he loves.
He takes after Ron that way.
And even though he's only hired
for Saturday, he goes over every
day and checks things out.
All he ever talks about is
what's growing, what's blooming.
And Mary.
His boss.
The old-lady-gardener type.
Well, here's to Justine
and Steven.
Hear, hear!
May the wedding go off
without a hitch.
Except theirs.
(all laughing)
Hi, Mom! Hi, Dad!
Mary brought me home because
we have a surprise for you.
Oh, Mary, I'm Esther.
I'm Tim's mother.
Hello.
Well, we didn't realize
you had company.
Maybe we should do this
another time.
No, no, no, Mary.
Mary, this is John
and Beth Willis.
Hello.
And, uh, this here is their
boy, Steven, about
to be the groom.
Nice to meet you.
And this is Tim's sister,
Justine, about to be the bride.
Congratulations.
There you go, Mary.
Thank you.
Timmy, this is Steven's
parents.
Hi. Hello.
Don't you want to hear
the surprise?
Of course we do, Tim.
Sure we do, son.
"Frog walked into the house.
It was dark.
All the shutters
were closed.
'Toad, where are you?'
called Frog.
'Go away,' said the voice
from a corner of the room.
Toad was lying in bed.
He had pulled all the covers
over his head.
Frog pushed Toad out of bed."
(joyful laughter)
Tim, that's wonderful!
You did that?
Well, actually, Tim did it.
His teachers could never
do that.
(sobbing) Oh, Tim.
Let's have a drink to Mary
and Tim.
And don't forget Frog and
Toad.
All right then, Frog and
Toad, and Mary and Tim.
(chuckling)
I'll just go...
fill this up again.
Let me help.
What can I do?
Not a thing.
It's lovely that Tim
is learning to read.
Oh, he's a fine young man.
Yes, he seems that way.
And so sensitive.
Yes, he is.
Makes me wonder, the way this
wedding affair has
mushroomed so.
I wonder how comfortable
it will be for Tim.
Justine wouldn't dream
of getting married without
her brother there.
And I believe Steven has chosen
him for one the groomsmen.
I didn't mean the ceremony.
I was thinking
about the reception.
Oh, he's very familiar
with the social hall
at the church.
And as long as we keep it to
family and close friends,
the way the kids want...
Don't tell me John's
secretary didn't call you.
Oh, I don't know why he doesn't
just fire this woman.
She does this all the time.
We've booked the Park Pavilion
for the reception.
There's so many of John's
business associates that we just
can't... leave out.
Tim, Tim knocked
his glass over.
Oh, is he okay?
Yes, he's fine, you know, I,
I couldn't help overhearing what
you were saying and, um...
I don't know if Tim told you,
but I have a beach house
where I spend the weekends.
It has a, it has a guest room.
Actually, I was thinking of
asking Tim to do some work
for me there.
Maybe after the wedding,
Tim could forgo the disturbance
of the reception and come out
to the beach with me.
Tim's right.
You are very nice.
(church bells tolling)
(friendly chatter)
Hi. Congratulations,
brother of the bride.
Thanks,
she looked beautiful.
And you look very handsome.
Thanks.
We're awfully grateful
to you.
Oh, it's my pleasure.
Be a good boy now, huh?
I don't think Justine
likes you.
Why not?
She says you're too young.
(whooping)
(gulls crying)
I'm ready.
Okay, give me a minute.
(Mary chuckling)
Okay, ready.
No, you're not.
You have to put on
your bathing suit.
Well, I'm not going
to go swimming. Yes, you are.
I come here almost every
weekend, I never swim.
But I want you to.
I'll watch you.
I don't want you
to watch me.
I want you to swim with me.
Besides, it's silly to live
at the ocean and not go
in the water.
You should go in the water.
Please, Mary Mary Horton.
It won't be any fun without you.
This okay?
Why don't you try the water?
You come too.
I will.
Now.
I'll catch up to you.
Come on!
Come on!
(both laughing)
See, you're having fun!
Did you ever love someone
so much that you left your mom
and dad and brothers and sisters
and went to live
in another place?
Well, I don't have any
brothers and sisters, and my
father passed away when I was
a little girl.
But I loved someone once and
moved away from my mother and
lived someplace else with him.
A husband?
Uh-huh.
Same as Justine.
Steven's parents didn't
want me at the party.
No, they didn't.
I'm slow, so sometimes
people don't want me around.
I can tell you want me around.
And it's not just because
you're lonely.
See, I think you don't like
that many people, at least
not as much as you like cats
and dogs.
But when I'm around, I can
tell right away you feel happy,
that's for sure.
We better go in now.
Just five more minutes?
Doesn't look like
anyone's home.
Mom's home.
She rests in the afternoon.
Mom, we're home!
Mom?
Mom's resting.
But she must've been really
sleepy to rest on the floor.
Tim, your mother is sick.
You stay with her,
I'm going to call for help.
Mom?
Mom?
Esther Burke Melville.
We who have known and loved you
return that part of you which
is earth to the earth.
And that of you which is spirit,
we consign to God's loving
and everlasting care,
where it may find peace.
The Lord bless and keep you.
The Lord make his face to shine
upon you and give you peace.
Amen.
Will she be cold?
No.
Her body doesn't feel
anything now.
But she'll miss me,
won't she?
She won't feel any pain
or sadness.
But she'll always love you.
Come on, Timmy.
It's time to be with family.
Thank you.
(Justine sniffles)
(sobbing quietly)
(knocking on door)
Tim? Ron?
(voices chatter on TV)
Hello, anybody home?
When you say interactive...
Hello?
How can it be interactive?
Well, it's very important
that there's some kind of, uh,
exchange between the person
and the program, the, uh...
You two need a change
of scenery.
You know, given the choice
between your beach house
and Bali, I would have gone
for Bali.
The trip's postponed,
Dale, it's not canceled.
Now these need a good soak
every three days or so,
depending on the weather.
How's Tim?
I'm not sure it's real
for him yet.
It's his father who's having
the hard time.
Mary?
Do you think you've gotten into
this thing over your head?
Maybe.
But I don't think so.
I feel like what I'm doing
is a good thing.
And I'm just taking it
one step at a time.
Well...
Watch your step.
You should walk as much
as possible.
It helps.
All I want is to be
where she is.
That's how my mother felt
after my father died.
She said it over and over.
All she wanted
was to be with him.
She just wanted him,
and I just wanted her.
Never in a million years
thought she'd go before me.
I was the one taking all
the pills.
We used to talk about how Tim
and her would manage after
I was gone.
You and Tim will be fine.
It won't hurt this much forever.
I promise.
I'll go get him.
(door opens)
(sighing)
Tim, speak to me.
You're always touching
my dad!
I don't want you touching him!
He's sad, Tim.
I'm comforting him.
I'm sad, too.
I know you are.
You don't comfort me.
Why don't you comfort me, Mary?
Mary? Tim?
We're here, Ron.
Tim's with me.
We have to talk about
what just happened privately.
Just the two of us.
We have to go back
to the house now.
Tim, please.
Good morning.
Oh, morning.
I've made some coffee.
I'm glad.
Oh, I made a...
I made a long distance call
this morning...
to my lawyer.
Something I had to discuss with
him, and, uh...
it involves you.
See, me and Esther saved for Tim
for after we're gone, enough
to put him in a group home.
It's not a bad place.
No...
And there'll be others like him
there for companionship,
and, uh...
Well, they say the happiest ones
have family that visit and,
you know, look after how they're
doing and help them manage
and...
That sounds right.
So, last night it came to me
to, uh...
ask if you'd be Tim's family
after I'm gone.
To be his legal guardian.
What about Justine?
Me and Esther agreed, Tim
would be out of place with her
and Steven and the high-powered
careers and a lot of little kids
running around.
Oh, look, you can tell me
I'm way out of line for this.
I couldn't talk it over with
Esther like I'm used to doing.
It's just that...
You've got a way with him.
Okay, talk.
Last night, when I comforted
you, we started hugging each
other in a different way.
And then we kissed.
The first part,
when I put my arms around you,
that was comforting.
The next part,
when we kissed each other,
that was something else.
I know that, Mary.
That's something...
married people do.
Hold and kiss each other
that way.
Justine and Steven did it
when they weren't married.
Well, they were planning
to be married.
Tim...
We're friends and
I want us to be friends forever.
But we can't be friends unless
we promise each other
never to do what we did
last night again.
Why?
Because it changes things
that I don't want changed.
Okay?
Okay?
Okay.
(distant cheering)
(horn honking)
You know your dad and I have
been discussing your future.
He's concerned because he's not
so young anymore and he wants
to prepare for the time when
he goes to be with your mom.
You mean when he dies.
Yes.
It's already been arranged.
I'm going to live with Steven
and Justine and whatever kids
they have by then.
Your dad mentioned to me,
he thought you'd be happier
with some other arrangement.
He found a place.
It's a converted house,
actually.
A center where people--
where you could live and
have friends.
He asked me if I would become
what is called your legal
guardian.
It's someone who would visit
you and help you whenever
you needed it.
I went to see the place
last week.
If you lived there, you could
have your own life.
And I would be available
whenever you needed me.
Would you know
when I needed you?
Or would I have to tell you?
Whoa.
You okay?
Yeah, I'm fine.
Just that every time I wear
this shirt, I get a spot on it.
Here.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
Do you know the difference
between stew and mush?
No, do you?
Well, if your father and
sister get here in two minutes,
we'll be having stew for dinner.
If they're much later,
we'll be having-- Mush.
Ron: Something smells good!
You're early, Dad.
In two minutes,
we're having mush.
What's cooking?
Or should I say who's cooking?
Technically, I'm cooking,
but the truth is without Tim's
gardening talents, we'd all be
drinking broth for dinner.
No, the truth is I grew the
vegetables, but Mary seasoned
them just right, that's for
sure, and there's magic in the
way she's stirring them.
Magic in my stirring.
How about that?
(Ron chuckling)
Excuse me.
What's going on?
Could you please tell me
what business Mary Horton has
in my mother's kitchen?
Wearing my mother's apron?
She's cooking vegetables
she and Tim grew together.
What's the matter with you?
Mary's been a godsend to this
family since your mother died.
You know, I would really
like to know just what
goes on at the beach house.
Justine, what's gotten
into you?
That woman in there's been like
an angel of mercy
to me and your brother.
As far as I'm concerned, she's
like a member of this family.
She may be like one,
but the truth of the matter is
she isn't one, and unless you're
thinking about adopting her,
I'd like her to get the hell
out of my mother's apron.
What are you talking about...
(knocking)
Excuse me.
Dinner's ready.
Oh, yeah, well, Tim, just,
just give us a,
give us a few minutes, will you?
I've drawn up papers to make
her Tim's legal guardian
after I'm gone.
What?
I've thought this through,
Justine.
She's got no kids of her own.
She's free to give him all the
attention he needs.
And like as not, she'll leave
him some security
when she passes on.
Dad, have you lost your mind?
I'm his sister.
Yes, and you're married now
and soon you'll have children
of your own.
Not soon, Steven
and I have discussed this.
You will have...
(whispering) a family of
your own.
(sighing)
Honey, I know you love your
brother and he loves you, but
believe me, with a career and
Steven and children,
it just wouldn't work.
You've got to look
at the big picture, Justine.
Dad, why don't you look
at the big picture?
What does that mean?
Come with me.
Mary said we could eat
because Miss Manners says after
two people are seated,
you can start eating.
Gee, I'd have never guessed
that Mary even knew
Miss Manners.
But since we're talking
about acceptable behavior,
why don't we bring my father
into the 20th century and
explain to him what your
relationship with my
brother is all about.
Justine, that's enough.
I'd be happy to.
My relationship with your
brother is all about friendship.
All right, I'll give you the
benefit of the doubt.
I suppose there is a remote
possibility that you actually
don't see it yourself.
You're attracted to my brother,
whether you're willing to admit
it or not.
Justine, this is uncalled--
I think it's time
for me to go.
I don't want you to go.
You know, Justine, you're not
the only girl that likes me.
I know that, Timmy.
And I want you
to call me Tim.
You don't call Steven "Stevie".
Timmy-- Tim.
I'm trying to protect you.
Because you think
I'm a freak. I do not!
Is that what Mary tells you
your family thinks?
I never have and never would
in my entire life say
such a thing.
I'm sorry my friendship
with your brother is
so difficult for you.
I respect how much
you care for him.
You have no idea about my
feelings for my brother any more
than you know anything about me.
But maybe you should.
Maybe you should know
that all my life
I've done everything double.
Once for me and once for Tim
because he couldn't.
And I've done it better
than perfect, so there would be
so much accomplishment
and so much recognition that it
would spill over onto him and
he could shine, too.
And it worked.
Every time I did something good,
you could see how it built
him up.
But now I'm built, Justine.
Just like you are.
And I don't want to live in a
center when Dad is gone.
And I don't want to live
with you, either.
That's not what I want.
I was going to ask you,
but I don't have a ring
and I know I'm supposed to.
I want to be Mary's husband and
flive with her in her house.
Mary Horton,
would you marry me?
Enjoy your book.
Did you file the Liberty
shipment packing list?
Probably, why?
There was an item missing.
I need to follow up on it.
Oh, no, they shipped it.
I shelved it and sold it
a week ago.
Sorry, I guess I'm not up
to speed.
On the contrary, it looks
to me like you're in overdrive.
Oh, your travel agent called
a few minutes ago.
Couldn't he get me
on a flight?
I don't know.
He called to ask me
if you're all right,
and he said if you are,
he's going to kill you.
I realize you've been
holding this place together
on your own lately, Forbsie.
I appreciate it.
I know that.
I've, um...
I've gotten myself
into a situation
that started out simple...
and ended up not simple.
It needs a cooling-off period.
That's why I'm trying
to get away.
You don't need to worry about
anything here.
After 15 years, I pretty much
have the drill down cold.
There is, however,
one thing you might consider.
There's a possibility
that you will finally get to
Bali and find out that what
you're running from has come
along for the ride.
(distant train whistle blowing)
You going to eat anything?
I'm not hungry.
I know I don't cook like your
mom, but... it's still food.
Have you been to bed with Mary?
Have you kissed her?
Made love to her?
We kissed each other once.
She made me promise
never to do it again.
And you didn't?
I kept my promise.
You taught me to keep a promise.
Even though it hurt your
pride, she was right to stop
you from doing that again.
No, she wasn't.
She liked kissing me.
I could tell.
That may be true, but she
knows something you don't.
And that is that what you take
for true love is really just...
a crush you have on her.
I want to marry her.
I know that's what you think
you want.
Your body wants a woman, Tim.
That's different.
My body wants Mary.
I know it smarts, son, but
believe me, it will pass.
Do you know what I'm
going to do?
I'm going to enroll you in
a social program at the center.
Then you'll see.
There'll be other women there
that are more...
suitable for you.
And who knows, maybe you'll
find one that's just right.
(plates crashing)
Tell me something, Dad.
Were you ever "slow"?
So then that means
you're not me.
And that means
you don't know how I feel.
Not exactly, Tim.
I don't want somebody
suitable.
And I don't want somebody
just right.
I don't want somebody at all.
I want Mary.
And if you're ever interested
in how I feel instead
of how you feel,
then I'll tell you
why I want her.
I sure wish Mom was here,
don't you?
If you like historical
fiction, you'll love this.
Thanks.
I'm going away for
a while to make things easier
for both of us.
You didn't answer my
question last night.
We can't marry
each other, Tim.
Why not?
Well...
for one thing...
there's the difference
in our ages.
When I'm an old woman, you'll,
you'll still be young.
Then I can take
care of you, Mary.
And...
a good marriage
is based on similarities,
so that...
people who marry each other
are alike and...
and they enjoy the same things.
We like to garden.
We like to swim together.
We like to read to each other.
I can't marry you, Tim.
Because I'm slow.
You love me, Mary,
that's for sure.
That's for sure.
Then why?
I'll drive you home.
(keys jingling)
Is that all you have to say?
I haven't lived this long
by giving advice.
I'll miss you, Tim.
That's for sure.
You think you know
how much you'll miss me,
but you don't.
Because missing someone happens
when you don't expect it, and
you feel like the ground is gone
and you're falling and there's
nothing to hold onto.
Isn't that how it feels when you
miss your mom and your husband?
That's how it's going to feel
about me, too.
(door opens)
(door closes)
(keyboard clacking)
What are you still
doing here?
It's after 9:00.
At the moment, I'm trying to
find a sale that I lost.
But I'm willing to admit
that only a minute ago I was
locked in a torrid embrace.
It's good, you should read it.
Did you come to keep me company?
I came to look for a book
on relationships.
That would be psychology.
Two aisles down on your left.
Tell me, Forbsie,
when you think about your life,
I mean... your life up till now,
do you have regrets?
Is this a near-death
experience?
I mean, are you the one that's
going to take me through my life
in review?
No.
I just want to know.
Sure.
I wish that I had let my gut
navigate my life's journey,
more than all the "shoulds"
I heard from everyone around me.
And where do you think
your "gut" would've taken you
that the "shoulds" didn't?
Into some wonderful trouble,
I imagine.
The truth is that
all my life I had damn good
reasons why not to do this and
why not to do that.
And now all I can remember are
the things that I didn't do.
Has it ever occurred to you
that all of these tomes,
all these pages, all these words
are nothing more than the
ongoing age-old attempt
to figure it all out?
It has occurred to me.
And have you ever realized
that nobody has yet?
And if they ever do,
we'll be out of business.
So, by logical progression,
it seems to me that the only
thing to do in this life is to
write your own book.
Make it up as you go along.
Hey, I hadn't finished
reading that!
(Mary's footsteps fading)
(door closes)
I have something
I want to say.
Would you like to sit down?
No.
Mostly, I listened to my dad
all my life because he's a man.
My mom didn't say very much,
but she was very nice
and very good.
She seemed that way to me.
And she told me something
about married people.
Maybe she thought
I would be married someday.
It was different than
what you said.
She said the reason
she and Dad stayed together
so long wasn't because
they liked the same things.
Tim...
I'm not sure you should--
She said they were good
together because of how they
worked out the things about each
other that were different.
Especially if they were
really different, like my
dad bowls and my mom hated
bowling, like that.
Did she tell you how they
worked out their differences?
She was patient.
And she said my dad didn't mind
it so much when people
had different ideas.
Dad gave me advice,
but my mom knew how I felt.
I know I'm slow, Mary,
but I'm not stupid.
And I'm not a child.
Mary...
I'm not taking "no"
for an answer.
You don't have to.
My answer is yes.
I'm sorry, but this is kind
of a shock to me.
Tim told me he was serious,
but I had no idea.
How come you married Mom?
Because he loved her.
Can we please try to figure out
what we're gonna do about this?
What did you love about her?
For crying out loud, Tim.
You know what, Justine?
What?
There are things about Steven
that I don't like.
Tim.
And I don't
like his parents either.
And there are even things about
you that I don't like,
but that's okay.
Because mostly, I love you.
I fell in love
with your mom because
she was gentle and good
and because she loved me.
That's why I love Mary.
We understand that, Tim.
But the question is,
and I'm trying as hard as I can
not to be insulting...
Why does Mary love you?
Ask Mary.
You're young, Justine, so
I'm, I'm not certain you'll
understand this.
I've only just begun
to understand it myself.
But the needs of companionship
change when you get older.
I loved one man for a very
long time, and he loved me.
And after he died, I didn't want
to love anyone anymore
or be loved by anyone.
But when Tim started loving me,
I realized how much I wanted
not just a man
or a relationship,
but a kind of love I'd given up
all hope of ever finding.
I love Tim
because he's Tim.
It's different having a kid
like Tim.
The rest of us, we...
give our hearts away a few times
and get them punched out...
and build up walls
for protection, but...
With Tim, there's a part that's
always a kid,
open and trusting.
I guess it just scares us
to see how easy it is for Tim
when he lets himself love.
Justine: Mr. and Mrs.
Tim Melville.
(string trio playing)
(cat meows)
Do I look like a bride?
You look beautiful.
Bet you never thought
Tim would be my type.
Listen, dear, after all the
years I've spent trying to put
you in a pair, I'm delighted.
I was beginning to think
you didn't even have a type!
What do you think Mother
would say about all this?
Oh, I know exactly
what she'd say.
"Mary dear, have you given
any thought to taking the cats
out of your bedroom?"
(dog whimpers)
(knocking on door)
Hi. Hi.
Justine, this is my friend,
Dale.
This is Tim's sister, Justine.
Holler if you need me.
Open it.
It's not a bomb or anything.
The apron my mom always wore
was one that Tim gave her.
I gave her this one, but she
never wore it.
Not even once.
I thought maybe you might.
I will.
Thank you.
I'm not crazy about
Steven's parents either.
You know when the time comes,
Tim and I would be very happy
to babysit.
Wish me luck.
(barks)
(friendly chatter)
It looks like we're about
ready to start, so if we can all
quiet down.
I understand that the groom
has a short reading for us.
It's a passage he's chosen
from a favorite book of his,
especially for this occasion.
(paper rustling)
"Toad blinked in the
bright sun.
'Help,' said Toad.
'I cannot see anything.'
'Don't be silly,' said Frog.
'What you see is the clear
warm light of April.
And it means that we can begin
a whole new year together,
Toad.'"
"'Think of it,' said Frog.
'We will skip through the
meadow and run through the
woods and swim in the river.
In the evenings, we will sit
right here on this
front porch and
count the stars.'"
And on that note,
Dearly Beloved, we are gathered
together here in the presence of
God to witness and to celebrate
the joining in marriage
of this man and this woman.
The union of husband and wife
in heart, body, and mind is
intended by God for their mutual
joy, for the help and comfort
given one another in prosperity
and adversity.
Therefore marriage is
not to be entered into
unadvisedly or lightly...
♪♪
---
♪♪
(hammering)
(woman speaking on TV)
Three, four, squat, squat,
squat, squat...
To the left...
Now, start to the right...
To the left and hold.
Two, three, four and hold.
More, more, more,
coming around.
Tippy toe stretches for our
calves, good, two, three,
four, turning around.
Three... (exhaling)
And breathing out, we start
again, grab that rainbow,
pull it, yank it, good.
Two, three, four.
Now bend to the earth.
Reach and touch, two...
(inhaling)
Three, four and squat,
Squat, squat, squat.
And reaching to the right.
Left, now reach to the stars.
First to the right.
Then the left.
I don't honestly think either
one of us is ever gonna look
like that, do you?
Not if you sit in that chair,
you won't.
Maybe if I wore that outfit.
What outfit?
She's wearing a bra
and dental floss.
Did I leave the door open?
I used my key.
It's amazing, isn't it,
how simply watching an exercise
program can actually affect
the metabolic process?
Might those be cookies in a bowl
of milk?
They have fiber in them.
Besides, haven't you heard
your whole life how cookies
and milk make the perfect
combination?
(dog barking)
Oh, joy, more workmen
have arrived.
Well, at least they're
on schedule.
Do your best.
Always.
Thanks, Dad.
Hey, guys.
Yo, Tim, how's it going?
Good, my mom baked
Mrs. Hutman some muffins.
Does this go in
the dishwasher?
Mary?
Brian was good
with his hands.
He built the gardening shed
for Mom.
Just about single handedly kept
this house on its
foundation until she died.
Your mother would be very
proud of how beautifully you've
taken care of this house.
Say, are you in the mood
to peel beets?
Ooh, no, thank you.
I don't even want to be in the
same house with beets.
Bye, neighbor.
(vegetables snapping)
(drill saw powering down)
Hey, Tim, do me a favor.
I have a problem with the hose.
Some kind of blockage.
It'll only take a minute.
I'd really appreciate the help.
Let me get these boards in
the house. Good thinking.
I just called you.
I'm not home.
And I won't be
until much later.
You want some more coffee?
No, I want to tell you why
I came over in the first place.
Okay, tell.
Well, "ask" really.
Are you doing anything tonight?
Several things is more
like it.
I'm spending a few hours at the
animal shelter.
And then I'm spying on another
bookstore to see what their book
signings are like.
Okay, just chalk it up
to another lost opportunity.
Let me guess.
Another last minute fix-up and
this time he's really
Mister Perfect.
Well, no, he's not, but I did
mention to him that you were,
and that you might be at dinner.
Sorry, thanks anyway.
Good luck.
Look down inside and tell me
if you see anything.
You see anything?
What's going on?
Now?
(laughing)
Oh!
Ow!
Are you all right?
Yes.
What happened?
He's accident-prone.
Bill, turn off the water.
Steve.
Get back to work.
I'm really sorry.
I could do something to fix it.
I know how,
and I could if you wanted.
Go on, I'll work it out.
Hey, we know you didn't do it
on purpose, huh?
It's okay.
Go on, that's a good guy.
How in the world did that
happen?
Have your gardener replace
the plants and you, uh,
send me the bill.
Thank you.
I don't have a gardener.
He quit last week.
Something about hay fever.
Just tell me what to order
and I'll find somebody.
Well, let's see: foxgloves,
impatiens, marigolds...
Dale's azalea.
What about your worker?
Which worker?
The one who did it.
You mean to fix it up?
Well, he said he could.
That, uh, young man, uh,
he's a few cans short
of a six-pack,
if you know what I mean.
I don't care if he has two
heads as long as he can do
the work.
Is there a possibility he knows
something about gardening?
His old man's a retired
landscaper.
We go back a ways.
Tell me what you want him to do.
This guy has played tricks
on you before, right?
He plays lot of tricks on me.
All right, so you should have
been on your guard against him,
right?
I should have been on my
guard with him, that's for sure.
Okay, now.
The next time, this same guy
asks you to do something for
him, what's the first thing
that's going to pop up in your
mind, huh?
The first thing, the first
thing... that's going to pop up
in your mind is "This guy plays
tricks on me.
Maybe he doesn't really want me
to do something for him at all.
Maybe he just wants
to play a trick."
I'm never going to fix
the hose for him anymore.
You're damn right you're not.
You're never going to do
anything for him anymore 'cause
he can't be trusted.
That's for sure.
Good boy.
Except I might do something
for him sometimes because
he's a pretty nice guy.
Go tell your sister and
Steven to wash up for supper.
What would you say if I asked
you to marry me?
(chuckling)
If you asked me to marry you?
I'm conducting the Justine
Melville preliminary survey.
(laughing)
Oh, oh.
Mom says it's time to wash up
for supper.
(gasping)
Tim, don't ever do that!
Mom told me to.
(laughing)
No, I know, but what I mean
is, um, don't, uh, sneak up on
people, especially when they're
together.
Alone.
Let them know you're there
by knocking on the door and
saying, "Excuse me."
Excuse me.
Hey, guess who I ran into
downtown this afternoon?
Hank Pearn.
Hank? Mm-hmm.
That lived across the street
from us when the kids were
little? Same guy.
Oh, for heaven's sake.
Heavier, same frizzy hair,
only less of it.
I told him Justine was
practically a judge now.
Dad, that would make me the
only person in history
to graduate law school
and go directly to the bench.
He asked me if I was talking
about the little kid with the
two front teeth missing.
Dad!
(chuckling)
Steven, you've hardly eaten.
Are you sick?
No, no...
Um...
I'm just a little nervous.
Okay, um, there's something
I have to do, and...
I guess I'd better get it
over with.
(chuckling)
Justine, with your family
as my witness,
I'm kneeling on your kitchen
floor, which is murder on my
right patella,
to ask you to be my wife.
It's a ring.
(chuckling)
So if it so pleases the
Court, the plaintiff...
(chuckling)
requests an answer
of "yes" or "no".
Your Honor?
Honey?
Yes, yes.
(laughing)
Oh, that's great.
Congratulations.
Congratulations, darling.
That's wonderful.
Come here.
I'm getting married, Timmy.
I thought that's what it was.
Come here, give me a hug.
(all laughing)
(light knocking on door)
I'm not sleepy.
Mom: Any idea why?
Is Justine going away?
You mean when she marries
Steven?
Uh-huh.
Yes.
She and Steven will live
together.
Will she come back like when
she came back from college?
She'll come back to visit,
but she won't live here again.
Will she still be my little
sister?
Forever and always.
But I'm going to have a life
with Steven now, Timmy.
We're going to have our
own home together.
Someday we'll even
have children.
Everything that's the end
of one thing, Tim, is the
beginning of something else.
Ant that makes this happy and
sad at the same time.
Why can't Steven come
live here?
He's leaving his family, too
to be with me.
That's what you do
when you grow up.
I want you to live with me.
We'll live together again
someday, Timmy.
When?
You know, my brother missed
me when I left home to marry
your dad.
But if I hadn't married him,
I wouldn't have you two angels,
would I?
Sometimes I'm not an angel.
No...
(chuckling)
It's time for sleep.
Okay, I guess you can marry
Steven.
Thanks, big brother.
Now that I have your permission,
I will.
Good night.
(meowing)
You know, as long as I have
to get up every four hours to
dole this stuff out, the least
you could do is to have
a good attitude.
Come on, come on.
Good.
(meowing)
All right, that's it.
Cats.
(meowing)
They ought to make tuna-flavored
medicine for cats.
Remember, it's Saturday.
It's the day we sleep in.
(dog whimpering)
(lawn mower powering up)
(motor revving loudly)
(dog barking)
Excuse me.
Excuse me.
What do you think you're doing?
That must be a trick
question.
No, it's not a trick
question, I just wanna know.
What exactly do you think
you're doing?
Cutting the grass.
Well, would you stop, please?
Would you stop?
I'd like...
Stop!
Do you have any idea how
inappropriate it is to just
march into someone's garage
without permission and create
ear-splitting pandemonium,
mowing a lawn nobody asked you
to mow in the first place
at 6:00-- What?
It's yellow.
It's cat medicine.
You have a sick cat?
No, I'm a volunteer
at the shelter.
Some cats needed medicating
through the night,
so I took them home.
I fixed the flowers.
Thank you.
You want to see?
Okay.
It's perfect.
How long have you been here?
Few hours.
I like to see the sun come up.
Did you ever think that if you
got up after sunrise, that you
could've slept for two days and
skipped a whole day in between
and you'd never know?
No, I never thought that.
I don't want to skip
any days, that's for sure.
No, I don't either.
I weeded and fed the flowers
and I turned the compost
in the back.
That was very thoughtful.
Thank you.
I'll pay you for any
extra work you've done.
Oh, no, you won't.
I broke the flowers
'cause I wasn't on my guard.
My dad says you have to take
responsibility for your actions.
He says "Do more than people
expect," "Always mind your
P's' and Q's" and "Never
take 'no' for an answer."
Your father has a lot to say.
That's for sure.
You can put the mower
away now.
Sorry, no can do.
I've got to finish the job.
You've got to finish the jobs
you start.
Your dad said that?
My dad says that.
He says a garden is like
the person who grows it,
and yours is pretty happy,
but it could be more
taken care of.
What's your name?
Tim.
I'm Mary, Mary Horton.
Tim, how would you like a job?
Well, I've got a job.
No, I mean, on Saturdays.
Taking care of my garden.
Sure.
I'd like that a lot.
Okay then, Saturdays.
But not before 9:00.
Not before 9:00,
that's for sure.
Mary Mary Horton?
You're a very nice person.
It's, it's just one "Mary".
Thank you.
You're a very nice person, too.
Yes, I am.
Good morning, Forbsie.
It might be good, if it
weren't for the damn cicadas.
I don't know how they can hear
themselves think.
Well, the way I understand
it, cicadae don't have brains or
ears, so as far as they're
concerned, it's just good
vibrations.
Anything happening I should
know about?
Oh, your travel agent
left a packet by the door.
It's under the counter.
Where are you off to
this year?
Well, I don't know.
Someplace quiet.
Bali, I think.
It's the rainy season there.
You better bring a good book,
if you can find one.
So, what's the scoop
about tonight?
I got the coffee, and, uh,
the rental place will deliver
the chairs by 3:00, and the
bakery called to say the
pastries will be here at 11:00.
You know when I was
spying at "Pages" the other
night, they were handing out
free bookmarks.
We don't have bookmarks.
Well, I have to go to
the nursery later, I could pick
some up on my way.
You haven't found
a gardener yet?
Actually, I think I have.
Why can't he go to
the nursery?
I'm not sure he drives.
Oh, you hired a kid?
No, a man.
Apparently with some
limitations.
How unusual.
Can he garden?
He can most definitely
garden.
And he's charming.
"Charming" is important
in a gardener.
At least Lady Chatterley
thought so.
(chatter)
Ah, one for the champ.
There you go.
Hey, Ron.
Hey, Ed, how you doing?
How you doing buddy?
Good.
Still doing construction?
Yup, and I got a new job,
too.
Oh, yeah?
I'm going to be a gardener
for the lady next door
to my other job.
I could use a little
work myself.
Tell me your secret.
I fell into the lady's bed.
(all laughing)
Come on, knock it off,
will you?
Get your minds out
of the gutter.
He had an accident and fell
into the lady's flower bed.
Yeah, right.
My boy don't think that way.
Take another look, Ron.
And remember.
Boys will be boys.
(laughing)
(applause)
Thank you all very much
for joining us.
Um, in a few minutes, our
esteemed guest will be ready to
sign your books and, in the
meantime, we have refreshments
for you.
(applause)
Terrific, really terrific.
Thanks.
Mary, it was great.
I may have mentioned Joel to
you, Mary.
David's old college friend?
Uh, David's former college
friend, if you don't mind.
(chuckling)
Well, anyway, Mary Horton,
Joel Shore.
Hello.
How do you do?
Your program was nicely done.
Thank you.
As a matter of fact, I do
freelance consulting for event
packaging, so if you're
interested, uh, there may be
some ways of making these
evenings of yours even more
successful than they
already are.
We're, uh, going for a drink.
Why don't you join us and take
advantage of some free advice?
Sounds great, but I really
should stay here.
Maybe another time?
Absolutely, another time.
Nice having met you.
Joel.
You didn't even give
him a chance.
He could've been Mr. Right.
He could only have been
Mr. Right Now.
Dale, there's no such thing
as Mr. Right.
Right.
Do your best.
Always.
Thanks, Dad.
Son!
Remember, be a gentleman.
So, you know how to
prepare a plot for planting.
I know how to do that,
that's for sure.
Okay, well, um, everything
you'll need is here.
I've made a, a planting plan.
It shows where I want all the
various crops to be, um...
For example, the, uh, shelling
peas go there, and the snap peas
go over here, and, um,
so on and so on.
Does that make sense to you?
I've planted vegetables
lots of times.
Okay, well, let me know
if you need anything?
Okay.
(sound of digging continues)
Excuse me.
I didn't knock on the door
because there isn't any,
but I said "Excuse me."
So, you're finished then?
Easy as pie.
Well, now I know there's at
least one other person on the
planet who can read my writing.
I didn't need the plan.
But I asked you to use
the plan for a reason.
I like to rotate my crops.
I did.
I rotated them.
How could you have
without the plan?
I can tell where you planted
things last year by the old
leaves and vines on the ground.
That's certainly a special
gift, but...
Do you by any chance wear
glasses?
No.
Tim...
Can you read?
Are you going to have
to let me go?
The thing is,
I may not always be here
when you come to garden.
In fact, I'm going away
in a few weeks, I...
I'd hoped I'd be able to leave
you instructions.
(cicadae chirping loudly)
(sighing)
They give me such a headache.
(chirping stops)
How did you do that?
He's the choirmaster.
When you stop him from singing,
they all stop.
How did you know where
to find him?
His voice is different.
I can hear him.
I can't.
I can't really read.
Have you ever tried to learn?
Once.
It's real hard.
You don't want to get
rid of him, do you?
No.
He just does
what he's made to do.
(chirping begins again)
I own a bookstore.
I bet you a nickel
I could pick out some
stories you'd like.
Probably.
Or I could teach you
how to read.
No.
Why?
Well, it would be bad if I..
If what?
If, if it were hard or,
or if it took time?
If I couldn't do it.
That'd feel bad.
Well, and I don't know
absolutely that I could teach
you, but still, we could try.
I really like you, Mary
Horton, that's for sure.
And you like me too.
(reading haltingly) "Frog... ran
up... the... path...
to... Toad's...
house.
He...
kan-nocked..."
The "K" is silent.
She's just keeping the "N"
company while he does the
talking, so it's...
"He...
knocked...
on... the...
front... door."
That's it.
"There was no answer."
"'Toad, Toad,'
shouted... Frog.
'Wake up.
It is spring.'"
"'Blah,' said a voice from
inside the house."
(chuckling)
Read that part again.
"'Blah,' said a voice from
inside the house."
(laughing)
All right, your homework
is to work on this story until
you can read the whole thing
just as beautifully as you read
this part.
Okay.
Did I tell you I'm keeping
our lessons a secret?
I'm not telling Mom or Dad.
And I'm especially not telling
Justine.
Really?
Who's Justine?
Oh, there you are.
I brought back the magazines
I borrowed.
I was just on my way in.
Uh, you remember Tim.
Hi.
Hello.
I'll be in the house
if you need me.
(dog whimpering)
Oh, giving a party
I'm not invited to?
It's Mother's china.
So it is.
I take it down every so
often and wash it.
You should use it,
not clean it.
Well, I did use it, but then
one day, not long after Brian
died, I dropped a cup and it
broke into about a million
pieces, and so did I.
That one little cup made me
feel like I lost my mother
and Brian all over again.
Stay and keep me company?
I'll dry if you trust me.
(dog barking)
So, he's the new gardener?
Well, he fixed the damage
he did so well,
I decided to hire him.
You don't mind, do you?
Not at all.
I was just wondering
if the picnic lunch
was part of his contract.
It wasn't lunch.
(dog barking)
It was a snack.
(chuckling) A snack.
He brings his lunch.
His mother makes it.
Oh, I get it.
The lunch isn't part of the
contract, but the blanket and
the lying in the grass...
You know, I would imagine
that living in the clouds would
get to you after a while.
(chuckling) Hasn't yet.
He is stunning, though,
isn't he?
He has a mild impairment.
I discovered he couldn't read
well enough to follow the
written instructions I left
him, so I decided to work
with him on it.
Even so, it could fall into
the category of a stray
cat rescue.
I didn't find out he had the
problem until after I hired him.
He was so thrilled to have the
work, I couldn't bring myself
to disappoint him.
Okay, I admit,
I have a mushy heart.
(chuckling)
Except when it comes
to getting fixed up.
Dale...
I had one magical,
truly wonderful relationship.
That's more than some people
ever get, you know?
I do.
And I like my life, and...
I like working,
and I like rescuing cats.
And I even like having nosy
neighbors as friends.
(chuckling)
And I admit he's painfully
attractive and very sweet
and really very pleasant
to be with.
But I'm not interested
in another relationship, Dale.
Sorry.
Whoa!
(chuckling)
(car departing)
Well, let's have a little
drink to our kids, shall we?
You know, I'm not much
of a champagne man.
How would you rate that one?
I believe that's
a wedding vintage.
I told the guy in the
store, I said these folks are
used to the best.
What's the matter?
Oh, nothing.
Huh?
I just thought we should
wait for Tim.
Well, if we do, we're going
to have flat champagne.
And a cold dinner.
Tim's got two jobs now.
We never know when we're
going to see him.
Gardening's the job he loves.
He takes after Ron that way.
And even though he's only hired
for Saturday, he goes over every
day and checks things out.
All he ever talks about is
what's growing, what's blooming.
And Mary.
His boss.
The old-lady-gardener type.
Well, here's to Justine
and Steven.
Hear, hear!
May the wedding go off
without a hitch.
Except theirs.
(all laughing)
Hi, Mom! Hi, Dad!
Mary brought me home because
we have a surprise for you.
Oh, Mary, I'm Esther.
I'm Tim's mother.
Hello.
Well, we didn't realize
you had company.
Maybe we should do this
another time.
No, no, no, Mary.
Mary, this is John
and Beth Willis.
Hello.
And, uh, this here is their
boy, Steven, about
to be the groom.
Nice to meet you.
And this is Tim's sister,
Justine, about to be the bride.
Congratulations.
There you go, Mary.
Thank you.
Timmy, this is Steven's
parents.
Hi. Hello.
Don't you want to hear
the surprise?
Of course we do, Tim.
Sure we do, son.
"Frog walked into the house.
It was dark.
All the shutters
were closed.
'Toad, where are you?'
called Frog.
'Go away,' said the voice
from a corner of the room.
Toad was lying in bed.
He had pulled all the covers
over his head.
Frog pushed Toad out of bed."
(joyful laughter)
Tim, that's wonderful!
You did that?
Well, actually, Tim did it.
His teachers could never
do that.
(sobbing) Oh, Tim.
Let's have a drink to Mary
and Tim.
And don't forget Frog and
Toad.
All right then, Frog and
Toad, and Mary and Tim.
(chuckling)
I'll just go...
fill this up again.
Let me help.
What can I do?
Not a thing.
It's lovely that Tim
is learning to read.
Oh, he's a fine young man.
Yes, he seems that way.
And so sensitive.
Yes, he is.
Makes me wonder, the way this
wedding affair has
mushroomed so.
I wonder how comfortable
it will be for Tim.
Justine wouldn't dream
of getting married without
her brother there.
And I believe Steven has chosen
him for one the groomsmen.
I didn't mean the ceremony.
I was thinking
about the reception.
Oh, he's very familiar
with the social hall
at the church.
And as long as we keep it to
family and close friends,
the way the kids want...
Don't tell me John's
secretary didn't call you.
Oh, I don't know why he doesn't
just fire this woman.
She does this all the time.
We've booked the Park Pavilion
for the reception.
There's so many of John's
business associates that we just
can't... leave out.
Tim, Tim knocked
his glass over.
Oh, is he okay?
Yes, he's fine, you know, I,
I couldn't help overhearing what
you were saying and, um...
I don't know if Tim told you,
but I have a beach house
where I spend the weekends.
It has a, it has a guest room.
Actually, I was thinking of
asking Tim to do some work
for me there.
Maybe after the wedding,
Tim could forgo the disturbance
of the reception and come out
to the beach with me.
Tim's right.
You are very nice.
(church bells tolling)
(friendly chatter)
Hi. Congratulations,
brother of the bride.
Thanks,
she looked beautiful.
And you look very handsome.
Thanks.
We're awfully grateful
to you.
Oh, it's my pleasure.
Be a good boy now, huh?
I don't think Justine
likes you.
Why not?
She says you're too young.
(whooping)
(gulls crying)
I'm ready.
Okay, give me a minute.
(Mary chuckling)
Okay, ready.
No, you're not.
You have to put on
your bathing suit.
Well, I'm not going
to go swimming. Yes, you are.
I come here almost every
weekend, I never swim.
But I want you to.
I'll watch you.
I don't want you
to watch me.
I want you to swim with me.
Besides, it's silly to live
at the ocean and not go
in the water.
You should go in the water.
Please, Mary Mary Horton.
It won't be any fun without you.
This okay?
Why don't you try the water?
You come too.
I will.
Now.
I'll catch up to you.
Come on!
Come on!
(both laughing)
See, you're having fun!
Did you ever love someone
so much that you left your mom
and dad and brothers and sisters
and went to live
in another place?
Well, I don't have any
brothers and sisters, and my
father passed away when I was
a little girl.
But I loved someone once and
moved away from my mother and
lived someplace else with him.
A husband?
Uh-huh.
Same as Justine.
Steven's parents didn't
want me at the party.
No, they didn't.
I'm slow, so sometimes
people don't want me around.
I can tell you want me around.
And it's not just because
you're lonely.
See, I think you don't like
that many people, at least
not as much as you like cats
and dogs.
But when I'm around, I can
tell right away you feel happy,
that's for sure.
We better go in now.
Just five more minutes?
Doesn't look like
anyone's home.
Mom's home.
She rests in the afternoon.
Mom, we're home!
Mom?
Mom's resting.
But she must've been really
sleepy to rest on the floor.
Tim, your mother is sick.
You stay with her,
I'm going to call for help.
Mom?
Mom?
Esther Burke Melville.
We who have known and loved you
return that part of you which
is earth to the earth.
And that of you which is spirit,
we consign to God's loving
and everlasting care,
where it may find peace.
The Lord bless and keep you.
The Lord make his face to shine
upon you and give you peace.
Amen.
Will she be cold?
No.
Her body doesn't feel
anything now.
But she'll miss me,
won't she?
She won't feel any pain
or sadness.
But she'll always love you.
Come on, Timmy.
It's time to be with family.
Thank you.
(Justine sniffles)
(sobbing quietly)
(knocking on door)
Tim? Ron?
(voices chatter on TV)
Hello, anybody home?
When you say interactive...
Hello?
How can it be interactive?
Well, it's very important
that there's some kind of, uh,
exchange between the person
and the program, the, uh...
You two need a change
of scenery.
You know, given the choice
between your beach house
and Bali, I would have gone
for Bali.
The trip's postponed,
Dale, it's not canceled.
Now these need a good soak
every three days or so,
depending on the weather.
How's Tim?
I'm not sure it's real
for him yet.
It's his father who's having
the hard time.
Mary?
Do you think you've gotten into
this thing over your head?
Maybe.
But I don't think so.
I feel like what I'm doing
is a good thing.
And I'm just taking it
one step at a time.
Well...
Watch your step.
You should walk as much
as possible.
It helps.
All I want is to be
where she is.
That's how my mother felt
after my father died.
She said it over and over.
All she wanted
was to be with him.
She just wanted him,
and I just wanted her.
Never in a million years
thought she'd go before me.
I was the one taking all
the pills.
We used to talk about how Tim
and her would manage after
I was gone.
You and Tim will be fine.
It won't hurt this much forever.
I promise.
I'll go get him.
(door opens)
(sighing)
Tim, speak to me.
You're always touching
my dad!
I don't want you touching him!
He's sad, Tim.
I'm comforting him.
I'm sad, too.
I know you are.
You don't comfort me.
Why don't you comfort me, Mary?
Mary? Tim?
We're here, Ron.
Tim's with me.
We have to talk about
what just happened privately.
Just the two of us.
We have to go back
to the house now.
Tim, please.
Good morning.
Oh, morning.
I've made some coffee.
I'm glad.
Oh, I made a...
I made a long distance call
this morning...
to my lawyer.
Something I had to discuss with
him, and, uh...
it involves you.
See, me and Esther saved for Tim
for after we're gone, enough
to put him in a group home.
It's not a bad place.
No...
And there'll be others like him
there for companionship,
and, uh...
Well, they say the happiest ones
have family that visit and,
you know, look after how they're
doing and help them manage
and...
That sounds right.
So, last night it came to me
to, uh...
ask if you'd be Tim's family
after I'm gone.
To be his legal guardian.
What about Justine?
Me and Esther agreed, Tim
would be out of place with her
and Steven and the high-powered
careers and a lot of little kids
running around.
Oh, look, you can tell me
I'm way out of line for this.
I couldn't talk it over with
Esther like I'm used to doing.
It's just that...
You've got a way with him.
Okay, talk.
Last night, when I comforted
you, we started hugging each
other in a different way.
And then we kissed.
The first part,
when I put my arms around you,
that was comforting.
The next part,
when we kissed each other,
that was something else.
I know that, Mary.
That's something...
married people do.
Hold and kiss each other
that way.
Justine and Steven did it
when they weren't married.
Well, they were planning
to be married.
Tim...
We're friends and
I want us to be friends forever.
But we can't be friends unless
we promise each other
never to do what we did
last night again.
Why?
Because it changes things
that I don't want changed.
Okay?
Okay?
Okay.
(distant cheering)
(horn honking)
You know your dad and I have
been discussing your future.
He's concerned because he's not
so young anymore and he wants
to prepare for the time when
he goes to be with your mom.
You mean when he dies.
Yes.
It's already been arranged.
I'm going to live with Steven
and Justine and whatever kids
they have by then.
Your dad mentioned to me,
he thought you'd be happier
with some other arrangement.
He found a place.
It's a converted house,
actually.
A center where people--
where you could live and
have friends.
He asked me if I would become
what is called your legal
guardian.
It's someone who would visit
you and help you whenever
you needed it.
I went to see the place
last week.
If you lived there, you could
have your own life.
And I would be available
whenever you needed me.
Would you know
when I needed you?
Or would I have to tell you?
Whoa.
You okay?
Yeah, I'm fine.
Just that every time I wear
this shirt, I get a spot on it.
Here.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
Do you know the difference
between stew and mush?
No, do you?
Well, if your father and
sister get here in two minutes,
we'll be having stew for dinner.
If they're much later,
we'll be having-- Mush.
Ron: Something smells good!
You're early, Dad.
In two minutes,
we're having mush.
What's cooking?
Or should I say who's cooking?
Technically, I'm cooking,
but the truth is without Tim's
gardening talents, we'd all be
drinking broth for dinner.
No, the truth is I grew the
vegetables, but Mary seasoned
them just right, that's for
sure, and there's magic in the
way she's stirring them.
Magic in my stirring.
How about that?
(Ron chuckling)
Excuse me.
What's going on?
Could you please tell me
what business Mary Horton has
in my mother's kitchen?
Wearing my mother's apron?
She's cooking vegetables
she and Tim grew together.
What's the matter with you?
Mary's been a godsend to this
family since your mother died.
You know, I would really
like to know just what
goes on at the beach house.
Justine, what's gotten
into you?
That woman in there's been like
an angel of mercy
to me and your brother.
As far as I'm concerned, she's
like a member of this family.
She may be like one,
but the truth of the matter is
she isn't one, and unless you're
thinking about adopting her,
I'd like her to get the hell
out of my mother's apron.
What are you talking about...
(knocking)
Excuse me.
Dinner's ready.
Oh, yeah, well, Tim, just,
just give us a,
give us a few minutes, will you?
I've drawn up papers to make
her Tim's legal guardian
after I'm gone.
What?
I've thought this through,
Justine.
She's got no kids of her own.
She's free to give him all the
attention he needs.
And like as not, she'll leave
him some security
when she passes on.
Dad, have you lost your mind?
I'm his sister.
Yes, and you're married now
and soon you'll have children
of your own.
Not soon, Steven
and I have discussed this.
You will have...
(whispering) a family of
your own.
(sighing)
Honey, I know you love your
brother and he loves you, but
believe me, with a career and
Steven and children,
it just wouldn't work.
You've got to look
at the big picture, Justine.
Dad, why don't you look
at the big picture?
What does that mean?
Come with me.
Mary said we could eat
because Miss Manners says after
two people are seated,
you can start eating.
Gee, I'd have never guessed
that Mary even knew
Miss Manners.
But since we're talking
about acceptable behavior,
why don't we bring my father
into the 20th century and
explain to him what your
relationship with my
brother is all about.
Justine, that's enough.
I'd be happy to.
My relationship with your
brother is all about friendship.
All right, I'll give you the
benefit of the doubt.
I suppose there is a remote
possibility that you actually
don't see it yourself.
You're attracted to my brother,
whether you're willing to admit
it or not.
Justine, this is uncalled--
I think it's time
for me to go.
I don't want you to go.
You know, Justine, you're not
the only girl that likes me.
I know that, Timmy.
And I want you
to call me Tim.
You don't call Steven "Stevie".
Timmy-- Tim.
I'm trying to protect you.
Because you think
I'm a freak. I do not!
Is that what Mary tells you
your family thinks?
I never have and never would
in my entire life say
such a thing.
I'm sorry my friendship
with your brother is
so difficult for you.
I respect how much
you care for him.
You have no idea about my
feelings for my brother any more
than you know anything about me.
But maybe you should.
Maybe you should know
that all my life
I've done everything double.
Once for me and once for Tim
because he couldn't.
And I've done it better
than perfect, so there would be
so much accomplishment
and so much recognition that it
would spill over onto him and
he could shine, too.
And it worked.
Every time I did something good,
you could see how it built
him up.
But now I'm built, Justine.
Just like you are.
And I don't want to live in a
center when Dad is gone.
And I don't want to live
with you, either.
That's not what I want.
I was going to ask you,
but I don't have a ring
and I know I'm supposed to.
I want to be Mary's husband and
flive with her in her house.
Mary Horton,
would you marry me?
Enjoy your book.
Did you file the Liberty
shipment packing list?
Probably, why?
There was an item missing.
I need to follow up on it.
Oh, no, they shipped it.
I shelved it and sold it
a week ago.
Sorry, I guess I'm not up
to speed.
On the contrary, it looks
to me like you're in overdrive.
Oh, your travel agent called
a few minutes ago.
Couldn't he get me
on a flight?
I don't know.
He called to ask me
if you're all right,
and he said if you are,
he's going to kill you.
I realize you've been
holding this place together
on your own lately, Forbsie.
I appreciate it.
I know that.
I've, um...
I've gotten myself
into a situation
that started out simple...
and ended up not simple.
It needs a cooling-off period.
That's why I'm trying
to get away.
You don't need to worry about
anything here.
After 15 years, I pretty much
have the drill down cold.
There is, however,
one thing you might consider.
There's a possibility
that you will finally get to
Bali and find out that what
you're running from has come
along for the ride.
(distant train whistle blowing)
You going to eat anything?
I'm not hungry.
I know I don't cook like your
mom, but... it's still food.
Have you been to bed with Mary?
Have you kissed her?
Made love to her?
We kissed each other once.
She made me promise
never to do it again.
And you didn't?
I kept my promise.
You taught me to keep a promise.
Even though it hurt your
pride, she was right to stop
you from doing that again.
No, she wasn't.
She liked kissing me.
I could tell.
That may be true, but she
knows something you don't.
And that is that what you take
for true love is really just...
a crush you have on her.
I want to marry her.
I know that's what you think
you want.
Your body wants a woman, Tim.
That's different.
My body wants Mary.
I know it smarts, son, but
believe me, it will pass.
Do you know what I'm
going to do?
I'm going to enroll you in
a social program at the center.
Then you'll see.
There'll be other women there
that are more...
suitable for you.
And who knows, maybe you'll
find one that's just right.
(plates crashing)
Tell me something, Dad.
Were you ever "slow"?
So then that means
you're not me.
And that means
you don't know how I feel.
Not exactly, Tim.
I don't want somebody
suitable.
And I don't want somebody
just right.
I don't want somebody at all.
I want Mary.
And if you're ever interested
in how I feel instead
of how you feel,
then I'll tell you
why I want her.
I sure wish Mom was here,
don't you?
If you like historical
fiction, you'll love this.
Thanks.
I'm going away for
a while to make things easier
for both of us.
You didn't answer my
question last night.
We can't marry
each other, Tim.
Why not?
Well...
for one thing...
there's the difference
in our ages.
When I'm an old woman, you'll,
you'll still be young.
Then I can take
care of you, Mary.
And...
a good marriage
is based on similarities,
so that...
people who marry each other
are alike and...
and they enjoy the same things.
We like to garden.
We like to swim together.
We like to read to each other.
I can't marry you, Tim.
Because I'm slow.
You love me, Mary,
that's for sure.
That's for sure.
Then why?
I'll drive you home.
(keys jingling)
Is that all you have to say?
I haven't lived this long
by giving advice.
I'll miss you, Tim.
That's for sure.
You think you know
how much you'll miss me,
but you don't.
Because missing someone happens
when you don't expect it, and
you feel like the ground is gone
and you're falling and there's
nothing to hold onto.
Isn't that how it feels when you
miss your mom and your husband?
That's how it's going to feel
about me, too.
(door opens)
(door closes)
(keyboard clacking)
What are you still
doing here?
It's after 9:00.
At the moment, I'm trying to
find a sale that I lost.
But I'm willing to admit
that only a minute ago I was
locked in a torrid embrace.
It's good, you should read it.
Did you come to keep me company?
I came to look for a book
on relationships.
That would be psychology.
Two aisles down on your left.
Tell me, Forbsie,
when you think about your life,
I mean... your life up till now,
do you have regrets?
Is this a near-death
experience?
I mean, are you the one that's
going to take me through my life
in review?
No.
I just want to know.
Sure.
I wish that I had let my gut
navigate my life's journey,
more than all the "shoulds"
I heard from everyone around me.
And where do you think
your "gut" would've taken you
that the "shoulds" didn't?
Into some wonderful trouble,
I imagine.
The truth is that
all my life I had damn good
reasons why not to do this and
why not to do that.
And now all I can remember are
the things that I didn't do.
Has it ever occurred to you
that all of these tomes,
all these pages, all these words
are nothing more than the
ongoing age-old attempt
to figure it all out?
It has occurred to me.
And have you ever realized
that nobody has yet?
And if they ever do,
we'll be out of business.
So, by logical progression,
it seems to me that the only
thing to do in this life is to
write your own book.
Make it up as you go along.
Hey, I hadn't finished
reading that!
(Mary's footsteps fading)
(door closes)
I have something
I want to say.
Would you like to sit down?
No.
Mostly, I listened to my dad
all my life because he's a man.
My mom didn't say very much,
but she was very nice
and very good.
She seemed that way to me.
And she told me something
about married people.
Maybe she thought
I would be married someday.
It was different than
what you said.
She said the reason
she and Dad stayed together
so long wasn't because
they liked the same things.
Tim...
I'm not sure you should--
She said they were good
together because of how they
worked out the things about each
other that were different.
Especially if they were
really different, like my
dad bowls and my mom hated
bowling, like that.
Did she tell you how they
worked out their differences?
She was patient.
And she said my dad didn't mind
it so much when people
had different ideas.
Dad gave me advice,
but my mom knew how I felt.
I know I'm slow, Mary,
but I'm not stupid.
And I'm not a child.
Mary...
I'm not taking "no"
for an answer.
You don't have to.
My answer is yes.
I'm sorry, but this is kind
of a shock to me.
Tim told me he was serious,
but I had no idea.
How come you married Mom?
Because he loved her.
Can we please try to figure out
what we're gonna do about this?
What did you love about her?
For crying out loud, Tim.
You know what, Justine?
What?
There are things about Steven
that I don't like.
Tim.
And I don't
like his parents either.
And there are even things about
you that I don't like,
but that's okay.
Because mostly, I love you.
I fell in love
with your mom because
she was gentle and good
and because she loved me.
That's why I love Mary.
We understand that, Tim.
But the question is,
and I'm trying as hard as I can
not to be insulting...
Why does Mary love you?
Ask Mary.
You're young, Justine, so
I'm, I'm not certain you'll
understand this.
I've only just begun
to understand it myself.
But the needs of companionship
change when you get older.
I loved one man for a very
long time, and he loved me.
And after he died, I didn't want
to love anyone anymore
or be loved by anyone.
But when Tim started loving me,
I realized how much I wanted
not just a man
or a relationship,
but a kind of love I'd given up
all hope of ever finding.
I love Tim
because he's Tim.
It's different having a kid
like Tim.
The rest of us, we...
give our hearts away a few times
and get them punched out...
and build up walls
for protection, but...
With Tim, there's a part that's
always a kid,
open and trusting.
I guess it just scares us
to see how easy it is for Tim
when he lets himself love.
Justine: Mr. and Mrs.
Tim Melville.
(string trio playing)
(cat meows)
Do I look like a bride?
You look beautiful.
Bet you never thought
Tim would be my type.
Listen, dear, after all the
years I've spent trying to put
you in a pair, I'm delighted.
I was beginning to think
you didn't even have a type!
What do you think Mother
would say about all this?
Oh, I know exactly
what she'd say.
"Mary dear, have you given
any thought to taking the cats
out of your bedroom?"
(dog whimpers)
(knocking on door)
Hi. Hi.
Justine, this is my friend,
Dale.
This is Tim's sister, Justine.
Holler if you need me.
Open it.
It's not a bomb or anything.
The apron my mom always wore
was one that Tim gave her.
I gave her this one, but she
never wore it.
Not even once.
I thought maybe you might.
I will.
Thank you.
I'm not crazy about
Steven's parents either.
You know when the time comes,
Tim and I would be very happy
to babysit.
Wish me luck.
(barks)
(friendly chatter)
It looks like we're about
ready to start, so if we can all
quiet down.
I understand that the groom
has a short reading for us.
It's a passage he's chosen
from a favorite book of his,
especially for this occasion.
(paper rustling)
"Toad blinked in the
bright sun.
'Help,' said Toad.
'I cannot see anything.'
'Don't be silly,' said Frog.
'What you see is the clear
warm light of April.
And it means that we can begin
a whole new year together,
Toad.'"
"'Think of it,' said Frog.
'We will skip through the
meadow and run through the
woods and swim in the river.
In the evenings, we will sit
right here on this
front porch and
count the stars.'"
And on that note,
Dearly Beloved, we are gathered
together here in the presence of
God to witness and to celebrate
the joining in marriage
of this man and this woman.
The union of husband and wife
in heart, body, and mind is
intended by God for their mutual
joy, for the help and comfort
given one another in prosperity
and adversity.
Therefore marriage is
not to be entered into
unadvisedly or lightly...
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