Dad (1989) - full transcript

A busy, "always-on-the-run" executive learns during a meeting that his mother may be dying and rushes home to her side. He ends up being his father's caretaker and becomes closer to him than ever before. In the process, he teaches his father to be more independent which causes problems with the man's wife. Estranged from his own son, the executive comes to realize what has been missing in his own life.

Jake, honey,

it's time to get up.

Good morning.

Good morning, Bette.

It'salittle chilly. I'll

put out a sweater.

Get dressed now. I want

to be there when they open.

Okay.

I already put sugar

in. One's enough.

Here's your napkin.

You want that buttered?

There you go.

Watch your step, boys.

The inspector's here.

Good morning, Mrs. Tremont.

Good morning, Mr. Korman.

- Mr. Tremont.

- Hello.

Dodgers did okay

last night, huh?

- Oh, yeah.

- Yes, siree.

What can I do for

you, Mrs. Tremont?

It says, "pork chops on sale."

Yes, indeed. Just follow

me right over here...

All of these and

this row right here...

On sale as advertised.

What about these

pork chops here?

No, those are not

the ones on sale.

The ad just says "pork

chops," Mr. Korman.

It doesn't have their

pictures or ID numbers.

It just says, "pork chops."

What is it you

want, Mrs. Tremont?

I want these pork

chops at those prices.

You got it.

Jake...

Jake?

Uh...

Sorry to drop this on

you, John, first thing,

but I have one personnel

problem you should know about.

This kid we're trying to hire

still can't make up his mind

between US and Goldman.

I know you hate this, but

I think you have to step in

- and use your magic touch.

- Oh, no. Is he that good?

I can't stand this

recruiting stuff.

All these kids out

of business school

think they're worth a hundred

grand after one week on the job.

I hate their attitudes.

When I was that age,

I had to walk a mile in

the snow for a stock tip.

This kid's different,

John. He's special.

And I think you'd find that out if

you spent a little time with him.

Arrange it with Kathy for

sometime later this week.

I know I'm booked

for the next few days.

The vale prospectus

is shaping up well.

But management is

resisting our suggestions

that we provide data

that would help investors

understand why the

company is so profitable.

They're afraid of giving too much

information to their competitors.

I don't know why we're

dealing with this vale guy.

He's a shady character. We're

risking the reputation of the firm.

We turn him down on this, we'll

never get his business again.

There's a huge fee involved and the

banking division needs the business.

I'm already worrying

about my bonus this year.

Mark that down. That's

the earliest worrying

about a bonus ever recorded.

Yeah?

It's your sister, Mr. Tremont.

She says it's important.

She has to talk to you now.

Hi, Annie. How are ya?

I'm in a meeting. What's up?

John, it's about mom.

She's had a heart attack.

She's okay, but it's pretty

serious. Can you come out?

Hey.

- How was your flight?

- All right.

The guy sitting next to me

wouldn't leave me alone.

Once they hear you're

on wall street, forget it.

"What about this stock?" "What

about that stock?" "What about bonds?"

Yeah, I know.

You ever heard of a

stock called chrometex?

- Mario...

- I'm serious.

A guy in the math

department told me about it.

They make heat sensors

for cryogenic capsules.

It's gonna be bigger

than the telephone.

- No, it's not.

- It's not?

No.

So how's Annie?

How's she holding up?

Good. She's at

home with your father.

We can go there first or

the hospital. Whatever.

- Let's go to the hospital.

- That's what I figured.

How's dad?

To be honest, Johnny,

he's a little shook up.

That's why Annie's there. She

didn't want to leave him alone.

What's going on with

mom? How serious is this?

Hard to tell with her.

You know your mother.

She won't admit she's

actually had a heart attack.

She's lying there,

going into cardiac arrest.

She's claiming it's indigestion.

- She's blaming me.

- What do you mean?

She said it was the

sausages I made for dinner.

She claims I was

trying to kill her.

Are you?

No jury would convict

me, John, believe me.

I believe you.

I must really be

sick if you're here.

See, mom, that's

why you're the best.

Not many people would have

gone for guilt in your situation.

How are you

feeling? In any pain?

I'm staying alive by

willpower, she'll tell you.

I have the willpower of

a woman half my age.

You underestimate yourself.

Did you see your father yet?

No, I came straight

from the airport.

When you see him, don't say

anything to him about the heart attack.

Tell him something went

wrong with my insides.

Okay?

Mom...

Listen to me.

Just tell him it's

something with my insides.

He'll understand that because

I had the hysterectomy.

Okay.

There's food in the

freezer. It's all marked.

If you have to go out, go

to McDonald's or Wendy's.

Some place simple.

Mom, I don't think you should

be worrying about dad right now.

I think you should be

worrying about yourself.

You had a heart attack.

I'm not so sure I

had a heart attack.

It felt more like

gas pains to me.

Mom, for gas pains

they give you tums.

They don't hook you up to

$20 million worth of machines.

Did you see the doctor

who was taking care of me?

Because I don't think

he was a real doctor.

He was wearing tight pants

with a big, silver belt buckle.

Oh, he can't be more

than 30 years old.

They'll let anyone through

medical school these days.

John/!

Oh...

God, it's good to see you.

You stopped and

saw mom first, huh?

Yeah.

How does she

look to you? Really?

Like mom. Like she's

going to get up any minute

and walk out of there

dragging iv bottles with her.

It was only gas pains.

I'm sure she told you.

- Yeah.

- And the willpower?

- "Woman half her age."

- So you're up to date.

It was scary, John.

I mean it. I thought we

were going to lose her.

Where would you

like your bags, sir?

Put them right there.

Thank you very much.

No luggage in the living

room. You know the rules.

I'll put them in

your old bedroom.

The living room

is still off limits?

- Look at this. Nothing changes.

- You kidding?

This place is going

directly to the Smithsonian.

Dad's out back, huh?

Yeah, in the greenhouse.

How's he doing? Mario

said he took it pretty hard.

He's scared, John.

He's really frightened.

I'm not sure he

understands what happened.

What do you mean?

He's seen her, hasn't he?

No, he was too scared.

I didn't want to push it.

I told him she wasn't

allowed to have visitors

and he seemed okay with that.

Hello, dad.

Hello, John.

Nice to see you. You look good.

Yeah, good to see you, too.

I'm going to be

staying here a few days.

I know. Annie told me.

You heard what

happened to mother?

Yeah.

I was just at the

hospital. I saw her.

- How is she?

- Good, good.

She said to say, "hello"

and tell you she was

coming home soon.

Something went wrong

with her insides, huh?

Yeah. Something like that.

The heat...

In your old room

doesn't work, you know.

You may need an extra blanket.

Okay.

The main thing for you

while you're here will be

to keep everything

on an even keel.

Mom has a

schedule and their life

is essentially one long routine.

Dad gets coffee in

the morning. Decaf.

And a sweet roll.

They start the day

by clipping coupons,

making out a shopping

list, that's very important.

- I have a list of pills for you...

- when did he get so bad?

- I saw him a year ago.

- No. You didn't.

What are you talking about? I was here

for Christmas. I think I ought to know...

All right. I saw

him two years ago.

- A lot happens in two years.

- Why didn't you tell me??

I told you. You didn't hear me.

We tried moving him to our

place. He wasn't comfortable.

It's an hour away and we're

both working during the day.

At least here he has his

garden, he has his greenhouse.

He knows the environment.

I can only stay a few days.

What do we do after that?

- You can't stay longer?

- No. I have a meeting in Toronto Tuesday.

I may have to go to

Boston. It's just not possible.

We're just going to

have to bring someone in.

At least we have the time

to find the right person.

Dad just got old, John.

Yeah.

Well, dad, maybe you

ought to hit the sack, huh?

Johnny?

I can't find my pajamas. I don't

know where mother keeps them.

Here you go.

Why don't you put them on, dad?

I'll do it.

You okay?

I miss your mother.

Well, she's getting what

she needs: A good rest.

She'll be home soon.

Good night.

Good night.

- Leave the hall light on.

- I will. Sleep well.

I don't usually eat that much

in the morning. Good, though.

Thank you, dad.

You do much cooking

at home, do you?

Not too much. Since Sara

and I split up, mostly I eat out.

She was a nice girl.

She still is.

Well, how's Billy?

Billy's fine. He's up in Santa

Cruz. A freshman in college.

He came to visit one time.

Then you've seen

him more than I have.

Oh, look at this, Johnny. It's

"double coupon" day at ralphs.

"Tuna at two cans at

$1.38." You can't beat that.

What do you pay

for tuna in New York?

Tuna? I don't know.

Not two for $1.38, I'll bet.

- No, I don't think so.

- No way, Jose.

Listen, dad, I'd like to talk to

you for a minute about mom.

There's something you

should really try to understand.

- Mother's sick.

- It's not cancer, is it?

No, no. It's not cancer.

That cancer is a

killer, you know.

Your uncle Ben

had five operations.

Didn't do one

damned thing for him.

You have cancer, you

might as well pack your bags.

Well, it isn't cancer. It was a

heart attack. A serious one.

- She'll be okay?

- Yeah, she's gonna be okay...

But she's never going to be able

to work as hard as she used to.

She's going to have

to learn to take it easy.

You're going to have

to learn to help her.

I'm always telling her

that she works too hard.

Johnny, she works too hard.

You are going to have to learn to do a

lot of things around the house by yourself.

Mother's convinced herself nobody

can take care of you except her.

We're going to have

to prove her wrong.

That's right, Johnny.

I'm going to learn how to do

all of those things, you'll see.

We'll fool her.

Okay, dad. First thing we

have to do is, let's see...

"Separate the colored articles

of clothing from the whites."

So the colors from the dark

stuff don't get on the white stuff.

That's right, John. I think

that's the way mother does it.

Good, good. Then we know

we're on the right track here.

Let's start off with

the colors, shall we?

Color... white...

Color... color... White...

Color... And color.

What about this one?

That one? That is... white.

Okay, it's colored.

Dad, it's got to

be one of those.

Maybe we should call mother.

I'm going to make an

executive decision here.

I think it's colored,

okay? All right.

Let's see here. What

do you think we have?

"Normal, delicate

and permanent press."

I'm gonna go with "normal."

What kind of water do we need?

"Cold-cold, cold-hot,

warm-warm, warm-hot..."

What the hell? Let's

live dangerously.

"Hot-hot."

All right. What do you think?

I think it's white.

Uh...

It'll be ready Thursday.

All right. How hard was that?

Yeah.

What's the best way to get

to the market from here, dad?

I don't know these

streets very well now, John.

Mother drives US

everywhere we go.

You don't drive at

all anymore? Ever?

No, I can't. My license

expired a couple of years ago.

You didn't go get another one?

No, they wanted me to take a

driving test because of my age.

And you failed the test?

I didn't take it. I was

afraid I couldn't pass it.

What are you talking about? You're

a terrific driver. You always were.

Johnny, a good driver knows

when he's not a good

driver anymore, that's all.

I couldn't remember what you liked,

so I thought I'd put out an assortment.

Great.

Well... These are good.

I think I'd like to

see mother, Johnny.

I'm not sure that's a

good idea just yet, dad.

I mean, mom's okay,

but they really like to

limit the number of visitors.

I'm her husband.

I should see her.

It's not right.

No, I'm not sure, Annie.

But if he thinks he's ready,

I don't know if we should

be standing in his way...

Pretty good. I mean, he made

me breakfast this morning...

No, I'm serious.

I don't know, a box of

granola. It was good.

Yeah, that sounds

right. Bye bye.

Okay, dad.

Annie's going to talk to

the people at the hospital

and she thinks we're going to be

able to visit mom in a day or two.

Oh, good.

Johnny? I think

I could do these.

What?

I think I can do the dishes.

Now, I made these

cards all color-coded.

There's a different set

of cards for each chore.

For example, these pink

ones are for dishwashing.

So go ahead and take a look

and see what number one is.

Number one? "Fill

sink with water."

Right.

- Number two?

- Uh-uh.

"Put one squeeze

of soap in water."

Right.

"Put dishes in soapy water."

Now I made these for

you to study on your own.

This is great, Johnny.

There's no way I

can make a mistake

as long as I follow these cards.

You know, you

could market these.

Now I'm going to show you

how to work the stove, dad.

On second thought, the

stove is out of bounds for now.

"No stove."

Don't use the juicer,

either. No juicing.

And stay away from

that blender. No blending.

I think I'll work

better with this on.

Mother doesn't

like me to wear this.

Thinks I look too tough.

Like Johnny cash.

- You don't mind if I wear it?

- No, dad, I don't mind.

"Don't take your

guns to town," son.

> Leave those guns at

home, bang, bang... »

> "fill the sink with water." »

That is a professionally

waxed floor, dad.

You can see

yourself in that floor.

No waxy yellow buildup.

You know what I think?

I think we owe

ourselves a reward.

What do you mean?

We should go out and have a

good time. What do you say?

- Okay.

- Okay.

What do you and mom

do around here for fun?

[-20...

- Two-zero.

0-75... o-seven-five.

B-11... b-one-one.

G-68... g-five-eight.

Enjoying yourself, Johnny?

You having a good time?

Are you kidding? I love this.

I do it all the time at home.

Do they have air conditioning in

here? Or a fan or something...?

- 122...

- Two-two!

I love when they do that.

They do that all the time?

B-4.

And after!

Boy, this really is too

much fun for one evening.

- 1-19.

- Bingo! Bingo!

Jake?

Jake Tremont, is that you?

Hal McCarthy.

Oh.

How are you? You

remember Gloria?

Jake.

- My son, John, visiting from New York.

- How are you?

- Bette here?

- No, she's in the hospital.

- Oh.

No, it's okay. She

had a heart attack,

but she's doing fine

now. Coming back strong.

That's the part that's good to

know. Please give her our best.

- We will, thank you.

- You heard about Nick price?

He's dead.

Oh, yeah. Nick, Robin,

Dorothy, the twins.

That whole table.

Dead. All of them.

All of them. The whole table.

And delores patcher

from the table next to them.

- Gone.

- Dead.

Well, good seeing you

again. Been awhile, long time.

- Nice to meet you.

- Yeah, bye, bye.

Boy, they're a

breath of fresh air.

Don't mind them, John. They're

crepe hangers. Know their bingo though.

You used to come

here a lot, huh, dad?

At least once a

week. It was fun.

When was the last

time you played?

Must be, well, three years.

You're kidding! Why

did you stop coming?

I don't know.

Your mother and I used to enjoy

having fun as much as anybody.

We just stopped doing the

things we like. I don't know why.

Well, you should remember

the fun things you used

to do, and start doing them.

That's a good idea.

John, I'm going

to write that down.

I'll make a list of fun

things and do them. Yes, sir.

- Bingo.

- What?

- I think you've got bingo.

- Really?

Hey! I got bingo! Over

here! I have bingo!

We were awesome tonight,

dad. We won the 'x', we won the 'I'

and we were this close to

getting the "four corners."

That would have

been the triple crown.

I'm worried about you, John.

I'm afraid you're

getting addicted.

Toot-toot!

There's a bingo game in palm

Springs somebody told me about, dad.

Run by the Indians. Big stakes.

We ought to check that out.

We should be able to

win regularly at this game.

[ Got a computer guy in new

York I'm going 70 put on this.

Fabulous with numbers. He'll come

up with a system for US, you'll see.

We're gonna beat

these guys, dad.

Oh, look at that.

It's after 11:00.

I didn't mean to

keep you out so late.

That's okay. It feels

good... like new year's Eve.

- All that's missing is guy Lombardo.

- Yeah, he's dead.

I'm surprised hal McCarthy

didn't bring that up.

Big day tomorrow. I'm

going to get some sleep.

- Good night, John.

- Good night, dad.

And after!

There they are, dad.

Hi, dad.

Have you seen mom?

How's she doing?

Yeah, she looks good.

She's a little feisty.

- My mom? You've got to be kidding. Hi.

- Hi.

- Ready to go see her, dad?

- Oh, yes.

Wait a second here.

Let me... there you are.

- I can't believe how good dad looks.

- You really think so?

Absolutely. You've

been terrific for him, John.

He's been good for me, too,

you know? It's been kind of fun.

Listen, I have a lead on

somebody to take over at the house.

It should only be a day or two.

That's okay. I didn't

know what you were doing,

so I went ahead and changed my

schedule. I can stay until mom gets home.

- Really?

- Yeah, no big deal.

Hi, Bette.

- Are you all right?

- Yeah.

- You're taking your blood pressure pills?

- Yeah.

- Are you eating?

- Yeah, I'm fine, Bette. I make my own bed now.

And I do the dishes. John is

teaching me to cook, like a regular wife.

Just keep him alive

until I get home.

Thank you for your confidence.

Mom looks good, doesn't she?

Yeah, wonderful. I never go

anywhere without my tubes.

- I meant your color, mom.

- My color?

What are you? A decorator?

And don't call me "mom."

I don't call you "son," do 1?

Stop trying to be so nice to my

mother, Mario. You're going to kill her.

Why are you cooking? There's

food prepared in the freezer, I told you.

It's just for a little

variety, that's all.

Last night we had salmon. The

night before that we had coq au vin.

Your father doesn't

like foreign food.

It's not foreign. It's just

chicken and red wine.

He's not allowed

to have red wine.

Mom, there's this much.

I don't want him becoming

an alcoholic while I'm here.

Nobody ever became an

alcoholic from coq au vin.

Take it easy now, Bette.

Don't get all excited.

Concentrate on getting better.

Don't worry about me, you hear?

Are you sure you want to come

up, dad? Could be a long meeting.

No, I'll come up. I'll be okay.

I could buy you a lunch

here. You could catch a movie.

I'll sit. I'll read a

magazine. I'll be fine.

All right.

- John Tremont to see Vic walton, please.

- He's expecting you.

You sure you're going to be

okay with all this construction?

Sure, as long as no one

throws a drop cloth over me.

John, good to see you.

- Pardon our mess.

- No problem. Good to see you, too, Vic.

This is my father, Jake

Tremont. Dad, this is Vic walton.

Nice to meet you, Mr. Tremont.

- We're going to be in here, about what, an hour?

- I'd say.

All right. Make yourself

comfortable, dad.

Wait a minute. We don't have to

leave your father out here in this.

Come on, Mr. Tremont, why

don't you come in and sit with US?

- I don't think that would be...

- Don't be silly. Come on in.

Ralph, we've given you

every benefit of the doubt.

And yet our projections still

come up 20% less than yours.

How can you be so confident? You've

never run a business like this before.

And if you're wrong, we'll be

the laughingstock of the industry,

and you'll be off

on another deal.

Forget about

running the cannery.

It loses money

every day it's open.

But the property it's on

is worth at least 50 million.

How can you be

sure of the 50 million?

It might be a stretch

just to bring it to 40.

So I'd like to see

some supporting data.

If it's supporting

data you need,

Brian will give you a package

at the end of the meeting.

Now, can I get back to my case?

The real estate is 50 and

we should have no problem

turning around their

trucking operation.

They let the overhead

get out of hand,

but we have a schedule

that shows US cutting back

10% of the administrative

staff ina few months.

Aren't you better off selling it

and getting it off your books?

There's no need to sell

it if we can make it work.

I don't think they ever focused

on it.! Think we can turn it.

The last piece is

food wholesaling,

which has been a good

sector for them thus far.

Now, our cash flow projections

for the division

may look aggressive,

but we're comfortable with them,

so the banks shouldn't have

any problem financing US.

Well, that was fun, Johnny. What

the hell was going on back there?

Well, we were talking about

buying a salmon cannery, dad.

So I didn't know you

knew about stuff like that.

Actually, I don't. The guy coming

to US for money doesn't either.

We're just gonna buy the

company, then close it down.

That's your job? You buy

companies and close them down?

Well, it's a little more

complicated than that, dad.

Take this cannery, for instance.

Turns out to be

a lousy business.

It's third-generation management,

they've let it run down terribly.

But they have a small

subsidiary that's a real gem.

And the cannery itself is

sitting on prime waterfront land.

So, we buy the company,

then we close it down.

Then we sell off the subsidiary

business and then we sell the land.

You ever thought of maybe

running these companies?

There's no money in that, dad.

The world has changed, Johnny.

You wouldn't believe how

the world has changed.

When you were a boy, you used to go

to work at lockheed with me, remember?

I used to separate

all the nuts and bolts.

32¢ a day, and all the ham and

cheese sandwiches I could eat.

You used to say

when you grew up,

you wanted to

work there like me.

Now I guess you'd just

buy it and close it down.

You ever hear from any of

those old lockheed guys, dad?

Rick malinson?

Tommy Williams?

By the time I retired, I was

the last of US still working there.

They'd all moved out. To

the valley, palm Springs.

My last day,

I finished my work, cleaned

out my locker, went home.

There was no one even

there to say goodbye to.

The next morning there was someone else

doing my job, like I'd never been there.

The world's divided into two

groups, Johnny: Workers and bosses.

I'm a worker. Always have been.

- I don't know, dad. I think...

- it's okay, Johnny.

There's nothing wrong

with it. I'm a worker, that's all.

You, you're different.

You like to be in control.

You like that

responsibility. You're a boss.

And mom?

What do you think?

Okay, dad. "If you hit a parked

vehicle and cannot find the owner,

you must, a: Leave a

note on or in the car,

Wait for the owner to return,

or, c: Leave a message

at the nearest house."

Why are you doing this? I've

already passed the written test.

I know, but you

can't be too careful.

One of these very

situations may appear

during the driving portion of your

test and I want you to be ready.

I hit a car in the driving test,

it isn't going to matter if I...

"Leave a note on

or in the car" or not.

- Very good.

- Thank you.

We've come this far, I don't want

to see anything go wrong now.

They want US to pull

ahead here. Go ahead.

Ease up, not too

fast. All right, stop.

All right, good. Here he is now.

- Jake Tremont?

- Yes, sir. Right here.

Actually he's Jake

Tremont. I'm his son, John.

You probably don't need to

know that, but now you do anyway.

Okay.

You can't sit there

during the test, sir.

Oh, I'm sorry.

You can't be in the car at all.

What are you talking

about? This is my father.

- It's against the law.

- I won't say a word. You won't know I'm here.

I can't administer the

test with you in the car.

Either you get out now or

your father gets a failing grade.

- You going to be okay?

- I will be as soon as you go.

"Before opening the door on the

traffic side of your parked car..."

- John...

- I'm going.

"Look for bicycles

and other vehicles."

Yes!

"When waiting to make a left

turn you should give the right of way

to cars coming from

the opposite direction..."

"Until all dangerously

close cars have passed."

"On a highway of fewer than

four lanes in one direction,

a passenger vehicle

towing a trailer..."?

"Must travel in the Lane farthest to

the right or a specially marked Lane."

Yes!

Well, look who's here.

Yo, dad.

Yo, Billy.

Well...

I was down at the American

express office in tecoman

and I got a letter from aunt Annie

telling me that grandma was sick

so I hustled back up here. I figured

you might need some help, grandpa.

Never mind helping your grandpa.

When was the last time you ate?

Now why are you Americans

so obsessed with food?

Excuse me, señor. You're not?

Hey, you know, when in Rome...

What were you

doing down in Mexico?

Semester break. A bunch

of kids were down there.

You look good. I

think you've grown.

Dad, you say that to

me every time I see you.

I stopped growing two years ago.

How's your mother?

She's fine. Third year

law. Top of her class.

It's embarrassing

when your mother

has a higher grade point

average than you do.

- But we're working that out.

- Send her my best.

How about you? You

know, how's business?

The same. You win

some, you lose some.

Knowing you, I'm sure you're

winning more than you're losing.

When you finish that you can

wash it down with a piece of cake.

He looks really good.

What's been going on?

Well, we've been spending

a lot of time together.

Quality time, huh?

They say that's good

for parents and kids.

Maybe you and I should

spend some more time together.

Take it easy, dad. Let's

not get carried away.

I'm gonna name

this one after you, bill.

You want some butter, honey?

- I would like to make a toast.

- Uh-oh.

A lot's happened

the past two weeks.

We've overcome a lot of

adversity, overcome a lot of pain,

pulled together as a team,

and now, we're taking

time to say thanks.

- That's beautiful, Mario.

- It's my regular halftime speech.

Actually, I just wanted to say

how happy I am to

see the family together.

It's a thrill for me, too.

Are you finished? My

chicken's getting cold.

- I'm finished.

- Very good.

I'd like to make a toast.

- Mmm.

- Well, hey, dad.

To my lovely bride.

Your "bride"?

Did you have a

drink today, Jake?

Before you came home, mom, he

had a couple of glasses of coq au vin.

To my lovely bride.

Better you're back in the bosom

of your family where you belong.

It's good to be home.

- Hear, hear.

- Well said, dad.

It's good to have

everyone here, too.

I can't remember the last time

we had John and Billy together.

Billy looks good.

Hey, I like that earring. Think

I should get one of those?

Yeah, it's very nice. I have a

pin that goes with that if you want.

Oh leave him alone,

mom. He looks fabulous.

I bet the girls are falling

all over themselves.

Oh, don't worry about me, guys.

This isn't at all embarrassing.

I hear the dorms are

co-ed now. Is that true?

Yeah, our dorm's co-ed.

It's a good thing they didn't

have that when I was in school.

I would have never

gotten any studying done.

Some student you were.

Mario was an

excellent student, mom.

He was a physical

education major.

He didn't read

books. He ran laps.

Yes, but good students like me read

books and ran laps at the same time.

John was a good student.

- Thank you, mommy.

- From kindergarten on,

every Saturday

we'd go to the library.

Get out four books,

you'd read them,

we'd go back, get

out another four books.

It worked, too. I

learned how to read.

You did more than that.

How does it work? Are the girls on

another floor? Are they down the hall?

- How do you find them?

- Somebody hose this man down.

What is it, dad?

What's the matter?

I'm just happy.

Let's try and make it easy

for grandma and grandpa

while you're here, okay?

Oh, yeah, sure. You get so used to

hearing it, you don't even realize it's on.

It was on. Believe me,

my fillings are still rattling.

Sorry.

So when do you have

to be back at school?

I don't know. I may

not go back to school.

I'm thinking about going down

to Mexico to live for a while.

What's the big

attraction with Mexico?

All the people in Mexico are trying

to come here. Did you know that?

A lot of kids from

school are down there.

They've got a little

community going. It's fun.

Okay, it's fun. But believe it or

not, you may want a job someday.

Lying on the beach in Mexico

is not going to help

prepare you for anything.

Unless you want to

be a mariachi singer,

in which case it's a

work-study program.

I could say I went to college.

Nobody checks.

I'll say I have a ba.

I'll say I have a phd.

Might as well do it right.

Two phd's. One in

chemistry, one in physics.

I have to go back to new

York soon. I'd like this settled.

What's your mother think?

She said I should

use my best judgment.

I'm not sure how

I feel about this.

We should talk about this a bit.

I don't see why. We haven't

talked about it up until now.

I think I know what I want.

Johnny?

Something's wrong. Would

you come here and take a look?

That'll be all, Mr. Tremont.

You can get dressed.

Is he all right?

He's fine. It's a painful procedure.

There's no getting around it.

Any idea what the

problem might be?

Could be any number of things. I

suspect small growths in his bladder.

The question is whether

they're malignant.

Will the tests you've

done tell you that?

Not completely. The fact they're

bleeding though is not a good sign.

This is serious, then?

Yes. We should schedule

him for exploratory surgery.

If it were anything serious, dad, they

wouldn't have let you out of there today.

They would have cut you right

open and operated on the spot.

I wouldn't be surprised

if it were just a cyst.

- It's just a cyst.

- Right.

I don't think it's worth telling mom

about. Why worry her for nothing?

Whatever you say, Johnny.

You're the boss.

- He told you, didn't he?

- Of course, he told me.

Then you know

it's nothing serious.

If it wasn't serious, you would

have told me about it yourself.

Mom, you're supposed to

avoid any stress right now.

I was afraid you might get upset about

nothing. That's why I didn't tell you.

Maybe I was wrong, but

that's what I was trying to do.

- He says it's just a cyst.

- That's right.

That's a fairly

simple procedure.

Yes, it is. Mother, I'd tell you

if there was anything wrong.

Okay.

Do I walk around with the back

open and all the nurses here?

Yeah, it says right here on the

admission slip. "Dress is informal."

There you go.

- You need to sign this, dad.

- What is it?

It says if anything happens

to you, I get your catcher's mitt.

- I don't have a catcher's mitt.

- It's all right. Bad joke.

- Dr. Santana ordered this medication.

- Huh?

It's just something

to relax you.

If you've got any left

over, I'd like a little.

I guess you have to pay extra

to get one with a personality.

- What time is it?

- About noon.

- Well, not much longer.

- Nope.

- Is this comfortable for you, dad?

- Fine.

I'm going to let you rest.

That stuff is going

to mellow you out.

Okay.

Don't forget, if you need

anything, just ring the buzzer here.

I guess this is it, huh?

You're going to be okay.

You know, John. I

see men now, they hug.

We've never hugged.

Want to give it a try?

I do.

I love you, Johnny.

I love you too, dad.

Well, Mr. Tremont,

I'm afraid it's cancer.

Cancer?

Yes, there were several

malignant tumors. [ Think I got them,

but we're going to have

70 do some chemotherapy.

We won't radiate. Not with

a man your father's age.

Maybe this is a silly question,

but are you absolutely sure?

Yes.

A virulent form, too. It's a good thing

we went in and got it when we did.

Listen, Dr. Santana,

whatever you do, don't

mention "cancer" to my father.

He's terribly anxious and

frightened about that word.

It's beyond anything rational.

Come now, Mr. Tremont. You'd be surprised

at what these older people can take.

Their children tend

to underestimate them.

[ Don't underestimate him.

I want to be the one

to tell him. That's all.

It's cancer, isn't it?

Mom, I told you.

It's a cyst and they

took it out. That's all.

I want to go see him.

Mom...!

Mom, you can't go

see him right now.

Will you listen to me? You can't

expose yourself to that kind of stress.

If he was all right,

you'd let me see him.

Oh, come on, mom.

John's only thinking about

what's best for you. You know that.

You've got to listen

to him, mom. Come on.

This is my husband

and I'm going to see him.

Either you're going to drive me

or I'm going to

walk, but I'm going.

- Dad? Dad, what is it?

- What's out there?

There's nothing, dad.

You're in the hospital. It's fine.

Billy. Get

Dr. Santana right now.

Jake, sweetheart,

are you all right?

- Jake, Jake, it's...

- Get out of here, right now.

What's the matter with him?

Jake, it's me, Bette!

Why doesn't he know me?

Mr. Tremont? I'm Dr. Santana.

Do you know who I am?

I'm fine. I'm just fine.

He's in shock. Give him

25 milligrams librium im

and check his vitals

every two hours.

This is fairly standard

with older people.

They often go into delayed

shock, even after minor surgery.

This is standard? Do you have

any idea what happened in there?

I'm sure it was a frightening

experience for you,

but you have to understand

that what we're dealing with

is a form of senility.

He wasn't senile

when he came in here.

Why should he

suddenly go into senility?

Senility is a very strange

thing. It comes and goes.

You get a stress situation

like this and it crops up.

With proper rest and medication

the situation will correct itself.

- Yeah, what do we do in the meantime?

- Nothing.

What do you mean "nothing"? No

tests, no consultations? We just wait?

We wait for him to

respond to the medication.

He'll be fine. Don't worry.

Did you tell my

father he has cancer?

You have to

understand, Mr. Tremont.

I have an ethical

obligation to my patients.

He had a right to know.

I'm not sure what it is you

want me to do, Mr. Tremont.

Dr. Ethridge, I don't have a

lot of confidence in santana.

You're the hospital

administrator...

And I just want you to know

that this doesn't feel right.

Well, Dr. Santana is

a fine young surgeon.

It seems that he's been thorough

and professional in your father's case.

I told him not to say anything

about cancer to my father,

because he is very

frightened by that word.

He went ahead

and told him anyway.

Well, that's always a

difficult call for a doctor.

He has to balance the

will of the family members

with the patient's

right to know.

I'm sure he had no choice.

He had a choice. He

could have listened to me.

I know my father and

what's happening to him now

is a direct result of

Dr. Santana's poor judgment.

Why did you strap his arms down?

70 keep him from

hurting himself.

He's been flailing around

pretty good with those hands.

Yeah, well, I'm his son and I

say he doesn't need these things.

Give US a call when you're

ready and we'll put him back in bed.

I don't believe... Hey,

dad. How you doing?

John, what is it? Does

he always look like this?

Hey, look. I brought Annie.

And I got Billy here, huh?

Hey, dad. How are you

feeling? Can you hear me?

Hey, grandpa. It's me,

Billy. How are you doing?

God, John, I can't stand

to see him looking like this.

What is it, dad?

What's the matter?

I gave him a sedative. That should calm

him down. How long had he been like that?

The whole time we'd been

here. At least a half an hour.

Did he seem depressed?

Jesus, doctor, it's a good thing you're not

a detective. Yeah, he seemed depressed.

- What the hell do you think's been going on here?

- I meant more than usual.

He's been sliding every day since

he's been in here and you know that.

- Mr. Tremont...

- you're not going to tell me that this is normal behavior?

This particular manifestation

of the depression is unusual,

but I think the sedative

will bring him 'round.

A sedative? The man is

hallucinating. He's crying non-stop.

He doesn't recognize anyone in his

family and you're giving him a sedative?!

Why don't you give

him some sucrets, too!

Maybe he's got a

sore throat you can fix!

We scheduled your father for release tomorrow.

- 00.

What do you mean you're

scheduling him for release?

Are you trying to tell me

that my father is recovered?

Of course not. But medically speaking,

there's nothing more we can do.

We simply cannot hold

hospital beds for patients

who cannot profit

from medical care.

How would we know? He's

never gotten any medical care.

You have to

understand, Mr. Tremont,

while his condition is stable,

basically he's custodial.

What exactly does that mean?

I'll tell you what

that means, Annie.

They don't give a

shit if he lives or dies.

- Mr. Tremont...

- he's not custodial, goddamn it!

What kind of a word is

that to describe a person?

- Now I understand...

- if you'll just come to my office...

You want my father out of

here? Let me tell you something,

I want him out of

here more than you do.

You're not good enough

to take care of him.

John, what are you doing?

- Mr. Tremont...

- Don't you touch him!

This is unnecessary,

Mr. Tremont.

I said, I'm taking him home.

Mr. Tremont, this

is very unfortunate.

What do we do now?

I don't know.

We may have no choice but to...

No, I don't want to do that. I don't

want to put him in a nursing home.

I don't want to either, John,

but we have to do something.

If you take mom to your place,

I'll take care of dad at home.

Wait a second, John. You

can't handle him in this condition.

I can do it. I

think I can do it.

I know I'll do it better

than the hospital's doing it.

- I can stay and help.

- No.

Why not?

I'll take care of

him. He's my father.

- Well, he's my grandfather.

- And I'm your father.

Great, now that we know

who everyone is, can we please

talk about what's

best for this man here?

Look, I don't want you here right

now, Billy. You don't have to see this.

Dad, I am not a kid...

Look, I want you gone. Go

back to school, go back to Mexico.

You're in the way here,

don't you understand?

Yeah, I understand.

I want to talk to him.

It's not a good

idea mom, really.

Annie's right, mom.

Come on, get in the hearse.

You'd like that,

wouldn't you, Mario?

I meant get in the car, mom.

It was a slip of the tongue.

Okay, mom, okay. Come on, honey.

He'll be all right. John's

going to take care of him.

Here we go, dad.

We got a score yet, huh?

This kid gooden's

fabulous, isn't he?

Kind of reminds me of Bob

Gibson, you know, a real competitor...

What is that? Did

you get that, dad?

All right.

Here we go.

A little club soda.

Uh-oh. Going to have to

work on your technique here.

That's all right.

A little home-cooked

meal. That's what you need.

Remember how you used to tell

me that all the great chefs were men?

Well, I think you're right.

Wait till you taste this.

Come on, dad.

What's that? "Too big," you say?

All right. Here, try this.

Come on, dad,

take a bite. Come on.

There you go.

All right. We have a sale here.

Let's push our luck.

Wash it down with this.

Dad, don't bite the

glassware. House rules.

You didn't like

that place, did you?

Neither did I.

Here, one more bite.

There you go. All right.

We're gonna be okay,

huh? Here you go, pal.

All right, dad. Hang

on a second here

and I'll have

you all settled in.

Let me grab these

and I'll be right back.

Why are we here, ed?

Why aren't we at the farm?

- What?

- You know they'll be mad at US, if we stay, you know that.

Where's the owner of the house?

This is your house, dad.

What are you talking about?

Mandy's out of the pasture

again, ed. I'm worried about her.

Well, don't worry, dad.

I'm sure she's okay.

- You think so?

- I do.

Hand me that 18 wrench

by the chicken wire.

That ought to hold her now.

A good night's sleep is

what we need here, dad.

Isn't that what you used to

say when we had a problem?

"Let's sleep on it"?

We got ourselves a problem

here, dad. Let's sleep on it.

Dad?

Dad?

Dad!

Dad, where are you?

Dad?

Dad!

Dad!

Dad? What the hell

are you doing? Come on.

Dad, let me help you out...

All right, all right. It's okay.

- Come here, pop.

- No!

Ow! Ouch.

Dad, I'm gonna lift the bed.

Crawl out!

Come on, dad. Crawl

out. Dad, come on.

Okay, dad. Shh, I

got you. I got you.

Shh.

Come on.

Shh. I got you, dad.

It's all right. It's okay.

No, no. I got you.

I got you. I got you.

Mr. Tremont.

I understand you put your

father back in the hospital.

- I'm very sorry.

- Yeah.

I thought it might be difficult

for you to care for him at home.

It's not the place

for him right now.

Well, he can't be home

and he can't be here, right?

Maybe he can just hover

overhead in a helicopter.

It's very hard, I realize,

for children to understand that

their parents have gotten old.

To know what that really means.

I know what that

means, to be old.

It means... most people

would rather you were dead.

Mr. Tremont, you have to understand

that doctors are only human, too.

We can't solve every problem.

We can't save every patient.

We work in a system

where old people tend

to fall through the cracks.

What is it you want?

Why are you here?

There's another doctor

here at the hospital.

I think he might be

better than Dr. Santana.

What?

I'll deny having said

that. He's a fine man.

I'd like to see if I can get him

to take a look at your father.

Mr. Tremont. Mr. Tremont?

How are you, Mr. Tremont?

Let's get a few more studies.

Please order an eeg and let's

look for metabolic abnormalities.

Order calcium-magnesium

and liver function tests.

I'm not sure exactly

what caused it...

But I'm inclined to go along

with the diagnosis of a seizure.

The question is, what caused it?

And why he is still comatose?

If you want to have another

consultation on this, please do so.

No, that won't be necessary.

Having said that,

don't get the impression

that we're going to sit by

and do nothing. We won't.

We've just done a series

of tests and we'll do more.

It's just that right now we're

really shooting in the dark.

We really appreciate

your honesty, doctor.

It's strange though,

the lp we did

showed up an elevated

protein in the spinal fluid

but the cat scan showed no

evidence of a stroke or tumor.

Those tests should have been

done a long time ago, shouldn't they?

We'll keep him in icu. That way

he'll be monitored at all times.

I'll check in and

see him twice a day.

I'm going to move in here

with him then, if that's okay.

I'm afraid that's entirely

against hospital regulations.

If it makes you feel more

comfortable, I think it's a good idea.

How long do you think

you can keep this up?

I don't know. I'm just

going one day at a time.

I sit...

I talk to him, I talk to myself,

I talk to people passing by.

I have this idea

if I'm sitting there

and I'm talking, he won't die.

What are you going

to do when he does?

- Annie, I don't...

- you're the only one who hasn't accepted it.

- Why can't you let him go?

- I can't explain it.

Maybe I want to be

there to Mark the end.

I don't know.

To prove he was here,

to prove I was his son.

What more could you

possibly have done?

Annie, that man got

up every day of his life

and went to a

job he didn't like.

We didn't ask him to.

He did it because he was the

father. That was the deal he made.

He didn't ask himself if

he was satisfied or happy.

Didn't even know

he had the right.

And somehow, part of that deal

was that we'd care for him and

watch over him when he got older.

I screwed that up.

John...

I got embarrassed by him.

By the way mom dominated

him. By the way he got old.

Embarrassed that I had

a marriage that failed,

a job that didn't make sense,

a son I'd barely recognize if

1 passed him on the street.

Maybe this is more

for me than for him.

But I'm gonna be

there when he dies.

And I'm gonna kiss him...

And I'm going to cover him...

And I'm going to

Mark the moment.

I owe him that.

When did you get back in town?

I never left. I've been

staying with some friends.

I didn't want to leave grandpa.

You've been coming

here every day?

Whenever you leave,

one of the nurses calls me.

I usually stay a half an hour

or so, but I guess I dozed off.

Sorry.

Where am I, Johnny?

You're in a hospital, dad.

I think I could have

guessed that one.

But why are you here? Was

there an earthquake or a car crash?

He speaks?

Yes, he does. It's something

he learned as a child.

Go page Dr. Chad right

away, please. Please.

Why was she looking at me funny?

She's part of the hospital,

dad. She's a nurse.

She's... as a matter of

fact, these are all nurses.

This is Molly, this is jj,

this is Annie, this is my dad.

Mr. Tremont, what can we

do to make you comfortable?

To start with you can take

out these pipes and wires

and maybe I can

have something to eat.

I feel like you've

been starving me here.

Okay, but we'll have to

start you off very slowly.

You really haven't eaten

anything in quite a long time.

Maybe that's what was wrong

with me. Have you thought of that?

All the tests are positive.

The vital signs stable.

That's the profile

of a healthy man.

What happened? What's going on?

I've seen people recover

from comas before.

Very often we

never find out why.

I have some

theories in this case.

Nothing that I'd want

to see published.

Like what?

It is entirely possible that he

was so fearful of the cancer,

that his brain froze

up... Stopped producing

a vital chemical or

enzyme that he needed.

Somehow with that last

variation of the iv mixture,

we got lucky and he

replaced that enzyme.

I see.

You know, if we were back home

we'd say that it was not that at all,

but rather it was

your love and caring

that called your father

back from where he'd gone.

I think I like that one better.

Me, too.

Here they are.

What's going on, dad?

What are you looking for?

Your mother and I are starting

a new life together, Johnny.

We need some new clothes.

I don't know, dad. What do you

suppose mom will say about all this?

She'll probably laugh and

call me crazy. But she'll laugh.

We haven't had enough laughter

in our house for the past 10 years.

Ah.

What do you think of that?

- Yay!

- Thank you, thank you.

Ladies, ladies. The

show is about to begin.

No matter how stimulated you

become during the performance,

please remain in

your seats at all times.

The house is proud to

present, the star of our show,

the late sick man, and

almost corpus delicti,

back from a successful

tour of the Caribbean,

gorgeous Jake!

- Give him a big hand! Come on, give him a big hand!

- Annie. Yay!!

Also, his faithful companion...

Billy!

Ladies and gentlemen, Billy!

What is this? What's it for?

This is my outfit for

bicycling in venice.

You know, along the beach.

And maybe roller skating.

And this... this is my

baseball watching outfit.

See? I'll wear it mostly

only in the house.

Actually, I'm going to see a few

of the games, but not in my outfit.

That's good to hear, Jake.

- Wait, there's more.

- More?

Wha...?

Let me see that again.

Oh, no! Oh! I'll piss my pants!

Oh, no, tell 'em

to stop, I'm dying!

I never heard of anybody

dying from laughing, Bette.

Wouldn't that be nice?

I tell you, Johnny.

He's not the same.

Maybe his hormones got

mixed up with someone else's.

You know what goes

on in these hospitals.

Nobody would believe he's a 78-year-old

man who almost died a few weeks ago.

You've got to talk with

somebody. I'm serious.

Mom, he's just having fun.

Not bad. I shot a 94.

It's a one-hole

course, but still.

It's a wonderful day.

How about I take US for a

little drive after breakfast?

Oh, that's a good idea. Maybe

mom will come along with US.

I'm not going to drive with

him. He drove too fast before.

I hate to think what

he'd be like now.

Don't you worry your

pretty little head, Bette.

With old Jake Tremont

behind that wheel,

you're as safe as if you

were in your own bed.

And it's almos as much fun.

What on earth are

you looking for?

I'm not looking for anything. I

want to see if I can still do a push-up.

I'll call these "old

man push-ups."

What about it, Bette?

You want to hit the beach?

I'll go, but only in a taxicab.

I don't want to go in a cab.

We'd probably wind

up in Santa Monica.

That town is an outside

old people's home.

On every corner, a

doctor's office or a bank.

I'd like to drive to

venice. Maybe to the pier.

Get in a little fishing.

Oh, I used to like fishing.

Where's all my fishing gear?

I think I put it

away in the garage.

Ah.

About 35 years ago.

I'll get it.

Whatever's going on with

dad, I think it's pretty terrific.

Oh, come on. It's

going to be okay.

Johnny, I'm scared.

He's talking about people I don't

even know or people I'm sure are dead.

He says we live on a farm

in cape may, New Jersey.

He says he wants US to go back

there because it's harvest time.

What?

Dad...?

- She told you, huh?

- Yeah. What's going on?

Take me for a ride.

John, I need to talk.

Johnny...

What chance is there that

mother and I have four kids...

And we live on a farm in

cape may, New Jersey?

I don't think there's

much chance, dad.

No chance that I have

a little truck farm there?

You know, next to bill

Sullivan and ira Taylor.

Across from my brother,

ed, and gene Michael's.

I don't have four kids there?

You and Annie and

Hank and little Elizabeth?

As far as I know, dad, you've

been living in L.A. about 25 years,

held a regular job at

lockheed until you retired,

before that we lived in plainfield

and you worked for lockheed there.

I know you must be right.

How can you be in

two places at once?

John, I've got to tell you

my life there is as real

to me as we are here.

Just sitting and

looking at the ocean.

Stop if this gets too

technical or too fantastic.

Your father is what

laing would call

a "successful schizophrenic."

Over the years he

hasn't been getting

enough pleasure

out of his daily life

so he's isolated his

greatest joys into a dream.

He's created a personal experience more

to his liking, an alternate coping system.

How long has this been going on?

Hard to say yet. At least

20 years. Maybe more.

Incredible.

You realize it takes an

extremely intelligent, strong-willed

and imaginative individual

to do this successfully.

Where's my mother in all

this? Is she just shut out?

No, she's there. She's

younger... you all are.

You're frozen in time. She's

very supportive, very sweet.

I take it that's not always

the case here, in this world?

She has her moments.

The problem is your father's

participation in this world

is totally tied up with

your mother's approval.

Since his recovery he's

been a happy person.

The walls dividing his two

worlds have broken down.

And he's bringing

into his everyday life,

the joy in living he's kept

separate all these years.

If your mother

doesn't go along with him

here, he'll just fade away again.

Hello, all you beautiful people.

It's a wonderful day.

Let's go to the beach.

Maybe I can do some

jogging on the bike path.

What will people think

if they see you like this?

Who cares?

We've got to get over the

feeling that we're old fogies.

Stop worrying about

what people think.

You sure don't see any of the

young people asking US what to wear.

I'll go with you, dad.

Good boy, good boy.

Don't worry about me. I'll run over

to Newark, pick up things for the farm.

Hey, mom...

Mom, I told you

what the doctor said.

It's very important that

you support him right now.

Making that kind of remark

isn't going to help anything.

The man is living

in another time zone.

I think it should be

pointed out to him, that's all.

I've explained this.

It's just a dream.

A very well-defined

and lovely dream world

and dad's learning how to separate

the two right now. He's trying.

I don't care what you

say. It's not normal.

Something has happened to

him. This man is not your father.

I think this is the

real Jake Tremont.

He's just been

hiding for 50 years.

- Hello.

- Oh, hello.

I'm Jake Tremont,

this is Bette Tremont.

- We're your neighbors across the street.

- Of course.

Can I help you with something?

No, no. Just wanted to introduce

ourselves and say "howdy."

Oh!

- Well...

- This is Christopher.

Oh, what do you

say there, young guy?

Coochie-coochie coo.

- Say hi to Mr. and Mrs. Tremont, Chris.

- Hi.

Hi.

You know, we're home all the time

if you ever need anyone to babysit.

Oh, how nice. Thank you.

- Right?

- No, no, they're lying dogs.

That one ls a good

example of a lying dog.

- That's "speedy."

- Yes.

- Well, he is fast.

- Look at him. Look at him race.

Hi, there. Jake and Bette

Tremont from up the street.

Wanted to say hello.

Brought you a little cake.

- Come on in.

- Well, thank you. Go ahead there, Bette.

Morning, mother.

- Where's dad?

- I don't know.

Probably out pole-vaulting.

Did you hear any

strange noises last night?

No. Why? Did you?

I thought I heard something.

Must have been the wind.

So how's it going with dad? The doctor

thinks he's making a lot of progress.

He keeps coming into my bed

at night. He won't leave me alone.

Your father's always

been a highly sexed man,

but since he came back

from New Jersey, it's insane.

Hell, when we first got married

and I told my friend, fannie hogan,

the things we were doing, she told

me to leave him. And notify the police.

I told the priest in confession, he said

he'd pray for me. Fat lot of good that did.

When your father gets excited,

police, priests, prayers,

nothing is going to stop him.

Oh, grow up.

- Oh...!

- Oh, bingo.

You know, I just

realized something...

We don't speak Japanese.

You just realized that?

We should have one night a week

where we try and learn about a new country.

We should eat food only from that

country and speak their language.

- We should do that.

- No, we shouldn't.

"Eki wa doko desuka?"

"Where is the train station?"

"Eki wa doko desuka?"

"Where is the train station?"

What are you doing?

I'm trying to find

the train station.

I think this is good.

This is working.

I'm beginning to

feel very Japanese.

- Yeah, Annie, give US some facts, please.

- Yes, costumes, right?

"The Japanese costume for women

is hardly different from that of the man.

In many districts, the peasant

women wear trousers and raincoats

like their husbands. This, coupled

with the absence of beard in the men,

often makes it difficult for a newcomer

to distinguish between the sexes."

I don't know about you guys,

but I'm nervous about a country where

you can't distinguish between the sexes.

- Mario!

- I'm serious. That happened to me in a bar.

Johnny, you tell

US about agriculture.

"In this land of mountains,"

"barely 12% of the entire

surface can be cultivated."

Pass the rice, please.

Only if you ask in Japanese.

"Gohan o watashite kudisai"

"pass the rice, please."

"Arrigato.” "you're welcome."

Come on, mom. Get in the spirit.

No.

"lie". "No". "lie". "No".

Billy, you go ahead.

"Traditional Japanese sports."

All right, what do

you have for US?

"The sumo wrestler must

reach the weight of 300 pounds

before he is allowed to Don the

traditional sumo diaper and compete."

That's a great idea. Get 'em as fat

as you can, then put a diaper on them.

John, you don't find

those guys attractive?

Mario, I'm really starting

to worry about you.

Honey, would you pass me the...

Whoa, whoa, wait a

minute. Pass... pass...

- Gohan o watashite...

- what do you want? The rice? Here!

- Mom...?

- What are you doing?

And what about the fish?

Huh? You want that, too?

Hey!

And what about the soy

sauce? And some tofu?!

I can't take this,

Jake. I don't want this.

I don't want to know Japanese

and I don't want to know

the neighbors' children.

- Mom, take it easy. Stop!

- I can't go on like this.

I've had it.

I've tried hard to make it

work and you know that I have,

but since he came out of the hospital

it's been like a loony bin around here.

Costumes and jogging

and sex at all hours!

And a make-believe

farm in New Jersey?

This man should not

be let loose in the street!

Dad is perfectly fine.

He's just trying

to enjoy himself!

I didn't live my life

to end up like this!

With a crazy person as a

companion in my old age!

You know better than that!

The doctor said dad is not crazy!

In fact, he's very impressed

that he didn't go insane

hanging around you for 30 years!

Oh, no! Don't say those

things to your mother.

Please...

We're family.

That's all that counts.

Just love each other. Forget.

And please... Don't fight.

That kills me... I hear

you talking that way.

Why? Why are you doing this?

You're going to shove

him back down again.

That can't be what you want.

- I want my husband back.

- He wants his life back.

He's loved you for 50 years.

Can't you let him have what's left?

I'm scared, Jake.

I don't know who you are

anymore. I don't recognize you.

I know...

You look at me, people look

at me, they see this old man.

But inside, honest to

god, Bette, I feel 19.

And act it, too, I guess.

This other life, Jake.

It hurts.

Was it so terrible here with me?

We just got off

the track a little.

A lot.

You're asking me to turn my back

on our whole life together.

No, I'm asking you

to remember the life

that you wanted to have.

Oh, god, Bette, you took it

all on by yourself, didn't you?

And I let you. You were so good.

I'm asking you to let

go a little. Open up.

Not just to me,

but to the world.

We used to have such good times,

remember? We used to dance together.

Oh, slow. You were

such a wonderful dancer.

I want to dance with

you again before I die.

Don't talk about dying.

That's okay. We're all

going to die. Dying's not a sin.

Not living is.

- Good morning, mother.

- Good morning.

- Nice outfit.

- Your father likes it.

Mr. Tremont. I have some news.

It's not good.

What is it?

Well, of course, it's not

the same in all cases...

But it seems...

It's okay, doctor. You

can tell me the truth.

The cancer's back.

It's spread. It's in

the lymph system.

How long?

It's difficult to say. Different

patients respond differently.

Dr. Chad?

Not long.

Hey, dad, what are

you doing up so late?

Waiting for you.

Why?

Do you realize your

mother and I separated

before you were old

enough to stay out late?

I think I feel...

Deprived of my divine

right as a father to worry.

Do you want me to go out

and come back in again?

No, I want you to sit

down and talk to me.

What would you

like to talk about?

I've been trying to think of

something I could tell you.

Some fatherly advice you could

take back with you. Some insight.

I can't think of

anything. I think it's me.

I think it's tough for

guys my age to reach out.

You know every time we see

each other, it's always on the fly?

You're going or I'm coming, or

we're at somebody's wedding.

We're always talking over

suitcases and backpacks.

Or holding little

sandwiches in our hand.

I don't know a lot about you.

Well, let's see, I'm 5' "11"...

- I like sports, I'm into bikes...

- don't do that.

Don't make a joke. You

know, we always do that.

We come close to saying something

real and then one of US makes a joke.

Talk to me.

Tell me about Mexico.

I like it there. It's not like

school, there's no pressure.

The people are

real and thoughtful.

They have kind of a

nice rhythm to them.

You have a lot of friends there?

Yeah, there's about five of US.

We live as a group. We take turns

working, we share everything we make.

We share the

cleaning, the housework.

It's a real family.

The other guys from

your school, too?

Well, two of the guys are girls.

The world has changed, Billy.

You can't believe the

way the world has changed.

Why was making money always

more important to you than me or mom?

Ooh.

You said you wanted to talk.

All right.

That's what I thought a

man was. What a father was.

Some guy who wore a suit

and made a lot of money.

All right. That's too easy.

Because I liked the power of it.

I liked being the guy

who got the job done,

the guy everybody comes to.

And something had to

give. And it was my family.

Well, I would never do that.

I would never run

away from my family.

Leaving was the

toughest thing I ever did.

Didn't seem like it.

That's because we tried

to make it look normal.

That's what all the books

said to do, the normal divorce.

But there was pain. A lot.

There still is.

I've missed you, Billy. And you may

not need me, or even want me around,

but I'd like to

stay in your life.

I'm your father.

I guess there is some

advice I'd like to give you,

to give to a guy who's

about to take on the world.

What is it?

Be forgiving.

Hi.

- How's he doing?

- Okay. He slept a little.

- You been here all afternoon?

- He does better when I'm here.

Come on, let's go down

and get something to eat.

No, the doctor will be here

soon. I don't want to miss him.

No, go ahead. I'll

come get you. Come on.

Where's mother?

- She went down with Billy to get something to eat.

- Oh, good.

How you feeling?

Yeah, I can tell.

- You know what I've been thinking about?

- What?

- 1947 world series.

- What?

Yeah, crazy, I know. I

mean, at at a time like this

I should be having

very deep thoughts.

I'm trying but all that keeps

going through my mind

is old ball games

and old TV themes.

- "Bonanza."

- This is great, dad.

What about the '47 world

series? How does that fit in?

It produced one of the great

moments in baseball history,

between the yankee centerfielder

Joe DiMaggio, the prince

of players, the star of stars,

and the dodger leftfielder al

Gianfriddo, second stringer.

He only played that day

because the regular leftfielder,

Carl Furillo, got hurt.

- Do you know this story?

- Tell it to me.

In the sixth game,

bottom of the sixth

inning, 8-5, Dodgers.

Two on, two out.

Up steps DiMaggio.

Hit a smash deep left field,

had home run written all over it.

Everyone in the stands knew it. I

knew it, DiMaggio knew it. It was perfect.

But here comes this

little Gianfriddo guy.

See, he's racing after the ball like he doesn't

realize that it was hit by Joe DiMaggio.

At the last possible

moment, he jumps,

reaches over the rail...

And robs DiMaggio

of a three-run homer.

It was an incredible

catch. It'll live forever.

But then comes the

really amazing thing.

DiMaggio was just approaching

second base when he sees

Gianfriddo make this catch.

He got so upset,

he kicked the dirt.

Like that.

This man who never

showed any emotions.

He was human after all.

And it took al

Gianfriddo to bring it out.

Do you know what

that means to me?

What?

In america, anything is

possible if you show up for work.

Sometimes I wish I held you

more when you were a kid.

I wish I kissed you more.

You did fine, dad. Just fine.

You know how much I love you?

Yeah.

A lot has happened, Johnny.

Some good, some bad.

But when I look

at you, I know...

I must have done

something right.

- Honey, I'm gonna put these in the car.

- Okay.

- Did you talk to mom?

- Yeah, mom will stay here for now.

At least until the middle of

next month, and then we'll see.

- All right.

- I think she'll be okay.

- How are you holding up?

- I miss him.

Yeah, me too.

Go ahead. I'll

catch up with you.

I need a minute.

Go ahead.

Grandpa, we just wanted to take

some time to stay goodbye our way.

I guess it's your way.

And this seemed like

the right place to do it

because there's so

much of you in here...

So much that's

alive and growing.

Which is still

how I think of you.

It's kind of funny.

Grandpa, I love you,

and I miss you already.

And dad and I are

here and we're together.

This is good. This

was a good idea.

I feel better.

Yeah. Yeah, me too.